Recently I had the worst doctor visit of my life. I was medically gaslight, lied too, told my past condition didn’t exist and more. I was having alloottttt of irregular 🐱 bleeding. Less than a week before, I was seen in urgent care they ran a ton of tests but could only do pelvic exams/ DNA testing. I continued to bleed (also at the time having terrible GI issues so pain is hard to pinpoint) and with my POTS ended up fainting.
Because of this I went to the ER and it was the worst visit of my life. From the beginning he was so mean to me, I don’t even know why. Now I’ve had a lot of doctor appointments and neither his nurse or himself asked if his student was allowed to be in the room/help/anything of the sort. He wanted to re run some tests including a pelvic exam. I told him I would run other tests but not the pelvic since it was ran less than a week ago and I have PTSD, and that’s a trigger. He said that’s fine and I didn’t have too.
After a whole bunch more treating me like sht and not addressing the problem at hand (the bleeding) he kept trying to focus on my POTS (which had only been exasperated because of the bleeding). I ended up recording the conversation a minute or so in because he was being so mean. I live in IA (one party consent) but he also said he knew I was recording when I told him. Later on after knowing I was consenting to every test but the pelvic he told me I would not be discharged if it wasn’t completed. He did not tell me I could sign an AMA just for the pelvic exam. I was told I couldn’t get a new doctor because one wasn’t in but would be in at 10. When 10 came around I still didn’t get a new doctor, I could not get a second opinion(???) , and was full blown in a PTSD attack walking out the door.
*I made a complaint to the hospital, which today, I found out literally just had a talk with him (not even like as he did something wrong more like checking boxes) so I started to look more into the HIPPA laws. They are confusing to me, I won’t lie, but I thought it was seeming since an unauthorized student had access to my mental health record, lab results (including STD testing), and general file it was a violation. It was found a couple days later multiple cysts in my ovaries were found. * A pelvic exam would’ve never showed that and he just wanted to discharge me after a pelvic exam….
I do have on recording also him saying I did not have to do pelvic exam and then saying I must to be discharged. Throughout the 3 hours I continued to tell the doc/nurse that I was having really bad PTSD and also said it was getting worse throughout the time (because of past miscarriage issues/ childhood issues…). They kept pushing me until I had a complete PTSD attack walking out of the hospital. Could this be negligence? vv
“However, once a doctor voluntarily decides to assist others or comes to their aid, the doctor becomes liable for any injury that results from negligence during that assistance.”
Obviously it’s not a physical injury but😩 that seriously made me scared to live the rest of my life as a chronically ill person or get help. I just hate this so much because I will never forget that appointment, I will never forget him treating me like that as I’m being so vulnerable and respectful. As my mental health workers could vouch, it set me back in my progress by a lot and even farther back on my crippling doctor anxiety.
I just feel I have him on recording being so mean, saying one thing and then another, telling me the doc comes in at 10 but never turning over my case or get a second opinion on if I needed a pelvic exam to be released, not telling me I could sign an AMA only for the pelvic exam, telling me the condition that made me loose my baby wasn’t real (was literally diagnosed), just so much. If there’s legally nothing wrong here, including HIPPA, could I just post the videos? I was never told I must delete or not to post. I’m just so sick of this, I don’t want this to be the rest of my life and I don’t want to continue to get traumatized by men having a power trip.

So I used to ride trails without protection, I know it's not the smartest thing, but I started doing a little more difficult trails, and then missed a sign saying I was going on a double black trail, I also ride a hardtail. Well after a really bad shoulder seperation 4 yrs ago due to that mistake, I've been slowly getting back into trails with more difficulty (nothing with drops), and was wondering what gear should I get, I like to go to local stores so I can check sizes which for me is a Trek store and a REI, but not sure what gear I should get.

Hey y’all. Looking for some advice on where to go with my career and what you have experienced.
The situation: I’m 28 and just graduated with my bachelors. I interned twice at a top 20 public accounting firm and have a job offer with them for late August. I found out just in March during the second internship that remote was no longer an option, as it was in the initial job offer, and I have to live within 60 miles of an office to have the job.
The kicker here is I own a home in the southeast, and the nearest office of the larger firm is 5 hours away. I’m from the Midwest and so if I were to take this job, I would move to the Midwest by August at least for a few years to start my career. My wife has been a travel nurse for the last two years, and I’ve been traveling with her while finishing my degree. I mentioned this just to bring up that on a personal level. I’m ready to quit traveling and settle down. If we moved to the Midwest for the larger firm job, it would not be for more than four years and I would have to move again somewhere warmer.
However, I interviewed this morning, and have another interview this week with a small firm near where I live. It’s a single ownepartner firm, and there are six employees. I really enjoyed the conversation with the partneowner felt good about the position. I have interview with the senior manager and manager on Thursday. However, others I’ve spoke to mention it might be hard to move up the ladder with being at such a small place.
Would I be really hindering my career by accepting the position in a small boutique firm instead of the top firm? I care about my career, but don’t sit at night and dream about being a partner if that makes sense. I’m curious on y’alls experience with different sizes of firms and how that affected your career.

