For context, I think my guy friend is falling in love with me but doesn't seem to know it. I can just feel it. I just took the hint more seriously right now because he is asking for emotional support from me when he underwent an operation and said to contact him before and after to check on him.
It wasn't a simple motivation. I had to show my caring side and we promise to eat out together after. I said I cant wait to him getting better and he said he cant wait to eat a lot. There was more and it was really intimate, sort of a life and death situation and there was us trying to defy it.
He literally copied the same situation when I was in the hospital and also need to undergo an operation, he also was my emotional support back then but the difference is I didn't ask him to check on me. He just did. Although i did message him that I got hospitalized.
I think this all started when he constantly became my "rescuer" when I got sick and always checked up on my health frequently. He then ask about my routine, tells me what to do, guides me, creates an excel sheet of what i should eat. He especially loved to be complimented on and he does also compliment me often.
In person he is very silent and can't look me in the eye but on messages, he is very sweet and wants to take care of me all the time. He tells me if I did well and just exhibits signs of emotional dependency.
If I so much as not talk to him for days, he says he gets worried and asked me if I was okay and he asked me this when he was the one in the hospital.
The dependency and the emotional support he wants from me tells me there's something there but I fear that we may be in an emotional affair. I know he had a girlfriend last year and I think it's still going on. My question now is how can I remove myself from this? Is it possible for someone to fall inlove even without knowing it?

So yeah i have to start this like a story. Me (M20Bi) My Guy Friend (M19Bi) met in our city Sub like a half-week ago from today where i posted a post for one night hookup so many freaks dm me he was ine of them others where like be my bottom I'll fuck you then just tata bye bye. I honestly was not expecting my wife there but he was bit different he talked to me with like We're very alike so we talk sweet things that how we'll do our job like sexting so i found this guy intresting so i told him to message me on Instagram so he did its happened just after an hour i Posted on sub so yeah for like one day we talked about many things like our crushes why I'm interested in boys now (this is my lust only). So things turned ou great as we thought we're like eachother so we discussed where to meet but for some reason I'm out of my town I'll go there in after a month. So we discussed how it will be done then we talk about friendship i tbh don't have any best friend neither he do (as per he says) so i talked about how we'll get it done i mean sex we both are virgin so we want to make it special. I'm an infj so i have a problem of perfectionism. So i decided how I'll lose my virginity like a year ago but the plan was with girl but it's ok i admit that i don't have guts to talk to girl and approach her. So yeah back at story' i told him my plan, that was basic like we'll douch asses and bath togather and then blowjobs and then anal etc. So i don't know this plan was lengthy for him as his parents are very strict. So told me that we won't have that much time we have do this in like 10-02 morning - noon like really!! then we both agreed to my plan then eventually he block me 😥 from reddit and insta both i really felt pain like i questions myself that how can i be gay ? For just to take down my 10 min Lust how can i be Internet whore for these people. Then i decided to Never be gay again it wad like post nut clarity. Believe me i was rock hard. But the pain was that when we were talking i kinda feel connection between us was like friends like best friends !! So i was sad the. After two day i was checking regularly that he unblock ne or not but today he finnally unblock me and we talked about what happened so he apologized to me and said "i was feel like what am doing as men ?" So i didn't asked much about it. But i told him that we'll cancel my plan and do whatever he likes and i suggest him if he really wants this or not i don't want this if he don't but i just want him to be my friend. So he told me he wants this inbetween my and his plan. So yeah I'm doing (i mean sex with him) this. And i think this is actually very lengthy discription na ?
So yeah that's it so my main question is how to make him mine and be hus best friend ?
Tell me about what not to do in friendship And what to do in friendship with isfp.
(so yeah forgive me bro if i hurt you in any way ☺️ I'm glad we're friends now)

I bought an apartment with a friend of mine a year ago. It was a fixer-upper, and we’ve spent a lot of time and money renovating the place. Our plan was to buy, renovate, and sell in 2-3 years. We're good friends and it was going to be a huge financial boost for me especially, it seemed like a win-win. It’s been going well, or so I thought, until he broke down and admitted to me that he can’t continue living with me because he’s developed feelings for me and he envisions a future in the apartment that doesn’t involve us selling in a couple of years, which was the plan.
I feel I’ve shown him a lot of grace during this - I’ve reassured him that while it’s a tough situation for both of us, we will find a solution and everything will be okay. He’s a very good friend of mine, and will continue to be, and I’ve treated him as such. I don’t want this to be a situation that turns our friendship sour, so I’ve tried to be as nice as possible about it. Even though I’ve spent so much time building a dream apartment that now I won’t get to enjoy - also, because I will now miss out on selling the apartment after 2-3 years of ownership, thus missing out on increased property value.
These are the options right now, the way I/we see it:
Option #1: We sell the apartment and split the profit. We would sell the apartment in the next few months, at which point we will only have lived there a year. It’s limited how much real estate prices have gone up in that time, and our profit off the sale will reflect that. We have renovated the place on our own, so that is a good boost, however the cost of a realtor will eat a good chunk of the profit especially considering we're selling after just 1 year.
Option #2 is that he takes over the mortgage, buys me out of my share, and also compensates me with some figure that we deem to be fair. Either with a lump sum, or with monthly deposits to me, or some combination of the two perhaps.
Option #3 is that the bank does not allow him to take over the mortgage because it’s too high. In this case, we’ve talked about us both still being on the loan, but I stop making payments - essentially he takes over the loan, but on paper we’re both still on it. I move out and rent my own place. I get a lump sum and monthly deposits to compensate. His argument is that he'd rather give me the money we would have paid a realtor, so that he can help me save up cash for a future down payment on my own place.
I would really like to know what you guys think of these scenarios. It’s important to note that we both have a high degree of trust to each other - and that we intend on writing up a contract no matter which way we decide to go. I don’t mind moving out as much as it’s incredibly bitter knowing that I’ll miss out on profit that I would’ve gotten in a year or two. He's made it clear that he wants this all to be solved in a very fair manner.
What would you do? How do you determine compensation fairly in a situation like this?
To complicate it further - the renovation is not fully finished. If we sell together, we finish the renovation together before selling. If he takes over the apartment, he’s going to slow down the renovation process and I won’t have to do any more work on the apartment.

