The short story is this:
I(34F) have been with husband (33M) for 10 years. He's a wonderful man but suffers from extreme anxiety and generally poor mental health and thusly struggles to help me with any big stressful decisions in life. Lately as stress has risen he has started not only not helping me with big decisions but panicking and getting in my way. I am starting to wonder if it's worth it to continue to stay with someone who has such a negative outlook on life and massive anxiety that he's just not a good partner when things are rough in the mental load department. While I understand and feel so bad for him that he's going through something as rough as severe anxiety and depression, it's also been quite hard on me and makes me feel unstable about my own future. And if I do stay with him, how the heck do we move forward?
The long story is this:
We've been together for over 10 years. My husband has extreme anxiety. He has been going to therapy for it (although he's having to take a break right now because we're both between jobs), and generally working on improving his mental health all this time. I'm proud of him for that--it's not an easy road. A lot of people refuse to even try. I've definitely noticed improvements. In many ways he's a wonderful man.
But any time things are stressful I feel like I have to handle them alone because he just can't. Asking him to help with things like deciding where to move, what to do with our careers, finances, tricky family stuff, and even planning our wedding a few years ago mostly just sets him off. And it's not abusive or anything, but he'll either shut down and just stare into space (a trauma response I'm sure), or just like attach to some random tangent and refuse to talk about the issue, or just get mad and grit his teeth and say "fine" over and over. To be clear I don't think he has bad intentions in doing this, I think he literally just cannot process it. To some degree I'm like "eh I'd have to do this for myself anyways" but I'm also like "man I wish I could talk to him about what to do about mom getting older" for example. I've suggested for a long time that he could do something like pick up a book on finance basics and read it himself, I don't need to be involved (because if I'm teaching him that's stressful for him). But the reality is he hasn't learned even basic finances even though I've explained to him multiple times it's really important. The very idea of finance just scares him too much.
With finances for example, this backfires because he doesn't understand things like a budget exactly. I'll say "ok, we can only spend XYZ this month. I know the credit card would *let* you spend more than that, but we need to not do that. I don't want to cap it in case we need it for something though". This kind of conversation will trigger anything from "Omg we are broke and about to die of starvation" with a side of panic attack or basically behavior like I'm gonna go spend more because I feel out of control of my life with any restrictions. The dumb thing is if I just don't tell him about a budget and do things like say "Hey would you mind cooking a steak tonight" it's totally fine. But like...I don't want to feel like I have to manipulate him into staying on budget. It feels awkward and also unstable to me. This all feels especially stupid because we're actually fairly well off money-wise--but we can't afford "eat at steakhouse 3 times a day" and this is enough to set him off because he's just so detached from understanding money it's kind of all or nothing for him.
Lately stress has been extra high -- we're between jobs (but have ample emergency fund), family stuff is piling up, we've had to move, and I've made it clear our relationship is struggling lately because of this whole topic. So he's been doing weird things that to me I consider a threat to our safety. He'll stare at his bank account for hours. It makes me worry he'll do something crazy. I feel like a mega bitch for even considering "hey maybe I take your bank passwords and hold them for right now" because I'm like "are you just gonna start smashing buttons out of fear and drain all your money???". Thankfully I recognized this weird behavior a long time ago and my finances are pretty separated from his but like if we stay together I'd be responsible for him too so it's still like "Please don't go do something crazy like move all the money into some account you don't understand because you read about it for 5 minutes online". Also lately when he's applying for jobs he's been only applying for jobs he's way overqualified for or that are based in some random area that pays a lot less. He has a lot of anxiety about not being good enough if he applies for the types of jobs I tell him to (I am senior in the same field). I decided to remove myself from the equation (I get it can be hard hearing these things from your wife) and connected him with a career coach (he very much likes working with the coach) but he's still just doing stuff like applying for entry level positions even though he's far ahead of that.
And this type of behavior is where I'm like "Ok this is no longer you're sweating in the corner while I decide what to do about mom" it's like "You are making bad financial decisions that impact both of us because you're afraid and refuse to actually engage in a conversation with me where we actually talk about it and solve the problem." Like sure, he'll sit there, but he's just saying "fine" over and over or parroting back what I say without actually understanding. It's like every conversation I have with him on a stressful thing is him trying to figure out how to get out of the conversation without me "getting mad". Which is totally again a trauma thing from his childhood. I usually just end up sighing and saying "Okay...this is going nowhere, I guess I'll just go handle it..."
Then the other day when I was explaining some expenses he had the gall to say "I don't trust you with money!!!" and I was just sort of like "???" because this dude has made me manage his accounts since 1 month into dating him LOL. I was like "Do...do you think the rent just pays itself? Do you think the fridge is just magically full of food all the time? Do you even know what a credit score is and why yours is so high now? Do you think your portfolio magically built itself? You don't trust me? You've implicitly trusted me all this time because you refuse to do any of this yourself but I don't want our lives to suck so I handle it."
I bring up finances because it's the easiest to explain without context of family stuff for example but this behavior extends to many parts of our life that are "stressful".
He's super willing to do things if I do the mental load associated with it. Like ok, I figured out all the stuff about mom needing a nursing home and the logistics of that. Help me move her in? Absolutely, no problem, will 100% show up and be happy to help. Physical labor or anything repetitive where I've helped laid down structure is generally usually fine. That's part of what makes me figuring out what to do next is so hard. He wants to be better. But I'm still just like "Please don't go exploding our life because of your anxiety."
I feel stuck. I understand why he's doing these behaviors but it's like...ok I'm still left out in the cold on things. And then to get something as ungrateful as "I don't trust you with money" as if all my work on it wasn't real...ugh. And if I just leave him be a lot of the time it's fine, but if I press him on it things almost always get worse because all he does is add panic to my stressful situations. If he doesn't think too hard life isn't that bad and we can do things like go out with friends, but if I question him even a little it sets him on an anxiety and depression spiral. And I mean something simple like "Hey our friend said they're kinda tired and not sure if they want to go out tonight. You think we should maybe cancel?" Off he goes on "my friends all hate me". In this case I'm like I don't want to deal with him spiraling so I'd just make a decision on my own and be like "hey everyone, lets cancel tonight I'm not feeling the best" I do the mental load of figuring out that my friends wanted to cancel anyways and what feels like a lie to spare his feelings. Again I just feel like I'm having to manipulate things into being smooth as opposed to talking them out. Feelsbadman. And in this case I'm on the fence like "ok we'll he has to learn to deal with it" and don't want to be infantilizing him but sometimes for my own sanity I'm just like "I don't have energy for husband doom today" because it's such a constant thing. Sometimes I take the "I'll just do the executive decision for everyone so I can get on with things" choice. Which feels shit but I feel like the alternative is "deal with sad boy hours every night".
I feel lonely in the big decisions of life. I feel his lack of understanding mixed with his poor mental health is making him incapable of truly being grateful because he just can't understand everything I've done. Sometimes I just get straight up resentment because I do things like explain our budget. I so desperately want to make things work but I feel so incredibly stuck on these things after having tried to improve them for so many years.
Does anyone have advice on how to move forward?
Thank you for your time.

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Hey fellow entrepreneurs!
I'm excited to share a productivity tool I recently launched that's been a game-changer for my team's email workflow: Toggles for Outlook.
We all know the struggle of repetitive emails. Toggles helps you automate those tasks and free up valuable time to focus on what matters most - growing your business!
Here's what Toggles for Outlook can do for you:

• Effortlessly insert customizable email templates with dynamic variables for personalized communication (say goodbye to copy-pasting!).
• Create and manage multiple dynamic email signatures to elevate your professional image across the team.
• Automate repetitive actions like adding attachments and links with a single click (no more time wasted searching for files).
• Boost team collaboration with shared templates, group rules, and more

What makes Toggles different?

