Men with medium length hair have a range of stylish options to choose from. Whether it's a textured quiff, a messy tousle or a sleek side part, medium length hair allows for diverse and fashionable looks. These hairstyles strike a balance between short and long offering versatility for various preferences and personal styles. In this blog we will explore the top medium length haircuts for men which values fashion and functionality.

Top 10 Hairstyles For Men l Haircuts For Medium Length Hair

1. The Textured Quiff
2. The Undercut
3. The Messy Waves
4. The Modern Pompadour
5. The Shaggy Crop
6. The Blunt Cut
7. The Side-Swept Fringe
8. The Curly Medium Cut
9. The Tapered Mid Length Cut
10. The Classic Slick Back

Hi - I'm getting my haircut and I have un-colored medium texture straight hair and I want to go to a bob, but any time I go short, I look like a middle-aged librarian and that's not what I'm really going for
I see pics of people with really cute bobs or lobs and they all have wispy hair and it just seems to suit them really well, does anyone have any other inspo pics for medium texture?

I just came back from the hairdressers and they seemed frustrated that I didn't know what to ask for. Firstly, she asked "What would you like?". Usually I just give a broad outline for what I'm looking for, so I said "medium to short, whatever you think looks good". This was apparently a mistake since I'm supposed to give an exact description of what type of style I'm looking for and what equipment they should use. After a huff and a puff, she ask, "Do you usually have it trimmed or cut with scissors?". What I was thinking in that moment was, "I don't know. I don't tell the dentist which drill to use when getting a filling, how should I know which equipment you should use?". I actually said something like "Sometimes I get it trimmers, sometimes cut with scissors. Whichever you think is best" and the look on her face was that of utter confusion and frustration. She said something along the lines of "if you don't like what I do, don't complain". The haircut is perfectly fine btw and perfect for this upcoming summer weather.
Honestly so frustrated with hairdressers. Something like this happens with almost every other new hairdresser. I don't go to a restaurant and order whatever the hell I want. I don't tell a doctor what's wrong with me. Either have a menu I can choose from or just give me a normal looking trim.

Aiko Mugen-Nihon
Name: Aiko Mugen-Nihon
Age: 15
Occupation: Heroine
Heroine name: Copycat Virtuoso
Orientation: aromantic
Quirk: Multi-Skill
Quirk Description: Multi-Skill is a highly versatile Emitter-type Quirk that grants Aiko Mugen-Nihon the exceptional ability to copy and combine up to three different quirks observed from other individuals, albeit with certain limitations and unique conditions. Skills can range from physical proficiencies, like martial arts or aerobatic manoeuvres, to more cognitive talents, such as chess strategies or complex problem-solving methods. Abilities:

1. Skill Copy:
   
   • Upon witnessing a quirk being performed, Aiko Mugen-Nihon can instantly learn and replicate that skill perfectly for a short period.
   • Aiko Mugen-Nihon must maintain visual contact with the subject performing quirk for at least five continuous seconds to initiate a copy.
   • Copied quirks last for one hour after which they fade from memory unless extended by repeated exposures.
2. Skill Synthesis:
   
   • Copycat Virtuoso can combine any two or three quirks currently in her repertoire to create new, hybrid abilities.
   • Combining skills requires deep concentration and understanding of the underlying mechanics of each quirk.
   • The resulting hybrid quirk often yields unforeseen strengths but also comes with increased mental or physical strain.
3. Skill Adaptation:
   
   • When employing a copied or synthesised quirk, Multi-Skill allows for slight modifications adjusted to Aiko Mugen-Nihon's physical and mental capabilities.
   • This adaptation makes even physically demanding quirks viable, though slightly less effective than the original if beyond Copycat Virtuoso's physical limits.
4. Skill Enhancement:
   
   • The quirk subtly enhances Aiko Mugen-Nihon's neural processing, allowing faster reaction times and quicker adaptation during skill use.
   • Over time, if a quirk is copied and used repeatedly, enhancements can lead toward semi-permanency of that quirk, though still below the original skill level

Weaknesses:

1. Cognitive Load:
   
   • Using Multi-Skill is mentally taxing. Employing multiple skills simultaneously or in quick succession can lead to mental fatigue, reducing the effectiveness of the skills and possibly leading to headaches or loss of concentration.
2. Time Limitation:
   
   • Skills, once copied, only remain in Copycat Virtuoso's "active memory" for a limited duration of one hour. Frequent re-exposure is necessary to maintain proficiency.
3. Skill Decay:
   
   • Without consistent training or re-exposure, enhanced and semi-permanent quirks gradually decay over time.
4. Dependency on Observation:
   
   • Quirks cannot be copied from descriptions or recordings; live observation is mandatory.
   • If the line of sight is obscured during the initial copying phase, the process fails.

