A cute saying for someone turning 21

Gatekeeping turned cute

2019.12.23 02:57 Jayayaje Gatekeeping turned cute

Gatekeeping turned into cute relationships! Relationships between people of all genders are allowed, not just yuri!
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2014.01.26 00:26 Hold my juice box!

Hold my juice box!
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2021.05.01 04:21 GingerNaruto r/ImTheMainCharacter - The Center Of The World

Main Character: People who act like they're the center of the world and worthy of all the attention.
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2024.05.16 17:48 PsychologicalLie6455 Fynn, the Fangbearer destroying our pod!

Title.
We have a group of 5-6 friends and we usually play and end up 3-4 each friday.
2 of them are newer and are still getting used to MTG. Myself and the rest of the group have been playing for 2-6 years, we're somewhat competitive but our rules are pretty simple: No infinite combos, No proxies.
Outside of that our decks are pretty straight forward, we all play staples and whatnot.
I mostly play Yuriko or Edgar Markov Vampire Tribal. Most decks are pretty strong but get real momentum on turn 3+.
One of them has a relatively cheap Fynn, the Fangbearer deck.
Holy shit!
Turn 1: 1 drop 1/1 deathtouch Turn 2: Fynn drop + attack = 2 poison counters Turn 3: +1-2 additional 1/1 deathtouch drops (more if sol ring or other mana ramp because green)
By turn 4 it can get pretty devastating, had an enchantment that made creatures with low power unblockable, he could basically 1 shot anyone at that point. He also rocks proliferate so even if you lock Fynn down, he can sometimes just proliferate and kill everyone after a few turns if the game ends up being a drag.
I know most people will say just remove him or counter him, but turn 2-3 removal is often not possible. Also, if our pod happens to have 1-2 of our newer players, they dont really have time to see shit coming haha.
What would you do in this situation? Build a bit more around removal? Most games we can manage him and focus him, but with deathtouch, it almost seems like removal is the only way to go. We still love playing against it and see it as a challenge. It's funny as the deck costs pennies compared to some of our other decks lol.
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2024.05.16 17:47 GreenpepperAss My final goodbye to you.

Dear stranger,
Once again I find myself writing to you but this time you’re actually gone. I didn’t think it would hurt this bad. I try to tell myself that it’s better that you’re gone but I just remember all the good times intertwined with all the painful words you threw at me. You were such an awful person to me, letting your ego think that you were treating me the best I deserved. You told me I deserved your disrespect because of what I did . Was it that bad? After all the shit you said to me and did to me? Remember how many times I kept my mouth shut after you called me fat, ugly, a bitch, a slut. I know none of those words were true but how do you think it made me feel hearing that from someone I was in love with? And yet you say you still loved me, PFT okay sure. How’s your new girlfriend? Great I’m sure. I feel bad for her, I hope you don’t break her like you broke me. I know you don’t feel the pain I feel right now, using your own words “I only kept you around because I’m used to you” and I kept accepting your disrespect because I loved you too much and didn’t respect myself enough. But now I know my worth, I know that you tried to hurt me as bad as you could so that I could feel insecure enough to stay with you. And yet knowing all of this, I still love you. I love you so fucking much it hurts sometimes, but now that you’re gone I can heal from your disrespect and your fake love. Goodbye.
Also a little extra, thought I would add the message me sent me after everything happened: “I don’t care to talk to you, we are cordial yes. But you don’t mean anything to me, you’re not a friend.”
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2024.05.16 17:47 TheArtzKing Why Do Most Founders And CEOs Underestimate VIDEO Content?

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And Most Of The Time...NON-STOP.
Yet, You Still Underestimate This Asset While You Already Know The Response Or Feedback It Gets...
Today, I, KING Clovis AP, Want To Ask You About Something And In The Process Give You A SIMPLE, Yes, So SIMPLE Assessment.
Question: Do You Have A Device With A Camera? This Can Even Be A Mobile Phone Or Cellphone. Do You Have One?
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Don't Post It...
Just Watch It....Do A Few Of Those Throughout The Week With Different Outfits And Watch Them...Have Your Friends Watch Them Too After Sometime.
Get Feedback...
But First, Critique Yourself.
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And If The Answer Is "YES"
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2024.05.16 17:47 flaired_base Safe Sleep- Am I Overreacting?

