Graduation thank you letter for the parents

Unsent Letters

2011.03.30 16:39 HotDinnerBatman Unsent Letters

A place for the letter you never sent.
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2010.09.04 04:29 flailcookie Mommit - Come for the support, stay for the details.

We are moms mucking through the ickier parts of child raising. It may not always be pretty, fun and awesome, but we do it. We want to be here for other moms who are going through the same experiences and offer a helping hand.
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2014.05.22 01:49 crankasaurus-rex Wax Sealers Anonymous

If you haven't lost the love for letter writing and LOVE to seal them with a wax seal, this is the place for you!
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2024.05.14 18:52 Additional-Fun-3481 Need Advice on Team next year

Need Advice on Team Drama
Hello Reddit, I have some team drama that I would like to share and get some advice on. I am a 2007 goalie who will play 18u next year. I tried out for a club, who put me on their 18u A team. My parents signed the contract and paid full to reserve my spot. A week later they told me the team folded due to lack of players wanting to play A so the team folded. They would then put me on 18u AA as a taxi goalie. Yesterday to my surprise, I found out that the 18U A team exists again and played in a league seeding tournament with two new goalies. I was then told that I was downgraded from AA taxi to taxiing the A team and there was no spot for me on the A team as a fulltime goalie. I am very confused as my family had already paid for my spot to be reserved on the A team if the team was going to exist again. The money was not refunded either. Why can the club downgrade me and find two new goalies if my family paid to reserve my spot? Could my family and I get some advice on how to proceed? Thank you and I am sorry for the rant.
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2024.05.14 18:52 motherofbees89 Just had my interview for 716!

Hey guys, so I had my interview this morning with 716. It's hard to tell how it went, it was pretty intimidating, not gonna lie lol. Anyone know what is gonna happen next/what the next steps will be? They said I'll hear back from them in either the form of a letter or phone call. School starts in September, is there a chance I could start working before then? Anyone else going through the motions for or in 716? Just having a little anxiety about all this šŸ˜… thanks in advance for any answers or encouragement ā¤ļø
Also, for anyone wondering, the questions they asked were - "How did you hear about us?" "Why do you want to be an electrician?" "What is your opinion on construction workers and drug use?" "What past experience do you have using tools?" "What are your hobbies?" "Do you have reliable transportation?" "Would there be any issue you doing night classes a few Saturdays a month?" "Where do you see yourself in 10 years?" "What do you think would make someone successful in this program?"
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2024.05.14 18:51 Additional-Fun-3481 Need Advice on Team Drama

Hello Reddit, I have some team drama that I would like to share and get some advice on. I am a 2007 goalie who will play 18u next year. I tried out for a club, who put me on their 18u A team. My parents signed the contract and paid full to reserve my spot. A week later they told me the team folded due to lack of players wanting to play A so the team folded. They would then put me on 18u AA as a taxi goalie. Yesterday to my surprise, I found out that the 18U A team exists again and played in a league seeding tournament with two new goalies. I was then told that I was downgraded from AA taxi to taxiing the A team and there was no spot for me on the A team as a fulltime goalie. I am very confused as my family had already paid for my spot to be reserved on the A team if the team was going to exist again. The money was not refunded either. Why can the club downgrade me and find two new goalies if my family paid to reserve my spot? Could my family and I get some advice on how to proceed? Thank you and I am sorry for the rant.
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2024.05.14 18:51 OddSundae5373 Unplanned pregnancy, need advice

I am 37f and father is 43m. We split last August, but have remained FWB. Obviously, this was not planned and is a BC failure, and I am shocked and don't know what to do. WE ARE TOO OLD FOR THIS.
I noticed I was late this weekend and took a test yesterday, big fat positive. So, as of today I am 7 days late. I realize this is early days, and could still be a chemical pregnancy or miscarry or who knows.
I don't know if I should tell him or get an abortion or what. My head is all over the place. We are both already parents, I have a 13yo daughter and he has an 11yo son. We both have full custody of our kids. I feel like abortion won't be an option for him. He will be PROLIFE (we are both Catholic), but I don't know if that's the best decision. We will disrupt these kids' lives with this. And he clearly doesn't love me as our relationship ended. I don't want him to feel like I trapped him with this baby, and I also do not want to be a single parent again.
My gut is telling to end the pregnancy, but I am also extremely sad at the thought of that. I called immediately after I tested and an abortion will be $850.00 (not exactly pocket change, but way less they raising a kid, I know). I did make an appointment for 5/24, but that is just the initial appointment where they do US etc, you have to come back to get the pills. I don't know what to do and I am freaking out. I am also afraid I won't be able to keep an abortion a secret FOREVER and he will find out eventually and be upset. I just want to do what is right and I don't know what that is.
If anyone has any advice or a similar experience I would love to hear it. Thanks :)
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2024.05.14 18:51 Rare_Mud_6926 Totaled Car - Pain & Suffering

