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2012.11.26 03:29 Lilo and Stitch: All Stitch, all the time
The galaxy's cutest alien has landed on Earth! Stitch, one of the best Disney Characters, has stolen the hearts of many when they watch the movie Lilo and Stitch. Starting off as an evil escapee, he has grown and learned how to love with a big heart. This blue creature is cute and fluffy. This subreddit is for Stitch fans only.
2019.10.10 09:39 keygen89 š We all lost someone...
Welcome to JustLostAFriend. We've all lost a friend at some point, whether over a argument, over a girl/boyfriend... Or maybe they just passed away. This community exists for you to share your stories and possibly get some advice and support.
2024.05.15 05:42 krakenblaster I have GOTTA tell this guy I like him but I can't because I suck
There's a reason this post is in emotionalneglect because I desperately want to Be A Person, but being the daughter of an emotionally neglectful mother means I can't do or say anything serious without having to vomit it up (and even then... my words are 'eh' at best).
I met this guy at college oabout a year ago and I was so into him it wasn't even funny. Smitten as a kitten. You know how hard it is for an adult, who was emotionally neglected to the point of being unable to cry, to start giggling like a schoolgirl? VERY. He's smart, handsome, funny, worldly, passionate, accomplished, a nerd like myself-- the list goes on and on, but the best part? He asked me the same questions I asked him, and then LISTENED to the answers. I swear he's not imaginary. But I didn't shoot my shot during that first summer class because it was very clear to me that I did not stand a chance. Plus, I kind of suck to date, for obvious reasons.
And then I heard through a mutual friend that he'd been working up the nerve to ask me out. In fact, they have a bet going: he has until the end of the semester, ie, until grades are in this Friday (my friend is ridiculously loveable but she's got VERY loose lips, lol). Part of me wants to cut to the chase and do it myself, and another part of me wants to give him a sporting chance so he can save the $20.
Oh and also I CAN'T. Because how do you do something like that when there's feelings involved?
Emotional Neglect survivors of Reddit, help me not to fumble this bag. PLEASE.
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I met this guy at college oabout a year ago and I was so into him it wasn't even funny. Smitten as a kitten. You know how hard it is for an adult, who was emotionally neglected to the point of being unable to cry, to start giggling like a schoolgirl? VERY. He's smart, handsome, funny, worldly, passionate, accomplished, a nerd like myself-- the list goes on and on, but the best part? He asked me the same questions I asked him, and then LISTENED to the answers. I swear he's not imaginary. But I didn't shoot my shot during that first summer class because it was very clear to me that I did not stand a chance. Plus, I kind of suck to date, for obvious reasons.
And then I heard through a mutual friend that he'd been working up the nerve to ask me out. In fact, they have a bet going: he has until the end of the semester, ie, until grades are in this Friday (my friend is ridiculously loveable but she's got VERY loose lips, lol). Part of me wants to cut to the chase and do it myself, and another part of me wants to give him a sporting chance so he can save the $20.
Oh and also I CAN'T. Because how do you do something like that when there's feelings involved?
Emotional Neglect survivors of Reddit, help me not to fumble this bag. PLEASE.
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2024.05.15 05:42 Late-Pangolin-6768 UNC or App for Transfer
Iām having some trouble.
I was admitted to UNC Chapel Hill as a transfer student last month. I would love to go but thereās an issue, I have so many friends and amazing connections at App, like fortune 50 company connections AND an internship within one of them. I have my next two years planned out and I donāt know how easy it would be to just up and go to UNC.
Also thereās the housing issue, because I have housing at App this upcoming year but I probably wonāt get any at UNC and I wonāt be as successful with no housing. The 2025-2026 year I will be hopefully staying at University Highlands with a friend (so itās planned).
Hereās another thing: At App Iām doing great with a GPA of a 3.92 this past semester, Iām in the business program too. Iāve gotten many leadership positions in clubs and love how I can take online classes as itās the best for me.
At UNC I didnāt get admitted into the business program so I had to go a different direction. I will also get little to no support from my family while at UNC as they donāt want me going there. They wouldnāt be at my graduation either. However, I pay for my own college.
I got a job on campus at App where I recently got promoted as well. Iāve also gotten fall employment at UNC though so I donāt know.
I guess I just wanna hear other peopleās opinions. I met my first REAL friends at App who would do anything for me, Iām so conflicted.
PS: If I donāt get housing on campus at UNC I definitely will not be going. Itās not worth it to me. This is in the situation where I do get housing. I have no friends there.
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I was admitted to UNC Chapel Hill as a transfer student last month. I would love to go but thereās an issue, I have so many friends and amazing connections at App, like fortune 50 company connections AND an internship within one of them. I have my next two years planned out and I donāt know how easy it would be to just up and go to UNC.
Also thereās the housing issue, because I have housing at App this upcoming year but I probably wonāt get any at UNC and I wonāt be as successful with no housing. The 2025-2026 year I will be hopefully staying at University Highlands with a friend (so itās planned).
Hereās another thing: At App Iām doing great with a GPA of a 3.92 this past semester, Iām in the business program too. Iāve gotten many leadership positions in clubs and love how I can take online classes as itās the best for me.
