I hooked up with my coworker. Twice. The first time was Cinco de Mayo after a bunch of us servers went out after work to celebrate, the second time was after a birthday party of one of our coworkers. I'm not going to lie and say that I didn't want to do all that, of course I did, this girl is extremely beautiful but it all happened so fast and I don't know how to deal with it. So far we've only gone out with other coworkers and we've kept the fact that we're hooking up on the downlow, but tomorrow (wednesday may 15th) we're going on our official first date, a one on one dinner and drinks type of thing, i always hear that you should never hookup with a coworker, but what do you do when this coworker checks every box? I don't know it's a tough situation i find myself in tbh.

I am so unbelievably sick of asking to exchange contact info with someone and being asked if I'm on Facebook or Instagram or something. No, I don't want to give you my social media you fucking dunce. Why is it preferable that you have the information of my relatives and friends? Why is it preferable that I give you access to pictures of the wedding I was at two years ago? I just met you, asshole. I'm not your friend. If you want to be friends, give me your phone number so we can talk like we're actual adults or something.
I HATE texting on social media too. Suddenly when I asked you for contact information I signed up to add to the ever expanding list of different people on ten different apps I have to check because "uhm actually I use WeChat!" SHUT UP. I have an address book on my phone where people's PHONE NUMBERS and NAMES go. I have an icon on my phone that displays how many missed messages I have and I can click that button to access ALL OF THEM from people who aren't weird and touchy about giving people they seemingly enjoyed talking to basic information. There is between the range of a few hundred to a couple thousand of people working at Apple right now trying to make the experience of texting someone else with your phone number as good and feature rich as it can be, and you want to talk to me on fucking Instagram?! Literally the only other thing I'd ever want to add you on is LINE but I don't know a single person in the US who uses it, and chances are you're no exception.
The worst part about it is that I capitulate every single goddamn time. I already asked for something, the person makes a counter offer, but this is the kind of transaction where only the person getting the offer is allowed to negotiate. I obviously want a method of contacting you and you didn't explicitly refuse, and I'd look like a psycho if I made a fuss about it. So you fucked me. We just met and you already fucked me.
This isn't me trying to pick someone up either. I meet someone, have a good conversation with them, and think "it'd be fun to hang out with this person" so I ask for their phone number. 40% of the time I get hit with this bullshit, and that is a lot given what an outgoing person I am. I like making friends. Holy shit I'm so annoyed. Your phone number is not some deeply personal thing your fucking cell carrier literally shipped people's numbers and names in a book to every fucking subscriber less than 20 years ago. Holy shit.

Hi po! Me and some of my family members currently live in some ghetto area po. And lately, we ran into some altercation with our neighbor. Until then, we never really cared about what they do or what is happening in their own house po but lately they've been threatening us subtly and even more blatantly po when he is under the influence. If it was just any other threats from someone else po I wouldn't really take it to heart. But that threat came from what I suspect is a drug addict po. I don't have concrete evidence and I also wouldn't want to label someone as an "addict" so recklessly pero I feel like you can really tell a normal person from someone who uses drugs. He does things in a very extra way. He has this loud commanding obnoxious voice. I can also hear him when drinking with what I suspect are his friends that are also under drugs talking about asking his other friends if they want some and that he'd send them "rice". I don't know how to use drugs pero sometimes din po at the middle of night we would smell something burning. And one time I heard them talking about my childhood friend who recently got arrested for being involved in drugs. One of his friend especially said something along the lines of "Idadamay po ko non ni childhood friend ah". I don't really feel safe here anymore especially since you never really know what can trigger them all of a sudden. That's why I'm asking how do I report this while remaining anonymous po? For fear for safety narin po since I might be dealing with a larger group. TYIA!!