TLDR Version: I need clarification on my total loss situation. I was involved in a car accident in Illinois, where I am not at fault. My car has been deemed totaled, and the damage exceeds what I paid for it new. I provided the other party's insurance company with information for a higher valuation, as I had recently made repairs and added features to my car. However, I'm not satisfied with their second offer, which has only increased by $400. I also want to address the impact on my partner and myself. We didn't sustain major injuries but sought medical care for pain and swelling. My partner has been offered chiropractor care and cash by the insurance company. I have anxiety, which has resurfaced after the accident, that and lack of a vehicle is affecting my ability to attend important upcoming events and work my second job. I've consulted with lawyers, but I'm unsure of the best course of action as they are not following up with me.
FULL Version: Hi all Iā€™m hoping to get some clarification on how to go about my total loss. Iā€™ve never been in this position before thankfully but need some guidance. I am located in Illinois dealing with Geico (other party) and Farmers Insurance (mine).
My partner and I were involved in a car accident last week. Not at fault, however, the damage to my car far surpasses what I even paid for it new so it has been deemed totaled. I provided the other parties insurance company with information for a higher valuation after they came back with the first one as I had some repairs done 6 days before the accident with new breaks, new fog lights, and AC repair. And then within the last couple of years I added a Sony head unit for Apple/android CarPlay and backup camera plus tinting all the windows and new tires.
I understand they canā€™t pay me out retail value to replace my car (which is total bs if not at fault IMO) and it would cost me double what they are offering me to get the exact same model year and close in miles to what my car had with less features. Iā€™m not happy with their second offer increasing only by $400
Iā€™m sorry this is a little long but I figured details would be important. We didnā€™t have any major injuries so we are lucky in that regard. My partner and I were both seen by immediate care a couple of days after the accident as pain was settling in for both of us. Nothing broken but just swelling in my neck muscles from what they could see. I was referred to an orthopedic surgeon for further evaluation but the doctor didnā€™t seem too concerned about anything major being an issue. Insurance offered my partner $5000 in chiropractor care and $1200 cash. Heā€™s held off on responding until I get something through to them.
I have anxiety and before the accident it was well managed. Since the accident Iā€™ve had panic attacks again. Iā€™ve been speaking with my therapist and working on getting back on track. I donā€™t take meds anymore for anxiety as it was well managed prior to this accident. I have so many once in a lifetime events coming up the next month Iā€™d have to miss not having my car and also missing wages from my second job. Iā€™m fortunate enough my main job is from home 100%.
Iā€™ve tried to get opinions from some lawyers on what I should ask for, for this type of thing as itā€™s not something you can really put a price on. Or how to even calculate out a monetary amount but my case, I have a feeling isnā€™t something someone would take or it wouldnā€™t be worth taking. So thatā€™s why Iā€™m here for guidance. Iā€™ve written a professional letter to send to the insurance company along with a letter from my therapist outlining my anxiety and panic attacks, doctors notes about the physical injuries, and the announcements/invitations for the events Iā€™m missing. Also I have documentation of pay from both of my jobs.
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2024.05.14 18:49 KeyStrength8480 Looking for a CAS creator for save file collab

Looking for a CAS creator for save file collab
Hey there, I'm looking to find an adult Sims player who is a CAS creator for a save file collaboration.
I'm a builder playing on Xbox Series X who's been building on TS4 for years now.
Of course, being on console, that comes with depressing limitations. Key factors being I'm unable to access mods nor create the save file myself. That being said, I'm looking to find a CAS creator who loves creating Sims who'd be willing to create the Sims to go alongside the homes and family storylines which I've created along with using my builds from the gallery to form the actual save file. Currently this will be for Willow Creek only.
I'm a writer so for each of the residential lots I've created storylines with lots of drama involved and am decorating the homes specific to the families I have in mind.
You'd have the freedom to design the Sims however you like, so long as they fit the criteria for the specific build they'd be living in (i.e. 2 parents, 1 teen, 1 kid for example). I would send you storylines and each build in advance so that you may let this influence your CAS designs as much or as little as you like. This is very much a WIP and would take lots of work from both parts but as someone who sucks at CAS but enjoys the building and story creation elements of the Sims, I figured it might be a good opportunity for someone who isn't much for building but loves CAS to work with me on a save file that would be created with joint ownership!
I currently have all lots in Willow Creek planned out, 90% storylines complete, 80% of the shells in place for the builds with one fully completed and multiple others around 50% complete. I can't commit to deadlines for this but as a rough guideline am aiming to have one build fully completed per week.
As the person who would be the CAS creator for this save file would need to be a PC player in order to actually create the save file, I'd be happy for you to use TOOL to add in any off the lot decor to make the world come to life, along with map art and any other fancy bits and bobs you lucky PC players are able to add in to give the safe file some extra flare! Also happy for your input as to the storylines and / or builds if you'd like to make alterations.
If this is something you'd be interested in, let me know and we'll discuss further. šŸ˜Š Feel free to drop some pics of your CAS creations for me to take a look at. Any questions, please ask! Thanks for reading!
I've added some pics of random builds I've made in the past so you can get an idea of my style.
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2024.05.14 18:48 WallyShrugged Latest pod

