Hey guys, this is my first time building a pc, I asked around my friends and people I knew for suggestions on parts and such. I ended up with the MSI PRO B650M-P Micro ATX AM5 motherboard, but after I finished building it, I realize there is no space to put the WiFi card since the PCIe ports are all blocked after installing the graphics card. I am using this pc mainly for gaming and school work. I have no ethernet cables nearby and I've heard that USB Dongles are really slow when it comes to online gaming. Any and all suggestions and advices are welcome!

I don't have anybody. My friend (let's call him Isaac) of a decade who I met online is married now and slowly over the years he's grown more distant to me. We used to be attached at the hip, basically living our lives online every single day just talking to each other. I understand why we aren't as close anymore. I'm no longer his +1. But over time, it's like he didn't even care to try and hang out or talk with me anymore, like he really didn't care about me at all. I've noticed this getting worse as time went on, so when I finally got my first job in 2022 (at 24 years old, because like always, I'm so behind in life) I tried to find connection with people there.
To preface, I am a gay man, and I ended up finding someone there that had a lot of the same interests as me and seemed to want to be friends with me (We'll call him Jake). He's straight and he knows I'm not, and that's never been an issue for him, but he definitely treated me differently, and in the first year I knew him he completely destroyed me mentally and I don't think he even realized it.
Jake would make sexual jokes about women in a "trio" we had at work and all 3 of us thought it was funny, but when I tried to make the same jokes from my perspective he would get a bit bothered by it, even though it didn't bother the other guy. Things like that kept reoccurring and it really made me feel like the odd-man out.
Jake also would constantly give me such mixed signals, one minute he'd be telling me how much he valued my friendship and he's glad he met me, and that I was the first person he'd ever really kept around as a friend considering he was a military kid that had to move to different countries growing up. One minute he would build me up to be one of his closest friends, and the next he'd make it a point to let me know that in the end, I was absolutely nothing to him and he wouldn't think twice if he never saw me again.
I've always had crippling social anxiety, and in my entire life, I've never been able to make friends easily. It's almost impossible for me to connect to people, and when I do it's so random, and always means a lot to me. After I met Isaac, I never thought I'd be able to do it again, but fortunately I did, but it didn't last long. I'd get sick of Jake treating me the way he would and I'd speak up about it, and eventually he cut me off. But over time he came back to me, but it just doesn't feel the same. I don't feel comfortable around him the way I used to.
After all of that, I feel so jaded and trust people even less than I did before. I decided to stop talking to people altogether outside of work, outside of a rare occasion where I might play a game online with Jake. I want friends, but I don't feel safe getting close to anyone anymore. Isaac barely talks to me these days, Jake was constantly putting my mind through a roller coaster of confusion/second-guessing and emotions.
I'm alone every day. I can barely get myself to do anything I used to enjoy. I've struggled with severe depression and anxiety my entire life with nothing that has ever helped make it better. Every single day I think about how I don't want to be alive anymore, and I don't know why I keep going when nothing changes, it never gets better. I don't even cry anymore. I've totally accepted that my life is wasting away, and it's just a matter of time before I decide I've had enough of it. There's no point in fighting it anymore.
This was all just word vomit and didn't have any structure but I just had to post this. Not sure why.

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Hydra 1.2.1 is out

• Specific improvement in CPU, RAM and disk usage
• Added short tutorials for DODI and OnlineFix
• Added support for downloads using RealDebrid
• Fixed white screen bug
• Correction of freezes
• Fixed bug where Hydra would not load games in countries where Steam is blocked (such as Russia)
• Confirmation of download directory when choosing a download option
• Added trailers and screenshots to the game details page
• Support for new languages ​​(list too long to put here)
• Possibility to enable Hydra to start with Windows
• Possibility to enable Hydra to be closed by clicking on “X”
• Fixed bug where duplicate games appeared in the “Surprise Me” button
• Bug fixed where HowLongToBeat no longer loads- Specific improvement in CPU, RAM and disk usage
• Added short tutorials for DODI and OnlineFix
• Added support for downloads using RealDebrid
• Fixed white screen bug
• Correction of freezes
• Fixed bug where Hydra would not load games in countries where Steam is blocked (such as Russia)
• Confirmation of download directory when choosing a download option
• Added trailers and screenshots to the game details page
• Support for new languages ​​(list too long to put here)
• Possibility to enable Hydra to start with Windows
• Possibility to enable Hydra to be closed by clicking on “X”
• Fixed bug where duplicate games appeared in the “Surprise Me” button
• Bug fixed where HowLongToBeat no longer loads

