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Date: 2013-07-06
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I happen to be one of the lurking guests who never tip or contribute to any conversations. What are your thoughts on people like me? Is it wrong for me to take my frugal masturbation habits for granted? Also, why do you think people pay such large sums of money for something they can get for free? Some girls are used to getting more so most of the tippers don't even get noticed. They could even get the real thing for the same amount, so why would they choose to spend their money on mfc?	I don't mind guests. Yes, it's nice if you tip, but I'm there because I like to be watched, and also because I want money. If you aren't going to tip, there are going to be people who will. However, don't be offended when guests and basics (non paying members) are muted and can't PM or talk to the models.
	I think people pay so much money because sometimes they have so much of it that they don't know what to do with it. Also, it's pretty customized. If you're watching porn you don't get to tell the actors or actresses what to do. When you're watching a camgirl, you can tell her to bend over and slap her ass. If she doesn't, then you can leave and she loses the business.
I'd tip for nude violin...	Haha well if you don't mind all the screechy sounds! I'm still learning.. I haven't had it too long. I really like playing it though, and I hope that I can become awesome at it someday.
Is "violin" one of your search terms (if it even works like that)? Because getting some culture is never a bad thing, and lord knows I could use some more culture.	It isn't. I haven't really been playing it long enough so I still suck at it. I want to learn how to play well though, so I'm just going to keep practicing. :)
If your BF gets home and you have been working does it get old to be active with him after you have been doing it all day?	I don't live with my boyfriend, but I'm still always up for sex when he's around. Having sex with someone you love is an entirely different feeling than when you're masturbating on camera for near strangers.
It's understandable if you don't want to answer this question, but: About how much money do you pull in on the average night of webcamming? Do the performerss on those cam sites have a circle-thing going, as in do you know eachother? Or is each cammemodel solitary and does their own thing?	On an average weeknight I can get anywhere from $100-$200, depending on how much effort I put into it, what times I'm on, and for how long. On a weekday when I'm on for 1-2 hours I might make $60. It all depends on if my regular customers are on, and if it's a payday.
Huh, this is surprisingly lower than I was led to believe. Still beats a minimum wage job, and you can work from home though!	I'm still new to MFC. I'm only in my second month now. I've been on LiveJasmin, Flirt4Free, and another one quite briefly that I don't remember the name of. By far, MFC has been the best paying. I just need to build up my customer base. LiveJasmin is very boring. Even when I put effort into it, in the end, I would have an empty room a lot of the times. I'm trying to be more regular with the times I go on (it brings more loyal customers) but I don't feel like coming on every day!
This makes me wish I was a smokin' hot female instead of an average-looking dude.	There are guys that do it, too! I've tried convincing my boyfriend to do it, but he says the only people that will watch him are gay old men.
I get livejasmin pop ups too much. even if im looking at porn, surprise porn is never a good thing. it's made me kinda hate that site now the first thing i do when i see livejasmin is close the damn window. i wouldn't be surprised at all if thats what happened to you there.	Maybe. I kind of resent LJ because it takes forever to get paid, and the members were rude.
Thanks for your response! Another question I'm somewhat interested in as well: What is the general consensus of your friends/family that know what you do? Do you find they are most accepting, or more judgmental towards your current employment?	Well, I am also a pharmacy technician, so if someone asks what I do, that's what I tell them.
	Some of my closer friends know what I do. None of them really judged me, at least I don't think so. My boyfriend knows, and he thinks it's sexy. I asked him before doing it though. I was really surprised when he said it wouldn't bother him.
	As for family... my mom and brother know what I do. My mom knows most of what goes on, and my brother just overheard a conversation one time. I had to tell my mom because I live with her, and I can't have her knocking loudly on my door when I'm in the middle of a show. My stepdad thinks I work for a company online and answer questions, sort of like a call-center. He doesn't need to know.
You should hit me up I can give you some good tips. I've been on MFC for three years and I have a lot of experience with camming (10 years). I don't cam but I know most of the ins and outs.	You'll have to send me a pm! I don't know how to do it since I usually reddit on my phone. I do know how to reply to a pm though; I think I've gotten that figured out.
