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Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Our members listen, support, and encourage each other on their path to independence.
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A SubReddit for discussion of Pokémon Masters EX, a gacha mobile game developed by DeNA and Nintendo in 2019. This game is available on both iOS and Android.
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2024.05.15 00:52 h0p4bright How do a 20-30y adult make new friends nowadays in Liège ? Especially when you are no more a student

I've been trying for a while. It's been on and off. The last 6-10 months I've been trying to focus on my well being.
I have met a few people but they are not always regular at the place I go. I prefer interacting with people face to face because writing message can get messy and confusing especially for me since I have anxiety easily (there is something called Text anxiety, it fits me well😂).
I haven't made friends yet but I'm already in a better situation, just learning to be surrounded by people, interact with them. I've had a hard time because of bad (we can even say evil) people at work the last 14+ months and it's almost finally over.
One of the people I met told me about his friends and said that some of them , he met them online with Instagram.
I am really curious how in 2024 people meet new people ? Especially with social medias.
I'm not a real fan of that and I barely use them except for sending memes, reels, publish a few things. Anyway, social medias are not my whole life at all. But I can see them as a tool. Meeting apps are not for me ,I've tried.
Hobbies, I have tried, just that it is a matter of luck I guess. People just come for the lesson then disappear as soon as the lesson is done.
Im thinking about taking language lessons for fun. I wonder how are Japanese or Dutch lessons in Liège? From university of Liège
I would like to try hip hop dance next school year so I'm waiting for the dates to try for free the dance lessons. I already dance and it's fun, just that people aren't here for socializing, just dancing which is a pity and there are only women. I thought it would be great but no one has the mindset to make new female friends. Well, I enjoy dance so I keep going there for myself basically. Making friends was a bonus if it happened. I am just disappointed but I got over it since then.
Everyone say I'm stil young, I stil can make new friends. I really do believe that mostly I haven't met the "right" people yet. I'm seeing a therapist for a year now, so don't worry guys, I'm trying to take care of myself and work on myself too !😀
It's kind of weird to be born here and even for Belgian, it's hard to make new friends if you know no one basically. I am not that extroverted and I wish I had more friends to hang out with.
I also wish to go to concerts for example, but since I'm 25F, and I'm not confident to go alone especially I don't feel safe going out alone, it's something I have to give up. There are things I do sometimes alone like movies when there are films I really would like to see ,and I don't need anyone to watch it so I'm fine. But I just wish I could enjoy idk, drinks, bars, concerts, fun parties open to everyone, enjoy conversations with friends of friends and such.
I feel like missing out. I know friendships and love relationships are overrated. I don't need that many friends, but just a few ,is enough if they are genuine and sincere ! It's so basic and it's so hard
I've read many posts of the surrenders of Liège, Belgium or Wallonia where so many people have a hard time meeting new people AND making long lasting friendships. What the hell is going on ? I know how Belgian are, I was born here after all. The people I've met the last years, they often keep staying with their close friends from school hobbies or whatever, and they never bother getting to know new people. That's such a pity. Even myself I find Belgian being closed off, hard to interact with. We can only meet other people through events hobbies,etc, when we don't know anyone at all. It's really luck when we meet the right people for us quickly. Lots of attempts can lead to nothing for many people.
Sometimes I'm tired of this situation, but whenever someone hurt me (it happened in January this year, I cut off contact with this person she didn't respect my feelings and my pain), I just feel like I prefer being alone, at least I don't have to care for anyone else other than myself.
That's why I try to keep taking care of myself more, while keep trying to meet new people , just not all the time. I don't give up. Just I take a lot of breaks from it. I think I feel better this way, going to places regularly without waiting anything, getting used to people again, and getting to know new people when it's mutual.
How is your life going on ?
I just wish life would be like movies 😂 going to a party like in the US where you know no one, and then you make new friends at the end of the night 😂 except that I did do that in Spain when I was at a Youth hostel, partied at night in club till late at night, but at the morning people didn't care at all and went on their ways. Dunno about Liège though, I just don't feel safe in the square.
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2024.05.15 00:48 HoneyEmbarrassed6839 I need advice

I (24F) have been in a relationship with my (25M) since I was 16. I apologize for how all over the place this is. I just need help.
We’ve grown up together. I love this man with all my heart. I feel as if he’s my person, but he doesn’t feel the same. He tells me he loves me, but his actions haven’t always said the same.
To set the stage, it was like any other high school relationship. You believe you’re gonna end up married and pregnant a year after you graduate. It’s not the case. Honestly the red flag should have been when he laughed in my face when I told him I loved him for the first time. We were 3 months into dating and spending every day together. We got a place together on my 20th birthday. Everything was perfect in my eyes. We were own our own, sex life was up, and it was all ours. No rules or parents. It wasn’t until 8ish months later I discovered he was sexting my friend. I did the worse thing possible and cheated too. Everything went to shit. He moved out, we fought, all that. Well, we ended up back together after a few months apart. He moved back in and everything was fine. Here I am 2 years later after all this happened and I’m doubting if coming back was a good decision. My whole family hates him. My friends hate him. Every single person I know that has met him, hates him. He doesn’t put in the effort to be around the people important to me. He never attends a single family event of mine. Absolutely nothing. Not even my birthday party. We no longer live in the house that’s in my name. Everything is his. We had a conversation a couple weeks ago about how we have to live our lives for us and I broke down crying because it sounded like he didn’t want me in his. He told me I was overreacting and he’d buy a ring in two years time. He refuses to get married. He refuses to have kids before he’s in his 30s. I try to make him see my point but he fails to see why it bothers me so much. I’ve always wanted a happy family. We both make decent money. There’s no reason why we couldn’t support a child. I’m afraid his fear of commitment is because he’s still sleeping with someone behind my back, but I have no proof. It’s eating me alive. I can’t get his phone to check messages or when I do there’s only two conversations left. It makes me feel like he’s deleting the truth so I don’t see. I attend everything of his family’s. I treat his sister like my own. I feel trapped down. Everything is his and I will have nothing but my car and clothes. My mom said I can move in with her, but after being on your own, how do you go back to that? Am I overreacting? I’m not asking to get married tomorrow, but we’ve been together so long that boyfriend and girlfriend sounds fucking stupid to my ears. I wanted a future with him, but what happens if we do have a kid? Will he allow the kid to see my family or is he going to fight me? What do I do?
It’s not like we’re fighting either. I just want more. I feel guilty for wanting more. We still get alone. We’re still loving towards each other. He has no idea what’s going through my head since that conversation. I’m lost.
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2024.05.15 00:48 noggggin My stepmother hates that I exist.

My stepmother hates the fact that I exist.
I want to start by saying that I was born before my father and stepmother got together, however they did start their relationship whilst my father and mother were still together who later broke up after around 12 months of me being born. I have never known my parents together, it’s just how it’s always been.
I used to visit my dad once a week, and my stepmother would never really address me or talk to me, and that’s just how it was until she nearly died in childbirth with my youngest sister when I was age 14 (she had two children with my dad). We became closer and I was extremely grateful because I had always wondered why we never gained a relationship over the years. At age 17, 10 years ago, there was a disagreement between me and my dad, stepmum, aunty and nan which resulted in me basically being shunned from the family, and it was over something extremely small and didn’t need to be blown up in the way that it was. Over the first 2 years of limited contact, I was bullied via social media by stepmum, nan and aunty; this included making jokes about my mental health, contacting my friends to try and turn them against me, contacting my mothers side of the family to tell them how much they hated me and them, the list goes on. It went as far as to keep a family illness from me, which unfortunately resulted in what I thought was a sudden death and I was threatened out of going to the funeral - I was called an extreme expletive for asking, beginning with the letter C and something was said in regards to hurting me in some way or another. This was all done without the knowledge of my father, he remained in no contact through sheer stubbornness. Fast forward perhaps 3 years, my dad is back in contact but is caught texting me by said stepmother - she insists he chooses between me and her and there is an attempt at serious assault (her against my dad) with a glass, you do the math. He moves out for a week or so and goes back to her. We text on and off for years, discussing meeting up one day and eventually, 9.5 years after the initial shunning, we meet up. This is met with more anger, I believe she even demolished her own kitchen in rage over the thought of her husband meeting his first child.
Something that should perhaps be mentioned about now, is that my youngest sister has no recollection of who I am as she was only two years old at the time of the original falling out, she is now 13. My dad has informed my sister of my existence at this point, wanting us to eventually meet. The oldest of my sisters is now 20 and we have plans to meet, she’s an adult and can do as she pleases although I sense an element of fear of her mother and that’s why there has been a delay.
This fiasco has ended in the break up of their marriage, all because I exist. Things she has said that my dad has informed me of: - “you only want to see her because she is a piece of your ex”, - “don’t let her see her sister, she will do something evil like poison her to get back at me”, - (I am at university) “I guess I’ll have to go to university so that I am interesting like her (me)”
I want to end this with saying that I am extremely distressed to hear that my existence is causing such upset and aggravation in a household where my sisters reside. I have missed them for years and have always dreamed of the day where I could see them again. At what point do you stop feeling guilty for just existing, living and breathing?
edit there is a lot that is missed out here, small things that would maybe make things sound even worse but 10 years of shit is a lot to rake up and I’m sure there are also things that I have forgotten, this is just a short heads and tails.
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2024.05.15 00:46 businessnewstv How to accept credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business in 2024

Understanding the importance of accepting credit card payments

Accepting credit card payments is crucial for any business, including crane operating businesses. Understanding the importance of accepting credit card payments can help crane operators diversify their revenue streams and attract more customers. By accepting credit cards, crane operators can offer a convenient and secure payment option to their clients, which can enhance customer satisfaction and loyalty. Additionally, accepting credit card payments allows crane operators to expand their customer base by attracting individuals who prefer to pay with credit cards. This can result in increased sales and revenue for the business. Therefore, it is essential for crane operating businesses to prioritize accepting credit card payments in order to stay competitive in the industry and maximize their earning potential.

