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2024.05.16 13:05 Conscious_Piglet7301 AITAH for being upset that my husband has lied to me repeatedly?
I’ve been with my husband for 2 years now, married 6 months. I caught him out in a pretty big lie last weekend and it’s unravelled so many things. So many times that I thought that what he was saying was strange, or seemed far-fetched all make sense now. The lies aren’t even big or to hide something that would hurt someone’s feelings, it’s just small stuff but the lie is what makes it huge for me. I’ll give a couple of examples to provide a bit of context:
EXAMPLE 1
When we met he in May 2022, he told me he had tried to kill himself in a car crash when he was 19, that it was a split second decision and to never tell his parents because it would crush them. I dutifully kept his secret.
A few days ago, I found out that there was someone else in the car from an offhand comment made by one of his parents. When I asked him later why he had lied about it, he said that he didn’t remember the crash, has no memories before or for a while after. I asked why he would try to kill himself with someone else in the car. He maintained that “it was a bit about killing myself”, before restating that he had no memory and “I don’t know what to tell you”. Very defensive, yelling and crying.
I asked him again a couple of days later (in one of our attempts to resolve the situation) saying that either he has lied to me since we met, or he tried to take someone else out with him. He said he didn’t remember but that he thought it was suicide because he was so deeply unhappy at that time in his life. I said “so you tried to take your girlfriend out with you? Because that’s murder”. He then said he didnt know the real reason. I then asked why he would definitively tell me it was a suicide attempt if he didn’t know the real reason. He couldn’t tell me. I then asked why he seemed to remember specifics when I asked him at the start of the relationship (“I was driving home from dads after dinner, it was a split second decision”) but now couldn’t even tell me if it was an accident or suicide. Admitted that it was silly to claim suicide attempt, but still didnt admit to lying.
EXAMPLE 2
I received a black sapphire bracelet from my mum for Christmas last year. Boxing Day, he told me that “oh black sapphire! it’s just like the ring mum got you”. I asked him what he was talking about, and he said he didn't know. I said “no, your mum got me emerald earrings”. He said “ah yes that’s what I must have been thinking about”. I knew something was up but I left it at that because we were at family's house.
Later I asked him directly if his mum had given a black sapphire ring to his ex. He said no, he was just confused about the earrings. I said I wouldn’t care, but that I don't want to be lied to. He said no, he was just confused.
Two weeks later his mum was on the phone on speaker (she didn't realise she was on speaker) and she said “I’ve asked for that sapphire ring back from [ex] and given it to [sister in law]”. I told him “I fucking knew it, why did you lie to me?” He said he didn't remember and that he genuinely got confused, and that he was “an idiot” for not remembering. I told him I’d be far more upset about being lied to than I would about a gift your mum gave to someone before we met. He said “I know, and that’s why I’m not lying to you!”
In all the other current issues going on, I brought this issue up again in the context of the other lies. The conversation went like this:
Me: Why did you lie to me about that, even when your mum mentioned it? Him: I already told you, I got confused, I totally forgot Me: How did you forget when I asked you directly, with specifics? I asked you “Did your mum give a black sapphire ring to [ex’s name]” and you told me no. Him: I got my wires crossed, I was talking about the earrings Me: but you specifically mentioned a black sapphire ring, which was exactly what it was. Him: I don’t remember who she gave it to. Me: So you do remember there was a ring… then why didn’t it jog your memory when I asked you directly? Him: I already apologised for this, we’ve been through this Me: What? No, after your mum got off the phone, you told me again that you’d forgot about it and you couldn’t remember anything about it. Him: Yeah, after the phone call with mum - we had a conversation the next day which I vividly remember where I told you I lied so as not to hurt your feelings.
I have no recollection of this conversation, but it would directly contradict claims he made seconds prior about ‘getting his wires crossed’, thinking it was about my earrings, and having no memory of it. When I asked why he had contradicted himself, he said he didn’t understand.
There are actually many more examples like this, but over and over again, I’ve told him that I can handle the truth, but begged him not to lie to me. I caught him out in a lie in the first couple of months of us dating. When he said it was to protect my feelings, I told him that I would rather the truth than a lie from him. He promised never to lie to me again.
Over the last couple of years, he has sent me texts like:
“I felt absolutely stupid and embarrassed when I lied to you ages ago. And I told you it will not happen again. And it hasn’t.”
“I don’t lie to you”
“I’m so glad I have you. I can be my true self with you. I love the complete openness and honesty in our relationship. All we want is the best for one another”
”I asked myself something last night about us. Just in quiet reflection. Would I tell you everything and anything even if it would upset you? Like would I even make up little white lies to avoid anything crappy and I was like nah. I am cellophane with you. But frosted glass with everyone else”
“I love you so much. I promise to tell you everything and always devote myself to you”
He has repeatedly told me that he would never lie to me as “you know everything anyway, do you think I could lie to you?”
When faced with all of the above, he admits that he's got a problem with lying and says he’s turned a new leaf, that he knows what he needs to do, and that from now on it will be complete honesty.
In light of everything, how do I know that this is the truth, and not another lie?? All of my trust in him has gone, along with any respect I had for him. Everything he's saying to me just feels like lip service.
I know the above seems like a lot, but I’m only asking so many questions about these issues and others in the last couple of days because suddenly everything is making sense. A number of events that I went “huh, that’s weird” over the last two years but took him at face value and brushed off are all coming back into focus. I’m trying to get him to admit to lying for things that I know for a fact he has lied about. I’m trying to get him to understand that he can’t just give me something that doesn’t make sense and expect me to believe it.
HE is the one who asks me daily to talk about the issues we're facing, to tell how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking etc. He brings it up, so I explain to him what doesn't make sense to me or what I'm trying to process.
I ask him questions so that I can understand what his story is, and how that interacts with the facts that I know. When he’s defensive and contradicting himself instead of being honest and saying “yeah I made that up”. The fact that I’ve told him that I just want the truth and he still can’t admit to it indicates that there’s a problem - I even held a “safe space lie amnesty” a couple of days ago where I said I just wanted to know what he’s lied about so we can move forward. A lie you’ve gotten yourself tangled in is one thing. Repeated and continuous lying even in the face of contradictory facts is concerning. Despite my repeatedly telling him I can handle the truth, he maintains lies that have no value. Most of the lies he's told me couldn't even be considered to be for a reason - if it was to protect my feelings I'd get it, but some of them are just for attention.
These are not two isolated incidents, these are two of maybe ten events that I can recall from the last 2 years that have always been weird to me, but I kinda brushed them under the rug until recently when I realised there was something else going on.
I don’t think it’s too much to ask from a man who has repeatedly told me how much he values the honesty and openness in our relationship to show me those same values. He is not a man who has ever even indicated that he wanted to have his own space or privacy, in fact, he jumped into the relationship with "we should have each other's phone passcodes and be able to look at it whenever we want because we have absolutely nooooooo secrets". That was a bit of a shock to my system, but I thought 'hey, if this man wants full transparency and openness then let's go for it'.
Sometimes I’m furious and can’t stand the sight of him and other times I think it’s not such a big deal. I don’t know if I even really know how I feel about it. Sometimes merely annoyed, other times completely betrayed.
So…. AITAH for considering ending the marriage?
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EXAMPLE 1
When we met he in May 2022, he told me he had tried to kill himself in a car crash when he was 19, that it was a split second decision and to never tell his parents because it would crush them. I dutifully kept his secret.
A few days ago, I found out that there was someone else in the car from an offhand comment made by one of his parents. When I asked him later why he had lied about it, he said that he didn’t remember the crash, has no memories before or for a while after. I asked why he would try to kill himself with someone else in the car. He maintained that “it was a bit about killing myself”, before restating that he had no memory and “I don’t know what to tell you”. Very defensive, yelling and crying.
I asked him again a couple of days later (in one of our attempts to resolve the situation) saying that either he has lied to me since we met, or he tried to take someone else out with him. He said he didn’t remember but that he thought it was suicide because he was so deeply unhappy at that time in his life. I said “so you tried to take your girlfriend out with you? Because that’s murder”. He then said he didnt know the real reason. I then asked why he would definitively tell me it was a suicide attempt if he didn’t know the real reason. He couldn’t tell me. I then asked why he seemed to remember specifics when I asked him at the start of the relationship (“I was driving home from dads after dinner, it was a split second decision”) but now couldn’t even tell me if it was an accident or suicide. Admitted that it was silly to claim suicide attempt, but still didnt admit to lying.
EXAMPLE 2
I received a black sapphire bracelet from my mum for Christmas last year. Boxing Day, he told me that “oh black sapphire! it’s just like the ring mum got you”. I asked him what he was talking about, and he said he didn't know. I said “no, your mum got me emerald earrings”. He said “ah yes that’s what I must have been thinking about”. I knew something was up but I left it at that because we were at family's house.
Later I asked him directly if his mum had given a black sapphire ring to his ex. He said no, he was just confused about the earrings. I said I wouldn’t care, but that I don't want to be lied to. He said no, he was just confused.
Two weeks later his mum was on the phone on speaker (she didn't realise she was on speaker) and she said “I’ve asked for that sapphire ring back from [ex] and given it to [sister in law]”. I told him “I fucking knew it, why did you lie to me?” He said he didn't remember and that he genuinely got confused, and that he was “an idiot” for not remembering. I told him I’d be far more upset about being lied to than I would about a gift your mum gave to someone before we met. He said “I know, and that’s why I’m not lying to you!”
In all the other current issues going on, I brought this issue up again in the context of the other lies. The conversation went like this:
Me: Why did you lie to me about that, even when your mum mentioned it? Him: I already told you, I got confused, I totally forgot Me: How did you forget when I asked you directly, with specifics? I asked you “Did your mum give a black sapphire ring to [ex’s name]” and you told me no. Him: I got my wires crossed, I was talking about the earrings Me: but you specifically mentioned a black sapphire ring, which was exactly what it was. Him: I don’t remember who she gave it to. Me: So you do remember there was a ring… then why didn’t it jog your memory when I asked you directly? Him: I already apologised for this, we’ve been through this Me: What? No, after your mum got off the phone, you told me again that you’d forgot about it and you couldn’t remember anything about it. Him: Yeah, after the phone call with mum - we had a conversation the next day which I vividly remember where I told you I lied so as not to hurt your feelings.
