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2024.05.16 13:12 mimichan1095 how do i include online shopping experience in resume? + advice re resume and job interviews

hi i'm in my mid 20s, psychology fresh grad, no professional irl work experience. i have an accumulated 3 yrs gap during college due to personal and mental health reasons, that's why i just graduated. all i have is my ojt experience and volunteer work at a hospital. i also had an online shop that i solely managed for over 2 yrs, selling kpop merch and providing services like pasabuy, purchasing assistance, pahanap merch, consolidating other people's items..
i'm leaning more into healthcare jobs since med school talaga original plan ko, di lang natuloy. as much as possible i don't want to do HR work. feel ko nasa med talaga passion ko (and kpop haha naenjoy ko rin talaga mag benta ng kpop merch)
i've done some research, but i still want to read some advice and first hand experiences.
here are my questions:
  1. what should i include in my resume (besides education, experience, skills)? should i include an objective? i read that the harvard resume is the best template. is that ok?
  2. how do i include my online selling experience in the resume? what's a more professional term for it? ecommerce? dropshipping? online sales/retail? should i say i was self-employed or freelance?
  3. is there a career growth in healthcare if you're not a doctonurse/or other licensed professional? the common job positions i see that match my course are medical assistant, clinic receptionist, healthcare csr
  4. what is a good initial salary range i should aim for?
  5. what are common job interview questions? lalo na sa healthcare industry please give tips to pass ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป
feel free to give additional info, words of encouragement, wisdom, etc. please no harsh words ๐Ÿฅบ
thank you so much ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป
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Explore employment and educational opportunities available in your new country. Update your resume, network with professionals in your field, and consider furthering your education or acquiring new skills to enhance your career prospects.

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2024.05.16 11:26 ModernParacelsus Army Gen Surg vs. Pathology advice?!

Two vastly different specialties and lifestyles.
I love medicine. Seriously. I wake up by choice at 5 am daily to study before clinicals. I am non-trad and started med school in my early 30s. So far, Iโ€™ve had a laser focus for gen surg with extra shadowing, research, and conferences in gen surg and trauma. In my past life, I have experience with surgery and am well aware of the lifestyle and challenges with call, emergencies, and complications.
I just discovered pathology, though. I love that itโ€™s a completely new aspect of medicine, seemingly with so many new things to learn and appreciate. I like grossing and histology. I like the aspect of frozens, to help intraoperative diagnoses. Everyone is so nice and happy, haha. No one is dying, which is a plus.
I also want to start a family with my spouse while in medical school, prior to residency. The old ovaries arenโ€™t as young as they used to be, and it seems like now is the best time for us.
I just need some advice or experience. I feel like this is all I can think about. With gen surg, itโ€™s exhausting, isolating, instantly gratifying, and satisfying. I love surgery. I love helping fix a problem immediately. I love not having to develop long-term relationships with patients. I love the science and skill of it. I also love my spouse, hobbies, physical and mental health. The older I get, the more I want stability and calmness instead of chaos.
With pathology, there is so much to learn and know and understand. It is fascinating and there are still hands-on portions to it that make it feel like real medicine, but I would never be the face of medicine or the type of doctor I set out to be. Iโ€™d be so sad to lose clinical knowledge and skills, although the idea of having an office with plants, classical music, consistency, and minimal bullshit with patients/nurses/admin/insurance sounds divine. I could see myself looking through the microscope each day and also being happy. Shorter residency/fellowship is a big plus. I could be finished with path fellowship before I graduate residency as gen surg.
Not concerned about the pay as much, as Iโ€™m doing military for a while. Prior service as a medic and TCCC instructor.
Fucking help :)
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2024.05.16 11:25 ModernParacelsus Having an internal crisis. Gen surg or Pathology?

Two vastly different specialties and lifestyles.
I love medicine. Seriously. I wake up by choice at 5 am daily to study before clinicals. I am non-trad and started med school in my early 30s. So far, Iโ€™ve had a laser focus for gen surg with extra shadowing, research, and conferences in gen surg and trauma. In my past life, I have experience with surgery and am well aware of the lifestyle and challenges with call, emergencies, and complications.
I just discovered pathology, though. I love that itโ€™s a completely new aspect of medicine, seemingly with so many new things to learn and appreciate. I like grossing and histology. I like the aspect of frozens, to help intraoperative diagnoses. Everyone is so nice and happy, haha. No one is dying, which is a plus.
I also want to start a family with my spouse while in medical school, prior to residency. The old ovaries arenโ€™t as young as they used to be, and it seems like now is the best time for us.
I just need some advice or experience. I feel like this is all I can think about. With gen surg, itโ€™s exhausting, isolating, instantly gratifying, and satisfying. I love surgery. I love helping fix a problem immediately. I love not having to develop long-term relationships with patients. I love the science and skill of it. I also love my spouse, hobbies, physical and mental health. The older I get, the more I want stability and calmness instead of chaos.
With pathology, there is so much to learn and know and understand. It is fascinating and there are still hands-on portions to it that make it feel like real medicine, but I would never be the face of medicine or the type of doctor I set out to be. Iโ€™d be so sad to lose clinical knowledge and skills, although the idea of having an office with plants, classical music, consistency, and minimal bullshit with patients/nurses/admin/insurance sounds divine. I could see myself looking through the microscope each day and also being happy. Shorter residency/fellowship is a big plus. I could be finished with path fellowship before I graduate residency as gen surg.
Not concerned about the pay as much, as Iโ€™m doing military for a while. Prior service as a medic and TCCC instructor.
Fucking help :)
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2024.05.16 11:23 shwoopypadawan Looking for advice while homeless for 2 weeks (study abroad gone pretty wrong)

