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2009.02.27 16:25 jobsearchusa linkedin

This is a place to share and discuss your use or the management of company's use on LinkedIn. This subreddit is not maintained nor run by LinkedIn proper. If you have account access issues, you must use official channels to resolve them. Do not accept unsolicited support from "hackers" or "account recover specialists".
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2016.09.16 00:56 zuxtron Create your JoJo Stands

A subreddit where fans of JoJo's Bizarre Adventure can share their ideas for Stand abilities. Here is a pair of Japanese quotation marks for you to copy and paste: 「」
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2009.09.13 17:48 Null_State I only need two buttons, Ctrl + C and Ctrl + V.

Go to Lemmy
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2024.05.16 09:03 Ok-Pop-8301 MIL runs the family business

I’m looking for support/advice/anyone that can even mildly relate to this. My partner is a third generation business owner in the events industry and works with his parents. They travel along an event circuit and live in trailers inches from each other for 8 months out of the year, and then spend the remaining months together in the same city on properties that his parents own.
Him and I have been dating for around 4 years, I’ve traveled with him for 3 of those years, and we welcomed a baby last year. My in laws are wonderful, but like any of us, flawed. In particular, my bf’s mom is incredibly emotionally immature, self absorbed and obnoxiously loud. She is very nice and has a lot of charm and compassion when she wants to, but being on her good side is a constant act to keep up and a necessity for survival. It’s absolutely draining for me to be completely isolated with her as one of the only people I talk to on a regular basis for the majority each year. She just rambles on and on about her problems, irrelevant stories from her childhood and anything else under the sun that crosses her mind with complete disregard for sharing space in a conversation or limiting over sharing. She also a major gossiper—anything you say to her is subject to discussion with anyone else she gabs to, and she passes a lot of judgement on anything said to her. I usually enjoy hearing her updates from time to time and can paste on a smile when she becomes too much for me, but there’s periods where I become extremely burnt out and lack a support system to take the edge off and vent to. Everyone on their company’s event circuit is either a colleague of hers, an employee of hers, or an immediate family member.
Since having our baby, I can’t really escape her as often or for as long because she now has the proud role of grandma on top of being my partners boss and my boss. Because of this structure, even when things are good between us, I find the dynamic to be totally overbearing and suffocating. My partner and I have a great relationship and a wonderful child, but having her as a part of my everyday life is something I struggle to tolerate, especially with all my friends and family 100+ miles away at any given time. It was lonely to begin with, but I often feel like I can’t even be myself because I’m always worried about my in-laws perception of me and maintaining rapport with them because they are such an enormous part of my life. Their family business is my partner’s passion, and it’s a non-negotiable that this is how we both live until our daughter starts school eventually…just as his parents and grandparents did before us.
So to anyone isolated from their community by virtue of choosing to support their spouse’s career, how do you cope with a constant in-law presence and a lack of your own support system? There’s times where I feel like I just can’t do this.
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2024.05.16 09:03 Upset-Masterpiece-80 I let myself down..but there might be some hope

Hi guys,
I posted about 7 days ago. It was after receiving some pretty serious news from my Doctor about my health.
I made it 5 days before I started drinking again. I literally went to a bar right after going for an ultrasound on my liver. Who does that?!?
My Doctor called me yesterday. I wasn't surprised when she said I have extreme fatty liver. Of course I do. Of course.
So what have I been doing with all of this new information about my awful health? Why drinking, of course. Drinking like I never heard any of it.
Have you ever been in just pure awe at your own stupidity? Like, I'm almost impressed by it. Like I should be a definition in a dictionary..
Turns out that my Doctor has seen enough, and I'll be getting referred to a private clinic run by an endocrinologist. He'll be doing more tests, and I'll be put on cholesterol meds and apparently, ozempic. My weight has shot up the past few years. I'm a petite female usually in the 110lb range, and that has blown up to about 150lbs the last time I checked. The weight gain has obviously done pretty crappy things to my health.
My appointment for that is on Jun 4th.
I've started researching the crap out of ozempic, and talked to some people on the subreddit. Turns out that a lot of people quit alcohol completely on the drug. Seems that the same thing the drug does to your appetite also affects other behaviours, namely addictions, in the same way. I'm fascinated by this. There's some real science coming out about this now and could be an absolute game changer.
So wish me luck. I can't seem to do this on my own. But there's a chance that these meds might actually be able to do it for me. Deep inside me, I dare to hope.
If I can quit alcohol, my Doctor says that in two years, my liver could be completely normal by then. And if I lose weight, I may not need the cholesterol meds that she's desperate to get me on asap.
A lot of thoughts in my head tonight.
I dunno. But thanks for listening.
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2024.05.16 09:03 Gloria-art Share how I got started with Midjourney prompt

Hello everyone, I am a beginner in Midjourney.
I don't have an art background, I've learned photography for a while but didn't stick with it, I have a certain IT and data background, and I like beautiful image works.
Midjourney is a very good product, especially the V6 version, the images it generates have shocked me aesthetically, so I decided to learn to create with it.
I have some insights during the learning process of Midjourney, and I have also built some tools to help me understand it and speed up creation. I want to share the process with everyone here, hoping to discuss together how to better and more efficiently play with Midjourney.

