Uso ngayon yung kahit paulit ulit nalang yung kwento ng kaibigan mo sayo e hindi ka magsasawa kasi nga for lifers kayo.
Don't get me wrong, I love my friend, we've been friends for more than 7 years. And since then, pare parehas nalang yung problema niya, boy problems 💀. Like parang wala na siyang ibang bukambibig kundi si ganiyan ganito. Yung emotions niya nakadepende na sa ibang tao, hindi lang mareplyan nang ilang oras akala mo guguho na yung mundo niya, tapos kapag nareplyan na siya, babalik na naman yung spark, kikiligin, will spam me messages of how happy they are sa convo. It was like para bang hindi siya nagdrama kanina lang bcoz of the same person? 😭
I swear, I love her pero super nakakadrain and nakakasawa kapag ganoon nalang palagi. she's been like that throughout our friendship, wd different boys... So imagine how tired I am to hear her paulit ulit na stories.
Kapag nasa point na umiiyak na siya, of course nandito ako to comfort her, giving her all the advices, dadamayan ko siya uminom even tho I am not in the mood. Literally, I will give her time. Pero the next day, malalaman mo nalang na dinisregard lang yung advices mo 💀

• reasons why hindi sila nag wowork ng mga kausap niya: she will get tired of the person, makahahanap siya ng mas pogi, she will cheat ( I am not an enabler, ilang beses na kaming nagkahiwalay bcoz of her ugali na ganiyan but, bigla nalang magbabati after some months or a year)

Now, if magkukwento man siya ng something about her lovelife. I always tell her na "sa una lang yan", "sige, ikaw bahala" "beh, mag aral ka nalang.", "ang hirap ng coirse natin wala ka bang ibang pproblemahin." ,"beh, narinig ko na yan sayo e"
Tell me, am I a bad friend ba? ABYG?

Hi! Balak ko po kasi mag-enroll sa Cerebro for ascpi po sana and since magwowork ako while reviewing, balak ko po Sept 2024 na ako magprocess ng application for Ascpi exam tas sa Nov 2024 yung pipiliin kong exam date.
Ask ko lang kung pwede po ba yun?? TIA 🤗

Kayo ba, how constant yung pag uusap nyo? Sa girls ba, lagi ba kayo kinakamusta ng bf nyo? Or normal lang ba kung kailan lang sya makakita ng meme don kalang papansinin? Or pag tapos na sya sa pinapanood nyang movie or series doon lang mamamansin?
I want a healthy relationship. That's why iniisip ko kailangan ko ba maging conscious sa pag uusap namin online? Kasi baka naman maging sound demanding ako?

Hello Everyone!
I am currently feeding 12 puspin cats (80% kapon) and gusto ko sanang mag switch ng catfood since I saw a post na mataas ang sodium content ng Aozi and Princess Cat Food.
Any recos na pwedeng ipalit sa kanila na hindi sobrang mahal? TYIA :)

Bat ang hirap magmaintain ng friendships at paano ba makipagkaibigan at makipagusap? Feeling ko nalet go ko na mga connections ko from school at nakakahiyang mag jump back kasi parang nagmove on na din sila lahat. Lahat naman ng mga bagong nakikilala usually sa work and as the newbie lagi parang may pre-existing na friendships na.
Dati pa talaga medyo mas introverted and awkward na ako. Dagdag pa undiagnosed autism hirap ako magnavigate and read ng social scenarios so alam kong there's a fault on my side din. Im craving connections na outside ng family at nakakatakot tumandang malungkot. How do yall cope with this?