Old man rant incoming.
BUT finding out Lemaire got his $80k in student loans forgiven was a kick in the nuts.
Hear me out. I like Lemaire, and have zero problem with him personally. That said, he clearly didnā€™t belong in college, like a lot of people these days. It did him no good. He admitted (like most people I knew who did GSLā€™s in college) he wasted a lot of that money on non-educational spending.
Now the rest of us will pay back that money. The Lemaireā€™s of the world just got freed up to make some more bad life & financial choices & hard working Americans will be poorer for it.
I know many younger people who are struggling right now. Trying to get a reliable car, afford rent, start a businessā€¦and theyā€™re gonna get worse than nothing. Theyā€™re gonna have all their same problems PLUS theyā€™re gonna help pay off student loans for ā€˜educationsā€™ they didnā€™t get.
Worst of all, many that will benefit from this arenā€™t even poor. Most will come from upper middle class backgrounds and have advanced degrees.
Finally, Iā€™ll add that as a college graduate Iā€™m no longer convinced that itā€™s necessary for successā€¦in most cases the opposite is true. And unlike many parents who think college has become a waste, my 19 & 20 year olds arenā€™t in college. Both are gainfully employed making $23+ an hour with full benefits.
Iā€™m 53 and worked all of my adult life, I grew up on a farm where my folks worked 2&3 jobs on top of farming to pay bills. I know how hard it is to save $80k. I know how much I pay in taxes. Biden didnā€™t just give away $80k of Gov moneyā€¦he gave away $80k of our money. And like the old saying goesā€¦time is money, and money is time. He just robbed us all of timeā€¦and you canā€™t get more of that back.
Weā€™re in deep šŸ’©. The lack of accountability & bailing out bad choices will be the destruction of us. I know this isnā€™t funny or funā€¦but neither is life sometimes.
Those of you who donā€™t care or disagree with my views will no doubt be amongst those who have no responsibility or accountability in their lives.
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2024.05.14 18:48 Due-Company9306 Engineering Discipline Change

I originally got my bachelors (BEng) and masterā€™s degrees (MASc) in biomedical engineering but have found since then that there are not a lot of exciting jobs available in the field in Canada unless you continue to PhD or post-doc level. Many people I graduated with have shifted away from engineering because of this, including myself, as I have worked as a data scientist for the past 5 years.
Over the past year, I have become more interested in getting back to engineering and have found myself drawn to civil engineering for a few reasons (currently interested in structural, transportation, or something related to water systems or wastewater treatment). I realize this is a big jump so Iā€™m wondering if there is any path for me to make this switch without having to go back to fully redo an undergraduate engineering degree, whether itā€™s extra coursework, a shorter college diploma, or an M.Eng (although Iā€™ve heard these are more for developing specializations).
Iā€™m worried my initial major will exclude me from being hired in any civil engineering positions, so I would like to make sure that a career switch is even possible before fully committing. I havenā€™t been able to find much related to my particular situation so any advice or suggestions are appreciated. Thanks!
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2024.05.14 18:48 Inevitable_Laugh4569 Nearing Halfway Point in Petition Against Mandated Video!

If you are new around here or somehow have missed all my numerous posts promoting this petition, please have a look. Many tutors (and parents of school-aged children) oppose mandated video sessions with tutors. When we get to 500, we will send it off to the company. We have summer to get this done before sessions start ramping up again.
For those of you who have already signed, thank you. And not to sound like a youtuber, (please like and subscribe!) please, please share this. If you're not comfortable sharing it on your social media pages, please just share it via email or text message. We can do this!
https://chng.it/GmXgGJY6bG
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2024.05.14 18:46 Mibneyl Looking for an apartment and a roommate

Hi all, I'm a 23F looking for an apartment with ideally 1 roommate. Looking to join a lease for 6/1 move-in date (open to any time after that) or to search for an apartment together. If I were to sublet, I would want to have the option to renew and sign onto the lease. My budget is $1000 - 1200. In-unit laundry is preferred. I would also prefer to live in areas close to Longwood or other places with easy public transportation access up to 30 min commute. A little bit about me: I've just graduated from college, and I'm about to start working in healthcare this June. I am a pretty quiet person and generally minds my own business. I like to do embroidery, cooking, and watching movies in my free time. I'm down to be friends with my roommate but I also don't mind if we're just friendly with each other and we both do our own thing. Looking for someone who is clean, respectful, organized, responsible, and communicative. I have some allergies, so a pet-free environment would be wonderful. Please dm me if you have any leads. Thank you so much!
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2024.05.14 18:45 jade_captain My family are getting tattoos (I need advice)

I'm going to a bit vague because my sister is on Reddit and wacths the Reddit videos on tic toc.
I'm a trans boy and use any pronoun but she/her. I go by my middle name. Im on the younger side (I won't say my age sos) and still live with my parents and go to high school. I'm in a family of four me my elder sister (is currently attending uni and still lives at home) my mum and my dad
I know my family is ok with being gay or bisexual as they voted yes for gay marriage in Australia and they call one of my trans friends by there current pronouns and my mum works with someone who is LGBT I also have a pride flag in my room. However both my parents are accidentally homophobic alot because they don't fully understand it.
I never really came out as trans I mentioned being LGBT but never really had a conversation about it to my family. One day a cupple years ago I just kinda went up to my head of year level at school and asked that teacher if I could go by my preferred name, she said sure and on my school profile next to my legal name is now my preferred name. My mum asked me about it a cupple days later and I just said I like my middle name better she shrugged and that was it.
My family still calls me by my legal name. My mum said it's because she just isn't ready to call me something else yet (valid it's a big change), dad's in denial and I never asked my sister. It's been a long time since I asked them to call me by my middle name I might ask again soon.
Now my problem
If you add all the first letters in our names (my dead name not my preferred name) together it creates a name of a object (I'm being vague as this might give me away lmao) my mum and my sister have always planned on getting a tattoo of this object. I was completely and utterly unaware of this I was never told about the plan for tattoos as everyone thought I already new about it. If I had known about the plan I probably whould of chosen a new name that starts with the same letter as my dead name instead of my middle name.
A cupple months ago I found out about the plan for tattos while in the car with my entire family. After I learnt about it my sister joked that I had messed up the tattoo because I no longer go by my og name I shrugged apologieing before we moved on to a different topic and I forgot about it.
Now mum and my sister are planing to get the tattoo done. I'm not sure what to do as the tattoo has me represented by my original name.the thought of the tattoo makes me feel kinda sad and uncomfortable but It means alot to my mum and sister as it represents family and us being bonded together even when were struggling. I really I don't want to take that away from them just because it doesn't use my correct name. I feel really lost and unsure of what to do.
What should I do in this situation?
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2024.05.14 18:45 External_Courage_216 Business advice and ideas?