Tactical Uses: Multi-Skill is incredibly potent in both combat and strategic settings. In battles, the ability to adapt and counter opponents’ techniques on the fly gives Aiko Mugen-Nihon an edge. For intelligence or covert operations, the ability to acquire and apply numerous civilian skills (like lock-picking or lip-reading) can be invaluable.
Appearance: Aiko Mugen-Nihon has long, brunette hair stylised in the butterfly haircut hairstyle with Hazel eyes and a medium-sized breast with a heart-shaped face with a lean figure that she regularly keeps in shape
Heroine outfit: In her Heroine outfit, Aiko Mugen-Nihon wears something akin to a kickboxer's uniform, which consists of a skin-tight crop top that shows her toned body with form-fitting trousers with kickboxing shoes
School outfit: Aiko Mugen-Nihon wears a blazer with her heroine symbol on the back with no tie and jeans with ankle-high shoes

Relationships with Class 1-A

• Minoru Mineta- Avoids him like the plague and has threatened to report him if he tries anything with her
  
• Toru Hagakure- besties. They go on shopping trips together sometimes
  
• Koji Koda- She doesn't hang out with him much
  
• Yuga Aoyama-she tolerates him, although she doesn't like him and thinks he's too full of himself
  
• Kyoka Jiro- she's a good friend, and they hang out sometimes
  
• Rikido Sato- she thinks he's...Interesting in a weird way
  
• Denki Kaminari- she thinks he's fun to be around and even has given him the nickname 'Pikachu' on account of his quirk
  
• Mina Ashido- she looks out for Mina and tries to help her with her quirk
  
• Mashirao Ojiro- she likes him as a friend and respects him
  
• Ochaco Uraraka- she's besties with Uraraka and her optimum is infectious
  
• Enjiro Kirishima- She has a crush on him and enjoys his company a lot
  
• Momo Yaoyorozu- she likes to tease Momo sometimes but they get on well
  
• Tsuyu Asui- thinks she's a bit weird but okay to be around
  
• Tenya Lida- if he lost the straight-laced attitude he might be fun to be around but regardless she enjoys his company
  
• Izuku Midoriya- she's impressed with him although she wishes he'd cry less
  
• Mugen Iekami- the two are extremely close and she looks up to her big brother always
  
• Katsuki Bakugou- she can't stand him and avoids him whenever possible. Furthermore, she thinks that he's a horrible person to his so-called "friend" and doesn't deserve to be a hero. She has also called him out on his BS plenty of times and looks down on Bakugou for his behaviour
  

Personality

Aiko Mugen-Nihon is the personification of 'I treat you the way you treat others'. For example, if someone is rude to her then she'll be rude back and vice versa. She also is a bit vain about her appearance but knows it and is working on it with help.

Theme song

Hallelujah (I'm Not Dead) by Citizen Soldier

Hello reddit users! I'm making another post because my haircut is coming up on the 19th this month. I need some help on deciding a style before I go so that was I can feel comfortable with it. Last time I got a pixie cut and that didn't work out too well. I have thick medium length straight hair, and I really want to try and get a 'grungy' fluffy haircut.

1. How do I make my hair fluffy?
2. How short should I go? (I have medium length thick straight hair)
3. What is the 'grungy' fluffy haircut called?

I have a 10 year old big orange boy with a very faded tabby pattern and a short/medium coat. I got him as a kitten, he was found alone in the middle of a field in mid November, so he's some kind of barn cat mix or something funky. His whole life he's had these weird fine stripes on the top of his head, his wrists, and his ankles. Nowhere else on his body are the stripes this skinny, and it almost seems like it's "over top" of his tabby pattern. I've been curious for so long but have never found an answer! They almost look reflective, and are way more obvious in real life than in the pictures. Has anybody seen these before?
Ps. He has never had a haircut or hair trim before and gets brushed regularly, so I don't think it's dead hair (he sheds so so much...)

