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2024.05.14 17:03 Cyanide_Sprite I’m sick cause of work

I’m a guest advocate, 5 days straight I was scheduled to work the positions that require the most talking and running around. Everyone in my store has been well aware that I despise being talkative all day long and tend to not talk at all when I’m drive up unless I’m with a guest or grumbling profanities cause my stuff isn’t done properly or my times have gone down. I go on a lovely week long trip tomorrow and have a concert while I’m on my trip that I’ve been trying to see for over 5 years. Well. Having to be in check out and guest services 4 days straight and in drive up for one 6 hour shift killed my feet and throat. Unfortunately drive up day was rough, I had called my roommates trying to figure out who was going to be taking care of my cats as my hire backed out while I was at work and was fuming and cussing pretty heavily. So last night I felt my throat get sore and my nose all runny. I woke up and to nobody’s surprise my lymph nodes are swollen and I’m in severe pain. I called out last night because I knew this would happen, whenever my throat is sore from talking too much my lymph nodes swell. My TL called me in a panic/fit of rage at 7:30 am- half an hour before my shift was supposed to start. I couldn’t talk so I handed my phone to my wife on speaker and had her explain that talking and swallowing hurt and that I’ve gotten sick and just need to rest. My TL demanded that I have to be the one calling out if I’m sick. I called out through the app and my wife was aware of this, she quickly told TL to check my time for target for my call out and said once again that I’m sick and called out properly.
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2024.05.14 16:35 Dexalbie Fear 8 weeks 2 days

I am struggling with extreme anxiety on if my baby is healthy and growing properly. I went in for a viability ultrasound at 6 weeks 2 days, and the baby looked normal and had a heartbeat within normal range. I don’t go to my official first appointment until this week, and I am terrified.
I have has VERY minimal symptoms. Mildy sore breasts, but not bad at all. Haven’t felt sick much at all, and overall just feel normal.
This is making me anxious that the baby isn’t growing, or that I’m having a MMC. Any advice on how to not freak out? Has anyone else experience barely any symptoms at all and the baby was perfectly healthy?
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2024.05.14 16:23 ever_rose_bloom Somatic tinnitus when I wake up and yawn.

About a month and a half ago, I began to notice a slight loud ring in my right ear when I wake up and yawn laying down. I don’t know why or how this started.
Two weeks ago, I felt sick. My throat was sore and my sinuses were acting up. I was starting to feel better but this past Tuesday, I noticed after a film at the theatres, that my right ear felt a bit off… like muffled without actually being muffled. And ringing in my right ear became noticeably apparent. To the point it made me anxious and depressed but as the days went by, the ringing lessened. However, the somatic tinnitus I experience in the morning has increased.
Days before the sickness actually hit, I was noticing increased ringing in both ears. The kind where it lasts a few seconds and then goes away. Along with my throat feeling itchy.
I do plan on seeing an ENT. I just don’t want to make it worse and not sure if it’s tension causing this or it can always be a combination of things right?
It sucks because it came up right as I started taking guitar lessons and learning how to play an instrument for once in my life.
Since this has happened, I have not used my earphones for music* at all. I do work in a kitchen and due to anxiety over this being made worse (because working in a kitchen can be loud) I blew off work.
Wondering if anyone has similar experience?
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2024.05.14 16:22 TheBlaringBlue Ranking the Shire Arcs in AC: Valhalla