I have no recollection of this conversation, but it would directly contradict claims he made seconds prior about ‘getting his wires crossed’, thinking it was about my earrings, and having no memory of it. When I asked why he had contradicted himself, he said he didn’t understand.
There are actually many more examples like this, but over and over again, I’ve told him that I can handle the truth, but begged him not to lie to me. I caught him out in a lie in the first couple of months of us dating. When he said it was to protect my feelings, I told him that I would rather the truth than a lie from him. He promised never to lie to me again.
Over the last couple of years, he has sent me texts like:
“I felt absolutely stupid and embarrassed when I lied to you ages ago. And I told you it will not happen again. And it hasn’t.”
“I don’t lie to you”
“I’m so glad I have you. I can be my true self with you. I love the complete openness and honesty in our relationship. All we want is the best for one another”
”I asked myself something last night about us. Just in quiet reflection. Would I tell you everything and anything even if it would upset you? Like would I even make up little white lies to avoid anything crappy and I was like nah. I am cellophane with you. But frosted glass with everyone else”
“I love you so much. I promise to tell you everything and always devote myself to you”
He has repeatedly told me that he would never lie to me as “you know everything anyway, do you think I could lie to you?”
When faced with all of the above, he admits that he's got a problem with lying and says he’s turned a new leaf, that he knows what he needs to do, and that from now on it will be complete honesty.
In light of everything, how do I know that this is the truth, and not another lie?? All of my trust in him has gone, along with any respect I had for him. Everything he's saying to me just feels like lip service.
I know the above seems like a lot, but I’m only asking so many questions about these issues and others in the last couple of days because suddenly everything is making sense. A number of events that I went “huh, that’s weird” over the last two years but took him at face value and brushed off are all coming back into focus. I’m trying to get him to admit to lying for things that I know for a fact he has lied about. I’m trying to get him to understand that he can’t just give me something that doesn’t make sense and expect me to believe it.
HE is the one who asks me daily to talk about the issues we're facing, to tell how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking etc. He brings it up, so I explain to him what doesn't make sense to me or what I'm trying to process.
I ask him questions so that I can understand what his story is, and how that interacts with the facts that I know. When he’s defensive and contradicting himself instead of being honest and saying “yeah I made that up”. The fact that I’ve told him that I just want the truth and he still can’t admit to it indicates that there’s a problem - I even held a “safe space lie amnesty” a couple of days ago where I said I just wanted to know what he’s lied about so we can move forward. A lie you’ve gotten yourself tangled in is one thing. Repeated and continuous lying even in the face of contradictory facts is concerning. Despite my repeatedly telling him I can handle the truth, he maintains lies that have no value. Most of the lies he's told me couldn't even be considered to be for a reason - if it was to protect my feelings I'd get it, but some of them are just for attention.
These are not two isolated incidents, these are two of maybe ten events that I can recall from the last 2 years that have always been weird to me, but I kinda brushed them under the rug until recently when I realised there was something else going on.
I don’t think it’s too much to ask from a man who has repeatedly told me how much he values the honesty and openness in our relationship to show me those same values. He is not a man who has ever even indicated that he wanted to have his own space or privacy, in fact, he jumped into the relationship with "we should have each other's phone passcodes and be able to look at it whenever we want because we have absolutely nooooooo secrets". That was a bit of a shock to my system, but I thought 'hey, if this man wants full transparency and openness then let's go for it'.
Sometimes I’m furious and can’t stand the sight of him and other times I think it’s not such a big deal. I don’t know if I even really know how I feel about it. Sometimes merely annoyed, other times completely betrayed.
So…. AITAH for considering ending the marriage?
2024.05.16 13:04 Puginator Walmart earnings beat as discounter wins over more high-income shoppers
Walmart on Thursday topped quarterly revenue and earnings expectations, as the discounter made significant e-commerce gains, drove profits with newer businesses like advertising and won over more high-income shoppers.
The big-box retailer said it now expects to hit the high-end or slightly top its previous full-year guidance. Walmart had expected net sales growth of 3% to 4% and adjusted earnings per share of between $2.23 and $2.37.
In an interview with CNBC, Chief Financial Officer John David Rainey said one of the factors boosting Walmart’s grocery business is the widening gap between the price of cooking at home and buying food at restaurants.
Plus, he added, shoppers – especially with higher-incomes – appreciate the convenience that Walmart offers. For the first time, its delivery business surpassed its store pickup in terms of volume, Rainey said.
“We’ve got customers that are coming to us more frequently than they have before and newer customers that we haven’t traditionally had, and they’re coming into a Walmart whether it’s a virtual store online, or whether it’s one of our physical stores,” he said.
Here’s what the discounter reported for the three-month period that ended April 30 compared with what Wall Street expected, according to a survey of analysts by LSEG:
Earnings per share: 60 cents adjusted vs. 52 cents expected
Revenue: $161.51 billion vs. $159.50 billion
Walmart’s net income jumped to $5.10 billion, or 63 cents per share, compared with $1.67 billion, or 21 cents per share, in the year-ago period.
Revenue climbed 6% from $152.30 billion in the year-ago quarter. That increase includes a benefit of roughly 1% from an additional selling day in the period.
As the nation’s largest retailer and private employer, Walmart is often viewed as a bellwether for the U.S. economy. Yet it has generally fared better during an inflationary period than other retailers because it sells staples like groceries and has a value-oriented reputation. That trend continued in the quarter, as the company
Same-store sales for Walmart U.S. climbed by 3.8%, excluding fuel. The industry metric includes sales from stores and clubs open for at least a year. At Sam’s Club, same-store sales rose 4.4% year over year, excluding fuel.
E-commerce sales shot up by 22% year over year for Walmart U.S., fueled by store pickup and delivery of online orders, as well as the company’s growing third-party marketplace.
The company also grew high-margin businesses like advertising as it pushes to increase its earnings faster than its sales.
Source: https://www.cnbc.com/2024/05/16/walmart-wmt-q1-2025-earnings-.html
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The big-box retailer said it now expects to hit the high-end or slightly top its previous full-year guidance. Walmart had expected net sales growth of 3% to 4% and adjusted earnings per share of between $2.23 and $2.37.
In an interview with CNBC, Chief Financial Officer John David Rainey said one of the factors boosting Walmart’s grocery business is the widening gap between the price of cooking at home and buying food at restaurants.
Plus, he added, shoppers – especially with higher-incomes – appreciate the convenience that Walmart offers. For the first time, its delivery business surpassed its store pickup in terms of volume, Rainey said.
“We’ve got customers that are coming to us more frequently than they have before and newer customers that we haven’t traditionally had, and they’re coming into a Walmart whether it’s a virtual store online, or whether it’s one of our physical stores,” he said.
Here’s what the discounter reported for the three-month period that ended April 30 compared with what Wall Street expected, according to a survey of analysts by LSEG:
Earnings per share: 60 cents adjusted vs. 52 cents expected
Revenue: $161.51 billion vs. $159.50 billion
Walmart’s net income jumped to $5.10 billion, or 63 cents per share, compared with $1.67 billion, or 21 cents per share, in the year-ago period.
Revenue climbed 6% from $152.30 billion in the year-ago quarter. That increase includes a benefit of roughly 1% from an additional selling day in the period.
As the nation’s largest retailer and private employer, Walmart is often viewed as a bellwether for the U.S. economy. Yet it has generally fared better during an inflationary period than other retailers because it sells staples like groceries and has a value-oriented reputation. That trend continued in the quarter, as the company
Same-store sales for Walmart U.S. climbed by 3.8%, excluding fuel. The industry metric includes sales from stores and clubs open for at least a year. At Sam’s Club, same-store sales rose 4.4% year over year, excluding fuel.
E-commerce sales shot up by 22% year over year for Walmart U.S., fueled by store pickup and delivery of online orders, as well as the company’s growing third-party marketplace.
The company also grew high-margin businesses like advertising as it pushes to increase its earnings faster than its sales.
Source: https://www.cnbc.com/2024/05/16/walmart-wmt-q1-2025-earnings-.html
2024.05.16 13:04 ajgriff2007 My first ever mini!!
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2024.05.16 13:03 fishda_ni_chiel Grabe talaga ang girl instinct no?
My Bf (M18) and I (F18) were together for almost 2 years tapos 9 months officially in a relationship. My very first bf. Kahapon habang nasa salon ako, nakipagbreak na sya sa'kin. Nalaman ko sa iba na magkasama pala sila for three days sa isang city. Alam ko non na umalis sya kasi may tournament, pero ang hindi ko alam ay kasama pala si girl. Kaya naman pala lagi na syang hatid-sundo lately. Sinabi ko naman sa kanya noon na uncomfortable ako na nagpapahatid sundo sa kanya tong si girl, di pa rin sya dumistansya at nagalit pa sakin kasi pinapalayo ko raw sya sa mga tropa nya. Tapos e di nakipagbreak nga diba, same day nagpost ng tiktok si girl na nagsasayaw silang dalawa sa bahay ni girl (kung san sila lang ang tao). Sa tingin nyo ba katulong nya si girl magcompose ng break up message sakin? Tapos nahuli ko rin sila sa court magkasamang nanood. Hindi ko na sya kinakausap non kasi iniisip ko magpapamiss lang ako (that same night ko nalaman na magkasama pala sila for three days). Nanlumo talaga ako tapos naiiyak iyak na ako sa court. Thankfully my friends were there. Nag usap kami ni girl kagabi kasi habang inistalk ko sya, napindot ko yung call haha malas. Tapos tinaggi nya na magkasama sila tapos sabi nya didistansya raw muna sya para wala raw ako isipin, e nakita ko sila kaninang magkaangkas. Tapos sabi pa ni girl sakin "di naman kita mapipilit e kung ayaw mo maniwala". Kaya ayun. Grabe ang betrayal na naranasan ko at hindi ko alam kung paano sya ihandle. Yung usap namin ni girl is, kontrolado ko sinasabi ko kasi she's known na mambabaliktad kaya ayaw ko na baliktarin nila ako. Anong magandang gawin? Alak lang takbuhan ko ngayon tapos iyak ako nang iyak kasi sobrang sakit.