Hey all. I got a haircut today, and I absolutely despise it. I had been growing my hair for 3 years, it was way past my shoulders so I was like alright I'll just get it cut it a bit.
The stylist cut it way too much, and now I look like Anton Chigurh from "No Country For Old Men". Worse, actually.
Thing is, I've got a big face and I'm fat. It looks terrible, what do I do?
Like I said I'm a big guy and my face has also gotten bigger (really considering going to the gym) but I know I don't look good with short hair, so I only like long or medium. For medium I like a middle part, which I've had in the past and I actually thought I looked great. But like I said I feel like my face got bigger now so I'm not sure how great I'd look anymore.
But my hair looks kinda fucked I'm not sure any barber or hairdresser could fix this. What do I do?
Edit: To be fair I exaggerated on not liking short hair, it's just not my preference. But I might not have a choice lmao

About me: • currently a third year Nursing student around Intra • 164 cm (5'4") • medium body frame (+ thick thighs) • short haired girly with thick lips and popping eyes (in a cool and positive way + can really slay different kinds of haircut) • a really unique smile
About you: • wholesome (fun to talk to) • third year (or graduating) med student or working pro • 23++ • preferably 5'8" and above! (sorry, girl gotta brag someone taller, ig?) • neat + hygienic • pref normal bmi but not necessarily (medium body frame - bulk) • loves planning dates!
I'm up for something serious!
DM me!
*previous post was deleted, tryin' again!*

I want a haircut that will work with my face shape to help me look more masculine. I have 3b curls and a diamond face shape, I don't have a well defined jawline (due to bad posture) and if it helps I'm 5'4 and in my early 20s. I'm thinking something pretty short but medium length is good too.

hi everyone! i’m a lesbian (she/her) and i like presenting really masculine with my still feminine features getting in the way. i’ve never wanted a very short haircut but i have a medium wolf cut. im wondering advice on dressing better. i want to basically look like the physique of an average teenage boy lol 💀💀 (skinny and lean) but im 190 pounds and 5’8 which i know in retrospect sounds ‘skinny’ and im not denying that i am not classified as ‘overweight’ but i carry a LOT of weight on my hips and have love handles really badly. and i have double d’s and have yet to find a binder that helps me. I’ve tried GC2b and lotsss from amazon. Any fitness tips that don’t require the gym bc i can’t get a membership lol? Fashion/style tips? Every outfit i wear just makes me look extremely large and big and since i have a wolf cut, I have bangs and when i put it up in a bun (my signature hairstyle) it makes me feel very girly and clashes with my whole look. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Hairstyle tips or fashion or fitness. please throw any advice my way to help me feel more confident!! i’m going back to my home town for the summer and i am embarrassed of the way i look right now.

I have dark brown medium thickness hair. I recently wanted a blunt shoulder-length hairstyle (my hair was down to chest).. and the hairdresser gave me the WORST haircut - short layers, thinned out, awkward cut.. I absolutely hate it.
I booked for an extension appointment (sewn in weft). Quite expensive, but I just want to be confident with my hair again. I also received a quote for ktips and tape ins.
Looking for some advice on different extension types. Like I said, I don't really have a budget, I just want something relatively low maintenance that I can wear my hair up, down, in different styles without seeing the extensions. Also, less damaging option too! I don't want to come out of this worse than I started..
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much!

36yo male here with thinning curly hair. Every single time I get a haircut they use those damn texturizing shears on me (the ones with the teeth) and I always feel like it's thinning out my hair even more than it already is. Even when I mention that I'm self-conscious about how thin my hair is, they use these and suggest it'll add "volume". My hair is about 2-4” on top, so medium short.
This happens no matter where I get my hair cut -- it's happened at several different locations with different stylists. Am I misunderstanding what these are doing? Because every stylist who touches my hair feels they are necessary, so I have to assume they know what they are doing and I'm just mistaken.

