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2020.01.23 08:08 ooglar VALORANT

VALORANT™ is a free to play 5v5, character-based tactical shooter by Riot Games.
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2013.03.15 04:51 IGiveFreeCompliments FreeCompliments: we won't let you leave without a smile! 😃

A SFW subreddit created specifically for giving out free compliments! Want to contribute to the happiness of random humans? Come here and give out a few compliments! Feeling all right but just want a compliment? You're totally welcome here as well! Important disclaimer: this subreddit is not for dishing out advice! We're here to give out compliments and bring smiles - don't expect more! :)
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2024.05.14 01:28 SatisfactionOld8678 Dog won’t stop eating cats food

Hi everyone, for context I just moved home from college into my parents house with our family dog. My cat is a grazer and does not eat a lot at a time so I always just leave kibble out for him & then feed him wet food in small portions twice a day. Our dog will not stop eating the cats food & im not sure what to do. It’s not a situation where I can just lock them in separate areas of the house as I don’t feel that would be fair to either of them to not have free range. Does anyone have any advice or hacks that I can do to keep my dog from eating his food?
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2024.05.14 01:27 Fun_Reason5988 broke my own rule and got this one from an EBay flipper. I paid $50 shipped. In Target they’re basically $35,$36 after taxes? The closest Target to me is 80 miles and 100s in any other direction.

broke my own rule and got this one from an EBay flipper. I paid $50 shipped. In Target they’re basically $35,$36 after taxes? The closest Target to me is 80 miles and 100s in any other direction.
I’ve been pissed at myself for buying a figure from a flipper. I justified in my own mind because it was $50 and I talked him into free shipping. The closest Target to me is 80 miles and 100s in any other direction. That’d mean I’d have to drive 80 miles and take a chance on them not having one in stock. It works out till he made $15 and fuck him for that but I’d likely have paid double that in gas and have no guarantee they’d have him. I’d almost guarantee they wouldn’t have him.That one gets hit hard by scalpers and rarely have much of anything. I’d love to know what everone else would’ve done in my situation? I feel like such a whore. 😂 
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2024.05.14 01:27 zbdub3 Stop Dribbling Jaylen

JFC. Highest paid player in the NBA STILL doesn’t have a left hand. Constantly turning it over and missing free throws. He’ll drop a single 30 point game in playoffs and most fans just forgive him. Why are we paying him? Imagine the haul of talent/ picks we could get for him and our offense would be so much more fluid.
I genuinely like Brown, but he just doesn’t seem to fit this play style imo.
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2024.05.14 01:26 blue_ella Dealing with lewd behavior and sexual harassment in daily life

I’m an inverse triangle and pretty short at 5’2” so the eye focus naturally falls on my chest. I’ve always been restricted by the females in my family on what I can and cannot wear so I grew up wearing modest clothes, and I still do to this day. So it’s definitely not on what I wear.
Now that I’m in my mid 20’s I been experiencing a lot of harassment and it has gotten to the point where I can’t control myself no longer. I feel so mentally exhausted and numb after interactions with these men. I want to scream and cry because no one in my family stands up for me. They typically tell me to hush and keep quiet and to ignore the offenders. Or once I was blamed that I instigated the man first for him to react the way he did on me. I’m at the point where I want to wrap my chest to make it flat as possible or just grab a kitchen knife and slice them off bec I can’t afford a reduction in my country. I tried looking into Turkey but plane tickets are insane and they say I will have to stay for about 8 days which will cost about same after all costs considered.
Last week we hired an electrician who we had worked with for years and today him and I were texting about when he should come over bec he missed his appointment. After 1 hour of ending our conversation he WhatsApps me an explicit pornographic picture then deletes it after I see it. If you use WhatsApp you know how many times you have to click separate things to send someone a picture. I was in utter shock and anger and told him straight up I want a discount. He then sends a 2nd picture that prohibits you to screenshot saying to call him when I’m free. It’s been a couple hours and I’ve been ghosting him but he’s still randomly messaging me. For your knowledge I asked for a $500 discount He has my dad’s number and it’s his home where the electrician will be working so he should be contacting him not me in first place. I think he’s scared of me telling my dad and the consequences that will follow bec I did not act in his way. It’s been 3 hours and he won’t stop messaging me. He now left a voice message and it’s of the most random-ist thing ever.
Also it seems fair to mention he and his father-in-law has worked simultaneously at my property, and I have met his wife. Yes, his wife who is so beautiful and kind. His father-in-law is very traditional and intimidating man. I want to tell his wife on what happened but my friends are saying what if I am overreacting and it was a mistake. I really don’t feel it based on his messages following the picture but please comment on what I should do. No I do not have to balls to tell my dad he send me that picture, we are very conservative
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2024.05.14 01:26 George-Ing Final haul from a Japan Trip

