Night night messages to send to boyfriend

Hi. I'm Sawyer. I'm the DM for the EPICest game that will be running on Mondays and Fridays starting Next Monday. We have 2 players, and are in need of 1-3 more players before launching our campaign. It'll be more roleplay-heavy, cuz that's my comfy zone. Homebrew world. I'm makin the map rn and it's gonna be doodle art drawing cuz it's cute AS HECK. You best be queer or hella allied.
bit of a longshot but if ur a trans girl, we're all trans too. So if we could get a full D&D transfemme squad that'd be slay tbh.
Also pref goes to creatives and nerds cuz that's my interests.
Ages 17 to 21 welcome. Others perish.
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Back in college I was dating a guy who I liked a lot. We had mutual friends including one guy who had referred to me as attractive on multiple occasions via various jokes and comments. We had a joke going that he was my boyfriend's bf and that we were a throuple. I was never attracted to that friend but we did get very close in what I thought was a sibling-like way.
The three of us drank together fairly often. My boyfriend didn't drink much, just enough to be tipsy, his friend drank a lot but had a high tolerance. I didn't usually drink much and had a very low tolerance.
On one particular night, my boyfriend went to bed early and left me with his friend, who got out a bottle of whiskey for us to share. I was drunk already but I obliged and drank with him- a lot. It tipped me over the edge from drunk to blackout.
I don't remember much. I remember coming to after having apparently passed out on his friend's bed. I threw up at one point after that, or maybe several. Might have passed out again, I don't know. His friend carried/dragged me back to my bf's room (they lived in the same house), I vaguely remember that. My bf was awake.
And then I remember being in and out of consciousness and what I remember is just flashes- his friend's face being far too close to mine, his hand in my hair, his breath on my neck. When I came too again my boyfriend was on top of me, penetrating me. I remember my first thought being that it was his friend, because of those brief glimpses of him being all over me. Now though, his friend was nowhere to be seen but I remember panicking and saying to my bf "I only want to have sex with you- not him." My bf laughed and said "who"?
Honestly I should have been more alarmed by the fact that my boyfriend had begun having sex with me while I was passed out drunk, but I was exhausted, plastered, and too busy worrying about what had happened with his friend.
After my boyfriend finished I went back to the bathroom to throw up some more and eventually went to sleep. I never mentioned any of my concerns or confusion to either of them, or anyone. I do know his friend took pictures of me while I was passed out and honestly it was very alarming to see myself in such a state and not remember how it had gotten to that point.
I know now what my boyfriend did to me that night was rape. I just don't know if his friend was involved or to what extent.
It feels good to get this off of my chest.

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I am planning to leave my Narcissistic Husband soon. He is been verbally abusive and I have enough proof on him. I don't get enough window between him leaving and coming back home (WFH). What is the safest way to leave? He has said this gazillion times to leave but leave our children behind which I don't want. My kids are young and goes to same Daycare. Can domestic violence help line help me to get out when he is present? Can they help me with finding lawyer for divorce and custody? I am afraid he might take our kids and send them out of country. Kids are young and they wouldn't even know what's happening and I am afraid he might do all these in 1 night.

https://globalnews.ca/pages/audioondemand/ 11:11AM audio time on Shaye Ganam this morning.
Shaye: ...How would you assess what happened on university campuses in Alberta this week?
Eric: Well, I think a number of things are true. Number 1 is, of course - that is protected speech and of course, that was/did appear to be, by all accounts, a peaceful assembly. So there's no question that because the charter applies, the individuals on those campuses at U of A and U of C, had protected charter rights. Now, the next question. Is/does a no-camping rule - is that a reasonable limit for universities to enforce? And I think there's good arguments to suggest that it is.
I mean, for example, if it's true for this protest, it's got to be true for all protests. So, does it mean that anybody protesting anything can simply move into a university campus and set up camp, and live there, perhaps indefinitely until their quote/unquote demands are met? If the university has to have a neutral approach to all these incidents of speech... so if there's a policy that says, - well, I guess camp is expression so I guess you can camp here - then they have to take that same position with the next protest, and the next protest, and somebody that wants to set up a anti-vaccine tent-city on the campus too. You can't pick your winners and losers.
So, does the university have a reasonable position to say - our campuses aren't equipped for camping? There are not bathroom facilities, there are not cooking facilities. There's a danger to individuals when they are here in the dark without campus security. We wouldn't be able to manage the situation if a counter-protest showed up in the middle of the night. If a fire tears through one of these tent cities and a bunch of 20-year-olds perish wouldn't we be liable? We are not equipped to be a campsite for expression. That seems to be, to me, not a crazy position for the university to take.
The question is, how does it execute that policy and I think that's where, you know, you're going to get a lot of yelling on both sides. But from my perspective, if you've got a responsible policy that says no camping, then what is the way to engage the protesters with that message. How do you communicate that to them? What timeline do you give them to exercise their free-speech rights and have a dignified exit? Or is your first move, on the first night at dawn to send in baton wielding police officers? I think there's some criticism here that that's a disproportionate response to a peaceful protest.
Smart dude. Good interview.