Hello guys I’m abit upset with what to do. So me and him have been friends a year now and we met through my online bestie let’s call her Rose. And we got close he told me a lot about his personal life things and he has never said anything weird or flirty he is younger than us also and me and Rose have him as a little bother. So we used to game a lot together and talk all three of us and he got a gf and he was normal in the beginning but as time went on he got abit distant from me? I didn’t think much of it I didn’t say anything or bother him. And then I got blocked for no reason. Cus we hadn’t even talk for a while I didn’t want to bother him. So my bestie Rose called him out on his behaviour and said that I did nothing to be blocked and it’s ass move and I was genuinely upset. And he ended up removing her but not blocking her out of anger. Anyways a week after he asked me to get into game chat and he apologised and he said his gf had an issue with me but he explained to her that there’s nothing between us and we are like sis and bro and nothing else because apparently she has been cheated before but it made no sense because she has no issue with Rose that he knows WAY longer. Anyways he was normal again for a few days until he got weird and distant again. We played like two times ? And never alone (this is important for later) So I was like AGAIN I won’t bother him. And a few days ago he joined game chat with me and my bestie Rose and he said that his gf is fighting him over me again and I was like but why? I haven’t even bothered you. And he said that she just doesn’t like me and wants him to block me again and he told her that he won’t because i haven’t done anything to her or to their relationship for her to act so paranoid and I said to him we haven’t even played u been so distant and I haven’t bothered u and he said he knows and he doesn’t understand why she’s so obsessed with me and she literally said that the two times we played because she wasn’t home at the time and he plays in secret with me the two times we played lol which he doesn’t … he literally tells her and she has been infront when he games with me so she has seen we don’t talk weird ahit even on our messages we don’t say weird shit . Anyways he said he wouldn’t block me again for her Bcs it’s not fair to me and stuff and anyways… I got blocked again two days after him saying that and telling us how it’s nice to fianlly have someone to talk about this and finally talk and laugh... and I don’t know what to do?do I confront him? Do I leave it?do I accept the next apology? What do I do?

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So far, we've seen a number of powerful demons in Frieren. The seven sages of destruction (including Macht, Bose, Aura, and Grausam), Qual, the sage of corruption, greater demons (Tot, Solitaire), and demon generals (Revolte, Rivale). But so far, the demon king has remained faceless...or has he? (He has, but listen to this theory anyway).

• One notable demon I haven't mentioned yet is the Omniscient Schlacht, who is known as the Demon King's confidant (aka his right hand man). We know he must be a strong fighter, since he was at the fight with humanity's strongest, the hero of the south
• The hero of the south fought the 7 strongest demon mages (the seven sages), plus Schlacht, with the demon king being absent from battle. Since schlacht was recruiting everyone for the battle and risking his own life, shouldn't have the demon king also came?
• Arguably it would have been too dangerous for the demon king to fight the hero of the south, but I mean he would have had his strongest 8 mages helping him (and it's not like there will be any surprises, Schlacht's power is to read the future).
• Macht is introduced as the strongest of the sages, but he is clearly terrified to fight Grausam, but not Schlacht. Wait, does that mean Grausam is the actual strongest sage? No, because power scaling doesn't work like that in Frieren. But what it shows is that Macht, who isn't even scared of someone like Frieren nor Serie, is scared of Grausam.
• Is Grausam the Miraculous, the hypnosis magic using demon who hides his true face from all, the one who has apprentices like Zart (who was shown as being a tough foe for the party even with future Frieren helping), the one who was about to 'get serious' and show his real magic when future Frieren escaped? Uhm, are we sure that this guy isn't secretly the demon king?
• Would Grausam the Miraculous being the Demon King cause any continuity errors or contradictions? As far as I know, no it wouldn't. The hero party is stated as having slain Grausam, but we haven't seen that fight yet, and seeing as Grausam is a master of illusion magic (his other 'true' magic notwithstanding), he easily could have tricked them into thinking they killed him. Actually, the idea that Grausam isn't actually dead is a popular fan theory already.
• Wait but Frieren would know the secret right? Not necessarily, she was tricked into thinking Grausam was dead. Then when introducing himself as demon king, Grausam uses his real face (his true identity is the demon king, but probably no one knows this other than Schlacht, who died over a hundred years ago).