Take note: GUY:
nasa kabilang room lang sya, athlete, mayroong detachment style, he treated me so good na hindi ako naghinala the whole time, galante, gift-giving at physical touch love language nya, sagot nya lahat ng dates namin at binibigyan nya ako ng mga gifts, sumasagot din naman ako pero mas madalas talaga ay sya at active din kami (we practice it safe) around march hindi na sya nagdadala ng cp nya around me at ang reason nya lagi ay "lowbatt naman e kaya di ko na dinala", tapos ang reason nya sa break up namin ay "ramdam nyang ayaw ko na raw" kasi siguro hindi ako nagparamdam for a day kasi yun nga yung nagpapamiss ako, at sabi nya sakin "may ginawa ka at sa iba ko pa nalaman" nung tinanong ko kung ano yun wala syang masabi. I am very confident na loyal akong gf at wala akong ginawa nyang hindi nya magugustuhan.
GIRL:
Galing sa abusive rs, nagsself harm(that's y takot akong iconfront sya kasi ayaw ko maging reason kung bat sya masasaktan), kagroup ko sa research (buhat), may record ng cheating at pambabaliktad, play bunny sya ng circle of friends ng ex ko, ex nya ay tropa ni guy tapos yung ex na rin nya na yun ay galing sa tropa nya
GINAWA KO WHILE KAMI: constant reassurance kasi madalas sya mag overthink, I dress the way he wants (di na nag sasando or tube sa labas, palaging oversized), ginagawa ko mga academic tasks nya since parehas kaming STEM at pareho naman ang subject teachers namin, binilhan ko sya ng skincare at tinuturuan manamit kung bagay ba or what, alagang alaga ko sya ate, nag ayos-ayos na sya nung naging kami. I like handicrafts kaya ipinaccrochet ko sya ganyan, mga love letter coz im a very sentimental person.
ewan ko rin ba kung paano kami napunta sa gantong sitwasyon, akala ko kami na talaga
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Take note: GUY:
nasa kabilang room lang sya, athlete, mayroong detachment style, he treated me so good na hindi ako naghinala the whole time, galante, gift-giving at physical touch love language nya, sagot nya lahat ng dates namin at binibigyan nya ako ng mga gifts, sumasagot din naman ako pero mas madalas talaga ay sya at active din kami (we practice it safe) around march hindi na sya nagdadala ng cp nya around me at ang reason nya lagi ay "lowbatt naman e kaya di ko na dinala", tapos ang reason nya sa break up namin ay "ramdam nyang ayaw ko na raw" kasi siguro hindi ako nagparamdam for a day kasi yun nga yung nagpapamiss ako, at sabi nya sakin "may ginawa ka at sa iba ko pa nalaman" nung tinanong ko kung ano yun wala syang masabi. I am very confident na loyal akong gf at wala akong ginawa nyang hindi nya magugustuhan.
GIRL:
Galing sa abusive rs, nagsself harm(that's y takot akong iconfront sya kasi ayaw ko maging reason kung bat sya masasaktan), kagroup ko sa research (buhat), may record ng cheating at pambabaliktad, play bunny sya ng circle of friends ng ex ko, ex nya ay tropa ni guy tapos yung ex na rin nya na yun ay galing sa tropa nya
GINAWA KO WHILE KAMI: constant reassurance kasi madalas sya mag overthink, I dress the way he wants (di na nag sasando or tube sa labas, palaging oversized), ginagawa ko mga academic tasks nya since parehas kaming STEM at pareho naman ang subject teachers namin, binilhan ko sya ng skincare at tinuturuan manamit kung bagay ba or what, alagang alaga ko sya ate, nag ayos-ayos na sya nung naging kami. I like handicrafts kaya ipinaccrochet ko sya ganyan, mga love letter coz im a very sentimental person.
ewan ko rin ba kung paano kami napunta sa gantong sitwasyon, akala ko kami na talaga
2024.05.16 13:03 Successful_Desk9814 Day 1 of no contact trial before a real no contact
Hey cuties, This is Jadid, an OCD, anxiety, and PTSD victim because of my biological dad. I fled to Europe from Macao in 2022. Today is my first day of using the excuse of not using "WeChat" (a social texting app in China, where it's the only place I have contact with my biological family). I don't actually use it anymore since I moved to europe.
I just want to update you all that I feel amazing going no contact, even though it's a trial before a real one. Why a trial? Because I just told them I needed quiet to focus on my master's thesis (it's true, but I can do it without). A real one is scheduled for later this year because I want to make sure I have enough money to survive on my own with my husband. (My biological father gives me some allowance.) Why go no contact? They physically abused me, destroyed my life, and said they don't want me to be happy at all. They consider it a sin to flee to Europe alone. Anyway, I just wanted to share this. It's a small achievement for me, and I can enjoy about a month of no contact before the real one. Maybe I'll get too excited and decide to go no contact permanently.
Ciao Have a nice day everyone Jadid
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I just want to update you all that I feel amazing going no contact, even though it's a trial before a real one. Why a trial? Because I just told them I needed quiet to focus on my master's thesis (it's true, but I can do it without). A real one is scheduled for later this year because I want to make sure I have enough money to survive on my own with my husband. (My biological father gives me some allowance.) Why go no contact? They physically abused me, destroyed my life, and said they don't want me to be happy at all. They consider it a sin to flee to Europe alone. Anyway, I just wanted to share this. It's a small achievement for me, and I can enjoy about a month of no contact before the real one. Maybe I'll get too excited and decide to go no contact permanently.
Ciao Have a nice day everyone Jadid
2024.05.16 13:03 Abnormal_Chemicals AITA for not telling my mom that I am in heart failure TW: medical issues, homophobia, verbal abuse
hey everyone, after the conversation I had with my brother I would like some input because I don't know how to feel anymore.
Backstory: I (f20) was born with a rare heart condition that caused me to grow up in and out of hospitals. My family was also all born in South America, except for me. Being born with this problem caused my family's U.S. vacation to turn into a 20-year (and counting)long stay. My culture is very conservative and women are held to an incredibly high beauty standard. Due to this, my mom (f62) has not always been the nicest to me, to put it lightly, which has led me to be in low contact with her for about 6 years now (she moved back to our country of origin after her and my dad divorced 16 years ago).
Onto the story: about a month and a half ago I was rushed to the hospital and ended up being diagnosed with congestive heart failure. Now I'm not going to lie, I am terrified. I told my dad right away but I am also low-contact/no-contact with my two siblings (m 36 & m 26) due to abuse and mistreatment. So last week I told M36 over text and he called me. We talked for about 40 minutes and he tried to convince me to tell Mom what was happening. Telling me that I will regret being LC with her and that whatever she has said or done in the past that has hurt me I have to forgive her and give her some grace because of the cultural differences and that she is "from another time" (called me satan when I came out, made fun of me and my body for any "imperfections", said my only worth is my U.S citizenship, etc) but that at the end of the day she is still my mom. He also went on about how I will "regret treating her this way" and how I need to stop being stubborn and allow her to be part of my life again.
I told him he is free to tell her because I lack the language skills to communicate such a serious issue to her in our native language, but that until she loves and accepts me for who I am, I will remain LC with her. He also went on about how I can't be so strict and expect everyone in my life to agree with my "lifestyle" I just need to learn how to brush that aside and not talk about it.
So Reddit (and Morgan/Justin/Alexandra/ THT guest), AITA for not telling my mom that I am in heart failure?
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Backstory: I (f20) was born with a rare heart condition that caused me to grow up in and out of hospitals. My family was also all born in South America, except for me. Being born with this problem caused my family's U.S. vacation to turn into a 20-year (and counting)long stay. My culture is very conservative and women are held to an incredibly high beauty standard. Due to this, my mom (f62) has not always been the nicest to me, to put it lightly, which has led me to be in low contact with her for about 6 years now (she moved back to our country of origin after her and my dad divorced 16 years ago).
Onto the story: about a month and a half ago I was rushed to the hospital and ended up being diagnosed with congestive heart failure. Now I'm not going to lie, I am terrified. I told my dad right away but I am also low-contact/no-contact with my two siblings (m 36 & m 26) due to abuse and mistreatment. So last week I told M36 over text and he called me. We talked for about 40 minutes and he tried to convince me to tell Mom what was happening. Telling me that I will regret being LC with her and that whatever she has said or done in the past that has hurt me I have to forgive her and give her some grace because of the cultural differences and that she is "from another time" (called me satan when I came out, made fun of me and my body for any "imperfections", said my only worth is my U.S citizenship, etc) but that at the end of the day she is still my mom. He also went on about how I will "regret treating her this way" and how I need to stop being stubborn and allow her to be part of my life again.
I told him he is free to tell her because I lack the language skills to communicate such a serious issue to her in our native language, but that until she loves and accepts me for who I am, I will remain LC with her. He also went on about how I can't be so strict and expect everyone in my life to agree with my "lifestyle" I just need to learn how to brush that aside and not talk about it.
So Reddit (and Morgan/Justin/Alexandra/ THT guest), AITA for not telling my mom that I am in heart failure?
2024.05.16 13:02 Fantastic_Ad_5919 My restored 23 Model 3 LR (history of restoration in pictures and description)
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2024.05.16 13:02 CharacterUnique7276 Hostinger vs Bluehost [2024] - Which is the Best Web Hosting Providers?
When comparing Hostinger and Bluehost for 2024, both have their strengths, making them suitable for different needs.
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Hostinger is known for its affordability and speed. It offers some of the fastest response times in the industry, averaging 143 ms, and a high uptime guarantee of 99.9%. Hostinger's plans are very cost-effective, especially for those looking for budget-friendly options. The performance and feature set of Hostinger, such as SSD storage, free SSL, and easy-to-use hPanel, make it a strong contender for small to medium websites and users with a tight budget HostAdvice Website Builder Expert
Bluehost, on the other hand, is slightly more expensive but offers excellent value for money with feature-rich plans. It includes a free domain for the first year, free CDN, and extensive customer support options, including phone support, which Hostinger lacks. Bluehost is particularly recommended for WordPress users due to its seamless integration and additional perks like marketing credits. It also has a solid uptime guarantee and reasonable load times, although not as fast as Hostinger's HostingAdvice.com Website Builder Expert.