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I (17f) have been together with my bf (19m) for a few months now, although we have been close for much longer. We are both not mentally healthy and stable, and he gets "episodes" when he just shuts himself in entirely, isolates and is only willing to talk to maybe one person (that one person, of course, is not me). Not long ago, he fell into one of these periods, and it took a toll on me mentally as well, since I love him and don't wanna see him suffer like that. I also fell into a depressive hole, and suffered for nearly a month before I was able to somewhat get up from rock bottom. The last week of that was the worst, because he was out of his head at that point, but I only felt him pull away more and more, and it didn't help me get better that I haven't gotten almost any kind of closure from him for a month. I wanted to get a bit more support from him, especially since I trust(ed) him so much. Then one day I had a "moment of clarity" of the sorts, and I was able to talk to him a bit before I broke down again. Then came the time that weekend when I was supposed to be spending it over at his place, however he told me not to go the first day, because he "wanted to be alone", but then he almost left to go be with another person he's very close to (you could guess how that made me feel :/ ). The next day we talked a little, and he told me he still wasn't necessarily up to me spending the rest of the weekend there, and that he might just want to go on a walk with me and talk some, and then he'll see. So we did that, and he sent me home some hours later, saying that he needed the space we previously discussed. That was fine, although I was a bit down afterwards, but I understood that he had enough of people for a while. I talked to him about it, told him that I was glad he told me he wanted to be left alone, but that I also wanted to get some physical or emotional closure, not even bringing up intimacy (I could write a whole another post about that). We have talked about being more open with one another and communicating our needs, since he still isn't feeling his best and still wants to have more alonr time. Now here comes my most recent problem, that it only seems like he's ditching me, and nobody else. He spent the other part of that aforementioned weekend at a team-building party with some of his co-workers, he went out to have a talk with multiple of our closer friends, and even went to see the person he's really close to whom I mentioned before. All this through one weekend, while he wasn't very willing to see me, or talk to me even. He would sometimes ignore me for hours, although he was online and gaming, sometimes texting the groupchat we're a part of. It's really starting to get to me now, and I've thought about breaking up many times, but I wanna fight for this relationship and work on it, because it's not worth it for me to break up over some insecurities that might as well just be stupid.
TL;DR: my boyfriend has been avoiding me, and it hasn't been helping me mentally that I barely got any closure the last month up to this point. I'm really starting to think that he doesn't have a problem with people, only with me.
What can I do here? What might be the next step I take (without opening up too much, as I don't feel comfortable around him anymore, and I hate talking about what I need cuz it'll be just turned around at me later on)?

I had an interview in the legal field, and I am still trying to process it. Its for a technically lower job than my current position, but only because the department I work in now only has one class for my position where the new employer has three classes for the same position. The pay is 1 dollar less starting, but only because I have COLA increases since starting my current.
The interview was very unusual. It was a large panel of 6 including attorneys and staff, but none of the interviewers really smiled and only 3 of them actually spoke to answer questions from me at the end.
The thing I am trying to process was the answers, or rather non-answers I got from my questions. I asked what a day in job looked like, what the typical duties and aspects of the work were. The response was simply "it depends on the day" with no specifics. I was caught off guard by the short non-answer and didnt push it. I asked how work was divided since there were 3 classes that all worked in the same unit with some classes only handling the trial parts. The response was that each attorney was assigned to a specific judge, but again, not really saying how it is determined who does what or what I specifically will be doing.
I have not had an interview like this before, and I don't know if its just my paranoia or if I should be concerned. I am not particularly interested in the field of law this position is in, but its an opening into an entity that has far more options and room for advancement than my current location.
I surprisingly was contacted for a follow-up as I had written the interview off as a failure after how I felt it went. Should I keep going or walk away?

hii!, so i main the support role and i play a ton of comp, at the start of the og rank reset i climbed from bronze 5 all the way to silver one by myself.at the start of this season i was silver one very close to gold, well against my better judgement i played ranked role queue with a friends and we ended up losing a ton of games, needless to say i dropped all the way to silver 4, started trying to clumb back up BUT ITS BEEN IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!, im very confused because i counterswap, consistently keep myself and my team alive as long as they arent trying to 1v5 and usually end up with the highest stats on healing and the lowest deaths, but ive ranked down to silver 5 as it started placing me back with bronzes, i know im not a low silve bronze player as i was able to maintain high silver unitll playing with friends and was almost gold.how is it possible that now im stuck at almost bronze and cant rank up, i feel like im being placed with teamates who for better wording are braindead lol, 5-13 dps, tanks who feed, other supports who legit refuse to heal and are dpsing most of the time, i spent sooo long trapped in bronze in ow1 and ngl if i hit bronze one im going to quit, i dont understand how its impossible to rank up despit doing it myself originally

i was trying to make my samsung laptop dual boot with windows 10 and linux mint. when i started the linux mint instalation, it said i needed to boot back to windows to turn off the bitlocker.
i went to a config in windows called "turn off cryptografy" (or something similar, my laptop is in portuguese). when i went back to try to boot linux, it only shows a black screen saying that somethinf went terribly wrong and that they cant find EFI.
i really need help, i dont even know what to do. i think it may have something to do with the way i shut bitlocker off. thanks in advance!!

