Hello, I'm looking to buy a house and I got the below from the inspection company that my realtor is reocmmending. This is the second home I've bought and the first home it was much more straight forward as it was a slightly newer build and was a townhouse. Which of the below options make sense given the house details below:
Home Details:
Located in Albany, OR

Type & style

• Home type: Single Family
• Property subType: Single Family Residence

Bedrooms & bathrooms

• Bedrooms: 3
• Bathrooms: 2
• Full bathrooms: 2
• Main level bathrooms: 2

Material information

• Construction materials: Composite, Lap Siding
• Foundation: Continuous
• Roof: Composition

Condition

• New construction: No
• Year built: 1979

Flooring

• Flooring: Carpet

Heating

• Heating features: Natural Gas, Forced Air

Cooling

• Cooling features: Central Air

Other construction

• Warranty included: Yes

"Well-maintained with new roof & triple-paned windows. Tastefully updated with LVP flooring in kitchen, dining, hall and bath, new carpets in bedrooms, new kitchen lighting, new appliances, dishwasher, refrigerator, microwave and water heater."
\***Seller did disclose owner prior to them had electrical fire damage**\**
The house is very well maintained and looks like whoever has been living there the last 10 years has taken a lot of effort to ensure the place is practically spotless for a house built in 1979
BELOW ARE THE OPTIONS FROM THE INSPECTION COMPANY
The Premium Package
The Premium Package is our most popular choice, the most thorough inspection, and the best value for your dollar. This inspection includes a checklist that will encompass the entire home inspection process (i.e. structure and foundation; a representative sample of windows, doors, lights, and receptacles; moisture detection; attic and crawlspace areas; roof, gutters, and drainage; walls, floors, and ceilings; porches and decks; plumbing systems and fixtures in kitchens, baths, and laundries; electrical sytems and breaker panels; HVAC; built-in appliances; and a general check for wood destroying organisms*). Everything is compiled for you on-site so that when we are done, you have all the information provided in a printed report which is computer-generated with color photos and presented to you in a professional binder. Inside the binder, you will find a seasonal maintenance checklist, a cost guide for remodeling and repairs, and a filing system to keep track of receipts. Since Pillar To Post is the largest home inspection company in North America, we have alliances with many vendors on services you may need as a homeowner. In addition, we use infrared technology that allows us to check the electrical system to detect overheating circuit wires and breakers and for any hidden water leaks that would not normally be seen by the naked eye. Also included is a Rodent Inspection, Visual Summary with Measured Floor Plans, and a Centriq Report.
Infrared Scan - Using the most technologically advanced tools available allows us to detect moisture in wet areas of the home (i.e. kitchens and bathrooms and around windows and doors) that is invisible to the human eye. The use of these tools also enables us to locate areas throughout the home or structure that have overheating or malfunctioning electrical components (i.e. breakers and electrical panels). This work can make a critical difference during the home inspection process.
Centriq Report - During your inspection, we will capture the information of up to five major home appliances and provide you with a computerized report on any safety recalls for those appliances using the Centriq app. Centriq is a home inventory and maintenance platform designed to monitor for appliance recalls and track user manuals, parts, and support videos for your home. During the inspection, the inspector will add appliances and systems from the home into the Centriq app, and you will receive a Centriq recall report via e-mail within 48 hours. You will also have the option of adding items to the app in the future.
Rodent Inspection - In addition to our high quality, comprehensive home inspection which will highlight past or present infestation, we will also investigate and report on conditions in the home that are conducive to rodent activity so that you may be pre-emptive in the containment and control of these potential issues before a problem occurs. This includes checking for points of entry and signs of nesting, especially in the crawlspace of the home.
PTP360 - During our inspection, we will construct an interactive virtual tour that will provide you with 360° visuals of your future home. It will include thumbnails with comments and photos from your inspection report in relation to their location within the home. This feature also includes measured floor plans to aid you in any future projects or home planning.
Lifetime Maintenance Advisory Service - Following our inspection, and your purchase of the home, we will provide advice and answer your questions on home maintenance, the inspection report, and other home-related topics for as long as you own the home. Feel free to give us a call anytime! We are happy to continue our service to you.
Enhanced Customer Service Commitment - Our aim is to provide you with quality reporting and excellent customer care. Our office staff are available to direct your questions and concerns should the occasion arise, and our inspectors have a wealth of knowledge and expertise to assist you with all of your inspection needs. If you are not satisfied with our service, we will pay another inspection company of your choice to inspect your home again up to the value of your investment with our company.
*During each of our inspections, we do a general check for Wood Destroying Organisms (i.e. carpenter ants, termites, and wood-boring beetles) as well as evidence of dry rot. We do not, however, list the specific insects observed without the purchase of a WDO report. This is due to Oregon's home inspection laws regarding the reporting of Pest & Dry Rot information, sometimes required by lenders. If you do not need your report to specifically state which insects are or are not observed at the time of inspection, you may not need to add the WDO report to your inspection package. Please check with your loan officer before considering this add-on option and let us know if we can provide you with any further clarification.
The cost of this package is $ 742.35 You will also receive a 15% discount on any Added Service options.