I wrote mini reviews of each arc here, but because there are so damn many arcs, this ended up being a wall of text, despite me trying to keep them short. Feel free to skim or read only what interests you!
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The episodic nature of Assassin’s Creed: Valhalla means that its narrative is split into chunks. These chunks take place across the many shires of medieval England and vary in terms of length, depth and, well, pointlessness. I thought ranking them would be a fun exercise — a competition of story arcs, all vying for best Viking mini-narrative.
It goes without saying, but I’m about to spoil the whole damn game, so read at your own risk.
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21. Wincestre
Wincestre is just another Lunden or Jorvik, accept with more Jesus, more King Aelfred and way less… anything worthwhile. This one was just a total nothing-burger of an experience. The fact that it comes so late in the narrative really hurts it, too, because by now you’ve experienced arcs that are a similar traditional Assassin’s Creed city-style that at least aren’t this bad. Aelfred’s turning on Eivor at the end also didn’t feel coherent, convincing or warranted to me. Big miss.
20. Lunden
The smaller, denser cities with multiple targets to track down and ‘social stealth’ options are certainly here to attempt to replicate the traditional AC experience, but Lunden fails to do so meaningfully, and even gets a huge points deduction for being misleading.
The arc is set up to feature twists with Stowe and Ercke (is one a traitor? Will your romancing of Stowe make things complicated?), but after their initial scenes they’re mitigated to what I would hardly even call side characters as Eivor unveils three randos as Order members, kills them and then leaves town. At least there was a cool boss sequence on the river?
19. Snotinghamscire
This arc sees you reunite with Hemmingr Jarl, his son Villi and his compatriot, Trygve. Eivor has an existing relationship with these characters, but the player doesn’t. As a result, nothing that happens with them lands meaningfully.
After Hemmingr passes, this arc boils down to running dull errands to prepare for the burial ceremony. Eivor chooses whether Villi or Trygve will succeed Hemmingr in the end, but the decision is very clear-cut and suggested to the player, lacking the nuance of the game’s other difficult decisions. This arc isn’t memorable, doesn’t concern the main quest, and feels like fluffy filler in the worst way.
18. Jorvik
Another version of the Lunden & Wincestre arcs, Jorvik is stronger than its competitors for presenting the Order members to your face before you deduce who they are. There was nothing shocking about their reveals, but each provided an interesting set piece to navigate during assassinations.
Problematically, the arc sets itself up for Eivor to accuse a traitor, only for her decision to not matter at all. You never get to act on your accusation at Yuletide — the Order member interrupts and attacks the feast no matter who you accuse.
17. Cent
The Cent arc sees Eivor team with Basim to track Fulke. It feels important and part of the main story, but it’s all for naught in the end — you come face-to-face with Fulke in what seems like a meaningful story moment, only for her to run away. Your reward is finding out Sigurd had his arm cut off.
This arc earns some points for getting Fulke screen time and tiptoeing the tightrope of Eivor and Basim’s rocky relationship believably, but certainly can’t be called good. This is because once you pull back the veil, you realize you never advanced the plot and were running in circles for nothing the entire time. At least the other “filler” arcs were forthright about their (lack of) connection to the main story.
16. Jotunheim
This arc has a compelling story to it — Odin running from his fate and bending over backwards to flee from it is interesting, his broken relationship with Loki should be a strong point for the arc, and his moral gray areas (sleeping with a Jotunn, betraying Tyr) certainly make for a complex character’s development.
It has the ingredients of a strong arc, but I just couldn’t shake the why am I doing this feeling I had the entire time. Everything in between Odin’s big moments is a fetch quest and I just felt like I was wasting my life.
This one is weird because on paper it feels like there’s a lot of substance here, but ultimately, I felt nothing while playing it besides contempt for having drank the potion in Ravensthorpe again.
15. Lincolnscire
Heir to the throne Hunwald is exiled from Lincoln and reaches out to Ravensthorpe for help. Eivor tracks down his sickly and dying father and then must cast the deciding vote for whom the new Ealdorman will be after his death.
The game wastes your time with one of Hunwald’s competitors, Aelfgar, (who is a dork) and paints the bishop as evil pretty clearly (he turns out to be an Order member). I suppose this arc could hit hard for someone who accidently put an Order member in charge. For that and for Hunwald at least having a strong drive and personality, this arc earns some marks.
14. Essex
Eivor is brought in to repair a marriage by separating husband and wife naturally without a public divorce. She reunites Ealdorman Birstan with his former lover and sets up a fake public kidnapping to whisk away his wife, Estrid.
I think many would rate this arc far lower than I have here because it is pure side mission nonsense — but for me, this arc stands strong on the backs of convincing and fun characters in Birstan and Estrid, as well as the tangled web of relationships between the two of them, Birstan’s son, and Rollo, Estrid’s former lover.
13. Ledecestrescire
Ledecestre sees the intros of Ivarr, Ubba and Ceowulf. You team up with the sons of Ragnar to help put Ceowulf’s father on the throne in Mercia.
Ledecestrescire earns points for strong, realized characters in the Ragnarsons and Ceowulf, a believable conflict with the Mercian king, as well as the arc’s biggest moment with killing or sparing Leofrith in Tamworth.
12. Asgard
Asgard looks pretty and hits hard when you first arrive. I appreciate Ubi for creating places like Atlantis and Asgard to run around and explore in.
Unfortunately, both felt supremely empty. However, watching Odin fight tooth and nail to run from his fate was satisfying and Loki is aptly deceptive and frustrating. The Builder gave the arc a nice wrinkle, too and climaxed with a nice boss fight.
I spent too much time tracking down tears, but I think if you look at just the main missions here, this is a solid experience in an incredible environment.
11. East Anglia
In this arc, Eivor works alongside Oswald to fend off violent Dane aggressors and claim his leadership role.
Oswald is honorable and likeable — watching him teach the Danes in his court that bravery can reveal itself in more nuanced ways rather than physically was powerful, and giving Eivor the decision to allow Oswald to fight his own battles or fight for him solidified the feeling of fathering Oswald through this arc into manhood and leadership.
I bought into this arc because I felt the story was touching and meaningful and the cast was strong.
10. Vinland
Nothing really happens here aside from hunting down Gorm Kjotveson, but the arc earns major points for how refreshing it is.
I played it late in the story when I was feeling quite a bit of fatigue towards the game and everything about Vinland just landed for me, giving me new energy to actually enjoy what I was doing.
The new landscape is insanely gorgeous and fun to navigate. The stripping down of Eivor’s equipment essentially forces you to start from scratch — but it really makes the four stealth encounters stronger; you have to approach them differently due to being unarmed and unarmored.
The whole thing was a little bit of a reset button for the entire experience of Valhalla and it sorely needed it.
9. Suthsexe
Suthsexe is the meeting with Guthrum and the rising action leading up to defeating Fulke.
The arc is fun, feels impactful as well as meaningful and sees you reunite with all the old friends you’ve made up to this point. Fighting alongside Soma and others was a big positive for me. Storming Fulke’s fort at least included some different mechanics than many forts up to this point, so it felt fresh. Her boss fight in the darkness of the crypts was exceptional, as was her confession sequence.
This arc was mostly good, satisfying fun the whole way through, but didn’t include too much intrigue as the ones ranked above it did.
8. Rygjafylke
Look, I’ll be honest. I’m writing this particular paragraph after completing the game and this opening section was so long ago that I don’t have a great memory of it.
What I do know is that Valhalla opened strongly. I found it all pretty compelling. I remember it being atmospheric, believable and driven by strong characters like Sigurd, Varin, Haytham, Basim and Kyotve. I was bought-in very early and Rygjafylke really got the game off to a strong start.
7. Hamtunscire & Epilogue
Aelfred screen time is a good thing, and this arc earns marks for his badassery in the face of Guthrum, as well as his manipulation of the Dane army. Ally deaths in the battle at Chepeham give the arc meaningful stakes and ratchet up the tension. This arc is brief and straightforward — there’s not much story to it since it’s really just war throughout the whole thing.
Afterwards, Eivor tracks down the final member of the Order and confronts him in a touching sequence over some burnt bread in a small swampy town in the middle of nowhere. It’s a humble conclusion for Aelfred and the swirling epic that was AC: Valhalla.
6. Hordafylke
The return to Norway contains two things: Eivor & Sigurd finding closure with Sigurd’s father, and the two locating “Yggdrasil.”
I quite enjoyed the pit stop with Sigurd’s father, and the entire Yggdrasil sequence was incredibly interesting. It was a refreshing change of pace from what you’ve been doing for the past 100 hours and featured a nice boss fight at the end. No matter which ending you get, the conversation with Sigurd after the dust settles is impactful and weighty.
5. Oxenefordscire
Finally reunited with Sigurd, this is the arc we learn of his obsession with his ancestry and true nature. Eivor’s reaction of discomfort and distrust towards Sigurd’s change is honest and relatable and she must juggle relations between Sigurd and the Thane they are working to put in charge, Gaedric.
Negotiations with King Aelfred are complex and a late intervention from Fulke reveals her true allegiance to the Order and puts Sigurd in enemy hands.
This arc moves the plot along moreso than the last 400 hours you’ve been playing the game, while also establishing and reinterpreting Eivor’s relations with the cast in meaningful ways. It ratchets up the tension of the main quest and narrative, which up to this point had been lagging behind due to a breadth of shire arcs.
4. Glowecestrecire
I’m so surprised to see myself rank this so high — after the first third of the arc, I was considering putting it in dead last. I felt Gunnar’s fiancé’s unintelligible dialogue, the trick-or-treating, the druid encounter, and Eivor’s 400th drunken night of debauchery to be a disrespectful waste of my time this deep (over 80 hours) into the game.
But then the arc turned, with two solid stealth encounters and a stellar boss fight. Navigating the Aelfwood was a gorgeous thrill and the confrontation with Modran is atmospheric and a fantastically fresh take on the typical Valhalla boss or mini boss fight.
When I decided to focus-up on the story and let the Celtic and Welsh mythos shine, the arc became a terrestrial fever dream of satisfying magic, intrigue and character interactions.
3. Grantebridgescire
Eivor looks to ally with Soma, the leader of Grantebridge, but her town’s just been sacked from the inside by a traitor. After saving her three companions in the thick river bogs, you take back Grantebridge and then embark on an investigation to discover the rat.
Its the investigation that makes the whole arc. It has a slew of clues, nuance and red herrings to consider. One of its strengths is how open ended the investigation is — you can follow the quest markers, but talking to the town’s people and hunting down the yellow-painted ship is up to you (at least I think, I played on the most ‘difficult’ exploration setting).
This arc earns big points because the investigation matters — you have to tell Soma to kill one of her closest friends and then watch her do it, living with your right or wrong decision.
2. Eurvicscire
Finally meeting the third of the famed Ragnarson’s, Eivor finds Halfdan a paranoid soul, waxing poetic about friendship and treason. The arc balances the two on a blade’s edge to tremendous effect.
Halfdan believes he has a traitor in his midst and the main culprit is his right-hand man, Faravid.
Faravid's dialogue is expertly written to feign allegiance to Halfdan, but never reveal too much of his true nature. Eivor’s wavering relationship and trust with him are complex and the Wolf-Kissed can lie to both him and Halfdan depending on dialogue choice. Every decision feels like it carries weight. It’s this ambiguity that makes the arc compelling and gives the decisions importance.
This arc could feel disconnected (it’s not part of the main plot and Halfdan doesn’t appear in the late game, no matter your decision) and thus appear as pointless fluff, but I won’t fault it for that. As a self-contained story, this was flat-out interesting and kept me in anticipation of the next reveal or twist. Imagery and foreshadowing, red-herrings, and great atmosphere all make for an engaging and compelling experience. I only wish every shire arc could’ve reached these heights.
1. Sciropscire
Sciropescire’s strengths come somewhat from the arcs that came before it, as it sees Eivor quickly reunited and working with Ivarr and Ceowulf. Your preexisting relationship with both gives this arc an advantage over others where it doesn’t have to establish too much all at once, as well as it starting off with you already having a personal connection of some sort with the main cast. Still, each set piece here is strong enough on its own –
  1. Eivor & co. join to negotiate peace with King Rhodri. She can offer 600 silver to whomever she chooses to try and quell the peace talks. Each option is mired in obscurity, has obvious pros and cons, and plenty of uncertainty. It felt impactful, difficult and nuanced.
  2. After peace talks go sour with Ivarr’s outburst, Eivor, Ivarr and Ceowulf sack a village under Rhodri’s control. It’s brutal and takes a long time to burn (on purpose!). You then fight a huge party of Rhodri’s men. The whole scene feels vile, over the top and harsh (on purpose!).
  3. The twist is that Ivarr kills Ceowulf in cold blood to earn himself the opportunity to get his own revenge on Rhodri — only revealed after you sack Rhodri’s fort (after reaching peace with him). A brutal blood eagle from Ivarr and the game’s best boss fight ensue.
It’s close between the top 3, but this is the best arc in the game, for me.
For once, the game forces you to face the trail of bloodshed and destruction your ‘pacifying’ of England has left in your wake. Additionally, the ambiguous decision-making process in negotiating peace, the brutal village burning sequence, the tangled web of Ivarr’s relationships and motivations, the twists of the peaceful alliance and Rhodri’s fate, and finally, the Ivarr boss fight are just too good all in tandem to not take first place.
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I’m conflicted looking back on these.
There’s many that feel even more empty than I remember them being now that I draft them as text. However, a surprising number of highly-rated arcs aren’t actually part of the main quest.
Ultimately, I’m left bewildered at the scale and scope of the epic that this game took me on. I was so fatigued by the end of it, but in hindsight so happy I completed it.
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2024.05.14 14:15 Used-Bathroom-5645 diagnosis