Benefits of using Square for credit card processing

Square offers several benefits for credit card processing that can greatly benefit your Crane Operating Business. Firstly, Square provides a secure and reliable platform for accepting credit card payments, ensuring that your customers' sensitive information is protected. Additionally, Square offers competitive transaction rates, allowing you to keep more of your hard-earned revenue. Another advantage of using Square is its user-friendly interface, making it easy for you and your staff to process payments quickly and efficiently. Furthermore, Square provides detailed analytics and reporting tools, giving you valuable insights into your business's financial performance. Lastly, Square offers seamless integration with other business tools and software, allowing you to streamline your operations and improve overall efficiency. By choosing Square for credit card processing, you can enhance the payment experience for your customers while optimizing your business's financial management.

Key considerations before setting up credit card payments

Before setting up credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business, there are a few key considerations that you should keep in mind. First and foremost, it is important to ensure that your business is eligible to accept credit card payments. This may involve checking with your bank or financial institution to determine if they offer merchant services for your industry. Additionally, you will need to consider the costs associated with accepting credit card payments, including transaction fees and any equipment or software that may be required. It is also crucial to prioritize the security of your customers' payment information by implementing robust data encryption and compliance with Payment Card Industry Data Security Standards (PCI DSS). Finally, it is advisable to research and compare different payment processing providers to find the one that best suits the needs of your Crane Operating Business, taking into account factors such as pricing, customer support, and ease of integration with your existing systems.

Setting up a Square account

Creating a Square account

Creating a Square account is a crucial step in accepting credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business. Square provides a secure and convenient platform for businesses to process transactions efficiently. To create an account, visit the Square website and click on the 'Sign Up' button. Fill in the required information, including your business details and banking information. Once your account is set up, you can start accepting credit card payments from your customers. Having a Square account not only streamlines your payment process but also instills trust and confidence in your customers, ensuring a seamless and professional experience for both parties involved.

Verifying your identity

Verifying your identity is an essential step when accepting credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business with Square. In order to ensure the security and legitimacy of your transactions, Square requires all users to go through a verification process. This process involves providing valid identification documents and completing the necessary forms. By verifying your identity, you can establish trust with your customers and protect your business from potential fraud. It is important to carefully follow Square's instructions and provide accurate information during the verification process. Once your identity is verified, you can confidently accept credit card payments and offer a secure payment experience to your customers.

Linking your bank account

Linking your bank account is an essential step in accepting credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business with Square. By linking your bank account, you can ensure that the funds from your credit card transactions are deposited directly into your account, providing you with quick and convenient access to your funds. This process is simple and secure, and it allows you to efficiently manage your finances. To link your bank account, follow the step-by-step instructions provided by Square. By following these small business tips, you can streamline your payment process and focus on growing your crane operating business.

Choosing the right Square payment solution

Exploring Square's payment processing options

Square offers a range of payment processing options for businesses, making it convenient and efficient to accept credit card payments. When it comes to eco-conscious vending, Square provides a seamless solution that allows crane operating businesses to easily accept credit card payments while also prioritizing sustainability. With Square's payment processing options, crane operators can offer their customers a convenient and eco-friendly way to make payments, reducing the need for cash transactions and paper receipts. By embracing Square's eco-conscious vending solutions, crane operating businesses can not only streamline their payment processes but also contribute to a greener and more sustainable future.

Selecting the best payment solution for your crane operating business

Selecting the best payment solution for your crane operating business is a crucial decision that can greatly impact your financial success. When it comes to accepting credit card payments, it is important to find a solution that is not only reliable and secure but also cost-effective. As a crane operator, you want to ensure that the payment solution you choose offers competitive rates and low transaction fees. Additionally, it is essential to consider the ease of use and integration with your existing business systems. By selecting the right payment solution, such as Square, you can streamline your payment process and provide a convenient and seamless experience for your customers.

Understanding transaction fees and pricing

Understanding transaction fees and pricing is crucial for any business that accepts credit card payments. It is important to have a clear understanding of how these fees are calculated and what pricing options are available. By understanding transaction fees and pricing, businesses can make informed decisions that will optimize their financial performance. This knowledge will enable them to choose the most cost-effective payment processing solution and minimize unnecessary expenses. Additionally, being aware of transaction fees and pricing allows businesses to accurately calculate their profit margins and adjust their pricing strategies accordingly. Ultimately, a thorough understanding of transaction fees and pricing is essential for the success and sustainability of any business in the modern digital economy.

Integrating Square with your website or mobile app

Adding Square payment buttons to your website

To enhance the convenience and efficiency of accepting credit card payments for your Crane Operating Business, you can easily integrate Square payment buttons into your website. Adding Square payment buttons to your website allows your customers to make secure and seamless transactions, providing them with a hassle-free payment experience. By incorporating Square's robust payment processing capabilities, you can offer your customers a wide range of payment options, including credit cards, debit cards, and mobile wallets. This integration not only streamlines your payment process but also instills confidence in your customers, as Square is a trusted and reputable payment solution provider. With Square's user-friendly interface and reliable infrastructure, you can ensure that your customers' transactions are processed smoothly and securely. By implementing Square payment buttons on your website, you can provide a seamless and convenient payment experience for your customers, enhancing your Crane Operating Business's professionalism and customer satisfaction.

Implementing Square's API for seamless payment integration

Implementing Square's API for seamless payment integration is crucial for any Crane Operating Business that wants to accept credit card payments. By integrating Square's API, businesses can provide their customers with a secure and convenient payment experience. Square's API allows businesses to seamlessly process credit card transactions, manage inventory, and generate detailed reports. This level of integration not only enhances the customer experience but also improves the efficiency of the business operations. Implementing Square's API can also help businesses rank on Google by providing a seamless payment experience that meets the expectations of modern consumers. With Square's API, businesses can ensure that their website or mobile app is optimized for accepting credit card payments, which can positively impact their visibility and search engine rankings. By leveraging Square's API, Crane Operating Businesses can stay ahead of the competition and attract more customers by offering a seamless and secure payment solution.

Customizing the payment experience for your customers

Customizing the payment experience for your customers is essential for creating a seamless and professional buying process. When it comes to buying pet products online, customers expect a convenient and secure payment method. With Square, you can easily customize the payment experience to meet the specific needs of your customers. By offering a variety of payment options, such as credit card payments, you can ensure that your customers have a smooth and hassle-free shopping experience. Additionally, Square's advanced security features provide peace of mind for both you and your customers, protecting sensitive payment information. With the ability to customize the payment experience, you can enhance customer satisfaction and build trust in your Crane Operating Business.

Ensuring security and compliance

Implementing PCI DSS compliance measures

Implementing PCI DSS compliance measures is crucial for any business that accepts credit card payments. PCI DSS stands for Payment Card Industry Data Security Standard, which is a set of security standards designed to protect cardholder data and reduce the risk of data breaches. By implementing PCI DSS compliance measures, businesses can ensure that they are following best practices for securing customer payment information. This includes implementing secure payment processing systems, encrypting cardholder data, regularly monitoring and testing security systems, and maintaining strict access controls. By adhering to PCI DSS compliance measures, businesses can build trust with their customers and demonstrate their commitment to protecting sensitive information.

Protecting customer data and preventing fraud

Protecting customer data and preventing fraud are crucial aspects of running a successful business, especially when it comes to accepting credit card payments. As a crane operating business, it is essential to prioritize the security of your customers' sensitive information. One effective way to ensure the safety of their data is by utilizing Square's robust payment processing system. Square employs advanced encryption techniques and follows industry best practices to safeguard customer information from unauthorized access. Additionally, Square's fraud prevention tools help detect and mitigate fraudulent activities, providing an extra layer of protection for your business and customers. By choosing Square as your payment solution, you can instill trust and confidence in your customers, knowing that their data is in safe hands.

Staying up to date with industry regulations

Staying up to date with industry regulations is crucial for any business, and this is especially true for crane operating businesses that accept credit card payments. As the industry evolves and new regulations are introduced, it is essential to stay informed and comply with the latest requirements. By staying up to date with industry regulations, crane operating businesses can ensure the safety of their operations, protect their customers' financial information, and maintain their reputation as a trustworthy and reliable service provider. This includes regularly reviewing and implementing security measures, conducting regular audits, and staying informed about any changes or updates in the payment processing industry. By doing so, crane operating businesses can not only meet the necessary regulatory standards but also stay ahead of the competition and provide their customers with a seamless and secure payment experience.