I worked my ass off doing research and selling a bunch of my stuff to get the plane tickets because I'm pretty broke. I was excited for this trip because I was accepted into a German university for graduate school and figured I'd get a good introduction to living in Germany, and to be honest, Berlin itself has been great, all the locals I've met have been very nice to me, but my professors and everyone working from my university have been really unprofessional and tricky and now I'm in an unsafe position.** EDIT to add that when I say Friday I mean tomorrow, so I have about 1 day until getting kicked out of the hotel. I also didn't need a visa to get here, though I will be getting one for my graduate program in September, but this current program was less than a month long so it was counted as group tourism basically.
Long explanation, skip to the bottom for the TLDR:
Before I even got on a single plane, I found out customer service for my phone carrier and I had a misunderstanding a month ago when I bought my international plan and found out about 3 days in advance that my phone would be a brick here. I told the professor immediately and she said worse case scenario she would help me get a working phone when I landed, since it's kind of needed for basic safety. Just half a day before the first flight, I got bitten by a few deer ticks and said I might also need help scheduling a doctors appointment when I land, because our travel insurance required a working phone number and it was too late for me to make an appointment before my flight. The professor said that was fine and I would be helped with that as well, so I got on the first plane in full confidence.
When I landed, a day passed without either thing being handled, and that was fine by me, but then multiple days passed and the professor kind of just waved it off. I'd started to feel a little unwell and asked the professor to help me find a doctor and she said it was just jetlag.
One of the first days of the program we went to a restaurant, and the seating was a very small reserved room with our entire 20+ cohort in it. I have CPTSD and am claustrophobic and knew immediately that I did not want to sit there, so I asked the professor if she could help me ask the staff request a seat for me in the outside dining area, or, if one wasn't available, that I could just sit outside on a nearby bench and skip dinner. She told me the room was reserved for us and this was on the itinerary so I HAD to sit there, and when I again said I didn't think I could, she demanded I sit there again and condescendingly asked me if I really couldn't or just didn't want to. I started to cry as quietly as possible and then that suddenly made her understand, so we went outside and I explained that, in my opinion, trying to force any adult to do something they're uncomfortable with and have said "No" to is bad enough to me normally, but since I have a disability, it's also ableist. I tried to frame that sentiment in a "I'm sure you didn't mean it this way" kind of way but she still took offence to the criticism and I think that led to the rest of this.
After that happened I was feeling more ill and the professor said, "Oh, do you think it's lyme? Because if it was lyme you'd have a rash. It's probably still jetlag". At this point I said again that I needed some help getting a working phone number and medical advice from a doctor and she told me to take responsibility for myself. I'd bought myself a SIM card but it needed some unexpected trouble shooting and everything was in German (I know some German but only around A2 level and absolutely none is required for this program), so I'd already tried to help myself, and again could not schedule myself an appointment without a working phone.
I asked the professor if she could put her phone number in just to let the appointment scheduling process complete and she said no. I asked if she had any other ideas and she again told me to figure it out. I wound up walking 20 minutes through Berlin alone with no working phone to a doctor's office unannounced, barely able to fill half the sign in sheet and navigate the language barrier, and successfully got the antibiotics I needed and a lyme diagnosis. The nurse even asked why I came alone. Thankfully for me everyone in the doctors office including the doctor was very very nice to me despite the curveball I through them.
Not long after all that the professor sent an email with me cc'd in to the office of international affairs at the university, and the email said, in effect, "This student said they have a disability and can't stick to the itinerary and therefore I think they're not a good fit for this program and should go home." I immediately responded that that wasn't accurate, that I just could not sit inside a restaurant or other very cramped space, etc. Then I figured while I was at it I'd tell them about the total lack of care for my safety or wellbeing here. After sending that email the professor confronted me and tried to pretty much intimidate me into admitting everything was all my fault or something, I honestly have no clue, I think she was just upset and trying to make me feel better somehow. I think my criticism really got to her and made her kind of just hate me and that she wanted to make me make her feelings make sense. No clue honestly.
Anyway, after that the office of international affairs reached back out to me and were acting way nicer than they were when I first enrolled in this program, which felt sus, but I was haggard and miserable and wanted to be able to trust them so I did. They told me if I was considering coming home early for my own health and safety, that I could unenroll that night to make sure the alum who gave me a scholarship would at least be refunded, but that I had to do it that night since it was the last day to drop for a refund. I said I wasn't sure if I wanted to leave the program, and they said if you're considering it unenroll and if you want to stay after further discussion then we can probably just go ahead and re enroll you.
So I did it. The next day I'm scheduled to meet with someone who told me the day or so before that she would be my advocate and that she was there to listen to and represent me, and when I join the zoom meeting, it's her, but also two other people from the international affairs office. They're telling me my return flight has already been scheduled and everything and that they were sending out a person to chaperone me on the flight, because, though it was totally ignored on my flights here, I'd mentioned at the very start of the application process that I'd been a human trafficking victim before and ideally wanted to fly with someone instead of alone. All of this had less than a 24 hour turnaround from me unenrolling.
I realized hours after unenrolling that I don't want to leave the program, I just want to actually be allowed to engage in the program as it was advertised and as it was promised, and that leaving the program, to me, feels like capitulating to the professor being an asshole to me and like removing liability from the university. In short I think I pretty much got tricked into unenrolling. I told them I didn't want to leave early and they told me they already scheduled everything and got a refund for my hotel room, so if I don't take the flight back Friday, I will be homeless on the streets for 2 weeks until the flight that I personally purchased for the 31st, and that since I hit the unenroll button, my housing, health, or safety will no longer be the universities problem after Friday.
So, the fuck do I do with this, ya'll got any life advice? Or know any cheap hostels or something? Or even just some moral support haha.
TLDR: Got tricked into hitting unenroll button after damaging professors ego, most likely purposely tricked to absolve the university of responsibility because how the profs were treating me and everything I described probably did make me a liability even if not my fault, but I'm mad and I'm enjoying Berlin and don't want to leave early or let the university get away with risking my health and safety multiple times with no apologies.
Sidenote: The professor also said a lot of things insinuating that, because she didn't like me, neither would any of my professors in my grad school program will, and as much as I think she said it in a vindictive way, I will admit it has me second guessing if I want to actually pursue that in September. After all this I just feel like running from academia in general.
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2024.05.16 10:03 Aware-Tennis7011 TIFU by confessing to a guy I thought would reject me and never would see again

English it's not my first language so I'm sorry If there's any grammatical errors
So you see, not exactly today but 3 weeks ago I decided to confess to a guy I was having a huge crush on since 3 months ago beforehand but I didn't got the courage to talk to because of struggling before in socializing, love relationship and in resume not too sure if I wanted a relationship with him. These reasons weren't any new, since I got these thoughts from the start so I tried to brush them off during those months but I couldn't manage to do so, since he got friends in common with me, was in my class and constantly standing out by his grades just made it hard for me to do so in general. But there was this time, a friend of mine that knew I had a crush on him and her seat was near to his and his friend, heard that they were talking abt relationships and somehow ended talking about one particular time he (my crush) went out in a date with a girl he wasn't interested in just for her to pay him to eat, and was laughing abt it with his friend. Ofc I knew this kinda thing was pretty messed up, and I'm a person that gets the "Ick" pretty fast with this things but somehow my crush in him didn't vanish away STILL knowing that. There was this other time he was somehow embarrassed of his culture, and pretty much talked abt part of his family being from Europe to "defend" himself (where I live it's pretty common this type of things) and it did pretty much upset me bcs I don't support any kind of this behavior, but my crush in him still didn't vanish away?? I somehow thought at a certain part I was straight up just obsessed or just in love with the person I thought he was in my head, so I tried quitting that feeling by uninstalling social media, tried switching classrooms (I didn't got to do so) straight up making like he didn't exist, everything you could do to get over it while attending the same classes. Before all this my parents were gonna make me switch high school by the end of these 3 months so my friend proposed me to confess; see this was a crazy idea but somehow to me atm made sense since if he rejected me directly, I was gonna lose hope in all type of ways (part of the complications to get over it was this type of holding eye contact time-to-time in class) so I got the courage, and pretty much put my mind in it for what to say if I somehow got the courage to do so.
Surprisingly, even for me, I did it and in the last day I was gonna attend I asked him that if we could talk for a moment, he accepted and we went to talk to a park, I started with how sorry I was if I got to make him uncomfortable in any way, that I didn't got to talk to him but we got to attend classes together, that I wished we could've got to know better but I was gonna retire soon, and I wanted to get what I felt off of my chest. That I pretty much understood if he rejected me, and wished that I somehow didn't get to make him feel discomfort in any way, that in fact I wasn't pretty much sure if it was the right time to be in a relationship in my perspective and he interrupted me by saying: "ohh no, don't say that, we still can get to know each other, I'm pretty much sociable" and asked for my number. As you can imagine, I pretty much didn't expect that, just wrote my number in my phone and pretty much started disassociating in the moment because I didn't knew what to do next ๐Ÿ˜ญ the moment got awkward, and I got to comment my points of view still of why I thought was a wrong time for dating, and he started saying his. The Convo pretty much got lighten up after that, and then he started wanting to know me better, asking by my music interests, talking about his childhood and his struggles in high school with education. We talked about 3 hours, time went flying and by the end of the conversation he said he would text me, somehow I still got this feeling at the back of my head that even after having a good talk, he didn't wanted to do so but I gave it a chance then figured out I was right, in some type of way.
I still, illusionated somehow and was anxious the whole day since all of this conversation dated in the morning. He texted me the next day by that in the night after that, we somehow talked by approximately 4 days but not too much and a pretty much average/short conv. Here's when it got pretty much awkward, he told me straight up, at 8pm that he was looking into something more "intimate", by what I replied that I wasn't searching the same and that it was okay still if he doesn't want to keep talking after this (this is the first time I handle a situation like this) by what he replied that it was okay still, that he was sorry if it made me uncomfortable, that he wasn't pretty much interested in relationships too, I replied that I understood and wished him the best, he asked me to please don't mention this to any friends, that he wouldn't do so too and I agreed. But then, I pretty much stopped to go to high school just 2 weeks and my parents decided to put me back in (it's hard to explain the real high school situation) and started to go again in the Friday. One of my friends, that sits next to them (my ex-crush and his friends) heard them tease him about this "dirty jokes" with a girl and constantly ask him to look at the back of the class, him pretty much embarrassed by the comments too, but they were a bunch of friends, pretty much 5 boys teasing him abt it and now, I'm attending high school in this situation and no, since according not to talk about it with our friends, we haven't talked again.
TL;DR I confessed to the person I loved thinking I wouldn't see him again He offered me a relationship only for sex and I rejected him, went back to high school and now the whole situation it's embarassing
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2024.05.16 09:56 shwoopypadawan Needing urgent advice (Study abroad program gone wrong, ~1day to being on the streets)

