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2024.05.15 14:48 BlinkSpectre My ex gf messed me up emotionally and mentally and I’m still trying to recover
This isn’t something I would normally post but I am hoping it’ll be cathartic for me. This might be a long one and a bit of a mess so feel free to skip if you’re not interested in the read.
I 28f up until last August I was in a relationship with who we’ll call ‘M’ 24f for almost 2 years. We met on hinge. In general I’m very shy and not very confident person, and definitely new to dating as I spent most of my teens and early 20’s in the closet due to internalized homophobia. So I don’t have much experience dating. That context is important for the story. By all accounts, M was probably out of my league, (that’s what I told myself, again I have zero self confidence ) she was attractive, smart, came from a good family and on the surface a nice girl. The beginning the relationship was fine, she was in uni for medicine and her school schedule was pretty demanding. We’d only see each other maybe one every month in the beginning of the relationship, I understood she was busy with school and honestly I was still feeling lucky that she chose me to date.
A few months go by and we still remain only seeing each other once a month because her school schedule was so demanding. This is when the red flags start to wave, her school schedule was so demanding yet she was in multiple choirs that she would sing in once a week. She made time for choir but when I asked to hang out I was made to feel like a bother. Plus she played DND with at least 2 different groups of people.
Early in the relationship we were in her car after she dropped me off I asked if we could see each other a little more and she had a strange reaction, I didn’t want to seem needy so I backed off and later apologized via text. She responded with; “sometimes I just like to be alone.” Which as an introvert; I get 100%, so I let it be. But like….we only saw each other once a month as it was…..how could you possibly be alone any more??? I was always the one to ask to hang out, always. And every time I did I would sheepishly ask if she had some free time that weekend to hang out, because I felt like such a bother to her. I’m not exaggerating when I say we would easily go 3-5 weeks without seeing each other in person. We would text every day. But seeing her in person was a luxury. But don’t worry she always had time for choir every single week. Twice a week. Or DND. But seeing her girlfriend was too much strain on her school schedule.
I was always the one to text first. Whether it was good morning, or saying good night. Later in the relationship I wouldn’t text her just to see how long it would take her to text me that day, most time it wasn’t until 3-4 pm that I heard from her.
We never had sex, we barely even kissed.(which isn’t really important to me but damn). It was so difficult to have alone time with her so there was quite literally never an opportunity for intimacy. Towards the end of our relationship we would watch the bachelorette with her mom at her place, so we never had alone time for the last 3 months of dating.
For both valentines days we were together I sent flowers and chocolate to her house. She didn’t get me anything. For my 27th birthday we went out with my friends, and a small part of me wondered if she would offer to pay for my meal. Nope. She also didn’t get me a birthday gift or even a card. Flash forward to Christmas I get her a 250$ makeup palette that she always talked about and a blanket from her favourite K-Pop band. I got an xbox gift card and a cookbook. I need to emphasize that I DO NOT CARE ABOUT presents, I just literally wanted any sort of acknowledgment that she cared about me at all. I also feel the need to point out she has money, both her parents are lawyers and they are very well off and she gets paid to go to school because her field is very specialized. I was raised by a single mother and while I have my own career now, I’m far from rich. But I always went above and beyond to make her feel special and she did the bare minimum. Sometimes not even the bare minimum. This next one really bothered me; its my 28th birthday and I hadn’t mentioned it was coming up. A sick part of me wanted to see if she would remember, I know it’s stupid to test people in a relationship but I was genuinely curious to see if she would remember. It comes the day of my birthday, and I don’t hear from her until 3:30 pm. “Happy Birthday!” That was it. I was floored. A couple days later she managed to squeeze me into her schedule and we go out for dinner. Again, didn’t pay for my meal. For her birthday we went to a nice restaurant and I paid for the entire fucking thing it was almost 150$. Don’t worry she got me an xbox gift card though……..
But the worst part, beyond not seeing each other was how she treated me and made me feel. In the beginning she was very nice and kind, but slowly I think her true colours came out. She’s very smart, but she needs to be right all the time. Like literally every single conversation she needs to come out as right. I was never allowed to have my own opinions, she would make me feel stupid and correct me every time. I’m a bit of a goof and like to be silly, but she would look at me like I was an idiot, if I did a pretend British accent she would criticize it and tell me to stop. In the end I felt like a shell of myself. I was terrified to say something stupid. She would call out every single thing I did, if I merged a lane early while driving, called out (that actually happened). If I wiped my mouth after every bite, called out. If I said something she would have to google it to prove she was right or at least prove that I was wrong.
I would participate in her family activities, like birthdays and holidays. Side note: her family is lovely. I got especially close with her mom. Her mother is a sweetheart, a lovely human being and she treated me better than her daughter ever did. Her mom and I even snap chatted every day. M wouldn’t open my snaps for days and I could see when she was online. As weird as it might seem, I would have rather hung out with her mom than her. There were a couple times when we were with her mom, that M would call me out on something trivial and even her own mother was picking up on the vibes.
I had convinced myself I really liked this person, once I told her I loved her. Why, I’ll never know. She responded with “thanks, I’m not there yet but thanks for telling me.” I was gutted. I didn’t love her. I never did. In the end I hated her.
I would lie to my friends about her and say I was happy, my mom liked her which was the worst part because it would break her heart if she knew how I was feeling and being treated. I would make it seem like I was happy and she was this lovely person, but deep down I was dying. Towards the end of our relationship I was hanging out with a good friend of mine and someone who helped me a lot through my journey of accepting my identity as a lesbian. She asked me about my relationship and how it was going, and I honestly couldn’t say anything positive. This was the first time I was honest with someone in my life about how unhappy I was and I wasn’t sure how to process it.
Eventually she broke up with me; she said she felt like she made me nervous and that I cared about her more than she cared about me. Initially it hurt, and I felt bad. But after an hour, I wanted to do a freaking backflip. I was elated to be free. For the past 2 years I had felt like less of myself than I had ever been. It was the worst 2 years mentally of my life. I had twisted myself up into this sheepish person who just felt lucky to be chosen by someone. My self worth was so low that I thought this was the relationship I deserved, that I would never find anyone else and I should just be grateful that she chose me.
As the title says I’m still trying to recover and heal. It’s been about 9 months since I last saw her and I’m working on myself. That relationship showed me how compromised my mental health was and that I need to take care of myself. I have been seeing a therapist. Now don’t get me wrong I have struggled with mental health my entire life, but those 2 years were the worst of it. I’m not dating right now because I want to focus on myself and my personal goals first.
I still feel very embarrassed for how I let her treat me and embarrassed that I didn’t know the relationship was toxic. If anything I learned a lot from this experience.
If you have made it this far props to you because this was kind of a hot mess and wayyy too long. But it’s been bothering me even more lately and I guess I just felt like this might help. Even if no one reads it.
She didn’t want a relationship, I don’t know what she wanted. She used school as a buffer to limit the amount she saw me. I feel bad for the next person she dates and I hope they come to their senses quicker than I did. I deleted her off everything and I hope to never see her again. In closing, I fucking hate her guts.
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I 28f up until last August I was in a relationship with who we’ll call ‘M’ 24f for almost 2 years. We met on hinge. In general I’m very shy and not very confident person, and definitely new to dating as I spent most of my teens and early 20’s in the closet due to internalized homophobia. So I don’t have much experience dating. That context is important for the story. By all accounts, M was probably out of my league, (that’s what I told myself, again I have zero self confidence ) she was attractive, smart, came from a good family and on the surface a nice girl. The beginning the relationship was fine, she was in uni for medicine and her school schedule was pretty demanding. We’d only see each other maybe one every month in the beginning of the relationship, I understood she was busy with school and honestly I was still feeling lucky that she chose me to date.
A few months go by and we still remain only seeing each other once a month because her school schedule was so demanding. This is when the red flags start to wave, her school schedule was so demanding yet she was in multiple choirs that she would sing in once a week. She made time for choir but when I asked to hang out I was made to feel like a bother. Plus she played DND with at least 2 different groups of people.
Early in the relationship we were in her car after she dropped me off I asked if we could see each other a little more and she had a strange reaction, I didn’t want to seem needy so I backed off and later apologized via text. She responded with; “sometimes I just like to be alone.” Which as an introvert; I get 100%, so I let it be. But like….we only saw each other once a month as it was…..how could you possibly be alone any more??? I was always the one to ask to hang out, always. And every time I did I would sheepishly ask if she had some free time that weekend to hang out, because I felt like such a bother to her. I’m not exaggerating when I say we would easily go 3-5 weeks without seeing each other in person. We would text every day. But seeing her in person was a luxury. But don’t worry she always had time for choir every single week. Twice a week. Or DND. But seeing her girlfriend was too much strain on her school schedule.
I was always the one to text first. Whether it was good morning, or saying good night. Later in the relationship I wouldn’t text her just to see how long it would take her to text me that day, most time it wasn’t until 3-4 pm that I heard from her.
We never had sex, we barely even kissed.(which isn’t really important to me but damn). It was so difficult to have alone time with her so there was quite literally never an opportunity for intimacy. Towards the end of our relationship we would watch the bachelorette with her mom at her place, so we never had alone time for the last 3 months of dating.
For both valentines days we were together I sent flowers and chocolate to her house. She didn’t get me anything. For my 27th birthday we went out with my friends, and a small part of me wondered if she would offer to pay for my meal. Nope. She also didn’t get me a birthday gift or even a card. Flash forward to Christmas I get her a 250$ makeup palette that she always talked about and a blanket from her favourite K-Pop band. I got an xbox gift card and a cookbook. I need to emphasize that I DO NOT CARE ABOUT presents, I just literally wanted any sort of acknowledgment that she cared about me at all. I also feel the need to point out she has money, both her parents are lawyers and they are very well off and she gets paid to go to school because her field is very specialized. I was raised by a single mother and while I have my own career now, I’m far from rich. But I always went above and beyond to make her feel special and she did the bare minimum. Sometimes not even the bare minimum. This next one really bothered me; its my 28th birthday and I hadn’t mentioned it was coming up. A sick part of me wanted to see if she would remember, I know it’s stupid to test people in a relationship but I was genuinely curious to see if she would remember. It comes the day of my birthday, and I don’t hear from her until 3:30 pm. “Happy Birthday!” That was it. I was floored. A couple days later she managed to squeeze me into her schedule and we go out for dinner. Again, didn’t pay for my meal. For her birthday we went to a nice restaurant and I paid for the entire fucking thing it was almost 150$. Don’t worry she got me an xbox gift card though……..
But the worst part, beyond not seeing each other was how she treated me and made me feel. In the beginning she was very nice and kind, but slowly I think her true colours came out. She’s very smart, but she needs to be right all the time. Like literally every single conversation she needs to come out as right. I was never allowed to have my own opinions, she would make me feel stupid and correct me every time. I’m a bit of a goof and like to be silly, but she would look at me like I was an idiot, if I did a pretend British accent she would criticize it and tell me to stop. In the end I felt like a shell of myself. I was terrified to say something stupid. She would call out every single thing I did, if I merged a lane early while driving, called out (that actually happened). If I wiped my mouth after every bite, called out. If I said something she would have to google it to prove she was right or at least prove that I was wrong.
I would participate in her family activities, like birthdays and holidays. Side note: her family is lovely. I got especially close with her mom. Her mother is a sweetheart, a lovely human being and she treated me better than her daughter ever did. Her mom and I even snap chatted every day. M wouldn’t open my snaps for days and I could see when she was online. As weird as it might seem, I would have rather hung out with her mom than her. There were a couple times when we were with her mom, that M would call me out on something trivial and even her own mother was picking up on the vibes.
I had convinced myself I really liked this person, once I told her I loved her. Why, I’ll never know. She responded with “thanks, I’m not there yet but thanks for telling me.” I was gutted. I didn’t love her. I never did. In the end I hated her.
I would lie to my friends about her and say I was happy, my mom liked her which was the worst part because it would break her heart if she knew how I was feeling and being treated. I would make it seem like I was happy and she was this lovely person, but deep down I was dying. Towards the end of our relationship I was hanging out with a good friend of mine and someone who helped me a lot through my journey of accepting my identity as a lesbian. She asked me about my relationship and how it was going, and I honestly couldn’t say anything positive. This was the first time I was honest with someone in my life about how unhappy I was and I wasn’t sure how to process it.
Eventually she broke up with me; she said she felt like she made me nervous and that I cared about her more than she cared about me. Initially it hurt, and I felt bad. But after an hour, I wanted to do a freaking backflip. I was elated to be free. For the past 2 years I had felt like less of myself than I had ever been. It was the worst 2 years mentally of my life. I had twisted myself up into this sheepish person who just felt lucky to be chosen by someone. My self worth was so low that I thought this was the relationship I deserved, that I would never find anyone else and I should just be grateful that she chose me.
As the title says I’m still trying to recover and heal. It’s been about 9 months since I last saw her and I’m working on myself. That relationship showed me how compromised my mental health was and that I need to take care of myself. I have been seeing a therapist. Now don’t get me wrong I have struggled with mental health my entire life, but those 2 years were the worst of it. I’m not dating right now because I want to focus on myself and my personal goals first.
I still feel very embarrassed for how I let her treat me and embarrassed that I didn’t know the relationship was toxic. If anything I learned a lot from this experience.
If you have made it this far props to you because this was kind of a hot mess and wayyy too long. But it’s been bothering me even more lately and I guess I just felt like this might help. Even if no one reads it.
She didn’t want a relationship, I don’t know what she wanted. She used school as a buffer to limit the amount she saw me. I feel bad for the next person she dates and I hope they come to their senses quicker than I did. I deleted her off everything and I hope to never see her again. In closing, I fucking hate her guts.
2024.05.15 11:15 FieldGold3960 Citalopram Weight gain
Hi guys, is it true that Citalopram or SSRIs in general cause weight gain.
I was on 40mgs of Citalopram for over 5 months and gained approximately 28lbs or 2 Stone since Christmas, I feel really bloated and out of breath allot, this is the heaviest I have ever been, none of my cloths fit me, I went from a 32 waist to a 40 waist which is not OK and it's really affecting me mentally and physically.
The weight is mostly all in my tummy area and my belly looks really round a bloated and I feel really sluggish, the reason I mention this is I seen allot of people here mentioning it.
I must also mention that I take Mirtazapine at night which promotes Appetite and usually eat at night time, because my awful anxiety I am not very active so stationary most of the time.
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I was on 40mgs of Citalopram for over 5 months and gained approximately 28lbs or 2 Stone since Christmas, I feel really bloated and out of breath allot, this is the heaviest I have ever been, none of my cloths fit me, I went from a 32 waist to a 40 waist which is not OK and it's really affecting me mentally and physically.
The weight is mostly all in my tummy area and my belly looks really round a bloated and I feel really sluggish, the reason I mention this is I seen allot of people here mentioning it.
I must also mention that I take Mirtazapine at night which promotes Appetite and usually eat at night time, because my awful anxiety I am not very active so stationary most of the time.
2024.05.15 11:00 TheLotStore 1311 Dewberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512
 | 1311 Dewberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512 submitted by TheLotStore to u/TheLotStore [link] [comments] Nice 1/4 acre lot in an excellent location in the Ozarks! GPS Coordinates are 36.24696798148773, -91.73865383805693. Plenty of privacy on this lot and when you're ready for nearby some recreation, swing by either Diamond Lake or Crown Lake! Priced way below area comparable sales in the area! Debit/Credit Cards Accepted No Closing Costs Cash Price: $1,175 Finance with $200 Down and 12 Payments of $105 Per Month No Credit Check, No Income Documentation, No Prepayment PenaltyProperty Address: 1311 Dewberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512 (Map location is approximate) County: Izard Assessor Parcel Number: 800-0066-000 Legal Description: Lot 6, Block 3, Horseshoe Bend Tract A Zoning: Residential Annual Property Taxes: $4.87 About Horseshoe Bend: The best kept secret in north Arkansas is Horseshoe Bend. Nestled in the Ozark Mountains on the Strawberry River, this quaint town is the perfect place to find rest, relaxation, and recreation. The crown jewel of the town is the 640-acre Crown Lake. On Crown Lake, water lovers can participate in a variety of activities, including swimming, kayaking, paddle boarding, water skiing, and tubing. Crown Lake is best known for good fishing, but it is not the only sought-after fishing hole in the area. Besides Crown Lake and the Strawberry River, fishing enthusiasts can also visit one of the smaller fishing lakes – Diamond, Pioneer, and North. There are plenty of activities for young and old alike! Golfers have their choice between two par 3, 18-hole golf courses. Citizens and guests can also bowl, pitch horseshoes, and play miniature golf. The town has several stores, a library, three resorts, a community theater, a spa, and several restaurants. The citizens of Horseshoe Bend take pride in the community spirit and the ability to offer a memorable experience for all who come to visit. The Music in the Mountains show occurs every third Saturday of the month, and during summer, the Farmers’ Market occurs every Wednesday. Every year, the town celebrates Dogwood Days on the second Saturday of May, and Independence Day is celebrated every 4th of July with a parade and fireworks. The annual Christmas parade occurs on the first Saturday in December. There are many more events that happen throughout the year, thanks to the numerous civic groups which are active in Horseshoe Bend. All of these events embrace the unique Ozark culture of small-town pride and fellowship. The largest town in Izard County with 2,180 residents, Horseshoe Bend is accessible to the state’s most scenic highways. The town is centrally located and just a 3-hour drive to Little Rock, Memphis, and Springfield. With its gorgeous views, slower pace of life, and laid-back charm, Horseshoe Bend is the perfect place to stay a week or a lifetime. More Information on Horseshoe Bend can be found at http://ozarklandstore.com/. View our amazing property deals at TheLotStore.Com. Additional Information: https://thelotstore.com/property/1311-dewberry-lane-horseshoe-bend-ar-72512/?feed_id=10349 |
2024.05.15 10:33 Affectionate_Clue418 I'm Struggling
So where can I really start? I had somewhat of an issue in my last year of uni and I took a year out underwent therapy and CBT training to get better. Finished my last year and got a great offer to start a PhD in America. At first I was thrilled as I loved the research and I was excited to get going. Yet, I didn't fully understand that I'd be spending a year taking classes as that how it goes in the states. (I was totally checked out of class work by the end of my masters).
So I've spent a year of doing something that I was checked out from just to get to the part that I really wanted to do but this entire semester I've just hated my life in the current place I'm in. It's a relatively prestigious university in the states but there is just nothing to do compared to being back home in a city in the UK. I did fine the first semester but after that I spent Christmas back home and it just made me realize how much I was missing out on my friends, family, general activities that could be done and the overarching culture. I came back, had one set back and was just not myself for months. I tried my best to get help with group therapy and talking to people but every single step I took forward I always seemed to derail it myself or other exterior factors finished me more. January - Very bad, got help was doing better, drank too much, got annoyed at myself
February - pushed most of the closest people here away from me including my ex as I felt she didn't deserve the behaviour I was exhibiting
March - got so depressed that I ended it with her that I went into a deeper spiral as I realized it may have been better for her but I lost my only real connection in the place that I moved to and I regret it to no extent. Spent spring break basically in bed 17 hours a day only getting up in case of severe hunger.