My Journey of Learning Midjourney

1. Looking at others' works and prompts
others' works
Seeing others' beautiful digital works on Midjourney online is also a reason for me to seriously learn it. There are many places to learn, such as the Midjourney official website, Facebook interest groups, PromptHero, etc. There are thousands of beautiful pictures, and problems come with them: the prompts behind them are endless, and I don't know where to start learning. At first, I copied these prompts into discord and reproduced them myself, but this method made me feel like I didn't gain anything.
2. Learning keywords
Luckily, I found that keywords are the key. Smart people have summarized many types of keywords, such as artists, artistic styles, camera perspectives, shooting distances, Texure, light, color, etc. This has opened the door to a new world for someone like me who doesn't have much experience in photography and painting. I started to search for related information on Google: who are the artists? What is their style of work? What is the camera perspective? What types are there? etc. Through this path, I learned a lot of photography and painting related knowledge, and of course I am also very grateful to Midjourney, it has inspired my interest in learning this aspect - once I took a SLR camera to learn, the poor early composition plus a pile of boring parameters made me give up quickly. Midjourney also has a bunch of boring parameters, but its composition is stable, which can ensure that I can draw passable pictures even if I don't understand these parameters.
In the process of understanding keywords, I found that even so classified, there are still too many of them. For example, artists, globally and from ancient times to the present, there are so many artists, how can I remember everyone's name and quickly make up their style of work? So I started to think about whether there is any tool that can allow me to select keywords based on representative works or effect pictures. During this period, I found a keyword visualization library with 11.7K stars on GitHub, and some prompt generator websites that can select keywords based on effect pictures. They are really great, and they sort out keyword types more systematically and comprehensively than I do. This is a good place for beginners to start. But I still can't use them very well, for the following reasons:
  1. Some trendy keywords may not be included
  2. Each website cannot exhaust all types of keywords, and some types of keywords are of interest to me, such as decorations.
So I started thinking about building my own library. DIY a Studio that meets my personalized needs. I built my idea with Notion.
my KeyWords Visual DataBase
I first built a visual database for keywords, stored keywords by tags and categories, tested the effects of each keyword in Midjourney V6, and imported the most representative photos into the library. Then use Gallery mode to display keyword and corresponding effect pictures. The keyword visualization database can remind me of the effects of each keyword and provide me with inspiration; and I can also continuously add my keyword.
3. Treat learning as a game challenge: find excellent works, try to assemble prompts to reproduce them
After building the keyword visualization database, I feel much more at ease when creating prompts. The new creative process is like this: when I have determined the Subject I want to express, I choose the visible keyword in the keywords library to enhance the artistic effect.
Now start challenging the new goal: find excellent works, guess its prompt, and reproduce it. This is a very interesting learning method, like a game, it can keep my passion for learning.
I found such a reproduction target online:
Target(Other's work)
The Subject of the picture is easy to determine: "Film Venom, a sexy beautiful woman". But its subtlety lies in the fact that the woman painted is sexy but not vulgar, the color is bright, there is a sense of line, and the whole work is very high-end. If there is no blessing of keywords, just enter the Subject into Midjourney, the effect is like this:
prompt:“Film Venom, a sexy beautiful woman”
These photos are more like taking photos of porn stars and lack a sense of high-end. Therefore, I need to try a lot of keywords to enhance the beauty, such as finding some artists and art styles whose works are similar to the target works, then finding color and line description words close to the target, MidJourney allows various art styles to be mixed together, so my keywords There will also be a lot of permutations and combinations, which is a bit like doing an experiment, trying all possibilities.
The difficulties I encountered here are:
1.I have to manually put together each permutation and combination
2.Manual work takes a long time, but inspiration is fleeting
3.I can't remember what combinations I have made, and I may repeat the same combination
So I built a [prompt lab] (because it's too much like an experiment), which includes a prompt generator and a keywords visualization database. The generator uses the key types of keywords as options, selects while referring to the keyword effect pictures, and the function automatically assembles into a complete prompt. Just click the "copy" button and paste it into discord, which is much faster than I slowly put together in discord. It can also record the prompt combinations that I think are more critical according to my own ideas, which is convenient for me to review and summarize.
prompt creation process
Of course, due to the architecture, Notion also has some shortcomings: it cannot make pictures into options. I can only put the keywords library in the sidebar, and use it as a dictionary to flip through when assembling prompts.
Tried 200+ times quickly with prompt LAB
In addition, I also established a visual view, when I passed the more satisfactory effect picture back to the laboratory, I could compare the effect difference of the prompt anytime.
Visual Gallery
Finally, after countless attempts, if there are very satisfactory works, I will want to collect them. And the remaining unsatisfactory ones can be deleted to keep the number of records in the laboratory at a processing level that my brain capacity can accept.
4. Put good works into the collection library
I added a collection library to the lab, classifying and managing my own satisfactory works and other people's excellent works, which is convenient for reference and inspiration.
Collections Database
5. To be continued
In fact, although I have done so much work and tried, I’m still at the beginner stage. Digital art creation is endless. Perhaps with the deepening of cognition, my tools will also evolve.

THE END

Thank you for reading to the end. Here I share my unique learning process, hoping to help some people, and also hope to get everyone's guidance.
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2024.05.16 09:03 CustardNatural Is staying in RC worth it?

Hello, I got an offer from Tembusu recently, but I'm wondering if it is worth it to stay in RC. I applied for Tembusu because of their modules, but it is pretty ex. (My family doesn't qualify for financial aid).
Pros:
  1. Save on travelling time. I live in the north-east region so travelling to NUS takes me at least 1 hour 15 minutes. If I stay in RC, time taken to get to classes is shorter.
  2. Guaranteed 2-year stay. I don't need to take up 4-7 CCAs to confirm a place, which leaves me more time to pursue other interests.
  3. Modules. The main reason why I picked Tembusu is because of the modules- specifically the CSI one & Fakes because it aligns with my interests. Also, they replace General Education modules so I don't have to worry about taking additional modules.
  4. Networking. I think staying at NUS in general & being involved in campus activities will give me more of a chance to network with + Tembusu has a lot of tea sessions with environmental conservationists, diplomats etc. and since I enjoyed the talks given by experts in their field back in JC, interacting with the people invited would be a dream come true.
  5. Interest groups. Tembusu has a vibrant arts scene & I'm keen on picking up an instrument. Also, I'd like to pick up baking once more since my house is not conducive (my family bought the wrong oven haha) & Tembusu's baking IG is pretty cool.
Cons:
  1. The cost. It costs about 16-18K for the 2 years (depending on the room I pick + meal plan), which is already around the cost of my uni fees. Rn, I am pursuing smth which costs like 50K+ (dropping it is not an option). Putting this cost on them on top of my 50K+ endeavour seems selfish. Esp since taking Grab to & fro school every day can still be cheaper than taking up RC.
Honestly, I'm trying to gun for mid-term scholarship but realistically, I can't place all my hopes on this. Is the experience of RC very worth it? Thank you!
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2024.05.16 09:03 z31r4m Request: Enhancement to Clippings: Share Button sends text to new clipping

Would it be possible to add functionality to send text *straight into a new clipping via the Share > Nihongo button?
Currently I’m reading web novels, manga, and blogs (like pixiv fanboy). I’m running into the “wall of text” problem where I want to isolate and study paragraphed content, so I want to send some lines of text from the following sources:
Live text has gotten really good with distorted and vertical text like in manga recently, so 80% of the timeI want to send this text to clippings and glean some vocabulary to study decks.
I can do this via copy and paste but it’s too many steps. Also there’s another app that has a workflow like this, and it’s kinda nice. BUT I want to see this in Nihongo clippings and build vocabulary from there.
Please upvote / consider this if you think this is a good idea. I’d really like it for web novels and manga….
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2024.05.16 09:01 krakHawk How do I (M26) deal with my arrogant friend’s (M26) condescending nature?