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I have really strict parents. They are balkan parents so it's typical but I'm literally going insaneeee. I am 14 years old and there are sooooo many rules in the house. I will list some rules and btw they aren't ALL the rules bc I literally forgot most of them.... I can't shower past 8, can't eat past 8, can't leave my room at night (if I go to the bathroom while everyone sleeping they scold me...), Can't spend more than an hour on my devices, can't be in my room a lot, can't talk back (even if im into a fight with them and they say "So why'd you do that?" and I respond they get mad...), I can't have my devices with me at night, They have screen time on all my devices, I can't go to sleepovers, and usually can't go to school dances/proms...., They severely yell at me and my dad says really harsh things to me like (you shouldn't have been born, your a disgrace, you ruined this family, ill run you over, why can't you die, Ill kill you/break your legs if you do this...) but its normalize in balkan countries bc ik you could go to jail for saying this to your kid but its basically the balkan equivalent of saying ("Your going to get grounded if you do this, you did a bad thing"), yell at me if I have one missing assignment, they always fight and bc of that they force me to sit with one of them and they basically vent to me about what happened and how stupid one of them is..., when I get a job they will get half of my salary, they don't let me enjoy my hobbies and say its stupid, I cannot talk about my opinions and point of views because "I'm just a kid and its stupid" but if its something that they are strongly against they yell at me for it, not allowed to close my door at night, no dating, no guy friends (bc they belive you can't be just friends with the opposite gender) and a lot more things... Its truly draining and annoying

It’s an absolutely useless feature that has been useless since its inception:
-when you leave behind an item (intentionally or not) it typically doesn’t notify you for at least a half an hour, if not longer.
-oftentimes it won’t even notify you at all. For example, my AirPods are missing. It says that they were last seen at my home at 1:04 AM last night. I’ve been out and about all day and never once received an alert that they weren’t with me.
-when playing a notification sound it often takes several minutes to connect - it should be instantaneous seeing as items normally connect inmeadately to the phone.
Seriously useless. How hasn’t Apple fixed this yet?

We talked last night. It hurts loosing her love. I miss her so damn much. But I'll never be able to heal if I'm seeing her name Come across my screen. I told her my final goodbyes, and blocked her on EVERYTHING. She cried, and so did I. I just want this pain to end. It's so damn much, it feels like I could reach into my chest and actually pull it out.
I'm still deeply in love with her, but I know she'll never take me back, so im trying my best to let go and move on.

Hi,
I have went on a few canoe trips and really enjoy canoeing and I want to get into it more. I am buying a Clipper 16’ Ranger Canoe Thursday night, and will be driving it ~2.5 hrs on the highway to bring it home.
I have a Toyota Corolla with no roof rack. I plan on setting the canoe on the roof of my car with pool noodles on the gunwales where it touches the roof. Then I plan to use two straps and put each strap through my doors on either side to secure it. Obviously I also need to secure the stern and bow, but I am unsure where to tether it too. My car has no hitch receiver.
Can you attach the strap to the inside of the trunk and under the hood? How would you recommend securing the front and back of the canoe to the car?
Any input is appreciated.

So I cannot post images to private chat messages anymore. Used to work just fine. Lets me select and add an image and click send but then Nothing happens…….nothing. No error message or anything. Need help!

I stopped smoking this last December for a drug test I had in my program. I’m going into medical assisting and graduate next June. I was a chronic smoker before so it was a little difficult to stop but after a week I was basically fine. Fast forward to now, I’m thinking about smoking a few times before I graduate. To relax, help sleep on those nights even the sleep meds don’t work and etc. everytime I bring it up to my husband he argues with me and says no, that’s I’m basically going to fuck up my future if it smoke again. I told him I felt like he was judging and shaming me and he said he was. I truly do not see the problem in it. I’m responsible, I have no need or intention on smoking when I graduate, I don’t want to out whatever job I get on the line. But I would like to enjoy a few last sessions before I have to put it down for good. He’s making me feel like the antichrist who just walked into a church for saying it too. Not to mention all the healthcare workers out there who did and still do smoke, although not my intention when I graduate. When I finally asked him “what if I decide to make my own decisions?” He said “fine whatever do what you want I don’t care anymore” but now he’s making me feel like our relationship is on the line for it and I don’t get it??? I know he’s trying to help but this isn’t helping this is straight judgement and shame??

