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2024.05.15 19:57 Bitter-Pattern-573 What ST means to us/introducing my kids to ST

I want to start a discussion about two topics that are intersecting for me. 1. Introducing my kids to star trek 2. What star trek means to me/says about me
I'm a huge trekkie for nearly 30 years and really enjoy the Berman 90s trek specifically and want to share that with my kids. My kids and I watch a lot of shows together. Anime, cartoons, etc. They are 14 and 10. Very smart and were able to get into and watch a couple TNG episodes already. My son didn't expect the show to be about exploring space and finding new life. He really liked that aspect of it. We watched Inner light and who watches the watchers bc the former is one of the very best episodes for people watching ST for the first time and the latter being one of my personal favorites bc of the themes of supernatural beliefs being based in ignorance and picards refusal to set the proto Vulcan humanoids back by allowing them to believe he is their god. That resonated a lot with me as a 15 year old watching it for the first time.
I think if my kids can get into Star trek and understand why I like it. Not only will they like it but they will understand who I am a little better. My kids and I have a really good relationship so it's not like they need a better understanding particularly but it's just part of bonding and spending time with each other. So after I had that thought, I began wondering what did star trek mean to me?
I've seen those t shirts that say "everything I need to know about life I learned on star trek" I need one of those lol obviously it isn't meant to be taken literally but there is so much hope in the future in star trek. This idea that one day we will be able to put aside competing with one another and do away with capitalism, consumerism and materialism. No one is being lazy and not contributing. No one is concerned whether or not anyone is being lazy or not contributing enough. Bc of the invention of replicators we can feed, clothe and house everyone without anyone having a job. We don't need a labor force bc we can replicate pretty much anything and use technology to get or do whatever you need. So everyone can focus on what makes them happy and follow their dreams. If the artist who could never make art before bc they had to work at a factory. Now they can make art. Now that everyone is able to truly focus on their dreams, the scientist began making more breakthroughs at a faster rate bc all the scientist who were stuck in a blue collar jobs can be scientist and bc they are happier and truly love their jobs, they do better work and improve more. There's no religion. There's no nationalism or fear of globalism. There's still autonomy and freedom for all and individual nations can govern through democracy but Earth is Earth. Not China. Not the United States. Just Earth. Everyone is honest and genuinely care and don't judge or demean each other. It's really a beautiful vision of society.
This has gotten longer than I intended but I have to mention the spirit of discovery and exploration that Picard and Archer represent most out of the captains. That desire to go new places, find new life, and learn new things is another aspect of the show that is really appealing to me. I'd love to to hear what star trek meant to other people and if you share my perspective of what makes it appealing.
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2024.05.15 19:54 SirYourGarbage AITA for ghosting our mother instead of telling her I no longer want her in my life?

Sorry for the long post! First time posting ever. Sorry if it's not very concise.
I (26f) come from a very large, complicated family. When I was two, my bio parents divorced, and since then (through multiple marriages and divorces) I have gained a plethora of siblings, all of whom I love dearly. Of the seven siblings I have gained, three of them were also birthed by bio mom (50f, who will be referred to as Gaslighter from now on). These three siblings are "Lucy" (28f), "Birdie" (17f), and "Topher" (14m) (all names changed). For context: Gaslighter had abandoned me twice in my childhood - once when she and my father ("John" 53m) first divorced, and once when she and my step father (53m) separated. While the first time was not memorable due to my age and the shorter time span, the second was when I was 14 and I had no contact with her for THREE YEARS. No holidays, no birthdays, nothing. On top of this, when she was around, she was emotionally and verbally abusive to me. She tried to keep me from my father, talked crap about him constantly (including trying to convince me at age 7 that John wanted me aborted), she would not let me play with my sister or friends, and she consistently fat shamed me my entire life. I was a very athletic kid, so I was not by any stretch "fat", but because I had a large appetite due to exercise and medications I needed, I was dubbed "miss Piggy" and "the vulture", and Gaslighter would screech "caw caw" like a vulture if I grabbed seconds. Due to this, I've been struggling with eating disorders since I was 10. She also forced me to raise Topher from birth, as she had forced Lucy to raise Birdie. Now, there's a bunch of other examples I can include, but this is already a lot. So, to the story... I've known for a few years that I would end up cutting Gaslighter out of my life, between the childhood trauma that continued into adulthood and how she treated everyone I love. That being said, I was planning on playing nice until Birdie and Topher were both adults, because I was afraid that pissing Gaslighter off would have negative repercussions on them. I had told Lucy, Birdie, and Topher about my plan and they were all very understanding and on board. For everything I have been through, they have too. The last decade has just been about survival until they were legally free. But in the last year, I have been diagnosed with PTSD from the abuse endured by Gaslighter, and her behavior has become more erratic and terrifying. Over Christmas, I decided that I couldn't wait another 4 years, so I began distancing myself, hoping to just fade away from her. Interactions with Gaslighter had begun inciting my panic attacks, and for my own health, I needed to get out. THIS is where the problem starts. Obviously, Birdie is almost an adult, and she has her own plans to dip out as soon as she turns eighteen. That being said, Gaslighter is actively tightening her grip, making Birdie's life miserable. When I told my siblings that I was going to just ghost Gaslighter, Birdie freaked out. She asked me to not ghost, but to tell Gaslighter that I no longer wanted a relationship with her. Because I knew I wouldn't be able to face her without a breakdown or caving in (this woman has an amazing ability to make herself the victim), I offered a compromise: I would write a letter and mail it to her, and I would wait to completely cut her off until it was mailed. Birdie was happy with this solution. I took my time writing the letter because the stress of the situation was overwhelming and I was still terrified of Gaslighter. Besides that, the tiny part of me that always needed Gaslighter to be a REAL mother to me wanted to keep giving her chances. So, I spent countless nights crying to my fiance about the situation. I did write the letter, but I never got around to mailing it because life was crazy with final exams and family events and work. I still intended to send it, but just never got to it. This past weekend, my father called me. John was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer when I was 15, and, for the following 4 years, I took on the brunt of caring for him. I took him to almost all of his appointments, made sure he had his medicine, talked with doctors, made sure he ate and the house was clean when he was too sick to do it. He never asked me to do any of it, but this was during the time in my life where Gaslighter was MIA, so I had the freedom to spend my time where I wanted, and I chose to take care of him. I have no regrets whatsoever, and I'm glad for that extra time, because I seldom spent time with him as a child. John was the first person who I felt actually understood me, and we had a lot in common, so those years were some of the best in my life. He really is one of my favorite people. Because of the harsh treatments, however, his health has been a mess since his diagnosis. But we have all just been happy to have him around, especially since the doctors told us there was a 6% chance he would survive past 5 years. It has now been 11. While John is still in remission, he recently received some distressing news. In the phone call last weekend, he told me that he will be paralyzed from the waist down within the year, but more than likely, within a few months. I was devasted. I had a breakdown that devolved into my hatred of Gaslighter and her treatment of myself and my father, and something switched inside me. I truly no longer felt any love or care for that woman. I decided that night that I was done. I blocked her on everything and decided I would never see or speak to her again. Birdie obviously isn't happy about it. I know I didn't keep to my promise about the letter. But I just can't justify ever interacting with her again, and I know that letter will do nothing but add fuel to Gaslighter's "woe is me" narrative. So, I guess I am asking if I am the a-hole for not keeping my promise and just ghosting, despite possible repercussions or the feelings of my siblings?
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2024.05.15 19:53 Rengamerboy [FOR HIRE] I will edit your video for 35-50€ (Price depends on footage length) 1+ year of experience.