I'm currently in Berlin, Germany, and about to be homeless for 2 weeks on the streets. I signed up for a study abroad program from my university, which I just graduated from last semester. I paid the application fee, got picked, paid for my own flight here and back, and then got a scholarship from an alumni couple in the department I got my degree in, and that scholarship paid for the rest of the trip.
I worked my ass off doing research and selling a bunch of my stuff to get the plane tickets because I'm pretty broke. I was excited for this trip because I was accepted into a German university for graduate school and figured I'd get a good introduction to living in Germany, and to be honest, Berlin itself has been great, all the locals I've met have been very nice to me, but my professors and everyone working from my university have been really unprofessional and tricky and now I'm in an unsafe position.** EDIT to add that when I say Friday I mean tomorrow, so I have about 1 day until getting kicked out of the hotel.
Long explanation, skip to the bottom for a TLDR:
Before I even got on a single plane, I found out customer service for my phone carrier and I had a misunderstanding a month ago when I bought my international plan and found out about 3 days in advance that my phone would be a brick here. I told the professor immediately and she said worse case scenario she would help me get a working phone when I landed, since it's kind of needed for basic safety. Just half a day before the first flight, I got bitten by a few deer ticks and said I might also need help scheduling a doctors appointment when I land, because our travel insurance required a working phone number and it was too late for me to make an appointment before my flight. The professor said that was fine and I would be helped with that as well, so I got on the first plane in full confidence.
When I landed, a day passed without either thing being handled, and that was fine by me, but then multiple days passed and the professor kind of just waved it off. I'd started to feel a little unwell and asked the professor to help me find a doctor and she said it was just jetlag.
One of the first days of the program we went to a restaurant, and the seating was a very small reserved room with our entire 20+ cohort in it. I have CPTSD and am claustrophobic and knew immediately that I did not want to sit there, so I asked the professor if she could help me ask the staff request a seat for me in the outside dining area, or, if one wasn't available, that I could just sit outside on a nearby bench and skip dinner. She told me the room was reserved for us and this was on the itinerary so I HAD to sit there, and when I again said I didn't think I could, she demanded I sit there again and condescendingly asked me if I really couldn't or just didn't want to. I started to cry as quietly as possible and then that suddenly made her understand, so we went outside and I explained that, in my opinion, trying to force any adult to do something they're uncomfortable with and have said "No" to is bad enough to me normally, but since I have a disability, it's also ableist. I tried to frame that sentiment in a "I'm sure you didn't mean it this way" kind of way but she still took offence to the criticism and I think that led to the rest of this.
After that happened I was feeling more ill and the professor said, "Oh, do you think it's lyme? Because if it was lyme you'd have a rash. It's probably still jetlag". At this point I said again that I needed some help getting a working phone number and medical advice from a doctor and she told me to take responsibility for myself. I'd bought myself a SIM card but it needed some unexpected trouble shooting and everything was in German (I know some German but only around A2 level and absolutely none is required for this program), so I'd already tried to help myself, and again could not schedule myself an appointment without a working phone.
I asked the professor if she could put her phone number in just to let the appointment scheduling process complete and she said no. I asked if she had any other ideas and she again told me to figure it out. I wound up walking 20 minutes through Berlin alone with no working phone to a doctor's office unannounced, barely able to fill half the sign in sheet and navigate the language barrier, and successfully got the antibiotics I needed and a lyme diagnosis. The nurse even asked why I came alone. Thankfully for me everyone in the doctors office including the doctor was very very nice to me despite the curveball I through them.
Not long after all that the professor sent an email with me cc'd in to the office of international affairs at the university, and the email said, in effect, "This student said they have a disability and can't stick to the itinerary and therefore I think they're not a good fit for this program and should go home." I immediately responded that that wasn't accurate, that I just could not sit inside a restaurant or other very cramped space, etc. Then I figured while I was at it I'd tell them about the total lack of care for my safety or wellbeing here. After sending that email the professor confronted me and tried to pretty much intimidate me into admitting everything was all my fault or something, I honestly have no clue, I think she was just upset and trying to make me feel better somehow. I think my criticism really got to her and made her kind of just hate me and that she wanted to make me make her feelings make sense. No clue honestly.
Anyway, after that the office of international affairs reached back out to me and were acting way nicer than they were when I first enrolled in this program, which felt sus, but I was haggard and miserable and wanted to be able to trust them so I did. They told me if I was considering coming home early for my own health and safety, that I could unenroll that night to make sure the alum who gave me a scholarship would at least be refunded, but that I had to do it that night since it was the last day to drop for a refund. I said I wasn't sure if I wanted to leave the program, and they said if you're considering it unenroll and if you want to stay after further discussion then we can probably just go ahead and re enroll you.
So I did it. The next day I'm scheduled to meet with someone who told me the day or so before that she would be my advocate and that she was there to listen to and represent me, and when I join the zoom meeting, it's her, but also two other people from the international affairs office. They're telling me my return flight has already been scheduled and everything and that they were sending out a person to chaperone me on the flight, because, though it was totally ignored on my flights here, I'd mentioned at the very start of the application process that I'd been a human trafficking victim before and ideally wanted to fly with someone instead of alone. All of this had less than a 24 hour turnaround from me unenrolling.
I realized hours after unenrolling that I don't want to leave the program, I just want to actually be allowed to engage in the program as it was advertised and as it was promised, and that leaving the program, to me, feels like capitulating to the professor being an asshole to me and like removing liability from the university. In short I think I pretty much got tricked into unenrolling. I told them I didn't want to leave early and they told me they already scheduled everything and got a refund for my hotel room, so if I don't take the flight back Friday, I will be homeless on the streets for 2 weeks until the flight that I personally purchased for the 31st, and that since I hit the unenroll button, my housing, health, or safety will no longer be the universities problem after Friday.
So, the fuck do I do with this, ya'll got any advice? I could really use some. Or even just some support haha.
TLDR: Got tricked into hitting unenroll button after damaging professors ego, most likely purposely tricked to absolve the university of responsibility because how the profs were treating me and everything I described probably did make me a liability even if not my fault, but I'm mad and I'm enjoying Berlin and don't want to leave or let the university get away with risking my health and safety multiple times with no apologies.
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2024.05.16 09:49 Glittering-Page-5499 Need to Decide: UST or UPM

