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2013.02.01 01:33 Fearink Everything about Tinder

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2024.05.16 15:10 FluidImpact259 What are the lessons people learn after a breakup?

I feel every individual usually goes and must go through atleast 1 terrible breakup in their life. It teaches many lessons as well as fosters maturity.
  1. Unconditional love is a myth , in 99% cases (excluding parental love)
  2. Love is like a mood. It changes with time. Love is “love” only when a particular time frame suits it. Once the comfort zone is removed (eg. Things like long distance comes into picture) the “love” gets challenging and starts deteriorating.
  3. One person always wants to make it work more than the other. Theres no equality in “loving”.
  4. As you grow, your choices change. You start questioning if you really want the person.
  5. Never try controlling the person, cause once they leave you , they’ll anyway do the things you once told them to quit.
  6. Never trust words like i love you infinity or i want to make babies with you etc. Its total bullshit. Its their hormones playing mind games , thats all. Actions speak louder than words.
  7. Only invest in the person if you see equal reciprocation. Do not be a giver unless you get equal amount of time and affection.
  8. Sex has nothing to do with love. Sex is a part of a relationship. It doesn’t solve anything nor does it increase the magnitude of love. Its just an act. Jist cause the other person lost their virginity to you doesnt mean they are going to marry you. Sex is just an act. Remember. Dont make it a big deal.
  9. The moment you feel the other person suddenly changes their attitude towards you , and you observe this change over a period of time, trust me - thats a narcissistic trait. Run like hell and never look back.
  10. The biggest regret you’ll have is you let your self respect be sabotaged for some unworthy person. Remember, if your self respect needs to be compromised, its no love. Its negative lustful attachment.
  11. Your personalities should match atleast 80 percent. If your thought process and wants in life are different - your relationship is doomed to fail. Moreover if you feel you are an empath or a sensitive person , beware of narcissists.(youtube narcisstic traits) . A narcissist can ruin your life.
  12. Take each day as it comes. Dont plan the future. Planning the future creats many expectations and expectations increase attachments. Attachment breeds obsession = your mental health becomes detrimental and you feel mentally weak as well as drained.
  13. Date a person whos long term goals are similar to yours
  14. Dont promise anything about the future. Just be loyal. Let things flow as they do. If its meant to be it will.
  15. Forcing whats not meant to be will only cause more mental trauma and suffering
  16. If your girlfriend has a male bestfriend. Just trust her. Thats all. Cause if you try separating them, and eventually in future if you breakup, you’ll most likely see her in that friends’ arms. That’ll kill you. And viceversa for girls.
  17. Never trust fully. A person changes each day,each minute,each second. Take each day as it comes as i said.
  18. Never ever ever ever EVER agree on being friends with an ex if you were dumped. She/he would ask for friendship just cause they pity your situation and want to relieve blame from their heads.
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2024.05.16 15:08 encinitazthrowaway Best IOS Adblocker in 2024?

Please help me find the best ad blocker for iOS. Right in the middle of showing my mom a new recipe on my iPhone, a full-screen ad for a dating sim game came up and took over. I know that ads are how some apps make money, but I can't stand these annoying ones. I'm really petty and need a good ad blocker, but I have no idea if there are any for iOS. Old threads have said that Adguard and Wipr are good, but reviews are mixed. Are these good, or am I missing something else? I'd like something that won't slow down my phone as much as possible.
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2024.05.16 15:06 platypusplayer_06 Except that part where Peter dated his adopted sister. We... We don't need to talk about that part

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2024.05.16 15:06 sk716theFirst Updated Case Long Timeline