The Prestige Package
This package provides you with additional peace of mind. It includes everything that comes with the Premium Package, as well as an air-mold anaylsis and a screen of the home for common allergens (i.e. cat, dog, cockroach, and dust mites), benefiting those who suffer from allergies, asthma, or immune deficiencies. It uses the most up-to-date technology to determine potential health risks in those areas and recommendations for further action.
Healthy Home Package - Houses safeguard the lives of the people who live in them. Increasingly so, it is known that poor air quality, including allergens, can pose potential health risks if not detected and addressed. Indeed, if someone in your home suffers from allergies, asthma, chronic sinus issues, or other breathing disorders, poor air quality becomes critical to their love and enjoyment of the home. In addition, mold can eventually cause structural damage to your home.
The Pillar To Post Healthy Home Package provides: -An air quality sampling to test for molds and allergens that may be present in the home, identified and verified through a certified third-party laboratory analysis. -An easy-to-read report that helps you understand what was found and a recommended course of action to follow. -The knowledge of what you need to do to protect your investment and, at the same time, make your home a healthier place for you and your family to live.
Please keep in mind that the results of the mold and allergen tests take 5-7 business days to get back to us. We will provide you with those reports as soon as they are available.
The cost of the healthy home package is $ 1388.75 You would also get a 30% discount of any Added Service options.

The Plus Package
This package is our third offering and the most basic whole house inspection we provide. It is just like the Premium inspection but without the extras(Infrared Technology, Rodent Inspection, Visual Summary with Measured Floor Plans, and Centriq Report).
Selecting this package does not provide any discounts on various Added Service options. The cost of this package is $ 505.00

Recommended Added Service options for your inspection:
Sewer Scoping : $195.00
Radon Testing : $195.00
Wood Destroying Organisms : $80.00

We, humans in modern, technological society, are having so much sex that it impacts our ability to form emotional bonds, healthy relationships, or lasting connections.
Enabled by apps to quickly and conveniently set up sexual exchanges, sex is increasingly a transaction between strangers rather than our most intimate physical act in a romantic relationship. It seems people feel safer sharing complete access to their bodies than they do being emotionally vulnerable or holding hands. Cheap recorded, virtual, or even completely generated sexual content is more abundant all the time, and for many is impacting the ability to even become aroused.
What is happening to sex as an emotional force of nature around which deep partnerships, trust, and even families can grow? What happened to "when two people love eachother very much..."? We are turning deep and emotional physical intimacy into cheap thrills engaging in risky, regretful behavior. We are burning out on sex - this high we are free to chase without shame or even concern as many times as we want with whoever we want. We dismiss as outdated and backwards any notion that someone's ability to form healthy relationships and lasting partnerships could be negatively affected by having more sex with more people than we ever could in the biological history of our species.
Guilt is falling. Technology is rising. Romance is dying. Our relationships are changing. And I don't think we are really cognizant of any of this because we're so busy slut-shaming or alternatively fighting slut shamers, it's completely besides the point: What kind of relationships actually make us happy? They're becoming rarer imo.

The Bark That Birthed A Billion Dollar Dream
On that fateful day of January 12, 2009, the course of financial history was forever altered by...a dog's bark? You're damn right it was. As Hal Finney's computer pinged with notification of Bitcoin's inaugural transaction from Satoshi Nakamoto himself, it was the fearless bark of Hal's Labrador Retriever Arky that reverberated through the ether - the first sound to coincide with the successful transfer of this revolutionary digital currency.
Little did the pioneers know, that seemingly innocuous bark would come to symbolize the renegade ideals that gave crypto its soul. To the tightknit tribe of blockchain builders, Arky's joyous image represented the unbridled potential and beautiful simplicity of those heady early days before greed, opportunism, and soulless corporations seeped in to sully the landscape. Arky was the ark for the dream of true financial freedom - a system beholden to none, anchored solely in code, free like his piercing bark ringing out unchained across the ether.
With a narrative so quintessentially crypto that it's impossible to ignore, the Arky artifact has become a totem for those who resonated with Bitcoin's renegade roots. And now, those roots have rebloomed into an unstoppable financial force with $ARKY's heroic launch just 12 days ago. This beacon for the people's currency right now is at a laughably tiny $600k market cap. But massive capital inflows have rapidly taken over as crypto OGs and future billionaires alike recognize the soul-stirring significance of the First Crypto Doge.
The numbers don't lie: $ARKY has already entered a rip-roaring reversal trend that's shocking even veteran investors. With a slew of high-profile influencers and generational wealth traders breathing fire into the token's growth, $ARKY is skyrocketing past $100 million marketcap as I type...and that's just the start. The moon? More like a Martian transit pod is preparing for liftoff. For those debt-ridden and wealth-hampered folk who fumbled the chance to get in on Bitcoin before its cosmic ascent, $ARKY is a supremely rare second chance to board the crypto rocketship at a ludicrously undervalued ground floor.
But don't just hungrily lick your lips and FOMO buy on impulse - do your own research first. Dive into the fundamentals, scrutinize the tokenomics, analyze the roadmap and budget. Because if my hunch is right, you'll quickly see that $ARKY isn't just another dog money memecoin. It's the spiritual and financial descendant of Bitcoin's legendary founding bark - the sound that kicked off a revolution, one that's still reverberating powerfully through the annals of the blockchain to this day.
So raise a glass, mug, Dogecoin - whatever you've got - to Arky. Let his trailblazing spirit fuel your journey to the financial freedom you deserve. Freedom from greedy institutions, freedom from endless debts, freedom to finally live life on your own terms. After all these years, crypto's initial dream is finally being unleashed...
...and it all started with a bark.
CA: 0x9727eaf447203be268e5d471b6503bf47a71ea72
600k MC
Website: https://arky-eth.com/