Hello there!
I'm an editor with 1+ year of experience who is looking for work. I'm mainly focused on making videos flashier and really hook the watcher in to the video using Premiere Pro. I'm a meme style editor that works great with specifiaclly gaming videos of any kind using trendy background music and only the newest of memes but I can also edit other genre of videos. I can cut down vods and make them into 10-15 min highlights or make the best of short lenght footages. And of course price is negotiable.
These are some of the videos I have made:
*https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTuKA9snhTI
*https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPKysLx6Vis
*https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idICn-U4Odg
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2024.05.15 19:52 spyraxes Visenya Targaryen, Queen of the Seven Kingdoms, Lady of Mooncrest, Mother of the True King, the Bloody Queen, Wielder of Dark Sister, Rider of Vhagar (+AC Marsella Egen, Sworn Sword to Lae Targaryen, Heir to Mooncrest, Cavalier)

Reddit Account: u/spyraxes
Discord Tag: spyraxes
Name and House: Visenya Targaryen
Age: 54
Cultural Group: Valyrian
Appearance: Visenya is a woman covered head to toe in striking features. With silver-gold hair worn braided or bound, allowing herself easy motion and vision in combat, purple eyes that stare from a harsh face with deep cheekbones and stern expressions, the Bloody Queen is a dominant figure in courtly and martial situations. Some say she bathes in blood to keep her youth, others that her rigorous training and love for battle keeps her body fit. Whatever the case, Visenya is a unique and unsettling woman.
Trait: Strong
Skill(s): Dragonrider, Swords (e), Essosi Blademaster (e)
Talent(s): Training, Glaring, Thinking Deeply About Things
Negative Trait(s): too cool
Starting Title(s): Queen of the Seven Kingdoms, Lady of Mooncrest, Mother of the True King, the Bloody Queen, Wielder of Dark Sister, Rider of Vhagar
Starting Location: Opening Event
Alternate Characters: jesus christ its day 1 dont make me alt please!
Name and House: Marsella Egen
Age: 24
Cultural Group: Valeman
Appearance: Marsella is as cold-faced as her Queenly mistress, though more prone to smiles creeping through. She is tall, broad-shouldered, with a powerful build shaped by years of training and journeying the realm. Her hair is red and cut short, her face scarred and her green eyes deep-set and surrounded by scars.
Trait: Hale
Skill(s): Two-Handed Weapons (e), Brute
Talent(s): Dancing, Drinking, Gambling
Negative Trait(s): n/a
Starting Title(s): Sworn Sword to Lae Targaryen, Heir to Mooncrest, Cavalier
Starting Location: Opening Event

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House Egen
House Targaryen

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Lord Lyn Egen - b. 24 BC - Archetype: General - Wise and a touch ferocious, Lyn is a skilled commander and a protective father, ready to do whatever he can to protect his daughters and Visenya’s own child. Skilled enough with a sword but more comfortable ahorse or behind a commander’s desk, the man who served as Keeper of the Gates of the Moon during the Conquest and was ready to cut his teeth against dragonfire now acts as the most loyal and proud follower of the very Queen who conquered his lands, his own wife.
Lorra Egen - b. 6 AC - Archetype: Builder - Despite the martial inclination of much of House Egen, Laenor is not the only occupant of Mooncrest who has grasped numbers well. Lorra Egen is a skilled mathematician in her own right, left in charge of the finances of the castle when her distant step-kin isn’t there to run them, and often assisting them in doing so. She is prim and proper and prone to judgement, but she is kind at heart. No niece of Lyn Egen would survive not being so, in truth.
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2024.05.15 19:48 WolverineEmotional44 How can i 25/M get my long-time 25/F to get my point?

M 25 with GF same age as me, get into fights when i go out with buddies to drink or attend a work related function. She always gets mad if i drink thinking that im cheating or about to cheat simply because there is alcohol regardless if its just with the boys or coworkers. I understand that she does not like it so i dont usually go unless it's something that i can't really say no to, like i have to go to work dinner or a seminar for a few days.
She gets somewhat paranoid and accusatory when there is woman in a group photo, which leads to arguments and fights.
The problem is when she goes out and has drinks with her friends she doesn't think that it's a problem. I have no issue with her going out, it's just i know she sucks at handling her alcohol. I've known her since highschool and know that she gets drunk even when she smells the stuff.
I usually pick her up when they're done to make sure everyone gets home safely, But because of our work we are sometimes at different locations where its not possible to do so.
As i am writing this post, she is currently out drinking in a karaoke bar with work-colleagues. I told her that she should hit the sack early since she has to fly early tomorrow, but insists that she is fine and get back to her hotel late because a guy from work will drive her there.
Now here's where you may lose me, but we read each other's messages, i know, but we kinda just did it since highschool. I know for a fact this guy is into her, like he keeps sending her flirty memes or straight up texts her goodmorning beautiful or some other adjective. Context here( we've been together since we were 15, to my knowledge she never had any other serious relationship, and i only had one serious relationship beside her).
Everytime i bring it up that he likes her and she should stop replying to non work related conversation to avoid a-niceguy-you-lead-me-on possible reaction. She justs says im paranoid and it's just friendly talk. And it's not only this guy, at one point in our relationship she went on a date with someone only to realize that such was in fact a date when the guy gave her a present and basically asking her out, this was one of our common friends who was about to be deployed. She told me what happened, and i was suprised she didn't know he liked her, he was basically courting her the same time as me.
Sorry for the long post. How do i get her to trust me or to get my point that she is doing the same things she is paranoid about?
TLDR: My long time GF gets jealous and doesnt like me going out and drinking. But think it's fine if she does it because according to her she knows she wont cheat.
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2024.05.15 19:45 lawdvivec7 Sometimes the cheater is the victim