https://github.com/hydralaunchehydra/releases/tag/v1.2.1

The guy recently joined and decided to be AFK at the last boss. The tank asked if he was coming, no reply. So we went in without him. We failed the first time but no big deal. Then, the tank asked if we wanted to try again. Now, this very guy had the audacity to bad mouth him by saying that he’s not that smart. Most confusing reply yet since we weren’t trying to be smart... He reasoned that he didn’t want to go in and die. I don’t think most people even care about someone dying in a raid, that’s bound to happen but they do care if someone participate in a content where they should. The guy kept on bad mouthing. I didn’t catch those exact words because of profanity filter.
We decided to just go in and try agin with six people. He still stood there doing nothing. Someone voted the guy out of the raid (the vote was warranted apparently).
What I don’t get is why some people join a raid and be afk and then decide to be toxic. Reluctance to participate in because he doesn’t want to die is not a very sound excuse. And being toxic to other people is also not a cool thing to do. The tank was polite and most of us were as well. We didn’t even kick him the first time he was AFK. Sometimes I find it hard to be polite with this kind of player but I respect those who can keep it cool regardless of the situation.
I’m saddened that the toxicity of this game is as true as they say. Even the chat is so boasted with players arguing over meaningless things, throwing slurs, hatred everywhere. No moderation whatsoever. I get that there is little to no consequences online. But you’re not playing with mindless drones, you’re playing with human beings who have feelings. Civility and self control can go along way and create a positive environment to everyone.

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When loading up certain games like mechanic simulator 2021, Car x drifting online, and Vr chat they won’t load when I launch them they black screen me all the time I’ve tried searching up fixes and haven’t found one looked everywhere and found nothing tried everything that I could possibly do and nothing worked please help me