Most of the time he’s a really friendly supportive person. We been friends a long time. Our families are close. We’re roommates now.
Other times he is not a nice person. I’m convinced it’s just how he’s wired. I feel that he feels superior to myself and others. Which self confidence is cool and all but not if it means you’re looking down on others. Either that or he’s actually insecure and is taking it out on us.
Ex-military. Very ego driven, wakes up early, works out a lot. Has very strong opinions. Most of the time he’s “right”. He’s that type of person.
I am the complete opposite so naturally sometimes our personalities clash and it usually ends with him beating me in a conversation/argument. I’m wayyy too nice. A blessing and a curse. I usually don’t let things like this bother me but I can’t help but feel like he pushes me around a bit.
He’s really hard to argue with. He will always win. He won’t back down. I’m convinced he will ruin a friendship if it means he wins the conversation. Thankfully it’s never gotten to that point simply because I never care enough to keep arguing or I just submit. Which in hindsight probably fuels his ego.
He’ll speak to me sometimes in a really condescending, patronizing way. Likes he my leader or something. The other day I put a cutting board in the dishwasher, not knowing it should probably just be hand dried and he goes “No no. No we don’t do that” with a high pitch in his inflection.
What? Do you think you’re talking to a little kid? Why are you talking down to me like that? There are other, much more respectful ways to get that message across. This is just one example of him talking to me that way. He’s always correcting me. Which I’m fine with btw, I make mistakes. Just please don’t use a condescending tone. It’s like his way of telling me he thinks I’m stupid without actually saying it.
I really want to tell him to stop but I don’t know how to talk to him about that without it pissing him off. I just want to tell him “hey, don’t talk to me like that… it makes me feel like shit about myself especially when it’s coming from my best friend.”
And then he’ll clap back with something along the lines of “oh sensitive? It’s okay to be sensitive”
Y’know. He’ll clap back. He will always clap back. And he’s quick witted so that also sucks for me. He’s quick with the response. He’s got that trust fund, finance guy asshole vibe to him when he really gets going.
I just don’t know how to have this conversation with him without it ending poorly.
I just want to tell him that sometimes he can be a not so nice person. I really like the nice side of him. But man his mean side really sucks and it’s starting to ware me down.
TLDR: Quick-witted, ex military, ego filled friend talks to me in a condescending, patronizing way from time to time and I want to tell him I don’t like it without pissing him off.
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2024.05.16 09:01 relationshipguy254 Can Trauma Caused by Decades of Narcissistic Abuse Just Vanish Overnight Because You Get into A Good Relationship?

Today I'd like to answer this question: Can decades of trauma from narcissistic abuse vanish overnight once you get a good relationship? This is a great question. The question looks at a scenario where someone leaves an abusive relationship and enters a new one, possibly a healthier one. They've been dealing with trauma symptoms like trouble sleeping, feeling empty, unloved, unappreciated, and overall feeling invalidated.
So, when you start this new relationship, you might feel amazing right away. You'll feel loved, validated, and really good about yourself. You'll even feel confident. At first, you might believe that all your trauma has vanished. You might even think you're completely healed and get really excited.
But here's the catch: that's just what the new relationship has done. It's given you a temporary feeling of relief. It's like a distraction, a way to avoid facing your trauma. Your past trauma likely involved other people, like your caregivers or your abusive ex. So, when you're with someone new, you might feel that relief or feel better simply because you're experiencing ‘love’ again or the love you never got from your past.
You might start to believe that feeling loved in this new relationship is how life should be, or that your trauma is gone because you're feeling loved. It's like putting a bandage on a wound - initially, it feels better because you can't see the wound anymore. Without seeing it, you don't feel the emotional pain, and you might even feel indifferent to it because it's temporarily hidden.
When you enter a new relationship, especially after narcissistic abuse, it might seem like your traumas have vanished or your wounds are healed. But that's not the truth. It's just a temporary mask. After a while, maybe a few weeks or months into the relationship, those traumas will come back to the surface. It's similar to using any coping mechanism, like drinking or drugs, to numb the pain. Initially, you might feel better, but eventually, the effects wear off, and the pain returns. The new relationship becomes your coping mechanism, which is why you feel excited and euphoric, thinking your traumas are gone.
The trauma will persist until you confront it head-on, rather than covering it up with more distractions. These distractions could be overworking, alcohol abuse, entering a new relationship, or anything else that keeps you from acknowledging the wound for what it truly is. True healing comes from facing the trauma, understanding it, and then letting go of the emotions that tie you to the past, the ones that keep you hooked on those painful memories.
A new relationship might seem like a positive support system, but it can't truly erase your trauma. Instead, it often serves as a temporary distraction, allowing you to avoid confronting your unresolved issues. Sometimes, the excitement and euphoria you feel in the new relationship stem from the validation and love it offers, something you may lack within yourself. However, if you become dependent on this relationship, you risk repeating the cycle and ending up in another toxic situation. Relationships can bring temporary happiness, but they can't heal deep-seated trauma. The real healing comes from within, by facing your fears and addressing the underlying issues you've been avoiding. It's a challenging journey, but it's necessary for true healing.
Note from the Author
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2024.05.16 09:01 Numerous-Size-131 Can you describe your experience with the word “connection”?

Can you describe your experience with the word “connection” (emotional connection, human connection)?
Hi. I’m an autistic dude in my 30’s. For context, I’ve avoided interacting face to face with people pretty much my whole life. I have a really hard time with the word “connection” as it pertains to interpersonal relationships. I think the core disconnect is that I don’t think I’ve ever experienced “connection”. Or if I have, I didn’t naturally apply that name to it. I’m trying to puzzle it out because:
1) apparently women want an emotional connection in relationships/before sex. I’ve sought out dating/sex my whole adult life. The crushes that I’ve had dates with, I just felt amazing around that person. That’s as far as I understood it and then they would ghost me after 1 or 2 dates. I had no idea that what women want is an emotional connection. Now that I know that, I’m trying to figure out what the hell that actually means.
2) I need to know the actual definition of the word, because I need to know if I’m making a connection with someone. What am I supposed to feel in my body? What is supposed to actually happen? What is the other person supposed to feel or do? I can’t make progress towards being emotionally connected until I know these things. My current friendships are quite shallow (apparently), so clearly emotional connection doesn’t “just happen” for me. I need to be able to know what I’m doing and if I’m making progress so that I can correct course if I’m not doing it right, or if I am doing it right, tell myself “keep doing what you’re doing”.
I’ll start with what got me thinking about it again and then what my history with the word is.
So the other day I was hanging out with some friends and there’s one guy in the group who is dating. He apparently had been out multiple times with this girl he met on a dating app. I know I’m supposed to be happy for him, but when I hear about this sort of thing, I’m just baffled. How did he have a conversation with her over the app? What did they start with? It seems to have something to do with connection, I guess. I seemingly don’t know how to have a conversation, and that’s not something I could’ve asked him, people just look at me weird when I say something ultra-beginner like “how do I have a conversation”. It just pissed me off because this dude is recently divorced and he’s already been on multiple dates with this other woman. This is the 3rd friend I’ve had that has been divorced and started dating again, and they all get further than me in 1/10th the time! The other two friends are already re-married! Meanwhile I’ve never made it past a 2nd date. So clearly I’m missing something.
My friend was talking about said girl and ended it with “connection! That’s the important thing!” Which is what got me confused and thinking about the word.
So, from my perspective, “human connection” is a totally new idea to me. I literally never heard anyone in any capacity, whether it be online, face to face, or in media of any kind, talk about “connection”, emotional connection, or human connection. Then all of a sudden a few years ago people started saying it all the time. Not everyone, but I’ve heard it from multiple people now. Many people have said that it’s the most important thing on earth. Why is something that many people consider to be the most important thing on earth…something that wasn’t even on my radar until a few years ago? What the hell?
My confusion comes in because I can’t tell what my friend’s history with the word is. Is he just as clueless as I am, and is just using the word because they’ve heard other people say it and their best guess is that what they are experiencing is connection? Or did they experience a connection at some earlier point in their life and somehow someone was able to label it as “connection” for him? Does it somehow feel like a “connection” so people naturally apply that label? Maybe his family frequently talked about connection? That seems weird though because it seems impossible to talk about “human connection” with the people you might connect with - people seem to get really uncomfortable with it. I guess because if you don’t know what an emotional connection is, and they do, they probably don’t want to be around you.
Looking it up, the term emotional intelligence was coined in 1990. It seems like that’s around the same time “emotional connection” was coined. So….the most important thing on earth didn’t have a name until 1990? What? What did people in the 70’s say to refer to it? Did they not have connections? What did people in the 1920’s say without this term existing? I just don’t get how something so recent is supposedly so crucial to being a human and interacting with others.
Furthermore, what does it say about my life that I had only heard this term recently? I’m not thinking like “boo hoo for me, his life is better”, more like “other people have been living in an alternate reality to me where connection is very important and for some reason they never helped me with this concept, and they won’t help explain it to me now because I’m supposed to just get it. And they think this experience of connection is universal and everyone gets it.” Not understanding it seems to signal to them that I haven’t been living in their reality.
So what’s your history with the word? Did you have a “connection” with someone, and then, not having heard the word, you said to yourself “this feels like a connection!”. Or had you heard the word first and then applied it to your situation once you had a connection with someone? Do you feel as weird about it as I do, like you missed the memo that said the definition of the word and told everyone to start using it? Did your family talk about the concept when you were growing up?
I wasn’t sure where to post this, so if you have a recommendation for a sub where I can ask people that are understanding of Autism, but also has NT people on the sub, I’m all ears.
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2024.05.16 09:00 AutoModerator Trendy Thursdays! - The place where anyone can help you with your customizations!

