Stupid names starting with m
wildbeef
2019.02.16 19:39 minimizer7 wildbeef
Those stupid names you come up with when you've forgotten the real word. A wild beef is a cow!
2010.02.12 20:07 TypoTat BadTattoos
2018.09.14 00:56 Lyd_Euh Name Nerds Circlejerk
Poke fun at awful names and naming culture. No name is safe.
2024.05.15 15:00 TheRoaringTide Divers who fight bots, how do you do it without the riot shield?
So I ran a few trivials (or maybe just 2s) last night just to get the Personal Mission done, and also to start earning more SCs for the next Warbond. When I fight bots, I’m a Ballistic Shield SMG guy with Explosive-Resistant Heavy Armor who’s basically invincible on the battlefield. It’s great, and I love it.
On my final mission, I had to destroy a Devastator, but I brought a light armor kit to make me faster at collectibles, and I brought silly equipment because I didn’t think I’d need everything.
That Devastator lit me up. His Minigun destroyed my health in about a second and a half, and when I redeployed I missed him by like a foot. Then he Minigunned me again.
The point of this post is: How the hell do you non-Riot Shield users play on difficulties where Devastators, Hulks, and Striders run rampant? Hitting them with the Defender or Pummeler SMGs, or break out my grenade pistol. If I have actual cover, then the AMR comes out and I get to work.
But you Divers that run two-handed weaponry against bots and just rely on natural cover… How do you do it? My god, it’s impressive.
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On my final mission, I had to destroy a Devastator, but I brought a light armor kit to make me faster at collectibles, and I brought silly equipment because I didn’t think I’d need everything.
That Devastator lit me up. His Minigun destroyed my health in about a second and a half, and when I redeployed I missed him by like a foot. Then he Minigunned me again.
The point of this post is: How the hell do you non-Riot Shield users play on difficulties where Devastators, Hulks, and Striders run rampant? Hitting them with the Defender or Pummeler SMGs, or break out my grenade pistol. If I have actual cover, then the AMR comes out and I get to work.
But you Divers that run two-handed weaponry against bots and just rely on natural cover… How do you do it? My god, it’s impressive.
2024.05.15 15:00 wisdom_and_frivolity Buckler's Boot Camp - Posted every wednesday for questions and training
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2024.05.15 14:59 Infinite_Week_6354 how to change name in hospitals/nhs app
hey guys, this admin shit is absolutely exhausting. i came out in december and i’m probably not even like halfway done with changing name and title on everything. so i went for a blood test today and found out that even though i’ve updated everything with my gp, the hospital AND the nhs app still use my deadname. i’m kind of at a loss for how to update this!!
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2024.05.15 14:59 omukoh I’ve been gold stuck as a support main and need advice how to climb.
I have been playing overwatch for almost over a year now, i started playing comp when i was relatively new and my ratio went so far down. I was hoping the comp reset would help but it didn’t. I play open queue (gold 4) nd slowly getting into role just in an attempt to climb.
I mainly play mercy as support and have 200 hours on her. I’m not a pro but i have all of her tech down besides the hard movement like supersects (not confident enough for it in comp just yet). I also play lifeweaver and trying to learn ana (i struggle to hit sleeps).
I won’t pretend like i’m a saint and it’s my teams fault but i am not sure what else to do to climb. I keep up with my diamond friends and their numbers and try to apply their tips but nothing seems to work atp. I’m looking for general tips for support mains and maybe how to climb. Any advice would help sm!
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I mainly play mercy as support and have 200 hours on her. I’m not a pro but i have all of her tech down besides the hard movement like supersects (not confident enough for it in comp just yet). I also play lifeweaver and trying to learn ana (i struggle to hit sleeps).
I won’t pretend like i’m a saint and it’s my teams fault but i am not sure what else to do to climb. I keep up with my diamond friends and their numbers and try to apply their tips but nothing seems to work atp. I’m looking for general tips for support mains and maybe how to climb. Any advice would help sm!
2024.05.15 14:59 SmediumFry AITA for giving a dog away that I couldn’t take care of?
I’ve been a lurker for a while but this has been on my mind lately and I wanted some insight from others. Bear with me, it’s gonna be a long one cuz there’s a lot of back story.
So, about 2 years ago I was doing lashes and started my own business and I met a woman, let’s call her Jen. Jen had 3 dogs that lived with her and her bf. She worked a lot and he did too but from home so it worked for the dogs. Except one of them, let’s call him Buddy. So they had found Buddy as a stray and took him in. He was a 90lb pit bull mix, super sweet but also barely 2 so he was still in his puppy phase a bit and VERY playful. Anyway she tells me that she’s trying to find a home for him and I tell her that my bf (at the time) really wanted his own dog.
So we talk about the dog she tells me he’s house trained and whatnot and I also talk to my bf and we agree to take the dog. We go get him shortly after and bring him home and she tells me “if you ever can’t take care of him please let me know and we’ll come take him back”. Things were fine at first since I already have a dog and they got along really well and played all the time. But then he started pooping in the house and generally just being fairly destructive. I was living in an apt so I didn’t have a yard but it was an 800+ sq ft loft with 2 floors and they had plenty of room to play in and plenty of toys for enrichment. And we took them on 2 30 min walks every day (plus shorter ones for bathroom breaks). Still he would poop in the house while we were working. And I wasn’t working much at this time, but I felt I couldn’t leave him free in the house and I do not like locking dogs in their kennel unless I really need to.
So next time I see her I ask her why she lied about him being house broken and she basically tells me that “well we just let him outside and he goes” and tells me he doesn’t really know how to use a leash or wait to use the bathroom. Like…this is a 90 lb dog and you DIDNT actually train him…at all?? And then lied about it?? Obviously I was upset but still kept him because I made the commitment.
A few weeks later, me and my bf got into a HUGE fight. We had spent the night drinking beer, listening to music, and playing video games and around 3 am he went to the bathroom. After about 30 min it was really quiet in the house so I assumed he went to bed and got ready to go upstairs myself. When I got up there he was in the bathroom so I laid in bed and started reading a book on my phone. He came out and asked if I was reading and when I said yes he sighed SUPER hard and I was like umm wtf? And he tried to say he just felt nauseous. I said “feeling nauseous ain’t never made me sigh like that but ok”. He gets upset that I “assumed” the sigh was towards me. I say “if I answer a question and you sigh right after it’s logical for me to assume it was towards me” and he says he understands and agrees. I try to go to sleep.
Here’s where it all blew up. He gets to going on and on about how I always assume the worst and I’m this and that and blah blah. It’s 330 am and I’m like fuck this I’m just gonna go. I start to get dressed and he gets to saying all this awful stuff about me like “you never loved me, you’re a horrible person” accuses me of cheating on him constantly. And at one point I just said “I’m gonna just agree to everything you say cuz I’m not arguing with you. He says “you prolly finna go fuck another nigga” I tell him yes I am. “You don’t love me” I tell him he’s right I don’t. He loses his shit. He’s literally screaming at me calling me a bitch, saying fuck you over and over, telling me how awful I am and how only somebody fucked up could lead him on like that, etc. It was honestly worse but I think you get the point.
One of the last things he does before he leaves is look me in my eyes and say “I’m gonna fucking k*ll myself and it’s your fault”. For reference, my first bf committed suicide a week after my 17th birthday. I was obviously devastated and traumatized by this and he knew about it. He said it to hurt me. Needless to say, the next day when he tried apologizing I simply told him I was done.
Fast forward a couple weeks and he’s still around cuz he didn’t really have anywhere else to go and I’m too kindhearted to let someone I cared about be homeless so he was sleeping on my couch. Me and an old ex got back in touch (we were still friends but distant) and he invited me to come see his house he had recently bought and to show me an album he’d been working on. I agreed and my ex (one living with me) overheard and was clearly upset but I told him it’s none of his business.
Next day I go over it ended up getting really late so I just stayed over there. Next morning I get a text telling me that my ex was in the hospital because he tried to commit suicide. His sister found him and he was gonna be in the hospital for a few days. This sent me into an emotional and mental spiral because I couldn’t help but blame myself. At the same time, I’m still talking care of both the dogs but it was just too much. So I reached out to Jen and tell her I’m really having a rough time mentally and I could really use some help and if she could please take him back. She basically tells me “it’s not a good time for us right now”. So I tell her that I’ll keep him until I find a home for him.
A few days later I could finally talk to my ex in the hospital and at first things were fine and then he started blaming me for what he did and I just couldn’t take it. I told him he needed to get all his things out of my house when he was better and he needed to find somewhere for his dog to go. Also again I reached out to Jen to see if she could take him. She still couldn’t and eventually my ex found a place for him. An older couple that his grandmother was close with had recently lost their dog who was about the same size. They also lived on a ranch. We thought it was perfect and so my ex took him there to live with them.
Probably about a week later I see Jen and she asks me about Buddy and I tell her what happened and that we rehomed him. She was really upset and was telling me that she didn’t know I needed help that bad and if she did she would have taken him back. Mind you, I asked her at least twice to take him and she said no. I reminded her of this and she said if she knew it was that bad she would have helped. I say I don’t think I should have to explain every detail of what’s going on in my life for her to understand that I needed help.
She was really upset still. And she texted me later saying how her and her bf had both been crying and how much they loved Buddy. But like…if you love him so much why not take him back?? Didn’t and still doesn’t make sense to me. Anyway that pretty much ended our friendship and I haven’t heard from her since. I don’t really think I did anything wrong but for some reason it’s been on my mind a lot lately. So AITA for rehoming the dog?