• Goes beyond basic Outlook features: Unlike "My Templates" and "Quick Actions," Toggles offers dynamic content and action bundling for a truly streamlined experience.
• Free plan to get started: Try out the core functionalities for free, then upgrade to premium plans for advanced features and team collaboration tools.

I'd love to hear from you!

• Are you struggling with email overload in your team?
• What are your biggest pain points when it comes to email communication?

Feel free to shoot me a DM or reply with any questions/comments/feedback!
P.S. Here are some helpful links:

• Website: https://www.gettoggles.com
• Download Toggles for Outlook: https://appsource.microsoft.com/en-us/product/web-apps/WA200006828

Hey fellow entrepreneurs!
I'm excited to share a productivity tool I recently launched that's been a game-changer for my team's email workflow: Toggles for Outlook.
We all know the struggle of repetitive emails. Toggles helps you automate those tasks and free up valuable time to focus on what matters most - growing your business!
Here's what Toggles for Outlook can do for you:

• Effortlessly insert customizable email templates with dynamic variables for personalized communication (say goodbye to copy-pasting!).
• Create and manage multiple dynamic email signatures to elevate your professional image across the team.
• Automate repetitive actions like adding attachments and links with a single click (no more time wasted searching for files).
• Boost team collaboration with shared templates, group rules, and more

What makes Toggles different?

• Goes beyond basic Outlook features: Unlike "My Templates" and "Quick Actions," Toggles offers dynamic content and action bundling for a truly streamlined experience.
• Free plan to get started: Try out the core functionalities for free, then upgrade to premium plans for advanced features and team collaboration tools.

I'd love to hear from you!

• Are you struggling with email overload in your team?
• What are your biggest pain points when it comes to email communication?

Feel free to shoot me a DM or reply with any questions/comments/feedback!
P.S. Here are some helpful links:

• Website: https://www.gettoggles.com
• Download Toggles for Outlook: https://appsource.microsoft.com/en-us/product/web-apps/WA200006828

Exploring Firebase's Email Integration Capabilities

Integrating email functionalities into applications has become a staple for enhancing user engagement and facilitating vital communications. The fusion of Firebase Cloud Functions with Nodemailer presents a robust solution for developers aiming to send emails programmatically. This combination leverages Firebase's scalable backend services with Nodemailer's email sending capabilities, offering a seamless way to implement notification systems, user verification emails, or custom messaging solutions. The flexibility and efficiency provided by Firebase Cloud Functions allow developers to execute backend code in response to events triggered by Firebase features and HTTPS requests, without the need for managing a server.
Utilizing Nodemailer within Firebase Cloud Functions involves setting up a Node.js environment where you can deploy functions that send emails using SMTP or other transport methods supported by Nodemailer. This setup not only simplifies the process of sending emails but also introduces a level of customization and control over email content, recipients, and timing that is invaluable for creating personalized user experiences. As we delve deeper into the specifics of implementing this solution, it's essential to understand the prerequisites, such as having a Firebase project and configuring the necessary authentication for email services, ensuring a smooth and secure email communication channel within your application.

Exploring Cloud-Based Email Solutions

With the advent of cloud computing, developers have been able to leverage powerful backend services without the need for extensive infrastructure management. Firebase Cloud Functions represent a cornerstone of this evolution, offering a scalable and serverless environment where functions can be executed in response to various events within Firebase's ecosystem. This capability has profoundly impacted how applications are developed, particularly in the realm of automated email communications. By integrating Firebase Cloud Functions with Nodemailer, a popular Node.js module for email sending, developers can automate email workflows efficiently, enhancing user engagement and application reliability.
The combination of Firebase Cloud Functions and Nodemailer opens up a plethora of possibilities for application developers. From sending personalized user engagement emails to automating transactional email notifications, the integration caters to a wide array of email-related needs. This approach not only simplifies the development process but also ensures that applications can scale seamlessly with demand. Moreover, it underscores the importance of utilizing cloud functions for backend tasks, allowing developers to focus more on the user experience and less on the complexities of server management and email server configuration.

Command	Description
firebase init functions	Initializes Firebase Cloud Functions in your project.
npm install nodemailer	Installs Nodemailer, a module to send emails with Node.js.
require('nodemailer')	Includes Nodemailer in your Cloud Function to send emails.
functions.https.onRequest()	Defines a Cloud Function triggered by HTTP requests to send emails.
transporter.sendMail(mailOptions)	Sends an email using Nodemailer with specified mail options.

Advancing Email Automation with Firebase and Nodemailer

Integrating Firebase Cloud Functions with Nodemailer for email automation presents a paradigm shift in how developers approach communication strategies within their applications. This integration facilitates a seamless, serverless architecture that allows for the dynamic sending of emails based on specific triggers or events within the application. For example, developers can set up functions to automatically send welcome emails to new users upon registration, send password reset emails, or even dispatch customized marketing messages. This level of automation is crucial for maintaining an ongoing engagement with users, ensuring that the application remains a constant presence in their digital life.
The technical synergy between Firebase Cloud Functions and Nodemailer leverages the robustness of Firebase's backend services with the simplicity and flexibility of sending emails through Node.js. This combination not only streamlines the development process but also opens up new avenues for creating more interactive and responsive applications. By handling email operations in the cloud, developers can significantly reduce the complexity associated with managing email servers and scalability issues. Furthermore, this approach provides developers with more time to focus on the frontend and user experience aspects of their applications, knowing that the backend processes are efficiently managed by Firebase's scalable infrastructure.

Setting Up Firebase and Nodemailer

Node.js Environment

const functions = require('firebase-functions'); const nodemailer = require('nodemailer'); const transporter = nodemailer.createTransport({ service: 'gmail', auth: { user: 'your@gmail.com', pass: 'yourpassword' } }); exports.sendEmail = functions.https.onRequest((req, res) => { const mailOptions = { from: 'you@gmail.com', to: 'recipient@example.com', subject: 'Email from Firebase', text: 'This is a test email sent from Firebase Cloud Functions using Nodemailer.' }; transporter.sendMail(mailOptions, (error, info) => { if (error) { console.log(error); res.send('Error sending email'); } else { console.log('Email sent: ' + info.response); res.send('Email sent successfully'); } }); }); 

Enhancing Communication through Firebase and Nodemailer

Integrating Firebase Cloud Functions with Nodemailer for email functionality is not just about automation; it's a strategic move to enhance application communication channels. This integration facilitates real-time interaction with users, allowing for instantaneous feedback and notifications. Whether it's a welcome email upon user registration, password resets, or custom transactional emails, the combination ensures that messages are timely and relevant. This immediacy boosts user engagement and trust in the application, as users appreciate quick and relevant communication. Moreover, leveraging Firebase's scalable infrastructure means that as your user base grows, your application's emailing capability can scale accordingly without additional overhead or complexity.
Beyond user engagement, this setup also opens avenues for analytics and personalized marketing strategies. By analyzing user interactions and behaviors, developers can send targeted emails that resonate with the user's preferences and actions within the app. This level of personalization is crucial in today's competitive digital landscape, where users expect not just functionality but also a tailored experience. Furthermore, since Firebase Cloud Functions are inherently serverless, developers can focus on crafting these personalized experiences without worrying about server maintenance, uptime, or scalability issues, thereby dedicating more resources to feature development and user experience enhancements.