Hello, nice to meet you. I just want to pour this all out if it's okay. To give a quick rundown to those of you reading this post, I am getting extremely sentimental over the trees my Tatay planted. Two big beautiful trees, an Indian Mango Tree and an Avocado Tree beside our home. I grew up to the sight of it, I'm used to always hearing mangoes dropping on our roof when it's in harvest season. How sweet and cold avocado desserts my mom would make with canned milk. I've always associated them with my grandfather, who has passed away 2021. I am extremely fond of him, kahit hindi ako and paboritong apo hahaha. He's the one who sparked my passion to draw, and I still got that skill with me for the rest of my life.
My mom knows how I'm attached to these trees. Lately, some government officials have been visiting, nagsusukat ng lupa. The thing is, those trees are planted on the lot with the water pump. Poso negro, was it? Di ko na siya naabutan na may tubig haha, or maybe I was way too young to even remember. Tatay handled it as far as I know, kinda like a leader of the folks here. TLDR, hindi talaga samin yung lupang pinagtaniman ng Tatay all those years ago. And now there's a huge possibility that those government guys will chop down this decades old tree to give way for some stupid building.
Along with the higher heat index these days, the immense summer. Ewan ko ba. I don't want them to just chop those trees down. May weird sense of seniority ako? Like those trees are there way before their planned stupid building. Then it spirals down to hating on urbanization crashing against nature, hating human nature vs nature. All in all, I know it's still grief. Sabi nga nila, we just grow around it, it never goes away talaga. It'll just find you in the brightest of your days. And the realization na wala akong control over it when they decide to chop down these trees of my childhood.
Writing this all down, I'm just bawling out. It's always been a sensitive topic to me, even my parents get weirded out with me crying over trees. It's just that... by extension, I treat them as a part of my Tatay. A living part of it. And then, strangers can just easily take it away in the name of urban progress. Di rin naman ganun kalaki yung plot of land for grandeur. Bakit natripan pa talaga nila ngayon?
Ironic how they suddenly do government work when nung last Saturday, we just had a freak accident over an electric post that fell down and killed someone. Ugh, that must have been a bit out of the blue with the topic. Maybe dahil na rin sa frustrations ko.
No matter what happens, mukhang wala na rin akong choice but to silently grieve. Maybe for a day? a week? or quietly forever. Yeah, it's much clearer now. I'm grieving more for a departed loved one than trees. I'm grieving because I'll lose the last living parts of them in this little world. I'm grieving to the change along with the march of time. But I'm still grieving for these trees that are here in this world long before I was born, they we're here long before me. And I can't do anything to keep them. I can never pull off another "Tree That Owns Itself" for my grandfather's trees. I may never point out to them and tell the story about being my grandfather's trees.
Thanks for letting me write this down. Crying does help a lot, I might do it quietly more often these days. Just to let it out. Maybe you guys can give comfort rin? I dunno, some false hope that they'd consider not chopping them down. Like I'm hoping this will get some traction and find a way to convince the Antipolo government about keeping it. Slim chance I know. Haaay, tapusin ko nalang dito.
At least as ngayon, natuyo na ang mga luha ko.

I'm a first time mom and currently naghahanap ng magandang hospital na pagaanakan, preferably within Dasma Cavite. Sorry, hindi ko din alam saang community ako pwede magpost dito sa reddit to gather some infos about this.
Sharing your experience will help me big time. TIA

Hi! Any tips po for final interview ng CNX or possible na final interview questions para mapaghandaan na rin. May scheduled interview po kasi ako today over the phone. Project Wheelz T2 account btw, baka may idea rin po kayo diyan. TYIA sa sasagot!

Hello. May I ask if familiar po sila sa recruitment process ng PeakSupport? How long does the recruitment process usually take? Thank you!

• One of my issues rin po pala is I'm not yet cleared sa previous company ko (which happened to be my first company), yet I'm sending applications na. Are the BPO and VA industries so strict on it - or would they screen me or see me as red flag sa hiring po. Please help.

So we went there this month, anlalaki ng alon to the point na kapag namali ka ng postura eh, hahampasin ka talaga. Edi nakikipaglaro nga kami sa alon, tapos yung action cam ko na hindi ko naisabit yung strap, nabitawan ko at na wash out. Nawala agad hahaha. May instructor na lumapit kung may hinahanap daw ba kami. Maya-maya, may batang lumapit na native din don, nakita yung action cam namin. Haaay salamat!
Eto pa, so nakadaan kami sa isang grapes farm, free tasting ng juice at wine. Nagpa promo si ateng tindera, kapag marami binili, discounted na. Edi bumili kami, nilagay nila sa karton ang wines at juices. Sila na nagbitbit at diniretso sa van. Di amin na check kung tama yung bilang bago nailagay sa van. Pag ka uwi namin sa manila nung nagbibigayan na ng wine at juices, kulang ng dalawang wine. Wdk if sadya or intentional haha
Anyone who experienced the same?

Hi! Our company provides 25 leave credits / year kapag regular employee ka na. From January to April 22 leave credits na po nacoconsume ko (naka leave ako from April 15-May 3 due to conflict ng sched sa school; requested for loa pero di daw pwede kasi may leave credits pa ako)
Naiisipan ko na po mag resign para mag focus sa school. Ngayon sabi ng friene ko wala na daw akong magiging backpay kasi na consume ko na leave credits ko, ako pa daw may utang sa company namin. Totoo po ba? Bali yung sahod ko today, ayun na po yun? Please help

Hello po. First time ko po lalabas ng bansa (going to Thailand) and sana may nakakaalam dito kung ano po ba requirements ng isang government employee pero Job OrdeContract-based at walang employee-employer relationship. Wala po kasi kwenta yung HR namin ayaw sumagot haha tapos yung iba pong napagtatanungan ko mga regulapermanent item sila kaya feeling ko hindi applicable sa akin (like travel order, etc.) yung requirements nila kasi nga JO lang ako. Hope someone could help po salamat. Have a good day sa inyo.

