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2024.05.15 14:13 Soffy21 Analysis of the U-Corp economy, and its reliance on death and suffering
In Canto 5, we see the U corp, and learn a lot about how its economy works. While many other corporations’ economies mainly rely on their singularity such as J Corp and W Corp; this isn’t the case in U corp, as a big part of their economy is tourism.
The 1st part is about the laws of the lake. The lake surrounds U corp, and is within its territory.
The Lake has laws that are only known by the U Corp, and people who have paid the U Corp to learn about the laws. They can’t be written down or shared, or else the person will be hunted down; and the lake also has knowledge on whethet someone has paid the U Corp to obtain knowledge on the laws or not, implying that U corp has control over the laws of the lake to a degree; or even that they could have created the laws in the first place. This way, they gain a lot of profit, as anyone who wants to survive in the lake would have to pay U Corp, and U Corp can easily maintain control over the territory.
Mermaids are also a crucial part of U Corp’s economy, since they sell mermaid ice creams and other mermaid related products for a lot of money. Mermaids are created when a whale takes control over the body of a human and transforms them into a mermaid, connected to their body. This way, anyone who gets killed by the lake turns into mermaids, who will be hunted by sailors and turn into profits. The death of sailors is crucial for the existance of mermaids for this reason.
U corp sets up the environment in a way that people are very likely to die in the sea and become mermaids, but the existance of mermaids also cannot be linked to U Corp itself, as it was due to the whales or the laws of the lake. This way, U Corp is left blameless, and the blame for the deaths of the sailors are placed on the people for not following the lake’s laws, or the whales.
For this reason, U Corp’s economy is very close to K Corp, since both of them rely on the constant existance of death and suffering. U Corp is a more indirect version of the same model, as K Corp directly causes atrocities (and makes it seem like it’s not linked to them), and U Corp creates an environment where death is bound to happen constantly at a frequent rate. In a way, U Corp’s model is much more effective than K Corp, since the system automatically runs itself, requiring minimal intervention from U Corp, while K Corp needs to actively cause atrocities themselves.
A similar model can be seen in other corps as well, where all of their economies (and some singularities) are based on the suffering of the general population in various forms, where survival is only afforded to the rich. You can survive the lake only if you can afford the knowledge. You can keep your colors only if you can afford it (T Corp)…
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The 1st part is about the laws of the lake. The lake surrounds U corp, and is within its territory.
The Lake has laws that are only known by the U Corp, and people who have paid the U Corp to learn about the laws. They can’t be written down or shared, or else the person will be hunted down; and the lake also has knowledge on whethet someone has paid the U Corp to obtain knowledge on the laws or not, implying that U corp has control over the laws of the lake to a degree; or even that they could have created the laws in the first place. This way, they gain a lot of profit, as anyone who wants to survive in the lake would have to pay U Corp, and U Corp can easily maintain control over the territory.
Mermaids are also a crucial part of U Corp’s economy, since they sell mermaid ice creams and other mermaid related products for a lot of money. Mermaids are created when a whale takes control over the body of a human and transforms them into a mermaid, connected to their body. This way, anyone who gets killed by the lake turns into mermaids, who will be hunted by sailors and turn into profits. The death of sailors is crucial for the existance of mermaids for this reason.
U corp sets up the environment in a way that people are very likely to die in the sea and become mermaids, but the existance of mermaids also cannot be linked to U Corp itself, as it was due to the whales or the laws of the lake. This way, U Corp is left blameless, and the blame for the deaths of the sailors are placed on the people for not following the lake’s laws, or the whales.
For this reason, U Corp’s economy is very close to K Corp, since both of them rely on the constant existance of death and suffering. U Corp is a more indirect version of the same model, as K Corp directly causes atrocities (and makes it seem like it’s not linked to them), and U Corp creates an environment where death is bound to happen constantly at a frequent rate. In a way, U Corp’s model is much more effective than K Corp, since the system automatically runs itself, requiring minimal intervention from U Corp, while K Corp needs to actively cause atrocities themselves.
A similar model can be seen in other corps as well, where all of their economies (and some singularities) are based on the suffering of the general population in various forms, where survival is only afforded to the rich. You can survive the lake only if you can afford the knowledge. You can keep your colors only if you can afford it (T Corp)…
2024.05.15 14:12 Adeptus_Gedeon Few Lovecraftian inspirations from real life and beliefs (mainly for RPG)
The article is intended primarily for Game Masters who play games in systems inspired by Lovecraft’s works, such as Call of Cthulhu or Delta Green. However, I hope that other fans of cosmic horror will also find something for themselves here. The interesting facts presented here may also be entertaining for people who do not know the work of The Loner of Providence, but some of the references may be unclear to them. The article contains several anecdotes – either from real history or from beliefs that exist in the real world, and suggestions on how they can be related to the Cthulhu mythology. So read about:
Ancient, super-advanced, fallen civilizations are one of the favorite motifs of fantasy. And truth be told, something similar happened in real history. Of course, in reality, the fallen civilizations did not have sci-fi supertechnology at their disposal, but their collapse still led to great destabilization. We are talking about the invasion of the so-called Sea Peoples, which took place at the turn of the 13th and 12th centuries BC. The Sea Peoples are mobile and warlike groups of people of unknown origin. They caused the collapse of several advanced cultures, including: Mycenaean and Hittite. Only the Egyptians managed to defeat them in a great battle. Well, the material for Lovecraftian inspiration is obvious. A mysterious army, coming out of nowhere, called the „Sea Peoples”, leading to the fall of the most powerful human civilizations at that time? Let us add that, according to some historians, the descendants of the Sea Peoples destroyed by the Egyptians were the Philistines. Yes, the same Philistines, one of whose main deities was the well-known Dagon to Lovecraftomaniacs… Deep Ones say hello. Let us also add that, according to Egyptian records, the tribes of the Sea Peoples had names such as Ekvesh, Teresh, Lucki, Sherden, Shekelesh, Tekel and Peleset. Sounds suitably dark, blasphemous and filthy? If we want to dig deeper, one of the pharaohs who ruled Egypt was Akhenaten – yes, that heretic who tried to replace the worship of traditional Egyptian gods with the religion of the Aten and who is very much liked by conspiracy theorists. Let’s add to the mix that Middle Eastern cultures had quite a negative attitude towards the sea as such. Babylonian Marduk had to defeat the giant monsters of Chaos – Apsu and Tiamat, personifications of fresh and salt waters, respectively. The Bible also contains traces of the myth about the fight between Yahweh and Leviathan, and the Book of Revelation, describing the new, ideal world, emphasizes that „I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more.” Let’s assume that the players are researchers of an antiquity – historians, archaeologists, etc. They conduct research on the Sea Peoples. Of course, as common sense dictates, they assume that these were human warriors. However, as time goes on, more and more evidence appears that they were not completely human again, and the evidence of their monstrosity becomes increasingly difficult to put down to the demonization that Egyptian chroniclers used against their enemies… It becomes clear that an onslaught of inhuman and semi-human monsters came from the sea. , trying to conquer the world of that time. Moreover, after their defeat at the hands of the Egyptians, this species did not become extinct, but instead of open conquest it switched to cautious infiltration. Perhaps the Deep Ones have spies in academia who are tasked with eliminating historians who find the trail of truth…
Oh, one more interesting fact connecting the history of the Sea Peoples with Lovecraft. Well, as we know, HPL liked to use the term „Cyclopean” for huge, monumental buildings. At least he didn’t come up with it himself. Well, when the later (and at first more primitive) inhabitants, the Dorians, saw the ruins of destroyed castles left by the Mycenaean culture, they came to the conclusion that such huge buildings could not have been built by human hands, so they were probably the work of mythical giants – cyclopes.
Typhon – a classic but forgotten abomination
Modern works drawing on Greek mythology usually make Hades (completely senseless) or Kronos (a little more) the Big Bad, but they forget about Zeus’s greatest enemy – Typhon. After defeating the titans and then the gigants, the Olympian gods had to face the main boss on the way to dominating the world – Typhon. Here is an example of its description: It was larger than the largest mountains, its head touched the stars. When he stretched out his hands, one reached the eastern ends of the world and the other reached the western ends. Instead of fingers, he had a hundred dragon heads. From the waist down he had a tangle of vipers (yay, tentacles!) and wings at his shoulders. His eyes were shooting out flames. In other versions of the myth, Typhon was a flying, hundred-headed dragon. In any case – appearance and stature worthy of the Great Old One. Typhon attacked Olympus, and all the gods except Zeus fled in panic. The supreme god took up the fight… and lost it. Only in the second duel did he manage to defeat Typhon, but not kill him – he only imprisoned him, hitting him with Etna. In the sense of a mountain. A volcano – and volcanic activity is the result of Typhon’s anger, trying to break free. Typhon equaled the lord of heaven not only in strength, but in fertility. His wife was Echidna, about whom Hesiod wrote: „She also gave birth to another creature, invincible, huge, unlike neither men nor immortal gods, in a hollow cave – the divine violent Echidna, half a sharp-eyed young girl, with beautiful cheeks, half a huge snake, a great and powerful, spotted, cruel – in the depths of the holy land. This pair spawned many, if not most, of the monsters found in Greek mythology. Their offspring were very diverse and strange, as befits the spawn of enemies of the divine order, including: – Ladon, the hundred-headed dragon who never slept and guarded the apples that gave immortality, – Cerberus – we all know the dog guarding the gates of hell… but not all of us know that, according to some accounts, it had not three heads, but as many as 50, it was also covered with scales, and it had a snake by its tail… so what does this have to do with a dog? – Scylla – this lady inherited the most from the human, beautiful part of Echidna… at least initially, but eventually, as a result of various perturbations, she turned from a beautiful nymph to her siblings, becoming a six-headed sea beast, so hideous, according to Homer, that even the gods could not stand sight of her – she dwelt in a cave, from where she opened her mouth to devour the crews of ships, – Gorgons – I mean, those ladies with snake hair, not monstrous bulls. Medusa was one of them – the story that Athena turned her priestess into a monster as punishment for being raped by Poseidon is an invention of later poets, – Lernaean Hydra – a multi-headed monster with many reptilian or human heads. In place of each severed head, two others grew, and in addition, the main head was completely immortal – therefore, after chopping off the mortal heads, Heracles had to burn the stumps and bury the immortal, still hissing head underground. Hydra’s breath was poisonous. – various other creatures, such as the Sphinx, the dog Ortus, the Nemean Lion or the Chimera. Each of these descendants has the potential to be portrayed as an Eldritch abomination in its own right. To be precise – according to some accounts, the father of these creatures (and Echidna herself) was Typhon, but a monstrous, ancient (older than Poseidon) sea god, Phorcys. How to use Typhon? Well, Typhon clearly has the potential to be a Great Old One, imprisoned by… Nodens? Some other Elder God? Weak gods of humanity? Maybe his cult is trying to free him from Etna? What if he succeeds? What might distinguish Typhon from many other Great Old Ones? I would recommend focusing on his monster progenitor aspect – if he manages to reunite with Echidna, they will immediately start spawning various blasphemous beasts in series.