While it's all a little fresh (~1 month?), and I still obviously haven't completely gotten over it yet, I felt like coming online and asking for other opinions to either validate/justify my own or give me other ideas.
I am a fulltime engineer with an established career and that is definitely something I'm looking for in a partner, especially as costs continue to rise and I'm interested in having kids and providing them freedoms in the future as well. After moving to NYC for my job w. no local friends, and as a more introverted engineer, connections online are where I'll end up meeting most of my people. I'm not particularly interested in the dating apps (TindeBumble/Hinge) as it's bot/catfish ridden, you can never get a full idea of intentions in an easy manner when you're 1 of 1000 on there, they hide half the people you'd be interested in unless you pay premium, etc. So connection isn't something that comes easy to me, and I definitely will try to hold onto it when I have it and ride or die for my squad.
I had already "experienced" a long distance relationship in college when I was 21 and moved to Seattle for 3 months. Long story short there, I kind of ghosted my ex-girlfriend of that time as clearly I wasn't that interested in her and couldn't see her. Hoped that we could rekindle things when I came back but that relationship wasn't for me. So, I already kind of know that long distance relationships "don't work" for me -- I distance myself and don't get any "physical touch" or "in person quality time," but I willingly continued with this one (with OP girl) because I have nothing else going on for me and we were having a good time.
I met this girl by chance online in a video game that I play with my friends every night. We happened to enjoy playing the game together so we continued to talk for a week or 2, playing probably 6 or 7 days each week. We proceeded to exchange information and communicate off the game. She lives 5 states (10-12hr drive) away from me, has a car, lives with her parents (potential issue -- I'm likely not going to go there), and at the time was dropped out of college with no degree/career, but working a regular retail job -- so no real income either.
We continued communication and after 2 months or so, I decided fuck it, I'd like to try and meet in real life and either legitimatize what we have or figure out that it's not going to work out. I booked an airbnb in the city near her fully paid for and flew out to meet her. Sparing the details, we had a great time over the 4-5 days. I did not ask her to be my girlfriend at that time but was definitely interested in meeting her again. We continued to talk and I flew her out one more time to me in NYC where we spent a week and put a label on our relationship.
As time continued, there was no next plan to see each other despite obvious interest on both ends. Long story short, she was encouraged to go back to school -- and will later tell me that it was "for me" and not for herself, which I'm hoping she'll look back at in the future and see how silly that statement is ... but she "did it for me" so that I could be happy with her or w/e you want to call it. So she was going to school and working retail, and we would spend the rest of our hours late at night together on the video game. She was an amazing girlfriend, completely about me 110%. I never had any mistrust in her, she treated me as well as you could from 11 hours away, and we talked every single day. I don't have many things I'd complain about with her other than simply not being able to see her.
Again I found myself distancing, it really no longer felt special as the relationship continued strictly online. I cannot see my girlfriend and I can get the "same satisfaction" from playing with any person on the internet. I believe that I'm seeking companionship and this was quickly turning into more of a "friendship." So ~1 month ago (1 year since we started talking), after a week or 2 of thinking about it -- not talking to her about it, but asking other people -- I was pretty set on just ending the relationship. I was advised to potentially wait until the end of the semester, but I wasn't going to sit there and pretend like I didn't know what was going to come 30 days later. So that's what I did. I called her and basically ended the relationship. She let me have it as she was blindsided and was in love with me ... "you were my future ... I went back to school for you ..." etc.
The reason I'm having such a hard time getting over it (albeit, a short period of time has passed here) despite it being my decision is because she never wronged me in any way and we had a great connection/chemistry. So again, as mentioned above, as someone who doesn't connect well with others, doesn't trust others, and is rather analytical/negative -- it feels bad to throw away something that was good and still could have been. It's not like I have a betteother option here locally. I totally could have "played" her and tried to date locally until I found someone else that was better. But I felt like I made a "selfless" decision and "let her go."
I've had some other things happen during this time period, my parents got divorced 8 months ago randomly (I was blindsided), I'm looking for a new job, etc. I have since enrolled in therapy, I had my first session last week and we didn't get to discuss or go into this specific topic. Clearly I need to work on myself, and am committing to that as the next chapter of my life, but could I have worked on it with her?
I was at the point where I would have been willing to pay to fly her to me 1x each month just to see her ... again, since she can't afford it. While it was never really discussed further and her schedule isn't going to change as she needs to work to pay for school which she can't afford, I just don't see how I could legitimately see her enough times in person within the next 1000 days. That would put me at 30 years old. And while people will tell me that's not old, or whatever, for me I just don't see how I can wait until 30 just to see if it's going to work out. If she was local/closer to me and the situation was the same (no career, lived with parents, etc.) -- we'd still be dating or I'd have never jumped to breaking up with her. Wouldn't have considered it.
So maybe you'll read this and think -- "You're an idiot, you made the right decision, get over it." Or maybe you'll tell me "I threw away something good and could have communicated better, been more patient, ." Maybe I could have just told her: "I'm losing romantic interest (or w/e verbiage), can we change something up" whether that be a 1x a week "date night" where we eat on camera together and watch a show. I have no idea. Again, that doesn't solve being together in person, but throwing her away for nothing is eating me up a bit. Was there more for me to learn with this person and grow? Should we have continued to grow together and hope then if/when we do come together in person it's that much better?
As an engineer, it's tough to not know if the action you made was the right one, I'm having a hard time facing reality right now and looking for random unbiased opinions. So all in all, I want someone else to tell me if I made the right decision. Thanks.

Is SPT fun? No I mean do you feel FOMO (fear of missing out for any boomers).. in terms of not being on tarky online, in the real rat race, playing real people, etc.?
Like on osrs, Ironman mode rocks. Gets same updates as everyone else just solo mode. But playing a priv server is a diff feeling.. like you’re missing the real game and playing a knock off kinda. Idk. I play priv servers a lot still.
FOMO is one of the things keeping me from trying spt. But the idea of no cheaters ruining my day/week, and having a more pure experience on my accord but still enjoy this game sounds great