Hello everyone, it's been a hell of a week since everything took place in the previous post, and I would like to provide a backstory to add more context and build up to what happened last week.
I'd like to warn in advance that it is a very long read. Documenting just about everything that has taken place in the past 14 months takes quite a bit!
https://www.reddit.com/Infidelity/s/AjqAnIgZVr
I have started going to therapy and have been taking ashwagandha, going back to the gym, and working more hours.
I would also like to add in a couple of factors to the whole situation, I am curious to see if they make a difference or not in my decision to walk away.
My ex wife is diagnosed with BPD and schizophrenia, both of which have been unmedicated for the majority of our relationship. She also has complex migraines, but has medication to manage those as well. It's also important to know that she has been hospitalized twice since we've been together, each for a different TIA. One was the first month we were dating, the second was before she started her part time job in November.
The start of our marriage was pretty rocky. Within the first month of our marriage she was fired from her job (no fault of her own). This put me in the position of the primary caretaker, and now paying her bills on top of mine and the other bills. Utilities, rent, etc. And considering the fact that right before we got married, her car died and she had no backup plan so we were left with no choice but for me to cosign on a vehicle with her. My credit is good, hers is not. The silver lining is that she got approved to drive for Uber, but the demand was so low and pay so poor that she would only be able to make enough for her car payment. When we got married, I also got her a new phone, watch, etc and put it on my account on top of adding her to my car insurance policy.
For the next three months, I was working three jobs to keep the family afloat (her, her kid, and myself). She was looking for full time jobs to supplement her part time rideshare gig, but due to our lovely economy, wasn't having much luck.
For the record, I have never been married, I have never been put in a situation like this before and have never been fully responsible for anyone other than myself, much less my wife and her child. The dad is involved, but he gets secondary custody. She would have her child 4 days out of the week.
I wasn't upset about the fact that I was suddenly a provider, but me barely being home put a wedge in our relationship, especially as newlyweds. We didn't really get the honeymoon phase of the wedding because I was always at work one way or another.
However, while I was working so much, responsibilities weren't delegated in the most equal manner. I would have to ask her to clean, and for her to make me lunch. I would still have to help clean and do my own laundry even after working 12+ hours. Her reasoning was her mental health would inhibit her from getting up and cleaning. I didn't put much consideration into her mental illness, but I did make a compromise with her to at least try one room a day and keep the home simply maintained throughout the week. That worked for a little bit, but it would go back to square one and I would still have to remind her.
Around this time I would see tiktok videos of these stay at home moms who prep their husband's meals for them while they work, and it would make me think "must be nice"
I didn't bring it up like I should have, but instead I started building resentment towards her and would go on to treat her in the manner in which I was feeling. I wouldn't have any time to decompress either, and since the house was always messy, I wasn't really happy at home either. It made me feel less and less empathy towards her when she would tell me she's drowning, and not feeling herself.
At one point when she told me that I told her "I don't know what is so wrong when you're not the one drowning in bills and taking care of the household"
After a conversation with her about that, I apologized to her for disregarding her feelings and made an effort to be more considerate in the future. But she would still be skeptical about opening up to me. We wouldn't have time to really do anything fun together because I was too tired from working as well.
Fast forward to mid September we both got new jobs. This new job of mine, where once out of training, I could just work two 16 hour shifts each week and make more money than working three jobs and having no days off.
She also felt pretty good about working again and being able to contribute. Things were finally starting to look up for us. I felt some relief that she was pulling her weight financially, and since she was now working, I would split cleaning with her. This job lasted a little over a month, before she was fired. This time I wasn't disappointed or anything, I told her I'm gonna have her back and she'll get back on her feet. At this point I was still doing my 16 hour shifts, but my days off would stay the same and I'd make sure to always save them for her. But since she's not working, at least try and make her car payment and I'd cover the rest but you'll be back to taking care of the home as a trade off. She agreed, but the cleaning would still not be taken care of as much. It has also been brought up by her multiple times that I am treating the marriage like a business transaction instead of treating her like a wife, and that I treat her like a roommate.
A month later I help her get a part time job at a small pizza place she used to work at before, years ago. We agreed that this part time job would be a stable gig to guarantee that she can at least make her car payment, and if she wants to do sidework to supplement it thats up to her. It was also supposed to be a temporary job until she found a full time job.
It's at this point where she finds out she works with a guy that impregnated her 10 years ago, but ended up dumping her because she had a medical emergency right in front of him. Unfortunately the baby only lasted a few hours, and that is extremely traumatic for her. She says even after finding out she was pregnant by him, she didn't talk to him at all and hasn't been in touch with him for 10 years until she sees him at this new job of hers. (I find this information out about a week or two before D Day)
She calls me the day she gets there and asks me if I am OK with her working there, even though there's a guy there who she dated 10 years ago for a couple weeks. I told her sure, just keep everything professional and we'll be fine! She agreed.
A couple weeks into starting her job, she is staying 2-5+ hours past her scheduled shift every day for various reasons. Her relief didn't show up on time, the store got too busy, etc. Her schedule was also different each week, so it was impossible to plan things with her like dates and whatnot.