Hello! Welcome to the Weekly Customization Thread (a.k.a Trendy Thursdays), this is where you can request help to customize one of your pets, and anyone who wants to help can reply to them.
Also, if you have any general question about NC, or what petpet goes with your pet, etc, feel free to ask here too!

Rules:

To ask for help on a customization, you need to provide the following information:
  • Species.
  • Colour.
  • Gender.
  • Name of the pet. (Not necessary, but it might help get a better understanding of a theme)
  • Theme, if you have any.
  • Limitations on wearables, if you can only use NP, or you can also use some NC.
  • If you are able to cross-paint your pet.
format is not necessary to copy, also if you have a half-finished custom you don't have to provide the info :)
To help make customizations, please try to follow these simple guidelines:
  • Include a link to the customization. (Using DTI or JN's Wardrobe)
  • Try to include a brief summary of why you customized like that. (Not necessary but it can help!)
  • If you use expensive NC items, make sure to find other items to replace them (if the user can't afford them).
  • You can reply to anyone who needs help, you can't take dibs on one user.
  • You can also reply to other customizations offered to do constructive criticism or offer modifications. (Remember to be nice.)
  • If the customization you reply with is not yours, please give credit to the creator.
If you have any doubts or questions feel free to ask anything here!
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2024.05.16 09:00 Aladeen_On_Your_Face Gorge first timer with a few questions

Hi all, big DMB fan who will be making my first trip to the Gorge on the 31st first of this month for an RHCP show (my fav band, hoping to come back next year and stay all weekend and camp for DMB). I had some questions and figured there's no better group to ask than this one.
1) I will be flying out from east coast, staying in Seattle, and driving to and from the show. How much of a difference does Star and Star Plus parking make? These are $99-125 each but I think it's well worth the money if it will help me get out quick and headed back to the city after.
2) Can you bring any food or drinks into the venue? I saw somewhere that you can bring a closed or empty bottle of water in but not sure if this is true. If it is true does it need to be under a certain size or could I bring something large like a 1.5L?
3) I have heard a lot about how it can be hot and sunny during the day and cool and windy at night. Does anyone know what the weather might be like at the end of May/ start of June? Trying to figure out what i should wear and plan to bring (besides sunscreen).
4) I'm sure it will be slightly different for an RHCP show opposed to Dave, but how quick does the pit tend to fill up? I have pit tickets, but am planning to hang out on the lawn and take in the views and sunset before moving down and close.
Super excited for my first Gorge experience and can't wait to come back for a Davecation hopefully next year! Any other general info, tips, or advice about the venue for a newbie are greatly appreciated, TIA!
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2024.05.16 09:00 anonymousbub33 Spider problem

Anyone got that problem where, they're mining in a lava cave, minding thier own business, there's some spiders and scorpions, "no biggie, I got my lightsaber, I'll just swing it around a few times, I'll kill em and I can go back to mining in peace"
But NO, for the past 30 minutes I've been TRYING to mine the same bloody spot and every time I kill a spider, it just comes back,
I stg those fuckers don't stay dead, and you might be thinking "oh sal, they're probably just wondering in from another area in the cave"
NAH, I SAT THERE WATCHING THOSE BASTARDS RESPAWN AFTER EXTERMINATING THEM ALL JUST FOR THEM TO AGGRO AGAIN
I'm just trying to mine in peace over here and the game thought it would be funny to repeatedly throw spiders and scorpions at me To distract me in the middle of mining and waste my lightsaber durability
I tried covering up the spots I saw them spawn in from but NAH, THOSE BASTARDS JUST RESPAWN OVER THE FLOORS
I just want some brightcores okay, not 17 stacks of raw meat and string
I don't know if they're supposed to respawn in the cave while you're in it or if this is a bug where the game thinks im not in the cave so it spawns enemies to replace the missing ones, because they sure as hell haven't been doing this before,
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2024.05.16 09:00 IDonutl Is someone able to interpret my child's (6F) xray?

Daughter (6F) has been complaining of stomach pain these past few days. Took her to the Drs today and he sent her for an xray. The radiologist asked if she wanted to keep a copy of her xray since it was her first one.
Will probably be a day or 2 before we cam get back to the doctors for the results and was wondering if anyone here can interpret the picture before then?
Picture link here https://imgur.com/a/1bseqiw
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2024.05.16 09:00 Introverted-Bee-1341 Would you stay in a long-term and otherwise successful but sexless marriage?