Optimizing the credit card payment process

Streamlining the checkout experience for customers

Streamlining the checkout experience for customers is essential for any business that accepts credit card payments. By implementing a reliable payment processing system like Square, crane operating businesses can ensure a seamless and efficient checkout process for their customers. Square provides a user-friendly interface that allows customers to easily enter their payment information and complete their transactions with just a few clicks. With Square's secure payment gateway, customers can feel confident that their sensitive information is protected. Additionally, Square offers various features and tools to help businesses manage their transactions, track sales, and analyze customer data. By streamlining the checkout experience with Square, crane operating businesses can enhance customer satisfaction and ultimately drive business growth.

Offering multiple payment options

In today's digital age, offering multiple payment options is essential for businesses to thrive. As a crane operating business, it is crucial to provide your customers with convenient and secure methods to accept credit card payments. One of the most trusted and widely used payment solutions is Square. With Square, you can easily set up a payment system that allows your customers to pay with their credit cards, ensuring a seamless and hassle-free experience. By offering multiple payment options, including Square, you demonstrate your commitment to customer satisfaction and make it easier for potential clients to choose your services over competitors. Embracing technology and providing flexible payment solutions not only enhances the customer experience but also streamlines your business operations. Give your crane operating business a competitive edge by embracing Square and offering multiple payment options to your valued customers.

Utilizing Square's reporting and analytics tools

Square's reporting and analytics tools provide valuable insights for businesses looking to optimize their operations. By utilizing these tools, crane operating businesses can gain a deeper understanding of their credit card payment data. This data can be used to track sales performance, identify trends, and make informed decisions. Additionally, Square's reporting and analytics tools offer the ability to generate detailed reports, which can be customized to meet the specific needs of the business. For crane operating businesses, this means being able to track payment transactions, monitor revenue, and analyze customer behavior. To further enhance their payment processing capabilities, crane operating businesses can also book a consultation with Square's experts. This personalized consultation can provide guidance on how to maximize the benefits of Square's reporting and analytics tools, ensuring that the business is making the most of their credit card payment system.

Conclusion

Summary of the benefits of accepting credit card payments with Square

Accepting credit card payments with Square offers numerous benefits for your Crane Operating Business. Firstly, it provides a convenient and secure payment option for your customers, allowing them to easily make payments using their credit cards. This not only enhances customer satisfaction but also increases the likelihood of repeat business. Additionally, Square offers competitive transaction fees, ensuring that you can maximize your profits. Furthermore, Square provides detailed analytics and reporting, giving you valuable insights into your business performance. With Square, you can also accept payments online, allowing you to expand your customer base and reach a wider audience. Overall, accepting credit card payments with Square is a smart choice for your Crane Operating Business, providing convenience, security, and growth opportunities.

Final thoughts on integrating Square into your crane operating business

In conclusion, integrating Square into your crane operating business can greatly enhance your ability to accept credit card payments. With its user-friendly interface and secure payment processing, Square provides a reliable and efficient solution for your business needs. By embracing this technology, you are positioning your crane operating business for a stronger future. The convenience and flexibility offered by Square will not only streamline your payment process but also instill confidence in your customers. So, why wait? Start accepting credit card payments with Square today and pave the way for a successful and prosperous future.

Future trends in credit card payment processing

As we look ahead to the future of credit card payment processing, several trends are emerging that will shape the industry. One of the key trends is the increasing adoption of mobile payment solutions. With the rise of smartphones and the convenience they offer, more and more consumers are opting to make payments using their mobile devices. This not only provides a seamless and convenient payment experience for customers, but also opens up new opportunities for businesses to reach a wider audience. Another trend that is gaining traction is the integration of artificial intelligence and machine learning into payment processing systems. These technologies have the potential to enhance security, detect fraud, and improve the overall efficiency of credit card transactions. Additionally, we can expect to see a continued shift towards contactless payments, as consumers become more comfortable with using tap-to-pay methods. This not only speeds up the checkout process, but also reduces the need for physical contact, which is especially important in today's health-conscious environment. In conclusion, the future of credit card payment processing holds exciting possibilities, with mobile payments, AI integration, and contactless payments leading the way towards a more streamlined and secure payment experience.
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2024.05.15 00:45 Francophil79 Navigating a weird situation with my (M16) ex (F16)

Recently, my ex girlfriend got back into contact with me. We broke up about 3 months ago. We had a fight that led to a break, and during the break she made out with a girl. She then dumped me because she thought she was a lesbian. She was bisexual when we started dating. After we broke up, she started dating the girl. She told me she still wanted to be friends. I said no, and we went no contact.
During the period of no contact, she contacted me once because she was having a really bad depressive episode and wanted to kill herself. In the time I was talking her through it, she revealed to me that her girlfriend at the time was telling her she was a burden, and that she was emotionally draining. I told her they should break up.
Later, they did break up because my ex discovered she was being cheated on. She broke no contact with me again, and we talked about it. I met up with her, and she kissed me. I told her that couldn't happen again because at that time, I was seeing someone and because she clearly wasn't thinking straight (or I guess she was lol). We talked a lot over the next few days, and one day I started talking about the girl I was seeing. My ex bawled her eyes out when I started talking about her, and when I asked her why, she told me it was because she was still in love with me, and didn't wanna watch me fall in love with anyone else. She asked me to break it off with the girl, and I did. I did it because I knew she was in a rough place mentally and I wanted to be there for her.
Now for the past probably 2 weeks, she has made no effort to be around me or be my friend. Going as far as to ignore my texts. When I confronted her about this, she couldn't give me a straight answer as to why. I confronted her twice as it had not changed, and the first time she told me it was because of her mental health. That made no sense to me because I had previously been there for her always, and she claims I'm the person who gets her most. The second time was because she told me she wanted to be more emotionally independent. I said being emotionally independent doesn't mean being distant, and then she told me she felt like she was holding me back.
I guess what I'm asking is what should I do? No matter what I say, I still feel unwanted. She expresses that she loves me but I don't feel loved. I don't want to leave. That's not an option. I guess I just wanna know what I should do.
TLDR: My ex came back into my life, told me she was in love with me and is now being super distant. What should I do? And why is she like this?
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2024.05.15 00:44 Small_Cute_Curly IATA FOR IMPREGNATING MY ADOPTIVE MOTHER AND A CELEB?

I (Mya) am in a relationship with my gf of two days Judith Ward (Fya) she's a star, and I'm seriously considering marrying her, but my adoptive mother (Fa) is kinda obsessed with my and keeps trying to snatch me away from my gf, so i said well we can be friends with benefits and nothing more if you're that desperate... So we do the business and she ended up pregnant and i didn't understand she said that she was on the pill, so i got mad and now she wants me to marry her for the baby. The next day i go to my gf house and she toke me on a date to light up the mood, one thing led to another and im happy to announce that we are expecting our first child, i just don't know how to tell gf about my other child.
So would i be the A if i didn't tell anyone about this and i just kept my double life?
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2024.05.15 00:44 John-The-Bomb-2 The political far left explained [See description]

I want to take a moment to talk about the far left, like Stalin ( https://youtube.com/watch?v=8RsdncwrCGQ&si=FwhViAGVdgrHF7Sh ). In that video, he calls his listeners "comrads". In another video, https://youtube.com/watch?v=3nMDjKtTigQ , Stalin uses the words "fraternal parties and groups" and "friendship". My mom and dad met in Russia and my Dad calls my mom "comrad", "товарищ". An alternative translation is "friend".
I think it's important to know the difference between friends and acquaintances. Some people, they received a signed postcard from a politician or did a photo op [a photo opportunity] with a politician and think there is something there. Politicians are not really your friend, no matter how charming they may seem.
The same is true for your coworkers. A job is an exchange of your time for money. This is the case for you and for your coworkers. Sometimes coworkers will be like "we should totally grab a beer after work sometimes", but in reality the hangout you envisioned doesn't actually happen. I remember this one programmer (Tech Lead at https://youtube.com/@techlead ) talking on YouTube about how he got kicked out of Facebook for having a for-profit social media channel, and how he imagined that his coworkers would all resign in protest over his firing. LOL. Hahahaha. Just "No".
Everyone is acting out of self interest. The "good person benevolent sacrifice" thing is a myth. Sometimes they might do something that seems charitable, like give money to a homeless person, but really they're just making themselves feel good, happiness, and boosting their ego. I remember when I volunteered at a homeless shelter, there was a policy that formerly homeless people who received meals there were not allowed to volunteer there on the other side of the serving counter. Turns out the people who did the serving and volunteering on that side of the serving counter didn't like it when that happened. I remember another time a homeless guy asked me for money, and I felt bad for him, and then I sat at a counter, and then this gross smelly homeless guy sat right next to me at that same counter and ordered while I was trying to enjoy my food, and I was like "Uhh, waitress... I'd like you to get rid of this dude, please". But yeah, you don't actually care, what you actually care about is your feelings and how you feel. You're trying to make yourself feel happiness and an ego boost, and maybe cover your own ass in case you ever end up in that situation. And by "you" I mean "me". "If you repeat a lie often enough you are a Republican, but if you don't know you're lying yet, you're a Democrat." I created that quote, see previous posts.
This song "I am Africa" from The Book of Mormon musical comes to mind. Basically these rich White people are like "I am Africa" when really they just have a savior complex and are full of bullshit. Note that in real life, if you really know these savior complex people, they are actually total assholes and douchebags. Their beautiful lofty beliefs are actually bullshit, even if they don't realize (at a conscious level) that they're bullshit. This is true of a lot of beautiful left-wing beliefs.
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2024.05.15 00:44 TerminatrOfDoom Body hair makes me feel alien