2024.05.16 13:02 Andy_9394 Retrieving Memories: A Guide to see your Deleted Photos again
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For Windows Users - using free build-in tools For Windows Users - using Renee Undeleter For Mac Users - Using Built-in Utilities and third-party apps For iPhone/iPad users For Android Devices Efficiently Recovering Lost Memories from Digital Cameras Storage Preventive Measures: Tips to Avoid Future Photo Loss and Secure Your Memories Conclusion If you’ve found yourself in the unfortunate situation of having deleted photos, there’s no need to panic. It’s often possible to recover these images, whether you’re using a Windows PC, Mac, iPhone, or Android phone. This guide will provide you with straightforward instructions on how to utilize built-in system tools as well as reputable third-party software to retrieve your lost pictures. We will take you through each step to ensure you have the best chance of restoring your precious memories. Ready to get started? Let’s dive into the recovery process. For Windows Users - using free build-in toolsThe first method to retrieve recently deleted photos on a Windows PC is by using the built-in tools. These tools are readily available and can be accessed easily on your computer. They include the Recycle Bin, File History, and Windows File Recovery tool. Let’s dive into the detailed steps on how to use each of these tools to recover your precious memories.Check your Recycle Bin firstIn most cases, deleted photos are sent to recycle bin directly. You can easily see your deleted photos in Windows Recycle Bin.
If you have recently deleted photos from your computer, the first place to check is the Recycle Bin. This is a temporary storage location where deleted files are kept base on the settings on Windows(users can adjust settings that affect how long items remain in the Recycle Bin). If you have not cleared your Recycle Bin, there’s a high chance your photos are still there. Windows Recycle Bin Versions Step 2: Opening the Recycle Bin To access the Recycle Bin, double-click on the icon on your desktop or open the File Explorer and select “ Recycle Bin ” from the left menu. Step 3: Restoring the Photos Once you have opened the Recycle Bin, browse through the files to find the photos you want to recover. You can use the search bar at the top to search for specific photos. Once you have located the photos, right-click on them and select “ Restore ” to bring them back to their original location on your computer. Using File History(Previous Versions)If the photos you want to recover were stored on your computer’s hard drive, you can also use the File History feature to retrieve them. Keep in mind that this method only works if you had enabled File History at the time the photos were deleted.Step 1: Open File Explorer and navigate to the folder where the deleted photo was located. Step 2: Right-click on the folder and select “ Properties ” from the drop-down menu. folder properties Step 3: In the Properties window, click on the “ Previous Versions ” tab. Folder Properties Step 4: If available, you will see a list of previous versions of the folder with their timestamp and size. Select the version you want to restore and click on the “ Open ” button. This will open a window showing the contents of the selected version. From here, you can copy and paste the deleted photos to a new location on your device. After the process is complete, you should be able to find your deleted photos in their original location. If you have disabled System Protection or if your device ran out of disk space, there may be no available backups to recover from. You may find out how to enable file history here . Tips: It’s important to note that the Previous Versions feature is not a guarantee for file recovery. It is only available if System Protection is enabled and if a previous version of the file is available. Using Windows File Recovery ToolIf the above methods do not work, you can also use the Windows File Recovery tool to retrieve your deleted photos. This tool is available for Windows 10 and allows you to recover deleted files from your hard drive, external storage, and even SD cards.
https://preview.redd.it/2e6r8k37sr0d1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=be590ff6675a05aad72cbc32973218d22a085f26 Step 1: To begin using the Windows File Recovery tool, open the File Explorer and navigate to the folder where your deleted file was located. You can also search for the file by name using the search bar at the top of the File Explorer window. Step 2: Once you have located the folder or file, open the Command Prompt by pressing the Windows and R keys on your keyboard, typing “ cmd ” into the Run dialog, and pressing Enter . Alternatively, you can right-click on the Start menu and select “ Command Prompt ” from the list. Command Prompt Step 3: In the Command Prompt, type winfr source: destination and press Enter . The source refers to the drive where the deleted file was located, while the destination is where you want to recover the file to. For example, if you want to recover a file from drive C and save it to the desktop, you would type winfr C: C:\Users\YourUsername\Desktop Step 4: The tool will start running in either regular or extensive mode, depending on the size of the file and the current status of the drive. It may take some time for the tool to finish scanning and recovering the file, so be patient. https://preview.redd.it/r93xwq6esr0d1.png?width=1153&format=png&auto=webp&s=49ebadafe528c84fcfde22ec212b06c93faa7d7b Now that you have learned how to recover recently deleted photos using the built-in tools on your Windows computer, you can also check out our next chapter on “ For Windows Users – Renee Undeleter “. This tool offers more advanced features and can help you recover lost photos from various storage devices with ease. For Windows Users - using Renee UndeleterThose Windows build-in tools does not work for you? Don’t panic, there’s still a way to retrieve them with an advanced tool called Renee Undeleter. This tool offers more features and a higher success rate when it comes to recovering lost photos. Follow the detailed steps below to learn how to use it.Step 1: Download, install and run Renee Undeleter on your Windows computer. Renee Undeleter - Powerful Data Recovery Software Easy to use Only simple steps to recover data from storage devices. Multiple scan modes Fast partition scan, whole partition scan and whole disk scan for different recovery needs. File types Support to recover pictures, videos, audios, documents, mails, etc. Supported storage devices Recover data from recycle bin , SD card , external disk , etc. Supported systems Windows 10, 8.1, 8, 7, Vista, XP, 2000 and Mac OS X10.6, 10.7, 10.8. Free Trial (Win) Free Trial (Mac) Step 2: Select the [Fast Partition Scan] option in the main interface. Please avoid installing the software on the disk containing the data to be recovered in order to prevent data overwriting. Also, refrain from saving new data to the same disk partition after a file is lost to avoid further damage or complete loss of the lost file. https://preview.redd.it/rdq6r3rgsr0d1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=1d609dbf90ed6c1d1cf00ef93fb87c48c944b045 Step 3: Next, select the partition where the lost data is located, and click [Next]. https://preview.redd.it/ff63zhhhsr0d1.png?width=1008&format=png&auto=webp&s=664077cc57d93fc56482f55167ea0ecdbef70bc3 Step 4: Select the [Fast Scan] option and click the [Next] button to scan. The [Fast Scan] mode scans the initial 30GB of available space on the chosen disk. If desired files are not found, the [Deep Scan] mode can be used for a thorough scan of the hard disk partition, though it will require additional time. https://preview.redd.it/8ngbd68isr0d1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=aae7426b166fd59903417f0d145dc50339ba8a9e Step 5: Wait for the scan to complete you can double-click the file to preview, then check the files that need to be recovered, and click the [Recover] button to recover the files to other disks. https://preview.redd.it/x5gfbkzksr0d1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=1ef706bbb619a15524b426613feb49fd81f65ebb
For Mac Users - Using Built-in Utilities and third-party appsBuilt-in UtilitiesTime Machine: The First Line of DefenseFor Mac users seeking to retrieve deleted photos, Time Machine stands as the premier built-in utility. To access it, connect the drive where your backups are stored, click on the Time Machine icon in the menu bar, and choose “ Enter Time Machine “. From here, you can navigate back to the date before the photo’s deletion and click “ Restore ” to recover your image. Ensure you have Time Machine set up and running before any data loss occurs. https://preview.redd.it/buewfjvmsr0d1.png?width=321&format=png&auto=webp&s=c5e0ea778c5c1ea9dd73b3c85c2f5a6aa38b542f Retrieving from the Photos App The Photos application on macOS, replacing older apps like iPhoto and Aperture, also offers a safeguard against accidental deletion. Within the Photos app, deleted pictures are moved to the “ Recently Deleted ” album where they stay for 30 days before permanent removal. To restore, simply select the desired photo(s) and press “ Recover “. The chronological library and the ability to sort into albums make managing and retrieving your photos straightforward. https://preview.redd.it/z14psipnsr0d1.png?width=767&format=png&auto=webp&s=f5261d684dee6e2963efb3bffe392a3fdc64682d Utilizing Photo Booth for Recovery In instances where you’ve used Photo Booth —a camera application that comes standard with macOS—deleted photos might be recoverable if they were recently removed. Check the app’s library for thumbnails of saved images, as they may still be present. Although recovery options within Photo Booth are limited, the thumbnails provide a quick visual reference for recently captured images that may have been deleted elsewhere on your system. https://preview.redd.it/af9f9d9osr0d1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=a0ff202570887440442bc840b0964a0c2a923a92 Third-party apps/serviceThird-Party Data Recovery SoftwareWhen built-in options fall short, Mac users can turn to third-party software such as Undeleter , Disk Drill or PhotoRec for more robust recovery capabilities. These applications perform deep scans and can often recover files that are no longer visible to the user. They operate on the principle of file signatures, allowing them to identify various data types, including photos, and attempt to restore them. Remember to halt all use of the storage device immediately after data loss to prevent overwriting your deleted files. https://preview.redd.it/8h9qn95psr0d1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=1439161ffe9afca04fd1f6eb5d2bcb76b1411311 Professional Data Recovery Services If all software-based methods fail to yield results, and the photos are irreplaceable, seeking professional data recovery services may be the next step. Despite being more expensive, these services provide specialized recovery techniques, particularly in cases of physical damage to storage media, offering the highest probability of retrieval for your valuable memories.
For iPhone/iPad usersUnderstanding the “Recently Deleted” AlbumOn an iPhone, deleted photos first move to the “Recently Deleted” album within the Photos app. They remain there for 30 days, providing an immediate recovery option without the need for additional software. During this period, you can simply select the photos and tap “Recover” to restore them back to your main library. https://preview.redd.it/jvce0weqsr0d1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=11e8d7c52018ef08109e174f56982154e104238a
When the “Recently Deleted” album is no longer an option, specialized software like Renee iPhone Recovery , Dr. Fone, iMyFone Data Recovery, and PhoneRescue can help. These tools attempt to recover lost data from deep within the iPhone’s storage. Although results can vary, many of these programs offer a preview feature to identify recoverable photos before purchase. Recovering from Other Devices and Cloud Services If third-party tools fail, check if the lost photos exist on other synced devices such as an iPad or a Mac . Cloud services like iCloud are also worth exploring, as they may have automatically backed up your photos. Additionally, images shared on social platforms may serve as an inadvertent backup.
