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Emerging details about UCLA encampent attack
2024.05.16 18:11 elzzyzx Emerging details about UCLA encampent attack
So I do antifascist research and due to that I have looked at the UCLA attack footage more than anyone ever should. Some details are emerging and I'd like to discuss:
I'm writing this because I think the attack is unprecedented in several ways, and wondering if anyone here has thoughts about it. I know some people commented on my last post about this before it was taken down and I hope you comment again.
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- It was pretty violent. It went on for several hours while the police stood back. I saw a lot of blood, pepper spray, people getting hit in the head with wooden clubs and plywood, and at least one person needed surgery.
- It happened after a rally organized by an anonymous group called, "The Bear Jews of Truth." Now that more positive IDs are coming in, several zionist jews were involved in the attack. One attackers mother bragged about her sons involvement in the attack on facebook (translated from Hebrew), "[my son] went to bully the palestinian students in the tents at UCLA and played the song that they played to the Nukhba terrorists in prison!" It's also looking increasingly clear a lot of (probably israeli but not sure) jews were involved in the attack.
- I saw a lot of coordination. The attackers acted as a group, moved away and towards the camp as a group, using a whistle to indicate when to approach the camp.
- There were jews in the encampment who were attacked
- police wont tell CNN whether they are investigating (let alone any of the researchers doing their job for them)
I'm writing this because I think the attack is unprecedented in several ways, and wondering if anyone here has thoughts about it. I know some people commented on my last post about this before it was taken down and I hope you comment again.
2024.05.16 17:58 PeculiarPeon4756 Return-to addr & remaining anonymous to recipient?
I have spent a lot of time googling (and searching this sub), and this seems like a complicated topic (because a lot of people who ask are up to no good?). Basically, I'm perfectly fine giving my info, photo ID, fingerprints, DNA, everything to UPS. What I'm trying to accomplish is the recipient/addressee not knowing who I am. The reason is very simple: I'm mailing valuable homemade supplies to an animal rescue, and I feel better being "secret santa" about it. (There's a lot of passions in this domain, and a tendency to over-value donors, over-thank, feed egos. I don't want that. I just want to give and know it was helpful without being on Facebook as a virtue-signaler or anything.).
So far, I have gathered that 1) I can specify a different return-to addr than mine (maybe even use the destination addr? That's not a problem?). 2) Go to a UPS Store and they use their address as the return to, and will call me if it comes back?
If those two things are true, then my question is: Does the driver have visibility to the sender's real info and could share it with the recipient (in the case of #1)? Or, my phone number, any info the UPS Store would have (in the case of #2)?
I truly appreciate anyone who can shed light on this. I think it's usually a disreputable topic because people are trying to do bad things (be anonymous to UPS). That's not what I'm asking for.
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So far, I have gathered that 1) I can specify a different return-to addr than mine (maybe even use the destination addr? That's not a problem?). 2) Go to a UPS Store and they use their address as the return to, and will call me if it comes back?
If those two things are true, then my question is: Does the driver have visibility to the sender's real info and could share it with the recipient (in the case of #1)? Or, my phone number, any info the UPS Store would have (in the case of #2)?
I truly appreciate anyone who can shed light on this. I think it's usually a disreputable topic because people are trying to do bad things (be anonymous to UPS). That's not what I'm asking for.
2024.05.16 16:46 thatasianketoguy Should You Feel Ashamed as an OnlyFans Chatter? Is It the Sex Work or the Potential for Fraud That Raises Concerns?
 | Technology Behind Sex WorkShould You Feel Ashamed as an OnlyFans Chatter? Is It the Sex Work or the Potential for Fraud That Raises Concerns?It’s complicatedhttps://preview.redd.it/padxsltlws0d1.jpg?width=6720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3457cf3f3833f5787ed65aa37d88c49e24fac668Photo by RDNE Stock project: Years ago, in the early days of online chat, I found myself caught up in a web of deception. This happened many moons ago, every day at 8 a.m. Manila time, which was 8 p.m. Eastern Time, I would wait until Russell went online. He was from New York and a fireman. And he always did, right on the dot. There were no apps then, all we had was Yahoo Messenger. I’m not proud of what I did — it just happened. It was supposed to be a one-time chat, but instead, it went on for months, until I had to come clean and tell him the truth: that I wasn’t the woman in the photo I sent him. I didn’t even know there was a word for it back then — catfishing. Of course, when the truth was out, and when I never heard from him again, even if there was never money involved, which means I didn’t defraud him in exchange for sex work — I remember not only feeling hurt for a long time. I felt awful for what I did — I lied and pretended to be someone else. OnlyFans ChatterThe Truth About OnlyFansThese days catfishing has taken a new direction, and it is pervasive in the world of online sex work, with the popularity of OnlyFans it gave birth to an army of impersonators known as “chatters.” It isn't easy to make money online, especially from writing. Anyone who promises you can make X amount if you buy their writing course is selling you not only lies but snake oil, and there’s a word for it — scam. But I’m not here to preach, I’m here to understand. I was surprised that my story on sugar dating, and sex work started to have readers. Are people interested in what goes on behind sugar dating apps, with sugar daddies, or mommies? Or is it because sex work, while it remains taboo, is a topic we all like to explore behind the dark walls of our privacy? Online sex work had exploded. We hear a lot of success stories, horrid tales, and even crimes that happen in the industry. A booming industry in countries like the Philippines is an online work that nobody really talks about. If you happen to find yourself enticed to become an OnlyFans chatter, think again. Not only have you entered the rabbit hole of sex work, but you have essentially become a fraudster and in the Philippines, both are considered crimes. OnlyFans models, many of whom started creating content to survive during the pandemic, soon discovered that there is so much money out there, and as always money brings out the worst in all of us. To make more money as an OnlyFans model, you need more subscribers or to convince your existing fans to buy more content. While an OnlyFans subscription is only the beginning, the sky is the limit as to how much an OnlyFans model can make — and there lies the gray area of OnlyFans. To scale their businesses, these models started hiring OnlyFans chatters, people willing to work for pittance in the hope they could make sales that would mean higher commissions from the models. And what do they sell? The OnlyFans model’s exclusive content, which can be as basic as a sex video or a special fetish request from a paying subscriber. As an OnlyFans chatter, you pretend to be the model, you become her even if you are a male chatter. On the other side of the chat, the victim doesn't know he isn't talking to the OnlyFans model but worse to someone who is thousands of miles away, hired as a chatter from a poor country like the Philippines. Worse still, the poor male fan doesn't know he could even be talking to another man pretending to be a woman. The insidious economy of scaleTechnology Behind Sex WorkShould You Feel Ashamed as an OnlyFans Chatter? Is It the Sex Work or the Potential for Fraud That Raises Concerns?It’s complicatedPhoto by RDNE Stock project:Years ago, in the early days of online chat, I found myself caught up in a web of deception. This happened many moons ago, every day at 8 a.m. Manila time, which was 8 p.m. Eastern Time, I would wait until Russell went online. He was from New York and a fireman. And he always did, right on the dot. There were no apps then, all we had was Yahoo Messenger. I’m not proud of what I did — it just happened. It was supposed to be a one-time chat, but instead, it went on for months, until I had to come clean and tell him the truth: that I wasn’t the woman in the photo I sent him. I didn’t even know there was a word for it back then — catfishing. Of course, when the truth was out, and when I never heard from him again, even if there was never money involved, which means I didn’t defraud him in exchange for sex work — I remember not only feeling hurt for a long time. I felt awful for what I did — I lied and pretended to be someone else. OnlyFans ChatterThe Truth About OnlyFansThese days catfishing has taken a new direction, and it is pervasive in the world of online sex work, with the popularity of OnlyFans it gave birth to an army of impersonators known as “chatters.” It isn't easy to make money online, especially from writing. Anyone who promises you can make X amount if you buy their writing course is selling you not only lies but snake oil, and there’s a word for it — scam. But I’m not here to preach, I’m here to understand. I was surprised that my story on sugar dating, and sex work started to have readers. Are people interested in what goes on behind sugar dating apps, with sugar daddies, or mommies? Or is it because sex work, while it remains taboo, is a topic we all like to explore behind the dark walls of our privacy? Online sex work had exploded. We hear a lot of success stories, horrid tales, and even crimes that happen in the industry. A booming industry in countries like the Philippines is an online work that nobody really talks about. If you happen to find yourself enticed to become an OnlyFans chatter, think again. Not only have you entered the rabbit hole of sex work, but you have essentially become a fraudster and in the Philippines, both are considered crimes. OnlyFans models, many of whom started creating content to survive during the pandemic, soon discovered that there is so much money out there, and as always money brings out the worst in all of us. To make more money as an OnlyFans model, you need more subscribers or to convince your existing fans to buy more content. While an OnlyFans subscription is only the beginning, the sky is the limit as to how much an OnlyFans model can make — and there lies the gray area of OnlyFans. To scale their businesses, these models started hiring OnlyFans chatters, people willing to work for pittance in the hope they could make sales that would mean higher commissions from the models. And what do they sell? The OnlyFans model’s exclusive content, which can be as basic as a sex video or a special fetish request from a paying subscriber. As an OnlyFans chatter, you pretend to be the model, you become her even if you are a male chatter. On the other side of the chat, the victim doesn't know he isn't talking to the OnlyFans model but worse to someone who is thousands of miles away, hired as a chatter from a poor country like the Philippines. Worse still, the poor male fan doesn't know he could even be talking to another man pretending to be a woman. The insidious economy of scaleIdeogramWho would have thought the capitalist concept of the economy of scale would find its way into the adult content industry? Sex work has come a long way. It used to be a one-on-one transaction, today we have platforms like OnlyFans that allow an adult content creator to become a business in itself, never before seen in the history of sex work. First, let us define the meaning of economy of scale. Economy of scale, in economics, the relationship between the size of a plant or industry and the lowest possible cost of a product. When a factory increases output, a reduction in the average cost of a product is usually obtained. This reduction is known as economy of scale. — SourceIf you become a popular OnlyFans model, you will be surprised to learn that you can run your business 24/7 by employing agencies that in turn hire low-paid contractors in poor countries like the Philippines. 