For context, I am on my last year on senior high and I passed both ustet and upcat. Sa UST ay nakuha ko ang gusto kong course, while sa up ay hindi. My preferred course is nursing.
The plan is, if sa up ako tutuloy, i'll be in dentistry (the slot given to me) for a year and then shift to nursing the following year. This would mean the additional year compared sa 4 years lang but this is not an issue for me naman. I think it's fine na delay ako dahil upm naman na yon hahaha. Plus, wala ding tuition so ok lang, hindi sya malaking burden financially.
On the other hand, sa ust naman ay nakuha ko yung first choice ko so if dun ako papasok, 4 years lang.
Kaya naman ng parents ko kung sa ust, pero ako yung nanghihinayang sa gagastusin sa tuition haha. It is pricy.
Another factor that i should consider i think is yung community ng students for both schools, and yung kalagayan nila. And ano ba yung advantages ng both schools kung sakaling yun yung papasukin ko?
What would you suggest? Please share din your thoughts and experiences if had one :)). thank you!
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2024.05.16 09:40 shwoopypadawan Need advice ASAP (study abroad program gone pretty wrong)

I'm currently in Berlin, Germany, and about to be homeless for 2 weeks on the streets. I signed up for a study abroad program from my university, which I just graduated from last semester. I paid the application fee, got picked, paid for my own flight here and back, and then got a scholarship from an alumni couple in the department I got my degree in, and that scholarship paid for the rest of the trip.
I worked my ass off doing research and selling a bunch of my stuff to get the plane tickets because I'm pretty broke. I was excited for this trip because I was accepted into a German university for graduate school and figured I'd get a good introduction to living in Germany, and to be honest, Berlin itself has been great, all the locals I've met have been very nice to me, but my professors and everyone working from my university have been really unprofessional and tricky and now I'm in an unsafe position. **EDIT TO ADD, when I say they're trying to make me go home Friday I mean tomorrow, so I have like 1 day until I'm kicked out of the hotel.
Long explanation, skip to the bottom for a TLDR:
Before I even got on a single plane, I found out customer service for my phone carrier and I had a misunderstanding a month ago when I bought my international plan and found out about 3 days in advance that my phone would be a brick here. I told the professor immediately and she said worse case scenario she would help me get a working phone when I landed, since it's kind of needed for basic safety. Just half a day before the first flight, I got bitten by a few deer ticks and said I might also need help scheduling a doctors appointment when I land, because our travel insurance required a working phone number and it was too late for me to make an appointment before my flight. The professor said that was fine and I would be helped with that as well, so I got on the first plane in full confidence.
When I landed, a day passed without either thing being handled, and that was fine by me, but then multiple days passed and the professor kind of just waved it off. I'd started to feel a little unwell and asked the professor to help me find a doctor and she said it was just jetlag.
One of the first days of the program we went to a restaurant, and the seating was a very small reserved room with our entire 20+ cohort in it. I have CPTSD and am claustrophobic and knew immediately that I did not want to sit there, so I asked the professor if she could help me ask the staff request a seat for me in the outside dining area, or, if one wasn't available, that I could just sit outside on a nearby bench and skip dinner. She told me the room was reserved for us and this was on the itinerary so I HAD to sit there, and when I again said I didn't think I could, she demanded I sit there again and condescendingly asked me if I really couldn't or just didn't want to. I started to cry as quietly as possible and then that suddenly made her understand, so we went outside and I explained that, in my opinion, trying to force any adult to do something they're uncomfortable with and have said "No" to is bad enough to me normally, but since I have a disability, it's also ableist. I tried to frame that sentiment in a "I'm sure you didn't mean it this way" kind of way but she still took offence to the criticism and I think that led to the rest of this.
After that happened I was feeling more ill and the professor said, "Oh, do you think it's lyme? Because if it was lyme you'd have a rash. It's probably still jetlag". At this point I said again that I needed some help getting a working phone number and medical advice from a doctor and she told me to take responsibility for myself. I'd bought myself a SIM card but it needed some unexpected trouble shooting and everything was in German (I know some German but only around A2 level and absolutely none is required for this program), so I'd already tried to help myself, and again could not schedule myself an appointment without a working phone.
I asked the professor if she could put her phone number in just to let the appointment scheduling process complete and she said no. I asked if she had any other ideas and she again told me to figure it out. I wound up walking 20 minutes through Berlin alone with no working phone to a doctor's office unannounced, barely able to fill half the sign in sheet and navigate the language barrier, and successfully got the antibiotics I needed and a lyme diagnosis. The nurse even asked why I came alone. Thankfully for me everyone in the doctors office including the doctor was very very nice to me despite the curveball I through them.
Not long after all that the professor sent an email with me cc'd in to the office of international affairs at the university, and the email said, in effect, "This student said they have a disability and can't stick to the itinerary and therefore I think they're not a good fit for this program and should go home." I immediately responded that that wasn't accurate, that I just could not sit inside a restaurant or other very cramped space, etc. Then I figured while I was at it I'd tell them about the total lack of care for my safety or wellbeing here. After sending that email the professor confronted me and tried to pretty much intimidate me into admitting everything was all my fault or something, I honestly have no clue, I think she was just upset and trying to make me feel better somehow. I think my criticism really got to her and made her kind of just hate me and that she wanted to make me make her feelings make sense. No clue honestly.
Anyway, after that the office of international affairs reached back out to me and were acting way nicer than they were when I first enrolled in this program, which felt sus, but I was haggard and miserable and wanted to be able to trust them so I did. They told me if I was considering coming home early for my own health and safety, that I could unenroll that night to make sure the alum who gave me a scholarship would at least be refunded, but that I had to do it that night since it was the last day to drop for a refund. I said I wasn't sure if I wanted to leave the program, and they said if you're considering it unenroll and if you want to stay after further discussion then we can probably just go ahead and re enroll you.
So I did it. The next day I'm scheduled to meet with someone who told me the day or so before that she would be my advocate and that she was there to listen to and represent me, and when I join the zoom meeting, it's her, but also two other people from the international affairs office. They're telling me my return flight has already been scheduled and everything and that they were sending out a person to chaperone me on the flight, because, though it was totally ignored on my flights here, I'd mentioned at the very start of the application process that I'd been a human trafficking victim before and ideally wanted to fly with someone instead of alone. All of this had less than a 24 hour turnaround from me unenrolling.
I realized hours after unenrolling that I don't want to leave the program, I just want to actually be allowed to engage in the program as it was advertised and as it was promised, and that leaving the program, to me, feels like capitulating to the professor being an asshole to me and like removing liability from the university. In short I think I pretty much got tricked into unenrolling. I told them I didn't want to leave early and they told me they already scheduled everything and got a refund for my hotel room, so if I don't take the flight back Friday, I will be homeless on the streets for 2 weeks until the flight that I personally purchased for the 31st, and that since I hit the unenroll button, my housing, health, or safety will no longer be the universities problem after Friday.
So, the fuck do I do with this, ya'll got any advice? I could really use some. Or even just some support haha.
TLDR: Got tricked into hitting unenroll button after damaging professors ego, most likely purposely tricked to absolve the university of responsibility because how the profs were treating me and everything I described probably did make me a liability even if not my fault, but I'm mad and I'm enjoying Berlin and don't want to leave or let the university get away with risking my health and safety multiple times with no apologies. Currently will probably be homeless in Berlin for 2 weeks.
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2024.05.16 09:10 dksurvivor [S] (S36) DK's Survivor: Ghost Island