Frequently Asked Questions on Firebase and Nodemailer Integration

1. Question: Can Firebase Cloud Functions send emails directly?
2. Answer: Firebase Cloud Functions themselves cannot send emails directly. They need to integrate with an email service like Nodemailer to send emails.
3. Question: Is it secure to use Nodemailer with Firebase Cloud Functions?
4. Answer: Yes, it is secure as long as you properly manage and secure your authentication credentials and use secure connections to send emails.
5. Question: Can I use Nodemailer to send emails to multiple recipients?
6. Answer: Yes, Nodemailer supports sending emails to multiple recipients. You need to specify the recipient addresses in the 'to', 'cc', or 'bcc' fields.
7. Question: Do I need a dedicated email server to use Nodemailer with Firebase Cloud Functions?
8. Answer: No, you don't need a dedicated email server. Nodemailer can use SMTP servers of popular email services like Gmail, Outlook, etc.
9. Question: How can I handle attachments in emails sent through Firebase Cloud Functions and Nodemailer?
10. Answer: Nodemailer allows you to attach files to your emails by specifying the path or URL of the file in the attachments array in your mail options.
11. Question: Is there a limit to the number of emails I can send using Firebase Cloud Functions and Nodemailer?
12. Answer: The limit depends on the SMTP server you are using. For example, Gmail has a limit on the number of emails you can send per day.
13. Question: How do I monitor the success rate of emails sent through my application?
14. Answer: You can use Nodemailer's callback functions to track the success or failure of each email sent and log this information for monitoring purposes.
15. Question: Can I customize email templates using Firebase Cloud Functions and Nodemailer?
16. Answer: Yes, you can create custom HTML templates and use them in your Nodemailer email options to send styled and personalized emails.
17. Question: How do I ensure that emails sent through Nodemailer don't end up in the spam folder?
18. Answer: Ensure that you're using a reputable email service, set up SPF and DKIM records correctly, and avoid using spam trigger words in your email content.

Wrapping Up Firebase and Nodemailer Integration

The integration of Firebase Cloud Functions with Nodemailer stands as a testament to the power of serverless architecture and its impact on modern application development. This combination not only streamlines the process of sending automated emails but also opens up a myriad of possibilities for engaging with users in a personalized and efficient manner. The scalability of Firebase ensures that as your application grows, your ability to communicate with your users does not become a bottleneck. Furthermore, the use of Nodemailer for email functionalities introduces flexibility in terms of email customization, delivery, and analytics. As developers continue to embrace these technologies, the potential for creating more intuitive and responsive applications becomes increasingly apparent. Ultimately, this integration exemplifies how leveraging cloud functions and email services can significantly enhance the user experience, providing a reliable and scalable solution for application communication needs.
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Hello Reddit,
I come seeking some insight into my actions this past Mother's Day to see if I am truly out of touch with reality and everything good in this world.
Let me set the stage, this is important; We met over 2 years ago. As with any new relationship there's that initial period where everything is new, you're exploring each other. A few weeks later she was celebrating her daughter's birthday. We had bought her an iPad together. She set it up while everyone was eating cake with the family and unfortunately never checked what synced. Her daughter saw photos and videos of me and made a big scene. She turned 8. She also has a son she adopted away a few years back before going to prison.
Since then she has freaked out every time I am mentioned. Full on meltdown. As such we've had to keep our relationship a secret and hidden. Removed me from all social media and has me muted on Messenger, just to keep the peace with her daughter. This has been going on for almost 2 years in a couple of months.
This Saturday before Mother's Day she went camping with her kid and sisters kids. I didn't know at first, we usually talk in the mornings before she spends the weekend with the kids, our usual morning routine. Sent her 3 messages in the morning, one around lunch and one in the afternoon. She didn't respond until nearly 6pm where she said she went camping and sent pictures.
It was raining for me so I told her I was jealous and wish I could be there. I love her, I'll see her tomorrow, have a great evening and all that. If she or the kids needed anything to just let me know, I'll make myself available. Like 3 short messages and one just spanning 4 lines.
Mother's Day comes around and I sent her a message in the morning telling her shes the best mom and woman in the world, she works so hard for us, try her best and take care of business. She's a gift and a blessing. Told her she's amazing and I love her.
I got a single "Love you" back an hour later. I went to my parents for lunch a little after 9 and texted before going saying I had saved $200 for that day for her so if she or the kids wanted anything to use my card and hoped she liked my gift. (Scented candles and a silver necklace with her birthstone in a heart shape)
Get back from lunch a little after 11 and sent her another message and told her I made a post on FB. Basically just recognizing her for the amazing woman she is and attached 3 of the most beautiful pictures I have of her, two of them where she posed with her daughter. Told her to get something for herself or take the kids out to eat.
3:35pm rolls around, she hadn't seen any of my texts so I text her saying I'm sure she's being kept extra busy today and I wish we weren't apart on special days like today and holidays but hopefully it changes soon and that she liked the gift I had gotten for her.
I didn't expect her to respond so after sending her the text, I went on FB and saw she had posted a new header picture of her kids playing the ipad while sitting on the bed with them, being visited by the son she adopted away. I thought it was beautiful and shared it to my FB with a heart emoji.
Not even a 2 mins later she responds back telling me to "Chill the fuck out, I'm spending time with my daughter!!!"
Followed by: "Dude I'm fucking blocking you! Who the fuck are you to put pictures up of are you fucking serious!!!"
I quickly respond: "I'll remove it"
And she said: "Posting pictures of my daughter so she could possibly see or her dad flip the fuck out!!!" and she blocked me.
Later that evening she still hadn't unblocked me so I sent her an email telling her to please talk to me, I apologize if I did something wrong or to upset her, all she needed to do was voice her disapproval and tell me to remove it. (As I already had) Why do it like this?
She responds back telling me to "Leave her the fuck alone" because she's not "dealing with this psychotic behavior all the fucking damn time. Your mom can be in the hospital dying and you don't post a thing about it, but you put a fucking picture up of my adopted son! Are you fucking serious!".
My response back was I don't post sad shit on Facebook. Never have, never will. I post things that make me happy. I didn't make a post when any of my grandparents died, (last one this Jan), when I was going through 2 surgeries + 7 months of chemo and radiation for melanoma, and certainly not with tubes and wires coming out of my mom. Wasn't even a thought that crossed my mind in the middle of it.
So, Reddit, was I wrong here? Am I so morally wrong and out of touch with reality that I got what I deserved?
I haven't heard from her since. She has used my card though.