April - still upset by the previous stuff but was trying to get back on track, had some other personal stuff happen on my birthday which honestly made me the lowest I've been. Contemplated suicide for the first time ever in my life. At this point had basically been in a place to flunk all my classes, thankfully I knew some of it before so I could bluff my way through
May - finally towards the end of classes and exams forever I hope yet I still do things to self sabotage, drugs, alcohol etc and now I'm just back to square one hating myself while also hating my environment.
Throughout all this time I've been talking to friends and going to therapy and I've been trying to talk through all of my feelings but at this point it's been so long and there's no change that I am just tired of talking. I just need something to change and I just can't bring myself to make it, where preciously I have been able to make myself get out of this. It's been essentially 4 months and I've just been going through a cycle of maybe good, good, I ruin or external things ruins me, bad, bad, bring myself out and it repeats. I'm so tired of this, and I just honestly hate myself for not being able to pull me out of this god forsaken cycle.
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So I've spent a year of doing something that I was checked out from just to get to the part that I really wanted to do but this entire semester I've just hated my life in the current place I'm in. It's a relatively prestigious university in the states but there is just nothing to do compared to being back home in a city in the UK. I did fine the first semester but after that I spent Christmas back home and it just made me realize how much I was missing out on my friends, family, general activities that could be done and the overarching culture. I came back, had one set back and was just not myself for months. I tried my best to get help with group therapy and talking to people but every single step I took forward I always seemed to derail it myself or other exterior factors finished me more. January - Very bad, got help was doing better, drank too much, got annoyed at myself
February - pushed most of the closest people here away from me including my ex as I felt she didn't deserve the behaviour I was exhibiting
March - got so depressed that I ended it with her that I went into a deeper spiral as I realized it may have been better for her but I lost my only real connection in the place that I moved to and I regret it to no extent. Spent spring break basically in bed 17 hours a day only getting up in case of severe hunger.
April - still upset by the previous stuff but was trying to get back on track, had some other personal stuff happen on my birthday which honestly made me the lowest I've been. Contemplated suicide for the first time ever in my life. At this point had basically been in a place to flunk all my classes, thankfully I knew some of it before so I could bluff my way through
May - finally towards the end of classes and exams forever I hope yet I still do things to self sabotage, drugs, alcohol etc and now I'm just back to square one hating myself while also hating my environment.
Throughout all this time I've been talking to friends and going to therapy and I've been trying to talk through all of my feelings but at this point it's been so long and there's no change that I am just tired of talking. I just need something to change and I just can't bring myself to make it, where preciously I have been able to make myself get out of this. It's been essentially 4 months and I've just been going through a cycle of maybe good, good, I ruin or external things ruins me, bad, bad, bring myself out and it repeats. I'm so tired of this, and I just honestly hate myself for not being able to pull me out of this god forsaken cycle.
2024.05.15 10:29 agkking We have a new ESL Worksheets & Printables section at UsingEnglish.com!
Hey everyone!
First of all, I sought approval from the moderators to post this announcement and they gave their consent, so thank you very much for allowing me to share this with you all!
I just wanted to share some exciting news for anyone involved in learning or teaching English as a Second Language (ESL). UsingEnglish.com, a leading resource for English language learners and teachers, has recently launched a brand-new section dedicated to ESL worksheets and printables! 🎉
You can check it out here: https://www.usingenglish.com/handouts/
This new section is packed with printable worksheets that cover all sorts of topics, from grammar and vocabulary to pronunciation and practical English usage. Whether you're teaching beginners or an advanced learners, there's something here for you.
Here's what I think makes this new section so great:
So, if you're an ESL teacher looking for new materials for your students, head over to https://www.usingenglish.com/handouts/ and explore this new section. It's live now and ready for you to dive in!
Happy teaching!
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First of all, I sought approval from the moderators to post this announcement and they gave their consent, so thank you very much for allowing me to share this with you all!
I just wanted to share some exciting news for anyone involved in learning or teaching English as a Second Language (ESL). UsingEnglish.com, a leading resource for English language learners and teachers, has recently launched a brand-new section dedicated to ESL worksheets and printables! 🎉
You can check it out here: https://www.usingenglish.com/handouts/
This new section is packed with printable worksheets that cover all sorts of topics, from grammar and vocabulary to pronunciation and practical English usage. Whether you're teaching beginners or an advanced learners, there's something here for you.
Here's what I think makes this new section so great:
- Launching with 518 ESL Worksheets: These worksheets were painstakingly written by Richard Flynn, co-founder of UsingEnglish.com, who sadly passed away in February. This is a fitting tribute to him and a great example of some of his work that’s available on this site.
- A Diverse Range of Topics: Whether it's grammar, vocabulary, pronunciation, or practical English usage, our worksheets cover the essential skills needed for effective communication in English.
- Ease of Navigation: The section is organised to help you find exactly what you need quickly, whether looking for something specific or browsing for inspiration.
- Presented as Printable PDFs: Each worksheet is available as a PDF for convenient printing, perfect for classroom activities or home practice.
- Corresponding Online Quizzes: Every worksheet is also presented as an online quiz, meaning that learners can practise their skills interactively and get immediate feedback, making the learning process even more effective and engaging.
- Corresponding Answer Sheets: To enhance the learning and teaching experience, every worksheet comes with a PDF answer sheet - ideal for self-checking or facilitating classroom discussions.
- Free Access: True to our commitment to the ESL community, these invaluable resources are offered completely free of charge.
So, if you're an ESL teacher looking for new materials for your students, head over to https://www.usingenglish.com/handouts/ and explore this new section. It's live now and ready for you to dive in!
Happy teaching!
2024.05.15 09:11 Sweet-Count2557 15 Things to Do on a New Paltz Family Day Trip
 | 15 Things to Do on a New Paltz Family Day Trip Are you looking for a perfect family day trip destination near New York City? Well, you might be surprised to learn that New Paltz, located just 90 miles north of the bustling city, offers a plethora of activities for the whole family to enjoy.From picturesque hiking trails to fascinating museums, this charming town has something for everyone.So, whether you're an outdoor enthusiast, history buff, or simply looking to indulge in delicious food, join us as we uncover the 15 things you can do on a New Paltz family day trip.Trust us, you won't want to miss out on the exciting options that await you!Key TakeawaysOutdoor activities in New Paltz include hiking, rock climbing, biking, and canoeing/kayaking.There are various indoor activities such as visiting museums, attending performances, and playing at indoor parks.Educational activities include visiting art museums, learning about history, and exploring science centers.Families can enjoy dining at family-friendly restaurants, visiting parks and playgrounds, and exploring farms in the area.Outdoor ActivitiesWhen it comes to outdoor activities in New Paltz, there's no shortage of options for adventure and exploration. The town is surrounded by beautiful natural landscapes, making it the perfect destination for hiking and rock climbing enthusiasts.New Paltz is home to numerous hiking trails that cater to all skill levels, offering breathtaking views and the opportunity to connect with nature. One popular hiking destination is the Mohonk Preserve, which boasts over 8,000 acres of stunning scenery. Here, you can choose from a variety of trails that wind through forests, meadows, and along the Shawangunk Ridge. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced hiker, there's a trail for everyone to enjoy.For those seeking a more adrenaline-fueled adventure, rock climbing at The Gunks is a must. The Shawangunk Mountains are renowned for their world-class rock climbing routes, attracting climbers from all over the world. With its challenging cliffs and unique rock formations, The Gunks offer an exhilarating experience for climbers of all levels.Whether you're a nature lover or an adrenaline junkie, New Paltz has something to offer for everyone. The hiking trails and rock climbing opportunities in the area are unparalleled, providing endless possibilities for outdoor exploration. So, grab your hiking boots and harness, and get ready to embark on an unforgettable adventure in the heart of New Paltz.Indoor ActivitiesIndoor activities in New Paltz offer a diverse range of options for families looking to escape the elements and enjoy some quality time together. Whether you're looking for a little friendly competition or a chance to unleash your creativity, there's something for everyone.For those who love a good challenge, there are plenty of indoor games to keep you entertained. Head to the local arcade and try your hand at classic games like skee-ball and air hockey. Or, if you're feeling a bit more adventurous, check out the escape room where you can put your problem-solving skills to the test. With a variety of themes and difficulty levels, it's sure to be a thrilling experience for the whole family.If you're in the mood for something a bit more hands-on, why not try a creative workshop? There are several places in New Paltz where you can learn a new skill or craft. From pottery classes to painting workshops, there's no shortage of opportunities to let your imagination run wild. Not only will you have a blast creating something unique, but you'll also have a special keepsake to take home with you.No matter what your interests may be, New Paltz has plenty of indoor activities to keep you entertained. So, why not gather the family and escape the elements for a day of fun and adventure? Whether you're competing in indoor games or getting creative in a workshop, you're sure to make memories that will last a lifetime.Educational ActivitiesNew Paltz offers a wide range of educational activities that will engage and inspire the whole family. Here are three hands-on workshops and interactive exhibits that are sure to captivate your curiosity and expand your knowledge:The Dorsky Museum of Art: Step into a world of artistic expression as you explore the thought-provoking exhibits at the Dorsky Museum. From contemporary installations to classic masterpieces, this museum showcases a diverse collection that will ignite your imagination. Engage in interactive workshops where you can create your own artwork and experiment with different mediums.The Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art: Located on the SUNY New Paltz campus, the Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art offers a unique opportunity to delve into the world of contemporary art. Immerse yourself in thought-provoking exhibits that challenge societal norms and spark conversations. Participate in hands-on workshops led by professional artists, where you can learn new techniques and unleash your creative potential.The Science Discovery Center: Embark on a journey of scientific exploration at the Science Discovery Center. Engage with interactive exhibits that bring the wonders of science to life. From experimenting with electricity to exploring the mysteries of the natural world, this center offers a captivating experience for all ages. Participate in hands-on workshops where you can conduct experiments and discover the scientific principles that shape our world.As you embark on your New Paltz family day trip, these educational activities won't only provide valuable learning experiences but also foster a sense of wonder and curiosity. So, embrace the freedom to explore, discover, and expand your knowledge as you engage with these immersive hands-on workshops and interactive exhibits.Family-Friendly RestaurantsLet's dive into the delicious world of family-friendly restaurants in New Paltz, where you can indulge in mouthwatering meals that cater to all tastes and preferences. New Paltz is home to some of the best family-friendly restaurants, offering a wide range of cuisines that will satisfy even the pickiest eaters. Whether you're craving Italian, Mexican, or just a good old-fashioned burger, the restaurants in New Paltz have got you covered. Here are some of the top places to eat with kids in New Paltz:RestaurantCuisineHighlightsMain Course Catering & RestaurantAmericanOffers a kids' menu with options for all agesP&G's RestaurantItalianWood-fired pizza that will leave you craving for moreMexicali BlueMexicanColorful and flavorful dishes that kids will loveMoriello's GelatoDessertsHomemade gelato that will satisfy your sweet toothMain Course Catering & Restaurant is a popular choice for families, with its diverse menu that includes everything from burgers and sandwiches to pasta and seafood. They even have a kids' menu with options that will please even the pickiest eaters.If you're in the mood for some authentic Italian cuisine, P&G's Restaurant is the place to be. Their wood-fired pizza is a favorite among locals, and their pasta dishes are cooked to perfection.For a taste of Mexico, head to Mexicali Blue. Their colorful and flavorful dishes will transport you straight to Mexico, and they offer a variety of options for kids.And of course, no family day trip is complete without dessert. Stop by Moriello's Gelato for some homemade gelato that will satisfy your sweet tooth. With a wide range of flavors to choose from, there's something for everyone.These are just a few of the best family-friendly restaurants in New Paltz. Whether you're looking for a quick bite or a sit-down meal, you're sure to find something that the whole family will enjoy.Parks and PlaygroundsAs we continue our exploration of family-friendly activities in New Paltz, let's venture into the world of outdoor fun and discover the parks and playgrounds that offer endless adventures for kids of all ages. New Paltz is home to some of the best parks for picnics and family-friendly playgrounds. Here are three must-visit outdoor destinations that will provide a sense of freedom and joy for the whole family:Hasbrouck Park: This park is a perfect spot for a family picnic. Spread out your blanket on the lush green grass and enjoy a delicious meal while surrounded by the beauty of nature. The playground in Hasbrouck Park offers a variety of equipment for kids to climb, slide, and swing, ensuring hours of fun and excitement.Sojourner Truth Park: With its basketball court and picnic area, Sojourner Truth Park is a fantastic place for families to gather and enjoy outdoor activities. Let the kids shoot some hoops while you relax and soak up the sun. Pack some snacks and have a delightful picnic in the shaded picnic area, creating lasting memories together.Nyquist-Harcourt Wildlife Sanctuary: For a peaceful and serene picnic experience, head to the Nyquist-Harcourt Wildlife Sanctuary. This hidden gem is a haven for nature lovers and families alike. With its beautiful trails, lush greenery, and abundant wildlife, it offers the perfect backdrop for a relaxing picnic. Let the kids explore the surroundings and discover the wonders of the natural world.New Paltz's parks and playgrounds provide a sense of freedom and adventure for families seeking outdoor fun. Whether you're enjoying a picnic, playing on the playground, or simply exploring the beauty of nature, these destinations offer endless opportunities for family bonding and creating cherished memories. So grab your picnic basket, gather the family, and embark on an exciting day of outdoor exploration in New Paltz.Family-Friendly FarmsFamily-Friendly Farms in New Paltz offer a unique and educational experience for families looking to connect with nature and learn about farm life. These farms provide a variety of family-friendly farm activities that are both fun and educational.One popular activity is visiting farm petting zoos, where children can interact with and learn about different farm animals. At Kelder's Farm, families can enjoy a petting zoo experience like no other. You can pet and feed a wide range of animals, including goats, sheep, pigs, and even llamas. Kids will love getting up close and personal with these friendly animals, and it's a great opportunity for them to learn about animal care and farm life.Saunderskill Farms is another great option for families looking for a farm experience. In addition to their fresh produce and baked goods, they also have a petting zoo where kids can meet and greet farm animals. From chickens and ducks to rabbits and goats, children can learn about different animal species and their roles on the farm.Apple Hill Farm is a must-visit for families interested in learning about farm animals. They offer guided tours where kids can see cows, horses, pigs, and more. The knowledgeable staff will explain the importance of each animal and how they contribute to the farm's operations.Family-friendly farms in New Paltz provide a hands-on experience that allows children to learn about farm life in a fun and engaging way. Whether it's petting and feeding animals at a farm petting zoo or taking a guided tour to learn about different farm animals, these activities are sure to create lasting memories for the whole family.Family-Friendly EventsAfter exploring the family-friendly farms in New Paltz and learning about farm life, it's time to discover the exciting and entertaining world of family-friendly events in this vibrant town. New Paltz offers a variety of events that are perfect for the whole family. Here are three events that are sure to evoke joy and create lasting memories:New Paltz Regatta and Rubber Duck Race: Join in the fun at the annual New Paltz Regatta and Rubber Duck Race. Watch as colorful rubber ducks race down the Wallkill River, and cheer for your favorite as they compete for the finish line. This event is filled with laughter, excitement, and friendly competition.New Paltz Winter Carnival: Embrace the winter season at the New Paltz Winter Carnival. This event features a range of activities for all ages, including ice skating, sledding, snowman building, and even a snowball fight. Warm up with hot cocoa and enjoy the festive atmosphere as you make memories with your loved ones.New Paltz Halloween Parade: Get into the spirit of Halloween at the New Paltz Halloween Parade. Dress up in your favorite costume and join the community in a lively parade filled with music, dancing, and plenty of candy. This event is perfect for families who love the thrill of Halloween and want to celebrate together.These family-friendly events in New Paltz provide an opportunity to bond with loved ones, embrace the joy of community, and create cherished memories. Whether it's cheering on rubber ducks, enjoying winter activities, or celebrating Halloween, these events offer something for everyone.Historical SitesNew Paltz is home to a rich tapestry of historical sites that offer a glimpse into the town's fascinating past. From the Huguenot Street Historic District to the Deyo House Historic Site, there are many places to explore and learn about the town's history. Take a step back in time with historical walking tours and immerse yourself in the past with historical reenactments.Here is a table showcasing some of the historical sites in New Paltz:Historical SitesDescriptionHuguenot Street Historic DistrictA National Historic Landmark that preserves the unique history and culture of the Huguenots who settled in New Paltz in the 17th century.Deyo House Historic SiteExplore this historic house museum that showcases the lifestyle of a wealthy 19th-century family in New Paltz.Historic Huguenot Street CemeteryDiscover the final resting place of the Huguenot settlers and learn about their lives and contributions.Historical walking tours provide a great opportunity to explore these sites and gain a deeper understanding of New Paltz's history. Knowledgeable guides will lead you through the streets, sharing interesting anecdotes and stories along the way. You'll feel as if you've traveled back in time as you walk in the footsteps of those who came before.For an even more immersive experience, don't miss the chance to witness historical reenactments. These events bring history to life as actors dress in period costumes and recreate significant moments from New Paltz's past. Whether it's a battle reenactment or a colonial market, you'll be transported to a different time and gain a newfound appreciation for the town's history.New Paltz's historical sites offer a window into the past and provide a unique and educational experience for the whole family. So, grab your walking shoes and prepare to be captivated by the rich history that awaits you in this charming town.Nature CentersAs we continue our exploration of New Paltz, let's now turn our attention to the fascinating world of nature centers. These centers offer a unique opportunity to connect with nature, learn about wildlife, and engage in hands-on activities.Here are three exciting nature center activities that are sure to captivate the whole family:Wildlife Education Programs: Immerse yourself in the wonders of the natural world through engaging wildlife education programs. From interactive exhibits to live animal presentations, these programs provide a chance to learn about local ecosystems, animal behavior, and conservation efforts. Get up close and personal with fascinating creatures and gain a deeper appreciation for the delicate balance of our planet's biodiversity.Guided Nature Walks: Embark on a guided nature walk led by knowledgeable naturalists who'll introduce you to the diverse flora and fauna of the region. Explore scenic trails while learning about the unique features of the local ecosystem. Observe birds in their natural habitats, identify different plant species, and discover the hidden wonders of the natural world. These walks offer a chance to reconnect with nature and experience the serenity of the great outdoors.Nature-themed Workshops: Participate in nature-themed workshops that foster creativity and appreciation for the environment. From art classes inspired by the beauty of nature to hands-on activities focused on sustainability, these workshops provide an opportunity to learn new skills while deepening your connection with the natural world. Engage in eco-friendly crafts, explore nature-inspired photography, or try your hand at creating nature journals. These workshops are a perfect blend of education and fun.Nature centers offer a wealth of opportunities to learn, explore, and connect with the natural world. Engage in wildlife education programs, join guided nature walks, and participate in nature-themed workshops to create lasting memories and foster a sense of wonder and appreciation for our planet's incredible biodiversity.Water ActivitiesTo make the most of your family trip to New Paltz, immerse yourselves in a world of water activities that offer fun and adventure for everyone.New Paltz is surrounded by beautiful bodies of water, providing plenty of opportunities for water sports and boat tours.If you're looking for some excitement, try your hand at water sports on the Hudson River. You can rent paddleboards or kayaks and explore the scenic river at your own pace. Feel the rush as you paddle through the gentle currents and take in the breathtaking views of the surrounding mountains.For a more relaxing experience, consider taking a boat tour on the Hudson River. Hop aboard a comfortable vessel and let the knowledgeable guides show you the sights. Cruise along the river while learning about the history and wildlife of the area. Keep your eyes peeled for bald eagles soaring above and maybe even catch a glimpse of a playful seal.No matter which water activity you choose, be sure to pack sunscreen, towels, and a sense of adventure. Remember to stay hydrated and respect the environment by practicing responsible water sports and leaving no trace behind.Arts and CraftsLooking to unleash your creativity and explore the world of arts and crafts in New Paltz? You're in luck! This vibrant town offers a variety of opportunities for art workshops and handmade crafts that will inspire and delight. Here are three exciting options to consider:Mud and Fire Pottery Studio: Step into the world of pottery and get your hands dirty at Mud and Fire Pottery Studio. