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2024.05.14 05:37 Firm-Character-677 4yrs LDR delulu lang ba ako or may future (medyo mahaba)
Hi I just wanna share my LDR story cuz I can't really judge clearly right now without being biased. I'm already attached to him given na naka abot na kami ng 4years and my mind seems to justify him. We broke up last May 5 lang.
Anyways, I'm 23F, filipino and he's 23M, indian.
Ps. Medyo mahaba hahaha
So, we met on a MMORPG last summer of 2020. We started talking on DC and I usually don't get interested to ppl I met online but his attack was kinda different. He asked about my GPA and I was like wow concern sa grado baka matino. Ganern. Online classes are still on going that time so we usually talk more at night. And it wasn't just some small talks but quality talks. About life ganern, interests and views on different things. We don't usually agree but we both talk so deeply about it kaya nagkasundo.
Fast forward, ako talaga ang unang naattached. And I already know that time (which was only months after we first talked) na wala kaming patutunguhan. He wasn't that attached to the point of considering me on his future. But still, I didn't mind. Wala pa din naman akong plano sumabak sa relationship irl. NBSB pero may mga manliligaw. So ayun, nagpatuloy sa kalandian habang nanonotice ko na na medyo may katotohanan na sa mga "I love you" nya. We've been so wholesome na rin. Been into different kind of games like Dragon Raja, 8ball, COC, at halos lahat na yata ng games sa play store na subukan na. Hindi naman ako gamer tbh ML lang talaga yung game na nilalaro ko tyaka yung MMORPG na yun. But anyways to make the story short, sa 4 years na yun marami na ring away. Let's say every year may pinag aawayan talaga. He was talking to girls on DC even tho it wasn't that malicious but still. We started there toođ iyan yung issue sa let's say 2-3 yrs ig. Pero di naman sobrang dami mga like 2 months lng out of 12. Then last year, he greeted his ex of 2yrs a happy birthday. Tbh nung unang year wala lang sa akin. On our 2nd year when I found out, I told him to stop cuz I didn't like it. Last year was kinda diff cuz he greeted her a belated birthday mga atiiih. Belated hahahaha the care to greet even though it was alrdy late di ba. So nag away ulit. Ilang beses na rin sya nag ask ng chances sa 4yrs na Yan. Like super sincere to the point na hindi ka niya tatantanan ng message mapa DC, tele, WhatsApp or insta. Ilang beses na rin sya umiyak dahil sa situation namin like sa LDR, to say sorry, dahil sa different beliefs and all. I told him that we should wait until 26 to decide if pwede na iuwi sa kasalan hahaha ganun kalala ang love and patience ko mga bhiee. He agreed too cuz by that time, we will be mature enough to decide considering na di pa sya secured sa job that time. And to conclude kasi napahaba na, for me, our love was real and very wholesome I might not show it through this forum but yeah, it was. But the thing is, last 1st week of May I kinda tested him saying that, "this is probably the lowest point of my life" cuz currently we're having some financial problem cuz of hospitalization and he knew it. But guess what, he ignored that msg. I told him goodnight right after kasi mukhang Wala talaga syang plano mag reply and guess what, he replied. "Sorry Im kinda busy, you can sleep tho" okay I understand. Busy sya. But girl diba? Am I wrong tho? Did I just assume stuffs? Pero I decided to end it right after. I deleted my msged abt that lowest point shi and he innocently asked if I want to explain why I was breaking up with him. And I told him no need. Cuz bakit pa? I've had my answer. And si kuya sabi niya, I kinda know why and it's rlly hard that I can't do anything about it. Pero why not console me? Pero mali ba ako? I need your wisdom masyado nang biased utak ko. So ayun wala na talaga. Kala ko mabilis lang mag move on since online lang pero iba rin talaga pag naattached na haha. Was I wrong tho or did I saved myself. Anyways, graduation na nxt year so focus nlang muna sa studies ngayon.
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Anyways, I'm 23F, filipino and he's 23M, indian.
Ps. Medyo mahaba hahaha
So, we met on a MMORPG last summer of 2020. We started talking on DC and I usually don't get interested to ppl I met online but his attack was kinda different. He asked about my GPA and I was like wow concern sa grado baka matino. Ganern. Online classes are still on going that time so we usually talk more at night. And it wasn't just some small talks but quality talks. About life ganern, interests and views on different things. We don't usually agree but we both talk so deeply about it kaya nagkasundo.
Fast forward, ako talaga ang unang naattached. And I already know that time (which was only months after we first talked) na wala kaming patutunguhan. He wasn't that attached to the point of considering me on his future. But still, I didn't mind. Wala pa din naman akong plano sumabak sa relationship irl. NBSB pero may mga manliligaw. So ayun, nagpatuloy sa kalandian habang nanonotice ko na na medyo may katotohanan na sa mga "I love you" nya. We've been so wholesome na rin. Been into different kind of games like Dragon Raja, 8ball, COC, at halos lahat na yata ng games sa play store na subukan na. Hindi naman ako gamer tbh ML lang talaga yung game na nilalaro ko tyaka yung MMORPG na yun. But anyways to make the story short, sa 4 years na yun marami na ring away. Let's say every year may pinag aawayan talaga. He was talking to girls on DC even tho it wasn't that malicious but still. We started there toođ iyan yung issue sa let's say 2-3 yrs ig. Pero di naman sobrang dami mga like 2 months lng out of 12. Then last year, he greeted his ex of 2yrs a happy birthday. Tbh nung unang year wala lang sa akin. On our 2nd year when I found out, I told him to stop cuz I didn't like it. Last year was kinda diff cuz he greeted her a belated birthday mga atiiih. Belated hahahaha the care to greet even though it was alrdy late di ba. So nag away ulit. Ilang beses na rin sya nag ask ng chances sa 4yrs na Yan. Like super sincere to the point na hindi ka niya tatantanan ng message mapa DC, tele, WhatsApp or insta. Ilang beses na rin sya umiyak dahil sa situation namin like sa LDR, to say sorry, dahil sa different beliefs and all. I told him that we should wait until 26 to decide if pwede na iuwi sa kasalan hahaha ganun kalala ang love and patience ko mga bhiee. He agreed too cuz by that time, we will be mature enough to decide considering na di pa sya secured sa job that time. And to conclude kasi napahaba na, for me, our love was real and very wholesome I might not show it through this forum but yeah, it was. But the thing is, last 1st week of May I kinda tested him saying that, "this is probably the lowest point of my life" cuz currently we're having some financial problem cuz of hospitalization and he knew it. But guess what, he ignored that msg. I told him goodnight right after kasi mukhang Wala talaga syang plano mag reply and guess what, he replied. "Sorry Im kinda busy, you can sleep tho" okay I understand. Busy sya. But girl diba? Am I wrong tho? Did I just assume stuffs? Pero I decided to end it right after. I deleted my msged abt that lowest point shi and he innocently asked if I want to explain why I was breaking up with him. And I told him no need. Cuz bakit pa? I've had my answer. And si kuya sabi niya, I kinda know why and it's rlly hard that I can't do anything about it. Pero why not console me? Pero mali ba ako? I need your wisdom masyado nang biased utak ko. So ayun wala na talaga. Kala ko mabilis lang mag move on since online lang pero iba rin talaga pag naattached na haha. Was I wrong tho or did I saved myself. Anyways, graduation na nxt year so focus nlang muna sa studies ngayon.
2024.05.14 05:23 Repulsive-Raise916 Friends na di nag-iinvite kemz
I guess I'm kinda jealous or upset pero tuwing nakikita ko stories nila naiisip ko na bat di nila ako ini-invite kahit na I'M LITERALLY A FEW BLOCKS AWAY sa pinupuntahan nila or sumthn. Gets ko naman na siguro spontaneous yung iba, pero mas alam pa nung friend namin na nasa malayo na lumalabas sila, kesa sakin na nasa kabilang barangay lang.
Sorry kung feeling entitled ako sa part na to pero kase I hold them all on the same degrees of friendship kaya siguro I feel na ganun din dapat sila sakin.
Tapos pag ako mag-aaya, sasabihin na wala silang budget. It's frustrating and sad personally kase okay naman kami pag nagkikita sa school. Idk baka sobrang petty ko lang or valid pa ba tong nararamdaman ko HAHAHAHA.
Pwede ko naman to i-open sa kanila in a humorous manner para di masyadong serious pero I also don't want to guilt trip them and make them feel obligated to invite me lalo na kung ayaw naman talaga nila ako kasama diba HAHAHAHAHA and I think hindi na rin kailangan i-communicate kase lilipas din naman to, this is just how I feel as of the moment.
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Sorry kung feeling entitled ako sa part na to pero kase I hold them all on the same degrees of friendship kaya siguro I feel na ganun din dapat sila sakin.
Tapos pag ako mag-aaya, sasabihin na wala silang budget. It's frustrating and sad personally kase okay naman kami pag nagkikita sa school. Idk baka sobrang petty ko lang or valid pa ba tong nararamdaman ko HAHAHAHA.
Pwede ko naman to i-open sa kanila in a humorous manner para di masyadong serious pero I also don't want to guilt trip them and make them feel obligated to invite me lalo na kung ayaw naman talaga nila ako kasama diba HAHAHAHAHA and I think hindi na rin kailangan i-communicate kase lilipas din naman to, this is just how I feel as of the moment.
2024.05.14 05:22 Quoboe Tinik sa lalamunan na tropa
I don't open up problems to people around me even though I know that there are some who would be willing to listen. So dito nalang muna ako magpapakawala ng frustration.
I'm a person who doesn't want any beef with anyone as much as possible and I can't sleep knowing that someone felt bad because of me. So habang nagiisip pa ako kung papaano ko sasabihin frankly sa isa kong tropa na pathological liar and a heavily driven user of people, na I'm fed up with letting his lies slide and I'm done pretending to be naive and I wanted to cut our friendship ties na, pa vent off muna dito. It's been too mentally toxic for me already. Never have I thought I'd meet someone and eventually be in my circle for years who lives and breathes as a bullshit artist. I always knew he's like that, others in our circle know he's that kind. All in his other circle know that.
Madali lang naman sana eh kung hindi dahil sa put***inang pagkabuhol-buhol sa negosyo.