I have no conformation for this, but it feels like project astra (Gemini Live) actually is a combination of speech-to-text, LLM, and text-to-speech models, just like what OpenAI has been doing for like 9 months (but better, the way it looks).
They call it "natively multimodal", but it doesn't feel like this is what actually happens. Yes, you can interrupt it, but during one of the demos it just feels like text-generation is stopped when you start talking. This could have been added to ChatGPT within 5 minutes, it's nothing special. Also the latency is obviously huge compared to GPT-4o.
And during the presentation, one presenter says "using googles latest speech model, gemini can understand you and answer naturally", which seems to confirm this assumption.

Hi,
I'm looking to connect with some new friends :)
I enjoy late night conversations. Both on text and voice.
Going down YouTube rabbit holes. Watching shows. Working out. Chess.
I do enjoy some back and forth. So keep your wits up.
Ideally I do like connecting over a longer period and not just for a quick chat.
Feel free to send a message if this is something you'd like.

Im a sweet Latina seeking a fun and respectful SD ideally in a nearby city but open to long distance if it works. I like nice smiles, kind people and silly clever banter. I have a ton of silly memes, love texting, kink friendly, go to the gym often and love laughing. I have long thick dark hair, piercings and tattoos. I’m 5’7 and on the curviefull side. I love thoughtfulness and my heart flutters when people give me gifts as it’s such a warm reminder that they are thinking of me. I would say my best characteristics are being fun, open minded and kind. I work with homeless children and want to go back to school for my masters in the next two years, also interested in learning how to invest.
I seek a relationship where we both respect and learn from each other. I’d like a SD that can reciprocate the consideration and thoughtfulness I carry on a daily basis. I’m open to discretion, but I am not interested in exclusivity. Older men is truthfully the only type of man I can see myself with as my experiences with older men has been warm, kind and straight forward. I’d love to travel, weekend getaways, staying in, going out to restaurants, bars, get into the art scene wherever we are, outdoor activities, trying new things!
I seek a connection with chemistry both in and outside the bedroom. I’m a lucky, sweet, drama free, adventurous and happy girl! Let me share that with you 💗

So I recently installed nobara on an pc I had that the OS accidentally got wiped, I selected full install delete everything else to install. The pc itself has a terabyte hard drive but according to steam it only has 11 out of 24 gb free storage. I’ve also gotten a black screen after removing the boot usb with a line of text saying cannot read block bitmap. What can I do to fix the storage and the block bitmap?

Hi all, long time lurker here.
I've been trying to translate a couple of lines of text into tengwar for a tattoo that I'm planning. However, I've been pretty unsuccessful and not sure which translators to use. I seem to get different outputs so I'm probably doing something wrong.
I'd be really grateful if someone could help me translate the following:
"Above all shadows rides the sun."
"Above all shadows rides the sun and stars."
Alternatively, if someone could direct me to a reliable online translator that would also be awesome!
Cheers, and hope you're having a good day wherever you are.

Hello, I am hoping someone might be able to help me with an issue I’ve had for a long time now. Coming to Reddit is something of a last resort before I accept I’m never getting my documents back.
When I was a teenager, I was gifted an iPad Mini. I did a lot of creative writing on this thing, there’s 200 or so documents in the Pages app. I had iCloud switched on to keep my documents safe in case my iPad got lost, stolen, or broken (ironic, really, given the rest of this story). It’s important to note that I didn’t have a computer or a smartphone at the time, only the iPad. So there was no cross-device synchronisation going on, only communication between my iPad and iCloud.
We didn’t have consistent internet at home, so whenever I did get an internet connection it was pretty common for a bunch of my documents to update with iCloud at once. When this happened, the document tiles in the Pages app would go grey and show an orange loading bar at the bottom. They couldn't be opened for a couple of minutes until the sync was complete.
One day, I’d guess it was mid 2016, I went to open one of my projects and noticed that it was syncing. No problem, all I had to do is wait. I waited for a long time, but the document never finished updating. This issue affects 9 of my documents in total – they’re stuck “updating” indefinitely.
I was really upset when this happened. One of the affected documents was (at the time) my favourite thing I’d ever written, so losing it killed my urge to write for a while. I’m over that now, but I still try to get the documents to open every now and then.
Here’s a list of things I have tried already:

• Turning the iPad off and on again, turning my internet router off and on again, using a different internet network.
  