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced artist, their pottery classes cater to all skill levels. Learn the art of throwing clay on a wheel, hand-building techniques, or glazing and firing your creations. The studio provides a supportive and encouraging environment where you can let your imagination run wild and create unique, one-of-a-kind pieces.Fiber Flame Studio: If textile arts are more your style, then Fiber Flame Studio is the place to be. This cozy and inviting studio offers a wide range of classes and workshops, including fiber arts, mixed media, and collage. Dive into the world of fabric, yarn, and paper as you explore various techniques such as weaving, knitting, and needle felting. Let your creativity flow as you create beautiful and intricate pieces that reflect your personal style.Wallkill River School of Art: Immerse yourself in the world of painting at the Wallkill River School of Art. This art school and gallery offers a variety of painting classes for all ages and skill levels. From acrylics to watercolors, landscapes to portraits, there's something for everyone. Learn from experienced instructors who'll guide you through the process, helping you develop your skills and unleash your artistic potential. Whether you're a seasoned painter or just starting out, the Wallkill River School of Art is the perfect place to express yourself and create masterpieces.With these art workshops and handmade crafts, New Paltz provides the perfect opportunity to explore your creative side. Let your imagination soar as you engage in these artistic endeavors and discover the freedom of self-expression. Whether you choose pottery, textile arts, or painting, you're sure to have an unforgettable experience that will leave you inspired and fulfilled.Sports and RecreationNew Paltz offers a wide range of exciting sports and recreational activities that are sure to keep the whole family entertained and active. Whether you're looking for outdoor adventures or indoor fun, there's something for everyone in this vibrant town.For those who enjoy outdoor activities, New Paltz is a paradise. You can explore the numerous hiking trails in Mohonk Preserve, where breathtaking views and serene nature await. If rock climbing is your thing, head to The Gunks, a world-renowned climbing destination. Biking enthusiasts can pedal along the Wallkill Valley Rail Trail, while water lovers can canoe or kayak on the Hudson River.If you prefer indoor activities, there are plenty of options as well. Visit the Children's Museum of the Hudson Valley, where kids can learn and play at the same time. Explore the Historic Huguenot Street, a living museum that takes you back in time. You can also catch a performance at the McKenna Theatre or bounce around at the indoor trampoline park, Bounce!New Paltz is also home to family-friendly sports facilities. Play a round of mini-golf at the Apple Greens Golf Course or try horseback riding at the Payne Farm Too. The SUNY New Paltz Tennis Courts are perfect for a friendly game of tennis, and the New Paltz Golf Course offers a beautiful setting for a round of golf. If you're visiting during the colder months, don't miss the opportunity to go ice skating at the Kiwanis Ice Arena.No matter what your interests are, New Paltz has something for everyone. So gather your family and get ready for a day filled with excitement and adventure in this charming town.Day TripsEmbark on a day trip from New Paltz and immerse yourself in the beauty and culture of the surrounding areas. There are plenty of nearby towns to explore, each offering its own unique attractions and landmarks. Here are three options that are sure to evoke a sense of adventure and freedom:Visit the Walkway Over the Hudson in Poughkeepsie: Take a stroll across the longest elevated pedestrian bridge in the world and soak in breathtaking views of the Hudson River and surrounding landscapes. Feel the wind in your hair as you walk along the expansive bridge, enjoying the freedom of being suspended high above the water.Explore the Mohonk Mountain House in New Paltz: Step back in time as you explore this historic Victorian castle nestled in the heart of the Shawangunk Mountains. Wander through lush gardens, hike scenic trails, or relax by the lake. Immerse yourself in the natural beauty of the area and revel in the freedom of being surrounded by nature.Discover the Storm King Art Center in New Windsor: Lose yourself in the vast outdoor sculpture park that spans over 500 acres of rolling hills and fields. Marvel at the impressive collection of large-scale sculptures by renowned artists. As you wander through the expansive landscape, you'll feel a sense of freedom and liberation as you explore the intersection of art and nature.These day trips offer the perfect opportunity to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life and indulge in the freedom of exploration. So pack your bags, hit the road, and let the adventure begin!ShoppingWhen it comes to shopping in New Paltz, there's no shortage of unique and charming stores to explore. Whether you're looking for local boutiques or artisan markets, this town has it all.One of the must-visit places for shopping in New Paltz is the Water Street Market. This picturesque market is home to a variety of shops that offer everything from handmade jewelry to vintage clothing. You can spend hours browsing through the quaint stores and discovering one-of-a-kind treasures.Another great shopping destination in New Paltz is the New Paltz Plaza. This shopping center offers a wide range of stores, including popular retail chains and local businesses. You can find everything you need, from clothing and accessories to home decor and electronics. The plaza also has plenty of dining options, so you can grab a bite to eat after a day of shopping.If you're looking for unique and handmade crafts, the Unframed Artists Gallery is the place to go. This gallery features the work of local artists and artisans, offering a wide range of handmade items such as pottery, paintings, and sculptures. It's the perfect place to find a special gift or a piece of artwork to decorate your home.For fresh and local produce, don't miss the New Paltz Farmers Market. This market is held every Sunday and features a variety of vendors selling fruits, vegetables, dairy products, and more. It's a great place to support local farmers and enjoy the flavors of the Hudson Valley.In addition to these shopping destinations, Main Street in New Paltz is lined with charming antique shops. You can browse through a wide selection of vintage furniture, clothing, and collectibles, and maybe even find a hidden gem.With its local boutiques, artisan markets, and charming antique shops, New Paltz is a shopper's paradise. Whether you're searching for unique gifts, handmade crafts, or fresh produce, you're sure to find it in this vibrant town. So grab your wallet and get ready to explore the wonderful world of shopping in New Paltz.Seasonal ActivitiesAs the seasons change in New Paltz, there are a variety of activities that offer something for everyone to enjoy. From winter wonderlands to festive markets, here are three seasonal activities that will ignite your sense of adventure and create lasting memories:Christmas Tree Farms: Immerse yourself in the spirit of the holiday season by visiting one of the charming Christmas tree farms in New Paltz. Bring your family along and wander through rows of beautifully decorated trees, breathing in the crisp winter air as you search for the perfect centerpiece for your home. The joy of finding and cutting down your own Christmas tree is an experience that will bring smiles to faces of all ages.New Paltz Winter Farmers Market: Embrace the cozy atmosphere of the winter season by visiting the New Paltz Winter Farmers Market. This vibrant market showcases an array of local vendors offering fresh produce, artisanal goods, and homemade treats. Stroll through the market, savoring the scents of warm apple cider and freshly baked bread. Engage with the friendly vendors, supporting their small businesses and discovering unique treasures that will delight your taste buds and nourish your body.New Paltz Spring Clean-Up Day: As the winter months transition into spring, join the community in a day of rejuvenation and restoration. Participate in the New Paltz Spring Clean-Up Day, where families come together to beautify their town by cleaning up parks, streets, and public spaces. This hands-on activity not only promotes a sense of civic pride and environmental stewardship but also fosters a deeper connection with the community. Pitch in with your loved ones, rolling up your sleeves and making a tangible difference in the place you call home.Celebrate the changing seasons in New Paltz with these engaging and family-friendly activities. Whether you're searching for the perfect Christmas tree, exploring a winter farmers market, or giving back to your community, there's always something special to do in this vibrant town. So, embrace the freedom of the seasons and create unforgettable memories with your loved ones.Frequently Asked QuestionsAre There Any Nearby Wineries or Vineyards to Visit During a New Paltz Family Day Trip?Yes, there are nearby wineries and family-friendly vineyards to visit during a New Paltz family day trip. You can explore the Robibero Family Vineyards, where you can enjoy wine tastings and beautiful views of the vineyards.Another option is the Whitecliff Vineyard & Winery, which offers a variety of award-winning wines and a picnic area for families to relax and enjoy.These wineries provide a perfect opportunity to unwind and experience the local wine culture while spending quality time with your loved ones.What Are Some Family-Friendly Hiking Trails in the New Paltz Area?When it comes to family-friendly hiking trails in the New Paltz area, there are plenty of options to choose from.Take a leisurely stroll through the beautiful Mohonk Preserve, where you can enjoy scenic views and picnic spots along the way.Or, explore the trails at Minnewaska State Park, which offer a mix of easy and moderate hikes suitable for all ages.These local attractions for kids are the perfect way to connect with nature and create lasting memories as a family.Are There Any Family-Friendly Museums or Art Galleries in New Paltz?Yes, there are family-friendly museums and art galleries in New Paltz.The Dorsky Museum of Art is a great place to explore various art exhibits and learn about different artistic styles.The Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art is another museum that showcases contemporary art and offers educational programs for families.These museums provide a fun and educational experience for all ages, making them perfect destinations for a family day trip in New Paltz.Where Can Families Go for Swimming or Water Activities in New Paltz?For families looking for swimming spots or water activities in New Paltz, there are some great options to choose from.You can swim in the beautiful Lake Minnewaska, go fishing in the Wallkill River, or even try paddleboarding on the Wallkill River.Additionally, you can enjoy a boat tour on the Hudson River or have a picnic at the scenic Rosendale Trestle, which overlooks the Rondout Creek.There are plenty of opportunities for water fun in New Paltz!What Are Some Options for Family-Friendly Lodging in New Paltz for an Overnight Stay?When it comes to family-friendly lodging in New Paltz for an overnight stay, there are plenty of options to choose from. From cozy bed and breakfasts to spacious vacation rentals, there's something for every family's needs and preferences.These accommodations offer comfortable amenities and a welcoming atmosphere, ensuring a memorable and enjoyable stay for both parents and kids.With a range of kid-friendly activities in New Paltz, families can explore the outdoors, visit museums, and indulge in delicious meals, creating lasting memories together.ConclusionAs the sun sets on our family day trip to New Paltz, we carry with us memories that sparkle like the stars in the night sky.From soaring high on hiking trails to immersing ourselves in art and history, we discovered the beauty and wonder of this charming town.With bellies full of delicious meals and hearts full of joy, we bid farewell to New Paltz, knowing that our adventure will forever be etched in the tapestry of our family's story. submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 06:41 bramblyhedge tinfoil hat time
I wasn't active until the start of this year so I missed the whole 2023 advent calendar. out of interest I went back and looked at the whole orion/clues etc thing that happened tangentially to the advent in case it yielded any clues for the upcoming plot. watching back over the daily animations and prizes, I noticed:
day 5: Y25 plushie released as a prize. it has previously been speculated that this yurble is the one appearing in the vandalized neopian travel posters.
day 6: orion dialogue suggests he believes "something terrible is about to happen". the prize released on this day is a book "the big book of intermediate evil plots". more interestingly, the accompanying animation shows a lupe being haunted by the shadow usul.
going to shadow usul's neopedia page, we can read a short text detailing the shadow usul setting upon someone in a dark forest:
"Don't tell me... NO!" Toby shouted as he turned to look, only to see that the sky was filled with waves of boulders, as big as codestones, coming right at him. "AAARRGH!!!" The poor Gelert bellowed, as his body became swollen and bruised, racked by a pain the likes of which he'd never experienced before.
"Heh, magic pebbles." the Shadow Usul chuckled, while unleashing a mighty torrent on the poor, overmatched Gelert. "But I'm only getting started... just watch!"
magic pebble was an old faerie ability used in the battledome, but has been retired for some time. shadow usul goes on to use two? other retired abilities but this is the only one explicitly named, and is also her opening move.
day 7: what are the prizes today? pebble and Christmas Rock.
?????? what has shadow usul got to do with anything? who knows. just thought it was strange coincidence. I Personally hoping this means we un-retire all those interesting moves when the battledome part of the plot begins. but for now I'm just going to stash a bunch of those advent prizes in case they're relevant later. please roast me in the comments if this is unhinged/been speculated on before and I'm late to the party
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day 5: Y25 plushie released as a prize. it has previously been speculated that this yurble is the one appearing in the vandalized neopian travel posters.
day 6: orion dialogue suggests he believes "something terrible is about to happen". the prize released on this day is a book "the big book of intermediate evil plots". more interestingly, the accompanying animation shows a lupe being haunted by the shadow usul.
going to shadow usul's neopedia page, we can read a short text detailing the shadow usul setting upon someone in a dark forest:
"Don't tell me... NO!" Toby shouted as he turned to look, only to see that the sky was filled with waves of boulders, as big as codestones, coming right at him. "AAARRGH!!!" The poor Gelert bellowed, as his body became swollen and bruised, racked by a pain the likes of which he'd never experienced before.
"Heh, magic pebbles." the Shadow Usul chuckled, while unleashing a mighty torrent on the poor, overmatched Gelert. "But I'm only getting started... just watch!"
magic pebble was an old faerie ability used in the battledome, but has been retired for some time. shadow usul goes on to use two? other retired abilities but this is the only one explicitly named, and is also her opening move.
day 7: what are the prizes today? pebble and Christmas Rock.
?????? what has shadow usul got to do with anything? who knows. just thought it was strange coincidence. I Personally hoping this means we un-retire all those interesting moves when the battledome part of the plot begins. but for now I'm just going to stash a bunch of those advent prizes in case they're relevant later. please roast me in the comments if this is unhinged/been speculated on before and I'm late to the party
2024.05.15 06:28 chain_choker 11 year age gap?
I’d like to begin this invitation of advice or experiences by stating that what I want in life is a partner who feels like home, will always give me their genuine effort, & will love me through all of the highs, mediums, & lows of life.
I specifically want to know about any advice or things I should consider when it comes to the age gap I have with the man I’m seriously considering making a staple & serious part of my life. I (29f) met (40m) 3 years ago & we have been seeing each other for a little over a year. We met at the public school in which we both work- he’s the social worker, I’m a teacher. When I first saw him, he looked like a meat head (he’s pretty muscular, bald, beard, wears hoodies) & I’ve always been into nerds so it never occurred to me that I’d end up attracted to him. The first year we knew each other, it was very surface level, & then, during the second year of my time at the school, I got to know him better, as I did a few coworkers I now consider close friends. This second year of friendship was also a tough period for me as I was going through a divorce from with a man who wasn’t on the same life path as me & kind of made me dislike myself just for being me (wanting kids, needing to be intrinsically motivated in my career rather than financially motivated)- basically he was type A & I am B. I was absolutely enamored with him in my twenties & was crushed that it didn’t work- I spent a lot of time trying to change myself to accommodate his desires.
Anyhow, as I was processing my divorce & creating friendships, I got to know M(40) better both at work & at hang outs with friends outside of work. I watched how the kids at school just flocked to him & how kind he was with everybody. He coached the basketball team, did an after school program with the SRO to help at risk kids, & often stepped in to help others with tasks that weren’t related to his job as social worker. & he always did it with a positive attitude & good sense of humor. People just LIKE him, you know? It became obvious that he was just a really good person. One day, we had a discussion about kids & how we both wanted them. He told me I’d be a great mother because of how I treat the students & I told him he’d also be a wonderful parent. & he cast his spell on me & I slowly started falling for him. I couldn’t quite figure it out. Here I was, recently divorced from a relationship that had a tremendous affect on me mentally/emotionally, & I was gaining feelings for a man who was very different from my ex, & 11 years older than me. Was I just looking for a distraction? Was I using him to boost my confidence up after it had spent so much time at all time low? Or was I simply recognizing that this man had all of the features that I’d been missing in my past relationship & maybe I should pay attention to that? I was worried that my judgement post- divorce couldn’t possibly be clear, so I expressed that I had feelings for him but had to take things very slow. I was a bit of a mess as I tried to take the initial steps to get closer to him. I’d get emotional & have somewhat of a panic attack, or I’d go through some wishy washy phases when it came to wanting to see him in general. No matter what it was, he said that he understood, he wasn’t going anywhere, & that he just wanted me to be ok. He’d always ask what he could do to help & what I needed from him to feel better. If we were kissing & he felt that I wasn’t comfortable, he’d stop. One time he could tell that I wasn’t feeling great & he cried because he thought he’d made me feel bad. Needless to say, he was always there for me & ACTUALLY cared about how I felt. As we got closer, he was always respectful, would leave me flowers on random or special occasions (like when I was in an art show that he attended, or the first day of a new semester at work), wanted to make things like holidays memorable for me (one time I specifically thought was sweet was when he decorated my place with a Christmas tree & lights because “it’s your first Christmas in your new apartment, it should be festive!”). I consistently got solid evidence that he was emotionally mature, ready for a relationship, & wanted the same things as me.
So, I thought, “why is this sweet, courteous, kind, responsible, funny man single?” I’d heard some woman at work “pick” at him about this & say “I just don’t get how you’re single!” & I honestly wondered myself. You always heard that it’s a ref flag if a man dates a woman over 10 years younger & that it’s because “women his age didn’t want him”. Well, there are a few rational explanations I could think of: 1. He’d been sexually abused by his stepsister for years as a child. He’d told me that he’d had a few relationships during his 20s & 30s, but they didn’t last long & he’d had some issues with women not dealing with his anxiety around sex well. With me, this was not an issue, really. We’d taken the physical really slow, & when one of us felt anxiety as things heated up, the other stopped & supported. After a few months, it became a non-issue & we were able to have great sex with no fear that one of us would get anxious. I think us being so patient & supportive in those initial tough moments & making it clear that we were just as happy to show non-sexual affection helped bond us a ton. 2. When he was younger (childhood-20s) he was overweight. He began balding in his 20s & so he shaved his head. Maybe there weren’t a lot of women who wanted to be with the overweight, bald guy? Women can be just as shallow as men.
So, I began to try to look for any signs that maybe this man is “grooming” me or something. I looked for issues as well as green lights. How’s his family? His brother is happily married with children & he is close with his family, seeing them weekly. What are his friends like? I enjoy his friends. They’re nice, fun people & his best friends are in happy marriages. Does he manipulate you? No, he treats me like a princess (I’m not used to it) & tries to establish healthy relationship patterns (he always insists on a weekly date night, suggests activities together, such as me weight lifting with him & him running with me). He also hypes me up like no other- If I’m wearing a risky outfit that I love but know my mom would insult, BAM he is the first one to compliment it as his jaw drops to the floor. Always telling me how strong, sweet, & cool I am. Made me take his gloves when we went on a snowy hike & I’d forgotten mine. Just basically an endless stream of courtesy. Sometimes I worry if he’s just being really sweet to me because he wants to keep me- he’s said he’s trying to be less of a “people pleaser”- but he has always been consistently kind to me in a genuine manner.