Jan Twardowski – the first man on the Moon
Jan (John) Twardowski, the hero of the legend, a Polish nobleman who allegedly sold his soul to the devil and became a sorcerer. Probably a historical figure, according to legend he lived in the 16th century and became famous for summoning the spirit of the deceased queen for King Sigismund Augustus. The ghost allegedly appeared in the mirror. This mirror is still kept in the church in Węgrów. According to legend, when the terms of the pact were fulfilled, devils came to kidnap Twardowski to hell. Interestingly, instead of taking the sorcerer’s soul after death, the most material demons appeared and grabbed Twardowski in order to kidnap him bodily, alive… and instead of heading towards the underground, which in legends is considered the traditional place of residence of demons and damned souls, they began to carry away up with him. At some point, Twardowski started singing religious songs, which caused the demons to escape, leaving him on the Moon, where he is said to have stayed ever since. Could the “demons” actually be extraterrestrials? Maybe mi-go? Maybe Twardowski was their agent and obtained secret knowledge and technology from them that gave him the fame of a sorcerer? As part of his studies, did he acquire knowledge of a system of sounds („religious songs”) that was able to drive away his masters when they decided that his usefulness on Earth had ended and it was time to transport him to a space base where he would be transformed into a brain in jar? Or was transportation to the Moon part of the deal from the beginning? Oh, one more interesting fact – according to legends, Twardowski used to use a rooster as a horse, which he enlarged with his magic. It’s easy to imagine an abomination that, in the eyes of laymen, might have resembled a large rooster… Examples of scenario hooks: – Twardowski’s secret mirror is still in the church in Węgrów. The local priest thinks it is just other „pagan” superstitions, but in fact it is a tool enabling contact with cosmic beings and higher realities. It may prove useful to players if they convince the priest to give it back or simply steal it. – Players are looking for Twardowski’s notes to gain knowledge about the „song” thanks to which he drove away mi-go (or other creatures that became the prototype of the „devils” from the legend). The so-called Twardowski’s „School” or „Cathedral” was located in a quarry near Kraków. In fact, at the end of the 19th century, during the construction of the church of St. Józef, a cave showing traces of alchemical experiments was discovered… And it was destroyed. But perhaps there is a second, secret laboratory under the cave that escaped destruction? And there lie Twardowski’s secrets… And again, potential obstacles may be placed by the local parish priest. But not only him. Maybe Twardowski’s legendary „rooster” lies dormant in the laboratory and was left by the sorcerer as a guard? – players are astronauts on the Moon. However, it turns out that someone lives here, someone who was not detected by previous expeditions and probes. Will Twardowski prove to be an ally in the fight against cosmic horrors? Or maybe their agent, or an independent villain? If he survived this long on the Moon thanks to blasphemous secrets, it’s possible that he had little humanity left…
The rest of the text is avalaible (of course, for free) here: https://adeptusrpg.wordpress.com/2024/05/13/some-lovecraftian-inspiration-form-real-life-and-beliefs/
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- Sea Peoples, bane of ancient civilizations,
- a forgotten Eldritch abomination from Greek mythology,
- Jan Twardowski, the first man on the Moon,
- mathematicians and physicists who wanted to know the structure of reality and lost their minds,
- one of the most mysterious characters from the Bible and a dark, occult ritual that underlies monotheism.
Ancient, super-advanced, fallen civilizations are one of the favorite motifs of fantasy. And truth be told, something similar happened in real history. Of course, in reality, the fallen civilizations did not have sci-fi supertechnology at their disposal, but their collapse still led to great destabilization. We are talking about the invasion of the so-called Sea Peoples, which took place at the turn of the 13th and 12th centuries BC. The Sea Peoples are mobile and warlike groups of people of unknown origin. They caused the collapse of several advanced cultures, including: Mycenaean and Hittite. Only the Egyptians managed to defeat them in a great battle. Well, the material for Lovecraftian inspiration is obvious. A mysterious army, coming out of nowhere, called the „Sea Peoples”, leading to the fall of the most powerful human civilizations at that time? Let us add that, according to some historians, the descendants of the Sea Peoples destroyed by the Egyptians were the Philistines. Yes, the same Philistines, one of whose main deities was the well-known Dagon to Lovecraftomaniacs… Deep Ones say hello. Let us also add that, according to Egyptian records, the tribes of the Sea Peoples had names such as Ekvesh, Teresh, Lucki, Sherden, Shekelesh, Tekel and Peleset. Sounds suitably dark, blasphemous and filthy? If we want to dig deeper, one of the pharaohs who ruled Egypt was Akhenaten – yes, that heretic who tried to replace the worship of traditional Egyptian gods with the religion of the Aten and who is very much liked by conspiracy theorists. Let’s add to the mix that Middle Eastern cultures had quite a negative attitude towards the sea as such. Babylonian Marduk had to defeat the giant monsters of Chaos – Apsu and Tiamat, personifications of fresh and salt waters, respectively. The Bible also contains traces of the myth about the fight between Yahweh and Leviathan, and the Book of Revelation, describing the new, ideal world, emphasizes that „I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more.” Let’s assume that the players are researchers of an antiquity – historians, archaeologists, etc. They conduct research on the Sea Peoples. Of course, as common sense dictates, they assume that these were human warriors. However, as time goes on, more and more evidence appears that they were not completely human again, and the evidence of their monstrosity becomes increasingly difficult to put down to the demonization that Egyptian chroniclers used against their enemies… It becomes clear that an onslaught of inhuman and semi-human monsters came from the sea. , trying to conquer the world of that time. Moreover, after their defeat at the hands of the Egyptians, this species did not become extinct, but instead of open conquest it switched to cautious infiltration. Perhaps the Deep Ones have spies in academia who are tasked with eliminating historians who find the trail of truth…
Oh, one more interesting fact connecting the history of the Sea Peoples with Lovecraft. Well, as we know, HPL liked to use the term „Cyclopean” for huge, monumental buildings. At least he didn’t come up with it himself. Well, when the later (and at first more primitive) inhabitants, the Dorians, saw the ruins of destroyed castles left by the Mycenaean culture, they came to the conclusion that such huge buildings could not have been built by human hands, so they were probably the work of mythical giants – cyclopes.
Typhon – a classic but forgotten abomination
Modern works drawing on Greek mythology usually make Hades (completely senseless) or Kronos (a little more) the Big Bad, but they forget about Zeus’s greatest enemy – Typhon. After defeating the titans and then the gigants, the Olympian gods had to face the main boss on the way to dominating the world – Typhon. Here is an example of its description: It was larger than the largest mountains, its head touched the stars. When he stretched out his hands, one reached the eastern ends of the world and the other reached the western ends. Instead of fingers, he had a hundred dragon heads. From the waist down he had a tangle of vipers (yay, tentacles!) and wings at his shoulders. His eyes were shooting out flames. In other versions of the myth, Typhon was a flying, hundred-headed dragon. In any case – appearance and stature worthy of the Great Old One. Typhon attacked Olympus, and all the gods except Zeus fled in panic. The supreme god took up the fight… and lost it. Only in the second duel did he manage to defeat Typhon, but not kill him – he only imprisoned him, hitting him with Etna. In the sense of a mountain. A volcano – and volcanic activity is the result of Typhon’s anger, trying to break free. Typhon equaled the lord of heaven not only in strength, but in fertility. His wife was Echidna, about whom Hesiod wrote: „She also gave birth to another creature, invincible, huge, unlike neither men nor immortal gods, in a hollow cave – the divine violent Echidna, half a sharp-eyed young girl, with beautiful cheeks, half a huge snake, a great and powerful, spotted, cruel – in the depths of the holy land. This pair spawned many, if not most, of the monsters found in Greek mythology. Their offspring were very diverse and strange, as befits the spawn of enemies of the divine order, including: – Ladon, the hundred-headed dragon who never slept and guarded the apples that gave immortality, – Cerberus – we all know the dog guarding the gates of hell… but not all of us know that, according to some accounts, it had not three heads, but as many as 50, it was also covered with scales, and it had a snake by its tail… so what does this have to do with a dog? – Scylla – this lady inherited the most from the human, beautiful part of Echidna… at least initially, but eventually, as a result of various perturbations, she turned from a beautiful nymph to her siblings, becoming a six-headed sea beast, so hideous, according to Homer, that even the gods could not stand sight of her – she dwelt in a cave, from where she opened her mouth to devour the crews of ships, – Gorgons – I mean, those ladies with snake hair, not monstrous bulls. Medusa was one of them – the story that Athena turned her priestess into a monster as punishment for being raped by Poseidon is an invention of later poets, – Lernaean Hydra – a multi-headed monster with many reptilian or human heads. In place of each severed head, two others grew, and in addition, the main head was completely immortal – therefore, after chopping off the mortal heads, Heracles had to burn the stumps and bury the immortal, still hissing head underground. Hydra’s breath was poisonous. – various other creatures, such as the Sphinx, the dog Ortus, the Nemean Lion or the Chimera. Each of these descendants has the potential to be portrayed as an Eldritch abomination in its own right. To be precise – according to some accounts, the father of these creatures (and Echidna herself) was Typhon, but a monstrous, ancient (older than Poseidon) sea god, Phorcys. How to use Typhon? Well, Typhon clearly has the potential to be a Great Old One, imprisoned by… Nodens? Some other Elder God? Weak gods of humanity? Maybe his cult is trying to free him from Etna? What if he succeeds? What might distinguish Typhon from many other Great Old Ones? I would recommend focusing on his monster progenitor aspect – if he manages to reunite with Echidna, they will immediately start spawning various blasphemous beasts in series.