To start I'm not going nuclear, not trying to get anyone fired, but the only people IRL i have to talk to are older and don't get why we dont put babies down ont heir tummies anymore.
I went to pick up my daughter early yesterday bc she ran out of milk and I forgot to restock her frozen backup and she was asleep on her belly for her nap. I didn't say anything at the time (she can roll over but doesn't often do it) because it was chaotic in there and another parent was also picking up.
This morning, one of the teachers from yesterday was there so I asked, I noticed she was on her belly, did she roll over or was she placed?
She was honest with me and said "Oh she was placed there, that's how she sleeps. That's how they (the other room teachers) Do you not want her on her belly?" OF course I said no, never.
This teacher is newer in the room but came from another center.
All this is to say this makes me very, very uncomfortable. I dont know how often this happens or who did it- I have picked her up during nap time before and never seen her on her belly before.
I plan to talk to the director about this but my friends are saying it wouldn't be fair to get someone in trouble but this is really out of pocket, right? My understanding is she would need me to sign a waiver even if I did want her on her belly!
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2024.05.16 17:46 Traditional-Lime-863 Help interpreting

I think one of the 3 dreams had reoccurent thing happened. Starts out im with my boyfriend in a house I assume its land or a ranch we are on. Theres a white horse ( i dont own horses) our cat, and newly our dog and other kinds of cats ( i dont own more than dog and cat in real life) anyways supposedly horse is important to his dad (possibly passed down to bf) last dream I lost the horse plain lost and freaked out ended before telling bf. This was similar only instead I decide to ride the horse to my moms work/plaza/movies it was kinda mixing in and out. Im focusing on movies. So i get to the area and the horse isnt stopping I was riding bareback and though I tried stopping it wouldnt. We then fight (weirdly) like I tried grabbing skin on the head and he tried biting and eventually Im flung off? I dont know horse is gone and I know it. thats the end of the only recurring portion of a couple random dreams I had just now. The second part was moms work (chiropactic office). I was walking around she told me be careful and sit in an area with this one lady on her phone. I bump into this bon tray of all sorts of needles like for ivs, taking blood, some oddly like corn on the cob holders i think things like that. She is irritated but i tell her dont worry I did it Ill pick it up. She asks if Im sure and Im like yes. Anyways the doctor (i know in real life) walks in immediately gets upset with her and asking why Im cleaning it. Despite me saying I was the one that did it. Then he starts talking to/about her / maybe me that this isnt just one thing but shows many things like about her cause she isnt a very "good" worker. That he wants better for her. This is where it blends back to the horse cause Im like oh no boyfriend needs the horse i need to find it. But just as everythings cleaned up (doctor helping) suddenly setting changed to sewing needles strewn on the floor. We pick up and then magically or forgotten part skips to a full on kitchen with tile instead of carpet. I know boyfriend needs horse cause the dad is coming or something of the sort. I get back to the house unsure how as I dont have the horse. Unsure if I tell bf or not just see all our pets through out house.
Last part of dream Im in a car taking normal route to work. Street layout the same but buildings surrounding areas are different. Anyways cars are trying to pass illegally. 2 roads but each going opposite direction. It gets weird like reality wise. Cars keeping coming in the opposite direction and then turning a street or passing cars by using my side (the wrong side). One in particular is going to fail a white suv. Its supposed to hit me but somehow it switches at same time (may have waken up at times and going back in to dream only thing that would make sense for the change) it almost hits red car and a motorcycle almost smashes in the middle and Im braking hard as I can. We all manage not to get hit and now the white suv is in front of red car (no idea how) Im laughing incredulously that I didnt crash or get hit. Motorcycle gone. So suv pulls into a corner drug store of some sort red car follows and speeds into parking. I go and park as Im a witness then a bunch of people also gather outside of their cars. Someone tells me nothing damaged but the guy (red car) was smiling.
Anything stand out about the dreams? Usually I dont remember so much vividly. Unless for a reason I need to resolve/come to peace with or just super sleepy enough that the crazy dream comes about.
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2024.05.16 17:46 FLmom67 The word "disability"--so much misunderstanding