Updated with autopsy results.
Morphew Case Map - Google My Maps - Barry's iPhone Data - Google My Maps - Barry's Truck Events - Google My Maps
August 5, 1994 – Suzanne Moorman marries Barry Morphew The Alexandria Times-Tribune Alexandria, Indiana 05 Jan 1994, Wed • Page 4
December 1999 – Barry and Suzanne Purchase 26040 Cal Carson Rd, Arcadia, IN This is the house where he dug a hole in the yard and buried everything he didn't want to move to Colorado. (AA ft 55 page 53)
November 2013 – Suzanne Inherits $208,000 upon the Passing of her Mother. MB provided documents that Suzanne inherited approximately $208,000 in 2013 at the passing of her mother.
August 2016 – Suzanne inherits $217,000 upon the death of a grandmother. Suzanne’s grievance list included multiple references to Barry controlling the finances.
April 12, 2018 – The Morphew’s Purchase 19057 Puma Path Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchase 19057 Puma Path for $1,575,000.
June 1, 2018 – The Morphews move to Colorado. (PH – Harris) SA Harris: Yeah, they moved in 2018. I believe they left around June 1st, 2018. to move to Colorado. So roughly a year and a half of the time is what Sheila originally said in that.
September 2018 – Suzanne sends “Howdy stranger” message to JL First contact since high school.
Fall 2018 – Libler’s daughter sees messages from Suzanne on his phone. Libler breaks it off.
Thanksgiving 2018 – Barry obsessive/possessive. While Suzanne was at the Oliver’s house, she had stepped away from her cell phone to use the restroom, and Barry tried calling her several times within a few minutes, then tried calling Sheila, then tried calling Darin.
Holidays 2018 – Suzanne finds Libler’s LinkedIn Page. Relationship Rekindled
January 2019 – The Mexico trip where Barry took Suzanne’s phone Mexico trip mentioned in the grievances list where Barry took Suzanne's phone.
February 11 – 14, 2019 – Suzanne in New Orleans with Libler Barry admitted to questioning Suzanne about the New Orleans trip, further evidence he suspected the affair.
April 2019 – Suzanne meets up with Libler in Indiana She does not see SO on this trip.
July 2019 – Suzanne and Libler meet up in Michigan Barry called SO while Suzanne was in MI visiting her fatheJL, wanting to know why Suzanne wasn't returning his calls.
September 2019 – Barry stalks Suzanne and Shelia Oliver, creeping through woods. Barry stalked Suzanne and Sheila at the Puma Path house in September 2019. This is upon his early return from a trip to Arizona.
October 2019 – Libler and Suzanne in Dallas Suzanne and Libler spend two nights at the Galleria.
September – November 2019 – Barry aggressively pursues KW around Salida. From the first time KW met Barry, she said it felt like "he was putting his tentacles out."
Holidays 2019 – Suzanne and Libler stop talking on the phone because she is afraid Barry will find out. They shift to more covert ways to communicate. Barry's second device makes its first appearance.
January/February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, gets spy pen, sees Libler Suzanne in Florida, SO gives her the spy pen during this trip. Suzanne records a conversation with Libler on this trip.
Late February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, sees father and Libler. Suzanne skips out on time with her father to see Libler. Barry goes to Florida.
March 2020 – Spy pen records argument between Suzanne and Barry. “It’s money. It’s about money.” “… I have lived for years being told how I should feel, how I should act, how I should look, what I should drink, what I shouldn’t drink, what I should put in my body, what I shouldn’t put in my body … ”
March 20, 2020 – Jekyll and Hyde text exchange between Suzanne and SO, MM2 suggests restraining order. "It’s Jekyl and Hyde again … Pretty much told him I can’t be healthy and stay in this."
March 22, 2020 – Spy pen records Barry listening to Forensic Files episodes, call with Suzanne on drive to Pueblo Coincidentally one of the episodes involved a woman "disappearing" after a bike ride.
April 21, 2020 – Messages between Suzanne and Libler “I want to be with you,” “I can only be me with you,” I love you,” “I need you.” “You know I was born to love you.”
May 4, 2020 16:05 – Barry makes 3 second outgoing call to Suzanne This was the first logged call in Barry’s phone to or from Suzanne since February 7, 2020.
May 5, 2020 – Suzanne drives MM2 to Gunnison Suzanne drives Macy to Gunnison, CO to meet MM1 for a road/camping trip through Utah and Idaho with MM1's best friend.
May 6, 08:44 – Suzanne sends MM2 a text “Good morning! I miss you already!”
May 6, 10:13 – Suzanne: “I’m done. I could care less what you’re up to and have been for years.” From 14:43 to 17:00 Barry replied, “When I’m dead,” “Going to see my savior,” and “This life on earth is a mear (sic) grain of sand compared to eternity.”
May 6, 2020 – 14:43 – From Barry to Suzanne: “I’m sorry if things went the way they did. I have a problem dealing with the way you accused me of hiding checks. If you think I’m as terrible of a person to hide our accounts and have ones you don’t know about you don’t know me. All I do is for you and the girls. All. When I'm dead, which won't be long, you guys will be taken care of. Please stop being angry. If I can control my hurt heart I think I can overcome your distant unlovingness toward me. Honey, I swear it's the hardest thing I've had to do. I love you I always will.”
May 6, 2020 – 15:51 – Barry to Suzanne: “I promise you were wrong about all the crazy thoughts about me. I have always been faithful. Always. Why would I ever want another when I'm married to the most beautiful, sweet, kind, loving, woman as you? Only a fool would stray from an angel like you.”
May 07, 2020 – Suzanne messages Libler about how magical past days had been. Barry wants a new truck. 16:43 - “Been studying all afternoon. I’m gonna bike now. I’ve got veggie soup on for supper.”
May 7, 2020 – SB puts new tires on Suzanne’s bike Bike mechanic was interviewed by law enforcement.
May 7, 17:13:52 – Barry Works Out at GD’s House Truck log files place Barry at GD's home at 5:13 pm.
May 7, 2020 23:00 – “I finally got the job” text from MM1 goes unanswered. Q (Lindsey): Anything on May 6th that didn’t seem normal? Was there a text from Mallory to Mr. Morphew? A (Grusing): I believe that’s the night of May 7th. Mallory, Macy, and their friend Holly are out on a trip towards Utah and Mallory is sending pictures to both Suzanne and Barry but I was ... Read more
May 08, 07:03 – The Grievance List: Suzanne’s phone backs up a list of 50 reasons why she wanted to leave marriage on “Notes” Not safe alone with you. Can’t be trusted - Oppressive - Slam on brakes when angry - Threaten to jump out of car - Gun ...
May 08, 08:43 – “I will continue to do your invoicing when you need to.” "When FBI Agents showed Barry these texts during interviews in 2021, he said he did not think Suzanne was serious."
May 08, 09:28 – Suzanne texts sister about Barry’s abuse. “It’s hard dealing with the harsh abrasiveness and having to show respect. He’s also been abusive, emotionally and physically. There’s so much … I went thru a period of acceptance and I feel more angry now. Anger at what I’ve allowed.”
May 08, 10:55 Barry: “I Love You, Suzanne.” “But, in the afternoon, it (the text fight) was like it never happened. She texted me back and it was just like, ‘Hey, what time are you coming home? Hey, this or that. Just pick this up or pick that up.'”
May 08, 13:18 – Barry texts Salida Stove and Spa about getting the hot tub fixed. "Asking when he could come out to the home."
May 08, 15:43 – Barry’s iPhone receives an SMS message associated with the unknown device This second device was first used on November 30,2019 and was associated with Barry’s iPhone 91 times since then, compared to 1,701 associations with the primary User ID since November 2019.
May 8, 19:06 – Moonlight Pizza and Phone Calls Barry convinces Suzanne to meet him at the Tailwinds site before going to pick up Moonlight Pizza together.
May 08, 21:04 – 20 Facebook friend requests, 3 men named “Jeff.” Barry’s lurking at the River. Barry was asked about his phone pinging down by the river during the Facebook posts on Friday night and asked if he was outside. Barry said, “I could have been. I don’t remember. I chase critters around the house all the time.”
May 09, 00:02 – Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 02:07 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) 02:07 am outgoing call on SM’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:00 – Barry’s phone received call (PH CAST) 06:00 am BM’s phone received call (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:46 – Barry’s phone registered “Power On” Comes out of Airplane mode.
May 09, 07:19 – Barry’s cell received signal (PH) Barry’s cell received signal (PH)
May 09, 07:22 – 07:39 – Barry at “Tailwinds” worksite Barry’s phone registered locations at his “Tailwinds” work site near Poncha Springs.
May 09, 07:35 – Suzanne texting SO Discussing Sheila's daughters wedding on Sunday.
May 09, 08:00 – MG was with Barry working on the rock beach site until 10am(?). Gentile: “He said that he had to go make the wife happy – do some hiking or biking.”
May 9 – Morning – Suzanne messaging Jeff “He’s still wanting Arizona.”
May 09, 09:50 – Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike? *Text Exchange\* Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike?
May 9, 2020 – 11:14 – Suzanne received a second password reset message from Facebook Previous reset was while Barry was down by the river on the evening of the 8th.
May 09, 11:15 est. – Barry tells Morgan Gentile he could “bury a body” and it “would never be found.” Gentile: “He seemed stressed. He definitely seemed weird on Saturday.”
May 09, 11:55 – Dead Turkey Hunt or Barry Takes Down His Trail Cameras Barry said he was looking for a turkey that Mallory had shot previously with a bow, but they had never found.
May 09, 13:35 – Barry leaves home again. Checked on job at Kim Gyms
May 9, 13:40(?) – Suzanne texts Libler Guess who is alone again?
May 09, 13:46 – Barry and the backhoe After texting, Barry drove by TK's house to see the backhoe, but did not get back in touch to buy it. In 2018, Barry used a backhoe to dig a large hole in his front yard, fill it with items to include furniture, and cover it over, planting alfalfa on top.
May 09, 13:51 – 14:13 – Barry at DSI, replacing Bobcat blade He was wearing a blue t-shirt and khaki shorts.
May 09, 14:03 – Suzanne sends sunbathing pic to Libler, last proof of life. “Well, look at her. She’s obviously drunk. Look at her eyes. Do you know what drunk eyes look like?
May 09, 14:11 – Suzanne sends last LinkedIn message to Libler: “I’m on wa.” Libler sent response messages at 2:39PM, 2:46PM and 2:47PM that Suzanne did not answer.
May 09, 14:26 – Barry texts Suzanne, “Done headed back.” He texted Suzanne that he was done and was headed home.
May 09, 14:31 – Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.” At 2:31 PM, Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.”
May 09, 14:39 – Libler messages Suzanne, she does not respond. First unread. Messages from LinkedIn show they were talking about how Suzanne is in love with Jeff before she went missing.
May 09, 14:43 – Barry’s phone and F-350, per telematics, arrive at the Morphew residence. "The photo is shown in the courtroom, Suzanne smiling. Truck GPS coordinates show Barry’s truck goes into park at 2:43:59. Phone coordinates show he walks around the house. You can hear a pin drop in the courtroom as tension is high." - Carol McKinley, PH Tweet
May 09, 14:44 – Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. (See: https://www.reddit.com/SuzanneMorphew/comments/17lfboz/barry_and_the_chipmunks_aa_excerpts/ )
May 09, 14:46 – Libler messages: “Hey … your weather looks great” Second unread. No response from Suzanne.
May 09, 14:47 – Jeff sends another messages to Suzanne with no response. Third unread. Jeff sends last message if the day to Suzanne with no response.
May 09, 16:00 – 17:30 – Defense says Barry was at Salida Stove and Spa Salida Stove and Spa's posted hours have the store closing at 2pm on Saturday. Telematics show Barry's truck in his garage during the time he was supposedly at Salida Stove and Spa.
May 09, 16:44 – Barry parks his truck in the garage. Barry claims to have been loading his truck and cleaning off his workbench. (See: https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?hl=en&mid=1FSqlFRrywR8FkytAYkNM-bdSxvKVK5MP&ll=39.173623131314%2C-105.63244&z=8)
May 09, 17:33 – Barry’s truck system manually rebooted Barry attempted to disable the trucks GPS and SYNC features.