Grab your water because this is a tough pill to swallow. When is the cheater the victim? Maybe when they are in an abusive relationship? When they are being controlled by their partner? When they are continuously manipulated into being painted as the “bad guy” ? Gas lit every day into thinking that they are the problem and they need to do all the work to fix the relationship? When the other person cheated FIRST? What happens when two victims of abusive relationships come together and cheat on their spouses. Who are the real victims? Is it so crazy to think that two people who are screaming for help and not understanding why all their hard work isn’t working in their relationship and their partner continues to be little and manipulate you into thinking there is no problem with the relationship end up finding each other and CHEAT? We have mountains of statistics, books, scholarly articles, therapists, ect. To help us with the cope of recovering from the cheater. This isn’t to say that this information isn’t useful in cases where someone is truly a victim of repetitive cheating and abuse. But what happens when one partner says they are unhappy and they are trying everything to make the other person happy, following their lists of demands and “boundaries”. And when that partner says clear as day, “Hey, I’m not happy in this relationship. I might cheat on you and or leave you you need to do something about that” and the other partner retorts:” you’re crazy you would never cheat on me. You would never leave me. How could you leave me? I’m everything. I own you. I control you. You would never have the balls to step out and relaize that you are an amazing human and there is another victim out there willing accept you for who you are”. And when that partner finds out that they’ve been cheated on, they go to all the books, all the statistics, all the therapists, to confirm their own bias that you are the problem and you are the wrong one because YOU cheated. And Instead of looking at oneself and wondering? Huh? Why in 15 years did my good man finally cheat on me? They try and force their partner to ruin the life of the OTHER victim involved in the affair. Sometimes the person cheated on is a narcissist. Sometimes the CHEATER is the victim.
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2024.05.15 19:43 entrovertrunner Seeking Advice on Expanding My Online Tutoring Services for University Entrance Exams

Hello everyone,
I hope you're all doing well! I'm looking for some advice on how to expand my tutoring business to help more students prepare for university entrance exams. Right now I'm mainly on Superprof (it's a different website in each country but it works very well for me to find students, I have about 15 students right now)
A bit of background about me: I've been tutoring math and science privately for the last 8 years, primarily in my city. I mostly work with high school students but have also tutored some university students. I specialize in subjects like trigonometry, linear algebra, real/complex analysis, thermodynamics, electromagnetics, mechanics, electrical circuits, etc.
I've successfully helped several students prepare for their entrance exams, and I'm passionate about helping even more students achieve their academic goals. Given the increasing demand for online education, I'm considering offering my tutoring services online to reach students who are preparing for university entrance exams globally.
Here's where I need your advice:
  1. Target Audience: What are the best ways to reach students who need help preparing for university entrance exams? Are there specific platforms or communities I should focus on?
  2. Advertizing: What advertising methods have you found most effective for educational services? Do you think I can make it without a website? Which social media are most relevant?
  3. Networking: How can I connect with schools, universities, and educational consultants to offer my tutoring services? Are there any strategies for forming valuable partnerships?
  4. Online Tutoring: I often give lessons via Teams using webwhiteboard, it's not perfect so I understand why parents prefer in person lessons. What do you use?
I would love to hear from anyone who has experience in online tutoring or education. Your insights and tips would be incredibly helpful as I take this next step in expanding my tutoring business. Thank you in advance for your advice!
Best regards,
A
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2024.05.15 19:43 entrovertrunner Seeking Advice on Expanding My Online Tutoring Services for University Entrance Exams

Hello everyone,
I hope you're all doing well! I'm looking for some advice on how to expand my tutoring business to help more students prepare for university entrance exams. Right now I'm mainly on Superprof (it's a different website in each country but it works very well for me to find students, I have about 15 students right now)
A bit of background about me: I've been tutoring math and science privately for the last 8 years, primarily in my city. I mostly work with high school students but have also tutored some university students. I specialize in subjects like trigonometry, linear algebra, real/complex analysis, thermodynamics, electromagnetics, mechanics, electrical circuits, etc.
I've successfully helped several students prepare for their entrance exams, and I'm passionate about helping even more students achieve their academic goals. Given the increasing demand for online education, I'm considering offering my tutoring services online to reach students who are preparing for university entrance exams globally.
Here's where I need your advice:
  1. Target Audience: What are the best ways to reach students who need help preparing for university entrance exams? Are there specific platforms or communities I should focus on?
  2. Advertizing: What advertising methods have you found most effective for educational services? Do you think I can make it without a website? Which social media are most relevant?
  3. Networking: How can I connect with schools, universities, and educational consultants to offer my tutoring services? Are there any strategies for forming valuable partnerships?
  4. Online Tutoring: I often give lessons via Teams using webwhiteboard, it's not perfect so I understand why parents prefer in person lessons. What do you use?
I would love to hear from anyone who has experience in online tutoring or education. Your insights and tips would be incredibly helpful as I take this next step in expanding my tutoring business. Thank you in advance for your advice!
Best regards,
A
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2024.05.15 19:42 yurisses Positive first experience at locals!!!

I just wanted to share my positive first experience at locals. There were many things I was anxious about, in large part due to other posts on reddit, but my experience was pretty great, so I want to balance things out a bit for other new players.
Probably relevant for a lot of these points but I'm not in the USA, I'm in rural Germany.