Normally I don't have a problem with overtime, since I work it all the time myself. But this is a low paying job where she's putting miles on her car, and body, with almost nothing to show for it. She would be working 50-60 hours a week, even with working 7 days a week, but barely bringing anything home. Her schedule would always say she's gonna be off around 4:30pm, 5:00pm etc..but she'd always be there til like 9pm-11pm and when I would try and make plans with her, she would confirm them with me, but at the last minute tell me that she's staying late.
It drove a wedge between us because she would mention that we don't get any time together, but while I'm off of work, she's staying late because "she doesn't have a choice" This would last during her duration at this employer.
So right around the two week mark she asks me for permission to talk with this guy, future AP, outside of work "about work" I said no, and she reluctantly complied.
About a week later, she brought it up again. But this time when I reaffirmed my answer, she accused me of being insecure, and alienating me from her friends and isolating her. I told her it's a normal boundary that any healthy married couple would set. After some arguing she reluctantly agreed with me. She would also bring him up in conversation a lot, and would tell me about how they'd smoke weed together on break and how he'd buy her monster energy drinks. I asked her not to do any of those either, and she said she wouldn't.
At this point I was feeling like this guys a threat, because she was fighting to maintain an external relationship with him that was unnecessary, especially as a married woman. But she told me every day, don't worry about him and I'm not talking to him outside of work to respect your feelings. She would also not talk about him as much.
As much as she was working that month, I paid her whole car payment for the month of December, and in that whole month she paid for half of it and never paid me back for the rest. At this point I'm financially well enough to where it was like a drop in the bucket, but it's still about the principle of being independent and responsible. She got upset that while my balance at the time was over $10k, I was treating her like a roommate by asking her for $500 a month for bill money and for her to make her car payment each month.
A few days after the argument she changes her profile picture on facebook to a selfie of her looking pretty dolled up. When I asked about it she said "it's just a spurt" but ever since we met, her profile pictures have always been different pictures of her and I.
Fast forward to Christmas, and she is flat broke, but was coincidentally matched with future AP for secret santa. She got him a personalized pocket knife "that was $8, because he's really into those"
What did I get? She showed me a screenshot of the album cover that had our song on it with the lyrics on it that you pay to have printed out and mailed to you. It would have been an amazing gesture if she went through with it. She got me an early "stocking stuffer" in November that was a Big Ass Brick of soap from Duke cannon. I love duke cannon so I was happy with it. Also, I'm not big on receiving for Christmas, I prefer giving. She could have spent that $8 on a gift basket for me with a hand written note and I would have cherished it.
A couple days before new years eve, we get into a heated argument over some previous online communication (emails) between me and my ex before her that resurfaced (the emails were while we were talking, but before we got together). The communication was a one day long email thread, where she was trying to reconcile the friendship and was wondering why I had to block her. I was too nice when I replied, and told my ex things like "I care about you to Pluto and back and I miss you too, but for my sake we have to stay apart" the emails took place while I was out of town for work, and my ex wife asked me if I was still talking to my ex. I told her no because I interpreted me replying to something saying my last goodbyes isn't considered active contact. I legitimately forgot the emails existed until 9 months later when they resurfaced. Its also important to note that the first two months me and ex wife were together, she was talking to a former emotional fling she had even though it made me uncomfortable, and even went to lunch with him during a break that she started despite me asking not to, took a picture with him, and kept it has her contact pic until Christmas eve.
She was extremely upset because reading those emails made her feel like I lied to her face, and that our whole marriage was a lie, that she can never trust me again, that she was just a rebound, and doesn't even know who I am anymore.
As much as I tried to reassure her that none of that is true, she ended up driving around for like 4 hours before sleeping on the couch, not saying a word to me but messaging one of her girlfriends. That hurt because I felt like everything was over. I didn't sleep much that night.
The next day, 12/30, she doesn't talk to me until almost 7pm that night, and the text that she says is just a "hey" (her normal text patterns are always super cheesy and sappy)
We start talking on the phone, and, as much as she doesn't want to, she wants an annulment. I begged for her to go through with it, but she said it's for the best, due to me treating her like shit all the time, and the emails. She doesn't relent, and I honor her request. I had her come over to sign the papers. Before she came over, I blocked her on Facebook and whatnot bc I assumed it was done done.
Unbeknownst to me, she brings her mom over with her. Her mom essentially ends up acting like a marriage counselor, and tells her that this is my first marriage, she needs to give me time and help teach me how to be a husband, and that this is a learning curve for me. We cry a bit and hug after she tears up the annulment petition.
She then laid a few ground rules, which are:
1) We stay legally married, but don't wear any rings and go back to dating. We revisit the idea of wearing rings after our 1 year anniversary
2) Not to try and visit her at her job, because everyone there is on a warpath against me because of how I treated her.
I happily agreed at the time, and I took her and her mom out to dinner that night to celebrate new beginnings, but I had a gut feeling that this excitement was only temporary while her mom was there. She then told me on the way to dinner that there is once again nothing to worry about when it comes to her coworker, future AP and that she won't be referring to him as a friend anymore, but more of an acquaintance. I unblocked her on facebook and set my relationship status back to married, sending her a request to add me back as a friend and put that we're married to each other.