I have gotten a lot of evidence that this is a solid person with whom I could build a beautiful relationship & family with. Everything he’s shown me has been positive as far as communication, morals, empathy, kindness & life plans is concerned.
So… is the 11 year age gap a concern? Should I be more paranoid about why he is still single, or are my theories valid? Although he goes to the gym daily & is like a kid at heart, should I worry about his age when it comes to us potentially raising kids? He’d likely be 43-45 by the time I was ready for that.
If anyone has any experience with being the victim of or being a partner to the victim of someone who went through sexual abuse as a child, please give any thoughts of how that might have affected someone when it comes to dating.
If you have any thoughts, please let me know. Truthfully, I do have other potential options if I pursued them & I’m not afraid of being alone, but I’m feeling that I’d like to commit to a relationship.
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I specifically want to know about any advice or things I should consider when it comes to the age gap I have with the man I’m seriously considering making a staple & serious part of my life. I (29f) met (40m) 3 years ago & we have been seeing each other for a little over a year. We met at the public school in which we both work- he’s the social worker, I’m a teacher. When I first saw him, he looked like a meat head (he’s pretty muscular, bald, beard, wears hoodies) & I’ve always been into nerds so it never occurred to me that I’d end up attracted to him. The first year we knew each other, it was very surface level, & then, during the second year of my time at the school, I got to know him better, as I did a few coworkers I now consider close friends. This second year of friendship was also a tough period for me as I was going through a divorce from with a man who wasn’t on the same life path as me & kind of made me dislike myself just for being me (wanting kids, needing to be intrinsically motivated in my career rather than financially motivated)- basically he was type A & I am B. I was absolutely enamored with him in my twenties & was crushed that it didn’t work- I spent a lot of time trying to change myself to accommodate his desires.
Anyhow, as I was processing my divorce & creating friendships, I got to know M(40) better both at work & at hang outs with friends outside of work. I watched how the kids at school just flocked to him & how kind he was with everybody. He coached the basketball team, did an after school program with the SRO to help at risk kids, & often stepped in to help others with tasks that weren’t related to his job as social worker. & he always did it with a positive attitude & good sense of humor. People just LIKE him, you know? It became obvious that he was just a really good person. One day, we had a discussion about kids & how we both wanted them. He told me I’d be a great mother because of how I treat the students & I told him he’d also be a wonderful parent. & he cast his spell on me & I slowly started falling for him. I couldn’t quite figure it out. Here I was, recently divorced from a relationship that had a tremendous affect on me mentally/emotionally, & I was gaining feelings for a man who was very different from my ex, & 11 years older than me. Was I just looking for a distraction? Was I using him to boost my confidence up after it had spent so much time at all time low? Or was I simply recognizing that this man had all of the features that I’d been missing in my past relationship & maybe I should pay attention to that? I was worried that my judgement post- divorce couldn’t possibly be clear, so I expressed that I had feelings for him but had to take things very slow. I was a bit of a mess as I tried to take the initial steps to get closer to him. I’d get emotional & have somewhat of a panic attack, or I’d go through some wishy washy phases when it came to wanting to see him in general. No matter what it was, he said that he understood, he wasn’t going anywhere, & that he just wanted me to be ok. He’d always ask what he could do to help & what I needed from him to feel better. If we were kissing & he felt that I wasn’t comfortable, he’d stop. One time he could tell that I wasn’t feeling great & he cried because he thought he’d made me feel bad. Needless to say, he was always there for me & ACTUALLY cared about how I felt. As we got closer, he was always respectful, would leave me flowers on random or special occasions (like when I was in an art show that he attended, or the first day of a new semester at work), wanted to make things like holidays memorable for me (one time I specifically thought was sweet was when he decorated my place with a Christmas tree & lights because “it’s your first Christmas in your new apartment, it should be festive!”). I consistently got solid evidence that he was emotionally mature, ready for a relationship, & wanted the same things as me.
So, I thought, “why is this sweet, courteous, kind, responsible, funny man single?” I’d heard some woman at work “pick” at him about this & say “I just don’t get how you’re single!” & I honestly wondered myself. You always heard that it’s a ref flag if a man dates a woman over 10 years younger & that it’s because “women his age didn’t want him”. Well, there are a few rational explanations I could think of: 1. He’d been sexually abused by his stepsister for years as a child. He’d told me that he’d had a few relationships during his 20s & 30s, but they didn’t last long & he’d had some issues with women not dealing with his anxiety around sex well. With me, this was not an issue, really. We’d taken the physical really slow, & when one of us felt anxiety as things heated up, the other stopped & supported. After a few months, it became a non-issue & we were able to have great sex with no fear that one of us would get anxious. I think us being so patient & supportive in those initial tough moments & making it clear that we were just as happy to show non-sexual affection helped bond us a ton. 2. When he was younger (childhood-20s) he was overweight. He began balding in his 20s & so he shaved his head. Maybe there weren’t a lot of women who wanted to be with the overweight, bald guy? Women can be just as shallow as men.
So, I began to try to look for any signs that maybe this man is “grooming” me or something. I looked for issues as well as green lights. How’s his family? His brother is happily married with children & he is close with his family, seeing them weekly. What are his friends like? I enjoy his friends. They’re nice, fun people & his best friends are in happy marriages. Does he manipulate you? No, he treats me like a princess (I’m not used to it) & tries to establish healthy relationship patterns (he always insists on a weekly date night, suggests activities together, such as me weight lifting with him & him running with me). He also hypes me up like no other- If I’m wearing a risky outfit that I love but know my mom would insult, BAM he is the first one to compliment it as his jaw drops to the floor. Always telling me how strong, sweet, & cool I am. Made me take his gloves when we went on a snowy hike & I’d forgotten mine. Just basically an endless stream of courtesy. Sometimes I worry if he’s just being really sweet to me because he wants to keep me- he’s said he’s trying to be less of a “people pleaser”- but he has always been consistently kind to me in a genuine manner.
I have gotten a lot of evidence that this is a solid person with whom I could build a beautiful relationship & family with. Everything he’s shown me has been positive as far as communication, morals, empathy, kindness & life plans is concerned.
So… is the 11 year age gap a concern? Should I be more paranoid about why he is still single, or are my theories valid? Although he goes to the gym daily & is like a kid at heart, should I worry about his age when it comes to us potentially raising kids? He’d likely be 43-45 by the time I was ready for that.
If anyone has any experience with being the victim of or being a partner to the victim of someone who went through sexual abuse as a child, please give any thoughts of how that might have affected someone when it comes to dating.
If you have any thoughts, please let me know. Truthfully, I do have other potential options if I pursued them & I’m not afraid of being alone, but I’m feeling that I’d like to commit to a relationship.
2024.05.15 06:11 stem_factually Educational Resources (Free) from a Former Professor, PhD Chemist, Former Homeschool Student, and Homeschool Parent
I have enjoyed participating in this sub and wanted to share the resources I have been working on as a former STEM professor. I have a podcast for parents interested in incorporating STEM into their kids' every day lives, active play episodes geared directly towards younger children, guides for how to choose a college, graduate program, etc. I am adding more resources as I can find the time, and appreciate insight as well as feedback and requests for more topics. Recently I have started working on some free printables to accompany the podcast and I have a link for those as well. Everything is free, nothing is monetized, I am doing this to keep busy and contribute back to my community.
Podcast (Also available on Apple, see the page for links): https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stemfactually
Printables: https://mrcphd.weebly.com/printables.html
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stemfactually/
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Podcast (Also available on Apple, see the page for links): https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stemfactually
Printables: https://mrcphd.weebly.com/printables.html
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stemfactually/
2024.05.15 04:00 TheLotStore 506 N Kings Road, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512
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2024.05.15 03:38 takingatoasterbath Genuinely so close to ending it all because of two f**king dogs
Before I start, hi mods, I’m practically begging you to keep this up, I have nobody to talk to about this at all and nobody that wants to for that matter. I really need this, it’s my last resort. Please. My account is basically a burner for when I need it, hence the lack of karma. Not a bot I swear lol.
Anyhow, hi, I’m rein- a 20 year old woman. Sometimes I don’t feel like a woman… more like a girl, especially when I second guess my ability to cope with stressful situations such as this. I used to like dogs up until maybe fifteen… that’s the age my mom got rid of our small senior dog to get two new puppies. An English bulldog and a German shepherd. This was also the age I got perused on my horse by three pitbulls. When I tell this story, nobody believes me at this part: but when my horse got tired from running and threw me off into some bushes, I watched her turn around when I regained my composure, stand her ground in front of me and fight off the pitbulls, until two of the three grabbed her throat and tore it out right in front of me. The third one ran away and got shot by police. I truly believe my horse, who was going to get put down a. Week later (she was old, scheduled euthanasia. It was gonna be our last, peaceful ride together.) saved me. I left with only a concussion and trauma. The other two shits died. My horse was a heavy Belgian draft mare, her huge hooves made quick work of them- but not quick enough. She was old and tired.
Anyhow. I hated dogs ever since. All of them. But especially pitbulls. The new ones at the time my mom got would further cement this in my brain.
It’s absolutely a nightmare to live with them day to day. I’m always woken up early in the morning by claws ticking on the wood floors. I’m in the basement, so I can hear it through the ceiling. I can also hear the bulldog snoring and struggling to breathe through the ceiling. I’m autistic. Noises such as these make me want to scream, cry, or punch someone. Another noise like this is the constant barking, at the same people every single day. When I get woken up by that, I genuinely have panic attacks. My heart starts racing and I can’t stop it.
The house is a constant mess. It smells like pee, always, because no matter how much we let the malformed excuse of a creature bulldog out he will go out of his way to pee on everything. Theres hair everywhere (my parents let them on the furniture and in beds) everything stinks, it’s embarrassing when people come over and you can just see in their face they know it smells. My clothes are constantly found and chewed (I’m not allowed privacy. The dogs can get my stuff.)
On top of this, they’re both aggressive. I can’t walk into the kitchen without getting my legs bitten and the slippers of my feet grabbed (sometimes along with my foot) my mom says it’s because they sense the devil in me. My parents think I’m the worst person alive because I actively voice my dislike for them often, because living in this house makes me sad and disgusted. Of course there’s more to it than the dogs but this isn’t the sub for that. They’re a big part tho. The bulldog once attacked my brother, grabbed onto his junk and wouldn’t let go one day. My grandma had to use excessive force to get him off and she still had to pry his jaw with all her strength off. My brother almost died because of the blood loss. Vascular area, if you get my drift. He has a bite history, lots of bite history, but all the people he bitten must of been dogs nuts too because they never got reported.
Same: The German shepherd lunges at random people and attacks our guests at Christmas parties. People laugh it off. She knocked my Baki (Croatian grandma) off my deck, broke her finger and ran my dad over on the ice rink. He hit his head so hard falling backwards I thought he died.
One time I wrote a whole document trying to explain my feelings in thorough detail. I spent months on it, practically begging my parents to get rid of them. How it would make all of us happier and healthier. I was called selfish and beaten by my mom. I snuck out that day and sat on the train tracks. But when I heard it coming, I chickened out. People saw me. Nobody tried to help. They just took pictures.
I have been depressed for a long time. I recently got diagnosed with bpd too. People say therapy dogs are healing, but dogs are the opposite for me. I want to move out and be independent, but I royally fucked up my life in my early teens- giving me 10k in debt. Because of my mental issues, I also genuinely can’t hold a job because I can’t handle working. Or understand basic labour concepts, I’m dumb. I’m just dumb. I can’t do anything. I’ll never be able to escape these dogs in this economy, I can’t have my quiet clean life like I want. I concluded a few days ago that ending my life is the only option. Point blank. It’s not worth it to try. Try to pay off my debt, find work, even if I do I’ll be well past my 20’s and even lawyers in my country are struggling to make ends meet. Me, who can’t even find basic work, will not be able to make ends meet. Ever.
Why did it have to be me. Why do I have to live with these hellspawn and also be fucked up on top of it. Where’s the fucking funny in this joke.
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Anyhow, hi, I’m rein- a 20 year old woman. Sometimes I don’t feel like a woman… more like a girl, especially when I second guess my ability to cope with stressful situations such as this. I used to like dogs up until maybe fifteen… that’s the age my mom got rid of our small senior dog to get two new puppies. An English bulldog and a German shepherd. This was also the age I got perused on my horse by three pitbulls. When I tell this story, nobody believes me at this part: but when my horse got tired from running and threw me off into some bushes, I watched her turn around when I regained my composure, stand her ground in front of me and fight off the pitbulls, until two of the three grabbed her throat and tore it out right in front of me. The third one ran away and got shot by police. I truly believe my horse, who was going to get put down a. Week later (she was old, scheduled euthanasia. It was gonna be our last, peaceful ride together.) saved me. I left with only a concussion and trauma. The other two shits died. My horse was a heavy Belgian draft mare, her huge hooves made quick work of them- but not quick enough. She was old and tired.
Anyhow. I hated dogs ever since. All of them. But especially pitbulls. The new ones at the time my mom got would further cement this in my brain.
It’s absolutely a nightmare to live with them day to day. I’m always woken up early in the morning by claws ticking on the wood floors. I’m in the basement, so I can hear it through the ceiling. I can also hear the bulldog snoring and struggling to breathe through the ceiling. I’m autistic. Noises such as these make me want to scream, cry, or punch someone. Another noise like this is the constant barking, at the same people every single day. When I get woken up by that, I genuinely have panic attacks. My heart starts racing and I can’t stop it.
The house is a constant mess. It smells like pee, always, because no matter how much we let the malformed excuse of a creature bulldog out he will go out of his way to pee on everything. Theres hair everywhere (my parents let them on the furniture and in beds) everything stinks, it’s embarrassing when people come over and you can just see in their face they know it smells. My clothes are constantly found and chewed (I’m not allowed privacy. The dogs can get my stuff.)
On top of this, they’re both aggressive. I can’t walk into the kitchen without getting my legs bitten and the slippers of my feet grabbed (sometimes along with my foot) my mom says it’s because they sense the devil in me. My parents think I’m the worst person alive because I actively voice my dislike for them often, because living in this house makes me sad and disgusted. Of course there’s more to it than the dogs but this isn’t the sub for that. They’re a big part tho. The bulldog once attacked my brother, grabbed onto his junk and wouldn’t let go one day. My grandma had to use excessive force to get him off and she still had to pry his jaw with all her strength off. My brother almost died because of the blood loss. Vascular area, if you get my drift. He has a bite history, lots of bite history, but all the people he bitten must of been dogs nuts too because they never got reported.
Same: The German shepherd lunges at random people and attacks our guests at Christmas parties. People laugh it off. She knocked my Baki (Croatian grandma) off my deck, broke her finger and ran my dad over on the ice rink. He hit his head so hard falling backwards I thought he died.
One time I wrote a whole document trying to explain my feelings in thorough detail. I spent months on it, practically begging my parents to get rid of them. How it would make all of us happier and healthier. I was called selfish and beaten by my mom. I snuck out that day and sat on the train tracks. But when I heard it coming, I chickened out. People saw me. Nobody tried to help. They just took pictures.
I have been depressed for a long time. I recently got diagnosed with bpd too. People say therapy dogs are healing, but dogs are the opposite for me. I want to move out and be independent, but I royally fucked up my life in my early teens- giving me 10k in debt. Because of my mental issues, I also genuinely can’t hold a job because I can’t handle working. Or understand basic labour concepts, I’m dumb. I’m just dumb. I can’t do anything. I’ll never be able to escape these dogs in this economy, I can’t have my quiet clean life like I want. I concluded a few days ago that ending my life is the only option. Point blank. It’s not worth it to try. Try to pay off my debt, find work, even if I do I’ll be well past my 20’s and even lawyers in my country are struggling to make ends meet. Me, who can’t even find basic work, will not be able to make ends meet. Ever.
Why did it have to be me. Why do I have to live with these hellspawn and also be fucked up on top of it. Where’s the fucking funny in this joke.
2024.05.15 01:46 BigYonsan Behavior issues at daycare
I need some advice or support guys. I had a work from home job up through the first three and a half years of my son's life. I was laid off last Christmas and finally found a new job last week. Unfortunately, it's not work from home, so my son started daycare.
He's not a fan, to say the least. He's bored with the activities, he already knows his numbers, alphabet and how to read (at least better than most of the kids his age).
After his first week, he decided he didn't want to go back. I explained we don't have a choice for now, this is something we have to do and that this is how things have to be for now. Initially, he tried sabotaging the daily start routine. When that didn't work, he deliberately peed in his clothes (he's been potty trained for a year or so). That didn't get what he wanted, so now he's started acting out at daycare.
I found out today he hit and kicked several other kids today, pointed finger guns at the teacher and sat down in the middle of the floor, refusing to participate. Over the last few days his behavior has been uncooperative, but this is an escalation.
By contrast, he stopped hitting and kicking us in his early 2's. He's always been stubborn and argumentative, but generally receptive to redirection and talking feelings through.
Upon coming home he stood in the corner for 12 minutes (2 for each child he hit). We talked about everything that happened and he promises he'll try to do better, but he's made these promises before, they usually don't survive a night's sleep.
I'm at a loss guys. I can't afford to quit this job, but if he keeps going he's going to get himself kicked out of the daycare. Really don't know what to do here.
Anyone else had a willfull kiddo who hated daycare? What did you try? What worked?
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He's not a fan, to say the least. He's bored with the activities, he already knows his numbers, alphabet and how to read (at least better than most of the kids his age).
After his first week, he decided he didn't want to go back. I explained we don't have a choice for now, this is something we have to do and that this is how things have to be for now. Initially, he tried sabotaging the daily start routine. When that didn't work, he deliberately peed in his clothes (he's been potty trained for a year or so). That didn't get what he wanted, so now he's started acting out at daycare.
I found out today he hit and kicked several other kids today, pointed finger guns at the teacher and sat down in the middle of the floor, refusing to participate. Over the last few days his behavior has been uncooperative, but this is an escalation.
By contrast, he stopped hitting and kicking us in his early 2's. He's always been stubborn and argumentative, but generally receptive to redirection and talking feelings through.
Upon coming home he stood in the corner for 12 minutes (2 for each child he hit). We talked about everything that happened and he promises he'll try to do better, but he's made these promises before, they usually don't survive a night's sleep.
I'm at a loss guys. I can't afford to quit this job, but if he keeps going he's going to get himself kicked out of the daycare. Really don't know what to do here.
Anyone else had a willfull kiddo who hated daycare? What did you try? What worked?