We are business partners. I know, antangatanga ko din. You got me, and I won't defend myself from that. But he was a friend needing help at that time. So I financed the whole thing and used my highly valued skills to build and maintain it. But public knowledge is that we financed it squarely. He doesn't want everyone to know I solely financed it because this guy's got a fvkn ego as huge as Burj Khalifa -- I agreed. Business is food. Deal was, we'll locate the business in their property and as soon as we rake in consistent profits, we'll slowly return my capital. Then subsequent profits, we'll split 50/50. Fortunately, business slightly blew up. I did get my capital back. Thereafter I trusted him with the numbers and the papers. Biz is under sole proprietorship and let him print his name on it because I tend to travel far regularly. I get to monitor the sales naman real time with an online POS. I initiated the financial sheets for him to maintain manually. IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. I relied on his casual updates, on how the general fitness of the busines goes. For the past few months I always get a fckn sad and disappointed face together with a bad news that it's been rough lately and saying we're just breaking even for months now. I opened the sheets yesterday after almost a year of not checking on them and I can see so much bullshit in it as clear as day. I can spot them with one eye closed. It's like a robbery done by a child. Well to be fair, this guy is not really smart. In a lot of ways he's bobo. He thinks he's street smart at ma diskarte but there's a more fitting word to call it for his case -- EGO. He thinks hes's got the flair of bobo but madiskarte. But IQ and other intellectual traits, zilch. When I saw all the discrepancies, I couldn't contain my laughter because it was too funny that he might think he did a great job playing with the numbers. Spotting the bullshit in it was childsplay. But fun didn't last long. I feel brutally betrayed. I knew naman talaga na there was so much risk. Also, I always knew how fckn dark his attitude, his ways, and mindset is. It's just that, he needed help that I agreed to team up. But now, he's become a huge turd I want to wash away as thorough as possible.
He also always likes to make stories and scenarios up where he would sound and look great. He's basically self-feeding his ego. He always presents himself to everyone that he had reached these and those kind of fictional achievements, unsolicitedly blowing his own horn at strange and random times. Probably a coping mechanism because admittedly, he knows that he's a person with no talent, no skills, no intelligence, and just PURE BULLSHIT.
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I'm a person who doesn't want any beef with anyone as much as possible and I can't sleep knowing that someone felt bad because of me. So habang nagiisip pa ako kung papaano ko sasabihin frankly sa isa kong tropa na pathological liar and a heavily driven user of people, na I'm fed up with letting his lies slide and I'm done pretending to be naive and I wanted to cut our friendship ties na, pa vent off muna dito. It's been too mentally toxic for me already. Never have I thought I'd meet someone and eventually be in my circle for years who lives and breathes as a bullshit artist. I always knew he's like that, others in our circle know he's that kind. All in his other circle know that.
Madali lang naman sana eh kung hindi dahil sa put***inang pagkabuhol-buhol sa negosyo.
We are business partners. I know, antangatanga ko din. You got me, and I won't defend myself from that. But he was a friend needing help at that time. So I financed the whole thing and used my highly valued skills to build and maintain it. But public knowledge is that we financed it squarely. He doesn't want everyone to know I solely financed it because this guy's got a fvkn ego as huge as Burj Khalifa -- I agreed. Business is food. Deal was, we'll locate the business in their property and as soon as we rake in consistent profits, we'll slowly return my capital. Then subsequent profits, we'll split 50/50. Fortunately, business slightly blew up. I did get my capital back. Thereafter I trusted him with the numbers and the papers. Biz is under sole proprietorship and let him print his name on it because I tend to travel far regularly. I get to monitor the sales naman real time with an online POS. I initiated the financial sheets for him to maintain manually. IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. I relied on his casual updates, on how the general fitness of the busines goes. For the past few months I always get a fckn sad and disappointed face together with a bad news that it's been rough lately and saying we're just breaking even for months now. I opened the sheets yesterday after almost a year of not checking on them and I can see so much bullshit in it as clear as day. I can spot them with one eye closed. It's like a robbery done by a child. Well to be fair, this guy is not really smart. In a lot of ways he's bobo. He thinks he's street smart at ma diskarte but there's a more fitting word to call it for his case -- EGO. He thinks hes's got the flair of bobo but madiskarte. But IQ and other intellectual traits, zilch. When I saw all the discrepancies, I couldn't contain my laughter because it was too funny that he might think he did a great job playing with the numbers. Spotting the bullshit in it was childsplay. But fun didn't last long. I feel brutally betrayed. I knew naman talaga na there was so much risk. Also, I always knew how fckn dark his attitude, his ways, and mindset is. It's just that, he needed help that I agreed to team up. But now, he's become a huge turd I want to wash away as thorough as possible.
He also always likes to make stories and scenarios up where he would sound and look great. He's basically self-feeding his ego. He always presents himself to everyone that he had reached these and those kind of fictional achievements, unsolicitedly blowing his own horn at strange and random times. Probably a coping mechanism because admittedly, he knows that he's a person with no talent, no skills, no intelligence, and just PURE BULLSHIT.
2024.05.14 04:16 Unfair-Reality6689 What are your thoughts sa friend na bukambibig ang pagkatalo in front of people who have experienced worse than that?
After competition, nagsama-sama kaming magfi-friends para magcatch up since hindi kami magkakasama sa isang section (magkakalaban kami sa competition).
âYung section ko kasi ngayon, walang napanalong competition pati âyung batch ng section namin last year. Kaya gusto sana naming i-prove na kaya naming manalo. Sobrang tagal na kaming nagc-crave sa title na âchampionâ. Sobrang tagal na naming gustong manalo. Pero hindi nangyari.
Ang pag-uusapan sana namin sa time na âyon ay âyung mga nakakainis during practices. Pero ang sabi ko, kulang ang time at kung pâwede bang sa call na lang kami mag-usap. That time kasi parating na âyung sundo ko in an hour and i think hindi talaga sapat âyung isang oras para pagchikahan ang mga nangyari. Ang daming topics na biglang pumapasok that time.
Now the problem is âyung buo naming pagsasama, puro pagkatalo nila ang bukambibig niya sa harapan naming âtalunanâ. We were all laughing and may pasingit-singit pa rin na ayaw nilang matalo, na dapat sila âyung nanalo. Sinasabi niya âyan sa harap naming talunan at sa harap ng nag-champion. Tapos noong sinabi ng friend ko na kaklase ko na parang ang insensitive na niya kasi pagkatalo na lang ang sinasabi niya sa harapan namin, eh weâre supposed to be having fun, ang sagot niya eh ini-invalidate daw namin feelings niya.
Sabi pa niya, âKasalanan ko bang hindi niyo binigay ang best niyo para manalo?â na-trigger kami ng friend ko sinabi niya kasi anong karapatan niya eh wala naman siya habang naghihirap kami? Sabi niya, âHindi niyo kasi alam kasi wala naman kayong pinapatunayanâ so sinasabi niyang talunan na lang talaga kami?
Like, okay, gets ko na sad ka sa nangyari pero âwag naman sa harap naming nakaranas ng mas malala. Siyempre sinasabi na lang namin na âHindi namin goal ang manalo, goal na lang namin ang makapagperform nang masayaâ to comfort ourselves. Pero sinoâng hindi goal ang manalo, âdi ba?
Wdyt, is the friend really insensitive for talking nonstop about defeat or dapat nakinig na lang kami kahit sobrang sakit sa part namin na ni minsan hindi nanalo?
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âYung section ko kasi ngayon, walang napanalong competition pati âyung batch ng section namin last year. Kaya gusto sana naming i-prove na kaya naming manalo. Sobrang tagal na kaming nagc-crave sa title na âchampionâ. Sobrang tagal na naming gustong manalo. Pero hindi nangyari.
Ang pag-uusapan sana namin sa time na âyon ay âyung mga nakakainis during practices. Pero ang sabi ko, kulang ang time at kung pâwede bang sa call na lang kami mag-usap. That time kasi parating na âyung sundo ko in an hour and i think hindi talaga sapat âyung isang oras para pagchikahan ang mga nangyari. Ang daming topics na biglang pumapasok that time.
Now the problem is âyung buo naming pagsasama, puro pagkatalo nila ang bukambibig niya sa harapan naming âtalunanâ. We were all laughing and may pasingit-singit pa rin na ayaw nilang matalo, na dapat sila âyung nanalo. Sinasabi niya âyan sa harap naming talunan at sa harap ng nag-champion. Tapos noong sinabi ng friend ko na kaklase ko na parang ang insensitive na niya kasi pagkatalo na lang ang sinasabi niya sa harapan namin, eh weâre supposed to be having fun, ang sagot niya eh ini-invalidate daw namin feelings niya.
Sabi pa niya, âKasalanan ko bang hindi niyo binigay ang best niyo para manalo?â na-trigger kami ng friend ko sinabi niya kasi anong karapatan niya eh wala naman siya habang naghihirap kami? Sabi niya, âHindi niyo kasi alam kasi wala naman kayong pinapatunayanâ so sinasabi niyang talunan na lang talaga kami?
Like, okay, gets ko na sad ka sa nangyari pero âwag naman sa harap naming nakaranas ng mas malala. Siyempre sinasabi na lang namin na âHindi namin goal ang manalo, goal na lang namin ang makapagperform nang masayaâ to comfort ourselves. Pero sinoâng hindi goal ang manalo, âdi ba?
Wdyt, is the friend really insensitive for talking nonstop about defeat or dapat nakinig na lang kami kahit sobrang sakit sa part namin na ni minsan hindi nanalo?
2024.05.14 02:38 hewynn0116 Can I ask kung pano hindi magmukhang depressed and shitty sad in life?
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2024.05.14 02:10 Sudden_Energy_9594 ghinost ako ni HR
grabe yung final interview ko like panel interview sya with HR, AM, Manager and SM. gusto kong lamunin then inisip ko na lang take it or leave it. Okay naman yung usapan namin. Wala naman akong naiwan na hindi sagutan sakanila. Then sabi ni HR mag wait daw ako after a week sa result. Grabe mag 2 weeks na wala pa rin result. So nag decide ako na mag msg sa HR. for follow up regarding sa application ko. GRABE DI NAG RESPONSE HALOS MAMATAY AKO SA INTERVIEW NILA
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2024.05.13 19:24 v7_t900 Law school lang meron ako ngayon.
I feel so lonely and sad. Because of my work and failed relationship. And the only thing that's going well for me is law school. Every time I feel sad or bugbog sa trabaho, I just read cases and feel at home. I just read long texts, codals, and books, and I feel at home. Ito lang kasi yung pag-asa ko para magkaroon ng mas maganda at makabuluhang buhay.
Sinugal ko rin lahat dito. Lahat ng savings, pagod, oras, dito ko na nilaan. Law school na ang last line of defense ko, at last fight ko para sa mas maayos na buhay. Hindi man financially someday, pero meaningful man lang sapat na.
Sa inyong mga kagaya ko, support! Wag natin susukuan.