i basically just got visually diagnosed with herpes / waiting for swab but he confirmed it was probably type 2 as it was on my genitials and i feel so ashamed and depressed. i don’t feel like i can tell my friends or family so it’s just going to be this horrible secret i’ll have to keep from them for my whole life. i also really feel like my dating time is over and i’m only 19 (female) i cant believe i could have been so stupid and ruined my chances of being with someone. i feel sick to my stomach and want to cry so badly but i’m in public. really any comforting advice would be appreciated, i kind of knew it would be herpes when i saw the sores but i didn’t want to believe it. i don’t know what to do :( i also have exams in 2 days and i can’t even think of studying with this on my mind
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2024.05.14 13:52 AdPsychological5065 HELP—Yeast Infection, Monistat Burns, or Herpes?

I am working on getting into a doctor as soon as I can, but of course—still seeking advice until I get in!
Had sex with a new partner on April 22nd. We used a condom, but he did go down on me. At that time, he shared that he was clean (but people lie so never know).
I got sick on April 24th— sore throat, body aches, fever, swollen tonsils. On April 26th, strep, flu, covid tests all negative and given a steroid shot and antibiotics.
Finished antibiotics on May 5th. Swollen tonsils became main issue again on May 6th and went to urgent care. Strep and mono tests negative. Got a different steroid and antibiotic.
Woke up early in the morning on May 7th unable to swallow and a hard time breathing so I went to the ER. Was given IV steroids, antibiotics, and pain meds. Sent home with another antibiotic prescription and started them that day.
On May 10th, started the yeast infection symptoms. I got Monistat 1 day (will never do again lol) on May 11th. Used a pad on the 11th and 12th with the discharge with it. On May 12th, I noticed the open sores on my labias.
I don’t have as much discharge anymore from the yeast infection standpoint, but I don’t know how to get the sores healed. I’ve been trying to keep it clean, dry, and aired out (wearing a dress to work with no underwear).
At first I thought it was a reaction to the Monistat, then maybe from the yeast infection, and now terrified its herpes from going down rabbit holes.
Any advice on relieving symptoms until I get in to the doctor?
I have a link to a NSFW photo of the sores too but want to make sure I don’t violate the community rules with posting it.
THANK YOU 🙏
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2024.05.14 13:50 capitalistfailures My hinge date says I need to pay on the first date to make up for cancelling on him 3 times due to sickness

I matched with this guy on Hinge and we seem to get a long great. However, I've had to cancel on our date three times because I wasn't feeling well. With each cancellation I rebooked to another date. With the third cancellation, I was having a sore throat and high fever and told him we can meet up next week after I recover.
His answer was that due to these cancellations, I now have to make up by being the one that pays on the date.
Is this normal? We both work in IT so I suppose we have more than average in pay. But is a guy truly serious about a woman if he demands the woman to pay on the first date just because she got sick and had to cancel?
Just to preface this with that I have autistic traits and can have some difficulties reading social situations properly.
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2024.05.14 13:47 Anuyushi Another reason not to have kids in the bucket for me

The germs! I've barely gotten sick since I was a child myself, and now with my niece living at home, I've gotten sick at least twice a month and she just turned one. I'm SO tired of missing work, suddenly having a cough, being miserable, I don't even take care of this baby and she's costing me money by my getting sick all the time.
Today I woke up with a sore throat and tried not to think anything of it because she didn't show sick. Then tonight I began aggressively coughing, and not an hour later, she's coughing in her crib. That's fantastic, she was blowing raspberries all day too, so this sickness is about to hit the entire family and linger a bit longer.
I move out at the end of this month and I can look forward to having my health back again. Babies and kids are just walking bacteria until they get the grasp of hygiene and germs.
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2024.05.14 13:41 Ranger-Ralph Sick for 3 weeks

I’ve been sick for 3 weeks on and off and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health. Any suggestions welcome.
Week 1 - high fever, 102 feeling overall crummy chills, super sore neck, ears popping etc
Week 2 - felt ok but ears still popping, very tired and stiff neck still
Week 3 - ears popping, 99 fever on and off, terrible sore throat, swollen grands, stiff neck, runny nose
What doctors have said Week 1 I didn’t see a doctor bc fever went away
End of week 2 doctor said maybe sinus infection but just take ibuprofen
Now at week 3 I am on my second day of a Z Pack but just still feel terrible, no energy
What could it be
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2024.05.14 13:22 throwawaylmao_57 can someone help?