2024.05.15 01:42 rib_eye_b (SELLING) Barbie - Dune Part 2 - The Iron Claw - Mulan - The Super Mario Bros. Movie - Top Gun Maverick - True Lies [AMAZON GC]
AMAZON GIFT CARDS ONLY - No Trades - One Hour Holds - Open to Offers on Multiples - Prices Firm for Single Selections - Please Comment First - CHAT REQUESTS IGNORED
DISNEY
- Beauty and the Beast (2017) - $3
- Finding Dory (2016) - $3
- Frozen (2013) - $3
- The Good Dinosaur (2015) - $3
- Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 (2017) - $3
- Hocus Pocus (1993) - $3
- Inside Out (2015) - $3
- The Lion King (2019) - $3
- Maleficent (2014) - $3
- Moana (2016) - $3
- Mulan 4k (1998) - $6
- The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993) - $3
- Star Wars: The Force Awakens (2015) - $3
- Thor Ragnarok 4k (2017) - $6
- Thor Love and Thunder 4k (2022) - $6
- Zootopia (2016) - $3
FOX
- Assassin's Creed (2016) - $3
- The Counselor (2013) - $3
- Deadpool (2016) - $3
- The Greatest Showman (2017) - $3
- The Heat (2013) - $3
- Kingsman: The Secret Service (2015) - $3
- Kung Fu Panda 3 (2016) - $3
- The Martian (2015) - $3
- The Peanuts Movie (2015) - $3
- Prometheus (2012) - $3
- The Revenant (2015) - $3
- RoboCop (2014) [VUDU/GP] - $3
- The Secret Life of Walter Mitty (2013) - $3
- Spies in Disguise (2019) - $3
- Super Troopers 2 (2018) - $3
- True Lies 4k (1994) - $8
- Widows 4k (2018) - $6
- X-Men: Days of Future Past (2014) - $3
LIONSGATE
- American Psycho 4k (2000) - $6
- The Cabin in the Woods (2012) - $4
- Dirty Dancing 4k (1987) - $6
- Divergent (2014) - $4
- Dream a Little Dream (1989) - $4
- Dredd (2012) - $4
- Dredd 4k (2012) - $6
- Ender's Game (2013) - $4
- Everything Everywhere All at Once 4k (2022) - $6
- Ex Machina 4k (2015) - $6
- The Expendables 2 (2012) - $4
- The Expendables 3 (2014) - $4
- The Expendables 1-4 4k (2010, 2012, 2014 & 2023) - $15
- The Hateful Eight (2015) - $4
- The Homesman (2014) - $4
- The Hunger Games (2012) - $4
- The Hunger Games: Catching Fire (2013) - $4
- Hunger Games: Mocking Jay Part 2 (2015) - $4
- The Iron Claw (2023) - $8
- It Comes at Night (2017) - $4
- Jay and Silent Bob Reboot (2019) - $4
- Joe (2014) - $4
- The Kid (2019) - $4
- Knives Out 4k (2019) - $6
- Maggie (2015) - $4
- The Making of Trump (2015) - $4
- The Man Who Fell to Earth 4k (1976) - $6
- Men (2022) - $4
- Midway 4k (2019) - $6
- The Mist 4k (2007) - $6
- Much Ado About Nothing (2013) - $4
- Now You See Me (2013) - $4
- Orange is the New Black: Season 1 (2013) - $4
- Orange is the New Black: Season 2 (2014) - $4
- The Possession (2012) - $4
- Requiem for a Dream 4k (2020) - $6
- Reservoir Dogs 4k (1992) - $6
- Rob Zombie Trilogy (2003-2019) - $6
- Shivers (1975) - $4
- Stand Up Guys (2012) - $4
- Terminator 2: Judgement Day 4k (1991) - $6
- Total Recall 4k (1990) - $6
- The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent 4k (2022) - $6
- Unhinged (2020) - $4
- Wonder (2017) - $4
- The Wraith (1986) - $4
- You're Next (2013) - $4
PARAMOUNT
- Bad Grandpa (2013) - $3
- BumbleBee 4k (2018) - $6
- Event Horizon 4k (1997) - $6
- Gemini Man 4k (2019) - $6
- Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit (2014) - $3
- Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol (2011) - $3
- Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation (2015) [iTunes ONLY] - $2
- Mother (2017) - $3
- Overlord 4k (2018) - $6
- Paranormal Activity - The Marked Ones (2014) - $3
- Pet Sematary (2019) - $3
- Rocketman (2019) - $3
- Scream 4k (1996) - $6
- Scream 4k (2022) - $6
- Scream VI 4k (2023) - $6
- Star Trek Into Darkness (2013) - $3
- Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (2014) - $3
- Top Gun 4k (1986) - $6
- Top Gun Maverick 4k (2022) - $6
- True Grit (2010) - $3
- World War Z (2013) - $3
SONY
- 21 Jump Street (2012) - $3
- The Amazing Spider-Man (2012) - $3
- Appleseed: Alpha [SD](2014) - $3
- Bad Boys For Life 4k (2020) - $6
- Black Hawk Down 4k (2001) - $6
- Concussion (2015) - $3
- The Dark Tower (2017) - $3
- Don't Breathe SD (2016) - $2
- Drive (2011) - $3
- The Equalizer 2 (2018) - $3
- Fury (2014) - $3
- Godzilla, Mothra & King Ghidorah Collection (1992, 1998 & 2003) [MA - SD] - $15
- Hotel Transylvania (2012) - $3
- Hotel Transylvania 3 (2018) - $3
- Insidious: The Last Key (2018) - $3
- Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle 4k (2017) - $6
- Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle (2017) - $3
- Lawrence of Arabia (1962) - $3
- Passengers 4k (2016) - $6
- Peter Rabbit (2018) - $3
- Pride and Prejudice and Zombies 4k (2016) - $6
- Roman J. Israel, Esq. (2017) - $3
- Sausage Party (2016) - $3
- Sicario: Day of the Soldado (2018) - $3
- Spider-Man 4 Film Collection (2017, 2018, 2018 & 2019) - $15
- Spider-Man Homecoming (2017) - $3
- Spider-Man: No Way Home 4k (2021) - $6
UNIVERSAL
- Apollo 11 (2019) - $4
- BlacKKKlansman (2018) - $4
- The Breakfast Club (1985) - $4
- Brian Banks (2019) - $4
- Casino 4k (1995) - $6
- Cult of Chucky UNRATED (2017) - $4
- Colossal (2017) - $4
- Contraband (2012) [iTunes ONLY] - $2
- Darkest Hour (2017) - $4
- Despicable Me 2 (2013) - $4
- Dr. Seuss' The Lorax (2012) - $4
- F9: The Fast Saga [Both Theatrical & Directors Cut] (2021) - $4
- Good Boys (2019) - $4
- Hail, Caesar! (2016) - $4
- Halloween Kills 4k (2021) - $6
- Hardcore Henry (2016) - $4
- Holiday Inn (1942) - $4
- How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World 4k (2019) - $6
- The Hunt (2019) - $4
- The Huntsman - Winter’s War - Extended Edition (2016) - $4
- Hustlers 4k (2019) [iTunes ONLY] - $4
- Inglourious Basterds (2009) [iTunes ONLY] - $3
- It Came From Outer Space 4k (1953) - $6
- Jaws 2 4k (1978) - $6
- Jurassic Park: The Lost World 4k (1997) - $6
- Jurassic Park III 4k (2001) - $6
- Jurassic World (2015) - $4
- Justice (2017) - $4
- Knock at the Cabin 4k (2023) - $6
- The Last Starfighter (1984) - $4
- Lone Survivor (2013) - $4
- Megan Leavey (2017) - $4
- Minions (2015) - $4
- Moonrise Kingdom (2012) - $4
- Monty Python's The Meaning of Life 4k (1983) - $6
- The Mummy: Tomb of the Dragon Emperor 4k (2008) [MA ONLY] - $6
- No Time to Die 4k (2021) [iTunes ONLY] - $6
- Nope 4k (2022) - $6
- The Northman 4k (2022) - $6
- Oblivion (2013) - $4
- Phantom Thread (2017) - $4
- Pitch Perfect (2012) - $4
- Pitch Perfect 2 (2015) - $4
- Renfield (2023) - $4
- Scarface (1983) [MA ONLY] - $3
- The Secret Life of Pets (2016) - $4
- The Secret Life of Pets 2 (2019) - $4
- Spartacus 4k (1960) - $6
- The Super Mario Bros. Movie 4k (2023) - $6
- The Thing (2001) - $4
WARNER BROS
- Barbie 4k (2023) - $8
- Black Adam 4k (2022) - $6
Dune Part 2 4k (2024) - $12- Elvis 4k (2022) - $6
- Legion of Super-Heroes (2023) - $3
- Live Die Repeat - Edge of Tomorrow 4k (2014) - $6
- The Lost Boys 4k (1987) - $6
- Poltergeist 4k (1982) - $6
- Westworld Season Four: The Choice 4k (2022) - $8
2024.05.15 01:00 TheLotStore 1508 Strawberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512
 | 1508 Strawberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512 submitted by TheLotStore to u/TheLotStore [link] [comments] Nice 1/4 acre mobile home friendly lot in an excellent location in the Ozarks! GPS Coordinates are 36.250368475253254, -91.73966429209858. Plenty of privacy on this lot and when you're ready for nearby some recreation, swing by either Diamond Lake or Crown Lake! Priced way below area comparable sales in the area! Debit/Credit Cards Accepted No Closing Costs Cash Price: $1,175 Finance with $200 Down and 12 Payments of $105 Per Month No Credit Check, No Income Documentation, No Prepayment PenaltyProperty Address: 1508 Strawberry Lane, Horseshoe Bend, AR 72512 (Map location is approximate) County: Izard Assessor Parcel Number: 800-00406-000 Legal Description: Lot 40, Block 3, Horseshoe Bend Tract B Zoning: Residential Annual Property Taxes: $4.87 About Horseshoe Bend: The best kept secret in north Arkansas is Horseshoe Bend. Nestled in the Ozark Mountains on the Strawberry River, this quaint town is the perfect place to find rest, relaxation, and recreation. The crown jewel of the town is the 640-acre Crown Lake. On Crown Lake, water lovers can participate in a variety of activities, including swimming, kayaking, paddle boarding, water skiing, and tubing. Crown Lake is best known for good fishing, but it is not the only sought-after fishing hole in the area. Besides Crown Lake and the Strawberry River, fishing enthusiasts can also visit one of the smaller fishing lakes – Diamond, Pioneer, and North. There are plenty of activities for young and old alike! Golfers have their choice between two par 3, 18-hole golf courses. Citizens and guests can also bowl, pitch horseshoes, and play miniature golf. The town has several stores, a library, three resorts, a community theater, a spa, and several restaurants. The citizens of Horseshoe Bend take pride in the community spirit and the ability to offer a memorable experience for all who come to visit. The Music in the Mountains show occurs every third Saturday of the month, and during summer, the Farmers’ Market occurs every Wednesday. Every year, the town celebrates Dogwood Days on the second Saturday of May, and Independence Day is celebrated every 4th of July with a parade and fireworks. The annual Christmas parade occurs on the first Saturday in December. There are many more events that happen throughout the year, thanks to the numerous civic groups which are active in Horseshoe Bend. All of these events embrace the unique Ozark culture of small-town pride and fellowship. The largest town in Izard County with 2,180 residents, Horseshoe Bend is accessible to the state’s most scenic highways. The town is centrally located and just a 3-hour drive to Little Rock, Memphis, and Springfield. With its gorgeous views, slower pace of life, and laid-back charm, Horseshoe Bend is the perfect place to stay a week or a lifetime. More Information on Horseshoe Bend can be found at http://ozarklandstore.com/. View our amazing property deals at TheLotStore.Com. Additional Information: https://thelotstore.com/property/1508-strawberry-lane-horseshoe-bend-ar-72512/?feed_id=10291 |
2024.05.15 00:37 river_stein I feel no joy in everything I do
First of all, I would like to apologize beforehand for my English writing skills, since I am not native to the English language.
Ever since my ex-girlfriend left me half a year ago before Christmas time, I feel empty.
I feel like there is no joy in everything I do and I completely forgot the feeling of euphoria.
Maybe its my very rational nature. I see in black or white. Wrong or right.
I rarely get sad about things. Because I know that, if there is nothing about it that can be changed, I shouldn’t waste any recourses being sad about it. But so am I rarely happy about things.
Of course, when I meet my friends and catch up with them, I might feel happy for the time being, but deep inside its still emptiness.
I miss knowing that there is someone waiting for me. Someone who’s overloading with joy just at the glance of me. Someone I can always rely on. Someone to fall back on.
For context: the relationship lasted 2.5 years and I am turning 20 very soon. She was my very first girlfriend as well.
I know this makes me very young and some of you may say „it’s normal to feel this way. You’re young. Let time heal your wounds.” Or “you already got a girlfriend. There won’t be any trouble finding another one” (which I am very certain about as well. I would rate my appearance at a good 7 or low 8)
But that’s the point. I don’t want my happiness depending on another person.
For all I can remember I did everything for our future. I worked throughout Highschool and saved 90% of everything to finance our vacations and maybe a house one day (these days you got to start early).
I consumed red/black pill content even before the break up. But always with caution and questioning the contents. I started working out. Because I wanted to be the best version of myself for her and for us.
I successfully applied for a dual study program at a big insurance company with high profile jobs in hopes of securing our financial prosperity.
I knew everything I did had a purpose.
Now I continue to do the same. I work. I work out. I prepare myself for the studies starting in August. That’s everything I do. I feel stuck like being on a treadmill. Knowing that all I do is objectively right. The optimal path for guaranteed success. But I feel like I’m still not moving forward.
All “fun” activities feel not the same anymore.
I really do like my friends. But going to a lake or to the swimming pool with anyone feels like a chore in order to keep my social life healthy and maintain friendships. I rather work and make money in the meantime.
Gaming doesn’t feel the way as it used to. Even tough I have a lot more time now.
I just wanted to tell this somebody who doesn’t know me with a completely new and unbiased point of view.
submitted by river_stein to Healthygamergg [link] [comments]
Ever since my ex-girlfriend left me half a year ago before Christmas time, I feel empty.
I feel like there is no joy in everything I do and I completely forgot the feeling of euphoria.
Maybe its my very rational nature. I see in black or white. Wrong or right.
I rarely get sad about things. Because I know that, if there is nothing about it that can be changed, I shouldn’t waste any recourses being sad about it. But so am I rarely happy about things.
Of course, when I meet my friends and catch up with them, I might feel happy for the time being, but deep inside its still emptiness.
I miss knowing that there is someone waiting for me. Someone who’s overloading with joy just at the glance of me. Someone I can always rely on. Someone to fall back on.
For context: the relationship lasted 2.5 years and I am turning 20 very soon. She was my very first girlfriend as well.
I know this makes me very young and some of you may say „it’s normal to feel this way. You’re young. Let time heal your wounds.” Or “you already got a girlfriend. There won’t be any trouble finding another one” (which I am very certain about as well. I would rate my appearance at a good 7 or low 8)
But that’s the point. I don’t want my happiness depending on another person.
For all I can remember I did everything for our future. I worked throughout Highschool and saved 90% of everything to finance our vacations and maybe a house one day (these days you got to start early).
I consumed red/black pill content even before the break up. But always with caution and questioning the contents. I started working out. Because I wanted to be the best version of myself for her and for us.
I successfully applied for a dual study program at a big insurance company with high profile jobs in hopes of securing our financial prosperity.
I knew everything I did had a purpose.
Now I continue to do the same. I work. I work out. I prepare myself for the studies starting in August. That’s everything I do. I feel stuck like being on a treadmill. Knowing that all I do is objectively right. The optimal path for guaranteed success. But I feel like I’m still not moving forward.
All “fun” activities feel not the same anymore.
I really do like my friends. But going to a lake or to the swimming pool with anyone feels like a chore in order to keep my social life healthy and maintain friendships. I rather work and make money in the meantime.
Gaming doesn’t feel the way as it used to. Even tough I have a lot more time now.
I just wanted to tell this somebody who doesn’t know me with a completely new and unbiased point of view.
2024.05.15 00:09 guy6288 (Selling) Hook 4k, Gran Turismo 4k, Thanksgiving (2023) 4k, Pitch Perfect 4k, Transformers: Dark of the Moon 4k, Atlantis 1 & 2, Brother Bear 1 & 2, May Universal Rewards Codes, Plus Lots More!
All codes below are split where possible unless noted; please only redeem at the place agreed upon; please redeem code soon after sale.
Thanks for looking!
Have multiples of some codes.
Venmo and CashApp Accepted
Venmo and CashApp Accepted
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Thanks for looking!
Have multiples of some codes.
Venmo and CashApp Accepted
$1.00 to $3.50 4k Codes
- Finding Dory, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $3.50
- The Last Witch Hunter, 4k iTunes or 4k vudu $3.50
- Maleficent, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $3.50
- Pitch Perfect, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points) $2.50
- Snitch, 4k iTunes $1.75
Transformers: Dark of the Moon, 4k vudu $3.50- Wonder (2017), 4k iTunes $2
$4.00 to $5.00 4k Codes
- Avengers: Endgame, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $4
- Big Hero 6, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) $4
- Captain America: Civil War, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $4
- The Good Dinosaur, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $4
- Gran Turismo: Based on a True Story, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points) $5
- Hook, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points) $5
- Ralph Breaks the Internet, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $4
- Thanksgiving (2023), 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points) $5
- Toy Story 4, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) $4
$14.00 8 Film High On Your Watch List Collection (1 Code for all 8 Movies, Redeemable via Movies Anywhere)
- Due Date, HD
- Friday, HD
- Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle, HD
- House Party, HD
- Inherent Vice, HD
- Project X, HD
- Tenacious D in The Pick of Destiny, HD
- We're the Millers, HD
$3.00 May Universal Rewards Code
Good for one of the following movies, redeemable via Movies Anywhere.- Backdraft 2, 4k $3
- Black Christmas, 4k $3
- A Dog's Purpose, 4k $3
- The Sparks Brothers, 4k $3
- Agnes Browne, HD $3
- Antz, HD $3
- Being Frank, HD $3
- Don't Let Go, HD $3
- Final Account, HD $3
- Kicks, HD $3
- Loving, HD $3
- Raw, HD $3
$2.00 to $3.00 HD MA, vudu, or iTunes Movie Codes
- Assassination Nation, HD MA (ports to MA) $3
- The Bourne Legacy, HD MA (ports to MA) $2
- Boyhood, HD vudu $2
- Boyhood, HD iTunes $2
- Chicago (Diamond Edition), HD iTunes or HD vudu $2
- Danny Collins, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points) $2
- The Gunman, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points) $3
- Home Again, HD MA (ports to MA) $3
- I Feel Pretty, HD iTunes $3
- Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas, HD MA (ports to MA) $3
- Megan Leavey, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points) $2
- The Nut Job 2: Nutty by Nature, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points) $2
- Paranormal Activity 3, HD vudu $2
- Paranormal Activity 4, HD iTunes $2
- The Purge, HD MA (ports to MA) $2
- Rio 2, HD MA (ports to MA) $3
- Same Kind of Different As Me, HD iTunes $2
- Selma, HD vudu $2
- Selma, HD iTunes $2
- Sinister, HD iTunes $2
- Super 8, HD vudu $3
$0.75 to $1.25 HD MA, vudu, or iTunes Movie Codes (Total must be at least $1)
- The Expendables 2, HD vudu $0.75
- Florence Foster Jenkins, HD iTunes $0.75
- The Hunger Games, HD vudu $0.75
- Indivisible, HD MA (Canada only) $0.75
- Paranormal Activity 3, HD iTunes $1.25
- The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 2, HD vudu $0.75
- Tyler Perry's Madea's Witness Protection, HD vudu $1.25
$3.00 to $4.50 Disney/Marvel/Star Wars HD MA, vudu, or iTunes Movie Codes (All Port to Movies Anywhere)
Atlantis: The Lost Empire, HD MA (ports to MA) $4.50Atlantis: Milo's Return, HD MA (ports to MA) $4.50- Brother Bear, HD MA (ports to MA) $4.50
- Brother Bear 2, HD MA (ports to MA) $4.50
- The Fox and the Hound 2, HD MA (ports to MA) $4
- The Little Mermaid (1989), HD MA (ports to MA) $4
- The Lone Ranger, HD iTunes (ports to MA) $4
- Mary Poppins (1964), HD iTunes (ports to MA) $4
- Mulan (1998), HD MA (ports to MA) $4
- Oz the Great and Powerful, HD MA (ports to MA) $3.50
The Pirate Fairy, HD iTunes (ports to MA) $4- Queen of Katwe, HD MA (ports to MA) $3.50
- Turning Red, HD MA (ports to MA) $3.50
$1.50 to $3.50 Disney/Marvel/Star Wars HD Google Play Movie Codes (All Port to Movies Anywhere)
Aladdin (animated), HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50- Aladdin (2019), HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Avengers: Endgame, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- Beauty and the Beast (2017), HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- Big Hero 6, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- Black Panther, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- The Call of the Wild, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
Captain America: The First Avenger, HD gp (ports to MA) $3- Captain America: The Winter Soldier, HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Captain America: Civil War, HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Celebrating Mickey, HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Cinderella (2015), HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- Coco, HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Doctor Strange, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.25
- Finding Dory, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Frozen, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Frozen (Sing-Along Edition), HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- The Good Dinosaur, HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Guardians of the Galaxy, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.50
- Incredibles 2, HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50
- Inside Out, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.50
- The Lion King (2019), HD gp (ports to MA) $2.50
- Little Mermaid (animated), HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Maleficent, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Mary Poppins (1964), HD gp (ports to MA) $3
- Moana, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Monsters University, HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50
- The Nightmare Before Christmas, HD gp (ports to MA), HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50
- Raya and the Last Dragon, HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50
Robin Hood (animated), HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50- Star Wars: The Force Awakens, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Star Wars: The Last Jedi, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Thor: The Dark World, HD gp (ports to MA) $3.50
- Thor: Ragnarok, HD gp (ports to MA) $2.50
- Toy Story 4, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
- Zootopia, HD gp (ports to MA) $2
$0.50 SD Movie Codes (Total must be at least $1)
- Hugo, SD vudu $0.50
Star Trek Into Darkness, SD vudu $0.50X-Men Origins: Wolverine, SD iTunes (ports to MA) $0.50
2024.05.14 23:54 MegaMikeX143 (Selling) Dune 2 4K, Dune 2 HD, Dune 4K, The Crow 4K, Carlito’s Way 4K, Dragged Across Concrete 4K, Mean Girls 2004 4K, Memories Of Murder 4K, Scoob 4K, Silent Knight 4K, Strays 4K, Unseen 4K, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory 4K
Cashapp or PayPal Friends and Family
Open To Offers!!