https://planckstorytime.wordpress.com/ Hello! This is an essay analyzing the themes of FF7 Rebirth through a psychoanalytic lens, while also critiquing the execution of the game's writing. Moreover, it's a personal reflection on my journey with the game, and the complicated feelings that got tangled up with that. Please give it a read if you have the chance.
Previous articles: FF7: Reflections of a Traumatized Generation (2020)
I Need to Talk about Final Fantasy VII Remake or My Head Will Explode (2021)
Excerpt: “A confluence of worlds… and emotions. Loss, chief among them. It engulfs fleeting moments of joy, transforming them into rage, sadness, hatred.”
– Sephiroth, Final Fantasy VII Rebirth (2024), speaking to me, specifically
*The following contains spoilers*
I. Memoirs of a Neurotic Fan
Hoo boy.
It’s been a long four years since Final Fantasy VII Remake (2020) released, and I don’t think I have ever before devoted so much emotional energy to deciphering how I truly feel about a piece of media. Initially, I enjoyed my return to a reimagined world of lovable characters, but unfavorable writing choices and a mind-boggling finale left me feeling torn. Despite striving to maintain an optimistic outlook at the end of my previous essay, my perspective on the game only darkened as the years wore on. Developer interviews constantly oscillated back and forth as to whether they would remain faithful to the original FF7 (1997), or, as the ending of Remake indicated, strike out on a brand new “unknown journey.” That’s not to mention the downright radioactive discourse among fans, combined with the litany of harassing messages I received for the most tepid criticisms.
Eventually, I grew to despise Remake. The positive emotions and ecstatic love I had for parts of the game sunk beneath my waves of ire toward its creative divergences – as well as what they represented to me. And I fed that hate. I hated its ponderous navel-gazing about the nature of adaptations. I hated its self-congratulatory insinuation that asinine story decisions like the “Baby’s-First-Metacommentary” Whispers and the resurrection of multiple deceased characters somehow constituted “bold” storytelling. I hated the uncritical portion of certain audiences that fell for this illusion of transgressive storytelling, all the while embracing a game that went out of its way to barrage the player with fanservice and puerile pandering. I hated the frequent argumentation that “it’s not a remake, it’s a sequel” was somehow seen as a mitigating factor, when it actually further aggravated my problems with it. I hated Remake’s emphasis on novelty, its subversion without meaning, its arrogant alienation of new audiences that wanted to experience a classic story, and its implicitly cynical view on thousands of years of storytelling tradition for the sake of “surprise.” To quote director Naoki Hamaguchi:
“When you try to remake a game and make it an entertaining game, having the exact storyline as the original would lack the excitement and surprise. I was looking for an essence to add to the story, and Zack was chosen to be this essence because in the original, there wasn’t much story about Zack, but in Crisis Core, he had a huge character development.”
But that lonely ember of hope persisted; after all, I had loved Remake at one point. I hated that stubborn attachment most of all. By the time Rebirth was fully unveiled, I wanted only one thing from it: to repulse me to my core, to be something so egregiously offensive to my sensibilities that I could never associate the project with anything positive again. “Perhaps if things get stupid enough,” I thought, “others will also see the emperor’s nakedness.” Pain and despair morphed into objects of desire for me. They were my keys to escaping these contradictory feelings of love and hate.
As you can see, I am quite well-adjusted and able to engage with art in a healthy way.
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https://planckstorytime.wordpress.com/ Hello! This is an essay analyzing the themes of FF7 Rebirth through a psychoanalytic lens, while also critiquing the execution of the game's writing. Moreover, it's a personal reflection on my journey with the game, and the complicated feelings that got tangled up with that. Please give it a read if you have the chance.
Previous articles: FF7: Reflections of a Traumatized Generation (2020)
I Need to Talk about Final Fantasy VII Remake or My Head Will Explode (2021)
Excerpt: “A confluence of worlds… and emotions. Loss, chief among them. It engulfs fleeting moments of joy, transforming them into rage, sadness, hatred.”
– Sephiroth, Final Fantasy VII Rebirth (2024), speaking to me, specifically
*The following contains spoilers*
I. Memoirs of a Neurotic Fan
Hoo boy.
It’s been a long four years since Final Fantasy VII Remake (2020) released, and I don’t think I have ever before devoted so much emotional energy to deciphering how I truly feel about a piece of media. Initially, I enjoyed my return to a reimagined world of lovable characters, but unfavorable writing choices and a mind-boggling finale left me feeling torn. Despite striving to maintain an optimistic outlook at the end of my previous essay, my perspective on the game only darkened as the years wore on. Developer interviews constantly oscillated back and forth as to whether they would remain faithful to the original FF7 (1997), or, as the ending of Remake indicated, strike out on a brand new “unknown journey.” That’s not to mention the downright radioactive discourse among fans, combined with the litany of harassing messages I received for the most tepid criticisms.
Eventually, I grew to despise Remake. The positive emotions and ecstatic love I had for parts of the game sunk beneath my waves of ire toward its creative divergences – as well as what they represented to me. And I fed that hate. I hated its ponderous navel-gazing about the nature of adaptations. I hated its self-congratulatory insinuation that asinine story decisions like the “Baby’s-First-Metacommentary” Whispers and the resurrection of multiple deceased characters somehow constituted “bold” storytelling. I hated the uncritical portion of certain audiences that fell for this illusion of transgressive storytelling, all the while embracing a game that went out of its way to barrage the player with fanservice and puerile pandering. I hated the frequent argumentation that “it’s not a remake, it’s a sequel” was somehow seen as a mitigating factor, when it actually further aggravated my problems with it. I hated Remake’s emphasis on novelty, its subversion without meaning, its arrogant alienation of new audiences that wanted to experience a classic story, and its implicitly cynical view on thousands of years of storytelling tradition for the sake of “surprise.” To quote director Naoki Hamaguchi:
“When you try to remake a game and make it an entertaining game, having the exact storyline as the original would lack the excitement and surprise. I was looking for an essence to add to the story, and Zack was chosen to be this essence because in the original, there wasn’t much story about Zack, but in Crisis Core, he had a huge character development.”
But that lonely ember of hope persisted; after all, I had loved Remake at one point. I hated that stubborn attachment most of all. By the time Rebirth was fully unveiled, I wanted only one thing from it: to repulse me to my core, to be something so egregiously offensive to my sensibilities that I could never associate the project with anything positive again. “Perhaps if things get stupid enough,” I thought, “others will also see the emperor’s nakedness.” Pain and despair morphed into objects of desire for me. They were my keys to escaping these contradictory feelings of love and hate.
As you can see, I am quite well-adjusted and able to engage with art in a healthy way.
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My colleague and I came across a problem today where he had been sent a Visio file with an extension "vsdm" via email. When he went to open this attachment from Outlook, it treated it as a HTML file and opened a browser.
To note: 1. Default Apps by File Type is set to Visio 2. After some googling, the common answer I'm finding is Outlook uses the Default Apps configuration above 3. I have checked the attachment and confirmed the extension, I have not tried it on my own device though.
Any advice?