The next morning, new years eve, it felt like everything was going well. I told her I had very special plans with her that evening, and she said she'd be home as soon as she can. She was supposed to work until 5:30pm or so. I would like to add that the ball drop is the most significant part of the year to me.
She was pretty distant with me all day, and I had to remind her when she woke up to set her status back to publicly married. She initially had it to where only she could see that she was married.
She said she would, but never did. She said she was too busy to do it and would get around to it when she had the time. I understood. The next time she texts me is around 330pm, which is when I'm off work getting a haircut for what I thought was our special night together. She texts me to ask for gas money. I send her a picture of my fresh cut and she gives it a heart react, nothing else.
That's not an issue normally but our whole relationship she'd say I'm the most handsome man she's ever met, etc.
Around 6pm she tells me that she's forced to close. I get upset and tell her that we had plans, and they are very special to me. She says I'm sorry but I have to do it I'll come home as soon as I can. Every hour or so she keeps moving the goalpost, eventually she gets off around 2-3am.
During that time I begged her to quit her job, and that I would be more than happy to take care of her and I'd even make her car payment that month. My biggest concern about her working those late hours wasn't the fact that she wasn't home, but that she has had two TIAs in less than a year, and the last thing she needs is a work induced one.
She lightly dismissed it saying "ah that's tempting" but didn't touch the subject any further. She didn't talk to me much, except for when she told me she was off. I called her and she asked me to run her a hot shower for when she gets home, and I happily agreed. The first thing she does when she gets home is immediately hop in the shower, and she spent more time in there than usual. She said she was just listening to her audiobook when i went to check in on her and make sure she wasn't passed out or anything (her phone was in the shower with her). I also ran a towel through the dryer so she'd have a nice hot towel to dry herself off with.
She rolls in bed and tells me happy new year, I love you, and gives me a kiss before passing out.
I worked the same morning and she still hasn't unblocked me on Facebook. She was still pretty distant too. When I get off of work I come home and tell her "something doesn't feel right with me, and being home isn't helping at all. I'm gonna pack my bags and sleep at this hotel for the night. I love you"
Her response was just "what?"
I pack my bags and before leaving, I go to put her daughters phone on the charger. That's when I see her watch going off, so I go to check it. This is where I find the following messages between the two, starting from 5pm New Years Eve to shortly after 3pm New Years Day.
12/31, 0950 Him: About to hop in the shower what's up Her: Not a mental picture I wanted. Lol but we are fucked on trays. Him: What yiu mean Her: Which part do you mean what do I mean lol Him: Yall are fucked on trays Her: So the dough projection said that we needed nine trays of smalls, so we made nine trays of smalls and so now we are running low on trays for medium larges and XL's. Him: Okay lmao should have went off what's in the walk in Her: Suck my dick Him: LMAO you know you didn't mind that mental picture 😂 🤣 Him: And you ain't got one 🤣 Her: lol nah I don't lol I just had a flashback lol and yeah maybe I do it's bigger than yours Him: LMAO 🤣 Her: lol Him: A flashback lol Him: you guys got the oven on Her: lol yeah and they are on Him: I'm curious lol Her: lol times wee showered together Him: oh yeah we did lmao Her: Yeah multiple times Him: LOL I'm gonna head that way in a few Her: Otay Him: So I'm pretty sure I lost my Maui hook lol pretty upset about it Her: NO!!! Him: Yeah I can't find it. Her: Omg Him: Yeah the weird thing is is I was wearing it when we went to bed Her: That's odd Him: Dude ain't it because I'm pretty sure I was wearing it yesterday Her: yeah you definitely had it on Him: Usually the only time I take it off is when I shower Her: damn
12/31/2023, 12:00pm Her: Did he pass out yet? Him: Not yet Her: Damn Her: I didn't piss you off did I Him: How would you have made me mad Her: I have no clue
12/31, 3:30pm Her: Are you and your girlfriend arguing or something because you really have an attitude and I'm not the only one thar sees it Her: my bad if I offended you. You just don't seem like yourself today.
12/31, 6pm Him: well for one me having to do counts tonight is about to make me mad that's why I am mad I kind of I kind of shouldn't even offered to fucking take this god damn ehit tonight coz irs going to be so fucked up like I just want to fucking leave anyway thar big order that is set for six do not dispatch to doordash has a $17 tip on it and I'm taking it LOL you didn't do nothing to upset me
12/31, 7:40pm Her: lol what do you want? I'm deadass about to go get a fucking bottle. Him: I mean I was joking honestly lol I don't like to drink and drive Her: lol I know neither do I Him: You're only saying that you're not going to drink now cus you know that if you drink too much you won't be able to help yourself LOL Her: lol honestly half the time I have to fight off thoughts sober Him: What do you mean
12/31, 11:00pm Her: sends a spiderman meme
01/01/2024, 2:00am Her: Just made it home Him: Okay I'd imagine you're probably going to go to bed huh Her: Not imma go shower first Him: Well I bet that'll be enjoyable
01/01, 12:00pm Him: I will shoot you a text it may he when she goes to bed but I will talk to you at some point today lol Her: all okay you don't have to explain to me lol I should have had you grab me another monster Him: I can I'll be back give me a few Her: Okay thank you 😉 Him: If course Her: I feel like I'm dying Him: Why's that Her: My body hurts so bad I need a massage Him: Shkt me and you both Her: lol I mean... lol just kidding Him: LMAO your funny 🤣 Her: lol I know I am Him: You are lol but I will talk to you later LMAO Her: Okay