We just had a very weird experience at my daughter's doctor's office. She is going to be starting college. As recently as 2020, to get accommodations for disabilities we just had to show proof of diagnosis, then the disability services person went through the Job Accommodation Network to talk about which accommodations might help.
Have things changed so much in 4 years? And why? What's going on? Now colleges have official forms they want doctors to fill out talking about the "level" of disability and all this invasive and impossible-to-answer questions. My daughter has fibro/CFS, so they want to know how many flare-ups she gets per semester?? That's not how it works. It feels so gatekeepy instead of promoting inclusion.
But the doctor! She acted like she thought we were applying for SSDI and kept saying how this would go on my daughter's "record" and "affect her future." I was like "what are you talking about?! This is for a university! Not the government!" It seems like some people see the word "disability" and assume it refers only permanent, can-never-work-again disability?
But it doesn't. The ADA specifies medical conditions for which a person can get accommodations so that they CAN work/attend classes. And this doctor seemed completely unaware of that. I kept saying "no, that's not what this is asking for!" For instance, if someone has migraines, they are allowed to request an accommodation for natural lighting instead of fluorescent. That's a "disability accommodation."
Did we just run into an ignorant doctor? Or is this a new trend? And if so why? And how do I fight it? I ended up getting very upset, but it was just so shocking and unexpected. "Disability" does NOT mean "can never work again." It simply refers to a physical or medical condition that is covered by the ADA and for which employers/schools aren't allowed to discriminate. Maybe I should have pulled up the Job Accommodation Network link to show her? I just assumed a doctor would know these things.
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2024.05.16 17:46 FriendlyWarrior112 25 - UK (if that matters) - Anyone else also seeking a genuine friendship?

Heyo hi!
I've been away from reddit for a little while as I needed to deal with some personal stuff but am once again on the lookout for someone/some people who I can hang with every now and again! I'll jot down my hobbies here and if they resonate/match with yours feel free to drop me a DM! :))
So, here goes:
- Music ~ I play the piano & guitar!, currently learning to sing, still a loooooong way to go though!
- Dance/Fitness ~ I've been trying to get into modern dances like hip hop/street popping styles :D
- Skincare/Fashion ~ Any fashion-fanatics would totally be welcome as I'm trying a big restyle currently, currently working on different hairstyles and outfit designs!! Possibly getting some curly hair into my straight hair soon!
- Video Games ~ I do like to play games every so often, primarily on PC but I do have other consoles too!
- Language Learning ~ Been learning Korean and trying to learn other languages recently too - any tips/guidance or just generic conversations in languages besides English are super welcome
- Cooking/Baking ~ I love baking too, very therapeutic which brings me onto my other hobby:
- Coffee/Drinks ~ I love to make and explore different types of coffee, recently made my own boba tea also :) would looove some tips on how to make my coffees extra creamy!
I do have other hobbies but I'd say the above are probably all my main ones :) I will say though, I am from the UK but my sleep schedule can be pretty scuffed so I'm happy to chat to people from anywhere in the world :)
If anything mentioned takes your interest, drop me a DM and see if we vibe? I do use discord primarily so it's preferred and please be 18+ annd finallyyy, please do not spam me if I don't reply in 15 seconds...!! I will try my best to get back to everyone <3
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2024.05.16 17:46 ardent__ly 2015 Escalades anyone?

Does anyone have any experience or knowledge of what I can only describe as a metal on metal but with like, a thin cloth between them, rubbing, in what would feel like suspension? When it goes over big bumps/takes turns?
We took it to Cadillac in Bellevue and they found a broken motor mount (a dealership let us drive it off their lot like that- it's written in the paperwork they didn't give us til a few days later- we found that detail 3mo into owning it) so Bell Caddy fixed that, shit dealership paid for it, but Bell Caddy basically said "You've just got a clunky car" when it comes to this other rubbing metal clunking. They also imply that "that's just these 2015s"
Please tell me someone has some insight 🙏🏻 Do we need another mechanic? Is this just an issue with these rigs? Also- this Escalade replaced our last- so we're not exactly green. I'm sorry I can't describe the issue better.
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2024.05.16 17:46 Any_Coach_3628 Training Slower Time Controls online is bad for my soul