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While some would see their work as harmless, and that they are in sales, some recognize that they have become sex workers and while some become experts at being detached and call it part of their job, some have to learn how to desensitize themselves and focus on how they can make more money rather than check their moral values. Not only do they have to take the persona of the OnlyFans model, but they also have to be engaging, knowing how to do sex talk which later on will need to progress to mastering the art of upselling, and by this means selling more sex videos from the creator. As much as some would say it is just another way to make money online, and although they don't do any sexual acts themselves, they have become a sex worker, fraudsters, or both. In its simplest definition, Sex workers are adults who receive money or goods in exchange for consensual sexual services or erotic performances, either regularly or occasionally.By that definition, the OnlyFans chatter who engage in sex talk and make money from explicit content have undeniably become sex workers themselves. And once you find yourself in the industry, it changes who you are, your morals and psyche — it just does. Even when I didn’t ask Russell for money, the lies I told him bothered me. I engaged in sex talk, pretended to be a female, and took advantage of Russell's vulnerability. The whole experience changed who I was. Final wordsIn the Philippines, you would even find tutorials on YouTube on how to be accepted as an OnlyFans chatter. There are also exclusive Facebook groups and anonymous Reddit groups where Filipinos would discuss their newfound online work.A recent article from Wired showed a glimpse into the world of being an OnlyFans chatter, the whole OnlyFans ecosystem, why it had become a multi-billion dollar industry, and how it opened new businesses like chat management firms that hire these contractors. What is fascinating about the article is that soon, there will be a class action suit against the people behind these chat management companies. As one lawyer Carey argues, that the managers who run creators’ accounts are engaging in a type of bait and switch that fits the classic definition of fraud. “When you subscribe, the very first thing it says is, ‘Have a DM relationship,’” he said. “Well, that’s totally fraudulent … It’s an open secret they’re just defrauding people.” — SourceI don't judge anyone who finds themselves working as an OnlyFans chatter — the pay is good, and the likelihood of earning beyond what regular jobs can offer often blurs anyone’s moral judgment especially when you find yourself living in poverty like many of these young people in the Philippines. OnlyFans has become a multibillion-dollar business, and it claims to be a technology company. Yet it all has the elements of sex work — the sex, the money, and potentially the crime. They say prostitution is the oldest profession, and in today’s world OnlyFans is sex work 2.0. I invite you to leave a comment and let’s have a conversation about sex work and fraud in the new era of technology. Thank you for reading.Technology Behind Sex Work Should You Feel Ashamed as an OnlyFans Chatter? Is It the Sex Work or the Potential for Fraud That Raises Concerns?It’s complicatedPhoto by RDNE Stock project:Years ago, in the early days of online chat, I found myself caught up in a web of deception. This happened many moons ago, every day at 8 a.m. Manila time, which was 8 p.m. Eastern Time, I would wait until Russell went online. He was from New York and a fireman. And he always did, right on the dot. There were no apps then, all we had was Yahoo Messenger. I’m not proud of what I did — it just happened. It was supposed to be a one-time chat, but instead, it went on for months, until I had to come clean and tell him the truth: that I wasn’t the woman in the photo I sent him. I didn’t even know there was a word for it back then — catfishing. Of course, when the truth was out, and when I never heard from him again, even if there was never money involved, which means I didn’t defraud him in exchange for sex work — I remember not only feeling hurt for a long time. I felt awful for what I did — I lied and pretended to be someone else. OnlyFans ChatterThe Truth About OnlyFansThese days catfishing has taken a new direction, and it is pervasive in the world of online sex work, with the popularity of OnlyFans it gave birth to an army of impersonators known as “chatters.” It isn't easy to make money online, especially from writing. Anyone who promises you can make X amount if you buy their writing course is selling you not only lies but snake oil, and there’s a word for it — scam. But I’m not here to preach, I’m here to understand. I was surprised that my story on sugar dating, and sex work started to have readers. Are people interested in what goes on behind sugar dating apps, with sugar daddies, or mommies? Or is it because sex work, while it remains taboo, is a topic we all like to explore behind the dark walls of our privacy? Online sex work had exploded. We hear a lot of success stories, horrid tales, and even crimes that happen in the industry. A booming industry in countries like the Philippines is an online work that nobody really talks about. If you happen to find yourself enticed to become an OnlyFans chatter, think again. Not only have you entered the rabbit hole of sex work, but you have essentially become a fraudster and in the Philippines, both are considered crimes. OnlyFans models, many of whom started creating content to survive during the pandemic, soon discovered that there is so much money out there, and as always money brings out the worst in all of us. To make more money as an OnlyFans model, you need more subscribers or to convince your existing fans to buy more content. While an OnlyFans subscription is only the beginning, the sky is the limit as to how much an OnlyFans model can make — and there lies the gray area of OnlyFans. To scale their businesses, these models started hiring OnlyFans chatters, people willing to work for pittance in the hope they could make sales that would mean higher commissions from the models. And what do they sell? The OnlyFans model’s exclusive content, which can be as basic as a sex video or a special fetish request from a paying subscriber. As an OnlyFans chatter, you pretend to be the model, you become her even if you are a male chatter. On the other side of the chat, the victim doesn't know he isn't talking to the OnlyFans model but worse to someone who is thousands of miles away, hired as a chatter from a poor country like the Philippines. Worse still, the poor male fan doesn't know he could even be talking to another man pretending to be a woman. The insidious economy of scale |
2024.05.16 13:30 BaguetteInMyPant 🎁 Children's Day Donation Drive For The Christina Noble Children's Foundation 🎁
Complete by Saturday 25th May to be eligible
The foundation's goal is to raise 6,500,000 MNT🎉. So far they have collected gifts for 150 children🎁, or 1,500,000 MNT🎉.
About 800 children live in difficult conditions and are part of the Child Sponsorship Program of the CNCF. Most of the families in the program cannot afford to buy their children gifts for the holidays.
🚀 So let's help Mongolia's poorest - because those children might be future /Mongolia members!
⭐ I'd like to set a leaderboard and see if together we can beat the foundation's 6,500,000 MNT target before the 25th of May!
To get on the leaderboard make a donation to the below bank address and post a screenshot of your sent amount (blur your personal details) in the comments, showing the receiving 404037001 bank address. Host anywhere you like, Imgur recommended.
❤️ The donation account for transfers is:
TDB
404037001
Add Description: r-MONGOLIA STRONG
Кристина Нобелийн Хүүхдийн Сан
If you would like to make an anonymous donation you can send me your transfer screenshot via message💌 and I can enter you into the leaderboard anonymously.
The account is similar via the Mongolia country page here: https://www.cncf.org/donate/
The CNCF will send a heartfelt thank you to everyone who participated in the campaign via Facebook post. If you would like your name attached send me a message💌.
Anyone that donates 5,000 or more will receive a special rank on /mongolia's Guilded chat group, a new more feature-packed, Nitro out of the box, a more mature chat app, only for our top members.
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Let's help some kids!
With Epoch's support I'd like to set /Mongolia a donation drive challenge in time for the national Children's Day holiday on the 1st of June.The foundation's goal is to raise 6,500,000 MNT🎉. So far they have collected gifts for 150 children🎁, or 1,500,000 MNT🎉.
About 800 children live in difficult conditions and are part of the Child Sponsorship Program of the CNCF. Most of the families in the program cannot afford to buy their children gifts for the holidays.
🚀 So let's help Mongolia's poorest - because those children might be future /Mongolia members!
⭐ I'd like to set a leaderboard and see if together we can beat the foundation's 6,500,000 MNT target before the 25th of May!
To get on the leaderboard make a donation to the below bank address and post a screenshot of your sent amount (blur your personal details) in the comments, showing the receiving 404037001 bank address. Host anywhere you like, Imgur recommended.
❤️ The donation account for transfers is:
TDB
404037001
Add Description: r-MONGOLIA STRONG
Кристина Нобелийн Хүүхдийн Сан
If you would like to make an anonymous donation you can send me your transfer screenshot via message💌 and I can enter you into the leaderboard anonymously.
The account is similar via the Mongolia country page here: https://www.cncf.org/donate/
The CNCF will send a heartfelt thank you to everyone who participated in the campaign via Facebook post. If you would like your name attached send me a message💌.
Anyone that donates 5,000 or more will receive a special rank on /mongolia's Guilded chat group, a new more feature-packed, Nitro out of the box, a more mature chat app, only for our top members.
Images (link)
- Rank 1 for 5,000, Donor
- Rank 2 for 10,000, Ruby
- Rank 3 for 25,000, Bronze
- Rank 4 for 50,000, Silver
- Rank 5 for 100,000, Gold
- Rank 6 for 150,000, Diamond
/mongolia Strong! 🇲🇳🌏🥳
https://www.facebook.com/share/nuMqrB1da7M6M5aa/2024.05.16 10:58 No_Astronaut6105 Cycling Accident - looking for witness
This was posted anonymously in a facebook group- not by me. did anyone witness this?
I realize this is a very long shot especially given the timing but I had a cycling accident on Friday May 3rd around 4:55pm-5:00pm somewhere between Parliament & Danforth and Pape & Danforth. I suffered a concussion and have no memory of the event or getting home/to the hospital. For medical purposes it is really important to know if I fainted/fell off the bike or if it was a collision with someone/something. I was riding a white specialized mountain bike, wearing a purple helmet, black tshirt/bike shorts, and had a bike bag on the back of the bike. I believe I got back up and continued biking/walking with my bike as I made it home independently before being taken to hospital. If you happen to have witnessed a crash that fits this description, any info would be appreciated. Thanks!
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I realize this is a very long shot especially given the timing but I had a cycling accident on Friday May 3rd around 4:55pm-5:00pm somewhere between Parliament & Danforth and Pape & Danforth. I suffered a concussion and have no memory of the event or getting home/to the hospital. For medical purposes it is really important to know if I fainted/fell off the bike or if it was a collision with someone/something. I was riding a white specialized mountain bike, wearing a purple helmet, black tshirt/bike shorts, and had a bike bag on the back of the bike. I believe I got back up and continued biking/walking with my bike as I made it home independently before being taken to hospital. If you happen to have witnessed a crash that fits this description, any info would be appreciated. Thanks!
2024.05.16 01:01 McFlexmore [CA] [SFH] hold HOA accountable
[CA] [SFH] hold HOA accountable. You should be able to do this with HOA. I did this with my apartment complex. My neighbors and I made a Facebook page documenting our living experiences. It let potential new residents know what they were in for if they moved in. And we could post anonymously so we couldn't be targeted. Many people looking to move in saw our page and decided not to. So that impacted the income of our apartment. I'm sure there is a way to do the same with HOA. They have too much power.