While professional data recovery services can sometimes salvage photos that software cannot, they come at a significant cost and with no success guarantees. Such services should be a last resort, typically for irreplaceable photos, and it’s advisable to inquire about the likelihood of recovery before committing. For Android Devices EfficientlyIn today’s digital age, we use our smartphones to capture and store our precious memories in the form of photos. But what happens when we accidentally delete these photos? Thankfully, there are ways to retrieve them on Android devices efficiently. In this chapter, we will guide you through several methods to recover deleted photos on your Android device.Step 1: Check Your Google Photos Trash If you use Google Photos to back up your photos, then your deleted photos may still be in the trash for up to 60 days. To check, open the Google Photos app, tap on the three lines in the top left corner, and select “ Trash ” from the menu. If your photos are in the trash, tap on them and select “ Restore “. This will move the photos back to your main library. https://preview.redd.it/nsm726tssr0d1.png?width=600&format=png&auto=webp&s=f4c2f1726e0779954978bdbc5e168de91421c1de Step 2: Use Your Device’s Gallery App If you have deleted a photo from Google Photos, but it’s still on your device, then you can use your device’s gallery app to delete it. Simply open the gallery app, find the photo, and delete it. This will permanently remove the photo from your device. Step 3: Try OneDrive Recycle Bin If you have OneDrive backup set up on your Android device, then you can try recovering your deleted photos from the recycle bin. To do so, follow these steps:
If you have photos stored on an SD card and they have been deleted, you can try recovering them by removing the SD card from your device and connecting it to a computer. You will need a card reader to do this. Step 5: Use Data Recovery Software If all else fails, you can try using data recovery software to retrieve your deleted photos on your Android device. There are many options available, but do thorough research and choose a reputable and reliable software to use.
Recovering Lost Memories from Digital Cameras StorageStorage media like SD cards are indispensable for digital cameras but can succumb to many forms of data loss, such as accidental deletion or card corruption. Water, heat, and even seemingly innocuous actions like ejecting the card during a write process can compromise the integrity of the data. For instance, exposure to moisture not only risks electronic failure but can also lead to data corruption, affecting the stored images on the SD card .Immediate Response to Data Loss When data loss is detected, the initial response is critical. Ceasing all operations on the digital camera’s storage device is paramount. Users should avoid capturing new images or attempting to access the card with other devices, which can lead to overwriting the lost data, rendering it irrecoverable, data only appear to be gone but are actually waiting to be overwritten. Preventive Measures: Tips to Avoid Future Photo Loss and Secure Your MemoriesWhile it’s great to have methods for recovering deleted photos, it’s always better to not lose them in the first place. The recovery process may not always be successful, and it’s time-consuming. To avoid the stress of lost images, here are some preventive measures you can take:Step 1: Regularly Back Up Your Photos Protect your memories by regularly backing up photos using built-in utilities, third-party tools, or cloud services. Choose a weekly or monthly schedule and promptly back up new images after events or before system updates. Windows users can use File History, and Mac users can use iCloud for security. Step 2:Create multiple partitions. Organize photos into dedicated folders or create separate partitions on your storage device to minimize accidental formatting and allow space for backups, enhancing photo protection. You can use Disk Utility on Macs to create multiple partitions on your external hard drive. Step 3:Never write new photos to the same place as lost images. If you’ve accidentally deleted photos, it’s important to stop using the device or storage media that contained the lost files. This is because the data is still physically on the device until it is overwritten. If you continue to use the device, you risk overwriting or corrupting the lost files, making it difficult to recover them. If you’ve accidentally deleted photos from your camera’s SD card, remove the card and do not use it until you’ve attempted the recovery process. Step 4:Auto-upload photos to the cloud. Many devices have the option to automatically send your photos to the cloud, providing a backup that extends beyond your device. This eliminates the need for manual backups and offers additional storage space through your cloud provider. Popular services like Google Photos and iCloud make it easy to store and access your photos. You can enable auto-upload for your photos on your iPhone through the iCloud settings. ConclusionPhotographs are precious memories, and losing them to deletion or technical issues can be devastating. Our guide helps you recover lost photos from various devices, explaining the “recently deleted” folder and providing step-by-step recovery instructions for Windows, Mac, iPhone, Android, and digital cameras. We highlight tools like Renee Undeleter for easier recovery and offer tips for backing up and managing files to protect your photos. This guide ensures you can restore and secure your memories for the future.Relate Links :How to Recover Deleted Photos from Your Hard DiskWhere Do Deleted Files Go? Exploring the Different Paths Navigating USB Device Data Deletion: Where Do Deleted Files Go? Uncovering the Mystery: Where Do Deleted Photos Go? |
2024.05.16 13:02 EskimoB9 Technical support woes
Tl:Dr: So I started a new job last week. Tech support t1 for €35k in Ireland. So I recently quit said job because it wasn't what was said it was going to be. Got sick for the second week and quit today.
Also on mobile so format may be shit, don't care. Any spelling mistakes are my own, and I own that. Also please don't share this on any other platform.
Storytime:
So some background I applied for t2 for an ecommerce company (think shopify but not shopify) back at the end of January, which was perfect, when my department was closing at the start of January. Was advised that the job was 70% emails, 20% live chat, 10% IBC and obcs. Which as someone who hasn't done calls really in 6 maybe more years, sounded perfect, mostly emails and live chat are my jam. Can do that work for days because I hit my targets mid week and just close out cases for my last 2 days in the week.
So interaction with the recruiter was brilliant, and told me all the things I wanted to hear. Start time anywhere between 6 and 9 am. Latest I would be in would be 6pm (which is perfect so I can get dinner done before the missus gets home), I would be t2, writing scripts and fixing issues not a problem. Some weekend work was advised but not often (once a month for 1 day type of thing).
The 1st round interview was the general, where you worked, what you expected from the role, and all that. Grand out, was over prepared, so that's always good. Finished the interview and seems all good.
Assessment was to design a store (that was easy but their ui is a bit stupid) and submit before the end date. Got the store done easy, got someone else to review and double check it.
No word for about 2 months. Got an email in March saying they are looking for an April start date if they have the head count for t2.
the 2nd round was at the end of March, 2 weeks before the start date originally provided. Aced the interview, no issues, got good background in cxc and tech sup over 12 years.
Was told in the interview it would be the end of the week as the start date is now May not April. The following day, the recruiter rings and says a good interview should be this week (a week earlier than the interviewers said) when a result will be announced.
2 weeks goes by, no notice, emailed once to see if things are all OK, if there were any issues, if I could supply references. No word, no response, nothing, I started getting worried.
1 week before the May start date (now 5 months living off my savings. now stressing about work) gets a call. Gets offered a job, but as t1 because they are hiring 3 t1s and a product service engineer instead of 1 t2 and a pse.
Accept an offer for 35k instead of 45k for t1. Less responsible and same hours and benefits they said.
The training starts (elearning, just call it fucking learning, stop with putting e infront of everything) and it's 5 weeks of content condensed into 9 days (I would know, I trained a lot of people in my last team and knew the way to train others).
Lots of learning is grand, but the big test was daunting, but the presentation for the store we were building through training was going to be done by the two local manager, 2 local tech leads, 2 UK tls and 2uk tech leads, and the 4 tech leads and 4 tls from texas along with the coo. I mean no. Pressure for 7 days of modules and barely any classroom training (1.30hrs a day).
Was advised that 1 weekend a month is now 3 rotations of days, Tues-Sat, wed-Sunday, Thurs-Mon. Which is grand if you're into that lifestyle, but no, I want to spend time with my family, and partner. Also, instead of 6-9am start times, it's not 6-12am which means the latest I'll be in would be 10pm. 4 hours after my partner is finished work and also leaves 30 mins of interaction with her before she has to go to sleep for her 9-5.30.
First 3 months will be on a late shift because we will be nesting with a team over in the US, not in the EU. Which means we work their hours for 3 months on and 3 months off.
Tuesday, I broke down during training, thinking how I was going to deal with it. And suddenly I remembered after 31 years on this earth, and 14 years of working (started working around 17) I didn't have to deal with this shit.
Called into support, said I was sick, went home early (just logged off WFH) and sat down and called my doctor. Explained the situation, and was told to just leave, which was something I thought of during the weekend. So I quit.
I quit their lies, I quit their culture and I quit making myself worried sick because they really lied to me during the 5 months of interviews and such. I realised that I am more than a job, and I can find something else.
Remember folks, your mental health is not worth the money. You are not your job. And before I get asked, yes the missus is OK with me leaving, in fact encouraging me more so than anything. Yes I will get unemployment, but I will have to wait 6 weeks due to me leaving the job. And lastly I will send back their stuff because it will just take up space otherwise.
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Also on mobile so format may be shit, don't care. Any spelling mistakes are my own, and I own that. Also please don't share this on any other platform.
Storytime:
So some background I applied for t2 for an ecommerce company (think shopify but not shopify) back at the end of January, which was perfect, when my department was closing at the start of January. Was advised that the job was 70% emails, 20% live chat, 10% IBC and obcs. Which as someone who hasn't done calls really in 6 maybe more years, sounded perfect, mostly emails and live chat are my jam. Can do that work for days because I hit my targets mid week and just close out cases for my last 2 days in the week.
So interaction with the recruiter was brilliant, and told me all the things I wanted to hear. Start time anywhere between 6 and 9 am. Latest I would be in would be 6pm (which is perfect so I can get dinner done before the missus gets home), I would be t2, writing scripts and fixing issues not a problem. Some weekend work was advised but not often (once a month for 1 day type of thing).
The 1st round interview was the general, where you worked, what you expected from the role, and all that. Grand out, was over prepared, so that's always good. Finished the interview and seems all good.
Assessment was to design a store (that was easy but their ui is a bit stupid) and submit before the end date. Got the store done easy, got someone else to review and double check it.
No word for about 2 months. Got an email in March saying they are looking for an April start date if they have the head count for t2.
the 2nd round was at the end of March, 2 weeks before the start date originally provided. Aced the interview, no issues, got good background in cxc and tech sup over 12 years.
Was told in the interview it would be the end of the week as the start date is now May not April. The following day, the recruiter rings and says a good interview should be this week (a week earlier than the interviewers said) when a result will be announced.
2 weeks goes by, no notice, emailed once to see if things are all OK, if there were any issues, if I could supply references. No word, no response, nothing, I started getting worried.