If I may give you unsolicited advice as someone who visited MFC once or twice: The girls who are the most popular seem to be really talkative and capture their audience not only with their body but also with their mind and characters. It's not only tits and ass. :)	Thanks for the advice! I have noticed this.. and I do tend to talk a lot with my customers. I already have a growing base of regulars!
Aside from MFC paying better, are there any major differences between the different sites?	Yes. On MFC, you can be nude in public chat. On LiveJasmin, you get penalized for any exposed breasts or genitals. Also, LiveJasmin works by a dollar amount per minute, whereas MFC is based on tokens. MFC does have tokens per minute for private and group shows though.
What effect do you think your career choice will have on future relationships (sexual, familial, or otherwise)?	I'm going to be a veterinarian eventually. I don't really see it affecting my career in that field. And as for future relationships, I prefer to have open mind-ness in my relationships. If someone has a problem with it, then chances are we aren't going to get along very well to begin with. My current boyfriend doens't mind, and he actually enjoys the fact that I go online and do my webcam things. My mom knows that I do it as well. She doesn't like it, but tuition is expensive. I find it empowering, rather than degrading. All I have to do is show my tits and guys, or girls, will throw their hard earned money at me. All from the comfort of my home!
Tits : 50. Pussy Flash : 100. Save dog's life in 500. Come on guys! TIPS!	Haha! If you don't want these innocent puppies to die from starvation, just 50 tokens a day!
It sounds evil when you place it like that.	Muahahaha! I'll show you my tits for your HARD EARNED DOLLARS!! >;]
I just do not understand why people still can't comprehend that women like sex and being sexual.	Me either. We aren't in the 30's anymore! Women are sexual creatures, too!
Something about your money being HARD earned.	Mmhm. There's definitely something hard about it. ;)
I'm not sure if you know how it's done here on reddit, but we only throw imaginary internet points at girls for showing their tits.	Haha I'm a redditor for over a year. This is a throwaway. :)
The surgeries are far from the worst part... Anal glands, euthanasia, and horrible owners are why I eventually got away from vet med.	Yeah, my previous dog used to have really bad anal glands. I was at the vet's getting them expressed almost once a month. It smells terrible and is quite icky. I can handle it though.
As a side note, if you see this, what kind of vet do you plan on being? I'm on the way to either doing dairy or beef cattle. Mayyybe equine, maybe. Fucking horse people.	I want to specialize in reptiles and wildlife. I'll also do cats and dogs though. If I can't do both reptiles and wildlife then I'll spring for just reptiles. I love scaly creatures!
How long have you been at it? Weirdest fetish you've indulged? Weirdest fetish you wouldn't indulge? Do you find a lot of cam guys want to just chat and make a connection with someone? Ever made a real life connection with a client?	I've been doing it for about a year now. The weirdest fetish that I've complied with was a urine fetish. There wasn't much too it.. all I had to do was pee in the bathtub while I rubbed myself. And yes, there are a lot of guys that just want someone to talk with. I try to avoid those types because I do have a boyfriend, and while he doesn't mind that I am a camgirl, he would mind if I made an emotional contact with a client. I did have a connection starting to form with a client before.. and as soon as I realized it was happening I told him I was sorry but I couldn't speak with him any more. My boyfriend is more important to me than any of my clients.
As a previously screwed over boyfriend, it's refreshing to know women like you are available in the world. Kudos.	I'm sorry that you were screwed over. There are still women out there.. you just have to find them! Honesty is honestly THE MOST important thing in a relationship, in my opinion. If nobody has lied, there will be no misconceptions, hurt feelings, or much base for argument. It's best to be completely open.
Favorite memory?	One time I got paid to talk to a guy for about 10 minutes in a private chat about how I enjoyed the beach, and then I showed my tits for a little bit while we chatted. It was very casual and I enjoyed it! :)
How much ?	I believe I ended up getting around $17 for 10-15 minutes of being in private.
How often do you have chats like this? Like someone paying to just have a normal conversation with you instead of "whack off time"?	It doesn't happen too often. I actually try to avoid it because I don't want to form any sort of emotional connection with any clients.
You answered 14 hours after you started this IAmA. that's impressive.	I was answering questions last night and went to bed. I had to go to an orientation when I woke up, and when I came back I had over 500 comments! I did put an edit in my AMA saying I was going off for the night.