Hello everyone
Its been about two weeks since my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me out of the blue (Genuinely thought she was the love of my life. we managed to get through almost 4 full years of university together and not even the first day we both move back home she drops this bomb on me. Not getting into crazy details but I have a hunch she is now pursuing a guy in her group of friends, "guy friend group" that they go clubbing with etc...
My friends went out clubbing last weekend as they wanted me out of the house. Without being a downer, my boys have zero game with women. We sorta just sat there and watched while other dudes were hitting on girls that we were "about to approach."
Anyways, given my ex-girlfriend dropped me out of the blue and has multiple guy friends involved with her friend group, im in desperate need to move on and start chatting with other girls as my group of friends doesnt really have any single girls in it.
The weekend that we did go clubbing, I mustered the courage to ask one girl i found attractive for her name as she walked by. She did indeed gave me her name but just continued to walk by. I was happy i managed to even attempt to chat her up but I cant lie, the rejection hurt a bit. (i was the only guy in my group to talk to any women that night.)
My biggest insecurity is my height, and before you mention it, i know im not the shortest but i have had females tell me i would be "crazy hot" if i was taller. (im 5'9, about 5'10, when wearing shoes at the club.) For further context, i would say im a relatively attractive caucasian man. Ive been approached by the opposite gender numerous times when out (had a girlfriend during these times at university bars) Im 22, workout everyday, watch what i eat, have fairly good social skills and I do know that i will be confident talking to women in a little while as this break up is so recent.
I guess what im asking to both the men and women of this sub-reddit, is to what are the biggest factors i can adjust to improve my chances of getting a number or even getting laid?
This may sound like a bit of a sob story but I would genuinely love to hear any related info. (hoping there are some other men my height or shorter who could be going through a similar situation and this post will help them.)

Hi all - I'm considering spending the 4th of July weekend in Napa Valley. I'm planning on flying in to SF or Oakland on either the 2nd or 3rd of July at night, and then taking a car the following morning to Napa. How bad does the traffic get? Is Napa advisable for July 4 in general?

For a little bit of background, I have been working in operations for around 5 years now. The past two were as a supervisor (which I loved and had great relationships with my crew.) I was promoted to manager over another operations area within the site in January.
This all happened a month before our annual shut down and I was forced to plan for an area I am totally unfamiliar with. I literally planned almost everything in under a month, was the only area to stick to our maintenance timeline, executed the most work in at least 5 years and had very few start up issues. I was actually given a very large spot bonus for all this today!
My issue is my operators. When I came over, I spoke with all my senior operators about feedback on jobs, feasibility with the schedule, and checked in somewhat regularly to make sure I wasn’t missing anything during planning. I valued their opinions since I didn’t have working knowledge of the area. The guys told me they appreciated having a say in what was going on.
I handed out daily agendas highlighting scheduled work, ordered extra tools/t shirts and even had a golf cart approved for the guys to use during the shutdown. But day one of our outage, it’s like a switch flipped, and they’ve been hostile ever since. I was told they described me as “annoying,” that they resent me as a “babysitter” and that they were going to “put me in my place.” Any time I questioned something that deviated from how they’ve always done it, even just trying to get a better understanding, I was told to stop “butting heads” and “trying to disprove” them.
My relationships with the guys has only gotten worse since then. For example, they came to me about a motor that is starting to bind up today. I agreed the maintenance work needed to be scheduled so it wouldn’t fail in the middle of the night. However, I asked if this was something that could wait another 1.5 weeks. Another part of the plant would be shutting down then, so we wouldn’t be limiting production. My operator yelled at me about how difficult I am to work with and that I never “listen” to them. The whole situation is almost funny because it’s so contradictory.
I hate saying this, but this is a very old school area of the plant and I feel like a lot of the pushback is because I’m a woman. If a man had asked the same question, they wouldn’t have had a problem with it.
But I don’t enjoy working like this. I’ve asked some of my peers about how they would handle it, and it’s a toss up to just apologize for whatever slight these operators think I’ve done and to give it time for these guys to adjust to me since they haven’t had a manager in so long.
How would you ladies handle this?