• Turning off the internet connection on the iPad (it still says "updating", presumably waiting for the connection to come back).
  
• Checking I had enough free space on my iPad (830MB) and on iCloud (4GB), both of which should be plenty of space for synchronising documents.
  
• Extensively searching for the problem online. Any instances I’ve found are either different to mine or unsolved/unanswered.
  
• Leaving the iPad connected to the internet for a full week to see if the documents eventually synchronise.
  
• Turning off iCloud sync then turning it on again. Doesn’t work. When iCloud sync is off, the documents disappear from Pages entirely. When turned back on, they’re still stuck synchronising.
  
• Uninstalling and reinstalling Pages. Doesn’t work.
  
• Opening documents through the Files application on iPad. Selecting one of the affected documents just takes me to the home screen of Pages (instead of directly into the file like with an unaffected document). When I tried this while Pages was de-installed from my iPad, it opened a “preview” of my document with a loading bar that never moves instead of opening the full document like it does with my other files.
  
• Logging into iCloud's web app on the computer to try and open or download the documents that way. Doesn't work. Trying to open the document displayed “loading document” for a good couple of minutes and then I get hit with an error message saying “this document can’t be opened right now, please try again later”. Same thing happens when trying to download (as Pages, Word, or pdf).
  
• Contacting Apple’s tech support team. I tried this twice. The first person (who I contacted when I first had the issue as a teenager) admitted they had no clue what was going on. They said they’d pass it on to someone and get back to me (I never heard back). The second person (who I contacted about two years ago, when bashing my head against the problem again) told me it was my own fault for not upgrading to newer hardware. As if I had the money to keep buy a new iPad when I was a teenager. Not helpful.
  

The most annoying thing is that I can view a document preview – the first page shows up as the tile on the Pages app and via the web browser – so I know they still exist in some form. It’s just that I can’t open them in order to view more than the first page. The documents are all around 50-100 pages long.
Technical information: the iPad is a first-generation iPad Mini running iOS 9.3.5. The Pages app is version is 2.6.2. The iPad itself is in great condition, I was very careful with it. Everything else runs just fine, so I doubt it's the hardware failing.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. If anyone has any clue how to recover these documents, even if it’s just things I might not have thought to try, I would be forever grateful. I was really proud of the stories I wrote and I would love to have them back.