May 09, 18:40, 18:46 – SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened
May 09, 21:25 – Barry’s truck goes into reverse, backs 96.8 feet down driveway Barry backs 96 feet out of the garage.
May 09, 22:17 – Barry’s Phone Exits out of Airplane Mode Barry's phone comes out of airplane mode at the Morphew residence.
May 10, 02:53 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone Possible glitch.
May 10, 03:25 – 03:48 – Barry’s truck door opened and closed "SA Hoyland noted over eighty events involving the F350 during this timeframe."
May 10, 03:58 – Barry’s phone moves from home to near where Suzanne’s bike found 3:58 am BM cell moves from home to near 225/50 where bike found Carol McKinley PH Tweets (read from bottom tweet up): 431 am 5/10 Barry’s phone goes back into airplane mode at the his home. 5:37 am – morphew turns into buena vista & heads towards broomfield. 538 he texts his mom “happy ... Read more
May 10, 04:10 – 04:23 – Last Activity from Suzanne’s iPhone Sergeant Mullenax asked dispatch to ping the number given for Suzanne’s cell phone. Dispatch informed Mullenax that the cell phone appeared to be off and last known activity was at 4:23AM on the present date, with a general location about 11.5 miles west of a cell tower in Poncha Springs, CO.
May 10, 04:32 – Barry’s Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode Barry's Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode
May 10, 04:32 – 05:14 – Chasing Elk, or Staging Evidence? Barry's trip to Garfield adds an approximate five miles each way to his morning trip, and places Barry and his vehicle in the direction the helmet was discarded - west from the bicycle.
May 10, 05:00 – Morgan Gentile Hears Barry’s Truck on Hwy 50 Gentile stated she did not see the truck but that his truck has a very distinctive exhaust.
May 10, 05:14 – 06:56 – Barry on the road to Broomfield. Barry phone exits airplane mode while heading towards Buena Vista, CO.
May 10, 08:10 – Trash Dump #1 – RTD Bus Stop Hwy 36 Agent Grusing: "Yes. He would have time -- with the passenger door opening and closing -- like it would say passenger door opened at 8:10:36 am and then passenger door closed at 8:12:13 am. So it took about a minute and a half and that trash can is only 10 to 15 steps away from where the truck was parked."
May 10, 08:14 – 08:20 Holiday Inn Express, Broomfield. Trash Dump #2 Grusing: "He said he parked there because he hoped someone would come out and he could go in the hotel before checking in and get a free breakfast." (Note: It was mid-COVID lockdown, building capacities were down to single digits.)
May 10, 08:41 – 08:46 – “I made it to Broomfield call me when you get a chance” Barry texts Suzanne.
May 10, 08:46 – Barry carries items into the Holiday Inn Express “If there’s clothes in my truck, there was probably old clothes I threw away.”
May 10, 10:06 – Barry exits hotel room. He's carrying a charcoal long-sleeved shirt, two white bags, and a pair of boots.
May 10, 10:20 – 10:41 – McDonald’s – Trash Dump #3 SA Grusing said Barry had a small item in his hand and used one arm to push it down, then both to push it further down as Barry was shown the photos.
May 10, 10:47 – 11:18 – Men’s Wearhouse Trash Dump #4 Barry was told he was there for about 40 minutes and asked if he remembered what he was doing there. Barry said, “I think I was still cleaning my truck, umm, yeah, yeah I mean, like I said, I just uh, I would, I was probably getting crap out of my truck like I said, which I’ve done my whole entire life.”
May 10, 11:18 – Barry calls MG "Barry called he was out of breathe (sic) panting but fatigue, kind a like hungover but he doesn’t drink, honestly when I hung up I thought to myself he sounded like he had the worst night of his life.” - MG
May 10, 11:23 – 11:36 – Barry back at the HIE Barry carries in disorganized papers in a binder. Carries out an organized binder.
May 10, 11:57 – 12:25 – Barry at the worksite Barry spent 28 minutes removing a few blocks from the wall.
May 10, 12:28 – 12:41 – HIE Trash Dump #5 A camera recorded Barry throwing away: a small item, one white trash bag, larger in size than the previous bags in one hand, a black container, along with a piece of clothing, possibly a camouflage coat.
May 10, 12:42 – 18:03 – Barry remains in his HIE room. ”At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne 'Call me'"
May 10, 2020 (Time Unknown) – Libler wishes Suzanne a Happy Mother’s Day Commented that it would be a hard day because she missed her own mother.
May 10, 2020 – 15:30 – Barry texts Suzanne from his hotel room. At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne “Call me”
May 10, 15:50 – 17:45 – Suzanne is discovered “missing” “I’m just so sad and REDCATED and I texted mom for Mother’s Day and she still hasn’t answered and I’m scared her and dad probably got in a big fight and I don’t even know it just made me want to be gone even more because I don’t want to be around them it hurts me and I know if REDACTED is working I might have to be home a lot more and it’ll probably be the worst summer of my life.”- MM2 text.
May 10, 17:55 – 19:10 – Barry leaving Broomfield 6:10 pm - Barry entered the lobby carrying two shovels and placed them beside the front desk. He made subsequent trips, placing more tools in the same spot.
May 10, 19:31 – Chaffee County finds the bike “Something is up with the front tire,” Deputy Brown
May 10, 20:42 – Barry arrives at CR 255 & US 50 "Barry is heard asking if deputies saw any “cats” on the road and a deputy says not recently."
May 10, 21:37 – CCSO Commander Avila brings Barry into the house for scent items. Barry does not call out or look for his wife in the home.
May 10, After 21:47 – Barefoot prints in the Bobcat Bucket Deputy Brown was walking in the driveway when Deputy Defurio told him that there were barefoot marks inside of the bucket on the Bobcat. Deputy Brown went with him to examine and found that the cutting blade on the bucket of the Bobcat appeared to be newly replaced, along with the nuts and bolts.
May 10, 22:00 – MG and JP smell chlorine and have the wrong tools in Broomfield. “It looked like Barry had removed top caps that was it. We also did not have the tools we need like a packer or gravel.”
May 11, 2020 – First Interviews, Puma Path Searched "On May 11, 2020, at about 7:00AM, Barry called Morgan and said that Suzanne was missing and he thought a mountain lion may have attacked her. Morgan explained that Barry was initially crying but then abruptly shifted to the specifics about the Broomfield job."
May 11, 2020 – 14:47 – Libler sends last message to Suzanne. Wishing her well for her scheduled final cancer treatment that day.
May 12, 2020 – 20:00 – Barry found digging in the trash at Poncha Market “He went to write down a description of maybe what she was wearing,” Butala said. “I just thought it was weird because he didn’t explain what the color of her eyes were or her hair or anything about her, like how tall she was or anything.”
May 13, 2020 – Deputy Carricato took photos of scratches on Barry’s left arm and hands. These injuries appeared to be healing, several days old scratches.
May 13, 2020 – Fundraiser created $33,552 raised
May 17, 2020 – 11:13 – Barry’s “plea” video is released on Facebook. “Oh Suzanne, if anyone is out there and can hear this, that has you, please, we’ll do whatever it takes to bring you back. We love you, we miss you, your girls need you. No questions asked, however much they want – I will do whatever it takes to get you back. Honey, I love you, I want you back so bad.”
May 19, 2020 – Interviews, Pneu-Darts, Range Rovers "CCSO Deputy Scott Himschoot was present during the search at 19057 Puma Path, in the laundry room, and was asked to collect a “pneu-dart box, empty,” one plastic hypodermic cover, one Pneu-dart book from safe in garage, one dart from box under bench in garage, among other items. The plastic cover was located by evidence search teams in the dryer, inside of the sheets belonging to REDACTED bed." (At some point we had confirmation of a to-do list Suzanne left including MM1s bedding in hopes that the older girls would spend the night. Cannot remember the source.)
May 20, 2020 – Spy Pen found. "The pen was located in a cloth bin amongst women’s bras. The cloth bin and pen were inside the walk-in closet in the master bedroom, located on the ground level of the residence. Detective Hysjulien located, with the pen, the controller and headphones for playback and a USB cable."
June 1, 2020 – Barry files for guardianship. Within a month of Suzanne’s disappearance, Barry began to liquidate assets.
June 1, 2020 – TD interviews Barry on camera. "So, uh -- we uh --. We had two daughters that were coming home from a trip. And I got a job in Denver that I wanted to get started on on Sunday. Set it up for my work because my rookies are coming in Sunday night. (Unintelligible) Monday but I, being the owner, I wanted to get everything lined up so that (Unintelligible).
June 6, 2020 – Barry closes on IN home. Pockets $750,000
June 25, 2020 – Barry purchases the Longhorn Ranch property for $165,000 Property Address 8366 LONGHORN DR
July 13, 2020 – Barry sells Suzanne’s Range Rover. Leaves Suzanne's sunglasses in the car.
Aug 20, 2020 – Lauren Scharf Interviews Barry “People don’t know the truth, so they’re gonna think what they’re gonna think.”
October 05, 2020 – Barry lists Puma Path home for sale. Originally listed for $1,759,000.
November 2020 – Barry Commits Voter Fraud Barry filled out Suzanne's ballot and mailed it in.
February 17, 2021 – Barry Sells Longhorn Ranch property for $150,000 A $15,000 loss. Same property sold on 04/21/2021 for $175,000, indicating Barry needed the money fast.
March 3, 2021 – 19057 Puma Path sells for $1,625,000. Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchased the home on April 12, 2018 for $1,575,000.
May 4, 2021 – Warrant Issued for the Arrest of Barry Lee Morphew CRS/CHARGE: 18-3-102 (1), (a) Murder in the First Degree, a class 1 Felony, 18-8-610. Tampering with Physical Evidence, a class 6 felony, 18-8-306, Attempt to Influence a Public Servant, a class 4 Felony.
May 5, 2021 – 09:15 – Barry Lee Morphew Arrested for the murder of Suzanne Renee Moorman Morphew "Morphew was arrested around 9:15 a.m. on Wednesday, May 5 near his home in Poncha Springs. FOX31 News has obtained video of the arrest, which shows his truck stopped on the side of the road near several police vehicles. He can be seen standing just off the road with an officer." AA: https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21065843-21cr78-morphew-redacted-affidavit
August 9-12, 2021 – Preliminary Hearing. Day One: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15wZ86C3zQ6kh9VGOUCJcr0ipCoFeaXkdowmwyaruiIQ/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Two: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QKa1jcH2dAqe9Wezew-KbLCDuicrm1HgfwC4oGwM8Dg/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Three got corrupted so it's gone.
People's exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/hgvlBUt Defense exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/VC3ZfUZ
April 19, 2022 - Case against Barry Morphew Dismissed Without Prejudice. Prosecution asked for the case to be dismissed.
May 2, 2023 – Barry files $15,000,000 lawsuit against Chaffee County, et.al. https://www.9news.com/article/news/local/barry-morphew-lawsuit/73-3cea50c2-cdae-4338-8de9-9e113d33db6c
May 8, 2023 – Fraud Lawsuit filed against Barry in Indiana. Property dispute. https://denvergazette.com/news/courts/barry-morphew-sued-fraud-allegations-land-dispute/article_1c7cd90e-f4f5-11ed-9778-47c9c303d16d.html
September 22, 2023 – Suzanne's Remains Found Near Moffat in Saguache County While SCSO was searching for another (unrelated) missing woman. https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/suzanne-morphew-remains-found-colorado-missing-mother-barry-chaffee-county-disappearance/
Sept. 27, 2023 – Autopsy Completed. Awaiting Toxicology. https://cbi.colorado.gov/news-article/suzanne-morphew-autopsy-results-cbi-update-0https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/autopsy-complete-remains-missing-colorado-mom-suzanne-morphew/
April 29, 2024 – Toxicology finds BAM in Suzanne's bone marrow. “Homicide by undetermined means in the setting of butorphanol, azaperone, and medetomidine intoxication.” https://www.scribd.com/document/727780041/Suzanne-Morphew-autopsy-results https://www.cpr.org/2024/04/29/suzanne-morphew-died-by-homicide-with-tranquilizer-chemicals-present-in-body-according-to-autopsy-report/
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2024.05.16 15:05 SourPatchTee How to enroll in Tricare??