As the topic says I am a 50s male and sex with my wife has never been frequent except for maybe the first year. Within a decade even the infrequent (a few times a year) sex stopped entirely. I won't lie and say that everything has gone swimmingly, but we have been together for 30+ years now and built a nice life together. We enjoy each other's company, have similar interests, and get along pretty well outside of the bedroom. We love each other and I could see spending the rest of my life with her in terms of how well we get along most of the time.
We are in marital counseling at my insistence, because I feel like my needs aren't being met and are being minimized by her. It wasn't just sex. There were other needs as well, but we have done a good job of working through most of those issues and finding ways to compromise. The one which remains is our completely dead sex life. My wife claims she is post-menopausal, her body has closed up shop now, and it is never going to happen again which was really a difficult thing to hear her say. It makes me feel sad for her as well as me that we lived without that pleasure for most of our marriage and it did hurt our intimacy in other ways although that's a lot better now after counseling.
There are some reasons that sex was difficult for her having to do with things that happened to her as a child and as a teen, but she never shared that with me during our marriage. It only finally came out in counseling. I might have been a lot more sympathetic and willing to help work on things for both of our sakes if she had said something earlier, but she never did. I am angry at her for denying me and herself a healthy sex life and keeping that secret. I understand the guilt, the shame, and the fear but I can't believe she just kept that to herself for 30+ years even as I asked her why our sex life was non-existent. She always came up with different reasons, said she didn't enjoy it, and ultimately said she thought she was asexual because it wasn't something she ever thought about. She disliked it and wanted it over as fast as possible when it did happen. A lot of it makes sense now, but it is too little, too late.
I was talking to my wife yesterday and I told her how much resentment I have about our lack of intimacy. I told her I am not sure I can get past it. She said "We are best friends. We have everything. Big deal if you're not my Latin lover. Why is that an issue? You wouldn't leave me over that would you? We're both over 50 now! If it was that much of a dealbreaker you should have done something a long time ago and not now. I will be furious if you leave now after all of this."
I have been mulling over what she said and I don't know why she is mad at me for finally speaking up and telling her my needs aren't being met. She could have said something to me, too, instead of just rejecting me over and over for years! All this time I felt unloved and unattractive, like a bad lover unable to please her, searching for possible answers to solve our problem from hormones to better sexual techniques, romantic getaways, I even worried about if it was my haircut or my snoring or something I said or did to turn her off. Countless hours spent. I even got her some books to read, which she never read and I see now that's because she knew what the problem was all along.
It really impacted my mental health and my self-esteem. I couldn't make female friends because I didn't trust myself around them. I managed to stay loyal in a strict sense (no sex), but it was an effort, and I did do some things I wasn't proud of such as visiting strip clubs (I can count the times on one hand) and watching porn which she knew about but disapproved of. I told her that if she won't have sex with me then I need some kind of outlet and she relented, but I know she wasn't happy about it. Even now she says "How do I know you weren't off at some strip club or with a whore when you said you were at work?" so it contributed to trust issues in the relationship as well. I also did visit one of those women that does sensual massage twice. My wife doesn't know about that. It was an amazing experience but I didn't want to be caught doing that. An old girlfriend also offered to help me out and I turned her down. My wife does know about that, because I told her thinking maybe it would make her realize that other women find me desirable and I do have options. Interestingly, she wasn't mad about that. All she said was "Poor girl."
The thing is... sex isn't THAT important to me. However, I still do have sexual desire and I hate feeling like I might cheat on her some day to fulfill it. I stopped getting the massages because I was afraid it would lead to more. It's a constant internal battle. Even if I resign myself to a sexless marriage I feel like she would still be ignoring my needs, which is why I wanted counseling. There's got to be SOME compromise she is willing to make.
However, even if she suddenly turned into a blowjob queen there is still all of that resentment for the years of being ignored, rejected, and made to feel ashamed because I want sex with my wife. Even her words yesterday "Big deal if you're not my Latin lover" I feel were chosen to make fun of me. I'm not Latin. She just chose some stereotype of what she perceives as a macho hyper sexualized man (which she knows I am not) to shame me as if to say "You don't want to be one of THOSE do you?" When she said it she wiggled her hips in an exaggerated manner.
I have been thinking hard about if she is right. Do I just want to throw it all away over sex? . Can I get over the resentment? I feel like a really bad man for thinking about my sex life when my poor wife has all that trauma, but what is the end game there? She already said sex is over and done. I don't want to open up the marriage. I am just trying to decide if I am being really petty and self-centered. Our counselor says that it's not petty if it's important to me, but it's not important to everyone and people have happy marriages without sex. He hasn't given me any suggestions on how to get past the resentment.
I'd appreciate some advice.
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2024.05.16 09:00 AutoModerator NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! - May 16, 2024

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2024.05.16 08:59 CustardNatural [University] Is staying in RC (NUS) worth it?

Hello, I got an offer from Tembusu recently, but I'm wondering if it is worth it to stay in RC. I applied for Tembusu because of their modules, but it is pretty ex. (My family doesn't qualify for financial aid).
Pros: 1. Save on travelling time. I live in the north-east region so travelling to NUS takes me at least 1 hour 15 minutes. If I stay in RC, time taken to get to classes is shorter.
  1. Guaranteed 2-year stay. I don't need to take up 4-7 CCAs to confirm a place, which leaves me more time to pursue other interests.
  2. Modules. The main reason why I picked Tembusu is because of the modules- specifically the CSI one & Fakes because it aligns with my interests. Also, they replace General Education modules so I don't have to worry about taking additional modules.
  3. Networking. I think staying at NUS in general & being involved in campus activities will give me more of a chance to network with + Tembusu has a lot of tea sessions with environmental conservationists, diplomats etc. and since I enjoyed the talks given by experts in their field back in JC, interacting with the people invited would be a dream come true.
  4. Interest groups. Tembusu has a vibrant arts scene & I'm keen on picking up an instrument. Also, I'd like to pick up baking once more since my house is not conducive (my family bought the wrong oven haha) & Tembusu's baking IG is pretty cool.
Cons: 1. The cost. It costs about 16-18K for the 2 years (depending on the room I pick + meal plan), which is already around the cost of my uni fees. Rn, I am pursuing smth which costs like 50K+ (dropping it is not an option). Putting this cost on them on top of my 50K+ endeavour seems selfish. Esp since taking Grab to & fro school every day can still be cheaper than taking up RC.
Honestly, I'm trying to gun for mid-term scholarship but realistically, I can't place all my hopes on this. Any advice? Thank you!
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2024.05.16 08:59 GigaChadSigmaKhansir SITUATIONS OF TEENS NOWADAYS ( VERY SERIOUS )