Final haul from a Japan Trip
Final cost: ~500 USD inc. complete VB with tap.
Last week I posted a couple of titbits about my in-progress trip to Japan. Since then, a few people have reached out to ask about 2024 VB game stock levels, prices, etc, and now I’m back I thought I’d write a proper post.
I’m sure a lot of this is known information but if it helps one person then well, that’s OK!
So firstly - this wasn’t a retro games trip for me. I visited with friends to sightsee first-and-foremost; but I’ve wanted a Virtual Boy for years, so I’d planned to use any downtime I could find to go on a hunt for any gems.
Given my trip, this meant most of my time was spent around population centres - namely Tokyo (yikes!), Kyoto, Osaka, Nara and Nagoya. A problem I’d imagine a lot of people will face!
Despite the obvious challenges, during my ten days in Japan, I managed to pick up 10 brand new boxed games and a boxed Virtual Boy for around $500 total. While this might not be the heyday of Japan VB finds, I was pleased to find there were some pretty decent deals out there.
So. Here’s what I experienced as a first-timer:
  • To state the obvious, Akihabara (in-general) and Super Potato (Nagoya + Akihabara) weren’t great. There were some cute stores, but for the most part any VB games and consoles were consistently at eBay levels and higher. At Super Potato, vanilla Mario Tennis was over 4 times (!) what I paid for it brand new two days earlier (yikes!).
  • Nakano Broadway was often recommended before my trip, and was 100% on my list to hit up. Some reasonably priced stores, but I came back empty handed. Save for a $250 kinda-beat copy of Warioland, I didn’t manage to spot any Virtual Boy titles. This may just be poor timing, so I’d love to know what others find!
  • Nagoya’s Akamon Arcade I found surprisingly good, with a small selection of reasonably priced Virtual Boy games spread between its handful of retro game stores. A nice new copy of Teleroboxer for $30 was welcome. A recommendation if you make it out to the Ghibli Park.
  • More generally, Suragaya was the absolute godsend of the trip. I managed to pick up at least one brand new Virtual Boy game at every Surugaya I visited, and the VB itself. I would note a few things about Surugaya:
  • Their online stock helper typically only showed a small portion of what was in stock at a particular store, so I found visiting was worthwhile regardless.
  • However, when they did show something as in stock in a particular store, it typically was accurate, though prices rarely matched what was online (I saw both higher and lower in store - a VB priced at 56,000 online was 79,000 in store! Eeep!)
  • I picked up a couple of games in smaller independent stores in Nagoya, only to find them later in Surugaya at lower prices. I liked the balance between convenience (they’re often near population centres) and reasonable price at Surugaya.
  • Finally, as of writing, Surugaya Shinjuku has Golf, Baseball, V-Tetris, Mario Clash, and Bomberman in stock.
  • For rarer games in 2024; I had less luck in both Surugaya and in general. I found a couple of copies of Jack Bros, Warioland etc at independent stores - but all at prices not far off what you’d pay online. I’d be fairly confident that there are deals out there; but less so where I was visiting!
  • Picking up a console itself was easily the biggest challenge of the trip. For the most part stores seemed to be out of stock or marking them up in the 80-100,000 yen range. In fact, I only encountered four in stock during my entire trip. I fortunately got lucky with a four-hour detour out to Surugaya Honjo once my friends had left (final price 41,000 boxed!). So decent deals do still exist, but it might not be easy!
That’s my brain dump of what I saw during my trip while it’s still fresh. I hope it helps. If anyone’s planning a trip and has questions about stock levels in specific stores etc, I’m happy to hang around in the comments!
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2024.05.14 01:26 JohannGoethe Nah, don't flatter yourself. You aren't known in Russia