Welcome to the thirty-sixth season of DK's Survivor.
For this season, 20 new contestants will be left to fend for themselves in the Aran Islands of Ireland, where they will face a brand-new twist in Ghost Island, giving them a chance to right the wrongs of past castaways.
In the end only one person will be left, and they will claim the title of sole survivor.
Season link: https://brantsteele.com/survivo36/r.php?c=FWrXAgyj
Caherard Tribe:
Kilronan Tribe:
Winner: _____Steven Carr_____
Runner-Up: _____Noah Kaimana_____
Second Runner-Up: _____Clint Moonshine_____
Fan Favorite: _____Mateo Dunn_____
Link to wiki page for the season: DK's Survivor: Ghost Island DKSurvivor Wiki Fandom
Quick thoughts:
This season turned out great in my opinion. It had several fun pre-merge and post-merge characters, and the Ghost Island twist ended up playing a significant role in multiple rounds. Overall, my favorite contestants were for sure Clint, Noah, and Steven. They controlled so many eliminations, and played very interesting games. Truthfully, I was disappointed that the final vote wasn't a bit closer, because while Steven absolutely played a winner worthy game, it's hard to ignore how well Noah and Clint did as well. Specifically, that double idol play by Clint was just so iconic lol. Either way, I'm still happy with how everything turned out. Super fun season.
Feel free to share your thoughts below. Stay tuned for the sign-ups for season 37!
Previous seasons:
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2024.05.16 09:05 yeoldgroudon This is probably a dumb question but does anyone have any suggestions on what job I could do part time? While job searching in my field

I finished uni last year in a degree that specialised things like UX/UI/CX/web design/data visualisation, JavaScript and product design but the only problem is tech market and economy no one is hiring in my country, my mental health wasnโ€™t great last year so I didnโ€™t apply much and I went travelling early this year. Everywhere is being hit even my brother may be laid off as a consultant in a smaller company. I did have a final interview with a company the other day Iโ€™m hoping I get but itโ€™s a graduate program and I wouldnโ€™t start until February. If I do get rejected idk what Iโ€™ll do Iโ€™ve seen people who interned at major tech companies are also struggling to find a job and the market apparently might not improve until next year. Iโ€™m currently feeling like a failure Iโ€™m living at home but Iโ€™m getting $800 a fortnight from the government which is alright so Iโ€™m saving some in my bank. Everywhere wants experience even internships want 1 year experience . I have a mentor whoโ€™s given me recruiters to reach out ti. Iโ€™ve been told my industry is hard to break into and saturated which sucks
Before I started my degree it had a really high rate of employability and there were so many jobs then I graduated at one of the worst times, I know a girl from my degree whoโ€™s been looking for a job for 2 years in the industry
I have a portfolio and a resume which Iโ€™ve been told both are good and Iโ€™ve done things like designathons and contributed to VR research as part of a phd study all I lack is industry experience Iโ€™ve been told by people in the industry all my other stuff looks good
So far Iโ€™ve only been exploited by businesses that lied to me, one guy even said he wasnโ€™t exploiting me when he was because he said heโ€™s not paying me he wants me to get experience and work 10 hour days for free which is illegal in my country, he also lied about the role. I also worked with a guy that wanted me to be at senior level and I was the only designer there and it was just him and me.
The market is so bad that thereโ€™s a company who keeps posting jobs for unpaid work and ask for years of experience for a remote only position and their company has been running for 5 years with no website/posts on linkeldn and the ceo doesnโ€™t even know what his idea is and has nothing to show for it in 5 years. So itโ€™s being run illegally
Iโ€™m looking for
customer experience roles, customer support, product expert roles, digital design, product design, CX design, UX/UI roles but thereโ€™s nothing or they want experience
Or any other fields I can look into with a degree?
So what job can I do in the meantime? I did after school coding teaching and holiday camp coding teaching but the after school work is only 1 hour and holiday camp was only the school holidays so not much of an income. Iโ€™ve previously worked in hospitality but I struggle due to a slight disability where my hands are really shaky. Iโ€™ve also done retail for years but I got harassed so much by customers. So does anyone have any other suggestions I was considering swim instructor or something. Thanks! Who knows how long itโ€™ll take to get a job Iโ€™m losing hope because of how bad the market is while my siblings have jobs, may take another year then what do I do? Go back to uni and get more debt to change careers?
Iโ€™m feeling like a failure at 24 when others have careers and I canโ€™t even start my career I feel like I chose the wrong industry. Hopefully I land the job I think I find out next week
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2024.05.16 09:04 yeoldgroudon This is probably a dumb question but does anyone have any suggestions on what job I could do part time? While job searching in my field

I finished uni last year in a degree that specialised things like UX/UI/CX/web design/data visualisation, JavaScript and product design but the only problem is tech market and economy no one is hiring in my country, my mental health wasnโ€™t great last year so I didnโ€™t apply much and I went travelling early this year. Everywhere is being hit even my brother may be laid off as a consultant in a smaller company. I did have a final interview with a company the other day Iโ€™m hoping I get but itโ€™s a graduate program and I wouldnโ€™t start until February. If I do get rejected idk what Iโ€™ll do Iโ€™ve seen people who interned at major tech companies are also struggling to find a job and the market apparently might not improve until next year. Iโ€™m currently feeling like a failure Iโ€™m living at home but Iโ€™m getting $800 a fortnight from the government which is alright so Iโ€™m saving some in my bank. Everywhere wants experience even internships want 1 year experience . I have a mentor whoโ€™s given me recruiters to reach out ti. Iโ€™ve been told my industry is hard to break into and saturated which sucks
Before I started my degree it had a really high rate of employability and there were so many jobs then I graduated at one of the worst times, I know a girl from my degree whoโ€™s been looking for a job for 2 years in the industry
I have a portfolio and a resume which Iโ€™ve been told both are good and Iโ€™ve done things like designathons and contributed to VR research as part of a phd study all I lack is industry experience Iโ€™ve been told by people in the industry all my other stuff looks good
So far Iโ€™ve only been exploited by businesses that lied to me, one guy even said he wasnโ€™t exploiting me when he was because he said heโ€™s not paying me he wants me to get experience and work 10 hour days for free which is illegal in my country, he also lied about the role. I also worked with a guy that wanted me to be at senior level and I was the only designer there and it was just him and me.
The market is so bad that thereโ€™s a company who keeps posting jobs for unpaid work and ask for years of experience for a remote only position and their company has been running for 5 years with no website/posts on linkeldn and the ceo doesnโ€™t even know what his idea is and has nothing to show for it in 5 years. So itโ€™s being run illegally
Iโ€™m looking for
customer experience roles, customer support, product expert roles, digital design, product design, CX design, UX/UI roles but thereโ€™s nothing or they want experience
Or any other fields I can look into with a degree?
So what job can I do in the meantime? I did after school coding teaching and holiday camp coding teaching but the after school work is only 1 hour and holiday camp was only the school holidays so not much of an income. Iโ€™ve previously worked in hospitality but I struggle due to a slight disability where my hands are really shaky. Iโ€™ve also done retail for years but I got harassed so much by customers. So does anyone have any other suggestions I was considering swim instructor or something. Thanks! Who knows how long itโ€™ll take to get a job Iโ€™m losing hope because of how bad the market is while my siblings have jobs, may take another year then what do I do? Go back to uni and get more debt to change careers?
Iโ€™m feeling like a failure at 24 when others have careers and I canโ€™t even start my career I feel like I chose the wrong industry. Hopefully I land the job I think I find out next week
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2024.05.16 08:55 GrandLiving6341 Another day another dollar: Wageslaving with no end in sight