For context, I think my guy friend is falling in love with me but doesn't seem to know it. I just took the hint more seriously right now because he is asking for emotional support from me when he underwent an operation and said to contact him before and after to check on him.
It wasn't a simple motivation. I had to show my caring side and we promise to eat out together after. I said I cant wait to him getting better and he said he cant wait to eat a lot. There was more and it was really intimate, sort of a life and death situation and there was us trying to defy it. He also updated me when the surgery will be finish.
He literally copied the same situation when I was in the hospital and also need to undergo an operation, he also was my emotional support back then but the difference is I didn't ask him to check on me. He just did. Although i did message him that I got hospitalized.
I think this all started when he constantly became my "rescuer" when I got sick and always checked up on my health frequently. He then ask about my routine, tells me what to do, guides me, creates an excel sheet of what i should eat. He especially loved to be complimented on and he does also compliment me often.
In person he is very silent and can't look me in the eye but on messages, he is very sweet and wants to take care of me all the time. He tells me if I did well and just exhibits signs of emotional dependency.
If I so much as not talk to him for days, he says he gets worried and asked me if I was okay and he asked me this when he was the one in the hospital as a patient.
The dependency and the emotional support he wants from me tells me there's something there but I fear that we may be in an emotional affair. I know he had a girlfriend last year and I think it's still going on. My question now is how can I remove myself from this? Is it possible for someone to fall inlove even without knowing it?

Hi guys! I, 16(M), am in my sophomore year of high school, and I was already thinking about what I'm going to do after I graduate. I really don't want to pay over 50k for a university degree, so I decided to look into trades. I was hoping that you could answer a couple of my questions about HVAC. I know that questions are reserved for hvacadvice, but I really wanted to hear the opinions of professionals.
I think some background info is due. I always liked to work with my hands, and I'd hate sitting idly on my ass in a factory or an office all the time. I'd like to go around the city for work. Plus, I've heard that the girls really like guys in trades, so that's definitely a bonus. Not having to rely on someone else to fix my house is also pretty neat. I talked to my career counselor about this, and she recommended a career in HVAC. I really liked the idea. There is plenty of work to go around and the work is diverse enough not to be monotonous.
Now, I'm looking for a trade school. The one I found looks pretty promising. It says that it covers everything from installing and repairing HVAC systems to getting certified to work with refrigerants, but I still have a couple of questions. (Sorry if the questions sound stupid)

1. What's the difference between a certificate program and an associate's/bachelor's degree program?
   
2. Is it better to get an internship or an apprenticeship?
   
3. Where do I even get them? Do I look for them myself or does the program provide a list that I get to choose from?
   
4. Do you have any tips that would make the experience better for me?
   
5. The university says that it would be a good idea to get an additional certification. They offer Ready-to-Work Certificate, HVAC Support Technician Certification, Core & Specialty Tests Certificate, and Senior Level Efficiency Analyst Certification. Do you know if they are any good?
   
6. I live in Lancaster, Pennsylvania; what should be my salary expectations once I graduate If I choose to stay here?
   

Many thanks in advance, guys.

And they don’t text anything to ask about the deleted messages. Does it mean they don’t care at all? Like they didn’t even ask what i deleted etc?

I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/user posting in AITAH
Concluded as per OOP
1 update - Medium
Original - 5th May 2024
Update - 6th May 2024
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Final Update - 10th May 2024
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AITAH for passing out during a family gathering meant to introduce our new baby?
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So, recently I(27F) had a beautiful baby girl with my husband(29M). She's my pride and joy, I love her more than I love myself. But, taking care of her has taken its toll on me. My husband promised the work would be 50/50 when we agreed we wanted children, but I don't feel that's being reflected by his actions this past month.
It's gotten to the point where I can't even ask him to wash her up without him saying something along the lines of, "My paternity leave is short, I want to make the most of it by relaxing a bit. I'll help you out later." And I get it. His paternity leave is only 6 weeks while mine is 16 weeks, but my nether regions hurt like a bitch for a better part of two weeks after the birth and all he could do for me was occasionally burp her.
Now, my baby girl has gotten to a phase where she doesn't want to sleep. She'll sleep for an hour, but then she's up and back to crying and I have to get up and try to soothe her. It's been happening for a week now and I've gotten so little sleep that I'm nodding off while eating or doing tge laundry and stuff. Saturday was the month anniversary of my daughter's birth, so I decided to gather both sides of the family to meet her. (They hadn't met her prior because a)I wanted to rest as much as I could and b)I heard somewhere that you shouldn't be taking babies out and about when they're fresh out the womb cause they're more prone to illness then).
So, we had this gathering at my mother's house and all was well. Everyone was cooing over our baby, there was food, people were catching up or meeting for the 1st time. It was nice. But, I had gotten about 3 hours(generous estimate) of sleep in total the past week and I was starting to feel the effects of it. I was feeling lightheaded and clammy, but I didn't wanna make a scene so I tried to go to a bedroom to lie down. I didn't take 10 steps before my vision completely blacked out.
I wasn't down for long, but I had fallen over which drew some attention. I explained to everyone who was concerned that I was fine and that I was just not getting enough sleep and I could see my husband visibly frown at that. They gave me some of the dessert my aunt made to get my sugar up and the party continued. I felt embarrassed about the whole thing, especially since everyone was still looking over me til we left, but it's whatever
What bothered me is my husband's reaction. When we got home, he started going off on me about how I "made him look bad" and like "he wasn't taking care of me". I was confused on how tf me passing out made HIM look bad, but he refused to explain himself and had a pity party for himself in the kitchen.
I was still feeling bad, so I decided to leave him alone and just to go sleep, but he seems to have taken that as a sign that I don't care about his feelings. He's in my ear this morning about how I just ignored him to go sleep last night and how I didn't even put the baby to sleep before leaving. Is he right? AITAH here?
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Update: So I've tried talking with him, but he's been ignoring me and the baby the last three hours. I'd usually wait longer, but I'm just too tired to deal with this right now. You guys were right, I do need help with this, and he's made it very clear he's not ready to help me yet, so I'm just going to go to my mom's place. I'm currently packing. I'm so done.
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sophie_Mal
NTA and I can’t call your husband the names I want to because my comment will be deleted.
Paternity leave isn’t a time to relax, it’s a time you’re helping raise the baby and spending time together as a family. CLEARLY he is not doing either of these things as A. You’d be better rested and B. He’d have noticed you’re exhausted.
You passing out made him look bad because it was clear to everyone that you’re being left to raising your baby alone. It’s clearly not a partnership and the AH you’re married to is turning it onto you to shift responsibility and blame.
You need to seriously reconsider the relationships future and bring this up with him as it all comes down to him and his behaviour. If he gets his shit together, then things will be much better. But if he doesn’t, you and your daughter deserve so much better.
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awaythrowers97
He doesn't know what "paternity leave" is and doesn't really want to take care of his family. Sadly, you can't seem to shake that loser.
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ArticleOld598
This deadbeat of a father and husband is using his 6 weeks to laze around instead of using it taking care of his wife & child.
OP you said you love your baby more than yourself, would you want to let her grow up and think that it's normal for wives to push themselves while they're sleepless and in pain until they faint & husbands to berate them instead of worrying & taking care of them?
Tell your parents that your husband doesn't help you at all & blamed you for "making him look bad". You know what else makes him look bad? Being a deadbeat father and partner.
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**Judgement - NTA*\*
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Update - 1 day later
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Hi all, your comments were really helpful, so thank you!
Yesterday, before I could Uber to my mom's house, my sister offered to help me, so I'm staying with her instead. She's taking PTA to help me out with my girl, which I'm very grateful for. She also gave me sleep medicine that knocked me out for hours (I'm not sure if that was a good idea or not, but I slept long and well so I don't care.)
I woke up a few hours ago to tons, and I mean TONS, of messages from my husband. Like, the little app icon had 99+ on it. Here are some of the things he said(copy pasted):
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• You cant just up and fucking leve with my baby
• Come back now pls let's talk abt it
• Your actually so fuvking immature wth is wrong with you we have one argument and you fucking pretend like I've been beating you why the hell did you leave????
• We can work this out like adults yet your choosing to be difficult like a little bitch
• Pls just come back we will talk and sort this out and we can go back to being happy so come back
• I miss my baby girl you can't just take her away
• What if I call the police for kidnapping??? Would that teach you wat your doing is wrong???