Hi iā€™m 19 and currently helping my parents manage their restaurant full time and i graduated from high school 2 years ago. Ive been looking into starting my own side business either to do in my garage or something mobile, but have no idea what to do. I have 10k in capital i can put up from savings and have no problem learning new skills/certifications. Im not looking for something to get rich quick just to make a bit of profit each week after work and my days off. Lawn-care isnā€™t the best option for me due to allergies and auto detailing is sort of saturated in my area but could be done. Im not the handiest in woodworking either. I dont want to do anything online or with online courses (unless theyā€™re actual certifications), and before you say do what you love, working is what i like to do i just donā€™t know specifically what i like doing. Any advice or getting me pointed in the right direction is greatly appreciated.
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2024.05.14 18:44 Addicted-To-Candy I'm dealing with a groomer

Hi guys. How are you? Sorry for the long post but please read it all, it's important, to understand my situation and give me best advice. Thanks in advance.
I wanted to ask something and I really don't know who or where to ask so I'll try here. I know this bus driver since I was 7. He took me to school and back home every day. Every kid liked him, he was nice, smiling, joking. We all really became attached and happy when we see him and he always would brighten our day. Now I'm 20 and I started working and he was his usual smiling self for a few days. And then he hit me like meteor would hit the Earth when he asked me for my facebook account or phone number while I was waiting for him at the door to stop the bus so I can get off. I was so shocked I was paralyzed and just pretended I didn't hear him as I exited the bus. This old dude. This guy who knew me since forever. This person who was responsible for my safety while I was on the bus. A fucking father figure if you wanna call him that cause I always saw these nice adults as responsible ones you can count on when your parents aren't around, like teachers for example. Someone you can talk to about how some kid is picking on you or how some subject is too complicated to learn and who will understand you. This mf starts flirting with me calling me beautiful and asking me out, even manipulating some kid to tell me I'm beautiful for him. I WANTED TO VOMIT. I still feel the need to vomit. I've been ignoring him for two months now. Every time I see him my stomach flips. I only enter the door next to him to pay for my ride, otherwise I always get off through the back door to avoid him. I didn't speak a word to him hoping he will get the hint and f off. I even loudly talked with my friend in the seat near him how old people are gross and I would rather die than date them, all in hopes he would hear it and give up. But today that mf grew tired of waiting it seams. As usual I ignored him, he tried to strike a conversation while giving me the ticket, I still ignored him. Then when I was getting ready to get off he asked "Is no one getting off here? Can I continue driving?", despite knowing it's my station since forever. Just so I would talk to him and say "wait, I'll exit here". This mother-, manipulating me to talk to him like that? And laughing about it when he succeeded? Does he think I will actually ever like an old person, that he can charm me with his bs? I do not want this manipulating butt anywhere near me, I'm disgusted and afraid and I want to cry cause that's my only transportation to work and back home and now I have to avoid a pig and it's creating problems for my day to day life. But he still won't give up. And I can't tell him to get lost cause I live in a village and other villagers will immediately gossip how I'm having an affair with a bus driver which is really humiliating considering he is old enough to be my dad, knew me forever and I absolutely do not like him that way. What should I do? How do I get him away from me? He isn't giving up. Please.
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2024.05.14 18:44 mydenial_No4 Getting a Dachshund soon!

I am going to be a first time dog owner and i am super excited! I've been doing lots of research as i want to be the best puppy parent i can be!
I have some questions about how my lifestyle might have to change and what i might need to know specifically for dachshunds
I work in the office 2 days a week, the rest i am WFH. Total time away from home is 8 hours. Is this too long to leave a puppy? Do i need a dog walker to come on these days? I could definitely come home at lunch time (so time away from home would be 4/5 hours) for the first few months. I'm also out of the house for hobbies for 4 hours 3 evenings a week. My partner will be around to help but his shifts are irregular, so im going off what i can do if it was me on my own and anything my partner can help with is more ad-hoc although it will be our family dog.
Should we be buying a crate? I was initally against the idea but that was when i knew nothing about dogs, now i understand they can be safe spaces for the dog i'm unsure
How often should training occur? Like 20 mins a day or something? I read people reward with treats, but how often can i give a treat?
Is our routine not being consistent going to be a big problem? We are away from home/doing different things at home/going to bed at different times every day.
What is the best order for things to occur, like eating and walking? If i finish work and then feed the dog, how long should i wait until walking?
Sorry this is a lot and probably common questions, but i haven't seen much related to dachshunds in particular.
Thank you for reading!!
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2024.05.14 18:44 city_anchorite Help me come out? No idea how to do this as a fully grown man!