Tl;dr Me and bf adopted a dog from someone I knew. We broke up and he tried to unalive himself. I tried to give the dog back because I was spiraling mentally and they said no. I rehomed the dog to an older couple that lived on a ranch. The person I got the dog from was very upset and we haven’t talked since.
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So, about 2 years ago I was doing lashes and started my own business and I met a woman, let’s call her Jen. Jen had 3 dogs that lived with her and her bf. She worked a lot and he did too but from home so it worked for the dogs. Except one of them, let’s call him Buddy. So they had found Buddy as a stray and took him in. He was a 90lb pit bull mix, super sweet but also barely 2 so he was still in his puppy phase a bit and VERY playful. Anyway she tells me that she’s trying to find a home for him and I tell her that my bf (at the time) really wanted his own dog.
So we talk about the dog she tells me he’s house trained and whatnot and I also talk to my bf and we agree to take the dog. We go get him shortly after and bring him home and she tells me “if you ever can’t take care of him please let me know and we’ll come take him back”. Things were fine at first since I already have a dog and they got along really well and played all the time. But then he started pooping in the house and generally just being fairly destructive. I was living in an apt so I didn’t have a yard but it was an 800+ sq ft loft with 2 floors and they had plenty of room to play in and plenty of toys for enrichment. And we took them on 2 30 min walks every day (plus shorter ones for bathroom breaks). Still he would poop in the house while we were working. And I wasn’t working much at this time, but I felt I couldn’t leave him free in the house and I do not like locking dogs in their kennel unless I really need to.
So next time I see her I ask her why she lied about him being house broken and she basically tells me that “well we just let him outside and he goes” and tells me he doesn’t really know how to use a leash or wait to use the bathroom. Like…this is a 90 lb dog and you DIDNT actually train him…at all?? And then lied about it?? Obviously I was upset but still kept him because I made the commitment.
A few weeks later, me and my bf got into a HUGE fight. We had spent the night drinking beer, listening to music, and playing video games and around 3 am he went to the bathroom. After about 30 min it was really quiet in the house so I assumed he went to bed and got ready to go upstairs myself. When I got up there he was in the bathroom so I laid in bed and started reading a book on my phone. He came out and asked if I was reading and when I said yes he sighed SUPER hard and I was like umm wtf? And he tried to say he just felt nauseous. I said “feeling nauseous ain’t never made me sigh like that but ok”. He gets upset that I “assumed” the sigh was towards me. I say “if I answer a question and you sigh right after it’s logical for me to assume it was towards me” and he says he understands and agrees. I try to go to sleep.
Here’s where it all blew up. He gets to going on and on about how I always assume the worst and I’m this and that and blah blah. It’s 330 am and I’m like fuck this I’m just gonna go. I start to get dressed and he gets to saying all this awful stuff about me like “you never loved me, you’re a horrible person” accuses me of cheating on him constantly. And at one point I just said “I’m gonna just agree to everything you say cuz I’m not arguing with you. He says “you prolly finna go fuck another nigga” I tell him yes I am. “You don’t love me” I tell him he’s right I don’t. He loses his shit. He’s literally screaming at me calling me a bitch, saying fuck you over and over, telling me how awful I am and how only somebody fucked up could lead him on like that, etc. It was honestly worse but I think you get the point.
One of the last things he does before he leaves is look me in my eyes and say “I’m gonna fucking k*ll myself and it’s your fault”. For reference, my first bf committed suicide a week after my 17th birthday. I was obviously devastated and traumatized by this and he knew about it. He said it to hurt me. Needless to say, the next day when he tried apologizing I simply told him I was done.
Fast forward a couple weeks and he’s still around cuz he didn’t really have anywhere else to go and I’m too kindhearted to let someone I cared about be homeless so he was sleeping on my couch. Me and an old ex got back in touch (we were still friends but distant) and he invited me to come see his house he had recently bought and to show me an album he’d been working on. I agreed and my ex (one living with me) overheard and was clearly upset but I told him it’s none of his business.
Next day I go over it ended up getting really late so I just stayed over there. Next morning I get a text telling me that my ex was in the hospital because he tried to commit suicide. His sister found him and he was gonna be in the hospital for a few days. This sent me into an emotional and mental spiral because I couldn’t help but blame myself. At the same time, I’m still talking care of both the dogs but it was just too much. So I reached out to Jen and tell her I’m really having a rough time mentally and I could really use some help and if she could please take him back. She basically tells me “it’s not a good time for us right now”. So I tell her that I’ll keep him until I find a home for him.
A few days later I could finally talk to my ex in the hospital and at first things were fine and then he started blaming me for what he did and I just couldn’t take it. I told him he needed to get all his things out of my house when he was better and he needed to find somewhere for his dog to go. Also again I reached out to Jen to see if she could take him. She still couldn’t and eventually my ex found a place for him. An older couple that his grandmother was close with had recently lost their dog who was about the same size. They also lived on a ranch. We thought it was perfect and so my ex took him there to live with them.
Probably about a week later I see Jen and she asks me about Buddy and I tell her what happened and that we rehomed him. She was really upset and was telling me that she didn’t know I needed help that bad and if she did she would have taken him back. Mind you, I asked her at least twice to take him and she said no. I reminded her of this and she said if she knew it was that bad she would have helped. I say I don’t think I should have to explain every detail of what’s going on in my life for her to understand that I needed help.
She was really upset still. And she texted me later saying how her and her bf had both been crying and how much they loved Buddy. But like…if you love him so much why not take him back?? Didn’t and still doesn’t make sense to me. Anyway that pretty much ended our friendship and I haven’t heard from her since. I don’t really think I did anything wrong but for some reason it’s been on my mind a lot lately. So AITA for rehoming the dog?
Tl;dr Me and bf adopted a dog from someone I knew. We broke up and he tried to unalive himself. I tried to give the dog back because I was spiraling mentally and they said no. I rehomed the dog to an older couple that lived on a ranch. The person I got the dog from was very upset and we haven’t talked since.
2024.05.15 14:59 Maximum_Restaurant25 Neurology and Health Anxiety: 1 year in!
Hello all, it's been a while! Firstly, I hope everyone is doing okay, I know some days dealing with this can be ridiculously hard. Sorry for the following essay, feel free to scroll on, I just I felt I had post something to reassure anyone who is feeling how I felt a year ago today.
It was a year ago that I looked down to see my calves moving constantly. I had twitched many times before and thought nothing of it, but these felt and looked different. I then realised that in the last few weeks I had been getting other twitches more regularly. As I became hyperaware of the twitching, it dawned on me that alongside my calves, I was twitching body-wide, probably a few thousand times a day, many of them small and barely noticeable, but they were there. My legs were without doubt the most active areas, but this was (and still is) absolutely everywhere, 24/7. I then Googled my symptoms. The following 6 months were without doubt the hardest of my life. At that point I was absolutely convinced I was in serious trouble, and the intense dread and fear only made things worse. This forum would help at times but then when coming across fellow twitchers convinced of the worst case scenario only fueled my fears further. My posts will tell a story of someone who just couldn't shake their anxiety.
Of course I went straight to the doctor, who reassured me with a clean clinical exam I had absolutely nothing to worry about. At 24, an EMG would be a waste of time and if anything potentially fuel anxiety further. A few weeks later, I demanded an EMG - my mind was running wild and I needed clarification. It was clean. I felt so much better - for a few weeks. I'd never struggled with health anxiety before but here I was. What if the EMG was too early? What if it's something else? I'm twitching tens of thousands of times a day, this cannot be benign (spoiler: it can). Each week I was convinced I was progressing, that my speech was different, my strength was dropping. Back to the doctor again, and again. I demanded a Chest X-ray. Clean. Blood test after blood test. Clean. If you're also doing this to yourself, please STOP. Acceptance is SO important.
Then a letter from the hospital came through my door. One of the lead Neurologists wanted to follow up with me. Of course I shit myself. I thought I was in the clear? I didn't understand why they wanted to see me again. Reluctantly I went, and it was the best decision I ever made. He simply wanted to see how I was getting on, I sat down with him chatting for over half an hour, rationalising every single stupid thought in my head. He was practically shouting at me at one point: YOU DO NOT HAVE **!! He would never have even let me do that EMG if it was up to him. He said he sees people exactly like me every week or so. "Your worst fears don't even start with twitching. You're too young to obsess over this, life is too short to spend month after month worrying about something that will never materialise." He explained to me that out of every single patient he sees, whether it be twitching, tingling, fatigue, numbness etc... 50% simply have health anxiety. It doesn't mean these symptoms are not real, but the mind is very powerful and can single-handedly disrupt your neurology. It highlights the importance of making sure we do not let these physical symptoms take over our lives and our minds, it will only make things worse. He added that Google is great but it feeds health anxiety. You say you're fatigued it's MS. You say you're twitching, it's **. It's all bullshit, the worst outcome everytime, outcome that are a infinitely finite probability. Take what the medical professionals tell you at face value and ignore the noise.
