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2024.05.21 16:31 RainbowX-plosion Faro Lady's probably be next essence after Freddy
Based on how her background story just got released, I'm guessing the gameplay and essence trailer would be revealed 2-3 weeks respectively during Essence 1. And since Emily's S tieessence was about gambling(which got me confused ngl), will it be the opposite for Evelyn's?
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2024.05.21 16:30 elann68 Extra Post Op stuff
I had total, horizontal incision removal last week. I feel fortunate, recovery has been ok. (Still waiting on pathology though so......) But I got ALL the things leading up to surgery and haven't really needed to use them. I figured there was probably someone on here stressing out to buy the things. I can't get out to ship until around 6/15, so you would need to have a later surgery date, but I'm happy to send unused products. DM me if you can use these, in around July.
Gas EX Stool Softener Laxatives I have 1 cheap but decent microwave heating pad
I absolutely did need larger undies, high waisted. Larger elastic waist pants. Lozenges I did use Miralax but they sent me home with more than enough. I wasn't allowed Gas EX at hospital. 🤷 I also wished I had asked what clothes I was allowed to wear in hospital. (The gown/sheets gave me a massive rash on my back. ) I will want lower dose Tylenol & Advil, right now I'm still on prescription. I haven't used a pregnancy pillow, I've liked the support of an extra blanket beside me because I can adjust the height. Whoever said. "A million pillows" 💯
Every time I met with my DR. I had a list of questions. (Thanks mostly to this group.) So much seems obvious to others but if its a question for you, ask it. When you are in an appointment, it's your time. Make sure you are comfortable with the information you are getting.
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Gas EX Stool Softener Laxatives I have 1 cheap but decent microwave heating pad
I absolutely did need larger undies, high waisted. Larger elastic waist pants. Lozenges I did use Miralax but they sent me home with more than enough. I wasn't allowed Gas EX at hospital. 🤷 I also wished I had asked what clothes I was allowed to wear in hospital. (The gown/sheets gave me a massive rash on my back. ) I will want lower dose Tylenol & Advil, right now I'm still on prescription. I haven't used a pregnancy pillow, I've liked the support of an extra blanket beside me because I can adjust the height. Whoever said. "A million pillows" 💯
Every time I met with my DR. I had a list of questions. (Thanks mostly to this group.) So much seems obvious to others but if its a question for you, ask it. When you are in an appointment, it's your time. Make sure you are comfortable with the information you are getting.
2024.05.21 16:30 InternalSchedule2861 Will doctors prescribe chemical castration medication turn off erotic desires?
I have autism and have always been attracted to the naked body of a woman.
While I understand that this is allowed to be enjoyed within the privacy of marriage, men and women do not marry or remain married to each other in heaven (Matthew 22:30).
I also understand that our heavenly bodies will not have erotic desires and reproductive abilities (1 Corinthians 7:27-31, Isaiah 56:4-5) so we will not care about these things not being there.
Despite this, it still bothers me a lot that these desires I find attractive will not be part of our heavenly bodies.
People have told me you will not care because the desire is not there, but it still does not make me feel any better about it.
There will still be spiritual beauty, non-erotic love, and non-revealing clothed beauty, but nakedness will not be there.
Nakedness will not be there even in a non-erotic way despite us having no sinful nature like how Adam and Eve used to be because apparently, nakedness is ultimately something shameful even in the absence of sin, and Adam and Eve just did not know it at first, and we will wear white linen in heaven (Revelation 19:7).
Read 'Why We Don't Walk Around Naked' from Desiring God.
So even if I can marry and enjoy a woman's naked body on earth, I do not want to because that part of her body that I would have enjoyed will eventually become a shameful part of her in heaven, which is a real turn off to me.
My mom and everyone in church just tells me to have faith and not to think about these things.
It is difficult for me not to think about this topic but apparently is so easy for everyone else and it does not bother them.
One person on YouTube just told me to stop being carnal and look to heaven, yet that meant nothing to me.
I have tried repenting of erotically immoral thoughts and disappointment about not being able to see a woman's naked body in heaven both in an erotic and non-erotic way, but failed over and over.
Dennis Pollock, a pastor on YouTube told me that God's assistance through the Holy Spirit makes repentance possible and is made available to everyone, but He will not do the repentance for you.
In other words, I still have to repent myself, which I failed to repeatedly for several years.
I could never feel the assistance of God, but only the warning against the consequences, and that still failed me.
I believe that Jesus died and rose again and that He is God, but that is completely useless and He will only save me after I repent.
So my heart has obviously been hardened and I am heading to hell.
Maybe my autism makes repenting of these things more difficult for me.
People have told me that fellowship will be better, God will be more beautiful, and that His presence and pleasures will be better than the joy of the erotic beauty of a woman's body, but none of it makes me feel any better about this.
I have read every article and watched every sermon from John Piper, John MacArthur, and Randy Alcorn telling people that heaven and Jesus will be better, but it still does not make me feel any better about it.
Reading my Bible did not help me too.
So I thought that if a doctor could prescribe me chemical castration medication to shut off my erotic desires, I could truly not care about them anymore and be able to repent and be saved.
Jesus said that some people become eunuchs for the sake of heaven (Matthew 19:12) and that if your hand or eye causes you to sin, then cut it off and gouge it out because it is better than going to hell (Matthew 18:8-9).
Even though He may have only meant these metaphorically, it would not hurt to do them literally (no pun intended) if it allows you to repent.
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While I understand that this is allowed to be enjoyed within the privacy of marriage, men and women do not marry or remain married to each other in heaven (Matthew 22:30).
I also understand that our heavenly bodies will not have erotic desires and reproductive abilities (1 Corinthians 7:27-31, Isaiah 56:4-5) so we will not care about these things not being there.
Despite this, it still bothers me a lot that these desires I find attractive will not be part of our heavenly bodies.
People have told me you will not care because the desire is not there, but it still does not make me feel any better about it.
There will still be spiritual beauty, non-erotic love, and non-revealing clothed beauty, but nakedness will not be there.
Nakedness will not be there even in a non-erotic way despite us having no sinful nature like how Adam and Eve used to be because apparently, nakedness is ultimately something shameful even in the absence of sin, and Adam and Eve just did not know it at first, and we will wear white linen in heaven (Revelation 19:7).
Read 'Why We Don't Walk Around Naked' from Desiring God.
So even if I can marry and enjoy a woman's naked body on earth, I do not want to because that part of her body that I would have enjoyed will eventually become a shameful part of her in heaven, which is a real turn off to me.
My mom and everyone in church just tells me to have faith and not to think about these things.
It is difficult for me not to think about this topic but apparently is so easy for everyone else and it does not bother them.
One person on YouTube just told me to stop being carnal and look to heaven, yet that meant nothing to me.
I have tried repenting of erotically immoral thoughts and disappointment about not being able to see a woman's naked body in heaven both in an erotic and non-erotic way, but failed over and over.
Dennis Pollock, a pastor on YouTube told me that God's assistance through the Holy Spirit makes repentance possible and is made available to everyone, but He will not do the repentance for you.
In other words, I still have to repent myself, which I failed to repeatedly for several years.
I could never feel the assistance of God, but only the warning against the consequences, and that still failed me.
I believe that Jesus died and rose again and that He is God, but that is completely useless and He will only save me after I repent.
So my heart has obviously been hardened and I am heading to hell.
Maybe my autism makes repenting of these things more difficult for me.
People have told me that fellowship will be better, God will be more beautiful, and that His presence and pleasures will be better than the joy of the erotic beauty of a woman's body, but none of it makes me feel any better about this.
I have read every article and watched every sermon from John Piper, John MacArthur, and Randy Alcorn telling people that heaven and Jesus will be better, but it still does not make me feel any better about it.
Reading my Bible did not help me too.
So I thought that if a doctor could prescribe me chemical castration medication to shut off my erotic desires, I could truly not care about them anymore and be able to repent and be saved.
Jesus said that some people become eunuchs for the sake of heaven (Matthew 19:12) and that if your hand or eye causes you to sin, then cut it off and gouge it out because it is better than going to hell (Matthew 18:8-9).
Even though He may have only meant these metaphorically, it would not hurt to do them literally (no pun intended) if it allows you to repent.
2024.05.21 16:30 Playful_Diet_8921 AITAH for hitting my now ex bf and making him feel bad about stopping mid “activities”?
To start this off, I never intended on hitting him(hard at least) and I had never intentionally done anything that would make him feel guilty about stopping.
About a month ago I(16nb) got dumped by my now ex bf(17m) due to what initially was said to be that he needed to work on his mental health and none of this was because of something i did, this was weird because ever since we had started dating we have been very open about our mental health with each other so i decided a few days after he ended it and i cooled off that I would ask if there was a different reason. ik it was a bad idea but i really needed closure because it felt so dishonest, i made assumptions and asked if it was because he had feelings for someone else as i had seen someone in his quick adds on snapchat that was “from his contacts” with a heart next to his name while we were dating that i swept under the rug. He was also posting thirst traps publicly and people were favoriting every one (his accounts have always been private) it was an unfair assumption and i still regret asking but i can’t really change the past. he said no and that he had just fallen out of love and i accepted that and felt that we were both in a good place. This quickly changed.
he soon sends me a text that made my heart drop, he said that it was because i hit him and you don’t hit people you love, he said he’d never forgive me. this confused me a lot, i had hit him one time 4 months prior to this moment. we had always play fought and he was ok with it, he ended up making a joke about my friend that i didn’t like and i meant to slap him lightly/in a lighthearted way but accidentally used too much strength. I admit i shouldn’t even joke like that but i ended up kissing his cheek where i had hit and apologized saying i was in the wrong. he said it was ok. this would come up during arguments where every time id explain it was an accident and i was wrong to joke like that and ive shown him it wouldn’t happen again.
he then sent this paragraph:
“Yk what? Fuck trying to be a good guy anymore. I’ve tried making excuses to my friend to make them hate you less. I don’t wanna hear you say shit like my decision was fucked up I decided what was best for me and call me selfish I don’t care. You hit me, and made me feel guilty for saying no. Didnt you repost the tt about things that mean no? So why wasn’t my uncertainty enough for you. It wasn’t my fault or my issue to take care of alone, I never wanna see you utter the words “I thought it wasn’t my fault” because you hitting me was YOUR fault, not mine, not anyone else’s. Just because you might not have meant to doesn’t change the fact you did and that is unacceptable. I’m glad you got your closure but I’m done. I don’t wanna be your friend I don’t want you in my life ever again. There are so many things I’m happy to be free from and yes is breaking up didn’t hurt as much as you and I will not feel bad about that. I now don’t have to worry about becoming your father. Also, NEVER assume I liked someone else while dating you. That is rude as hell and disrespectful, you jumped to conclusions and your overthinking isn’t my issue anymore. I will never forgive you, and will have my own opinions you can take that as you will. My friends are against you and I cannot defend you. If you want your hoodies back let me know because otherwise I’m donating them if you don’t want them. Also yes I am mad about you loosing my hoodie, the one I cared the most about. But I will never let you replace it and ruin a perfectly good hoodie.”
when he references when i made him feel guilty we were starting to do something (i ALWAYS made him say enthusiastic yea or id stop due to him not expressing emotions typically due to both of us being neurodivergent) and his dog walked in. we stopped to pet her and he asked me to take her outside of the room, i got up from where we were and opened the door where he started calling for her and she took my spot. i awkwardly sat there and was a bit disappointed because he knows i have trauma related to intimacy and that i don’t see that stuff as just whatever, but instead as a way to be closer to someone. after we hung out and i confronted my friends on what to do i let him know it hurt me and he told me that saying that made him feel guilty and that it was not ok. i agreed that i shouldn’t have said that and looking back i shouldn’t have expressed i wanted something due to his unsureness but i never intended to be like the ppl who hurt me.
this all really hurt because he brought up my dad, who i don’t tell may ppl details about. he was a horrible person to me and my mom and my goal in life is to be everything he wasn’t.
my friends tell me im not a bad person for thinking that my ex is in the wrong for blaming me but i feel like it’s partly my fault for not being considerate of situations and asking for a bunch of reassurance during the relationship. AITAH?