Is that all Iโ€™m good for? Just a cog in the wheel? I get treated like shit at my job everybody hates me. They lower my hours right after I get a raise and raise everybody elseโ€™s hours. How is anyone meant to get ahead in life. To add context, Iโ€™ve been working retail for 7 years now since I was 16. Iโ€™ve saved around 30k from that other than 10k that was gifted to me in a family will. Most of that saved money I made before I turned 18. Now I canโ€™t save a dime and have been stuck at that 30k for like 5 years. I also had a side hustle that has died out now by getting too saturated that I made 22k in a year from. Itโ€™s funny that I made almost as much in 1 year from a side hustle than what Iโ€™ve made slaving for 7 years. Iโ€™m currently stuck tho with no end in sight. I feel numb and very stagnant unable to motivate myself to do anything. Extremely depressed by seeing the truth in things like in the matrix. On top of this my mom is an undiagnosed schizophrenic that is afriaid of the doctor. Sheโ€™s crumbling and me and my dad canโ€™t help her. Itโ€™s very disheartening seeing this happen to someone you love. My grandma is getting old and frail. Most of my family dropped like files a couple years back. Iโ€™m an only child with no one to express these feelings to especially since my 2 friends are going to nursing school now and canโ€™t be bothered. I feel alone yet exhausted to express these feelings to anyone. Dying to talk to someone while too tired to explain. I need to rest yet canโ€™t sleep and when I do Iโ€™m exhausted when I wake up. I canโ€™t even breathe any more since it feels like someone is standing on my chest constantly. Everything is crumbling. Anyone else in the same position?
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2024.05.16 08:49 Slimyfiddlestick1 This is probably a dumb question but does anyone have any suggestions on what job I could do part time? While job searching in my field

I finished uni last year in a degree that specialised things like UX/UI/CX/web design/data visualisation, JavaScript and product design but the only problem is tech market and economy no one is hiring in my country, my mental health wasnโ€™t great last year so I didnโ€™t apply much and I went travelling early this year. Everywhere is being hit even my brother may be laid off as a consultant in a smaller company. I did have a final interview with a company the other day Iโ€™m hoping I get but itโ€™s a graduate program and I wouldnโ€™t start until February. If I do get rejected idk what Iโ€™ll do Iโ€™ve seen people who interned at major tech companies are also struggling to find a job and the market apparently might not improve until next year. Iโ€™m currently feeling like a failure Iโ€™m living at home but Iโ€™m getting $800 a fortnight from the government which is alright so Iโ€™m saving some in my bank. Everywhere wants experience even internships want 1 year experience . I have a mentor whoโ€™s given me recruiters to reach out ti. Iโ€™ve been told my industry is hard to break into and saturated which sucks
Before I started my degree it had a really high rate of employability and there were so many jobs then I graduated at one of the worst times, I know a girl from my degree whoโ€™s been looking for a job for 2 years in the industry
I have a portfolio and a resume which Iโ€™ve been told both are good and Iโ€™ve done things like designathons and contributed to VR research as part of a phd study all I lack is industry experience Iโ€™ve been told by people in the industry all my other stuff looks good
So far Iโ€™ve only been exploited by businesses that lied to me, one guy even said he wasnโ€™t exploiting me when he was because he said heโ€™s not paying me he wants me to get experience and work 10 hour days for free which is illegal in my country, he also lied about the role. I also worked with a guy that wanted me to be at senior level and I was the only designer there and it was just him and me.
The market is so bad that thereโ€™s a company who keeps posting jobs for unpaid work and ask for years of experience for a remote only position and their company has been running for 5 years with no website/posts on linkeldn and the ceo doesnโ€™t even know what his idea is and has nothing to show for it in 5 years. So itโ€™s being run illegally
Iโ€™m looking for
customer experience roles, customer support, product expert roles, digital design, product design, CX design, UX/UI roles but thereโ€™s nothing or they want experience
Or any other fields I can look into with a degree?
So what job can I do in the meantime? I did after school coding teaching and holiday camp coding teaching but the after school work is only 1 hour and holiday camp was only the school holidays so not much of an income. Iโ€™ve previously worked in hospitality but I struggle due to a slight disability where my hands are really shaky. Iโ€™ve also done retail for years but I got harassed so much by customers. So does anyone have any other suggestions I was considering swim instructor or something. Thanks! Who knows how long itโ€™ll take to get a job Iโ€™m losing hope because of how bad the market is while my siblings have jobs, may take another year then what do I do? Go back to uni and get more debt to change careers?
Iโ€™m feeling like a failure at 24 when others have careers and I canโ€™t even start my career I feel like I chose the wrong industry. Hopefully I land the job I think I find out next week
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2024.05.16 08:40 Denz-El My attempt to plot out a hypothetical Live Action adaptation (with no guarantee of sequels or future seasons)

I've been thinking that if Spy x Family ever got a live action adaptation (never gonna/never should happen?), whether as a film (trilogy?) or microseries, then a smart way of truncating the story would be to have Loid and Anya have a pre-established father-daughter relationship as a result of him rescuing her from the lab.
Twilight infiltrates the lab as a janitor, discovers that Subject 007 is the only survivor from their human trials and immediately decides to rescue her. Fortunately for him, the facility is distracted by a completely coincidental simultaneous attack by the mysterious Thorn Princess (who wears a mask in this adaptation since part of her Garden-mandated M. O. is to allow a survivor every once in a while to build up her reputation... in this case, said survivor just happens to be the dumbstruck Twilight, still in disguise. She informs him that she's about to rig the place to blow and that he should leave now. He runs off to retrieve Anya from her hiding place, where he told her to stay while he investigated the sounds of fighting. Thorn Princess allows them to leave, since Twilight was able to convince her that he really was just a hard-working man who was disgusted by the experiments and just wanted to help this girl escape. They part ways and the lab is destroyed.
Although in my imagination, said infiltration-turned-rescue would have happened while Anya is four, allowing her the awareness to get overly attached to Twilight, thus resulting in him getting automatically assigned by the higher ups from WISE (they're the only ones who know about her power) as her guardian/mentor. His mission is to protect her while helping her hone her abilities. Whether she becomes a spy or an ordinary well-adjusted citizen, would be up to her once she comes of age... All of this could be a cold open prologue narrated by Anya in the style of a spy novel. It's a mental diary entry she recites to herself on the anniversary of her rescue.
This would be a great way of shortening the set up as far as Loid and Anya are concerned. Among the Forger family, these two have known each other for longer and are the only ones who have any knowledge of Operation Strix and are actively working for its success (Yor is a wonderful and essential addition to the family, but sometimes she does feel a bit like an outsider... which she is: as far as she knows, she's Loid's second wife and Anya's stepmother).
If this hypothetical adaptation has Twilight rescue Anya as an infant/toddler and Operation Strix happens when she's around eleven or twelve, then this would allow the casting director to look for older, more experienced child actors for the role. But then again, a twelve year old Anya who was raised by Twilight may not be so eager to ship her spy dad with a freaking assassin they just so happen to bump into... unless said assassin happened to attack the lab several years ago and coincidentally allowed Twilight to survive and thus liberate little Anya! (As for why Yor doesn't recognize Anya now... Um, she just forgot, okay! :D But seriously, if pink hair were to be a rare, but not too rare, hair color in this adaptation's universe, then there would be little reason for Yor to suspect that Anya Forger is the same kid she helped rescue a few years back, especially if she doesn't recall hearing the child's name at the time.)
I imagine the first film of this hypothetical adaptation to start with "Dr. Loid Forger" being visited by his "mother-in-law" (Handler) who informs him that WISE HQ has determined that Anya and her ability are necessary for Operation Strix. Twilight, who has grown attached to Anya over the years, is upset but reluctantly agrees upon hearing the reasoning behind the decision. Anya is much less reluctant! After moving to Berlint and passing the entrance exam for Eden Academy, they receive the letter about both parents showing up for the interview. They come up with a plan to hire a single woman as a nanny for Anya, a woman who they can convince to also act as Anya's mother for the interview and trustworthy enough to keep quiet about it. While looking for prospects, the pair end up reuniting with an oblivious Yor.
So as not to complicate the plot too much (in the case of a standalone film with a soft potential sequel hook at the end) let's say that Yor had, at this point, handed in her resignation to the Shopkeeper since Yuri is now a grown man who's taking good care of himself. Unfortunately for Yor, resigning from Garden basically means getting politely excommunicated by the organization. No longer will they spare any of their resources to provide for her or to protect her from the authorities (should it ever come to that). She's on her own. So she's out job hunting when she coincidentally crosses paths with the Forgers. Seeing Anya makes Yor think of the time she helped rescue a pink haired kid from a lab. Anya reads her mind and she KNOWS that she's found the mom she wants!
Anya takes Loid aside to explain that Yor is Thorn Princess. She also tries to convince him of the benefits of keeping a jobless assassin away from unassuming civilians and from enemy employment by hiring her themselves. They'd keep her out of the loop as far as operation Strix was concerned, instead monitoring her as they keep her around as a loyal nanny with the skills of a bodyguard. After much pestering from Anya, Loid very reluctantly hires Yor as her nanny (and also fake mother for the interview).
(Now, Yuri is either still an SSS officer, or just a regular government employee... If the latter, then Yor might be able to get him to forge her marriage certificate later. He might grudgingly go along with it, the guy did give his sister a job... but he better not touch her.)
After that, the film would focus a bit on Anya adapting to life as an Eden student and befriending Becky and trying to befriend Damian... Maybe even showing a montage of the Forgers going about their daily lives: Anya doing good/badly at school and earning stellas/tonitrus bolts, Loid going out to do other spy jobs with Franky, Yuri (toned down) paying visits and eventually introducing his girlfriend Fiona (also toned down), and Yor settling in and finding peace in her new life as "Mrs. Forger".
Eventually, Anya sets her sights on earning another stella by signing up for community service at the dog adoption fair leading to an adaptation of the Doggy Crisis arc as the climax. Loid is called in by WISE and Yor is left to accompany Anya. Blah blah blah. Maybe Damian's also doing community service for the stella and ends up getting entangled with the terrorists and Anya ends up saving him at one point. Yor stops the terrorists that WISE couldn't capture. Perhaps, as a backup plan, the terrorists found and hired another excommunicated Garden assassin to take out the Westalian ambassador. Higher stakes may also force Anya to reveal her powers to Yor in order to help Loid in time.
At the end of the day the Forgers get to adopt Bond and Yor is brought in on Loid and Anya's secret, becoming an active participant of Operation Strix. Throughout the film, Loid has seen how quickly Anya and Yor clicked and grew close together and how they obviously loved each other. Loid ("for the mission, for Anya", he tries insist, but drops the excuses) proposes to Yor for real with a grenade pin. She happily accepts.
The film ends with the Forgers settling into their new lives as a family... One night while having dinner, the phone rings. Anya gets up to answer it, leaving Loid and Yor alone and trying to flirt with each other. Anya comes back, phone still in hand, explaining that the caller is Damian whose parents have given permission to invite friends and their parents over for his birthday party. Anya shares a knowing look with her parents, who both give her a nod. She says her thanks and accepts the invitation, hangs up the phone, and rejoins her parents at the table, gives Bond some food from her plate, Loid and Yor resume talking about their day. As this peaceful family scene plays out the music takes on a jazzy tune, clearly implying that the Forgers are already making plans. Cut to title: SPY X FAMILY.
Roll credits. :)
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2024.05.16 08:14 QuestingQueer Honorific for NP / PA ?