Jan Twardowski – the first man on the Moon
Jan (John) Twardowski, the hero of the legend, a Polish nobleman who allegedly sold his soul to the devil and became a sorcerer. Probably a historical figure, according to legend he lived in the 16th century and became famous for summoning the spirit of the deceased queen for King Sigismund Augustus. The ghost allegedly appeared in the mirror. This mirror is still kept in the church in Węgrów. According to legend, when the terms of the pact were fulfilled, devils came to kidnap Twardowski to hell. Interestingly, instead of taking the sorcerer’s soul after death, the most material demons appeared and grabbed Twardowski in order to kidnap him bodily, alive… and instead of heading towards the underground, which in legends is considered the traditional place of residence of demons and damned souls, they began to carry away up with him. At some point, Twardowski started singing religious songs, which caused the demons to escape, leaving him on the Moon, where he is said to have stayed ever since. Could the “demons” actually be extraterrestrials? Maybe mi-go? Maybe Twardowski was their agent and obtained secret knowledge and technology from them that gave him the fame of a sorcerer? As part of his studies, did he acquire knowledge of a system of sounds („religious songs”) that was able to drive away his masters when they decided that his usefulness on Earth had ended and it was time to transport him to a space base where he would be transformed into a brain in jar? Or was transportation to the Moon part of the deal from the beginning? Oh, one more interesting fact – according to legends, Twardowski used to use a rooster as a horse, which he enlarged with his magic. It’s easy to imagine an abomination that, in the eyes of laymen, might have resembled a large rooster… Examples of scenario hooks: – Twardowski’s secret mirror is still in the church in Węgrów. The local priest thinks it is just other „pagan” superstitions, but in fact it is a tool enabling contact with cosmic beings and higher realities. It may prove useful to players if they convince the priest to give it back or simply steal it. – Players are looking for Twardowski’s notes to gain knowledge about the „song” thanks to which he drove away mi-go (or other creatures that became the prototype of the „devils” from the legend). The so-called Twardowski’s „School” or „Cathedral” was located in a quarry near Kraków. In fact, at the end of the 19th century, during the construction of the church of St. Józef, a cave showing traces of alchemical experiments was discovered… And it was destroyed. But perhaps there is a second, secret laboratory under the cave that escaped destruction? And there lie Twardowski’s secrets… And again, potential obstacles may be placed by the local parish priest. But not only him. Maybe Twardowski’s legendary „rooster” lies dormant in the laboratory and was left by the sorcerer as a guard? – players are astronauts on the Moon. However, it turns out that someone lives here, someone who was not detected by previous expeditions and probes. Will Twardowski prove to be an ally in the fight against cosmic horrors? Or maybe their agent, or an independent villain? If he survived this long on the Moon thanks to blasphemous secrets, it’s possible that he had little humanity left…
The rest of the text is avalaible (of course, for free) here: https://adeptusrpg.wordpress.com/2024/05/13/some-lovecraftian-inspiration-form-real-life-and-beliefs/
2024.05.15 14:12 ThrowRA_1911GTD I think I ruined any chance of fixing things
TL;DR Didn’t respects EXs wish for space after she dumped me out of nowhere and refused to tell me why, now wants to just throw away our six years together instead of fixing things.
I’ve really fucked things up. She left me over a month ago, but when she dumped me out of nowhere she had said she was unhappy since November but she never told me. She decided in February that she was going to leave at some point, but never said anything to me until April. During the last month I had been trying to give her the space she wanted, but I never had closure on anything. She never told me she was unhappy until the night she left and she had refused to tell me why she never told me back when she knew things weren’t working. All she had said about it was I should have just known, but I figured after six year together, I didn’t have to look for signs she was unhappy and that she would be able to tell me. She said she wanted nothing to do with me and that there was no chance in fixing things.
Because of this, I reached out to her family members to see what I had missed. My family is no help so that’s why I never turned to them, but everyone in her family had loved me, with multiple of them encouraging me to propose at several points, but it was like once she left, they all hated me. Every time I asked someone about how I should fix things to let her know she is the most importantly thing in the world to me and that I would do anything to make her happy if she would have just told me what was wrong in the first place, they all just shut me out. They would then tell her that I was talking to them about fixing things, and this just resulted in me pushing her further away, not respecting the space she had said she wanted.
Last night was when I got the wake up call. Her Aunt had told me to “How about you just fucking stop reaching out to everyone. That would be a great idea about now.” They are right, I shouldn’t have crossed over these boundaries and sought help from her family, and now I have to pay the price for it. She wants nothing to do with me and has said after I move out (we got an apartment together a week before she became unhappy. She moved out when she dumped me but has been paying half of rent since I can’t afford it on my own) and are separated financially (take her name off the car loan and title, get new insurance, and pay for the laptop she got me in March) she intends on never speaking to me again.
Even after everything that has happened, I still love her and I wish that I had known things were bad , but how was I supposed to know what was going on when she never told me? I guess it doesn’t matter now, but I’m hoping after several months of no contact we can become friends again.
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I’ve really fucked things up. She left me over a month ago, but when she dumped me out of nowhere she had said she was unhappy since November but she never told me. She decided in February that she was going to leave at some point, but never said anything to me until April. During the last month I had been trying to give her the space she wanted, but I never had closure on anything. She never told me she was unhappy until the night she left and she had refused to tell me why she never told me back when she knew things weren’t working. All she had said about it was I should have just known, but I figured after six year together, I didn’t have to look for signs she was unhappy and that she would be able to tell me. She said she wanted nothing to do with me and that there was no chance in fixing things.
Because of this, I reached out to her family members to see what I had missed. My family is no help so that’s why I never turned to them, but everyone in her family had loved me, with multiple of them encouraging me to propose at several points, but it was like once she left, they all hated me. Every time I asked someone about how I should fix things to let her know she is the most importantly thing in the world to me and that I would do anything to make her happy if she would have just told me what was wrong in the first place, they all just shut me out. They would then tell her that I was talking to them about fixing things, and this just resulted in me pushing her further away, not respecting the space she had said she wanted.
Last night was when I got the wake up call. Her Aunt had told me to “How about you just fucking stop reaching out to everyone. That would be a great idea about now.” They are right, I shouldn’t have crossed over these boundaries and sought help from her family, and now I have to pay the price for it. She wants nothing to do with me and has said after I move out (we got an apartment together a week before she became unhappy. She moved out when she dumped me but has been paying half of rent since I can’t afford it on my own) and are separated financially (take her name off the car loan and title, get new insurance, and pay for the laptop she got me in March) she intends on never speaking to me again.
Even after everything that has happened, I still love her and I wish that I had known things were bad , but how was I supposed to know what was going on when she never told me? I guess it doesn’t matter now, but I’m hoping after several months of no contact we can become friends again.
2024.05.15 14:11 Interesting-Egg-209 Help I’m concerned for my brain.
 | How many times in the last 20 minutes have you yelled at your phone and significant other and pet the sentence submitted by Interesting-Egg-209 to GoodOmensAfterDark [link] [comments] “I DONT UNDERSTAND HIS LEGS” because for me it has been more than I would like to admit… I just spent an obscene amount of time looking at this man’s legs (NO NOT LIKE THAT) (ok a lot like that 😏) Because I genuinely believed he was standing as shown in pic 2. My brain will not make his legs make sense. Through thorough research and a poor non goad friend being sent so many gif of David with completely accurate leg movements I can confirm they are standard issue legs. But my brain will not unsee this HALP |
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2024.05.15 14:08 butterflyblast should i (17F) break up with my boyfriend (19M) over finding out about his porn addiction?
this is my first time posting on reddit, im looking for any kind of advice or input. i (17F) have been with my boyfriend (19M) for almost six months now, our anniversary is in 2 days. this is my first relationship and his second relationship, we’ve had problems since we started dating, we’ve never been in a fight over anything ive done, just gonna be completely real im a very anxious person and a huge perfectionist in every aspect of my life and since this is my first relationship i have been extremely diligent to do everything right, i cant say the same for him. hes hurt me emotionally so many times throughout this relationship, he can often be careless and doesnt consider me, and then doesnt see a problem with that. hes fucked up in so many MAJOR ways that have literally landed me in the hospital, no physical ab*se is happening, but he is still the cause of my reoccurring doctors visits. i wont get into all the ways hes hurt me emotionally and done shit thats fucked me over since this post is intended to be ab my current predicament with him, but i will just say that it gets BAD. hes never cheated on me as far as i know, i believe women should never trust men so im not saying this because i trust his every word, i just genuinely dont think he would have the balls to do something like that, plus i am literally the catch of his life. his friends and mine and just people we are acquainted with often ask me how he pulled me and say to him and i that im way out of his league, my boyfriend says this as well. i dont want to come off as cocky or anything like that at all, i am a very humble person irl, but i just want to paint the picture of our relationship for anyone who can help me out right now. i do know that im very very pretty, patient, caring, generous, kind, understanding, polite, and poised. i grew up with an eating disorder most of my life and never believed my appearance was good enough or held any value, so i made a point to not have a rotten soul, i made a point to really really work on myself on the inside, so that i could fall in love with being alive enough to realize that my appearance was not the most important thing. throughout the years my insecurity faded away and ive gotten to a point in my life where i know who i am, i know that im a truly good person, and i know that im really good looking. ANYWAY sorry for that whole spiel but it will be relevant when i get into whats happening in my relationship at the moment!!!!
my relationship has a lot of really good moments, i can be so real with him, we are always laughing on good days, he can be so kind and caring and chivalrous at times, i feel so safe with him in those times, i believe we have a really genuine connection.