Hi po, nag try po ako i-google at hanapin sa youtube pero hindi nasasagot directly yung specific problem namin.
Bali po yung tatay, tita, and tito ko po (tatlo silang magkakapatid) ay may minanang lupa sa aking lolo at lola (both dead) na subdivided na po sakanila equally. Then namatay po yung tatay ko kaya samin napunta yung lupa nya.
Ngayon po, namatay din yung tito ko na walang asawa at anak. Yung nabubuhay ko pong tita ay sinasabing sakanya mapupunta yung lupa ng tito ko dahil sya nalang daw ang buhay sakanilang magkakapatid.
Tama po ba iyon? Or dapat may share pa ang tatay ko kahit patay na which is samin po mapupuntang mga naiwan nya?
Maraming salamat po sa makakasagot!

Hi, I'm an SHS student who's starting to apply/prepare to apply for colleges and universities. Maaga pa naman so ang pinagkakaabalahan naming magkakaibigan is list ng univs na pagaapplyan namin. One of the schools na pinagiisipan namin pagapplyan is SLU Baguio bc it's a nice university lalo na sakin since med field gusto ko.
The problem starts with the EduRank article that ranks the univs here in the Philippines. One of my friends learned that our school ranks higher than SLU by like, a few places. Bigla na lang siyang nagsabi na ayaw niyang mabagsak dun kung mas mataas pa school namin kaysa sa SLU (CEU den pero ako lang ata susubok dun HAHAHAHAH). Idk it just rubbed me the wrong way lalo na nung sinabi niyang pangit daw campus ng UPM and walang magagawa sa ermita (one of my applied campuses kasi med centered).
I talked to her and said na wag siyang masyadong magbase on sa mga rankings na ganun and may reason kung bakit "course >>> university" pero parang di siya naconvince lol. Ala lang, medyo naoff lang ako sa insistance niya sa reputations ng univs na nakikita niya online. Pero gets ko naman, college applications are stressful lalo na kung maraming pressure yung nakapatong sayo.
Will probably delete this later who knows lol.

Hello, financially incapable kasi family ko and need ko ng scholarship talaga.
Nakapasa ako sa FoP tapos hinihingian na agad ng resrvation fee until May 6, if hindi daw makabayad, mafoforfeit yung slot ko.
Tapos plano ko pa mag-acad placement, di lang alam ng family ko HAHAHAHAH help. Any thoughts or recommendations po?

Hi asking lng po ng coverage ng exam sa nddu kay naa ko incoming test this coming may 4 and wala pako alam unsay coverage ng test nila Goodluck nlng sakin 😩

I just wanna say na nakakapressure pa lang makitang tumatanda ang parents mo while you're starting out your career. Nakikita ko silang pumuputi ang buhok, kumukulubot ang balat, dahan-dahang nanghihina mga buto, at nagiging makakalimutin na. Gusto ko sanang akuin na lahat ng responsibilidad sa bahay pero hindi pa talaga kaya.
Ayoko sana umabot sa punto na sobrang tanda na nila at kailangan pa rin nilang magtrabaho. Minsan, iniisip ko, aabutan pa ba nila na successful na ko? Mabibigyan ko pa ba sila ng magandang buhay? Nakakatakot na baka 'pag kaya na, wala na.

Here is the link:
This Daniel Razon seems to have an exceptional talent for lying. : ExAndClosetADD (reddit.com)
TIME STAMP: 1:34
razon1:
"oh deh ikaw ngayon ang nagbabanal,
dapat, kung ikaw ang nagbabanal,
yung sinasabi namin ginagawa mo"
rodel:
"opo"
razon2:
"oh ano ibig sabihin?
tinatanggap mo na yung sinasabi namin ikababanal."
rodel:
"opo"
razon3:
"diba?
oh eh ngayon,
eh kung hindi mo din ginagawa yung sinasabi namin,
tapos sabi mo kami hindi namin ginagawa,
eh deh pareho lang tayo hindi nagbabanal,
hindi mo rin ginagawa eh,
kung gusto mong mabanal,
gawin mo yung sinasabi namin,
yung inaaral na, at sinasabi ng biblia, diba...."