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Sinugal ko rin lahat dito. Lahat ng savings, pagod, oras, dito ko na nilaan. Law school na ang last line of defense ko, at last fight ko para sa mas maayos na buhay. Hindi man financially someday, pero meaningful man lang sapat na.
Sa inyong mga kagaya ko, support! Wag natin susukuan.
2024.05.13 17:08 bheylieee I wanna move out na. Where should I start?
I just turned 21 this May and I want to move out na with my sister (sheâs 18). I wanna move out na with her dahil sa step-dad ko na hinahanapan ng pera yung mom ko palagi with pasaring na bakit sâya lahat gumagastos.
For context, theyâve been together for 10 years now and most of those years eh pabigat lang sâya sa mom ko. not exaggerating it pero as in pabigat lang sâya to the point na need pa sâya hanapin ng mom ko to make sure na buhay pa sâya. pandemic lang sâya nagkaroon ng matinong trabaho and on-off pa yung sarili nâyang katinuan. Me naman, as the panganay, medyo financially independent na ako + nakakapagbigay na rin sa house namin for extra and sagot ko lahat ng outside sa usual gastos like handa for occasions ganon-ganon. In short, hindi nâya ako binubuhay. Mula 2020 sustentado ko na sarili ko kasi nagvâva or personal research assistant ako.
Please help me understand how upwork or what other job I can do po na wfh. I canât on-site jobs dahil demanding yung college program ko + meron pa akong online job atm pero hindi enough for me to save para makapagmove out kasi ako magsusustain sa lahat ng needs ko and some din sa sibs ko.
I am asking how to do upwork or other wfh work para I can do it alone na and save. please help a girl out!
to add na rin sa urgency: I was SAd by that a-hole multiple times when I was a minor and he did tried again just this year coz he got his hands on drugs na naman. but, thatâs for another story.
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For context, theyâve been together for 10 years now and most of those years eh pabigat lang sâya sa mom ko. not exaggerating it pero as in pabigat lang sâya to the point na need pa sâya hanapin ng mom ko to make sure na buhay pa sâya. pandemic lang sâya nagkaroon ng matinong trabaho and on-off pa yung sarili nâyang katinuan. Me naman, as the panganay, medyo financially independent na ako + nakakapagbigay na rin sa house namin for extra and sagot ko lahat ng outside sa usual gastos like handa for occasions ganon-ganon. In short, hindi nâya ako binubuhay. Mula 2020 sustentado ko na sarili ko kasi nagvâva or personal research assistant ako.
Please help me understand how upwork or what other job I can do po na wfh. I canât on-site jobs dahil demanding yung college program ko + meron pa akong online job atm pero hindi enough for me to save para makapagmove out kasi ako magsusustain sa lahat ng needs ko and some din sa sibs ko.
I am asking how to do upwork or other wfh work para I can do it alone na and save. please help a girl out!
to add na rin sa urgency: I was SAd by that a-hole multiple times when I was a minor and he did tried again just this year coz he got his hands on drugs na naman. but, thatâs for another story.
2024.05.13 16:59 Equivalent_Unit_3969 I broke up with my girlfriend because of her low effort
This is long but please read.
For context, we are both (F19) and naging kami before graduation ng SHS. Naging LDR kami since lumipat sya ng province na 4 hours away, nakatira mag-isa sa isang apartment. Umabot kami ng 1 year nitong last week of April.
Umuwi sya rito nung April 26, which didnât end in a good way. I felt unheard when I ranted to her about a peer problem, even putting on my IG note âimagine being heard.â After that, we talked. She opened up na yung way ng pagmamahal ko sa kanya is hindi fit sa kung paano nya gustong mahalin. I asked her to elaborate. She responded kinabukasan na hindi nya raw kasi ako lubusang kilala kahit isang taon na kami, parang hindi nya pa rin naaabot yung depth ng pagkatao ko.
I explained that itâs probably bcs of the way I was raised (I was the eldest granddaughter) and I am willing to work on building a better communication with her despite of her objections (kasi ayaw nya akong i-force gawin yung mga bagay na hindi ako sanay).
But she went cold and ang timid ng replies even after that. I confronted her about it then she admitted that sheâs still not fine because of our current situation. But here comes the bigger problem which caused our breakup.
Nag-IGS ako sa main account ko sa Instagram ng April dump which is a 6 picture collage. One consists of a screenshot of her while weâre on a call. Then, nagcall din kami noong gabi na yon. Nakita nya yung IGS ko before her falling asleep. Pero habang tulog sya, napansin ko na naka-hide sakin yung IGS nya and upon checking through a different account (her accountâs in public). Mayroon syang IGS na group picture nila ng classmates nya and sheâs choking one of her friends jokingly.
Ginising ko sya, and asked her kung bakit hidden sakin yung IGS nya. She played dumb, I explained pa na kapag hidden ang IGS is mawawala rin yung mga highlights. â ď¸ Then, sabi nya is nag-experiment daw sya sa Insta pero nakalimutang banggitin sakin kasi natulog na sya. I then asked her kung bakit nya inalis yung IGS nya after ko syang gisingin. Gusto nya lang daw. I ended the call kasi ang dumb nung mga alibi.
Nagchat na kami nito next, don nya in-admit na she hid it from me bcs she thought I might not like it. Actually, nakita ko na yung IGS na yon nung hapon pa lang bcs I stalked her classmates kasi wala syang update sakin pero hindi ko na yon binanggit. Puro sya apologies pero wala akong narinig na assurance and the effort to make it up to me. Tinanong nya ako if I was going to leave her, ang sabi ko lang is matulog na sya dahil naguguluhan pa ako.
Kinabukasan ng tanghali, I messaged her again to ask kung anong gusto nyang mangyari samin dalawa, but she responded with hindi nya raw alam and what she did was bad, puro apologies na naman. I broke up with her, saying that I canât be with someone who lies. And I also apologize for the current issue that she opened up to me just days before. I got ghosted after this. â ď¸â ď¸â ď¸
We went on no contact and wala na rin kami sa highlights and posts ng isaât isa (ako unang nag-alis). Isang linggo na ang nakalipas after the breakup and I stopped interacting with her nor viewing her stories. But she is lowkey a sad girl on social media, which makes me think if I was the wrong one for calling it off. I also saw her bestfriend post that my ex is having a hard time rn, I admit that I have flaws but I also refuse to hit her up for closure kasi hinayaan nya lang din naman ako.
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For context, we are both (F19) and naging kami before graduation ng SHS. Naging LDR kami since lumipat sya ng province na 4 hours away, nakatira mag-isa sa isang apartment. Umabot kami ng 1 year nitong last week of April.
Umuwi sya rito nung April 26, which didnât end in a good way. I felt unheard when I ranted to her about a peer problem, even putting on my IG note âimagine being heard.â After that, we talked. She opened up na yung way ng pagmamahal ko sa kanya is hindi fit sa kung paano nya gustong mahalin. I asked her to elaborate. She responded kinabukasan na hindi nya raw kasi ako lubusang kilala kahit isang taon na kami, parang hindi nya pa rin naaabot yung depth ng pagkatao ko.
I explained that itâs probably bcs of the way I was raised (I was the eldest granddaughter) and I am willing to work on building a better communication with her despite of her objections (kasi ayaw nya akong i-force gawin yung mga bagay na hindi ako sanay).
But she went cold and ang timid ng replies even after that. I confronted her about it then she admitted that sheâs still not fine because of our current situation. But here comes the bigger problem which caused our breakup.
Nag-IGS ako sa main account ko sa Instagram ng April dump which is a 6 picture collage. One consists of a screenshot of her while weâre on a call. Then, nagcall din kami noong gabi na yon. Nakita nya yung IGS ko before her falling asleep. Pero habang tulog sya, napansin ko na naka-hide sakin yung IGS nya and upon checking through a different account (her accountâs in public). Mayroon syang IGS na group picture nila ng classmates nya and sheâs choking one of her friends jokingly.
Ginising ko sya, and asked her kung bakit hidden sakin yung IGS nya. She played dumb, I explained pa na kapag hidden ang IGS is mawawala rin yung mga highlights. â ď¸ Then, sabi nya is nag-experiment daw sya sa Insta pero nakalimutang banggitin sakin kasi natulog na sya. I then asked her kung bakit nya inalis yung IGS nya after ko syang gisingin. Gusto nya lang daw. I ended the call kasi ang dumb nung mga alibi.
Nagchat na kami nito next, don nya in-admit na she hid it from me bcs she thought I might not like it. Actually, nakita ko na yung IGS na yon nung hapon pa lang bcs I stalked her classmates kasi wala syang update sakin pero hindi ko na yon binanggit. Puro sya apologies pero wala akong narinig na assurance and the effort to make it up to me. Tinanong nya ako if I was going to leave her, ang sabi ko lang is matulog na sya dahil naguguluhan pa ako.
Kinabukasan ng tanghali, I messaged her again to ask kung anong gusto nyang mangyari samin dalawa, but she responded with hindi nya raw alam and what she did was bad, puro apologies na naman. I broke up with her, saying that I canât be with someone who lies. And I also apologize for the current issue that she opened up to me just days before. I got ghosted after this. â ď¸â ď¸â ď¸
We went on no contact and wala na rin kami sa highlights and posts ng isaât isa (ako unang nag-alis). Isang linggo na ang nakalipas after the breakup and I stopped interacting with her nor viewing her stories. But she is lowkey a sad girl on social media, which makes me think if I was the wrong one for calling it off. I also saw her bestfriend post that my ex is having a hard time rn, I admit that I have flaws but I also refuse to hit her up for closure kasi hinayaan nya lang din naman ako.
2024.05.13 16:31 AteGhorll Ate na pagod na pagod na :<
Hi po! Warning, long post ahead. Share ko lang sana yung situation ko and I wanna hear your thoughts/advice on this matter.
My sister and I are currently renting a condo unit and lately, di ko na talaga kinakaya ugali nya. Like before okay, I can tolerate pa kase mas bata sya (btw we're both college students). Mostly di namin pinagkakasunduan is di nya ginagawa yung assigned na chores sa kanya, so ang ending, ako nalang gumagawa.
Then nag-escalate na yung inis ko kase ginamit nya yung damit ko without asking me first then I saw nalang sa sampayan tapos putikan yung dulo ng pants (mahaba kase for her yung pants kaya naapakan nya). So I confronted her, sabi ko u should have asked me first sana before wearing MY clothes and make sure na ayusin nya rin pag ibabalik. I was calmly talking to her then she answered ba naman "nilabhan ko na nga e" pataray pa. So uminit talaga ulo ni ati mo. Wala man lang akong narinig na sorry. I WAS GETTING READY PA NAMAN TO CELEB MY BIRTHDAY. Hinahanap ko yung pants kase yun sana isusuot ko. Sya pa talaga yung nagtaray at nagsabi na madamot ako sa lola namin (dun kase sya lagi nagsusumbong and lagi rin sya kinakampihan).