NOW for the current issue… i broke up with him this march (we were only broken up for exactly 24hrs) due to the build up of fucked up shit hes put me through, him following pornstars on insta, liking girls thirst traps, disappearing to LA when i was in the hospital because of him, and the list goes on and on and on. my point is, one of the reasons was him following porn stars and liking that kind of content on social media. we are not an on and off couple, this is the only time we’ve broken up, and the whole 24hrs that we were we quite literally stayed on the phone, throughout the whole evening, night, morning, and his whole work day up until we met up to continue talking ab things in person. i was extremely explicit in the fact that his current behavior was unacceptable, i wasnt going to stand for it, and that i would have a 0 toleration policy for any boundary crossing, fuck ups, or general asshole behavior in the future.
i told him that i had 2 options, i could either follow through with my decision to leave him based on what has actually happened in our relationship, or i could trust him saying that he was going to change and give him a second chance. i am really in love with him and i want him to be a part of my life, as i want to be a part of his, so i chose to stay with him and give him the opportunity to prove to me he could be better, and continue to be a better man from that point forth. things have been really good since i made this choice, hes made a major effort to be better in every aspect, and made positive changes to his own life, he seems happier and seems to have more energy and more of a lust for life since this, and i am so happy to see that. i could go on and on but basically things have just been really amazing.
NOW FOR THE REAL TEA!!!! 2 weeks ago i found out i was pregnant, and had to take the abortion pill a few days after that, he was really amazing throughout the whole process, but its been hard for me nonetheless, the way doctors treated me, having to hide it from my mom, having morning sickness, the hormonal up and downs of it all, the fact that being pregnant is my biggest fear, combined with other stress in my personal life. ive been kinda down lately due to this, it was just a hard thing to go through esp at my age, but ive been making an effort to take care of myself, not slip into depression, and move forward with my life. ive been doing well more recently, but it was just a rough patch for me personally. my cat has also been sick since ab the exact same time i found out i was pregnant, and ive been super stressed ab that and losing sleep taking care of him all night and day, every night and day.
REALREAL TEA TIME. REAL TEA. since my cats not doing well, i decided to hangout with my boyfriend after he got off of work the other day, just to get my mind off of it, get out of the house, and enjoy life for a bit. we ended up having an AMAZING night, like seriously so good, i fell in love with him all over again ab 10 million times that night. at the end of the night we decided to go back to my place and sleepover there. he went to sleep soon after we got home, but i stayed up because i needed to take off my makeup and take a shower. before showering, i decided to go on his phone to send myself cute pictures we had taken and also to take a peak at what hes been up to. things have been so good lately and i wanted to prove to myself that i made the right decision in staying with him. unfortunately things did not go so well. i ended up looking through his phone for a few hrs because i found LOADS of hentai and porn he was looking at on reddit in his history, porn on discord, repeating onlyfans links in his search history (which were dated to the DAY after i found out i was pregnant and would have to have an abortion), i found a group he was in on facebook that consisted entirely of borderline porn, and i found messages he had deleted on facebook of him messaging a girl and asking her to send him nudes and telling her that she was sexy dated to when we first officially got into a committed relationship, his recent searches on reddit were all groups that consist solely of porn, his link history on reddit contained onlyfans links, and there were onlyfans models in his recent searches on insta as well. i was absolutely devastated, i was feeling so many things and wanted to end it right then and there, i decided to take my shower, do skincare and all of that stuff, go to sleep and tell him what i found in the morning. it was like 3am at this point. i finished getting ready for bed around 5:30am and went to my nightstand to plug in my phone, my boyfriend is a super heavy sleeper so i didnt think him waking up was even a possibility, but he woke up and asked me to come cuddle in bed with him, since he was half awake, i knew if i got into bed he’d start cuddling with me, and i could not handle that so id have to push him away, leaving me no choice but to confront him at that time instead of in the morning as i had planned. so i said “hey (bf’s name), do you wanna tell me why you’ve been looking at loads of porn on reddit” he quickly became fully conscious when he realized what was happening. he was still out of it but kind of trying to talk to me and ask me what was happening, i didnt say anything, i grabbed my pillow and a blanket and told him to go back to sleep and that we’d discuss it in the morning, he asked me where i was going and i said to sleep on my couch, then i gave him 2 options, i said he could either leave right then and there, or go back to sleep and we’d talk ab it later in the morning and i would sleep on my couch, but i told him we were not gonna have the convo right then and there. i went downstairs and set up my couch bed, then i was like wait a damn minute why am i the one sleeping on the couch, i came back upstairs and told him that i changed my mind and that he could either leave or sleep on the couch. he never made a decision and we ended up having the whole convo ab everything right then and there, i remained stern and i was clearly angry but i did not raise my voice or throw out insults. at first he tried lying to me and saying it wasnt him and all this other bullshit, but eventually he admitted that he has a porn addiction. i was still extremely upset, i understand that its a common thing in my generation, porn-like content is all over social media and so easy to access, but it still shook me to my core. porn addiction is a real thing but like idk how to deal with this, i am so hurt and feeling so many things, there was SO much of it and it all feels like cheating to me. this is making me question everything ab our intimate life, it makes me feel like it doesnt mean anything to him. idek when and how he has the energy to jerk off because we both have a high sex drive and see each other rly often, so we have LOTS of sex and im never the one to tap out after multiple rounds. its not vanilla either so its not like theres some sort of unfulfilled desire happening, i really do not get it at all, and i am SO unbelievably hurt. i dont know if i can ever move on from this or forgive him, or “help and support and reassure” him as he tries to quit this addiction. it feels like im begging my bf to only have eyes for me. like im support him in his endeavor to stop looking at other naked girls. nothing about it feels right and i dont know what to do. i love him so unbelievably much, but this changes everything, i wish this never happened because i do want to be with him, i just dont know how to, or if i should, now. any and all advice would be appreciated. i am completely undecided on what to do from this point on.
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my relationship has a lot of really good moments, i can be so real with him, we are always laughing on good days, he can be so kind and caring and chivalrous at times, i feel so safe with him in those times, i believe we have a really genuine connection.
NOW for the current issue… i broke up with him this march (we were only broken up for exactly 24hrs) due to the build up of fucked up shit hes put me through, him following pornstars on insta, liking girls thirst traps, disappearing to LA when i was in the hospital because of him, and the list goes on and on and on. my point is, one of the reasons was him following porn stars and liking that kind of content on social media. we are not an on and off couple, this is the only time we’ve broken up, and the whole 24hrs that we were we quite literally stayed on the phone, throughout the whole evening, night, morning, and his whole work day up until we met up to continue talking ab things in person. i was extremely explicit in the fact that his current behavior was unacceptable, i wasnt going to stand for it, and that i would have a 0 toleration policy for any boundary crossing, fuck ups, or general asshole behavior in the future.
i told him that i had 2 options, i could either follow through with my decision to leave him based on what has actually happened in our relationship, or i could trust him saying that he was going to change and give him a second chance. i am really in love with him and i want him to be a part of my life, as i want to be a part of his, so i chose to stay with him and give him the opportunity to prove to me he could be better, and continue to be a better man from that point forth. things have been really good since i made this choice, hes made a major effort to be better in every aspect, and made positive changes to his own life, he seems happier and seems to have more energy and more of a lust for life since this, and i am so happy to see that. i could go on and on but basically things have just been really amazing.
NOW FOR THE REAL TEA!!!! 2 weeks ago i found out i was pregnant, and had to take the abortion pill a few days after that, he was really amazing throughout the whole process, but its been hard for me nonetheless, the way doctors treated me, having to hide it from my mom, having morning sickness, the hormonal up and downs of it all, the fact that being pregnant is my biggest fear, combined with other stress in my personal life. ive been kinda down lately due to this, it was just a hard thing to go through esp at my age, but ive been making an effort to take care of myself, not slip into depression, and move forward with my life. ive been doing well more recently, but it was just a rough patch for me personally. my cat has also been sick since ab the exact same time i found out i was pregnant, and ive been super stressed ab that and losing sleep taking care of him all night and day, every night and day.