I (18m) met this girl (29f) online about 2 months ago and we've talked every single day, we talk a lot through the day and sometimes we'll play a game together on PlayStation
She's alot older than me and she is a mom of one kid
It never really occurred to me what kind of parent she is, but that's probably my first red flag for myself is that I didn't even acknowledge that she's actually a mom like I have ben so focused on how awesome her personality is and how beautiful she looks
I've kinda expected her to be like me..to respond fast and to talk to me all the time.. which is my next red flag for myself
She has made me so happy and I'm always smiling and laughing with her and i get sad when we haven't talked for hours although I see her online...
She is always online by the way and you can see her activity like if shes on a game or just browsing websites or whatnot..and to me it doesn't ever look like she's actually busy so sometimes I think she's ignoring me..
She recently told me she wanted to take a break from "online things" which i believe that means me and gaming..
I asked her why and she said "because of real life" I don't know if she's being weird or I'm just not getting it because of our age difference
I literally go to school and come home and game and just usually talk to her or wait for her to text me I find myself sometimes staring at the wall because she's not talking to me..
I kinda have been expecting her to do the same ? I forget that she probably has a different life than me ? Especially being a mom right ?
I don't know why I've been so stupid about this
I told her did I do something wrong and she just replied "no I just need to step back from online connections and get my life together" and I said so you don't wanna talk to me anymore and I said her life is probably fine and she said "I need to find a balance" I don't know what the hell that means
I was talking to my friend about this and they were telling me I was probably taking her away from time with her kid and that she wants to probably just get back on track..my friend is 24 so he's more around her age so I'm sure he's probably right but then he told me to quit being a sissy..
Now I feel like shit I could actually take someone away from there kid or that she thinks that's my intention no I'm just not aware that idk she has stuff going on idk what to do

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I'm currently on a 8GB capped $40 endless data plan with Skinny. It runs on endless reduced speeds after using up 8GB of max speeds. The reduced speeds for me are around 1.3MB download which doesn't support very much beyond web searching. I can't really watch videos on youtube, stream movies, or scroll through social media once I'm on reduced speeds because any video content takes ages to buffer. I can buy data binge packs for max speeds again if I know I'm going to need it but it doesn't support hotspotting and only lasts 12 hours max for $5. Not sure if thats entirely worth paying seeing as I'd probably need to use max speeds everyday. I ripped through the 8GB in about a week and that was without gaming for the first 4 days? I've had my hotspot on during the night this week because my parents have a new curfew on our broadband at about 10pm, not much I can do about that lol.
I realized 8GB isn't enough to last me a months worth of usage and was thinking about changing to another service provider that had unlimited uncapped data plans instead. Skinny's most expensive endless data plan still has a cap on it with $70/m for max speeds up to 80GB. Then it will reduce back to 1.3MB~ download. I'm not sure if thats enough to last me a month with extensive use like gaming and watching movies, I don't use data often so I actually have zero understanding of how much value you can get out of 80GB. Is that a lot? Would I need more? I don't know...
I'm almost looking for an unlimited uncapped data plan that gives out the same value as a broadband plan, not sure if thats silly. I paid for my family's fibre broadband at our old house for 2 years which was between $80-70/m switching between the two fastest plans skinny offered, so I can afford a more expensive data pack, I just need it to last as long as the month I'm paying for lol. I don't need huge download speeds like fibre broadband can provide. I can play online games smoothly with the max speeds skinny provides, I think I get like max 14MB on my phone, same on my laptop, and then 5MB on my playstation when hotspotting. I'm not worried about getting more than those speeds.
You might suggest I just get a separate broadband plan in the house, but we've moved to a rural area and our house isn't offered the same broadband plans as our old one. We don't have fibre or wireless broadband available in our area, just plain adsl/vdsl which didn't even work when we tried installing our modem (don't know why), so my parents and all my siblings pitch in for starlink now. It's just my parents choice to turn it off during the night and they say if we want we can buy our own data to use during the night.
Anyway, I've been looking at some other providers like Spark and One NZ that offer unlimited uncapped data plans. My main question is does anybody have any reviews on either of the plans these providers have? Whats it like for you if you use them? Is it worth it for you and why? I've read a couple reviews on One NZ's service that are reeeeally bad with people complaining about how fast they rip through their data plans and are reduced to super slow speeds within minutes of using their data, which is very suspicous. So I'm reluctant about switching to them. There aren't any specific reviews on either of the providers' UNcapped plans though, reviews I've seen are on capped plans only so I'm reaching out on this in hopes to find someone who already uses any of the plans im looking at and get their review and maybe advice.
The options I've been looking at are:
Skinny Endless Data Plan $70 ^{(Their most expensive plan}) - 80GB Data at max speeds incl. hotspotting - Endless Data at reduced speeds ^(1.3MB\)) incl. hotspotting - Unlimited Minutes and Texts
Spark Endless Plan $90/m ^{(Their most expensive plan}) - Unlimited data* (Fair use policy applies) - Unlimited NZ/AUS SMS* ^{(I don't care that much about this}) - Unlimited mins to any NZ/AUS mobiles and landlines ^{(don't care again}) - Free spotify premium ^{(This is nice cause I use spotify a lot, I'm already on a student discount though but still nice}) - Team Up eligible* ^{(don't know what this means tbh}) - Endless Hotspot* ^{(this is a MUST for me but there might be some secret terms that apply}) - Spark Voicemail App ^{(I think voice mail access is free, better than skinny, but I don't get a lot of voicemail so its not neccessary.})
Spark Endless Plan $70/m ^{(Second most expensive plan}) - 18GB data at max speed. Endless data at reduced speed. ^{(This is capped, is waaaay less than what skinny provides for $70 and I would probably rip though is within two weeks.}) - Unlimited SMS ^{blah blah} - Unlimited mins - Save $7 on spotify premium ^{(I'm already on student discount, don't need.}) - Team Up eligible* - Endless Hotspot* - Spark Voicemail
One NZ Plan Unlimited Max speed data $85/m ^{(Their most expensive plan}) - Unlimited max speed data - Endless calls and text - Add up to 3 Companion plans for $40/m per plan - 250mins & 50 TXTs ^(what?) - Hotspot included ^(yay) - Wifi Calling included ^(what?) - One NZ Rewards ^(ok) - 5G ready - Open term plan
And those are the options I've gravitated towards. Skinny, Spark and One NZ (used to be vodafone I think). It sounds like One NZ is the best price for uncapped data but again I'm suspicious from all the negative reviews about One NZ especially about customers not getting what they paid for. Even NZ herald and Stuff has made articles about them being the worst rated mobile service provider. Only way I can get over the suspicion is hearing from other people here and reddit is pretty honest and helpful when it comes to niche problems.
If anybody has experience with either of these providers and especially with the data plans listed, please let me know what its like for you so I can make an informed decision on what I should buy. Maybe you know of other plans that might be better, or are someone who has similar data usage (excessive gaming and streaming) and has worked out the best data plan for that kind of consumption.
Any reviews, advice or opinons welcome ❤
THANKS!