He followed the discussion by confirming in a written letter "we can confidently say that this is a benign fasciculation syndrome." The penny dropped for me, as it should for many of you. I accepted this was my life now, and that was was 4 months ago. I haven't been on this forum since. I've got back to the gym, golf, meeting friends regularly and I'll tell you all right now this is THE BEST way to cure your mind. Distract yourself. Exercise. Within months my strength had rocketed and my golf was better than ever. I'd be lying if I told you every day was a good day, but I refuse to let these twitches control my emotions every single second. If you're suffering then PLEASE, you have to find something else to obsess over. It WILL change your life. Eat well, sleep well and enjoy yourself. What we deal with every day is physically harmless so just focus on healing the mind.
My DMs are open if anyone needs a chat, all the best people!
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It was a year ago that I looked down to see my calves moving constantly. I had twitched many times before and thought nothing of it, but these felt and looked different. I then realised that in the last few weeks I had been getting other twitches more regularly. As I became hyperaware of the twitching, it dawned on me that alongside my calves, I was twitching body-wide, probably a few thousand times a day, many of them small and barely noticeable, but they were there. My legs were without doubt the most active areas, but this was (and still is) absolutely everywhere, 24/7. I then Googled my symptoms. The following 6 months were without doubt the hardest of my life. At that point I was absolutely convinced I was in serious trouble, and the intense dread and fear only made things worse. This forum would help at times but then when coming across fellow twitchers convinced of the worst case scenario only fueled my fears further. My posts will tell a story of someone who just couldn't shake their anxiety.
Of course I went straight to the doctor, who reassured me with a clean clinical exam I had absolutely nothing to worry about. At 24, an EMG would be a waste of time and if anything potentially fuel anxiety further. A few weeks later, I demanded an EMG - my mind was running wild and I needed clarification. It was clean. I felt so much better - for a few weeks. I'd never struggled with health anxiety before but here I was. What if the EMG was too early? What if it's something else? I'm twitching tens of thousands of times a day, this cannot be benign (spoiler: it can). Each week I was convinced I was progressing, that my speech was different, my strength was dropping. Back to the doctor again, and again. I demanded a Chest X-ray. Clean. Blood test after blood test. Clean. If you're also doing this to yourself, please STOP. Acceptance is SO important.
Then a letter from the hospital came through my door. One of the lead Neurologists wanted to follow up with me. Of course I shit myself. I thought I was in the clear? I didn't understand why they wanted to see me again. Reluctantly I went, and it was the best decision I ever made. He simply wanted to see how I was getting on, I sat down with him chatting for over half an hour, rationalising every single stupid thought in my head. He was practically shouting at me at one point: YOU DO NOT HAVE **!! He would never have even let me do that EMG if it was up to him. He said he sees people exactly like me every week or so. "Your worst fears don't even start with twitching. You're too young to obsess over this, life is too short to spend month after month worrying about something that will never materialise." He explained to me that out of every single patient he sees, whether it be twitching, tingling, fatigue, numbness etc... 50% simply have health anxiety. It doesn't mean these symptoms are not real, but the mind is very powerful and can single-handedly disrupt your neurology. It highlights the importance of making sure we do not let these physical symptoms take over our lives and our minds, it will only make things worse. He added that Google is great but it feeds health anxiety. You say you're fatigued it's MS. You say you're twitching, it's **. It's all bullshit, the worst outcome everytime, outcome that are a infinitely finite probability. Take what the medical professionals tell you at face value and ignore the noise.
He followed the discussion by confirming in a written letter "we can confidently say that this is a benign fasciculation syndrome." The penny dropped for me, as it should for many of you. I accepted this was my life now, and that was was 4 months ago. I haven't been on this forum since. I've got back to the gym, golf, meeting friends regularly and I'll tell you all right now this is THE BEST way to cure your mind. Distract yourself. Exercise. Within months my strength had rocketed and my golf was better than ever. I'd be lying if I told you every day was a good day, but I refuse to let these twitches control my emotions every single second. If you're suffering then PLEASE, you have to find something else to obsess over. It WILL change your life. Eat well, sleep well and enjoy yourself. What we deal with every day is physically harmless so just focus on healing the mind.
My DMs are open if anyone needs a chat, all the best people!
2024.05.15 14:59 Ecstatic-Hippo5895 I want to get divorced but I am scared of being shamed
Hello,
I am F 26 married to M 35.
I have been married for ~1.5 years and it is not going well. We were dating for a while before getting married but that was also rocky. Primarily because from the first day of dating he wanted me to commit that I want to marry and I wanted to see how things went (Because I had gone through a bad break up). I was however committed to him but he started seeing other women and even spent a night with one (Found all this because I went to his house and found furniture moved around, it became obvious he had someone over as he lived alone).
In 2022, husband’s mother got diagnosed with cancer and seemed like she did not have much time. Upon diagnosis, he got really serious about his future and I let go of things he had done previously. We were in long distance and he would keep breaking up with me over every fight. He would not speak to me for weeks and then suddenly reach out and start acting normal again. During our break ups in long distance my mind would wander and I would go mad thinking that he is out with other women again. So even I started talking to guys (I don’t know if it makes sense but I didn’t want to be the one who was left again. I wanted to feel that I had some power) It’s okay if it does not make sense, I am flawed and I accept it. However whenever he came back to me, I slipped and started dating him again. I do admit it is my fault that I didn’t tell him about talking to other guys but honestly I thought he was doing the same as before. Also want to admit that pity played a big role in my decisions as he was going through a tough time with his mother’s health. Also want to add that till August 2022 his family did not know he wanted to be with me but my family knew since February. When his mother’s health really started deteriorating, he told her about me.
We had an engagement and he promised to never repeat past mistakes again. We got married the following February (So much drama during the wedding but don’t want to get into it). Don't know about him but I never engaged in any wrong conversations or cheating after our engagement was fixed. I was dedicated to him.
Married life was tough and I had to move in with his family who are very traditional and honestly after marriage I got to know even he is super traditional. Something he essentially hid in his personality when he was with me.
We started having some fights (He threw my stuff out of the wardrobe, snatching my laptop and phone). His mother passed away in April. He was so unstable after it. One day he decided he wanted to go through my phone. He found out that I was talking to other guys before the wedding. He slapped me, he kicked me. And this became a recurring issue. He would lose his mind due to some reason or the other, and take it out on me physically and sometimes even sexually. I endured this for a few months but he didn’t change.
So in September I left his house with just some clothes and went to a relative’s. No one from his family or him reached out to me. My parents wanted me to move back home atleast for a few months. So we went to his house again to pick up the remaining of my stuff and left. His family was not happy about it but I did tell him that if he controlled his anger we could make it work.
But 10 minutes into leaving his house he called me asking where my jewellery. I said I took it and he followed me with his family to my relative’s house to take back the jewellery. It had everything that he and I had received from both sides of the family. They created ruckus and said they want to take back all the jewellery that had come from their family to me. We knew what Sridhan and the laws were, but for my sake, my family gave them the jewellery. They took everything given by his family. They returned whatever was given by my family.
Fast forward we are now trying to work things out 8 months later but it is not.
So now I want to file for divorce. What are my best options moving forward? Can my past be used against me?
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I am F 26 married to M 35.
I have been married for ~1.5 years and it is not going well. We were dating for a while before getting married but that was also rocky. Primarily because from the first day of dating he wanted me to commit that I want to marry and I wanted to see how things went (Because I had gone through a bad break up). I was however committed to him but he started seeing other women and even spent a night with one (Found all this because I went to his house and found furniture moved around, it became obvious he had someone over as he lived alone).
In 2022, husband’s mother got diagnosed with cancer and seemed like she did not have much time. Upon diagnosis, he got really serious about his future and I let go of things he had done previously. We were in long distance and he would keep breaking up with me over every fight. He would not speak to me for weeks and then suddenly reach out and start acting normal again. During our break ups in long distance my mind would wander and I would go mad thinking that he is out with other women again. So even I started talking to guys (I don’t know if it makes sense but I didn’t want to be the one who was left again. I wanted to feel that I had some power) It’s okay if it does not make sense, I am flawed and I accept it. However whenever he came back to me, I slipped and started dating him again. I do admit it is my fault that I didn’t tell him about talking to other guys but honestly I thought he was doing the same as before. Also want to admit that pity played a big role in my decisions as he was going through a tough time with his mother’s health. Also want to add that till August 2022 his family did not know he wanted to be with me but my family knew since February. When his mother’s health really started deteriorating, he told her about me.
We had an engagement and he promised to never repeat past mistakes again. We got married the following February (So much drama during the wedding but don’t want to get into it). Don't know about him but I never engaged in any wrong conversations or cheating after our engagement was fixed. I was dedicated to him.
Married life was tough and I had to move in with his family who are very traditional and honestly after marriage I got to know even he is super traditional. Something he essentially hid in his personality when he was with me.
We started having some fights (He threw my stuff out of the wardrobe, snatching my laptop and phone). His mother passed away in April. He was so unstable after it. One day he decided he wanted to go through my phone. He found out that I was talking to other guys before the wedding. He slapped me, he kicked me. And this became a recurring issue. He would lose his mind due to some reason or the other, and take it out on me physically and sometimes even sexually. I endured this for a few months but he didn’t change.
So in September I left his house with just some clothes and went to a relative’s. No one from his family or him reached out to me. My parents wanted me to move back home atleast for a few months. So we went to his house again to pick up the remaining of my stuff and left. His family was not happy about it but I did tell him that if he controlled his anger we could make it work.
But 10 minutes into leaving his house he called me asking where my jewellery. I said I took it and he followed me with his family to my relative’s house to take back the jewellery. It had everything that he and I had received from both sides of the family. They created ruckus and said they want to take back all the jewellery that had come from their family to me. We knew what Sridhan and the laws were, but for my sake, my family gave them the jewellery. They took everything given by his family. They returned whatever was given by my family.