https://planckstorytime.wordpress.com/ Hello! This is an essay analyzing the themes of FF7 Rebirth through a psychoanalytic lens, while also critiquing the execution of the game's writing. Moreover, it's a personal reflection on my journey with the game, and the complicated feelings that got tangled up with that. Please give it a read if you have the chance.
Previous articles: FF7: Reflections of a Traumatized Generation (2020)
I Need to Talk about Final Fantasy VII Remake or My Head Will Explode (2021)
Excerpt: “A confluence of worlds… and emotions. Loss, chief among them. It engulfs fleeting moments of joy, transforming them into rage, sadness, hatred.”
– Sephiroth, Final Fantasy VII Rebirth (2024), speaking to me, specifically
*The following contains spoilers*
I. Memoirs of a Neurotic Fan
Hoo boy.
It’s been a long four years since Final Fantasy VII Remake (2020) released, and I don’t think I have ever before devoted so much emotional energy to deciphering how I truly feel about a piece of media. Initially, I enjoyed my return to a reimagined world of lovable characters, but unfavorable writing choices and a mind-boggling finale left me feeling torn. Despite striving to maintain an optimistic outlook at the end of my previous essay, my perspective on the game only darkened as the years wore on. Developer interviews constantly oscillated back and forth as to whether they would remain faithful to the original FF7 (1997), or, as the ending of Remake indicated, strike out on a brand new “unknown journey.” That’s not to mention the downright radioactive discourse among fans, combined with the litany of harassing messages I received for the most tepid criticisms.
Eventually, I grew to despise Remake. The positive emotions and ecstatic love I had for parts of the game sunk beneath my waves of ire toward its creative divergences – as well as what they represented to me. And I fed that hate. I hated its ponderous navel-gazing about the nature of adaptations. I hated its self-congratulatory insinuation that asinine story decisions like the “Baby’s-First-Metacommentary” Whispers and the resurrection of multiple deceased characters somehow constituted “bold” storytelling. I hated the uncritical portion of certain audiences that fell for this illusion of transgressive storytelling, all the while embracing a game that went out of its way to barrage the player with fanservice and puerile pandering. I hated the frequent argumentation that “it’s not a remake, it’s a sequel” was somehow seen as a mitigating factor, when it actually further aggravated my problems with it. I hated Remake’s emphasis on novelty, its subversion without meaning, its arrogant alienation of new audiences that wanted to experience a classic story, and its implicitly cynical view on thousands of years of storytelling tradition for the sake of “surprise.” To quote director Naoki Hamaguchi:
“When you try to remake a game and make it an entertaining game, having the exact storyline as the original would lack the excitement and surprise. I was looking for an essence to add to the story, and Zack was chosen to be this essence because in the original, there wasn’t much story about Zack, but in Crisis Core, he had a huge character development.”
But that lonely ember of hope persisted; after all, I had loved Remake at one point. I hated that stubborn attachment most of all. By the time Rebirth was fully unveiled, I wanted only one thing from it: to repulse me to my core, to be something so egregiously offensive to my sensibilities that I could never associate the project with anything positive again. “Perhaps if things get stupid enough,” I thought, “others will also see the emperor’s nakedness.” Pain and despair morphed into objects of desire for me. They were my keys to escaping these contradictory feelings of love and hate.
As you can see, I am quite well-adjusted and able to engage with art in a healthy way.
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https://planckstorytime.wordpress.com/ Hello! This is an essay analyzing the themes of FF7 Rebirth through a psychoanalytic lens, while also critiquing the execution of the game's writing. Moreover, it's a personal reflection on my journey with the game, and the complicated feelings that got tangled up with that. Please give it a read if you have the chance.
Previous articles: FF7: Reflections of a Traumatized Generation (2020)
I Need to Talk about Final Fantasy VII Remake or My Head Will Explode (2021)
Excerpt: “A confluence of worlds… and emotions. Loss, chief among them. It engulfs fleeting moments of joy, transforming them into rage, sadness, hatred.”
– Sephiroth, Final Fantasy VII Rebirth (2024), speaking to me, specifically
*The following contains spoilers\*
I. Memoirs of a Neurotic Fan
Hoo boy.
It’s been a long four years since Final Fantasy VII Remake (2020) released, and I don’t think I have ever before devoted so much emotional energy to deciphering how I truly feel about a piece of media. Initially, I enjoyed my return to a reimagined world of lovable characters, but unfavorable writing choices and a mind-boggling finale left me feeling torn. Despite striving to maintain an optimistic outlook at the end of my previous essay, my perspective on the game only darkened as the years wore on. Developer interviews constantly oscillated back and forth as to whether they would remain faithful to the original FF7 (1997), or, as the ending of Remake indicated, strike out on a brand new “unknown journey.” That’s not to mention the downright radioactive discourse among fans, combined with the litany of harassing messages I received for the most tepid criticisms.
Eventually, I grew to despise Remake. The positive emotions and ecstatic love I had for parts of the game sunk beneath my waves of ire toward its creative divergences – as well as what they represented to me. And I fed that hate. I hated its ponderous navel-gazing about the nature of adaptations. I hated its self-congratulatory insinuation that asinine story decisions like the “Baby’s-First-Metacommentary” Whispers and the resurrection of multiple deceased characters somehow constituted “bold” storytelling. I hated the uncritical portion of certain audiences that fell for this illusion of transgressive storytelling, all the while embracing a game that went out of its way to barrage the player with fanservice and puerile pandering. I hated the frequent argumentation that “it’s not a remake, it’s a sequel” was somehow seen as a mitigating factor, when it actually further aggravated my problems with it. I hated Remake’s emphasis on novelty, its subversion without meaning, its arrogant alienation of new audiences that wanted to experience a classic story, and its implicitly cynical view on thousands of years of storytelling tradition for the sake of “surprise.” To quote director Naoki Hamaguchi:
“When you try to remake a game and make it an entertaining game, having the exact storyline as the original would lack the excitement and surprise. I was looking for an essence to add to the story, and Zack was chosen to be this essence because in the original, there wasn’t much story about Zack, but in Crisis Core, he had a huge character development.”
But that lonely ember of hope persisted; after all, I had loved Remake at one point. I hated that stubborn attachment most of all. By the time Rebirth was fully unveiled, I wanted only one thing from it: to repulse me to my core, to be something so egregiously offensive to my sensibilities that I could never associate the project with anything positive again. “Perhaps if things get stupid enough,” I thought, “others will also see the emperor’s nakedness.” Pain and despair morphed into objects of desire for me. They were my keys to escaping these contradictory feelings of love and hate.
As you can see, I am quite well-adjusted and able to engage with art in a healthy way.
Continue Reading

1. Move your head slightly to the left until you are looking over your nose with your left eye. You can also tilt your chin up and to the left ever so slightly. The goal is to use your left eye instead of your right eye. It’s called eye dominance. You can also just close your right eye.

This should unblock your sinus if it is blocked (meaning if you have a flu and you do this, it unblocks your sinus)
But what it does for your mind is it switches hemispheres. You will no longer be able to have words attached to your thoughts, for a while. So your mind will be blank.
I personally know it works every time I try it, but I don’t do it for long, maybe only half an hour.

When we think, we identify as our thoughts. “I need to do this” we attach the value of “I” to the voice inside our heads, so you just focus on the true idea “I am not my thoughts”….. you have to realise this and then it’s up to you when to use it. You then can start immediately being aware of your breath, and then if you focus on how the breath makes your belly/chest expand and contract, and control it by slowing it down and feeling it, a peace comes over you.
But everyone you think again, it will go away.
Sometimes we need to identify as thoughts in order to figure something out or we are forced to by psychosis, I am not claiming this is the cure, I am claiming it is for a while.
Peace

I use the online suit for work stuff and for whatever reason a recent update to the suit has made it disproportionately difficult to find basic applications like Word, Excel, Powerpoint, etc.
Previously, I'd click the menu in the top left from my email inbox and I'd have all the usual suspects. Now I have Office 365, Outlook, Teams, Loop, Clipchamp, Project, and a whole host of other useless to me stuff.
When I open Office 365, it still doesn't allow me to select apps, but instead I have to open individual files and attachments. I can't edit things from my inbox, it has to be saved into my OneDrive to open.
So when I do open it, Word and such work just fine, so it's not like my access has been disabled, it's just disproportionately difficult to access this stuff.
I've had to create bookmarks to Word for this. And I couldn't find Powerpoint, so I had to play with the URL and change it to direct towards Powerpoint.
What is the reason/function of this change, and is there anything I can do just to go back to previous functionality besides browser bookmarks on my work laptop?