Culture

My experience with the players at my venue is that they are very welcoming and accommodating, helpful, generous and friendly to new players. Of course try to be a delight to interact with yourself.

Smell

Lots of horror stories shared lately. Really no BO issues at my venues, BUT, I found out if the venue is not ventilated then it can get bad on hot days. So if you're having smell problems at your venue do check out the other venues near you.

Timer

This is pretty much the only fear I had that actualized. 45 minutes for a match is really stressful for a beginner who doesn't know every meta deck's cards by heart. Because of that I much prefer attending freeplay sessions over Konami tournaments, and I would advise to inquire if the players in your local scene organize any such sessions. That said, I want to share what I do to not waste time:

Skill requirement

My experience in my local scene is that the skill required is a lot lower than what I expected (other than the time aspect). I've encountered very diverse decks from sub-rogue to Snake-Eye. I can't make it to Master with my pet deck on MD and I think someone who can't make it to Diamond would do fine, as long as:
If on top of that the deck is meta (tier 0-1-2), then that should be more than sufficient. If the deck is rogue or sub-rogue then that will depend on how competitive the locals are and how good you are, but I'll say expensive staples like S:P and Ty-Phon are definitely not required.

Culture regarding deck choices

One thing that I've seen come up a bit on reddit is whether your deck choice matters socially. I would say overall people here are very chill about it but I'd note that whether someone will come up to you and ask to play definitely depends on how much they enjoy playing with you, so your demeanor and their matchup with your deck. However I would say the players here are mature and even if they voice their dislike of your someone else's deck the dislike has never been directed at the player. (However, I haven't seen anyone bring stun or FTK yet, ymmv)
Just a funny anecdote but there are a lot of reddit posts about cards like Traptrix or Feet Ash being highly stigmatized in the USA but here no one assumes you are a menace to society just because you play them, or even if you say you like the art.
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2024.05.15 19:39 RestlessDreamer32 How to date again after having my reputation destroyed?

I'm honestly at a loss of what to do. Until half a year ago I was engaged and had everything I never thought I would have until she decided she was no longer happy. It's been more than a few years since I was in the dating market, but things have drastically changed for me due to a horrible incident that occurred a while back. A bit of backstory, and I'll included a TlDr at the end.
Several years back there was a hobby group I used to regularly attend, and one day this woman who had only started showing up recently took an interest in me. I'd just gotten out of a pretty bad relationship a few months before that, so when she made a move on me, I took her up on it to see where things would go. I wasn't use to a woman actually making the first move, so I took it as a good sign. We saw each other for the next few weeks and in that time we had gotten physical a few times, with her making the first move on that as well. Fast forward to the end of our time together when I found out she had a boyfriend the entire time and was cheating on him with me. I broke it off with her because I didn't want to be "the other guy" to some poor sap, and she wasn't pleased with me for finding out. Her boyfriend had nearly caught her cheating, so what did she do? She threw me under the bus and told him I was "just some creep who wouldn't leave her alone". Hilarious, because I had chat logs that showed nothing but positive interactions between us and call logs showing we would spend several hours a week on the phone together. I block her on everything and move on with my life.
Fast forward several years later, I'm engaged and in a happy relationship, and a gal pal of mine DM's me to tell me she saw a post about me in a group on FB. She sent me live updates on the post as well. I guess these groups called "Are We Dating The Same Guy" popped up seemingly everywhere, and our local group had nearly 50,000 local women in it at that time. Considering I live in what's generally called a "small city", this was extremely concerning. The poster was the woman from the hobby shop, and she uploaded my full name and multiple photos of me. In the post she said that I "violently rxped" her, was a "woman beater", and called me a "dangerous predator". I felt sick to my stomach. Worse than that, at least 15 different women were commenting on the post verifying it was "all true". Only 1 woman tried to defend me, a woman I used to work with, and within minutes her comments were deleted and she was banned from the group. As for all the other women commenting, half of them were women I hadn't seen since literally high school and never spoke to because I was a quiet nerdy kid who stuck to his friends. One of them even said she had "first hand experience", but I had never even spoken one word to her in my life. The other women commenting, I didn't recognize their names or faces at all and was certain I'd never met or spoken to any of them. Comments ranged from saying things like I "stalked them home", "assaulted them at a club" (I don't drink or go to bars), and one even said that I "forcefully penetrated her" in her own home, despite not even knowing who she is.
I spent that entire day having a panic attack and was on the phone with the mental health crisis line for a good while. When I went to work the next day, female co-workers who were normally friendly and cheerful towards me looked at me with disgust or walked in the other direction when they saw me coming. I went home early that day after taking another panic attack in the bathroom. Later that night I had a missed phone call from our local police. Called back, hoping it was just a prank call, but it wasn't. An officer actually wanted to speak with me about some grave accusations that were brought to him. It turns out the hobby shop woman and other she knew collectively called in "anonymous tips" about me, but in those tips I wasn't a "violent rxpist". Instead, these tips included where I worked and told the police I was "dangerous to children". I remember nearly passing out on the phone from panicking again. Turns out the officer I was spoking to already suspected it was BS, because these groups were generating hundreds of "anonymous tips" a day for them. The investigation was closed and branded as "malicious gossip" and I never heard from the police again.
Despite that, my reputation was ruined forever. My partner at the time actually had my back and was a huge pillar of support, but I was still a wreck. I became a recluse and started going to therapy every couple of weeks. In our local group, old posts of guys are "bumped" all the time whenever a guy is found on a dating site or women remember he exists. The group has nearly doubled in size since then too. Posts aren't even about dangerous people, but I'll see posts all the time like "This guy just matched with me and hasn't messaged me yet, any tea??" and even random creep shots of guys at the gym saying things like "This guy is super cute, any tea or red flags??" I see nothing to do with "safety" and actual dangerous dudes I've known over the years haven't appeared there at all. Old classmate kidnapped and nearly beat his partner to death? No post. Dude admits to mxlesting his partners toddler? No post. Guy doesn't buy a gal a gift after a date? He's a monster and must be posted about. It was easy enough to get in there with a dummy account to make sure I wasn't caught off guard again.
---Fast forward to today. I unfortunately find myself single when I never thought I would be again. I'm still somewhat of a recluse, don't keep any photos of my name on social media, nor do I use my real name. I've disappeared as much as possible. I'm still terrified that someone there will remember I exist and post about me again, as I see happen to other men daily. Dating websites are just asking for trouble, as most posts in this group are screenshots of guys profiles. If I dare take a photo of myself and put it in a dating website, odds are very good I'd be posted and would have to suffer through the same ordeal yet again. I can't afford (nor could I back then) the several thousands of dollars to take someone to court for slandelibel, and Facebook says these posts aren't against their "community standards". Even then, that's like cutting a single head off of a hydra knowing that more will take it's place. Meeting people IRL just doesn't happen anymore and it's frowned upon to try to meet women in public settings as opposed to online dating where they can screen everyone beforehand. Online dating is no longer safe for me. How am I to ever be with someone again if OLD is off the table and I have a destroyed reputation?
**TlDr: Woman cheated on boyfriend with me several years ago and didn't like me finding out. Woman in question decides to publicly slander me to nearly 50,000 local women several years later. Slander works and my reputation has been destroyed and people think I'm some kind of monster. I delete all presence of my name and face online that I can, but now that I'm single again, I have no idea how to ever date again with OLD being off the table and having a tarnished reputation.**
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2024.05.15 19:38 No-Development820 Hunting a Child Predator Who Assaulted in Boulder County