Fast forward we are now trying to work things out 8 months later but it is not.
So now I want to file for divorce. What are my best options moving forward? Can my past be used against me?
2024.05.15 14:59 TheMadHattah Playing WoW for the first time. As a hardcore.
So I’m new to the game. I started with classic cata and have a level 40 Hunter. But I feel like Im not enjoying the level experience. It feels like every time I sit down to play Im just doing chores and the dessert I get when I’m done will be raiding. This is not the gameplay loop Im interested in.
I want to get invested in my character, get lost in the RP part of the game. Quest slowly where each level feels earned. I know that many of you wouldn’t recommend hardcore as someone’s first experience in WoW but I honestly can’t see any other way to enjoy the game. Hardcore sounds so intense and interesting, where every dungeon run is dangerous, where you second guess running into that cave and maybe recruit some help from other players to tackle the challenge.
Maybe hardcore is nothing like this and I’ll have a bad time. But I’m VERY much looking forward to trying it.
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I want to get invested in my character, get lost in the RP part of the game. Quest slowly where each level feels earned. I know that many of you wouldn’t recommend hardcore as someone’s first experience in WoW but I honestly can’t see any other way to enjoy the game. Hardcore sounds so intense and interesting, where every dungeon run is dangerous, where you second guess running into that cave and maybe recruit some help from other players to tackle the challenge.
Maybe hardcore is nothing like this and I’ll have a bad time. But I’m VERY much looking forward to trying it.
2024.05.15 14:59 Hilltern 96 Haut Brion & 83 d’Yquem
 | I was able to enjoy a birth year Haut Brion yesterday for my birthday along with a wonderfully aged d’Yquem. I was worried they would be corked or ruined somehow since they were a little warm on delivery but they were perfect. Paired the Haut Brion with filet and traditional steakhouse sides (mashed potatoes, broccoli, corn, mac & cheese) and decanted for about 15-30 minutes. Drank over the course of an hour or so. The cork on the d’Yquem broke (for some reason the restaurant did not use a Durand despite assuring me they had one) so it wound up getting strained and decanted as well. All in all, these were amazing wines and easily the best I have had. I’m still beginning my tasting journey but some of notes for each are below: submitted by Hilltern to wine [link] [comments] ‘96 Haut Brion Muddled tart cherry Classic Bordeaux on the nose Plush, silky smooth tannins Red fruit to start with notes of black fruit on the finish Chocolatey notes on the front palate Plum and nectarines Stone fruit Black pepper on middle palate Faintly astringent - barely noticeable that it is alcoholic 98 points ‘83 d’Yquem Apricot Honey Candied fruit Brûlée, toasted vanilla Pineapple Candied red and green apples Butterscotch Beautiful dark brandy color 99 points |
2024.05.15 14:58 jminspersona No contact from New Job after 3 weeks?!
Hi Guys- Just needed some advice on this! So I had applied to a new Graduate job to start in June-I had gone through all 3 interview phases which included have a quick chat with one of the managers around 3 weeks ago. I was told that I should have a response by the following day and that i’m a strong perfect candidate, however it’s been exactly 3 weeks since then and i’ve heard absolutely nothing.
During the interview process, I was with one specific Hiring manager however she had moved onto a different role within the company meaning i had been moved to another Hiring manager who hasn’t been good with communication.
Is it worth emailing to ask what’s been happening? As i do require a 2 week notice period if i do get the job, and it’s currently making me really anxious! Thank you!!
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During the interview process, I was with one specific Hiring manager however she had moved onto a different role within the company meaning i had been moved to another Hiring manager who hasn’t been good with communication.
Is it worth emailing to ask what’s been happening? As i do require a 2 week notice period if i do get the job, and it’s currently making me really anxious! Thank you!!
2024.05.15 14:58 Astimar Leaving DIY Behind changed my life
Hey folks - more a “revelation” then anything else.
We purchased our home in 2015, neither myself nor my spouse are in the trades, we work corporate jobs, however throughout the years we went heavy on the “DIY Homeowner” Approach, attempting to fix issues ourselves or doing very minor renovations ourselves etc
What we discovered, if we are being honest with each other, is that we could get the job to about 80% perfection but there was always a lingering 20% that was janky / non-skilled labor
How fast forward almost a decade and we are now several DIY projects deep and it’s starting to add up into a general feeling of “this ain’t right”
I finally caved a few months ago and just said F It and I’ve been contracting out work to professionals instead of doing literally anything myself - I’ll legit hire a painter at this point before I ever try to paint a bedroom myself
And you know what happened? It’s no longer 80/20 … it’s more like 99/1 or straight up 100% done right - it always seems to come out literally perfect everytime and it’s projects I’m proud to show off to people versus “hey look at what I did over here, just don’t look at that spot in the corner”
I fully believe I’m a happier person and overall my homes value is happier knowing if we ever wanted to sell that potential buyers would see a quality home versus some DIY dude who had no idea what was going on
10/10 recommend
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We purchased our home in 2015, neither myself nor my spouse are in the trades, we work corporate jobs, however throughout the years we went heavy on the “DIY Homeowner” Approach, attempting to fix issues ourselves or doing very minor renovations ourselves etc
What we discovered, if we are being honest with each other, is that we could get the job to about 80% perfection but there was always a lingering 20% that was janky / non-skilled labor
How fast forward almost a decade and we are now several DIY projects deep and it’s starting to add up into a general feeling of “this ain’t right”
I finally caved a few months ago and just said F It and I’ve been contracting out work to professionals instead of doing literally anything myself - I’ll legit hire a painter at this point before I ever try to paint a bedroom myself
And you know what happened? It’s no longer 80/20 … it’s more like 99/1 or straight up 100% done right - it always seems to come out literally perfect everytime and it’s projects I’m proud to show off to people versus “hey look at what I did over here, just don’t look at that spot in the corner”
I fully believe I’m a happier person and overall my homes value is happier knowing if we ever wanted to sell that potential buyers would see a quality home versus some DIY dude who had no idea what was going on
10/10 recommend
2024.05.15 14:58 Unlucky-Intern-1646 what’s the deal with guys ghosting?
I’m 24F and have talked to a a lot guys throughout the last few years, usually from social media. Most of them just for a couple days where conversations didn’t go anywhere, but I have had really good banter with some of them and they have expressed genuine interest and said some pretty big words. Some of them I’ve talked to for longer periods of time like 1-3 months or so.
Several times things have come to the point of planning to meet up and stuff, but usually that is when things turn around? When they start making promises and say they really like me they suddenly just ghost?
I’ve heard tons of girls with similar experiences. I get that a lot of the times it’s love bombing and that the guys have a roaster and he might of gotten more interested in someone else. I don’t really mind or care about that, I have had roasters too and it’s not like I had super strong feelings for any of these guys, but I cannot understand the ghosting and empty promises. All kinds of guys have done this too, so not only “fuckboys” or super attractive guys.
What’s the point in leading someone on and building up tension and interest just to disappear like that? Why make promises you know you’re not intending to keep or express huge interest you don’t actually have? It just feels like an asshole move and always leaves me with an uneasy feeling.
I think ghosting is normal and totally acceptable if a conversation obviously isn’t going anywhere for example, but I cannot understand the switching up like that from one day to another with no care in the world. Just say what you want and feel, why lie and waste someone’s time?
So my question is why do some guys to this? Ghost when things seem like they’re actually going somewhere? Starting to lose hope in finding any guys in this generation that are honest about the things they say lol
Very curious to know why guys do this and would love some different takes on this🥵
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Several times things have come to the point of planning to meet up and stuff, but usually that is when things turn around? When they start making promises and say they really like me they suddenly just ghost?
I’ve heard tons of girls with similar experiences. I get that a lot of the times it’s love bombing and that the guys have a roaster and he might of gotten more interested in someone else. I don’t really mind or care about that, I have had roasters too and it’s not like I had super strong feelings for any of these guys, but I cannot understand the ghosting and empty promises. All kinds of guys have done this too, so not only “fuckboys” or super attractive guys.
What’s the point in leading someone on and building up tension and interest just to disappear like that? Why make promises you know you’re not intending to keep or express huge interest you don’t actually have? It just feels like an asshole move and always leaves me with an uneasy feeling.
I think ghosting is normal and totally acceptable if a conversation obviously isn’t going anywhere for example, but I cannot understand the switching up like that from one day to another with no care in the world. Just say what you want and feel, why lie and waste someone’s time?
So my question is why do some guys to this? Ghost when things seem like they’re actually going somewhere? Starting to lose hope in finding any guys in this generation that are honest about the things they say lol
Very curious to know why guys do this and would love some different takes on this🥵
2024.05.15 14:58 T1red_buffalo Living with liver cancer
I 42f diagnosed with hundreds of cancerous neuroendocrine tumors in my liver. They say it may have started in my colon and metastasized in the liver. It’s progressed so far there is nothing the drs can do and have given me 15-18 months. My liver is 4x’s the size it should be and my belly is distended. It’s been so hard to share with friends and family and they all just keep saying they know I’m a fighter and will get through this. I’m going to let them all down bc I dont want to fight. I’m so tired. It was “your labs are fine” for years, and now this. I’m just so fucking exhausted. I’m having a very hard time wrapping my head around this and can’t eat, it hurts so bad to be full or have a bm. My whole body hurts and I just sleep the days away. My whole stomach feels like it’s badly bruised from the inside out. I can’t get out of bed.