Cash App Customer Support 1955 Broadway, Suite 600 Oakland, CA 94612 05/13/2024
I am writing to formally address multiple unresolved issues I have experienced with your service, which have compelled me to consider legal action.
Five days ago, I attempted to make a purchase from Walmart through your platform but was incorrectly informed that I had blocked this merchant. Given that I frequently shop at Walmart, I was surprised and concerned by this message. Upon contacting your customer support, my account was unblocked, and I was able to complete the transaction. However, when I tried to make a subsequent purchase on Amazon, I encountered the same issue again. This series of errors on your platform prompted me to attempt to cash out my funds to my bank account, which was then flagged as suspicious activity.
The lack of resolution from your customer support team has been deeply frustrating. I have made multiple attempts to resolve these issues over the past five days, including a call this morning where I requested to speak with a manager. Unfortunately, the call was terminated by your representative after I was informed that a manager was not available. Furthermore, subsequent calls ended abruptly when I informed your representatives that I was recording the conversation, with the justification that Cash App does not consent to being recorded. It is perplexing that Cash App reserves the right to record calls for quality assurance while denying customers the same right, especially when it concerns the resolution of their service issues.
The continued lack of communication and the abrupt manner in which my calls have been handled have left me with no option but to seek legal recourse. Therefore, I am considering filing a claim in small claims court to address these grievances formally. I hope to resolve this matter amicably and urge you to respond promptly to this letter with a solution to the issues stated.
Thank you for your attention to this matter. I look forward to your swift response.
Dear Cash App Team,
I am writing to urgently address unresolved issues with my Cash App account, impacting my ability to manage finances and conduct transactions. Despite multiple attempts to resolve these issues through customer support, I have yet to receive an effective solution or adequate communication.
Issue Summary:

• Merchant Blocking Error: Five days ago, an error occurred during an online Walmart purchase, incorrectly indicating that I had blocked the merchant. After contacting support, the issue was temporarily resolved, allowing the transaction to proceed. However, the same error recurred shortly afterward during an attempt to purchase on Amazon.
• Bank Transfer Issue: Further attempts to transfer funds to my bank account were erroneously flagged as suspicious activity.
• Customer Support Challenges: I encountered significant issues with customer service, including abrupt terminations of calls. Specifically, calls were ended by representatives when I informed them I was recording our conversation for my records, citing that Cash App does not consent to being recorded.

Financial and Emotional Impact:

• Direct Financial Losses: $100 due to failed transactions.
• Incidental Costs: $50 in bank fees and related costs.
• Consequential Damages: $50 from missed opportunities to purchase essential items.
• Emotional Distress: Severe distress exacerbating my pre-existing anxiety and panic disorders, significantly impacting my mental health. I am requesting $500 for these emotional damages.
• Compensation for Time and Stress: An additional $100 for the time and stress involved.

Total Reimbursement Request: $800, accounting for financial discrepancies and emotional distress.
Account Closure and Payment Instructions: Upon resolution of these issues, I request that my Cash App account, currently holding a balance of $105.71, be permanently closed. Please wire the total amount of $905.71, which includes my current balance plus the damages, to one of the following accounts:
[REDACTED]
Additional Notice: Should these issues not be resolved promptly, I will seek legal recourse through a small claims attorney and post a YouTube video reviewing the fairness of your response.
Action Required: I urge a prompt review and reimbursement of the aforementioned amount to my account. Your immediate attention is crucial as this situation has deeply affected my financial stability and mental health.
Conclusion: I am hopeful for a swift and fair resolution and look forward to your prompt response. Please contact me directly at your earliest convenience to discuss this matter further. I have attached a copy of the police report to this email.
Sincerely, Erin James Carney

Trigger Warning: SA and Homophobia
Hello. This will be my very first post in this subreddit. Actually, I find myself uncertain of the purpose behind this writing. Perhaps it serves as a channel for me to unravel the complexities of my life while maintaining anonymity.
Let me start by "introducing" myself. I am a 22-year-old college student who remains financially reliant on my parents. Over time, I've perceived my thoughts and perspectives as diverging from the norm, a perception that endures to this day. Despite encountering individuals with shared experiences within the community, I find it challenging to establish meaningful connections—a somewhat unexpected occurrence given my self-awareness as an empath.
It all started when I was really young. I got exposed to concept of sex at a really young age. My memory of it is vague. I was probably around 7 or a couple of years older. A cousin from my father's side has been living with us for several years; he was around 15 when he first came to stay. During one of his visits, two of his older brothers, who were on vacation, also stayed with us. One of them, who was particularly talented in drawing, was studying to be a seminarian. As a child who loved art, I admired him greatly and eagerly anticipated his visits to our home. One day he and the cousin that was living with us invited me to their room while my parents and sister was away. They told me "Tuturuan ka ni Kuya mag drawing if laroan mo to". I'm sure you know where this is going naman na. Both of them were able to convince me to do it to both of them. The reason I mention this because I have become hypersexual and I think this is the main factor. Ever since then, I craved the feeling and became engaged in hook-up culture during grade 7. I did have interest in romance but it never really worked out since I really craved it and I was always seen as dirty and in turn I see myself that way as well.
My family is far from perfect, like any other family, I will not be talking about it here. I will just mention a part of it that is relevant to what I'm trying to convey (whatever that may be to be honest). For context, my father is extremely homophobic and emotionally unavailable. Most of the loving that I receive is from my mommy. Anyways, I have a medical condition that manifested during late high school and got worse in senior during high school. An incident happened at school wherein I had one of the attacks caused by my condition so I needed to be sent home. My mom was unavailable at that time so they had to call my Father. When he came to pick me up from school, he put up a good face sa infirmary nurses and doctors. But when we reached the car. Sobrang galit niya sakin because apparently I inconvenienced him. Our house is far from my school and the entire 30-minute ride home he just kept shouting at me and telling me how much of a burden I am to the family and to him. We arrived and he immediately left. As soon as heard gate close I broke down. I screamed and shouted "I wanna kill myself" our helper was there trying to comfort me. But then my Father came back cause he forgot his wallet and he saw the whole thing. His rage came back. He went straight to the kitchen and took a knife out and pointed it at me. "Sige na ako na gagawa para sayo" our helper dragged me out of the house and into our outhouse and our other helper was there and locked the door and she called my mom. All we heard from there was plates and glass breaking and screams. My mom rushed home and tried to calm my Father down. My mom has long known about my sexuality and she thought the only way he would calm down was telling him about it. And it "worked". The ruckus stopped and I was called to go back. They were all seated sa lounge and he talked to me. Told me these words non-verbatim "Tanggap kita. Pero sana di mo makalimutan kung sino ka. And di mo kalimutaan na alagaan sarili mo. Simula ngayon kailangan mo mag-aral mabuti para yumaman ka kasi mga katulad mo kailangan ng pera para may magmahal sayo. Tingnan mo sina Vice Ganda mayaman kasi sila kaya may nagmamahal. Si Ate mo may magmamahal diyan kasi babae yan. Eh ikaw wala. Kaya tandaan mo yan." So that's basically how I came out to my Father. His words still echo in my mind. Until now, I believe that no one will love me. Damaged goods some would say. I'm ugly, an "adaptive" personality that some perceive to be a flaw, and extremely low self-esteem."
This homophobia from my Father continued throughout and has continued to haunt me. I once brought a male friend over for a sleepover that I asked permission for. He apparently did not know that I brought a guy. He immediately assumed that I was gonna have sex with that guy in my room. He went to my room gun in hand and called me out. Talked to me outside while my friend was inside. Sabi niya sakin "Wala ka na ba respeto sakin sa bahay ko pa talaga? Anong klaseng tao ka na ba talaga? Demonyo ka na ba? Ang dumi-dumi mo na. Pauwiin mo na yan." It was 12 am that time, and I had to ask my friend to leave. I wasn't even allowed to take him home or even walk him to our gate. After he left, my dad sat me on the dinner table and continued his sermon "Ano na ba plano mo sa buhay? May sakit ka na nga tapos ganyan ka pa? Abnormal ka na tao! Hirap mo na nga tawagin na tao! Kailangan mo na bumawi kaya sana naman bumawi ka gumawa ka ng mabuti."
While all of this is happening I have never cried. I have grown used to all of this. Sometimes, in order to cry, I just need to look at rain or listen to something or just sit in silence, or even experience something happy. And for context, I am not a rebellious child. I have always asked for permission, and I do well in school. "Nasa culto ka na ba. Ano na nasa future mo? Ano na gusto mo mangyari? Abnormal ka eh wala na ako makita para sayo? Paano ka na magfufunction. Sa sakit mo palang tapos ganyan ka pa na tao! Ang hirap!" He continued.
Another time is when I was hospitalized for a month, and one night he was the only one available to be my guardian he told me this "If given the choice na sasabihan ako ng doctor na hahayaan ka nalang na mamatay. Papayag ako, mas pipiliin ko mommy mo at sister mo." He told me those words while I was in a hospital bed with tubes and wires attached to me as he held my hand. These are just some examples of the words and memories that echo and are engraved deep in my mind. I titled this post I am abnormal because it is what I believe to be true now. It's how I see now. I think writing this now will help me unpack everything. In any case, I will strive for change because amidst all of it, I really love my mother. No matter how much I hate myself. My love for my mother is what keeps me going. Perhaps in the future, my personal outlook will change. Perhaps, I may find the person I can feel love for and can feel love for me no matter how ugly I am both inside and out. We never really know. So cheers to everyone struggling, I believe that we all have the capacity to thrive in our own ways. As for me, I am on a journey to find my strength for that capacity.
Anway, that was pretty long. I'm sorry I had a lot to say. Thank you for reading this rant/storytime. Advice and Inputs are very much welcome.