REALREAL TEA TIME. REAL TEA. since my cats not doing well, i decided to hangout with my boyfriend after he got off of work the other day, just to get my mind off of it, get out of the house, and enjoy life for a bit. we ended up having an AMAZING night, like seriously so good, i fell in love with him all over again ab 10 million times that night. at the end of the night we decided to go back to my place and sleepover there. he went to sleep soon after we got home, but i stayed up because i needed to take off my makeup and take a shower. before showering, i decided to go on his phone to send myself cute pictures we had taken and also to take a peak at what hes been up to. things have been so good lately and i wanted to prove to myself that i made the right decision in staying with him. unfortunately things did not go so well. i ended up looking through his phone for a few hrs because i found LOADS of hentai and porn he was looking at on reddit in his history, porn on discord, repeating onlyfans links in his search history (which were dated to the DAY after i found out i was pregnant and would have to have an abortion), i found a group he was in on facebook that consisted entirely of borderline porn, and i found messages he had deleted on facebook of him messaging a girl and asking her to send him nudes and telling her that she was sexy dated to when we first officially got into a committed relationship, his recent searches on reddit were all groups that consist solely of porn, his link history on reddit contained onlyfans links, and there were onlyfans models in his recent searches on insta as well. i was absolutely devastated, i was feeling so many things and wanted to end it right then and there, i decided to take my shower, do skincare and all of that stuff, go to sleep and tell him what i found in the morning. it was like 3am at this point. i finished getting ready for bed around 5:30am and went to my nightstand to plug in my phone, my boyfriend is a super heavy sleeper so i didnt think him waking up was even a possibility, but he woke up and asked me to come cuddle in bed with him, since he was half awake, i knew if i got into bed he’d start cuddling with me, and i could not handle that so id have to push him away, leaving me no choice but to confront him at that time instead of in the morning as i had planned. so i said “hey (bf’s name), do you wanna tell me why you’ve been looking at loads of porn on reddit” he quickly became fully conscious when he realized what was happening. he was still out of it but kind of trying to talk to me and ask me what was happening, i didnt say anything, i grabbed my pillow and a blanket and told him to go back to sleep and that we’d discuss it in the morning, he asked me where i was going and i said to sleep on my couch, then i gave him 2 options, i said he could either leave right then and there, or go back to sleep and we’d talk ab it later in the morning and i would sleep on my couch, but i told him we were not gonna have the convo right then and there. i went downstairs and set up my couch bed, then i was like wait a damn minute why am i the one sleeping on the couch, i came back upstairs and told him that i changed my mind and that he could either leave or sleep on the couch. he never made a decision and we ended up having the whole convo ab everything right then and there, i remained stern and i was clearly angry but i did not raise my voice or throw out insults. at first he tried lying to me and saying it wasnt him and all this other bullshit, but eventually he admitted that he has a porn addiction. i was still extremely upset, i understand that its a common thing in my generation, porn-like content is all over social media and so easy to access, but it still shook me to my core. porn addiction is a real thing but like idk how to deal with this, i am so hurt and feeling so many things, there was SO much of it and it all feels like cheating to me. this is making me question everything ab our intimate life, it makes me feel like it doesnt mean anything to him. idek when and how he has the energy to jerk off because we both have a high sex drive and see each other rly often, so we have LOTS of sex and im never the one to tap out after multiple rounds. its not vanilla either so its not like theres some sort of unfulfilled desire happening, i really do not get it at all, and i am SO unbelievably hurt. i dont know if i can ever move on from this or forgive him, or “help and support and reassure” him as he tries to quit this addiction. it feels like im begging my bf to only have eyes for me. like im support him in his endeavor to stop looking at other naked girls. nothing about it feels right and i dont know what to do. i love him so unbelievably much, but this changes everything, i wish this never happened because i do want to be with him, i just dont know how to, or if i should, now. any and all advice would be appreciated. i am completely undecided on what to do from this point on.
2024.05.15 14:07 raspberry25 thoughts of frustration because girls never get diagnosed
i tried getting help for my struggles, the psychologist confirmed i most likely have ADHD and autism. the healthcare didn’t want to help me because my struggles “aren’t serious enough”. my boyfriend has ADHD, i understand his struggles completely, but i find it so disheartening to be reminded every day that i most likely have disabilities that i won’t receive help for. he often talks about his difficulties, and i experience that when i have the same / similar struggles, it is ALWAYS something else, never ADHD.
this is not meant to invalidate anyone’s struggles in any way, these are all still signs of ADHD / autism. i’m just expressing how frustrated i am because i only receive criticism while many others (mainly boys) just receive sympathy and support because of their disability. it should be the same for girls.
when i experience daily executive dysfunction, i’m just lazy. when you experience daily executive dysfunction, it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having a difficult time learning and processing something, i’m just slow and dumb. when you’re having a difficult time learning and processing something, it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having trouble concentrating, i’m just annoying and disruptive. when you’re having trouble concentrating, it’s just your ADHD.
when i’m late to school i’m lazy and disorganized. when you’re late to school it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having a hard time interpreting social cues, i’m just slow. when you’re having a hard time interpreting social cues, it’s your autism.
when i find it difficult to make friends, i’m just awkward and strange. when you find it difficult to make friends, it’s your autism.
when i accidentally say something inappropriate, i’m rude and mean. when you accidentally say something inappropriate, it’s your autism.
when i have sensory sensitivities, i’m annoying and whiny. when you have sensory sensitivities, it’s your autism.
when i fail a test, i’m lazy and dumb. when you fail a test, it’s your ADHD.
when i have to work twice as hard as everyone else to succeed, once again i’m just slow and get mocked for it and told “just try harder”.
when you have to work twice as hard as everyone else to succeed, once again it’s your ADHD / autism and everyone understands and is sympathetic because you have a disability.
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this is not meant to invalidate anyone’s struggles in any way, these are all still signs of ADHD / autism. i’m just expressing how frustrated i am because i only receive criticism while many others (mainly boys) just receive sympathy and support because of their disability. it should be the same for girls.
when i experience daily executive dysfunction, i’m just lazy. when you experience daily executive dysfunction, it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having a difficult time learning and processing something, i’m just slow and dumb. when you’re having a difficult time learning and processing something, it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having trouble concentrating, i’m just annoying and disruptive. when you’re having trouble concentrating, it’s just your ADHD.
when i’m late to school i’m lazy and disorganized. when you’re late to school it’s your ADHD.
when i’m having a hard time interpreting social cues, i’m just slow. when you’re having a hard time interpreting social cues, it’s your autism.
when i find it difficult to make friends, i’m just awkward and strange. when you find it difficult to make friends, it’s your autism.
when i accidentally say something inappropriate, i’m rude and mean. when you accidentally say something inappropriate, it’s your autism.
when i have sensory sensitivities, i’m annoying and whiny. when you have sensory sensitivities, it’s your autism.
when i fail a test, i’m lazy and dumb. when you fail a test, it’s your ADHD.
when i have to work twice as hard as everyone else to succeed, once again i’m just slow and get mocked for it and told “just try harder”.
when you have to work twice as hard as everyone else to succeed, once again it’s your ADHD / autism and everyone understands and is sympathetic because you have a disability.
2024.05.15 14:07 Impossible_Effort233 Zantetsu’s Goal
In the new episode Nagi chapter Zantetsu states that his goal is for “someone amazing in this hot place to acknowledge” him.
I think this is going to be Loki. We will see a little bit of that in their world 5 match.
(Though I’m curious to see what Loki thinks about Chigiri as well)
Maybe Loki acknowledges Chigiri but not Zantetsu.
Either way this leads him to choosing France where he winds up on PXG.
If all he is looking for is Loki’s acknowledgement then maybe he doesn’t need to make the U20 WC, but it would be nice to see him improve enough and play in a match against Loki someday and do something impressive. Maybe this would happen in the normal WC.
My personal theory is that even if the U20 WC team is only 23 players, the actual World Cup will mimic the 2022 one where the roster was increased to 26 players and this would allow Sae and whoever else doesn’t make the roster to be able to play, all while keeping Fukaku to appease a backup goalie rule.
There will probably be some sort of selection arc where all the players return to be on the roster for the WC, but there might also be veteran and up and coming players competing so that roster could look quite different depending on how much Kaneshiro wants to shake things up (not much if Fukaku doesn’t stick around)
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I think this is going to be Loki. We will see a little bit of that in their world 5 match.
(Though I’m curious to see what Loki thinks about Chigiri as well)
Maybe Loki acknowledges Chigiri but not Zantetsu.
Either way this leads him to choosing France where he winds up on PXG.
If all he is looking for is Loki’s acknowledgement then maybe he doesn’t need to make the U20 WC, but it would be nice to see him improve enough and play in a match against Loki someday and do something impressive. Maybe this would happen in the normal WC.
My personal theory is that even if the U20 WC team is only 23 players, the actual World Cup will mimic the 2022 one where the roster was increased to 26 players and this would allow Sae and whoever else doesn’t make the roster to be able to play, all while keeping Fukaku to appease a backup goalie rule.
There will probably be some sort of selection arc where all the players return to be on the roster for the WC, but there might also be veteran and up and coming players competing so that roster could look quite different depending on how much Kaneshiro wants to shake things up (not much if Fukaku doesn’t stick around)
2024.05.15 14:05 coolgirl2244 Dealing with invalidation?