I use lichess classical to play longer games and try to improve. I’m a top 100 lichess classical player … the cheating on these websites in slower time controls is brutal. Yesterday someone blundered a knight to a tactic in the opening, something really silly, requested a take back that I denied, then went on a random 6 minute think, he came back and won a rook in an accurate series of 5-8 moves. Then left me no breathing room in the endgame, eventually trapping my bishop on h1… I’m ~2290 classical and this happens routinely versus a random 2000. I’ve had games cancelled and the notification just says “cheating detected”.
And don’t get me started on the 1800s who play 40 moves with 0 inaccuracies 0 mistakes and 0 blunders with 96% accuracy in a Classical Sicilian… like bro that is impossible. And then I’ll lose to a regular dude that didn’t cheat and the game is normal and pieces aren’t trapped on h1 in the endgame and I’m like oh this is a normal guy.
What I really hate is losing to a cheater but not reporting him only to see his account closed 2 days later and I never got my rating points refunded. I have tons of games where we get into Endgames and I’m in weird zwishenzungs where I can’t move in say rook and bishop + 2 pawn endgames and I’m like this is literally shit I only ever see IMs and GMs doing. Yet “seedeeznutz” with a 2031 classical rating pulls this off in a 30 minute game.
And I sit there drinking my coffee having wasted 50 minutes of my life and rating points. And my girlfriend comes in and complains that I’m spending too much time playing chess . And the annotation session on chessbase afterwards where I leave notes is like “well I couldn’t move any of my pieces”.
I can’t wait for my USCF event this month so I can see people play actual chess. With real moves. And I’ll watch 1600s blunder. And I’ll watch 2000s blunder. And I’ll know that I’m not insane.
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2024.05.16 17:46 VENHAIAS 21F and everyone one (F&M20-25) are dropping me.. what should i do?

Hi guys.
First of all, sorry for my bad english skills since it’s not my mother tongue and i haven’t practiced in a while tho…
So my issue is that :
I’m 21F and i’ve never been in relationship. in fact, i used to be a pretty girl to others, i was liked by a lot. but i wasn’t interested in anyone like fr…
today, i’m 21, i had crush on women, men but no one literally has ever been in love with me… i have changed since i grew up and took some weight but mentally im kinda the same (but more mature ofc). so.. i don’t really get it..
once people see me, they stop talking to me. and the worst part is that i’m always the third weel of the carriage… moreover the people i thought were my friends are ignoring me for months and didn’t even invited me to their birthday parties or anything..
i still don’t get what’s happening, i had differences in the past with old friends but it was too long ago and i had time to change a bit to be less toxic ig?
i really feel everyone hates me. is that because i glow down? or maybe because im not an interesting person? even though i have passions ?
i don’t get it…
can someone help me to see clearer on my thoughts…?
love yall
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2024.05.16 17:46 Insonmiacibelive The way my AM talks to us made me feel so dumb

My first day on the floor after OP training was going good and then comes the time where I forgot where I had to drop my cage off at bc I had just been told so much information 10 min before I started picking. So I go over to the people who help answer questions we have and guess who’s there? My AM and I asked “where can I drop this off?” Once i get on the right side of the path she just says “give me your scanner” and checks something on there and tells me where I have to drop it off. She didn’t even show me where I could check and the way she talked to me made me feel like I was stupid and she had such a dismissive ass tone. You could just tell on her face she was trying to get the conversation done with. Sure maybe I’m being sensitive, but I’m not the only new hire she’s talked to like that and even one of the learning ambassadors has a nickname for her. When we were doing our tour of the building almost every AM we came across introduced themselves and told us if we needed to ask questions to ask anyone w the colored vests and that “no question is stupid”. And when we met our AM she just said “hows it going?” And turned around and went back to her computer. Rant over, I just had to get it off my chest. I know I can’t expect everyone to be nice. It just struck a nerve.
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2024.05.16 17:45 FriendlyWarrior112 25 - Genuine peeps who may be after a long term friendship of sorts?

