Hello we are 2TMC a 21+ community server much like Hermitcraft. We are a SMP with emphasis on being friendly (with a little bit of chaos) with other players, and trying to be a welcoming community to everyone. We are running a Semi-Vanilla server with a few terrain generation mods and additional mods that enhance the vanilla experience (see list below).
We are looking for players who will be active in game on chat and on our Discord voice channels. The server is in NA but we accept players from all around the world. Discord and a mic are required! We love to chat on voice in game but it's definitely not required! We are also youtubestreamer friendly. So if you love to play minecraft and are looking for a friendly environment where you can prank others and do community projects then send us a message! We'd love to chat with you.
Data packs on the server

• afkdisplay
• anti enderman grief
• armored elytra
• better item frames
• blackstone cobblestone
• blaze and cave's advancements pack
• coal to black dye
• charcoal to black dye
• confetti creepers
• coordinates hud
• craftable notch apples
• craftable coral blocks 3x3
• craftable gravel
• craftable bundles rabbit hide
• custom nether portals
• double shulker shells
• dragon drops
• durability ping
• fast leaf decay
• graves
• larger phantoms
• more mob heads
• mountain angels
• name formatting station
• player head drops
• real time clock
• silence mobs
• straight to shapeless
• unlock all recipes
• universal dyeing
• unpackable nether wart
• villager workstation highlights
• wandering trades hermit edition

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Fabric mods on the server

• armor poser
• audioplayer
• cloth config api
• clumps
• enhanced groups
• fabric per player spawns
• geophilic
• head index
• just an end anchor
• keep head names
• more mob variants
• no chat reports
• player pronouns
• radio
• regrowth
• shulker+
• shulkerboxtooltip
• simple voicechat
• slimyfloor
• status
• stitched snow
• terralith
• towns and towers
• william wythers' overhauled overworld

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Fabric mods required to join the server

• armor poser
• cloth config api
• just an end anchor
• more mob variants
• no chat reports
• shulker+
• simple voicechat
• status
• xareos minimap
• xareos worldmap

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Server Rules

1. Be Respectful
2. No griefing, stealing, or cheating
3. Chat is English only
4. Non-Destructive Pranks are allowed (so Hermitcraft style pranks)
5. Spawn area is for a spawn town
6. Bases must be built 250 blocks away from Spawn.
7. No duping except for carpet, rail and tnt.
8. No combat logging, this means mobs as well.
9. Taking items/griefing from active and maintained ruin sites is prohibited.
10. No hacking or hacked clients
11. No using others builds, items, villagers, etc without their permission.

If you are interested in joining please fill out this application

Hello we are 2TMC a 21+ community server much like Hermitcraft. We are a SMP with emphasis on being friendly (with a little bit of chaos) with other players, and trying to be a welcoming community to everyone. We are running a Semi-Vanilla server with a few terrain generation mods and additional mods that enhance the vanilla experience (see list below).
We are looking for players who will be active in game on chat and on our Discord voice channels. The server is in NA but we accept players from all around the world. Discord and a mic are required! We love to chat on voice in game but it's definitely not required! We are also youtubestreamer friendly. So if you love to play minecraft and are looking for a friendly environment where you can prank others and do community projects then send us a message! We'd love to chat with you.
Data packs on the server

• afkdisplay
• anti enderman grief
• armored elytra
• better item frames
• blackstone cobblestone
• blaze and cave's advancements pack
• coal to black dye
• charcoal to black dye
• confetti creepers
• coordinates hud
• craftable notch apples
• craftable coral blocks 3x3
• craftable gravel
• craftable bundles rabbit hide
• custom nether portals
• double shulker shells
• dragon drops
• durability ping
• fast leaf decay
• graves
• larger phantoms
• more mob heads
• mountain angels
• name formatting station
• player head drops
• real time clock
• silence mobs
• straight to shapeless
• unlock all recipes
• universal dyeing
• unpackable nether wart
• villager workstation highlights
• wandering trades hermit edition

​
Fabric mods on the server

• armor poser
• audioplayer
• cloth config api
• clumps
• enhanced groups
• fabric per player spawns
• geophilic
• head index
• just an end anchor
• keep head names
• more mob variants
• no chat reports
• player pronouns
• radio
• regrowth
• shulker+
• shulkerboxtooltip
• simple voicechat
• slimyfloor
• status
• stitched snow
• terralith
• towns and towers
• william wythers' overhauled overworld

​
Fabric mods required to join the server

• armor poser
• cloth config api
• just an end anchor
• more mob variants
• no chat reports
• shulker+
• simple voicechat
• status
• xareos minimap
• xareos worldmap

​
Server Rules

1. Be Respectful
2. No griefing, stealing, or cheating
3. Chat is English only
4. Non-Destructive Pranks are allowed (so Hermitcraft style pranks)
5. Spawn area is for a spawn town
6. Bases must be built 250 blocks away from Spawn.
7. No duping except for carpet, rail and tnt.
8. No combat logging, this means mobs as well.
9. Taking items/griefing from active and maintained ruin sites is prohibited.
10. No hacking or hacked clients
11. No using others builds, items, villagers, etc without their permission.

If you are interested in joining please fill out this application

Two of my players are getting married (yay!!) and I want to implant a wedding themed murder mystery into my current campaign as part of their wedding gift. It’s a homebrew loosely based off of the Legend of Zelda, but I want the wedding sessions to function more as a one shot within the game. The idea is the party gets invited to a royal wedding and during the reception someone is murdered. The two players specifically requested puzzles and mystery. Has anyone run a murder mystery session before? Any tips?