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About a month ago I(16nb) got dumped by my now ex bf(17m) due to what initially was said to be that he needed to work on his mental health and none of this was because of something i did, this was weird because ever since we had started dating we have been very open about our mental health with each other so i decided a few days after he ended it and i cooled off that I would ask if there was a different reason. ik it was a bad idea but i really needed closure because it felt so dishonest, i made assumptions and asked if it was because he had feelings for someone else as i had seen someone in his quick adds on snapchat that was “from his contacts” with a heart next to his name while we were dating that i swept under the rug. He was also posting thirst traps publicly and people were favoriting every one (his accounts have always been private) it was an unfair assumption and i still regret asking but i can’t really change the past. he said no and that he had just fallen out of love and i accepted that and felt that we were both in a good place. This quickly changed.
he soon sends me a text that made my heart drop, he said that it was because i hit him and you don’t hit people you love, he said he’d never forgive me. this confused me a lot, i had hit him one time 4 months prior to this moment. we had always play fought and he was ok with it, he ended up making a joke about my friend that i didn’t like and i meant to slap him lightly/in a lighthearted way but accidentally used too much strength. I admit i shouldn’t even joke like that but i ended up kissing his cheek where i had hit and apologized saying i was in the wrong. he said it was ok. this would come up during arguments where every time id explain it was an accident and i was wrong to joke like that and ive shown him it wouldn’t happen again.
he then sent this paragraph:
“Yk what? Fuck trying to be a good guy anymore. I’ve tried making excuses to my friend to make them hate you less. I don’t wanna hear you say shit like my decision was fucked up I decided what was best for me and call me selfish I don’t care. You hit me, and made me feel guilty for saying no. Didnt you repost the tt about things that mean no? So why wasn’t my uncertainty enough for you. It wasn’t my fault or my issue to take care of alone, I never wanna see you utter the words “I thought it wasn’t my fault” because you hitting me was YOUR fault, not mine, not anyone else’s. Just because you might not have meant to doesn’t change the fact you did and that is unacceptable. I’m glad you got your closure but I’m done. I don’t wanna be your friend I don’t want you in my life ever again. There are so many things I’m happy to be free from and yes is breaking up didn’t hurt as much as you and I will not feel bad about that. I now don’t have to worry about becoming your father. Also, NEVER assume I liked someone else while dating you. That is rude as hell and disrespectful, you jumped to conclusions and your overthinking isn’t my issue anymore. I will never forgive you, and will have my own opinions you can take that as you will. My friends are against you and I cannot defend you. If you want your hoodies back let me know because otherwise I’m donating them if you don’t want them. Also yes I am mad about you loosing my hoodie, the one I cared the most about. But I will never let you replace it and ruin a perfectly good hoodie.”
when he references when i made him feel guilty we were starting to do something (i ALWAYS made him say enthusiastic yea or id stop due to him not expressing emotions typically due to both of us being neurodivergent) and his dog walked in. we stopped to pet her and he asked me to take her outside of the room, i got up from where we were and opened the door where he started calling for her and she took my spot. i awkwardly sat there and was a bit disappointed because he knows i have trauma related to intimacy and that i don’t see that stuff as just whatever, but instead as a way to be closer to someone. after we hung out and i confronted my friends on what to do i let him know it hurt me and he told me that saying that made him feel guilty and that it was not ok. i agreed that i shouldn’t have said that and looking back i shouldn’t have expressed i wanted something due to his unsureness but i never intended to be like the ppl who hurt me.
this all really hurt because he brought up my dad, who i don’t tell may ppl details about. he was a horrible person to me and my mom and my goal in life is to be everything he wasn’t.
my friends tell me im not a bad person for thinking that my ex is in the wrong for blaming me but i feel like it’s partly my fault for not being considerate of situations and asking for a bunch of reassurance during the relationship. AITAH?
2024.05.21 16:29 justalilchili 5 nights short of globalist for corporate challenge. Should I do a mattress run?
Currently at 11 nights, have 4 booked for this weekend and will be 5 short that need to be completed before June 12th. Originally, I had a conference planned during the challenge timeframe that would have been 3 nights (possibly 1-2 had I extended my trip for leisure).
If it weren't for the fact that I'm moving in June I'd just book two quick trips somewhere, but I think my partner would actually kill me if I did that. I only found the Hyatt ecosystem last year and stayed 13 nights in 2023. I had 17 nights of non-Hyatt stays in a mix of other hotels/Airbnb.
Almost all of my travel is for leisure and I probably fall in the bucket of "you don't travel enough to be chasing Globalist" buuuuuut I have some big international travel this year / next that's making me consider it anyway.
I'll be in the UK and Paris for a week each in August and in India for a wedding in December. 2025 travel may include Japan, a family trip to Disney (in-laws+nieces/nephews), and/or a family trip to Boston (my parents).
I'm in Connecticut and have a couple of cat 2s with points availability nearby (40K for 5 nights) or could drive to Mt. Laurel, NJ where there's a cat 1 (25K). I'd have to actually stay in this scenario since it's a couple hours away.
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If it weren't for the fact that I'm moving in June I'd just book two quick trips somewhere, but I think my partner would actually kill me if I did that. I only found the Hyatt ecosystem last year and stayed 13 nights in 2023. I had 17 nights of non-Hyatt stays in a mix of other hotels/Airbnb.
Almost all of my travel is for leisure and I probably fall in the bucket of "you don't travel enough to be chasing Globalist" buuuuuut I have some big international travel this year / next that's making me consider it anyway.
I'll be in the UK and Paris for a week each in August and in India for a wedding in December. 2025 travel may include Japan, a family trip to Disney (in-laws+nieces/nephews), and/or a family trip to Boston (my parents).
I'm in Connecticut and have a couple of cat 2s with points availability nearby (40K for 5 nights) or could drive to Mt. Laurel, NJ where there's a cat 1 (25K). I'd have to actually stay in this scenario since it's a couple hours away.
2024.05.21 16:27 blondevseveryone Belly Measuring Ahead
Hi all :)
I’m currently pregnant with my second baby, due in September. With my first, towards the end of my pregnancy I was told by the docs that my ultrasound showed my baby would be over 10lbs. With that info they wanted to induce me early but I declined. Fast forward, baby was 8lbs 2.5oz and I had a vaginal delivery.
Now with my current pregnancy - after my 20 week ultrasound I was told this baby is measuring 1 week ahead. Yesterday I had my 24 week appointment and the doctor said based on my belly measurements, the baby is measuring 27 weeks. So she scheduled in ultrasound in 4 weeks.
At first I tried to decline the ultrasound (due to insurance and cost reasons) because I was under the impression that the size of the baby in the ultrasound wouldn’t change things either way. The doc however said that we would get a more accurate size reading, rather than if I declined and waited until the end of pregnancy for my final ultrasound. I asked what would happen if the baby is larger? She said either they would schedule a c-section or induce me before 39 weeks.
Wondering if anyone has been through this and what you chose to do? I think I will do this ultrasound for the information, but I would like to go full term and naturally go into labor and try to deliver vaginal again. But I am feeling worried. I hear the estimated sizes are often wrong, just like they were for me the first time.
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I’m currently pregnant with my second baby, due in September. With my first, towards the end of my pregnancy I was told by the docs that my ultrasound showed my baby would be over 10lbs. With that info they wanted to induce me early but I declined. Fast forward, baby was 8lbs 2.5oz and I had a vaginal delivery.
Now with my current pregnancy - after my 20 week ultrasound I was told this baby is measuring 1 week ahead. Yesterday I had my 24 week appointment and the doctor said based on my belly measurements, the baby is measuring 27 weeks. So she scheduled in ultrasound in 4 weeks.
At first I tried to decline the ultrasound (due to insurance and cost reasons) because I was under the impression that the size of the baby in the ultrasound wouldn’t change things either way. The doc however said that we would get a more accurate size reading, rather than if I declined and waited until the end of pregnancy for my final ultrasound. I asked what would happen if the baby is larger? She said either they would schedule a c-section or induce me before 39 weeks.
Wondering if anyone has been through this and what you chose to do? I think I will do this ultrasound for the information, but I would like to go full term and naturally go into labor and try to deliver vaginal again. But I am feeling worried. I hear the estimated sizes are often wrong, just like they were for me the first time.