1 week before the May start date (now 5 months living off my savings. now stressing about work) gets a call. Gets offered a job, but as t1 because they are hiring 3 t1s and a product service engineer instead of 1 t2 and a pse.
Accept an offer for 35k instead of 45k for t1. Less responsible and same hours and benefits they said.
The training starts (elearning, just call it fucking learning, stop with putting e infront of everything) and it's 5 weeks of content condensed into 9 days (I would know, I trained a lot of people in my last team and knew the way to train others).
Lots of learning is grand, but the big test was daunting, but the presentation for the store we were building through training was going to be done by the two local manager, 2 local tech leads, 2 UK tls and 2uk tech leads, and the 4 tech leads and 4 tls from texas along with the coo. I mean no. Pressure for 7 days of modules and barely any classroom training (1.30hrs a day).
Was advised that 1 weekend a month is now 3 rotations of days, Tues-Sat, wed-Sunday, Thurs-Mon. Which is grand if you're into that lifestyle, but no, I want to spend time with my family, and partner. Also, instead of 6-9am start times, it's not 6-12am which means the latest I'll be in would be 10pm. 4 hours after my partner is finished work and also leaves 30 mins of interaction with her before she has to go to sleep for her 9-5.30.
First 3 months will be on a late shift because we will be nesting with a team over in the US, not in the EU. Which means we work their hours for 3 months on and 3 months off.
Tuesday, I broke down during training, thinking how I was going to deal with it. And suddenly I remembered after 31 years on this earth, and 14 years of working (started working around 17) I didn't have to deal with this shit.
Called into support, said I was sick, went home early (just logged off WFH) and sat down and called my doctor. Explained the situation, and was told to just leave, which was something I thought of during the weekend. So I quit.
I quit their lies, I quit their culture and I quit making myself worried sick because they really lied to me during the 5 months of interviews and such. I realised that I am more than a job, and I can find something else.
Remember folks, your mental health is not worth the money. You are not your job. And before I get asked, yes the missus is OK with me leaving, in fact encouraging me more so than anything. Yes I will get unemployment, but I will have to wait 6 weeks due to me leaving the job. And lastly I will send back their stuff because it will just take up space otherwise.
2024.05.16 13:02 ThrowRA789012345 i forgave him for lying and talking to another girl
i (f19) have been talking to T (m21) for over a month. we’ve gone on so many successful dates and have spent almost every day together, talked on the phone every night, and were just about ready to start an official relationship with the implications that we loved each other until i found out today that he’s been talking to some 18 year old girl from another city since december. she had proof including screenshots of their chats and pictures they took together, both SFW and NSFW. they slept together the day after he took me on our first date. he’s been flirting with her every day that we’ve been talking, even during our dates, saying he’s with a friend.
when we confronted him he cried and begged for hours saying he just couldn’t hurt either of us and that she’s just a friend and he loves me. and i forgave him after he apologized so many times and swore what we had was real. i’m too ashamed to tell her or anyone else that i’m going to continue what we have. he stills seems so genuine to me and i adore him. i know this is a pretty big hiccup and some will say i have no respect for myself but i believe he deserves forgiveness and love and besides this behavior he was treating me so much kinder than any other man has and i’m afraid to be with someone else.
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when we confronted him he cried and begged for hours saying he just couldn’t hurt either of us and that she’s just a friend and he loves me. and i forgave him after he apologized so many times and swore what we had was real. i’m too ashamed to tell her or anyone else that i’m going to continue what we have. he stills seems so genuine to me and i adore him. i know this is a pretty big hiccup and some will say i have no respect for myself but i believe he deserves forgiveness and love and besides this behavior he was treating me so much kinder than any other man has and i’m afraid to be with someone else.
2024.05.16 13:01 Public_Key9617 1 Month Comprehensive Review - £75 amazon code - EBCA
1 Month Comprehensive Review - £75 amazon code - EBCA
Here is my review if useful.
Background: • I was with sky broadband for 10+ years - not a fibre line as not available in my area from Sky or any other provider. • The max Sky could give me was only 25 Mbps at a price of £37 pm after the April price rise • Knock on the door 26/03/2024 from BRSK sales rep stating that they will be installing fibre in my area. • No overhead telephone lines in my area as all lines are underground to the property • 05/04/2024 got a message that my area is now 'Live' • Signed up for BRSK on 12/04/24 - at a price of £28 pm for 500 Mbps + £3 pm for the BetterPhone Essential (+£12 one off phone line port fee) • Next day i had an engineer around to check the underground ducts weren't blocked and he was able to clear it without any issues on the day. • 17/04/2024 BRSK was fully installed by the engineer within a couple of hours and to a location i desired.
BRSK Review: • The whole installation process was done perfectly with great customer service by Phil. I was on the phone to him for an hour asking all sorts of questions as i had never heard of BRSK before and he was able to answer some technical questions. • Everything was up and running within a week from initial contact to installation - which was great as I had a week or so left to cancel my Sky broadband contract due to the price rise. Great speedy work for that BRSK! • Service - so far has been amazing, no issues! My devices are connected via WiFi and in the rooms near the router i'm getting 520 Mbps Download and Upload - more than the 500 i'm paying for. • Locations across the house - WiFi speed and strength does cut in half - as to be expected with WiFi - but better than what it was like with the Sky router. So no need for an extender like i needed with Sky. • No downtime so far - constant connection. • Gaming - using my xbox there was been no issues. Ping has been very stable at around 15-20 ms which is slightly better than i had with sky and much more stable now. No issues with Nat or any sort of jittepacket loss. Download speed of around 200 Mbps on my Xbox due to distance from router. • BetterPhone - porting landline from Sky took 12 days. I also needed to request a RJ11 to BT Adapter plug which took a few days but was provided for free when asked for. Quality - not as great as copper landline i had before but this may be down to the phone i have as 7+ years old, not sure.
Overall everything has been perfect so far with consistent speeds, no downtime and great customer service, all at a price cheaper than Sky and 20x faster. Couldn't be more happy so far! So with that being said i would highly recommend BRSK and what's better is no price rises during the 2 year contract!
If this review has been useful to you, please use the code below and we will both receive £75 amazon voucher codes: 😊
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Here is my review if useful.
Background: • I was with sky broadband for 10+ years - not a fibre line as not available in my area from Sky or any other provider. • The max Sky could give me was only 25 Mbps at a price of £37 pm after the April price rise • Knock on the door 26/03/2024 from BRSK sales rep stating that they will be installing fibre in my area. • No overhead telephone lines in my area as all lines are underground to the property • 05/04/2024 got a message that my area is now 'Live' • Signed up for BRSK on 12/04/24 - at a price of £28 pm for 500 Mbps + £3 pm for the BetterPhone Essential (+£12 one off phone line port fee) • Next day i had an engineer around to check the underground ducts weren't blocked and he was able to clear it without any issues on the day. • 17/04/2024 BRSK was fully installed by the engineer within a couple of hours and to a location i desired.
BRSK Review: • The whole installation process was done perfectly with great customer service by Phil. I was on the phone to him for an hour asking all sorts of questions as i had never heard of BRSK before and he was able to answer some technical questions. • Everything was up and running within a week from initial contact to installation - which was great as I had a week or so left to cancel my Sky broadband contract due to the price rise. Great speedy work for that BRSK! • Service - so far has been amazing, no issues! My devices are connected via WiFi and in the rooms near the router i'm getting 520 Mbps Download and Upload - more than the 500 i'm paying for. • Locations across the house - WiFi speed and strength does cut in half - as to be expected with WiFi - but better than what it was like with the Sky router. So no need for an extender like i needed with Sky. • No downtime so far - constant connection. • Gaming - using my xbox there was been no issues. Ping has been very stable at around 15-20 ms which is slightly better than i had with sky and much more stable now. No issues with Nat or any sort of jittepacket loss. Download speed of around 200 Mbps on my Xbox due to distance from router. • BetterPhone - porting landline from Sky took 12 days. I also needed to request a RJ11 to BT Adapter plug which took a few days but was provided for free when asked for. Quality - not as great as copper landline i had before but this may be down to the phone i have as 7+ years old, not sure.
Overall everything has been perfect so far with consistent speeds, no downtime and great customer service, all at a price cheaper than Sky and 20x faster. Couldn't be more happy so far! So with that being said i would highly recommend BRSK and what's better is no price rises during the 2 year contract!
If this review has been useful to you, please use the code below and we will both receive £75 amazon voucher codes: 😊
EBCA
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2024.05.16 13:01 Street_Swimmer3406 PS5 servers are Ez like the Steam ones?
I started playing eFootball a month ago and I'm already in the first division with over 90% win rate. The games are super easy. I want to know if it's the same in EA FC, where Steam players suck, and if you really want a challenge, you should play on PS5
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2024.05.16 13:01 mothra_mothra Keto and mounjaro
Hi everyone! It’s been great reading about your successful experiences with mounjaro! I just started keto and was considering adding mounjaro. I’ve had success on Saxenda until it became unavailable. Well the first couple of months were great then appetite was beginning to return. I really regret not getting on keto in those first months. I later tried Wegovy but the first pen did nothing like zero not even nausea. I couldn’t afford to keep pumping £200 a month without any hint that it would work. The pharmacy wouldn’t even let me start on a higher dose when I decided I’d like to try again.
So here I am a year later,regained everything I lost and starting again! Is this going to reduce food noise immediately or am I looking at a few months?
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So here I am a year later,regained everything I lost and starting again! Is this going to reduce food noise immediately or am I looking at a few months?
2024.05.16 13:01 A_N_F_18 Daily Airline Brief: Singapore sets a personal record, Carl Ichan backs off, Qatar is getting their wallet ready, and EVA goes shopping (Thursday, May 16, 2024)
News Roundup
🥇 The best yet: Singapore Airlines reported a net profit of $2 billion in the 2023-24 fiscal year - the company’s best financial performance in its 77-year history. The airline carried 36.4 million passengers during the period, up 37.6% from the year prior. As a result, the airline will pay their employees bonuses equal to roughly eight months of salary.
🔙 Backing off: After taking a nearly 10% ownership stake in JetBlue, corporate raider Carl Ichan appears to have cut his stake in the airline down to 5%. It was never entirely clear what his plans were when he first started buying shares in the airline and it's no clearer now.