This is a long one, so if you want to jump straight to why I'm having reservations, see #3.
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1. Rescue pittie's background
There's a 3-year-old pit bull mix I found that's been in foster care for over a year, let's call her baby girl. She has an unknown history, likely abandoned or maybe abused, and was brought in by a good samaritan. She was in a shelter, but quickly moved to a foster home because she "didn't do well" in the shelter (unsure of exactly what that means). She's been described as shy, anxious, and needing an adult-only home. I've been speaking with the foster mom for about 3 weeks, and she told me how hard it's been to find the perfect owner for baby girl.
Not only does baby girl need an adult-only home, but it's also preferred that she's the only animal in the house, so she can't go to a family with another dog or cat. That narrows down the list of potential owners to mainly young adults, who often live in apartment buildings that don't allow pit bulls, or with roommates who are afraid of pit bulls. Baby girl seems to be thriving in foster care right now but, unfortunately, the foster mom can't afford to keep her because she already has a dog.
Foster mom and I have had a few lengthy conversations now about baby girl's demeanor in foster care, and some of her known behavior issues. Baby girl doesn't like men and will usually growl at them if they come near. Foster mom didn't mention any violent incidents, but also that she can't definitively say whether or not baby girl is a biter since her history is still largely unknown. Baby girl can be dominant around other dogs, but thankfully has gotten along fine with foster mom's dog. Baby girl also resource guards, but no mention of snapping or aggression. Foster mom said overall, baby girl needs a lot of patience, positive reinforcement, consistency, and lots and lots of love to build trust.
2. Why I'm the best candidate
Here's where I come in. I'm single, live alone, have no pets, and my landlords are okay with a pitbull. So far, I'm only one whose come along expressing interest in baby girl and who meets all the foster mom's requirements. I'm not an experienced owner per se, nor have I fostered, but I've been the designated dog sitter for just about anyone I know with a dog for the past several years. I've also been around pit bulls my entire life, so I'm well aware of their reputation, and just how lethal they can be if they become violent and aren't trained properly.
As far as baby girl's behavior goes, I understand that "needing an adult-only home" means that she can't be around children, or really anyone who can't read and appropriately respond to her body language. I'm a young adult not planning to have kids ANY time soon, and none of my close friends have kids, so that's really no problem. My friends are also dog people, so I feel confident they wouldn't overstep baby girl's boundaries. If, god forbid, anything happened that would make baby girl feel threatened and react aggressively towards people, I do feel confident that I have the physical strength to restrain her.
I understand I need to put a lot of work into training and caring for baby girl. So, even though I'm in grad school, I thankfully get to work from home most days of the week. Summer also starts soon, so thankfully that'll give me a couple of months to acclimate her to the new home, establish a new routine, and build a trusting relationship. The foster mom has told me I'm exactly the kind of owner she's dreamed of for baby girl.
3. My reservations
Despite being trusted to watch my friends' dogs, I'm very inexperienced. As a first time owner, adopting an anxious rescue pit bull is a HUGE undertaking. I reached out to a dogtrainer to schedule a behavior consult and see about learning some training techniques, but upon learning about baby girl's history, the trainer HIGHLY recommended I go with another dog.
And, look.. I know this isn't going to be easy. I know it would be sooo much simpler for me to get a young, confident dog who would need practically no time to get settled. I also know that just because the right owner hasn't come along before me, doesn't mean one won't come along after me. But, the longer she is in foster care, the harder it's going to be to transition her to a new home. I might fit the criteria the foster mom is looking for in an owner, but I'm trying not to let that pressure me into making a potentially irresponsible decision.
I also live in an apartment, and baby girl right now is in a BIG house with a backyard that she can run around whenever she wants. I have a small patio that she might like to hang out on, but we'll for sure need to go on daily walks. Even still, will walks be enough? There's a dog park close to my apartment, but there's no way I can let her off leash to run around. At least, not until we develop a strong recall and definitely not until I can trust her around other dogs. Isn't that kind of unfair, that she might not get any chance to run free for weeks, or maybe months?
And then, in terms of the cost, I'm on a grad school salary, not exactly swimming in excess income. I've been considering rescuing a dog for quite a while and checked my budget to see if it would be possible. I know I can definitely afford food, treats, and grooming every so often. Also, the foster mom is going to give me all of baby girl's comforts like her bed, toys, favorite treats, etc., so that eliminates most up-front costs. She's also already spayed, chipped, and has her shots. But if something serious happens to her, I don't have thousands lying around to pay for a big vet bill. I have some savings and maybe could use a credit card, but it's such a scary thought that I might not be able to pay for the care she needs.
As much as I feel emotionally ready and willing to adopt baby girl, I'm terrified by the level of responsibility I'm going to take on by caring for another life. She's going to be with me for the next 7-10 years. I'll be graduating in just about 3 years, and then who knows what life will throw at me. Is a couple of years enough time to address her behavior issues? I just don't know. I'm scared, she's scared, we're both a couple of nervous nellies. She's been waiting for a home for so long, and damn, I really want to be the one to give it to her. But sometimes, caring isn't enough.

I'm allergic! Also I didn't know u couldn't be in the room with it when it's curing. I had some orders n had 5 or 6 things curing n fell asleep in the room with it. I had already burned my face badly n broke out on the backs of my hand n arms but I was wearing gloves so idt it was the epoxy. I woke up two days later with epoxy inside my skin. I was completely covered in it n I had proper ppe. I didn't wear a ventilation mask. I thought u only had to have it in well ventilated area when mixing n I took it outside to mix it. Long story short. Id recommend to anyone not to handle any type of resin if they are allergic. I tried uv resin and it made it come back. When it come back it does it with a vengeance worse every time. I wouldn't wish what happened to me on anyone. I've been sick since January n it makes me not be able to breathe. I couldn't walk talk or breathe after taking a shower n washing my hair. I paralyzed me for about an hour n caused me to hurt all down my left side. Drs can't or won't help me. I guess it was build up in me n poisoned me long term exposure. I had places on my stomach I couldn't get off n I take steroid pack n soon as I got done it would come back just like I poured it over my whole body. U could even see pour marks. Its been a living nightmare. I caught pneumonia. My neck swells n I end up in the hospital.my whole body is swells but when my necks swells I can't breathe. Taking a shower makes my neck swelling go down. Its done some crazy things to me. I put peroxide on my chin n it made it swells out the size of a pool ball n turned red as a coke can instantly. Set me on fire. Idk the drs believed me. I called poison control they didn't believe me.. I've been to my family dr she said come back in August. Ive thought i was dying a few times. Only thing I found to get it out of my skin is fast orange n shop towels. I t had to take 4n 5 hours shower just scrubbing my body. I have ut in my teeth. I can taste it all the time but when I shower it's worse. I've had my skin turn different colors. My lips black n eyelids purple. I'm still talking funny n that last time I used resin was middle if March. People please do research n find out all about it before u use it. I wouldn't want anyone to go through what I've been through. I love epoxy art n im currently looking fir a good alternative. It broke my heart to have to stop using it. I started using it in October n I didn't have any problems until I got some off ebay. I was just getting my business started. If anyone knows a good kud friendly preferably lol please let me know. If anyone has went through this crazy stuff n have any advice please let me know. I'm slowly getting better but I'm just guessing my way through this. Thanks advance n I hope this also helps someone else. Its terrifying.