I can’t get over my something my mum said the other day and it’s triggering me so hard My mother has an undiagnosed ED and my sister is recovered from anorexia. I have been dealing with mine in silence for the past 7 ish years on and off. My organs recently started showing signs of failure which has kicked me into recovery and I only just opened up to my mum about my Ed. At first she was supportive but the other day I was speaking to her about the long term effects I’ve potentially done to my body and how I’m anxious about it, and her response was basically “yeah but your sister stopped eating for days, and even stopped drinking water” “you still eat though!” I guess she was trying to make me less anxious in a way but it shut me up real good and now I just don’t see the point in recoveryung because she’s right, I still ate 2-3 meals at my sickest, I was never IP I feel like she won’t take my issues seriously because I’ll always be compared to my sisters disorder. I don’t know why gaining her validation is so important to me but it’s eating away at me. Am I even sick??? Maybe I’m just making up an excuse for attention? I don’t even know
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2024.05.15 14:04 Bierre_Pourdieu Nettles potentially being erased is pissing me off and not because I’m team green
Sorry this is gonna be a rant, but I’m quite pissed off since yesterday that we got a potential leak that Nettles won’t be in the show and that Rhaena will take her place.
I’m one of the few here that remains optimistic about season 2 and I still believe the show is gonna deliver.
However, I’m quite worried and disappointed about the Nettles/Rhaena situation and it’s not even from a greenie point of view. It’s easy to like Nettles as a greenie because she is a point of tension between Daemon and Rhaenyra and it showed how horrible Rhaenyra had become.
But I mostly pissed off because of Rhaena and Nettles’ characters don’t blend well together.
Rhaena is a sweet, shy, and not confident person as we have seen in season 1. It clashes with her sister Baela who is a Daemon 2.0 without all the grooming. Rhaena having Sheepstealer and taking the Nettles’ storyline makes her another badass confident dragon rider which doesn’t go well with her established personality, and it makes her more like Baela, which I don’t like.
Rhaena’s failure of not being able to claim a dragon is also a huge part of her personality, and I would have liked to see that explored a bit more and not being resolved so easily by her claiming a dragon. Her finally being able to hatch Morning is quite beautiful for her character, and it symbolizes a glimpse of hope for the Targs while also being a deep fear inside the kingdom after such a disastrous war. I also would have loved to see Rhaena develop a more political personality, with her being sent away to the Vale. Almost like Sansa.
But more importantly, Nettles not existing cancels out what made her singular : a commoner, who we had doubts of her Valyrian ancestry, that was able to use her wits and intelligence to claim such a powerful dragon. Sure we have the other dragonseeds but her non Valyrian looks and cunningness are what made her the most intriguing dragonseed.
She was a representative of the smallfolk who was thrusted into a world of chaos. She still remained fierce and loyal even though she was targeted by Rhaenyra. People may argue that we will have that with Addam, but Addam will become a legitimate Velaryon. Nettles remained a commoner until the end and that made her special.
I will also add that the bond she shared with Sheepstealer will be lessened because Rhaena is a highborn lady. There’s something quite fascinating about a wild dragon bonding with a commoner who we have no idea who is her Valyrian ancestors.
And I am also supposed to believe that Daemon will have a change of heart with Rhaena and be a great father to her after all that we have seen ? And that Rhaena doesn’t resent her father a little bit ? What would have been great is Daemon being intrigued by Nettles because we have no idea if she was Valyrian and that would have shaken up his whole beliefs system. Which would have been a very good reason why Rhaenyra was so harsh to Nettles, even without the cheating.
Anyways sorry for the rant but Nettles was one of my favorite team black characters because she was so intriguing. Her potentially not being in the show makes me even more apathetic to the team black faction. I’m not only a team green fan, I want to further love the team black dynamics and characters. But without Nettles and with Rhaena becoming a generic badass highborn dragon rider, it feels like a lost cause.
What are your thoughts about all of this ?
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I’m one of the few here that remains optimistic about season 2 and I still believe the show is gonna deliver.
However, I’m quite worried and disappointed about the Nettles/Rhaena situation and it’s not even from a greenie point of view. It’s easy to like Nettles as a greenie because she is a point of tension between Daemon and Rhaenyra and it showed how horrible Rhaenyra had become.
But I mostly pissed off because of Rhaena and Nettles’ characters don’t blend well together.
Rhaena is a sweet, shy, and not confident person as we have seen in season 1. It clashes with her sister Baela who is a Daemon 2.0 without all the grooming. Rhaena having Sheepstealer and taking the Nettles’ storyline makes her another badass confident dragon rider which doesn’t go well with her established personality, and it makes her more like Baela, which I don’t like.
Rhaena’s failure of not being able to claim a dragon is also a huge part of her personality, and I would have liked to see that explored a bit more and not being resolved so easily by her claiming a dragon. Her finally being able to hatch Morning is quite beautiful for her character, and it symbolizes a glimpse of hope for the Targs while also being a deep fear inside the kingdom after such a disastrous war. I also would have loved to see Rhaena develop a more political personality, with her being sent away to the Vale. Almost like Sansa.
But more importantly, Nettles not existing cancels out what made her singular : a commoner, who we had doubts of her Valyrian ancestry, that was able to use her wits and intelligence to claim such a powerful dragon. Sure we have the other dragonseeds but her non Valyrian looks and cunningness are what made her the most intriguing dragonseed.
She was a representative of the smallfolk who was thrusted into a world of chaos. She still remained fierce and loyal even though she was targeted by Rhaenyra. People may argue that we will have that with Addam, but Addam will become a legitimate Velaryon. Nettles remained a commoner until the end and that made her special.
I will also add that the bond she shared with Sheepstealer will be lessened because Rhaena is a highborn lady. There’s something quite fascinating about a wild dragon bonding with a commoner who we have no idea who is her Valyrian ancestors.
And I am also supposed to believe that Daemon will have a change of heart with Rhaena and be a great father to her after all that we have seen ? And that Rhaena doesn’t resent her father a little bit ? What would have been great is Daemon being intrigued by Nettles because we have no idea if she was Valyrian and that would have shaken up his whole beliefs system. Which would have been a very good reason why Rhaenyra was so harsh to Nettles, even without the cheating.
Anyways sorry for the rant but Nettles was one of my favorite team black characters because she was so intriguing. Her potentially not being in the show makes me even more apathetic to the team black faction. I’m not only a team green fan, I want to further love the team black dynamics and characters. But without Nettles and with Rhaena becoming a generic badass highborn dragon rider, it feels like a lost cause.
What are your thoughts about all of this ?
2024.05.15 14:04 HotTeaCofee If not this Sub, who will talk about Nepos and their bad acting and PR push
Posting with Mod permission
There are posts on - Why Sharmindi is trolled for her role in Heeramandi and why are we talking too much about it
If you go on Instagram or any Interview like Kapil Sharma show / Promotion for Heeramandi, you’ll see Sharmin getting hyped and praised.
She’s being promoted as - 1 year audition, SLB strict with her and hardworking …etc. You would almost believe she was the best thing about HM.
If this Sub and few funny Twitter handles didn’t make noise, they wouldn’t even acknowledge that Sharminda wasn’t liked by audience
Same is case with “Relatable Sara” and many other PR push by Nepodi and Nepoda gang
We post about it so much that publications see there is a story worth publishing that will get clicks. Everyone likes more engagement
Even Tried and Refused guy made a video on Nepotism coz he knows it’s a best seller topic
All I am saying is that there’s no “Too many topics on Bad Nepodi Nepoda” because the shoving down and good PR is also in spades on internet
Let’s keep highlighting how bad they are
A huge shout out to Zoya for not letting The Floppies Nepo gang to do interviews. They just danced in their funny clothes . It saves them loads of embarrassment. Imagine Suhana saying she practiced her dialogues for 2 years , just to ham it up in real thing. Or Khushi saying how she went to some acting school to act in Floppies
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There are posts on - Why Sharmindi is trolled for her role in Heeramandi and why are we talking too much about it
If you go on Instagram or any Interview like Kapil Sharma show / Promotion for Heeramandi, you’ll see Sharmin getting hyped and praised.
She’s being promoted as - 1 year audition, SLB strict with her and hardworking …etc. You would almost believe she was the best thing about HM.
If this Sub and few funny Twitter handles didn’t make noise, they wouldn’t even acknowledge that Sharminda wasn’t liked by audience
Same is case with “Relatable Sara” and many other PR push by Nepodi and Nepoda gang
We post about it so much that publications see there is a story worth publishing that will get clicks. Everyone likes more engagement
Even Tried and Refused guy made a video on Nepotism coz he knows it’s a best seller topic
All I am saying is that there’s no “Too many topics on Bad Nepodi Nepoda” because the shoving down and good PR is also in spades on internet
Let’s keep highlighting how bad they are
A huge shout out to Zoya for not letting The Floppies Nepo gang to do interviews. They just danced in their funny clothes . It saves them loads of embarrassment. Imagine Suhana saying she practiced her dialogues for 2 years , just to ham it up in real thing. Or Khushi saying how she went to some acting school to act in Floppies
2024.05.15 14:03 BasedDog480 Got fired from my job
Been at this company since 2019, and honestly thought I’d be on track to make it a career, but after some issues with my work within the last two weeks I was ultimately let go, I’m kind of happy as I hated the job and mentally checked out as my boss would always highlight my mistakes, yet no one else’s in the team chat, but ultimately I am disappointed as all I got was a 2 minute teams call and a see ya later.
I’ve been looking for jobs ever since it happened but I have no clue how to look for a job now, and plus nothing really seems to match to what I was doing, kinda just at a crossroads right now on if I should just take absolutely any job or try a new career path at 28.
It still doesn’t feel real, I keep waking up thinking I’m late for work and then I realize I don’t have a job lol I got bills to pay and all that as well, just caught me off guard
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I’ve been looking for jobs ever since it happened but I have no clue how to look for a job now, and plus nothing really seems to match to what I was doing, kinda just at a crossroads right now on if I should just take absolutely any job or try a new career path at 28.