2024.05.21 16:27 Sweet-Count2557 Maldives Island Location Map
 | Maldives Island Location Map When planning a trip to the Maldives, it's natural to wonder just where this idyllic paradise is located. We might think, 'Is it too far away? Will it take forever to get there?' But let me assure you, dear reader, that the Maldives is closer than you might think.Nestled in the Indian Ocean, southwest of Sri Lanka and India, this collection of 26 atolls and 1,192 islands is a tropical haven that is just a stone's throw away from South Asia.But what makes the Maldives truly special is not just its proximity, but its unparalleled beauty and luxury. So, let's embark on a journey together as we explore the Maldives' island location map and discover what this enchanting destination has to offer.Key TakeawaysThe Maldives is located southwest of Sri Lanka and India.It consists of 1,192 islands grouped into 26 atolls.Luxury resorts on private islands offer exclusive villas and impeccable service.Staying in a local island allows visitors to experience the local way of life and interact with the Maldivian people.Maldives Location on World MapLocated in the Indian Ocean, southwest of Sri Lanka and India, the Maldives is a breathtaking archipelago consisting of 1192 islands grouped into 26 atolls. This stunning island country is a true gem in the vastness of the Indian Ocean. When you look at a map, you can easily spot the Maldives as a collection of small dots scattered like pearls across the turquoise waters. It's truly a sight to behold.The capital city of the Maldives is Male, located in the North Male Atoll. This vibrant city is the center of political, economic, and cultural activities in the country. As you explore the map, you'll notice that the Maldives is situated on the equator, making it a tropical paradise with a warm climate all year round. The islands are surrounded by coral reefs, which provide protection and create some of the most mesmerizing underwater landscapes in the world.As you zoom in on the map, you'll see that each island in the Maldives offers its own unique charm and beauty. From the popular tourist hotspots to the secluded and untouched islands, there's something for everyone. The Maldives archipelago covers an area of approximately 90,000 square kilometers, with the closest points to neighboring countries being approximately 717 kilometers to Sri Lanka and 430 kilometers to India.The Maldives is a dream destination for those seeking tranquility, natural beauty, and luxury. Whether you're looking to relax on pristine beaches, dive into the vibrant marine life, or indulge in world-class resorts, the Maldives has it all.Geography and Atolls of MaldivesAs we explore the geography and atolls of Maldives, it's fascinating to learn about the intricate island formation process and the distribution patterns of the atolls.These atolls, formed by coral reefs surrounding a central lagoon, create a unique and picturesque landscape.Additionally, the geological features of Maldives, such as the stunning white sandy beaches and crystal-clear turquoise waters, contribute to the unparalleled beauty of this island nation.Island Formation ProcessNestled in the Indian Ocean, the Maldives archipelago boasts a unique geological formation consisting of approximately 1200 islands spread across 26 atolls, each formed by vibrant coral reefs surrounding a captivating central lagoon.These atolls, located on a submarine ridge, are composed of sandbars and live coral reefs. The islands of Maldives are scattered over an area of about 820 km from North to South and between 80 km and 120 km from East to West.This island country is famous for its stunning white sandy beaches and crystal-clear turquoise waters. The Maldives islands are a natural atoll paradise, offering mesmerizing natural settings with shimmering white beaches surrounded by turquoise lagoons and coral reefs.The capital city, Malé, is located on the largest island in the Male Atoll and is home to the main international airport of the country.Atoll Distribution PatternsClustered into 26 atolls, the Maldives consists of 1192 islands, each surrounded by the sea and adorned with vibrant coral reefs and crystal-clear turquoise waters. The atolls of the Maldives exhibit interesting distribution patterns that make each one unique.Here are three key features of the atoll distribution in the Maldives:North and South: The Maldives is divided into North and South regions, with the North being closer to the capital, Male. The North boasts a higher number of atolls, including popular ones like Baa Atoll, while the South is known for its less crowded and more secluded atolls.Capital and Largest Island: Male is the capital of the Maldives and is located in the Kaafu Atoll. This atoll isn't only home to the capital but also hosts the main international airport, making it the busiest tourism hub in the country.Unique Islands: The atolls of the Maldives vary in terms of rainfall and wildlife. The northern islands receive less rainfall compared to the southern ones, creating a distinct climate. Additionally, islands like Fuvahmulah have their own unique ecosystems, offering visitors a chance to witness diverse wildlife.These distribution patterns contribute to the diverse experiences that the islands and atolls of the Maldives offer, making it a truly fascinating destination on the world map.Geological Features of MaldivesMoving from the discussion of atoll distribution patterns, we now turn our attention to the captivating geological features that define the Maldives, an archipelago of around 1200 islands nestled in the Indian Ocean. The Maldives is known for its unique geography, with each island surrounded by the sea and its own house reef. The islands are formed by coral reefs surrounding a central lagoon, boasting stunning white sandy beaches and crystal-clear turquoise waters. Stretching narrowly from north to south, the Maldives covers a superficy of 90,000 square kilometers, with around 200 islands inhabited by Maldivian people and approximately 160 islands allocated to resorts. Located southwest of Sri Lanka, the Maldives is a UNESCO Biosphere and offers a truly breathtaking experience for visitors.Key PointsGeographyArchipelago of around 1200 islandsLocated in the Indian OceanFormationCoral reefs surrounding a central lagoonUnique white sandy beaches and turquoise watersSizeCovering 90,000 square kilometersAround 200 inhabited islands and 160 resort islandsMalé: The Capital of MaldivesAmidst the crystal-clear waters of the Indian Ocean, the captivating city of Malé stands as the vibrant capital of the Maldives. Nestled on the largest island in the Male Atoll, this bustling city offers a unique blend of natural beauty and modern amenities.Here are three reasons why Malé is a must-visit destination:Location: Malé is located southwest of Sri Lanka, in the heart of the Maldives Atolls. This independent country stretches across a distance of 823 kilometers and is surrounded by the vast expanse of the Indian Ocean. With its strategic position, Malé serves as the gateway to the stunning Maldivian islands.Vibrant City Life: Despite its small size, Malé packs a punch when it comes to city living. The city covers an area of nearly 2.5 square kilometers and is a bustling hub of activity. From colorful markets and bustling streets to modern buildings and lively cafes, Malé offers a glimpse into the vibrant culture and lifestyle of the Maldives.Gateway to Paradise: Malé isn't just a city; it's the starting point for exploring the breathtaking beauty of the Maldives. Whether you're seeking pristine white sandy beaches, crystal-clear turquoise lagoons, or vibrant coral reefs teeming with marine life, Malé is the perfect base to embark on your island-hopping adventure.As you journey to your selected resort island, indulge in the captivating aerial views of the Maldivian Islands. The shimmering white beaches, surrounded by turquoise lagoons and coral reefs, will leave you mesmerized.Distance From Maldives to Other CountriesLocated in the heart of the Indian Ocean, the Maldives is positioned at varying distances from several countries, making it a unique destination for travelers seeking both seclusion and adventure. The Republic of Maldives, an independent Asian country, is located south-west of Sri Lanka. The closest countries to the Maldives are Sri Lanka and India.Situated approximately 717 kilometers away from Sri Lanka, the Maldives and its closest neighbor share a deep cultural and historical connection. Travelers can easily hop on a short flight or take a scenic boat ride from Sri Lanka's capital, Colombo, to explore the pristine beaches and turquoise waters of the Maldives.India, located approximately 430 kilometers from the Maldives, also offers convenient access to this tropical paradise. With regular flights connecting major Indian cities to the Maldives, travelers can easily immerse themselves in the beauty of the Maldivian archipelago.While the Maldives is known for its secluded islands and luxurious resorts, it's also within reach of other fascinating destinations. Seychelles, located around 1950 kilometers away, offers a different island experience with its unique flora and fauna. Malaysia, approximately 2970 kilometers away, and Thailand, around 2750 kilometers away, provide travelers with the opportunity to combine their Maldivian getaway with a vibrant Asian adventure.Whether you're seeking relaxation, diving adventures, or cultural exploration, the Maldives' strategic location and close proximity to neighboring countries make it an ideal destination for those looking for a diverse and unforgettable travel experience.Number of Islands in MaldivesAfter exploring the distances from the Maldives to other countries, let's now turn our attention to the fascinating number of islands that make up this tropical paradise.The Maldives is composed of 1192 islands, which are naturally grouped into 26 atolls. Each of these atolls has its own unique characteristics and attractions, making the Maldives a diverse and captivating destination.Here are three notable atolls that you should know about:Gaafu Dhaalu and Gaafu Alifu Atoll: Located in the southernmost part of the Maldives, Gaafu Dhaalu and Gaafu Alifu Atoll is known for its pristine beaches and crystal-clear waters. This atoll offers a secluded and tranquil environment, perfect for those seeking a peaceful getaway.South Ari Atoll: South Ari Atoll, also known as Alif Dhaal Atoll, is famous for its vibrant marine life and stunning coral reefs. It's a popular destination for diving and snorkeling enthusiasts, as it's home to an abundance of colorful fish, sea turtles, and even whale sharks.Baa Atoll: Baa Atoll is a UNESCO Biosphere Reserve and is renowned for its rich biodiversity. This atoll boasts a unique ecosystem, with numerous coral reefs, mangroves, and seagrass beds. It's a haven for nature lovers and offers opportunities for exploring the underwater world and spotting rare marine species.In addition to these atolls, the Maldives is also home to other notable ones such as Dhaalu Atoll, Noonu Atoll, North Ari Atoll, and Addu Atoll. Each of these atolls contributes to the overall beauty and charm of the Maldives, making it a paradise that should be on every traveler's bucket list.Private Islands and Villas in MaldivesAs we delve into the world of luxury and exclusivity in the Maldives, let's explore the captivating realm of private islands and villas. These private islands offer the epitome of opulence, with luxury resorts boasting exclusive villas and impeccable service. Imagine having your own piece of paradise, surrounded by crystal clear waters and pristine white sand beaches.There are curated collections of private islands in the Maldives, ranging from tiny luxury resorts to grand mansions with multiple bedrooms, catering to families and VIP guests alike. These properties are meticulously designed to offer the utmost privacy and comfort, ensuring a truly unforgettable experience.To reach these private islands, you can take a domestic flight to various locations within the Maldives. One such location is Miladhunmadulu Uthuruburi, a remote and secluded area where you can find some of the most exclusive private islands. Alternatively, some private islands are reachable by seaplane, offering a breathtaking aerial view of the stunning surroundings.One notable private island is located in the Huvadhu Atoll, known for its untouched beauty and vibrant marine life. Here, you can immerse yourself in the tranquil atmosphere and indulge in luxury amenities while enjoying the natural wonders that the Maldives has to offer.If you're interested in exploring the local culture and interacting with the Maldivian people, you can also consider staying in one of the Local Islands. These islands offer a unique blend of authenticity and luxury, allowing you to experience the local way of life while still enjoying the comforts of a private villa.Frequently Asked QuestionsWhere Are the Maldives Islands Located?We are located in the Indian Ocean, southwest of Sri Lanka and India. Our country is made up of 1192 islands divided into 26 atolls. Our main international airport is in Kaafu Atoll.We're close to neighboring countries, with the closest point to Sri Lanka being approximately 717km and approximately 430km to India.Our capital city, Male, is located on the equator, dividing the North Pole and South Pole.What Countries Is the Maldives Close To?The Maldives is geographically close to several neighboring nations. Located in the Indian Ocean, it shares a border of geographical proximity with Sri Lanka, which is approximately 717km away. Additionally, it's also nearby to India, with a distance of about 430km. These two countries are the closest countries to the Maldives in terms of geographical location.The Maldives' geographical connections with these nations have influenced its culture and lifestyle, with growing influence from India in particular.How Long Does It Take to Get to the Maldives?On average, it takes around 1-2 hours to get to the Maldives, depending on your starting point. The best time to visit is during the dry season, from November to April, when the weather is warm and sunny.There are direct flight options from Colombo, Sri Lanka, and Kochi, India, with travel times of about 1 hour and 25 minutes and 1 hour and 45 minutes, respectively.Once you arrive in Male, you can choose between speedboat or seaplane transfers to the resorts in the surrounding atolls, which usually take under 1 hour.How Do You Get to Maldives?To get to the Maldives, we've a few options. The most common way is to fly into the main international airport in Hulhule, which offers direct flights from neighboring countries like India and Sri Lanka.Once you're there, you can explore the islands by taking boats, as each island is surrounded by the sea.The Maldives is a tropical paradise with warm weather all year round, making it a perfect destination for beach lovers and water sports enthusiasts.ConclusionIn conclusion, the Maldives is a breathtaking destination located in the Indian Ocean. With its 1192 islands and 26 atolls, it offers a unique and diverse experience for travelers.One fascinating statistic is that the Maldives is home to the lowest highest point of any country in the world, with its highest natural point being only 2.4 meters above sea level.This makes the Maldives a truly one-of-a-kind destination that shouldn't be missed. submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.21 16:27 Taeya95 AITA for refusing money and risking my health
I (22f) and ex(23m) recently broke up a month ago. After that my physical and mental health both has been deteriorating. 2 weeks back I did a surgery which my ex paid for as I was short on money and he was partially reason for my condition (cannot reveal the problem). Then 4 days back we had an argument and he brought money saying he’s wasting money on me. That statement hurt me very badly. And yesterday I went to do some test and I was prescribed some medicine but I didn’t have money to buy them and don’t have any insurance which will cover them. Yesterday during the day he said he will pay for medicine but I refused saying I don’t want his money. Again today he tried to give me money and I refused it and said his words about the had hurt me and I don’t want any favors from him. I will not be able to afford the medicine for few more days but I don’t want his money. Now he’s angry at me saying I have too much ego that I’d risk my life than take his money. AITA for not taking his money?
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2024.05.21 16:26 Hello_dilly_dally Single F 31 all my friends are in relationships and I’m still single
I’ve truthfully never had a real relationship. I grew up really sheltered, and wasn’t allowed to date in highschool. I also wasn’t given a proper sex education so it’s probably for the best because if I had explored any of that I might have become pregnant.
In college I had a friend who liked me and we had this on and off thing where we would text all the time and see each other all the time, and we’d sleep in the same bed often. We kissed and were intimate once.
But we never had a label and when it came to that conversation he was really hesitant. He saw other girls and dated others girls during this time. It was truthfully so painful. And I thought in the end he’d realize I was the one. But that didn’t happen.