I know several people who identify themselves as middle class (like 1-2 real estate properties, cabike, spending a fortune on kids education and everything, but still try to save the occasional 4anna or 8anna) was speaking to my friends and realised, within our memories of our family history, we weren’t always middle class. One dude said for his grandfather, his first pair of shorts they could buy back in the village was apparently when he turned 7 and really HAD to go to school and they couldn’t send him naked. Another guy said when his father moved to Saudi or something for his first job, he packed all his stuff, and apparently it was small enough to go into cabin baggage with room to spare. But of course, they did different things later, worked their ass off and provided a more privileged future for their next generation. Like nobody said they were always middle class, they were all aware that they became middle class because of someone’s effort in their family.
What’s your story of becoming middle class? Who’s that main character in your family that changed your fortunes for generations to come?

For some context I (21m) met this girl in school (18f). Early on into the spring semester one of my friends introduced me to her. Right of the bat she said verbatim that I was “the most beautiful man” she had ever seen. I too showed interest in her as she was physically attractive.
The further I got to know her the more I was intrigued by her. As cliche as it sounds I found her beautiful, smart, and overall a genuinely great person. She’s an engineering major, we have similar interests, and she’s overall just a person I naturally get along with.
Fast forward a few weeks ago we go out to a bar and I was getting hit on by another girl. This visibly bothered her but I said nothing and moved on.
Fast forward a bit more to tonight and we go out again to a different bar with a few of our friends from school. This is where it gets strange. Late into the night (after I’ve been drinking a decent amount) She gets a call from another girl that goes to school with us (whom I’m familiar with) and they start talking as if they’re in a relationship. Things along the lines of “I’ll be home soon” and “are you mad at me?” Etc.
This struck me as strange as it seems as if she has been pursuing me and has mentioned nothing about a relationship. She then told me she had been dating said girl and that she is bi.
This may seem unfair, but I absolutely 1000% respect her decision and will remain her friend no matter what. However, this genuinely broke my heart a little as I thought we had something more than just a friendship going on.
Now I raise the question as to why she had been acting like more than a friend towards me and why she would even agree to go out with me all these times if she was in said relationship.
Yes this is vague. I left out a plethora of details but believe me I can read girls pretty well and I’m not being dumb. She 1000% seems like she’s into me. Even going as far as to post a photo of us out on her instagram.
How do I approach this and take it appropriately?
TL;DR: Girl I was pursuing who I supposedly thought was into me as well (after numerous nights out together and countless compliments towards me) turns out to have a girlfriend and claims to be bi. What do I do from here? I really liked her a lot and am in absolute awe. What is the most appropriate way to approach this situation?

Guys I really need help because I’m just at my fuxing wits end with Tik Tok. The constant low views, low engagement due to them not pushing my videos is so disheartening.
I've received a 2 violations last week for absolute nonsense. The first violation was because I said “eww! That’s terrible” on someone’s post because they were talking about some really horrible situation. I didn’t mean it as in they were “eww”
Then I posted a video about things we should just let go of as women. Extremely long nails, baby hairs down to your eyeballs, huge bat lashes…. Very basic video. I got a strike for it! I was absolutely shocked. They removed my video then I appealed and they approved it and put it back up. Ultimately I felt like shxt so I deleted the entire post. After that I waited two days, I resumed posting. TODAY I posted and I thought hmm let me check my analytics. My analytics show that zero people who follow me have seen my posts, despite them appearing on the For You page. While people not following me have. And I was so annoyed!
It's frustrating to see that fitness, beauty, fashion, and lip-sync creators or even people just talking about absolutely nothing are getting the most views and engagement while my commentary, reactions, and reviews go unnoticed due to Tik Tok not pushing anything. I have 1.2k followers and aim for 5k by the year's end, but it feels unattainable.
I had friends tell me to keep going and how my content isn’t bad. But I am at the point where I’m starting to feel like is this even for me and maybe I should just delete my entire socials. The constant rejection Tik Tok is doing to small content creators like myself is just appalling and honestly unfair. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy making content, making people laugh and I love talking to people however I do not want to conform to what everyone else is doing as I feel like it’s not authentic.
Any advice or constructive criticism would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks :)

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So I started working at this Japanese restaurant around 3 months ago. There's one guy who's with me at that time. Let's call him James. James is a 43 years old dude. James and I have been a good friend since then because we have common interests. Then suddenly one day, like 1 week ago, he became cold to me. He didn't talk to me at all. The only time he would do it when there's something involving work. He talk cherfully with everyone just like ususal, only I was excluded. He treated me like a total stranger. I also notice that the vibe in the workplace was changed. James also ordered me around to do things that I already know how to do it. Still it really annoys me that he didn't tell me anything and started treated me like that. I don't wanna play some kinda of mind game.
So I want to know that this is some kind of bully in a workplace? Also I don't care what he does, but it still budge me.