Am I wrong for asking my friends to remove eachother? TW: mention of miscarriage and abortion
I (18F) met a guy (20/21M) on tinder and got really close but for weird reasons didn’t work out. He thought I was using him for sex because he thought I only started to like him back after the first time we hooked up which wasn’t true I just told him I needed to make sure I was definitely ready first and needed to meet him properly first (he spent everyday for a couple weeks almost begging to meet me) but the first time we met we hooked up we didn’t use the Condom as we were both clean and I had an IUD. A couple other times we hooked up he did put on a Condom but kept taking it off. Anywyas he came up with many reason why he randomly out of nowhere “lost feelings” even tho we hooked up a couple times after that (we are no longer hooking up or anything like that). The reasons were weird. Anywyas we had also found out I was pregnant which was rocky because we kept arguing about what we should do I even had to tell his family. He hated the idea of me aborting and said I was definitely not to do adoption. He also kept on mentioning taking it back to his country as he’s not from here he’s just living here for a bit. Kept on making everything about him and the kid but I felt he didn’t care how I felt during it all. During my pregnancy I won’t lie I was a total bi*ch to him I kept on telling him he wouldn’t be a good father and just really rude to him I think it was because I was so upset and also hormonal but now I totally regret saying all those mean things. Then out of nowhere he was adding my friends on Snapchat and on Fortnite (video game) which I found weird. About a week after that I had unfortunately miscarried at 13 weeks which was hard on me emotionally and physically he said he was sad and distraught as well. He also said something he would’ve named the kid and I asked if he still wanted to name it because I wanted to but he didn’t like that thought. He also mentioned how I could still come up and see him and drink for my birthday with him (which now he doesn’t want to do anymore at all?) because the day after my miscarriage I was meant to go see him and stay at his for a bit and maybe talk things out and maybe early birthday celebration. Anyways couple days later he’s half ignoring me so I ask him what’s going on and he said he wasn’t which he kinda was. He told me to move on from the situation we had just been through and also apparently deleted the ultrasound photo. After that convo I found out he was still talking to all my friends whilst ignoring me (all girls). I think he may also possibly be attracted to one of them. I was furious as I was/am going through all this alone he even told me he couldn’t be there for me even tho originally he said he would be there for me no matter what even tho he lived 4 hrs away. Everything is and was a mess. He acted like he cared for me before and during the pregnancy being nice offering me things and even just talking to me but after losing my baby he’s been ignoring me and almost like he hates me and not supporting me at all. Talking to my friends who also somewhat knew what is going on also hurt me. I asked them to remove him at least while we get through what we needed to get through and they refused and so did he. I felt bad but angry at the same time. Our friendship was always weird we were close for a very long while even when he said he didn’t like me anymore he also kept changing his mind on that back then too. So am I an asshole for asking them to remove eachother? They’ve never even met him don’t even know him and have never spoken him till now. He’s not even supporting me but instead talking to my friends and ignoring me. I will sit there obviously upset them knowing that while totally ignoring me to play a game online together. At one point I ended up blocking him during a breakdown but then we sort of talked it out and were joking and laughing again until the next day he was pretty blunt but now again he’s barely talking to me but my friends instead.