Okay I need advice…To start off with this story. I graduated high school last year and as soon as I turned 18 I got on Seeking. Honestly I don’t come from money and I was headed to college soon my dads a single dad so I decided to find a way to pay for school. It wasn’t my best idea but I did it. I also was a virgin at the time and had a lot of guys texting me. I was going to meet this other guy the day I met my now current boyfriend/sugar daddy. But the other guy ended up getting drunk so I met up with my now bf. Our age gap is pretty big I was a month into being 18 and he was 48. We met up at this hotel in my town and as soon as I got there I regretted it. He was friendly and I was very shy around him. Right after we had sex I went to the restroom and made up something about how my dad was asking where I was at it was like two am. I left the room and went to my car and cried I felt so ashamed that I could do something like that. As soon as I got home I showered and blocked him on everything. A week goes by and I tell one of my good friends and we went to Walgreens to get a plan b just to be safe. I realized soon after that I kind of enjoyed it in a way so I unblocked him and we met up again. When he first messaged me he was offering $750 a week but he only would give me $500 max. I was a little annoyed but naive. I quickly realized he wanted a relationship out of this whereas I wanted a sugar daddy only. I’m in college and I have no time for a relationship. I also had never been in a serious relationship so I became very attached to him. I would rant about past ex bfs and how I would miss them and I guess he got annoyed and started it doing it back to me. In the beginning I only saw him as a sugar daddy so I would post pictures of myself in bikinis and he would get mad at me but I wouldn’t care because he didn’t mean anything to me at the time. After a while I slowly fell in love with him I was shooked because he was old and I was young. Around this time one my siblings were getting skeptical about how I was getting money when I bark worked and went to school. She soon found out and outed me to my whole family. For a week straight my family would call me all sorts of names and that was definitely a low point for me. I was feeling really bad at the time and wanted to run away with him. I later found out he was watching porn behind my back and I felt so mad and sad at the same time. How could he have me and watch those things I thought. He swore to me that he would not do it again and he watched it when he was younger so I guess he kind of got addicted to it in a way. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. We’ve since been together for almost a year. About two months ago I saw him in many girls likes and follows. They would post there body’s and everything. Not shaming that because I used to do that I was upset with my bf because he would get mad at me and call me insecure when I would do it but liked pictures of other girls doing it. I confronted him about it and he said he was sorry and that he wouldn’t do it again. Fast forward to last week I was hanging out with him and I kept checking my phone thinking my dad was going to call because I sneaked out to see him. My bf got suspicious and told me to open up my phone so I did. I showed him my messages and snap and he saw that a guy friend had sent me a streak. He was so upset and saying why I was texting another guy. I told him it was a exchange student friend I met in high school and I had a streak with him to keep in touch he was really mad and so I tried to apologize and comfort him. After he said he forgave me and then he got on his phone. Keep in mind he never lets me get on his phone. He owns his own business and he says he doesn’t want me to see his business plans as if I would know what to do with them. I went to his instagram messages and he snatches his phone after he does that I grab it from him and see he texted this girl that had her arch pic as her profile pic. She had slid up on his story and said baeee where he replied with what she said that he had tooken a long time to reply where he said a little:) with a smiley face. I was furious I had drove over and hour to see him and I got my things and I was crying hysterically. He told me he was sorry but somehow blamed it on me. He started yelling at me and saying if you think I want that whore then leave. I was like wtf you texted her back and I’m the one getting shouted at. I later forgave him but now I feel like I let it be okay for so long he’ll just do it again. I’m so in love with him and I don’t want to leave him. I would like someone different to see it in another perspective. Did he make mistakes that I should just forgive or should I just leave now?

Then would you prefer a date?
Howdy howdy, least Scottish sounding Scotsman here. I'm Alex, 33 from Scotland, full time video editor for online creators and oddly proud of that silly pickup line in the title.
5'10, red hair, dad bod, glasses. Been told I give off strong nerdy golden retriever energy.
Interests include photography, drone flying, videography, YouTube and Twitch, cooking, story writing and telling, video games, tabletop games, VR, camping, travel and always keen on trying new things as well.
What I'm here for: Single, not attached or hung up. Other than that I'm open to talking to whoever.
My outlook: I'm a firm believer that the most important things between 2 people are honesty, communication and trust. Personality and similar approach to any form of relationship are what truly matters for a long lasting connection. If we get on and vibe well with the small and large things in life and enjoy each others company even if it's just sitting in silence doing our own things just knowing the other is there with you. That's what lasts. If you're cute then that's the added cherry on top.
Not looking or expecting to jump straight in too hard and heavy. A nice relaxed getting to know someone and getting to enjoy ourselves. So hey, if you like what I'm about shoot me a message. I look forward to getting to know ya

long story short met this girl off instagram her friend dm’d me saying she wanted me and she was very pretty to me so i texted her. we started talking and then we later on sent pictures to each other. i was attached and she would take hours to reply sometimes. we called last night then this morning when i woke back up she wanted to call again i let her know earlier on when we first started talking i cant call during the day and she asked when i was out during the day. she said she missed me then i set my phone down for 5 minutes and then she texted we’re done im breaking up with you. then she blocked me and it’s been 9 hours i thought it was one of her bipolar fits but i’ve checked her tiktok and she reposted some other dudes name and yea that crushed me. i blocked her on tiktok when i saw that and just my mind has been messed up all day . her friend still follows me that started us talking but im sitting here hoping for her to unblock me but i dont think thats gonna happen. my heart is broken and im having a hard time . i now have nobody to talk to now and i just feel depressed again. just please anyone help me with this i really like her and im hurt