Do cam girls really like seeing his whack off, or is that just pillow talk?	I can't speak for all camgirls.. but I do enjoy it. It helps me get to climax, especially if the guy has a nice cock or if he's attractive.
if he has a nice cock or is attractive. So... 3% of your customers?	Actually, most of the customers appear to be in their 20s! I'd say about one in five is 40 or over. At least the ones that I view the webcams for. This was actually the most surprising thing that I learned when I started.
Whoa... not only do cocks have to be big but nice too? Man my self confidence is dwindling here.	Haha they don't have to be! It's definitely a plus though. Think about the flipside; If you're into curvy girls.. is it going to be easier for you to get off looking at a bodacious body rather than a stick figure with ribs sticking out?
They just think its more fun to jerk off in front of you then to watch porn, probably a lot of guys with gfs on there.	I actually come across a lot of guys who will say that they have 'x' amount of time to be on before their wife/girlfriend/fiance gets home.
What's the worst you've seen?	I've seen a guy tie his dick off with a shoelace and ask me to tell him to abuse himself. I asked him to smack himself in his balls, and he did. His dick turned a very dark purple and I started to get concerned so I told him to take it off... lol.
Good news, he should be safe up to 4 hours. When the body tissue is deprived from fresh blood that's when it starts to die, but until then you're good! (hence the "seek medical attention for an erection lasting 4 hours" because after that your penis starts to die)	Well that's definitely good to know! It was still a frightening sight, though.
To be sure, anything where you see a potential risk of injury is cringe-worthy. I dated a girl who wanted me to hit her during sex... not in a fun way. Well, time to eat some pie!	Oh! That reminds me. I once had a guy who wanted me to do anal with the heel of my high heel. I thought about it, then started to do it, and then realized I could probably seriously injure myself because the tip had metal on it. Needless to say, I did not do it.
How did you get started in being a camgirl? Did you just send someone a picture of your tits and say "I want to show people these?" What's the application process like?	Well, I pretty much just had to fill out an online form with my name, address, ID info, and I believe SSN. I then had to upload a picture of myself, a picture of myself holding my ID, and a photocopy of both sides of my ID. It didn't take long at all before I could sign on and begin work.
Wow, seems really easy. I would have thought they'd require like a portfolio of certain shots or something. Thanks for doing the AMA, good stuff!	No problem! I saw that the last AMA for a cam-girl was a year or so ago.. so I thought we could use another one here :)
	And LiveJasmin required me to send in a few pictures, but MFC only needed one I believe.
What's the funniest thing that's happened to you while on the job? And thanks for doing this AMA!	Well, some guys make amazingly hilarious faces when they orgasm. It's hard to keep a straight face when a guy looks like he's going all super saiyan with his dick. And I once had someone that wanted me to put a vaccuum cleaner to myself. I did it, but while the cam was off of my face I was silently laughing.
How come after I got AdBlock, not as many girls have been dying to meet me in my area?	Because AdBlock keeps out all those pesky whore-ads!
Can we get a hint to your username at least?	Sure, it's SexxiiBabii69.
That seems like a pretty good hint. I might be able to figure it out!	Haha, just maybe!
Rated 5 stars and admired, and will check out your cam the next time I'm on! Thanks for doing this AMA, it has been quite interesting!	Oh, well thanks! And I'm trying to answer all the questions... I didn't expect it to go from 150 comments to 500 overnight!
What is your honest opinion of guys who pay for your service?	I don't really have any opinion. I'm happy when I get paid, and I'm not a very judgmental person. However, when a guy says that they have a significant other... I do tend to get a little judgemental. I feel like hiding things from your SO is something that shouldn't be done. If you feel like you can't tell your boyfriend or girlfriend something, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
You do realize, your business is 90% guys who "shouldn't" be doing it.. That's most likely WHY they're willing to pay for this, because they don't have a chance to be with anyone other than their SO in real life and want to have a little fun without the repercussions of doing it in real life.	I do realize it. I feel kind of bad, but at the same time, they don't have to be in my room. They have the freedom to leave at any time. I'm not trying to seduce any married men; they're already there and signed up and buying tokens.