Hello all! I am new to this and just trying to get clear answers or just sent in the right direction for clarity. My husband re enlisted after 10 years. He is AGR - Army . We are eligible for Tricare Reserves Select but what I am trying to figure out if there’s someone we need to call to get enrolled now or does our coverage start when he ships off to Basic Training, which is July 22? I’ve logged into Milconnect and I see the BWE tab but it is showing as “current date NOT in open season” . I spoke with a rep and they said Deers hasn’t changed his status. I talked with Deers and no one could seem to give me a clear answer. Thank you in advance for any direction, information or comment.
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2024.05.16 15:05 Advance_Tasty (OC) Attempting to RSVP to my friends wedding online

(OC) Attempting to RSVP to my friends wedding online
My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few months, things are going great so far so I figured I’d put his name down as my +1 for a wedding this fall. Technically I haven’t asked him yet since it’s still kinda early on in our relationship and we would have to travel to my hometown, and I figured since it’s a lowkey cute lil backyard wedding they would only need to know how many people I’m bringing for food and chairs and whatnot. So assuming things continue to go well I’ll bring him but since it’s early on my back up plan is my sister. Long story short, I thought my RSVP response went directly to my friend and that she’d get a kick out of my answer but after I submitted my response I saw, to my horror, a link that says “see who’s attending”…. How cute. I’m an idiot lol
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2024.05.16 15:05 Latte_Macchiato_8 Should I just leave? Is there any hope left….?