Nah, don't flatter yourself. You aren't known in Russia
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Nah, don't flatter yourself. You aren't known in Russia.
See the following:
You will see that I’m cited in about a dozen or more Russian articles, beginning in A51 (2006).
Anyway it is not “myself”, e.g. you will see that my legal name is reverse anagram for Bill Smith, aka “American John Doe”, which means “anonymous”, rather I thought the comment made was about rather I envisioned that
The following script dialogue, written by Andrew Walker, key terms bolded, exemplifies the situation well:
  • Somerset: Who are you, John? Who are you really?
  • John Doe: What do you mean?
  • Somerset: Well, I mean, at this stage, what harm can it do to tell us a bit about yourself?
  • John Doe: Doesn't matter who I am. Who I am means absolutely nothing. (conversationally) You need to stay on your left up here.
This “who I am means nothing” resonates with me well.
  • Mills: So where are we heading?
  • John Doe: You'll see.
  • Mills: We're not just going to pick up two more dead bodies, are we, John? That wouldn't be shocking enough. You've got newspapers to think about, yeah?
  • John Doe: Wanting people to listen...you can't just...tap them on the shoulder anymore. You have to hit them with a sledgehammer. Then you'll notice you've got their strict attention.
  • Mills: But the question is: what makes you so special that people should listen?
  • John Doe: I'm not special. I've never been exceptional. This is, though. What I'm doing. My work.
This is the key section. The “work” that is being done is exceptional, not me. “When a force moves a body through a unit distance, work is done” (Clausius, On the Mechanical Theory of Heat (pg. 1), 76A (1879) English translation by Water Browne). To understand this, which I‘m sure you won’t, you have to understand that the force that moves us to do or perform work, comes from “behind us”, the same way it does for chemicals in a heated ☀️ chemistry 🧪 beaker. All of this was explained in JohannGoethe’s novel ElectiveAffinities.
Once I had read this novel, in A51 (2006), after I had already calculated the 26-element formula (A47/2002) for HumanMolecule, presently cited at Harvard’s BioNumbers here (standard) and here (empirical), and drafted a 3-volume Human Thermodynamics “manuscript”, I decided or rather could “feel” that it was my duty to Goethe to write the world’s fist HumanChemistry textbook, published in A52 (2007).
Now, to clarify, having already noted that Goethe said the following: “not many kinds words were vouchsafed me about that [ ElectiveAffinities, 146A/1809] novel” on 18 Jan 127A (1827), 18–years after his novel was published, at the age of 78, I very clearly realized that I was writing to or rather “for the future”, and tried to write ✍️ each page of Human Chemistry to be readable to minds existive a 1,000-years from now. Compare: TheParty.
  • Somerset: Your work, John?
  • John Doe: Yes.
  • Mills: See, I...I don't...I don't see anything special about it, John.
  • John Doe: That's not true.
  • Mills: No, it is true. And the funny thing is, all this work...two months from now, no one's gonna care, no one's gonna give a shit. No one's gonna remember.
This one resonates also well with me. I’m sure that if you were speaking freely, you would tell me the same thing, such as: “no one gives a shit about your human molecule, human chemistry, or HumanChemThermo theories in Russia!”
Certainly this may very well be true, particularly for russian language sub members, who likely have never stepped foot in a science classroom.
The point, however, is that the “work” Goethe did, in writing ✍️ ElectiveAffinities (146A/1809), and the “work” I did in writing the 818-page two-volume ✍️ Human Chemistry (A52/2007), and the “work” that American chemical engineer William Fairburn did in writing his 55-page booklet Human Chemistry (41A/1914), which discusses the “entropy” of reactive “human chemical elements”, aka person = HumanMolecule, and the “work” that Kevin Walker did in writing ✍️ the novel turned film) Seven (A40/1995), with which we are now employing in conversation, is something that is “conserved” in the universe, according to Clausius.
This “conservation” of work, however, is something that I’m sure you will never understand, because your mindset is predisposed to defining me as “rude and entitled“ and I guess a nobody in Russia?
Yet if we compare the same question, about letter origin, asked in the previous 5-days, at the following three language subs: learn_arabic, German, Syriac, visually summarized here, we will see that I we have very polite and respectful dialogue.
The problem with your Russian sub, presumably, is that because my photo was shown in the article along side of: Euler, Poincare, Willard Gibbs, Nikolay Bogolyubov (Никола́й Боголю́бов), Lars Onsager, Euler, Sadi Carnot, and Clausius, it set the mood off wrong, resulting in everyone attacking me?
  • John Doe: You can't see the whole complete act yet. But when this is done... when it's finished...it's gonna be... People will barely be able to comprehend. But they won't be able to deny.
  • Mills: Could the freak be any more vague? I mean, as far as master plans go, John--
I‘m sure you will like to call me a freak too? But as to “you can’t see the whole complete act yet”, this is the situation with the typical person. That most people, aside from a great minds like HenryAdams, cannot “see” 👀 the complete act yet, is evidenced by the fact that there is one member of the ElectiveAffinities sub, launched: 3 May A69 (2024).
In short, the work that I am doing now, and the work that Goethe did 215-years ago, or the work that Nietzsche did 146-years ago, in his Human, All Too Human, aphorism #1, shown below, is work produced by a “force” that only the future, possibly centuries from now, but more likely a millennia from now, will come to realize, as self-evident.
Visual of the future view of things:
https://preview.redd.it/3z51ka522a0d1.jpg?width=1801&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d483caae040ca5964501117818122765821a18d1
Nietzsche Human, All Too Human
German English
Chemie der Begriffe und Empfindungen Chemistry and the Notion of the Feelings
Die philosophischen Probleme nehmen jetzt wieder fast in allen Stücken dieselbe Form der Frage an, wie vor zweitausend Jahren: wie kann Etwas aus seinem Gegensatz entstehen, zum Beispiel Vernünftiges aus Vernunftlosem, Empfindendes aus Todtem, Logik aus Unlogik, interesseloses Anschauen aus begehrlichem Wollen, Leben für Andere aus Egoismus, Wahrheit aus Irrthümern? Die metaphysische Philosophie half sich bisher über diese Schwierigkeit hinweg, insofern sie die Entstehung des Einen aus dem Andern leugnete und für die höher gewertheten Dinge einen Wunder-Ursprung annahm, unmittelbar aus dem Kern und Wesen des „Dinges an sich“ heraus. Die historische Philosophie dagegen, welche gar nicht mehr getrennt von der Naturwissenschaft zu denken ist, die allerjüngste aller philosophischen Methoden, ermittelte in einzelnen Fällen (und vermuthlich wird diess in allen ihr Ergebniss sein), dass es keine Gegensätze sind, ausser in der gewohnten Übertreibung der populären oder metaphysischen Auffassung und dass ein Irrthum der Vernunft dieser Gegenüberstellung zu Grunde liegt: Philosophical problems, in almost all their aspects, present themselves in the same interrogative formula now as they did two thousand years ago: how can a thing develop out of its antithesis, e.g. the reasonable from the non-reasonable, the "animate from the inanimate" ["sentient in the dead", Hollingdale (1986)], the logical from the illogical, altruism from egoism, disinterestedness from greed, truth from error? The metaphysical philosophy formerly steered itself clear of this difficulty to such extent as to repudiate the evolution of one thing from another and to assign a miraculous origin to what it deemed highest and best, due to the very nature and being of the "thing-in-itself." The historical philosophy, on the other hand, which can no longer be viewed apart from physical science, the youngest of all philosophical methods, discovered experimentally (and its results will probably always be the same) that there is no antithesis whatever, except in the usual exaggerations of popular or metaphysical comprehension, and that an error of the reason is at the bottom of such contradiction.
nach ihrer Erklärung giebt es, streng gefasst, weder ein unegoistisches Handeln, noch ein völlig interesseloses Anschauen, es sind beides nur Sublimirungen, bei denen das Grundelement fast verflüchtigt erscheint und nur noch für die feinste Beobachtung sich als vorhanden erweist. — Alles, was wir brauchen und was erst bei der gegenwärtigen Höhe der einzelnen Wissenschaften uns gegeben werden kann, ist eine Chemie der moralischen, religiösen, ästhetischen Vorstellungen und Empfindungen, ebenso aller jener Regungen, welche wir im Gross- und Kleinverkehr der Cultur und Gesellschaft, ja in der Einsamkeit an uns erleben: wie, wenn diese Chemie mit dem Ergebniss abschlösse, dass auch auf diesem Gebiete die herrlichsten Farben aus niedrigen, ja verachteten Stoffen gewonnen sind? Werden Viele Lust haben, solchen Untersuchungen zu folgen? Die Menschheit liebt es, die Fragen über Herkunft und Anfänge sich aus dem Sinn zu schlagen: muss man nicht fast entmenscht sein, um den entgegengesetzten Hang in sich zu spüren? — There is, strictly speaking, neither unselfish conduct, nor a wholly disinterested point of view. Both are simply sublimations in which the basic element seems almost evaporated and betrays its presence only to the keenest observation. All that we need and that could possibly be given us in the present state of development of the sciences, is a chemistry of the ‘moral’, ‘religious’, ‘aesthetic conceptions and feeling, as well as of those emotions which we experience in the affairs, great and small, of society and civilization, and which we are sensible of even in solitude. But what if this chemistry established the fact that, even in its domain, the most magnificent results were attained with the basest and most despised ingredients? Would many feel disposed to continue such investigations? Mankind loves to put by the questions of its origin and beginning: must one not be almost inhuman in order to follow the opposite course?”
To repeat, and conclude, my reply to this Russian languages sub member:
All that we need and that could possibly be given us in the present state of development of the sciences, is a chemistry of the ‘moral’, ‘religious’, ‘aesthetic conceptions and feeling, as well as of those emotions which we experience in the affairs, great and small, of society and civilization, and which we are sensible of even in solitude.”
Friedrich Nietzsche (77A/1878), Human, All Too Human (§: Aphorism #1)
The day that people of the future, teach, as standard required learning, the following subjects:
  1. Moral chemistry
  2. Religious chemistry
  3. Aesthetic chemistry
  4. Emotional chemistry
  5. Feelings chemistry
  6. Social chemistry
Is the day that force, behind the “work” of Goethe, Nietzsche, Adams, Fairburn, and myself, will be realized.
The year this occurs will be when Goethe’s OTT cipher becomes accepted common common knowledge.
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I will but note, however, that we still are dating our calendar years to the birth of Horus (aka Jesus), the solar 🌞 falcon god, who dates back more than 5K+ years. Thus, who knows, maybe in 5,000 years from now, if we remain in the “dark ages”, St. Ottilia “blind ages” as Goethe says we are now presently in, we will still be dating our calendar years to this same solar falcon god?