Am I wrong for asking my friends to remove eachother? TW: mention of miscarriage and abortion
I (18F) met a guy (20/21M) on tinder and got really close but for weird reasons didn’t work out. He thought I was using him for sex because he thought I only started to like him back after the first time we hooked up which wasn’t true I just told him I needed to make sure I was definitely ready first and needed to meet him properly first (he spent everyday for a couple weeks almost begging to meet me) but the first time we met we hooked up we didn’t use the Condom as we were both clean and I had an IUD. A couple other times we hooked up he did put on a Condom but kept taking it off. Anywyas he came up with many reason why he randomly out of nowhere “lost feelings” even tho we hooked up a couple times after that (we are no longer hooking up or anything like that). The reasons were weird. Anywyas we had also found out I was pregnant which was rocky because we kept arguing about what we should do I even had to tell his family. He hated the idea of me aborting and said I was definitely not to do adoption. He also kept on mentioning taking it back to his country as he’s not from here he’s just living here for a bit. Kept on making everything about him and the kid but I felt he didn’t care how I felt during it all. During my pregnancy I won’t lie I was a total bi*ch to him I kept on telling him he wouldn’t be a good father and just really rude to him I think it was because I was so upset and also hormonal but now I totally regret saying all those mean things. Then out of nowhere he was adding my friends on Snapchat and on Fortnite (video game) which I found weird. About a week after that I had unfortunately miscarried at 13 weeks which was hard on me emotionally and physically he said he was sad and distraught as well. He also said something he would’ve named the kid and I asked if he still wanted to name it because I wanted to but he didn’t like that thought. He also mentioned how I could still come up and see him and drink for my birthday with him (which now he doesn’t want to do anymore at all?) because the day after my miscarriage I was meant to go see him and stay at his for a bit and maybe talk things out and maybe early birthday celebration. Anyways couple days later he’s half ignoring me so I ask him what’s going on and he said he wasn’t which he kinda was. He told me to move on from the situation we had just been through and also apparently deleted the ultrasound photo. After that convo I found out he was still talking to all my friends whilst ignoring me (all girls). I think he may also possibly be attracted to one of them. I was furious as I was/am going through all this alone he even told me he couldn’t be there for me even tho originally he said he would be there for me no matter what even tho he lived 4 hrs away. Everything is and was a mess. He acted like he cared for me before and during the pregnancy being nice offering me things and even just talking to me but after losing my baby he’s been ignoring me and almost like he hates me and not supporting me at all. Talking to my friends who also somewhat knew what is going on also hurt me. I asked them to remove him at least while we get through what we needed to get through and they refused and so did he. I felt bad but angry at the same time. Our friendship was always weird we were close for a very long while even when he said he didn’t like me anymore he also kept changing his mind on that back then too. So am I an asshole for asking them to remove eachother? They’ve never even met him don’t even know him and have never spoken him till now. He’s not even supporting me but instead talking to my friends and ignoring me. I will sit there obviously upset them knowing that while totally ignoring me to play a game online together. At one point I ended up blocking him during a breakdown but then we sort of talked it out and were joking and laughing again until the next day he was pretty blunt but now again he’s barely talking to me but my friends instead.