At UNC I didnāt get admitted into the business program so I had to go a different direction. I will also get little to no support from my family while at UNC as they donāt want me going there. They wouldnāt be at my graduation either. However, I pay for my own college.
I got a job on campus at App where I recently got promoted as well. Iāve also gotten fall employment at UNC though so I donāt know.
I guess I just wanna hear other peopleās opinions. I met my first REAL friends at App who would do anything for me, Iām so conflicted.
PS: If I donāt get housing on campus at UNC I definitely will not be going. Itās not worth it to me. This is in the situation where I do get housing. I have no friends there.
2024.05.15 05:42 Effective-Tadpole3 My (25F) dad died and now I feel disconnected from my significant other (27M).
My dad died November 2023 after an awful/traumatizing 11 months of suffering with an aggressive cancer. My dad and I were so close. I have such a hole in my life since his absence. After 5 months, iām still struggling a ton. I feel so disconnected from everyone and feel incapable of feeling love or positive emotion especially toward my significant other.
My partner and I have been together 3 years and moved in together a few months before my dad died. We have struggled so much since his passing. Our problems seem to stem from my increased irritability while grieving and feeling like my partner doesnāt understand me anymore, since he has never experienced loss or heartbreak. I also feel like our maturity levels are worlds apart since I have been forced to grow up in a lot of ways after my dads illness and death. This leads to me feeling frustrated or disinterested when he talks about the trivial matters which comprise his daily life. I do want to give my boyfriend credit because he continues to show up for me and try to improve when it comes to supporting me and I try to thank him for that often.
My biggest worry is that even when things are going well, I still just feel empty around him. I feel no connection to him (or anyone in my life expect my mom) like I used to. I feel hollow and just like I am going through the motions, incapable of feeling love. It is like I am numb. I donāt remember how it feels to feel love towards someone. It even feels hard to say words of endearment like āi miss youā which I often used to do. I have no desire for intimacy - not even hugging or snuggling. I just want to be alone constantly and feel bothered by everything, even things that I used to enjoy. He has tried his best to be understanding but now that it has been 5 months I feel like heās ready for me to be āback to normalā and I am not.
I should add that before all of this, my feelings about my boyfriend were very different and I was pretty set on spending the rest of my life with him. He even asked for my dads blessing to marry me in the hospital before he died. Now I continuously fear whether our problems are due to my own mental health or a problem in our relationship. I feel disconnected and incapable of love, then constantly worry about why this is happening.
I should also note that I am seeing a therapist who specializes in grief and have been for over 1.5 years. I have generalized anxiety disorder and a little bit of PTSD from seeing my dad suffer so much during his illness.
Has anyone been through something similar with a significant other and come out on the other side? I am scared that my relationship is broken because of what has happened to me. Please help.
TL;DR - My dad died and now (5 months later) I (25F) feel incapable of love and disconnected from my supportive boyfriend (27M) who I previously thought I would spend the rest of my life with.
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My partner and I have been together 3 years and moved in together a few months before my dad died. We have struggled so much since his passing. Our problems seem to stem from my increased irritability while grieving and feeling like my partner doesnāt understand me anymore, since he has never experienced loss or heartbreak. I also feel like our maturity levels are worlds apart since I have been forced to grow up in a lot of ways after my dads illness and death. This leads to me feeling frustrated or disinterested when he talks about the trivial matters which comprise his daily life. I do want to give my boyfriend credit because he continues to show up for me and try to improve when it comes to supporting me and I try to thank him for that often.
My biggest worry is that even when things are going well, I still just feel empty around him. I feel no connection to him (or anyone in my life expect my mom) like I used to. I feel hollow and just like I am going through the motions, incapable of feeling love. It is like I am numb. I donāt remember how it feels to feel love towards someone. It even feels hard to say words of endearment like āi miss youā which I often used to do. I have no desire for intimacy - not even hugging or snuggling. I just want to be alone constantly and feel bothered by everything, even things that I used to enjoy. He has tried his best to be understanding but now that it has been 5 months I feel like heās ready for me to be āback to normalā and I am not.
I should add that before all of this, my feelings about my boyfriend were very different and I was pretty set on spending the rest of my life with him. He even asked for my dads blessing to marry me in the hospital before he died. Now I continuously fear whether our problems are due to my own mental health or a problem in our relationship. I feel disconnected and incapable of love, then constantly worry about why this is happening.
I should also note that I am seeing a therapist who specializes in grief and have been for over 1.5 years. I have generalized anxiety disorder and a little bit of PTSD from seeing my dad suffer so much during his illness.
Has anyone been through something similar with a significant other and come out on the other side? I am scared that my relationship is broken because of what has happened to me. Please help.
TL;DR - My dad died and now (5 months later) I (25F) feel incapable of love and disconnected from my supportive boyfriend (27M) who I previously thought I would spend the rest of my life with.
2024.05.15 05:42 htxbeard Avoid International Day Pass Charges
ATT / Unlocked iPhone 15
Iāve been reading over entries on the best way to avoid International Day Pass fees, and I think Iāve figured it out, but I wanted someone elseās take. Iāll be gone for 15 days and would like to avoid the (recently increased) $12/day IDP fee, if possible. Ultimately $120 isnāt the end of the world, but $25 for data sounds much more reasonable.