After ng incident na to, di ko na sya pinapansin kase di ko talaga nagustuhan yung attittude nya. I was waiting for her to realize na hindi dapat ganun, paano kung ibang tao kasama nya sa condo/dorm, diba. So lumipas na ilang months, wala pa rin, sya pa nagmamatigas. Ako naman hinahayaan ko lang sya as long as di na maulit at tumulong na rin sana sya sa chores. But sadly, wala.
Then lumipas na ilang months, nag christmas and new year na, girlll wala talagang character developement. During school break, we went home to our province tas malaman laman ko na kung ano ano sinasabi nya about me na mahirap daw ako kasama, dami ko daw lagi sinasabi, nakakadepress daw ako kasama. I was really hurt talaga kase ang gusto nya mangyare pa is magalit din sila sakin. I felt betrayed kase as much as possible iniintindi ko naman sya, wala sinabing masama behind her back kase I always confront her if i have concerns, di ko na pinapadaan sa iba. I don't get din why kaylangan nya ako siraan or make me look like the bad guy dahil lang don. Sobrang babaw ng pinagsimulan, sa damit lang, kinausap ko lang sya na wag na nya uulitin yun.
Looking back, napapag sabihan ko rin sya sa ibang bagay, like nung sembreak sya yung natira sa condo kase nagstay pa sya since may gala sila ng friends nya, di nya tinapon yung basura bago umalis. So pagbalik ko, SOBRANG DAMING IPIS. Grabe ang stress ko non, nagpa-pest control pa ako kase ginawa na nilang bahay yung basurahan at kung san san na sila gumagapang, until now may ipis pa rin :<< Masama ba na pagsabihan sya? Di naman ako nagkulang sa pag remind na laging itapon basura at maglinis para maiwasan yung pests. Nainis ba sya sakin kase nagger ako? Mali po ba yung approach ko? Tapos before pa mangyare lahat ng to, kasama namin sa condo yung classmate nya. Di rin nya nakasundo kase di daw naglilinis, dami laging dalang bisita, basta madami syang reklamo about her classmate. As an ate, syempre i took action, i asked her to leave nalang. Tapos ang ending, sya naman yun ganun, di naglilinis, makalat sa gamit, pag magdadala ng visitors di naglilinis. Ang nangyayare, I always clean after her, tapos ganun pala yung sinasabi nya about me behind my back, sa family namin. It really made me sad kase ako naman, di naman talaga ako masyado nagpapakita ng emotions and di rin ako masyado nagsasabi sa fam namin. I try to keep things to myself, pero after knowing all of this, I felt really affected sa mga nangyare. Napapaisip nalang ako minsan bat nagkaganito.
I already asked our mom na if pede maghiwalay nalang kami kase dagdag pa sya sa iniisp ko bukod sa acads. Ayoko na kase sya maka-interact sa ngayon kase na-hurt talaga ako. So ang problem ko ngayon is if aalis ako, maasikaso nya kaya yung condo? Like recently lang, nagkaron ng termite infestation kase yung kapitbahay na unit is inaanay na, pero wala syang idea na may ganun na. In short, di sya aware sa mga nangyayare sa condo kase di rin naman sya naglilinis. Willing naman ako lumipat and sya na yung mag-stay. As of now, medyo magulo pa isip ko kung paano ba gagawin pero ang gusto ko lang talaga is mahiwalay sa kanya.
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My sister and I are currently renting a condo unit and lately, di ko na talaga kinakaya ugali nya. Like before okay, I can tolerate pa kase mas bata sya (btw we're both college students). Mostly di namin pinagkakasunduan is di nya ginagawa yung assigned na chores sa kanya, so ang ending, ako nalang gumagawa.
Then nag-escalate na yung inis ko kase ginamit nya yung damit ko without asking me first then I saw nalang sa sampayan tapos putikan yung dulo ng pants (mahaba kase for her yung pants kaya naapakan nya). So I confronted her, sabi ko u should have asked me first sana before wearing MY clothes and make sure na ayusin nya rin pag ibabalik. I was calmly talking to her then she answered ba naman "nilabhan ko na nga e" pataray pa. So uminit talaga ulo ni ati mo. Wala man lang akong narinig na sorry. I WAS GETTING READY PA NAMAN TO CELEB MY BIRTHDAY. Hinahanap ko yung pants kase yun sana isusuot ko. Sya pa talaga yung nagtaray at nagsabi na madamot ako sa lola namin (dun kase sya lagi nagsusumbong and lagi rin sya kinakampihan).
After ng incident na to, di ko na sya pinapansin kase di ko talaga nagustuhan yung attittude nya. I was waiting for her to realize na hindi dapat ganun, paano kung ibang tao kasama nya sa condo/dorm, diba. So lumipas na ilang months, wala pa rin, sya pa nagmamatigas. Ako naman hinahayaan ko lang sya as long as di na maulit at tumulong na rin sana sya sa chores. But sadly, wala.
Then lumipas na ilang months, nag christmas and new year na, girlll wala talagang character developement. During school break, we went home to our province tas malaman laman ko na kung ano ano sinasabi nya about me na mahirap daw ako kasama, dami ko daw lagi sinasabi, nakakadepress daw ako kasama. I was really hurt talaga kase ang gusto nya mangyare pa is magalit din sila sakin. I felt betrayed kase as much as possible iniintindi ko naman sya, wala sinabing masama behind her back kase I always confront her if i have concerns, di ko na pinapadaan sa iba. I don't get din why kaylangan nya ako siraan or make me look like the bad guy dahil lang don. Sobrang babaw ng pinagsimulan, sa damit lang, kinausap ko lang sya na wag na nya uulitin yun.
Looking back, napapag sabihan ko rin sya sa ibang bagay, like nung sembreak sya yung natira sa condo kase nagstay pa sya since may gala sila ng friends nya, di nya tinapon yung basura bago umalis. So pagbalik ko, SOBRANG DAMING IPIS. Grabe ang stress ko non, nagpa-pest control pa ako kase ginawa na nilang bahay yung basurahan at kung san san na sila gumagapang, until now may ipis pa rin :<< Masama ba na pagsabihan sya? Di naman ako nagkulang sa pag remind na laging itapon basura at maglinis para maiwasan yung pests. Nainis ba sya sakin kase nagger ako? Mali po ba yung approach ko? Tapos before pa mangyare lahat ng to, kasama namin sa condo yung classmate nya. Di rin nya nakasundo kase di daw naglilinis, dami laging dalang bisita, basta madami syang reklamo about her classmate. As an ate, syempre i took action, i asked her to leave nalang. Tapos ang ending, sya naman yun ganun, di naglilinis, makalat sa gamit, pag magdadala ng visitors di naglilinis. Ang nangyayare, I always clean after her, tapos ganun pala yung sinasabi nya about me behind my back, sa family namin. It really made me sad kase ako naman, di naman talaga ako masyado nagpapakita ng emotions and di rin ako masyado nagsasabi sa fam namin. I try to keep things to myself, pero after knowing all of this, I felt really affected sa mga nangyare. Napapaisip nalang ako minsan bat nagkaganito.
I already asked our mom na if pede maghiwalay nalang kami kase dagdag pa sya sa iniisp ko bukod sa acads. Ayoko na kase sya maka-interact sa ngayon kase na-hurt talaga ako. So ang problem ko ngayon is if aalis ako, maasikaso nya kaya yung condo? Like recently lang, nagkaron ng termite infestation kase yung kapitbahay na unit is inaanay na, pero wala syang idea na may ganun na. In short, di sya aware sa mga nangyayare sa condo kase di rin naman sya naglilinis. Willing naman ako lumipat and sya na yung mag-stay. As of now, medyo magulo pa isip ko kung paano ba gagawin pero ang gusto ko lang talaga is mahiwalay sa kanya.
2024.05.13 16:28 AteGhorll Ate na pagod na pagod na
Hi po! Warning, long post ahead. Share ko lang sana yung situation ko and I wanna hear your thoughts/advice on this matter.
My sister and I are currently renting a condo unit and lately, di ko na talaga kinakaya ugali nya. Like before okay, I can tolerate pa kase mas bata sya (btw we're both college students). Mostly di namin pinagkakasunduan is di nya ginagawa yung assigned na chores sa kanya, so ang ending, ako nalang gumagawa.
Then nag-escalate na yung inis ko kase ginamit nya yung damit ko without asking me first then I saw nalang sa sampayan tapos putikan yung dulo ng pants (mahaba kase for her yung pants kaya naapakan nya). So I confronted her, sabi ko u should have asked me first sana before wearing MY clothes and make sure na ayusin nya rin pag ibabalik. I was calmly talking to her then she answered ba naman "nilabhan ko na nga e" pataray pa. So uminit talaga ulo ni ati mo. Wala man lang akong narinig na sorry. I WAS GETTING READY PA NAMAN TO CELEB MY BIRTHDAY. Hinahanap ko yung pants kase yun sana isusuot ko. Sya pa talaga yung nagtaray at nagsabi na madamot ako sa lola namin (dun kase sya lagi nagsusumbong and lagi rin sya kinakampihan).
After ng incident na to, di ko na sya pinapansin kase di ko talaga nagustuhan yung attittude nya. I was waiting for her to realize na hindi dapat ganun, paano kung ibang tao kasama nya sa condo/dorm, diba. So lumipas na ilang months, wala pa rin, sya pa nagmamatigas. Ako naman hinahayaan ko lang sya as long as di na maulit at tumulong na rin sana sya sa chores. But sadly, wala.
Then lumipas na ilang months, nag christmas and new year na, girlll wala talagang character developement. During school break, we went home to our province tas malaman laman ko na kung ano ano sinasabi nya about me na mahirap daw ako kasama, dami ko daw lagi sinasabi, nakakadepress daw ako kasama. I was really hurt talaga kase ang gusto nya mangyare pa is magalit din sila sakin. I felt betrayed kase as much as possible iniintindi ko naman sya, wala sinabing masama behind her back kase I always confront her if i have concerns, di ko na pinapadaan sa iba. I don't get din why kaylangan nya ako siraan or make me look like the bad guy dahil lang don. Sobrang babaw ng pinagsimulan, sa damit lang, kinausap ko lang sya na wag na nya uulitin yun.