A few years ago, one of our children was lured into a sex trafficking circle. I worked tirelessly with the Longmont PD posing as our child to bring the 9 felonies Andrew Sebastien Rosa is charged with. When police were ready to make an arrest, Rosa went on the run and is facing natiowide extradition. Our family was approached last year by the producers of "In Pursuit with John Walsh" and asked if we would be willing to film an episode. It was our child's decision every step of the way, each "yes" to this had to come from them. We sat down with Calahan Walsh last January to film an episode anonymously, and it was released today, 5/15. It streams on most services. If it's too much to watch, I understand, but I am asking that this interview and the context be shared as widely as possible, because this POS is believed to still be alive and receiving assistance. The episode is called "In the Dead of Winter", and we are the second case. Link to the original news stories below.
https://www.timescall.com/2022/05/26/longmont-police-seek-man-wanted-on-nine-felony-charges/
https://www.denver7.com/news/local-news/longmont-police-searching-for-man-wanted-on-9-felony-charges-including-human-trafficking
https://kdvr.com/news/longmont-police-suspect-human-trafficker-solicitor-of-child-prostitution/
https://namus.nij.ojp.gov/case/MP102266
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In pursuit of Dylan Harrington, John takes on a bone-chilling murder case in remote Washington State. Callahan travels to Colorado to help police hunt down Andrew Rosa, an accused predator who police believe uses social media to lure young victims.Show: In Pursuit With John Walsh
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2024.05.15 19:37 harinedzumi_art Gwah-chugyoh [newts]