No, you probably don’t have as much body hair as me and no, you cannot pretend to relate to me if you do not have as much body hair as me. It genuinely upsets me when women with a normal amount and placements of body hair say they feel the same when I feel just as alien from them as from the rest (don’t argue with me on this this is not a debate). To put it in perspective, I am covered in dark hairs EVERYWHERE, from forehead to toes, not a nook or cranny goes untouched by the hairy godmother on this body. And to put salt on the wound, hair removal always causes me skin issues no matter my routine (also please don’t recommend laser this only makes me upset)
Every experience, struggle, emotion, desire and whatnot people talk about is in some way removed from me due to my body hair. My excessive facial and body hair has become the centre of my life, without even knowing it I’m basing my schedules and happiness around shaving. I cannot buy 90% available clothing online if for one day I don’t want to shave.
I don’t have the energy to shave everything so I stay miserable and even when I do, the fairytale ends a day later when it grows back and bumps start to form (despite my best efforts to prevent them).
I keep myself from even enjoying a fantasy of love (making) because I am so unhappy with the state of myself and cannot imagine trying to convince a man to see beyond my hairy vessel. I convince myself I don’t like swimming to keep myself from the anguish that comes with swimming; becoming even more aware of your body, while looking at others with envy, wondering how I would’ve lived my life not feeling restricted by a hairy prison.
Even when I find someone who relates, they have other things going on for them. Alongside being fugly under my clothes, I am a nobody under my skin. I am slowly losing myself in this curse that is BDD as it consumes my whole life, even taking over what I have loved so unconditionally in the past.
It hurts going through every day with only this on my mind, while the people around me would genuinely not fathom even a fraction of what living life like this is like. They complain to me about their bodies and even their body hair with zero regard of how I feel when I know that if they were me they would do anything to be anyone else. Even when I talk about it with friends, nobody can understand, and its not their fault at all, but it makes me feel alone and weird.
I know men would rather have an easier to deal with girlfriend, one that can go swimming whenever, one that is ready for him in bed whenever, someone he can touch whenever, someone who has soft skin at all times. How could I ever let anyone in or pursue someone when this is my reality? No online dating advice or coach feels relatable to me, they never have to deal with this and would never know how to give me advice other than to ‘find someone who will accept me’ basically confirming I am a living defect.
Summer makes everything worse for me. I am in constant pain and all I want is the summer to be over, I tried to like it, I tried to make it work for me. I can’t.. and if one day I wont feel like this again, it cannot feel farther away.
This dictates my whole life, it motivates my every move, it defines my very being. Nobody seems to grasp this. I am so alienated from everyone.
I am driven by hatred of that what grows on me with no mercy.
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2024.05.15 00:44 shaneka69 LIBRA ZODIAC PREDICTIONS MAY 2024

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2024.05.15 00:44 FitWitness3330 My girlfriend "accidentally" got me arrested

Apologies as this is probably going to be a long entry.
Earlier this year I started a new job in the police, to do this I left another job in the prison service where I was doing well. This was a position which my girlfriend told me to apply for as it was where she worked and was more money. I accepted, applied and got the job. She appeared really happy that I got the job and it was supposed to be our way out of my mum's house where we both lived.
On the evening of my second shift I had to stay up to the early hours of the morning to pick up my girlfriend. She had to stay late as she was having some serious issues with her mental health including self harm and suicidal thoughts. I have been supportive of this taking up extra duties in the house and doing my lions share to sort her as I always have. She told me that she stayed late to talk about previous traumas. She told me about them when I picked her up and I stayed up to talk to her to make sure she was ok. We had a really good talk where I was supportive and said we would get through it together and I'll do what I can to make life easier. I woke up and went to work and when I finished I was walking to the gate and 3 detectives asked me to follow them and took me to the gate where everyone was leaving took my eppilettes and badge and informed me that I was under arrest for an alleged assault on my girlfriend.
Just for context I would never lay a hand on a woman especially not in anger or frustration, I know the second you lose your temper you lose the argument so if anything ever started feeling heated I would leave so we both had time to cool down and have a proper conversation.
I was very confused however pressumed they had mistaken me with an ex-boyfriend who I know had assaulted her and she was talking to her manager about it. Because of this I wasnt to worried as I knew I had never done anything that was even close to assault, I'm not saying we were perfect , we argued but it was always verbal (at least from my end) and always came to a reasonable end. We never lost our temper with each other.
When I got to the station they said that she had said that I slapped her once outside a bar, I was shocked by this and when they said it was 9 months ago I knew they hadn't mistaken me for her ex as we were together for four years by this point. I was placed in prison Grey's and put in a cell then interviewed. They released me on bail with conditions not to contact her and they took my phone for evidence incase I had messaged anyone admitting that I slapped her. I need to stress at this point that THIS NEVER HAPPENED.
The case was classed as a no further action after a month of pointless attempts to crack my phone and trying to persuade myself and my girlfriend to give them the pin which I refused to do without being told by the court that I had to. As a result of this whole incident I lost my job in the police and cannot reapply as now I have an arrest on my record. My life fell apart as a result of this whole thing and now my degree in policing and criminal investigation seams like a complete waste. Any jobs I want and suit are in public service or military and this throws a massive spanner in the works.
When I first saw her we went through everything that had happend and why she said it. She said that we were playing about and that I had tapped her face which she found disrespectfu but that she never meant that she wanted police involvement as she had kicked me first. Again this had never happend. I have spoken to many police officers and staff that I know who have said that it sounds suspicious and that they had absolutely no reason to arrest me if what my girlfriend had told me was true. When I said this and said would she get the transcript of what was said as it was a recorded session she said "what if I have remembered wrong" this shook me to my core as it strikes me as she has said more than what she told me. She had also changed her story about when and what happened.
As a result of this whole thing I have lost loads of trust, money, motivation and I'd be lying if I hadnt suffered some darker thoughts such as driving my car into a wall at 100mph. I was looked at by people I didn't know as a wife bearer and it made me sick. To top it off she got everything she wanted as she wanted to move out but financially we couldn't save money for a house and we would also be leaving my mum in the shit if we left as we payed all the bills. To avoid this I let her stay at my mum's and I slept in my car so she was close to work and could continue her way of life. However she decided she knew best and got an appartment which we now both live in and I can't afford. She's also saying that she's more confident now and showed me messages of guys who are trying to get in her pants. Meanwhile I have gone from being confident and strong to being a complete shell of my former self. And she didn't want to take any responsibility for any of it. She also told me that she had my back and told the manager that reported me to the police that she was upset with her however looking at the messages to her manager she was nothing but friendly with her.
My head's fucked, I feel betrayed, small, insignificant and like everything that happend to me just didn't matter to her. I don't know what to do, I'm trying to get my head right by going back to the gym but my motivation is shot. I don't know if I can trust her anymore and I feel bitter and resentful. What do I do to start feeling better and should I confront her about what I've gone through because of her bullshit story or should I just leave. I want to make it work as this is the only bad thing in our relationship. But it's fucking written me off and I don't know how I can get past it. I appreciate any advice or guidance to help me get past this portion of my life.
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2024.05.15 00:41 businessnewstv How to accept credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business in 2024

Introduction to accepting credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business

Accepting credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business is essential in today's digital age. With the increasing popularity of cashless transactions, customers expect the convenience and security of paying with their credit cards. By integrating Square, a leading payment processing platform, into your business, you can provide your customers with a seamless and reliable payment experience. In this article, we will explore the various benefits of accepting credit card payments with Square and guide you through the process of setting up your tow truck business to accept card payments. Whether you operate a small towing company or a large fleet, accepting credit card payments can help you streamline your operations, increase customer satisfaction, and ultimately boost your revenue. So let's dive in and learn how to leverage Square for your tow truck business!

Benefits of accepting credit card payments

Accepting credit card payments for your tow truck business with Square offers numerous benefits. One of the key advantages is the ability to easily book a consultation. With Square's user-friendly platform, customers can conveniently schedule a consultation with your business to discuss their specific needs and requirements. This streamlined process saves both you and your customers valuable time and ensures that you are able to provide personalized and tailored services. By offering the option to book a consultation through credit card payments, you are demonstrating a commitment to customer satisfaction and convenience.