You know... had to find a place and there is a subreddit for everything. Glad I found this place. I'm just going to write because I want to beat the living shit out of this man every time I see him and I need to calm my ass down. My left leg is itching to land a roundhouse on this man.
A few months ago, I was talking about cars with a neighbor who lived across the street from me. We usually have talks about his car, my car, and my bike, and we talk about old-school cars. Just one dude having a fun conversation with another.
I had left my garage open, and my dogs. I have 2 of them. One I rescued from a family who couldn't keep it. The other landed on my lap and I've been taking care of it and is now considered my own.
Well, these 2 got out, and started roaming around about 70 ft from my property. Started sniffing around and found the scent of another dog and was curious. I didn't notice this at first of course.
They end up in this man's front yard. Who knows maybe they marked their territory a little drizzle here and there on their grass. Anyway, this man comes out and starts yelling "Get your dog off my yard". I didn't hear him at first or could make out what he was saying, and I realized my dogs had gotten out. I call my dogs, and they are well-trained, they both respond quickly and come running back.
I was a bit offended damn man. They meant no harm. Don't have to yell and shit you know. They are smelling another dog. They are interested in finding out more about this other animal that took a shit and piss in your yard. That's what dogs do. Anyway, I yelled back sorry! I meant it, I was sincere about it. I even started walking over there to show concern of course. He does not respond to me other than saying loudly, "Leash your dog". At that point, I'm over it, my buddy and I crack some jokes about the dude to laugh it off.
Like wtf got up this guy ass at 9 pm? Do you stare out the window all night looking for dogs that may end up in your front yard? We have a good laugh and we talk some more car, my dogs are cool with my buddy. Animals know instinctively who is friendly and who isn't. Oddly that's what I've noticed.
The next morning, after I have taken my kids to school. This jackass walks up to me in his version of workout clothes. I have never seen him ever since I've been taking my kids to school every morning but today was a special day. He has his airpods on, sneakers, and running shorts. Then he comes up to me and talks some mad shit. He's obviously spent the entire night thinking about how he's going to put me in my place or some shit. I just tell the guy to walk away. He says to me "What are you going to do about it?" Say what? What is this? Do what, I asked you to get out of my face right?
Jesus man... this dude, is pushing like the mid-50s to early 60's. I'm younger obviously, I'm thinking you trying to go toe to toe? I tell him to walk away. He tells me his wife is Korean and I'm Korean so he's trying to make some level of connection here, implying he knows something about my culture and he is disappointed as he should know there is some level of cultural impact I should have being a Korean and the way I have responded to him is not to his liking. Thus, I must show some level of respect or bend a knee or some weird shit, as if he understood Koreans to be something different than I am. Entitled as fuck this guy. He wants to feel superior and wants to be bowed down to. A total sense of entitlement right? Superiority complex of some kind. Fuck he annoys the fuck out of me. I keep calm and tell him to get the fuck out of my face but nicer. "Just leave man, no need for you to be in front of me, just gotta go move along," is what I told him.
No offense but I'm looking at this white dude here, and look I can say it because my uncle is white, married my aunt and we had a great relationship. No disrespect but who the fuck is this dude to start bringing up Korean this Korean that, we're in the US man. He acts disrespectful to me and gives me the middle finger as he walks away after me telling the guy on at least four other occasions to get going and stay out and away from my personal space. I'm like whatever, I'm over it. He means nothing really. He means less to me than let's say, a piece of rubber or something. I could care less.
Then he went ahead and told the HOA that my dogs had taken multiple shits in his yard, and I have never bothered to pick up after them. I make sure to pick up shit especially if it's on someone else's yard right. Of course, I respond back to HOA, and tell them, they got bigger things to worry about and they really have bigger shit to worry about than some bs complaint.
I'm sure that got that little ball sack of low-life fucking pissed right. I mean I got 2 tiny dogs. Each weighs less than 10lbs. One is around 6 lbs other is around 7.5 lbs. They are not fucking pit bulls here. Apparently, he also said my dogs were vicious.
That never went far. Anyway, yesterday, my kids got home from school, they wanted to visit a neighborhood friend and left the garage open. A lady was walking by. She was Asian, I can tell. How? I have cameras. I was also upstairs and looked out my window which is directly above the garage because I didn't hear the garage door close.
Well these 2 little shits went barking at her. She didn't flinch just kept on walking. I tell the kids close the garage. Today the big man over there and another lady who lives across the street from him, (I suppose birds of a feather flock together) rang my doorbell after I dropped my son off at school. I come downstairs, and this asshole pounds my door to show his impatience. I'm thinking cops? I open the door it's this asshole and his neighborhood lady friend.
I ask them what's the visit for, she tells me that when she was walking yesterday, my dogs "attacked" her and the dickhead standing next to her adds more dramatic impact and says, they even bit her. I'm fucking laughing inside. I saw the whole thing myself from upstairs. The lady my dogs barked at was Asian, her hair was black, I can still see her face from my upstairs bedroom window. I saw my dogs run up and bark at her and sniff her shoes and bark some more before my kids called them in. This lady was covered in long white sleeve and long white walking pants, white sneakers, a hat to cover the sun, and a face mask because she's Asian of course and we all hate the sun. Her walking stature was that of a woman in her mid 40 to 50's, and this lady in front of me that was supposedly attacked was again not Asian, and the lady claiming that she got attacked is about 30 years older, not even capable of walking no more than 200 feet from her property. She does not wear walking attire obviously made in China or Korea. I know because I'm Korean and older women wear exactly that type of clothing in Korea or Asia when they walk in daylight. They like to avoid the sun, but get their walks in. Jesus.... the fucking lies in this shit is humor at this point.
The lady in front of me is too old, let alone is capable to walk past my property or take daily walks. I work at home remotely man, I would have noticed if this lady was to type to take walks at 3 pm. I pick my kids up and I'm active outside during that time.
This lying POS goes a bit further and says, he thinks my dogs even broke skin. I look at her finger. I see nothing. No bite marks nothing, not even a scratch. No blood. Just straight-up lies. I apologize to the lady regardless. I tell her I'll cover her medical expenses (which means medical report, and doctor bill) she stutters a little, says no need. If she broke skin, and my dogs bit her, she would be at my house the minute it happened. Fucking lying ass dumb idiots. This man now dragged this lady into his lies you know.
Then I look at this mother fucker in the eye and my fucking legs are twitching, and in my mind, I want to land a roundhouse, I gauged the distance, and it would land on the right side of his face. Shit would have been a 10/10 perfect kick I'm thinking.... yea dipshit, something else you should know about Koreans, most of us take some sort of martial arts early in our youth and that never really stops. Seeing how you say you know so much about my culture, did that not enter your fucking head?
Anyway, I look at this sorry excuse for a man, a fucking coward and I ask him why he's here? If the lady is the one who got bit, then perhaps this is between me and her, right? He says he's there with her because he cares. Like hell, you do. You dragged this lady in your lies and she's going along with you but it's not the truth. You sorry ass POS, now dragged another individual into your BS. You still can't get over our last encounter and you are dying to come over and start some new shit. I asked you to walk away, but you didn't like it. You felt disrespected. In your spare time, you've been scheming ways to get back because you were never satisfied.
Anyway, he brings my dogs up again and says he'll call the police. I tell him to do what he's gotta do. That pissed him off because I called his bluff and he can't pull through and execute. I'm fucking with his ability to do anything about it. He now feels small again.
He said I should leave the neighborhood. I bought this fucking house, so I tell him you have money? You wanna buy me out? He has none, he says, "I don't want another house" Okay well then shut the fuck up right. I tell him at this point he should leave. The audacity of this little shitbag to tell me to move out of my own house is something else. Once again this sense of entitlement, where do you get it from?
Anyway, he's giving me the middle finger this whole time like a bitch hiding behind his safety blanket or something right. He's doing all kinds of weird shit right now. Like throws both fingers up, turns around does a 180, and gives me another two fingers. He's doing this like 10 times. What the fuck is wrong with this guy right? In front of the old lady which he seemed to have convinced to carry out the lies with him. I can tell at this point, she's about had it. She no longer wants to be involved. Again, if a person got bit by a "vicious dog" and was bleeding, she would not have acted this way right? She got called out on her hand, she tried to play along with his lead, how my dogs broke the skin, getting bit by them... all that, but she's got no bite marks, and my dogs don't bite. I know this. At the end she tells me she doesn't want my dogs on her yard, but she's okay with other dogs on her yard. So it's a personal thing, okay no worries I tell her.
Then he brings up the culture thing again. "You know my wife is Korean.... she's disgusted with you...blah blah" I respond, "I am Korean and my entire family is Korean and they would be disgusted with you," and then I tell him, "You don't understand us Koreans, we have mutual respect and honor, you have none, and that's why you're not getting any"
Guy walks away looking as small as he is, caught in his lies. When I knew all along what happened, his face turns fucking tomato red. Just what the fuck? How sick is this guy in the head? Anyway, I don't expect anything, just thought I'd write, for the internet and the entire world.