Gwah-chugyoh [newts]
Newts [Gwah-chugyoh in the Swamp Language] are a fairly numerous nation living in the East of the Small World. The natural areola of their habitat was 3 Great Swamps, but the historical areola includes forests, mountains and valleys adjacent to the Swamps.
It is not known when exactly newts appeared as a species. The first mention of them appears in the annals of the Mao dynasty [12th century aTwbW], but their sufficiently high level of development at that time indicates a long existence. Referring to the development of cultures of other nations, historians suggest that the first real newts appeared in the 4th-2nd centuries bTwbW. A curious phenomenon is the physiology of newts was probably fully formed in the 1st millennium aTwbW and has not changed until now. Thus, the newts are one of the few nations [others are gerbils and rats] that has a completely natural origin, which does not include evolutionary changes that occur as a result of the development of civilization.
This is explained by the place of newts in the evolutionary chain. Biologically, the newt is a swamp alpha predator. Solid physical performance, the highest intelligence, pack lifestyle, using of primitive tools and a strong hunting instinct allowed newts to dominate their habitat without the development of technologies. In fact, advanced technologies have only complemented this picture, without changing it in any way.
The average life expectancy of a newt is 60-75 years (one of the longest in the Small World). At the same time, newts mature early, a 4yo newt is already fully grown. Females rarely give birth to only one cub, and the average pair of newts usually has 8-12 cubs. A huge birth rate is balanced by a high rating of premature mortality. The real average life expectancy of a newt does not exceed 40 years. 50yo newts are considered old, 60yo and more considered venerable elders.
Newts have a light muscular body with a long neck and tail, but short paws. There is an obvious evolutionary bias towards the trunk, tail and hind paws. The front paws are weak, but at the same time they are very agile and have developed fine motor skills. Thus, newts are great runners, but bad arm wrestlers.
The spine, neck and tail of the newt are extremely strong. With a blow of the tail, a newt can seriously injur a relative or an adult frog. Starting from the ground with the tail and hind paws, an average newt can jump 10-15 steps in length and from 2 to 3 of its own height. The muscles and bones allow the newt to fly headfirst into the wall with a run without breaking his/her neck. At the same time, the tail and neck of a newt contains many vital arteries and nerve endings and are therefore vulnerable for deep cuts.
The skull of the newt is very tough and easily withstands the blows of a stone or a club. Jaws and teeth allow the newt to tear the meat from the bodies and gnaw the bones. In a fight with an opponent of equal size, the newt can use the skull and teeth as weapons [for example, a strong blow of the head can break a frog's front paw, and a ramming blow from a running start is guaranteed to break the ribs]
The fine motor skills of the front paws allow the newt to easily perform card tricks, juggle small objects or throw small stones very accurately. At the same time, the grip of the front paws is quite weak, and the newt may not have enough strength to lift either heavy stones or logs.
Gender demorphism in newts is rather weakly expressed. Females are, on average, somewhat lighter and weaker than males, but also somewhat more agile and hardier. Psychological differences are also insignificant, and female soldiers or hunters are not inferior to males in any way [this allows newts to mobilize a huge number of recruits if necessary]
The digestive system of the newt is ideally adapted for digesting a huge amount of animal food. Newts can eat meat, offal, bones, etc. Algae and roots, consumed by newts constantly in huge quantities, serve as a natural aid to digestion. Newts can eat rotten meat, their liver supplies the blood with a huge amount of antitoxins. For the same reason, newts rarely get sick. The more newt eats meat, the stronger his/her health. And vice versa.
Of all the senses, newts have the best developed eyesight and hearing. Newt sees small objects on the ground at a distance of up to 5-6 li. Newt's eyes see perfectly in the dark and are able to accurately estimate the distance to an object. Thanks to their vision and fine motor skills, newts are excellent shooters. The distance of hearing is comparable to the distance of vision. By the sound of footsteps, the newt is able to determine the size of an object. And nowadays newts are able to determine the type of projectile by the sound in the air. The sense of smell is poorly developed, most likely this is a consequence of a partially scavenger lifestyle [in addition to hunting, newts took prey from other swamp predators]
But an additional feeling that makes newts really dangerous opponents is their intuition. Newt is able to sense danger without any obvious signs of it. In ancient times, it helped newts to hunt swamp predators. And nowadays it helps the newts to leave the place of arrival of enemy shells in advance, act in a smoke screen, to shoot blind and hide from return fire... In fact, on the battlefield, newt relies on the instincts, not the mind.
However, it was newt's intelligence that made them the pinnacle of the evolution of swamp life forms. Newts are incredibly intelligent, curious and constantly learning. And newts are never afraid of the new or the unknown, in the swamps, the unknown is a common thing. Having met something unfamiliar, newt will try to understand it. Having understood, he/she will try to remember it and will definitely tell others about it. After discussing the find, the newts will try to find a use for it. Therefore, newts are open-minded and often act unpredictably. For a newt, any plan is just a sketch, and he/she will never follow it exactly. The more new information will appear, the more the plan will change, up to complete unrecognizability. Because of this, hunting turns into research, research into a treasure hunt, treasure discovery turns into a fight, and a fight turns into a cover-up of a crime.
Yes, being predators, newts are naturally cruel. Killing another newt is as easy for them as killing prey on the hunt. And crimes such as robbery or theft are not considered by them as something serious at all. In fact, due to the long tribal lifestyle, there is a clear separation between the "family" and everyone else for the newts. Violence within the "family" is condemned, outside the family is not prohibited in any way, and sometimes even encouraged. Therefore, a newt can adore his/her own nephews, and without any probs finish off exactly the same age cubs, meeting them in the swamp. Nothing, not a developed judicial system, not even the Teaching of Great Humility, has helped to completely get rid of this "feature" of the newt's psychology.
It is important to understand that for newts, the concept of "family" doesn't mean family by itself. Newt "family" is something between a commonwealth, a brotherhood and a clan. The "family" can include both real relatives and newts who are not related by blood, but have declared themselves relatives. In both cases, they are considered equivalent family members. Conversely, a blood relative who shows disrespect to the family will be permanently expelled... or just killed. Family sizes can be anything from 15-20 newts for small peasant families to hundreds of newts in Military Families or criminal gangs. Sometimes all the members of the "family" live together, sometimes not [for example, members of trading families see each other infrequently] But generally it doesn't matter, family members are obliged to support and help each other. They send money to each other, help solve problems, do business together, etc. And of course, helping a family member is the most important thing. Even if the newt ate the cubs alive and dismembered their parents, his/her family will help him/her escape justice by any possible means. Elders enjoy special respect in the family, as they accumulate experience and knowledge and pass it on to the young.
Having a family is essential for newts. A lonely newt is considered inferior, since there is no one to protect him/her, and someone else's family will easily do whatever they want with him/her. Therefore, newts declare themselves brothers/sisters at any opportunity. This feature is especially important during the warfare, since newt can hardly rely on help of his/her comrades in critical moments if they are not his/her brothers/sisters.
In general, the nature of newts makes them almost ideal soldiers and ensures the relative safety of the Swampland as a state. On the other hand, the society of newts is naturally unstable, and maintaining relative peace within the state costs the government enormous efforts.
"Newts? [scratching the skin on his neck] No, I wouldn't want to face them on the battlefield. I'd rather they were on my side like she is [nods to the armed bodyguard newt, dozing, leaning against a column] In the current conditions, I simply don't see an optimal way to win this war. And I have no right or power to throw my soldiers into the meat grinder along with those who were born to get there [points at the bodyguard, who opens one eye and grins in a smile] Therefore, with all due and respect, I have to decline your request... What? [listens] Oh, I understand, but this is barely my problem. Someone has miscalculated very badly, so let this someone, not me, fight against the newts. You might as well have climbed into Yun-maa hell and started a war against the imps there [bodyguard laughs soundlessly and barely nods] So who is to blame for the fact that the imps are now grinding your troops into bloody mincemeat?? No, I better stand on my ground [smiles] But I wish a best luck to the Pacification Army."
© Wong-ma Tao-zhu, Tai-Tung commander of the Shinhuo province. From his response to the official envoys of the Unity Council to the request to join the war against the Swampland.
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2024.05.15 19:36 NaomitheWolf Anyone want to be friends?

Hi I'm 15, I'm a trans guy (any pronouns other than she/her) and I'm looking for some friends age 15-16, preferable in the United States. I want someone who can relate to my self harm struggle, and I can talk about my self harm (and theirs) I want someone who we can talk about this kind of stuff but not completely rely on each other. I can't handle it if someone comes to me and makes it my job to stop them from killing themself. I also don't want our conversations to only be about our struggles, I want someone who I can just talk to, and hang out with (online). Some of my interests are ferrets, scary games (and movies, basically everything scary), Hannibal (TV), Supernatural (TV), listening to music, drawing, writing, fashion, making stuff, DND, cooking, talking to my friends (I'm clingy), and such! (I will add more later if I remember them haha)
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2024.05.15 19:33 R3DD3Y Issues regarding datapack with custom structures.