Silly question, but Iโ€™m not sure how to refer to mid-level providers in a respectful way! Folks with more clinical experience please help me out.
The ones who Iโ€™ve been introduced to have always introduced themselves to me with their first names, but I know Iโ€™ll be having more interactions with various types of medical staff and I donโ€™t want to step on any toes by assuming theyโ€™re all okay with being on a first-name basis given the age gap (Iโ€™m younger and I want to show respect) and the competency gap (Iโ€™ll be a student which means Iโ€™m still learning and sometimes may be more annoying than helpful while theyโ€™re trying to be productive).
Hypothetical one: Iโ€™m in a clinic and meeting patients to start taking their history before the nurse practitioner comes in. After introducing myself and explaining what Iโ€™m doing there, do I tell the patient โ€œyour provider, Nurse LastName, will be joining us in a momentโ€ or is it better to refer to them as Mr./Ms./Mx./etc LastName and avoid calling them โ€˜nurseโ€™ while still specifying that they will be the provider for the encounter so their role is clear?
I would call a doctor (physician with MD/DO, or an academic PhD) Dr. LastName, and I would call a registered nurse Nurse LastName, unless the person told me they have other preferences, but what about an NP? I donโ€™t know if they want to be called โ€˜nurseโ€™ because they are a type of nurse, or if they want to be distinguished from different types of nurses by calling them something else (not sure what else I would say!)
Hypothetical two: I was told some bit of information by a physicianโ€™s assistant and now Iโ€™m verbally passing it on to the resident Iโ€™m working with. Do I say โ€œMr./Ms./Mx./etc LastName wanted to speak with you about a patient in room two?โ€ What do you call a physicianโ€™s assistant? Do they have titles or honorifics that are equivalent to โ€˜doctorโ€™ or โ€˜nurseโ€™ that are specific for their profession?
I feel like I should know the answer to this so Iโ€™m too embarrassed to ask an actual nurse practitioner or physicianโ€™s assistant what theyโ€™re supposed to be called (ie what to default to for people in that position) outside of situations when youโ€™ve interacted with them enough to know what they personally prefer as individuals.
I havenโ€™t had to figure it out before (helps that my premed shadowing was only with MDs so I didnโ€™t have a lot of interaction with mid-levels) but now that Iโ€™ll be starting med school I donโ€™t wanna make a bad impression! I know Iโ€™m probably overthinking it, but what is the best way to handle this piece of etiquette? please helppp ๐Ÿ˜ฉ
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2024.05.16 07:53 rubyyyrabbit Does the school you go to matter?

Iโ€™m planning on attending school to become an Lpn in the fall, and Iโ€™ve been accepted at two schools: Vancouver island university, and bow valley college. VIU is a better school overall, and I had to take a difficult pre-nursing program to even apply, where I was the highest in the class. Bow valley is in Calgary, and my boyfriend is planning on doing his accounting degree during my second year, but there are better options in terms of programs and schools in Calgary. Basically, viu is a better school but Calgary is better for both of us. Iโ€™ve heard that hospitals put applications from certain schools โ€œat the bottom of the pileโ€ for example sprott Shaw, and Iโ€™m scared of missing out on job opportunities by choosing bow valley college. Advice would be appreciated!
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2024.05.16 07:43 Sudden_District_7584 I feel like a failure because of where I go to school.