He left because we had the worst possible fight in history (I take full blame because I took it completely too far and was super toxic during it by disrespecting his belongings and destroying 3 of his things which I will forever regret). I’ve been going to therapy and been practicing meditation to find balance in my emotions and feelings because I would never want to hold in that much anger and explode like that to anyone. After the situation he was very cold and rude to me (which is understandable) in the first few weeks and after a few attempts to talk to him have failed and he seemed very detached, I told him I am just going to have to also detach and move on from him. He ended up sending me 3-4 super long paragraphs about how I wouldn’t be saying that if he would’ve just “packed all his things and moved back” and continued to pour his heart out to me about how damaging the situation was for him. It just seemed like he was mad that I would say I would have to move forward. He definitely made me feel sick to my stomach with his messages because I feel so horrible about my actions and I seen how much he put me first and I completely let him down. That is why I started therapy so I can become a better girlfriend to him and a better person in general, I wouldn’t even do what I did to the next person if there would be one. I have never done something like that throughout our entire relationship, it was the first time. After that convo, I thanked him for expressing his genuine feelings and apologized wholeheartedly once again and he’s been nice to me ever since. I really do love him with all of my heart and I really want to remove him from his depression since he’s back in his mother’s house and I want us to move forward together from this situation. He still tells me he loves me and I just know if he moves back we would be the strongest we have ever been. 10 year relationship, he’s the only man I’ve ever been with, he’s my first in everything. I would never want to go through this again and I would never in life want him to go through this again. Fuck how I feel, it’s him that I am more concerned about. I really want to make him happy and show him that he means the world to me and I’ll do whatever I can to prove it to him every day he lives here. Would you take that leap of faith with moving back to a place where you wanted to make it a home with someone you love? Is there still hope for us?

maybe I’m weird but I thought I was some feeler type and was kinda happy with it until I met those mbti freaks in real life, and they basically said how I’m not a feeler and blah blah, anyways fast forward took a cognitive function test and yeah I got entp or intp, and I don’t like it help‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
ik I shouldn’t be posting in the entp warrior place but wtv idc,
just tell me how can I change the mind of the people around me, if I’m entp idc but I can’t let people think I am one else they’ll think I’m like those stereotypes and cringy videos i can’t, like reading on entp was so embarrassing please no nonno 😭😭 I rlly thought I was seen as some mystical infj or enfj or enfp but noo people saw me as some entp and its not only 1 person, im cooked
i think enfj or enfp is a good one based on what i read
idk why im posting here when I’ll get flamed by the entps, guys im not saying y all r bad, i jst cant be one of y all thats it so help me this time, coz posting this elsewhere my post will get removed for not being relevant to the topic coz its about entp and test
how can i change people s perception of me??
actually not everyone knows mbti so that’s one thing but they associate me with traits that fits entp so no it’s not good and I didn’t even knw I was viewed like that
mbti is fake anyways I can be whatever type I am
let me not even start on the intp allegation , even worst lets not get there, again INTPs don’t come at me, ur not bad I just don’t wanna be associated with u, ur subreddit traumatized me enough
ngl i think im a feeler coz technically I don’t think an entp would post this, coz they’d be too happy to be entp?? Idk man just tell me i am not one and everything will be solved
can high Ne or Ti somehow be an XXFX type? Like maybe I’m ENFP with high Ti

Hi,
I'll start off by saying I absolutely love Macrofactor, I've tried others and this app is the best out there and I am going to keep using it. I'm also a fan of the team in general and thank you for all the work.
I started consistently logging via Macrofactor on March 3rd. I'm 32yo, 5'6"-5'7" male, 160lbs, 15-20bf%, and my expenditure currently reads at 3750, which seems incorrect, true expenditure is likely in 3200 range (I workout ~12hrs/week, run ~40-45 miles/week, lift 5x/week, average step count is 20-25k/day).
I'm also very OCD with weighing everything, including myself.
I took a vacation march 31-April 2nd, otherwise I tracked literally every single meal to an unreasonable extent, I avoided restaurants and cooked everything just because I wanted to know my expenditure. Somewhere mid april I consumed ~30k kcal of junk food in 3 days whilst not working out (and tracked everything). Extra weight was gone within a week, but expenditure estimate jumped up from 3200 to 3750 and stayed high since.
I did take another 10 day vacation starting April 28th, but I'm back on track for almost 2 weeks and the expenditure estimate is still off. I always leave vacation days completely empty to avoid partial tracking.
Did my junk food bender break the algorithm, or maybe it doesn't account for stuff like fiber (~60g+/day) not having impact on my weight? Does creatine loading and unloading (I tend to forgot to take it on vacations) have an impact?
My weight is steady (which is the goal), and my average tracked consumption is 3400kcal/day for the last 3 months including that bender. Which is higher than I expected.
Is it possible I actually burn that much?
Thank you!