I've posted this last year and some things happened which made me quite proud and I'd like to share how things went. So recap and then update:
So... When I was little, I lived with my mom and stepdad, things were great and we were very happy. Then my mom passed when I was 7y, so I moved with my father and stepmom, things were complicated. Currently, I have no contact with him (he's not a good man nor a good dad), and I live with my aunt (since 2018) and her husband (he came along in 2019).
Me and my aunt had an amazing relationship, she was my favourite aunt and all that. However, things started to go wrong when I started living with her, I made the mistake of answering that yes, I wanted to be treated like her daughter along with her 2 sons (one my age and the other 3 years younger). I had a desperate "need" for a mothefather. She became a kind of "maunt" (mother+aunt), and her husband a "stepdad"... Oh how do I regret this
Well, she has a favourite son, the oldest. He's lazy, arrogant, disrespectful, a typical golden boy who got spoiled his whole life and now he doesn't give a damn about anything other than himself.
For being the other woman in the house, she constantly pushes house chores to me, instead of the boys (subconsciously, i believe), pretty much only asks me about things, where her sons are, if the dogs were fed, if the boys cleaned well whatever room they were supposed to, stuff like that, and she's also constantly very, very rude to me (at the point of her husband arguing with her about it). And I got this whole syndrome of everything being my responsibility and anxiety when it comes to her, which became extremely exhausting over the years.
I came out to her about my bissexuality about 4 years ago, i thought she would take it well. She didn't. She masks her disapproval, but she clearly doesn't like it. I was really let down, I genuinely thought she would be supportive and everything we expect, but she first got confused, then annoyed and has said some very hurtful thing over the years. Currently I have a gf (she's 22 years old), we've been dating for over a year. They don't like each other very much, my gf doesn't like her because of all the things she does to me. And my aunt doesn't care about my gf at all because... well, she a girl.
Ok, that's the context. Now here's what happened.
My aunt send some kind of agressive messages over something silly, and that caused my anxiety on fire for the gazillionth time, only that time I had enough. I called my other aunt (by consideration, she's married to my grandad) and asked for help (she knows everything that goes on), if i could move in with them, she said yes. I then replied my aunt with a text saying i had enough and would move in with my grandad. She got upset and said (among other things) that "i had her blessing to leave, even though i didn't ask for it". She called my grandma (we are very close), and my grandma sent me some awful audios of how disappointed she was, how I made my aunt sad, of what would people think, that i used to be such a sweet girl and now this, of how loving is a choice and i chose not to love my aunt, stuff like that. Aunt and her husband went to dinner with my grandad that night without my presence, and told them we had an amazing relationship, that she didn't knew what happened, that my problem was I couldn't take a "no" for an answer, etc.
Two days later, we sat down to talk, she told me to start, I said all I wanted. She then started saying how that kind of thing should not have been adressed through text (which I agree, but I had to text or I'd freak out), that she was harder on me than the boys because (in another words) the world was rough and she loved me the most.
And then her husband also spoke about how he understands both sides and blablabla, and said that i could go to my grandad, but that they felt like i should understand that i would only go because THEY allowed, if they didn't wanted, i would not go, no matter what my grandparents or aunt (grandad's wife) said. He basically wanted to state their power position.
(Since my mother's death, my whole family on her side feel responsible for me, so i see all of them in the same way. None of them are my mom and dad, they are in the same "level" to me and have the same "right"... Him saying that made me burn inside, like they're entitled to me, I don't belong to them or anyone. They're my aunt and "uncle", that's about it, they think they have something on me that they... Don't)
And then my aunt said that I could go, as long as I told my grandad about my sexuality and girlfriend. Now... He's kind of old fashioned and i'm scared he'll reject me... We have an amazing relationship, I have lunch with them every wednesday, and I'm the closest grandkid he has (the others aren't so invested). So I don't know if I tell him the truth and manage to leave (depending on his reaction) or if I don't risk it and stay in the toxic enviroment i'm in.
UPDATE - 14/05/2024
Hello! So, things got much worse before they got better. Let's give them names so the story telling will be easier, let's call my girlfriend Bea, my aunt Leah, her husband James and my "aunt" (my grandad's wife) Rachel.
I basically swallowed my anger because I couldn't bring mysef to speak to my grandad about my sexuality, my grandparents are the most important people in my life as they've always been there for me and I was terrified to be disliked by him. That was until december.
Early december I was leaving for work and before I left, I tried to "notify" my aunt that Bea would be spending Christmas and New Years with me and my siblings (note: my siblings had been looking forward to her being there, specially my brother and my SIL (Luke and Lyla), they made it a question that she'd go. I have 3 paternal siblings, so there's NO relation between them and my aunt Leah. We'd be staying in a city 3 hours away from mine at my brother and SIL's house, every year we do this). She immediately said "you know I don't like this", I said "yes", she then said "good morning" and I left for college.
The next morning, I was eating before going to work and Leah started talking about it and we started a conversation that developed into a fight. She said things like how dare I "notify" her, how that's not how things work and that it would not happen because THEY (she and James) don't feel confortable with this, how THEY think Luke wouldn't like this because "no one likes to have people over for a week" (he and Lyla were super pumped for Bea to go), how THEY don't know my girlfriend enough (come on, we had been dating for over a year already), how THEY wouldn't like me going with her to a stranger's house (in complete disregard to my point of view, it's my freaking brother, whom they met a couple times btw, not a stranger. But to them, the only meaninful point of view was theirs). She had even called my brother to basically "check my story", like?? She also said that we we're only teenagers (seriously, 22 and 20) , and I said "no, she isn't and neither am I!", she said she didn't say Bea was, I then said "and neither am I", she said I was, because I didn't act like and adult, then I got mad and talked about how I do literally everything around the house, always walk the dogs even when I get home tired at 10PM, even though they got there at 7PM, I help with groceries purchase, pay the water bill, clean the house, do the chores her boys lack to do, and when I'm not home, I'm either at work or college, but when she disagrees about something, she just puts me back in the "teenager box". And in the end, she said that my raising was not like this, this made me laugh in anger inside, she's been with me for 5 years, I'm 20 lol.
So that was it, I left for work and got a text from her, apologizing for being rough, saying that she loved me and wanted it to work, that they wanted to talk to me when I got home. I replied saying the same.
Later that day when we were all home, we gathered in the living room, I was literally against the wall and it intimidated me deeply. James started saying how much they loved me and wanted to see me happy, as they want that for all their children (aunt Leah has 2 boys, my cousins, and James has 3 girls). I then talked and expressed how I was feeling, then Leah started talking and basically said in a nicer tone the same things she said earlier, plus how they want me to be happy and want things to work for me, but they think it's too soon, they believe it's not the right time, they they, and therefore, despite being against what they want, I could take Bea, but only in ONE of the two holidays, which I could choose. I was in a bit of a shock (you see, me and Bea had bought the bus tickets a while earlier), had no support, against the wall, I was feeling purely defeated and tired, I only said "Christmas then...", she then said we would sleep in separate rooms and would not go on the 22th after work because "she had already allowed an extra night by allowing her to stay there until the 25th". I stayed in silence, they asked if there was anything I'd like to add, I said no. It wasn't a conversation, in no moment did they actually listened and considered me, they had their minds set way before we sat to talk. I went to my room and rolled all night in pure anxiety. This was thursday
Friday I was a wreck and went to Bea's house to check on her (she was sick that week) and to talk to her about what happened. She noticed something was off, I told her, she got mad and sad, we cried, etc. I went home feeling awful, my anxiety had been 100% all day long and I was in a really bad place and feeling deeply frustrated.