I had quite the weird roommate experience. To preface, my situation wasn’t terrible, but did have a major impact on my mental health, academic performance, and socialization this past freshman year of college.
To start off, I met my roommate through a college bios page. What seemed great over the phone turned into a quick nightmare as soon as the end of august rolled around. The first day we were in a room together, you could feel the awkwardness and disconnect and it never went away, even at the end of the second semester. Basically my roommate became good friends with this girl down the hall, and started to treat me and the other girls roommate like garbage.
Long story short, I became friends with the other girls roommate who was in the same situation as me. There was a football game the one day and I was getting ready with my friend in my room, and my roommate was getting ready with my friend’s roommate in her room (2 doors apart). My friend went to grab something from her room and prompted me to get out in the hallway. Not even a foot out of the door, they are blowing us up in that room to some random chick. Mind you, they had NO reason to be talking about us. Their reasoning was that my friend and I came home late and made “too much noise while they were sleeping.” HELP ME NOW BC THEY WERENT EVEN SLEEPING, AS HER ROOMMATE WAS AT A PARTY THAT NIGHT AND I DIDNT EVEN SEE HER LMAO. As for my roommate, she was in her bed on her phone with the big light on. You weren’t sleeping. It was nearing 10pm on a Friday night.
I know this sounds ridiculous up to this point but it’s just hypocritical, because she would have her friend in my room or would be in my friend’s room all the time making noise. My roommate used to let her friend in early in the morning because we all had an early class together, and she would literally come and start socializing when i wasn’t even awake yet. Talk about disturbing someone’s sleep. Well anyway, this may have been wrong on my part as im being fully transparent here, but I muted her contact that day because my friend and I were about to go to the football game, and my roommate and her friend were going separately. I saw them in the lobby and glared at them when they smiled and waved because they had no clue ts I just heard them say.
Well come the next day, I’m laying in my bed feeling so alone. I wanted for the life of me to be able to be friends with my roommate, but after hearing what she said about me, it was pretty disheartening. I put a lot of work into our room. I was the only one who ever cleaned. I was the one to buy the fridge and microwave because she was out of state and I didn’t want her to have the hassle of transporting those things. I was just in a really bad headspace and missing home that I didn’t get out of bed that morning until late. Well, I start to hear fingers slamming the keypad. You don’t have to use the keypad unless you’re in a lock out situation. Here it comes…
This annihilation of a human being bursts into the room and goes, and I quote, “Is there a reason you fking blocked me?” (Because I wasn’t getting her calls as she was still muted). And I straight up said, yeah there actually is, I heard all the st you said about me yesterday. The woman was too stunned to speak. But she spoke. “Still that isn’t a reason to not answer my calls. I’m not obligated to you. I swear if you touch any of my s**t, I’m gonna call the cops.”
Runs out and slams the door
Gave me no room to talk whatsoever. And what’s funny about the last part is that my roommate and her friend, while they were talking about us, did in fact touch my friends stuff as her closet was rummaged through, her shoes were messed with, her mirror was broken. Not to mention my stuff was starting to be out of place too. She was really just reflecting herself. She helped herself to all of my food, ate an ENTIRE box of chips my mom had gotten me to take to college. This chick was loaded with money too, there was no reason she was eating my food when I could barely get by.
There’s a lot of small things that happened after that. She apologized the same night but I never saw her the same after. What really burnt me was the fact I gave her a phone wallet for her student id and she never even put it on to this day. She had no reason to be locked out given the fact she wanted the wallet and never put it on. That’s entirely her fault. And up to that point, I’m honestly glad I had her contact muted. This was her karma.
Another comical karma story was when it was a Sunday or something, and I went to the library that day for 6 hours. That’s not terrible long for me for a weekend, but that day I was exhausted. I was heading back to my room when she texted me, “how much longer will you be out of the room?” because her boyfriend was there and she wanted time alone with him. He was also from out of state and would come see her. Mind you, at this point, they weren’t even in the room. They were at a sporting event. I’ve honestly had it up to this point because I would give them PLENTY of time alone all the time, whether they were on the phone together or in person. She never did the same for me, and my relationship is longer than hers.
I simply replied “well I just got back but I guess I can leave again” which was honestly kind of passive aggressive but like atp I was so fed up with her garbage. On the way to the room she sprained her ankle and had to be taken to urgent care. Needless to say I got some sleep that day actually. But I walked into my room and her packages were thrown all over my desk, because my space was just hers i guess lmao.
Karma is real. Don’t be a terrible, inconsiderate roommate. Also here is a list of less explained occurrences that have happened throughout this unforgettable freshman year
-took multiple pictures of me while I slept -she got so sick and coughed all over everything, blew nose loudly all night but complained when I got sick to my face -bribed me with a stanley cup after threatening to call the cops on me for not answering her -flooded our room with water from the bathroom when i wasn’t there and posted about it on her instagram story without even texting me about it (the water was mostly on my side and she tried blaming in on someone else) -left old food in the fridge i bought -would call her bf for hours every day but not talk (he could just hear and see me and i wouldn’t even know he was on the phone) -offered me to live with her next year and oddly enough backed out last second (we were on semi good terms at this point) -would make me feel unwelcome in my own room -would look at me weirdly if I came in during one of her day and night long phone calls with her bf -would be loud asf while getting ready and then expected me to tip toe around her when I got ready -posted a picture of me on her instagram complaining about having a roommate because she couldn’t cry over her chem grades with me in the room, when she never even left the room for me to do so when I experienced 2 deaths in the span of a few months
I’m sure communication on my end could have helped some, but it came to the point where it was pointless. I didn’t care for her at all. What burnt me is that she started being super nice to me the last two weeks of school which made it hard to just block her like i originally had planned. Would I look like a bad person for doing so, or is this completely validated with my experiences with her. I’ve never met someone so oddly unaware of themselves. It makes me cringe DEEPLY whenever I think about her and what I had to put up with. I also want to mention I did go to my RA and Res Director about this early on, so it’s not like I blatantly didn’t do anything about it.