VERY SERIOUS POST
so i was reading some posts this week on this sub, and in this particular post, some 14-15 year kids were showing off "proudly" that they have had alcohol. and when someone tried to tell them its not cool and and rather foolish, they start downvoting. kids are trying so hard to look kool that they will don anything now a days.
in another post in one of the two bitsat subs, there was this one girl who had sex without condom just because the boy told. and she even agreed to have sex without a condom. she knew what were the consequences, but had sex just because the boy asked. now she is pregnant. her life is almost ruined now, she cannot get into college like this, her mental life is fucked now, and you all would also have read some stories on this sub in the past.
in one post on this sub recently, a guys told about his school that how kids are selling weed and cigarettes inside school, kids having sex in the school. this is shocking man, this is traumatising. school is the place to learn, gain education and now a days kids are doing such things.
KIND REQUEST TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE BELOW 16 -
1) there will be a kool dood group around you in school who smokes, vapes and drinks alcohol, they are fools. pls dont do this in peer pressure or if you want to look kool. you are indeed inviting your death 10-20 years early.
2) control your mind and the hormone rage for 2-3 years, dont have sex even with protection, coz condoms dont have 100% rate. and as you are minor if you have sex you would be under the pocso act which is non bailable.
if possible mods pls pin, coz this is increasing exponentially at an alarming rate. i hope that by reading this post, i would be able to open the eyes of some kids.
coz one can donate eyes, but not vision.
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2024.05.16 08:57 Yurii_S_Kh St. Theodosius of the Kiev Caves

St. Theodosius of the Kiev Caves
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Theodosius, whose name means "gift of God," grew up in the small cities of Vasilkov and Kursk where his father was a judge. Although his parents were Christian and gave him an education directed primarily at the study of Scripture, they were astonished to see his heart so completely overtaken by love for God.
His father died when Theodosius was 13, and this caused the boy to retreat still further from the world common to one of his age and social rank. He gave away his good clothes, preferring to dress like the poor, and found pleasure in helping the peasants with their work. He often went to church, and when he learned that Divine Liturgy was sometimes not celebrated due to a lack of prosphora, he undertook to bake them himself. His mother loved him dearly, but she did not share her son's life-encompassing Christian outlook; she was very conscious of her social standing and felt that by engaging in such lowly occupations Theodosius brought shame upon the family. She tried cajoling, then threatening and even physically beating him to make him change his ways, but Theodosius stood firmly on the path of the Gospel commandments.
His zeal for the things of God inspired Theodosius to slip away with a band of pilgrims bound for the Holy Land. Three days later his mother tracked him down, berated the pilgrims for having taken the boy along, and dragged Theodosius home where she kept him in chains until the youth promised not to leave her again.
The humility of the youth and the sufferings he endured at the hands of his mother came to the attention of the governor who requested that the youth attend him in church. This served to calm the domestic drama, but Theodosius' heart yearned for a more concentrated spiritual atmosphere, for monastic life. Standing in church one day, he was struck by the words of the Gospel: "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me." With fixed resolve, he took advantage of his mother's departure into the country for a few days to set out for Kiev, taking with him nothing but some bread for the road. The monks in the established monasteries, however, turned him away because he had no money. Then he heard about the righteous Anthony. Coming to his cave, Theodosius fell to his knees and begged the holy ascetic to accept him.
"My son," said Anthony, "you see my cave; it is cramped and dismal, and I fear you will not endure the difficulties of life here." "Know, O blessed father," replied Theodosius. "that God Himself has led me to your holiness that I might find salvation. I shall do all that you enjoin." Foreseeing his future greatness, the blessed Anthony accepted the determined aspirant and bade the priest monk Nikon tonsure him. Theodosius was 23 years old.
It was a few years before his distraught mother finally discovered her son’s whereabouts. With great reluctance Theodosius went out to her. At first she vowed that she would die if he did not come home with her. But gradually God softened her heart and she came to see the wisdom of her son's patient admonitions. Following his advice she entered the St. Nicholas convent there in Kiev where she ended her days in peace.
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When Theodosius became abbot, he saw need for a common rule to unite the growing community--which by that time was living above the ground; only a few hermits were left in the caves--and he sent one of his monks to Constantinople to copy out the rule of the Studite Monastery. The rule governed the daily life of the monk: it set the hours of prayer and work; monks were forbidden to have any personal possessions, everything was held in common; all monks were together for common meals: time, apart from prayer, was to be spent in working; all activity was begun with a blessing from an elder and with prayer. The monks were to reveal their thoughts to the abbot, a practice which roused them to constant spiritual vigilance and helped to check manifestations of the passions before they took root in the heart.
Above all things, have fervent charity among yourselves (I Peter 4:8).
It was St, Theodosius' choice of the Studite Rule, with its emphasis on the duty of charity and the common good, which served to revive the ancient ideal of strict cenobitism and gave Russian monasticism its characteristic warmth. "What is principally necessary," taught Theodosius, "is that the youngest should love their neighbor and listen to their elders with humility and obedience. The elders should lavish on the young love and instruction; they should teach them and comfort them." This attitude created an atmosphere eminently suitable for missionary work, and it was thanks to the monasteries that Christianity was so successfully propagated in Russia.
Of a strong constitution, Theodosius was a model of industriousness. Even as abbot, he felled trees, carried water, and ground wheat, often helping the other brethren with their obediences. Once, the cook came to ask if he would assign a monk to cut firewood, as the kitchen supply was depleted. "I am idle," replied the Saint, and he set to chopping wood himself. He worked through the dinner hour and the brethren, when they came out and saw their abbot hard at work, were inspired to do likewise.
Knowing the great benefit of good books upon the soul, Theodosius instituted the reading of spiritually profitable texts during meals, and sought to augment the number of such books in the monastery. Books were still a rarity at that time, and one of the valued occupations of the monastery was the copying and binding of manuscripts. Theodosius himself helped in this work.
At first, life in the Caves Monastery was very austere indeed. The monks lived principally on rye bread and water with the addition of a few vegetables which they cultivated themselves; they wove their own cloth and sewed their own garments. When the brethren murmured about some deficiency, Theodosius exhorted them to place their trust in the Lord Who knew their needs. And his faith was often miraculously rewarded.
The reputation of the monks as 'angels on earth' began attracting pilgrims; princes and peasants ca me for spiritual counsel and left donations. Grand Prince Izyaslav, who became very attached to St. Theodosius and frequently came to visit him, was a great benefactor of the monastery, as also was the Viking Prince Shimon who was baptized into the Orthodox Church together with his entire household, numbering some 3,000 members.
With increased mean s, Theodosius was able to build a guest house for pilgrims where the poor and sick also found refuge. No beggar was ever turned away from the monastery without being given a meal. Weekly a cart was sent from the monastery laden with bread to be distributed among those in prison.
The Saint's compassion was boundless. Once there were brought to him some robbers who had been apprehended in the act of stealing monastery property. With tears the Saint entreated them to mend their ways. Then, having fed them, he let them go. The robbers were so moved by the Saint's mercy that they repented and became honest, God-fearing men.
Like St. Anthony, Theodosius also endured the effects of the princes' quarrels. At the same time he maintained his independence and did not fear risking the displeasure of his royal benefactors if he felt called as a spiritual father to admonish them. When, for example, Svyatoslav unjustly took the throne from Izyaslav, the Saint wrote a strong letter to Svyatoslav, reproving his action and urging him to restore power to his older brother. This angered Svyatoslav, and Theodosius was warned of possible consequences, but he calmly replied: "Nothing could be better for me in this life than to suffer for the sake of the truth." Mindful of the Saint' s popularity, Svyatoslav took no action against him and even went to visit him. He was surprised when Theodosius received him with the respect due to one of authority. "I was afraid you'd be angry with me," said the Prince. "Our duty," replied the Saint, "is to say what is beneficial for the soul's salvation; and you would do well to listen." Although Svyatoslav could not be persuaded to give up the throne and Theodosius continued to commemorate the pious Izyaslav as the lawful ruler, their relationship was peaceful and it was Svyatoslav who gave land for the building of the new stone church.
Work had just begun on this church when St. Anthony reposed. Neither did St. Theodosius live to see its completion. It was his custom to retire to a cave for the course of Great Lent, and it was during this time, in 1074, that the Lord revealed to him his imminent departure from this world. On Bright Week, having joyfully celebrated the radiant feast of Pascha in the monastery, he fell ill. Summoning the brethren, he informed them that his time had come, and foretold the very day and hour of his repose. By common consent of the brotherhood, he blessed his disciple Stefan to take his place as abbot, exhorting him not to change the tradition s of the monastery, "but follow in all things the law and our monastic rifle."
May 3,1074. The divinely appointed hour arrived and the bright soul of the Saint took leave of its earthly tabernacle. As he had willed, his body was laid to rest in the cave which alone with the angels had witnessed his ascetic labors.
Eighteen years after the Saint's blessed repose, the monastery brethren decided to transfer his relics to the new cathedral church. The abbot, together with monk Nestor the chronicler, went to the cave to dig up the relics and discovered them to be incorrupt. Accompanied by a large crowd of people, the relics were solemnly transferred to the Dormition Cathedral on August 14, 1092. And in 1106 Saint Theodosius was added to the list of canonized saints.
True to their promise, the holy founders of the Caves Monastery continued to watch over its existence even after their repose. There is, for example, the story written by Bishop Simon (+1226), a former monk of that monastery and principal author of the Kiev Caves Patericorn of how the stone church was completed.
Sts. Anthony and Theodosius had been gone from this world some ten years when a group of Greek iconographers came to the Caves Lavra demanding to see the two monks who had hired them to adorn the new church with frescoes. They were rather angry inasmuch as the church standing before them was considerably larger than they had been led to believe and would consequently require more work than was covered by the sum of gold they had received there in Constantinople upon signing the agreement. Abbot Nikon, confessing his ignorance of the matter, asked who it was that had hired them. "Their names were Anthony and Theodosius," "Truly," said the abbot, "I cannot summon them, for they departed this life ten years ago. But as you yourselves testify, they continue to care for this monastery even now."
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The Greeks, scarcely believing this possible, called some merchants traveling with them, who had been present at the signing of the agreement, and asked that they be shown an image of the deceased. When this was done the Greeks bowed low, for they recognized in the saints the exact likeness of the two men who had commissioned them to paint the frescoes and given them the gold. Acknowledging the supernatural power of the saints, they decided not to cancel the agreement after all, and set about with heightened inspiration to embellish the church. The iconographers never returned to Constantinople; they became monks and ended their days there in the Caves Monastery.
The Dormition Church, rebuilt in 1470, was destroyed in 1941 by an explosion which the Soviets attribute to the Germans. Witnesses, however, state that it was the communists themselves who set delayed action explosives just before the German occupation of the city.
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2024.05.16 08:57 Different_Maybe_2348 Rent-A-Center Harrassmemt …?