Heyo hi!
I've been away from reddit for a little while as I needed to deal with some personal stuff but am once again on the lookout for someone/some people who I can hang with every now and again! I'll jot down my hobbies here and if they resonate/match with yours feel free to drop me a DM! :))
So, here goes:
- Music ~ I play the piano & guitar!, currently learning to sing, still a loooooong way to go though!
- Dance/Fitness ~ I've been trying to get into modern dances like hip hop/street popping styles :D
- Skincare/Fashion ~ Any fashion-fanatics would totally be welcome as I'm trying a big restyle currently, currently working on different hairstyles and outfit designs!! Possibly getting some curly hair into my straight hair soon!
- Video Games ~ I do like to play games every so often, primarily on PC but I do have other consoles too!
- Language Learning ~ Been learning Korean and trying to learn other languages recently too - any tips/guidance or just generic conversations in languages besides English are super welcome
- Cooking/Baking ~ I love baking too, very therapeutic which brings me onto my other hobby:
- Coffee/Drinks ~ I love to make and explore different types of coffee, recently made my own boba tea also :) would looove some tips on how to make my coffees extra creamy!
I do have other hobbies but I'd say the above are probably all my main ones :) I will say though, I am from the UK but my sleep schedule can be pretty scuffed so I'm happy to chat to people from anywhere in the world :)
If anything mentioned takes your interest, drop me a DM and see if we vibe? I do use discord primarily so it's preferred and please be 18+ annd finallyyy, please do not spam me if I don't reply in 15 seconds...!! I will try my best to get back to everyone <3
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2024.05.16 17:45 thr0waw4y-222 Everyone knows except your wife

Everyone knows you're cheating on your wife with a girl who's barely old enough to drink. You say things are rocky and not good at home yet when faced with the perceived threat of someone telling your wife you start sweating bullets. Your wife doesn't deserve this, that girl is to young for you and this is not a good way to deal with your midlife crisis. She knows even if no one told her and eventually someone will. It's not like you're not all over that girl at the bar for everyone to see anyway. It's actually gross and no one thinks you're cool.
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2024.05.16 17:45 Important_Bite4087 in desperate need of help quitting this family

Just started for this family at the beginning of the month. they told me it would be part time but i’m here literally 8 hours a day. both of the parents WFH and it makes my job miserable🥲 the kids always wanna be around them and cry when i have to keep them away from the parents because they’re on work calls. i feel guilty if i even turn on the TV. the parents are always intervening and the kids don’t see as an authority figure because of it. i’m just miserable and they even had me come work when the kids were sick and they got me sick. i literally have broken down and cried here twice on the job because of the kids having melt downs because they know their parents are literally upstairs and can’t see them. i just absolutely hate it here and i have to quit. what do i even say and how do i go about it?
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2024.05.16 17:45 Shot-Chicken-5704 Don't know..

I (23M) matched with this girl(22F) last week, it's going quite well. She is in my city for work for a couple of months.
A little background about myself, I have never been in a relationship and am a terrible texter. I have started exploring the dating world recently.
To be honest when we matched, I wasn't in the mood to pursue anything and was talking casually.
She's good, simple, smart, cute, ambitious everything I would want in my partner someday. We've met once for dinner, short date after work, it was pleasent.
On text she's good, we talk all day about one thing or other, hopped on call a couple of times.
Now you guys must be thinking why I'm here.
I don't know what to do, what to expect. She says she can do long distance. But is it enough time to create a bond that would last long distance? I haven't had any relationships in past and have no idea how long distance works. Plus I usually take time to attach to someone.
Though I find her amazing and we've scheduled dates this weekend.
I don't know what I exactly want to hear here. What do you people think?
Thanks for reading this out though!
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2024.05.16 17:45 letsgoiowa How ketamine therapy turned my life around from the fast track to death and divorce