It still doesn’t feel real, I keep waking up thinking I’m late for work and then I realize I don’t have a job lol I got bills to pay and all that as well, just caught me off guard
2024.05.15 14:03 No_Parfait7443 My boyfriend’s [M26] family hates me [F24]
LONG POST AHEAD: We have been together for almost 6 years now, and I love my man, I really do. I see myself building a life with him. He cheated on me, on our first year of relationship, w broke up for a year and a half, amnd he came back to me, tinanggap ko siya ulit because nagbago siya, and nakita ko naman yon. Hindi ako delulu lang. But there are still a lot of shortcomings, mga bagay na paulit ulit kong pinakiusap sa kanya pero hindi niya magawa gawa sa hindi ko malaman na dahilan. Hindi niya ko maprotektahan sa mom niya despite of all the wrongful accusations ng family niya sakin, he wouldn’t show me off, he would always take things negatively kapag sinasabi ko na sa kanya kung ano g nararamdman ko sa mga bagay bagay, no matter what approach I do. He let me blow my own candle on my birthday, alone. He couldn’t get me anything on special occasions, and no, he’s earning 6 digits and well off ang family niya. I would repeatedly tell him na I’d be happy with a single stem of rose or a mini cupcake from the bakery sa kanto. But he just couldn’t. I broke up with him after my birthday, and I met someone, brand new, made me feel everything I wanted to feel, clearly for rebound reason. After 1 month, kinausap niya ko, na ayusin namin and we should try again. I didn’t really know that time kasi I’m experiencing something new, but I still said yes. Hindi na kami nag usap nung guy after I told him na he asked me for another chance, and then he suddenly just show up one day sa apartment ko to see how I’m doing. I told him I got back with the ex, and he was not surprised or mad at all, I said sorry and thanked him. I sent him off din agad but it was too late, nakita na kami ng boyfriend ko. He immediately thought I was cheating on him. Inamin ko na lahat and he was so mad. He went to his family and said na he caught me with a guy sa apartment ko and that I was cheating on him. Tinanggap ko na lang and thought it was time for me to move on for good, although it hurts so bad. But, 2 months later, he still came back. He said that he really love me and that I am who he wants to be with. Matagal kong pinag isipan lanat but it just made me realize, he’s a good man, he was hurt, but he is also who I want to be with, really. Lagi kong iniisip kung mas deserve ko ba ng someone better, but it always go back to the fact na, siya rin talaga yung gusto ko. Nagkabalikan kami, but his family didn’t know, because sinabihan daw siya na kapag binalikan pa ko, itatakwil (that’s the term used) daw siya. So, inintindi ko because, somehow, deep inside, I also blame myself na sana sinabi ko na lang yung events during the month that we weren’t together. And then, isang araw, nagsuspek yung family niya na we got back together, nag message sakin yung mom niya and he said, sabihin ko na raw lahat ng gusto kong sabihin but I shouldn’t admit yung totoo. I did what he said, I stood up for myself, I surely didn’t mean to be rude, but maybe it sounded that way and sabi ng ate niya, I caused trouble and stress daw sa bahay nila and that I should just stay away from all of them. Ayaw sakin ng mom niya, kahit noon pa, because yung mga ex ng boyfriend ko now, is MGA doctor na. Yes, 2 doctors of medicine, samantalang ako, still trying to make a degree, I’m a working student for 6 years now. I’m proud of me, I live in a 1 bedroom condo type apartment, all by myself, I financially help my family and support myself, I pay my own bills and everything, pero wala akong ganong kalaking ipon. I have a 22 year old car na binigay sakin ng dad ko and that’s it. He earns 4x time of what I’m currently earning. I feel like I have achieved a lot alreasy but everytime I’m reminded, I look down on me, far down. Lately, I had a massive breakdown because of everything that has happened and nag open ako sa bf ko, he, on the other hand, just also did the same, and I had to understand kasi siya naman, nakikipag battle sa family niya. So, ending, argument lang ang nangyari. But, after everything, I still want to be with him, to fight with him, I still want us. I do not know what to do anymore, I do not want anyone else.
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2024.05.15 14:02 RotaVitae Most vs. Least favourite foods
Foods can sometimes tell you something about the character.
Usagi - Cake & ice cream vs. carrots. Not surprising for a girl who loves her sweets! I think Usagi would only ever eat carrots if you made her carrot cake.
Chibiusa – Pancakes & pudding vs. carrots. The apple doesn’t fall far.
Ami - Sandwiches vs. Hamachi/Yellowtail. Ami likes sandwiches for being able to eat them while she reads. I’m not quite sure why she wouldn’t like yellowtail tuna though.
Rei - Fugu vs. Canned asparagus. Although fugu poisoning is relatively rare, Rei seems like a risk-taker for this delicacy. While I’ve never had asparagus from a can, I’m sure it’s not that great. In the anime, Rei prefers instant curry to cooking from scratch, which may suggest she’s tried a variety of canned foods.
Mako - Cherry pie & meatloaf vs. nothing! Totally sensible; Mako will not only eat anything you put in front of her; she'll probably know how to cook it better too.
Minako - Curry vs. shiitake. High-energy Minako probably enjoys a quick, filling meal like curry. Shiitake can be an acquired taste at the best of times.
Haruka - Salad vs. natto. Super athlete Haruka probably wants to eat light on the go like Minako. Natto is packed with protein, but its fermented smell and slimy texture make it an acquired taste.
Michiru - Sashimi vs. Sea cucumbers & kikurage (wood ear mushrooms). Sashimi seems very appropriate; sliced raw fish, nothing elaborate. The strange look and texture of sea cucumbers and kikurage might put her off. Sea cucumbers are also bottom-feeders and Michiru may find that unappealing.
Setsuna - Green tea vs. eggplant. Sailor Pluto joined our world so recently that the flavour of something as simple and common as green tea probably tastes phenomenal to her. Eggplant may be an acquired taste.
Hotaru - Soba vs. milk. Buckwheat noodles are simple, filling, and probably something Hotaru could prepare herself from packages since she was left alone a lot. Milk is a mystery, but it may suggest she prefer to act older than she is.
Mamoru – Nothing most fav. vs. bell peppers. I guess he’ll eat anything as long as you don’t try to hide them in it.
Of the Starlights, only Seiya has a favourite food listed: hamburgers. No surprise for a high school celeb on the go.
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Usagi - Cake & ice cream vs. carrots. Not surprising for a girl who loves her sweets! I think Usagi would only ever eat carrots if you made her carrot cake.
Chibiusa – Pancakes & pudding vs. carrots. The apple doesn’t fall far.
Ami - Sandwiches vs. Hamachi/Yellowtail. Ami likes sandwiches for being able to eat them while she reads. I’m not quite sure why she wouldn’t like yellowtail tuna though.
Rei - Fugu vs. Canned asparagus. Although fugu poisoning is relatively rare, Rei seems like a risk-taker for this delicacy. While I’ve never had asparagus from a can, I’m sure it’s not that great. In the anime, Rei prefers instant curry to cooking from scratch, which may suggest she’s tried a variety of canned foods.
Mako - Cherry pie & meatloaf vs. nothing! Totally sensible; Mako will not only eat anything you put in front of her; she'll probably know how to cook it better too.
Minako - Curry vs. shiitake. High-energy Minako probably enjoys a quick, filling meal like curry. Shiitake can be an acquired taste at the best of times.
Haruka - Salad vs. natto. Super athlete Haruka probably wants to eat light on the go like Minako. Natto is packed with protein, but its fermented smell and slimy texture make it an acquired taste.
Michiru - Sashimi vs. Sea cucumbers & kikurage (wood ear mushrooms). Sashimi seems very appropriate; sliced raw fish, nothing elaborate. The strange look and texture of sea cucumbers and kikurage might put her off. Sea cucumbers are also bottom-feeders and Michiru may find that unappealing.
Setsuna - Green tea vs. eggplant. Sailor Pluto joined our world so recently that the flavour of something as simple and common as green tea probably tastes phenomenal to her. Eggplant may be an acquired taste.
Hotaru - Soba vs. milk. Buckwheat noodles are simple, filling, and probably something Hotaru could prepare herself from packages since she was left alone a lot. Milk is a mystery, but it may suggest she prefer to act older than she is.
Mamoru – Nothing most fav. vs. bell peppers. I guess he’ll eat anything as long as you don’t try to hide them in it.
Of the Starlights, only Seiya has a favourite food listed: hamburgers. No surprise for a high school celeb on the go.
2024.05.15 14:01 Kisama-Miru MAIL DAY 📦~
 | I'm soooo happy, I was eyeing the Sizzlipede Chair since it came out but it never felt like the right time to buy it and considering how expensive the shipping is and I really wanted to be 100% sure that i want it. So last month I decided now is the time, cos I have 2 weeks of and could just wait for it to arrive, so I order it only to get an e-mail that the chair is a backorder and could take up to 30 days just to ship 🫠 BUT then on monday I got an e-mail that the shipping process started and I should expect the chair to arrive today and here we are ❤️ submitted by Kisama-Miru to pokeplush [link] [comments] And my sitting cuties also arrived :3 Saw them all in a bundle and couldn't resist. My first sitting cuties ! My wallet feels very empty now 🫣 P.s. sorry for any spelling and grammar mistakes |
2024.05.15 14:01 manoharparakh Top 10 Data Centers in India in 2024
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2024.05.15 14:01 BumblebeeFormal4492 Use of second pillar to buy a house
Hi,
We are looking to buy a house value around 1.9M.
I’m not clear of of our second pillar are we allowed to withdraw for the down payment.
At the moment our financial situation is the following, - 150k in cash - around 400k between me and my wife’s pillar - 50k in our third pillars (one of them is an insurance 😓, I looking to get out of that but not sure if it makes sense now that we are about to buy a property)
We also have a property abroad valued on 300k but we would want to rush to sell that house unless absolutely necessary.