Rent-A-Center Dilemma
I signed up for a rental agreement with Rent A Center back in November 2023. They were very unorganized but moving forward, I had my delivery set up. One of the managers Stephon and a driver delivered my washer and dryer set. The manager was friendly and I was just ready for his ass to get out of my house. So moving forward, I receive a text and it’s from an out of state number saying that it was him. The damn manager! 1.) I did not give you my number at anytime inside my home so why would you feel comfortable texting me!!? This manager had gotten my number off of my paperwork. I was so confused and pissed THE F**K off that I said my dryer is missing a component just to try and not overthink that he was overstepping boundaries. He stated that he would check in the back of their warehouse to see if they had the piece I needed and he would come put it on. Well they didn’t have the piece. So I ordered it and told him I think I can manage putting it on myself. Y’all !!! Why did this man come over on his launch break that he gets like 45 mins to an hour break. He took every bit of 5 minutes to put the part on but would not LEAVE ! He was asking about my cooking. Asking me was I single. Told me what type of man I deserve. Told me he scanned the parking lot and knew which car was mine. He was very weird. He basically stayed his entire break. I was so weirded out and tried not to overreact because of the business contract. Not knowing what to do. I also was home alone with my 22 month old son at the time. He was sleeping upstairs. So I ended up telling my boyfriend and he’s like why did this manager try and pull this mess while not there. Here’s the kicker you guys: I have a ring doorbell camera and it has record of all of this and the time stamps and days. Fast forward to January 2024, the manager texted me happy new years !! Like what? Why would you do that and I haven’t shown any interest in you!!? So moving forward I got behind like a few days on my weekly payment actually because I forgot and called to try and work a payment date out with them. Tell me why he went off on me, told me he was not going to help me and that they were coming to get my stuff and that the manager I needed to speak with was not in and ended up hanging up the phone in my face. I tried calling back and no answer. So I called the headquarters and told them what happened. They acted like they were going to do something and I told them about his personal number and area code which I shouldn’t have known and also where he told me he was from which why would I know. I also mentioned other things. Do you they didn’t offer anything for the hassle and weirdness. Nothing at all. So my job closed down and they started calling me from a new number. I had old them I would come in to pay cash. So I get up there and the credit manager had already given me the amount I needed to pay and was like yea I’ll work with you cause you always pay on time. I get up there like 10 mins later. Tell me why I pay for both weeks and they do not give me my change back and say we credited it. I’m like I didn’t ask you all to do that. Then it’s 3 men in the store (including the manager I had originally had an issue with texting me) all employees only and they are discussing my biz and the one who had given me the phone call with the amount I owed was right there as well. And I’m like why would you all not return my change. That’s not how it works. Ya’ll didn’t state that beforehand. So I walked out and the manager that I had to deal with months before who still has his job was like what’s wrong as I’m walking out. I was just disgusted. It was doggish and I’m just going to sue them at this point because you’re not going to take my money and then think it’s cool to harass me and I’m a paying customer. I was wanting to hear some feedback to see if I’m tripping or what… I’m also wanting to see if maybe I had a possible case. Because I believe so wholeheartedly !
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2024.05.16 08:56 Embarrassed-Part-518 The most complex things about organizing a wedding