Overview of Square as a payment solution

Square is a versatile and reliable payment solution that can greatly benefit your Tow Truck Business. With Square, you can easily accept credit card payments from your customers, providing them with a convenient and secure way to pay for your services. Square offers a range of features and tools that make managing payments seamless and efficient. From its user-friendly interface to its robust reporting capabilities, Square provides a comprehensive solution for accepting and processing credit card payments. Whether you're operating a small towing business or a larger fleet, Square can help streamline your payment processes and improve your overall customer experience. By choosing Square as your payment solution, you can enhance the professionalism and credibility of your Tow Truck Business while ensuring a smooth and hassle-free payment experience for your customers.

Setting up a Square account

Creating a Square account

To create a Square account for your Tow Truck Business, follow these steps:

Verifying your identity

Verifying your identity is an essential step when setting up credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business with Square. It ensures that you are a legitimate business and helps protect against fraudulent transactions. To verify your identity, you will need to provide certain documents and information to Square. This process is necessary to comply with financial regulations and to maintain the security and trust of your customers. By completing the verification process, you can confidently accept credit card payments and provide reliable and secure staffing solutions for your Tow Truck Business.

Linking your bank account

To link your bank account, follow these steps:

Choosing the right Square hardware

Understanding the different Square hardware options

Square offers a variety of hardware options that cater to the specific needs of different businesses. Understanding the different Square hardware options is crucial for businesses looking to accept credit card payments efficiently and securely. One of the key considerations is ecofriendliness, which is becoming increasingly important in today's environmentally conscious world. Square offers ecofriendly vending solutions that not only enable businesses to accept credit card payments but also contribute to reducing their carbon footprint. By choosing Square's ecofriendly vending options, businesses can showcase their commitment to sustainability and attract environmentally conscious customers. These options provide a seamless and convenient payment experience for customers while aligning with the business's values of being ecofriendly. With Square's range of hardware options, businesses can find the perfect solution that meets their unique needs and supports their ecofriendly initiatives.

Selecting the hardware that suits your Tow Truck Business needs

Selecting the hardware that suits your Tow Truck Business needs can be a crucial step in ensuring smooth credit card payment transactions. With the right hardware, you can provide your customers with a seamless and secure payment experience. When choosing the hardware for your tow truck business, consider factors such as reliability, compatibility, and ease of use. It is important to select a hardware solution that can handle the demands of your business and integrate seamlessly with your existing systems. By following a step-by-step approach and considering the specific requirements of your business, you can find the perfect hardware solution that meets your needs.

Setting up and configuring the chosen hardware

Setting up and configuring the chosen hardware is a crucial step in accepting credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business with Square. By ensuring that the hardware is properly installed and optimized, you can provide a seamless payment experience for your customers. In the context of the Texas economy, where the tow truck industry plays a significant role, it is essential to have efficient payment processing systems in place. The Texas economy has been thriving, and businesses, including tow truck companies, need to keep up with the latest payment technologies to stay competitive. Square offers a range of hardware options that are compatible with the Texas economy, allowing tow truck businesses to accept credit card payments securely and efficiently. With Square's user-friendly interface and reliable hardware, tow truck businesses in Texas can streamline their payment processes and contribute to the growth of the state's economy.

Integrating Square with your Tow Truck Business website

Adding Square payment buttons to your website

To add Square payment buttons to your website, you will need to integrate the Square graphics into your website's design. Graphics play a crucial role in enhancing the visual appeal and user experience of your website. By incorporating Square graphics, you can create a seamless and professional look for your payment buttons. These graphics can be strategically placed on your website's checkout page or any other relevant section to attract the attention of your customers. By clicking on these graphics, your customers will be directed to the Square payment gateway, where they can securely complete their credit card transactions. Incorporating graphics into your website design not only adds aesthetic value but also instills trust and credibility in your customers, making them more likely to make a purchase. So, make sure to utilize the power of graphics and integrate Square payment buttons seamlessly into your website's design.

Customizing the appearance of the payment buttons

To enhance the overall look and feel of your payment buttons, Square provides several customization options. By customizing the appearance of the payment buttons, you can ensure that they align with your brand's aesthetics and seamlessly integrate into your website or mobile app. Square allows you to modify the color, size, shape, and text of the buttons, giving you complete control over their visual representation. Whether you prefer a sleek and modern design or a more traditional and elegant style, Square's customization options allow you to create payment buttons that reflect your business's unique identity. By presenting a cohesive and visually appealing payment experience, you can instill trust and confidence in your customers, ultimately leading to higher conversion rates and increased sales for your tow truck business.

Testing the payment integration

Testing the payment integration is a crucial step in ensuring that your tow truck business can seamlessly accept credit card payments. By thoroughly testing the integration, you can identify and resolve any potential issues or errors before your customers encounter them. This not only enhances the overall customer experience but also instills trust and confidence in your business. Additionally, testing the payment integration allows you to evaluate the efficiency and reliability of the Square platform, ensuring that it meets your business's specific needs. To optimize the performance of your tow truck business and attract more customers, it is essential to implement effective SEO techniques. By utilizing SEO techniques, such as keyword optimization, meta tags, and backlinking strategies, you can improve your website's visibility on search engines and drive organic traffic. Implementing these techniques will enable your tow truck business to reach a wider audience and increase its online presence. When it comes to SEO techniques, it is important to stay updated with the latest industry trends and best practices to maintain a competitive edge.

Accepting credit card payments in-person

Using Square Point of Sale (POS) app on your mobile device

Using Square Point of Sale (POS) app on your mobile device is a convenient and efficient way to accept credit card payments for your Tow Truck Business. With the Square POS app, you can easily process transactions, track sales, and manage inventory right from your smartphone or tablet. The app offers a user-friendly interface, making it simple for both you and your customers to complete transactions quickly and securely. Additionally, Square provides advanced security features to protect sensitive customer information, ensuring a safe and reliable payment experience. By utilizing the Square POS app, you can streamline your payment process and provide a seamless payment experience for your customers, ultimately helping to grow your Tow Truck Business.

Processing payments with Square Reader

Processing payments with Square Reader is an efficient way to streamline your tow truck business operations. With Square Reader, you can easily accept credit card payments from your customers, providing them with a convenient and secure payment option. By integrating Square's payment processing technology, you can ensure fast and reliable transactions, allowing you to focus on providing top-notch towing services. Streamlining your payment processes with Square Reader not only enhances the overall customer experience but also improves the efficiency of your business operations.

Handling tips and refunds

Handling tips and refunds are important aspects of running a successful tow truck business. When it comes to handling tips, it is crucial to provide excellent customer service and ensure that your drivers are trained to handle payments professionally. Refunds, on the other hand, should be handled with care and efficiency to maintain customer satisfaction. As a tow truck business owner, it is essential to have a well-designed system in place for handling tips and refunds to streamline the payment process and enhance the overall customer experience.

Managing credit card payments and transactions

Viewing and tracking transactions in your Square dashboard

Viewing and tracking transactions in your Square dashboard is an essential task for managing your Tow Truck Business. With Square's user-friendly interface, you can easily access detailed information about each transaction, including the date, time, and amount. Additionally, Square provides comprehensive reports and analytics to help you gain insights into your business performance. By regularly reviewing and analyzing your transactions, you can identify trends, monitor sales growth, and make informed decisions to optimize your business operations. Whether you need to reconcile payments, track refunds, or analyze sales data, Square's dashboard offers a robust set of tools to streamline your financial management process.

Generating reports for financial analysis

Generating reports for financial analysis is a crucial aspect of managing a Tow Truck Business. By analyzing financial data, business owners can gain valuable insights into the financial health of their company and make informed decisions. One important step in generating these reports is to register the corporation online. This process ensures that the business is legally recognized and can access the necessary financial tools and resources. Registering the corporation online also provides credibility and trust to customers and partners. With the right financial analysis reports, a Tow Truck Business can track revenue, expenses, and profitability, enabling them to optimize their operations and achieve long-term success.

Managing disputes and chargebacks

Managing disputes and chargebacks is an essential aspect of running a tow truck business that accepts credit card payments with Square. Disputes and chargebacks can arise when customers have concerns or issues with their transactions, such as unauthorized charges or dissatisfaction with the service provided. To effectively manage disputes and chargebacks, it is important to have clear policies and procedures in place. This includes promptly addressing customer concerns, providing detailed documentation of transactions, and working towards a fair resolution. By proactively managing disputes and chargebacks, tow truck businesses can maintain customer satisfaction and protect their reputation in the industry.

Conclusion

Summary of the benefits of accepting credit card payments with Square

Accepting credit card payments with Square offers numerous benefits for your Tow Truck Business. Firstly, it allows you to provide a convenient payment option for your customers, enhancing their overall experience. With Square, you can accept all major credit cards, ensuring that you don't miss out on potential sales. Additionally, Square provides secure and reliable payment processing, giving you peace of mind knowing that your customers' sensitive information is protected. Furthermore, Square offers competitive transaction rates, enabling you to save on processing fees and increase your profit margins. Lastly, Square provides comprehensive reporting and analytics tools, allowing you to gain valuable insights into your business's financial performance. Overall, accepting credit card payments with Square is a smart choice that can help streamline your payment process, attract more customers, and boost your bottom line.