Quick background info, Today my (16F) non blood related uncle (45M) came back from his month long trip from overseas. He came straight to our house to surprise our family. He's been like a father figure for the past 6-7 years, Dad isn't in the picture. Anyway, After sitting around for a while I had convinced him to let me drive his car, I do not have my licence and he agreed on the grounds that my mum agreed and he taught me first. I agreed happily andy mum and sister stayed at home while he drove me just around the block to teach me. Cue the problem, He went half way around the block before pulling over in a street where their was basically no houses that had view of that specific street, and started telling me about the side view mirrors and the adjustment of the seat etc. then without pause he looked over at me and said to 'sit in his lap' so I could 'practise the brakes, acceleration and the stick thing' (sorry, forgot what it's called.) I basically said "oh no, I wouldn't be able to fit, It would be too tight". I was trying not to sound rude (because I honestly thought this was intentions were pure) and he started being insistant and pushy about it, So I just agreed. Mind you, It was 8:30 on a school night so it was dead quiet, dark and I was alone with him. I walked around to his side of the car and tried and as I said, my leg wouldn't fit. I'm not overweight or anything just big thighs, so I stepped away and said "I'm not gonna fit" so he told me to just stand there and I stood there for the next FIVE MINUTES watching him (try to) adjust his seat just so I could sit in his lap. And after about another give minutes of failing he did something (I forgot) and said "Okay, sit now." And I did, My left led still didn't fit until MADE it fit. I sat awkwardly and he said "okay turn the car on" and I fully said nope. I opened the door and stepped out on his lap and the car. I said "yeah, I can't do that it hurts my leg so much" he just nodded and I shut his car door and walked back over to th passenger side and sat back it. The rest of the drive was a little awkward before he finally pulled back I'm front of the house and we actually swapped seats this time, He made me turn on the car, the lights, brakes etc and before he called my mum to unlock the door he looks at me and said "your not mad about sitting in my lap are you?" I said no awkwardly and he said "well your mom would be. Are you gonna tell her? Don't tell her."
So now I'm at home, he's been home for 40 or so now. (He left at 8:30 and it's 9:11 now) I just wanna know, Should I tell my mum? Should I do something? I'm scared of telling her. She's fairly religious and a common brown mother. But I'm scared for my 11 year old sister, Thought he's almost NEVER alone with her. I feel a little sick when I even think about telling my mum, I'm just scared. What should I do?
Sorry for any mistakes in spelling or grammar I'm just writing it rushed. If something seems odd please don't hesitate to ask!
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2024.05.14 13:15 throwawaylmao_57 Something weird happened and I'm seriously stressed.

Quick background info, Today my (16F) non blood related uncle (45M) came back from his month long trip from overseas. He came straight to our house to surprise our family. He's been like a father figure for the past 6-7 years, Dad isn't in the picture. Anyway, After sitting around for a while I had convinced him to let me drive his car, I do not have my licence and he agreed on the grounds that my mum agreed and he taught me first. I agreed happily andy mum and sister stayed at home while he drove me just around the block to teach me. Cue the problem, He went half way around the block before pulling over in a street where their was basically no houses that had view of that specific street, and started telling me about the side view mirrors and the adjustment of the seat etc. then without pause he looked over at me and said to 'sit in his lap' so I could 'practise the brakes, acceleration and the stick thing' (sorry, forgot what it's called.) I basically said "oh no, I wouldn't be able to fit, It would be too tight". I was trying not to sound rude (because I honestly thought this was intentions were pure) and he started being insistant and pushy about it, So I just agreed. Mind you, It was 8:30 on a school night so it was dead quiet, dark and I was alone with him. I walked around to his side of the car and tried and as I said, my leg wouldn't fit. I'm not overweight or anything just big thighs, so I stepped away and said "I'm not gonna fit" so he told me to just stand there and I stood there for the next FIVE MINUTES watching him (try to) adjust his seat just so I could sit in his lap. And after about another give minutes of failing he did something (I forgot) and said "Okay, sit now." And I did, My left led still didn't fit until MADE it fit. I sat awkwardly and he said "okay turn the car on" and I fully said nope. I opened the door and stepped out on his lap and the car. I said "yeah, I can't do that it hurts my leg so much" he just nodded and I shut his car door and walked back over to th passenger side and sat back it. The rest of the drive was a little awkward before he finally pulled back I'm front of the house and we actually swapped seats this time, He made me turn on the car, the lights, brakes etc and before he called my mum to unlock the door he looks at me and said "your not mad about sitting in my lap are you?" I said no awkwardly and he said "well your mom would be. Are you gonna tell her? Don't tell her."
So now I'm at home, he's been home for 40 or so now. (He left at 8:30 and it's 9:11 now) I just wanna know, Should I tell my mum? Should I do something? I'm scared of telling her. She's fairly religious and a common brown mother. But I'm scared for my 11 year old sister, Thought he's almost NEVER alone with her. I feel a little sick when I even think about telling my mum, I'm just scared. What should I do?
Sorry for any mistakes in spelling or grammar I'm just writing it rushed. If something seems odd please don't hesitate to ask!
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2024.05.14 12:54 DrYangHF7 Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door healed my MG after 3 ICU visits (重症肌无力)