Currently onboard and wanted to share a positive experience since we often see lots of negative ones posted. I am flying United First but have no status with United (MileagePlus Paper Tier 😉) since I typically fly AA, though my employer will use whichever airline has the best schedule/price for the specific destination.
There was an accident on the interstate and traffic was backed up so I arrived at the airport later than I wanted (50 minutes before departure). Got to the bag check line and it was so backed up because of some charters going out. I couldn’t see the premier access lane through the crowd of people. Agent starts walking through the queue asking to see boarding passes so they could prioritize those with sooner flights. I thought this was very proactive. She pulled me out of the line and took me to the desk. I had two oversized crates with electronic equipment to check. They were both just shy of the 70-lb limit but over the max standard dimensions (by several inches in all directions). I was expecting to have to pay $200 each for the oversize fee. The agent was absolutely lovely and though she was stressed from the hectic situation with the charters, she had a happy smile and was efficient and friendly. She asked what was in the crates and I explained. She put fragile stickers on all four sides and the top, thanked me for trusting United, and told me not to worry about the oversize fee (Gasp! I just saved $400.).
The flight is on an E175 operated by SkyWest on the longest E-Jet route I’ve ever flown (3h39m). I made it to the gate after most of the aircraft was boarded. Flight attendant says you must be Mr. Lastname, welcome aboard. PDB offered right away. After takeoff, drink orders were taken and everyone was addressed by name. Although the flight is over 1100 miles, I’ve seen many people mention that even so, they only get offered the snack basket or the cheese plate. However, today everyone received a full tray with a chicken and pesto wrap, cheese plate, beef jerky, and salted caramel cookie.
We’ve had the captain ask the flight attendants to be seated a couple times due to thunderstorms but they have continued service right after. (I’ve often seen this used as an “excuse” to hang out in the galley the whole flight, but that wasn’t the case in either cabin.) The front FA has also come through twice after meal service to ask if people wanted top ups or a different drink.
The wifi has been stable and pretty quick and the cabin and lav are clean. I even noticed the one FA wiping down the front toilet/mirrosink and giving it a spritz of air freshener.
Both FAs have been bright and pleasant with everyone.
We aren’t on the ground yet but so far this has been a really great experience from both the airport team and the onboard team. My last couple trips on both United and American have had some issue or another (grumpy/snappy FAs, maintenance delays, etc) so this trip has been a breath of fresh air.
Well done to the agents and crew and to my fellow passengers who have thus far been normal and courteous (and sober). Even the two babies onboard have just been smiling and happy. I guess everyone catches a break once in a while! 😁

Y’all… I’m still trying to find the words. The entire process of applying and getting all my paperwork, cv up to date, professional pictures etc. It’s been a rollercoaster. I applied previously, a few weeks ago actually, and unfortunately my candidate profile had been incorrectly autofilled when I submitted my cv, and I hadn’t noticed until after, when I got an email saying “We regret to inform you…” yeah a real low point. Almost thought I had I to accept the fact that I’d need to wait 3 months to reapply… but somehow I was able to fill out a new application submission last week.
Skip to today when I saw the location ‘United Arab Emirates’ flash above the number calling, I legit, jumped, I kid you not, I JUMPED. I’m so relieved…and happy and nervous for the interview day. Also so grateful for this subreddit because it’s one of the only things that kept me sane when I got the ‘Not Progressed’ status on my previous submission.
My interview day is at the start of next month so if anyone has any tips for the Emirates Cabin Crew Assessment day, please message me or leave them in the comments, I’d really appreciate it. And if anyone has any questions about the application process, I’d be happy to help. Fingers crossed, will let y’all know how it goes 🤞🏽✨🤭.
TLDR: Anyone got any tips for the Emirates Cabin Crew Assessment day.

Last updated 5/21/24 (Any updated servers at bottom)
Anyone stumbling upon this: About 3 months ago I literally went through every single community server, empty/full/whatever, and added any that sounded interesting, and didn't have crazy ping to Favorites (My region is Northeast US (NJ), FYI). I repeated the process twice. There are still a bunch of good ones out there (I've also had many solid ones in my favs for quite some time) I don't know if anyone cares but been around since Beta & have run a server before.
For reference:

• Good servers (to me): Emphasis on not being a dickhead, actually gets players, if running custom content it has to be tastefully done, not bloated & tacky, ping <100, anti-teamstacking measures
• "Bad" servers/what will not be here ( again this is just my opinion, also a couple exceptions ): Instant Respawn, 1 map or game mode only, more than 32 players, RTD, "friendly"/no combat servers, unmoderated racist/toxic BS
• Servers/settings I'm indifferent towards: Crits/Nocrits, Vanilla vs. Custom, Average skill level, 24 vs. 32 player, NSFW sprays, centered around niche/"weird" fandoms, Bullet/Damagespread, Class limits

Scroll down a few lines to my "To keep it simple..." header for the best ones. The following link is a much fuller list:

• Green line ones are my seal of approval
• Pink line ones I either haven't checked out as much but seem to be ok, or have 1 big issue or 2 I think holds them back from being fully recommended
• No underline = probably seemed interesting, haven't checked out at all, or never gets full

Full server list: https://i.imgur.com/qY2gCH9.png

To keep it simple, I think the best ones right now (for me are):