OK I need help coming out to my Dad. As his fully grown child, I have no idea how to go about this.
I'm in kind of a complicated situation, which I'll explain, but ultimately, it's extra tough for me because we're generally as close as a Gen X child and Boomer parent can be. He's known I'm bi for a while, has seen me date both women and men, and is cool with it. He is conservative, but he's actually open-minded, into scifi and fantasy and stuff. Basically, he watches the Gayest Star Trek, Discovery, with me and is fine? But he also watches Fox News. I don't understand, but whatever.
I've been thinking and thinking about it, and I'm just stumped as to how to do this, so I'm humbly asking you lovely dudes for tips, tricks, advice, whatever.
Complicating Factors:
Most people have suggested leaving him a letter, but it just doesn't feel right because then I'm gone, and it's easier to write me off since I'm not physically there. And it maybe seems like I'm running away? IDK I also don't want to ruin the trip, as silly as that sounds.
BUT there's always the possibility of a big reaction if I tell him in person, and then I have to live with him for a few weeks, and how uncomfortable/unsafe would that be?
I also don't know where to even START this conversation. So... yeah. Help?
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2024.05.14 18:43 Yurii_S_Kh A Parish Priestā€™s Conversation in the Cemetery on Radonitsa

A Parish Priestā€™s Conversation in the Cemetery on Radonitsa
Before I came to the faith, I didnā€™t like going to the cemetery. Whatā€™s more, the cemetery always reminded me of my mortality, and it made me sad. Since I didnā€™t see life as eternal, it seemed sad to live on earth.
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What should I live for? In order to die? Itā€™s all pointless. Willy-nilly you arrive at the idea of evolution here. Man appeared on earth as a result of positive mutations and eventually we began to have consciousness, conscience and reason. Sometimes you clutch your head, saying, ā€œWhy did I become a human being? Who needed all these mutations if I will just be buried in the ground or turn into a pathetic handful of ashes?ā€ With such ideas, the old saying seemed justified: ā€œTake everything from life before the worms eat you.ā€
The awareness of the fact that you are a mold from an eternal Image justifies your existence and gives it meaning. And the thought of your inevitable meeting with the Creator makes you take your life seriously. The purpose is revealed to you: He loves you, and you are a child of His love.
And you think: ā€œHow good!ā€ It was only after I came to the faith that the cemetery ceased to be an eerie place for me and turned into a ā€œrepository of completed narratives.ā€
Our cemetery beyond the village in the heart of the forest is divided into the smaller, old one, which appeared in the seventeenth century, and the new and larger one. Do you know how our village cemetery differs from urban onesā€”apart from its size? I served the funeral for almost everyone who is buried in the new cemetery. I made the ā€œlast entryā€ in the destiny of almost every person buried here. I pray for them and remember many of them. Besides, even before my ordination I had lived and worked with these people for many years. And I know that their life in eternity depends on my prayer in some way. Our bond with them was not severed by their demise. Spiritual care does not stop even beyond the grave.
The Church year, with its memorial Ancestorsā€™ Saturdays and especially the Paschal services, does not allow us to forget those who have already departed this life. And visiting peopleā€™s graves on Radonitsa always is always a special, joyful event for me. I go to the cemetery as if to visit my friendsā€”those whom I came to love during their earthly lives and with whom I prayed and restored the churchā€”my brothers and sisters.
One day I had a dream just before going to serve on Ancestorsā€™ Saturday. It was as if I had died, my soul had flown away, and I could even see my own body from outside it. And I was so upset and sorry that I could not say goodbye to anyone, hug my children and kiss my wife. And my soul began to cry from anguish.
Suddenly a thought flashed through my mind: ā€œToday is Ancestorsā€™ Saturday! How many people will come to church now, but there will be no service! Where will another priest come from?ā€ And my soul, accustomed to responsibility, immediately returned to my body. I woke up and was relieved that it had all just been a dream. But then I remembered forever how my soul had wept after leaving the body. From that day on I began to feel compassion for the deceased while performing the funeral over them.
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I am greeted first by Alexei at the entrance to the new cemetery. I learned a lot from that man and in many ways, would like to be like him. He knew how to live and had a great desire to live. But for all his buoyancy, illness taught Alexei to be patient and to humble himself. He was dying for several years, but every time after the unction he got better and continued to come to church every Sunday and receive Communion. And he passed away on the feast of the Ascension of the Lord.
The last thing Alexei said to meā€”and I managed to give him Communionā€”was:
ā€œThank you, Father. Thanks for everything!ā€
Christ is Risen, Alexei!
The well-groomed grave of the child Sashenka [a diminutive form of the name Alexander.ā€”Trans.] is very close. He received Communion almost at every Sunday Liturgy. He drowned in Feodosia the day before he was supposed to start going to the first grade. His father Nikolai, a simple worker, could not save the child. After that, through hard labor he earned a sufficient sum of money for us to pay for the work of icon-painters. Three large icons of the Deesis in the St. Nicholas Chapel of our church are his sacrifice in memory of his son.
One day, after his death, the boy came to his father in a dream and said:
ā€œPapa, Iā€™ve been to many places, but I like St. Alexander Svirskyā€™s monastery the most.ā€
Christ is Risen, dear child! Pray for us there.
Irina. Irochka, I still canā€™t come to terms with the fact that youā€™ve been here for six years already. You shouldnā€™t have died, especially at such a young age. You are our beauty! I will never forget itā€”after I had given you Divine Unction and Communion, you took my hand in yours, already translucent from illness, and, kissing it, said:
ā€œNow Iā€™m not afraid of anything. Thank you.ā€
I hope you were not offended that I almost forced your husband away from your grave. You know, I started to fear for him. The dead cling to the dead, and the living cling to the living, as it were. Christ is Risen, our joy!
* * *
Sophia, Iā€™ll tell you honestly: no one bakes pancakes the way you baked them. Do you think Iā€™m joking? No, in all seriousness. The schoolchildren who cleaned the church with us and then ate your pancakes with tea have already grown up. Now some of them have their own children, but every time they come, they recall how much they enjoyed your delicious pancakes!
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What hard times we had! Now we have both a refectory and a parish house (with two floors), but back then we didnā€™t have anything. I still wonder how you always managed to cope with everything. Christ is Risen, our wise woman!