I'm copying a comment I made elsewhere because I realized it could help here.
I'm totally cool with sharing my experience because I think it's important that people know about it, especially with how effective it's been to me. There are many ways it's delivered and I'll list from cheapest and easiest to most expensive and highest time commitment.
  1. Troche/lozenge: doable at home. Cost me $90 for a 6 week course
  2. Spravato: do this in the office, usually covered by insurance.
  3. IV: this is incredibly expensive $600-$1k a session but the most effective.
I only have experience with the troches, but they were amazingly effective for me. For best results, you need a totally controlled environment that's as dark and quiet as you can get it. Put on sleep shades and put on headphones/earbuds. The heaviest effects last about 3 hours but you won't be able to really do anything productive for another 4 hours, so it only makes sense to do it in the evening.
Not all people have the experience I have, but for me it's INTENSE in a good way. It's borderline psychedelic where I enter a pseudo-dream state and my brain shows me new insights, flips through memories I had locked away, and serves as an "angel on my shoulder" telling me what a good friend or therapist would say. Really, for me it feels like an insanely effective and intense therapy session and it has about the same lasting effects. However, it's no free lunch. My body hurts like hell the next day because it makes my joints feel like they're falling apart. If you have interruptions during it, you WILL have a VERY bad time. It also makes you dizzy, loopy, and definitely unsafe to do stairs or drive. Absolutely only do it at the end of the day.
I'm not sure what other peoples' experiences are, but for me it's great at both kinds of trauma. It's just harder to dislodge chronic lifelong trauma and that will take much more time. It was easier for me to direct it to work on the acute trauma of things like the car accidents, my son in the NICU, my son's seizures, etc. But lately in the past few sessions it's been able to help with the lifelong trauma like neglect, the weird dissociative thing where I locked away basically all memories throughout most of my life, etc
So I have been diagnosed with C-PTSD because of all this crazy stuff and I was unable to function after my son's seizure because that was the breaking point. The event that made it necessary to start this was when I got in a huge fight with my wife insisting she hadn't told me about her life and career plans (??? obviously she had) even though just a few days ago I was actively participating in planning it. I had been getting mad at my wife and son for totally innocent nonsense reasons which I had NEVER done before and I had NEVER acted like that my whole life, which is how my wife knew something was very wrong.
It then exploded into realizing I had been behaving like an Alzheimer's patient because my memory from one day to the next was not continuous: I literally didn't recognize my work documents, where I put things, what I was talking about to people, that I had met people, etc. Every time I opened my work computer it was like I was looking at someone else's computer and I had to piece together wtf I was supposed to do. I didn't remember most major life events (couldn't remember my own wedding, graduation, what my college campus looked like even).
I also could barely go outside because every time sirens from an emergency vehicle went by or even if I just saw flashing lights that vaguely reminded me of such, I would straight up black out or go into "caveman mode."
Post-ketamine, I no longer have random rage. I can access so many more memories and they don't immediately hurt me. I'm able to stay much more present and no longer black out. I have become more patient and tolerant to stress. I have been able to make BIG gains in therapy because blocks in my brain shifted and I became more receptive to outside help. I've learned how to be kinder to myself and take care of myself better. I've hugely enhanced my coping skills. Honestly, before this I was on the fast track to divorce, relationship destruction, and death before this pulled me out of it.
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2024.05.16 17:45 pizza24seven Does anyone else feel like they're going a bit mad?

I suppose this is more of a comment, than anything, but it's truly amazing to me how many people (friends, family, etc.) I speak to about this topic who look at me like I have 2 heads and 4 eyes. When we get into the details (if they actually talk to me about this) they get super defensive when I point out inconsistencies and holes in the RF's timeline (I'm from the US, which this defensive reaction kind of surprises me!). Someone else made a really great post about this subject and how people essentially cannot/do not want to accept that any of these horrible theories are correct / could be correct and proceed to just live in their little world and take everything the RF puts out as true and facts without delving into the full timeline and story - almost like a coping mechanism - because the possible "truth" is almost too traumatic and crazy to bear.
Anyway - truly grateful for this small albeit mighty subreddit and all of you! I'm genuinely concerned about Kate's welfare and my gut has this horrid feeling something is terribly wrong with regard to Kate and perhaps Louis and Charlotte as well. Can't shake this feeling I have she is incapacitated in some way (possibly dead already) and who knows about the other two kids...
I do have one question that I just have no idea about: does anyone have any ideas or theories as to IF/WHEN whatever announcement (???) will possibly go out? I mean it's been almost 6 months since the Dec. 28 episode and the last in-person sighting of K - how long can this truly go on without a in-person appearance of Kate and Louis and Charlotte?
Also - depending on what they "say" happened - what do you think the global reaction would be? If say, they allege she passed from cancer or something.
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2024.05.16 17:45 FriendlyWarrior112 25 - Genuine peeps who may be after a long term friendship of sorts?