4K
5lbs Of Pressure 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
15:17 Paris 4K MA $6
80s for Brady 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Adverse 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Aeon Flux 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Agent Game 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Angels and Demons 4K MA $5
Anna 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Carlito’s Way 4K MA $6
Cold Pursuit 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon 4K MA $5
Daddy’s Home 4K iTunes $2.50 (doesn’t port)
Dragged Across Concrete 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Dune 4K MA $6
Dune 2 4K MA $15
Elizabethtown 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Face/Off 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Fatal Attraction 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Gran Turismo 4K MA $5
Hook 4K MA $5
Jerry and Marge Go Large 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Keanu 4K MA $6
Life Of The Party 4K MA $6
Like A Boss 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Maleficent Mistress Of Evil 4K iTunes + dmi $4.50
Mean Girls 2004 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Memories Of Murder 4K MA $6
Miss Peregrine’s Home For Peculiar Children 4K itunes $3.50
Philadelphia 4K MA $5
Red Eye 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Run All Night 4K MA $6
Scoob 4K MA $6
Scream 6 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Silent Knight 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Sleepless In Seattle 4K MA $5
Sons Of Summer 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Source Code 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Strays 4K MA $6
The Commuter 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
T2 Trainspotting 4K MA $6
Trainspotting 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Crow 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Da Vinci Code 4K MA $5
The Lovely Bones 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Protege 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
The Score 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Tourist 4K MA $6
The Weapon 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Unseen 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory 4K MA $6
HD
Button A Christmas Tale Hd iTunes (doesn’t port) $3.50
Dune 2 HD MA $11
Fox and the Hound 2 HD MA $4
I, Frankenstein HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $3
Now You See Me HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $2
Paranormal Activity 3 HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $1
Quiet Place HD Vudu (doesn’t port) $2
Spider-Man Homecoming HD MA $2.50
World War Z HD Vudu (doesn’t port) $2
SD
Snitch SD Vudu (doesn’t port) $1.50
GP splits
Aladdin Live Action GP HD $2
Ant Man and the Wasp GP HD $2.50
Avengers Age Of Ultron GP HD $2.50
Avengers Infinity War GP HD $2.50
Beauty and the Beast Live Action GP HD $2.50
Big Hero 6 GP HD $2
Black Panther GP HD $2
Captain America Winter Soldier GP HD $3
Cinderella Live Action GP HD $2.50
Doctor Strange GP HD $2
Fox and the Hound 2 GP HD $3.50
Inside Out GP HD $2
Into The Woods GP HD $3
Iron Man 3 GP HD $2
Jungle Book GP HD $3
Jungle Cruise GP HD $3
Lightyear GP HD $3
Lion King Live Action GP HD $2
Maleficent GP HD $2
Maleficent Mistress Of Evil GP HD $3
Moana GP HD $2
Mulan Live Action GP HD $3
Rogue One: A Star Wars Story GP HD $2
Solo A Star Wars Story GP HD $3
Star Wars The Force Awakens GP HD $2
Thor Dark World GP HD $3
Thor Ragnarok GP HD $2
Zootopia GP HD $2.50
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4K
5lbs Of Pressure 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
15:17 Paris 4K MA $6
80s for Brady 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Adverse 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Aeon Flux 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Agent Game 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Angels and Demons 4K MA $5
Anna 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Carlito’s Way 4K MA $6
Cold Pursuit 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon 4K MA $5
Dragged Across Concrete 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Dune 4K MA $6
Dune 2 4K MA $15
Elizabethtown 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Face/Off 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Fatal Attraction 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Gran Turismo 4K MA $5
Hook 4K MA $5
Jerry and Marge Go Large 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Keanu 4K MA $6
Life Of The Party 4K MA $6
Like A Boss 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Maleficent Mistress Of Evil 4K iTunes + dmi $4.50
Mean Girls 2004 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Memories Of Murder 4K MA $6
Miss Peregrine’s Home For Peculiar Children 4K itunes $3.50
Philadelphia 4K MA $5
Red Eye 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Run All Night 4K MA $6
Scoob 4K MA $6
Scream 6 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Silent Knight 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Sleepless In Seattle 4K MA $5
Sons Of Summer 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Source Code 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Strays 4K MA $6
The Commuter 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
T2 Trainspotting 4K MA $6
Trainspotting 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Crow 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Da Vinci Code 4K MA $5
The Lovely Bones 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Protege 4K iTunes/Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
The Score 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
The Tourist 4K MA $6
The Weapon 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $5
Unseen 4K Vudu (doesn’t port) $6
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory 4K MA $6
HD
Button A Christmas Tale Hd iTunes (doesn’t port) $3.50
Dune 2 HD MA $11
Fox and the Hound 2 HD MA $4
I, Frankenstein HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $3
Now You See Me HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $2
Paranormal Activity 3 HD iTunes (doesn’t port) $1
Quiet Place HD Vudu (doesn’t port) $2
Spider-Man Homecoming HD MA $2.50
World War Z HD Vudu (doesn’t port) $2
SD
Snitch SD Vudu (doesn’t port) $1.50
GP splits
Aladdin Live Action GP HD $2
Ant Man and the Wasp GP HD $2.50
Avengers Age Of Ultron GP HD $2.50
Avengers Infinity War GP HD $2.50
Beauty and the Beast Live Action GP HD $2.50
Big Hero 6 GP HD $2
Black Panther GP HD $2
Captain America Winter Soldier GP HD $3
Cinderella Live Action GP HD $2.50
Doctor Strange GP HD $2
Fox and the Hound 2 GP HD $3.50
Inside Out GP HD $2
Into The Woods GP HD $3
Iron Man 3 GP HD $2
Jungle Book GP HD $3
Jungle Cruise GP HD $3
Lightyear GP HD $3
Lion King Live Action GP HD $2
Maleficent GP HD $2
Maleficent Mistress Of Evil GP HD $3
Moana GP HD $2
Mulan Live Action GP HD $3
Rogue One: A Star Wars Story GP HD $2
Solo A Star Wars Story GP HD $3
Star Wars The Force Awakens GP HD $2
Thor Dark World GP HD $3
Thor Ragnarok GP HD $2
Zootopia GP HD $2.50
2024.05.14 23:35 guy6288 (Offer) Hook 4k, Rio 2, Super 8, Gran Turismo 4k, Thanksgiving 4k, May Universal Rewards Codes, Many Disney Movies, Plus Lots More (Request) Ocean’s Twelve 4k, Ocean’s Thirteen 4k, Your Lists and Offers
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All codes below are split where possible unless noted; please only redeem at the place agreed upon; please let me know if you don’t plan on redeeming the code right away.Thanks for looking!
Have multiples of some codes.
4k Titles
- Avengers: Endgame, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- Big Hero 6, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k)
- Captain America: Civil War, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- Finding Dory, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- The Good Dinosaur, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- Gran Turismo, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
- Hook, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
- The Last Witch Hunter, 4k iTunes or 4k vudu
- Maleficent, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- Pitch Perfect, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
- Ralph Breaks the Internet, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
- Snitch, 4k iTunes
- Thanksgiving (2023), 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
- Toy Story 4, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
Transformers: Dark of the Moon, 4k vudu- Wonder (2017), 4k iTunes
8 Film High On Your Watch List Collection (1 Code for all 8 Movies, Redeemable via Movies Anywhere)
- Due Date, HD
- Friday, HD
- Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle, HD
- House Party, HD
- Inherent Vice, HD
- Project X, HD
- Tenacious D in The Pick of Destiny, HD
- We're the Millers, HD
May Universal Rewards Code
Good for one of the following movies, redeemable via Movies Anywhere.- Backdraft 2, 4k
- Black Christmas, 4k
- A Dog's Purpose, 4k
- The Sparks Brothers, 4k
- Agnes Browne, HD
- Antz, HD
- Being Frank, HD
- Don't Let Go, HD
- Final Account, HD
- Kicks, HD
- Loving, HD
- Raw, HD
HD MA or iTunes Disney Movie Codes
Atlantis: The Lost Empire, HD MA (ports to MA)Atlantis: Milo's Return, HD MA (ports to MA)- Brother Bear, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Brother Bear 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
- The Fox and the Hound 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
- The Little Mermaid (1989), HD MA (ports to MA)
- The Lone Ranger, HD iTunes (ports to MA)
- Mary Poppins (1964), HD iTunes (ports to MA)
- Mulan (1998), HD MA (ports to MA)
- Oz the Great and Powerful, HD MA (ports to MA)
The Pirate Fairy, HD iTunes (ports to MA)- Queen of Katwe, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Turning Red, HD MA (ports to MA)
HD MA, vudu, or iTunes Movie Codes
- Assassination Nation, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Boyhood, HD vudu
- Boyhood, HD iTunes
- Chicago (Diamond Edition), HD iTunes or HD vudu
- Danny Collins, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
- The Expendables 2, HD vudu
- Florence Foster Jenkins, HD iTunes
- The Gunman, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
- Home Again, HD MA (ports to MA)
- The Hunger Games, HD vudu
- I Feel Pretty, HD iTunes
- Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Indivisible, HD MA (Canada only)
- Megan Leavey, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
- The Nut Job 2: Nutty by Nature, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
- Paranormal Activity 3, HD vudu
- Paranormal Activity 3, HD iTunes
- Paranormal Activity 4, HD iTunes
- The Purge, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Rio 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
- Same Kind of Different As Me, HD iTunes
- Selma, HD vudu
- Selma, HD iTunes
- Sinister, HD iTunes
- Snitch, HD vudu
- Super 8, HD vudu
- The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 2, HD vudu
- Tyler Perry's Madea's Witness Protection, HD vudu
HD Disney/Marvel/Star Wars Google Play Movie Codes (All Port to Movies Anywhere)
Aladdin (Animated), HD gp (ports to MA)- Aladdin (2019), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Avengers: Endgame, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Beauty and the Beast (2017), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Big Hero 6, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Black Panther, HD gp (ports to MA)
- The Call of the Wild, HD gp (ports to MA)
Captain America: The First Avenger, HD gp (ports to MA)- Captain America: The Winter Soldier, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Captain America: Civil War, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Celebrating Mickey, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Cinderella (2015), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Coco, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Doctor Strange, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Finding Dory, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Frozen, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Frozen (Sing-Along Edition), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Good Dinosaur, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Guardians of the Galaxy, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Incredibles 2, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Inside Out, HD gp (ports to MA)
- The Lion King (2019), HD gp (ports to MA)
- The Little Mermaid (Animated), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Maleficent, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Mary Poppins (1964), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Moana, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Monsters University, HD gp (ports to MA)
- The Nightmare Before Christmas, HD gp (ports to MA), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Raya and the Last Dragon, HD gp (ports to MA)
Robin Hood (Animated), HD gp (ports to MA)- Star Wars: The Force Awakens, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Star Wars: The Last Jedi, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Thor: The Dark World, HD gp (ports to MA), HD gp (ports to MA)
- Thor: Ragnarok, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Toy Story 4, HD gp (ports to MA)
- Zootopia, HD gp (ports to MA)
SD Movie Codes
- Hugo, SD vudu
Star Trek Into Darkness, SD vuduX-Men Origins: Wolverine, SD iTunes (ports to MA)
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Your lists and offers!2024.05.14 22:54 nehadixit7 Deteriorated Relationship Between Half Siblings
This is me venting but am also curious to know what everyone's relationship is like with half-siblings. Here's my story. I'm sorry in advance for how long this is, along with the grammarun-ons. I'm trying to give the Reddit community as much context as I can dating as far back as my memory takes me.
I (F 28) have two younger biological sisters (identical twins, F 25). The three of us were born after my dad married my mom (arranged marriage) after he and his first wife got divorced.
I believe my dad's first marriage lasted about 10 years. They had two kids together (my half-siblings). My older brother and I have an 8-year age difference, and my older sister and I have a 10-year age difference. Growing up, they used to visit us a few times a year including summer break or alternating holidays. Sometimes they would visit during Thanksgiving, other times during Christmas.
We used to be pretty close (at least I thought), but the relationship has become increasingly strained through the years. I understand the fact that there are ALWAYS two sides to every story, but I believe that my dad was on the right side of things and the marriage ended because two people weren't compatible and got married too young. It's always unfortunate when there are kids involved, and I'm sure it was tough with my older siblings being impacted at a young age.
It started when our grandpa (my dad's dad) passed away in November 2015. My brother suddenly stopped talking to my dad/our family immediately for whatever reason. He was the only person that didn't come to my grandpa's funeral. I honestly think he was holding a grudge that he didn't find out immediately when my grandpa passed, but I can't be too sure. We've never addressed that directly.
Fast forward 8 months to July 2016, when my dad's side of the family had a reunion at a first cousin's wedding. The vibes from my brother were like nothing had happened, and then after the wedding weekend, he was back to being silent. When my grandma (dad's mom) passed away in June 2019 he didn't show up to the funeral then either. Granted I didn't, but not because I didn't want to. I was a poor grad student and couldn't afford an $800 ticket on short notice and didn't want to burden my parents to pay for me to fly back for a couple of days either on top of how busy they were with funeral arrangements.
My brother went about 5 years to not talk to my dad or any of us. Then, out of nowhere, he calls one day to announce that he's getting married. The wedding is set for October 2022. I think he was buttering up my dad and our family to come to the wedding, because he knew it would look bad if everyone asked where his dad was for his wedding, and it would reflect poorly on him. The communication in 2022 was pretty consistent leading up to the wedding, and my older siblings would call my dad almost every weekend knowing that they needed us to show up to the wedding.
My older sister (F 38) had a baby girl in July 2018. Our dad was thrilled, his oldest daughter made him a grandpa. But there is clear separation and favoritism there, as my niece only sees her mom's side of the family being in the same area in the DMV. For those who aren't familiar with DC/MD/VA, my older sister lives in Virginia, in Arlington, and her mom lives in Herndon. About a 30-minute drive from each other. My parents live across the country in Orange County, so visits are far and few in between for my dad and his grandchild. I live on the Maryland side, and the state line between Maryland and Virginia is roughly 30 min, depending on where you go and the time of day. Anyway, I don't even know if my niece knows that she has another grandpa, outside of what she knows about my sister's mom and stepdad, and my brother-in-law's parents, who split time between the US and Nepal. I feel so bad for my dad because that's his grandkid too and everyone deserves the joy of being involved in their grandkids lives. My dad has seen my niece several times but the relationship is pretty surface level. It's not her fault, she doesn't know him like she does my sister's mom and stepdad, plus it's a proximity thing living on opposite sides of the country. We have FaceTime for these reasons though.
My husband and I aren't ready to have kids yet, and we want them. We've only been married for almost 7 months so we're still trying to live life before we settle down. I hope nothing more than to be able to give my parents a grandkid one day because I want my dad and mom to experience what they missed from my older half-siblings isolating them from their kids. That is if I'm able to have kids, I know we can't control these things.
This brings me to my next point (if you're still reading this, I appreciate you). My husband and I got married in October 2023. Our parents on both sides did everything they could to give us the wedding of our dreams, and it was everything we imagined and hoped for, and I'm forever grateful for that. I know that my wedding hit my dad harder emotionally than the first two with my older siblings because he was not at all involved during theirs. That wasn't by choice, my older siblings' mom probably didn't want him to be involved. Divorced dynamics are so confusing. You're telling me you can't come together and be civilized for a day/weekend? After my wedding, a few months later, sometime in January or February 2024, my dad called me to talk about how my sister was upset after our wedding and she vented about a few things with him on the phone. He was relaying the message over.
For context, I uploaded our wedding pictures on Facebook, because I have so many family members overseas in Nepal who weren't able to attend the wedding, and it was honestly the most convenient way to showcase our pictures since people in Nepal are ridiculously active on Facebook. My sister has social media, my brother got rid of his TwitteFacebook/Instagram/everything many years ago. Our photographer took several thousand pictures throughout the wedding weekend events, and of course, there were moments captured of my older sister and her family, including my brother-in-law, and niece. I will admit out of spite since my sister never posts anything about me and my dad/family, I tagged but then later on deleted those pictures she was in. Why would I have pictures of her on my social media when she's never posted anything of us? She doesn't even like or comment on anything on my social media, and when you have siblings, this is not something you discuss, you just do it. Duh. Over the last few days, I unfollowed her and unfriended her on Facebook and Instagram. For me, it makes no sense to keep people on my newsfeed if I don't interact with them, and I have plenty of family members and friends that I already have a strongemore communicative relationship with.