Praskovyushka [a diminutive form of the name Parasceva.ā€”Trans.]! My angel who selflessly helped me in the altar. Today is Radonitsa and the eighth anniversary of your birth into eternity. You read by syllables, but you taught me so much! My friend, I am grateful to God that He brought me together with you.
Pray for me, mother, so that someday I too can reach the measure of your simplicity and learn to hope and trust in God the way you did. Of course, you know that your youngest daughter gave up drinking and came to the church, that she prays and often takes Communion. Today she is almost never out of the church, as was the case with you. So, both your daughters are in the church.
Your prayer does its job, and even after your death it does not lose its power. You cried your eyes out for your daughter. The time came, and she told me herself, ā€œThatā€™s it, Father, there thereā€™s no turning back.ā€ What a wise woman you are! Praskovyushka, Christ is Risen!
And here rests my old acquaintance, Vasily Ivanovich. In his old age a strange thing happened to him: he fell in love like a teenager. He started writing love poetry, but he was ashamed to reveal it to anyone. But he trusted me. He would come to the entrance of my house, sit down on a bench and wait for me to see him and come out. Then he would take out his notebook, and his ā€œsonnetsā€ would start flowing. How many times I invited you to the church, my friend! You kept promising, but... never came. Christ is Risen, Vasily!
Then the tombstones of rich people begin. There are three tombstones here, behind an imposing metal fence. Thatā€™s right, itā€™s a family of three people. Petrovich, an entrepreneur, a good man who drank. He didnā€™t give sufficient attention to his son who was hooked on drugs. No matter how much they tried to cure him it was all in vain. After the young manā€™s death, Petrovichā€™s wife took to drinking too, as if she had decided to die. They lived beside the church. Their house had once been built on church land. It was a big, beautiful ā€œmansionā€ in which you could live for many years.
One day Petrovich came to our church while I was racking my brains over the problem of where to find money for a new roof. I desperately needed to have our winter church reroofed. A piece broke off from the destroyed bell-tower and pierced the roof in several places. And we had just plastered the walls inside, putting so much effort into it.
There was no one in the church except Petrovich and me. I went up to him and greeted him. I saw that he was having a very hard time. And who would be feeling otherwise after losing his only son? I addressed him:
ā€œPetrovich, do a good deed in memory of Kostya [a diminutive form of the name Konstantin.ā€”Trans.]. Do you see how the roof was broken by bricks from the bell-tower? Help us redo it as long as there is no rain so far. Youā€™re a wealthy man, help me. I will also ask the parishionersā€”and we will do it all together. Iā€™m afraid weā€™ll ruin the plaster inside after the rain starts.ā€
Petrovich was silent for a little while. His face was so kind, he really was a nice chap. Then he said:
ā€œYou know, father, Iā€™ve been thinking about how Iā€™m going to live now, after my only sonā€™s death. And Iā€™ve decided that now I will live only for myself. So, please donā€™t take it amiss, but look for other sponsors.ā€
And indeed, Petrovich started to live for himself: he bought a new car, had a holiday abroad, and began to dress well. And then Petrovich disappearedā€”we couldnā€™t find him for a whole week. One afternoon as I was walking to the church, a boy of about ten caught up with me:
ā€œFather, go and see what it is! I keep looking and I canā€™t figure it out.ā€
I went with him, and he brought me to the back of Petrovichā€™s house, where there was a huge puddle. I looked where the boy was pointing and saw something like a swollen sugar bag floating in the puddle. But it didnā€™t seem to be a bagā€”it resembled a man. We called the police, and Petrovichā€™s daughter-in-law pulled him out of the puddle.
She said she saw a bullet hole in his forehead. But no one investigated it then.
I performed the funeral for him in the courtyard of our church. And three months later his wife passed away. Their ā€œbig mansionā€ stands empty.
Christ is risen, Petrovich! Donā€™t think that I bear a grudge against you. After you refused, another man came and offered his helpā€”he took the church reroofing on himself. This is how things work with Godā€”if not you, then someone else. You already know that. Poor Petrovich, nobody remembers you, but I donā€™t forget you.
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How many years have I served at the grave of a young motherā€™s child on Radonitsa. She crossed a pedestrian crossing in Moscow when the traffic light was green. But a jeep suddenly appeared, knocking the child down. There must have been a tiny news report about you that day. As I understand it, the jeep driver was acquitted. But it doesnā€™t matter now whether he was acquitted or not. A momentary incident, but the motherā€™s mental distress has not abated for four years, she is sick at heart, and she still wears black.
How accustomed we are to these news reports: Someone has perished here, someone else has been killed in an explosion there, a plane crashed somewhere, etc. But all this means someoneā€™s pain, tears, broken hearts, and orphaned children.
Mother, Christ is risen, donā€™t cry and start praying for your girl. Help her, while you have some strength.
There is a large marble slab with a portrait of a young man. Yuri worked at one of his fatherā€™s gas stations. About ten years ago, some drug addicts murdered him at work at night. I remember his mother weeping in church. We have a custom: If people make a contribution to the church in memory of their reposed loved one, order an icon, buy a candle stand or something like that, then we add the name of the person in question into our list for permanent commemoration.
I offered the same to Yuriā€™s close ones. On hearing this, his mother stopped crying. She came up to me and said quietly:
ā€œFather, only donā€™t tell my husband. Iā€™m afraid he wonā€™t understand you.ā€
It was only then that it dawned on me: If he left his son alone to work at the gas station at night without security, he really wouldnā€™t understand me. His family does not set foot in church anymore.
Yuri, your closest ones betrayed you. But forgive them; You know, we donā€™t choose our parents. But Iā€™m still wondering: How will they look into your eyes when you meet them in eternity?
Nobody comes to your grave on Radonitsa, but I remember you, your placidness, and sometimes pray for you. But forget them all. Christ is Risen, Yuriā€”you and I will rejoice together.
At the exit I met one of our believers from Moscow, who had buried her mother right around Pascha a year before.
ā€œEarlier I couldnā€™t go to the cemeteryā€”I felt uneasy here. But now I can sit here next to my motherā€™s grave, talk to her, and I feel so goodā€”I donā€™t want to go away,ā€ she said.
And we, Galochka, donā€™t ā€œgo awayā€. It only seems to us that the departed are somewhere far away from us, but in reality they are close, in our hearts, in our memory and our prayers. After all, and of course, you know it yourself, love (if we have it) does not disappear, even after death.
Archpriest Alexander Dyachenko
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2024.05.14 18:42 Easy_Increase632 Is this anxiety?