Yesterday, I shared a post asking for feedback on the most complex things when organizing a wedding ceremony. I've put it all together. I'd like to see if it's necessary to create a dedicated app. Can you think of anything else? I need your comments so I don't forget anything 🙏 👇
1) Inviting guests => App to send a grouped mail + postal letter in 1 click via the app
📍Feedback: Not very useful as it's better to do custom for each person 👎
2) Information & Live update push notification => App to send wedding information by e-mail (or phone text).
📍Feedback: Not everyone checks their email so it's a bit useless 👎
3) Photo & Video sharing => App to allow guests to send their photos & videos taken during the wedding.
📍Feedback: Interesting idea, but it shouldn't be mandatory but rather a bonus.
4) Collaborator management => App to manage the various people you'll be working with during the wedding, such as the caterer, musicians and venue owners...
📍Feedback: I hadn't imagined the problem but it's interesting
Any other ideas for complex things to manage during a wedding? Thanks!
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2024.05.16 08:56 jaibryan Life is unfair: Why Rachel fails where Malcolm succeeds

First and foremost I want to say that I actually like Rachel as a character. The worst thing a character can be is boring and Rachel Berry is anything but boring. This is more of a critique of the show written around her. I saw an old post about how past season 1, Rachel (and Finn but to a lesser extent) don’t work as pov protagonists. With the show as written, I agree. But while that post came at the subject from a psychological perspective, I'm coming at it from a writing perspective. And to do so, I'm going to be comparing Rachel to another Fox show’s main character who I feel is the same archetype as Rachel but written much better, Malcolm from Malcolm in the Middle. They are both gifted, driven and have an ego the size of canada. But the reason why I root for Malcolm while I get annoyed by Rachel is because of what the respective shows ask us to do: Glee asks us to root for Rachel while Malcolm in the Middle asks us to watch Malcom try to survive his crazy family.
Season 1 Rachel is the best for her character. We see and are constantly reminded how she is treated by the popular kids, how she is barely tolerated by her fellow glee clubbers and most importantly she is allowed to just be unlikeable. Which she is. Past season 1 they take that all away from her. She’s still unlikeable but it’s framed to be endearing. Besides Santana and sometimes Brittany, she isn’t treated badly by the club. And from what I remember, the bullying from outside of the club stops for her. The show still asks us to root for her but she has no real obstacles for the remaining 5 seasons, no obstacles that last more than a handful of episodes. Scare off a new recruit, completely forgotten by next episode. She chokes at a college audition, she gets another shot and gets in. She throws away her dream job that she dropped out of college for to pursue a tv career that fails, six episodes later she is offered another broadway role and accepted back into college. There is nothing to root for because we know Rachel will get her way in the end. Now I will give them some credit for the pezberry feud. How that started in “frenemies”, they framed Rachel as in the wrong but once again a few episodes later, we’re supposed to side with her?
Now I don’t know how many of you have watched Malcolm in the Middle so I’m going to give you the overall premise: the everyday adventures of Malcolm, who is a genius, navigating life with his very dysfunctional working class family. Now from the very beginning we are never really asked to feel sorry or root for him, we’re just asked to be along for the ride. And the ride is him or his family getting in his way. Why I feel like this works for this show is that the writers know that Malcolm is the protagonist, not the hero. Malcolm is petty, egotistical, shallow, selfish and despite being a genius, never listens. The vast majority of episodes end with him losing or at best coming out neutral. Either a kid from school will get the best of him, he’ll just fuck it up for himself or a family member will out smart him (more on one particular member latter).
So why does one show get it right and the other wrong? There could be a few reasons. First and foremost, glee was originally a movie that was stretched into half a season of tv. They kept it interesting for the second half of season 1 when it came to Rachels character but past that, there isn’t much for her to do besides succeed. And I don't care even if your character is the most likable person on the planet, which she most definitely is not, your character has to take real L’s (which you can do since glee is largely episodic within any given season). But i think the main reason is the writers didn’t know what character they were writing. When the character Quinn comes up, I routinely hear how the writers wanted her to be an unlikeable, evil person but Dianna brought humanity to her and ruined her. I don’t think that's the case, no shade to Dianna as she killed it as Quinn but any actress worth their salt would have done the same thing. Quinn is a very human character as written. I think the writers had an idea in their head for their characters but refused to let those ideas grow along with the show so we got clashes between what the story was trying to tell us vs what the characters were doing and no character suffered the most from this than Rachel. I feel they were going for an Annie from Community or Lesley Knope from Parks and Rec type character. There is a lot of overlap between those three characters but what Rachel doesn’t have that the other two do is an underlying understanding that people matter more than your talent.
Now I didn't write this just to bitch about Rachel, I also want to offer solutions. But seeing as glee has ended a while ago, these solutions won’t do much to help the show but it might help another writer not fall into these pitfalls. The easiest would be to just make the show about the glee club instead of Rachel and Finn featuring the glee club. A lot of the problems with these characters come from overexposure. But if you insist on Rachel being the lead, you could have her actually lose and it sticks. At the end of season 3 it would have been so much more interesting if they switched Finns and Rachel's stories. Rachel sacrificed everything for her dreams, what would she do if she didn’t get into NAYDA and had no path to stardom? The solution I fall on the most is giving her an antagonist, maybe multiple. I always thought it would be fun to have her feud with a different member of the unholy trinity for the first 3 seasons. She needs actual obstacles to overcome and they would provide unique challenges to her. One of the reasons Malcolm works is because he has an antagonist that gets the best of him 90% of the time, his mom Louis. Louis may not be as book smart as Malcolm but she routinely out smarts not just him but also his brothers. She comes out on top so often that you can’t help but root for Malcolm to win at least every once in a while against her. But it also works because she loves him and is trying to do what's best for him. Slight spoiler for the series finale of Malcolm in the middle, a show that ended over a decade ago. After making him turn down a job that would have had him living a life of luxury, he is pissed at her. After a ton of bs (literally) he asked her why she did it. She goes into a speech about her goals for his life and how he needs to finally realize that being the smartest person in the room isn’t the most important thing in life. It was perfect. At some point during the show, someone should have given a similar speech to Rachel. Imagen how impactful it would have been during episode 100 if Finn (had tragedy not struck) sided with Santana during the feud and told Rachel she needed to grow up and realize that being the most talented person doesn’t mean anything if no one likes you or something to that effect. But anyway these are my thoughts on the writing for Rachel. Feedback and discussion is welcome.
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2024.05.16 08:55 Aromatic_Storm6652 I tried a new drawing yesterday with 7 cards. The question was - how is my marriage doing? The 7 cards are 1. Mountain 2.scythe 3.ring 4. Book 5.moon 6.bouquet 7. Anchor

So this is what I made of it In the past we overwon obstacles. I can grow by learning - growing after coping with difficult situations. We have overcome conflicts by trying to have open communications. There still are confrontations. I have to think about myself and protect my heart. But we will regain a deep connection due to personal growth. I have to remind myself that I'm loved - not only by my partner. I have to open my heart for the love that is getting my way. Faithfullness and a safe haven where I can find peace is coming my way. I will appreciate my husband again.
What this oké and what do you make of it. Thanks for your opinions
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