tiny kitty's girl pound - friendly community, runs really solid, nice-looking custom maps, Meme Maps Wednesday is a blast, always has people in it, just be wary of nsfw furry sprays (yeah I know...put cl_spraydisable 1 in console to disable)
1st server: 74.91.115.12:27015 2nd server: 74.91.113.115:27015
OPRAH's PETROL STATION - Friendly community, always has people in it, no goofy Instant Respawn which has no place in payload yet half of all community server owners see fit to do that, pre-round scramble
108.181.63.51:27015
-EOTL- Payload - same deal
74.91.114.223:27015
redsun.tf - This community is the poster child for tastefully modded custom game modes, and is very active. It's very well maintained & polished and even though I may not enjoy every game mode I've been very impressed by this server network (esp. as a former highly-modded community server owner). The EU one fills up most of the time, and I deal with the ping because it's a cool community (it even runs a Battle Royale mode that is surprisingly well-made). Their server "shop" is extremely impressive with the amount of customization available (Taunts, player skins, custom voicelines). I'd recommend downloading their asset pack here as it's fairly sizeable to DL upon server connect:
EU (actually gets players): 141.95.28.56:27015 US: 66.206.13.139:27015
Trigger Happy Gamers (EU) - Trigger Happy Gamers have been around forever and even though they are in the UK I deal with the ping to play with them because they are an awesome, fun, friendly community. Their main server gets reliably full from around 1 PM - 3 PM EST every day, and on the weekends a little longer. Their Nocrits server also gets full Saturday
main: 87.98.254.85:27015 Nocrits (gets full Saturdays @ 1 PM - 2 PM): 87.98.254.85:27025
Fucked in the Head - Another community that has been around forever. To be honest, they have equal respawn on Red & Blu, even for Payload, which I hate with a searing passion, HOWEVER, the regulars are entertaining af and give off vibes of drunk buddies goofing off and not giving a fuck that it almost offsets it. It's also decently populated.
216.52.148.223:27015
Skial Payload & Casual servers * - I never got the hate for this server network, decent spawn times, Halloween mode year round, no power tripping admins, feels like a bunch of randoms having a good time. You can also equip any weapon or cosmetic. The Payload+ EU in particular has some really chill/cool regulars, Dustbowl+ US some interesting/funny peeps. Payload US generally decent also. Their Autoscramble is also on point.
Payload+ EU 91.216.250.226:27015 Payload+ US 91.216.250.11:27015 Dustbowl+ US * (has become very stack-prone lately) 91.216.250.12:27015 ~~~~~
~Trying to get the word out that unlike their other servers, Casual is very barebones- no Instant Respawn, no RTD, normal map pool:
Casual NY 91.216.250.34:27015 Casual US 91.216.250.40:27015 Casual LA 91.216.250.21:27015 ~~~~~ Harvest (32-pl), also: 91.216.250.18:27015 ~~~~~
If you are super super new, their server network might be worth checking out, even if RTD, 2fort & other weird mods aren't my cup of tea: https://www.skial.com/servers/
Uncletopia - Pretty standard Casual experience except the skill level is generally higher, though it seems to be evening out honestly. And tbh from my experience people in these servers seem pretty cool. If you're looking for Vanilla I'd say this is your best bet.
https://uncletopia.com/servers
Southern Cross Gaming (Rainbow Swirl in particular) - Stumbled across this & played 1 round with these guys running a cool custom mode but apparently they run stock maps as well as custom maps/game modes. Their rules had a huge emphasis on keeping it fun & being respectful and everyone seemed really cool & laidback. It was full at peak time on the weekend. They also have other servers, even in other games & seem to have been around awhile:
IP: furfortress.com:27016 Site: https://www.scg.wtf/servers#team_fortress_2
ciggyland 18+ LGBT+ Furry server run by puppygirls
Funny, chill vibes, lots of custom maps. Seems to get full around peak time. Another diamond in the rough I discovered recently.
74.91.115.82:27015
Bad Weapon Rehabilitation (Vanilla US)
A really solid rebalancing of all weapons in-game. Nothing really feels overpowered or underpowered anymore, also fun things like flames stay on surfaces & I think spy or engy can radar enemies within a few feet or something to his team? It's really fun and gets full. Here's the site with IPs and stuff (The US server gets full around peak time, esp. on weekends)
(Yes this is the website): http://74.91.126.159/
redstar.gg - Arena server, the owner ComradeYazoo seems pretty dedicated to starting it up and I hop in whenever I can. Believe it or not it's still very fun with little people but it's gotten pretty packed a couple times. It also has like every good custom arena map, and scrambles if a team wins 3 in a row. North America I believe.
204.12.240.186:27015
Step in the Arena - Another Arena server I see get randomly populated on Saturday into Sundays around 11 P.M. - 2 A.M. EST. Probably missing a Discord announcement or something from a group of buddies.
172.240.237.2:27015
The Furry Pound - Some people list this one as one of the best non-UT for Vanilla TF2, however the one time I decided to give it a try I was met with some weird overly dramatic BS happening in Voice chat, and I heard someone else give a similar criticism the other day here. BUT, I've also seen people say they're ok. Might depend on what players/admins are on maybe, IDK:
Main server: thefurrypound.org:27015
shounic trenches (100-player TF2) - This goes against everything in my being but it's so unique and while not my cup of tea it's definitely a bunch of others'. Some maps such as pl_dbz_b5 & pl_dustbowl were created for this player count & people seem to have a lot of fun there. Again, I think 100 players is too much but I can't argue with how popular it is.