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2024.05.16 00:51 McFlexmore Warn your neighbors
So we did this with our apartment complex. You can probably do this with your neighborhood and HOA. We created a Facebook page ran by the tenants. We could post anonymously so no one could be targeted. We shared our living experiences on the page which warned future tenets about what they were getting into. If your HOA is out of control then this will dave people from moving in. And it will let HOA know they are being watched.
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2024.05.15 23:43 Individual_Sorbet_62 How we can keep the momentum up as the gracious moderator takes a break
Hey Ladies, I've been thinking of how we can keep this subreddit "relevant" as the gracious moderator takes a much-needed break.
We can continue to direct traffic to this subreddit through a few different avenues:
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We can continue to direct traffic to this subreddit through a few different avenues:
- Her Facebook page is still open for comments, but I do not have the "lady balls" to post as myself lol: https://www.facebook.com/minatheuniverseguru/
- Posting the actual contents of some of the threads in the Youtube comment section of anyone who "defends" her, with a mention to the Reddit thread
- This one is particular is powerful: https://www.reddit.com/scammedByMinaIrfan/comments/1csoobf/the_controversial_truth_about_mina_and_simila
- Posting this subreddit in forums like this: https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/my-pakistani-husband-wants-to-divorce-me.5553033/page-6 (she's already mentioned here. Just Ctrl F + search for "mina")
- Reaching out to pages that are dedicated to exposing scam artists
- Sharing this Reddit thread with anyone whom you have recommended Mina to
- Sharing this Reddit thread with other students you have met at intensives
- I can't find the video of the backstory of her taking a picture with Eva Longoria, but maybe that could be posted anonymously somewhere since she's using that as a testament to her "levelling up". I didn't realize groupie status is considered leveling up: https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxU2Ez7PC-7pFM0zxolbRulLqOea0ya9dN )
- Downvote her videos on YouTube (not sure if that affects the algorithm). At the very least, it directly sends her a message.
- Posting in the Scam subreddit (https://www.reddit.com/Scams/)
- Also I found this post by Mina's son...not sure what to do with this or where to post this but thought this was interesting. It sounds like Mina wrote this. He refers to her as his "fabulous mom". Sounds like something she would say. May be nothing but thought I'd share ...): https://www.passiton.com/your-everyday-heroes/5237-mina-irfan
2024.05.15 18:40 SASSATXorg Join Us on May 18th to Help Find Answers for Bianca Carrasco! 🚀 - San Antonio, Texas
 | Hey everyone, submitted by SASSATXorg to SASSATXORG [link] [comments] Thanks to the amazing initiative, funding, and support from the Season of Justice nonprofit, there's now a powerful billboard featuring Bianca Carrasco up in our city. Bianca's smile is now shining upon 9988 I-10, serving as a beacon of hope, urging anyone with information about Bianca’s disappearance to step up. We're aiming to refresh Bianca's story in our public's memory, hoping to receive tips and finally get the answers her loved ones have been waiting for after 8 long years. To further bolster the awareness campaign, Search & Support San Antonio is planning an outreach event right under this impactful billboard. We invite all of you to join us in spreading the word, sharing Bianca’s story, or simply attending for support.A big shout-out to our awesome case intake manager who’s been spot on with reaching out to business owners and property owners, ensuring we're all set for this event. Your hard work doesn't go unnoticed, Lori Limacher Wittmeyer. Our special thanks to Chester's Hamburgers and the REOC San Antonio management for being so supportive and allowing us to set up. Bianca’s story reminds us of our community's strength. Let’s come together, share her face, and keep pushing until we hopefully uncover the truth. Your support means everything, and together, we can make a real difference. If you know anything about Bianca’s case, reach out to the San Antonio Police Dept. Missing Persons Unit at 210-207-7660 or submit an anonymous tip to Crime Stoppers of San Antonio, Inc. Date: Saturday, May 18th, 2024 Location: 9988 I-10, San Antonio, Texas 78230 Time: 2PM - approx. 5PM Plenty of parking is available, and Chester's Hamburgers graciously allows us to use their restrooms. As a symbol of solidarity and support for Bianca, we encourage attendees to wear a pink shirt and bring pink balloons (not for release) to the event. Let's paint the scene with a sea of pink, standing united in our quest for answers and justice. Your presence and participation make a meaningful difference. Learn more about Bianca’s story and the Season of Justice campaign at: seasonofjustice.org/featured/bianca-carrasco and the KENS 5 & Kens5.com article at: https://www.kens5.com/.../273-6da128fe-ae0e-4f53-89cf... #SeasonOfJustice #ColdCase #unsolved #SOJPublicAwarenessCampaign #SOJPAC #MissingPersons #CommunityUnity #SearchAndSupportSanAntonio #CrimeStoppersSeason of Justice Help Us Find Answers For Bianca Carrasco Solve the Case Hands Off My Podcast: True Crime @Crime Stoppers of San Antonio, Inc. Mike Jimenez Rania Kaur Erick Mondragón Telemundo Robert Price TV Telemundo San Antonio Express-News Univision San Antonio See you then, Your team at Search & Support San Antonio https://preview.redd.it/0s7c6xp3cm0d1.jpg?width=2040&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d91bb26b0f4eb2999f6948995ff8f48ec858d6a5 https://preview.redd.it/h2rtiwp3cm0d1.jpg?width=1536&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e7d388cd2406537c650f99c3187077600396845 |
2024.05.15 17:23 Unusual_Leather_9379 I found this in my spam folder and just don‘t know what to do
Well the person texted that from an e-mail that includes my name, but is not an e-mail I use or hosted. Also I found out that one of my presentations is saved in an folder with a Hebrew name which looks odd to me, because I should not have any Hebrew folders, but I don‘t know if thats connected to the e-mail(the name of the folder is just „documents“ but in Hebrew). That is what stands inside the e-mail:
Hello pervert, I've sent this message from your iCloud-mail.
I want to inform you about a very bad situation for you. However, you can benefit from it, if you will act wisеly.
Have you heard of Pegasus? This is a spyware program that installs on computers and smartphones and allows hackers to monitor the activity of device owners. It provides access to your webcam, messengers, emails, call records, etc. It works well on Android, iOS, and Windows. I guess, you already figured out where I’m getting at.
It’s been a few months since I installed it on all your dеviсеs because you were not quite choosy about what links to click on the intеrnеt. During this period, I’ve learned about all aspects of your private life, but оnе is of special significance to me.
I’ve recorded many videos of you jerking off to highly controversial роrn videos. Given that the “questionable” genre is almost always the same, I can conclude that you have sick реrvеrsiоn.
I doubt you’d want your friends, family and co-workers to know about it. However, I can do it in a few clicks.
Every number in your contact Iist will suddenly receive these vidеоs – on WhatsApp, on Telegram, on Instagram, on Facebook, on email – everywhere. It is going to be a tsunami that will sweep away everything in its path, and first of all, your fоrmеr life.
Don’t think of yourself as an innocent victim. No one knows where your реrvеrsiоn might lead in the future, so consider this a kind of deserved рunishmеnt to stop you.
I’m some kind of God who sees everything. However, don’t panic. As we know, God is merciful and forgiving, and so do I. But my mеrсy is not free.
Transfer 800 USD to my Litecoin (LTC) wallet: ltc1qt23qg369w4hhrke2spyq8ay3yyd3xuznexnkz4
Once I receive confirmation of the transaction, I will реrmanently delete all videos compromising you, uninstаll Pegasus from all of your devices, and disappear from your life. You can be sure – my benefit is only money. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be writing to you, but destroy your life without a word in a second.
I’ll be notified when you open my email, and from that moment you have exactly 48 hours to send the money. If cryptocurrencies are unchartered waters for you, don’t worry, it’s very simple. Just google “crypto exchange” or "buy Litecoin" and then it will be no harder than buying some useless stuff on Amazon.
I strongly warn you against the following: * Do not reply to this email. I've sent it from your iCloud mail. * Do not contact the police. I have access to all your dеviсеs, and as soon as I find out you ran to the cops, videos will be published. * Don’t try to reset or destroy your dеviсеs. As I mentioned above: I’m monitoring all your activity, so you either agree to my terms or the vidеоs are рublished.
Also, don’t forget that cryptocurrencies are anonymous, so it’s impossible to identify me using the provided аddrеss.
Good luck, my perverted friend. I hope this is the last time we hear from each other. And some friendly advice: from now on, don’t be so careless about your online security.
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Hello pervert, I've sent this message from your iCloud-mail.
I want to inform you about a very bad situation for you. However, you can benefit from it, if you will act wisеly.
Have you heard of Pegasus? This is a spyware program that installs on computers and smartphones and allows hackers to monitor the activity of device owners. It provides access to your webcam, messengers, emails, call records, etc. It works well on Android, iOS, and Windows. I guess, you already figured out where I’m getting at.
It’s been a few months since I installed it on all your dеviсеs because you were not quite choosy about what links to click on the intеrnеt. During this period, I’ve learned about all aspects of your private life, but оnе is of special significance to me.
I’ve recorded many videos of you jerking off to highly controversial роrn videos. Given that the “questionable” genre is almost always the same, I can conclude that you have sick реrvеrsiоn.
I doubt you’d want your friends, family and co-workers to know about it. However, I can do it in a few clicks.
Every number in your contact Iist will suddenly receive these vidеоs – on WhatsApp, on Telegram, on Instagram, on Facebook, on email – everywhere. It is going to be a tsunami that will sweep away everything in its path, and first of all, your fоrmеr life.
Don’t think of yourself as an innocent victim. No one knows where your реrvеrsiоn might lead in the future, so consider this a kind of deserved рunishmеnt to stop you.
I’m some kind of God who sees everything. However, don’t panic. As we know, God is merciful and forgiving, and so do I. But my mеrсy is not free.
Transfer 800 USD to my Litecoin (LTC) wallet: ltc1qt23qg369w4hhrke2spyq8ay3yyd3xuznexnkz4
Once I receive confirmation of the transaction, I will реrmanently delete all videos compromising you, uninstаll Pegasus from all of your devices, and disappear from your life. You can be sure – my benefit is only money. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be writing to you, but destroy your life without a word in a second.
I’ll be notified when you open my email, and from that moment you have exactly 48 hours to send the money. If cryptocurrencies are unchartered waters for you, don’t worry, it’s very simple. Just google “crypto exchange” or "buy Litecoin" and then it will be no harder than buying some useless stuff on Amazon.