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2024.05.14 01:25 gamedevDavid (hobby) looking for teammates for small gothic sidescroller rpg

hello name is david hobby unity game dev generalist , made about 40 small games past 5 years mostly for week long game jams , wiped out my portfolio recently to start fresh and just make games i would find enjoyable to work on and enjoyable to play , do a bit of everything except 3d modelling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n\_MwoPGEeS0 game i made in a week with a musician on here
what is game : currently in the design phase but a gothic action sidescroller where player is in hell fighting demons , we can decide certain elements of the game and mechanics together
what can i do : C # programming , visual fx , sound fx , pixel art , game design and level design animation some sound fx and atmospheric synthwave
what i am looking for : action / atmospheric composer , sound effect artist near my time zone (EDT) who is ok with me doing the audio implementation with c # programming , writer for worldbuilding and dialogue , 2nd artist for cutscenes
simple man just want to enjoy the process of making a game with those who communicate and are on the same page when it comes to a relaxed stress free work flow while having a experimental trial and error process to see what works and does not work
will be released on itch io for windows pc for free , can make a fake game jam to help with a deadline and keep the ball rolling with the games production , if we like that results of the game we can spend some additional time working on it adding more content and polish
estimated time frame - 4 - 12 weeks
if that interest you here is my discord : dawnofthedave
feel free to message me to discuss it
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2024.05.14 01:25 diggerinlife Amor Más Cerca

One of the first things when you learn to invest is to be really careful, especially when you are short selling. There is the potential of infinite losses. This is a fundamental principle, yet some big hedge funds are acting like the rules and common sense do not apply to them.
They feel overconfident, having the support of the banks and thinking that they have superior insight and control of the software systems that move the market. They also seem to believe they can manipulate them without consequences, seeing as their movements and accounts are barely supervised and regulated. So overconfident, that they've already lost a gamble, trying to take advantage of the pandemic while short selling companies like AMC and GME. Taking for granted that the individual investors - the people - wouldn't be able to see what they are doing.
Do not underestimate the people. We are getting used to surviving at least one pandemic every century, we have built the pyramids and also expressed our anger as in the French revolution. This time, the individual investors, without any organization, are at their own risk, risking the food for their families and the shelter of their rented apartments, are investing in our future, the people's future… Back in 2008 the big banks were playing dangerous games with the real estate market and their mistakes destroyed a lot of jobs, putting our people in the street. Some of us even lost loved ones because they felt that the society they lived in no longer had a place for them anymore.
Now we are saying to the big hedge funds: You don’t know how to invest the money healthily, each one of us can do it better.
They control many mainstream media sources and have a multitude of tricks at their disposal, creating unnecessary complexity and delaying the final outcome. However, we are still here enduring and reaching the final question that needs an official answer:
Is the United States market - the biggest market of the world and the key reference point for global markets - free and healthy or undermined and manipulated?
Meme stocks... We are not going to disappear in two weeks, we are making history. This is not investment advice, this is a change of rules call, a health check to the market, a well needed wealth redistribution. We have the possibility to send a message to the system: in the current world the people are aware.
We are all distracted with our complex and busy lives. So if this message catches you at the right moment and you want to be part of this movement, join The Apes in Reddit. That adds another pair of eyes to catch the next trick that they have prepared for us.
We will hold, my friend, until they run out of tricks, until the 🌑
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2024.05.14 01:24 Savings_Ad_2297 39/M I am the droid you’re looking for if you’re looking for an awesome new best friend!

Hey all! This is a bit weird for me being almost 40 and looking for friends. But here I am anyways lol. Mainly looking for someone to message throughout the day and get to know. Maybe game with if we have that in common. I do work from home so there’s no one to really talk to during the day.
I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
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2024.05.14 01:24 InverseFlash Respect Nico! (Undead Unluck)

All of you unconsciously prune information. Forget it. Feed off it at your own convenience. I remember everything. Everything. Constantly. The pain of losing my comrades. The sadness. All of the information that composes those moments…never leaves my brain for a second.

Nico Vorgeil is the head of Union's science division. An atheist turned anti-theist, he was recruited for his one of a kind skill in pioneering the understanding of the universe. The only thing that could push him even further was his own union with a woman that had intellect to match his own. However, when she died in childbirth, his Negation manifested, dooming him to suffer endlessly. He died in regret, having betrayed everything he stood for in exchange for a few fleeting moment with his late wife.
But now, Fuuko Izumo's on a quest to give everyone a happy ending. And Nico's the one she wishes that for the most…

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  • Feats are listed in order of appearance. Hover over a link to see the chapter(s) of origin.
  • Feats from chapters up to 132 are from the 100th Loop.
  • Feats from 133 on are from the 101st Loop, with this RT leaving off at 206.
  • Character profile.
  • Huge thanks to NegativeGamer and doctorgecko for creating threads that contributed to this one.

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Note: Ichico matches his number of inventions, much higher than the other lab members, so it's possible some of these belong to her.
Memory-Wiping
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Reach
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Specific - Own
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Negation: Unforgettable

Type: Self-Targeting Compulsory Activation
Tragedy: Ichico Nemuri's death in childbirth is the only memory he has of his wife
Nico's Negation prevents him from forgetting anything his mind has processed since acquiring the Negation. This in turn crushes out the memories he had from before the Negation awakened.

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I couldn't forget even if you told me to. Those words. Those memories. I've ingrained them into my soul!!

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2024.05.14 01:24 Traditional-Plan-922 my dad ruined my mother’s day

i’m a working 25 year old single mom living with my dad. i’m going through a divorce, working a crappy minimum wage job, don’t have a car or a license, doing literally anything i can to survive. my dad spent friday/saturday/sunday morning with his girlfriend. i didn’t see him sunday until an hour before i left to go to work. he watches my son for me while i work because i don’t have anyone else who can watch him. i was basically sent home early by a female coworker due to her jealousy of my relationship with my male coworker friends but excused as “it’s too slow”. i have barely any money, i can’t even afford to feed myself. 90% of the groceries i buy go to my son. i get a free meal every shift but it goes to my dad as a thank you for watching my son. i text my dad saying “on my way home now, today was a terrible day”. he asks if i’m bringing home food and i tell him not today because i just wanted to get out of there. yesterday was the ONE time i didn’t bring home food. i get home and instead of asking why i had a bad day he basically scolded me for not bringing a “payment” to him and has been in his room since then. i spent my mother’s day crying alone while he’s in his room laughing on the phone with his girlfriend. it’s been almost 24 hours since the incident and he hasn’t spoken to me or even been in the same room as me.
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2024.05.14 01:23 fruitparkinglotrocks Nannying is weird… and beautiful.