Looking back, napapag sabihan ko rin sya sa ibang bagay, like nung sembreak sya yung natira sa condo kase nagstay pa sya since may gala sila ng friends nya, di nya tinapon yung basura bago umalis. So pagbalik ko, SOBRANG DAMING IPIS. Grabe ang stress ko non, nagpa-pest control pa ako kase ginawa na nilang bahay yung basurahan at kung san san na sila gumagapang, until now may ipis pa rin :<< Masama ba na pagsabihan sya? Di naman ako nagkulang sa pag remind na laging itapon basura at maglinis para maiwasan yung pests. Nainis ba sya sakin kase nagger ako? Mali po ba yung approach ko? Tapos before pa mangyare lahat ng to, kasama namin sa condo yung classmate nya. Di rin nya nakasundo kase di daw naglilinis, dami laging dalang bisita, basta madami syang reklamo about her classmate. As an ate, syempre i took action, i asked her to leave nalang. Tapos ang ending, sya naman yun ganun, di naglilinis, makalat sa gamit, pag magdadala ng visitors di naglilinis. Ang nangyayare, I always clean after her, tapos ganun pala yung sinasabi nya about me behind my back, sa family namin. It really made me sad kase ako naman, di naman talaga ako masyado nagpapakita ng emotions and di rin ako masyado nagsasabi sa fam namin. I try to keep things to myself, pero after knowing all of this, I felt really affected sa mga nangyare. Napapaisip nalang ako minsan bat nagkaganito.
I already asked our mom na if pede maghiwalay nalang kami kase dagdag pa sya sa iniisp ko bukod sa acads. Ayoko na kase sya maka-interact sa ngayon kase na-hurt talaga ako. So ang problem ko ngayon is if aalis ako, maasikaso nya kaya yung condo? Like recently lang, nagkaron ng termite infestation kase yung kapitbahay na unit is inaanay na, pero wala syang idea na may ganun na. In short, di sya aware sa mga nangyayare sa condo kase di rin naman sya naglilinis. Willing naman ako lumipat and sya na yung mag-stay. As of now, medyo magulo pa isip ko kung paano ba gagawin pero ang gusto ko lang talaga is mahiwalay sa kanya.
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My sister and I are currently renting a condo unit and lately, di ko na talaga kinakaya ugali nya. Like before okay, I can tolerate pa kase mas bata sya (btw we're both college students). Mostly di namin pinagkakasunduan is di nya ginagawa yung assigned na chores sa kanya, so ang ending, ako nalang gumagawa.
Then nag-escalate na yung inis ko kase ginamit nya yung damit ko without asking me first then I saw nalang sa sampayan tapos putikan yung dulo ng pants (mahaba kase for her yung pants kaya naapakan nya). So I confronted her, sabi ko u should have asked me first sana before wearing MY clothes and make sure na ayusin nya rin pag ibabalik. I was calmly talking to her then she answered ba naman "nilabhan ko na nga e" pataray pa. So uminit talaga ulo ni ati mo. Wala man lang akong narinig na sorry. I WAS GETTING READY PA NAMAN TO CELEB MY BIRTHDAY. Hinahanap ko yung pants kase yun sana isusuot ko. Sya pa talaga yung nagtaray at nagsabi na madamot ako sa lola namin (dun kase sya lagi nagsusumbong and lagi rin sya kinakampihan).
After ng incident na to, di ko na sya pinapansin kase di ko talaga nagustuhan yung attittude nya. I was waiting for her to realize na hindi dapat ganun, paano kung ibang tao kasama nya sa condo/dorm, diba. So lumipas na ilang months, wala pa rin, sya pa nagmamatigas. Ako naman hinahayaan ko lang sya as long as di na maulit at tumulong na rin sana sya sa chores. But sadly, wala.
Then lumipas na ilang months, nag christmas and new year na, girlll wala talagang character developement. During school break, we went home to our province tas malaman laman ko na kung ano ano sinasabi nya about me na mahirap daw ako kasama, dami ko daw lagi sinasabi, nakakadepress daw ako kasama. I was really hurt talaga kase ang gusto nya mangyare pa is magalit din sila sakin. I felt betrayed kase as much as possible iniintindi ko naman sya, wala sinabing masama behind her back kase I always confront her if i have concerns, di ko na pinapadaan sa iba. I don't get din why kaylangan nya ako siraan or make me look like the bad guy dahil lang don. Sobrang babaw ng pinagsimulan, sa damit lang, kinausap ko lang sya na wag na nya uulitin yun.
Looking back, napapag sabihan ko rin sya sa ibang bagay, like nung sembreak sya yung natira sa condo kase nagstay pa sya since may gala sila ng friends nya, di nya tinapon yung basura bago umalis. So pagbalik ko, SOBRANG DAMING IPIS. Grabe ang stress ko non, nagpa-pest control pa ako kase ginawa na nilang bahay yung basurahan at kung san san na sila gumagapang, until now may ipis pa rin :<< Masama ba na pagsabihan sya? Di naman ako nagkulang sa pag remind na laging itapon basura at maglinis para maiwasan yung pests. Nainis ba sya sakin kase nagger ako? Mali po ba yung approach ko? Tapos before pa mangyare lahat ng to, kasama namin sa condo yung classmate nya. Di rin nya nakasundo kase di daw naglilinis, dami laging dalang bisita, basta madami syang reklamo about her classmate. As an ate, syempre i took action, i asked her to leave nalang. Tapos ang ending, sya naman yun ganun, di naglilinis, makalat sa gamit, pag magdadala ng visitors di naglilinis. Ang nangyayare, I always clean after her, tapos ganun pala yung sinasabi nya about me behind my back, sa family namin. It really made me sad kase ako naman, di naman talaga ako masyado nagpapakita ng emotions and di rin ako masyado nagsasabi sa fam namin. I try to keep things to myself, pero after knowing all of this, I felt really affected sa mga nangyare. Napapaisip nalang ako minsan bat nagkaganito.
I already asked our mom na if pede maghiwalay nalang kami kase dagdag pa sya sa iniisp ko bukod sa acads. Ayoko na kase sya maka-interact sa ngayon kase na-hurt talaga ako. So ang problem ko ngayon is if aalis ako, maasikaso nya kaya yung condo? Like recently lang, nagkaron ng termite infestation kase yung kapitbahay na unit is inaanay na, pero wala syang idea na may ganun na. In short, di sya aware sa mga nangyayare sa condo kase di rin naman sya naglilinis. Willing naman ako lumipat and sya na yung mag-stay. As of now, medyo magulo pa isip ko kung paano ba gagawin pero ang gusto ko lang talaga is mahiwalay sa kanya.
2024.05.13 15:35 whatdouseea20 mahal ko pa ba?
I wanted to right this down because some people might wonder why I continue this type of relationship. I wrote this down rin dito para kahit papano I was able to release this confusion to myself and self-reflecting na rin at sa iba na rin. 1 year and 3 months na kami and bukas monthsary namin. 5 months lang dapat kami ng bf ko last july 2023 pero pinili ko parin na ipagpatuloy yung relationship namin thats why I took the risk.
Alam ko nagwonder kayo bakit 5 months lang dapat kami, it is because nag cheat siya with his ka talking stage dati at nag iinuman sila nun. The night before he cheated on me niyaya ko siya mag jollibee kasi namiss ko siya nun at that time. gusto ko rin makabawi sa kanya kasi nilibre niya ako sa birthday ko and it was really so special to me at special rin yung restaurant na pinuntahan namin kasi ang mahal ng mga menu food dun hahahaha. pero nagpaalam siya sakin na hindi muna siya makakasama sakin kasi mag iinuman sila with his friends. at that time wala akong sad feeling kasi okay lang sakin yun i dont want him to refrain him from having night out galas with his friends para naman akong baliw at possessive pag ganun diba? kaya pinayagan ko siya and dinalhan ko nalang siya ng jollibee for his dinner para naman kahit papano di siya gaano malasing dahil may laman tiyan niya. after that umuwi na ako sa bahay ko and tumawag siya sakin na papunta na siya don sa inuman nila.
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Alam ko nagwonder kayo bakit 5 months lang dapat kami, it is because nag cheat siya with his ka talking stage dati at nag iinuman sila nun. The night before he cheated on me niyaya ko siya mag jollibee kasi namiss ko siya nun at that time. gusto ko rin makabawi sa kanya kasi nilibre niya ako sa birthday ko and it was really so special to me at special rin yung restaurant na pinuntahan namin kasi ang mahal ng mga menu food dun hahahaha. pero nagpaalam siya sakin na hindi muna siya makakasama sakin kasi mag iinuman sila with his friends. at that time wala akong sad feeling kasi okay lang sakin yun i dont want him to refrain him from having night out galas with his friends para naman akong baliw at possessive pag ganun diba? kaya pinayagan ko siya and dinalhan ko nalang siya ng jollibee for his dinner para naman kahit papano di siya gaano malasing dahil may laman tiyan niya. after that umuwi na ako sa bahay ko and tumawag siya sakin na papunta na siya don sa inuman nila.
2024.05.13 14:36 ponponponpatapon Broke up with someone and now I feel sad about it
It was my choice to end things but I canât help but feel emotional. I knew it wasnât going anywhere and I felt like I was being unfair na for dragging it for too long. I know itâs for the best but I still feel sad about it.
This is the first time I had to do this. Dati kasi sila nauuna umayaw. So I didnât know how to approach it with the most respect I can give parin to him. I didnât want to be harsh and unfair and hurtful like my exes. I hope I did it right kahit paano.
Tbh I thought I would just feel free after eh. Like okay I did it. Pero hindi, nakakalungkot. Ang hirap din pala na I have to be strong about it at panindigan ko desisyon ko. I didnât wanna hurt anyone especially someone who treated me really nicely. But I felt like ako naman ung unfair if itutuloy ko pa when I already felt like wala na on my end.
Just wanted to get it off my chest kasi I donât feel like telling my friends about it.
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This is the first time I had to do this. Dati kasi sila nauuna umayaw. So I didnât know how to approach it with the most respect I can give parin to him. I didnât want to be harsh and unfair and hurtful like my exes. I hope I did it right kahit paano.
Tbh I thought I would just feel free after eh. Like okay I did it. Pero hindi, nakakalungkot. Ang hirap din pala na I have to be strong about it at panindigan ko desisyon ko. I didnât wanna hurt anyone especially someone who treated me really nicely. But I felt like ako naman ung unfair if itutuloy ko pa when I already felt like wala na on my end.
Just wanted to get it off my chest kasi I donât feel like telling my friends about it.
2024.05.13 12:48 chickenalaperper 3 years to live
TW: Suicidal thoughts
First time posting here pero gusto ko lang may mapagsabihan kahit mga strangers. Sana bigyan nyo ng oras yung post ko.