Sorry. This will be so long.
BG: me (27) and my male bestfriend (30) were best friends since we were 2nd yr college. We graduated college & I had few serious relationship and afterwards explored and he had one failed serious relationship. I never saw him as someone special aside from the friendship we had. Come 25 and I got tired from exploring. I got in the same company as his, it's wfh. We both live alone so we were going to each other's places to stay so we could work together. Everything was alright until suddenly we found out we're sexually compatible, lol. Then the sex went on.
Plot twist: I got pregnant. Ik, very expensive lesson. But I had been prepared for this scenario when I entered my exploration stage.
We talked about this already, I asked him if he would want to know. He said yes. So I told him, and I was very clear to him that if he wants to run, he can. I don't mind. I love my child so I know I'll do everything I can to give her the best.
So fast forward to now, I'm on my 3rd trim. He insisted on living with me saying he wants to be there. We're co-parenting, i guess? We're not together. We're open if someone finds someone.
I'm good at finances and I earn more than him since I'm hustling ever since. He's not. I had to teach him how to save and properly manage his money which thankfully he finally learned to. I cook since he doesn't know. He cleans the house more since he's better at it. Some chores is whoever wants to do it/whose free. We've had fights before (I always ask him to leave since he's not really helpful at all but I wanted to give him a chance) but today it was my tipping point. I just asked him to fry something for me since I wanna eat it but he refused to do so saying it's so hot on our kitchen. He continued watching tiktok & playing mobile game then later on went out to wash the dishes but still didn't fry the food I wanted. I don't ask him much unless I don't feel good and mostly he's doesn't know how to or refuses to learn.
So i exploded inside and calmly told him I hate how selfish he is. (Everytime I do this, he never talks back saying I don't know how to listen, I already concluded in my head, and won't admit I'm wrong. I feel very disrespected since I feel like talking with air). I only asked him to fry something, not that hard but he refused to since it's hot. I said he's not helpful at all physically, mentally for me. We share 50-50 of all the living and baby expenses but if we're short I'll have to find a way since he's used to "whatever comes tom" and doesn't give an effort to find an extra income even if I push him to. I have to decide for everything-house things, baby, finances. He never even initiate anything for our baby. I have to tell him check ups, tell him everything, try to involve him... i wanted to gave him a chance since I knew he was really nonchalant on things even before we were just friends. He helps me emotionally bc i can be just myself since we knew each other from top to bottom.
It just that i feel like he's not really helping me on this pregnancy. He's just there going with the flow, with everything I decide on. I try to step up on everything since with or without him, I want to be ready for our baby as much as we can I asked him to leave several times since I'm very independent and he's very disappointing, imo. I'd rather raise the kid alone than be with him but feel no help at all, can't even depend on him on little things. He just won't leave insisting it's hard for me and I need help...and it's better for him to be with us. But I still feel alone on this pregnancy, I don't feel his effort and I feel like he's just pulling us down. I don't wanna settle for anything less.
Lol, I'm on my 7th month and I didn't receive any massage offer from him. Seriously hard to be pregnant. Very thankful I wfh and my work is not that stressful.
He have these little improvements and I commend him for that. But his flaws as a partner outweighs the good already. I tried several times to communicate what I expect him to do, but he just won't improve.
ABYG here? Am I being blinded by my hormones and should give him time to adjust?
Or he's being an a-hole insisting to be a dad but still a kid inside.
I'm done but he just won't leave. Any advice or insight would be appreciated also. I just want peace within me and my baby.
I didn't want to open up to my friends since they're very protective of me. I don't want a bias opinion...
I also want to vent and to know if somehow I am being too hard on him since I have a very dominant personality and he's submissive. He's very kind also, i just don't know why I feel like at times he doesn't apply his kindness to me and his child. Lol
Lesson: never have a child with your bestfriend. It's really hard to forget he's your bestfriend first and he's like this. Lol