Alright Nannie’s, we’ve all been there. Bad contracts, no boundaries, weird dynamics. All the strangeness of working in someone’s home and if it’s not a fit for employment? No no no. Bad bad bad.
Well, I have been dealt the Worst™️ nanny families over the last year. I don’t say that lightly, and I happily left after advocating and properly informing agencies.
I interviewed with a family and placed with them immediately. It felt so right. But also too good to be true. However, it’s not. I’ll tell you what happened in an effort to share positivity and the ability to regain faith in humanity.
There I was, THREE TINY DAYS into employment with this family. Both parents were home when I got a call from my mother. It was the news she has breast cancer. This is devastating, and I’ll never wrap my head around it. I called my spouse right after to see if she could calm me down enough to go back into work. But of course when you get the news of your mother’s cancer, “calming down” simply isn’t going to happen. So I took deep breaths and wiped my face and went back inside to my NK and NPs.
I put on a huge smile and went to NK to get lost in her tea party. But, as I walked past, MB stopped in her tracks and said “your voice, are you okay?” I guess my voice cracked when I was walking over to NK.
Legend says nobody makes it through that question without insta-crying. Which was true in this instance. I said nothing, just burst into tears. MB ran over, swept me into a bear hug immediately and said “oh honey what is it?” And I was able to tell her what was going on. Turns out, she works in oncology. (My third day, guys, we hadn’t gotten to what section of medicine they worked in yet).
I now have a nanny family who checks on me and my mom daily, even weekends. Who has offered to see my mom for treatment free of charge if we need to. Who gives me the day off for appointments for my mother.
For a million shit employments, there will always be a unicorn at the end. 🦄
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2024.05.14 01:23 taylorelise100 My AAPI Haul + First Time Hitting Platinum! 🛍️🇰🇷

My AAPI Haul + First Time Hitting Platinum! 🛍️🇰🇷
My entire haul FINALLY came. One of my packages had a different address on the shipping label ?? and got bounced around my neighborhood before getting to me. A little irked because my package was already opened but everything was thankfully in there!
A few of these goodies are restocks for me and the rest are for my mama 💕 Trying to get her on the Peach & Lily obsession train 🤪
Products:
  • Earth Therapeutics Essential Beauty Masks
  • Earth Therapeutics Foot Peeling Spray
  • Peach & Lily Glass Skin Discovery Set
  • Peach & Lily Rescue Party Barrier Comfort Cream (MY HG)
  • Peach Slices Acne Spot Dots
  • Peach Slices Azelaic Acid Serum
  • Peach Slices Redness Relief Calming Cream
  • Peach Slices Redness Relief Soothing Cleanser
  • The Crème Shop Work Hard, Rest Hard Eye Patches
I also got the free 7 piece fragrance sampler gift with $100 purchase. Peep the Beautiful Magnolia that was just rolling around in the bag they came in. Didn’t come with the little fragrance card holder for it.
Overall, I’m very happy with my haul. I earned over 1K points AND I hit platinum for the first time! Yay! I’m saving up for my bday month to get a full size of Burberry Goddess! 🥳
I love you, Ulta.
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2024.05.14 01:23 Aktoruk Aizen vs Kaden (Bleach vs Guardian Tales) ‘To Strike Down Those Above’. UPDATED/IMPROVED CONNECTIONS + update on Aktoruks future

Aizen vs Kaden (Bleach vs Guardian Tales) ‘To Strike Down Those Above’. UPDATED/IMPROVED CONNECTIONS + update on Aktoruks future

Real Talk, it’s a bit rough, so no shame in scrolling past. Go past the Spoiler warning for the stuff related to the MU.

I’ve kept a lot hidden from my online persona, but I’ll be honest for a moment. Currently, in a separate province, my mom is going for scans. There’s a very real chance that she has cancer, and the thought frankly destroys me.
I’ve decided that I’ll be taking a ‘break’ after this post. I truly do adore this community, but personal things are just not doing great. I wish to avoid the risk of high emotions I am currently susceptible to. I’ll probably be sticking around to lurk at times, but it’ll be low key.
I wished to make something more, and decided that making things smoother for the MU I’m most proud of is a good way to leave things. When I return, I have many more projects planned. Scripts, MU’s, and even Scaling Scans. Look forward to that, while I do the opposite (of looking forward in general, I’m excited for the projects).
Depending on the speed of things, I may know how things go at the end of this week. There are two cases. In the best case, I will be back shortly after this news. In the worst case, it may be multiple months before I return, should I return.
Thank you all in advance for reading, and thank you all for being cool people. It’s been really helpful being able to take my mind off things, and I hope I can continue to make a fool of myself in all the best ways.

Absolutely massive spoilers for both Bleach and Guardian Tales. Only read if you are fine with that.