1) Leave IDP on as a safety net. 2) Enable Wi-Fi Calling before I leave. 3) Procure/Install data sim through Airalo before I leave. 4) While in the air, set Airalo as Secondary data sim with roaming ON. Turn OFF roaming and data for Primary AT&T sim. Turn OFF cellular data switching.
This should enable me to keep my US/AT&T line active for voice and SMS over Wi-Fi only (the āWi-Fiā being the data from the secondary sim, or actual hotel wifi). And then everything else - data, iMessage, FaceTime, Whatsapp, etc - would all work through the secondary sim.
Note: I donāt actually need to make any calls or SMS texts back to the states while Iām away, but Iām concerned that Iāll receive some confirmation texts from hotels or restaurants, or need SMS for 2FA.
Any help / tips / confirmation would be greatly appreciated!
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Iāve been reading over entries on the best way to avoid International Day Pass fees, and I think Iāve figured it out, but I wanted someone elseās take. Iāll be gone for 15 days and would like to avoid the (recently increased) $12/day IDP fee, if possible. Ultimately $120 isnāt the end of the world, but $25 for data sounds much more reasonable.
1) Leave IDP on as a safety net. 2) Enable Wi-Fi Calling before I leave. 3) Procure/Install data sim through Airalo before I leave. 4) While in the air, set Airalo as Secondary data sim with roaming ON. Turn OFF roaming and data for Primary AT&T sim. Turn OFF cellular data switching.
This should enable me to keep my US/AT&T line active for voice and SMS over Wi-Fi only (the āWi-Fiā being the data from the secondary sim, or actual hotel wifi). And then everything else - data, iMessage, FaceTime, Whatsapp, etc - would all work through the secondary sim.
Note: I donāt actually need to make any calls or SMS texts back to the states while Iām away, but Iām concerned that Iāll receive some confirmation texts from hotels or restaurants, or need SMS for 2FA.
Any help / tips / confirmation would be greatly appreciated!
2024.05.15 05:42 ImpressiveAirport4 Best score I could have hoped for and my friend reacted like he was worried for me
Today, I got my 515 (127/132/125/131) and for being 4 years out of school teaching full time, I am so fucking happy itās good enough for MD and I can move on to the next step.
Sent it to my friend and he reacted withā¦ sympathy? He asked me how worried I was about my bio section score. I told him it was low but just high enough to probably not be screened out. And he kept asking me questions like whether I would retake or if I think it will affect my application.
But like jfc itās a 515!! No way in hell Iām retaking. Iām not applying to Harvard anyway lmao. Not even interested in the most competitive schools, just any MD. And itās a fucking 515!!!
Anyway haha just a reminder that some people are tripping. A moderate weakness is what it is, time to just focus on the application AKA the next phase of hazing LOL
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Sent it to my friend and he reacted withā¦ sympathy? He asked me how worried I was about my bio section score. I told him it was low but just high enough to probably not be screened out. And he kept asking me questions like whether I would retake or if I think it will affect my application.
But like jfc itās a 515!! No way in hell Iām retaking. Iām not applying to Harvard anyway lmao. Not even interested in the most competitive schools, just any MD. And itās a fucking 515!!!
Anyway haha just a reminder that some people are tripping. A moderate weakness is what it is, time to just focus on the application AKA the next phase of hazing LOL
2024.05.15 05:42 Ianiks Is this gear adequate for a solid/reliable and versatile creative portrait setup. Workflow tips/tricks?