I was really hung up on this situation after college and didn’t date again for another 2 years. I lost my virginity at 24 from a guy from tinder. We dated 3 months.
After that I had a couple years where I was really into the one night stand shenanigans, and then plummeted into a three year dry spell.
I’ve tried dating apps but their so incredibly disappointing and awkward.
I just got out of another situationship with a man who once again wanted me around but was really hesitant to commit. He was kind of a loser, lived with his mom had a part time job, but I tried to give him grace because sometimes we all need a break. He was really condescending towards me, and really needy but when I’d have the relationship conversation he’d pull away. we were basically FWB. And that just ended two weeks ago.
I have a girls trip coming up with two of my friends who were my single friends who are both recently in committed relationships. I’m happy for them, but it hurts because I don’t understand why I can’t get someone to love me and want to stick around, and commit and build a life with me. I’m scared a conversation will happen where they will ask me why I’m some chronically single, and I don’t want to cry and ruin the trip, I genuinely just don’t even want to talk about it because I have zero answers. I’m a funny attractive girl, I’ve got some hang ups, but everyone does.
I just don’t know what to say because ultimately I know they’re going ti want to talk about their relationships, and it will pivot to me and my sad situation, and I want to avoid that.
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In college I had a friend who liked me and we had this on and off thing where we would text all the time and see each other all the time, and we’d sleep in the same bed often. We kissed and were intimate once.
But we never had a label and when it came to that conversation he was really hesitant. He saw other girls and dated others girls during this time. It was truthfully so painful. And I thought in the end he’d realize I was the one. But that didn’t happen.
I was really hung up on this situation after college and didn’t date again for another 2 years. I lost my virginity at 24 from a guy from tinder. We dated 3 months.
After that I had a couple years where I was really into the one night stand shenanigans, and then plummeted into a three year dry spell.
I’ve tried dating apps but their so incredibly disappointing and awkward.
I just got out of another situationship with a man who once again wanted me around but was really hesitant to commit. He was kind of a loser, lived with his mom had a part time job, but I tried to give him grace because sometimes we all need a break. He was really condescending towards me, and really needy but when I’d have the relationship conversation he’d pull away. we were basically FWB. And that just ended two weeks ago.
I have a girls trip coming up with two of my friends who were my single friends who are both recently in committed relationships. I’m happy for them, but it hurts because I don’t understand why I can’t get someone to love me and want to stick around, and commit and build a life with me. I’m scared a conversation will happen where they will ask me why I’m some chronically single, and I don’t want to cry and ruin the trip, I genuinely just don’t even want to talk about it because I have zero answers. I’m a funny attractive girl, I’ve got some hang ups, but everyone does.
I just don’t know what to say because ultimately I know they’re going ti want to talk about their relationships, and it will pivot to me and my sad situation, and I want to avoid that.
2024.05.21 16:25 coyoteproshop The symptoms of viral individualism
If the death of community can be conclusively ascribed to a single initial wound, I would say that that wound was inflicted by the automobile lobby when they siezed control of public property and enforced private vehicle ownership through propaganda campaigns coining and deriding "jay walking" and the dismantling of local tram systems.
This forced us into more direct competition with each other, spurred the destruction and splitting of neighborhoods during interstate construction, initiated our addiction to cheap oil and allowed for the development of commuter suburbs where we could happily cultivate our picket fenced lawns in between sitting in traffic jams.
This hyper-individualism may not be unique to the United States, but we have perfected it. We compete with each other for everything, space on the roads, houses in good school districts (good because more affluent people congregate there and viciously oppose their tax dollars being used in other districts), parking spaces, leisure space in dwindling public outdoor areas, spots in competitive colleges, jobs that pay more than a poverty wage, etc.
Somehow, we've lost our communities. We've been reduced to cloistered cells composed of ourselves and our family unit. We resent other people for interfering with OUR activities even as they resent us. We are increasingly afraid of our neighbors (https://www.npr.org/2022/09/08/1120099696/americans-fear-attacked-neighborhood-poll, https://www.press.jhu.edu/newsroom/neighborhood-fear-suburban-crisis-american-culture, https://www.thecut.com/2015/08/third-of-americans-dont-know-their-neighbors.html).
To what end?
To reduce us to predictable commodities. Consumers that (I won't use "who" here, because they don't see us as people) will purchase goods and services and allow their personal information to be sold to whoever wants it (corporations, law enforcement, hostile foreign governments) in exchange for some shiny baubles.
The effects of this individualization / commodification are most readily apparent in our reactions to the homelessness epidemic. We have been raised to believe (and indoctrinated by media, the education system and even our own coopted parents) that personal achievement is the ultimate end. That we should be self-made and self-sufficient. That if we work hard we will be rewarded. The converse is seldom explicitly mentioned, that if we fail, there is no one to blame but ourselves.
But we know full well that sometimes people fail becuase of bad luck and instead of reconizing this (and recognizing people's right to lead a decent life) we gleefully kick them off the ladder (after all this is one less person to directly compete with us). Even though we see bad luck in our own lives, we don't appreciate that although it is statistically unlikely, some people are bound to encounter biblically bad luck. If we flip a coin 10 times, the odds of it landing heads up every time is about 1/1000, and most of us have never seen this happen, but if we apply 1/1000 odds to a population of 400,000,000 that's 400,000 people who could expect to see 10 50:50 scenarios go bad all at the same time.
Consider the homeless, some of them are mentally ill and so unable to function in a consumerist, work driven and honestly heartless society. Formerly we had state asylums which, although often terrible places, at least put a roof over people's heads. Some homeless people are addicted to drugs of various kinds and this makes our overlords especially happy, because although drug addiction typically stems from lack of strong social bonds, community and self-worth (all things caused by our enforced individualism), drugs are a very convenient scape goat (owing to decades of government propaganda decrying addicts as subhuman). Increasingly though, the homeless are regular people who ran into a snag of bad luck (bankrupted by medical bills for instance, don't even get me started) and entered a feedback loop of decreasing employability, decreasing opportunities and decreasing societal visibility; a greased pole that gets wider as it goes down.
We are meant to be disdainful of these people, this is what our society demands. Thay are failures and they deserve what they get. And because they are no longer consumers, our leaders no longer care about them and frankly hope that they die quietly someplace out of the public eye.
I spent a lot of time talking with homeless people in the hospital and it took maybe three encounters before I was disgusted with myself for my prior conceptions, before I realized how thoroughly I had bought into the state propaganda. Any of us could become homeless through bad luck.
And once you are no longer working to boost stock prices for elites and consuming at a profit friendly clip, you are invisible, less than a person.
You become an inconvenience that the state would like nothing more than to hide someplace out of sight, lest we recognize the humanity of these people and start to question how the richest society in the history of the world can tolerate subjecting our fellows to unceasing and punitive misery.
So, consider volunteering in homeless aid groups, you'll be surprised and I wager, enlightened by the conversations you have.
https://www.propublica.org/article/albuquerque-homeless-encampments?src=longreads
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This forced us into more direct competition with each other, spurred the destruction and splitting of neighborhoods during interstate construction, initiated our addiction to cheap oil and allowed for the development of commuter suburbs where we could happily cultivate our picket fenced lawns in between sitting in traffic jams.
This hyper-individualism may not be unique to the United States, but we have perfected it. We compete with each other for everything, space on the roads, houses in good school districts (good because more affluent people congregate there and viciously oppose their tax dollars being used in other districts), parking spaces, leisure space in dwindling public outdoor areas, spots in competitive colleges, jobs that pay more than a poverty wage, etc.
Somehow, we've lost our communities. We've been reduced to cloistered cells composed of ourselves and our family unit. We resent other people for interfering with OUR activities even as they resent us. We are increasingly afraid of our neighbors (https://www.npr.org/2022/09/08/1120099696/americans-fear-attacked-neighborhood-poll, https://www.press.jhu.edu/newsroom/neighborhood-fear-suburban-crisis-american-culture, https://www.thecut.com/2015/08/third-of-americans-dont-know-their-neighbors.html).
To what end?
To reduce us to predictable commodities. Consumers that (I won't use "who" here, because they don't see us as people) will purchase goods and services and allow their personal information to be sold to whoever wants it (corporations, law enforcement, hostile foreign governments) in exchange for some shiny baubles.
The effects of this individualization / commodification are most readily apparent in our reactions to the homelessness epidemic. We have been raised to believe (and indoctrinated by media, the education system and even our own coopted parents) that personal achievement is the ultimate end. That we should be self-made and self-sufficient. That if we work hard we will be rewarded. The converse is seldom explicitly mentioned, that if we fail, there is no one to blame but ourselves.
But we know full well that sometimes people fail becuase of bad luck and instead of reconizing this (and recognizing people's right to lead a decent life) we gleefully kick them off the ladder (after all this is one less person to directly compete with us). Even though we see bad luck in our own lives, we don't appreciate that although it is statistically unlikely, some people are bound to encounter biblically bad luck. If we flip a coin 10 times, the odds of it landing heads up every time is about 1/1000, and most of us have never seen this happen, but if we apply 1/1000 odds to a population of 400,000,000 that's 400,000 people who could expect to see 10 50:50 scenarios go bad all at the same time.
Consider the homeless, some of them are mentally ill and so unable to function in a consumerist, work driven and honestly heartless society. Formerly we had state asylums which, although often terrible places, at least put a roof over people's heads. Some homeless people are addicted to drugs of various kinds and this makes our overlords especially happy, because although drug addiction typically stems from lack of strong social bonds, community and self-worth (all things caused by our enforced individualism), drugs are a very convenient scape goat (owing to decades of government propaganda decrying addicts as subhuman). Increasingly though, the homeless are regular people who ran into a snag of bad luck (bankrupted by medical bills for instance, don't even get me started) and entered a feedback loop of decreasing employability, decreasing opportunities and decreasing societal visibility; a greased pole that gets wider as it goes down.
We are meant to be disdainful of these people, this is what our society demands. Thay are failures and they deserve what they get. And because they are no longer consumers, our leaders no longer care about them and frankly hope that they die quietly someplace out of the public eye.
I spent a lot of time talking with homeless people in the hospital and it took maybe three encounters before I was disgusted with myself for my prior conceptions, before I realized how thoroughly I had bought into the state propaganda. Any of us could become homeless through bad luck.
And once you are no longer working to boost stock prices for elites and consuming at a profit friendly clip, you are invisible, less than a person.
You become an inconvenience that the state would like nothing more than to hide someplace out of sight, lest we recognize the humanity of these people and start to question how the richest society in the history of the world can tolerate subjecting our fellows to unceasing and punitive misery.
So, consider volunteering in homeless aid groups, you'll be surprised and I wager, enlightened by the conversations you have.
https://www.propublica.org/article/albuquerque-homeless-encampments?src=longreads
2024.05.21 16:22 redwineforbreakfast Middle-distance relationship moving situation
Hi All, I really need some help and perspective.
I met my partner around 2 years ago and we are great together. He is caring, loving, a great cat-dad, my parents love him to bits too.
At the moment we live in a mid-distance relationship. Around 1 hour drive form each other. I bought my own place around the time I met him and a few months later he bought his flat too. At the moment we are both locked in our mortgages. He has 1 more year on his fixed term and I have 4.
We are trying to figure out where to move together or what to do and we really can not seem to agree.
Thanks.
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I met my partner around 2 years ago and we are great together. He is caring, loving, a great cat-dad, my parents love him to bits too.
At the moment we live in a mid-distance relationship. Around 1 hour drive form each other. I bought my own place around the time I met him and a few months later he bought his flat too. At the moment we are both locked in our mortgages. He has 1 more year on his fixed term and I have 4.
We are trying to figure out where to move together or what to do and we really can not seem to agree.