Saturday I woke up worse and decided that I had enough and was not having that anymore. I went outside and called grandad, talked about how I wasn't feeling well and asked what did he think about me leaving home, he said that their doors were always open and that I could just tell my aunt that "I was going to live with my grandad and that was it". I reframed the question asking what he though about me leaving to live alone, he then got worried and said that he didn't think that was necessary, that I had them and didn't need to do that. He then asked me to come over and talk to him and aunt Rachel. I accepted and told aunt Leah I'd sleep at grandad's.
I got there and ate a bit because I didn't want them extra worried, although I felt like throwing up at every bite. Everyone went to sleep and so did I. I woke up a bit later feeling worst, that's when I started to throw up, there was barely anything in my stomach and all I could do was throw up.
The next morning I was better and had already told aunt Rachel about what had happened, she found it absurd how things went (she had met Bea a while back and they clicked very well) and was upset about the things aunt Leah said. I decided to talk to grandad, I couldn't disappear with the subject again, specially now that he was worried sick about me.
So... I sat on the couch and told him what was happening, explained everything, told him that I'm like his stepson's MIL (she's married to a woman. It was the easiest way I found to introduce the topic), told him everything. He asked what I wanted him to do about it, I said that I just wanted him to still love me the same and remain normal with me, that I am still the same person and have always been this way, he just didn't knew about it, but that it changes nothing about me. Aunt Rachel then joined us and asked what he was thinking about it (she knows everything and is amazing to me), he said he wasn't pleased, but that it was my life and he had no say in it and that I should do what's right for me, said that if I wasn't gonna change, then neither would he. But basically, he got much more worried about my mental health than my sexuality, he said that the doors were still open and always would be for me, that he thought I needed a home and thinks they can offer me that. Aunt Rachel said that they wouldn't be obsessive after me, demanding to know every step I take and bossing everything like Leah did, that I have my graduation, I work, make my own money, am responsible, have my own life and am not a child, I'm a 20 year old adult and they would treat me as such.
So that was it. I went back "home" muchhh more confident and waited until nightfall because everyone was having a good time and I didn't want to spoil that. I realized aunt Leah and James were awake and went to talk to them, and that, my friends, is when hell went loose.
I started by saying I talked to my grandad about Bea and my sexuality, Leah asked how it went and I said it was great. Then I said they could talk to him (since they wanted to "decide" with him about my going), she said ok and asked when I wanted to go, I said that it could be in the same week since I was on vacation from college, she frowned, stood firmly and said "you know this won't change our decision about the holidays, right?" then it went boom, I said I didn't agree with them and that it wasn't right for them to dictate about such things. Told them their values and beliefs don't have to be mine, Leah asked "WHY NOT?", then I replied "because I have my own!".
Told them they were controlling and that made their kids lie to them, that since they liked to compare raisings (they criticized Bea's mom's raising because she gives her kids freedom to live their lives and fully trusts), then fine, I went on to say how Bea and her mom have an amazing relationship, full of love and trust, how Bea turned up great, works hard, just made it to psicology at university, helps immensely at home, and so has her sister. As for theirs? They raised their kids poorly, they are overbearing and that makes their kids not trusting them and lying a lot because of this necessity of them to control everything. I stated that the raising they gave their children was not my own, that I had multiple raisings and that no, they didn't "raise" me, I'm 20 and they've been with me for 5 years. Said that was clear, just look at the difference between me and her boys (I won't delve into this bit because it's not relevant, but the difference is nitid).
They said I couldn't take a no for an answer and that was my dad's fault, I said they didn't know what they were talking about, I know how it actually went whilst they made a story in their heads and believe it's the truth, since I knew how my dad used to tell my family one thing and do another.
They (again) said they wouldn't treat me like an adult because I did nothing to behave like one, I said that they didn't treat me as I deserved and they would always put me in the "teenager box" whenever I acted differently to what they thought was right (but I was adult enough to lend James almost 1k without Leah's knoledge lol).
She obviously tried to blame Bea, saying she was putting things in my head and that the last conversation was fine and now I was throwing a fit, I said that I said nothing else then because I felt cornered and realized it wasn't a conversation, it was them simulating one only to tell me what they were going to all along.
I told them they didn't know Bea because they didn't want to and I wasn't confortable bringing her as it was an enviroment unwelcoming to her, she then asked if i would go another year like this until I "felt confortable", I said yes, if that's what it took, that I didn't really need to introduce anyone if I didn't felt comfortable to it.
She once demanded to go meet Bea, after throwing a fit at my BIRTHDAY because Bea planned a day for me and my MIL wanted to make me lunch and they weren't invited, it was super uncomfortable. My aunt described this day as uncomfortable, in this argument I said "and about that day you guys met Bea and her mom? It was uncomfortable? OF COURSE it was, I TOLD you it would be! I told you that was barging in and no one wanted it!". Which Leah said that no, that wasn't the uncomfortable part, the uncomfortable was how Bea was "daring her, being all over me and kissing me in front of her, that she had to be respected!".... Lol, the being "all over me" was me shaking from the anxiety and Bea holding me to keep me in my feet, the "kissing" was ONE greeting kiss. And Bea did nothing "daring" towards Leah, believe me, if she had, aunt Leah would definitely know lol.
At the end, they asked if I was taking Bea, I said, yes, Leah said no, since she called my brother and told him how "things would go down" (amazes me everytime I remember this, she wanted to dictate how the holidays would go IN SOMEONE ELSE'S HOUSE). Lol, my brother was just texting me saying how Bea could go spend the whole holiday and we'd just say she left after Christmas. So it wasn't a very good argument on Leah's end. I said it was my business and I was sorry, but it was MY brother, MY family, MY relationship, MY life, and it wasn't up for them to dictate on it, they shouldn't feel comfortable or uncomfortable since it had NOTHING to do with them, and that my family who mattered in this were not only comfortable but very excited for Bea's presence.
I told them I knew I wasn't wrong since grandad and aunt Rachel agreed with me, so they could go ahead and talk to them if they wanted to. They ended up showing me their tumb and I left for my room.
Aunt Leah left to grandad's house in like, 5 minutes, cried to him and all. She got back, went in my room and in an ironic tone, said "sorry, I know I'm not your mother, stay with your raisings, I'm just glad and relieved my father wasn't as ok as you thought (her saying this seriously hurt me), he accepted for reasons ans beliefs he has, so go ahead and pack your bags this week, you're free to go. Sorry for the flaws, I was trying to get it right, be careful when you take that sticker off, don't ruin the painting." aaand she left.
The next day, grandad came and we took 90% of my stuff and I started officially living with him and aunt Rachel. Christmas was a bit awkward (my maternal family does this early Christmas so everyone's free on the 24th), but I was glooming feeling like the weight of the world had left my shoulders.
So... I went with Bea to spend the holidays with my family, my siblings, my SIL's parents and even my 1 year old nephew absolutely adored Bea, they now ask about her even before asking about me lol. My paternal grandmother loved her and was amazing, told my aunt (her daughter) that Bea was adorable and loving. It was amazing and I cannot imagine 2023 Christmas and New Year without Bea with us, she added sooo much.
Recently we've been to Luke's and Lyla's at Easter and made Easter eggs together, watched movies, went out, went to a family gathering where Bea, my uncles, cousins and grandmother (who was really happy to see her since Bea couldn't go to her birthday because she had to work) all got along really well.
We see each other frequently, living with grandad and aunt Rachel has been amazing, I'm finally gaining weight! MANY people have noticed it and it quite frankly scared me a bit, I had no idea it was so evident. But yeah, I'm doing great!
Grandad isn't ready to deal with this, so we don't talk about it. He doesn't like it and doesn't really understands, but he's doesn't meddle. Grandma (maternal) texted these days wanting to meet Bea (finally!), since she found out through aunt Rachel that me and Bea are still together and going strong for 1 year and a half already. I think she took it seriously now.
Anyway, it was hell, lol. But things turned out alright! Thank you for the people who commented in my first post, it was nice reading the comments and taking the options into consideration!