So, about me. I usally go by He/him, though i dont mind anything really, and am a cold loving (/hating) Canadian, who has been doing erp since he was 18. And before that I was still doing rp, though only through rpgs, and some ttrpgs like dnd and pf (which if you are running a pbp game I would love to join!) and I have been playing them into my adulthood as well.
As mentioned above I am a canadian, but I am also a proud french canadian so feel free to message me even if you speak french primarily, (Or any other language, google translate is always a helpfull tool!)
Anyway, just making this to refer people to if anyhting, might edit this when this account is older and im 100% sure im staying, oh and if you do read this just put QUEBEC in a message in a sepreate line, or on its own.
And now that that is done, have a beautifull Day/night, and all the hugs and kisses to you beautifull people!

Join us this Wednesday night at 7:00pm (Pacific Time) for our weekly rewatch/discussion board! Dylan has returned to Beverly Hills and begins to help his old friends with their troubles. David hires Matt as his lawyer to defend him against the parents of his underage one night stand, who plan to have him charged for statutory rape. Jackie Taylor and Samantha Sanders come to town, and Gina tries to break up Noah & Donna. Be there or be square!

throwaway account because she’s crazy I (26F) and my fiancé (27M) are getting married in under a month. To say our wedding planning has been less than ideal is quite the understatement. My soon to be MIL, let’s call her Barbra, has made the last year of my life a living hell. My fiancé, Derek, and I have been together for 3 years, engaged for just over one year. When Derek and I first started dating I had an incredible relationship with Barbra. We would hang out, run errands, have sleepovers.. we had a relationship most girls dream of having with their future MIL. That all changed when this pretty little ring slipped on my finger…
For some context, Barbra has an extremely volatile relationship with her ex husband (Derek’s dad) and his wife (Derek’s step mom). Their history stems back 20+ years and has been an ever present issue in Derek’s every day life. Barbra made it her mission for Derek to despise his father and step mother the way she did, totally unnecessary behavior.
Fast forward to this past year. Take a narcissistic future MIL and a people pleasing bride, then add a wedding and this is where you end up.
Around 8 months ago, my fiancé and I decided we wanted to have a backyard rehearsal dinner with food trucks, a bonfire, games- totally our style. We figured we didn’t need to big fancy dinners back to back. Derek’s dad’s house is a no-brainer perfect spot for something like this. Far back off of any road, tons of land, a pool. Not to mention; it’s his DAD’s house. Well when I brought this idea up to Barbra (we were 2.5 hours out of town for the weekend just me and her) she LOST. HER. SHIT. Screaming, crying, stomping her feet… It was like trying to communicate with a toddler who missed their nap. All because it was going to be at Derek’s dad’s house. Basically “everyone is going to think -stepmom- is the mother of the groom instead of me!” on and on, screaming history over 20 years old at me as a justification. I was extremely uncomfortable to say the least, considering I’d never seen this behavior from her. I cried myself to sleep every night that weekend, I felt pathetic and defeated. It went on like that all weekend little digs here and there. by the time I finally got home I broke down crying over how I was spoken to and treated. I mean the woman screamed in my face, as if I was her six-year-old child.
Between then and this past weekend, there has been little digs, constant attitude, and random spiteful acts that let met know she never let go of that weekend because I came home and told Derek, who in turn flipped out on her.
this past weekend was my bridal shower. I grew up about six hours away from where I currently live, which is Derek‘s hometown. Everyone including Barbara and Derek stepmom traveled to be at the shower. I knew it wouldn’t be good when I invited. Barbara and her response was “well I guess if stepmother is going I have to go don’t I?”
Not not only did she begin moving place settings away from stepmother’s table to the point where stepmother was left alone at a table, she told my maid of honor that the only reason my MOH felt the need to sit at my table was “to be the center of attention.” Completely disregarding that I specifically asked to sit with her and the rest of my bridesmaids, considering I don’t live near any of them anymore, and we never get to see each other. Then she tried to kick my aunt and cousin out of her table because it was “the mom table “, only stopped when my mom told her she was staying. She rolled her eyes at my gifts I opened from derek’s step mom. She was also dissing derek’s step mom to every person she spoke to, to the point where 10+ people came to me after the shower telling me how uncomfortable she made them. Derek’s step mom is the sweetest woman ever and she left the shower crying.
There were several other behaviors, but this post would be far too long (it already is). When Derek got home and called her out, she absolutely lost it. Now she is blowing up our phones, saying she is ashamed of Derek and I, and told Derek to “have fun with his new family.” So many nasty remarks a mother should never say to their son. She did her usual playing the victim, “how dare we”, and blaming her behavior on every other person. Zero accountability.
at this point, she has ruined every single event relating to my wedding that I’ve had. She hosted my bachelorette (ruined it by being mean to all of my friends, throwing a gift derek’s step mom made for her across the room in front of everyone while cursing about how stupid and ugly it was) , she came with me to pick up my wedding dress (insisted on getting the one she loved that i hated, told me she didn’t care for the one i got), and she shits all over any idea I present to her. Every time I call my parents. I’m crying over something new that she said to intentionally hurt me or disrupt our planning.
Would I be the asshole if I didn’t allow her to get ready on the bridal suite on the day of? I’m honestly scared for how she act in there now that she thinks “everyone is against her. “ I would prefer for her to not even come to the wedding at all but I’ll let Derek make that call.
Edit: I want to say that Derek has defended me in a way that has made me fall even more in love with him. He’s been stern and harsh, telling her exactly how it is without faltering. The issue is this goes right over her head. I’m feeling like this will only stop if it comes from me.