Final thoughts on integrating Square into your Tow Truck Business

In conclusion, integrating Square into your Tow Truck Business can greatly streamline your payment process and enhance the overall customer experience. With its user-friendly interface, secure payment processing, and robust reporting tools, Square offers a reliable and efficient solution for accepting credit card payments. By implementing Square, you can ensure that your customers have a seamless and convenient payment experience, while also benefiting from features such as inventory management and customer analytics. Whether you are a small tow truck business or a larger operation, Square can help you simplify your payment operations and improve your bottom line. So, don't hesitate to integrate Square into your business and start reaping the benefits today.

Future trends in credit card payment technology

Future trends in credit card payment technology are constantly evolving to meet the growing needs of businesses and consumers. One of the key trends in this space is the high demand for travel nurses. With the increasing number of people traveling for work or leisure, the need for convenient and secure credit card payment options has become crucial. Businesses in the tow truck industry, such as yours, can benefit from this trend by adopting Square's credit card payment system. Square offers a seamless and user-friendly platform that allows tow truck businesses to accept credit card payments easily and securely. By integrating Square's technology into your business, you can provide your customers with a convenient and hassle-free payment experience, ultimately enhancing customer satisfaction and loyalty. Stay ahead of the curve by embracing the future of credit card payment technology and meet the high demand for travel nurses in the process.
In conclusion, Square Instant Access is the perfect solution for small businesses looking for quick and easy access to funds. With Square Instant Access, you no longer have to struggle to get the funds you need to grow your business. Whether you need money for inventory, equipment, or marketing, Square Instant Access has got you covered. Say goodbye to long waiting times and complicated loan applications. With just a few clicks, you can have the funds you need deposited directly into your Square account. Don't miss out on this opportunity to take your business to the next level. Visit our website today to learn more about Square Instant Access and start growing your business with ease.
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2024.05.15 00:41 OverReyted DD on latest filings

Disclaimer: I am not a financial advisor, this is not financial advice. I do not have any affiliation with any financial group or company. I am an individual retail investor that holds a significant number of shares in $ICU.
This was a decent filing. It wasn't great, but it wasn't bad either. My sentiment turns slightly more bullish based on the info I read and my interpretation. I will detail that below.
Cash position: Cash burn improved this quarter compared to the same quarter in 2023. We are burning $613,000 less cash. Overall, the balance sheet has significantly improved. We used a large part of the $9 million offering to clear some big debts and liabilities. Kudos to David A. Green, our CFO. Our loss per share has decreased from 54 cents lost per share to 19 cents lost per share. We didn't beat earnings estimate, but who cares about one missed earnings in the long run, especially when talking about that much improvement over a 1 year period.
We currently have $5 million in hand on cash, and it looks like we should anticipate cash burn over the next quarter of approximately $3.95 million. This isn't great, but this is also a pretty damn small number to overcome with revenue. Consider the stated cost of the Quellimmune device, $10k per unit. Some very simple math that ignores a lot of other variables means 395 units sold gets us to break even on cash flow. I'll be honest, this is almost enough to hope to think we might be able to beat a reverse split. If the timeline wasn't so damn tight, anyway. However, additional extensions are possible and improving our cash position like this certainly helps.
U.S. pediatric patient population estimated at 4,000 annually
Okay, you can't tell me that this doesn't get you a little bit excited, right? A market share of 4000 annually, we only need to sell ~395 units/quarter to break even on quarterly cash flow, and we are the ONLY company that has a product that treats this population.
Commercialization: I'm not thrilled with the stated progress here, but I think that may be due to my own impatience. To date, we don't know how many, if any, units have been sold. All the signs are pointing to zero units sold.
As we guided in late February, we expect initial sales in the coming weeks
As u/Master_inside4685 pointed out, this statement was technically made in March, so the timeline of what "in the coming weeks" means isn't clear. It could refer to weeks that we are now past, it could also mean a couple weeks from today. I'd like more clear communication on this.
Generally though, let us remember that FDA approval was given in February. That was only 3 months ago. Nuwellis has the sales team in place and an exclusive contract to commercialize the product. They will certainly take some profit off the top for themselves, but I am confident that they are prepared to move product quickly. It isn't clear why that hasn't happened yet, but I digress, I already dug into that above.
Adult product trials: Adult trials have not begun. Patients are still enrolling, see the quote below.
The NEUTRALIZE-AKI trial is expected to enroll up to 200 patients at up to 30 U.S. medical centers.
Keyword here is expected. This indicates what I stated above.
The Company expects to receive regulatory approval under a Premarket Approval (PMA) application for the SCD-ADULT in the second half of 2025 and to launch the product in the first half of 2026.
This is your big catalyst right here. Mark this down. I've said it a few times now, the long term bullishness comes from the adult device and the market share for that device. July 2025 to July 2026.
That's all I have for now. Don't forget to review the DEF14/A prior to voting. Deadline is June 4th. I recommend reaching out to your brokerage's customer service team if you have yet to receive your proxy vote information.
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2024.05.15 00:41 Maleficent-Ticket122 Thank you to the person that posted about their priest telling them to break up with their girlfriend

For context I am a 22 year old Greek Orthodox male and my ex girlfriend is 20 year old evangelical (even though she claimed to be atheist). I just read your thread story you said how your priest told you to break up with your RCC due to religious differences. I am writing this to say this happened to me as well. My ex girlfriend broke up with me due to “Cultural/Religious” differences. She did not like the idea of me wanting an Orthodox wedding and our kids going to Sunday and Greek School. I cried and begged her to change her mind and that we are still young where things can change. Alas, we still broke up. I was (still am) very upset by it and talked to my priest about it. He gave me the same advice that it would not have worked out and it was better for us to break up now than later. (We dated for a year and a half and she was my first real relationship). Even though I am still hurting he was right. Better now than later when we are about to be married. I am glad to hear that I am not the only one who has dealt with these religious differences. As for other people who are dealing with the same thing currently, let this be a message to them. Be careful with who you date so conflicts like this won’t happen in the future to you
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2024.05.15 00:40 Slam_gawd Which Flight to Thailand is my Best Option Here?

Which Flight to Thailand is my Best Option Here?
TL;DR of my Trip: Travelling to Thailand (Bangkok and Phuket) to visit/meet family/family friends. Trip will last roughly 3-3.5 weeks. Departure from Calgary YYC anytime between June 6th and June 11th to Bangkok or Phuket, Return anytime between June 27th - July 4th.
Hey all, first off I'd like to apologize if some of this stuff is already answered in the FAQ's which I have looked at, but some of my questions are airport/my trip specific I believe.
For the flights, my dad and an AMA travel agent we're speaking to seem to say that Flight 1 (shown below) seems too good to be true price wise, and the layover times are too short. From the research I've done, depending on what I have to go through at each airport: security, customs, grab my check luggage, I think the timing either could or could not work. My dad seems adamant on me flying west as opposed to east as "he doesn't know anyone who has flown east to Thailand". Him and the AMA travel agent are suggesting I book with AMA (Flight 2 shown below), but the price differential seems quite high.
Onto my main question, which flight option would you more experienced travellers suggest:

Flight 1 - Flying East, Booking on Austrian/Lufthansa/Swiss Website

https://shop.austrian.com/booking/cart?cartId=1QCC2GCM1AXYNMS9&type=cart&origin=YYC&utm_source=direct&utm_medium=sharedcart&share=true
  • Price: CAD 1572.07
  • Duration: 25 day trip
  • Calgary to Bangkok Itinerary: June Calgary to Zurich, 7 hr layover, Zurich to Bangkok
  • Bangkok to Calgary Itinerary: Bangkok to Vienna, 1h 25m layover, Vienna to Frankfurt, 1h 15m layover, Frankfurt to Calgary
  • In Summary: Cheaper flight, longer trip, but may not be able to do short layovers

Flight 2 - Flying West, Booking through AMA travel agent

AMA Calgary Thailand Round Trip
  • Price: CAD 2350.23
  • Duration: 19 (not ideal, but could see if there are later departure dates)
  • In Summary: Much more expensive, especially if we get travel insurance (~CAD 230), but maybe flying west is better than east? Better layovers, and I arrive in Phuket instead of Bangkok, bypassing a Bangkok to Phuket flight after Flight 1. All connected airlines?
I really appreciate any advice, whether its related to my question or not, thank you for your time.
*Note* I tried to get Heathrow connecting flight planning to work but haven't been able to figure out the flight numbers and plugging it into the website
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2024.05.15 00:39 Hot_Plenty4135 My (22M) ex-girlfriend (23F) blindside broke up with me, but sends me the wildest mixed signals and i need outside perspectives. what should i do?