I mostly do real estate photography but im finding it soulless and unrewarding. I really want to start photographing musical artists/fashionable artsy friends in a similarly creative and eye-catching way. A lot of the other photographers in my town shoot on medium fortmat film and have work that i cant even begin to imagine matching up to or surpassing, but i really want to elevate my own work into something unique that makes people want to book shoots with me. I love the 90's japanese magazine editorial styles i see a lot of on the internet, and have recently decided to invest in lighting gear, as before, i was almost exclusively an ambient light shooter and i'm doing hours of reading and watching on lighting principles, techniques, etc. Still have a good bit of gear left on my buying list, mostly lenses, light modifiers and stands. But my current setup is as follows:
I feel like this is more than enough stuff to get creative but I just feel like if someone asked for a shoot tomorrow, i wouldnt even know where to start. My best shoots have honestly been flukes that just happened to work out perfectly. I've never worked with stuff that gave me this much control and its almost overwhelming. I dont have many friends to practice shooting on, and having trouble getting a setup going without light stands (lol) but i was just wondering if anyone had some tips or tricks for things to try with some of this gear or ways to maximize it's efficiency off-rip. Suggestions of any kind are welcome! Thank you friends, i apologize for my messy and unorganized post, i can be pretty scatterbrained when trying to fully realize things of this scale
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- Canon Eos RP
- 35mm RF f/1.8
- 17-40mm EF f/4 L
- 50mm EF f/1.8
- 75-300mm EF f/4
- Canon 600 ex-rt II Speedlight w/lightsphere
- 4 Yongnuo 600ex-rt II Speedlights
- Yongnuo YN-E3-RT II Radio Transmitter
- Manfrotto fluid head tripod (heavy af)
I feel like this is more than enough stuff to get creative but I just feel like if someone asked for a shoot tomorrow, i wouldnt even know where to start. My best shoots have honestly been flukes that just happened to work out perfectly. I've never worked with stuff that gave me this much control and its almost overwhelming. I dont have many friends to practice shooting on, and having trouble getting a setup going without light stands (lol) but i was just wondering if anyone had some tips or tricks for things to try with some of this gear or ways to maximize it's efficiency off-rip. Suggestions of any kind are welcome! Thank you friends, i apologize for my messy and unorganized post, i can be pretty scatterbrained when trying to fully realize things of this scale
2024.05.15 05:41 AlarmedStyle3714 I think i had a dream from god
last night i had this dream where the world was ending, i think thatās the best way to describe it (stuff happened before this but my memory is a bit foggy about this). I could somehow see the earth like falling apart, where literal pieces of the earth were drifting away. Then there was this light and my mum said āthis is it, this is the endā and then everything went black, like i was a computer being shut down. Then i could see all these people going to hell and i didnāt know them but they felt familiar. I kept thinking to myself in my dream that it was so lucky i saw this so now i could go back to earth and fix my ways and turn to god (iām a christian but i e never felt really close to his and donāt fully understand how i can give my life to him). But then i realised it was too late and my time for that was over. I woke up and i felt the presence of god in my room but i was really scared. Does anyone know what this means? Do you think it was from God?
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2024.05.15 05:41 Acceptable-Button526 Relief?
I have no one. I think my dog has been the only thing keeping me here, I know heāll be sad without me. Itās really hot where I live and he overheated even though he was inside all day. He started to convulse and his eyes looked distant, like he was going to die. My heart sank. I told him if you go, I go. I called my mom for help, she didnāt care, just told me to take him to a vet. Heās okay now but Iām not. Iām 25, living in Phoenix and my life feels like a waste. Like Iāve failed at everything. I donāt think Iām going to leave a note or anything. Iāve held onto this feeling for most of my conscious life. It doesnāt get better, like Iām stuck. Medication failed me, I have no friends, and family donāt care about me. My partner doesnāt care, theyāve just used me like every ex Iāve had in the past. Our relationship felt like a shallow lie this whole 2 years but I went along with it because of how little I care about myself. Misplaced hopes and happiness, you know? How can a person be so shallow and pathetic that they lead you on, just because theyāre afraid of being alone? I shouldnāt have gotten involved. Here I am, 2 years of my life wasted, again by some one who manipulated me. I kicked them out earlier today because Iām tired of fighting and hearing the excuse of āI donāt know what I want, I donāt want a serious future right nowā. Yet they wanted that originally and all the infatuation went away. Iām tired of being played out like this. I donāt think all the sleep in the world would rejuvenate me. I want to rest. My heart is worn out and my soul is tired. I prayed to God earlier, I guess Iāll see where I end up
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2024.05.15 05:41 DesperatePenalty3808 Have you ever met someone organically?
Personally I have never had any experience where Iāve been hit on, flirted with, asked out or honestly even admired from a far in real life/public. Besides sometimes strangers kissed me in the gay club during study abroad. I feel like so many gay people Iāve talked to have had some sort of experience or another where theyāve hooked up with a friend, or someone they knew or their high school bully messaged them during college break. Stuff like that, but nothing like it has ever happened to me. The only sexual/romantic experiences Iāve had have been with people I met off grindr.
I feel like I might add, I went to college (during the pandemic), so tried my best to be as social as I could. And I feel like Iām attractive but maybe Iām just not LOL. And I no longer drink or really go out much so I generally donāt have a lot of places to meet other queer people, but I realize that gay bars are potentially a great place to start.
So I was just wondering have you ever met someone organically? Where or how? and did anything come of it?
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I feel like I might add, I went to college (during the pandemic), so tried my best to be as social as I could. And I feel like Iām attractive but maybe Iām just not LOL. And I no longer drink or really go out much so I generally donāt have a lot of places to meet other queer people, but I realize that gay bars are potentially a great place to start.
So I was just wondering have you ever met someone organically? Where or how? and did anything come of it?
2024.05.15 05:40 TwoAlternative673 How do you guys cope with being single?
I (16M) have never even sniffed a relationship and Iāve gotten to that age where most of my (few) friends and most people my age have been in one. I never really maintained hope that I will somehow get lucky and stumble upon one, but it still eats away at me. How do you guys cope with that?
Also, Iāve noticed with my female friends Iāve had in the past, in the guy they come to talk about their crushes rather than being the crush. Has this happened to anyone else?
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Also, Iāve noticed with my female friends Iāve had in the past, in the guy they come to talk about their crushes rather than being the crush. Has this happened to anyone else?
2024.05.15 05:39 GayWolf_screeching Would I be hades or Persephone or someone else?