❓ Mystery airline: The CEO of Qatar Airways shared that the airline intends to invest in RwandAir and another mystery airline in southern Africa. He explained that the airline is struggling to grow its presence in central and southern Africa which is where these investments come into play: presumably, these two airlines would help provide passenger feed for Qatar’s flights to Doha from the region.
We’ll take more: Taiwanese carrier EVA ordered 4 additional 787-10s. They currently operate 11 of the type and have 2 more on order. The planes are expected to be delivered in 2029 and will bring EVA's 787-10 fleet size to 17. As passenger demand approaches pre-Covid levels in Asia, it’s certainly no surprise to see EVA looking to expand capacity. This comes on the heels of fairly impressive Q1 results from airlines across Asia.
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2024.05.16 13:01 200days Went back after 3 years sober
Well this is a crappy post to have to write. I had 3 years off alcohol, which wasn't easy. I have stopped drinking so many times prior to that. In fact my handle of 200days was chosen many many years ago due to having 200 days alcohol free at the time. About a month ago I just ended up buying a hard kombucha in the checkout line of Whole Foods and that was the start of it. I ended up doing the same thing a week later and then from there I ended up adding vanilla extract to oat milk and then about a week ago I started getting wine. I am terrified and horrified. I enjoyed a few instances of it but by and large this is a shit show. Husband is sober after a stint in rehab in '19 so I am drinking alone. Kids probably smell it and wonder what's going on. So far haven't gotten to the point of throwing up. But it's waking me up at 3am. Lovely. Despise that I am back here. I know the reasons why it happened which I won't bore anyone with. But in a nutshell it's having kids with special needs and not having any family or friends. My husband and I are alone. It's a difficult life but I had my tools. Then one of my tools (church) changed and I needed to go look for a new one and that really upended my sobriety. Then perimenopause has knocked me inside out and upside down. I want to get back to sobriety. My main emotion right now is fear. I am drinking here in a fish bowl now that the kids are older. I always want to model the good aspects of life to the kids but right now I am not. I feel shame, fear of how to stop and fear of just being a dry drunk if I do. I am so slammed with the rest of life with kids on the spectrum that I don't even know where I am going to find all the time that recovery demands. It's literally their needs or mine and I will have to put mine over theirs to do this. I just am terrified. and upset that I fell for this BS again after years of freedom.
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2024.05.16 13:01 ety3rd Episode Discussion: "Playing God" - DS9, 217 (Theme Month: "Anomaly of the Week, Part I")
Theme Month: "Anomaly of the Week, Part I"
Episodes in which the crew encounter or are impacted by some sort of spatial anomaly.
Episode: "Playing God" - DS9, 217
Airdate: February 27, 1994
Teleplay by Jim Trombetta and Michael Piller; Directed by David LivingstonBrief summary: "While hosting her first Trill initiate Dax discovers a tiny, expanding protouniverse that threatens to destroy the Bajoran system."
Background: Jim Trombetta was a staff writer on both DS9 and VOY. Prior to those shows, he wrote for Miami Vice, The Flash, and The War of the Worlds. Michael Piller is credited with writing 38 episodes of TNG, DS9, and VOY, plus Star Trek: Insurrection. He led the TNG writers' room beginning with the third season and later co-created DS9 with Rick Berman; he and Berman then co-created VOY with Jeri Taylor.
David Livingston originally served as the supervising producer for TNG before becoming the most prolific director in the franchise, helming 62 episodes in total across TNG, DS9, VOY,* and ENT. He was a producer on both DS9 and VOY, too.
Guest cast: Arjin was played by Geoffrey Blake. He previously starred in the series Paper Dolls alongside Terry Farrell. He's had an extensive film career with roles in The Last Starfighter, Young Guns, Forrest Gump, Apollo 13, Frost/Nixon, Cast Away, and many more.
Richard Poe played Gul Evek in six episodes across TNG, DS9, and VOY, all within one year. He played "Chopper Dave" on Frasier and has had an extensive career on Broadway.
Ron Taylor, the Klingon Chef, is best remembered as the voice of "Bleeding Gums Murphy" on The Simpsons. He worked in multiple films and video games before his untimely death in 2002, including Trading Places, Second Sight, and Star Trek: Klingon Academy. He is also why Grand Nagus Zek's "butler", Maihar'du, is played by "Tiny Ron" ... that actor's name is also Ron Taylor, but as the Klingon chef got his SAG credentials first, "Tiny" had to be created to differentiate them.
Trajok is played by Chris Nelson Norris. He is a character actor with roles in shows like ER, The X-Files, Prison Break, NCIS, and more.
Memory Alpha link: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Playing_God_(episode)
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- "Twisted" - VOY, 206
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2024.05.16 13:00 gaycowboyallegations Is $800 - $1k a month between two people a "good" amount to save?
Hi y'all,
So me and my fiance both work what could be called entry level jobs. He makes $16.50/hr and I make $21/hr plus I make quarterly bonuses.
I did a spreadsheet of all of our expenses and calculated monthly gas costs for cars based on a conservative mpg and high cost per gallon for the cars. With the money left we could both put $400 to $500 into savings each, making the total $800 - $1000 a month saved. Obviously, though, we may have times we may need to cut into it for health stuff or car repair, hopefully not but that is what savings are for lol.
In terms of free spending money for things like clothes, non-essential food, entertainment, etc. we would have anywhere from $465 a person left over to about $525 a person every month
Is this a good amount? Idk what the normal is for people.
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So me and my fiance both work what could be called entry level jobs. He makes $16.50/hr and I make $21/hr plus I make quarterly bonuses.
I did a spreadsheet of all of our expenses and calculated monthly gas costs for cars based on a conservative mpg and high cost per gallon for the cars. With the money left we could both put $400 to $500 into savings each, making the total $800 - $1000 a month saved. Obviously, though, we may have times we may need to cut into it for health stuff or car repair, hopefully not but that is what savings are for lol.
In terms of free spending money for things like clothes, non-essential food, entertainment, etc. we would have anywhere from $465 a person left over to about $525 a person every month
Is this a good amount? Idk what the normal is for people.
2024.05.16 13:00 yangskrt Can someone give me some advice as I enter adulthood
Hi. I'm 23 years old and I was hired by a private firm. This is my first job and need ko ng advice about sa mga government benefits like SSS, Pag-ibig, and Philhealth. Kailangan ko ba magkaroon ng mga benefits na ito as soon as possible? Is it worth it? Ang sahod ko is 20k monthly.
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2024.05.16 13:00 Robiscotte Why it is Kaolan and Julius. The King of kings true meaning
 | This is a powerscaling free zone. submitted by Robiscotte to Kengan_Ashura [link] [comments] Even if they’re not fighting right now, I’ve seen a lot of posts talking about Hatsumi and Wakatsuki. A lot of them were just slanders and trash-talking but some of them were asking why Wakatsuki, the symbol of the Kengan Association, and Hatsumi, a man who wanted to enter the tournament, were not there ? The easy, and probably correct, answer is to consider that they lost to Jurota or Agito off-screen, and since they did not transfer to another organization, they’re simply not here. But that’s not the question. The true meaning of this question is : Why did Sandro chosen Kaolan, Jurota, Julius and Agito over Wakatsuki and Hatsumi ? First of all, I like Waka and Hatsumi for what they represent. They are both fighting geniuses who let themself get carried by their natural talent but faced a wall named Agito Kanoh, a wall of raw talent and hard work, and from this point, they evolved differently. Wakatsuki honed his karate, learned grappling and created blast core but ,more importantly, didn’t fall into despair in order to become the man we know now, a man who never gives up. Hatsumi on the other hand, also decided to train seriously for the first time in his life but learned the hard way that he can’t erase years of slacking off and, ultimately, falls into self-hating. Their willpower is what makes the difference at the end but they are both sides of the same coin and they can resonate within you if you ever find something too easy to train, only to understand later that you were just a big fish in a small pond and you are now surrounded by sharks. Now that you see what I think their stories tell, we have to confront it to the purpose of this “King of kings” tournament. This arc’s goal is to find who is the strongest, who can be the new Kuroki, who can be on par with him or even better, surpass him. And with Kaolan, the apex of striking, vs Jurota, the apex of throwing, being the opening, I think that what will be put to test here is the dedication the fighters put into their martial art, and to be more precise, their madness. Not the kind of madness like Jurota seeing Meguro’s ghost but more like standing 3 nights and 3 days surrounded by flames, living 8 years alone in the woods doing nothing but judo, healing your wounded hand by striking it again and again against a metal pole, becoming the martyr of muscles using all kind of drugs and shorten your lifespan in the process of creating a new personality in order to unleash and protect yourself from the brutality of the world you know. All the Kengan fighters Sandrovich has chosen are driven by madness and know nothing but fighting, Agito and Kaolan are bodyguards and they will blindly follow their masters, Julius is always seen lifting dumbbells and studying bodybuilding, Jurota is obsessed with judo and I don’t think anyone will disagree with that. They sacrificed their life, their hobbies and a good part of their relationship for their ideal of what is “true power” just like Kuroki did and that’s something the likes of Hatsumi and Wakatsuki will never do because they are, inherently, social people. That’s why they don’t fit in this tournament. |
2024.05.16 13:00 annihilation_is_all 2nd time of reinstating citalopram - 5 months in and akathisia
Hi all, looking for some advice/support. I've been on citalopram 20mg for about 11 years now. When first going on I suffered with really bad anxiety/depressive side effects, but these passed after a few months. I would get the occasional bad week during my time on the medication, where the start up symptoms would come back briefly, but other than that was ok on them.
In 2019 I tried coming off the medication for the first time. The advice from my doctor was go down to 10mg for a month, then one every other day for a month. Surprise surprise, as a lot of people have experienced, there were horrible withdrawal symptoms - tinnitus, vertigo, and intense panic and anxiety. After a week or so of being off them I had to reinstate. Once again I had the awful start up symptoms, horrendous anxiety, agitation and very dark thoughts.
It was after this episode that I discovered the surviving antidepressants website and all the information about how these drugs should be tapered. Something none of the doctors I've seen over the years seem to know anything about.
I decided in June 2022 to try again. This time trying a slower taper. I only had access to a pill cutter (doctors couldn't help with any other methods), so reduced by 2.5mg every two months until I reached 10mg in March 2023. I paused here as each reduction got increasingly tougher, and thought the next drop might be too much. I started getting some physical symptoms in November of heart palpitations etc, putting it down to other things, then in December the anxiety/panic/depression returned in full force. I was in a panic and on my doctor's advice reinstated my citalopram back up to 20mg.