Heyo hi!
I've been away from reddit for a little while as I needed to deal with some personal stuff but am once again on the lookout for someone/some people who I can hang with every now and again! I'll jot down my hobbies here and if they resonate/match with yours feel free to drop me a DM! :))
So, here goes:
- Music ~ I play the piano & guitar!, currently learning to sing, still a loooooong way to go though!
- Dance/Fitness ~ I've been trying to get into modern dances like hip hop/street popping styles :D
- Skincare/Fashion ~ Any fashion-fanatics would totally be welcome as I'm trying a big restyle currently, currently working on different hairstyles and outfit designs!! Possibly getting some curly hair into my straight hair soon!
- Video Games ~ I do like to play games every so often, primarily on PC but I do have other consoles too!
- Language Learning ~ Been learning Korean and trying to learn other languages recently too - any tips/guidance or just generic conversations in languages besides English are super welcome
- Cooking/Baking ~ I love baking too, very therapeutic which brings me onto my other hobby:
- Coffee/Drinks ~ I love to make and explore different types of coffee, recently made my own boba tea also :) would looove some tips on how to make my coffees extra creamy!
I do have other hobbies but I'd say the above are probably all my main ones :) I will say though, I am from the UK but my sleep schedule can be pretty scuffed so I'm happy to chat to people from anywhere in the world :)
If anything mentioned takes your interest, drop me a DM and see if we vibe? I do use discord primarily so it's preferred and please be 18+ annd finallyyy, please do not spam me if I don't reply in 15 seconds...!! I will try my best to get back to everyone <3
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2024.05.16 17:45 Lingopietv ¡Órale! Let's Learn Some Mexican Spanish Slang!

¡Órale! Let's Learn Some Mexican Spanish Slang!
¡Bienvenidos a México! Get ready to immerse yourself in the vibrant tapestry of Mexican Spanish slang, where every word is infused with a rich blend of culture, history, and a zest for life. From the bustling streets of Mexico City to the sandy beaches of Cancún, here are some essential phrases to spice up your conversations:
  1. Órale: This quintessential Mexican exclamation is used to express excitement, agreement, or encouragement. It's versatile and can be used in various contexts, from cheering someone on to expressing surpris
  2. Chido/a: When something is "chido," it means it's cool, awesome, or great. Whether you're describing a fun party, a delicious meal, or an exciting adventure, "chido" is the perfect expression to use.
  3. Güey: Pronounced like "way," this word is Mexico's version of "dude" or "mate." It's commonly used among friends and can also be used to refer to someone in a casual or friendly manner.
  4. ¿Qué Onda?: Just like in Argentina, "¿Qué onda?" is the Mexican way of asking "What's up?" or "How's it going?" It's a friendly and informal way to start a conversation.
  5. Padre: In Mexico, "padre" doesn't just mean "father." It's also used to describe something that's cool, awesome, or fantastic. Use it to express your admiration for something you find particularly impressive.
  6. Neta: This word is used to express sincerity or truthfulness. When you say "¿Es neta?" you're asking if something is true or serious.
  7. Chamba: Instead of trabajo (work), Mexicans often use "chamba" to refer to their job or occupation. If someone asks you what you do for a living, you can say, "Tengo chamba de diseñador" (I work as a designer).
  8. Bronca: When there's trouble or a problem, Mexicans might refer to it as "bronca." Whether it's a disagreement with a friend or a difficult situation at work, "bronca" is the word to use.
  9. Pedo: In Mexico, "pedo" can mean a variety of things depending on the context. It can refer to a fart, a problem, or even a party. Use it carefully, as its meaning can change depending on the situation
  10. Mande: Instead of "¿Qué?" (What?), Mexicans often use "mande" as a polite way to ask someone to repeat themselves or to indicate that they're listening.
Mexican Slang
Now that you've got a taste of Mexican Spanish slang, ¡ánimate a usarlo! (Go ahead and give it a try!) Incorporate these expressions into your conversations, and watch as you effortlessly blend in with the vibrant culture of Mexico. ¡Que te la pases chido! (Have a great time!
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It's a fantastic platform that allows you to learn a new language by watching TV shows, movies, listening to audiobooks and music. You can check it out at Lingopie.com! It's a fun and effective way to enhance your language learning experience!
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Got any favorite Mexican slang words or tips for learning Spanish? Share them below! Let's help each other level up our language game
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2024.05.16 17:44 OCD124 My Favorite Monoclass Build