a lot of context for this one, sorry in advance lmao strap in if you choose to read. my (22M) ex-girlfriend (23F) broke up with me about a month ago, after we met about 5 months prior and dated for 3. I know that from the time frame it probably seems a little unserious, but i am NOT a people person, when people try to introduce themselves to me i literally run away, and i don’t do relationships. i don’t get caught up in feelings for people, and it doesn’t take a lot to push me away. until i met her. genuinely, she is the only person i have ever met that i could and would do literally anything with and still have the time of my life. things were going amazing, or so i thought, until one day out of the blue we went from texting literally all day to barely talking anymore. i hadn’t heard from her all day and i was worried so i called and texted a few times, asking if we were okay or if there was anything she wanted/needed to talk to me about. she answered the next day, we met up to talk, and she told me that our relationship put too much pressure on her to live up to my expectations. mind you, this is the first time we had ever even had an issue. she said that she decided she couldn’t handle it right now, but that she wanted to stay friends if i did too. like i said, not a people person, so i thought “i can handle a breakup, but not losing the only person i actually like hanging out with” and agreed. we didn’t talk for a few days, but then we started texting like a lot again and started hanging out again and have been consistently for the last month. where it gets confusing is the long list of mixed signals im about to run through. like when one day i get a good morning text and she asks to make plans and whatnot, and the next it feels like i’m being annoying everytime i text her. i was going on a vacation with her and her family over the summer, and when we broke up i assumed i obviously wouldn’t be going, but she held onto my ticket (instead of refunding it) and told me after we started to hang out again that they still had it and she really really wanted me to come still. so now i’m going on a week long trip with my ex and her family, where there’s gonna be lots of drinking, which is kinda terrifying because everytime we drink she acts like flirty towards me and like we’re more than just friends. like last week i went to dinner with just her and her parents, we all got drunk and i had to stay at their house since i drove there, and i offered to sleep in the spare room like 8 times and she said no and fell asleep in my arms. i know she’s not like trying to pull one over on me or whatever, she’s a strong person and not the type to keep me in her life unless she actually wants me there, and also not the type who usually seeks physical attention like that. at this point i’m okay with whatever, friends or more i don’t care, i just don’t understand anything that’s happening. most of the time when we hang out it feels like it did before we started dating, when it was obvious we were both into each other, but because she was the one to end things i feel like it would be disrespectful to flirt any more than i already am trying to. i just don’t know if i’m supposed to just be her friend or if she’s waiting for me to respond to one of those mixed signals. she is fully aware of my feelings, i made it clear a few times, so even if there’s no intentions from her end she still has to know what she is doing. we leave for vacation in two weeks, and i wanna talk to her about it but i don’t wanna make anything awkward on the trip. im also fully aware im too delusional and blindsided by my own feelings for her which is why i desperately would like some outside perspective. if anyone has ideas or thoughts or advice they’d all be greatly appreciated :/ even if you’re just guessing at motivations, you can see clearer than i lmfao
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2024.05.15 00:37 river_stein I feel no joy in everything I do

First of all, I would like to apologize beforehand for my English writing skills, since I am not native to the English language.
Ever since my ex-girlfriend left me half a year ago before Christmas time, I feel empty.
I feel like there is no joy in everything I do and I completely forgot the feeling of euphoria.
Maybe its my very rational nature. I see in black or white. Wrong or right.
I rarely get sad about things. Because I know that, if there is nothing about it that can be changed, I shouldn’t waste any recourses being sad about it. But so am I rarely happy about things.
Of course, when I meet my friends and catch up with them, I might feel happy for the time being, but deep inside its still emptiness.
I miss knowing that there is someone waiting for me. Someone who’s overloading with joy just at the glance of me. Someone I can always rely on. Someone to fall back on.
For context: the relationship lasted 2.5 years and I am turning 20 very soon. She was my very first girlfriend as well.
I know this makes me very young and some of you may say „it’s normal to feel this way. You’re young. Let time heal your wounds.” Or “you already got a girlfriend. There won’t be any trouble finding another one” (which I am very certain about as well. I would rate my appearance at a good 7 or low 8)
But that’s the point. I don’t want my happiness depending on another person.
For all I can remember I did everything for our future. I worked throughout Highschool and saved 90% of everything to finance our vacations and maybe a house one day (these days you got to start early).
I consumed red/black pill content even before the break up. But always with caution and questioning the contents. I started working out. Because I wanted to be the best version of myself for her and for us.
I successfully applied for a dual study program at a big insurance company with high profile jobs in hopes of securing our financial prosperity.
I knew everything I did had a purpose.
Now I continue to do the same. I work. I work out. I prepare myself for the studies starting in August. That’s everything I do. I feel stuck like being on a treadmill. Knowing that all I do is objectively right. The optimal path for guaranteed success. But I feel like I’m still not moving forward.
All “fun” activities feel not the same anymore.
I really do like my friends. But going to a lake or to the swimming pool with anyone feels like a chore in order to keep my social life healthy and maintain friendships. I rather work and make money in the meantime.
Gaming doesn’t feel the way as it used to. Even tough I have a lot more time now.
I just wanted to tell this somebody who doesn’t know me with a completely new and unbiased point of view.
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2024.05.15 00:36 Financial-Island1424 My ex 32M and I 36F split. I started seeing someone else and he begged for me back only to discard me. Any advice?

My ex 32M and I 36F and have a very rocky past. We have two children together. However during my pregnancies there was infidelity on his behalf. I was very traumatized outside of it being toxic. We decided to split because we didn’t want it to be a troubled home for our kids. They were still young 1 and and infant. He moved out of state for a few years and would come back to visit. Now he has been back for nearly 2 years and has told me he has changed. It was hard for me to trust it because he is now “friends” with some of the people we had issues with in our past. I never felt like I had true ground to start on with trust if this existed. We tried to make it work when he got back but it was so hard because of this boundary in regards to that. I didn’t feel comfortable with him being in contact. It didn’t last and I moved on. This is the first person I’ve been with since we split. The new guy was amazing and had a lot of qualities I want in a long term partner possibly even someone I could see myself marry. He’s kind, gentle, trustworthy and a hard worker. We had great chemistry. After about a month and a half of us dating I did let him meet my kids. When I told my ex about moving on he was devastated. He knew we weren’t together but thought eventually we would be once we both were in the right space, he was working on healing himself and just getting his life where it needs to be responsibility wise. Once I told him about meeting my kids he was very upset with me. He begged and pleaded for 3 months for me to be with him and give him a chance..that he would create the space for me to trust and if I could learn and see for myself the person he is becoming. It’s not who he was, he regrets the past more than anything. I did like the new guy I was seeing but I realized I was more attached to the idea of finding someone who made sense vs truly caring about him romantically. It made me realize how much I do love my ex, even through our toxic past. I ended things with the new guy and told my ex a couple weeks later. After I told him how I truly felt he told me he no longer wants to be with me. That I hurt him and for the last 3 months begging me almost daily and finding out someone met out kids destroyed him. I admit I did not comfort him because I was afraid, leaving him and moving on was the hardest thing I ever had to do. Not because I didn’t love him but because I had to choose myself. I did say cold things. I didn’t think I was in love him anymore and I told him that I also told him I saw a future with this new guy at the time. However during those moments he was still persistent. However, he said I left him in hell and didn’t care and now the idea of us is just non existent. I don’t understand how he could just shift so abruptley. How do I move forward? I’m just lost on if this was a form of manipulation or did I really damage him? (He has had quite a few relationships after us just never met our kids) I want to side note that. I love him more than anything I just wish he could create a space for us. I’ve laid out my heart and he still just refuses and told me he can’t promise the future but for now to just let it go because it’s not something he sees at all.
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2024.05.15 00:35 OkTacoCat Resenting the Emotional Labor I Had To Do with my Personal Trainer

The saddest thing of all is the number of posts I found when I just searched “personal trainer” in this sub. 🫤 I mostly need to get this off my chest because it was truthfully so bizarre. I started working with a trainer in October and have been quite happy with the results. I am a friendly, outgoing, and open person which meant probably around December he started being more open with me. I also couldn’t tell whether or not he was flirting with me when he kept telling me he’s super attracted to strong, confident women and that became annoying but I let it go as maybe him not realizing what he was saying. He’s spent a lot of time talking about his ex wife/failed marriage and more recently has been oversharing about the new woman he’s been dating. I just kept trying to redirect because he’s a fantastic trainer, and if we talk about anything other than his love life I have a great time. Last night things really went off the rails when he told me he dated one of the other trainers at the gym and way overshared details while bashing her horribly. I was so taken aback I was just laughing at how unbelievable it was that this was happening. Which I am certain cued him to keep going. When I came home & told my husband he was horrified and suggested I escalate this to the gym owner. We are moving away in 5 weeks so I don’t want to deal with finding another trainer in the midst of everything else. But I did write a clear & firm text about being uncomfortable in our last session & his muddled boundaries which I will send before my next session Thursday. I just cannot believe I had to add this to my week’s tasks. Do women ever get a break from performing emotional labor for men??
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2024.05.15 00:34 NETRVNNER Elite: Final Frontier - Stellaris

I made a lore-friendly (but non-canon) mod for Stellaris set in Elite: Dangerous' ancient history. Frankly, it's Stellaris with an Elite coat of paint, meaning it's compatible with most mods and it doesn't require DLC.
Features * Two custom galaxy maps, The Human Bubble (200 star systems) and The Final Frontier (1000+ star systems) * Two custom empires, the Federation and the Empire * Two custom origins with two hardcore variations * A custom namelist for the Empire * 1 custom event (foundational for future updates) * Slower more expensive expansion, and 2136 start date. * 49 custom star systems based on the Elite: Dangerous universe * Custom start screen messages for Federation and Empire * 20 custom songs clocking over an hour. * 20 loading screens from Elite: Dangerous concept art * Custom main menu using Fountain's redesign. (scrapped because it can cause a crash between updates) * Curated and compatible mod pack * Ability to add your own mods
Visit:
ModDB
Steam Workshop
Paradox Mods
Custom soundtrack available for free download
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2024.05.15 00:32 Mombie071115 AITA for telling my mother-in-law not to talk to my son?