I strongly warn you against the following: * Do not reply to this email. I've sent it from your iCloud mail. * Do not contact the police. I have access to all your dеviсеs, and as soon as I find out you ran to the cops, videos will be published. * Don’t try to reset or destroy your dеviсеs. As I mentioned above: I’m monitoring all your activity, so you either agree to my terms or the vidеоs are рublished.
Also, don’t forget that cryptocurrencies are anonymous, so it’s impossible to identify me using the provided аddrеss.
Good luck, my perverted friend. I hope this is the last time we hear from each other. And some friendly advice: from now on, don’t be so careless about your online security.
2024.05.15 17:13 Ditzy_Questions Anyone have the list or know who's on the list for the layoffs at SFSD?
The anonymous option was turned off on Supporters of Silver Falls Schools on facebook --- it's NOT really anonymous if the admins can see either 🙄 --- but I heard that someone was sharing this before being pulled.
It's bad enough that we are in this position but even worse that they know who's on it and are making us wait.
TYIA!
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It's bad enough that we are in this position but even worse that they know who's on it and are making us wait.
TYIA!
2024.05.15 11:43 Niallc231 Research Study
Hey there, you fabulous folks!
Are you a gay, bisexual, or queer man, 18+ years old, and are living in or are from Ireland?
Well, if so, we need YOUR help to participate in our research project all about what you think happens after an STI diagnosis.
Your task is simple, all you need to do is (i) click on the link below, (ii) complete a short survey, and then get ready for the fun part - (iii) flex your creative muscles with a story-writing exercise!Participation is completely anonymous so don't be afraid to unleash your creativity!
Your participation will be super useful in improving awareness and support for the LGBTQ+ community. So, click that link and let's get started!
#LGBTQ+ #StoryTime #Ireland #Creativity"
https://psychologygalway.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ghjTSJpVEvOdFk
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submitted by Niallc231 to LGBTireland [link] [comments]
Are you a gay, bisexual, or queer man, 18+ years old, and are living in or are from Ireland?
Well, if so, we need YOUR help to participate in our research project all about what you think happens after an STI diagnosis.
Your task is simple, all you need to do is (i) click on the link below, (ii) complete a short survey, and then get ready for the fun part - (iii) flex your creative muscles with a story-writing exercise!Participation is completely anonymous so don't be afraid to unleash your creativity!
Your participation will be super useful in improving awareness and support for the LGBTQ+ community. So, click that link and let's get started!
#LGBTQ+ #StoryTime #Ireland #Creativity"
https://psychologygalway.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ghjTSJpVEvOdFk
https://preview.redd.it/6pz53jcr9k0d1.jpg?width=1414&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=55f5089388a0b323000b3a4121da7b668f469f27
2024.05.15 11:24 Mayo6_B I need advice on a friendship.
I'm putting fake names... (A lot of the timelines are spread out but they talk about those specific moments, I hope they make since)
I have a friend, I'll call her J. I have known J for almost 9 years. She and I grew up pretty close and we were inseparable. Over the first few years of our friendship she had lost my parents trust from an incident involving a boy, she wasn't allowed to stay over for sleepovers and I practically lost my whole summer that year. I was pretty angry at my parents and blamed things on them. I regret my actions and I did learn but in my mind I thought J was the only person who understood me.
After the whole incident settled down. School started up again and she would jokingly push me into a boy or a locker. She started putting her arm around my neck, trying to choke me. She would continuously punch me or smack me on the head. I honestly got annoyed by it but I acted like it was nothing. She had suddenly became obsessed with TikTok and she posted a whole TikTok about her friends, their was a video of me that stood out. I wasn't wearing a shirt. Which completely made me uncomfortable because I wasn't wearing a shirt and she took the video while I was changing. She didn't take it down. She also would post photos without my consent. Like ones that made me feel ugly or disgusting. And I would tell her how they made me feel. But she would still post them. I started telling her no when she asked for photos and she always would sneak one when I wasn't looking. She doesn't take no for an answer. She will start whining when you don't listen. I used to trust her with my feelings and I would tell her about everything. And now I feel like she knows too much.
This past school year all of my friends (king, J, Joe, Bell) and I went to SDYC. And well when we went J was lying a bunch and starting a bunch of drama and it threw all of my friends off. We all didn't trust J and Joe that well during that time. I felt like the only people I had was my friends King and Bell. Because they both understood how I felt.
After that. King, J, and I had a sleepover. During the middle of the night I was watching a movie and J began to bug me. She started pushing on me saying I was taking up too much room. But honestly I was the one who was sleeping in between two couches there's no way I was taking that much space because I was falling in the crack. She then proceeded to call me a fat roll. I said "no your a fat roll" jokingly. And then she freaks out and she went to tell her boyfriend. It annoyed me because all her boyfriend knows how to do is talk bad. After that sleepover. She started working at the same place as me and I told her about my big crush on this coworker of ours. And so then she decided to start flirting with him in front of me. She would throw something at him jokingly and giggle. I didn't try to think anything of it. But then when we were talking about him the next thing she decided to say was, "your just jealous because he talks to me and not you". The thing is I don't want to talk to him that's why I don't try to talk to him. He has talked to me before, but I rather admire him from afar. He's like 13 years older than me. He was just hot to me at the time.
I'll just say I am lighter than a 5'6 girl. I might have a little bit of belly fat but that's just my body. And I do have an eating disorder. I don't eat enough, I practically starve myself. J honestly made me feel worse and I started having moments where I would basically pass out from no iron in my body. J continued to body shame me even from the amount of food I would eat. She straight up made is feel like she was calling me ugly and fat. It hurt and it made me angry. I told my dad and he said she's just jealous and not to worry about it. I brushed it off but she basically would say something everyday. It got to a point where I was crying all the time.
During my last year of highschool J didn't have a vehicle. So she would ask me to drive her places. I didn't mind because we would be going to the same places. And I started offering to pay for her drink or something. I didn't think much of it in tell I was always taking her places and buying her drinks but she still wanted me to pay her back for stuff when I didn't have much money. She managed to buy a vehicle for a small price by saving up the money she didn't spend. I feel stupid for offering. One day her mom even texted me asking for the small money I "owed" J. But my parents think I don't owe her anything because I have given her most of my money and that she owes me money.
J also does this thing where if you don't give her your attention she'll keep tapping you. Over and over again. Everytime she asks for my attention it's always for something so pointless and stupid. Nothing serious. And everytime I ask for her attention she'll ignore me. She does it a lot. She only wants to have the attention. I stopped telling her about how I feel because all I know is she'll either use it against me or not actually listen and move past it. Like once she asked me how I felt and when I told her that I cried about something she moved on from it into her talking about her crying over some movie she watched.
The way she treated me made me so angry that I texted her boyfriend anonymously asking him to control his girlfriend and get her to be nicer to others. He didn't like the message and told his girl on the spot and J tried to call my fake number. I didn't answer and then she ran to me to tell me the tea. She later assumed it was a boy she was flirting with that she pushed away.
I hate her boyfriend but he deserves better.. because she has talked to another boy behind his back. When I started liking this one boy. I told her about it and then she began to tell me how she met this UK boy and she thinks he's all that. She later found out he was lying about his age and she got back to reality before she lost her in person boyfriend.
She told king I was flirting with this one dude but I wasn't. J told me to add this guy she found on Facebook on snap, I said okay and I called the dude a nickname like a Grandma would call their grandchildren. And I thought it was funny and the guy thought it was chill. I didn't think anything of it and then I blocked him because I didn't want to talk to him. She then decided to add the guy on snap. And she starts talking to him. The amount of times she has lied is crazy. I blocked him but she still has him on snap. For what reason I don't know.
J and Joe and I have recently had a lot of problems with each other. It's always J and Joe fighting and I'm between listening to them both argue about each other. I was getting tired of it. J hit my breaking point when she decided to ask me for my boyfriends sisters snap. You don't just ask your friend for her boyfriends sisters snap. That's weird. She also asked for my boyfriends and she looked him up when I told her no and she added a bunch of dudes with the same name. She didn't find him but there is no way I want her knowing him or his sister. I have too many trust issues with her. She's the main reason why a lot of my relationships didn't work out. They didn't like her and she manipulated me into saying things that upset them. She makes me so uncomfortable. She made me seem lesbian once when I know I'm not. But she made a TikTok about it and a lot of people from my school saw it. I don't like false accusations. I'm pretty sure she used it for clout. But also my parents think she's inlove with me because she can never leave me alone and she always HAS to hold hands or hug.
J doesn't understand a lot of things. And she calls me stupid. I honestly want karma to come get her but that's bad and I don't mean to say that. It hurts a lot.
I had blocked J on everything. But since I worked with J I saw her and she started bawling her eyes out at me saying she did nothing, I felt bad but I was annoyed because she kept bugging me. So I unblocked her. I decided to block her again after because my boyfriend said she was manipulating me. And well the more I had her blocked the nicer she was. After a while Joe did something to make me give up on my friendship with her too and J expected that to be a chance to get me back. And well she did practically. She was a lot nicer and I felt like she changed. But Man was I wrong.. Just today I was working my second night shift. I said something as a joke because I was hoping J would get what I meant. Her boyfriend was on the call... He took everything out of context and said something that made me feel less about myself. I already feel like crap being the person I am. I want to better myself but the more people say things the more I give up. I want to be encouraged not dragged down. I don't know why he has to be so mean. I never did anything to him. I don't know why they both have to be... I listen to her call people ugly all the time. Like just stop. I want her to stop. I'm leaving for the military soon, and she said that I can't get rid of her. That sounds psycho. And it honestly makes me want to get away more. I'm tired of the toxic environment and I want to get away. But she's everywhere. She knows everything about me. She has photos of me I hate. She has so many things she can use against me. I'm honestly scared. I want to block her again but I know she's just going to keep bugging me about it. And she might turn people against me. She's good at talking to people. I'm not I'm an introvert. I don't want her ever find me again once I leave. But I know she might try. People always find a way. And she's creepy. Because I know she'll be able to. But I just want to move on with my life. I don't know how to remove her from my life. What should I do?
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I have a friend, I'll call her J. I have known J for almost 9 years. She and I grew up pretty close and we were inseparable. Over the first few years of our friendship she had lost my parents trust from an incident involving a boy, she wasn't allowed to stay over for sleepovers and I practically lost my whole summer that year. I was pretty angry at my parents and blamed things on them. I regret my actions and I did learn but in my mind I thought J was the only person who understood me.