Hello, everyone!
For this build, we're gonna want to take all 12 levels in Battlemaster Fighter. Our feats will be Polearm Master, Sentinel, Great Weapon Master, and Mobile (in that order). The Polearm Master feat let's us make an Opportunity Attack whenever someone gets within our reach, and if we hit, the Sentinel feat will make them stop moving for that turn. We'll use a Glaive, Halberd, or Pike, which all have a reach of 10 feet. In other words , melee enemies are gonna have a really hard time trying to reach us. To make this build even better, Sentinel gives us advantage on our opportunity attacks, we can make ranged NPCs into melee NPCs with Disarming Attack), and even of we miss our opportunity attacks, we can just attack someone a bunch, then go back 10 feet without provoking an opportunity attack because of Mobile! Here's the important gear I'd use:
In total, we'll get +8 to hit, 21 AC, and 127–137 average damage per round (4d10 + 6d4 + 90 or 4d10 + 6d4 + 100, depending on your handwear).
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2024.05.16 17:44 FriendlyWarrior112 25 - Genuine peeps who may be after a long term friendship of sorts?

Heyo hi!
I've been away from reddit for a little while as I needed to deal with some personal stuff but am once again on the lookout for someone/some people who I can hang with every now and again! I'll jot down my hobbies here and if they resonate/match with yours feel free to drop me a DM! :))
So, here goes:
- Music ~ I play the piano & guitar!, currently learning to sing, still a loooooong way to go though!
- Dance/Fitness ~ I've been trying to get into modern dances like hip hop/street popping styles :D
- Skincare/Fashion ~ Any fashion-fanatics would totally be welcome as I'm trying a big restyle currently, currently working on different hairstyles and outfit designs!! Possibly getting some curly hair into my straight hair soon!
- Video Games ~ I do like to play games every so often, primarily on PC but I do have other consoles too!
- Language Learning ~ Been learning Korean and trying to learn other languages recently too - any tips/guidance or just generic conversations in languages besides English are super welcome
- Cooking/Baking ~ I love baking too, very therapeutic which brings me onto my other hobby:
- Coffee/Drinks ~ I love to make and explore different types of coffee, recently made my own boba tea also :) would looove some tips on how to make my coffees extra creamy!
I do have other hobbies but I'd say the above are probably all my main ones :) I will say though, I am from the UK but my sleep schedule can be pretty scuffed so I'm happy to chat to people from anywhere in the world :)
If anything mentioned takes your interest, drop me a DM and see if we vibe? I do use discord primarily so it's preferred and please be 18+ annd finallyyy, please do not spam me if I don't reply in 15 seconds...!! I will try my best to get back to everyone <3
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2024.05.16 17:44 SubstantialTrust2 Super terrified of flying for the first time ever

Hello, everyone! I am by no means new here, as I have been part of this subreddit for quite awhile! But it just so happens to be my very first post within!
This post was supposed to be written the beginning of May, but here I am, composing it only a couple days before my flight!
To say that I am terrified of flying is an understatement! I have never ever been to an airport, have not a whole lot of knowledge about how security works, where to get your ticket, and so on.
Think that I will just list what absolutely terrifies me, makes me nervous, and causes such anticipation. Here we go- Heights, turbulence, taking off, landing, getting air sick, someone next to me getting/being air sick, feeling stuck with nowhere to go, not being in control
Going to take two Dramamine (50 mg) to prevent anything. Hopefully it does the trick and helps, because the last thing I want to add to the mix on top of already being incredibly scared is airsickness!
My flight leaves at 5:53 pm and lands at 8:50 pm, then I have a 1 hour and 53 minute layover, and then about another 1 hour flight, landing at 11:47 pm.(All within the us, total trip time is about 6 hours and 54 minutes!) I am already frightened of flying once, and have no choice but to do so twice!
I realize that this post is all over the place some, but the anticipation is really really starting to kick in, and has been since it became the first of may!
Anybody with words of wisdom for me, or any tips and tricks and or reassurance, I am immensely grateful for! Thank you so much❤️
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