Iām very artsy, Iād say I have some childhood trauma, I love animals and animal psychology, I like reading and learning, but donāt like the structure of school, Iām tired a lot, autistic.. uhm Iām generally friendly but if I decide I donāt like someone I wonāt tolerate them getting away without knowing and wonāt want to be in the room with them, only being civil if necessary,ā¦ but I also tend to forgive most of the time just because holding anger takes a lot of energy, but if I think about whatever someone did Iāll feel it againā¦. Iām very opinionated and Iāve struggled with aggression but itās usually feasadness based
Iām an ambivert, own 3 cats and a mouse and plan to get more petsā¦ uh yeah Oh Iām bad with tech, definitely not my strong suit, but I have a good memory once I get something down Iāve got it I hate math
I kinda relate to both of them but Iām curious if anyone can say Iām distinctly more one than the other
This is probably a weird post I hope itās not too off topicā¦.. I mean itās about the characters but itās also about me lol
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Iām an ambivert, own 3 cats and a mouse and plan to get more petsā¦ uh yeah Oh Iām bad with tech, definitely not my strong suit, but I have a good memory once I get something down Iāve got it I hate math
I kinda relate to both of them but Iām curious if anyone can say Iām distinctly more one than the other
This is probably a weird post I hope itās not too off topicā¦.. I mean itās about the characters but itās also about me lol
2024.05.15 05:39 schleepycatto Being that 'Filler' friend
I have a college friend group and we still find the time to hang out kahit graduate na kami. In context, delayed ako ng 1 year sa kanila because transferee ako. Nabuo yung group namin because of thesis and group projects sa majors namin. Sabay sila gumraduate while I had to finish pa yung mga naiwan kong subjects kaya sila-sila yung sabay mag asikaso ng requirements.
I consider these people my best friends because sila yung kasama ko buong pandemic. Lagi kaming tumatambay sa dorm ko if they need a place to unwind or do our projects. May mga times din na nagkakaruon ng away pero we find it to ourselves to forgive each other.
The reason why I feel like I'm the 'filler' friend is because parang I'm just a convenience to them. I have this generous personality wherein love language ko ay gift giving kaya I would spoil them when I can. However, hindi ako maka-relate sa mga hilig nila and social groups na kabilang nila. Kaya, I feel out of place when we hang out
I wanted to share this kasi may nakita akong post ng friend ko for an event. Tinag niya yung mga friends ko pero hindi nila ako inisip ayain. Or, kahit the thought man lang to tag me because I'm also their friend. Made me feel sad na I'm not in their thoughts.
Ayun lang. x
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I consider these people my best friends because sila yung kasama ko buong pandemic. Lagi kaming tumatambay sa dorm ko if they need a place to unwind or do our projects. May mga times din na nagkakaruon ng away pero we find it to ourselves to forgive each other.
The reason why I feel like I'm the 'filler' friend is because parang I'm just a convenience to them. I have this generous personality wherein love language ko ay gift giving kaya I would spoil them when I can. However, hindi ako maka-relate sa mga hilig nila and social groups na kabilang nila. Kaya, I feel out of place when we hang out
I wanted to share this kasi may nakita akong post ng friend ko for an event. Tinag niya yung mga friends ko pero hindi nila ako inisip ayain. Or, kahit the thought man lang to tag me because I'm also their friend. Made me feel sad na I'm not in their thoughts.
Ayun lang. x
2024.05.15 05:39 AirPodPapi 3 - Day Pass VIP Elevated Experience Pass
Need to sell this ASAP since I can no longer attend. $800 (or best offer).
If you live around DC, Maryland, or Virginia area I can meetup in person as long as you have payment ready. If you're farther away I can overnight it to you.
I can give video proof for verification purposes (or any other reasonable proof you need)
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If you live around DC, Maryland, or Virginia area I can meetup in person as long as you have payment ready. If you're farther away I can overnight it to you.
I can give video proof for verification purposes (or any other reasonable proof you need)
2024.05.15 05:39 horsegirl896 Am I a bad friend for not wanting to hear my friends problems?
I a 27(F) lost my dad about a month ago. A few days after he passed a friend asked me if I thought other peopleās drama in their lives would seem far less important to me? Initially I said no, because even though Iām going through this new transition in lifeā¦my friends lives and problems have not stopped. They said that was mature and I really did feel that way at the time. How fast forward a couple of weeks and Iām back in a normal routine of seeing my friends. Well after the last few hangs and my friends talking about their boy drama etc. Iāve found myself sitting there listening but becoming slightly annoyed and disengaged from the conversation. I want to be around my friends because they have been a good support for me and checking up, but I canāt help but think to myself āyeah in the grand scheme of life this problem wonāt matter all that much overtimeā. Whatās the best way to handle this type of situation? I donāt want to distance myself from them.
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2024.05.15 05:39 neriyum Help with connecting ferrets
Hi, I have 3 ferrets, one that is kept apart from the other two because she won't play with them. It's not that she hates them, if there is a barrier like cage bars, she will dook and wag her tail but the second I try to let her play she starts screaming and running away. I thought maybe the other two were hurting her but they actually act submissive to her, but she just screams. I'm not sure what to do, I'm not sure if it's because she was alone for a year. I feel like I've tried everything and it's been a three year fight. I feel like she's going to be alone her whole life and I feel awful. My second I got so she'd have a friend but that didn't work and when I got the third the second and third connected immediately, but my first didn't. She doesn't seem to hate them, she's scared.