Gratitude to the Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva, Gratitude to Master Jun Hong Lu.
Respected fellow Buddhists, do you know what's worse than death? Have you ever escaped death? Today, I have a firsthand experience of escaping death to share with you.
Have you heard of a disease called myasthenia gravis (MG)? I believe many people have not. As only about 30,000 people worldwide suffer from this disease (Note: This figure may vary as there are differing estimates, with the United States alone having approximately 36,000 to 60,000 cases), where the nerves cannot control the muscles. For example, if the affected area is the hand, it can feel pain, heat, cold, and pressure. But no matter how much you command your hand to move, it won't budge. I am one of those 30,000 people. The affected areas include the cheeks, mouth, left arm, and the chest muscles responsible for breathing. In other words, during an episode of the disease, I cannot breathe. Can you now imagine how close I was to death?
Back to my story. In mid-September 2012, my lungs were infected with bacteria, and I fell seriously ill. On the night of September 29th, my breathing became increasingly difficult, and my family rushed me to the hospital for emergency treatment. The next night, my condition deteriorated to the point of MG, and my breathing became so weak that it was almost cut off. The doctors once again performed emergency procedures for me, eventually placing me on life support system (LSS) and transferring me to the intensive care unit (ICU). The so-called LSS involved many instruments strapped to my body and several tubes inserted into my body. Although the areas where the tubes were inserted were very painful, I dared not move for fear that any loosening of the instruments might endanger my life. So, at that moment, I didn't dare to move at all.
One night, a nurse attempted to draw blood for examination, but the needle just couldn't find the right artery. She would try once, then pull out the needle, try again, and repeat this process several times. I was in excruciating pain, but because my body was encased in instruments, I couldn't move. Finally, I couldn't help but ask myself in my heart, what did I do wrong? Why must I endure all this? I've never harmed anyone, never wronged anyone, so why me?
At that time, I didn't understand Buddhism, nor did I know anything about making vows. But the pain drove me, someone who barely recognized a few Chinese characters despite being educated in English, to silently call out the name of Guan Yin Bodhisattva in my heart, begging her to save me from this sea of suffering. A few days later, my condition improved. The doctors removed my LSS, and I was transferred from the ICU to a regular ward. I thought I would soon be discharged and return to my previous life, believing that everything was almost over. I felt very happy!
Looking back now, I realize how ignorant and selfish I was at that time, even as I began to recover. I was only thinking about my own survival and never cared about other people who were suffering like me. Perhaps it was because of this that I received a retribution. On the same evening that I was transferred to the regular ward, I suddenly had difficulty breathing again, couldn't make any sound, and my whole body was immobilized. I could only use my eyes and hands to draw attention, making small gestures with my hand to communicate.
A nurse noticed and called a doctor from the floor. Surprisingly, after glancing at the readings on the instruments, the doctor told the nurse that my heartbeat and breathing were normal, and then left. Once again, I tried my best to attract the attention of those around me. Thanks to the blessings of the Bodhisattva, another doctor passing by noticed me and observed that something was not right with my condition. He/She called back the previous doctor and urged him to conduct a detailed examination. While they were debating whether I was normal or not, I was almost breathless, mentally giving up on life.
The readings on the instruments once again sounded the alarm. Luckily, with both doctors nearby, they were able to save me at the fastest speed possible. The next day, I woke up in the familiar ICU, with the life support system back on me. Through this rollercoaster of emotions, I finally understood that the suffering I endured stemmed from the ignorance and folly accumulated since my birth, perhaps not just in this lifetime, but through countless past lives. Now, I must face the consequences.
I once again prayed to Guan Yin Bodhisattva and made a vow to her: "Guan Yin Bodhisattva, I believe that every soul, before they pass away, experiences a lot of suffering, and their pain is surely no less than what I am enduring now. I implore Guan Yin Bodhisattva to save me from all this suffering. I am willing to be a vegetarian for the rest of my life."
Whether you believe it or not is up to you. Two days after making this vow to Guan Yin Bodhisattva to be a lifelong vegetarian, my lung infection showed significant improvement, and I was subsequently transferred to a regular ward. Perhaps it was destined. Not only did I start to follow a vegetarian diet, but my parents also understood at the same time that my illness was beyond the control of doctors and only the Bodhisattva could save me. At that time, our entire family had just begun to explore Buddhism.
Every day, my mother devoutly chanted the name of Guan Yin Bodhisattva, while my father recited the Heart Sutra for me diligently.
However, our ordeal was not yet over. One night, I once again experienced difficulty breathing and had to be placed on the LSS for the third time.
I saw my parents kneeling down, praying to the deities and Bodhisattvas to bless me with a safe recovery. They had knelt before doctors before, but this time, seeing them kneel again went beyond what I could bear. I didn't want my parents to kneel for me. Witnessing them kneel deeply wounded me. As a 19-year-old young man, I should be taking care of my parents, yet why were my parents, who were over 50 years old, kneeling for me?
Three times being placed on LSS and admitted to the ICU, followed by three instances of improvement, resulted in my transfer to a regular ward. It was three months later, after my extended hospital stay, that I finally got discharged and returned home. I am deeply grateful for the blessings of the Bodhisattva. Instead of weakening our faith in Buddhism, this series of challenges only deepened our belief in the principles of karma and karmic obstacles as explanations for my condition. After leaving the hospital, my family and I continued to immerse ourselves in the teachings of Buddhism. Grateful for the blessings of the Bodhisattva!
One day, my family and I went to a vegetarian restaurant near our home and discovered Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door. Excitedly, I immediately went online when I returned home and downloaded several Buddhist scriptures in English phonetics from the Guan Yin Citta website to start reciting. Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door truly works wonders. That very night after reciting the Buddhist scriptures, I dreamt that while reciting the Great Compassion Mantra on the balcony at home, the image of Guan Yin Bodhisattva appeared in the clouds.