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Hello everyone looking at this post. I’m looking for a friend I can vibe chill and get to know on a deeper personal level I hope. I crave more relationships in my life and/or just people to talk to.
Here’s a bit about myself. I enjoy playing video games the most. I’m a pc gamer, and I have a crap ton of games. But I mostly play league, valorant and cs. Recently been getting into Terraria and currently playing persona 5 and elden ring . Favorite game all time is portal 2 or Luigi’s mansion. I love watching shows, anime or regular. Currently watching jjk and AoT, and caught up in one piece. I occasionally like the outdoors and do things like fishing, camping, hiking, just enjoying the nature and vibes. For music, I enjoy rap and rock but I also like other niche stuff. Favorite artist is juice wrld. Oh and I guess a favorite movie of mine is Donnie Darko, love physiological thrillers.
Overall, I’m a pretty laidback person and would like to get to meet some new people. Have a good day/night!

A week before my 31st birthday I was diagnosed with a meningioma. About the size of a golf-ball behind my left eye. I go in for surgery, they get it out, but the scans showed that it was bone invasive. I wake up a few hours later, and I'm told that the surgery went great, all the neoplasm was removed, but for most of the bone. They could only shave so much of it away because something needed to keep my eyeball in its socket. Pathology of the tumor revealed it to be benign. A grade I meningioma. Very common, great prognosis. My recovery was great and I was out of the hospital about 24 hours later.
Now, just before my 33rd birthday, I find out that it's back. Kinda, I haven't gotten the scan done yet. We only know that all of the symptoms I had before - swollen around the eye, asymmetrical eye position, unable to focus the left eye, headaches, etc... - are back and slightly worse.
So I've been doing a lot of reading and about two months after my surgery, a paper comes out that says that my specific situation, Bone Invasive Grade I Meningioma is so rare, that there simply isn't enough data to study it properly. Now I'm reading this: "...sometimes recur in long-term follow-up, often requiring additional treatments, such as secondary surgery or salvage radiosurgery, which can be challenging and potentially lead to morbidity." and it's difficult to face this with the same optimism I did the first time around.
I put on a brave face for my friends and family, I make jokes and laugh, but I don't want to deal any of this again. I don't want the process of recovery again. I don't want my wife to go through all of that again. I guess I'm just in the self-pity stage and I'm trying to limit what I say to the people around me. We don't know exactly how bad it is yet, so I don't want to paint the devil on the wall, but it's hard.

My boyfriend (M35) and I (F30) have been together for 5 years. He has a daugther who is 8 years old and she is like my own - I love her very much and she loves me, we have a great friendship. When my boyfriend and I started dating, the mother of his child wasn't very happy about this and tried everything to break us up. My boyfriend at that time was overattached to this woman and did everything she said (he still does sometimes, but it has become so much better over time). She accused me of hurting the child physically (just because she was afraid of it, nothing like this ever happened), she shouted at me for taking the father away from the child by just being in their lives, she told my boyfriend when and where he can spend time with me and when he has to be with his daugther etc. We managed to keep our relationship and he has developed boundaries with his ex. However, this has caused us a lot of drama, damage and fights over the period of time that we have been together - mostly because of my jealousy, fear, insecurity and a feeling that I am not as important as the mother of his child. However, I have always taken care of my boyfriend and his child - they are the world to me. I pay the full rent of our apartment that we bought together, I also buy clothes and toys for his daughter (when she is with us - approximately 10 days in a month) and food. I have tried to be the best girlfriend even though I have had several setbacks - I am not an angel and I have my bad days and my insecurities. We have travelled a lot together - to Peru, Laos, USA, half of Europe etc. We talk a lot and share our problems and success. He is my best friend.
A few years ago I had a surgery on my stomach and didn't know that the baby pills do not have effect after this kind of surgery - I got pregnant. He told me that when his daugther was born he had a lot of problems and fights with his ex, because she cancelled the baby pills without telling him and got pregnant. He told me that because of that he he is not ready for another child right now and he wanted me to do an abortion. I was afraid of ending up alone with a child and I wasn't in a good place back then so I did it - the biggest mistake of my life that I deeply regret. This, also, has been a source of tension between us.
I have noticed some changes in our relationship for some time now. A month ago we had an argument over trivial things and he told me out of the blue that he wants to break up. I asked him for some time and to discuss it again when we are both calm. We did it couple of days later and decided to give each other a second chance - he told me that he needed to do some things alone without me (like riding a bike or going out with friends) and I acknowledged that. Everyone needs space. Two days ago I found out from his daughter that my boyfriend took flowers and cake for his ex (the mother of his child) for Mother's Day and I confronted him. The woman has caused so much unnecessary damage in our relationship and it hurt me. He has brought me flowers twice during our relationship and it seemed weird. He got pissed and then told me that he has thought about breaking up for two-three weeks now and wants to do it. It shocked me because I had tried to give him space, but at the same time to help him with his daughter and things at home. During those weeks, he had told me that everything is fine and assured me that I had nothing to worry about. I am devastated.
When I ask him questions he keeps responding me with three different answers every time and it confuses me. At one point he tells me that he is like 80% sure that he wants to break up with me, then again, 5 minutes later he is telling me that he will pack his things tomorrow, then he says that he wants to come and celebrate my father's birthday next day because he likes my family (even though he just said that he wanted to leave me)... I am so confused. We decided to take a break and agreed to talk about our relationship and what is going to happen in 4 days - he still keeps saying that he has made up his mind though. I am losing my mind and I am just in a shock. He is so calm and he seems like he does not care at all that he is going to lose me - I told him that I am not able to be friends with him right away because I still love him as my man. I don't know what to do. I am just so sad and feel like there is a big hole in my heart.