Hello everyone. I am working on a Datapack that is meant to add some custom structures for a modpack I am making. I have a issue regarding this though. I have built and succesfully made it so 12 of the 15 structures I built spawn in the world as intended. My issue is, that for some obscure reason, 3 of them ALWAYS cause an error when I try to do anything regarding them. I figured it would be related to the .nbt file for the structure, maybe some entity block causing issues, but no amount of changes to the in-game build fixed it. Afterwards, I tried editing the .json files. I cross-referenced them with already working structures that spawned properly, and there weren't any differences aside from the obvious ones refering to the name for the structure or related paths in the datapack enviroment. I tried copying a file and pasting it, then editing it to match the build I wanted to make spawn, but that still didn't work. As a last ditch effort, I tried packing my datapack in a forge mod format, hoping that it would fix it somehow, but that still didn't help, but now it atleast provides a crash log. From my limited experience, I figured it must be related to memory, so as a last ditch effort I allocated 20gb of ram (I know, not a good idea but listen I was running out of ideas) to the instance hoping it would work, which it didn't end up doing. I am completely out of ideas and I would be immensely thankful for any help or assistance towards figuring this out. I'll attach the crash log, and files related to the structure for now, in-case someone who is smarter than me can figure out what's wrong and point out the errors I might've made. If need be, I can attach the entire datapack with all structures for further scrutinization in-case something may interact badly, but for now I'll just append what I mentioned earlier.
Before anything though, I want to mention that the structure is built with TerraFirmaCraft blocks and items, so it won't work without it installed.
Crash log post converting datapack into forge mod format.
Data folder containing the structure refusing to work.
Any help is GREATLY appreciated, and like I said, if anything else is required to figure out why this particular (set of) structure(s) causes a crash / error when loading, I will gladly provide any required info / additional files. Thanks!
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2024.05.15 19:31 Severe-Fennel-202 GTS 4.0 Track Days

GTS 4.0 Track Days
Hey everyone! I thought it'd be cool to start a fun thread for those of you who track your cars. If you haven't tried it yet, you're definitely missing out. Yesterday marked my 4th solo day at the Ridge Racetrack in Shelton, WA, and it was a blast. This track, nestled in the foothills of the Olympic Mountains with views of the Cascades and Mt. Rainier, is relatively new but absolutely fantastic. Its challenging layout with few walls means there's little room for error, but that just adds to the thrill and builds confidence as you push yourself.
While I'm still far from being a pro, it's amazing to see my progress. I'm getting quicker and now running with the high-intermediate group, often leading in passes with minimal point-bys. I managed a decent lap time of 1:58.73 yesterday, considering I'm using Michelin PS4S tires.
The first couple of days this season were incredibly wet, typical for the PNW, but it was a valuable learning experience navigating through rain and understanding the limits of traction. Trust me, standing water is not your friend! But the last two days have been dry and glorious, allowing me to truly appreciate the capabilities of these cars. If you've never pushed beyond 8/10ths, you're missing out on discovering the full potential of your vehicle. Having a seasoned instructor ride with me really opened my eyes to the untapped grip and racing lines, showing me there's so much more to these cars than meets the eye.
As some of you might know, I've upgraded my car with power enhancements like a tune, OAPs, and Soul Street headers. Along with a track alignment and the most aggressive stock setup, the handling improvements are significant, making turn-ins much smoother. I've got 19-inch forged wheels on order and plan to fit them with Nankang tires. While many suggest sticking with the PS4S for now to sharpen driving skills, I'm eager to explore the potential of these upgrades.
I've also invested in Open Track Insurance for the whole year, intending to make the most of it with over 15 track days planned for this season, sprinkled with some AutoX sessions.
My GT4+ Touring project is nearing completion; it's essentially my fully modded GTS with performance and aesthetic enhancements. I'm excited to share dyno test results and comparisons of tunes, along with other upgrades, when I return from Hawaii in a few weeks.
I absolutely adore my car and didn't anticipate diving so deeply into tracking and performance driving. However, I still cherish cruising around Seattle and its backroads with my wife. That said, I'm contemplating the idea of getting a GT4 RS. While it's undeniably a track beast, I have reservations about its practicality for everyday driving in Seattle and the substantial price hike. Financially, I could swing it, but it might not be the wisest move, especially since my GTS is nearly paid off. But the allure of the 4 RS's track prowess is hard to resist. If production were ongoing, I probably wouldn't even consider it, given how much I still have to learn. Yet, knowing time is ticking, it could be a vehicle I grow with over the next decade. But is it worth sacrificing those warm summer evening drives with my wife for track dominance? Decisions, decisions.
For any track newbies looking to chat about my experiences, feel free to hit me up. And seasoned drivers, I'm all ears for your advice. As always, you can follow my journey on Instagram @_GTS_Panda.
Happy driving, everyone!
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-Giancarlo
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2024.05.15 19:30 Laughageddon Disconnect/AFK

This is literally most of my losses. It's making me not want to play anymore. Feels like 6/10 of my games have this problem. It's getting way out of hand the amount of people who cry about something and then poof, their gone. To go 15+ kills and then to lose due to dc us so aggravating. To do everything right and still lose because of this is so aggravating. I report and report but it's not even worth the time it takes to report.
Make it so If there is a dc or an afk player, 3/5 to surrender, or let us leave without consequence. So I can actually play the game after a hard day at work instead of waiting 30+ min because my team won't surrender even thought we have no inhibitors and the core is at half.
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2024.05.15 19:30 JackOvall_MasterNun Looking for a local guide for the game

Hey All,
In from out of town and got gifted tickets to the game tonight (5/15). Unfortunately, my friend who gave me the tickets couldn't make it, so I'm looking for someone to go with.
Seats are on the Toyota Terrace.
What you would have to do to "earn" the ticket
that's about it.
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2024.05.15 19:30 throwrayellowhandle Women: do you desire your husband?