I am venting and seeking advice at the same time.
Today my husband was asking for space while I literally am being met over and over again with the silent treatment on top of the repetitive physical distance (like him saying he needs space but only he knows for how long. But all he said is he needs space). This is everytime I voice how I feel that leads up to an argument or whenever I can’t accept things, it has gotten to the point where I have been begging him to stay. After every single argument, just to see him leave.
Last night was the first time where he was sitting next to me after months of neglect and having to deal with my voices and anxiety alone. On top of disrespecting myself in begging him to stay and seeing him leave though the door over and over again in my head. Hence I couldn’t accept it yesterday. I know this is unfair but I can’t help but think “Why now? Why didn’t you do this before? How dare you? Honestly maybe I like being alone more now even if my thoughts are dark.. etc etc” It’s hard… I am aware that we are humans and I want to give myself grace but I keep fighting. Fighting for his love. While I’m empty yet giving unconditional love. Only to see him walk out of the door multiple times to trigger my abandonment issues. Don’t get me wrong now, he went through hell fire in his childhood too. Got bullied in school for years because of both parents abandoning him and him growing up with his grandparents from his mom’s side. Me too, just that my parents were physically there but emotionally so absent that I always wondered why I’m even here and secretly wished they weren’t so I could at least say that they were absent like he does… Now I am not saying mine is bigger or his is. It’s never a competition of pain. But when it comes to him it feels like it is always justified and he once just pulls away cause needs space and I ALWAYS check up on him. Because I’m aware of this trauma and try to accommodate. This time however I vowed to let him come to me first cause I am TIRED of doing so over a year now and being the person to keep pushing despite being done myself. And then getting punished instead of being appreciated for it. And feeling like he just (doesn’t or?) simply can’t be there for me like that anymore. I feel like it’s selfish of him but idk if I can even claim that cause I see how depressed he looks and behaves…. It’s just a lot and I am extremely confused after being neglected for so long even if it’s “justified” from his side… For now, I am just taking time out to spend with my loved ones since I have been neglecting them for a long time in the process. And taking their word for staying quiet just to see if he will reach out first since they’re aware of the situation and me being the person who always does this.
Financially I am also thinking where all the money goes considering he keeps getting fines and got into an accident twice this past year. Where he had to file for an insurance claim but couldn’t because of the language barrier. I help him with those things now, from mails to paperwork for his fines, and many more.. But it takes such a mental toll on me that I have no energy left to think about what I want to do, what I want for the future, for my life, for my work, etc etc. He seems to be so absent minded and forgetful nowadays that it feels like I married a different man for months than the one I fell in love with. He was so active, considerate and understanding. Idk who this man is anymore other than feeling like I am talking to a wall and who prefers his alone time smoking away his cigarettes more than being with me. Any concern i voice is seen as nagging, even if done in an compassionate and understanding manner (which I admit is hard for me cause I used to have a short fuse but I have worked so hard for it and can’t help but feel resentment. Even if he says he is over it. His actions prove otherwise) and how I should have more understanding for him instead of telling him that he is slacking off. Because then he either leaves again or starts to blame himself to the point where he says I’m better off without him even when I beg him to work on himself cause I see his potential. He just has these bad voices in his head that he lets them take over and it just hurts me to see him like that but I am also very aware that it has affected me for long enough where I feel obligated to take a step back and to really sit with my feelings so I can think about everything that has been happening. Idk anymore aside from reflecting myself....
If you made it this far, thank you for reading! Any tips will be MUCH appreciated and needed!
PS: He said he will come home after work to make some pictures of tools here at my parents place that he made for work. And that if I’m open for discussion that he is open to talk and if not it’s fine by him….
Extra INFO: I’ve been very patient and have seen slight improvement in previous bad habits and tendencies he has when it comes to his behaviour. I am just not a very patient person from nature and I want to nip things in the bud and resolve conflict fast. I feel tired of being the only one coming forward for conflict resolution just to not feel heard and understood. I feel like my partner doesn’t realise how much I swallow before I explode and he runs off…
I’m aware that this isn’t healthy and it’s taking a toll on both of us. I’m just explaining my side considering we have shared expenses and I take care of our savings. Seeing how easily he says “we have 2k left” while I see it as a safety cushion is concerning me. He never used to be like that. When we started dating he had an habit of budgeting. Scheduling his payments etc etc. He was extremely responsible and financially aware! I have tried to talk him into counselling and if marriage counselling is something he is open for? Considering his trauma from childhood he has complex PTSD and doesn’t ever open up. I understand and I always tried my best to make him feel safe and that it’s okay to cry as a man and what not because i genuinely feel bad for him and it hurts to see him like that. He also stated that he cried in front of me for the first time ever and that he never opens up to anyone and he only was able to do so with him so he doesn’t really see how counseling will help… And when I try to plan counselling, something always comes up like now where it gets delayed again.. So we keep postponing it. Plus I have to plan everything. From date nights. To even my own birthday get away. (And I am sorry to say this but even my exes at least got me a birthday cake or flowers??) I may not look the prettiest like when we started dating since I gained some weight after 3 miscarriages and the hormones but I am trying my best to workout. Just to see him be happy for me but not really doing so himself… He does it once or twice and now we both stopped again. It’s like a continuous limbo we are in. I’m really at a loss for words and feel so disassociating and lost. That I’m not sure if I’m just simply the problem…
Household chores wise I do the cooking and vacuuming. He does the laundry (sometimes me too), dishes and cleans the bathroom/ sinks.
I think it’s pretty fair considering he only cooked a few times. But this is just a side note.
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2024.05.16 15:05 platypusplayer_06 Except that part where Peter dated his adopted sister. We... We don't need to talk about that part