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Message me if you're interested in the tickets to say the Hawke-man in the flesh! Should be a good time! :)

I know how much newborns are supposed to sleep, and i'm not trying to keep her awake or anything. But the days she sleeps ALL day make me so anxious because I know that most likely means we aren't getting any sleep at night. I do try really hard to keep her entertained when she is awake so she'll make it through a whole wake window, but rarely am I able to. When she wants to sleep, she sleeps.
She's been asleep basically all day except to eat. It's getting close to bedtime and I already know it's going to be a 3-4 hour battle to get her to sleep and i'm just going to be cranky and exhausted all day tomorrow

I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder when I was 13 by a nurse practitioner and a separate psychiatrist. My parents knew I was struggling and wanted to do their due diligence, so took me to a few different doctors/therapists before taking action. I don't blame them at all because they were just trying to help and how were they supposed to know that it was just normal teenage mood fluctuations that caused temporary anger issues? They simply saw me suffering and did what they thought would help. After explaining about 1 intense mood episode I had to all these doctors, and the fact that both my uncle and grandfather suffered from psychotic/detached from reality episodes, I was put on a low dose of seroquel. I don't know how to feel because I know the way I described it was very stark and I can logically see how they would come to the conclusion they did. But I was 13 and didn't know anything about bipolar, I just knew that something was wrong with me for feeling how I was feeling and I wanted help. I didn't really notice any difference with my moods on seroquel so each time I visited the NP I asked her to increase the dose, hoping it would do something. Eventually I got to 600mg. And gave up with expecting it to do anything about the moods and stopped asking for the increases and just stayed on that dose. And I also feel like it's in the range of a "normal" dose so it's not like that in particular raised any red flags. The only reason I stayed on it was that it 1) it gave me apathy and numbed my emotions which, to be honest, was something I didn't mind when my normal emotions were just me suffering from sadness and loneliness. Feeling numb was better than feeling sad, 2) I'm pretty sure I have insomnia and seroquel was the only thing that let me sleep at night and 3) in low doses it acts as an antihistamine so it helped with my allergies. So I can't say that it was entirely unhelpful, but as I went to college and got away from my childhood I realized that when things started happening to me I just... didn't feel anything? People kept telling me I was so incredibly emotionally intelligent, but that was because I didn't have any emotion so relied 100% on logic to make my decisions. It wasn't like I had so much emotions I could detangle them to figure out what they were, I just didn't have any emotions to begin with and you can't detangle something that doesn't exist. I'm now finally weaning myself off seroquel after reading the DSM criteria and doing extensive research and realizing that although some symptoms match up, I don't have nearly enough to actually align with that disease. I'm currently down to 200mg and i'm starting to smell more things, i'm not longer constipated to the point of going #2 hurts, I don't sleep for 10 hours every day, and I can start feeling some emotions again. How do I make peace with the fact that I spent 11 years unnecessarily on this medication, and the only reason the dose got so high was because I, being naive, asked for it? Because I don't expect my health care professionals to say "no, I think I know your body better than yourself and i'm going to dictate what dose you'll be on". To be fair, the anxiety medication they prescribed genuinely did help, and i'm not so much against meds as I think that doctors need to do a better job at explaining how exactly they work, what side effects can happen, and then ask the patient if they would like to try it and what their boundaries/comfortability surrounding it are and follow that lead instead of acting superior and a "let's get as many patients in as possible" sort of deal. Basically being a lot better at informed consent and respecting patients wishes and not treating them like a number. So how do I get past the anger I feel about how much this medication robbed me of normal experiences when I was the person who asked for the increase??? How do you make peace with something like that when it's your fault???