I'm 26 years old and was just told by my doctor that I have 3 years left to live. For context, I had a stroke when I was 21 and my body started to become weak as time passed by. Ngayon, my blood vessels are getting thin because of a congenital condition and there's nothing I can do para baguhin yun. However, may mga sinabi yung doctor na pwede kong gawin to possibly prolong the life I have now.
Pero sa takbo ng mga pangyayari sa buhay ko, parang ayoko na. Parang gusto ko nalang i-end now. I mean why put myself through the hardship and pain of my condition kung pwede ko naman na ipahinga yung katawan ko ngayon diba?
I found the woman for me and we split 2 weeks ago. The dog I cared for also died 3 weeks ago. Family is not in the best shape to be there for me kasi lalo lang silang mas-stress kung sasabihin ko sa kanila yung buong katotohanan sa condition ko.
I'm living alone now and was told by my doctor to live life to the fullest while doing drastic changes to give myself the chance of having a healthier body. Yung definition para sa akin ng "live life to the fullest" is me being with the girl I still love and care for so much and having a life with her in the future. But that's out the window now.
Hindi naman ako masamang tao, breadwinner ako ng family namin. I've been told to be a very kind and selfless person pero bakit sa akin binigay ng mundo yung ganto. Wala naman akong pinahirapang tao sa mundong to dahil mostly self-provided yung mga bagay na meron ako ngayon. I mean walang ginastos ever sa studies ko and even nung college naging working student ako para magkaron ng pang-baon.
Ngayon, wala akong mapagsabihan kasi I'm afraid of people treating me differently. I already feel different, gusto ko lang matrato with all the love people have for me. Wala naman akong pinepwersa, gusto ko lang naman maalagaan.
It's just sad that here I am contemplating of ending my suffering alone in my apartment rather than living a life knowing that it's ending or the quality of it is going down anytime in the next 3 years.
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First time posting here pero gusto ko lang may mapagsabihan kahit mga strangers. Sana bigyan nyo ng oras yung post ko.
I'm 26 years old and was just told by my doctor that I have 3 years left to live. For context, I had a stroke when I was 21 and my body started to become weak as time passed by. Ngayon, my blood vessels are getting thin because of a congenital condition and there's nothing I can do para baguhin yun. However, may mga sinabi yung doctor na pwede kong gawin to possibly prolong the life I have now.
Pero sa takbo ng mga pangyayari sa buhay ko, parang ayoko na. Parang gusto ko nalang i-end now. I mean why put myself through the hardship and pain of my condition kung pwede ko naman na ipahinga yung katawan ko ngayon diba?
I found the woman for me and we split 2 weeks ago. The dog I cared for also died 3 weeks ago. Family is not in the best shape to be there for me kasi lalo lang silang mas-stress kung sasabihin ko sa kanila yung buong katotohanan sa condition ko.
I'm living alone now and was told by my doctor to live life to the fullest while doing drastic changes to give myself the chance of having a healthier body. Yung definition para sa akin ng "live life to the fullest" is me being with the girl I still love and care for so much and having a life with her in the future. But that's out the window now.
Hindi naman ako masamang tao, breadwinner ako ng family namin. I've been told to be a very kind and selfless person pero bakit sa akin binigay ng mundo yung ganto. Wala naman akong pinahirapang tao sa mundong to dahil mostly self-provided yung mga bagay na meron ako ngayon. I mean walang ginastos ever sa studies ko and even nung college naging working student ako para magkaron ng pang-baon.
Ngayon, wala akong mapagsabihan kasi I'm afraid of people treating me differently. I already feel different, gusto ko lang matrato with all the love people have for me. Wala naman akong pinepwersa, gusto ko lang naman maalagaan.
It's just sad that here I am contemplating of ending my suffering alone in my apartment rather than living a life knowing that it's ending or the quality of it is going down anytime in the next 3 years.
2024.05.13 11:27 miss_biolet I have a crush on someone and I want to move on
First time Reddit user heređ
I (F20) have a crush on one of my guy friends (M22)
Hindi ko alam kung pano nagstart or bakit pero nagka-crush ako sa kanya. Grade 8 kami unang nagkakilala and magkaklase kami nun. Describe ko nalang din sya since baka may hint kung bakit ako nagka-crush sa kanya at baka importante.
Matangkad sya, pogi (at least for me), mabait, tahimik, naka-salamin, gentleman (ksi lagi nya kaming pinapauna pag naglalakad), and introvert.
Nalaman ko rin na nilalaro nya rin ung game na nilalaro ko which is Monster Hunter Freedom Unite, and for me, ang rare makakita nun. Ksi nga naman, matagal na ung game na un.
Anyways, I think nagstart ako magka-crush sa kanya nung grade 9. Hindi naman agad agad pero during grade 9. And may signs narin pero I think I was in denial at that time. And some of my friends even told me na baka nga crush ko na raw/nga sya. And I always tell them na hindi or wala akong crush sa kanya.
So, the first sign is tuwing flag ceremony, lagi sya ung unang hinahanap ko sa pila. Hindi na ksi kami magkaklase kaya ayun. Then another sign is that nung one time, may bagyo nun and lahat ng mga friends ko, absent. And I was feeling down ksi nga wala ung best friend ko (which is also my classmate), then nung nakita ko sya, parang naging kumpleto ung araw ko. Ung tipong ok lang na wala ung iba kong friends as long as nandito sya, that kind of feeling.
Also, lagi kaming shiniship ng mga friends namin and we always get annoyed. One time, sabi ng ex-best friend ko sa kanya "magkacrush ka sa kanya" referring to me. And boy, was she right, except ako ata ung unang nagkacrush, LOL. I always thought na never akong magkaka-crush, since I never had one during my elem days. Maybe because I was too young to know that or it's just not my priority in life but...here we are.
So back to the story, there's also this one time na absent sya and required kami na atleast 80 books with passed quiz sa scholastic. And onti pa lang ung nagagawa nya so I willingly helped him with that. Which I've never done before and especially not to a guy, ni hindi ko nga ginawa un sa best friend ko (which to be fair, ginagawa nya naman ksi ung sa kanya and so as my other friends so...yahđ )
After kong mag-take ng quiz for him, umuwi na ko at chinat ko sya para ipaalam sa kanya. Sabi ko pa nga na kung walang tutulong sa kanya then sino? Fast forward, it was our prom (still in 9th grade) and during the prom, naglipatan ng upuan ung mga tao, including us and katabi ko sya. I was honestly expecting him to ask me to dance but he never did. Which is also another sign that I ignored. But I had fun anyways ksi may pinapakita sya dun sa phone nya sa FB na mga sentence, and sabay namin binasa. Tawa nga kami nang tawa eh, so it's not all bad. Plus nag-picture kaming dalawa at nagpicture din kami ng iba kong friends, at classmates.
Time skipped, naging school mate ko sya until 10th grade and nung last day na namin nung bandang March, un na ung huli ko syang nakita. Ksi nagka-pandemic nun. So during my senior high years, hindi ko sure kung kailan ako napaisip sa kanya pero at some point, naiisip ko na sya. We stay in contact at nakakapag-chat pa naman kami kahit onti. And whenever it's his birthday, I always greet him or whenever there's a special day like Christmas or new year. Sadly, he never greeted me on my birthday, not even once. Probably because hindi nya alam, nakalimutan, or whatever. But it wasn't a big deal since as far as I know, he's not chatty or doesn't talk much when it comes to chat. Everytime ksi na mag-chat chat kami, ang ikli lang ng reply nya while kay haba haba ng akin (yah, he's that type of person)
Which led me to today. Sabi ko sa sarili ko na baka hindi sya worth it maging crush. Ksi kung sa simpleng chat pa lang nakaka walang gana na, what more kung maging mag-jowa kami, right? I mean I get na hindi sya mahilig mag-chat or whatever, pero nakaka walang gana ksi pag ganun ung kausap mo, imagine mo nalang kung in person mo kausap tapos ganun mag-salita ung tao, diba? But anyways, sanay naman ako na ma-ignore or hindi replyan agad pero syempre nakakapagod din pag ganun. Anyways, ung crush ko sa kanya, parang hindi totoo. Ksi lagi kong iniimagine ung mga traits na gusto ko na meron sya tapos mamaya, wala pla, oh diba?
So infatuation lang tong nararamdaman ko sa kanya (or at least that's what I thought). I'm the type of person who has wild imaginations but can't illustrate them. I'm also an overthinker so when that two combines, it may become bad. Especially, if the results are negative or can result into negative things. So after a few years of thinking about it, I asked my college friends if may crush ba talaga ako sa kanya and they confirmed that I indeed have a crush on him. And dun ko lang nalaman na in denial ako all this time. Madalas ko ksi syang naiisip everytime na nakakakita ako ng black or red. And pag manonood ako ng anime, sya laging nasa isip ko.
And I also told myself na hindi ako inlove sa kanya ksi hindi ko naman sya namimiss. Or I do not crave for his presence. Tsaka isa pa, baka ung memories lang ung namimiss ko at hindi ung mismong tao. Another thing pla is may duda din ako ngayon kung crush ko ba talaga sya as a person or crush ko lang sya dahil sa mga fake scenarios na naiimbento ko sa isip ko? And yes, he does know that I have a crush on him, umamin ako sa kanya kaso through chat lang. Which sucks because he's my first ever crush and I want it to be special and memorable. Gusto ko sana na umamin in person pero since matagal na kami hindi nagkikita, I just decided to confess through chat.
I was honestly expecting to get rejected, like ready na ko na ma-reject but to my surprise, crush nya rin daw ako. Like...WTF?! Na-crushback ako, wow! But anyways, I wasn't really expecting anything since gusto ko lang umamin ksi baka pag-sisihan ko sa future pag di ko ginawa. Pero ayoko magka-jowa kaya wala akong ineexpect sa kanya. Pero at some point, parang gusto ko rin maranasan kung ano feeling ng may jowa. But because of today's generation, naging kontento nalang ako sa paggawa ng mga fake stories in order to cope up with my feelings.
Sa mga stories na un, inapply ko ung mga bagay na gusto ko sa isang relationship. Kaya I decided na maging single nalang forever and kalimutan ung crush ko sa kanya kaso, mahirap eh. Ksi pag nakikinig ako ng love songs, sya agad una kong naiisip (and ung ibang bagay na minention ko kanina na naaalala ko sa kanya). Like please, gusto ko lang naman mawala ung crush ko sa kanya. And just stay friends with him nalang.
So to my fellow single people out there na nakakaranas din ng ganito or sa mga taong naka-move on sa crush nila, please give me advice on how to forget my crush or lose this kind of interest in him.