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I would screenshot, but it says this community doesnt allow attachments, so i can't. And I know it's a bit weird to tell yall what he's been texting me, but I'm mad right now and this feels therapeutic lol. I already sent the screenshots to his mom though!
As for my baby, I have an appointment to a paediatrician for Wednesday, but for now she's on formula since my breast milk quality isn't the best for understandable reasons. My sister said she wasn't as fussy as I described, so I really think the problem is with my milk. That or my sister wanted to make me feel better for sleeping, who knows. I'll wait for the doctor's opinion.
I'm not feeling 100% but I feel a whole lot more better than before. Thank you to everyone who showed concern! I think this will be the last update since I wanna not think too much about my husband rn.
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ZombieJoesBasement
I am sooo glad you left and got some help and rest. You definitely need and deserve it.
I still can't get over your husband's mental gymnastics here. He hasn't been a parent, hasn't helped you at all, and hasn't really spent any time caring for his daughter and only cares about what other people (besides you) think, but "misses his baby girl" and wants you to come back "so we can go back to being happy"?! Sounds like the only person who was happy was him--he got a 6 week vacation and didn't have to lift a finger. Let me guess-you were doing all the cooking and cleaning on top of caring for the baby? From what he is texting you, he thinks he did nothing wrong. He is being deliberately obtuse.
To add insult to injury he calls you a bitch and threatens you with the cops. Lovely. He is a real peach.
I really want to know what his mom has to say. Does she know he was mad at you for passing out?
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Efficient-Cupcake247
Because it isn't about love. It is about control and image. Please keep strong. You have done a fabulous job doing what you need to for you and baby. Best wishes
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blehguardian
To be clear, kidnapping is not involved. Until a custody agreement is submitted to the court, either married parent is legally permitted to take their child for any reason.
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Aggravating-Pipe-903
Damn, this dude is crazy. Hopefully next update it’ll be ex-husband
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AITAH for passing out during a family gathering meant to introduce our new baby? LAST UPDATE - 4 days later
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For all of you who wanted to know what his mother's reaction was, she yelled at him and he made that my problem. The things he's messaged me are vile. And even though MIL was mad at him and KNOWS what he's been saying to me, she still insisted that I go visit him face to face so we can work things out.
I don't really blame her. He's her son, of course she'd still want to help him, but still....With all the ways he's been threatening me and cussing me out, I really didnt want to see him, but I decided to go. Mostly because I needed the stuff that I left at our house.
I went with my sister for safety, obviously. We got there and he played with our baby, he offered to feed her (she wasn't hungry), just acting completely different from the man texting me about how much of a "heartless bitch" I am. I didn't really feel comfortable having him near me or the baby with how violent his texts were, but she's still his baby. I don't think the courts would favour him after I show his texts, but I thought I should rather be safe and allow him some form of contact before going to court. This was a mistake.
At the end of the visit, I decided I should go pack my stuff, since that was one of the only reason I agreed to come. But, I didn't feel comfortable not being there while he had my baby. Yeah, my sister was there and I trust her, but I'd rather watch her with my own eyes. So, my sister went upstairs to pack for me. As soon as she was gone, he started talking about "See? I'm good now I can take care of her." And other stuff but that wasn't the problem. Even if he became super dad, I wouldn't be able to see him the same. Not after all those messages he sent me.
I told him that and he got pissed at me. I was getting worried since my daughter was still in his arms, so I tried to deescalate his feelings. It didn't work and he started yelling at me for "being heartless" and "stubborn" and whatnot. I wasn't really focused on what he was saying, I was focused on my baby. I tried to reach out for her and he shoved me hard enough to fall back. My sister came down and tried to help, but he shoved her away too and ran to the guest room and locked himself and MY BABY in there. He refused to come out unless my sister left and i stayed behind. I can't tell y'all how scary it is to not know what's happening to your child.
It took officers almost 30 minutes to get him out, which pissed me off. Like I know they were probably trying to assess the danger or whatever but I just wanted my baby. In that 30 minute window he could've shaken her or threw her out the window or something and they were there asking him to come out like he was a child and not breaking down the door. She was fine, though, so I can't be too mad.
They didn't arrest him since "no harm was done" even though my sister and I have bruises to prove otherwise, but they held him outside while I packed my stuff. It actually bothers me that they didn't at least detain him, but there's not much I can do about it now. I don't think I'm going to go near him again. Not with my baby. I'm thinking of going to apply for that emergency custody thing yall were talking about.
This happened on Wednesday and I'm still shaken. It's really depressing, for a lack of better word, seeing how much he's changed. I really loved him and I felt he loved me too. How he's acting is crushing me. I feel deflated. My baby girl and my sister are really the only things keeping me going right now.
I'm sorry for the wall of text, it's just that texting this all out helps me feel better. But, I don't think I want to continue updating. Just know that we're splitting up. Thank you all for your support!!
Extra: after visiting the doctor, I've decided to just skip the hassle and formula feed. She seems happier with formula anyways.
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JanetInSpain
OMG document everything. Take pictures of the bruises. Go see a doctor and tell the doctor you just need things documented to protect yourself and your baby. File a police report for assault and both you and your sister write detailed statements of everything that happened. Then apply for emergency custody.
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georgiajl38
Go to the police station and file a report for assault. Screw those cops. They didn't have to take him but the assault report should have definitely been filed. Get in front of a magistrate asap!!!
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My (f21) mother (f43) has been dating her current boyfriend (m23) for almost a year and it’s been nothing but arguments between us because I find it creepy that she dates men my age. (he’s also a stalker but that’s another story for another day…)
recently she’s also been seeing another guy that’s around the same age as me. The first time I met him was at his place of work and i wont lie, i found him cute and my mom knew that. she then went on to get his number and text him. she would later brag about their convos which made me extremely upset and I stopped talking to her for almost 2 months.
In those 2 months of no contact with my mom, I had completely moved on from the situation until she started bringing him around. I told her that I felt uncomfortable and she would always make it seem like I was exaggerating and that they were nothing but friends (friends definitely send texts like “i’m going to marry you one day”)
the most recent in person interaction i had with him was at my moms house. About a week earlier my mom and I had planned on hanging out and watching a movie but those plans were ruined when i saw him there eating. I refused to eat at the same table until he left and my mom got upset.
now yesterday, my brother had sent a message to this guy saying he sounded dumb after he had said he wanted to marry my mom. The guy then replied saying that we were too young to get the love he felt for her and I responded saying we were about the same age and he should stop being weird. Yes, i’ll admit it wasn’t very mature of me but I was upset at him because on mother’s day he had went over my moms house and took a picture of her without her consent. When she found out she immediately told him to delete it but he refused.
My mom made my text a big deal and called him to confirm to be that they were only friends and it was a joke but it turned into this huge argument and she wants absolutely nothing to do with me now.
i’m honestly just tired, I hate when men try to get away with harassing her, it’s so disgusting. I always tell her to block them and to focus on my younger sister but she refuses and tells me i’m the problem. I know I should’ve cut her off way back when she abandoned my brother and i when we were kids but as of recently, we started to bond more and she finally gave me the motherly love I needed.