So the question is, how much of the second pillar can we use for the initial down payment? It is only 10% of the total house value? Or can it be more?
We will make an appointment with the bank but any feedback is welcome
Thanks!
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We are looking to buy a house value around 1.9M.
I’m not clear of of our second pillar are we allowed to withdraw for the down payment.
At the moment our financial situation is the following, - 150k in cash - around 400k between me and my wife’s pillar - 50k in our third pillars (one of them is an insurance 😓, I looking to get out of that but not sure if it makes sense now that we are about to buy a property)
We also have a property abroad valued on 300k but we would want to rush to sell that house unless absolutely necessary.
So the question is, how much of the second pillar can we use for the initial down payment? It is only 10% of the total house value? Or can it be more?
We will make an appointment with the bank but any feedback is welcome
Thanks!
2024.05.15 14:01 Healthy-Proposal-73 I’m my bf of 2 yrs take a polygraph after our first vacation out of the country
sorry for the long read but need input & help. I (22f) need help putting 3 questions in the right wording, he (21M) slipped up and his “always right attitude “ thinks he knows how to pass this kinda test when honestly I believe him. He has always played the loop hole game. Meaning if you ask a question it better be worded right or you won’t get the truth. Please give me the right way to put 3 questions from the situation and what I’m looking to get the answers of. first situation- we went to punta Cana about 7 days ago and during our stay he decided to leave me in another country alone for 6 hours while he did whatever. we were out on the resort together he walked away 2 seconds & was gone. he would awnser his phone I would ask him to please meet up with me he would hang up the phone that went on the first 45 minutes until he completely stopped awnsering the phone completely. I gave him a couple hours thinking he would show back up to the room. Didn’t , so I went down looking for him following life 360 we have for each other. It brought me to a strip club casino. The man working that seen us in there earlier together told me he was upstairs in the private viewing. after I stomped in demanding someone to tell me where he was hysterically crying.as his location showed he was there. the worker walked me to the steps it was dark but I’m 98% sure he was up on the top bench area (he has curly tall afro but not hair & he’s extremely tall so it’s not hard to pick him out of a crowd) where I seen him with a female facing him sitting on his lap I yelled his name. HE BOOKED IT. His location started immediately moving out around back. he swears he was never there the casino or the club and that he blacked out and that’s the reason he left me & did what he did but had no contact with any women but has no other awnsers for me about where he was for 6 hours. I finally find him 2 steps from the club. I was devastated my best friend partner of years left me alone the first time leaving the country. One question I’d like put/but worded better is did he have any physical contact or engage in any sexual activity with a female on our trip to punta Cana. I would like to ask if he had any physical/ sexual contact with any other women but me since moving into our appt last December. And one more would be have you ever deleted messages or kept in contact with one female since last December of us moving into our appt. If anyone can help with the wording or a better question. He has cheated on me physically once and has gotten caught being so disrespectful over his phone. Any help would be so appreciated as I will NOT stay with him if he fails any of these. I know the last question isn’t the best but I’m opened to suggestions. I need to know the truth. He first said he was asleep on the bench until I showed him his life 360 location of him all over and in the strip club. After I paid for every single part of this trip that would really break me. TL:DR Boyfriend disappeared for 6 hours in another country and I’m making him take a polygraph test need help figuring out the best way to word my question!
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2024.05.15 14:00 Sir_David_Davidson Show, Don't Tell. The Key to Creating Attraction!
Hi, David here!
"Actions speak louder than words." This is especially true when it comes to creating attraction. Since talk is cheap, women have developed excellent BS detectors for evaluating a man based primarily on his body language, actions and behaviors.
The first thing you should communicate is a vibe of comfort and confidence. Nonverbal ques and how you say something can communicate much more than the actual words you that you say.
Comfort and confidence in an interaction implies prior success. A guy who acts nervous, rushes his words and is constantly afraid of "screwing up" an interaction is communicating that he thinks a girl is out of his league and that he suffers from a scarcity of similar options.
However, a guy who does not need the other person’s approval, is willing to walk away, or at the very least not chase a girl or act desperate / hungry, implies that he has options. A guy does not actually need to be in abundance or have many options to appear attractive. He must simply show and display the behaviors of someone who does. This primarily done by him not getting overly excited, trying to rush an interaction along before a girl changes her mind, showing a fear of loss, or trying too hard to impress.
When it seems to a person that you are trying to actively and intentionally impress them, they may think that you are overcompensating for something else. Imagine what the behaviors of a self-secure, confident, high value man who had tons of options and was living in abundance would look like. Would he actively be trying to impress a girl he liked? He would simply make his intrigue in the woman known and believe that as she naturally gets to know him in a conversation, that there is no reason that he is not good enough. He would not feel the need to actively try to sell himself.
You can’t logically convince someone to find you attractive via your words alone. The emotions/feelings of attraction are better elicited via attractive behaviors which are harder to fake. And when it is created through your words, these words must be deemed as being part of an honest conversation and not only being said for the sole purpose of making the other person like you. Otherwise the person may dismiss you as just telling them what you think they want to hear.
BTW, I wanted to let you know that I just finished putting together my eBook "Bros Guide to Meeting Women" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!
I decided to give it away for free for the time being.
The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).
You can get the eBook by clicking here!
This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!
What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?
Let's discuss in the comments :)
Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!
David Davidson
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"Actions speak louder than words." This is especially true when it comes to creating attraction. Since talk is cheap, women have developed excellent BS detectors for evaluating a man based primarily on his body language, actions and behaviors.
The first thing you should communicate is a vibe of comfort and confidence. Nonverbal ques and how you say something can communicate much more than the actual words you that you say.
Comfort and confidence in an interaction implies prior success. A guy who acts nervous, rushes his words and is constantly afraid of "screwing up" an interaction is communicating that he thinks a girl is out of his league and that he suffers from a scarcity of similar options.
However, a guy who does not need the other person’s approval, is willing to walk away, or at the very least not chase a girl or act desperate / hungry, implies that he has options. A guy does not actually need to be in abundance or have many options to appear attractive. He must simply show and display the behaviors of someone who does. This primarily done by him not getting overly excited, trying to rush an interaction along before a girl changes her mind, showing a fear of loss, or trying too hard to impress.
When it seems to a person that you are trying to actively and intentionally impress them, they may think that you are overcompensating for something else. Imagine what the behaviors of a self-secure, confident, high value man who had tons of options and was living in abundance would look like. Would he actively be trying to impress a girl he liked? He would simply make his intrigue in the woman known and believe that as she naturally gets to know him in a conversation, that there is no reason that he is not good enough. He would not feel the need to actively try to sell himself.
You can’t logically convince someone to find you attractive via your words alone. The emotions/feelings of attraction are better elicited via attractive behaviors which are harder to fake. And when it is created through your words, these words must be deemed as being part of an honest conversation and not only being said for the sole purpose of making the other person like you. Otherwise the person may dismiss you as just telling them what you think they want to hear.
BTW, I wanted to let you know that I just finished putting together my eBook "Bros Guide to Meeting Women" version 4.0 and would LOVE to get some honest feedback from you!
I decided to give it away for free for the time being.
The eBook is 27 pages long and gives you a practical step-by-step solution to meeting women (15+ years of knowledge put into it).
You can get the eBook by clicking here!
This book is the result of going out and socializing with girls for over a decade. I have put in there all the fundamentals I have learned over that time so I would really appreciate all the feedback I could get!!
What are your thoughts? Do you have any tips to add?
Let's discuss in the comments :)
Thanks for reading and have a GREAT day!
David Davidson
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Comment guidelines:
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* Engage in baseless speculation, fear mongering, or anxiety posting. Question asking is welcome and encouraged, but questions should focus on tangible issues and not groundless hypothetical scenarios. Before asking a question ask yourself 'How likely is this thing to occur.' Questions, like other kinds of comments, should be supported by evidence and must maintain the burden of credibility.
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2024.05.15 14:00 AutoModerator Stress Buy Support
Hello, IMAM!
Many of us shop more during times of stress, and many of us are more stressed than usual these days. The Mod Team would like to provide a space for community members (including ourselves!) to discuss coping with stress as we try to stick to our personal and financial goals.
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Many of us shop more during times of stress, and many of us are more stressed than usual these days. The Mod Team would like to provide a space for community members (including ourselves!) to discuss coping with stress as we try to stick to our personal and financial goals.
Financial Planning
If you are interested in financial planning (e.g., making a budget, managing debt, setting and reaching savings goals), check out personalfinance. Their wiki is a great resource.Having Fun with Your Collection
Here are some ideas about how to explore your collection and/or connect with the indie community that do not involve spending:- Re-organize your collection. If you have a lot of samples, separate the ones you haven’t tested yet, the ones you want to destash, and the ones you’d like to keep/upgrade.
- Start a collection spreadsheet. Here is an example!
- Start an indie journal. Make note of which indie products you use every day. At the end of the month/season/year, tally up your “biggest hits” and share them on IMAM or another community.
"Shopping" without Spending
If you find that the act of shopping and submitting orders is hard to resist, you might consider trying one of the following strategies:- “Window shop": build a wishlist on the brand’s website (e.g., Etsy, Silk Naturals, BPAL have this feature); save your favourites to a Pinterest board or document them in a spreadsheet.
- “Shop” at your local library: if your library has an online catalogue, browse through it and put items on hold, check out digital resources, or create a list of titles you’d like to check out. Perhaps you'd like to challenge yourself to learn more about perfume, makeup, or cosmetic chemistry!