How big are your tits?	34DD :)
Do you have any 'special tricks' that you do whilst on cam?	I try to do something for all of the guys on there-- the ass men and the tits guys. So when I'm performing.. I'll be front-faced to the camera sometimes, and then I'll switch it up and go doggy style towards the camera. I also try to dance and striptease.
ass men and the tits guys. Is there a reason you used 'men' and 'guys' for ass-lovers and tits-lovers respectively?	Yes; I didn't want to sound redundant. I like mixing it up. :)
No nude pics? :(	I posted one already! But here's another.
You are a kind and generous woman. Do you have any of you playing the violin? All of the sudden I have a thing for that, for some reason.	I do not! If I can get one later I'll post it up in the place where I edited for the AMA though. :)
You from Romania?	I am not! I'm from Orlando, FL. :)
Hey, I'm a camgirl on mfc and I live in Orlando too! We should do a show together :P	Maybe-- what's your username?
Oh snap, you probably go to UCF just like me.	Just got accepted for next semester. :)
I think I know who you are, then. Is it alright if I confirm by asking another question about your name?	Go for it! And what's your name as well?
Are you still on? I didn't know links/referrals weren't allowed since actors are often promoting their movies here.	I am not still on, I actually have to get going to bed soon. I'm going to an orientation in the morning so I can begin volunteering at another animal shelter! :)
	But I think links are allowed, I just didn't want anyone to assume I was doing this AMA to promote myself. My profile is myfreecams.com/#SexxiiBabii69 , I believe. If not, you can probably look me up by my username, SexxiiBabii69.
Has your boyfriend ever been a part of your show? Have you ever been asked to include him by a viewer?	We actually had an account together on LiveJasmin, but since we don't live together and we both live with our families it was a little hard to pull off. And yes, I have been asked to include him by some of my customers. I tell them I'll oblige as long as they give me enough time to get him to come over. I'm also saving up for an HD video camera so that we can record our own home-made stuff, and I can record some solo videos as well. I can sell those on my profile page. All I have right now are pictures. I do have one video, but I'm not sure how I would get it to a paying member because the file is too big to send through email. It would have to be password protected too, so that the link couldn't get spread among members. I'll figure it out eventually. I'm not too worried about it right now; camera first.
Yes, but if you have any questions for the mods, it would be better if you message us directly. Link to www.reddit.com.	Thanks. So am I verified now, then?
Is that your natural hair color?	That picture was taken in the shower, but yes. I don't dye my hair any more. I used to, but I ended up damaging my hair so much that I had to have it cut shorter than an inch.
How did you get started? Do you work outside of this profession?	I got started on LiveJasmin. I used to just randomly look through the models sometimes and think, "I'm prettier than a lot of these girls.. I could probably do this.." It started off as a need for extra money, but now I just enjoy doing it. And yes, I am a pharmacy technician as well.
What if instead of either of those he's a hairy beast with the clock of a ten year old boy? A friend of mine was asking.	Then I'll watch if he's paid for it-- but I won't get much, if any, enjoyment out of it.
As someone with both of those things, this post made me sad.	Aww, I'm sorry! Remember though, this is just me.. someone out there might enjoy it! You just have to find that person.
Do you think you could make money with your clothes on?	Yes, and I have! I get tipped sometimes for just sitting there and talking and being friendly. I've been tipped while playing my violin fully clothed before!
	If you're referring to something outside of the cam-world, then that is a yes as well. I'm a pharmacy technician.
Is it difficult to get into a serious relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriend given your line of work?	No. I actually have a boyfriend. I started camming about a month into our relationship. I asked him if he would be okay with it before I even started. It turns out that he actually thinks it's pretty sexy.
Does he join in the chat room?	As far as I know, he hasn't. I did invite him in last night but he didn't join in because he was already on his way to bed.
What are a few of the things you have seen that are deem worthy of telling while you are working?	Well, there's the guy that tied the shoelace around his dick. There's also this guy that wanted to show me how far he could cum. I thought that he was like all guys and thought that he was super special, but this guy literally shot his load from one side of the bed to the other... longways. I've seen someone stub their toe while almost orgasming, and another guy fall off of his bed. Hilarious. I managed to keep a straight face though.