My boyfriend has no trust in me and I honestly think it’s highly irrational. I don’t have any guy friends, don’t go anywhere without him knowing, and don’t even have any girl friends either. In the past I hid a xxx toy from him and when he asked about it I did lie straight to his face(said there wasn’t any) because it was so embarrassing. Since then I’ve apologized for the situation and my actions but he still distrusts me. We’ve been together for 8 years and we’re 23 now. The current problem is as follows: my car has been having problems I told my uncle to see if he could have the neighbor who is a mechanic take a look at it and run the machine. Recently my boyfriend got me an Apple Watch but I’m not used to using it. My phone had died so I went into our bedroom (where he was) and put it to charge then went back to cleaning the bathroom. My uncle told me the mechanic was here all of a sudden so I left everything (without telling my boyfriend cause i forgot) and went to grab my keys and go out to the car. Guy was the mechanic‘s son (learned everything from his dad). He put the machine thingy to the car and then he asked about going on a quick drive to see what the issue was. I drove with him as the passenger for maybe a total of 2 minutes. Drove down a road made a u turn and drove back home. I forgot that I could’ve texted my boyfriend from my watch and it was a quick thing so I didn’t think it would be such a big deal. When I got back inside the house, I promptly told him the situation and he was very upset. He says he’s not going to let me play him like a fool. That I’ve already hidden things from him and you just have to put both situations together to see I’m fully capable of cheating. I apologized for not realizing the situation would’ve hurt him and for not telling him I was going through my Apple Watch and explained since he got it for me recently I honestly forgot and didn’t think about texting him from the watch. He’s been cold to me ever since and whenever I try to hug him or anything he refuses. He’ll start yelling at me how he’s not going to be played like a fool, that he’s not like his friends ( a friend got cheated on by his best friend and wife), and that we both need to think because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship where he resents me and he doesn’t feel like he can trust me and I need to think about my actions.
I find his reaction highly extreme and it’s honestly shocking he thinks I would cheat on him because I haven’t ever given him a REAL reason to think so. It seemed irrational. Like I said. I don’t even have friends. I’m getting tired of being treated like a cheater and someone untrustworthy. Anyways, please tell me your honest opinions on the situation! Am I the a- hole?