This isn't anything crazy compared to the other posts here, and I'll probably delete this so I don't dox myself.
I had the opportunity to go to my dream school a few years back, but I turned it down. It would have cost me $350,000+ to attend. Normally financial aid policies are in place so that no one has to take out massive loans, but my parents are pretty rich ($1M~/year salary) and colleges assume at that point that the parents are going to pick up the tab. We had that conversation growing up and they vaguely promised that finances would never be a factor in where I go to college.
But my parents are self-made and also don't know what they're doing with money. They never invest, overspend on cars, donate a ton to relatives abroad, spend a lot on charity (mostly for their own clout, not because they give a shit about helping the poor) and do a bunch of shit that kind of made me feel like I wasn't a priority in their lives. Which is fine, because it's their money and they can do whatever they want. I figured the one thing that they'd give me was a chance to go to my dream school because they borderline abused me about academics growing up and it was literally the one thing I had going for me.
For a bunch of reasons really, they flaked at the last minute. Suddenly they claimed that the education at my local regional college (no one outside of the state has ever heard of this place unless they know someone going there) was on par with the Ivies and the opportunities would be exactly the same for one-third of the price. My aunt had told them about this one program they have in my field, and they kind of got brainwashed into thinking that it's this hidden golden ticket and that I'd be set if I go there. It didn't help that my sibling was jealous and did everything he could to convince them that I'd crack under the pressure if I went somewhere competitive.
They also have this big ego problem. Basically I was asking my cousins at the time where I should attend school (my dream school vs. this random ass college) and they all unanimously told me that I'd be an idiot for turning down the dream school if I had the money. My dad especially didn't like that I was favoring my cousins' advice over his, and he pretty much cracked down after that.
Years later, I figured that by now I would move on but I've gotten more and more depressed and borderline suicidal. The social scene at my school sucks. There are no sports and I don't fit in with the culture on campus. It's not intellectual and frankly half the people I've met shouldn't even be in college at all. I came to school with the expectation of challenging myself yet this place is two or three steps down from high school. I have a few "friends" there (most of them feel fake) but only two or three that care enough to check on me over the summers.
I'm seeing my old friends go to good schools and while I feel happy seeing them make the most of that chance, I also just feel like a complete failure. I still remember when high school was wrapping up and everyone was asking me where I'm going to college, and everyone was fucking disappointed in me. I'd literally cry as I'd drive back home half the days. My parents are remorseful but now they're giving me bullshit like, "Oh, just go somewhere prestigious for medical/grad school!" As if that's easy to do when you're going to a shitty college with zero opportunities. They think graduate admissions are just about who has the highest GPA and test scores and will call me an idiot and naive if I say otherwise.
Like I'm studying for the MCAT and I scored pretty high on my first practice test. My dad was like, "You should aim for a 525 [out of 528] on the real deal." That's a 100th percentile score. I'm not getting that. He's just saying that shit because it's a lofty goal that he knows I'll never reach, so he has an excuse to be disappointed in me down the road.
I don't know, I just feel like I got completely robbed by my parents. On one hand, it makes me feel spoiled because college is hella expensive, and I should be grateful that they're paying for the local school that I attend now. But I didn't even get to explore half the careers that interested me (Quant, IB, higher-end SWE jobs) because my resume would get trashed immediately. I could have been completely independent within a couple years but instead "I" picked medicine (it's my favorite field, but my parents are salty that they aren't doctors and now want me to be one), and I probably won't be financially stable until I'm well into my 30s. And wherever I go, I see some statistic about how Ivy graduates are so much better off than state school students or something. I just want to feel proud of myself for something but there isn't anything.
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2024.05.16 07:41 Start_over_dude Iโ€™m not sure what to do after losing my mom.

I (36m) lost my mom not long ago, just this past February. She had been chronically ill for a while, but never imagined it was life threatening. Inconvenient, poor quality of life, but not terminal. She started taking ill about 5 years ago in mid 2019, and since I had quit my previous full time job to go back to college I too care of her pretty much full time in addition to school and a part time job at Walmart. My dad travels too much to be able to help and my slightly younger brother left the house upon getting a job out of state. So I didnโ€™t really complain about taking care of her. My mom and I were always super close,so I was glad to. It wasnโ€™t even like I had a girlfriend at the time to have to split attention with. My last relationship ended pretty amicably, but I just didnโ€™t have the self confidence to try again. This went on for the rest of 2019, and it was a pretty soothing routine, she could mostly help herself most days, but she had pretty major fatigue from time to time unpredictably. We imagined sheโ€™d get better eventually. I graduated at the end of 2019 and applied to jobs with that in mind. Then Covid hit and somehow she ended up getting worse. She never told me what she was ill with, if she even knew, she distrusted doctors except for vaccines and acute injury care. I still cared for her as best I could, she still had good days and bad so it wasnโ€™t a burden. I even managed to get an okay job that let me work remotely thanks to my degree. It was a little stressful, but mostly sedentary, the occasional run to get food or something. During that time I was pretty glad to be not dating. It carried on like that all through the pandemic and I found myself becoming somewhat of a hermit, just working and taking care of my mom, keeping her company since my dad/her husband still needed to travel for work even if it was less. I naturally put on weight, picked up bad eating habits, resumed my gaming habit and that kind of thing.
And then she died. I assume it was peaceful since it was in her sleep.
Now Iโ€™m just alone. Dad, despite his best efforts was never wired to be especially emotionally intelligent or available. My brother, god bless him, has a fiancรฉe and responsibilities across the country. And Iโ€™m just here. Fat. Alone. No real self esteem to speak of(not to disparage fat people or anything, Iโ€™m all about body positivity. For thee, anyway).
I donโ€™t know how to rebuild myself. Iโ€™ve never been especially social. This whole thing has made it worse. Iโ€™ve always had negative self talk, but being able to give and care for someone helped quiet the inner monologue. But now the most important person in my life is gone, and I feel like the past five years were simultaneously the best and worst years of my life.
While Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™m grieving still in some way, Iโ€™m glad my mom isnโ€™t trapped in her body anymore. So this far out, not that itโ€™s that far, Iโ€™m not shattered or wracked with grief over my mom. I miss her every single day. But I understand that she wasnโ€™t living her best life. And Iโ€™d rather she go on to a better place than be trapped. So Iโ€™m not destroyed anymore. I was. I cried and was unable to get out of bed for a week. And Iโ€™m sure I deliriously talked to her during that time too. But that passed.
Now I just feel aimless. I work. I sleep. I eat poorly. I want to get back into life but I donโ€™t know how anymore.
Hell. I donโ€™t even know how to close this post out. Ask for advice? Ask for support? Just put it out there and not give a shit? I canโ€™t think of anything witty. So thatโ€™s the deal. Yeah. Sorry for the rambling.
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2024.05.16 07:15 potatospooon The Job Market Sucks

I graduated with a nursing degree in December and have yet to land a job. Out of the many jobs Iโ€™ve applied to, Iโ€™ve only had 1 interview. Everything I apply to gets sent to the hiring manager and then itโ€™s crickets. I never would have thought that the job market would suck this bad even for the healthcare field. (for context i live in houston) You would think livng near the biggest medical center would have unlimited jobs right? wrong, i didnโ€™t realize how competitive it is. I wish I knew this, I wish i had someone to tell me this while I was in nursing school and I would have pushed myself to get bedside experience. I had to pay for school so working at a resturanant was the easiest way for me to make money. Iโ€™m starting to realize itโ€™s all about who you know and what connections you have, and i have none. I feel like a loser because most of my cohort already got and started their career alreadyโ€ฆ itโ€™s been 6 months since i graduatedโ€ฆ
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2024.05.16 07:11 McBitchinn Lost and Confused - Getting Into My Career

TLDR: Architecture student, who needs money to live, looking for part time opportunities or ways to keep their portfolio/resume alive while going to school online and living a foreign county.
Some context:
In 2022, I graduated with a BS in Interior Design, intending to get a Masters in Architecture. I ended up taking a gap year to find work, but struggled for a while. I managed to snag a job at a commercial furniture dealership working full time as a furniture systems designer. In 2023, I started my 3 year master program (its online and NAAB accreddited), and I eventually dropped down to part time due to the stress of the combined two.
My current job at the furniture dealership has been progressively getting more and more stressful. A crazy amount hours, low staffing, low pay, and office politics (the design department cannot retain any staff, especially senior designers) have made this job unlivable.
I have two more years to go in my masters degree, and my partner and I have made a commitment to move to Spain for the next school year (my partner was offered an English teaching job). We cannot afford for me to not work, and I donโ€™t want to pause my career while we are gone. I have looked into freelancer for CAD drafting opportunities, and I have been looking for part-time/remote work on job searching platforms.
I seem to be in an in-between state as an architecture student, and I as wondering if anyone had any ideas for design related jobs or skill building paid opportunities that would keep me relevant and up-to-date in the industry (maybe wider creative industry given the state of architecture lol).
I appreciate any and all advice given. I am not asking for a job, just ideas.
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