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2024.05.16 15:04 platypusplayer_06 Except that part where Peter dated his adopted sister. We... We don't need to talk about that part

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2024.05.16 15:02 Smart_Solution7381 I need help

I'm traveling to the UK in a few weeks and I have a date, I'm gay and I'm a drag queen, and my date and I are going to a restaurant and a movie, I will be dressed up but I have a problem I don't know what bathroom I will have to go to, do I go to the men's bathroom or the women's bathroom it is okay with me to go to the men's restroom but I feel wrong going there when I dressed up like a woman also it is wrong for me as a man to go to the women's bathroom so please I need help for what to do and I'm from the middle Easto this kind of stuff is new for me to go outside in dress in public
Thank you
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2024.05.16 15:01 OneRep_privacy How to opt out of US Search: step-by-step guide

How to opt out of US Search: step-by-step guide
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2024.05.16 15:00 jvc72 Battalion Oil Corp[AMEX:BATL] Financials Q1/2024

![Logo](https://getagraph.com/logos/BATL.png)

FINANCIALS

Period: Q1/2024
Filling Date: 2024-05-15
REVENUE:
Revenue: $49.53M
Gross Profit: $-11.92M (-24.07%)
Result: $23 000.00 (ebitda)
EPS: $-1.900
Outstanding Shares: 16.46M
BALANCE:
Cash: 48.94M
Debt: 182.87M
FINANCIAL EVALUATION/SCORE:
Financial Score - Altman: -0.39
Financial Score - Piotroski: 3.00
Battalion Oil Corp's price movement correlates with the following stocks:
Ticker Correlation --- ---
Summary Of Last Earnings call:
The transcript contains a conversation between two individuals discussing the impact of social media on mental health. The discussion covers how social media platforms can lead to feelings of inadequacy and the pressure to constantly compare oneself to others. It also highlights the role of social media in spreading misinformation and the importance of being mindful of the content we consume online. The transcript emphasizes the need for individuals to take breaks from social media and prioritize their mental well-being. Overall, it emphasizes the negative effects of excessive social media use on mental health and the importance of practicing self-care in the digital age.
Company Description:
Battalion Oil Corporation, an independent energy company, engages in the acquisition, production, exploration, and development of onshore oil and natural gas assets in the United States. As of December 31, 2021, the company held interests in 40,400 net acres in the Delaware Basin located in the counties of Pecos, Reeves, Ward, and Winkler, Texas. It also had estimated proved reserves of approximately 95.9 million barrels of oil equivalent comprising 58.7 million barrels of crude oil, 16.3 million barrels of natural gas liquids, and 125.0 billion cubic feet of natural gas. The company was formerly known as Halcón Resources Corporation and changed its name to Battalion Oil Corporation in January 2020. Battalion Oil Corporation was founded in 1987 and is headquartered in Houston, Texas.
Full fundamentals fundamentals for BATL here.
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2024.05.16 15:00 jvc72 [:CTM] Financials Q1/2024

![Logo](https://getagraph.com/logos/CTM.png)