- He lives in a nicer city and in a better neighbourhood. Gym, groceries, bus stop less than 5 minutes away. His flat is in quite a lot better condition than mine. My flat is in a residential area, and people around are lower income with a few people on benefits / council housing.
- I do not want to give up my job. It does not pay that that great, but I love it. I like coming to work. I like my colleagues and my bosses. I can not work from home. Moving to his place would mean minimum 2 hours commute and around a 100 miles each day for me. He works from home, and he makes significantly more money than I do.
- He has lots of friends living close to him at the moment and moving to mine would mean he can meet them less. He also does not drive at the moment therefore he does not feel the freedom to just come and go. Going from my place to his current one would be minimum 2.5 hours on public transport. Due to where he lives at the moment he never had to have a car.
- Edit: he offered to me that I can do back to study to get a better job. He would not mind me relying on him and he would support me. I do not want to do that. During the pandemic I was made redundant from my job and I relied on my Ex and his goodwill. It made me miserable. So I really do not want to give up on my own income.
Thanks.
2024.05.21 16:22 Kitchen-Block7848 My opinion on the transgender versus femboy issue as a transgender person
 | Hi! I am Aidan, a transgender man who is also a femboy. It’s been a while since I browsed Reddit, and when I got into my favorite communities again to get to know what’s going on… Kaboom! A big amount of Femboy subreddits are annoyed, pissed and tired of something: seeing breasts and female genitals in subreddits that are supposed to let only feminine men post pictures. I thought it was only occurring in this subreddit, but discussions are occurring in other subreddits too. The FemBoys subreddit seems to be the main topic of these discussions. This subreddit is a +18 place where you can find pornography of feminine men. If you know, you know. However, you can find explicit content of transexual women too. The femboy subreddit, a family friendly community where you can find pictures of feminine guys, and where +18 posts are strictly banned, you can find pictures and stories about transexual women too. Entire communities of femboys are standing up against these situations, and since I’ve seen people who are not transgender saying what is transphobic, and what should be transphobic, I decided to post my opinion in these controversies as a transgender man who likes being feminine sometimes. With that being said, let’s get into this post. submitted by Kitchen-Block7848 to femboymemes [link] [comments]
Transgender men can be feminine too, but maybe not in the same way a common male is, because the vast majority of our clothing choices are driven by gender dysphoria. I’ve always liked mini skirts, but my gender dysphoria didn’t let me use them, due to mini skirts highlighting the female characteristics I was born with. Let’s be real: skirts are designed to fit and highlight women’s bodies, but that doesn’t mean men and transgender men can’t use them too, of course. After four years of physically modifying my body to obtain a masculine shape, my gender dysphoria reduced to the point I can wear mini skirts without wanting to squeeze my hips to make them less noticeable, lol. I forgot to say gender dysphoria is the distress we, transgender people, feel due to the incongruence of our biological sex and the sex we self-identify with. It goes beyond not liking our sexual characteristics, and it can manifest through wanting to change our IDs as soon as possible, wanting to be treated and recognized as the sex we self-identify with, and a strong conviction that we think and act the same as a person of our self-identified sex. Being masculine, as a female, doesn’t mean you must be a transgender man; and being feminine, as a male, doesn’t mean you must be a transgender woman, because clothing comes and goes, but our gender identity remains the same throughout our lives. Gender and gender identity are biological, because it is in the brain. Female brains and masculine brains aren’t the same. The principal hypothesis to the reason behind transexuality is that we, transgender people, are the result of an anomaly during gestation. Transgender women have female brains and male bodies, while transgender men have male brains and female bodies. This incongruence makes us transition in the first place, due to, in my case, my brain knows it’s male, and can’t comprehend why my body is female. So, my brain craves certain physical and medical changes to adjust my body to a male sex. Transgender people probably are the product of an anomaly during sexual development during gestation, but it is what it is. We are born this way and we will die this way. However, it is important to clarify transexuality isn’t a mental disorder, in fact, it can be considered a medical condition due to its biological origin, and we need social and medical support to cope with the difficulties of our transition. Once I explained how gender can’t be changed and how clothing can’t determine gender identity, I can clarify the difference between a femboy and a transgender woman. A femboy can be as feminine as a transgender woman, but he doesn’t change his ID, doesn’t modify his body to obtain sexually female features, and he always sees himself as a man in the mirror, even when he is dressing up all feminine. Femboys are men, and transgender women are not men. Yes, transgender women have a sexually male body, but they transition in order to make their male characteristics less noticeable and to obtain female features. Transgender women are not Cross-dressers, because crossdressers don’t medically change their whole body to appear feminine, and don’t want to do so. Genuinely, I don’t understand why transexual women post in femboy subreddits. I hope they know being transexual and being a cross-dresser are two different things, otherwise, they may regret the medical changes they did to their bodies. Transgender women decide voluntarily to post these images in femboy subreddits, so it isn’t like someone is calling them boys or men. As a transgender man, I am not the same as a tomboy (masculine girl/woman), and I would never post any picture in a subreddit dedicated to tomboys, because that isn’t my place. These are the situations in SFW subreddits. In NSFW subreddits the things are more controversial. There are a lot of transexual women publishing their content while the subreddit is literally called “FemBoys”. To be honest, I feel I can't judge them, at least not completely. “Transexual” is one of the most viewed porn categories worldwide (people like seeing breasts and a penis in the same person) and transexual women usually, for lack of better job opportunities, recur to sexual work. Because that’s how it is called. Selling explicit images on the internet is sexual work. They usually have to deal with misgendering (not referring to someone as the real gender he/she is) to gain money, or to refer to themselves as a lot of slurs to catch the attention of a potential client. I think transexual women publishing their content in femboy subreddits is another strategy to sell their images and videos. However, I don’t think that’s okay, because there are plenty of NSFW subreddits dedicated to transexual women. So, that’s all for today, fellas. I hope this little post gave you a better understanding of this situation from a feminine transgender man’s perspective. Despite this community’s focus isn’t transexuality, I really appreciate the effort from moderators to make this place free of any type of discrimination. I thought of adding more points to this post, but that would make it incredibly wrong. Let me know in the comments if you want me to speak about another points. With that being said, bye bye <3 Random Hideri Kanzaki image because this guy is genuinely one of my comfort characters. Artwork by Nakayama Miyuki |
2024.05.21 16:21 dontknowwhysusp Small update: thanks for the help! Now the "boring" middle
Hey everyone! I'm now over 400k NW and I just turned 30.
Last time I posted 8 months ago, I was asking to make sure my decision to all-in on my MBD401k was a good idea and that my head was on straight. Consensus was yes.
No question this time, just an update (for myself?). No getting lucky with NVDIA or GME or crypto. I stuck to the plan: Since then, I have held 100% of my paychecks since then to catch up 401k contributions for 2023 (Ended up saving 62k total with majority coming at the EOY) and am about to max out my 401k contributions for this year up to 69k (limit). I also switched to a HDHP to quality for a HSA! These contributions were fueled by a promotion during the stretch. I have been living off of my savings.
Additionally, last time, I did not include my equity last time which further “accelerated” my journey to 400k nor did I include my car in my net worth. Which brings me nicely into my other update during this time: My splurge was upgrading to a new car (the biggest sin, I know) but at least I paid it off in full and I get free charging at work. It's a new EV (2024 Tesla Model Y LR) where I was able to take advantage of the tax incentive (7.5k), traded in an old ICE (for 9.5k credit), and sold my 07 Civic (6k). In one move, I was able to down-size, stopped a line of insurance, and future proof myself for a couple years (which is negated by the higher insurance cost and registration fees lol, hopefully the gas savings really make a difference)
Income incl bonus:
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Last time I posted 8 months ago, I was asking to make sure my decision to all-in on my MBD401k was a good idea and that my head was on straight. Consensus was yes.
No question this time, just an update (for myself?). No getting lucky with NVDIA or GME or crypto. I stuck to the plan: Since then, I have held 100% of my paychecks since then to catch up 401k contributions for 2023 (Ended up saving 62k total with majority coming at the EOY) and am about to max out my 401k contributions for this year up to 69k (limit). I also switched to a HDHP to quality for a HSA! These contributions were fueled by a promotion during the stretch. I have been living off of my savings.
Additionally, last time, I did not include my equity last time which further “accelerated” my journey to 400k nor did I include my car in my net worth. Which brings me nicely into my other update during this time: My splurge was upgrading to a new car (the biggest sin, I know) but at least I paid it off in full and I get free charging at work. It's a new EV (2024 Tesla Model Y LR) where I was able to take advantage of the tax incentive (7.5k), traded in an old ICE (for 9.5k credit), and sold my 07 Civic (6k). In one move, I was able to down-size, stopped a line of insurance, and future proof myself for a couple years (which is negated by the higher insurance cost and registration fees lol, hopefully the gas savings really make a difference)
Income incl bonus:
- 115k/yr -> 150k/yr
- 401k: 70k —> 184k (2060 target date fund)
- Equity: 20k —> 47k (95k EOY)
- tIRA: 25k -> 29k (QQQM)
- Brokerage: 50k -> 70k (VOO/VTI/QQQ)
- Savings: 80k -> 26k (5%)
- HSA: 0 -> 1.6k (4.1k EOY)
- iBond: 11k -> 11k
- Vehicle: 6k -> 45k?
2024.05.21 16:21 ParticularRich1042 Embryo transfer failed , next steps?
I had a fresh embryo transferred in May 11. So far all the at home pregnancy tests are negative and I also have started my period today from the looks of things. My clinic still wants me to continue progesterone and do the beta blood draw tomorrow (even though we know it will be negative)
Does anyone know how long until I can attempt another embryo transfer? Should I skip a cycle ? Should I get more testing done?
My history: - No issues on my partner's side - I have low ovarian reserve amh is 1.13, and possible issues with egg quality based on the last 2 IVF cycles - I'm slightly overweight BMI 28.7 - we have 4 more frozen embryos , none of which are PGTA tested.
Not sure what is the best call her, I don't want to burn through the remaining embryos if there is something I could do to improve my chances
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Does anyone know how long until I can attempt another embryo transfer? Should I skip a cycle ? Should I get more testing done?
My history: - No issues on my partner's side - I have low ovarian reserve amh is 1.13, and possible issues with egg quality based on the last 2 IVF cycles - I'm slightly overweight BMI 28.7 - we have 4 more frozen embryos , none of which are PGTA tested.
Not sure what is the best call her, I don't want to burn through the remaining embryos if there is something I could do to improve my chances
2024.05.21 16:20 Fluffy-Ad-7487 International frustrated despite getting into a couple borderline T20s
The title was abit of a clickbait but I am still very disappointed with my results. However, I know that I’m not entitled to anything and I am still grateful for the offers I have received. Nevertheless, I wanna share my thoughts on this entire college application process. Anyway congrats to all of y’all for ur acceptances.
Background: I am from the top high school in my country (Singapore). We must take national exams to enter middle school and another exam to enter high school equivalent. I have done well for both exams and have entered the arguably best high school in the nation. For context, my school send over 70 students most out of any high school in the world btw (out of 200 that applied) to Oxbridge every year. This just shows the academic ability of my school since UK schools only look at test scores. My school has an average SAT of 1530 and I’m only slightly above average (I guess that hurt my application). I have the US green card so I’m considered a domestic applicant. The curriculum in Singapore is in my opinion the toughest in the entire world. Think about IB curriculum or uk a levels but twice as hard. We learnt linear algebra, calculus, differential equations, complex numbers (in year 10/11) and linear regression, permutations and combinations, and other statistics (in year 12) as part of our normal curriculum. We learnt organic chem as early as year 10 and we learnt quantum / nuclear physics and other advanced concepts. Just some notable contents we learnt as part of our normal curriculum. Ohh yea and I have attended two summer schools at HYPSM and i knew friends who did too. We were getting top in class (with relative ease ngl) among college students (from HYPSM) even though we were high school students. The exams we had there were just way easier… I’m pretty sure we covered most of the freshman/sophomore content in high school already but just our internal high school exams were harder. I was on one of the sports team in my school (we were the champions of the entire nation almost every year). We had national players on the team so we all trained super hard. Most of the time, our trainings end at 9pm and I would go home to study until 2am. Basically we must study for 6-8 hours every day outside of school and even more during the weekend/holidays.