I don’t understand how people accept the mess that is this games net code and latency. I have never played a game as unresponsive and sluggish as 2k. It is actually mind boggling how few people ever bring up the delay you feel playing this game. Maybe you get used to it over time but it is actually unacceptable. I haven’t played in about 2 weeks and I can say without a shadow of a doubt, this game has the worst latency I’ve ever experienced in my 22 years of life and thousands of hours on videos games. It is not even close. I am personally insulted for all the people who play this game and the people who spend absurd amounts of money on this game because this experience is absolutely abysmal. It’s unacceptable and frankly, it’s embarrassing that no one bats an eye at the disaster that is the online experience on this game. No other community would stand for this, none. If cod felt this bad to play and control your player, the community would decimate the developers and it would be fixed within a week. The fact that this is the base experience and hasn’t been addressed, is insane. These people make billions off us and there is no care for the quality of the product. Embarrassing.

So im a very new player, just played all of the base roster and decided on i-no. I want to play her and even got some very basic RC stuff in and went into online today. Ive one one time in 3 hours. I literally have no clue what to do because i really liked the game until now and i dont wanna drop it.

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I beat the game on my switch previously and just got it on PC (fresh start).
It's been a while so I could definitely enjoy a vanilla play through, plus it would give me a chance to get good again. That said, I've been interested in a few mods I've seen available online - but most seem to be quite expansionist and I don't want to go straight into what seems like basically DLC content (whole new levels) until I've beaten the base game again on this new start. Are there any mods that people reccomend that wouldn't be too game changing for someone who is still interested in a 90% vanilla experience?
Also feel free to reccomend mods for after I've gotten my base game fix too! I see there are quite a few to choose from that promise new guns, rooms, characters etc - I'd love some suggestions for what to plan for in the future.
Ty! :)

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It never goes away, I'm always craving attention and social interaction. I'm a bottomless pit, I feel like even if I lived in my friends heads I'd still be lonely. Nobody knows how bad things are, how sad I am constantly, how my house is a disgusting mess cause I don't care enough to clean it, how I think about suicide nearly every day, how much I hate the way I look and think I'm utterly repulsive. I try really hard to make myself presentable, seem ok, cause I know if I didn't nobody would wanna be around me. They already don't like hanging out with me unless I'm paying for something, sometimes I wonder if they even like me at all or if their just using me. But if they knew how broken I was, they wouldent even want that. I can talk about it online to internet strangers but it's barely a substitute, dosent even really take the edge off how much I hate myself and hate my life and want so badly for somebody to have confidence in. I think thats why I'm so desperate to socialize and interact because maybe, if I keep talking to people, maybe I'll find somebody who would actually wanna be around me, all of me. I just wish it'd stop. I'm so tired. It's so silent in the empty house, and it's getting to the point that the background noise of youtube and TV isn't enough. Soon it won't be enough at all to distract me, the video games don't really work anymore, reading is entirely to silent, music still helps but it messes with my emotions to much to listen to at home when I have nothing else to focus on. Idk what I'm gonna do when I run out of ways to avoid the truth of the situation. That this is it, this is what I'm going to be doing for the next 40 to 60 years. Sitting alone, in silence, in this empty house, waiting to die. Nobody's coming over, nobody's coming home, the doors never gonna knock, this is it.

tried to keep my post as spoiler free as possible, in case you haven't played it. It was honestly still a pretty good game despite its flaws , and I recommend you guys try it before reading much farther.
So I just finished The Chant, and although I enjoyed the game a decent amount, what was up with the ending?
I got what turned out to be the "Mind" ending. I was confused how to get the other endings and so looked it up (trying just to read articles and not watch videos.) Unfortunately, the other endings were spoiled for me. The questions I have still remain: why such an incomplete ending? Are either of the other endings better? Is it worth playing the whole game over again just to try and get a new ending, or should I just watch a video online? Is there a canon ending? And is the DLC worth playing? Because although I liked the game, the ending was so lackluster that I'm now unsure if I want to put more hours into the game. Especially if it doesn't continue right from where the main game left off. Does the DLC have more of a "complete" ending?
What were you're thoughts on the game? How did you initially feel after getting your first ending? Which ending did you get?