After the whole incident settled down. School started up again and she would jokingly push me into a boy or a locker. She started putting her arm around my neck, trying to choke me. She would continuously punch me or smack me on the head. I honestly got annoyed by it but I acted like it was nothing. She had suddenly became obsessed with TikTok and she posted a whole TikTok about her friends, their was a video of me that stood out. I wasn't wearing a shirt. Which completely made me uncomfortable because I wasn't wearing a shirt and she took the video while I was changing. She didn't take it down. She also would post photos without my consent. Like ones that made me feel ugly or disgusting. And I would tell her how they made me feel. But she would still post them. I started telling her no when she asked for photos and she always would sneak one when I wasn't looking. She doesn't take no for an answer. She will start whining when you don't listen. I used to trust her with my feelings and I would tell her about everything. And now I feel like she knows too much.
This past school year all of my friends (king, J, Joe, Bell) and I went to SDYC. And well when we went J was lying a bunch and starting a bunch of drama and it threw all of my friends off. We all didn't trust J and Joe that well during that time. I felt like the only people I had was my friends King and Bell. Because they both understood how I felt.
After that. King, J, and I had a sleepover. During the middle of the night I was watching a movie and J began to bug me. She started pushing on me saying I was taking up too much room. But honestly I was the one who was sleeping in between two couches there's no way I was taking that much space because I was falling in the crack. She then proceeded to call me a fat roll. I said "no your a fat roll" jokingly. And then she freaks out and she went to tell her boyfriend. It annoyed me because all her boyfriend knows how to do is talk bad. After that sleepover. She started working at the same place as me and I told her about my big crush on this coworker of ours. And so then she decided to start flirting with him in front of me. She would throw something at him jokingly and giggle. I didn't try to think anything of it. But then when we were talking about him the next thing she decided to say was, "your just jealous because he talks to me and not you". The thing is I don't want to talk to him that's why I don't try to talk to him. He has talked to me before, but I rather admire him from afar. He's like 13 years older than me. He was just hot to me at the time.
I'll just say I am lighter than a 5'6 girl. I might have a little bit of belly fat but that's just my body. And I do have an eating disorder. I don't eat enough, I practically starve myself. J honestly made me feel worse and I started having moments where I would basically pass out from no iron in my body. J continued to body shame me even from the amount of food I would eat. She straight up made is feel like she was calling me ugly and fat. It hurt and it made me angry. I told my dad and he said she's just jealous and not to worry about it. I brushed it off but she basically would say something everyday. It got to a point where I was crying all the time.
During my last year of highschool J didn't have a vehicle. So she would ask me to drive her places. I didn't mind because we would be going to the same places. And I started offering to pay for her drink or something. I didn't think much of it in tell I was always taking her places and buying her drinks but she still wanted me to pay her back for stuff when I didn't have much money. She managed to buy a vehicle for a small price by saving up the money she didn't spend. I feel stupid for offering. One day her mom even texted me asking for the small money I "owed" J. But my parents think I don't owe her anything because I have given her most of my money and that she owes me money.
J also does this thing where if you don't give her your attention she'll keep tapping you. Over and over again. Everytime she asks for my attention it's always for something so pointless and stupid. Nothing serious. And everytime I ask for her attention she'll ignore me. She does it a lot. She only wants to have the attention. I stopped telling her about how I feel because all I know is she'll either use it against me or not actually listen and move past it. Like once she asked me how I felt and when I told her that I cried about something she moved on from it into her talking about her crying over some movie she watched.
The way she treated me made me so angry that I texted her boyfriend anonymously asking him to control his girlfriend and get her to be nicer to others. He didn't like the message and told his girl on the spot and J tried to call my fake number. I didn't answer and then she ran to me to tell me the tea. She later assumed it was a boy she was flirting with that she pushed away.
I hate her boyfriend but he deserves better.. because she has talked to another boy behind his back. When I started liking this one boy. I told her about it and then she began to tell me how she met this UK boy and she thinks he's all that. She later found out he was lying about his age and she got back to reality before she lost her in person boyfriend.
She told king I was flirting with this one dude but I wasn't. J told me to add this guy she found on Facebook on snap, I said okay and I called the dude a nickname like a Grandma would call their grandchildren. And I thought it was funny and the guy thought it was chill. I didn't think anything of it and then I blocked him because I didn't want to talk to him. She then decided to add the guy on snap. And she starts talking to him. The amount of times she has lied is crazy. I blocked him but she still has him on snap. For what reason I don't know.
J and Joe and I have recently had a lot of problems with each other. It's always J and Joe fighting and I'm between listening to them both argue about each other. I was getting tired of it. J hit my breaking point when she decided to ask me for my boyfriends sisters snap. You don't just ask your friend for her boyfriends sisters snap. That's weird. She also asked for my boyfriends and she looked him up when I told her no and she added a bunch of dudes with the same name. She didn't find him but there is no way I want her knowing him or his sister. I have too many trust issues with her. She's the main reason why a lot of my relationships didn't work out. They didn't like her and she manipulated me into saying things that upset them. She makes me so uncomfortable. She made me seem lesbian once when I know I'm not. But she made a TikTok about it and a lot of people from my school saw it. I don't like false accusations. I'm pretty sure she used it for clout. But also my parents think she's inlove with me because she can never leave me alone and she always HAS to hold hands or hug.
J doesn't understand a lot of things. And she calls me stupid. I honestly want karma to come get her but that's bad and I don't mean to say that. It hurts a lot.
I had blocked J on everything. But since I worked with J I saw her and she started bawling her eyes out at me saying she did nothing, I felt bad but I was annoyed because she kept bugging me. So I unblocked her. I decided to block her again after because my boyfriend said she was manipulating me. And well the more I had her blocked the nicer she was. After a while Joe did something to make me give up on my friendship with her too and J expected that to be a chance to get me back. And well she did practically. She was a lot nicer and I felt like she changed. But Man was I wrong.. Just today I was working my second night shift. I said something as a joke because I was hoping J would get what I meant. Her boyfriend was on the call... He took everything out of context and said something that made me feel less about myself. I already feel like crap being the person I am. I want to better myself but the more people say things the more I give up. I want to be encouraged not dragged down. I don't know why he has to be so mean. I never did anything to him. I don't know why they both have to be... I listen to her call people ugly all the time. Like just stop. I want her to stop. I'm leaving for the military soon, and she said that I can't get rid of her. That sounds psycho. And it honestly makes me want to get away more. I'm tired of the toxic environment and I want to get away. But she's everywhere. She knows everything about me. She has photos of me I hate. She has so many things she can use against me. I'm honestly scared. I want to block her again but I know she's just going to keep bugging me about it. And she might turn people against me. She's good at talking to people. I'm not I'm an introvert. I don't want her ever find me again once I leave. But I know she might try. People always find a way. And she's creepy. Because I know she'll be able to. But I just want to move on with my life. I don't know how to remove her from my life. What should I do?
2024.05.15 11:16 Mayo6_B I need an opinion on a friendship.
I'm putting fake names... (A lot of the timelines are spread out but they talk about those specific moments, I hope they make since)
I have a friend, I'll call her J. I have known J for almost 9 years. She and I grew up pretty close and we were inseparable. Over the first few years of our friendship she had lost my parents trust from an incident involving a boy, she wasn't allowed to stay over for sleepovers and I practically lost my whole summer that year. I was pretty angry at my parents and blamed things on them. I regret my actions and I did learn but in my mind I thought J was the only person who understood me.
After the whole incident settled down. School started up again and she would jokingly push me into a boy or a locker. She started putting her arm around my neck, trying to choke me. She would continuously punch me or smack me on the head. I honestly got annoyed by it but I acted like it was nothing. She had suddenly became obsessed with TikTok and she posted a whole TikTok about her friends, their was a video of me that stood out. I wasn't wearing a shirt. Which completely made me uncomfortable because I wasn't wearing a shirt and she took the video while I was changing. She didn't take it down. She also would post photos without my consent. Like ones that made me feel ugly or disgusting. And I would tell her how they made me feel. But she would still post them. I started telling her no when she asked for photos and she always would sneak one when I wasn't looking. She doesn't take no for an answer. She will start whining when you don't listen. I used to trust her with my feelings and I would tell her about everything. And now I feel like she knows too much.
This past school year all of my friends (king, J, Joe, Bell) and I went to SDYC. And well when we went J was lying a bunch and starting a bunch of drama and it threw all of my friends off. We all didn't trust J and Joe that well during that time. I felt like the only people I had was my friends King and Bell. Because they both understood how I felt.
After that. King, J, and I had a sleepover. During the middle of the night I was watching a movie and J began to bug me. She started pushing on me saying I was taking up too much room. But honestly I was the one who was sleeping in between two couches there's no way I was taking that much space because I was falling in the crack. She then proceeded to call me a fat roll. I said "no your a fat roll" jokingly. And then she freaks out and she went to tell her boyfriend. It annoyed me because all her boyfriend knows how to do is talk bad. After that sleepover. She started working at the same place as me and I told her about my big crush on this coworker of ours. And so then she decided to start flirting with him in front of me. She would throw something at him jokingly and giggle. I didn't try to think anything of it. But then when we were talking about him the next thing she decided to say was, "your just jealous because he talks to me and not you". The thing is I don't want to talk to him that's why I don't try to talk to him. He has talked to me before, but I rather admire him from afar. He's like 13 years older than me. He was just hot to me at the time.
I'll just say I am lighter than a 5'6 girl. I might have a little bit of belly fat but that's just my body. And I do have an eating disorder. I don't eat enough, I practically starve myself. J honestly made me feel worse and I started having moments where I would basically pass out from no iron in my body. J continued to body shame me even from the amount of food I would eat. She straight up made is feel like she was calling me ugly and fat. It hurt and it made me angry. I told my dad and he said she's just jealous and not to worry about it. I brushed it off but she basically would say something everyday. It got to a point where I was crying all the time.
During my last year of highschool J didn't have a vehicle. So she would ask me to drive her places. I didn't mind because we would be going to the same places. And I started offering to pay for her drink or something. I didn't think much of it in tell I was always taking her places and buying her drinks but she still wanted me to pay her back for stuff when I didn't have much money. She managed to buy a vehicle for a small price by saving up the money she didn't spend. I feel stupid for offering. One day her mom even texted me asking for the small money I "owed" J. But my parents think I don't owe her anything because I have given her most of my money and that she owes me money.