It was my dream to enter a top school in the US. That’s why I did everything I could to build my portfolio, maintain a decent result (definitely not the best since my school is a top school). I would say my portfolio is definitely better than 90% of the students in my school since I know I wanted to apply to US colleges. I loved my essays and interviews. I think my letters of recommendations are decent.
My heart absolutely sank as I opened my decisions. I got rejected by every Ivy League and + school. I know it was going to be hard but not a single one?? I did everything I could and I still couldn’t get in one? I have neglected my personal well-being as well as human connections and still, I felt dejected, I felt lost…
I would be honest, I expected I wasn’t good enough for HYPSM but I thought that I could get into one lower tier ivies or other top school.
It might sound like I’m complaining but I do think the college application process is not entirely fair (I’m not diminishing any of yall acceptances y’all definitely deserve them) especially for students studying overseas. First of all, GPA/class rank. This isn’t exactly fair for schools that operate outside of the US. I am pretty sure the top 50% of the students in my school could go to another average high school and be valedictorian easily in Singapore. To put this into more context, if we were to convert our curriculum to IB, we would easily be the best IB school worldwide. ACSI is another top sch in Singapore has the highest average IB score worldwide with over 50% getting 42. My high school is better than ACSI so I’d assume at least half the students will get 43 and above and over 30% will get 45.
I know AO looks at school context but I think they’re saying that as in they look more at the resources given to schools rather than the prestige or quality of students in the school. Which brings me to the next point. Standardised testing. Most schools made this optional and UC even made it test blind. How are schools supposed to judge the quality of candidates if they don’t sit for the same exam. (Btw I heard ppl saying how easy it is to cheat during SAT, the teachers don’t even care if the students were checking answers or talking to each other). I got a 1550 for my SAT but once again me being in a top high sch has disadvantaged me since my school has an average of 1530… lastly, essays. I am a good writer but my life just isn’t as interesting… therefore my essays definitely isn’t that unique (like surviving a war, meeting the president etc) I guess. Why can’t US schools focus more on academics just like the uk schools??
I know I sound like I’m complaining a lot and I know there are other students out there more qualified than me that did not get into a top school too. I just needed a place to voice out my opinion/frustration. I have been feeling crushed and devastated so I hope y’all can understand. I will be heading to the UK for undergrad this year and I hope I can get into a top US school for PhD. Perhaps UK was a better fit for me……
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Background: I am from the top high school in my country (Singapore). We must take national exams to enter middle school and another exam to enter high school equivalent. I have done well for both exams and have entered the arguably best high school in the nation. For context, my school send over 70 students most out of any high school in the world btw (out of 200 that applied) to Oxbridge every year. This just shows the academic ability of my school since UK schools only look at test scores. My school has an average SAT of 1530 and I’m only slightly above average (I guess that hurt my application). I have the US green card so I’m considered a domestic applicant. The curriculum in Singapore is in my opinion the toughest in the entire world. Think about IB curriculum or uk a levels but twice as hard. We learnt linear algebra, calculus, differential equations, complex numbers (in year 10/11) and linear regression, permutations and combinations, and other statistics (in year 12) as part of our normal curriculum. We learnt organic chem as early as year 10 and we learnt quantum / nuclear physics and other advanced concepts. Just some notable contents we learnt as part of our normal curriculum. Ohh yea and I have attended two summer schools at HYPSM and i knew friends who did too. We were getting top in class (with relative ease ngl) among college students (from HYPSM) even though we were high school students. The exams we had there were just way easier… I’m pretty sure we covered most of the freshman/sophomore content in high school already but just our internal high school exams were harder. I was on one of the sports team in my school (we were the champions of the entire nation almost every year). We had national players on the team so we all trained super hard. Most of the time, our trainings end at 9pm and I would go home to study until 2am. Basically we must study for 6-8 hours every day outside of school and even more during the weekend/holidays.
It was my dream to enter a top school in the US. That’s why I did everything I could to build my portfolio, maintain a decent result (definitely not the best since my school is a top school). I would say my portfolio is definitely better than 90% of the students in my school since I know I wanted to apply to US colleges. I loved my essays and interviews. I think my letters of recommendations are decent.
My heart absolutely sank as I opened my decisions. I got rejected by every Ivy League and + school. I know it was going to be hard but not a single one?? I did everything I could and I still couldn’t get in one? I have neglected my personal well-being as well as human connections and still, I felt dejected, I felt lost…
I would be honest, I expected I wasn’t good enough for HYPSM but I thought that I could get into one lower tier ivies or other top school.
It might sound like I’m complaining but I do think the college application process is not entirely fair (I’m not diminishing any of yall acceptances y’all definitely deserve them) especially for students studying overseas. First of all, GPA/class rank. This isn’t exactly fair for schools that operate outside of the US. I am pretty sure the top 50% of the students in my school could go to another average high school and be valedictorian easily in Singapore. To put this into more context, if we were to convert our curriculum to IB, we would easily be the best IB school worldwide. ACSI is another top sch in Singapore has the highest average IB score worldwide with over 50% getting 42. My high school is better than ACSI so I’d assume at least half the students will get 43 and above and over 30% will get 45.
I know AO looks at school context but I think they’re saying that as in they look more at the resources given to schools rather than the prestige or quality of students in the school. Which brings me to the next point. Standardised testing. Most schools made this optional and UC even made it test blind. How are schools supposed to judge the quality of candidates if they don’t sit for the same exam. (Btw I heard ppl saying how easy it is to cheat during SAT, the teachers don’t even care if the students were checking answers or talking to each other). I got a 1550 for my SAT but once again me being in a top high sch has disadvantaged me since my school has an average of 1530… lastly, essays. I am a good writer but my life just isn’t as interesting… therefore my essays definitely isn’t that unique (like surviving a war, meeting the president etc) I guess. Why can’t US schools focus more on academics just like the uk schools??
I know I sound like I’m complaining a lot and I know there are other students out there more qualified than me that did not get into a top school too. I just needed a place to voice out my opinion/frustration. I have been feeling crushed and devastated so I hope y’all can understand. I will be heading to the UK for undergrad this year and I hope I can get into a top US school for PhD. Perhaps UK was a better fit for me……
2024.05.21 16:19 Filmyboy7 A detailed review of the VARC1000 course by Gejo Sir! Do go through this! :')
So, as the title says this is a post on the review and guide to VARC1000 course by Gejo Sir (the VARC God for me I'll say) 🤌🏻 First, I would like to add 2 important notes :)
Note 1 : I went through this year's VARC1000 course and it's very different from last year's course but I'll try to give you a review of it 🫠
Note 2 : You'll find many people suggesting and saying that "pirated content le le" and stuff. But I won't really suggest that. VARC1000 course is more than what the pirated content will offer. It's not just about VARC okay? It will help you with DILR and QA too (Last year Gejo sir had made videos on how he himself solved DILR and gives really amazing tips and tricks). There will be content/materials for GDPI prepration, profile analyser (which I didn't really find helpful tbh), calls predictor (which again turned out to be not so true in my case but for others it was helpful), daily vocab, GK section, WAT topics, your acads specific questions generally asked during PIs etc etc. All this you won't get in the pirated stuff. You'll just get the videos of his lecs that's it. Course hi lena bhai if possible 🙂
👉🏻 Coming to the course's details : This time they have divided the course into 4 sections Launch Phase, Enhance Phase, Advanced Phase and Peak Phase. And each phase (from Enhance Phase) will be launched in specific months from June onwards. As of now the Launch Phase is active 👀
Coming to the description of the phases : As per my understanding it's perfectly summed up to take you from the very basic (launch phase) to the advanced level (peak phase) 🔥
Focus more on the Core Lessons which Gejo Sir will teach you. He'll just tell you the methods and tricks in these videos ig (that's what happened in the last course) and then maybe he'll teach you to apply them. He'll take a particular RC and solve it. Focus on how he deals with all this okay? Obv take the learnings and develop your own strategy/method (you can copy him but we all can't be like him) 😂
He'll throw some tests before the start of the video.. apply your brains there and see how you do. Then he'll also come up with the strategy lessons (very important) wherein he'll tell you about how to approach the VARC section in those 40 mins and what approach you should have. The core lessons, application lessons and strategy lessons were launched together last year in the course and were really helpful! Till now all the is for RC btw. For VA the material won't be much different but he'll teach you specially about how to deal with the VA too!
Then comes the Daily Article Dose! Do it! Roz karo! It's really good. He'll upload the solutions for it. For every article dose he'll do that and solve it for you. Also, throughout this course you'll find a diverse range of RCs! Humanities, Philosophy, Natural Sciences, Arts etc etc. Everything. And I hope that like last year, this year also he'll make seperate videos for every genre! It's really helpful in that sense! 🍻😌
Coming to the tests! He'll give you a lot of sectional tests (minimum 10 sectional tests) and previous year ke course ke bhi kuch tests alagse (this happened in the last year's course). So you need not worry about the sectionals. You'll get a satisfactory number of those. He'll also solve some sectionals for you. You'll be able to see how he solves the VARC section (trust me you'll be amazed seeing his way of solving). You'll also get Daily Drills where you'll have small tests or say 1-2 RCs and a few VA questions etc. this will also be there. Also, you'll get PY CAT papers as mocks and also as sectional tests separately! So that's also a done deal!! 🍻✨
Don't miss Gejo sir's live sessions! He'll have 1-2 every month ig. And those will be really helpful. It's an interactive session so you can ask your doubts there. He's a very funny guy so you won't be bored. He'll also give you some videos (hopefully) on how to approach DILR! He's a genius in DILR also (atleast for me) 💥
Then comes the Telegram Group of VARC1000 where Gejo sir will also be there! It's a very interactive group and very much helpful. A really nice place to be in I'll say as you'll find serious aspirants mostly.
I hope that I was able to include most of the important things of this course and if needed I'll update this post in the future! :')
Overall I'll say that this course is worth it? It'll definitely improve your VARC skills and understanding if you follow it religiously. As I have said... This course is not just about VARC but there are many many things in it and it'll turn out to be helpful overall! 🩵 Do share this review with your friends and other aspirants! 😼
All the best with your prep! If you have anything to add about the course or your opinions then feel free to drop it in the comments! ;')
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Note 1 : I went through this year's VARC1000 course and it's very different from last year's course but I'll try to give you a review of it 🫠
Note 2 : You'll find many people suggesting and saying that "pirated content le le" and stuff. But I won't really suggest that. VARC1000 course is more than what the pirated content will offer. It's not just about VARC okay? It will help you with DILR and QA too (Last year Gejo sir had made videos on how he himself solved DILR and gives really amazing tips and tricks). There will be content/materials for GDPI prepration, profile analyser (which I didn't really find helpful tbh), calls predictor (which again turned out to be not so true in my case but for others it was helpful), daily vocab, GK section, WAT topics, your acads specific questions generally asked during PIs etc etc. All this you won't get in the pirated stuff. You'll just get the videos of his lecs that's it. Course hi lena bhai if possible 🙂
👉🏻 Coming to the course's details : This time they have divided the course into 4 sections Launch Phase, Enhance Phase, Advanced Phase and Peak Phase. And each phase (from Enhance Phase) will be launched in specific months from June onwards. As of now the Launch Phase is active 👀
Coming to the description of the phases : As per my understanding it's perfectly summed up to take you from the very basic (launch phase) to the advanced level (peak phase) 🔥
Focus more on the Core Lessons which Gejo Sir will teach you. He'll just tell you the methods and tricks in these videos ig (that's what happened in the last course) and then maybe he'll teach you to apply them. He'll take a particular RC and solve it. Focus on how he deals with all this okay? Obv take the learnings and develop your own strategy/method (you can copy him but we all can't be like him) 😂
He'll throw some tests before the start of the video.. apply your brains there and see how you do. Then he'll also come up with the strategy lessons (very important) wherein he'll tell you about how to approach the VARC section in those 40 mins and what approach you should have. The core lessons, application lessons and strategy lessons were launched together last year in the course and were really helpful! Till now all the is for RC btw. For VA the material won't be much different but he'll teach you specially about how to deal with the VA too!