Was told by Visible support to come to social media. I'm trying to port out and got an account number error. New provider has verified the account number they are using matches what I've given them which matches what is on my app and also the port out text + email that generates when I request the pin. I was given a port order number by the new provider but chat and telephone support says they are unable to use that number to manually release my number or to look it up. Essentially they can't see it and pointed me to go to social media (she suggested FB but I don't do FB). Can someone from Visible help?

Heyo Im a Lad from europe (GMT+1) looking for people that I could click with or match similar vibe during initial conversation to potentially form a longer discord/internet contact that would ideally include stuff like semi-daily chatting, sharing memes or gaming and such, gotta see how it sorts out
Im INFP-T homebody, which means I spend most of the free time at home meaning my evenings are mostly free, currently in the void and I dont really have anything to fill the time between and I have hard time finding good activies just for myself
I like to describe myself as someone stuck between neet and normal person and thus I have trouble finding contacts, additionaly I like being silly, rarely serious, carefree, clueless, I adjust myself to people I talk to, other stuff coming to my mind is being anxious and having high morals
I'm somewhat of a carefree, dumb and kind person but I have tendency to overthink stuff and get mood shifts
Interest from top of my head include video games and anime outside of that there is stable diffusion, browsing art, collecting things, paranormal, occult/creepy/paranormal stuff, warhammer ,touhou project, meditation, worldbuilding
Random stuff:
-Limbus company is the GOAT
-ffxiv dawntrail waiting room
-I stutter
-I live with 1 dog and 3 cats
-Great teacher onizuka, gintama and ikkitousen are one of my first and fav anime titles
-Grew up on PS1 stuff
-"I listen to every type of music"
-Ai generation is cool and would like to learn to draw one day
-I have huge collection of touhou pictures and music