J also does this thing where if you don't give her your attention she'll keep tapping you. Over and over again. Everytime she asks for my attention it's always for something so pointless and stupid. Nothing serious. And everytime I ask for her attention she'll ignore me. She does it a lot. She only wants to have the attention. I stopped telling her about how I feel because all I know is she'll either use it against me or not actually listen and move past it. Like once she asked me how I felt and when I told her that I cried about something she moved on from it into her talking about her crying over some movie she watched.
The way she treated me made me so angry that I texted her boyfriend anonymously asking him to control his girlfriend and get her to be nicer to others. He didn't like the message and told his girl on the spot and J tried to call my fake number. I didn't answer and then she ran to me to tell me the tea. She later assumed it was a boy she was flirting with that she pushed away.
I hate her boyfriend but he deserves better.. because she has talked to another boy behind his back. When I started liking this one boy. I told her about it and then she began to tell me how she met this UK boy and she thinks he's all that. She later found out he was lying about his age and she got back to reality before she lost her in person boyfriend.
She told king I was flirting with this one dude but I wasn't. J told me to add this guy she found on Facebook on snap, I said okay and I called the dude a nickname like a Grandma would call their grandchildren. And I thought it was funny and the guy thought it was chill. I didn't think anything of it and then I blocked him because I didn't want to talk to him. She then decided to add the guy on snap. And she starts talking to him. The amount of times she has lied is crazy. I blocked him but she still has him on snap. For what reason I don't know.
J and Joe and I have recently had a lot of problems with each other. It's always J and Joe fighting and I'm between listening to them both argue about each other. I was getting tired of it. J hit my breaking point when she decided to ask me for my boyfriends sisters snap. You don't just ask your friend for her boyfriends sisters snap. That's weird. She also asked for my boyfriends and she looked him up when I told her no and she added a bunch of dudes with the same name. She didn't find him but there is no way I want her knowing him or his sister. I have too many trust issues with her. She's the main reason why a lot of my relationships didn't work out. They didn't like her and she manipulated me into saying things that upset them. She makes me so uncomfortable. She made me seem lesbian once when I know I'm not. But she made a TikTok about it and a lot of people from my school saw it. I don't like false accusations. I'm pretty sure she used it for clout. But also my parents think she's inlove with me because she can never leave me alone and she always HAS to hold hands or hug.
J doesn't understand a lot of things. And she calls me stupid. I honestly want karma to come get her but that's bad and I don't mean to say that. It hurts a lot.
I had blocked J on everything. But since I worked with J I saw her and she started bawling her eyes out at me saying she did nothing, I felt bad but I was annoyed because she kept bugging me. So I unblocked her. I decided to block her again after because my boyfriend said she was manipulating me. And well the more I had her blocked the nicer she was. After a while Joe did something to make me give up on my friendship with her too and J expected that to be a chance to get me back. And well she did practically. She was a lot nicer and I felt like she changed. But Man was I wrong.. Just today I was working my second night shift. I said something as a joke because I was hoping J would get what I meant. Her boyfriend was on the call... He took everything out of context and said something that made me feel less about myself. I already feel like crap being the person I am. I want to better myself but the more people say things the more I give up. I want to be encouraged not dragged down. I don't know why he has to be so mean. I never did anything to him. I don't know why they both have to be... I listen to her call people ugly all the time. Like just stop. I want her to stop. I'm leaving for the military soon, and she said that I can't get rid of her. That sounds psycho. And it honestly makes me want to get away more. I'm tired of the toxic environment and I want to get away. But she's everywhere. She knows everything about me. She has photos of me I hate. She has so many things she can use against me. I'm honestly scared. I want to block her again but I know she's just going to keep bugging me about it. And she might turn people against me. She's good at talking to people. I'm not I'm an introvert. I don't want her ever find me again once I leave. But I know she might try. People always find a way. And she's creepy. Because I know she'll be able to. But I just want to move on with my life. I don't know how to remove her from my life. What should I do?
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I have a friend, I'll call her J. I have known J for almost 9 years. She and I grew up pretty close and we were inseparable. Over the first few years of our friendship she had lost my parents trust from an incident involving a boy, she wasn't allowed to stay over for sleepovers and I practically lost my whole summer that year. I was pretty angry at my parents and blamed things on them. I regret my actions and I did learn but in my mind I thought J was the only person who understood me.
After the whole incident settled down. School started up again and she would jokingly push me into a boy or a locker. She started putting her arm around my neck, trying to choke me. She would continuously punch me or smack me on the head. I honestly got annoyed by it but I acted like it was nothing. She had suddenly became obsessed with TikTok and she posted a whole TikTok about her friends, their was a video of me that stood out. I wasn't wearing a shirt. Which completely made me uncomfortable because I wasn't wearing a shirt and she took the video while I was changing. She didn't take it down. She also would post photos without my consent. Like ones that made me feel ugly or disgusting. And I would tell her how they made me feel. But she would still post them. I started telling her no when she asked for photos and she always would sneak one when I wasn't looking. She doesn't take no for an answer. She will start whining when you don't listen. I used to trust her with my feelings and I would tell her about everything. And now I feel like she knows too much.
This past school year all of my friends (king, J, Joe, Bell) and I went to SDYC. And well when we went J was lying a bunch and starting a bunch of drama and it threw all of my friends off. We all didn't trust J and Joe that well during that time. I felt like the only people I had was my friends King and Bell. Because they both understood how I felt.
After that. King, J, and I had a sleepover. During the middle of the night I was watching a movie and J began to bug me. She started pushing on me saying I was taking up too much room. But honestly I was the one who was sleeping in between two couches there's no way I was taking that much space because I was falling in the crack. She then proceeded to call me a fat roll. I said "no your a fat roll" jokingly. And then she freaks out and she went to tell her boyfriend. It annoyed me because all her boyfriend knows how to do is talk bad. After that sleepover. She started working at the same place as me and I told her about my big crush on this coworker of ours. And so then she decided to start flirting with him in front of me. She would throw something at him jokingly and giggle. I didn't try to think anything of it. But then when we were talking about him the next thing she decided to say was, "your just jealous because he talks to me and not you". The thing is I don't want to talk to him that's why I don't try to talk to him. He has talked to me before, but I rather admire him from afar. He's like 13 years older than me. He was just hot to me at the time.
I'll just say I am lighter than a 5'6 girl. I might have a little bit of belly fat but that's just my body. And I do have an eating disorder. I don't eat enough, I practically starve myself. J honestly made me feel worse and I started having moments where I would basically pass out from no iron in my body. J continued to body shame me even from the amount of food I would eat. She straight up made is feel like she was calling me ugly and fat. It hurt and it made me angry. I told my dad and he said she's just jealous and not to worry about it. I brushed it off but she basically would say something everyday. It got to a point where I was crying all the time.
During my last year of highschool J didn't have a vehicle. So she would ask me to drive her places. I didn't mind because we would be going to the same places. And I started offering to pay for her drink or something. I didn't think much of it in tell I was always taking her places and buying her drinks but she still wanted me to pay her back for stuff when I didn't have much money. She managed to buy a vehicle for a small price by saving up the money she didn't spend. I feel stupid for offering. One day her mom even texted me asking for the small money I "owed" J. But my parents think I don't owe her anything because I have given her most of my money and that she owes me money.
J also does this thing where if you don't give her your attention she'll keep tapping you. Over and over again. Everytime she asks for my attention it's always for something so pointless and stupid. Nothing serious. And everytime I ask for her attention she'll ignore me. She does it a lot. She only wants to have the attention. I stopped telling her about how I feel because all I know is she'll either use it against me or not actually listen and move past it. Like once she asked me how I felt and when I told her that I cried about something she moved on from it into her talking about her crying over some movie she watched.
The way she treated me made me so angry that I texted her boyfriend anonymously asking him to control his girlfriend and get her to be nicer to others. He didn't like the message and told his girl on the spot and J tried to call my fake number. I didn't answer and then she ran to me to tell me the tea. She later assumed it was a boy she was flirting with that she pushed away.
I hate her boyfriend but he deserves better.. because she has talked to another boy behind his back. When I started liking this one boy. I told her about it and then she began to tell me how she met this UK boy and she thinks he's all that. She later found out he was lying about his age and she got back to reality before she lost her in person boyfriend.
She told king I was flirting with this one dude but I wasn't. J told me to add this guy she found on Facebook on snap, I said okay and I called the dude a nickname like a Grandma would call their grandchildren. And I thought it was funny and the guy thought it was chill. I didn't think anything of it and then I blocked him because I didn't want to talk to him. She then decided to add the guy on snap. And she starts talking to him. The amount of times she has lied is crazy. I blocked him but she still has him on snap. For what reason I don't know.
J and Joe and I have recently had a lot of problems with each other. It's always J and Joe fighting and I'm between listening to them both argue about each other. I was getting tired of it. J hit my breaking point when she decided to ask me for my boyfriends sisters snap. You don't just ask your friend for her boyfriends sisters snap. That's weird. She also asked for my boyfriends and she looked him up when I told her no and she added a bunch of dudes with the same name. She didn't find him but there is no way I want her knowing him or his sister. I have too many trust issues with her. She's the main reason why a lot of my relationships didn't work out. They didn't like her and she manipulated me into saying things that upset them. She makes me so uncomfortable. She made me seem lesbian once when I know I'm not. But she made a TikTok about it and a lot of people from my school saw it. I don't like false accusations. I'm pretty sure she used it for clout. But also my parents think she's inlove with me because she can never leave me alone and she always HAS to hold hands or hug.
J doesn't understand a lot of things. And she calls me stupid. I honestly want karma to come get her but that's bad and I don't mean to say that. It hurts a lot.
I had blocked J on everything. But since I worked with J I saw her and she started bawling her eyes out at me saying she did nothing, I felt bad but I was annoyed because she kept bugging me. So I unblocked her. I decided to block her again after because my boyfriend said she was manipulating me. And well the more I had her blocked the nicer she was. After a while Joe did something to make me give up on my friendship with her too and J expected that to be a chance to get me back. And well she did practically. She was a lot nicer and I felt like she changed. But Man was I wrong.. Just today I was working my second night shift. I said something as a joke because I was hoping J would get what I meant. Her boyfriend was on the call... He took everything out of context and said something that made me feel less about myself. I already feel like crap being the person I am. I want to better myself but the more people say things the more I give up. I want to be encouraged not dragged down. I don't know why he has to be so mean. I never did anything to him. I don't know why they both have to be... I listen to her call people ugly all the time. Like just stop. I want her to stop. I'm leaving for the military soon, and she said that I can't get rid of her. That sounds psycho. And it honestly makes me want to get away more. I'm tired of the toxic environment and I want to get away. But she's everywhere. She knows everything about me. She has photos of me I hate. She has so many things she can use against me. I'm honestly scared. I want to block her again but I know she's just going to keep bugging me about it. And she might turn people against me. She's good at talking to people. I'm not I'm an introvert. I don't want her ever find me again once I leave. But I know she might try. People always find a way. And she's creepy. Because I know she'll be able to. But I just want to move on with my life. I don't know how to remove her from my life. What should I do?