And sorry sa sobrang haba na paragraph, I just wanted to share how I feel and I want to know na hindi ako nag-iisa. And if you need clarifications or you have questions regarding my story, just let me know. Thank you for your timeđ
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I (F20) have a crush on one of my guy friends (M22)
Hindi ko alam kung pano nagstart or bakit pero nagka-crush ako sa kanya. Grade 8 kami unang nagkakilala and magkaklase kami nun. Describe ko nalang din sya since baka may hint kung bakit ako nagka-crush sa kanya at baka importante.
Matangkad sya, pogi (at least for me), mabait, tahimik, naka-salamin, gentleman (ksi lagi nya kaming pinapauna pag naglalakad), and introvert.
Nalaman ko rin na nilalaro nya rin ung game na nilalaro ko which is Monster Hunter Freedom Unite, and for me, ang rare makakita nun. Ksi nga naman, matagal na ung game na un.
Anyways, I think nagstart ako magka-crush sa kanya nung grade 9. Hindi naman agad agad pero during grade 9. And may signs narin pero I think I was in denial at that time. And some of my friends even told me na baka nga crush ko na raw/nga sya. And I always tell them na hindi or wala akong crush sa kanya.
So, the first sign is tuwing flag ceremony, lagi sya ung unang hinahanap ko sa pila. Hindi na ksi kami magkaklase kaya ayun. Then another sign is that nung one time, may bagyo nun and lahat ng mga friends ko, absent. And I was feeling down ksi nga wala ung best friend ko (which is also my classmate), then nung nakita ko sya, parang naging kumpleto ung araw ko. Ung tipong ok lang na wala ung iba kong friends as long as nandito sya, that kind of feeling.
Also, lagi kaming shiniship ng mga friends namin and we always get annoyed. One time, sabi ng ex-best friend ko sa kanya "magkacrush ka sa kanya" referring to me. And boy, was she right, except ako ata ung unang nagkacrush, LOL. I always thought na never akong magkaka-crush, since I never had one during my elem days. Maybe because I was too young to know that or it's just not my priority in life but...here we are.
So back to the story, there's also this one time na absent sya and required kami na atleast 80 books with passed quiz sa scholastic. And onti pa lang ung nagagawa nya so I willingly helped him with that. Which I've never done before and especially not to a guy, ni hindi ko nga ginawa un sa best friend ko (which to be fair, ginagawa nya naman ksi ung sa kanya and so as my other friends so...yahđ )
After kong mag-take ng quiz for him, umuwi na ko at chinat ko sya para ipaalam sa kanya. Sabi ko pa nga na kung walang tutulong sa kanya then sino? Fast forward, it was our prom (still in 9th grade) and during the prom, naglipatan ng upuan ung mga tao, including us and katabi ko sya. I was honestly expecting him to ask me to dance but he never did. Which is also another sign that I ignored. But I had fun anyways ksi may pinapakita sya dun sa phone nya sa FB na mga sentence, and sabay namin binasa. Tawa nga kami nang tawa eh, so it's not all bad. Plus nag-picture kaming dalawa at nagpicture din kami ng iba kong friends, at classmates.
Time skipped, naging school mate ko sya until 10th grade and nung last day na namin nung bandang March, un na ung huli ko syang nakita. Ksi nagka-pandemic nun. So during my senior high years, hindi ko sure kung kailan ako napaisip sa kanya pero at some point, naiisip ko na sya. We stay in contact at nakakapag-chat pa naman kami kahit onti. And whenever it's his birthday, I always greet him or whenever there's a special day like Christmas or new year. Sadly, he never greeted me on my birthday, not even once. Probably because hindi nya alam, nakalimutan, or whatever. But it wasn't a big deal since as far as I know, he's not chatty or doesn't talk much when it comes to chat. Everytime ksi na mag-chat chat kami, ang ikli lang ng reply nya while kay haba haba ng akin (yah, he's that type of person)
Which led me to today. Sabi ko sa sarili ko na baka hindi sya worth it maging crush. Ksi kung sa simpleng chat pa lang nakaka walang gana na, what more kung maging mag-jowa kami, right? I mean I get na hindi sya mahilig mag-chat or whatever, pero nakaka walang gana ksi pag ganun ung kausap mo, imagine mo nalang kung in person mo kausap tapos ganun mag-salita ung tao, diba? But anyways, sanay naman ako na ma-ignore or hindi replyan agad pero syempre nakakapagod din pag ganun. Anyways, ung crush ko sa kanya, parang hindi totoo. Ksi lagi kong iniimagine ung mga traits na gusto ko na meron sya tapos mamaya, wala pla, oh diba?
So infatuation lang tong nararamdaman ko sa kanya (or at least that's what I thought). I'm the type of person who has wild imaginations but can't illustrate them. I'm also an overthinker so when that two combines, it may become bad. Especially, if the results are negative or can result into negative things. So after a few years of thinking about it, I asked my college friends if may crush ba talaga ako sa kanya and they confirmed that I indeed have a crush on him. And dun ko lang nalaman na in denial ako all this time. Madalas ko ksi syang naiisip everytime na nakakakita ako ng black or red. And pag manonood ako ng anime, sya laging nasa isip ko.
And I also told myself na hindi ako inlove sa kanya ksi hindi ko naman sya namimiss. Or I do not crave for his presence. Tsaka isa pa, baka ung memories lang ung namimiss ko at hindi ung mismong tao. Another thing pla is may duda din ako ngayon kung crush ko ba talaga sya as a person or crush ko lang sya dahil sa mga fake scenarios na naiimbento ko sa isip ko? And yes, he does know that I have a crush on him, umamin ako sa kanya kaso through chat lang. Which sucks because he's my first ever crush and I want it to be special and memorable. Gusto ko sana na umamin in person pero since matagal na kami hindi nagkikita, I just decided to confess through chat.
I was honestly expecting to get rejected, like ready na ko na ma-reject but to my surprise, crush nya rin daw ako. Like...WTF?! Na-crushback ako, wow! But anyways, I wasn't really expecting anything since gusto ko lang umamin ksi baka pag-sisihan ko sa future pag di ko ginawa. Pero ayoko magka-jowa kaya wala akong ineexpect sa kanya. Pero at some point, parang gusto ko rin maranasan kung ano feeling ng may jowa. But because of today's generation, naging kontento nalang ako sa paggawa ng mga fake stories in order to cope up with my feelings.
Sa mga stories na un, inapply ko ung mga bagay na gusto ko sa isang relationship. Kaya I decided na maging single nalang forever and kalimutan ung crush ko sa kanya kaso, mahirap eh. Ksi pag nakikinig ako ng love songs, sya agad una kong naiisip (and ung ibang bagay na minention ko kanina na naaalala ko sa kanya). Like please, gusto ko lang naman mawala ung crush ko sa kanya. And just stay friends with him nalang.
So to my fellow single people out there na nakakaranas din ng ganito or sa mga taong naka-move on sa crush nila, please give me advice on how to forget my crush or lose this kind of interest in him.
And sorry sa sobrang haba na paragraph, I just wanted to share how I feel and I want to know na hindi ako nag-iisa. And if you need clarifications or you have questions regarding my story, just let me know. Thank you for your timeđ
2024.05.13 10:40 Visible_Price_6953 May nagsangla ng ancestral house namin, we lost the house and everything in it
My mom's side of the family has a house in the province. It's been vacant since my grandparents died. But a lot of their things are in there. Hindi naman ako masyadong involved sa mga bahay at lupa na usapin but it's just sad to know.
News broke today na may nagsangla pala sa bangko nung house without anyone in the family knowing. May nakabili ng lupa and giniba na yung house. What's worse, ninakaw yung mga laman mg bahay. My great grandparents and grandparents' belongings. All is left now are the memories.
Parang full of memory yung house. There were lots of photo albums with black and white/sepia photos of my lola when she was a teenager. I remember finding volumes of Readers Digest from the 60s. I enjoyed reading letters and mails written on onion skin papers dated back in the 30s up to the 60s. I remember reading a letter about the Pearl Harbor and some old newspaper clippings. It felt like history right in my hands. Now the tangibles are all gone.
Anyway, off my chest lang kasi ang lungkot. My mom and her siblings and cousins are oblivious sa nangyari. Confident sila na the house is safe pero hindi pala. Theyre still trying to find kung sino nagsangla ng bahay at bakit napunta sakaniya ang titulo.
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News broke today na may nagsangla pala sa bangko nung house without anyone in the family knowing. May nakabili ng lupa and giniba na yung house. What's worse, ninakaw yung mga laman mg bahay. My great grandparents and grandparents' belongings. All is left now are the memories.
Parang full of memory yung house. There were lots of photo albums with black and white/sepia photos of my lola when she was a teenager. I remember finding volumes of Readers Digest from the 60s. I enjoyed reading letters and mails written on onion skin papers dated back in the 30s up to the 60s. I remember reading a letter about the Pearl Harbor and some old newspaper clippings. It felt like history right in my hands. Now the tangibles are all gone.
Anyway, off my chest lang kasi ang lungkot. My mom and her siblings and cousins are oblivious sa nangyari. Confident sila na the house is safe pero hindi pala. Theyre still trying to find kung sino nagsangla ng bahay at bakit napunta sakaniya ang titulo.
2024.05.13 07:42 heywdykfmfys Always the one who gets interrupted
I (F22) get sad lang na most of the time kapag magku kuwento ako ay lagi na lang siyang (isang tao lang to) may isisingit and magku kuwento ng sarili niyang experience.
Sobrang observant kong tao, I easily notice sino 'yung nale left out tuwing naglalakad kami, kumakain, kwentuhan or kahit ano pa. Last last week, we were seven non and nagku kuwentuhan about sa mga experiences namin nung elementary (yk nostalgia). Then nung time ko na magkwento like nagsasalita ako, bigla siyang sumingit saying âAy ako nga rin alam ninyo ba...â tapos ako naman walang nagawa at napatingin na lang ako sa kanya. Napansin ko na 'yung ibang friends namin ay na-confuse na sumingit siya pero hindi rin sila nakapalag dahil sobrang enthusiastic niya magkuwento.
I felt bad lang for myself kasi I had to pretend na nababahing ako para ma gaslight ko na lang din sarili ko na I got interrupted dahil may sipon ako LMAO I felt sad lang din na kasi every time na may nag iinterrupt sa someone na nagkw kwento I always make sure na mababalik sa kanya 'yung spotlight. I'm always the â... you were saying ano ulit?â hahaha pero walang ganon sa'kin.