If my sister was upset about this, why did she call my dad to vent about this months later instead of coming to me? My dad told me she complained that he didn't mention her or my older brother during his speech at our wedding. But am I wrong for thinking, why would he? It's a celebration for me and my husband. I thought that was very conceited and selfish. The day wasn't about her, and my dad's speech was so heartfelt that I cried. I believe she was offended she didn't get the same during hers. However, my sister and brother never asked our dad to give a toast at their weddings. Only their mom did, which is messed up in my opinion.
I understand divorce is messy and complicated, and people go through years of therapy to fix, or maybe even never fix issues completely. It's hard, and I'm just a product of his second marriage. But I've never understood the jealousy that seems to exist, specifically between my older sister and me.
I tried reaching out to both of them in a group iMessage, talking about how I am not happy with the way they're treating our dad. My brother has stopped calling my dad completely over the last few months since his son (my dad's second grandkid) was born a few months ago in February. My sister calls maybe once a month. I wanted to confront them about this ongoing behavior and ill will toward our family. They didn't even have the guts to respond to me, I suggested if they have time to FaceTime so we can have a real adult conversation about what is their issue. My parents are flying to DC this weekend and the original plan was to drive a few hours north so they could see my brother's baby. No communication with my brother whatsoever to coordinate. I feel devastatingly sad for my dad.
I'm not even going to get into their treatment of my mom. That's another long story, but basically, it's them not giving a hoot about her, even though she's the one who took care of them and stepped up when they visited growing up. As a stepmom, it's hard to deal with kids from a previous marriage. But she did it and she loves them, and they're nothing but passive-aggressive and mean to her. They never wish her happy birthday, happy Mother's Day, or my parents happy anniversary. It takes two seconds. For me, if you disrespect my parents, you're disrespecting me.
Since then, my sister has unfollowed and unfriended everyone on social media, including my dad, my younger sisters, and my husband. All because she couldn't handle that I did that to her. I'm just not for this nasty behavior, and I know we all need to unpack a lot in therapy (me and my older siblings specifically). Their behavior is cowardly, and I can't be the only one that thinks this, right? I don't know. It didn't have to be like this. I'm sure their mom has been telling them bad things about the marriage and my dad for years. I'm not saying he probably didn't make mistakes, but there are, once again, two sides to everyone's story. None of us kids have heard both sides directly from the source, and probably never will. It makes me sad, especially for my dad. I know life will go on. I tried to reach out, and if they don't want to talk about these issues like adults, then I have nothing else to say.
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I (F 28) have two younger biological sisters (identical twins, F 25). The three of us were born after my dad married my mom (arranged marriage) after he and his first wife got divorced.
I believe my dad's first marriage lasted about 10 years. They had two kids together (my half-siblings). My older brother and I have an 8-year age difference, and my older sister and I have a 10-year age difference. Growing up, they used to visit us a few times a year including summer break or alternating holidays. Sometimes they would visit during Thanksgiving, other times during Christmas.
We used to be pretty close (at least I thought), but the relationship has become increasingly strained through the years. I understand the fact that there are ALWAYS two sides to every story, but I believe that my dad was on the right side of things and the marriage ended because two people weren't compatible and got married too young. It's always unfortunate when there are kids involved, and I'm sure it was tough with my older siblings being impacted at a young age.
It started when our grandpa (my dad's dad) passed away in November 2015. My brother suddenly stopped talking to my dad/our family immediately for whatever reason. He was the only person that didn't come to my grandpa's funeral. I honestly think he was holding a grudge that he didn't find out immediately when my grandpa passed, but I can't be too sure. We've never addressed that directly.
Fast forward 8 months to July 2016, when my dad's side of the family had a reunion at a first cousin's wedding. The vibes from my brother were like nothing had happened, and then after the wedding weekend, he was back to being silent. When my grandma (dad's mom) passed away in June 2019 he didn't show up to the funeral then either. Granted I didn't, but not because I didn't want to. I was a poor grad student and couldn't afford an $800 ticket on short notice and didn't want to burden my parents to pay for me to fly back for a couple of days either on top of how busy they were with funeral arrangements.
My brother went about 5 years to not talk to my dad or any of us. Then, out of nowhere, he calls one day to announce that he's getting married. The wedding is set for October 2022. I think he was buttering up my dad and our family to come to the wedding, because he knew it would look bad if everyone asked where his dad was for his wedding, and it would reflect poorly on him. The communication in 2022 was pretty consistent leading up to the wedding, and my older siblings would call my dad almost every weekend knowing that they needed us to show up to the wedding.
My older sister (F 38) had a baby girl in July 2018. Our dad was thrilled, his oldest daughter made him a grandpa. But there is clear separation and favoritism there, as my niece only sees her mom's side of the family being in the same area in the DMV. For those who aren't familiar with DC/MD/VA, my older sister lives in Virginia, in Arlington, and her mom lives in Herndon. About a 30-minute drive from each other. My parents live across the country in Orange County, so visits are far and few in between for my dad and his grandchild. I live on the Maryland side, and the state line between Maryland and Virginia is roughly 30 min, depending on where you go and the time of day. Anyway, I don't even know if my niece knows that she has another grandpa, outside of what she knows about my sister's mom and stepdad, and my brother-in-law's parents, who split time between the US and Nepal. I feel so bad for my dad because that's his grandkid too and everyone deserves the joy of being involved in their grandkids lives. My dad has seen my niece several times but the relationship is pretty surface level. It's not her fault, she doesn't know him like she does my sister's mom and stepdad, plus it's a proximity thing living on opposite sides of the country. We have FaceTime for these reasons though.
My husband and I aren't ready to have kids yet, and we want them. We've only been married for almost 7 months so we're still trying to live life before we settle down. I hope nothing more than to be able to give my parents a grandkid one day because I want my dad and mom to experience what they missed from my older half-siblings isolating them from their kids. That is if I'm able to have kids, I know we can't control these things.
This brings me to my next point (if you're still reading this, I appreciate you). My husband and I got married in October 2023. Our parents on both sides did everything they could to give us the wedding of our dreams, and it was everything we imagined and hoped for, and I'm forever grateful for that. I know that my wedding hit my dad harder emotionally than the first two with my older siblings because he was not at all involved during theirs. That wasn't by choice, my older siblings' mom probably didn't want him to be involved. Divorced dynamics are so confusing. You're telling me you can't come together and be civilized for a day/weekend? After my wedding, a few months later, sometime in January or February 2024, my dad called me to talk about how my sister was upset after our wedding and she vented about a few things with him on the phone. He was relaying the message over.
For context, I uploaded our wedding pictures on Facebook, because I have so many family members overseas in Nepal who weren't able to attend the wedding, and it was honestly the most convenient way to showcase our pictures since people in Nepal are ridiculously active on Facebook. My sister has social media, my brother got rid of his TwitteFacebook/Instagram/everything many years ago. Our photographer took several thousand pictures throughout the wedding weekend events, and of course, there were moments captured of my older sister and her family, including my brother-in-law, and niece. I will admit out of spite since my sister never posts anything about me and my dad/family, I tagged but then later on deleted those pictures she was in. Why would I have pictures of her on my social media when she's never posted anything of us? She doesn't even like or comment on anything on my social media, and when you have siblings, this is not something you discuss, you just do it. Duh. Over the last few days, I unfollowed her and unfriended her on Facebook and Instagram. For me, it makes no sense to keep people on my newsfeed if I don't interact with them, and I have plenty of family members and friends that I already have a strongemore communicative relationship with.
If my sister was upset about this, why did she call my dad to vent about this months later instead of coming to me? My dad told me she complained that he didn't mention her or my older brother during his speech at our wedding. But am I wrong for thinking, why would he? It's a celebration for me and my husband. I thought that was very conceited and selfish. The day wasn't about her, and my dad's speech was so heartfelt that I cried. I believe she was offended she didn't get the same during hers. However, my sister and brother never asked our dad to give a toast at their weddings. Only their mom did, which is messed up in my opinion.
I understand divorce is messy and complicated, and people go through years of therapy to fix, or maybe even never fix issues completely. It's hard, and I'm just a product of his second marriage. But I've never understood the jealousy that seems to exist, specifically between my older sister and me.
I tried reaching out to both of them in a group iMessage, talking about how I am not happy with the way they're treating our dad. My brother has stopped calling my dad completely over the last few months since his son (my dad's second grandkid) was born a few months ago in February. My sister calls maybe once a month. I wanted to confront them about this ongoing behavior and ill will toward our family. They didn't even have the guts to respond to me, I suggested if they have time to FaceTime so we can have a real adult conversation about what is their issue. My parents are flying to DC this weekend and the original plan was to drive a few hours north so they could see my brother's baby. No communication with my brother whatsoever to coordinate. I feel devastatingly sad for my dad.
I'm not even going to get into their treatment of my mom. That's another long story, but basically, it's them not giving a hoot about her, even though she's the one who took care of them and stepped up when they visited growing up. As a stepmom, it's hard to deal with kids from a previous marriage. But she did it and she loves them, and they're nothing but passive-aggressive and mean to her. They never wish her happy birthday, happy Mother's Day, or my parents happy anniversary. It takes two seconds. For me, if you disrespect my parents, you're disrespecting me.
Since then, my sister has unfollowed and unfriended everyone on social media, including my dad, my younger sisters, and my husband. All because she couldn't handle that I did that to her. I'm just not for this nasty behavior, and I know we all need to unpack a lot in therapy (me and my older siblings specifically). Their behavior is cowardly, and I can't be the only one that thinks this, right? I don't know. It didn't have to be like this. I'm sure their mom has been telling them bad things about the marriage and my dad for years. I'm not saying he probably didn't make mistakes, but there are, once again, two sides to everyone's story. None of us kids have heard both sides directly from the source, and probably never will. It makes me sad, especially for my dad. I know life will go on. I tried to reach out, and if they don't want to talk about these issues like adults, then I have nothing else to say.
2024.05.14 22:05 izzieangel19 Was I sexually harassed by my ex bsf?
Trigger Warnings ⚠️ (Mentions of rape and explicit language)
I've jokingly been saying this and using it loosely but now I'm genuinely concerned whether my ex best friend, lets give them the alias Hexagon, has been sexually harassing me throughout our 5 year friendship, mainly since the beginning of last september. I really need some advice on this.
Ever since me and my friends came back to school in September, my friend started getting closer to me. This led to me being excluded in friend activities within this friend group. As I felt I had no one else, I naturally leant towards Hexagon for support and comfort. We ended up becoming best friends by November, I want to say. Ever since then she started making subtle jokes such as like she liked me and silly stuff like that. Through various months after Christmas however, Hexagon started getting worse, in which they claimed to have done it because I "wasn't getting shocked by what" they "were saying anymore". They ended up saying they had multiple women in their basement that they fucked every night, and then started saying that I was included in those amounts of women. This exceeded to the point where they started to make only sexual comments, for example, talking about how huge my boobs were, or saying that they had sex with me the night before. At one point they went as far as to say they raped me, and then proceeded to say it multiple times; then also saying they would rape me and it got too much. I told them to stop because I was uncomfortable, and they stopped. For a while, that is. After about a month after I told them to stop, they started the cycle again, which I then proceeded to try to distance myself. I succeeded, but then some irrelevant stuff went down, we had an argument and we lost our 5 year friendship.
My school friends have said it's sexual harassment but I'm not too sure. There are also multiple other things Hexagon has done but I either can't fit it in or remember at this time.
(Just gonna clarify, Hexagon mainly only did this at school or in front of others. There were only a few occasions where they did it when we were alone, such as their house or mine.)
For obvious reasons, I'm not using their real name or pronouns. I hope I get a reply for this. 🙏
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I've jokingly been saying this and using it loosely but now I'm genuinely concerned whether my ex best friend, lets give them the alias Hexagon, has been sexually harassing me throughout our 5 year friendship, mainly since the beginning of last september. I really need some advice on this.
Ever since me and my friends came back to school in September, my friend started getting closer to me. This led to me being excluded in friend activities within this friend group. As I felt I had no one else, I naturally leant towards Hexagon for support and comfort. We ended up becoming best friends by November, I want to say. Ever since then she started making subtle jokes such as like she liked me and silly stuff like that. Through various months after Christmas however, Hexagon started getting worse, in which they claimed to have done it because I "wasn't getting shocked by what" they "were saying anymore". They ended up saying they had multiple women in their basement that they fucked every night, and then started saying that I was included in those amounts of women. This exceeded to the point where they started to make only sexual comments, for example, talking about how huge my boobs were, or saying that they had sex with me the night before. At one point they went as far as to say they raped me, and then proceeded to say it multiple times; then also saying they would rape me and it got too much. I told them to stop because I was uncomfortable, and they stopped. For a while, that is. After about a month after I told them to stop, they started the cycle again, which I then proceeded to try to distance myself. I succeeded, but then some irrelevant stuff went down, we had an argument and we lost our 5 year friendship.
My school friends have said it's sexual harassment but I'm not too sure. There are also multiple other things Hexagon has done but I either can't fit it in or remember at this time.
(Just gonna clarify, Hexagon mainly only did this at school or in front of others. There were only a few occasions where they did it when we were alone, such as their house or mine.)
For obvious reasons, I'm not using their real name or pronouns. I hope I get a reply for this. 🙏
2024.05.14 22:00 nehadixit7 Deteriorated Relationship Between Half Siblings
This is me venting but am also curious to know what everyone's relationship is like with half-siblings. Here's my story. I'm sorry in advance for how long this is, along with the grammarun-ons. I'm trying to give the Reddit community as much context as I can dating as far back as my memory takes me.
I (F 28) have two younger biological sisters (identical twins, F 25). The three of us were born after my dad married my mom (arranged marriage) after he and his first wife got divorced.
I believe my dad's first marriage lasted about 10 years. They had two kids together (my half-siblings). My older brother and I have an 8-year age difference, and my older sister and I have a 10-year age difference. Growing up, they used to visit us a few times a year including summer break or alternating holidays. Sometimes they would visit during Thanksgiving, other times during Christmas.
We used to be pretty close (at least I thought), but the relationship has become increasingly strained through the years. I understand the fact that there are ALWAYS two sides to every story, but I believe that my dad was on the right side of things and the marriage ended because two people weren't compatible and got married too young. It's always unfortunate when there are kids involved, and I'm sure it was tough with my older siblings being impacted at a young age.
It started when our grandpa (my dad's dad) passed away in November 2015. My brother suddenly stopped talking to my dad/our family immediately for whatever reason. He was the only person that didn't come to my grandpa's funeral. I honestly think he was holding a grudge that he didn't find out immediately when my grandpa passed, but I can't be too sure. We've never addressed that directly.
Fast forward 8 months to July 2016, when my dad's side of the family had a reunion at a first cousin's wedding. The vibes from my brother were like nothing had happened, and then after the wedding weekend, he was back to being silent. When my grandma (dad's mom) passed away in June 2019 he didn't show up to the funeral then either. Granted I didn't, but not because I didn't want to. I was a poor grad student and couldn't afford an $800 ticket on short notice and didn't want to burden my parents to pay for me to fly back for a couple of days either on top of how busy they were with funeral arrangements.
My brother went about 5 years to not talk to my dad or any of us. Then, out of nowhere, he calls one day to announce that he's getting married. The wedding is set for October 2022. I think he was buttering up my dad and our family to come to the wedding, because he knew it would look bad if everyone asked where his dad was for his wedding, and it would reflect poorly on him. The communication in 2022 was pretty consistent leading up to the wedding, and my older siblings would call my dad almost every weekend knowing that they needed us to show up to the wedding.
My older sister (F 38) had a baby girl in July 2018. Our dad was thrilled, his oldest daughter made him a grandpa. But there is clear separation and favoritism there, as my niece only sees her mom's side of the family being in the same area in the DMV. For those who aren't familiar with DC/MD/VA, my older sister lives in Virginia, in Arlington, and her mom lives in Herndon. About a 30-minute drive from each other. My parents live across the country in Orange County, so visits are far and few in between for my dad and his grandchild. I live on the Maryland side, and the state line between Maryland and Virginia is roughly 30 min, depending on where you go and the time of day. Anyway, I don't even know if my niece knows that she has another grandpa, outside of what she knows about my sister's mom and stepdad, and my brother-in-law's parents, who split time between the US and Nepal. I feel so bad for my dad because that's his grandkid too and everyone deserves the joy of being involved in their grandkids lives. My dad has seen my niece several times but the relationship is pretty surface level. It's not her fault, she doesn't know him like she does my sister's mom and stepdad, plus it's a proximity thing living on opposite sides of the country. We have FaceTime for these reasons though.
My husband and I aren't ready to have kids yet, and we want them. We've only been married for almost 7 months so we're still trying to live life before we settle down. I hope nothing more than to be able to give my parents a grandkid one day because I want my dad and mom to experience what they missed from my older half-siblings isolating them from their kids. That is if I'm able to have kids, I know we can't control these things.
This brings me to my next point (if you're still reading this, I appreciate you). My husband and I got married in October 2023. Our parents on both sides did everything they could to give us the wedding of our dreams, and it was everything we imagined and hoped for, and I'm forever grateful for that. I know that my wedding hit my dad harder emotionally than the first two with my older siblings because he was not at all involved during theirs. That wasn't by choice, my older siblings' mom probably didn't want him to be involved. Divorced dynamics are so confusing. You're telling me you can't come together and be civilized for a day/weekend? After my wedding, a few months later, sometime in January or February 2024, my dad called me to talk about how my sister was upset after our wedding and she vented about a few things with him on the phone. He was relaying the message over.
For context, I uploaded our wedding pictures on Facebook, because I have so many family members overseas in Nepal who weren't able to attend the wedding, and it was honestly the most convenient way to showcase our pictures since people in Nepal are ridiculously active on Facebook. My sister has social media, my brother got rid of his TwitteFacebook/Instagram/everything many years ago. Our photographer took several thousand pictures throughout the wedding weekend events, and of course, there were moments captured of my older sister and her family, including my brother-in-law, and niece. I will admit out of spite since my sister never posts anything about me and my dad/family, I tagged but then later on deleted those pictures she was in. Why would I have pictures of her on my social media when she's never posted anything of us? She doesn't even like or comment on anything on my social media, and when you have siblings, this is not something you discuss, you just do it. Duh. Over the last few days, I unfollowed her and unfriended her on Facebook and Instagram. For me, it makes no sense to keep people on my newsfeed if I don't interact with them, and I have plenty of family members and friends that I already have a strongemore communicative relationship with.
If my sister was upset about this, why did she call my dad to vent about this months later instead of coming to me? My dad told me she complained that he didn't mention her or my older brother during his speech at our wedding. But am I wrong for thinking, why would he? It's a celebration for me and my husband. I thought that was very conceited and selfish. The day wasn't about her, and my dad's speech was so heartfelt that I cried. I believe she was offended she didn't get the same during hers. However, my sister and brother never asked our dad to give a toast at their weddings. Only their mom did, which is messed up in my opinion.