2024.05.15 07:14 Community_Cop Harrison Love - I come in peace
Harrison,
I say this with a lot of love and respect. You need to stop bothering and harassing people. This has gotten way out of hand and it’s to the point where all the crimes that have occurred were committed by you.
Just because there’s people you disagree with or dislike on this planet does not mean you should continue pursue this criminal behavior. The quicker you drop this the quicker people that have been fucking with you move on.
From what I’ve gathered people just don’t like you and enjoy fucking with you. A lot of these people are respected and well known in the arts communities and they just like fucking with you for fun and they like to remain anonymous
And here’s the problem it creates for you, you think it’s people you have met in your past. And you start blaming them, doxing them, and harassing them and that gets you into some legal trouble. Cops can’t do anything because you’re blaming the wrong people so cases are closed and they move on.
Just stop it, these are people from high places. How do you think your art show got canceled? how do you think your reputation follows you? these people are famous artist that has a lot clout and will do whatever it takes to make sure you never become an artist or are accepted in the community.
Think about it, you have no friends, no one buys your art, no one buys your book. It’s not because your art is bad or because your book sucked, it’s because you got on some famous artists radar and they decided to fuck with you as a side art project.
Just move on you’re not going to win this. The wrong people you do blame is bringing you trouble. The people that fuck with you enjoy your false accusations because it keeps the diverts attention from them. It’s so obvious and you don’t see it.
who am I? Just someone that wants this all to stop. It makes me sick when I see this person hanging out with your parents and simultaneously showing me text messages of emails, Reddit posts and Facebook comments of mean things they say to you. This is someone high up and if I lose them in my social circle, I’ll loose a lot. stop
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I say this with a lot of love and respect. You need to stop bothering and harassing people. This has gotten way out of hand and it’s to the point where all the crimes that have occurred were committed by you.
Just because there’s people you disagree with or dislike on this planet does not mean you should continue pursue this criminal behavior. The quicker you drop this the quicker people that have been fucking with you move on.
From what I’ve gathered people just don’t like you and enjoy fucking with you. A lot of these people are respected and well known in the arts communities and they just like fucking with you for fun and they like to remain anonymous
And here’s the problem it creates for you, you think it’s people you have met in your past. And you start blaming them, doxing them, and harassing them and that gets you into some legal trouble. Cops can’t do anything because you’re blaming the wrong people so cases are closed and they move on.
Just stop it, these are people from high places. How do you think your art show got canceled? how do you think your reputation follows you? these people are famous artist that has a lot clout and will do whatever it takes to make sure you never become an artist or are accepted in the community.
Think about it, you have no friends, no one buys your art, no one buys your book. It’s not because your art is bad or because your book sucked, it’s because you got on some famous artists radar and they decided to fuck with you as a side art project.
Just move on you’re not going to win this. The wrong people you do blame is bringing you trouble. The people that fuck with you enjoy your false accusations because it keeps the diverts attention from them. It’s so obvious and you don’t see it.
who am I? Just someone that wants this all to stop. It makes me sick when I see this person hanging out with your parents and simultaneously showing me text messages of emails, Reddit posts and Facebook comments of mean things they say to you. This is someone high up and if I lose them in my social circle, I’ll loose a lot. stop
2024.05.15 05:57 No-Panda-4570 I (F23) am falling in love with my married "sugar daddy" (M40)
This is kind of a long story and I feel like a lot of context is needed for it to make any sense at all. For starters, I went through a very hard breakup about 8 months ago, and I have been spending a lot of time getting to know myself again since the split. Especially since I was so hurt, I have been really nervous to go out with anybody because I want to avoid the possibility of being hurt again so soon. I was still going on dates but not letting myself get too attached to anybody.
(For the sake of anonymity, 40M will be referred to as Adam)
I met Adam about 6 years ago. He was one of my teachers during my grade 12 year, and we always got along really well. I was a very withdrawn person and would get nervous speaking out loud in front of people, but something about Adam made me feel super confident. I always joked about us flirting to my friends, but I obviously didn't take it very seriously, since I was only 17 and he was my teacher. I graduated and didn't really think about him much. Admittedly more than I thought about any of my other teachers, but still not a ton.
Fast forward to 2 months ago. Adam reached out to me on Facebook and we started talking. It started off very casual, he was asking me how I am and whether or not I went to post-secondary, ie, typical teacher questions. After a couple of days, however, I could tell the conversations between us were getting very flirtatious.
To be totally honest, I was really happy because I had nothing but good memories of Adam, so when he started finding sneaky ways to tell me how pretty I am I dove right into full on flirting. We started to make plans to meet up when he got back from a trip.
We talked all day, everyday up until we were going to meet, and as soon as we got together there was an instant connection and spark. It turns out Adam and I have had really similar upbringings, and we're super compatible emotionally and sexually. He had opened up and told me about how he regrets not having kids and that he worries if he doesn't have any soon his window of opportunity will close (It is a dream of mine to have babies and I have suffered multiple losses so I was so happy to hear that he was open to the idea) Things were going really well and then he sat me down for a talk.
Adam explained to me that he is married, he loves his wife, and he is worried about hurting my feelings down the road because he has no intentions of leaving his wife. He also told me that he thought I already knew (I probably did but that information was not important enough to a 17yr old me to remember). We discussed the possibility of not continuing to see eachother, but we both decided that this felt too special to not continue.
So that's what we did and now for the last month or so we have been getting together as often as possible, talking every single day and Adam has been buying me lots of gifts and food. He is also planning on taking me away for a weekend next month.
I was feeling happy and good about the situation, since I have been admittedly pretty lonely lately, and seeing someone who I already knew from the past has given me a nice feeling of familiarity while also giving me someone to tell jokes to and talk to when I'm having a hard day. But lately I can't stop thinking about Adams wife and how horrible it would be to be in that position. She has no idea that I exist and it seems like there is a lot of trust in their relationship, so I don't see her figuring it out any time in the near future.
I have thought so much about reaching out to Adams wife and coming clean, since if I were in her shoes I decided I would want to know asap, and it feels very not girls girl of me to be sleeping with somebody else's husband. At the same time, I understand that if I were to do that, Adam might never forgive me. Part of me feels as though Adam doesn't really care about me, or his wife since he seems so willing to hurt us both. I love spending time with Adam and I can't stop thinking about him. I'm worried if I stopped seeing him, I might have my heart broken again and I already barely survived my last heart break.
What should I do?
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(For the sake of anonymity, 40M will be referred to as Adam)
I met Adam about 6 years ago. He was one of my teachers during my grade 12 year, and we always got along really well. I was a very withdrawn person and would get nervous speaking out loud in front of people, but something about Adam made me feel super confident. I always joked about us flirting to my friends, but I obviously didn't take it very seriously, since I was only 17 and he was my teacher. I graduated and didn't really think about him much. Admittedly more than I thought about any of my other teachers, but still not a ton.
Fast forward to 2 months ago. Adam reached out to me on Facebook and we started talking. It started off very casual, he was asking me how I am and whether or not I went to post-secondary, ie, typical teacher questions. After a couple of days, however, I could tell the conversations between us were getting very flirtatious.
To be totally honest, I was really happy because I had nothing but good memories of Adam, so when he started finding sneaky ways to tell me how pretty I am I dove right into full on flirting. We started to make plans to meet up when he got back from a trip.
We talked all day, everyday up until we were going to meet, and as soon as we got together there was an instant connection and spark. It turns out Adam and I have had really similar upbringings, and we're super compatible emotionally and sexually. He had opened up and told me about how he regrets not having kids and that he worries if he doesn't have any soon his window of opportunity will close (It is a dream of mine to have babies and I have suffered multiple losses so I was so happy to hear that he was open to the idea) Things were going really well and then he sat me down for a talk.
Adam explained to me that he is married, he loves his wife, and he is worried about hurting my feelings down the road because he has no intentions of leaving his wife. He also told me that he thought I already knew (I probably did but that information was not important enough to a 17yr old me to remember). We discussed the possibility of not continuing to see eachother, but we both decided that this felt too special to not continue.
So that's what we did and now for the last month or so we have been getting together as often as possible, talking every single day and Adam has been buying me lots of gifts and food. He is also planning on taking me away for a weekend next month.
I was feeling happy and good about the situation, since I have been admittedly pretty lonely lately, and seeing someone who I already knew from the past has given me a nice feeling of familiarity while also giving me someone to tell jokes to and talk to when I'm having a hard day. But lately I can't stop thinking about Adams wife and how horrible it would be to be in that position. She has no idea that I exist and it seems like there is a lot of trust in their relationship, so I don't see her figuring it out any time in the near future.
I have thought so much about reaching out to Adams wife and coming clean, since if I were in her shoes I decided I would want to know asap, and it feels very not girls girl of me to be sleeping with somebody else's husband. At the same time, I understand that if I were to do that, Adam might never forgive me. Part of me feels as though Adam doesn't really care about me, or his wife since he seems so willing to hurt us both. I love spending time with Adam and I can't stop thinking about him. I'm worried if I stopped seeing him, I might have my heart broken again and I already barely survived my last heart break.
What should I do?
2024.05.14 18:28 Comfortable-Art-6877 is this a scam??? i cant tell if i got really lucky or if i’m being scammed lol
 | So I found a place on facebook to live for a couple of months. The post on facebook was posted anonymously and they said to message them and send a screenshot to them if interested. I messaged them and they sent me pictures of the apartment and it seems very nice. It’s $900 a month with all utilities included and it’s fully furnished. I asked to tour and they are insisting that I pay $75 to apply BEFORE I even tour. I told them I wasn’t comfortable doing that and this was their response. Is this a scam? submitted by Comfortable-Art-6877 to Scams [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 18:15 Aggravating-Might259 Mom was mad because I didn't greet her on Mother's Day.