I was doing amazing in life, had a good banking Job was making pretty good money, bought a Mercedes, was getting all the girls, everything seemed like it was going right.
Surely after I gave myself more financial responsibilities everything started crashing down I started owing more and more money and now I’m about $30,000 Dollars in debt which in reality is not so much money and it something that with time you can payoff, but recently in November I lost my Job because I’m only allowed to work with a Work Authorization card and it expired, it normally takes 3-6 months to get it renewed and unfortunately for me in took 6 months to receive so my job had to let me go which I completely understood. I don’t blame anyone for my mistakes I take all the responsibility but now I’m stuck in a state of depression and even think about taking my life which I would’ve never thought would ever cross my mind it being that in such an optimistic and happy person. everything seems to be going against me at the moment which makes things harder I recently was going to get my job back but now they require a credit check, which I also understand why that’s put in place specially for banking Jobs, but because I haven’t been working for 6 months I haven’t had extra money to pay my credit cards etc… so now I know that even though I had an amazing interview and the manager loved me i won’t be able to get a job because of poor credit history, it’s very hard for me being in this moment because I lost the sense of what’s gonna become of my life. I truly hate disappointing and although I know it’s not something that should hold so much weight for me, unfortunately it does because I know I’ve let my family down all over not being as responsible as i should’ve been.
Right now I got The love of my life back in my life and we have been doing amazing, we both want the same things and confess our love for each other everyday , I haven’t told her any of what’s going on because i thought I’d get my job back and everything would go back to normal, I’m now afraid I might have to let her go :/ because I cannot give to her what she deserves at the current moment, it’s hard for me to talk about my personal life and problems with people I’m closed with, I like keeping things to myself and dealing with my problems on my own, I guess you can say I’m afraid of being judged.
I hope I can find the courage to see things though, I think we should all be grateful to be here no matter what problems we might have, but for the first time in my life I can understand why people would want to take their own life.

I’m 23 turning 24 & i feel suuuupeeer old
I know there is a general marriage crisis going on but everyone around me (school friends, peers etc) seem to be getting alone just fine
I know comparison is the thief of joy & that Allah has blessed me in soo many other ways
However all the things i used to value (my education etc) i look at & think if does that even matter when no one even wants to marry me right now ?
Before anyone says you shouldn’t let a man pull your self-esteem down like that, it’s only natural to feel incomplete when you haven’t hit such a huge milestone
I’ve studied deep into the islamic sciences so i know better than to have shaky tawakkul - but tawakkul doesn’t come from books it comes from real life experience
I have been making dua for the last couple years - ramadan, in tahajjud, in palestine - all the blessed times & places
But Allah hasn’t decreed it yet😢
I know He is too generous to not give but i’m feeling less optimistic as the years go on - my family around me aren’t doing a great job at helping but tthe one story that’s in my head right now is how Prophet Yusuf asked his fellow prisoner to mention his release to the king & the prisoner forgot & remembered after 7 years! Prophet Yusuf remained patient & look how God rewarded him
So that reminds me that time isn’t being ‘wasted’ by my family being too slow with it all - it’s all just written to happen this way