immediate Basic Core connections
-Villains -Villainous allies -Both From Asian (east) countries -Ancient beings in comparison to human lifespan, but not particularly for their species. -Yes, ‘en’ is the final part of their five-letter names. This is not something that should sell you on the matchup.
In Depth/Actually Good Connections
-Long-term threats in their respective series. Constant presences which utilize the protagonists as tests.
-While among the most powerful characters in their verse, intelligence is what makes them terrifying. Capable of manipulating their way into power, influence, and secrecy.
-Prior to a massive reveal, both are thought to be allies to the ‘good side’ (Captain Aizen and Kaden the Hero), with the few who knew being ancient scientists that got locked away to prevent word from spreading.
-Their major goals involve utilizing an unknown power (Labose and the Hogyoku) which is made via mass sacrifice. Both would seemingly succeed in mastering this power, though it is purposefully left vague if they hold complete control.
-During the process of obtaining this power, both would infect others with a primary ‘disease’ of the series (Hollowfication and L-Bacteria). This includes characters of high power (Several Captains and Lieutenants and A Hero of the Champions Sword + A Dragon).
-Both have purposes for these actions which seem good in a skewed lens (Ending the existence of the Soul King and Preventing the Loop from Continuing). These events both involve a higher power (Potentially the highest in the series).
-But through a regular lens, these plans are fucked ways to handle the issues. This is due to issues with both characters mentality (Aizen was incapable of seeing others as equal to him and Kaden was burdened with hundreds-thousands of his past timelines).
-Their eventual ascension would first turn them into monstrous beings due to their views of power, but would both return to forms close to original at their strongest.
-Similarity in armies. Lorraine and Gin are both ‘right-hands’ with closed eyes, who would eventually attempt to overthrow when the ascension had already begun.
The Arracnars and L-Monsters are beings from the series that were manipulated by the characters. They would accept ‘power’ which allowed them to be either pawns or tests.
-Opposites of their main/orginal world (SS and The Otherside) would be where their plans of action took place.
-Both utilize dimensional rifts to travel.
-They would be defeated by the ‘experimental’ protagonists (Ichigo and The Guardian) which they had kept an eye on with interest to their plans.
-Both would end up aiding the protagonist against a further threat (Ywach and *The Fairies). While it is questionable whether this was simply due to shared interest or a show of empathy, both were ultimately good actions which saved the lives of many. *The Fairies do not currently have an official title.
Contrasts:
-Bisecting/Permanently crippling others was used against Kaden (via Clara), while Aizen used it for his plan (Taking a SK piece from Rangiku when attempting to create a Hogyoku).
-Kaden truly believes himself to be doing a noble thing, while Aizen is aware that what he does is wrong (he just doesn’t care).
-Kaden shows genuine struggle to kill his old allies (Such as Erina), while Aizen has no issues harming his fellow captains and his Squads lieutenant.
Animation Potential:
Kaden holds this back due to GT being incredibly niche. Aizen has a wide variety of both sprite and 2d models to work with (DB has already used a sprite for him). While Kaden only has his ingame sprite, which does not fit Aizen’s.
In their simplest forms, both are not easy draws. In their monstrous forms, Aizen is a little more difficult and Kaden is horrid.
Kaden does have some stuff to work with for creation of a model (plenty of ingame art), but that’s the issue, it would have to be fan-made.
Fight Potential:
-Army fight potential with Arrancars vs L-Monsters.
-End of army battle with Espada vs Laura, Morrian, and the L-Titans.
-Begin in base forms, simple sword fight. Kaden has his staff Repentance and Aizen has his Zanpakuto Kyoka Suigetsu. Both are capable in close-quarters combat.
Aizen will Utilize his Kido for an Advantage vs Kaden’s usage of Ice and Chains.
Kaden takes the upper hand, stabbing Aizen with Repentance. Only for it to be revealed that he was under Kyoka Suigetsu, and killed Clara (or an image of her, at least)
-First evolution: Cocoon Aizen vs First Phase Infected Kaden. Similar fighting style, Kaden focusing more on Chains, L-Flowers, and ice than before.
Honestly, the least interesting part of the fight, as both are similar to the first forms.
The one thing I’ll give this is Gin and Lorraine both attempting to take them out would be best fit here. Gin vs Kaden and Lorraine vs Aizen. They’ll lose, but it gives a path to the next part.
-Second Evolution: Butterfly Aizen vs Second Phase Infected.
At this point both utilize a lot more of their ranged attacks. It’s very much similar to the other evolutions though, just with more monstrous canvas’s.
At this point Kaden has a Labose realm that he utilizes, which can serve as a counter of some degree to Kyoka Suigetsu. Though it has an obvious weakness with the crystals, so Aizen has an actual out.
-Final Evolution: ‘Sealed’ Aizen vs Final Phase Kaden.
Both back to Human forms. Aizen being fused with his Zanpakuto means that it’s now fists vs Sword (Kaden is using the Disgraced Heroes Blade).
Both utilize ranged attacks. Kaden’s storms vs Aizens Kido.
While I’m not sure whether it would technically work, Kaden using a dimension slash to break free of Kyoka Suigetsu would be sick.
-Death: Two ways.
Reaching the end of the fight, both combatants stand to look at each other. For a brief moment, they flash to their ‘good’ forms. Captain Aizen and Kaden the Hero. Perhaps things could be different had their minds been in better spots.
Regardless, should Kaden win, he erases Aizen via Labose. Should Aizen win, he destroys Kaden with a Cero.

Debate:

Note: One thing I wish to do once I return is make a proper and studied look into uni Bleach. I do not think my speed debating did justice to what I’m still certain one. But I need to ensure I’m not on a path without bearing.
This was created with Uni Aizen in mind, and I know it a slippery slope, but this current debate is using that for the sake of storytelling a close fight. I understand that it’s flawed until/unless I come with the proof, but I’ve opted to make this choice.
I will also be using the lower interpretation of Kaden (Universal rather than Mutli or higher). As the debate has an obvious winner in this case, regardless of where Aizen gets scaled.
Win Cons: Unlike a lot of Aizen Matchups, he actually has a loss condition that doesn’t rely on being stat-stomped. Labose has erasure capabilities, proving capable of wiping timelines completely. Kaden will need to weaken/overpower Aizen to manage this, but just in the same way someone would need to for a regular kill.
Kaden is limited in his rebirth, and unlike Aizen, is capable of dying once he reaches his peak. The longer the fight goes on, the better chance Aizen has of landing a killing blow.
I will not be considering the memories stored within the champions sword. While it would be a restoration of the Kaden that fought Aizen, it is reliant on a continuing loop (an outside force). If Aizen kills the body of the current timeline, that is absolutely close enough to be called a victory.
Strength: Aizen takes this due to affecting the three realms (3 Universes) while Kaden only affects 2. It’s close, but Aizen just has a larger showing.
Durability: Same as Strength, as it’s a showing of 3 Universes to 2.
Speed: Likewise, the ability to nearly instantly affect 3 universes is higher than affecting 2, which means Aizen is presumably faster. Both have similar capabilities with dimensional travel and teleportation, so this is actually a close stat.
Experience: Both are centuries old at least, with all being dedicated to fighting or research. But Kaden has hundreds, if not thousands, of loops worth of memories as well. This is a wash for Kaden.
Intelligence: Tie, both not only show incredibly similar cognitive capability, but they both focus on manipulation. There’s nothing to show that either has a notable advantage.
Skill: For use of extended abilities, Aizen’s Kido and Kyoka Suigetsu is far more impressive than Kaden’s ice, chains, and Labose attacks. Kaden is far more impressive than Aizen, due to being a long-term swordsman primarily, and capable of beating primordial sword fighters. I give it a tie, but unlike for intel as it’s because they have a roughly equal amount of advantages, rather than being equal in everything.
Powers: Even with Labose having the potential to counter it, Aizen still has immortality. Kaden also has no good counters to mind fucks. Aizen takes this.
Weapons: I’m treating this as ‘army’, as it’s unfair to include the more power-like Kyoka Sugetsu. Likewise a tie, because Aizen has a more impressive variety of Arrancars, but Kaden utilizes his forces far more effectively. Aizen has no issue killing of valuable allies, but Kaden knows how to make only necessary sacrifices.
Winner: Should we utilize the prior sackings, Aizen wins. He’ll need to be wary of Labose, a power that proves to be a risk to his immortality, but Kaden can’t take advantage of that unless he can get through Aizen’s incredible variety and Kyoka Suigetsu.
All Aizen needs to do is continue forcing Kaden on the back foot, eventually his evolution will peak and a kill becomes possible. Kaden won’t be able to find a victory in 9/10 cases.
With mid-dif (due to Kaden having very possibly chances at victory), Aizen is the winner.
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2024.05.14 01:23 TeachingCharacter418 Power Metal(?) guitar riff from an old Lego video