So I (21F) have this eme na everytime I know something good will happen, I overthink a lot and I think way ahead. I get worried and sad about what will happen after that "good" thing. And this is not just during those big happenings/milestone in my life kind of stuff but kahit sa mga simple lang na bagay.
Examples:
  1. Grocery shopping. I love grocery shopping and when my parents plan it ahead of timd, I get excited but then I'll also feel worried/sad na baka after that grocery shopping day ay maubos pera ng magulang ko at pabigat ako haha. Or baka mag-away kami ng mommy ko while shopping.
  2. When my bf visits me in our province. He would stay with us sa bahay for say 3 nights and of course I'm excited and I can't wait to be with him. Pero maiiyak nalang ako at malulungkot bigla kasi wala pa man, iniisip ko na agad na uuwi siya tapos maiiwan niya ako and masasad ako. Naiisip ko agad yung mararamdaman ko after namin magspend time together and I feel bad na bumabyahe siya nang malayo just to be with me.
  3. Hangout with friends. I overthink what would happen kapag magkikita kami ng friends. Like will I be asked about my medication again? Will I be able to have fun? Will I enjoy? Will I be upset? Ghurl, lahat na kahit na I'm surrounded with great friends.
Basically, I overthink a lot and that hinders me from looking forward to things that make me happy. And the funny thing is, I am okay and stable for the past month but I still feel this way haha but glad that I am able to regulate it naman. I end up enjoying din when the D-day comes pero I don't want to always feel sad and worried before that day that I'm supposed to be happy.
Ps., I am diagnosed with anxiety and depression. Soooo, is this normal overthinking like when you're excited or is this the anxiety in me??
And let me know if anyone else is also experiencing this hehe. Thank you!!!
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2024.05.14 18:41 External_Courage_216 side hustle advice?

Hi iā€™m 19 and currently helping my parents manage their restaurant full time and i graduated from high school 2 years ago. Ive been looking into starting my own side business either to do in my garage or something mobile, but have no idea what to do. I have 10k in capital i can put up from savings and have no problem learning new skills/certifications. Im not looking for something to get rich quick just to make a bit of profit each week after work and my days off. Lawn-care isnā€™t the best option for me due to allergies and auto detailing is sort of saturated in my area but could be done. Im not the handiest in woodworking either. I dont want to do anything online or with online courses (unless theyā€™re actual certifications), and before you say do what you love, working is what i like to do i just donā€™t know specifically what i like doing. Any advice or getting me pointed in the right direction is greatly appreciated.
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2024.05.14 18:41 AdTrick7283 My dad found my love letter.

Disclaimer:This is a part 2 to my story. Here is part 1:https://www.reddit.com/Crushes/comments/1cr3c21/my_mom_found_my_love_lette.
I met my crush when I was in high-school. I was 13 and she was 14. When I set eyes on her, I knew that she was the one for me. Her reflective skin was like gold waiting to be rubbed and loved. Her luminous eyes were like marbles designed for gazers. Her hair was like a sari, but as soft as silk, waiting to infatuate onlookers who fall in its honey-sweet trap. An example of the above is me.
I decided to test my valour via generating and sending a love letter to her. Unfortunately, at the time, she just said 'Thanks', which had left me devastated. Moreso, I had to duplicate my letter while pooping out biryani I ate on Sunday, in the highschool toilet, since my mother had stolen my original letter. I thought I did the needful to destroy it. Unfortunately, it was all in vain, which caused my letter to be found by my father.
My father was about to beat me with his belt, which was the worst thing that could happen to a 16 year old Indian teenager. However, fortunately, somebody in uaeteenagers gave me advice, which I used. I dissembled my stories and weaved a lie that states that my friend dared me to give my crush a love letter, and that I was not in love with her, which persuaded my father that I was not in need of a thrasing.
I was relieved, and to make my amygdala, my insula, my insular cortex, and my periaqueductal gray even more elated, she had put a love letter in my bag that apologised for her lacklustre response towards me. She has requested a date that will be taking place tomorrow, and since my parents will be out, of the house, I saw eye to eye with her metaphorically, to ensure that we could literally see eye to eye with each other tomorrow.
I am currently, very elated by this, and am thrilled by a new experience that I will be experiencing. Until now, the only acquaintance with dates I had seen so far were in Hollywood pictures, which cater to a westenr audience, and therefore, until now, have led me to believe that us Indians cannot get dates due to our conservative nature. However, I was proven wrong, and will extract the moral of the impossible being possible from this memorable episode.
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2024.05.14 18:39 notSeAsOn3 Is it still possible to ace in college and get a job at big tech companies or do a startup of my own after getting 67% in 12th boards?