Kawawa talaga mga tao sa mcgi, lalo na yung mga walang alam sa biblia or sa mga hindi nag aanalyze ng mga sinasabi ni ng diosdiosan ng mcgi na si daniel razon.
let's go to razon1:
sbi nya, ""oh deh ikaw ngayon ang nagbabanal, dapat, kung ikaw ang nagbabanal, yung sinasabi namin ginagawa mo"
takeaways:
sino kausap mo razon? bakit hindi mo mapangalanan? takot ka kasi eh.
hindi nahahalata ng mga fanatics at defenders at workers ng mcgi na takot si razon kaya hindi nya mamention yung tao/mga tao na gusto nya paringgan.
ano yung sinasabi nyo na dapat ginagawa nung pinaparinggan mo razon?
umibig sa kapwa ba yan? magpatawad? magpakita ng awa? gumawa ng mabuti?
madali yan razon.
yung patarget, paconcert, sigawan ng worker yung pobreng kapatid, itusan ng knp na mangutang yung pobreng ofw para sa gawain kuno, eh yan ang hindi talaga gagawin ng nagbabanal maniwala ka.
let's go to razon2:
sbi nya, ""oh ano ibig sabihin? tinatanggap mo na yung sinasabi namin ikababanal."
takeaways:
ano nga yung sinasabi nyo na ikababanal razon?
of course tatanggapin ko lang yung totoo. pero kung paconcert, patarget, unlimited pangungutang para kuno sa gawain, panghahamak sa kapatid, pagtatakwil sa kamag anak, pag iwas sa mga tanong, pambblock sa social media, eh hindi ko yan tatanggapin dahil hindi yan ikababanal.
let's go to razon3:
sbi nya, "diba? oh eh ngayon, eh kung hindi mo din ginagawa yung sinasabi namin, tapos sabi mo kami hindi namin ginagawa, eh deh pareho lang tayo hindi nagbabanal, hindi mo rin ginagawa eh, kung gusto mong mabanal, gawin mo yung sinasabi namin, yung inaaral na, at sinasabi ng biblia, diba...."
takeaways:
hirap kasi ng hindi mo masabi kung sino kasi pinariringgan mo razon eh...
kawawa members mo maniwala ka...
basta yung kababaang loob, pag ibig sa kapwa, kaawaan, mabuting kalooban, kaawaan, lahat yan sinasabi yan sa biblia.
ang hindi naman aral sa biblia eh yung mga paconcert mo, patarget mo, mga knp mo na pala utos sa members na mangutang ng mangutang, mga workers mo na kasing engot mo razon sa pangangaral ng salita ng Dios.
umayos nga kayo lalo ka na daniel razon, takot ka imention yung mga tao na kumakalaban sa iyo kasi pagka nalaman yan ng members mo makucurious mga yan at madidiscover nila mga kalokohan nyo jan sa mcgi at mabibisto na false church pala talaga ang mcgi from the very start.

(28F) Nagkaroon ako ng long-term relationships, 2 exes na nga lang, pero pare-parehong ayaw nalalamangan. Ayaw ng personal-growth ng partner nila dahil feeling nalalamangan sila. Dinadaan nila ako lagi sa lowkey-lait para bumaba self-esteem ko, Habang sila, tinataas ko para mag-improve confidence nila. Pero parang alak lang rin yan, nasobrahan sila na imbes mapunta sa tiyan nila, sa utak nila napunta. Saka mabisyo rin sila. LDR kame, pinangakuan na di maghahanap ng iba pero pinagpalit nila ako sa mas malapit, kase daw "EASY ACCESS". KAYA WAG TALAGA PAPANIWALA SA MGA PANGAKO NA IBA SA MGA GINAGAWANG KILOS O AKSYON. ILAG ANG MATAMAAN. PERO KARAMIHAN TALAGA SA TAO, MAGALING LANG SA UNA/. B0B0 SA CONSISTENCY. TAPOS HAHANAPIN SA IBA YUNG PAGKUKULANG NG PARTNER NILA, KAHIT SILA TONG NAGCH3AT. NAGAWA PA NGA ISISI SA PARTNER NILA CH3ATING ISSUES NILA. PERO AYON. PINAGPAPASALAMAT KO TALAGA NA DI NATUTULOG ANG DYOS. NA KAHIT ANONG SUMIKAP NILA SA BUHAY NILA. WALANG ASENSO. LAGING LUGMOK. SINGLE MAN AKO NGAYON, MASAYA AKO. AHAHAHAHA. NO UNNECESSARY STRESSORS. UNLIKE BEFORE, MUNTIKAN KO PA IKAM4TAY. KARMA NYO LAMUNIN NYO AHAHAHAAHAHHAHAHA. (YUNG ISA NILOKO NUNG PINALIT SAKEN TAPOS D3PPRESS. HUMIHINGI NG TAWAD SAKEN PARA DAW SA KAPANATAGAN NG LOOB NYA (WELL, DI LAHAT NG TAO DESERVE PATAWARIN).....THE OTHER ONE NAMAN, PABALIK BALIK ABROAD PERO BAON PA RIN SA UTANG)

Hi! How do you raise a concern about your KPI?
Yung 35% kasi ng KPI ko is the Gla$sdoor rating of our company. Pero Recruitment Marketing Specialist ako. I told my sup na before na lugi ako dun kasi basically, I can't control the sentiments of the people who'd leave a review doon sa platform. Any advise?