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2024.05.15 05:39 Lost_Razzmatazz_1346 Need legal advice for a friend, please read the full post
Hi there so I have a friend that recently graduated UC davis, he lives in his car cuz he was trying to pay off his student loans by working place had some health issues and he's had an issue actually pulling in a profit every month. Essentially at this point he's barely keeping even.
His car failed smog and he tried to get to pass but he couldn't he started getting a bunch of tickets for expired registration, he tried to explain the situation to the private companies that we now have overseeing tickets and they rejected his appeals.
Due to health issues he unfortunately missed the second deadline for appeals.
He called and attempted to explain himself multiple times and they said he could have his car dismantled and they would be able to write off the tickets short of that they can't lower the amount of the fines. Each ticket kept on going up and not because he couldn't pay and now the tickets are about to turn into a $350 each.
What does he do? Does anybody have a father that's a lawyer or anything? He spoke to a free attorney when they told him that you should have the right to talk to a judge due to his circumstances they should be able to waive the deadlines.
When he spoke to the agency running these tickets they said nope, because your deadline for a second appeal expired you do not have the right to talk to a judge anymore.
Apparently the judges are really the only ones that have the kind of power to do things like drop the price of a ticket down to something that's actually reasonable for somebody who doesn't have any money to pay.
Thanks
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His car failed smog and he tried to get to pass but he couldn't he started getting a bunch of tickets for expired registration, he tried to explain the situation to the private companies that we now have overseeing tickets and they rejected his appeals.
Due to health issues he unfortunately missed the second deadline for appeals.
He called and attempted to explain himself multiple times and they said he could have his car dismantled and they would be able to write off the tickets short of that they can't lower the amount of the fines. Each ticket kept on going up and not because he couldn't pay and now the tickets are about to turn into a $350 each.
What does he do? Does anybody have a father that's a lawyer or anything? He spoke to a free attorney when they told him that you should have the right to talk to a judge due to his circumstances they should be able to waive the deadlines.
When he spoke to the agency running these tickets they said nope, because your deadline for a second appeal expired you do not have the right to talk to a judge anymore.
Apparently the judges are really the only ones that have the kind of power to do things like drop the price of a ticket down to something that's actually reasonable for somebody who doesn't have any money to pay.
Thanks
2024.05.15 05:39 itxnakva AITA for blocking my āfriendā?
Ever since January my friend has been completely different, sheās been hanging out with people that arenāt the best and doing some things that arent really good.
This week we had to pick partners for lockers, over a year ago we agreed and made a promise that we were going to share the same locker, but last minute she decided to completely screw me over and say that she was going to share with her boyfriend after reassuring me all year that we were going to be locker partners. Later that day she tried to make me the bad guy by saying āwell I never said you should decline that girls offerā but i wanted to stay loyal to our promis. She reassured me over and over again that we were going together for the past year. So I decided to block her on everything after that argument because I am so fed up with her, and everyone is telling me to unblock her.
So should I unblock her and talk it out?
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This week we had to pick partners for lockers, over a year ago we agreed and made a promise that we were going to share the same locker, but last minute she decided to completely screw me over and say that she was going to share with her boyfriend after reassuring me all year that we were going to be locker partners. Later that day she tried to make me the bad guy by saying āwell I never said you should decline that girls offerā but i wanted to stay loyal to our promis. She reassured me over and over again that we were going together for the past year. So I decided to block her on everything after that argument because I am so fed up with her, and everyone is telling me to unblock her.
So should I unblock her and talk it out?