I am a student whose 12th board results just cameout and I don't know how but I got 67%, now for some background, I come from a somewhat toxic family, and a lot of things happened while I was in 11th and 12th beacuse of which this happened. I had got 91% in 10th from that because of the things going on in my family life I could'nt focus on my studies at all until the very end months and things went completely south, I got way lower marks than I expected in all subjects except Hindi and English,
Physics-57
Chemistry-47
Maths- 44
Computer Science - 81
English - 90
Hindi - 63
I dont know how my maths became such bad as it was the only one out of PCM that went good during the exam.
The thing is now my parents admitted me into this college in Kolkata through management quota where the average Placement is 4.48lpa (while I'm sure that's equal if not more than the amount my parents paid for my admission).
So is it still possible to turn my life around ? I always had interest in tech and coding thanks to video games, when I was younger I wanted to learn how to code video games and be a game devloper but my parents weren't supporrtive and I heard there isn't an idustry for that in India so it's useless, right now I am into Machine Learning which I got into after finding about an AI model made just to beat and break the video game Tetris, I want to create or work on projects like that.
Also it's my dream like anyone else to work for a big tech company and earn atleast a lakh an year just after graduating college. But I'm scared if my 12th qualifications will hold me back, can I still acheive that, whatshould I do and how harder do I need to work
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2024.05.14 18:39 AdTrick7283 My dad found my love letter.

Disclaimer:This is part 2 to my story. Here is part 1:https://www.reddit.com/UAETeenagers/comments/1cr3fiq/my_mom_found_my_love_lette
I met my crush when I was in high-school. I was 13 and she was 14. When I set eyes on her, I knew that she was the one for me. Her reflective skin was like gold waiting to be rubbed and loved. Her luminous eyes were like marbles designed for gazers. Her hair was like a sari, but as soft as silk, waiting to infatuate onlookers who fall in its honey-sweet trap. An example of the above is me.
I decided to test my valour via generating and sending a love letter to her. Unfortunately, at the time, she just said 'Thanks', which had left me devastated. Moreso, I had to duplicate my letter while pooping out biryani I ate on Sunday, in the highschool toilet, since my mother had stolen my original letter. I thought I did the needful to destroy it. Unfortunately, it was all in vain, which caused my letter to be found by my father.
My father was about to beat me with his slippers, which was the worst thing that could happen to a 16 year old Indian teenager. However, somebody in this subReddit gave me advice, which I used. I dissembled my stories and weaved a lie that states that my friend dared me to give my crush a love letter, and that I was not in love with her, which persuaded my father that I was not in need of a thrasing.
I was relieved, and to make my amygdala, my insula, my insular cortex, and my periaqueductal gray even more elated, she had put a love letter in my bag that apologised for her lacklustre response towards me. She has requested a date that will be taking place tomorrow, and since my parents will be out, of the house, I saw eye to eye with her metaphorically, to ensure that we could literally see eye to eye with each other tomorrow.
I am currently, very elated by this, and am thrilled by a new experience that I will be experiencing. Until now, the only acquaintance with dates I had seen so far were in Hollywood pictures, which cater to a westenr audience, and therefore, until now, have led me to believe that us Indians cannot get dates due to our conservative nature. However, I was proven wrong, and will extract the moral of the impossible being possible from this memorable episode.
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2024.05.14 18:38 champoradog Is it normal to feel terrible and suffocating anxiety about a planned trip?

Sorry in advance for any errors, English is not my native language.
As a background, I was diagnosed with chronic depression and has been prescribed with an anti-depressant although I frequently forget to take it. Even prior to pregnancy, I am an extremely anxious person. I am the kind of person who thinks that I cannot be too happy else something really bad might happen after.
So just the other day, I purchased a tour package for our family composed of me, husband, my parents and sister, husband's mom, and my toddler who will be 23 months by date of travel).
Now, I feel this crippling anxiety and I almost broke down to tears just thinking that something wrong might happen with the trip. The anxiety is almost suffocating me and robbing me of the feeling to be excited. I don't know if it is a gut feeling that I should follow or if this is plain terrible anxiety.
I also suddenly dread airplanes. I'm not new to riding the plane, and I even enjoy riding planes so this feeling of anxiety is new to me. I guess the only difference is this is the first time that I will be traveling with my child, and also the first time that I'll be traveling with immediate family members.
I keep thinking over and over again, what if our plane crashes? Did I just doom my family? Each time I scroll through my phone and see something related to plane crashes, I feel like it is some sort of sign or signal to cancel the trip.
I also feel that this might be a new fear or phobia that will stay with me for a while -- travelling on air with my child. However, I think that if I am travelling alone, I will not have this kind of fear or anxiety.
I do plan to relay this with my psychiatrist who I see every month for my psych therapy sessions. I guess I would just like to know if other parents have a similar experience. What did you do? How did you overcome terrible anxiety?
Thank you.
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