Then comes the Daily Article Dose! Do it! Roz karo! It's really good. He'll upload the solutions for it. For every article dose he'll do that and solve it for you. Also, throughout this course you'll find a diverse range of RCs! Humanities, Philosophy, Natural Sciences, Arts etc etc. Everything. And I hope that like last year, this year also he'll make seperate videos for every genre! It's really helpful in that sense! 🍻😌
Coming to the tests! He'll give you a lot of sectional tests (minimum 10 sectional tests) and previous year ke course ke bhi kuch tests alagse (this happened in the last year's course). So you need not worry about the sectionals. You'll get a satisfactory number of those. He'll also solve some sectionals for you. You'll be able to see how he solves the VARC section (trust me you'll be amazed seeing his way of solving). You'll also get Daily Drills where you'll have small tests or say 1-2 RCs and a few VA questions etc. this will also be there. Also, you'll get PY CAT papers as mocks and also as sectional tests separately! So that's also a done deal!! 🍻✨
Don't miss Gejo sir's live sessions! He'll have 1-2 every month ig. And those will be really helpful. It's an interactive session so you can ask your doubts there. He's a very funny guy so you won't be bored. He'll also give you some videos (hopefully) on how to approach DILR! He's a genius in DILR also (atleast for me) 💥
Then comes the Telegram Group of VARC1000 where Gejo sir will also be there! It's a very interactive group and very much helpful. A really nice place to be in I'll say as you'll find serious aspirants mostly.
I hope that I was able to include most of the important things of this course and if needed I'll update this post in the future! :')
Overall I'll say that this course is worth it? It'll definitely improve your VARC skills and understanding if you follow it religiously. As I have said... This course is not just about VARC but there are many many things in it and it'll turn out to be helpful overall! 🩵 Do share this review with your friends and other aspirants! 😼
All the best with your prep! If you have anything to add about the course or your opinions then feel free to drop it in the comments! ;')
2024.05.21 16:18 Brief-Art-2991 Friend Roast
Me (22M) and my friends have decided to host a roast. I have had friends in this group since i was 6, and have known pretty much every other person in the friend group for a MINIMUM 8 years. We have had ups and downs, but have been really close for a super long time. We all make fun of eachother, and in some peoples eyes we probably cross the line but we are all used to it by now.
This roast is going to be pretty intense. It will be on par with the Brady roast, and things will be said that could potentially get you canceled in the public eye. Everything is on the table, it is going to be awesome.
However, my friends INSIST on bringing their girlfriends. They have all been with their girlfriends for a year or less, and the gfs have seemingly found a way to show up to everything. It kinda bothers me and some of my other single friends, but we normally let it slide because its what our friends want.
I feel like this is the time to draw the line though. Like I said, everything is on the table, and I fully intend to make fun of their girlfriends, just like I anticipate them to make fun of my ex/family members. I think having the girls there can make them uncomfortable or mad, since I haven’t known them as long and built up the relationship to friendly bully them. That being said, I don’t think I should have to pull punches just to make the girls not hate me. Even without a roast I think my friends should leave them out of our hangouts more often anyway, so this seems like killing 2 birds with 1 stone. However, my friends are saying they “hyped this event up” to their girlfriends and they don’t want to miss it. What should I do here?
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This roast is going to be pretty intense. It will be on par with the Brady roast, and things will be said that could potentially get you canceled in the public eye. Everything is on the table, it is going to be awesome.
However, my friends INSIST on bringing their girlfriends. They have all been with their girlfriends for a year or less, and the gfs have seemingly found a way to show up to everything. It kinda bothers me and some of my other single friends, but we normally let it slide because its what our friends want.
I feel like this is the time to draw the line though. Like I said, everything is on the table, and I fully intend to make fun of their girlfriends, just like I anticipate them to make fun of my ex/family members. I think having the girls there can make them uncomfortable or mad, since I haven’t known them as long and built up the relationship to friendly bully them. That being said, I don’t think I should have to pull punches just to make the girls not hate me. Even without a roast I think my friends should leave them out of our hangouts more often anyway, so this seems like killing 2 birds with 1 stone. However, my friends are saying they “hyped this event up” to their girlfriends and they don’t want to miss it. What should I do here?
- currently, I have placed a disclaimer begging the girls to walk away during my skit and to come back after, but I would really just rather them not be at the roast at all.
2024.05.21 16:18 Happy_Shape_9670 How can someone say they love u sm but do a 180 switch when things are inconvenient?
Met my ex 5 months ago when he was visiting my city through a mutual friend. He lived in Europe & me in SEA but he was moving to Jpn this april. After 1 month of seeing each other, we decided to give LDR a go. I had doubts as to whether this would work given the short time that we had known each other & me having a failed LDR before but he always assured me that he would do whatever it took to make it work and that this was different to all his previous relationships. I was sceptical given that I've been dumped in all my 2 other relationships but we did LDR for almost 3 months which surprisingly went really well - he was always so loving, reassuring and communicative, talked about a future with me etc and i was convinced that this was the real deal. We met again in April when he first landed in Jpn. During the 2 weeks i was there, we had several arguments (mostly about expectations for each other, my insecurities of him falling in love with someone else there, when we would see each other again - to which he couldn't really commit to) and i cried a lot. He broke up with me in the end. Despite saying that he still loves me, he said he cant prioritise a relationship now and needs to focus on his new chapter, making new friends and cant be the bf he wants to be. I'm struggling to understand how you can love someone but leave when its inconvenient? We went into no contact a week ago - I deactivated IG as it hurts so much to see him living his best new life while im crying myself to sleep at night constantly thinking about him. How is it so easy for him to forget about me, us and just move on? I loved him so much (still do). he was also the first person to ever love me.. i dont understand why he couldnt even meet me half way to make things work. He said that its a situation of right person wrong timing but if its the right person shouldnt you do whatever it takes to be with that person?
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I am here to help you in realising all your health and fitness objectives with personal, tailor-made training programs.
Whether your goal is gaining muscle or losing weight to improve physical fitness, my personalised unique programs are aimed at exactly those. I offer both in-person and online services. Read more to learn about my personal training service and why it would be very beneficial for you to work with a personal trainer.
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More importantly, online coaching is integrated into my service, combining all the personal fitness information yet adding the flexibility needed for busy people with tight schedules or gym-goers who prefer a mix of their own gym sessions elsewhere. More of your fitness goals are brought closer to achievable and sustainable when guided with professional support.
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The features of the personal training services at Addis Lifestyle & Fitness are designed to provide a full fitness solution that is all about the individual. The trainee can choose between the in-person at South Coast Power House and online coaching, which means it is adaptable according to preference or time efficiency. The personal training of individuals can have a program in their workout sessions meant to attain fitness objectives like weight loss, muscle gain, or general health enhancement. All these are with regards to the physical potential and lifestyle of each client, designed and formulated by a qualified personal trainer, James Addis.My services further include giving clear nutrition guidance to back up the physical training component, which allows the clients to have the best approach to health improvement. Additionally, checks for progress are important so that adjustments and refinements can be made for maximised effects. It is this very personal attention to detail that is the assurance of the attainment of set objectives in a sustainable manner, while considering overall wellness goals.
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The price structure is set to be competitive for a personal trainer in Christchurch, adding value, with the assurance that it is accessible to anybody serious about their fitness goals. Thus, a one-hour training session with me will be priced at only £30. For those committed to long-term transformation and keen to get the most value from their investment, a block of ten sessions is available for the very attractive cost of just £260. This package has an advantage not only to the wallet but will also assure regularity and goal-focused workouts toward achieving fitness goals. One other extra benefit from deciding on the ten-session package is that you will receive your own workout and meal plans—really adding true value to the service you are receiving and supporting you quite effectively on the road to better health and fitness. The structure of the pricing is done in such a way that varied budgets will find the accommodation without the quality and the personalisation that I am known for getting compromised.What Services Do I Offer?
I offer both online coaching and in-person 1-2-1 training at our local gym which is South Coast Power House based in BournemouthONLINE COACHING
I appreciate that our Christchurch clients may find it hard to get to the gym. That’s why my online coaching service is the one for you. With this option, I personally craft a customised plan designed to fit your workout and nutrition needs. I will track your progress weekly to follow up on how we can make your fitness journey even better. Successfully changing over 20 lives of clients through online coaching, I am certain this service could be quite special for our members across Dorset.1-2-1 PERSONAL TRAINING
1-1 Personal Training at our Bournemouth gym is a totally hands-on experience whereby I can give you my absolute undivided attention throughout your workouts. I will demonstrate exercises to you and share targeted tips to really help refine your technique and help you perform better. That’s probably why so many of my clients like this service: a full hour of focused personal training in every session. Should you buy a block of sessions, I will design a workout alongside a nutrition plan for you, and this will ensure that your fitness journey is as effective and individually tailored as possible.Local PT Services
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2024.05.21 16:16 Quanger1 Wonder Of The Seas review May12-19
Below is a quick review on my trip on Wots, it was amazing and we loved it, the crew was the best and we met new friends along the way
Day1 - Saturday
Landed Gate C, MCO waited a good 40 minutes for our bags, called hotel for complimentary shuttle and waited 5 min at the curb, checked into courtyard Marriott in Orlando, walked to dinner at TGIF headed back to bed early.
Day2 – Sunday boarding day
Breakfast at hotel. Uber to port Canaveral $68 after tip. Handed bags to porter and walked onboard. Waited in line to book our 3-day dinner package. Picked up our free cups. Free bracelet. Solarium for lunch. Got drinks. Explored the ship, found front spot I solarium for sendoff. Went to room received 1 luggage at 3pm but state room attendant found our other bag for us. Waited in room till 5 PM dinner in MDR. Good food. Guest service to fix reservation time. Solarium pool and hot tub all night.
Day3 – Monday CocoCay
Woke up and looked out window to see Celebrity Beyond already docked (beautiful Ship). Windjammer breakfast. Packed bag and put on Bathing suits, walked to S beach. Swam to bar. Hung out on sandbar. Had lunch (birds were crazy). Headed to ship early (ship was empty). Solarium pools. Table Tennis. Showered watched send off from room with ship-to-ship horn battle. Dinner at 5 pasta night. Bought tampons in store ($8 for 10 cardboard tubes). Hung at park listened to jazz, 3 drinks at trellis bar. Attic for adult comedy. Bed
Day4 – Tuesday Sea Day
Boardwalk Cafe. Johny rockets for pancakes. Hangout aft jogging track to watch the waves. Walked to room. Solarium hot tubs pool. Lunch MDR. Walked Ship. Alpha Alpha Call. The Abyss. Room. Solarium for drinks and people watch. Nap. Jazz in park, 150 Central Park for Dinner. Food was delicious smaller portions FRIED CHEESECAKE FTW! Bed.