FINANCIALS

Period: Q1/2024
Filling Date: 2024-05-15
REVENUE:
Revenue: $11.34M
Gross Profit: $4.52M (39.84%)
Result: $276 087 (ebitda)
EPS: $-0.0750
Outstanding Shares: 54.79M
BALANCE:
Cash: 2.25M
Debt: 0
FINANCIAL EVALUATION/SCORE:
Financial Score - Altman: 0
Financial Score - Piotroski: 0
's price movement correlates with the following stocks:
Ticker Correlation --- ---
Summary Of Last Earnings call:
Summary:
In this transcript, the speaker discusses the impact of technological advancements on the business world. They emphasize the need for companies to adapt and innovate in order to stay competitive. The speaker also underscores the importance of investing in employee training and development to leverage these technological changes effectively. Additionally, they highlight the role of data analytics in making informed business decisions and driving growth. Overall, the speaker stresses the significance of embracing change and staying ahead of the curve in today's fast-paced digital age.
Company Description:
Full fundamentals fundamentals for CTM here.
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2024.05.16 15:00 madsthemoocow How to approach employer/Mohela about this?

Ok so, background: I began my employment at a qualifying employer on 8/31/20 as a “67 day employee”. This means it was a temporary position. On 10/26/20 I was hired on in a permanent position. I ended my employment with this employer on 5/10/24.
So here is my issue. I have had 3 PSLF forms filled out by this employer during this time. One my first form, they wrote my employment began on 10/26/2020. On the form that I had filled out last summer, they wrote that my employment began on 8/31/2020. I turned in that form to Mohela and went on with my life, not realizing the dates were different. Since I had terminated my employment, I stopped by HR on my last day to get one last PSLF form filled out for this job. I filled in all the information using the last form as a reference and asked them to sign off on it. The HR lady is now telling me that they need to write my employment began on 10/26/2020, not 8/31/2020. I showed her last year’s form and asked why this one would be different and she didn’t give me an answer. She then came back with a second form that said I began on 8/31/2020 and ended on 10/25/2020 as a temporary employee working part time (37) hours. She told me to submit both this form that showed temporary employment from 8/31/2020-10/25/2020 and the other form showing me full time from 10/26/2020 to 5/10/2024.
So now I have forms filled out in 3 different ways and I’m not sure what to do. I haven’t turned in the last set of forms yet. I’m sure this is going to raise some red flags and I don’t really know what to do at this point. Does anyone have any ideas or has been in a similar situation?
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2024.05.16 14:59 ThrowRAhelpplease33 My(32F) boyfriend(33M) is annoying, should I leave?

When I first met my (32f) boyfriend (33m) he was playful and ridiculous in a way that's similar to me and with that and many other things I fell in love with him. My problem is that further and further along into our relationship he slowly became more and more annoying. Making gross looking faces, annoying and sometimes gross sounds and speaking in aggravating voices. If he behaved this way when we first met I wouldn't have kept dating him but now I'm in love with him for other reasons and I don't want to leave but it's driving me nuts. I don't want to change him but we're at a time in our lives where we talk about eventually having kids and it's behaviour I wouldn't want them to imitate. My boyfriend was the kid who liked annoying people to get a rise out of them and I don't love that and I guess he never grew out of it. I've been learning to kind of "retaliate" and he finds it hilarious but I can tell that for me it's not all playful, I have some annoyance and aggression behind it and I don't like that I'm expressing it that way. I don't want to try and change who he is but I don't want to leave either. It's hard because I truly do love him and I want to be with him but this and a couple of other things are really troubling me. I don't know if it's something I should talk to him about or deal with it how I have been or really consider leaving. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't seem to help or he doesn't realize exactly how frustrated and annoyed I am. Should I talk to him again and make it more clear that I do consider leaving over it? Should I just deal with it? I need advice!
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2024.05.16 14:59 skylover777 Came out to my homophobic grandmother…didn’t go well…

This may or may not be a long one, but last night I finally bit the bullet and came out to my grandmother. I originally went into it thinking she already knew because he of my sisters basically outed me to her and she had already had her suspicions anyways considering I haven’t said anything about dating a man at all and the last time that was even the topic is when I was a little girl, even then I wasn’t actually interested in him. Anyways, I’m 19 now and I figured I might as well say something because why not? I’m tired of it being in the air and no one mentioning it so I just wanted to get it off my back. So I told her. She starts going on and on about how I’m young and don’t know what I’m talking about, how I haven’t been baptized and that’s the problem (she’s christian and a heavy god believer), and how I need to be baptized cause god will change me. It doesn’t matter how much somebody dips me in that water, I’ll remain a lesbian. I like women, I like the woman I’m with now and nobody’s gonna make me hide her or our relationship! I want to freely call her mines and that’s what I will be doing regardless of how anyone feels, she can’t tell me what to do with my life. She goes to tell me I’m a beautiful woman basically insinuating that I’m too beautiful of a woman to be a lesbian?(she told my sister the same thing)😂I know I’m a beautiful woman who likes a beautiful woman so…? She hits me with that “You just haven’t found a nice man yet.” and I’m like I don’t want a man…she even goes to say that she doesn’t know what about men scare me or make me not like them…Ironically I am scared of men because of various reasons, but regardless that’s not the reason I’m a lesbian. I’m a lesbian because I’m attracted to women, I want to be with a woman, love a woman, cater to her, etc….anyways, she thinks she can change my mind and she can’t…she’s gonna basically preach to me today and read a couple scriptures out of the bible to me and I’m really not trying to hear it. Just thinking about everything she was saying was upsetting me. My sister came out to her before me but I came out to other family members before her so I guess she thinks this is something new when it’s not…everybody has known for a long time except her. But yeah, moral of the story is I guess I need some positivity after dealing with that and having to deal with it today eventually. I just honestly needed to rant I guess, she’ll never understand what I’m saying but it doesn’t matter because I’m no longer going to hide who I really am from her and she’ll just have to learn to accept it or not, it doesn’t matter to me.
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2024.05.16 14:58 someonefromspace- Exbf slept with man help, cheated during exclusive sex