However, the next day after waking up, I felt a headache and drowsiness when reciting scriptures. My family and I took the liberty of contacting the Guan Yin Citta fellowship in Kuala Lumpur. The Buddhist practitioner who answered the call instructed us to come to the fellowship to recite scriptures. One day, while reciting scriptures at the fellowship, I experienced severe headaches. At that time, everyone was busy preparing for a Dharma conference, and the venue was crowded. I am grateful to the practitioner who cleared some space for me to lie down and gathered many fellow practitioners present to recite scriptures for me.
Later, the practitioner explained that my headaches were messages from the karmic creditors and taught me about releasing lives, making vows, and the importance of Little Houses for eliminating karmic obstacles. I immediately arranged to release thousands of fish. Today, my family still insists on releasing lives for me on the first and fifteenth day of every lunar month.
Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door is truly a miraculous practice. Ever since I began reciting Little Houses under the guidance of the fellow practitioner, I have experienced continuous dreams. On the first night, I dreamt of a seven-story-tall Buddha statue with many people practicing beneath it. Just two weeks later, after memorizing the Great Compassion Mantra, I dreamt of the Dharmakaya of Bodhisattva and two Dharma protectors driving me around in a car. Even more wonderfully, two months later, after memorizing the Eighty-Eight Buddhas Great Repentance, I dreamt of myself having tea with Master Lu.
Most importantly, after continuing to release lives, make vows, and recite Little Houses, my illness has not recurred.
Having now healed from this unusual illness, I'm here to share my story with you. These dreams signify an enhancement in the quality of life. I deeply appreciate the blessings of the Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva, which have reinforced my resolve to earnestly follow the path of Buddhism and instilled me with confidence. I am dedicated to diligently progressing in the Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door and remain steadfast in my commitment.
Currently, I am studying in Singapore, and whenever I have the opportunity, I propagate the Dharma and benefit sentient beings. Whenever I return to Malaysia, I often volunteer at the fellowship center.
Additionally, I would like to mention two more things. Firstly, on the second night after making my vow to be a vegetarian, I saw a child's spirit clearly flying beside me in the hospital and heard it laughing. Shortly after, I dreamt of a man killing a woman and cutting open her chest. In the dream, I felt that the pain of the woman being cut open was exactly the same as the pain I felt during my surgery.
While many still question the reality of karma and karmic obstacles, doubting Master Lu's teachings, I have personally experienced their effects. Thus, I hope my story can encourage you to embark on the practice of Buddhism and the recitation of Buddhist scriptures, starting today. I wish to prevent anyone from following my path, waiting until karmic obstacles manifest and adversity strikes before beginning their spiritual journey. I am deeply thankful for all those who stood by me during that challenging time, particularly my family and friends, who supported me through my darkest moments. My heartfelt gratitude also goes to the fellow practitioners at the Guan Yin Citta fellowship in Kuala Lumpur, who patiently guided me into the Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door.
Deep gratitude to our Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Master Jun Hong Lu for establishing the Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door, guiding us on a path away from suffering towards happiness. Lastly, and most importantly, deep gratitude to the Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva, who saves those in distress and hardship. With Her Buddha light blessing each one of us, She guides us back to the right path of learning Buddhism and constantly watches over us, blessing us at all times and in all places. Gratitude to the Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva!
Buddhist practitioner: GWT
Speech to text translator: Guan Jing
Proofreaders: Miao and Dong Ri Yang Guang
Date: 2024-05-11
Translator: Frank
Published: 2024-05-14
Statement by translator
The story was translated from video into text, and then translated from Chinese into English. If there is anything that is not rational or in line with the true meaning of the presenter, I pray for forgiveness from the Greatly Merciful and Greatly Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva, all Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, Dharma protectors and Master Jun Hong Lu.
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原文如下:
下面让我们有请来自马来西亚的郭同修与我们分享:郭同修身患绝症,重症肌无力,饱受病痛折磨几次病危。然而心灵法门使他摆脱病魔,重获新生。让我们掌声欢迎!
感恩大慈大悲观世音菩萨,感恩卢军宏师父。
尊敬的各位佛友,你是否知道什么事情比死更糟糕?你是否曾经死里逃生?今天我便有一个亲身经历死里逃生的故事要告诉你。
你是否听过一种称为重症肌无力的疾病?相信很多人都不曾听过。因为全世界只有约三万人患上这种病,患者的神经控制不到肌肉。举例说,如果患病部位是手臂,这个手就能感觉到痛热冷及压力。但无论如何你怎么叫你那个手动,它都不会动。我就是三万人之一。而受影响的部位包括脸颊,嘴巴,左手臂以及负责呼吸的胸肌。也就是说,当病程发作的时候,我是无法呼吸的。你现在估计到我多接近死亡了吧?
回到我的故事。2012年9月中旬,我肺部被细菌感染,久病不起。在9月29日当晚,我的呼吸也到了越来越困难,家人赶紧送进医院急救。第二天夜里,病情终于恶化到重症肌无力,我的呼吸微弱到快要断气了。医生再次替我急救,最后替我戴上了维生系统,并送进加护病房。所谓维生系统,就是很多仪器套在身上,很多管子插进身体里。虽然被插管子的部位很痛,但万一随便一个仪器松脱了,可能我的生命就会有危机。所以,我当时连动都不敢动。
有一夜,护士替我抽血检查,但是针管却一直插不进正确的动脉。她们这里插一下不行,拔出针管,在那里又插一下,一次又一次。我那时痛得死去活来,却因为全身套满了仪器而不能动。我终于忍不住在心里问自己,我做错了什么?为何必须承受这一切?我不曾伤害任何人,也不曾亏待任何人,为什么是我?
那时还不懂佛法,也不懂什么许愿。但痛苦使得我这个受英文教育认不到几个中文字的人也会在心里喊出观世音菩萨的佛号,祈求她救我出苦海。几天后,我的情况有好转。医生移除了我的维生系统,从加护病房推进了普通病房。我想自己很快可以出院,回到之前的生活,一切几乎结束了。我觉得很开心!
现在回想起来,我才发觉自己当时是多么的愚昧,才开始康复仍然如此的自私。只想着自己生存,不曾关心其他和我一样受苦的人。可能因为这样我受到了教训。就在我被转进普通病房的同一天晚上,我突然呼吸困难,发不出声音,全身又不能动,只能用眼神和手,以我的手用一点小动作来引起别人的注意。
一个护士发现到把楼层的医生叫来。想不到医生竟然看看仪器读数后跟护士说我的心跳和呼吸都正常,然后就离开了。我再一次用最尽力的引起身旁的人注意。感谢菩萨保佑。这时有另外一位医生经过,看到我,察觉到我的神态不正常,并把之前的医生叫回来,求他详细检查。就在他们两个还在争论我究竟是正常或不正常,一旁我已经几乎断气了,心里放弃活命了。
仪器读数也再一次变成警报状态。幸好两个医生在身旁,能以最快的速度把我救了。第二天,我在熟悉的加护病房里醒来,身上又套上了维生系统。经过这一次乐极生悲,我终于明白到我受的苦是源于我出生以来愚昧无知的罪,或许不止只有这一世,而是过去无数世累积下来的因果。如今要面对果报了。
我再次向观世音菩萨祈求,而且向她发愿说:“观世音菩萨,我相信每个灵魂,他们死之前都会受到很多苦,它们的痛苦肯定不比我现在所受的少。请求观世音菩萨救我脱离这一切痛苦。我愿意为此一生吃素。
相不相信由你。向观世音菩萨发愿终身吃素后两天我肺部感染有了明显的好转,之后被转进普通病房。或许是因缘到了。不但我自己开始吃素,我父母也同时明白到我的疾病已不在医生的控制范围,只有菩萨才能救到我。当时我们全家人才刚接触佛法。
妈妈每天勤念观音菩萨的佛号。爸爸找来一本《心经》每天为我念诵。
但是,我们的考验还没过去。某天晚上我再次感到呼吸困难,第三次戴上了维生系统。
我看到父母下跪求神佛菩萨保佑我平安度过。他们之前已经跪过医生了,这一次再下跪,已经超出我能承受的限度。我不要父母为我下跪。看到他们下跪,深深地刺伤了我。我这一个19岁的男孩应该照顾父母,反而为什么要让他们超过50岁的父母为我而下跪?
三次戴上了维生系统住进加护病房又三次的好转,被转进普通病房。我在医院里住了三个月后,才终于出院回家。感恩菩萨保佑。这三好三坏的过程,不但没有减少我和家人对佛法的信心,反而相信只有因果和业障才能解释我的状况。出院后,我和家人还继续研究什么是佛法。感恩菩萨加持!
某一天,我和家人到住家附近的一间素食馆,认识到心灵法门。于是,我回家就急不及待的上网,上心灵法门的网站下载了几篇佛经的英文拼音版开始念诵。心灵法门真的很灵验。我当夜念诵了经文后,便梦见在家中的阳台念诵《大悲咒》时,在梦里天上的云朵化出观世音菩萨的形象。
然而,第二天醒来后我念经便感到头痛及爱睡。我和家人冒昧地拨电话联络吉隆坡心灵法门共修会。接电话的师姐便叫我们到共修会里念经。一天我在共修会里念经时,头痛剧烈。当时大家正在忙着筹备法会,会所堆得很拥挤。很感恩师姐搬开东西,腾出空间让我躺下,还召集了在场的许多师兄师姐们一起为我念诵经文。
后来,师姐解释我的头痛是要经者的讯息,还教会我放生、许愿及小房子并告诉我消除业障的急迫性。我当时便即刻安排放生数千条鱼。如今家人依然坚持每逢初一十五为我放生。
心灵法门真的是很灵验的法门,自从我在师姐的教导下,开始以正确的方式念小房子之后,便不断有梦境显现。第一晚便梦见一座七层楼高的佛像,底下有很多人在共修。心灵法门真的很灵验的法门,两个星期后我背熟了《大悲咒》时,便梦到菩萨的法身,还有两护法神用车子载我兜圈。更美妙的是,两个月后,当我背起了《礼佛大忏悔文》,竟然梦见自己和师父一起喝茶。
最重要的是我继续的放生许愿及念小房子之后,我的病情不曾复发。
现在已经从这奇怪的疾病中痊愈,活下来告诉你们这一个故事。这一切的梦境显示生活素质提升。我都感恩大慈大悲的观世音菩萨的加持,坚定了我学佛精进,很有信心,并立志在心灵法门一门精进永不退转。
我如今在新加坡求学,只要有机会就弘法利生,一回到马来西亚更是经常到共修会工去做义工。
另外,我要补充两件事,第一件事在我发愿吃素后的第二晚,我便在医院看见一小孩子的灵性清楚地在我旁边飞过,还发出了笑声。不久后我又梦见了一个男人杀了一个女人,还把她的胸口割开。而我在梦里感觉,那女人的被割开胸口的痛苦竟然跟我动手术时的痛苦一模一样。很多人还在质疑因果和业障的存在,怀疑卢台长的教导,但是我亲身体验过了。因此,我希望自己的故事能启发你学佛,学习佛法,今天就开始念诵经文。因为我不希望有人跟我一样,等到业障显现坏事发生之后才开始修行。深深感恩所有在我那段时间陪伴过我的人,尤其是我家人和朋友,在我最艰难的时刻,可以为我支持的人。深深感恩吉隆坡心灵法门共修会的师兄师姐们。他们耐心引导我进入心灵法门。
深深感恩我们大慈大悲的卢军宏台长创办了心灵法门,指引我们一条离苦得乐的道路。最后也是最重要的,深深感恩南无大慈大悲救苦救难广大灵感观世音菩萨,以她的佛光加持了我们每一个人,指引我们回到正确的学佛之道,随时随地都在庇佑着我们。感恩南无大慈大悲救苦救难广大灵感观世音菩萨!
如果整理过程中有不如理不如法之处,还请观世音菩萨护法神菩萨慈悲原谅!
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2024.05.14 11:02 Reasonable-Sea-3501 I'm so sick