Ever since I saw this as a kid, I've been dying to know what the songs used were. I was able to find the first battle theme pretty easily, ("War?" by System of a Down), but it's the second one that starts @ 3:10 which I'm having trouble with. I've already used several song-finding extensions and none of them worked.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4NwHz1BmjY&t=190s
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2024.05.14 01:22 spookedspice Offering Online 1:1 LSAT Tutoring Over ZOOM

Hi everyone,
I am a longtime lurker and have taken the LSAT twice now, scoring both times 174+, and my original diagnostic 8 months ago was a 151.
I also have a background in tutoring neurodiverse students, so I am looking to start channeling what I have learned from this experience into folks who need a bit of an extra push over the 160 score mark.
I can also help with navigating the accommodations process as well.
I wish I could help folks for free, but unfortunately I am in a rough financial spot like many of you. I personally couldn’t afford personal tutoring with someone who ACTUALLY took the exam because prices were simply just too high.
However, I would like to leave my DMs open for anyone looking for a tutor. We can negotiate pricing based on your needs but the maximum I would dare charge is $30/hr.
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2024.05.14 01:22 StaceyUK HtV: Having a Supernatural as a Hunter?

I would like to get into CofD as a newbie player and HtV was recommended to me. I thought about playing an Angel (Buffy the Vampire Slayer) type character as a supernatural turned Hunter who hunts other supernaturals. Reading other poss on this subreddit I gather this is against the rules as written - especially as a Vampire, but I might be able to do it as a lesser werewolf? I haven’t bought any books yet - wanted to know the limitations before I buy. I love the concept of HtV but I wish we weren’t forced to play as mortal humans. I already do that in my everyday life. I like to play something different in my TTRPGs.
Would appreciate advice of what I can play as HtV before buying any books. Thanks for your help.
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2024.05.14 01:22 Upstairs_Ear_2936 How do I(F22) explain how I feel to my partner(M22) without sounding crazy or making him feel bad?

Wanted to start off this post by apologising for any grammar mistakes or sounding erratic.
My boyfriend and I are just in the about to reach our first year anniversary. We both have diagnosed BPD and for the past year I have found a way to free myself from my own struggles without medication. However, it has not been necessarily healthy. I have found that focusing on helping him to feel better has taken my mind completely off of my own issues. He’s recently began actually feeling better and I am now confronted with my own problems. I’ve bottled most things with the intention of sparing his own feelings, and it’s already blown up in his face twice. Each time he was extremely caring and acted in a very securing manner.
I am a very jealous person, that being a byproduct of my bpd. He is well aware, and we have had numerous talks about it but in none of them I have been upset with him. I know he loves me and he knows I love him. I am very vulnerable after sex and while I can usually reason with myself and get myself through my fits of jealousy, I had a harder time doing so this time around.
Now this is going to sound really stupid and dumb, I know, but after sex and after the aftercare he was scrolling through his feed and saw a post from my friend, this is where my jealousy issue comes into play. He uttered something along the lines of how “she always has to make her cool posts weird” I was confused and asked him what he was talking about. He showed me the post and the first photo is very cool it’s a medical school textbook type of photo displaying a full face on one side and then an anatomically correct depiction of a skull on the other side, when he swiped to the next photo in the slide it was just a selfie of her in her bathroom except she’s wearing a low cut top. This made me upset because I didn’t see anything outrageous with her post, so I insisted that it was a photo of her and he was the one making it weird.
He agreed for a second but then asked how he was the one making it weird (playful tone) to which I responded “don’t piss me off” (verbally upset) and he was sort of like “what does that mean” in a playful tone. I didn’t handle it so well, after I said that, I pulled the covers over me and he tried to comfort me by being silly and I kind of just laid there and didn’t vocalise how it made me upset ( 50/59 because I couldn’t logic it out as to why I was upset and because I didn’t want to look crazy ). Still, he tried to cuddle me. Of course we said our goodbyes and he went to work and even though it’s unfair, I still feel bothered.
How do I explain how I feel to my partner without sounding crazy or making him feel bad?
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2024.05.14 01:22 Future_Catch_530 33M Interested in making friends outside the US

Hey all,
I was thinking today that I haven’t been able to travel in a while, and I really miss being able to meet people from other countries. I like the unique perspectives and finding cultural differences. It is always an education.
So if you are from a country different from the US please feel free to reach out! Adults only please, and tell me your name, age, and where you are from in your message.
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2024.05.14 01:21 sharkb8675309 Help! Over exposing?