Idk why I’m even posting this. I’m so lost and my kids are just looking at me to make their lunch and take them for a fun time this summer. How can I just be gone in a year? Am I supposed to pack my things and go wait to die somewhere?
I’m supposed to start getting a shot that will help with symptoms at the end of the month, but until then I’m in limbo and don’t know what to do about anything.
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Idk why I’m even posting this. I’m so lost and my kids are just looking at me to make their lunch and take them for a fun time this summer. How can I just be gone in a year? Am I supposed to pack my things and go wait to die somewhere?
I’m supposed to start getting a shot that will help with symptoms at the end of the month, but until then I’m in limbo and don’t know what to do about anything.
2024.05.15 14:58 ThrowRAglack bleeding/inflamed gums even though I brush and floss everyday
I brush twice daily for over 2 minutes and floss every single night. I didn’t start flossing until I was 13 and I think it really fucked up my mouth because my gums have never really recovered? Also, sometimes somewhere that didn’t used to bleed will start bleeding even though I routinely floss. Previously my dentist said they could tell I was brushing and flossing since there wasn’t much buildup and the cleanings weren’t painful or long. I saw a different dentist this time (4 month gap) and it took her forever to get rid of all the tartar and it hurt like hell. I was bleeding so much by the end I could feel something like parts my gum hanging off my tooth but it was just big coagulated pieces of blood lol. Anyway I don’t think I did anything differently in those 4 months so I’m lost.
They keep showing me how to floss and I genuinely don’t see what I’m doing wrong. I do the cupping of the tooth and go all the way down, and I use the up and down motion instead of seesawing. The only difference is I notice when they floss they don’t even go all the way down to the bottom of the tooth, is that my problem? I don’t think I’m harsh with it either. At this point we know my genetics are just bad and I’m prone to build up but I’m not sure what I can do in my oral routine to compensate for that.
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They keep showing me how to floss and I genuinely don’t see what I’m doing wrong. I do the cupping of the tooth and go all the way down, and I use the up and down motion instead of seesawing. The only difference is I notice when they floss they don’t even go all the way down to the bottom of the tooth, is that my problem? I don’t think I’m harsh with it either. At this point we know my genetics are just bad and I’m prone to build up but I’m not sure what I can do in my oral routine to compensate for that.
2024.05.15 14:57 jr_stark ideasUnvToFoam error (Salome to OpenFOAM)
I am having trouble converting the mesh created using Salome (geometry imported from FreeCAD). Its a helical tube geometry and I have created the mesh in Salome. I get this error while using the 'IdeasUnvToFoam' command:
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// * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * // Create time Processing tag:164 Starting reading units at line 3. l:1 units:" SI: Meter (newton)" unitType:2 Unit factors: Length scale : 1 Force scale : 1 Temperature scale : 1 Temperature offset : 273.15 Processing tag:2411 Starting reading points at line 20. Read 96848 points. Processing tag:2412 Starting reading cells at line 193719. First occurrence of element type 11 for cell 1 at line 193720 First occurrence of element type 44 for cell 16 at line 201190 First occurrence of element type 41 for cell 35 at line 201228 First occurrence of element type 111 for cell 36842 at line 269890 Read 422164 cells and 34350 boundary faces. Processing tag:2467 Starting reading patches at line 1114220. For group 5 named wall trying to read 33750 patch face indices. For group 6 named inlet trying to read 300 patch face indices. For group 7 named outlet trying to read 300 patch face indices. Sorting boundary faces according to group (patch) 0: wall is faceZone 1: inlet is faceZone 2: outlet is faceZone Constructing mesh with non-default patches of size: Adding cell and face zones Face Zone wall 33750 ideasUnvToFoam: ideasUnvToFoam.C:1287: int main(int, char**): Assertion `nouveau > -1' failed. Aborted (core dumped)I have attached the python dump file for reference if anyone wants to look at the mesh. What is causing the problem?
#!/usbin/env python ### ### This file is generated automatically by SALOME v9.12.0 with dump python functionality ### import sys import salome salome.salome_init() import salome_notebook notebook = salome_notebook.NoteBook() sys.path.insert(0, r'F:/FOSSEE SLI - 2024/helixmesh') ### ### GEOM component ### import GEOM from salome.geom import geomBuilder import math import SALOMEDS geompy = geomBuilder.New() O = geompy.MakeVertex(0, 0, 0) OX = geompy.MakeVectorDXDYDZ(1, 0, 0) OY = geompy.MakeVectorDXDYDZ(0, 1, 0) OZ = geompy.MakeVectorDXDYDZ(0, 0, 1) Body = geompy.ImportSTEP("F:/FOSSEE SLI - 2024/Geom1.3/New foldehel15-Body.step", False, True) face = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["FACE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(face, [3, 82]) faceedge = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["EDGE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(faceedge, [71, 5, 41, 51, 16, 61, 76, 46, 36, 21, 26, 56, 81, 11, 66, 31]) midline = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["EDGE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(midline, [49, 44, 69, 39, 14, 54, 79, 19, 74, 59, 24, 29, 9, 34, 64]) vol = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["SOLID"]) geompy.UnionIDs(vol, [1]) [face, faceedge, midline, vol] = geompy.GetExistingSubObjects(Body, False) wall = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["FACE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(wall, [12, 7, 72, 77, 42, 32, 67, 22, 57, 37, 52, 17, 27, 47, 62]) inlet = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["FACE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(inlet, [3]) outlet = geompy.CreateGroup(Body, geompy.ShapeType["FACE"]) geompy.UnionIDs(outlet, [82]) geompy.addToStudy( O, 'O' ) geompy.addToStudy( OX, 'OX' ) geompy.addToStudy( OY, 'OY' ) geompy.addToStudy( OZ, 'OZ' ) geompy.addToStudy( Body, 'Body' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, face, 'face' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, faceedge, 'faceedge' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, midline, 'midline' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, vol, 'vol' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, wall, 'wall' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, inlet, 'inlet' ) geompy.addToStudyInFather( Body, outlet, 'outlet' ) ### ### SMESH component ### import SMESH, SALOMEDS from salome.smesh import smeshBuilder smesh = smeshBuilder.New() #smesh.SetEnablePublish( False ) # Set to False to avoid publish in study if not needed or in some particular situations: # multiples meshes built in parallel, complex and numerous mesh edition (performance) Mesh_1 = smesh.Mesh(Body,'Mesh_1') Regular_1D = Mesh_1.Segment() Quadrangle_2D = Mesh_1.Quadrangle(algo=smeshBuilder.QUADRANGLE) NETGEN_3D = Mesh_1.Tetrahedron() face_1 = Mesh_1.GroupOnGeom(face,'face',SMESH.FACE) faceedge_1 = Mesh_1.GroupOnGeom(faceedge,'faceedge',SMESH.EDGE) midline_1 = Mesh_1.GroupOnGeom(midline,'midline',SMESH.EDGE) vol_1 = Mesh_1.GroupOnGeom(vol,'vol',SMESH.VOLUME) Quadrangle_2D_1 = Mesh_1.Quadrangle(algo=smeshBuilder.QUADRANGLE,geom=wall) Regular_1D_1 = Mesh_1.Segment(geom=midline) Number_of_Segments_1 = Regular_1D_1.NumberOfSegments(150) Distribution_of_Layers_1 = smesh.CreateHypothesis('LayerDistribution2D') NumberOfSegments_Distribution = smesh.CreateHypothesis('NumberOfSegments') NumberOfSegments_Distribution.SetNumberOfSegments( 20 ) Distribution_of_Layers_1.SetLayerDistribution( NumberOfSegments_Distribution ) RadialQuadrangle_1D2D = Mesh_1.Quadrangle(algo=smeshBuilder.RADIAL_QUAD,geom=face) status = Mesh_1.AddHypothesis(Distribution_of_Layers_1,face) [ face_1, faceedge_1, midline_1, vol_1 ] = Mesh_1.GetGroups() Number_of_Segments_2 = Regular_1D.NumberOfSegments(15) isDone = Mesh_1.Compute() [ face_1, faceedge_1, midline_1, vol_1 ] = Mesh_1.GetGroups() Sub_mesh_1 = Quadrangle_2D_1.GetSubMesh() Sub_mesh_2 = Regular_1D_1.GetSubMesh() Sub_mesh_3 = RadialQuadrangle_1D2D.GetSubMesh() ## Set names of Mesh objects smesh.SetName(Regular_1D.GetAlgorithm(), 'Regular_1D') smesh.SetName(NETGEN_3D.GetAlgorithm(), 'NETGEN 3D') smesh.SetName(Quadrangle_2D.GetAlgorithm(), 'Quadrangle_2D') smesh.SetName(RadialQuadrangle_1D2D.GetAlgorithm(), 'RadialQuadrangle_1D2D') smesh.SetName(Number_of_Segments_2, 'Number of Segments_2') smesh.SetName(Number_of_Segments_1, 'Number of Segments_1') smesh.SetName(face_1, 'face') smesh.SetName(Distribution_of_Layers_1, 'Distribution of Layers_1') smesh.SetName(Mesh_1.GetMesh(), 'Mesh_1') smesh.SetName(Sub_mesh_3, 'Sub-mesh_3') smesh.SetName(Sub_mesh_2, 'Sub-mesh_2') smesh.SetName(Sub_mesh_1, 'Sub-mesh_1') smesh.SetName(vol_1, 'vol') smesh.SetName(faceedge_1, 'faceedge') smesh.SetName(midline_1, 'midline') if salome.sg.hasDesktop(): salome.sg.updateObjBrowser() 2024.05.15 14:57 Suspicious_Edge8004 The lamb shank, Expresso Martini and the gaslighting waiter
Last night I went out for dinner with the family because it’s my birthday this week. We went to a really nice Turkish restaurant which has recently changed hands to see if it was still nice!