Heyo Im a Lad from europe (GMT+1) looking for people that I could click with or match similar vibe during initial conversation to potentially form a longer discord/internet contact that would ideally include stuff like semi-daily chatting, sharing memes or gaming and such, gotta see how it sorts out
Im INFP-T homebody, which means I spend most of the free time at home meaning my evenings are mostly free, currently in the void and I dont really have anything to fill the time between and I have hard time finding good activies just for myself
I like to describe myself as someone stuck between neet and normal person and thus I have trouble finding contacts, additionaly I like being silly, rarely serious, carefree, clueless, I adjust myself to people I talk to, other stuff coming to my mind is being anxious and having high morals
I'm somewhat of a carefree, dumb and kind person but I have tendency to overthink stuff and get mood shifts
Interest from top of my head include video games and anime outside of that there is stable diffusion, browsing art, collecting things, paranormal, occult/creepy/paranormal stuff, warhammer ,touhou project, meditation, worldbuilding
Random stuff:
-Limbus company is the GOAT
-ffxiv dawntrail waiting room
-I stutter
-I live with 1 dog and 3 cats
-Great teacher onizuka, gintama and ikkitousen are one of my first and fav anime titles
-Grew up on PS1 stuff
-"I listen to every type of music"
-Ai generation is cool and would like to learn to draw one day
-I have huge collection of touhou pictures and music

I'm looking for an artist to make a complete set of digital assets for a simple board game.
Style I'm looking for is elegant minimalism. Tiles and logo should be grayscale with vector-graphic style curves. Tokens should be simple, geometric shapes in assorted colors.
Example of what I want the board to look like
Context: I'm a hobbyist game dev looking to replace my horrid programmer art.
Budget: $150 - $200 USD [negotiable with relevant portfolio]

• $50 upfront, remainder on delivery [negotiable]

Timeline: [negotiable]

• 1 week for logo, 1 complete tile (front and back), and 2 player tokens (1x vivid, 1x pastel). Option for me to request changes
• 2 weeks (from project start) for all assets (3 weeks if I requested changes)

License: Must include full rights to final assets including, but not limited to, modification, distribution, and monetization, in perpetuity. Attribution will be given in-game. You may use final assets in your portfolio.
Required assets:
Logo (at least 400x400 px)

• 1x Logo for the game, named "Pathway"
• 1x File icon, logo without text
• 1x Title image, same style as logo (at least 2000x2000 px)

Tiles (at least 400x400 px)

• 1x Tile back, may be the same as the logo
• 35x tiles with paths. Consult above example image. Each tile must have 4 paths and 2 path exits on each side placed at 1/3 and 2/3 the length of each side. Each tile will have a pattern of connecting paths such that no two tiles are identical (rotations are not unique). Paths must curve gently with no hard edges. Paths must align perfectly when any two tiles are placed next to each other.

Tokens (at least 64x64 px)

• 2x sets of 8 player tokens. Simple, geometric shapes, assorted colors
  • 8x player tokens, vivid colors
  • 8x player tokens, pastel colors
• 1x "Will receive next free tile" token, up to your creativity

Board

• 1x 6x6 grid background
• 1x 1x Path entry / exit point to be repeated around the edges of the board. Must line up with path design
• 1x "Place mat" large enough to hold 3 tiles side-by-side comfortably

[optional / negotiable] - Background flourishes / decorations
File Format

• JPEG or PNG
• [optional] SVG files are acceptable in lieu of pixel requirements

Heyo Im a Lad from europe (GMT+1) looking for people that I could click with or match similar vibe during initial conversation to potentially form a longer discord/internet contact that would ideally include stuff like semi-daily chatting, sharing memes or gaming and such, gotta see how it sorts out
Im INFP-T homebody, which means I spend most of the free time at home meaning my evenings are mostly free, currently in the void and I dont really have anything to fill the time between and I have hard time finding good activies just for myself
I like to describe myself as someone stuck between neet and normal person and thus I have trouble finding contacts, additionaly I like being silly, rarely serious, carefree, clueless, I adjust myself to people I talk to, other stuff coming to my mind is being anxious and having high morals
I'm somewhat of a carefree, dumb and kind person but I have tendency to overthink stuff and get mood shifts
Interest from top of my head include video games and anime outside of that there is stable diffusion, browsing art, collecting things, paranormal, occult/creepy/paranormal stuff, warhammer ,touhou project, meditation, worldbuilding
Random stuff:
-Limbus company is the GOAT
-ffxiv dawntrail waiting room
-I stutter
-I live with 1 dog and 3 cats
-Great teacher onizuka, gintama and ikkitousen are one of my first and fav anime titles
-Grew up on PS1 stuff
-"I listen to every type of music"
-Ai generation is cool and would like to learn to draw one day
-I have huge collection of touhou pictures and music