I cannot breath out of nose I can't sleep my heart Is so racy from being anxious my sore throat is alot better today but I feel absolutely horrible and am so afraid that it'd gonna make me sick
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2024.05.14 10:23 Delicious_Sky4575 It could be a huge PEM?

I have POTS, CFS & suspected SFN since 2023 January. My condition fluctuates, it improved quite a bit last autumn and then due to an infection I relapsed again. I’m housebound and get infections quite often. Main symptoms were Pots symptoms, fatigue, muscle pain and sore throat. I was able to increase movement very gradually and have not experienced PEM’s. In April after an infection I reached my baseline again. I think I paced well, I didn’t do anything special that I haven’t done before.
Suddenly last week I woke up feeling like I had been hit by a bus, extreme exhaustion and flu-like symptoms. Since then it has only gotten worse, I can only sleep, I feel strong muscle pain, I have sound &light sensitivity. I haven’t had such a strong PEM since I’ve been sick.
I’m desperate because I feel like I’ve been getting worse and worse. What could this be? I don’t think it’s an infection now. Have you guys experienced this suddenly when you were pacing well? It’ll pass with time or this is my baseline now?
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2024.05.14 06:56 Tosjsjje [acne] How do I take care of this pimple (???) or is it a cold sore?

Hi all, and apologies if this isn’t the right place for this, I wasn’t sure where to post and I can’t seem to find anyone with a similar situation. I work outside and about 3 weeks ago now I was at work and could feel I was going to get a pimple at the corner of my lip where it meets the skin line (I often get whiteheads and blackheads here and usually can feel them get irritated/inflamed). Unfortunately that same day I was moving some branches back and let go and one of them snapped and hit my lip in the exact same spot I felt the pimple forming. It stung like hell the rest of the day and I could feel a welt forming.
So when the pimple finally surfaces it’s like the worst pimple I’ve seen in my life, and appears to maybe have two white heads and still the huge welt underneath, I thought due to the trauma on my lip, but after a comment or two I started to worry it might be a cold sore. I’ve never had one in my life and was/am super worried. My dad thought different though and was convinced it was a pimple, I wore an overnight pimple patch and when it decided to burst it did appear to burst like a normal whitehead/pustule with the usual whitehead/pustule gunk, and I put some neosporin on it and it started to heal.
Like two days into healing, it’s finally looking SO much better and I’ve decided it was a traumatized pimple, and I go over to my parents for dinner and my mom decides to wipe the corner of her grown daughter’s mouth, right where this spot is healing, and manages to dig in with her (very sharp nail) in such a painful way that I immediately feel it start to welt up again. Three days later it’s blown up again and looks really funky, still no more painful than a typical pimple but clearly swollen underneath and at this point does resemble a more mild cold sore because it’s no longer a perfect circle/more like an oval, but maybe that’s from repeated trauma cause it can’t catch a break? Once again not sure what to do and am freaking out.
This time I’m outside for 5 days with wind and dust and debris before I can fully deal with it, so I once again clean and don a pimple patch in which the usual gunk comes out, but so does a small amount of watery/bloody discharge at the end. It never looked blister-y and I’m not sure how cold sores behave typically. It never seemed to crust over when initially healing and did seem to be healing like a pimple, albeit a complicated one? But at this point it looks kind of weird and I’m wondering if it’s an infected pimple? Or it is a cold sore and it was incredibly bad timing for a first one? Can they even refill like that and would the fluid be so identical to pimple pus (ugh gross) in the first place?
I’m going to make a doctors appointment tomorrow, but they’re very far out and I’m not sure what I should be doing in the mean time. I’m now on week 3 of this one spot wrecking havoc on my face and tbh I’m kind of sick of my lip/lip line being swollen. I did all the things that helped it heal and they seem to be working more slowly after this new trauma. Has anyone else dealt with something similar?
Thanks for any help/ suggestions and taking the time to read all of this. I didn’t want to post a pic in the main post, but if it’s helpful I can add one. Honestly not sure it would help, it’s been through so much 😂
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2024.05.14 04:56 cumpelstiltskin Need Advice on Amoxicillin

Hello, reddit doctors, I need your advice on what I should do
Background: 41 years old, physically fit male, first got sick late april (27-28th with severe flu like symptoms. Around May 4, I went to urgent care, got covid flu test done (all negative), had conjunctivitis in eyes (got antibiotic cream) and also did throat swab. Doctor at urgent care wouldnt give me oral antibiotics until throat culture came back. Next few days i was running low grade fever and I wanted antibiotics so I called telehealth and convinced a doctor to give me amoxicillin (500mg x 3 x 10 days). The throat culture ended up negative but i continued on the amoxicillin anyways as my symptoms drastically improved.
So i screwed up. On friday May 10th i was feeling much better so I decided to go out and have a few drinks. Later that night, the Aurora borealis was out, and i made a poor life decision. So I have adhd and for years I was taking adderall and dexedrine. I completely quit these drugs 2.5 years ago, but still had some left. So on friday night, I took some dexedrine, and having no tolerance anymore, I ended up on a weekend bender not sleeping, being high, not eating well, and just not taking care of myself. I kept using until sunday afternoon
Sunday night I started coughing a bit again. Fast forward to today (monday), i managed to sleep 6.5 hours, but I feel shitty and I keep bringing up bright yellow phlegm or sputum, my throat is kinda sore (probably from dry mouth), and now Im worried i might have ruined my amoxicillin treatment. Im obviously in withdrawal from my adhd meds and im tired, but I also i have a weird tingly metallic taste in my mouth.
I have two days left of amoxicillin, and im worried my infection will come back with a vengeance and be resistant to antibiotics once it is done. What should I do? Stop worrying, or should i get more antibiotics?
Sorry this ran a bit long.
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2024.05.14 04:53 Mission_Goose_6984 Vasovagal when recovering from a bug?