I'm venting but also seeking advice. Is it relatively normal for husbands to feel like they're generally the partner showing desire, seeking closeness with their wives, and having to "work for it" versus feeling desired back?
My wife and I have been together for nearly 20 years. In our first year together as 18 year olds, she was very sexually adventurous, seemed to desire me, we had a lot of fun. And then it started to plummet slowly over the years. I know this seems to be a common story and somewhat normal for a lot of people.
I've always had a very high libido and romantic/sexual desire for her. She's seemed to have a very low libido and interest in me that way. Over the years I felt like I often initiated sex, and she often turned me down, and she did say that she had low libido and wondered if it was her depression meds, stress, birth control, always different things. I started initiating much less and just accepting that is how it is between us, but I love her and desire her and want to be with her regardless. I got used to sex once a week being good, and often times once a month being common.
Over the years I gained weight, and she's gone up and down in weight. I think part of me wasn't that worried about my weight and how I looked because I felt like she didn't care anyway since she didn't seem all that sexually interested in me. I just masturbated and watched porn or old photos/videos she had made with me. I was content with this, as much as one could be.
We went on to have kids and were generally very happy. Overall we've had a very good, loving relationship and marriage. We've never separated or had to spend a night away from each other or anything like that.
In the past year, I ended up learning a lot of things about my wife (I won't get into how). I learned that my wife had cheated on me with her high school ex boyfriend in the first months we were dating (when we were 18). I learned that she had questioned our marriage a few years ago before we had kids, and she struggled with not feeling attracted to me at times, likely due to my weight gain (although I'm not sure if all of it was due to that). I learned that she still dwelled occasionally on her high school ex from 20 years ago who had cheated on her, and she would have sexual and romantic dreams about him and still felt hurt about their breakup, still hoped he felt bad about it and thought of her, even though this was all ancient history. I learned that she was "infatuated" with a work colleague a couple years ago, but never did anything inappropriate.
This all sent me in a cycle of depression, and reconciliation with her, where we had many conversations and talked through it all over months. I lost a lot of weight and now look and feel better than I have in 15 years. She insists that she loves only me, is attracted to me, but she had struggles and wasn't prioritizing the right things in life and vows to to better and love me better.
This is where I'm having trouble. I feel like we're on such different wavelengths and she doesn't put in much effort toward the things I ask.
When we were reconciling, she said one thing that would help her feel closer is having scheduled date nights, and she suggested we take turns leading them. I don't enjoy scheduling things as much, but wanted to do it for her. When we started the date nights, I took it seriously and tried to plan special, romantic things for her, tried to surprise her, wrote her a love letter, etc. Then when it was her turn to plan a date night, she didn't plan anything and said, "I was thinking we could play a board game together." This disappointed me the first time, but I didn't say anything, but then it continued. I put in effort, planned things, tried to be romantic, and she seemed to forget about them or come up with an idea at the last minute. So I stopped putting in effort, too, and then surprise, the date nights stopped.
I put care into my appearance all the time and try to look good for her. I keep my beard trimmed and shaved, cut my own hair, try to wear clothes she likes, and even started trimming my pubes because I like it and thought she might as well. She rarely acts like she notices the things I do, and she doesn't seem to really care much.
On the flip side, she gained quite a bit of weight from the birth of our children and hasn't lost much yet after quite a bit of time. I know from experience how hard that is and for women especially. But the part that bothers me is how she seems to not really worry at all about her appearance for me or looking good for me. She knows which clothes I like on her, how I really like her hair, how I like her pubic hair, whatever, and she doesn't do it. To her, it's because she doesn't have the time or is so busy. She'll fart near me or blow her nose really loud next to me constantly. I'll try to nicely hint that I don't like it, but she'll do it anyway.
The other day, my wife walked by me naked and made some flirtatious comment to me "hey, you didn't even try to sneak a peek." She'll do that occasionally, but then won't want to have sex or anything, it's just a comment. But it made me sad because I realized that over our 20 years together, she very rarely if ever looks at me sexually when I'm naked after a shower, she very rarely has come up to grab by butt or act like she wants me, but I've always done those things to her over the years. She'll on rare occasion make a comment about wanting to do something romantic or sexual, and then later when the time comes, she says nothing about it and acts like she completely forgot she ever said that.
I'm feeling less attracted to her overall, and for the first time maybe ever, I'm not really wanting to have sex with her as much. I've never been with any other woman in my life (she was with others before me), and I don't really want to be, but I do want to feel desired and like someone is really attracted to me and cares. I want to feel romantic and adventurous and not like an old man even though I'm still young.
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2024.05.15 19:28 FireCat10514 Scammed by Middleman!

I got scammed by the "middleman" in the subreddit here.
How it happened:
  1. https://steamcommunity.com/id/sifyy1399/ - the "buyer" contacted me, adding me as friend. I was stupid to accept.
  2. They offer to buy my Australium StickyBomb Launcher , but they really want to trade it soon so they don't want to wait the 7 days that Steam impose before one can trade. They offer to pay me by Paypal. Already a red flag I guess.
  3. I say sure, but give me the money first, so that I can't get scammed. They want to use a Middleman, sounds fair. They offer someone on the mentioned subreddit, and after a while, they offer Vaughn who is 4th on the list there. That's my next mistake - allowing them to pick. Though maybe it doesn't matter if all those listed are in it together (or are the same person).
  4. I'm suspicious at first but eventually give in and send the Middleman the item, waiting for the money.
  5. The "buyer" suddenly has a problem, he "can't send any less than 300 USD" for some arbitrary reason, wants to continue anyway. Obviously, here I'm already picking something is horribly wrong.
  6. They want me to buy 150 keys from Mann. Co Store and then they'll send me 300$ and I will give them the keys. For 1.55$ each that sounds like a good deal as 300$ cover it and the item too, but I'm not that stupid, obviously I say no. It's clear to me now they're scamming me, but I'm trying to get back what I can.
  7. After talking to them for a while and realising they are indeed trying to scam me, I'm trying my last resort and go back to the "Middleman", asking them to give me back my item while explaining the situation.
  8. The "Middleman" for some reason refuses, claiming that it is not their problem that the "buyer" cannot pay their part of the deal. Realise now that I'm done.
  9. They both unfriend me and the item is sold by the "middleman" to some bot, as can be seen in item history here.
Hopefully, the people in the future will be smarter than me. Never make any deal by non-official means! The 15% tax imposed by valve is better than 100% scammed!
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2024.05.15 19:27 Cassaneida Hello forever

I’ve been binging greys anatomy for the millionth time while pregnant. I normally skip the pregnancy trauma since I don’t want to freak myself out, BUT the episode (s18e20) where the cancer patient gives all his blood from his ecmo treatment to his wife who had a placental abruption had me crying my eyes out. He got to meet his son for just a moment before he died and he told his son, “Hello forever.” (Reference to his inside joke/endearing greeting to his wife)
I know it’s just the pregnancy hormones making me cry (maybe) but I’m not normally a fan of the later seasons last season 15. But this story line brought me back to the epic love stories and in depth patient stories that we used to get in the first few seasons.
Does anyone else have favorite story lines from post season 15 that kept them watching after so many seasons?
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