I decided to order the lamb shank as I’m not a big fan of rice and it was one of the few dishes which came with something else (mashed potato!) The waiter comes over, takes our order, repeats it back to us (mentioning Lamb Shank) and went off.
Fast forward to the food coming out, I’m the last one left to receive my food. He plonks the plate down and I noticed straight away it obviously wasn’t a lamb shank, I query whether this was mine - he says ‘yes you ordered lamb shashlik’
I disagreed but said ‘you know what, it’s fine don’t worry, I’ll have this’ I didnt want to make a big hoo haa over it as I wasn’t paying… he couldn’t just leave it though, he doubled down ‘you definitely ordered the shashlik’ I said ‘I didn’t but don’t worry it’s fine’
He later returned to the table to check we were happy and pointed out again ‘you definitely didn’t order the lamb shank, I remember very well you said shashlik’ in fact he returned to remind me four times. To be honest I wasn’t that bothered… I didn’t get why he kept coming back to insist what I had (or hadn’t ordered) all in all I was pretty chilled about it, mistakes happen! 😂
Fast forward again to when we ordered dessert, he brought me out a free Expresso Martini to apologise for the mixup - which I thanked him for. We made a joke of the situation and parted in good terms.
My criticism is he could have just let it go at the start but he just made it more of an issue by bringing it up through the whole meal. Can anyone who works in the hospitality industry tell me why he wouldn’t just leave it and let the awkward situation go? If I was a difficult customer I’d understand the defensiveness but I straight away told him it was cool 😂 I was wondering was me being nice the reason for the free cocktail or did he likely realise his mistake?
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I decided to order the lamb shank as I’m not a big fan of rice and it was one of the few dishes which came with something else (mashed potato!) The waiter comes over, takes our order, repeats it back to us (mentioning Lamb Shank) and went off.
Fast forward to the food coming out, I’m the last one left to receive my food. He plonks the plate down and I noticed straight away it obviously wasn’t a lamb shank, I query whether this was mine - he says ‘yes you ordered lamb shashlik’
I disagreed but said ‘you know what, it’s fine don’t worry, I’ll have this’ I didnt want to make a big hoo haa over it as I wasn’t paying… he couldn’t just leave it though, he doubled down ‘you definitely ordered the shashlik’ I said ‘I didn’t but don’t worry it’s fine’
He later returned to the table to check we were happy and pointed out again ‘you definitely didn’t order the lamb shank, I remember very well you said shashlik’ in fact he returned to remind me four times. To be honest I wasn’t that bothered… I didn’t get why he kept coming back to insist what I had (or hadn’t ordered) all in all I was pretty chilled about it, mistakes happen! 😂
Fast forward again to when we ordered dessert, he brought me out a free Expresso Martini to apologise for the mixup - which I thanked him for. We made a joke of the situation and parted in good terms.
My criticism is he could have just let it go at the start but he just made it more of an issue by bringing it up through the whole meal. Can anyone who works in the hospitality industry tell me why he wouldn’t just leave it and let the awkward situation go? If I was a difficult customer I’d understand the defensiveness but I straight away told him it was cool 😂 I was wondering was me being nice the reason for the free cocktail or did he likely realise his mistake?
2024.05.15 14:57 pohltergiest Mountains all around
 | Stupid stupid sleeping mat why won't it just have all the holes at once instead of having a new one each night. I've cut my remaining patches such that I'll have enough to cover 20 holes if necessary. I'll go to war with this thing before I give in and buy a new one. I patched the thing on the roof of the tent by dribbling water on it til I found bubbles. I'll do it again tonight and probably find more. Nasty holes. Terrible holes. submitted by pohltergiest to RainbowRamenRide [link] [comments] Anyways I slept fine, just a little interrupted. Every day I feel like I'm not sick and every morning I still am. Maybe today's the day. I dragged my ass in the morning, not moving too quick. The spot we picked was nice and chilly to let us sleep a little longer, nobody bothered us under the bridge this time. Last night we had a real treat in the form of a golden sunset over the mountains, hues of orange and pink lighting up the evening sky. It was very lovely. I forgot to mention we met another person doing a long distance ride, we've seen this person a few times since leaving Tokyo. Japanese travelers love pinning a piece of paper on their back that says where they're off to if they're traveling some ridiculous distance, for this person it was Tokyo to aomori. A respectable distance, but he nearly fell over when we showed him how far we've gone. Eventually we got moving and did some sightseeing. The castle in aizuwakamatsu was rebuilt in the 60's as a museum, so we read about the history of the area. In a nutshell, it used to be called Aizu up until the local clan sided with the shogunate during the Meiji restoration and caught the wrong end of a brutal smackdown. In a way it felt framed in such a way that they didn't deserve it, and the subsequent suppression of the local people has left a simmering resentment. The city was renamed Wakamatsu, but is now aizuwakamatsu, and many t-shirts for souvenirs just say Aizu. The history of the city prominently includes the story of the Byakkotai, the "white tiger unit". They are hailed as heroes, but were teenagers who rushed into battle unprepared and were either slaughtered or committed suicide after hiding in a cave. Only one survived after a failed suicide to tell the tale. I guess things were different in the past, but poorly trained child soldiers killing themselves out of clan loyalty just strikes me as a tragedy, not a heroic epic. You know who disagrees? Fascist Italy and the Nazis, both of which donated monuments to the shrine for the Byakkotai and both of which remain to this day. Alongside this bizarre tableau was the hexagonal shrine with a wooden spiral staircase, the only Edo period wooden structure still around and one of the oldest in the world. Honestly I'm surprised they let people walk through it, it felt so old. But they managed to build a double helix tower many hundreds of years ago and I was duly impressed. The ancient rafters and walls were covered in paper pasted to the walls to indicate a particular pilgrim was there. None of the old timey stickers looked new, as I imagine if people still did it the shrine would be covered like feathers on a bird. People did feel the need to scrawl their names in the wood of the wall directly, though. The whole place looked like it is in need of refurbishment and maybe someone to scold people with pocket knives. After the shrine, we stopped to get some sandwiches at a conbini and then a drug store to get me better meds. The bufferin just wasn't working and I needed something to help me clear the congestion in me. We found some better meds and in took those. The feelings of having taken meds that really didn't work well and the stress of the heat of the day got to me and I had to stop and have a big cry. I hope I get better soon. We'll be stopping for a few days soon, I'll plan to just rest in bed. Doing a whole week of craziness followed by a week of biking in hot weather while a cold racks me has brought me to a low. Naturally, when I get real low, that's when I feel the need to do big emotional processing. I knew it would happen eventually, though I'm impressed I could avoid it for three quarters of the trip. I wanted time and space to do some thinking, some crying, and some healing. The topic is private, of course. There was a bike path that led from aizuwakamatsu to kitakata to the north and we followed that, the depths of my thoughts so severe that I barely even acknowledged I was moving at all. Bryce told me later we were going pretty fast, so I guess it's good we were somewhere I could be on autopilot. The views in the valley were lovely, the panoramic mountains ringing the bowl shaped valley we were in. We biked towards snow capped mountains, but I was fully turned inwards, my process taking all of my focus. Before too long we were in kitakata, a city that reminded Bryce of Roblin in Manitoba. It was a pretty quiet place, and rural too. It was known as one of the big three ramen regions in Japan, the second of which we've seen. We found the place that is most well known in Japan for kitakata ramen and got in line there. It was busy, as to be expected, but we got in relatively fast. We got the usual, whatever was the house special with extra chashu for protein. While the noodles were excellent, we both found the broth a bit boring, a pork on pork experience. It didn't taste particularly deep or complex, and was almost simple to a fault. Perhaps we've reached the limits of our tastes here, but it was just okay to our palate. We got back on the bike route north, hoping it would continue a bit further before we had to get on the mountain highway. We would have to eventually, as no other roads led through the mountain pass. The bike route wasn't listed on the map, but was in front of us, so we pressed on. Much like the previous section it was a raised lane with gentle curves, likely an old rail line. This path eventually spit us out near an onsen, and then we were on our own. The road we wanted to take onto the highway was unexpectedly closed, so we had to detour up a road that went on top of a dam nearby. We enjoyed seeing some more wisteria, the ones around here growing wild and festively adorning trees in pale purple blossoms. The dam was big, and had a road on top to ride on. I wanted to see the penstock and the spillway, the latter far below the road we biked on. Below in the shadow of the dam was a defiant onsen, oddly juxtaposed against the huge forward wall of the dam. We took some time to figure out what road would take us up to the highway which was some 100m above the dam. One road went into a tunnel and seemed a sure bet from the road signs near it, the other wound around the dam reservoir and disappeared into the woods. Looking at our maps, one said the road would continue and join up later, the other two disagreed saying the road ended. I voted for the sure bet, Bryce agreed but bet me a rice ball the road went through. The tunnel indeed brought us up to the road, which was less of a road and more a series of bridges interspersed with tunnels piercing the mountaintops. It felt like we were on a great arc that hit the tips of every mountain, the gentle gradient of the road more important than anything else. We appreciated the easier climb, but the tunnels were tricky. Many of them had construction ongoing, so we were escorted through one set of tunnels to avoid stopping traffic in the single lane that switched directions periodically. At each tunnel entrance we worried the construction worker would bar our way but most were friendly, apologizing but firmly telling us where to go. As we approached a very long tunnel, an excitable construction worker stopped us and told us many things, but the best parts we could gleam were that the tunnel ahead was very long and we needed to have lights on inside. The tunnel was indeed long, the longest we've been permitted in this far at 4km. The tunnel was completely straight too, giving a bizarre feeling of being in an infinite tube, perspective lines perfectly converging. The perspective made it feel like we were going uphill, but my speed told me it was downhill. Very confusing. Eventually we made it out and begun a very long and coasting descent, the grade again just gentle enough that we could coast at full speed and not tap the brakes. Usually we bike up the mountain just to waste the energy on brakes on the way down, here we could coast a lovely 10km, perhaps getting a little chilly from the lack of pedaling. Yonezawa was our destination for the day, and despite really wanting to take it easy we still somehow did 100km. Tired and dirty, we took our biking clothes to a laundromat and went for dinner at a Chinese place. We had a black bean pork dish that was sticky and good, a chili fried chicken dish that was delicious but full of bones, and a fried rice that was mediocre at best. Waiting for our laundry to come out of the dryer, we had some snacks and commented that this city was extremely quiet at night. Not much activity going on here. Bryce had a park in mind for camping, so we went there. We landed up making our way to the back of the park and found a spot to camp behind a few trees in a weedy area. Nobody should care we're here, but we're near a train line and every so often a passenger train roars by with big booming noises. Hopefully it doesn't run too early, but we might get woken up. With the new meds, this evening is feeling better than days previous, though I have a lot on my mind for processing right now. A good sleep will help with that. |
2024.05.15 14:57 0ddVoid Admitting hard truths on the path of recovery
I just wanted to start this by saying thank you to you all! It's hard to believe that I found this community I want to say eight years ago. I was working a shitty job and I didn't feel like I belonged there and people didn't make it easy there either. I want to say that I was the major problem. I know it's scary to see a large man who is so intensely quiet at times. I know it's scary seeing a man not act like anyone you know. Honestly I don't know how my mind works and I think that's what everyone else is thinking as well.