Hi everyone!
I am 25F, Caucasian, 127 lbs, 5’2”, non-smoking. I am currently on levothyroxine for suspected subclinical hypothyroidism. Previous blood tests did reveal that I have high lipoprotein a.
I recently contracted a bug and started having symptoms on May 9, 2024. It consisted of a fever for the first few days, extreme fatigue, sore throat and cough. Jump to today, May 13, 2024, I still have the fatigue, and wet cough. I had to return to work today, and I actually felt ok this morning, so I wore a mask and I was good for about 2 hours, then I began to have what my doctor has described in the past as a Vasovagal reaction (without losing consciousness, as I know it’s coming and can sit down ASAP). The past reaction was completely unrelated and random. I had 3 “reactions” in the span of 5-10 minutes today, and ultimately left work. I have never had this when healing from sickness prior. I have been taking cold meds and muscle and joint pills to help aid my symptoms since the 9th.
I am likely going to take tomorrow off as well, however, I’m not sure what to do so this does not happen again. My job requires you to be on your feet. My doctor is hard to get into on such short notice! Any help is appreciated!
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2024.05.14 04:41 Euph_player_dropout Sick after lymphatic massage

For context the specific one I’m following is referred to as “The Big 6”, and I’m 19F
Recently me and my sister have been on a holistic/natural healing type of journey. One thing we started doing about two weeks ago is lymphatic massaging daily (collar bones, under jaw, armpit area, belly, groin, behind knees and rub 10 times, pat 10 times)
She had symptoms at first of fogginess, sore in lymphatic areas, occasional headache. I however, had a headache for a week, and some other mild symptoms at first.
as it went on, I would feel genuinely sick for a few hours at a time but then it would go away. Super weird. Then it hit me like a bus. I had a 101° fever for 1.5 days which we thought I just came down with something, but no one else got sick, which is surprising cuz my sister gets sick at the drop of a hat(I live with her and her hubby and baby)
I didn’t do it for 2 days, then i did in the morning after breakfast and by evening time felt sick again, and the next day felt terrible. I haven’t been around anyone who could have been sick, but idk if anyone else has experienced this??
I think it’s just sending my liver into overload, I’m going to do it every 2-3 days, and drink lots lots of water, oj, coconut water, sleep extra and be careful what I’m eating.
Maybe I’m dying of some strange illness and it’s unrelated. Idk. But I’ve been sick on and off for 2 weeks and I’m tired of it🙃
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2024.05.14 04:16 SinfullySweet77 Very Sour Smelling Discharge. BV or CV?

Hi!! First time poster here.
I'm pretty familiar with my body and I understand my cycle pretty well to include discharge consistency and odor.
I've noticed over the past couple of days a very foul, sour smelling odor coming from my underwear. The discharge is thick and sticky (to be expected as I'm about 6 days out from starting my cycle).
I've had BV once several years ago after being severely sick and again last NovembeDecember post-shingles - My body tends to be thrown off balance under such high stress situations and/or after having to take meds (which I very rarely ever do unless necessary). And both times it smelled more like fishy ammonia and burnt rubber during sex which has me wondering if this is BV or something else.
To add, I did recently have a skin biopsy done on a mole that is located on my vulva and wonder if either that level of stress has led to this or if the silver nitrate she used on the wound may have came in contact with my vaginal opening?
I've also noticed increased hair loss, my boobs? Mainly nipples, being sore way too early in my cycle, post ovulation, amongst other abnormal physical changes that have occurred this past cycle....and no I'm not pregnant so could this be hormonal? So many questions.
I hate to take Flagyl because I feel it destroys too much good bacteria and sets me up for other gut/flora issues, which could eventually lead to BV again (which I fear may be the case here).
Any idea if this may possibly be CV and not BV? Or something else?
TIA!!
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2024.05.14 03:36 rachel_bachel123 Being sick with a toddler has to be top 3 of least favorite things about being a parent

Sorry, big vent incoming. Just want to get it out somewhere.
Our house got the stomach bug last week. My daughter picked it up at a local mom get together (why do you go to those if you are/were just sick??? UGH) So it was 5 days of me, my husband and my toddler girl being sick with all the gross stuff. Luckily my husband and I got over the stomach things, but the diarrhea is lingering in my toddler (to my understanding this is relatively normal, but it still makes me anxious).
I hated those 5 days. I felt like crap, I felt bad for my sweet husband who felt like even worse crap and I still feel so bad for my little baby girl who is still dealing with stuff.
And just when my gut started feeling better I picked up a sore throat which luckily wasn’t strep, doc thought it was just something viral, but that quickly turned into laryngitis and now I’ve lost my voice and my nose is starting to get stuffed and I’m worried I have a sinus infection coming on. And oh yeah I’m 20 weeks pregnant 😭 (don’t worry I’ve been in touch with my medical provider this whole time and baby isn’t in any danger, it’s just a little icing on this cake of discomfort). And I’m only three days into this nose/throat thing, and it could easily last another week.
I just hate losing more sleep than I already am due to not being able to breathe + throat pain. I hate that I can’t communicate with my daughter or my husband. I hate not being able to swallow without pain. I hate that I feel like crap.
I realize I have a LOT to be thankful for, I just want to be back to my normal so I can be a happiebetter mom and wife.
So yeah, being sick with a sick toddler is definitely top 3 least favorite part about parenthood. It might take spot number one but I’m saving that for something worse that may come along 🙃
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2024.05.14 03:31 TraditionalBadger662 Started getting sick 4 days post op…not fun.

I started getting sick (sore throat, congestion, sneezing, coughing) and it’s been hell. Honestly I’d take an extra week with drains instead of being sick.
It’s also been hard because I’m on wellbutrin and I have negative interactions with typical cold medicine, particularly dextromethorphan (cough suppressant) so I have been relying on expectorant, decongestants, cough drops, teas, sleeping next to a humidifier, etc.
Luckily it’s not hurting too much to cough but sneezing hurts. It’s more annoying than anything as I’ve been sneezing like crazy. Also, I think my lymph nodes are swollen or something because my armpits hurt real bad, they feel sore and swollen.
I’m really worried getting sick is going to affect how my scars heal or just the healing process in general. On the other hand, should I not be too worried that I got sick now since my immune system is already focusing on healing myself? I’m just trying to think positively but also want to be realistic. Haven’t had a fever and I’ve been testing negative for covid.
I’m seeing my doctor tomorrow for my first post op appointment. I’m pretty sure I will be getting my drains out as the output has been less than 15ml for more than 3 days now. Fingers crossed being sick won’t change anything.
Anyone else experience getting sick shortly after getting top surgery? Was there anything you did that helped get through it?
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2024.05.14 03:21 carrotcake95 Need some help

I was with a guy until december, which was our last contact. Did not interact in any way with another man until about last month. He eventually got sick about a week and a half after we first kissed. He says he knows his body and he never “gets sick like this”. He has a spot in his throat which lead him to believe it was mono, but tested negative. He now things it could be chlamydia? The issue is, I have not had any symptoms other than a sore throat for 2 days, and then a few weeks later, a cough and stuffy nose. I get sick very often as I suspect I have had something wrong with my immune system my whole life. Is chlamydia even likely in this case? I only did oral with the guy in December, and have only kissed the current guy.
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