2024.05.15 05:39 APrettyGoodDalek Toni and Cloud
 | Some of you might remember Toni, chairslayer. She got a buddy in Cloud back in November. After a period of dominance dances, they settled into a solid friendship. submitted by APrettyGoodDalek to Rabbits [link] [comments] She's more distant around humans now, but I take that as a sign that she's living her rabbitty best now that there's another bun friend. Not pictured is the swath of destruction the two have carved. There's a reason this photo is zoomed in. |
2024.05.15 05:38 magicsanchez HELP!!! $15k in Penalties for my Rock Band
 | TLDR: I was in a band in college and we started an LLC but didn't do much with it. Now, I'm dealing with IRS penalties and feeling frustrated. I'm considering withdrawing $15k from my retirement to pay them off, but I'm worried about facing more penalties in the future. I've been researching how to get the penalties waived and I'm open to any advice or insights from others who have faced similar issues. submitted by magicsanchez to tax [link] [comments] āāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāā So I was in a band in college with three friends and had the bright idea to start an LLC with the four of us because my music business professor recommended I form one. We started it in 2020 right before everything shutdown due to the pandemic. We were a multi-member LLC, elected as an S-corp, and always operated at a loss. We were college kids so even the loss was just a few hundred dollars but the point is that we basically didnāt do anything with the business, let alone turn a profit. It was an administrative drain and complete waste of time. We broke up in 2021 so I closed down the business with my state since I was told LLCs are with the state but the federal EIN lasts forever. (still not sure how that works it's so confusing) Anyways, last spring I got letter from the IRS demanding $5k in penalties (CP162B) for allegedly missing Schedule K-1 forms for 2020, which I really thought I had submitted. It turns out I submitted the 1065 K1s instead of the 1120s K1s. So I hired a professional from HR Block to submit the correct forms and amend the 2020 return. The IRS got them and is reviewing. They are considering abatement which is good news but waitā¦ I asked the tax pro why the IRS is contacting me if I already closed the business. They explained that I only closed it with the state and needed to file the 2021 return before I could close the business with the IRSā¦..Im obviously an idiot and didnt want to mess things up further so I paid to have them file the 2021 return. We didn't have any income or expenses that year so it took the pro nothing to spin it up. A week after they submitted it, I received another penalty notice (CP162A), this time for $10k, for filing late. That penalty is not under review for abatement as far as I can tell. I've currently managed to put holds on the penalties every 9 weeks while trying to resolve this, but the process has been so draining and confusing. And it's already been going on for over a year now. I just want it to be over. I'm considering pulling the $15k from my retirement and just biting the bullet. I'm only 27 so thats a huge hit to my IRA (plus a penalty for early withdrawal) but I keep rationalizing it because I can make up for the loss in the long run. I'm just terrified that I'll pay this off only to receive another penalty for something I didn't even know about. Is that fear rational? I'm also just pissed because the IRS didn't even lose out on revenue because we didn't make anything. But I know the IRS couldn't care less that there was āno harm no foul.ā Anyways, rant over. I've been reading posts on here and almost everyone is really helpful and knowledgeable so I figure maybe someone sees my story or has faced similar issues and has advice on how to ensure these penalties are waived. I've researched reasonable cause and first-time abatement due to compliance history. Those seem the most promising routes but I know it's like one in a billion chance. For what it's worth, I've never been penalized before and have been very steadfast in maintaining compliance as best I can. Including hiring that tax pro to rectify the basis for the penalties. I'm a good person and want to do the right thing I just feel this situation is incredibly unfair. Is there a better route I should be taking? Someone mentioned in another thread that you can āabandon the corp with no personal liability.ā I don't know if that's real but if you're seeing this any insight is greatly appreciated. Also, any tips on ensuring the IRS closes the EIN properly would be hugely appreciated. Thanks in advance for your help! |
2024.05.15 05:38 coilxo 7 months in NYC without steady work, should i leave?
hey all, iām a bartender living in brooklyn since october who has only managed to find one shift a week at a bar in the east village, and some very inconsistent fill ins at that bar and one other one that i trained at last week, but itās just not enough to sustain a life here because everything is so expensive. iāve been bartending for 6 years and have been working in restaurants and bars for 11 years.
i feel like iāve tried everything: walking door to door dropping off resumes, applying to craigslist ads, using other job apps like culinaryagents, asking all of my friends for leads (i know a ton of people here) and even those leads where i have an āinā or know someone, the bar always ends up not having any openings after all. i moved down here with several job leads from people who knew people who worked at all sorts of bars in NYC and none of them could give me anything. i canāt even find work outside of the restaurant industry frankly.
word on the street is that itās been very difficult to find bar workāand work in general given the state of the economy and job market. itās getting to the point where itās fucking with my mental health not knowing if i will have work next week or money to survive next month. people may say that with the summer coming there will be more work, but iām realizing that may not be the case this year.
iāve been considering giving it another month or two and if i canāt find steady work then i will cut my losses and move back to my hometown until i can get back on my feetābut itās a very very small town with little to no jobs available. a couple of years ago i lived there and commuted an hour each way to work 12 hour shifts and it destroyed me, but i was able to save the money to move to new york.
these days it sometimes feels like i screwed myself in making the move and losing all my money to being unemployed, and iām not sure what my options are anymore. i donāt want to give up and start over again, but i might have to. iām 33 and this pattern of failure and having to start over has repeated itself in my life many times now. i suffer from clinical depression and go to therapy and take medication, but my situation has made it difficult to remain positiveāiām trying my best but i worry it may not be enough to make a life here.
thank you for reading.
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i feel like iāve tried everything: walking door to door dropping off resumes, applying to craigslist ads, using other job apps like culinaryagents, asking all of my friends for leads (i know a ton of people here) and even those leads where i have an āinā or know someone, the bar always ends up not having any openings after all. i moved down here with several job leads from people who knew people who worked at all sorts of bars in NYC and none of them could give me anything. i canāt even find work outside of the restaurant industry frankly.
word on the street is that itās been very difficult to find bar workāand work in general given the state of the economy and job market. itās getting to the point where itās fucking with my mental health not knowing if i will have work next week or money to survive next month. people may say that with the summer coming there will be more work, but iām realizing that may not be the case this year.
iāve been considering giving it another month or two and if i canāt find steady work then i will cut my losses and move back to my hometown until i can get back on my feetābut itās a very very small town with little to no jobs available. a couple of years ago i lived there and commuted an hour each way to work 12 hour shifts and it destroyed me, but i was able to save the money to move to new york.
these days it sometimes feels like i screwed myself in making the move and losing all my money to being unemployed, and iām not sure what my options are anymore. i donāt want to give up and start over again, but i might have to. iām 33 and this pattern of failure and having to start over has repeated itself in my life many times now. i suffer from clinical depression and go to therapy and take medication, but my situation has made it difficult to remain positiveāiām trying my best but i worry it may not be enough to make a life here.
thank you for reading.