Some background: we do not live in the USA, so there are different traditions and customs at play here. Basically, my brother and his now fiance had been dating long distance for a couple of years, with multiple phone and video calls throughout the day every single day. And I know this, because he lives with me (mooching roommate).
There have been a few concerns I had about their relationship, the incessant phone calls being one of them (she has a tendency to call every 20 - 60 minutes), even while both of them are at work and I always had the impression that she was keeping "tabs" on him, as I'd often happen to be in the room when he'd receive a call and every conversation would essentially start with her asking where he was, what he was doing and who he was with - despite again, having asked him those same questions the last time she called (potentially all of 20 to 60 minutes ago).
She and her family also hail from a part of the country that is considered dangerous for foreigners, which is relevant as my brother and I are of mixed heritage and look foreign and some of her relatives have been openly hostile and/or disapproving of their relationship.
Also, my brother almost never refers to her by her name and I had no idea what it was until she actually came to visit us earlier this year. He almost always refers to her as his "girlfriend" and as of the engagement his "fiance". I also found it weird that he never thought to introduce her to me or to our mother prior to the visit. Given he decided to marry her, he could have easily set up a video call for us to have a chat long distance to get to know her a little bit. As it stands, we know almost nothing about her other than what we have observed or my brother has told us (and what we have unintentionally eavesdropped as she speaks very loudly on the phone).
Neither her nor our family is particularly well off, which leads to the next issue.
My brother proposed using a family ring - this was not out of tradition, but because he couldn't afford to buy an engagement ring and lacks both the patience and willpower to save/budget his expenses.
During the proposal they sat down to discuss some important details, mainly 1) the fact that neither of them have a lot of money 2) their respective families live in completely different parts of the country.
My brother tried to compromise by suggesting a location that was more of less "in the middle" of our country so that neither of our families would have to travel ridiculously far. She shot this down rather insistently, that it had to under no circumstances take place in or around her home town - meaning none of my brother's family would be able to attend his big day as it would essentially become a destination wedding none of us would be able to afford.
He gave in to her demand, but was able to get her to reluctantly agree to at least opt for a small intimate ceremony of no more than 20 people in order to keep costs down so they could put more savings towards buying a house.
Fast forward to months later and she's become increasingly pushy/demanding. While my brother isn't a prize by any means, she has started demanding huge quantities of money from him completely out of the blue for non-vital/non-emergency reasons (such as an alleged distant relative of hers refusing to get a job and her insisting on financing their lazy lifestyle).
She has also decided to break her agreement about the small ceremony and she now wants a big lavish wedding with a guest list of at least 100 of her family and friends only. Not a single friend or family member from my brother's side. Given the location, catering...etc. that she wants on top of that, the cost of the wedding is going to balloon to at least 9000 USD, which might not seem like much, but is a crazy amount in the local currency here. And she is demanding that my brother pay 70% of it, if not all of it.
When he shot this down, arguing that he doesn't earn nearly enough to have that kind of money saved up for when she wants the wedding (she refuses to let him be involved in any of the planning) and that that wasn't what they'd agreed on, she threw a tantrum and snapped that they might as well not get married at all and just go back to being boyfriend and girlfriend, but it feels like a tactic to force him into giving in to her demands yet again.
Apparently, this is normal behavior for her. She does not like to compromise and pretty much always must have things her way and her way only.
My mother and I really have our doubts about whether my brother should still push through with the wedding. My instinct is to have him ask for the ring back as we have concerns that if they do marry she will force him to settle down in her part of the country and isolate him from his family and friends, where who knows what might happen to him. That being said, I'm not always the best at reading these types of situations, are my instincts right and are there several red flags that speak against this wedding/marriage from happening or have I misread the whole thing?

Does anybody know anything about the or owns their guitars? I’m on a hunt for a lightweight guitar. I saw this guitar in a shop, semi-hollow tele, it plays ok, nothing bad and nothing exciting, although for this price I’d like to know what I’m paying for. In the shop they were not very talkative about it besides generic “good brand, high quality furniture and electronics”. I tried to research online but as you can imagine googling “vintage guitar” is not really helping. I found a very generic manufacturer website where to make it even more confusing the mentioned JHS but it’s not the one you think it is. I sense something shady in there because why would a manufacturer make it so hard for themself to be found online.