When I was young around grade 1, I had this friend in my street, I can't remember much of the time I spent with this guy but I can remember him hurting me like hitting me and shit when I didn't do what he wanted. He smacked my knee with a wrench once. I just fell to the ground. We were decent friends until I told him that I wanted to be girl, I remember him telling me how to do certain things to men. (Seems like he was a victim too). Anyway, throughout my childhood my mother was pretty abusive, she was dealing with psychosis and paranoid delusions, she coped with alcohol and taking it out on dad and I, we would be kicked out, he would be hit manipulated screamed at all the sorts. Anyway it got too much for her one day and she decided to try and smother Me, she then attempted suicide. (I don't remember how it ended I just remember waking up on my bed)
All throughout primary/highschool, I would let people use me. I had very little back bone for myself, I think I was half trying to figure out things that had happened. One time when I had to leave home for a bit cause dad was being violent the persons whos house I was staying at made me touch him in exchange for the place.
I had this friend, he stayed over one night. I think it was one of our birthdays (btw I've had very mixed gendered friends, all very close) Anyway, we were drinking and smoking and eventually he started to ask me if I wanted to do things. I said no, repeatedly. He just kepted asking and was acting all bummed I just felt like shit, I got more drunk and just said yeah sure. The next thing I remember I was bent over my bed, my god it was horrible, it's just flashes of pain and crying and asking him to stop before I moved and pushed him away. I can't remember how the night ended but the next morning was so horrible, I bled from it all. In the future I wasn't so resistant, he would just make me feel bad, I would let him do whatever, the feeling of bits of him left inside me, makes me want to die all by it self. I felt so disgusting I feel so disgusting
Anyway, later on I had gotten into a relationship with this girl. We were together from the ages 17-20 (She like everyone else in my life knew who I was) She knew that sex was horrible for me, I still put out for her when I could. But when I couldn't, she didn't care, she would tell me I'm responsible for her mental decline and things. So I would just give in, most of the time I would just give her oral I preferred this. Sometimes though she wanted to touch me, i would protest and offer alternatives but she didn't care she would just start touching me, eventually she started to insert her fingers and I would literally have tears I my eyes saying no and she'd just keep going if not harder when I said to stop.
I just, fucking hate myself so much, I can't get it out of my head that I did this shit to myself. I feel so disconnected from it all, like the pain and emotions are there but it's just like watching a movie. I feel so disgusting, on edge I'm always In fight or flight, I'm tired I just want to die most of the time.
I just, idk, I still consider these people friends. I can't convince my brain that this was fucked. Like do I just not care and move on? Not talking with em about it or what idk I'm lost I just wanna cry
Idc if the main account causes problems, I just need my possible reasons heard

I'm in my 30s (F) and I realised that after half a decade living in the hague I actually, did not, make any friends here... All my friends live in Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Utrecht, and everywhere else but here for some reason and it's always difficult to meet with them. Like, sometimes you just want to shoot a message to a mate and meet for coffee in like 20min. I remember when I was younger it was so easy and it was the best thing. I really miss that.
And of course it's slightly more difficult here to make friends in general. Some of my Dutch colleagues told me Dutch people from the hague could be seen as a bit serious hence boring among the Dutchies. I didn't know that category existed. So I guess that didn't help.
Sometimes I met people and I thought ah she was cool, would love to be her friend. But I was too scared to ask, hey do you want to have coffee with me? Why is it so frowned upon, asking someone to be your friend?
How do you guys do it? Who has successfully made a friend here and can tell me about it? Much appreciate any insights. Cheers xx

I'll just leave some suggestions here that I'd like to see implemented. Because there are personal suggestions, I'd like to hear both the community and devs share their opinions or more suggestions
The game:

• Add extra work tiles. This might be very personal and specific for me, because I often get on very long new creation streaks. Especially since you're trying to monetize the game more, you could sell it for quite a cheap price like 5 bucks. I can't promise a lot of people will need it, but it doesn't seem like a very hard thing to add + it creates some profit
  
• Decrease the loading time. Probably need to lower the amount of elements that get loaded from the start
  
• Improve the searching of elements. For example, I have the element "2 pillows". To find it, I would have to start by searching "2". If I search with just "Pillows", nothing will show up even though it's (the most important) part of the word
  
• More leveling rewards. I heard of themes/accessories being in the works. It would be cool if we could be awarded with greater rewards for reaching "milestones". Whether it's an hour of infinite energy, a pack of free elements, or something visual. It would really make the leveling system feel more rewarding rather than a nuisance of collecting small rewards
  
• Community challenges. Basically, hints have gotten useless once you completed every goal. To make hints useful again and have the community engage more with the game, you could implement weekly (or even daily) challenges to create certain elements created by the community. Users could upload an element (maybe with a game interface, if that's easier than Reddit), which the devs can choose to be a daily challenge for players to try and create (and spend hints on)
  
• A friend system (or anything to make the community engage more with each other). Since the game is entirely community based and it's easy for even new players to quickly create first evers, I think it would be really cool to share them with each other for them to create as well. It could maybe work like a sort of trading system where both add an element the other doesn't have yet, so they can both gain elements. This could also cost coins to do. Heck, you can turn this into a marketplace HAHAHA. A friend system might be a lot, but I think the community should have an easier time to help each other out or flex their creations
  

The community:

• I know you already had one and are planning on creating a new one, but a Discord server would greatly benefit the community. While Reddit allows us to make our own posts, it's hard to get to know the community and grow closer to it. Engaging with users in an off topic chat, easily being able to host events (like the challenge thing I recommended before), and dedicated channels for posting cool certain creations. I'm aware that there are a lot of users who prefer Reddit, but for myself I'm usually active on Discord and would have an easier time posting there
  
• Similar to what I mentioned just now, I'd love to see threads to specific categories. I once made a post on a lot of games and gaming related things I found, so it would be cool if we had threads made for posting games, series, books, celebrities, or anything nerdy. I'd love to see what other games people have created