But it was there that I started googling as they say. I tried every search I could and all of them usually brought up the suicide hotline. That wasn't a comfort. But then I started trying focusing on that part of myself that I know does set me apart. I searched for something and anything for other homeschoolers who'd understand. I went through a lot of homeschool positive forums and such before I eventually landed here.
It was overwhelming. I had people I could talk to about this and they'd understand what it was like. While I wasn't as isolated or abused as many of the post on here show. My abuse was and will always be more mental. It was always shame, isolation and more shame and it was shame at normal things. And it was shame that hurt me from myself.
Many accounts and posts and years later and I've gotten better. It takes a lot of hard work to get here. But I'm feeling more myself and less how everyone else treated me. I'll always be weird though and that's a character strength at this point. But I'm sorry to you all for my many posts and trauma dumps and repeated trauma dumps. It was all to at least feel as if someone else was listen for once and often times that's all you really need to feel.
I've give advice here now for how I think recovery comes from something like this.
As much as I hate to self diagnose because of how unscientific it is. It's expensive to be tested. But I have all the hallmarks of being autistic. I can keep my own company, have very specific interests, and I'm just always off in my own little world and when I try to approach others I just can't find the words sometimes. I also most definitely also have a mood disorder of some kind. With everything I've found, I can hopefully fix it or learn to live with it.
One of the founding fathers of Rocketeering was a homeschooler and his name was Jack Parsons. (Kind of used the first link I found, sorry if it's not the best. He's worth reading about!) While we no next to nothing about his schooling or his experience with it and around it. It definitely left a mark on him. But he had a saying with his other weird and nerdy friends he mad in school, when he did eventually get out of homeschooling and it was this
Per Aspera Ad Astra - Through Hardship to the Stars
I want you to know that even though things are scary for the world right now that you are apart of something. That everyone is. That each and everyday brings us all closer and together. That there is always a tomorrow, no matter what anyone says. That you are living in the best time to be alive as we don't know what to expect next. We are all part of the future and best of all you get the chance to help build that future. No matter how small that lego block is. We'll eventually get a skyscraper!
I love and hope for you all. I think it's time I take my ideas and go bug some other subreddits and other social medias. Take care and love yourselves.
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But it was there that I started googling as they say. I tried every search I could and all of them usually brought up the suicide hotline. That wasn't a comfort. But then I started trying focusing on that part of myself that I know does set me apart. I searched for something and anything for other homeschoolers who'd understand. I went through a lot of homeschool positive forums and such before I eventually landed here.
It was overwhelming. I had people I could talk to about this and they'd understand what it was like. While I wasn't as isolated or abused as many of the post on here show. My abuse was and will always be more mental. It was always shame, isolation and more shame and it was shame at normal things. And it was shame that hurt me from myself.
Many accounts and posts and years later and I've gotten better. It takes a lot of hard work to get here. But I'm feeling more myself and less how everyone else treated me. I'll always be weird though and that's a character strength at this point. But I'm sorry to you all for my many posts and trauma dumps and repeated trauma dumps. It was all to at least feel as if someone else was listen for once and often times that's all you really need to feel.
I've give advice here now for how I think recovery comes from something like this.
- If your still being homeschooled, never stop asking to get out of it. I remember all the times that I tried pushing on my parents to send me to school. It wasn't very many attempts and I always thought they'd remember. But really their adult lives were and are overwheled by the adult world. Parents get to busy with things outside of the home. They won't remember. So push and keep asking to go to public school. Cause their not going to see consequences of this. For the more tricky parents, well I don't know what to tell you there, I'm sorry. Your just gonna have to be very manipulative with them if their the crazy who doesn't listen to their child.
- If you done with homeschooling and your still living with them. Then please only focus on getting out first before you start the process of digesting all your life's experienced. This is important because your going to feel intense emotions and trying to process it all while your living with them won't make things easy for you.
- Is to take the incredible supplement known as L-theanine as it acts like a mild anti depressant. This was just huge for the comfort it brought me and it's super safe to use. Just whatever you do don't mix it with medication that also effects your brain. It also sometimes doesn't make things better. It's a very low percent of population that gets a bad side effect. But I'm still going to recommend this little amino acid at wal mart just because it helped me were medications couldn't.
- consume any and all media that shows realistic human social interactions. I wouldn't be who I am today without all the great fantastic characters I've seen and read about from manga to 90s television. Just don't fall down some dark hole and think it's all real. But it's going to take the imaginary to help you turn things into a reality.
- Is to give yourself the grace of moving at your own speed. Both mentally and physically. It'll take you a while to do things and it's going to get embarrassing no matter what. But that speed limit you find for yourself is there for just as much safety as anyone driving on a concrete road. Let the ass holes pass you by. Cause their gonna make mistakes and your going to be the one who learns from them.
- Is to limit or remove any and all distractions. We have nothing but screens in front of our eyes anymore and that doesn't do a world of good for our minds and attention spans. When you do this you free up some processing power for your brain. That's processing power that can help you with learning new things or dealing with your trauma.
- GET WEIRD!!!!! Now that may seem a little strange that your learning to be normal and act like a functioning member of the Earth. But really, everyone has some weird thing about them. Everyone has something unlikable about them. While it isn't your job to find that in them, I think it's important to be aware of that part of yourself.
- Find a good therapist. It takes a lot of tries tell you find someone that's right for you. But even going to a therapist you don't like can still give you helpful hints and perspectives. It's really worth trying. Cause your worth the effort.
As much as I hate to self diagnose because of how unscientific it is. It's expensive to be tested. But I have all the hallmarks of being autistic. I can keep my own company, have very specific interests, and I'm just always off in my own little world and when I try to approach others I just can't find the words sometimes. I also most definitely also have a mood disorder of some kind. With everything I've found, I can hopefully fix it or learn to live with it.
One of the founding fathers of Rocketeering was a homeschooler and his name was Jack Parsons. (Kind of used the first link I found, sorry if it's not the best. He's worth reading about!) While we no next to nothing about his schooling or his experience with it and around it. It definitely left a mark on him. But he had a saying with his other weird and nerdy friends he mad in school, when he did eventually get out of homeschooling and it was this
Per Aspera Ad Astra - Through Hardship to the Stars
I want you to know that even though things are scary for the world right now that you are apart of something. That everyone is. That each and everyday brings us all closer and together. That there is always a tomorrow, no matter what anyone says. That you are living in the best time to be alive as we don't know what to expect next. We are all part of the future and best of all you get the chance to help build that future. No matter how small that lego block is. We'll eventually get a skyscraper!
I love and hope for you all. I think it's time I take my ideas and go bug some other subreddits and other social medias. Take care and love yourselves.
2024.05.15 14:56 QueenDianaSpencer How can I make sure she doesn’t feed my baby solids, without my consent
Arabic country here.
I have a 4 month old and I’m staying with my husband’s sister & mother. His sis is a middle aged unmarried lady with no kids and is horrible with kids in my opinion but I haven’t told her that.