The side effects were just as awful as the first two times, but this time they seemed to go on and on. It took about 3 months before I started getting some relief from the intense anxiety, but I would have a brief period of things feeling like they were getting better, only for it to all come back. Reading on other forums, I guess this is the wave/window experience. I'm now 5 months in and experiencing another wave. After researching more about the symptoms, I believe the intense anxiety/agitation is more likely to be akathisia - my doctor wanted me to increase my dose from 20mg to 40mg which I was very resistant to (all the advice said this could make the agitation worse), so I believe I did the right thing here.
I guess I'm just looking to see if others have experienced anything familiar - what did you do/have you done? Is there anything that has helped you get through it?
I'm on propranolol but that doesn't seem to help much. I have some diazepam prescribed but don't generally take it for fear of becoming dependant (the few times I have taken it it didn't really touch the sides). I see a kinesiologist who had recommended supplements - b6, vitamin E (she believes my levels of the hormone prolactin are unusually high, something I read about on an akathisia page somewhere, so not sure if balancing this could help), amongst others like lions mane and reishi.
I also read that the antihistamine diphenhydramine (Nytol here in the UK, Benadryl in the US) can provide relief from akathisia - I tried some of this last week which gave me a brilliant day, felt back to my old self, only for things to go downhill again. It feels like it takes the edge off, but that is it.
Sorry for the long post, just desperate for some help and for some light at the end of the tunnel. This has been a particularly bad few days again, and my thoughts are getting increasingly darker.
Thanks all
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In 2019 I tried coming off the medication for the first time. The advice from my doctor was go down to 10mg for a month, then one every other day for a month. Surprise surprise, as a lot of people have experienced, there were horrible withdrawal symptoms - tinnitus, vertigo, and intense panic and anxiety. After a week or so of being off them I had to reinstate. Once again I had the awful start up symptoms, horrendous anxiety, agitation and very dark thoughts.
It was after this episode that I discovered the surviving antidepressants website and all the information about how these drugs should be tapered. Something none of the doctors I've seen over the years seem to know anything about.
I decided in June 2022 to try again. This time trying a slower taper. I only had access to a pill cutter (doctors couldn't help with any other methods), so reduced by 2.5mg every two months until I reached 10mg in March 2023. I paused here as each reduction got increasingly tougher, and thought the next drop might be too much. I started getting some physical symptoms in November of heart palpitations etc, putting it down to other things, then in December the anxiety/panic/depression returned in full force. I was in a panic and on my doctor's advice reinstated my citalopram back up to 20mg.
The side effects were just as awful as the first two times, but this time they seemed to go on and on. It took about 3 months before I started getting some relief from the intense anxiety, but I would have a brief period of things feeling like they were getting better, only for it to all come back. Reading on other forums, I guess this is the wave/window experience. I'm now 5 months in and experiencing another wave. After researching more about the symptoms, I believe the intense anxiety/agitation is more likely to be akathisia - my doctor wanted me to increase my dose from 20mg to 40mg which I was very resistant to (all the advice said this could make the agitation worse), so I believe I did the right thing here.
I guess I'm just looking to see if others have experienced anything familiar - what did you do/have you done? Is there anything that has helped you get through it?
I'm on propranolol but that doesn't seem to help much. I have some diazepam prescribed but don't generally take it for fear of becoming dependant (the few times I have taken it it didn't really touch the sides). I see a kinesiologist who had recommended supplements - b6, vitamin E (she believes my levels of the hormone prolactin are unusually high, something I read about on an akathisia page somewhere, so not sure if balancing this could help), amongst others like lions mane and reishi.
I also read that the antihistamine diphenhydramine (Nytol here in the UK, Benadryl in the US) can provide relief from akathisia - I tried some of this last week which gave me a brilliant day, felt back to my old self, only for things to go downhill again. It feels like it takes the edge off, but that is it.
Sorry for the long post, just desperate for some help and for some light at the end of the tunnel. This has been a particularly bad few days again, and my thoughts are getting increasingly darker.
Thanks all
2024.05.16 12:59 Minimum_Tiger_937 I (19m) flirted other girls to have something to fill the void for after I break up with my gf (20f), and then cut them all off because I decided to stay. I don’t know what to do now
I feel terrible and don’t know what to do. We’ve had a really rocky almost-year-long relationship with a lot of arguing and differing life perspectives, and we’d already been to couple’s therapy at around six months in, and had gone for four months. We only did this when I gave her an ultimatum that we break up or go to therapy about how to fix the relationship because I was tired of how disrespectful and angry she was towards me. I really love her and really didn’t want to give up on her because I knew she was still trying to be good to me even if she wasn’t too good at it, it was the thought that counted to me. So we went to therapy and she changed a lot about how she acted and I appreciated it, but it still wasn’t enough for me to believe that we’d be a healthy couple going forward.
So about a month after therapy, I told her that maybe we should break up because we just don’t compliment each other very well (which is true). There was a lot of crying and going back and forth, a tough conversation which lasted two separate days. Eventually we agreed I should really think about what I was doing and she proposed we just take a break from each other for a week so I could do that. She said we won’t see other people over this break, which I respected and agreed with.
After that week I still hadn’t made up my mind though so I asked if we could do another week and she agreed. I hated how much pain I was putting her through with all of this too, since she was completely at my mercy and couldn’t talk with me through any of it (we’d talked about it for hours together already before we settled on the break idea), but I knew it was down to what I felt because she wanted to stay together and I still wasn’t sure, so that meant I had to sort it out on my own if it was ever going to work. Otherwise, SHE would need to convince me to stay for the rest of our days instead of me having my own reasons and motives.
Anyways, at the beginning of our second week of no contact, I thought I was okay with moving on from her because no matter how I thought of our relationship, I kept concluding we just weren’t good for each other and that there were more bad futures possible than good ones. With that headspace, I still feared the loneliness that would come once I made the breakup real, which is why I started texting the other girls in hopes of having something to look forward to in the following weeks to take my mind off of it and maybe start something new. I never intended on seeing any of them until the weeks after I broke up with my gf.
The second she texted me at the end of the second no-contact week, though, all of it hit me. Guilt, shame, uncertainty, dread of what to tell her, fear of the future. We made small talk that day as I tried to figure out what to tell her. The last thing I ever want to do is break her heart, someone who loves me to the best of her ability, even if it isn’t perfect. It’s a rough relationship but I still wanted to keep trying because I’d never been loved like this before.
I deleted all of the messages I’d sent on Instagram and blocked/unfollowed all the girls immediately because I realized I don’t want to be with anyone else, especially if all it means is not being alone (most of them rejected me anyways so maybe that’s a sign). I called her the next day because I knew she was waiting for an answer from me and, after starting to cry, told her I wanted to start fresh with her by making a healthy set of boundaries for ourselves and sort out our differences in our ideal futures.
This brings me to right now. Our first date back is in three days and I don’t know when or if I should tell her what I did in that second week. I feel horrible about it and I can’t stand the thought of hiding it from her because it would make me feel (or be) unworthy of her if we end up coming to healthy long-term agreements. I technically didn’t cheat but it’s obviously unfaithful, so I feel it’s only right that she knows.
I guess my questions are: Do I say anything about it? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out anyways given what I did? Please be honest, I don’t care how harsh. I’m here for the truth.
TL;DR I flirted with other women because I was going to break up with my gf and wanted to pre-fill the post-breakup void, then decided not to break up and don’t know if I should tell her I did that or if I even deserve her anymore
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So about a month after therapy, I told her that maybe we should break up because we just don’t compliment each other very well (which is true). There was a lot of crying and going back and forth, a tough conversation which lasted two separate days. Eventually we agreed I should really think about what I was doing and she proposed we just take a break from each other for a week so I could do that. She said we won’t see other people over this break, which I respected and agreed with.
After that week I still hadn’t made up my mind though so I asked if we could do another week and she agreed. I hated how much pain I was putting her through with all of this too, since she was completely at my mercy and couldn’t talk with me through any of it (we’d talked about it for hours together already before we settled on the break idea), but I knew it was down to what I felt because she wanted to stay together and I still wasn’t sure, so that meant I had to sort it out on my own if it was ever going to work. Otherwise, SHE would need to convince me to stay for the rest of our days instead of me having my own reasons and motives.
Anyways, at the beginning of our second week of no contact, I thought I was okay with moving on from her because no matter how I thought of our relationship, I kept concluding we just weren’t good for each other and that there were more bad futures possible than good ones. With that headspace, I still feared the loneliness that would come once I made the breakup real, which is why I started texting the other girls in hopes of having something to look forward to in the following weeks to take my mind off of it and maybe start something new. I never intended on seeing any of them until the weeks after I broke up with my gf.
The second she texted me at the end of the second no-contact week, though, all of it hit me. Guilt, shame, uncertainty, dread of what to tell her, fear of the future. We made small talk that day as I tried to figure out what to tell her. The last thing I ever want to do is break her heart, someone who loves me to the best of her ability, even if it isn’t perfect. It’s a rough relationship but I still wanted to keep trying because I’d never been loved like this before.
I deleted all of the messages I’d sent on Instagram and blocked/unfollowed all the girls immediately because I realized I don’t want to be with anyone else, especially if all it means is not being alone (most of them rejected me anyways so maybe that’s a sign). I called her the next day because I knew she was waiting for an answer from me and, after starting to cry, told her I wanted to start fresh with her by making a healthy set of boundaries for ourselves and sort out our differences in our ideal futures.
This brings me to right now. Our first date back is in three days and I don’t know when or if I should tell her what I did in that second week. I feel horrible about it and I can’t stand the thought of hiding it from her because it would make me feel (or be) unworthy of her if we end up coming to healthy long-term agreements. I technically didn’t cheat but it’s obviously unfaithful, so I feel it’s only right that she knows.
I guess my questions are: Do I say anything about it? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out anyways given what I did? Please be honest, I don’t care how harsh. I’m here for the truth.
TL;DR I flirted with other women because I was going to break up with my gf and wanted to pre-fill the post-breakup void, then decided not to break up and don’t know if I should tell her I did that or if I even deserve her anymore