Hindi ako pinapansin ng mom ko recently because hindi ko siya binati nung mother's day. Nag chat siya sakin ng 11:59 pm the day of Mothers day to say that "di mo manlang ako binati ng mother's day para kang walang nanay" and it broke my heart. She unsent it but I figured out a way na mabasa yun by morning. I don't know what to feel right now, I know I don't have a valid excuse para di ko siya batiin and naiisip ko na rin talga siya batiin nun but what stopped me from doing it is that I am paranoid na baka i-post niya or story niya pa sa Facebook. I know my mom very well and I think na sobra ang pagka hook niya sa Facebook na halos lahat ng nangyayari sa kanya nipo-post niya or story niya even the most senseless things. One time may private conversation kami and she storied it pala without me knowing kaya after nun parang nagka paranoid na ako whether talking to her. As a private and introverted person I was so concerned about that post. Because I am the type of person who want to keep EVERYTHING private I love my private, my space, and my anonymity. I really don't know what to feel right now, I know na what I did is wrong. I love her everyday of my life and she knows it very well but why is it mandatory for her to greet her and feel sad when I didn't, I show her I love her naman everyday. Sobrang nakaka lito. I care so much about her, but I also care about my private life, I might be overreacting by what I said eh kung babati lang naman ako di'ba? But hindi lang kasi once nangyari dami nang instance na pino-post or story niya things that SHOULD be private. I love you Mom not just because its mother's day. We don'teven supposed to celebrate Mother's day in our religion because its a Pagan celebration. I'm not too big on celebrations because I don't even get why we do it in the first place but, hanggang ngayon sobrang nagui-guilty pa rin ako.
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2024.05.14 17:42 Nuclear4Hurricane Kimberton is destroying fandom
Kimberton is a staff member that is ruining fandom she bans pple for no reason,deletes innocent wikis, extremley homophobic. i got censored for exposing her for saying bad things about LGBTQ. Kimberton is a piece of actual garbage who is somehow a FANDOM staff, they are a Facebook karen who probably has a bodypillow of That Vegan Teacher, she also can't type on the keyboard because her hands are covered in Cheetos which makes sense because she's built like a Gym teacher. She probably loves queen aurora because she's manipulated and looks like she's 43. She's also very racist and is a vanilla cracker, Kimberton the type of girl to rob her own house because of her stupidity, she doesn't know how to be a staff and blocks people for no reason. Also what kind of name is Kimberton? Shit sounds like some religious cult. i have screenshots of her homophobic behavior if anyone is interested dm me for screenshots. i found out kimberton A useless, biased, bot staff of FANDOM who is lazy, unsightly, and barely helpful. Every message to her goddamnedd email gives the same dumb, auto-typed message, due to her inbility to type. "Hello, Thanks for contacting Fandom and letting us know of this issue. We will look into this and take any action necessary." When it asks if you’re 18+ or not, you’re morally obligated to say no. But are you honestly going to do that? On the Internet, you’re automatically granted some form of anonymity which grants users access to public online services. Once you reveal that you an adolescent, some online services will bar said access against you. It’s your fault. But all hope is not lost. This Kimberton fellow is such a robot. I’d recognize that customer support copy pasta anywhere. Such is the way of the NPC lifestyle. Give it a couple of weeks. You’re not going to make a new account lest you hand them over the dub. You’re going to make a new ticket, and hopefully a new CS NPC will take the bait. Then you’re going to lie and say it was a mistake. Tell them that you’re 17 years old and that you were mistakenly banned. And then finally… For the coup de grâce. You get your account back… Or They deny you and you consecutively repeat with a new CS nut head until you’re finally unbanned. Wipe all traces of your age on said account and never reveal your age online ever again… Unless it’s something important and official… Congratulations! Edit: Now that I realize it… It’s quite depressing that I took the time and effort to reply to this…
also it gets worse she was actually grooming someone https://www.deviantart.com/themoonstarlight/journal/Kimberton-is-a-PREDATOR-962131632
and the evidence got purged from someone making multiple false reports
kimberton doesnt want you to see who she really is.
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also it gets worse she was actually grooming someone https://www.deviantart.com/themoonstarlight/journal/Kimberton-is-a-PREDATOR-962131632
and the evidence got purged from someone making multiple false reports
kimberton doesnt want you to see who she really is.
2024.05.14 17:06 Pale_Replacement4655 Baby Reindeer Irl (my own personal hell)
I've been struggling with this one for awhile. I know it's as easy as "don't pain shop" or "who cares what AP does, WH came back to reconcile, right?"
It's been 4 months since D-Day. Their affair started at work and lasted 5 months. We've been together for 7 years. He was home every night, so I never thought twice. I thought he was hanging out with friends. Like most of us BP's, I didn't think he had it in him to hurt me the way he did. I found out the day before we were to visit our wedding venue. We have since gotten married (I know, it was insane and sporatic. Prenup is signed. I don't regret it, but I do feel like I did it in my state of panic. Anyway, I have to mention this in order to explain how AP is affecting me moving forward.)
Anyway, things have been great over here. He no longer works with her. He's genuinely remorseful and has been supportive on my bad days, when I'm triggered, etc. MC has been going great as well. WH is in individual therapy. I will be going to IT soon as well, we're just pretty tight on funds right now with him having to quit. There's no contact with AP, I have access to everything and I stay on top of checking - not so much because of him, but because of AP. She is completely delusional.
When he came home for good, she sent anonymous packages in the mail along with her family. I found around 20 notes hidden throughout his things (he moved out for less than a week.) She emailed him on multiple email accounts, including an anonymous domain website. She created multiple reddit accounts to message him with photo proof if was her. She Cashapped him to attempt contact. They both play a popular RPGMMO game, where she has logged into, taken screenshots, and posted them to her Twitter. There are associated apps for the game, including Discord and Steam, that she has tried to reach out to him on. She created a Facebook page with her last name being WH's stating she was pregnant (she's not) to harrass us.
This was a few months ago, I have everything saved incase she attempts any type of contact again. She knows it's straight to the police. But, she's gotten her way around the no-contact by following us and posting content online such as:
I guess I'm not really asking for advice, because I know what the answer is. I just needed to get this out and see if there is any other individuals out there who have had similar experiences. I just want her to stop before I actually explode.
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It's been 4 months since D-Day. Their affair started at work and lasted 5 months. We've been together for 7 years. He was home every night, so I never thought twice. I thought he was hanging out with friends. Like most of us BP's, I didn't think he had it in him to hurt me the way he did. I found out the day before we were to visit our wedding venue. We have since gotten married (I know, it was insane and sporatic. Prenup is signed. I don't regret it, but I do feel like I did it in my state of panic. Anyway, I have to mention this in order to explain how AP is affecting me moving forward.)
Anyway, things have been great over here. He no longer works with her. He's genuinely remorseful and has been supportive on my bad days, when I'm triggered, etc. MC has been going great as well. WH is in individual therapy. I will be going to IT soon as well, we're just pretty tight on funds right now with him having to quit. There's no contact with AP, I have access to everything and I stay on top of checking - not so much because of him, but because of AP. She is completely delusional.
When he came home for good, she sent anonymous packages in the mail along with her family. I found around 20 notes hidden throughout his things (he moved out for less than a week.) She emailed him on multiple email accounts, including an anonymous domain website. She created multiple reddit accounts to message him with photo proof if was her. She Cashapped him to attempt contact. They both play a popular RPGMMO game, where she has logged into, taken screenshots, and posted them to her Twitter. There are associated apps for the game, including Discord and Steam, that she has tried to reach out to him on. She created a Facebook page with her last name being WH's stating she was pregnant (she's not) to harrass us.
This was a few months ago, I have everything saved incase she attempts any type of contact again. She knows it's straight to the police. But, she's gotten her way around the no-contact by following us and posting content online such as:
- Following us to a concert in another state knowing WH would be there
- Wearing his clothes (he unfortunately forgot a few things when moving back, as he was trying to make it quick. Fair to mention WH has been attached to my hip as he has been unemployed until very recently)
- Posting photos with other items of his in the background, inconspicuously (This is kind of funny, because things like that go over his head)
I guess I'm not really asking for advice, because I know what the answer is. I just needed to get this out and see if there is any other individuals out there who have had similar experiences. I just want her to stop before I actually explode.
2024.05.14 03:16 SensitiveAstronaut22 I have a crush on my ex BIL
This is the dumbest cliché there is. I have a crush on a guy that is forbidden for me. He's single so am I. But he's my ex's brother so obviously this is impossible. I tried to let go of my feelings for him but I can't, and it should be easy since I never see him, he's a bit of an outcast in the family, never around, never participates in family gatherings so even back when I was with his brother I saw him like twice a year. He's very shy and quiet (I have a thing for quiet men) and everytime I see him even though it's almost never, I feel that rush of adrenaline. His shy smile makes me smile instantly. I love his voice, his mannerisms, the way he blushes when I look at him, and then tries to hide it, the way he tries to talk to me but I never engage too much out of fear of him noticing. He probably has no idea of my feelings for him. I honestly thought of creating a fake account on Facebook just to message him anonymously and get this off my chest. I create scenarios in my mind where I somehow get close to him, but this will never happen, our paths will never cross, he never gets out of his house except for work, same with me, and he lives in another part of town so it's not like I'm gonna run into him at a grocery store or something. I'm not looking for judgement I know this is wrong, just confessing. That's it. Thanks for reading.
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2024.05.14 02:40 randombeing222 I’m not one to normally post snark however…
I am a part of the Facebook group and someone posted anonymously that they are still waiting for a cameo from him that was supposed to be for Mother’s Day when they sent the request over a week ago. They had apparently tried to do one previously as well but it expired as he was on vacation. (Which I guess I can let slide) however he isn’t now so I wonder why he would turn down such easy money. It’s literally five minutes out of your day : something that can be filmed before going to bed. I just feel like if it was another content creator doing this he would be bagging them out and dragging them saying how unprofessional it is. Like dude I run a YouTube channel myself and considering he doesn’t edit he has the time! I’ve got a young child too and work so im not seeing where the time to not do it is.. Even if your not feeling it or you haven’t got to it at least address it or email your customers and say there is a delay for whatever reason.. I just feel at some point he really started focusing on the haters and stop caring about people who genuinely liked him and he seems to be annoyed by the people who like him. I get it to an extent it’s draining when people think they are entitled to you and your time but this is literally your job and it goes both ways to some extent.. it’s feeling very one sided at the moment and it’s so sad to watch. I dunno it makes me laugh when he says about starting to charge PR advice as I doubt he would ever pick up the phone even if someone did pay him..
Anyway rant over
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Anyway rant over