I safely let my baby girl TASTE foods. There’s a method where she’s upright and I have it mushed to puree in my mouth and let her take a lick or 2 (banana, or apple) to the form of a sauce and that’s all. Maybe once a week. She’s on formula otherwise. I do that because she’s highly interested in foods like INSANELY food curious and in a safe way.
My husband’s sis keeps insisting we feed her. Once she put a chopped carrot in her mouth (while she was laying on her back) which is dangerous, she keeps saying she wants to feed her a banana, she will put the whole banana in her mouth and I kinda have to say “NO please that’s it.” And earlier today she begged to spoon feed her halawa, a dry sesame paste. I said ok as long as I mush it up with my mouth and finger feed her a small, half a pea sized dollop. Just a smear.
I’m scared she’s gonna feed my daughter behind my back.
She already took videos of my baby naked and sent it to a group chat that I wasn’t included in, and worse is she had poop smeared on her butt. (Diaper change) I only found out when a relative let it slip & told her the dangers of having these kinds of infant photos circulating on any online server. My jaw dropped because I had no idea she was taking careless pics of my baby and sharing it with the f*king world. My brothers other sisters quickly shushed the relative who accidentally let this is info slip, and tried to push me out of the room to pretend this never happened. They had her back. When I walked to the other room furious and trying to collect my composure, I heard them all telling that stupid sis in law to hurry and delete the video.
I came back in the room and gently tried to tell everyone that I think I know what’s going on, and how I don’t like anyone taking pics of my baby without clothes on. They said ok.
Now, how can I tell my stupid sis in law not to feed my baby behind my back, only i can? I feel like im being mean if i say it like that, or as if im attacking her. I wanna tell my husband to talk to her, but then ill be that wife who tells her husband everything behind their backs, and then they will think im sneaky
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I have a 4 month old and I’m staying with my husband’s sister & mother. His sis is a middle aged unmarried lady with no kids and is horrible with kids in my opinion but I haven’t told her that.
I safely let my baby girl TASTE foods. There’s a method where she’s upright and I have it mushed to puree in my mouth and let her take a lick or 2 (banana, or apple) to the form of a sauce and that’s all. Maybe once a week. She’s on formula otherwise. I do that because she’s highly interested in foods like INSANELY food curious and in a safe way.
My husband’s sis keeps insisting we feed her. Once she put a chopped carrot in her mouth (while she was laying on her back) which is dangerous, she keeps saying she wants to feed her a banana, she will put the whole banana in her mouth and I kinda have to say “NO please that’s it.” And earlier today she begged to spoon feed her halawa, a dry sesame paste. I said ok as long as I mush it up with my mouth and finger feed her a small, half a pea sized dollop. Just a smear.
I’m scared she’s gonna feed my daughter behind my back.
She already took videos of my baby naked and sent it to a group chat that I wasn’t included in, and worse is she had poop smeared on her butt. (Diaper change) I only found out when a relative let it slip & told her the dangers of having these kinds of infant photos circulating on any online server. My jaw dropped because I had no idea she was taking careless pics of my baby and sharing it with the f*king world. My brothers other sisters quickly shushed the relative who accidentally let this is info slip, and tried to push me out of the room to pretend this never happened. They had her back. When I walked to the other room furious and trying to collect my composure, I heard them all telling that stupid sis in law to hurry and delete the video.
I came back in the room and gently tried to tell everyone that I think I know what’s going on, and how I don’t like anyone taking pics of my baby without clothes on. They said ok.
Now, how can I tell my stupid sis in law not to feed my baby behind my back, only i can? I feel like im being mean if i say it like that, or as if im attacking her. I wanna tell my husband to talk to her, but then ill be that wife who tells her husband everything behind their backs, and then they will think im sneaky
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2024.05.15 14:56 saralouis My husband’s lifelong porn addiction led him to doing something absolutely disgusting in his past. I have no clue where to go from here.
My husband has had a porn addiction all of his life and it started affecting our marriage at one point. He started going to therapy for it and things really did seem better until he came home from a session and told me he needed to tell me something. He was crying hard so I was terrified of what he would tell me. I’d never ever seen him cry.
He then confessed to me that years before we met, his addiction spiraled out of control to the point where porn and reality became confused for him. He had gotten into more, um, taboo forms of porn, and it completely overtook him. I’ll just be blunt- he seduced his own sister.
This sister was his half-sister on his mother’s side, 13 years older than himself. Due to the age gap they were never close but still knew each other as brother and sister. He was living with her and her husband (oh yeah, she was also married) when this happened. He was 20 years old.
According to him, he was just in a state where his taboo desires were stronger than anything else and he “simply couldn’t NOT do it”. The way he described it was exactly like a porno. Warning, I’m going to get a little graphic and gross. But he approached her to offer her a massage, she took him up on it, and the “massage” reached places it shouldn’t have.
…And somehow the sister went for it.
This went on for months under his brother in law’s nose. I managed to ask him if he ever felt guilty or gross about it and he said “no, I felt like the man. I thought I was doing something every guy secretly wanted to do since there were so many pornos about it.” And then his brother-in-law kicked them out because he found a new girlfriend he wanted to move in and their relationship fell apart soon after. He has had no contact with this sister in almost a decade. She was already estranged from their mom.
He made it clear that he regrets it now which is why he never told me. And he decided to tell me because he mentioned it to this therapist and suddenly felt very guilty for keeping it from me. He begged me to not see him differently and to understand that it was nothing but a porn addiction gone haywire.
I told him I needed time to think. I’ve been crying on and off just completely confused about what to do. We don’t have kids yet but now I’m a bit afraid to. The fact that both him AND his sister saw no problem with this makes me worry that it’s something in his bloodline and deeper than an unhinged porn addiction. Not to mention I’m pretty sure what they did is literally illegal.
Please, please help me.
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He then confessed to me that years before we met, his addiction spiraled out of control to the point where porn and reality became confused for him. He had gotten into more, um, taboo forms of porn, and it completely overtook him. I’ll just be blunt- he seduced his own sister.
This sister was his half-sister on his mother’s side, 13 years older than himself. Due to the age gap they were never close but still knew each other as brother and sister. He was living with her and her husband (oh yeah, she was also married) when this happened. He was 20 years old.
According to him, he was just in a state where his taboo desires were stronger than anything else and he “simply couldn’t NOT do it”. The way he described it was exactly like a porno. Warning, I’m going to get a little graphic and gross. But he approached her to offer her a massage, she took him up on it, and the “massage” reached places it shouldn’t have.
…And somehow the sister went for it.
This went on for months under his brother in law’s nose. I managed to ask him if he ever felt guilty or gross about it and he said “no, I felt like the man. I thought I was doing something every guy secretly wanted to do since there were so many pornos about it.” And then his brother-in-law kicked them out because he found a new girlfriend he wanted to move in and their relationship fell apart soon after. He has had no contact with this sister in almost a decade. She was already estranged from their mom.
He made it clear that he regrets it now which is why he never told me. And he decided to tell me because he mentioned it to this therapist and suddenly felt very guilty for keeping it from me. He begged me to not see him differently and to understand that it was nothing but a porn addiction gone haywire.
I told him I needed time to think. I’ve been crying on and off just completely confused about what to do. We don’t have kids yet but now I’m a bit afraid to. The fact that both him AND his sister saw no problem with this makes me worry that it’s something in his bloodline and deeper than an unhinged porn addiction. Not to mention I’m pretty sure what they did is literally illegal.
Please, please help me.
2024.05.15 14:55 August-800 Sick with flu/covid at WDW, so disappointing
I’m on a 14 night trip from the UK, which I saved up for for years.
I got a niggly but not serious cough about a week in. I didn’t think anything of it as I thought it was just dryness from air con. But by night 10 I was coughing like crazy and then spiked a fever. I’ve been in bed feeling awful for two days since.
The only upside is that if I had to get sick, this is probably the best time. We had thankfully already ridden most of the rides we wanted to and were starting to take it a little easier, picking our favourites and going back to them. And hopefully the worst of my symptoms will have passed before my 10 hour flight home.
Though I did miss our Space 220 reservation last night and will miss our Oga’s tonight which is gutting.
It is just so frustrating because getting sick on vacation is one of my biggest fears, especially a vacation I planned and waited so long for. I wore a mask on the plane and in the airport, and have been sanitising/washing my hands diligently. Admittedly though, I haven’t been wearing masks in queues or on Disney transport.
I guess I just wanted to get this off my chest, and to warn people that if you’re on the fence with wearing a mask - just do it. It sucks being sick in the most magical place on earth.
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I got a niggly but not serious cough about a week in. I didn’t think anything of it as I thought it was just dryness from air con. But by night 10 I was coughing like crazy and then spiked a fever. I’ve been in bed feeling awful for two days since.
The only upside is that if I had to get sick, this is probably the best time. We had thankfully already ridden most of the rides we wanted to and were starting to take it a little easier, picking our favourites and going back to them. And hopefully the worst of my symptoms will have passed before my 10 hour flight home.
Though I did miss our Space 220 reservation last night and will miss our Oga’s tonight which is gutting.
It is just so frustrating because getting sick on vacation is one of my biggest fears, especially a vacation I planned and waited so long for. I wore a mask on the plane and in the airport, and have been sanitising/washing my hands diligently. Admittedly though, I haven’t been wearing masks in queues or on Disney transport.
I guess I just wanted to get this off my chest, and to warn people that if you’re on the fence with wearing a mask - just do it. It sucks being sick in the most magical place on earth.