45.62.160.71:27015
UGC High Tower servers - They run no carts, so it's the TDM High Tower everyone's always dreamed of. They also run Instant Respawn and on any other map I hate that setting with a searing passion but because it's reworked as TDM I feel it actually improves the gameplay (put "high tower" including the space, and without quotes in the search box for a list of 'em in the following link):
https://www.ugc-gaming.net/servers/tf2/
UGC also runs other servers which I cannot vouch for but might be worth looking into.
Tropic Crisis Official Servers (NA, SA, EU)
These are the official servers for the Tropic Crisis project which is very very cool. I looked up their stats and most get full around standard peak hours.
Atlanta 155.138.213.202:27015 São Paulo 216.238.106.29:27015 Minsk 86.57.152.101:27025 Buenos Ares 45.235.99.105:27038
UEAKCrash's House of Nerds - official server of the mapmaker responsible for several very fun official maps. Runs a lot of very cool custom maps, Gets full on Fri, Sat night (must have a Discord/Twitch announcement I'd assume).
74.91.124.162:27015
Wolves Den - I'm going to make an exception to the "no "friendly"/non-combat server" thing (even though people seem down for combat ~50% of the time) because everyone just always seems to be having fun here. If you want to just screw around on interesting trade-type maps this is the place. Plus they have hilarious custom player models like velociraptors. (Has RTD)
162.248.92.33:27015
Samwiz1's Stupid Server - Another server I feel obligated to mention despite feeling like it's too much personally. Very goofy and people seem to have fun there.
173.237.52.135:27015
Swoocehut 2024 Workshop - Seems to be tied to a Discord as far as getting full, but runs a lot of custom maps apparently:
149.28.248.101:27015 Discord: https://swoocehut.com/discord Map rotation: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2802508136
swagtown epic maps only no random crits 18+ - Suggested by someone on Steam Discussions. Looks alright- seems tied to a Discord as far as getting players, but got full last Tuesday @ standard peak hours. Looks like it runs stock & custom maps.
79.127.234.193:22136 Discord: [https://discord.gg/DTH3sMWsH8](discord.gg/DTH3sMWsH8)
TF2's Official VS Saxton Hale LOOS - 'Nuff said. Very laidback goofy atmosphere.
205.178.177.24:27027
GFL Clan (maybe???) - Someone said these guys are chill too, though I hate 2fort with a passion:
https://gflclan.com/forum/26-team-fortress-2/
Kogasatopia if you're desperate. They run some really fun mods, and solid (especially good gimmicky) custom maps, but their community is 4chan edgelords that like to say racial slurs. However their server is almost always full of people. Again, if you're truly desperate. Just mute chat & voice I guess by entering this in console (replace with 1's to re-enable)- hud_saytext_time 0;voice_enable 0
74.91.116.171:27015
The Weeabootique if you're desperate. Pretty much the same description as above. Mute chat & voice by entering this in console (replace with 1's to re-enable)- hud_saytext_time 0;voice_enable 0
198.245.61.57:27015
Custom Weapons servers (including a guide to the best one via TF2Classic)
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What does he (26m) want from me? (20f)
Me (20f) and this guy (26m) have been seeing each other for almost two years now. We started sleeping together and he ended it about a month or two in, telling me we both knew it was going nowhere and he didn’t want any feelings developing and hurt coming from it. This was fine, i just continued on with things and didn’t contact him. Then two weeks later we ended up seeing each other again on a night out and he told me he missed me and invited me to stay with him that night which i did. We continued on again for another couple of months, seeing each other often and sending long messages every day. Then I ended up finishing things as he got very intoxicated one night while i was home, rung me and then attempted to drive to my house. I was terrified he would hurt himself or someone else and managed to convince him to go home, which he reacted to rather badly in the state he was in. I texted him the next day and told him we should stop seeing each other because stuff like this cannot happen and he agreed and apologised. Didn’t see each other for two months, bumped into each other again on another night out. He was extremely apologetic, told me how much he missed me and how I was the first girl in a long time he had felt this way about. We ended up sleeping together again, this continued AGAIN for a few months until a massive argument around Christmas. He accused me of seeing another boy which, while that wasn’t the case, I felt was unfair regardless as he never asked me to be his girlfriend and i know for a fact hes at least kissed other girls while doing this with me. We didn’t talk for a few days but we’ve fallen back into this pattern again now of talking all the time and sleeping together after nights out. At this point, I do understand it’s just as much my fault as his but I don’t know what to do anymore. We’ve told each other we love each other but frankly it’s not enough and he freezes up anytime I look for any form of commitment from him. I have never drunk called or texted him and yet he is constantly doing that to me, telling me he dreams about me every night, how I’m the only girl to have this affect on him and things of a similar nature. I just cannot figure out what is going on in his head and he won’t tell me.
TL;DR: on and off again with this boy for two years, he says hes in love with me, consistently comes back to me and yet doesn’t seem to want a relationship. but doesn’t want me in a relationship with anyone else.