I understand divorce is messy and complicated, and people go through years of therapy to fix, or maybe even never fix issues completely. It's hard, and I'm just a product of his second marriage. But I've never understood the jealousy that seems to exist, specifically between my older sister and me.
I tried reaching out to both of them in a group iMessage, talking about how I am not happy with the way they're treating our dad. My brother has stopped calling my dad completely over the last few months since his son (my dad's second grandkid) was born a few months ago in February. My sister calls maybe once a month. I wanted to confront them about this ongoing behavior and ill will toward our family. They didn't even have the guts to respond to me, I suggested if they have time to FaceTime so we can have a real adult conversation about what is their issue. My parents are flying to DC this weekend and the original plan was to drive a few hours north so they could see my brother's baby. No communication with my brother whatsoever to coordinate. I feel devastatingly sad for my dad.
I'm not even going to get into their treatment of my mom. That's another long story, but basically, it's them not giving a hoot about her, even though she's the one who took care of them and stepped up when they visited growing up. As a stepmom, it's hard to deal with kids from a previous marriage. But she did it and she loves them, and they're nothing but passive-aggressive and mean to her. They never wish her happy birthday, happy Mother's Day, or my parents happy anniversary. It takes two seconds. For me, if you disrespect my parents, you're disrespecting me.
Since then, my sister has unfollowed and unfriended everyone on social media, including my dad, my younger sisters, and my husband. All because she couldn't handle that I did that to her. I'm just not for this nasty behavior, and I know we all need to unpack a lot in therapy (me and my older siblings specifically). Their behavior is cowardly, and I can't be the only one that thinks this, right? I don't know. It didn't have to be like this. I'm sure their mom has been telling them bad things about the marriage and my dad for years. I'm not saying he probably didn't make mistakes, but there are, once again, two sides to everyone's story. None of us kids have heard both sides directly from the source, and probably never will. It makes me sad, especially for my dad. I know life will go on. I tried to reach out, and if they don't want to talk about these issues like adults, then I have nothing else to say.
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I (F 28) have two younger biological sisters (identical twins, F 25). The three of us were born after my dad married my mom (arranged marriage) after he and his first wife got divorced.
I believe my dad's first marriage lasted about 10 years. They had two kids together (my half-siblings). My older brother and I have an 8-year age difference, and my older sister and I have a 10-year age difference. Growing up, they used to visit us a few times a year including summer break or alternating holidays. Sometimes they would visit during Thanksgiving, other times during Christmas.
We used to be pretty close (at least I thought), but the relationship has become increasingly strained through the years. I understand the fact that there are ALWAYS two sides to every story, but I believe that my dad was on the right side of things and the marriage ended because two people weren't compatible and got married too young. It's always unfortunate when there are kids involved, and I'm sure it was tough with my older siblings being impacted at a young age.
It started when our grandpa (my dad's dad) passed away in November 2015. My brother suddenly stopped talking to my dad/our family immediately for whatever reason. He was the only person that didn't come to my grandpa's funeral. I honestly think he was holding a grudge that he didn't find out immediately when my grandpa passed, but I can't be too sure. We've never addressed that directly.
Fast forward 8 months to July 2016, when my dad's side of the family had a reunion at a first cousin's wedding. The vibes from my brother were like nothing had happened, and then after the wedding weekend, he was back to being silent. When my grandma (dad's mom) passed away in June 2019 he didn't show up to the funeral then either. Granted I didn't, but not because I didn't want to. I was a poor grad student and couldn't afford an $800 ticket on short notice and didn't want to burden my parents to pay for me to fly back for a couple of days either on top of how busy they were with funeral arrangements.
My brother went about 5 years to not talk to my dad or any of us. Then, out of nowhere, he calls one day to announce that he's getting married. The wedding is set for October 2022. I think he was buttering up my dad and our family to come to the wedding, because he knew it would look bad if everyone asked where his dad was for his wedding, and it would reflect poorly on him. The communication in 2022 was pretty consistent leading up to the wedding, and my older siblings would call my dad almost every weekend knowing that they needed us to show up to the wedding.
My older sister (F 38) had a baby girl in July 2018. Our dad was thrilled, his oldest daughter made him a grandpa. But there is clear separation and favoritism there, as my niece only sees her mom's side of the family being in the same area in the DMV. For those who aren't familiar with DC/MD/VA, my older sister lives in Virginia, in Arlington, and her mom lives in Herndon. About a 30-minute drive from each other. My parents live across the country in Orange County, so visits are far and few in between for my dad and his grandchild. I live on the Maryland side, and the state line between Maryland and Virginia is roughly 30 min, depending on where you go and the time of day. Anyway, I don't even know if my niece knows that she has another grandpa, outside of what she knows about my sister's mom and stepdad, and my brother-in-law's parents, who split time between the US and Nepal. I feel so bad for my dad because that's his grandkid too and everyone deserves the joy of being involved in their grandkids lives. My dad has seen my niece several times but the relationship is pretty surface level. It's not her fault, she doesn't know him like she does my sister's mom and stepdad, plus it's a proximity thing living on opposite sides of the country. We have FaceTime for these reasons though.
My husband and I aren't ready to have kids yet, and we want them. We've only been married for almost 7 months so we're still trying to live life before we settle down. I hope nothing more than to be able to give my parents a grandkid one day because I want my dad and mom to experience what they missed from my older half-siblings isolating them from their kids. That is if I'm able to have kids, I know we can't control these things.
This brings me to my next point (if you're still reading this, I appreciate you). My husband and I got married in October 2023. Our parents on both sides did everything they could to give us the wedding of our dreams, and it was everything we imagined and hoped for, and I'm forever grateful for that. I know that my wedding hit my dad harder emotionally than the first two with my older siblings because he was not at all involved during theirs. That wasn't by choice, my older siblings' mom probably didn't want him to be involved. Divorced dynamics are so confusing. You're telling me you can't come together and be civilized for a day/weekend? After my wedding, a few months later, sometime in January or February 2024, my dad called me to talk about how my sister was upset after our wedding and she vented about a few things with him on the phone. He was relaying the message over.
For context, I uploaded our wedding pictures on Facebook, because I have so many family members overseas in Nepal who weren't able to attend the wedding, and it was honestly the most convenient way to showcase our pictures since people in Nepal are ridiculously active on Facebook. My sister has social media, my brother got rid of his TwitteFacebook/Instagram/everything many years ago. Our photographer took several thousand pictures throughout the wedding weekend events, and of course, there were moments captured of my older sister and her family, including my brother-in-law, and niece. I will admit out of spite since my sister never posts anything about me and my dad/family, I tagged but then later on deleted those pictures she was in. Why would I have pictures of her on my social media when she's never posted anything of us? She doesn't even like or comment on anything on my social media, and when you have siblings, this is not something you discuss, you just do it. Duh. Over the last few days, I unfollowed her and unfriended her on Facebook and Instagram. For me, it makes no sense to keep people on my newsfeed if I don't interact with them, and I have plenty of family members and friends that I already have a strongemore communicative relationship with.
If my sister was upset about this, why did she call my dad to vent about this months later instead of coming to me? My dad told me she complained that he didn't mention her or my older brother during his speech at our wedding. But am I wrong for thinking, why would he? It's a celebration for me and my husband. I thought that was very conceited and selfish. The day wasn't about her, and my dad's speech was so heartfelt that I cried. I believe she was offended she didn't get the same during hers. However, my sister and brother never asked our dad to give a toast at their weddings. Only their mom did, which is messed up in my opinion.
I understand divorce is messy and complicated, and people go through years of therapy to fix, or maybe even never fix issues completely. It's hard, and I'm just a product of his second marriage. But I've never understood the jealousy that seems to exist, specifically between my older sister and me.
I tried reaching out to both of them in a group iMessage, talking about how I am not happy with the way they're treating our dad. My brother has stopped calling my dad completely over the last few months since his son (my dad's second grandkid) was born a few months ago in February. My sister calls maybe once a month. I wanted to confront them about this ongoing behavior and ill will toward our family. They didn't even have the guts to respond to me, I suggested if they have time to FaceTime so we can have a real adult conversation about what is their issue. My parents are flying to DC this weekend and the original plan was to drive a few hours north so they could see my brother's baby. No communication with my brother whatsoever to coordinate. I feel devastatingly sad for my dad.
I'm not even going to get into their treatment of my mom. That's another long story, but basically, it's them not giving a hoot about her, even though she's the one who took care of them and stepped up when they visited growing up. As a stepmom, it's hard to deal with kids from a previous marriage. But she did it and she loves them, and they're nothing but passive-aggressive and mean to her. They never wish her happy birthday, happy Mother's Day, or my parents happy anniversary. It takes two seconds. For me, if you disrespect my parents, you're disrespecting me.
Since then, my sister has unfollowed and unfriended everyone on social media, including my dad, my younger sisters, and my husband. All because she couldn't handle that I did that to her. I'm just not for this nasty behavior, and I know we all need to unpack a lot in therapy (me and my older siblings specifically). Their behavior is cowardly, and I can't be the only one that thinks this, right? I don't know. It didn't have to be like this. I'm sure their mom has been telling them bad things about the marriage and my dad for years. I'm not saying he probably didn't make mistakes, but there are, once again, two sides to everyone's story. None of us kids have heard both sides directly from the source, and probably never will. It makes me sad, especially for my dad. I know life will go on. I tried to reach out, and if they don't want to talk about these issues like adults, then I have nothing else to say.
2024.05.14 20:53 Ok_Faithlessness5210 I don’t know what to do. Please help.
I don’t even know where to start this. I’m at my wit’s end. My husband and I married in November 2017, and separated October 2020. We had a child together in 2016. I would be here all day telling the story (I’m happy to if prompted), but in a nutshell, there was a lot of narcissistic abuse involved and I eventually got to the point that I was so depressed I actively wanted to unalive myself every day and tried to, once (obviously unsuccessfully).
At the time which we separated, we were living two hours away from our hometown so that I could attend a college that I ultimately had to drop out of once we separated because I could not afford to stay there on my own. We could barely afford to live there together. That doesn’t mean much, we could barely afford to live at our hometown either because there was financial abuse involved within that narcissistic abuse that I mentioned before. Upon separation, we both moved back to our hometown, separately. We genuinely went our separate ways with only communication regarding our son, 95% of the time. We even quickly went about finding new partners. There was a lot of aggression on his end after separating and I have hundreds of screenshots of verbal abuse from him in the months following. Neither one of us could afford lawyers, so we were trying to navigate fair custody of our child ourselves to the best of our abilities. For the most part, we did well to split that evenly with some rough patches here and there, usually involving pick up and drop off. Again, because neither one of us could afford a lawyer, this also hindered us actually getting a divorce. Neither one of us really knew how to go about getting a divorce without lawyers involved (and I still don’t) and I think most of his lack of trying was from laziness, and expecting me to do everything in that regard (exactly as the rest of our marriage was).
Worth noting at this point, we were both living in the state of Georgia, not far from the Alabama state line. I eventually (October 2021) found a job in property management across the state line over in Alabama, and was given the opportunity to move to the property for which I worked, with my then partner and his child from a previous marriage. I took this opportunity, which put me about 45 minutes away from my hometown, but still managed to get our son to and from school for the remainder of the school year and we continued to split custody of him evenly throughout the school year and the following summer. At this time I attempted to find a lawyer to start up the divorce process but was told that I have to wait six months of living in the new state before I could do anything, as well as a price tag that was outrageously out of my means. That being said, I didn’t pursue that option.
When the new school year (2022-2023) started, and I enrolled our son into a school in my new state, his father agreed, and we were in a mutual understanding about custody at that point. The understanding being, that on any weekends and school breaks that he wished to spend time with our son, I would happily drive him to 45 minutes over to our hometown for them to spend time together and handle all of the transportation. Since I made the decision to move away, he just had to let me know when he wanted to arrange the visits. These arrangements never happened. The only instances in which he reached out were Father’s Day, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. And chose to only spend an hour to two hours with our son at a time on each of these days. In the past, I did not ask for financial assistance since we split time evenly, however now, since it wasn’t split evenly, he did agree that it would be fair for him to pay some amount of financial assistance in the way of child support. As you can imagine, that also never happened.
In November 2022, I decided that I was not happy with my job choice, and that I wanted to go back to the college that I was at prior to our separation. I waited for my son to finish out his school year, separated from my partner, and moved back to Georgia and found a job and a house that I could afford on my own. I have a new partner (medium distance, he lives in the hometown) now that treats me and my son very good, I make just enough to barely get by if I’m smart with my money and make sacrifices, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m a full-time college student in a very demanding major (natural resources management with a focus in wildlife management), and a full-time employee working as many hours as I possibly can at a local assisted-living facility. All while being a single mom to the sweetest elementary school aged boy you’ll ever meet. (I know I mentioned having a partner and then turned around and said single mom— my partner and I live two hours apart from each other and I do not ask him for any financial assistance with anything regarding my bills, and we split expenses when we do get to spend time with each other. “Single mom” doesn’t mean “single person”)
All of this to say, since the summer of 2022 ended, my son’s father has seen him a combined total of less than 24 hours. Holidays only. Not even for his birthday, he only got a phone call on the past two birthdays. I have paid for school breakfasts and lunches, summer care programs, afterschool care programs, all of the finances that come with being a parent completely alone since then. He has paid me all of $50, on two occasions for a total of $100, in that time. I haven’t tried the child support office because I am told by his family members that he is constantly getting a new job, and then getting fired from it, he barely pays his extremely low rent already (the house is owned by a family member of his), and there’s no point in waiting to see if it gets taken out of his taxes because he owes on his taxes every year. Truthfully it’s not even about the money, I’m doing just fine paying for our sons expenses, I’m just brokenhearted for him that he doesn’t understand why his father doesn’t want anything to do with him.
The reason I broke down today, is from finding out that he up and moved away from our hometown in the middle of the night to God knows where in Virginia. Apparently with—- HIS FIANCÉ. I just found out they were engaged. I don’t care, I’m happy for them. However, we are still married and around two years ago, we had a conversation over the phone that involved him crying and begging me not to tell her that we weren’t actually divorced yet because he had told her that we /were/ divorced. I have no idea if anything changed in that time, but I don’t even know anything except her first name to even be able to reach out to tell her otherwise? I’m hesitant to reach out anyway because his mother helps me out occasionally and we have a great relationship and I don’t want to put a strain on that. She is disappointed that her son abandoned his son, however, she still has love in her heart for her son.
Now that he has moved, and I have no idea where, just the state, how do I get a divorce? What do I do? Why are lawyers so expensive, I don’t know what to do???
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At the time which we separated, we were living two hours away from our hometown so that I could attend a college that I ultimately had to drop out of once we separated because I could not afford to stay there on my own. We could barely afford to live there together. That doesn’t mean much, we could barely afford to live at our hometown either because there was financial abuse involved within that narcissistic abuse that I mentioned before. Upon separation, we both moved back to our hometown, separately. We genuinely went our separate ways with only communication regarding our son, 95% of the time. We even quickly went about finding new partners. There was a lot of aggression on his end after separating and I have hundreds of screenshots of verbal abuse from him in the months following. Neither one of us could afford lawyers, so we were trying to navigate fair custody of our child ourselves to the best of our abilities. For the most part, we did well to split that evenly with some rough patches here and there, usually involving pick up and drop off. Again, because neither one of us could afford a lawyer, this also hindered us actually getting a divorce. Neither one of us really knew how to go about getting a divorce without lawyers involved (and I still don’t) and I think most of his lack of trying was from laziness, and expecting me to do everything in that regard (exactly as the rest of our marriage was).
Worth noting at this point, we were both living in the state of Georgia, not far from the Alabama state line. I eventually (October 2021) found a job in property management across the state line over in Alabama, and was given the opportunity to move to the property for which I worked, with my then partner and his child from a previous marriage. I took this opportunity, which put me about 45 minutes away from my hometown, but still managed to get our son to and from school for the remainder of the school year and we continued to split custody of him evenly throughout the school year and the following summer. At this time I attempted to find a lawyer to start up the divorce process but was told that I have to wait six months of living in the new state before I could do anything, as well as a price tag that was outrageously out of my means. That being said, I didn’t pursue that option.
When the new school year (2022-2023) started, and I enrolled our son into a school in my new state, his father agreed, and we were in a mutual understanding about custody at that point. The understanding being, that on any weekends and school breaks that he wished to spend time with our son, I would happily drive him to 45 minutes over to our hometown for them to spend time together and handle all of the transportation. Since I made the decision to move away, he just had to let me know when he wanted to arrange the visits. These arrangements never happened. The only instances in which he reached out were Father’s Day, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. And chose to only spend an hour to two hours with our son at a time on each of these days. In the past, I did not ask for financial assistance since we split time evenly, however now, since it wasn’t split evenly, he did agree that it would be fair for him to pay some amount of financial assistance in the way of child support. As you can imagine, that also never happened.
In November 2022, I decided that I was not happy with my job choice, and that I wanted to go back to the college that I was at prior to our separation. I waited for my son to finish out his school year, separated from my partner, and moved back to Georgia and found a job and a house that I could afford on my own. I have a new partner (medium distance, he lives in the hometown) now that treats me and my son very good, I make just enough to barely get by if I’m smart with my money and make sacrifices, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m a full-time college student in a very demanding major (natural resources management with a focus in wildlife management), and a full-time employee working as many hours as I possibly can at a local assisted-living facility. All while being a single mom to the sweetest elementary school aged boy you’ll ever meet. (I know I mentioned having a partner and then turned around and said single mom— my partner and I live two hours apart from each other and I do not ask him for any financial assistance with anything regarding my bills, and we split expenses when we do get to spend time with each other. “Single mom” doesn’t mean “single person”)
All of this to say, since the summer of 2022 ended, my son’s father has seen him a combined total of less than 24 hours. Holidays only. Not even for his birthday, he only got a phone call on the past two birthdays. I have paid for school breakfasts and lunches, summer care programs, afterschool care programs, all of the finances that come with being a parent completely alone since then. He has paid me all of $50, on two occasions for a total of $100, in that time. I haven’t tried the child support office because I am told by his family members that he is constantly getting a new job, and then getting fired from it, he barely pays his extremely low rent already (the house is owned by a family member of his), and there’s no point in waiting to see if it gets taken out of his taxes because he owes on his taxes every year. Truthfully it’s not even about the money, I’m doing just fine paying for our sons expenses, I’m just brokenhearted for him that he doesn’t understand why his father doesn’t want anything to do with him.
The reason I broke down today, is from finding out that he up and moved away from our hometown in the middle of the night to God knows where in Virginia. Apparently with—- HIS FIANCÉ. I just found out they were engaged. I don’t care, I’m happy for them. However, we are still married and around two years ago, we had a conversation over the phone that involved him crying and begging me not to tell her that we weren’t actually divorced yet because he had told her that we /were/ divorced. I have no idea if anything changed in that time, but I don’t even know anything except her first name to even be able to reach out to tell her otherwise? I’m hesitant to reach out anyway because his mother helps me out occasionally and we have a great relationship and I don’t want to put a strain on that. She is disappointed that her son abandoned his son, however, she still has love in her heart for her son.
Now that he has moved, and I have no idea where, just the state, how do I get a divorce? What do I do? Why are lawyers so expensive, I don’t know what to do???