Have you ever considered mainstream porn? Has anyone ever asked you to do porn? Will you be in my porn?...	I've been potentially offered a mild porn with nothing too sexual with another girl. I asked my boyfriend about it, and he said he would be fine with it, so if the offer comes through, I'm going to do it!
Porn.	And no, but thanks for the offer! :P.
Most viewers you ever got?	It was on a Friday night. I probably could have gotten more, but I was tired and felt like going to bed after I finished my show. On a night when I'm trying I'll get about 100 people in my room. I'm still sort of new on MFC, so I don't have the client base yet.
Do you make good money from it?	On LiveJasmin, no. On MFC I made $400 my first paycheck (for two weeks) for three days of being online, and $150 my second paycheck for being online one or two days. I recently switched to MFC. I didn't like LiveJasmin or Flirt4Free.
What percent of the tips do you get?	For every token I get $0.05. It depends on how many tokens the members buy at once as to how much of the percentage I get. The more tokens they buy, the cheaper they are for them.
Many of the free users aren't of age 18, how do you feel about having so many teenagers watching your shows? I mean shouldn't they be playing video games?	I don't have any control over that. If they're in my room and they shouldn't be, then that's not my issue. If they say that they're underage in public chat, though, I do tell them that they should leave.
Do you think guys are hornier than girls?	I think that guys are, in general, hornier than girls. I also think that people are vastly different;one girl could have an insane sex drive while the next has none, just as with guys.
Why?	Why not? I enjoy being watched, and I can make money from it!
This is coming from someone who uses Camsites very regularly. Why does almost every single camgirl put their sexuality as Bisexual. I understand that a lot of them are. But I swear, I almost never see Gay or Straight. Is it just a coincidence, or do they do it so that they can attract a wide variety of viewers?	Probably so that they can attract a wide variety of viewers.
	I am sexually bisexual, but not emotionally. I don't think I could ever love a woman, but I know I could have sex with one.
Do you happen to know why some countries are banned? I tried to login for about 6 months and it kept redirecting me, saying that probably my country was banned or that some regions weren't available. I managed to find a way in though...	Well, some of the models choose to ban their home country. If you can't access any of the models though, I'm not too sure. And I don't know about the token limit either... you could always try e-mailing their support!
What can you see when youre online that we cant see as users?	I'm not sure, since I've never seen it from the user side.
Do you see how many token's users have?	I can see how many people are viewing me, and how many of those are guests. I can also see which members and basics (people who have signed up but not purchased tokens) are in my chatroom.
How many people are viewing you etc?	And as for getting the most money out of clients.. I just try and be friendly and accommodating. Like I said earlier, I try and show a little something for everyone.
Any strategies for getting the most $ out of clients that work?	I can see how many tokens a user has if they allow it.
I'm thinking of being an MFC camgirl myself and actually filled out the form and sent in the pic in all, but then chickened out. I was mostly turned off by the idea of giving them my SSN. Do they just need it to deduct taxes?	They need it so that they know that you're able to work in the United States, I believe. And they do not deduct taxes, so you'll need to set aside money for when tax time comes.
Do you ever find your customers fostering a false sense of community or real friendship with you? If so, is it something that you actually encourage or do you think it's just a bi-product of the intimacy of what you're doing? I ask because I once visited a site called Chaturbate and found it a little unnerving to see how the blokes (what turned out to be largely middle aged men) thought they were engaged in some emotionally invested relationship, yet at the same time were tipping large some of money to these women just to keep them responding. It was all very surreal to me, but is this a common thing?	I suppose so. I've seen it in some of the popular model's chatrooms. I do tend to take a liking to some of my regulars, but I don't get emotionally attached. If someone is a big tipper, they get more things; it's as simple as that.
How often would you say you fake orgasm(s) for your customer(s)?	It depends. If someone is pressuring me because of a time limit, then I will. If I'm doing a public show, I finish when I orgasm.
My friend is planning on starting on that site. What are some basic tips you could give her for starting?	Be friendly, smile, and talk with the clients! The more regularly you're on, the more regular customers you'll have.