Hii, this is only a repost kasi dinelete ko yung post ko yesterday in my other account kasi naguilty ako pero anyways,
So eto na nga, i met this guy on an online game, it was only a friendly chat nung una and ako naman excited kasi baka magka new friend ako, especially sa online pa. Nag-usap kami don sa game na yon until nagstart na siya mag assume ng age ko. Sinabi ko na i’m only 16 and inamin nya na college pa lang siya. Fast forward nung inask nya na discord ko, dun kami nag usap for about 2 weeks but habang nag uusap kami don, nag exhange kami ng social media accs like fb and insta and i also found out na he was 23 so ako naman okay, its fine since friendly lang naman but then he did some things that made me uncomfortable.

• Winallpaper nya ko (yes, i consented him because hindi ako marunong mag say no and natatakot ako na his feelings would be hurt)
• He asked for my pictures and calling it as a “bebe buff” KNOWING IM ALSO A MINOR
• He was always jealous and iniisip na baka maghanap ako ng pogi kesa sakanya (because i sometimes joked about it)
• He wanted to go to my Moving up ceremony but i said no because it was the time that it was starting to get uncomfortable
• He ‘somewhat’ flirted with me while knowing my age, saying na “1 year nalang naman” because my 18th birthday is next year

So when i start gathering my thoughts, i thought about ghosting him. So lumapit ako sa friends ko to rant and they gave me a go signal so i blocked him in everything where he followed me.
Feeling ko ako kasi yung may mali because i unblocked him later on kasi medyo naguilty ako and it was my first time to ever ghost someone pero pagka unblock ko naman sakanya, he called me immediately and i was already regretting that i unblocked him. So wala nakong takas, i lied by saying that my parents found our messages and pinapatigil na nila ako makipag chat sakanya (he knows my parents were strict.) after non binlock ko agad siya and everything.
So, ABYG for ghosting and lying to him?

at this point i’m almost upset at my parents for raising me to be a considerate person because i feel like i’m naturally always thinking about my impact on my neighbors and the favor is not returned.
my roommate and i moved into a 2 bed apartment a few months ago. it’s a duplex so we only share one wall with another unit. i chose the bedroom that shares the wall with the other unit. i am massively regretting that choice.
a few days ago, our neighbor who i will call maria, starts blasting music at 12 AM. my bedroom wall is vibrating. i myself had just gotten back from a night out and wasn’t really trying to sleep that instant so it was fine. but then 1:30 AM came around. then 2:30 AM. i went over to their side of the building and knocked on the door to ask them to either shut it off or take it to their living room. they don’t answer the door. i knock about 5 more times. made a point to knock when i heard music pause or switch over so i knew they could hear me. never got her to answer.
i had no choice but to text our landlord. weirdly he responded instantly even though it was almost 3AM. he called and texted her. he also told me to call the police which i really didn’t appreciate. it says explicitly in our lease that you can’t make a bunch of noise after 10PM so he had plenty of power to do something himself. anyway, the music did stop a few moments later. but maria continued to talk at a daytime/outside talking volume with her friend. they also facetimed multiple people and shot the shit with them as if it were 4 PM and not 4 AM. absolutely ridiculous knowing that they have a living room they can call people in, that does not share any walls with our unit. literally the one place in their apartment where they need to be neighborly, they are choosing to be un-neighborly in. it’s so frustrating because taking calls in another room is naturally what i would do, knowing how thin the walls are. i wouldn’t have to be told to do that.
the next day, she starts playing music again around noon. same absurd volume as it was the prior night. she’s also going live on instagram with several people at a time, arguing, joking, freestyle rapping with them all while her shitty ass music is blasting. its a good time to mention she also considers herself a musician so she makes beats and “raps” and sings over her stuff. i know all of this because 1) she’s always talking so fucking loud and 2) our walls are so thin that i can make out every word she says.
this goes on for 6 hours. it’s insane to me that someone who just got a noise complaint would continue the same behavior not even 12 hours later. daytime or not. i lost it and connected my own speaker to my laptop and start blasting a random playlist. my roommate wasn’t home, so i left my apartment for 2 hours with the speaker still going at full volume. by the time i came back she had stopped with her music.
i thought she might have gotten a hint but i was wrong. she came home that night at 2AM and started facetiming random people and talking/laughing/squealing at normal daytime volume. again, she can do this in her living room but doesn’t for some reason. i turn on my brown noise and try to get back to sleep.
next day (this past afternoon). she’s doing her instagram live thing again but her music is significantly quieter. so i guess she understands after my turn blasting music that i’m super fucking annoyed. but she still talks to random people on speaker phone for hours. i let it go and work from my living room during the day.
and finally, tonight. she comes home at 2am and starts facetiming/talking to people on speakerphone, laughing, stomping etc. this is the THIRD night she’s generally kept me from falling asleep, and the second night she’s specifically woken me up out of my sleep with her talking. literally zero consideration for the fact that its the middle of the night when she’s on the phone, slamming her drawers closed, stomping, dropping shit on her floor.
i was raised to be conscientious of how my behavior is affecting others. maybe my mom was a bit overboard but she even trained us not to slam doors/cabinets/toilet lids. my roommate is the same. so my neighbor gets to have roommates that never make a sound while they slam shit and laugh and make terrible music into oblivion.
also lastly i want to note how this behavior has sprung up out of nowhere. she has never woken me up out of my sleep or played music this loud and for this long before, let alone for 3 days in a row. a week ago i heard her screaming in their bathroom about a man not treating her right. so to jump to a conclusion with the little context i have, she’s going through some personal shit and making my life miserable in the process.
i just need to get this out there because it’s 4:30 AM, i was sound asleep until she woke me up at 2 and talked on the phone until 3:30. i haven’t been able to get back to sleep and i’m angry as fuck about it.