long story short met this girl off instagram her friend dm’d me saying she wanted me and she was very pretty to me so i texted her. we started talking and then we later on sent pictures to each other. i was attached and she would take hours to reply sometimes. we called last night then this morning when i woke back up she wanted to call again i let her know earlier on when we first started talking i cant call during the day and she asked when i was out during the day. she said she missed me then i set my phone down for 5 minutes and then she texted we’re done im breaking up with you. then she blocked me and it’s been 9 hours i thought it was one of her bipolar fits but i’ve checked her tiktok and she reposted some other dudes name and yea that crushed me. i blocked her on tiktok when i saw that and just my mind has been messed up all day . her friend still follows me that started us talking but im sitting here hoping for her to unblock me but i dont think thats gonna happen. my heart is broken and im having a hard time . i now have nobody to talk to now and i just feel depressed again. just please anyone help me with this i really liked her

long story short met this girl off instagram her friend dm’d me saying she wanted me and she was very pretty to me so i texted her. we started talking and then we later on sent pictures to each other. i was attached and she would take hours to reply sometimes. we called last night then this morning when i woke back up she wanted to call again i let her know earlier on when we first started talking i cant call during the day and she asked when i was out during the day. she said she missed me then i set my phone down for 5 minutes and then she texted we’re done im breaking up with you. then she blocked me and it’s been 9 hours i thought it was one of her bipolar fits but i’ve checked her tiktok and she reposted some other dudes name and yea that crushed me. i blocked her on tiktok when i saw that and just my mind has been messed up all day . her friend still follows me that started us talking but im sitting here hoping for her to unblock me but i dont think thats gonna happen. my heart is broken and im having a hard time . i now have nobody to talk to now and i just feel depressed again. just please anyone help me with this i really liked her

Email Automation with Office 365 Outlook

In today's digital age, email remains a cornerstone for professional communication, serving as a vital tool for sharing information, documents, and important updates. However, as the volume of emails and the need for efficient communication grow, manual handling becomes increasingly impractical. This is where automation steps in, particularly for tasks such as sending emails with attachments. Automating this process not only saves time but also enhances productivity, allowing individuals and organizations to focus on more critical tasks. The Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 action offers a seamless way to integrate email automation within your applications, especially when working with Microsoft's Office 365 suite.
The capability to send emails with attachments through Office 365 Outlook not only simplifies the process but also ensures reliability and security, key aspects of professional communication. This functionality is particularly useful for businesses that rely on Microsoft services for their daily operations. By leveraging the Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 action, users can easily automate the process of sending emails with various types of attachments, such as documents, spreadsheets, presentations, or even images, directly from their applications. This guide aims to explore the steps involved in setting up and utilizing this feature to enhance your workflow and communication efficiency.

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Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2	Sends an email through Office 365 Outlook with the ability to include attachments.

Enhancing Efficiency with Email Automation

Email automation, particularly in professional settings, has transformed how businesses manage communication. The advent of tools like Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 has further streamlined this process, allowing for the automated sending of emails with attachments, a task that traditionally required manual intervention. This automation capability is not just about sending emails; it's about integrating with the entire ecosystem of Office 365 services. For instance, it can dynamically pull files from OneDrive or SharePoint as attachments, ensuring that the most up-to-date documents are sent without manual uploading. This level of integration simplifies workflow processes, reduces the risk of human error, and enhances overall efficiency.
Beyond the technical benefits, automating email communications with attachments via Office 365 can significantly impact operational efficiency. It allows for scheduling emails in advance, ensuring that messages are delivered at the most opportune time, regardless of the sender's availability. This is particularly beneficial for global teams working across different time zones, enabling seamless communication without the constraints of traditional office hours. Moreover, the use of templates for common email types can save considerable time, ensuring consistency and professionalism across all communications. The ability to automate these processes not only frees up valuable time but also allows teams to focus on more strategic tasks that require human insight and creativity.

Email Automation Example

Power Automate

    recipient@example.com Test Email with Attachments Please find the attached document.   [base64-encoded content] document.pdf      

Streamlining Communication with Office 365 Email Automation

The integration of email automation through Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 marks a significant leap towards optimizing business communication. This tool not only facilitates the seamless sending of emails with attachments but also integrates tightly with other Office 365 applications, providing a cohesive and efficient workflow. The automation of such routine tasks liberates employees from the time-consuming process of manual email management, allowing them to allocate more time to strategic tasks that demand human intervention and creativity. This shift not only boosts productivity but also enhances job satisfaction by reducing the monotony of repetitive tasks.
Furthermore, the implementation of email automation within the Office 365 ecosystem allows for advanced personalization and targeting in communication strategies. By utilizing dynamic content and attachments based on the recipient's preferences or previous interactions, businesses can significantly increase the relevance and effectiveness of their emails. This level of customization, powered by automation, leads to higher engagement rates, fostering stronger relationships with clients and stakeholders. Additionally, the ability to track and analyze the performance of automated emails provides valuable insights into communication strategies, enabling continuous improvement and optimization.

Frequently Asked Questions about Email Automation with Office 365

1. Question: Can I send emails to multiple recipients using Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2?
2. Answer: Yes, you can send emails to multiple recipients by specifying their email addresses in the 'To' field, separated by semicolons.
3. Question: Is it possible to add attachments from SharePoint or OneDrive using Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2?
4. Answer: Yes, Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 allows you to add attachments directly from SharePoint or OneDrive, ensuring seamless integration with Office 365 services.
5. Question: Can I schedule emails to be sent at a future date/time using this automation feature?
6. Answer: While Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 itself does not have a scheduling feature, you can use Power Automate to trigger the sending of emails at scheduled times.
7. Question: Are there any limitations on the size or type of attachments I can send?
8. Answer: Yes, there are limitations based on your Office 365 subscription plan and email server settings. It's important to check the current limits to ensure successful email delivery.
9. Question: Can I use custom HTML templates for emails sent with Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2?
10. Answer: Yes, you can use custom HTML templates to design your emails, allowing for greater flexibility and personalization in your communications.
11. Question: How secure is sending emails with attachments using Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2?
12. Answer: Office 365 employs robust security measures, including encryption, to ensure the secure sending of emails and attachments.
13. Question: Can I track whether an email sent with Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 was opened by the recipient?
14. Answer: Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 does not provide built-in tracking for email opens. However, external tools and integrations can be used to track this.
15. Question: Is it possible to automate email responses using Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2?
16. Answer: Yes, by combining Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 with Power Automate, you can automate not only sending emails but also responding to incoming messages based on specific criteria.
17. Question: How do I handle errors or failures in sending emails?
18. Answer: Power Automate provides detailed logs and notifications that can help you identify and troubleshoot any issues encountered during the email sending process.

Empowering Businesses Through Email Automation

Email automation, especially through platforms like Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2, represents a significant advancement in digital communication strategies for businesses. By enabling the automated sending of emails with attachments, organizations can achieve a higher level of efficiency, accuracy, and consistency in their communications. The benefits extend beyond mere convenience, touching on enhanced productivity, better resource allocation, and improved stakeholder engagement. The integration with Office 365’s suite of applications further ensures a cohesive and streamlined workflow, minimizing manual intervention and allowing employees to focus on more strategic tasks. As businesses continue to navigate the complexities of digital communication, tools like Office365Outlook.SendEmailV2 will remain invaluable in crafting more effective, efficient, and secure communication strategies. The adoption of such technologies is not just an operational necessity but a strategic asset in the digital age, enabling businesses to stay ahead in a competitive landscape.
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