Well I’m a caretaker for this lady in her 70s, wonderful woman. That means I also take care of her husband as well. Anyhow, the husband is on the phone with his credit card company while I’m preparing dinner. Unfortunately for the husband, this lady who spoke perfect English had an accent that was not “American”.
He couldn’t follow simple directions and instead of being polite, he chose racism. What a surprise!!! He said to the poor lady “Can I get someone who speaks English?”. The lady was speechless and immediately put him on hold. Then he had the audacity to say “What did I do to deserve this?” And my favorite; “These crazy people!”. Then in a huff he starts cutting up his credit card all proud of himself. 🙄
Obviously he had to get an attitude with me “You put too much food on my plate!” “Let me check my wife’s plate”. Like brother I put one pork chop, a medium potato, and half a cup of vegetables. I’ve made some progress with him though! He used to whistle at me to get my attention like a dog, now he uses my name.

At the fisrt, sorry for my english, i'm a little oxidated, but i'll try my best. (it's not my original lenguaje)
But first, a little of context:
It's an story by 7 years. I did meet my (not still) ex-husband on a convention of Anime, i did in cossplayed by Electra and he was Tony Stark, he was had a girlfriend and I was in a toxit relationship (story i'll tell in other time). But in that day, i swear, i did wish had him, i did fall in love. We talk just a little moment, we take a photograph and we keep going with our lives.
One year latter, when i'd brake up my relationship, i fall down in a horrible depression and 1 try to unsiscribe by the life. I'd try to grow up and join a group of single peopple just search fun. I'd was surprised to find that boy again in that group.
Uno month latter, we'd be in a relationship. After two years, we was marrige. Whitout anything more than love, we start this new stage, in the night of weddings, i got pregnant.
At that moment, i wasn´t know i had anxiety and depression cronique, and during pregnancy it only gets worse, and our relationship wasn't the best, we fight a lot, especially because I felt very unprotected by my partner: when we went out there were men who made bad comments to me and I even had to walk home alone after work, not to mention that there were a couple of occasions in which, due to the times , I could only prepare food and run to work, without eating a bite, to be surprised when I returned that he alone finished the food without leaving me anything.
Added to that, the first four months of pregnancy and marriage, he was without work, I had to take care of the household alone; Added to this, to lighten the burden a little, a relative did us the favor of renting us well below the value he had, his house which was uninhabited. Imagine my shame when he asked for the rent and I didn't have the money to pay because my husband didn't go out looking for work. If they hadn't given him an ultimatum, he would have spent years like this, until he asked for a job at the only company where they don't fire anyone.
All of this caused me to spend the entire pregnancy stressed and worried.
The last straw was the day my baby was born, which coincided with my husband's birthday. I had a complicated birth, in which they had to do an emergency procedure: I was hospitalized for two full days, alone, without eating or drinking anything (For those who don't know, the medical service in Mexico is beyond terrible). Not to make it long, my birth was more than complicated; and my mortification was no less when all my relatives, when they were able to come see me, kept telling me how mortified they were, on the other hand my husband looked like a child at Christmas because they brought him gifts for his birthday, even my best friend from school.
When my baby was born, I was aware that I wasn't feeling well, so I decided to take some time to recover before returning to work. And for those who are wondering, it's not like I had a great job, our economic position was not good at all, but my depression only got worse since my baby was born, the complications of childbirth made me feel terribly guilty just thinking about it. that something could have happened to my baby.
Day after day, even though I did not work and did not contribute financially to the house, I made an effort to ensure that the little money that came into the house was enough for everything: milk, diapers and food. Despite everything, I always made sure to prepare a good breakfast and lunch for my husband to take to work, I got up before him so I could have that attention with him; Imagine my disappointment when he often returned with the food intact from when she prepared it for him and told me that he had preferred to buy something to eat. This only made me feel like I was useless. Added to the fact that on more than one occasion he even left the front door of the house open for us: a woman who had just had surgery and a newborn baby, in a neighborhood where, in open secret, it was hot for organized crime, added to the fact that I I felt insecure around him.
My family kept making comments to me about how bad my husband felt for me, how bad I looked (comments that I questioned, because my family never liked my husband). Despite the bad things, he had his attempts to be thoughtful and considerate (in the wrong way or causing me more problems, but I understood that it was his way of showing that he cared).
This was when I began to understand that my husband was like that, disconnected from reality, it was his shell of protection since he practically grew up in foster homes with "relatives" or "acquaintances", many of them were very violent and mistreated him, making him feel alone and vulnerable. I learned much of this from him, the rest his mother herself came to tell me and the rest was a matter of adding 2 + 2.
When I assimilated this and that the situation would not improve, when my baby turned 9 months old, I decided to look for a job, fortunately I found a way to work from what I studied (because yes, I have a degree), and with very humanitarian bosses. those who didn't even mind me occasionally taking my baby to teach classes with me (because yes, I ended up teaching at a basic level). Thanks to this, the situation at home improved a little, but the arguments did not stop over small things, more than anything everything he did or did not do bothered me. I guess it was because of the exhaustion of dealing with everything alone, and for anyone wondering, no, he practically didn't help me with the baby issues; With the household chores (just washing the dishes and sometimes sweeping the common areas), I took care of the rest, in addition to always making sure the house was safe for a one-year-old baby.
One of the breaking points for me (this occurs in the dark time of the pandemic when we all lock ourselves at home), your company was one of the last to send them to rest, however, since my sector was related to dealing with children, I was one of the first sectors to confine themselves to home, so now I was doing homme office. One morning I realized that the man not only lost the keys to the house, but he took mine to leave, locked them and left them stuck outside the door, leaving me locked in with my baby without the possibility of getting out if anything arose. emergency. If it hadn't been for my father, who came to visit me to see how he was doing, who knows what would have happened. Get an idea of ​​how little he cared about the safety of his family.
These, among other things, added up over the years, until I began to ask him, as a last chance to save our marriage (because at this point, I felt broken and discouraged), I insisted that we seek help, couples therapy or at least individual therapy, but he didn't listen to me or wasn't interested. Until the first time I packed my and my baby's things, he realized that I was serious and that I would leave him, he still didn't want therapy, not even when I was honest with him and told him that there were many things that I couldn't do. forgive him, especially for the pregnancy; What did happen was that he began to collaborate more at home and finally began to take responsibilities with our son.
The facts:
What ended up being the final break was a day of extreme heat, where the weather was useless and there were no technicians operating in the area. My son, now 3 years old, is very hot and in any heat his nose tends to bleed a lot, especially that weekend he was very tired, despite that, the only solution I could think of was to put the pool inside the house ( to avoid having it under the sun), I clarify that at that time we lived in a small two-bedroom apartment, which yes, I admit was an impractical solution but it was the only thing that occurred to me. Even before I did it, I notified him of what I was trying to do, not to ask for permission, but just to notify him so he wouldn't be taken by surprise.
When he got home, he didn't say hello, he didn't say anything, he just left his things and left the house to get a taxi. When I caught up with him to ask him, he said he was going to his mother's house to get an air conditioning unit that he planned to bring to install to solve the problem, to which I gave him my list of problems with it, because we didn't have permission to make modifications to begin with. Thus in the department, adding the amount of electricity it used, transportation, among others. To which he also responded with his list of drawbacks that he saw with my solution. The point is that the argument escalated and ended with him throwing the water into the garden and me locking myself in the room with my daughter, enduring the heat of the day.
Neither of us spoke to each other the rest of the day, in the morning, the first thing I did was pack my things and my baby's things discreetly. I called my parents to tell them what had happened and they were more than willing to receive us (something that did not make me so calm because, yes, one of the reasons why I married him in a hurry was that my parents were a cornerstone of my anxiety and depression).
The next night, with my things packed, I waited for my husband to drop the bomb, tell him that he was leaving with our son, he cried a lot, he begged me for another chance; That time I didn't shed a single tear, not because I didn't love him, despite everything, I followed him and I still love him, but I realized that I was loving him more than I loved me and my daughter. . I didn't cry because I spent years crying alone and falling asleep with tears.
I asked him if he would prefer to end the relationship peacefully, where we could still rescue our friendship, before reaching a point where I couldn't even tolerate seeing him.
That was the only time when he finally said that he would take therapy, but I no longer believed him. I know he did it just to convince me, but in the end he wasn't going to do it. So I decided to leave the next day with my things. It was the last time we talked about it.
At the moment:
We have a year apart, we decided to give ourselves a few months to settle in and calm our spirits. Despite this, we have still kept in touch through our daughter, when it is her turn to visit or when she brings him an errand.
I don't deny that I still love him, and now I'm the one who would like our marriage to be fixed, but he is the first to say that he feels better now.
Now that I am living with my parents, my symptoms of anxiety and depression have not improved at all, on the contrary. I don't know if I ever feel like going back to him was a desperate attempt to get out of my parents' house, because he was the only person who made me feel understood and that there was nothing wrong with being who I was (I did). which has mainly contributed to my mental health), because I clarify, my son has a disability and since his diagnosis, he has not contributed much either, I have been with the support of my family in the face of that, but not with my ex-husband or the his family, so I use practically all of my salary on my son and his basic needs; His father gives me alimony for him, but only the equivalent of $20 dollars a week, against medication a month that costs about $100, plus his therapies and special attention.
So I ask.
AITAH for asking my husband for a divorce for refusing to go to therapy?
I really appreciate that you take the time, I know that it is not a short or brief story, I will try to answer your questions in the comments if I have not been clear in any aspect. Right now I'm a mess, I'm discouraged because my situation is currently not good, my profession wears me out emotionally and mentally, added to the condition of my son who makes me feel like I'm not doing things right...
I need to know that there is something in life that I haven't done so badly. In advance, thank you Reddit community.