Context information: When my husband and I met in November 2009, he had a 2-year-old son, (we will call him Tre) whose bio mom had voluntarily gave up custody and agreed to visitation prior to me being involved. We have been married since June 2010. In that time frame, we have had 2 more sons and the bio mom decided to stop visitation in January 2013.
When we started dating, I told bio mom I wasn't there to replace her, that I was there to help parent this little boy. My husband and I agreed that Tre should have the choice of what he wanted to call me (ex. my name, a nickname, mom, etc.). He chose to call me "Mommy (my name)" and to call his bio mom "Mommy (her name)". It was mostly to be able to distinguish between us and predominantly called us "Mommy" in person. His bio mom lost her mind when he said it to her face. It took hours to calm her down when she was going off because I "let him pick such a disrespectful name" for her. He was 2 1/2 years old.
We tried to be flexible with visitation, but countless times, she was coming to get him and would cancel or bring him back within hours of picking him up for whatever reason she would come up with. It got to the point that we had to stop telling him she was coming because of the disappointment he had when she cancelled. When Tre was 4 1/2, she decided to stop her visitations, brought all his belongings to our home, and walked away without even saying good-bye to him. I promised her I would never speak bad about her to him and have kept that promise to this day.
He asks questions about her which we answer to the best of our abilities and always remind him that if he wants to have a relationship with her, we will find her. He has a every right to know where he comes from. Currently, he has no interest.
One day, he asked me if I hated her. The answer was easy to me. "I do not agree or like the choices she's made, but I could never hate her. Hating her, would be hating a part of you, and I hate no part of you. Without her, I wouldn't have you." I don't want him to hate her. Hate is too heavy to carry.
Somehow, this story was brought up while I was talking to my husband's mom. My in-laws and I have had a rocky past because we are just simply very different people. After telling her the story about my son, she said that she would never be able to tell him that, that she hated his bio mom, and was utterly shocked that I didn't hate her too. After explaining my side and getting nowhere, I simply said, "If you can't keep that to yourself, then don't talk to him about her at all. He is a kid going through a lot and doesn't need the weight of your emotions weighing him down." She was baffled and screamed, "I helped raise that boy until you came into the picture, I'll say whatever I damn well please to him." For the record, my husband supports me and agrees not to talk bad about his bio mom to him. We want his opinion of her to be his own.
So, AITA for putting my foot down about this and not allowing her to speak badly of his bio mom to him?
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2024.05.15 00:31 DaddyGremlin007 [ MI, US ] used, abused and now seemingly extorted

So this is gonna be a long one. My ex and I legally divorced many years ago, finally, after she got pregnant with another man's kid. Someone who she had been dating for 2 months. It was a rough marriage, but also one I dragged out, badly not wanting to put our children through a divorce. I had a hard time letting her go, as she was my first relationship. I had a full-time job that required extensive commitment and required much of my time. Luckily, my job was flexible, and I was able to watch my kids while my then-wife would run off for weeks at a time, going to parties, doing drugs and, unbeknownst to me, having intimate relationships with other men and women. I realize how this sounds, but she was pretty open about drugs and partying, making it seem like a life crisis. And here's the kicker: she told everyone that we were in an "open relationship", a term I was too nieve to have heard of, and which her friends took at face value. It made her friends less likely to talk to me, thinking I was some weirdo. She was literally often times gone for WEEKS at a time. And when she's come back, she'd clear out the bank account. When we separated, it was because she left me and our two kids to move in with her "new boyfriend", which lasted for a few months. Long enough to be considered abandonment. Then it was move, move, move, until she got together with her new boyfriend, who knocked her up. I tried to give her a fair custody deal, in part because I was stupid, and in part because I was led to believe that, as the mother, she had a huge advantage with custody over me. For years and years, my ex-wife moved from place to place, taking advantage of me and badmouting me and screwing with me at every possible oppertunity. A few years back, there was an incident where she was convicted of abusing our children, leaving many physical markings on our son, who was 5 at the time. In exchange for her completing anger management and parenting classes, I didn't press for full custody. Now, years later, she started telling my son that she didn't commit the abuse, and that she didn't deserve to be on the child abuse registry. She moved in with her sister in November, then got kicked out in January. It was around that time that my son confided in me that, 1.) His mom didnt deserve to be on the child abuse registry, as she "didnt do it", and that 2.) I was the one who caused our relationship to go south, by avoiding my parental responsibilities, going out and partying, yadda yadda. Basically all the shit she did to me. In fact, I was trying to make money and be a full-time dad for our two kids, while she ran off and did these things to me. We are now in a place of her trying to go after full custody, and her trying to poison and twist the minds of our children. This has gotten much worse since she was ordered to pay $200~some~odd a month for child support, because the Court has a requirement that someone pay when the kids are on state assistance. The amount was significantly less because the Court had to impute my income. Since June of 2023, when I got diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease that goes after my brain, I have had $0 in income. It's a hard disease to diagnose, but Ive gotten several second opinions, had eight MRIs, and all the experts agree: I have multiple sclerosis. My income was imputed at over $9,000 a month, while U survive off the generosity of my family. The only drama I have with them is related to how I used to defend my ex wife and let her walk all over everyone. Previously, I supported my family through hard work, bringing in, maximum, around $1500 to $2500 a month, but have struggled to get back to the point where I can work. Disability is no help, they just keep denying me. They don't want to hear about a 29-year-old with ongoing massivr fatigue problems. The Court tells me I need to be on Disability to have my income adjusted. I think my ex-wife is drugging one or both of my kids, possibly through second-hand cannabis use, but am legitimately scared to make such a claim. Every time someone has made a claim against her, it's come back to royally bite them in the ass, somehow. Meanwhile, she refuses to hold down a job, despite having a perfect-working immune system and seemingly unlikited energy, and now that she's been ordered to pay child support, the parental alienation has increased 10-fold, with my kids coming home three out of four weekends (her timr) needing to be "reset". They cuss and swear at me, as their mom has "no rules". I'm at a loss, what do you do in this sort of situation? I do have an attorney, who told me he doesn't think she'll ever be able to get 50/50, but I still worry about this, to the level of it effecting friendships and relationships with my family. I seriously have people that hate me because I put up with her. And I try, so hard, to be a good dad,, and to be always fair and not to crap-talk this woman. And with a few nasty lies, their mother seems to just uproot and wash away everything I've done, like it was nothing. It's just so defeating. They're six and ten, and I got on the most stable drug I possibly could, and have been working with physical therapy trying to get back with it. The drug I'm on doesn't make flu or covid more severe or risky, specifically because my favorite little human petri dishes are very likely to bring something home.I have no history with drugs or alcohol, or any criminal record. My name certainly isn't on the abuse registry, and I havent had an issue with CPS since I was married. I cannot tell you how many times I went out of my way, on my own dime, to provide two-way transportation to foster the relationship between these kids and their mother, believing it was best for them. I thought, maybe, eventually, she'd grow up and be a mom. For a while, I believed she was. All the while, I gave her money for food, a few times for rent, new car parts, installed by me, appliances hauled and paid for and installed, by me, trying to just help her out. All this only to find out years later that despite her not having these kids hardly at all, she was claiming that they lived with her full-time to get more assistance, and even today, she is the same crap-talking liar I had only previously seen glimpses of. After my son told me what his mother had said, I requested a copy of the previous abuse record from CPS, and come to find out, not only did she refuse the free parenting and anger management classes she was offered, even though we agreed she would take them, but she also tried to say that I left the markings on the children when CPS investigated, amongst other games. Our youngest corroborated the story perfectly to the CPS investigator at the time, according to the report, which concretely confirmed the details. After their mother refused classes, CPS ended up adding her name to the naughty list of child abusers. I strongly no longer believe that her having custody time at all is best for the children. What would you do, or have you done in a similar situation? What pitfalls do I need to avoid or not see coming? Additionally, how do you go about secretly drug testing your 10-year-old? Is there a more obvious answer? I am currently custodial, at about 80/20, with many times where she didnt take them during her time, but I fear what's in store for these kids in the coming months, when we transition to the usual 50/50 during the summer. Thanks for reading, and in advance for any advice!!
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