Here we go.
Please give me grace. I've read 100's of these over the past several weeks.
Recently (several weeks ago)- a man I love and care about, dated for 3 years, who then we agreed to remain close and still sleep with e/o after a break up- while we were in an exclusive intimate relationship, slept with a man and then slept with me the day after it happened.
We had consistent, amazing bedroom time, multiple times a week. I was with him on a Sunday, Friday, Sunday and as I was asking about weekend plans, he told me he slept with someone on that Saturday but still proceeded to have sex with me Sunday.
After about a week, he finally told me it wasn't a woman, it was a man. However in this caveat he told me not to tell anyone after almost 3 yrs of him treating me not well. So hurt me and then asked me to keep it a secret? I tried my hardest and even tried to engage but I just couldn't. I love him and want to support him but was never given the chance to protect my sexual health or become a new supporter for him in his new potential sexuality.
The mental gymnastics is real and eventually I had to ask a friend about it I knew I could trust who lives very far away and has no connections. I'm not even sure I can talk to my therapist.
I told him I reached out to someone and apologized for reaching out to one friend and the only thing he said was thanks for not keeping it a secret???? I just needed a friend! I understand, I didn't keep confidence but this is such a wild situation, how TF do you navigate this? He's never asked how I am doing or said he understood my feelings... He's very selfish and doesn't really ask like he cares... Or am I just being emotionally manipulated like I have been because our entire relationship was a cover and now that I know about his potential ss preferences, everything makes sense. He even told me he still wanted to have sex but can't commit or be exclusive. Thought I was fine, but I can't and the trauma is real..... I tried to reach out and apologize to get closure and tell him I need space but I'm fairly certain I'm blocked.
Please tell me, no, you're not wrong and you're a victim. How does this even happen? there's so much more.... sigh
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2024.05.16 14:58 credibilitywonders A BREAKUP THAT HITS DIFFERENT

me and my lil yea yea broke up about two-three weeks w/no contact. although, mothers day did just pass and i did reach out to send my praises, she did reply. I only texted her out of decency of the holiday + i texted her moms too. we broke up for many reasons but our last conversation is what led to the no contact. i miss the thought of her, and the feelings she brought but still stuck in between not being about to grow together. I've literally been avoiding isolation or being by myself except for at night time. so now what? we were together for a year, barely making it lmao but that doesn't change the love i have for her. i dont care to date, or deal with anyone else. i am not broken so i dont need to heal but i do feel and want to not feel like this lmao
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2024.05.16 14:57 archiedotwav How to copy every nth row, and remove the spaces inbetween?

Hi guys,
This seems like it would be the easiest thing to do in Excel, but despite loads of Googling (and not having much luck with index and offset functions) I am still unable to get what I need.
Essentially, I have data logged from every 5 minute interval, but I need it averaged over 15 minutes instead. I have managed this for the data itself, but cannot get the date/time to line up with it.

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I basically need the quarterly-hour data from A2 here to present in H2, with the intermediate values (so 23:05, 23:10, 23:20 and 23:25 etc) removed.

Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.16 14:56 Odd_Perception_6514 HLR, 3 New Issues?

I initially had four issues that I was claiming in a supplemental claim. I didn't like the results so I submitted for a higher level review. During the HLR the rater determined that the previous rater didn't review any of my medical evidence. Recently the HLR went from showing 4 issues to 7 issues. What could the three new issues be? In the decision letter, the rater determined that my issues had been mis-rated since 2021, I filed the claim in 2023. Could they possibly be trying to back date it to 2021? They did a Duty to Assist Error.
"This is a toxic risk exposure (TERA) exception for a physical trauma so no additional TERA development is needed for this issue."
"VA examinations of November 9, 2021 and October 30, 2023 noted a diagnosis of bilateral hip
strain."
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2024.05.16 14:54 plantz4ever Partner visa confusion

Questions about stat decs and de facto
Hello! I have a few questions. Me (Aussie citizen) and parter (UK on WHV in aus) are in the process of collecting our documents for 820 application.
Question 1: do stat decs need to be less than 6 weeks old when submitted in the application? - we have one from our old boss stating that we lived together in work accommodation but it’s from September 2023 signed by a local nurse and we are applying in September 2024- so it’s a year old. Is that okay, or does he need to do a new one just before we apply?
Question 2: how can we prove we live together other than just stat dec from company manageowner? - We both live on an island (in a couple room together) through work accommodation for over 12 months. We don’t pay bills only rent that comes out of our individual payslips. Due to the nature of the place we live, postal service was not available in the first 6months so we did not list it as our address and instead both got stuff sent to my parents house (which we could collect when we visited them). Once postal services commenced we got mail to the island again. Long story short- we’ve both received mail to the same address but to different addresses at different times that doesn’t match up with where we were living. I’m just worried this is confusing and I don’t know how to explain it to a case officer but we really need the mail as proof of shared residency. My drivers license and passport has my parents home address which doesn’t help either. How else can we prove we live together without lease or bills? I love our lifestyle but it’s not normal so much harder to prove
Question 3: did you write your statements (say for nature of household or commitment etc) on a stat dec? It doesn’t really have much room on the paper to write details? Do u type it directly into text box on the application or just all attachments formatted as a ‘presentation’ of sorts with photos and highlighting?
Question 4: can we apply for a double grant? Defacto start date 30 Jan 2023, so been living together for 20 months. I know the requirement is 3 years but it’s discretionary? Could we ask nicely in the cover letter? Or is that ridiculous
I just keep reading so much conflicting information that I feel like I am starting from square one again!
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2024.05.16 14:54 fgt67cam P410 Firmware will not update with HP Service Pack

P410 Firmware will not update with HP Service Pack
Hi, I'm trying to get a old HP Proliant ML330 G6 Server up and running (with Debian installed) to use as a back-up server for use with a LTO-5 drive. I have 3x 3TB SAS drives I want to use as they'll be fast enough to feed the tape drive data. I have 2 of these servers so have used the one in the best condition salvaging any parts needed.
Everything is working except for the P410 Smart Array Controller. I have 2 of these cards, one is already on the latest 6.64 and the other is on 1.32. The 6.64 one recognizes the 3TB disks and creates volumes fine but locks up when attempting to access a volume in Debian which then shows the error "A controller failure event occurred prior to this power-up. (Previous lock code - 0x12)" on reboot.I gave up on this card as these error codes apparently mean the card may be faulty if the firmware is already the latest version. I switched it out for the other one but due to the out of date firmware it's doesn't recognized the disks which show as 0TB. I read that you have to use the HP Service Pack to update the firmware and needed to upgrade the main board BIOS anyway so found the ISO and burned a disc. Everything was going smoothly until it came to updating the P410 which threw up an error about a "NOKEY" or something.
Do I need a license to update the firmware on this thing or is something else wrong with it? These cards have been driving me up the wall so I'm just about ready to throw them out and get something that isn't complete garbage.
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