01/01 3:00pm Him: well she is napping with (redacted) lol Him: How's work going Her: Shitty boss is showing off for his new girlfriend Him: What do you mean Her: His girlfriend is in the store Him: Oh nice lmao I'll be back up there in a bit Her: thank god Him: lol not for long though just running grandma home Her: Otay Him: Need anythjng Her: lol nothing you can help with 😉 Him: lol what do you mean Her: nothing never mind Him: no I wanna know lol Her: what I need you can't assist with because you're in a relationship if you get what I mean Him: LOL okay thats what I thought but I wasn't sure 🤣 Her: LOL yeah Her: Yeah, that's definitely what I meant. Him: Lol well my bad Her: it's all gold maybe eventually 🤣 Him: lol maybe we will have to see how everything works out Her: Yeah true that lol I was about to ask for stuff last night lol 😉 Him: Explain lol Her: You were about to ask for pictures last night when I was in the shower lol Him: Lol and I refrained myself 🤣 I shouldn't be thinking like that Her: I know you did. I also refrained I almost sent some. Ooop. 🤣🤣🤣 Her: lol Him: No way lol Her: No way what Him: You were going to do that were not gonna start that lol Her: Yeah I was Him: Lol probably shouldn't start that 😂 Her: oh, but where is the fun in that? Jk Him: lol I know but we can't Her: I know this Him: I know sorry lol Her: it's all good Him: Ill message you later tonight lol Her: OK Him: have a good rest of your shift and what lol Her: How dare you btw Her: I will and those sweats.... Him: I just wanted to be comfortable 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I should have let the convo go on to see if she was planning on stopping anytime soon, but I was too pissed. So I called her, told her were done and to go live with him. She was speechless after that and didn't really talk to me until later that evening.
She ended up clocking out a few minutes later, got a few bags and stayed the night at her friends house. I told her I never want to
The same friend that she was messaging the night we had that big argument ended up messaging me about it, and let me vent to her all night. I did not sleep that night. Later in the morning the friend came over to help me pack her stuff, and they started talking on the phone and I broke and asked her why.
She did the whole "I made the worst mistake" thing and the whole nine yards. I fell for it.
I then asked her what she was saying to him before to make him even think he could approach a married woman like that.
She started sobbing even more and told her friend she'll just be a widow so I wouldn't have to worry about her.
That put me into panic mode so we hunted her down at her job, but called the cops to do a welfare check on her. She ended up coming back home with me so I could console her. She was adamant about fixing things. I didn't say yes, but I didn't say no because I felt bad and didn't want to hurt her feelings anymore than they already were.
The next three months were spent with me being just numb in general, halfway checked out of the marriage. She asked for reassurance multiple times, asking if we are okay, etc and I gave her half ass answers most of the time. I would also bring it up multiple times and it could be easily triggered.
She was transparent with her phone the whole three months, and didn't get frustrated with me when I would ask either. Even when I found out that in the month that they were chatting, there were over 900 texts exchanged between the two.
There was constant arguing between us for those three months, I was treating her like shit despite her mental illness. There would be about a couple of weeks when everything was good, then it would pop back up again whether it's through triggers, me wanting to dig up more evidence (trauma response) or the memories being brought back up randomly.
Everything ties into the previous post copied in this thread.
Basically she spent the night at that same friend's house, but didn't tell me there was a male roommate until the next morning and was messaging him all week behind my back without telling me. I only know she messaged him once because the morning after she spent the night she sent him a message bc she thought she left her iPad there.
I asked to see her phone Friday morning and she said what for, then she deleted the messages because she was scared that I would freak out, even though there was nothing inappropriate.
I didn't think much of that, I went to work and her and I talked all day about making up, bonding together that night, etc. When she tells me right before I get off of work that she made plans to go there again that night, even though i told her multiple times it makes me feel uncomfortable.
She said that I need to trust her, and that I am not her keeper and she doesn't have to cooped up at the house and that she doesn't really like to be home much because all I do is start fights.
I went to her job and pleaded with her for 30 minutes to let me be her rock, and confide in me about her mental illness troubles. She said she doesn't believe me because of how many times I've disregarded it, and apologized to me but told me she can't cancel the plans she made with her.
I asked her what she values more, her friendship or her marriage. She said I shouldn't have to answer that.
I left, and a few minutes later she texts me saying "I'm not sure why you're acting like this"
And that's when I told her she's a free woman to do as she pleases with no pesky husband holding her back.
She asked if I want a divorce and I said yes.
She said "ok I'll sleep in the baby's room tonight"
And I told her "it's probably best you stay over there again that night since you live there anyway" and she said "Ok"
I didn't talk to her for a few hours, until I started telling her how the divorce is gonna go down financially.
She said "okay but I need 30 days cus that's legal, and I also got checked in the mental hospital"
That had me convinced that this behavior was due to her not being on her medicine, so I asked to visit but she said no. She later got transferred to a different one, and I only knew cus family told me. So after work the day after she's checked in I drive 2 hours just to see for about 20 minutes. She told me I shouldn't have came here, but thanks for driving out, and that she refuses to come back to an abusive household. I told her that my repeated digging up of the cheating was a trauma response, and she said "trauma response? I sent a dumb text" and then she asked me to leave.
The whole time she was there after that I didn't hear a peep from her. I hear from her family that the reason she's been acting like this is because the ex has been off of her medication since last year because "I flushed them down the toilet and told her she doesn't need them" which couldn't be further from the truth. Deep down I still wanted to try and fix things, until I heard that when she gets out she's gonna file a Protection From Abuse order (I have never laid hands on her in my life)
So here I am today, her and her friend that lives with the male roommate are on their way to get the last of her belongings. She's gonna live with them, and the baby is gonna go with the baby's grandma for the time being.
I keep telling myself that this is my fault, and I caused her to check herself in and created an environment where she didn't want to be home and opened the door for her to meet this male roommate.
But I've also been told that a normal, healthy marriage shouldn't have three guy problems like this in less than a year.