What is your set up like? I've cammed on Cam4 before and made some decent money there. I've tried MFC but it seems it can be a process to get started. Just curious what kind of cam you use, how you have it positioned and all that good stuff :)	I had a MicrosoftLifeCam HD 600, but I upgraded to a Logitech C920. I just position it on top of my computer monitor, and I'm good to go! It's all about the way you move your body and what you have in the background. My bed is behind me when I'm on my computer, so sometimes I'll turn on my zoom feature and do things on my bed.
Has anyone every recognised you offline or have you recognised a client? I imagine it would be ultra awkward.	Not yet, but I imagine it might be pretty awkward too! Hopefully if anyone recognizes me they would just keep it to themselves.
What is the deal with the Romanians on MFC? Like 75% of the women on that site seem to be either Romanian and Colombian.	I'm not sure! I noticed on LiveJasmin that a lot of the models don't speak English very well either.
Do you ever feel embarrassed about taking your clothes off in front of people?	Not really. Every now and then I feel insecure, like a lot of girls, but I feel like nakedness is totally natural, and I just push through my insecurities.
	I've actually found that since I've started doing webcam, I'm more comfortable in bed and feel less insecure.
Do you think an average-looking girl in lingerie (not nude) would be able to make money as a camgirl?	I don't see why not! As long as you have the personality for it you should be able to do well.
As a curious member of a couple interested in the industry, do you think that performing as a couple is worth while or that people enjoy just a woman more in a pay for performance environment? (Fuck a throwaway)	I do get more people in my chatroom when I am by myself rather than when I'm with my boyfriend. However, why not do both? It gives you and your SO something to talk about, plus you can discover new things together that you may not have tried before.
Sorry if I missed this, but do you have a link to your CamShow so we can support you?	My profile is: Link to profiles.myfreecams.com

Last updated: 2013-07-10 05:37 UTC
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Hi everyone,
I've read this subreddit for a while under a different username, and I am now ready to give this a try. Something happened tonight that convinced me that I HAVE to ditch my porn/masturbation addition if I am going to have a happy future with my wife-to-be.
I've been masturbating since I was 13. Initially I didn't have much access to porn, but as soon as my family got Internet in the mid-90s it was all downhill from there. I exposed myself to increasing levels of material, but really just about anything will get me off, from bikini pics to hardcore. It's almost always been in complete secret. I admitted my addiction to a hospital counselor once but surprisingly she didn't seem to think it was a big deal. But no one else knows, especially my fiance.
I'm going to get married in six months. I've been with my fiance for three years and we've lived together for one year. That whole time, the addiction to porn/masturbation hasn't stopped. I thought at first that moving in with her would be a good time to kick the habit, since it would be harder to get away with, but I never did-- I just got sneakier and, frankly, more desperate for those moments when she wasn't home and I could do my thing.
I hate myself for it a lot. I know it affects our relationship because we don't have sex nearly as often as is normal. We have sex about once a month, and I have to work myself up to it. Sometimes sex with her almost feels like a chore I have to get through, although once we get into it, I do enjoy myself. But I have to think about pornographic imagery from memory in order to climax while we're having sex.
Anyway, tonight I took things a step further and visited LiveJasmin for the first time. I went into a private room with one of the women and masturbated. Afterwards I felt like I had betrayed my fiance. This was a step beyond porn-- it was interacting live with a real woman who gave me sexual gratification even though there was no physical contact. I was looking at porn leading up to my decision to go on LiveJasmin, and afterward I realized that I have taken the next step on a downward spiral of betrayals.
So I need to cut this off at the source. I'm sitting in front of my computer right now, with my hidden porn folder open, ready to delete all of those files forever. 57.5 gigs of porn. Yet there is still part of me screaming not to do it, a part that can't let go of that precious porn that I've masturbated to so many times.
But I'm about to take the plunge. I've done purges of porn before, but I never actually stopped masturbating. Previous purges were done out of fear that someone would discover the folder; I never had the intention to quit masturbating or looking at porn altogether. But I understand now that the sexual energy I am wasting in selfish masturbation, I should be giving to my fiance, to enhance our intimacy and love. I have to do this.
I think this is a wonderful place for support for those of us who recognize that we have a problem and want to make a commitment to break the porn/masturbation cycle (or just the porn cycle), regardless of whether we are single or married. I hope that I find a welcoming place of support here as so many others have.
Regards