Day5 – Wednesday St. Thomas
Windjammer for quick Breakfast. Solarium to watch docking process. Windjammer for lunch. Crazy taxi to Magen’s Bay. Hit the water and made friends who gave us free zinc sunscreen and drinks, also there were small jelly fish larvae that stung us the entire time. (didn’t hurt more of an annoyance). Taxi back to the ship where we showered and hung out on the balcony. Formal night and we went to Chops Grill where I had the best Fillet of my life. Bed
For taxi it was $15 a person one way and $6 pp to get into the beach. Total spent $82 with tip.
Day6 – Thursday St. Maarten
Parking Café for Breakfast and Coffee. Drank Coffee in promenade for dock in.
Then we walked to the excursion. Excursion – Captain Bobs, 15 min walk from the boat where we checked in with Captain Brett I will no spoil the excursion as there are thousands of good reviews on trip adviser, I can’t say more than good things it was worth the money as it was the highlight of the entire trip.
Shower and nap. Mason jar for dinner (not worth is IMO as it tasted like boring BBQ) Aqua Show was inTENse, awesome show, Bed
Day7 – Friday Sea Day
Sleep in. Coffee and leftover for breakfast on private balcony. Solarium to hang. Walk around ship. Every pool and hot tub is max capacity. Hear we going to Turks for a crew member emergency, all we know is that they were flown to Miami. Hangout in room afternoon and received the dreadful disembark paperwork. Dinner at MDR. We wore out bathing suits under out clothes and hit slides then the Solarium Pool as because of dinner they were EMPTY. 365 ice show which was awesome and the best show we saw. Bed
Day8 – Saturday Sea Day
Woke up to watch sunrise at 605 AM. Then slept in. Breakfast at windjammer for the hash browns. Last Rubber Duck hunt as we found 4 total all week and re hid 2 for the kids. Walked the Ship. Taste of Royal at 150, Upset that it was not wonderland as was posted. Meals were underrated and the time in between courses was 20+ min long very boring. Also, wine pairing is extra $. Took over 2 hours.
Casino to check things out. Hang out on balcony then Dinner MDR, Casino and left happy with some winnings, pool rest of the night. Hit the solarium and we were the only 2 people in the pool with a full ship, met up with new friends we made to say goodbye. Back to room to pack.
Day9 – Sunday Disembark
Woke up 545. Both showered. Breakfast at Solarium Bistro, off the boat with our bags at 730. We chose to self-disembark to not deal with the hassle of finding out bags to walked straight to GO Port to bring us back to MCO
bus left and picked more people up at Carnival Mardigras, off to MCO. By the time we got through security at gate C and relax, it was 930… flight was delayed till 4..
Some Facts-
We did have the drink package and we always had a drink in our hands.
Yes, a lot of room time as it was a good way to get away from the crowds.
This was my second cruise but first as an adult.
A lot of Solarium time to stay away from the kids so I have no complaints about them as other people have.
Food everywhere I had Sorrento’s and hot dogs whenever we passed.
I miss that blue water so
Biggest Complaint would have to the older generation, They complaint the most and were the rudest people Ive ever seen.
for MDR we had Ivan and his assistant Agus (who was on his first week) and they were amazing and made us laugh everynight.
food was good everywhere, idk why everyone complains there when i dont have to cook it and its all handed to me.
5 stars across the board
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Day1 - Saturday
Landed Gate C, MCO waited a good 40 minutes for our bags, called hotel for complimentary shuttle and waited 5 min at the curb, checked into courtyard Marriott in Orlando, walked to dinner at TGIF headed back to bed early.
Day2 – Sunday boarding day
Breakfast at hotel. Uber to port Canaveral $68 after tip. Handed bags to porter and walked onboard. Waited in line to book our 3-day dinner package. Picked up our free cups. Free bracelet. Solarium for lunch. Got drinks. Explored the ship, found front spot I solarium for sendoff. Went to room received 1 luggage at 3pm but state room attendant found our other bag for us. Waited in room till 5 PM dinner in MDR. Good food. Guest service to fix reservation time. Solarium pool and hot tub all night.
Day3 – Monday CocoCay
Woke up and looked out window to see Celebrity Beyond already docked (beautiful Ship). Windjammer breakfast. Packed bag and put on Bathing suits, walked to S beach. Swam to bar. Hung out on sandbar. Had lunch (birds were crazy). Headed to ship early (ship was empty). Solarium pools. Table Tennis. Showered watched send off from room with ship-to-ship horn battle. Dinner at 5 pasta night. Bought tampons in store ($8 for 10 cardboard tubes). Hung at park listened to jazz, 3 drinks at trellis bar. Attic for adult comedy. Bed
Day4 – Tuesday Sea Day
Boardwalk Cafe. Johny rockets for pancakes. Hangout aft jogging track to watch the waves. Walked to room. Solarium hot tubs pool. Lunch MDR. Walked Ship. Alpha Alpha Call. The Abyss. Room. Solarium for drinks and people watch. Nap. Jazz in park, 150 Central Park for Dinner. Food was delicious smaller portions FRIED CHEESECAKE FTW! Bed.
Day5 – Wednesday St. Thomas
Windjammer for quick Breakfast. Solarium to watch docking process. Windjammer for lunch. Crazy taxi to Magen’s Bay. Hit the water and made friends who gave us free zinc sunscreen and drinks, also there were small jelly fish larvae that stung us the entire time. (didn’t hurt more of an annoyance). Taxi back to the ship where we showered and hung out on the balcony. Formal night and we went to Chops Grill where I had the best Fillet of my life. Bed
For taxi it was $15 a person one way and $6 pp to get into the beach. Total spent $82 with tip.
Day6 – Thursday St. Maarten
Parking Café for Breakfast and Coffee. Drank Coffee in promenade for dock in.
Then we walked to the excursion. Excursion – Captain Bobs, 15 min walk from the boat where we checked in with Captain Brett I will no spoil the excursion as there are thousands of good reviews on trip adviser, I can’t say more than good things it was worth the money as it was the highlight of the entire trip.
Shower and nap. Mason jar for dinner (not worth is IMO as it tasted like boring BBQ) Aqua Show was inTENse, awesome show, Bed
Day7 – Friday Sea Day
Sleep in. Coffee and leftover for breakfast on private balcony. Solarium to hang. Walk around ship. Every pool and hot tub is max capacity. Hear we going to Turks for a crew member emergency, all we know is that they were flown to Miami. Hangout in room afternoon and received the dreadful disembark paperwork. Dinner at MDR. We wore out bathing suits under out clothes and hit slides then the Solarium Pool as because of dinner they were EMPTY. 365 ice show which was awesome and the best show we saw. Bed
Day8 – Saturday Sea Day
Woke up to watch sunrise at 605 AM. Then slept in. Breakfast at windjammer for the hash browns. Last Rubber Duck hunt as we found 4 total all week and re hid 2 for the kids. Walked the Ship. Taste of Royal at 150, Upset that it was not wonderland as was posted. Meals were underrated and the time in between courses was 20+ min long very boring. Also, wine pairing is extra $. Took over 2 hours.
Casino to check things out. Hang out on balcony then Dinner MDR, Casino and left happy with some winnings, pool rest of the night. Hit the solarium and we were the only 2 people in the pool with a full ship, met up with new friends we made to say goodbye. Back to room to pack.
Day9 – Sunday Disembark
Woke up 545. Both showered. Breakfast at Solarium Bistro, off the boat with our bags at 730. We chose to self-disembark to not deal with the hassle of finding out bags to walked straight to GO Port to bring us back to MCO
bus left and picked more people up at Carnival Mardigras, off to MCO. By the time we got through security at gate C and relax, it was 930… flight was delayed till 4..
Some Facts-
We did have the drink package and we always had a drink in our hands.
Yes, a lot of room time as it was a good way to get away from the crowds.
This was my second cruise but first as an adult.
A lot of Solarium time to stay away from the kids so I have no complaints about them as other people have.
Food everywhere I had Sorrento’s and hot dogs whenever we passed.
I miss that blue water so
Biggest Complaint would have to the older generation, They complaint the most and were the rudest people Ive ever seen.
for MDR we had Ivan and his assistant Agus (who was on his first week) and they were amazing and made us laugh everynight.
food was good everywhere, idk why everyone complains there when i dont have to cook it and its all handed to me.
5 stars across the board
2024.05.21 16:16 Much_Sprinkles_7096 Gum detachment
I have experienced gum detachment around my two front teeth during a treatment with braces. At the time when I notices that the natural stop was gone while flossing, I pushed the floss a bit further and it went further, without blood or pain, the natural stop was simply somewhere much deeper. At the time when that happened my front teeth were shifted to the left and tilted out at the same time.
Could you tell me please: 1) If you are a patient, have you experienced something similar? 2) If you are an orthodontist or a dentist, what is the explanation for this side effect? Can it be prevented during a treatment? 3) Will the gums reattach after the treatment?
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Could you tell me please: 1) If you are a patient, have you experienced something similar? 2) If you are an orthodontist or a dentist, what is the explanation for this side effect? Can it be prevented during a treatment? 3) Will the gums reattach after the treatment?
2024.05.21 16:15 Fit-Network-589 What the hell is wrong with therapists?
I had been in therapy for three years as a teenager, and recently started again as an adult. Here are some of the experiences that I’ve had with my “therapists”:
Is there anyone here who has actually found a therapist that knows how to stick to the most basic of ethics? How do I find a good therapist? Where the fuck are all those good therapists that so many of you keep gushing about?
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- Psychiatrist told me that physical abuse in childhood doesn’t cause issues, and that I will grow up to do worse to my kids. I was twelve.
- At least two psychiatrists who gave me meds for the sake of profit
- Asking me leading questions, one psychiatrist tried to get me to admit to having hallucinations when I didn’t have any
- Psychiatrist dismissed my complaints about side effects from a medicine that wasn’t helping me
- A psychiatrist who snuck up on me and flicked my ear as a “joke”, keep in mind that I live in a conservative culture where this might be considered sexual harassment. I was well into puberty too, and I had a traumatic history with sexual harassment
- A psychiatrist told me “you’re the problem” without hearing the full context, but even if I was the problem, that’s no way to speak to a client
- I was placed in a room of about five or six different doctors surrounding me, and expected to talk about myself openly. The tone of the psychiatrist was cold, and it almost felt like he was trying to rush through getting to know me. He didn’t seem to understand or acknowledge that talking about child abuse and neglect in front of this many strangers was very difficult
- I got myself admitted into a facility because I felt like I was gonna kill my “parents” for being too controlling. After I got out, my psychiatrist encouraged my parents to be even more controlling by limiting my screen time (I’m TWENTY ONE)
- A DBT specialist who would keep looking at the time during our sessions
- Not a single therapist spotted signs that I was being neglected at home, and I, being a child, didn’t realize it
- More recently, a psychotherapist “jokingly” threatened me with a cane. It seemed like a joke, but one that made me very uncomfortable. Judging by the children’s drawings on his walls, it’s likely that he did this to children as well. Why does he even have a cane in his office at all?
- That same psychotherapist from before took a puff of his vape at the start of the session
- Not my therapist exactly, but a counselor who volunteered as a “listener” during his free time. My very first post was about him, that one was by far my worst experience
Is there anyone here who has actually found a therapist that knows how to stick to the most basic of ethics? How do I find a good therapist? Where the fuck are all those good therapists that so many of you keep gushing about?