Help! Over exposing?
I am a first time DIY screen printer (experienced with professional equipment lol) and doing a stencil with Ulano QTX emulsion, 4 9-watt LED UV lights (400nm), 5 inches from the lights, with the ink side facing the lights since I was doing it on the ground and using the baby oil and computer paper. First test I did was 120 seconds, then 180 seconds. I really can’t tell if I’m in the right time frame or if I’m totally off. Pretty sure it’s overexposed but want to make sure before I wash the whole thing off with the pink stuff.
Any recommendations on where to start for my next exposure? I know there’s the free tester but I don’t even know what amount of time to start with. Also any tips for making the reclaim as easy as possible lol Thanks! ( I miss my studios power washer 🥲)
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2024.05.14 01:21 General-Avokito My family forgot to invite me to mother's day on my first mother's day

Sorry for how long this is, I've got that ADHD trait where everything feels important for context. I'm also still trying to process everything.
So I (30F) just had my first baby six months ago. My dad passed away 12 years ago and I lost ties to his side of the family, partially because most my uncles (he has 4 brothers) live in different states and partially because my dad was the person to plan everything. So, most of my family I'm in contact with is my mom's family.
Typically, if my family invites me to family events or holidays they do so through my mom or my uncle (mom's brother) texts me or calls me. My mom, though, has been struggling with her mental health since my dad passed and the only people she really talks to are me, my brother (who lives with her), my grandma, and my great aunt. She occasionally interacts with her brother and sister. My grandma is your typical bitter, white, racist old lady and is kind of toxic toward my mom (she belittles my mom's feelings, usually places blame on my mom, plays clear favorites with her kids, etc.). So my mom has dealt with anxiety any time she's going to visit my grandma for holidays or to stay with her if she is having health issues or to watch my aunts house (she lives next door). My grandma lives about an hour from us. My mom lives 5 minutes away from me.
So the last few big holidays my mom didn't want to go to her house because of the anxiety, and as I had a newborn and was recovering from a c section (had the baby 11/19 so a week before Thanksgiving) we decided to do small holidays. For Thanksgiving I invited my mom to come over and she offered to cook Enchiladas (rather than a whole feast - which I was fine with). She brought the food over, her and my brother ate, but I wasn't hungry, yet, so I just hung out. She held the baby for a few minutes, then they both just left after the baby started getting a bit fussy. Didn't offer to help clean up, left the food on the stove (which was on) and left. I was still recovering from surgery and my partner had taken the opportunity to get some sleep since he didn't think I'd need help as my mom was there. So, I couldn't put the food away and just leave my crying newborn baby alone. Not to mention I wasn't stable enough on my feet because of where I was in my recovery. I don't remember what we did for Christmas, she did come by on her own (without my brother) and gave us gifts and hung out with the baby. She also came over one other time for a few hours to watch the baby so me and my partner could get some rest. She was at the hospital when I was in labor and after having the baby but didn't really do much to help except get me food and maybe help change a diaper. When we were discharged I told her not to worry about coming to the hospital but she was welcome to come to our house, but she said she didn't want to intrude and let us adjust to having the baby at home.
I text with my mom every few weeks and it's been clear for years that her depression has gotten pretty bad. If she talks about herself it is incredibly negative, or she is angry with everyone around her. I'm really the only one who sure hasn't been angry with. I've spent the past few years essentially being her only support system (next to my grandma and my brother - who is also battling his own mental health). I've also spent the last few years trying to get her to see a mental health professional.
She finally admitted she needed to address the anger she was having with my grandma and her incredibly low sense of self-worth. Over the last year or so I have been working with her to get her into a therapists office. I've found therapists that I think would be a good fit for her and contacted them on her behalf (I started by just sending her their contact info, but she kept coming up with excuses of why she hasn't, like she forgot to stop into the office of one she wanted to go to that was next to her masseuse or she was too anxious to call because she'll sound like an idiot). She didn't hear anergy back from them (but she also probably just didn't see any emails since her email inbox is so full with spam.) She finally asked her primary to see a psychologist and made an appointment. I texted her a week before mothers day just to check in with her to see how it went. Found out she got scammed (not from the psychologist) and it made her feel like she was dumb and couldn't do anything right. I did what I could do balance the line between comfort and trying to challenge her negative thoughts of herself. We didn't discuss mother's day.
Fast forward to the day before mother's day, my MIL's boyfriend invited me, my partner, our baby, my SIL and their grandma to breakfast on Saturday. (I also want to add, my MIL and her boyfriend watch the baby every weekend, they cleaned our house when I was in the hospital, then they helped us when we came home so I could shower and get check ups set up.) I still didn't hear back from my mom, so I texted her at 10am on Saturday asking if she wanted to go to breakfast on mother's day. During breakfast my MIL asked what I was doing and I told her I was planning to go have breakfast with my mom, but my partner had to work in the afternoon and didn't have anything else planned. I didn't hear anything back from my mom still, so when my MIL texted me that night (around 11pm) saying she wanted to see me to get pictures of me and my son on my first mother's day, I gave her my schedule and she told me to let her know a time in the morning. That night my son was up every two hours, so I didn't get any sleep until my partner took over around 4am. I woke up around 9:30ish and just ended up ordering breakfast. While we were eating we made a plan that while he was at work I would go see his mom and when he gets off we'd go thrifting then go roller skating (because mom's skate free on mother's day). I texted his mom times and everything was set. Then my mom finally texted me back saying happy mothers day and assuming I'd received an email inviting me to go to my grandma's house for mother's day. I had not, and told her. She said apparently I was left off the email my uncles fiance had sent (which she also was the first time - so I was left off multiple emails) and she said that it was an accident and that I was welcome, then asked if I had plans. I didn't think my uncle's fiance left me off intentionally, but I already had plans and told her this. Didn't hear anything for a few hours then realized I forgot to say happy mothers day and sent her another text doing so and that I love her.
I still haven't received back any response. I haven't heard anything from the rest of my family (except my brother on my dad's side who lives in another state and is completely unrelated to this). I did not go to the mother's day thing, I wasn't going to cancel the plans I already made and I wouldn't have had enough time to squeeze in a visit since it was an hour away and an hour back and would've been an all day thing. I'm incredibly disappointed and crushed, and really, really miss my dad. It was my first mother's day and the only one who put any kind of thought into it was my mother in law and my own family - my mom included - seems to consider me an after thought. They're supposed to be the ones to provide support and love through all of this. The janitor from my work sent me a happy mothers day, redditors I chat with who don't even know my fucking name wished me a happy mother's day, someone I just started talking to like 2 days ago wished me a happy mothers day, but my own family couldn't even send a text??? Ouch.
Sorry again for how long this is, I'm just kinda fucked up from the whole thing.
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2024.05.14 01:21 South_Feeling_6005 Australian video

HI, I GO ON MY BIKE IN EVENINGS AS A WAY TO CHILL OUT. I SAID WHY NOT RECORD WHILST JUST SPINNING AROUND, JUST SAID I ASK FOR ADVICE HOW TO IMPROVE AND PERHAPS GROW I ENJOY RIDING SO IM NOT TO STRESSED IF IT DOESN'T TAKE OFF BUT WHY NOT TRY AND DO A GOOD JOB. THANKS FOR ADVICE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZdkPwk9mvk&t=39s&ab_channel=TheScout
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