'Yun lang naman. Sad lang pero mahal ko pa rin friends ko đ
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Sobrang observant kong tao, I easily notice sino 'yung nale left out tuwing naglalakad kami, kumakain, kwentuhan or kahit ano pa. Last last week, we were seven non and nagku kuwentuhan about sa mga experiences namin nung elementary (yk nostalgia). Then nung time ko na magkwento like nagsasalita ako, bigla siyang sumingit saying âAy ako nga rin alam ninyo ba...â tapos ako naman walang nagawa at napatingin na lang ako sa kanya. Napansin ko na 'yung ibang friends namin ay na-confuse na sumingit siya pero hindi rin sila nakapalag dahil sobrang enthusiastic niya magkuwento.
I felt bad lang for myself kasi I had to pretend na nababahing ako para ma gaslight ko na lang din sarili ko na I got interrupted dahil may sipon ako LMAO I felt sad lang din na kasi every time na may nag iinterrupt sa someone na nagkw kwento I always make sure na mababalik sa kanya 'yung spotlight. I'm always the â... you were saying ano ulit?â hahaha pero walang ganon sa'kin.
'Yun lang naman. Sad lang pero mahal ko pa rin friends ko đ
2024.05.13 06:42 Successful_Donut_694 i am sad in my relationship...
honestly, i had a hard time thinking of the right title.
i am 38F married... but is no longer with her legal husband. i now have a bf, 39M (who is also married in papers - but is separated), and we currently live together. i never really wanted to post my story because I'm afraid i'd be judged regarding my situation, but thinking that i'd be unidentified.. i guess keep those comments coming.
i am probably longing for someone to talk to... since i have been working from home for the longest time.. (some of u might say.. but how about your LIP, can't u talk to him?) well yea... but not as sincere as i want it to be... anyway...
recently i have been feeling lost... uncomfortable and unhappy with my situation... my sex drive also dropped, i am no longer excited to have sex with my partner because of many things - he cheated before and i caught that (may kalandian sa chat, na kawork nya).. he already resigned with that company and have been showing some changes naman.. but deep inside there is this thought that he is still cheating or that maybe he'd cheat again someday...
second... i am unhappy with our situation, we live with his parents' house kase ayaw ng mom nya na lumayo sya (how stupid dba?), so nasanay sila na he is always there for them to run errands and drive them wherever. Okay fine, I've kinda accepted that a little bit and i already taught him how to say no sometimes..
also our financial status is not that good because we haven't had the chance to save money (madami kaming gastos... but not on clothes, bags, etc... more on groceries and mga previous utang na need namin ubusin. i guess the list goes on..
and i already told him all this, kaya lang dba... with our situation and with his mom it's hard to move to a different place... feeling ko if we can move naman... sa kabilang kalsada lang.. or anywhere nearby... yes somewhat i do feel stuck... pero if id think of letting go nman parang hindi ko rin kaya because i have been single for a long time..
is this only a stage? a crisis that i have to go through? ang hirap lang, especially if you just have to endure everything.. idagdag pa natin ung "impossible dream" ko of getting married again. alam mo ung feeling na there is no contentment in me.. na parang feeling ko may mail... or that i may be in the wrong situation/person.
what's also weird that triggered me to write here is... whenever we're done with sex... i always cry... and all of my emotions would pour out.... then i'd think of different men that i would have wanted to do it with... or be with (don't get me wrong on this part ah... I'm not thinking of cheating, takot ako sa karma) yun lang tlga ung pmapasok sa thoughts ko... para bang the sex is no longer that great or maybe it's because of everything i feel, currently... ang gulo ba? ang gulo no? i don't even know if i need an advice at this point.. or what do i really want...
minsan masaya naman kami, kaso mas nangingibabaw din kasi ung lunkot and ung sadness na naffeel ko for myself.. madalas naiisip ko na kumilala kaya ako ng iba.. but again nappgilan din ako because ayokong gawin sa partner ko ung ayaw kong gawin sakin (kaht nagawa n nya before)... ayokong gumanti.
if you'd ask me... ok ba ung mga tao dto sa tinitirhan namin... hmmmm oks lng nman may bonding time din nman kaso hindi sya "homey", kung sa normal filipino family na "close-family ties" hindi sila ganon... and because his parent are old na... madami kang maririnig na side comments, and they're also not used to saying "thank you", or "i love you"... but that's apart from everything else... baka cguro namimiss ko lng din ung parents ko? (they're both in heaven na rin kasi)... maybe some of u might say... andami ko namang hinahanap sa buhay... I'm sorry guys but I'm just being honest with how exactly i feel and to na yun.. no filter.. well i guess if you have questions for me... feel free to comment down below and I'll try to answer if i have time.
thanks for reading my story/rant, di ko alam kung ano to haha...
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i am 38F married... but is no longer with her legal husband. i now have a bf, 39M (who is also married in papers - but is separated), and we currently live together. i never really wanted to post my story because I'm afraid i'd be judged regarding my situation, but thinking that i'd be unidentified.. i guess keep those comments coming.
i am probably longing for someone to talk to... since i have been working from home for the longest time.. (some of u might say.. but how about your LIP, can't u talk to him?) well yea... but not as sincere as i want it to be... anyway...
recently i have been feeling lost... uncomfortable and unhappy with my situation... my sex drive also dropped, i am no longer excited to have sex with my partner because of many things - he cheated before and i caught that (may kalandian sa chat, na kawork nya).. he already resigned with that company and have been showing some changes naman.. but deep inside there is this thought that he is still cheating or that maybe he'd cheat again someday...
second... i am unhappy with our situation, we live with his parents' house kase ayaw ng mom nya na lumayo sya (how stupid dba?), so nasanay sila na he is always there for them to run errands and drive them wherever. Okay fine, I've kinda accepted that a little bit and i already taught him how to say no sometimes..
also our financial status is not that good because we haven't had the chance to save money (madami kaming gastos... but not on clothes, bags, etc... more on groceries and mga previous utang na need namin ubusin. i guess the list goes on..
and i already told him all this, kaya lang dba... with our situation and with his mom it's hard to move to a different place... feeling ko if we can move naman... sa kabilang kalsada lang.. or anywhere nearby... yes somewhat i do feel stuck... pero if id think of letting go nman parang hindi ko rin kaya because i have been single for a long time..
is this only a stage? a crisis that i have to go through? ang hirap lang, especially if you just have to endure everything.. idagdag pa natin ung "impossible dream" ko of getting married again. alam mo ung feeling na there is no contentment in me.. na parang feeling ko may mail... or that i may be in the wrong situation/person.
what's also weird that triggered me to write here is... whenever we're done with sex... i always cry... and all of my emotions would pour out.... then i'd think of different men that i would have wanted to do it with... or be with (don't get me wrong on this part ah... I'm not thinking of cheating, takot ako sa karma) yun lang tlga ung pmapasok sa thoughts ko... para bang the sex is no longer that great or maybe it's because of everything i feel, currently... ang gulo ba? ang gulo no? i don't even know if i need an advice at this point.. or what do i really want...
minsan masaya naman kami, kaso mas nangingibabaw din kasi ung lunkot and ung sadness na naffeel ko for myself.. madalas naiisip ko na kumilala kaya ako ng iba.. but again nappgilan din ako because ayokong gawin sa partner ko ung ayaw kong gawin sakin (kaht nagawa n nya before)... ayokong gumanti.
if you'd ask me... ok ba ung mga tao dto sa tinitirhan namin... hmmmm oks lng nman may bonding time din nman kaso hindi sya "homey", kung sa normal filipino family na "close-family ties" hindi sila ganon... and because his parent are old na... madami kang maririnig na side comments, and they're also not used to saying "thank you", or "i love you"... but that's apart from everything else... baka cguro namimiss ko lng din ung parents ko? (they're both in heaven na rin kasi)... maybe some of u might say... andami ko namang hinahanap sa buhay... I'm sorry guys but I'm just being honest with how exactly i feel and to na yun.. no filter.. well i guess if you have questions for me... feel free to comment down below and I'll try to answer if i have time.
thanks for reading my story/rant, di ko alam kung ano to haha...
2024.05.13 02:53 Cheap_Tax_7598 Why do parents use their kids as retirement plan?
Napapagod na ko. Alam ko sa salitang yan maraming makakarelate sakin. Pagkagraduate ko nagwork agad ako kasi need ko magbigay sa magulang ko at dahil naaawa na rin ako sa panganay namin na sya sumalo ng responsibilidad ng tatay namin. Bakit ganun? Kahit college graduate kaming lahat magkakapatid wala pa ring stable samin? Lahat kami achiever pero parang laging nauubos pera namin kakabigay sa magulang.
Father ko ay narcissist lahat ng panget na ugali sinalo na nya while mother ko naman ay manipulative sad mama na self centered. Ang hirap mabuhay pagkaganito ang mga magulang mo. Hindi kami maka say NO kasi mag eemote na naman Mama namin, basta halos lahat ng pambblackmail gagawin nya. At the same time, hindi rin namin magawang iwan sila dahil hindi kaya ng konsensya namin.
Kayo ba? Paano kayo nakasurvive sa magulang na ganito? Ang nakikita ko lang na way ay marriage. Parang gusto ko na lang mag-asawa para may reason ako para malimit pagpapadala sa magulang ko. Naaawa na ko sa sarili ko. Kahit choice ng career ko need ko i-give up masustain lang needs ng magulang ko at mabayaran ang utang nila.
Hindi ko magets yung mga magulang na bubuo-buo ng pamilya pero wala namang pera tapos tamad pa. Uutang-utang din wala namang work. Ending anak magbabayad. Kung pwede lang maibalik ang nakaraan hindi ko pagtatagpuin magulang namin.
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Father ko ay narcissist lahat ng panget na ugali sinalo na nya while mother ko naman ay manipulative sad mama na self centered. Ang hirap mabuhay pagkaganito ang mga magulang mo. Hindi kami maka say NO kasi mag eemote na naman Mama namin, basta halos lahat ng pambblackmail gagawin nya. At the same time, hindi rin namin magawang iwan sila dahil hindi kaya ng konsensya namin.
Kayo ba? Paano kayo nakasurvive sa magulang na ganito? Ang nakikita ko lang na way ay marriage. Parang gusto ko na lang mag-asawa para may reason ako para malimit pagpapadala sa magulang ko. Naaawa na ko sa sarili ko. Kahit choice ng career ko need ko i-give up masustain lang needs ng magulang ko at mabayaran ang utang nila.
Hindi ko magets yung mga magulang na bubuo-buo ng pamilya pero wala namang pera tapos tamad pa. Uutang-utang din wala namang work. Ending anak magbabayad. Kung pwede lang maibalik ang nakaraan hindi ko pagtatagpuin magulang namin.
2024.05.12 23:30 faccda01 True Jerker Handling the Loss well
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