1000+ hours on a no mod PlayStation playthroughs... but finally I wanna try mods. Does anybody here know if the unofficial patch mod still works for the current game on PS5?
Also, I want to use some different lighting mods in the game, I've never used mods before so I'm just trying to figure out what might look the best. Would better graphics and weather DLC work alongside like enhanced lighting FX? Or how about interiors Redux and water redux?
I also want to use scrap that settlement. And not much else. I don't think I'm not trying to use a lot of mods. But the unofficial patch mod looks great and some new lighting mods sound like an awesome idea. I saw some other stuff like object removers and twig removers. Has anyone experienced with Andrews tree mods or the overgrowth mod or anything like that?
Are there any unsafe mods to use that Might bork a save file or make the world look less worky? I saw a enemy level revamp that looks good for making things more difficult...

I had horrible acne starting in the seventh grade. I experienced bullying in middle school and felt uncomfortable my entire time in high school. I was aware of how severe and obvious my acne was even in college. Men have made remarks about my complexion, and one of them even told my friends how disgusting my skin was behind my back. He even "encouraged" me to see a dermatologist, which I never did since I couldn't afford it.
I went to a well-known chain makeup store yesterday to get makeup for my wedding. I don't typically like it when others look at my skin too closely, so I wasn't particularly looking forward to this.
The staff member inquired about my needs. "It looks like you have good, healthy skin," she added nonchalantly as she turned to find the right product. I was taken aback. When I later discussed it with my sister, she remarked, "Well, that's because you do!"
I don't know when my skin transformed, but I now see myself differently! My skin is far from flawless even though I do skincare which includes trets and azelaic acids from highstreetpharma, Cetaphil and LRP, cerave moisturisers and la roche posay spf., but hearing that it is nice and healthy felt so amazing after years of crying and feeling self-conscious about my appearance.
Guys, it does get better eventually. I was the girl who, in a desperate attempt to save face, burned her face with chemicals, dried up her skin with medicated moisturisers, and even went vegan for two years. Although I don't think my acne journey is finished, I believe I have made progress since now, 75% of the time, my face is clear, and I don't punish myself when I do break out!

Writer's Block? Befriend the Beast: Pro Tips to Turn Blockades into Bestsellers (With Prompts So Crazy They Might Work)

Ah, writer's block. That ever-present nemesis, the blank page's evil twin, the creativity-sucking gremlin that haunts every writer's dreams (or lack thereof). But what if I told you writer's block isn't your enemy, but a misunderstood ally? A twisted muse, a forced sabbatical from the mundane, a chance to shake things up and unleash your inner writing gremlin in the most productive way possible?
Befriending the Block:
Professional authors know the struggle is real. Here's what they say about turning blockades into stepping stones:

• Embrace the Pause: Jodi Picoult: "Writer's block is a sign that something isn't working. Step away, recharge, and come back with fresh eyes."
• Declutter Your Mind: Neil Gaiman: "Sometimes you have to let go of an idea to make space for a better one."
• Experiment, Even If It's Weird: Haruki Murakami: "Don't be afraid to try something strange. The most original ideas often come from unexpected places."

Now, let's get insane with prompts that will have your muse doing a double take:
1. Genre Blender: Combine two wildly different genres. Write a historical romance with zombies, a cyberpunk detective novel set in ancient Rome, or a space opera with a grumpy cat detective as the protagonist.
2. Alternate Reality: Imagine your story taking place in a world obsessed with something ridiculous. Think "everyone communicates only through emojis" or "unicorns are the primary mode of transportation."
3. Flash Forward, Way Forward: Skip to the very end of your story. Write the final scene, then work your way back, filling in the gaps with the most outrageous plot twists imaginable.
4. Dream Weaver: Describe a bizarre dream in excruciating detail. Then, analyze it like a cryptic message from your subconscious, using it as the foundation for your story.
5. Character Chaos: Write a scene where your characters are forced to switch bodies (think Freaky Friday, but with your characters). How does it change their perspectives? What hilarious misunderstandings ensue?
6. Found Object Frenzy: Grab the weirdest thing you can find (rusty spork, deflated balloon animal, taxidermied squirrel) and write a story centered around it. Bonus points for incorporating its bizarre history.
7. Unsolved Mystery: Choose a real-life unsolved mystery (Jack the Ripper, the Bermuda Triangle) and write a fictional account from the perspective of the perpetrator or a hidden witness.
8. Headline Hijinks: Rip a random headline from the news and turn it into the most outlandish story you can imagine. Aliens behind the stock market crash? Sentient self-driving cars waging war on pigeons? Go wild!
9. Animal Antics: Write your story entirely from the perspective of an animal character. A grumpy cat narrates a love triangle, a wise old owl dispenses philosophical advice, a hyperactive squirrel chronicles a daring heist.
10. Time Travel Tango: Send your characters on a time travel adventure with a twist. They can't change the past, but their actions have unforeseen consequences in the present. Think butterfly effect on steroids.
Remember, these prompts are just springboards. Let your imagination run wild, embrace the absurd, and don't be afraid to delve into the depths of your weirdness. You never know what hidden gem you might unearth from the rubble of writer's block. So, unleash your inner gremlin, write with abandon, and remember: sometimes, the best stories are born from the most unexpected places. Now get writing, you beautiful block-busting wordsmiths!