2024.05.15 05:38 jennasky ULPT: I need an excuse so my friend doesnāt visit me
I stay home most of the time due to my fatigue and other current health issues. A friend of mine wants to come visit me one day and Iām honestly so grossed out by him because he sleeps around a lot, is sick often and in a recent video he sent, one of his fingernails is yellow and 1/3 of it is missing, so Iām thinking itās a fungus. Iām already a germ phobe and wash my hands religiously. I live with my parents and I had told him before that he couldnāt come in the house because my parents were scared of Covid but we could just sit outside and talk, he said that was fine. I already had it in my mind if he visited then I would make up an excuse of why I couldnāt give him a hug. Anyway, when I saw the fungus fingernail that was it for me, now I need an excuse. He lives an hour away and doesnāt have a lot of money, so I was hoping no money for gas would keep him from visiting haha. He was going to visit last year but his car needed work and he couldnāt drive it that far.
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2024.05.15 05:38 0p4ll Mirena IUD issues
Caucasian, 240 lbs, 24F, history of pcos and fibroids.
Iām just going to do bullet points as I donāt feel like writing this all out, but I do need advice.
ā¢ had horrible periods from ages 12(first period) to 24. Horrible pain I couldnāt move or talk, heavy heavy bleeding, stayed home every period, passing out, the worksā¦..hell every month. Oftentimes long periods. Was 120 lbs up until 2 years ago gained weight from antipsychotics.
ā¢ was diagnosed with pcos and fibroids FINALLY around 2022 after extensive tests/ultrasounds etc. by a free clinic (no insurance at the time)
ā¢ was recommended to get the mirena then but didnāt have the money
ā¢saw ANOTHER free clinic 2023 was told after more tests NOTHING was wrong- no fibroids or pcos. Just āirregular periodsā no one was of any help. Pain and bleeding was getting worse. I knew something was wrong.
ā¢mirena finally inserted Dec 2023 after a lot of problems with the drs office about it. Immediate horrible pain, cramping, heavy bleeding for a long time.
ā¢kept contacting drs only for them to say it was normal. Bad smell kept coming back down there, they did tests and said it was normal. Said pain was to be expected but it was excruciating most of the time. For months.
ā¢dr checked iud placement and said it was good, but set up ultrasound appt for may 30th-to make sure?? ā¦ around 3 months awayā¦..and my coverage was ending.
ā¢last month the bleeding stopped and so did the pain (lasted 4 months or so )
ā¢pain started back up last week and so did the bleeding. Itās light but itās getting heavier every day. The pain is really bad but not the worst Iāve experienced.
I finally have insurance and Iām trying to set up an appt. Just need advice on how to get someone to listen to me for once or if something seems wrong to any of yāall.
I canāt keep doing this. Iām scared of something really wrong plus infertility and other things but no one ever takes me serious or believes Iām in as much pain as I say I am.
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Iām just going to do bullet points as I donāt feel like writing this all out, but I do need advice.
ā¢ had horrible periods from ages 12(first period) to 24. Horrible pain I couldnāt move or talk, heavy heavy bleeding, stayed home every period, passing out, the worksā¦..hell every month. Oftentimes long periods. Was 120 lbs up until 2 years ago gained weight from antipsychotics.
ā¢ was diagnosed with pcos and fibroids FINALLY around 2022 after extensive tests/ultrasounds etc. by a free clinic (no insurance at the time)
ā¢ was recommended to get the mirena then but didnāt have the money
ā¢saw ANOTHER free clinic 2023 was told after more tests NOTHING was wrong- no fibroids or pcos. Just āirregular periodsā no one was of any help. Pain and bleeding was getting worse. I knew something was wrong.
ā¢mirena finally inserted Dec 2023 after a lot of problems with the drs office about it. Immediate horrible pain, cramping, heavy bleeding for a long time.
ā¢kept contacting drs only for them to say it was normal. Bad smell kept coming back down there, they did tests and said it was normal. Said pain was to be expected but it was excruciating most of the time. For months.
ā¢dr checked iud placement and said it was good, but set up ultrasound appt for may 30th-to make sure?? ā¦ around 3 months awayā¦..and my coverage was ending.
ā¢last month the bleeding stopped and so did the pain (lasted 4 months or so )
ā¢pain started back up last week and so did the bleeding. Itās light but itās getting heavier every day. The pain is really bad but not the worst Iāve experienced.
I finally have insurance and Iām trying to set up an appt. Just need advice on how to get someone to listen to me for once or if something seems wrong to any of yāall.
I canāt keep doing this. Iām scared of something really wrong plus infertility and other things but no one ever takes me serious or believes Iām in as much pain as I say I am.