1. If we are in a store, looking at and/or comparing products we are buying 2. Picking out a videogame 3. Looking at books in a bookstore 4. In a line at a festival 5. Sitting on a bench at a festival, snacking or reading or on our phone (be subtle if we are on the phone, be polite, not loud) 6. Entering an event, standing in line. 7. Walking around in an event 8. At an event kiosk or concession stand 9. Leaving work 10. Leaving a store we just did an errand at. Sometimes it could be as simple as one of us walking out of a restaurant or food shop with a milkshake or something. 11. Events related to our interests 12. Another one is right after we get a haircut somewhere. Thats another opportunity. You could then approach us and ask “Excuse me sir”(then fill in what words you are going to use to convince/seduce us to date you and give you our number) Swap phone numbers as quickly as possible and express and spark that interest. Get us to text you, add you to contacts, text us, add us to contacts. Make plans for another date immediately. (You probably were already planning one) Make haste, Life is short, so enjoy it and take care of yourselves. 13. Walking into a store 14. Walking out of a store 15. Browsing products in an aisle 16. Looking at books in a bookstore 17. There are multiple opportunities to approach us, I just hope this all gave you a better idea. 

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Hii so basically I’ve had the same haircut for about 3 years now and have been two intimidated to do anything with it. I’m an English 16 white boy with about short-medium length hair (fringe can touch upper lip when fully extended, but naturally rests at about my eyebrows). My hairs brown and I think somewhere between 3b to 3c. The cut is pretty basic, longer on top but curly all the way around. I don’t have any special products or treatment for my hair, just shampoo and conditioner a few times a week.
So there’s a few things I wanna try, one is loosening up my curls, as I’m not sold on how tight they. I also wanna eliminate the frizz, as it’s giving too much bird nest. Basically I just want healthier looking hair that’s neater and looser. I’m also considering dying it, something somewhat subtle like lighter highlights but I’m open to other suggestions. Also I am considering changing the style.
Any help, whether that be routine or products to buy would be greatly appreciated, especially if I can source it in the UK. Also any other tips on dye or anything related would be welcome too.
I’ve browsed this community and yall have such beautiful hair and I’d love for you to share your knowledge with someone who knows little to nothing about it <3

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