We all know how funny his writing was, but there was a lot of really good writing that was not comedy in Only Fools and Horses. There was of course the theme running right through the show of the family loving each other, despite their problems. So many dramatic and touching moments. Grandad's funeral. Del standing in the function room after Rodney's wedding as "Holding Back The Years" plays. Marlene having to leave the baby she hoped to adopt. Albert explaining after the court case about how he wanted to get money for Grandad's gravestone. Del explaining to Raquel how he had to take control after his mum died and his father left. Del's fear and later relief when it turns out he doesn't have cancer. Rodney telling Del how he feels after the miscarriage when they are in the lift. Albert remembering how the docks were as a lively port when he was young. The list could go on and I am sure you will add some more of them.
There are so many scenes which could stand by themselves as pure and brilliant dramatic writing, amidst all the comedy. If someone walked into a room and saw one of those scenes, they would not have known they were in a classic comedy show. While we loved the series as a comedy, there was a lot drama to also hook us in. He knitted the comedy and those really serious scenes together seamlessly. He wrote a lot of sitcoms, but he could just have easily written many serious drama shows too. John Sullivan was a genius.

My fiancée and I are struggling to pick some final favs from Ghibli films to use in our wedding ceremony and cocktail hour background music. We LOVE Ghibli, and definitely have some favs but they all don’t seem to flow together as they are from different films… Anyone have some recommendations/favs from the films that flow well? We are open to them not flowing as well but thought I’d get some inspiration from some fellow Ghibli lovers!
I know that’s such a generic ask, so if it helps our theme is woodsy/nature vibes at a botanical garden thank you!

Hello! Just as the name suggests, I’m looking for someone to roleplay with! Before messaging me, I would like it if you could read through. Let me start off by introducing myself, and telling you about myself so you get a good idea of who I am, and if that doesn’t scare you off then great!
My name is Euphie or Ras, whichever is fine, I’ve been roleplaying for several years and even aspire to write a book at some point. I work, have a spouse, and I also do a lot of gaming, anime watching and binging. Roleplay wise: I am comfortable doubling up, playing male and female roles, I have diverse characters (they’re all not mary sues) and I’m big on communicating with my partner. I can do semi-literate to literate, and be able to match what my partner gives. I do not mind playing Canon character’s, it’s not my strong point but I’m down to try anything. Just so I know you have read through this properly; tell me what is the capital of Hawaii?
What I’m looking for; I’ll try to keep this simple. I do require a few things from my partner if they are to RP with me but they’re not too bad.
1.) Please be older than 21. I’m older than 25, it’s a bit weird for me.
2.) Be comfortable playing Male Roles and or Doubling up. I like to play both genders; but I’m still rusty when it comes to being a man. Most of my men are morally gray buttheads anyways.
3.) Communicate. This is my biggest thing. I’ve had people ghost me a lot, or suddenly change their mind when they realized I’m not 24/7 waiting to talk to them. I’ve also had people drop me over little misunderstandings. Just to let you know, I will likely ask you multiple times for clarification.
4.) GOOGLE DOC/Discord. I only roleplay through Google Doc, I try not to use Discord a lot but for the right moment I will heavily contemplate it!
I am looking for several things. * is how I will rate how badly I’m wanting it. *** is the most.
Fandoms:
***Baldur’s Gate 3 / OC x Canon / Either; Gale, Astarion or Halsin: I have a vague idea for this, I would be willing to double and play whoever.
**Harry Potter / OC x Canon / Draco Malfoy - Again, I can play whoever for you, I have a storyline for this.
*** Call Of Duty / OC x Canon / Either; Soap MacTavish, Alejandro Vargas. Same as before.
*** Bridgerton - The new season is coming and I am heavily excited for it. So, anything themed. Prefer double up and maybe OC x OC.
Tropes:
NOTE: Do not come into my DMs wanting....more than just RP.
***Second Chance: MC1 and MC2 dated for years until one day MC1 left town, never to be heard from again, MC2 moved on and eventually either a funeral or a wedding happens and MC1 is back in town many years later. I have a plot for this. I’VE BEEN WANTING FOR LIKE EVER to roleplay this.
** Best Friends Brother - MC3 is MC2’s best friend, and grew up together. MC3 is MC2’s brother who went off to the military after graduating High School. MC1 has not needed MC3 since they graduated highschool nearly 10 years ago.
*** The One Night Stand - After a fling, both character’s go separate ways. MC1s family is hosting an event (maybe they’re rich or own a company), only to be reintroduced to MC2 who is investing into MC1’s family's business or whatever.
** Fake It - MC1 needs to marry someone in order to maintain their social status AND MC2 is struggling financially to help their family , so MC1 devises a plan to fake marry MC2 and in return, MC1 will help MC2s family.
I’m also open to fantasy related things like:
Arranged Marriages. Princess x Knight. Demon x Priest/Priestess.
Feel free to DM me if you have any ideas!

I'm trying to cut down on the amount of real flowers we're using, to cut down on both budget costs and waste. (Most of the florists near me hover around $350 for a bridal bouquet, which we can do, but once you add a wedding party of 8, and family, and table decor, etc our decor budget of 1.5K doesn't cut it.). The wedding is at the end of the year in southern/central Virginia, colours/theme is just Fall in Virginia. I am thinking a real bouquet and maybe primary centrepieces, then use alternatives for everything else.
I really love the look of paper flowers, origami flowers, japanese folded flowers etc. And I think they would look great for boutenierres, corsages, and some decor. I prefer these to fake-but-realistic-looking plastic or silk flowers, I enjoy how they look handmade/crafted and think they'd complement the real flowers better. But all the resources (aka reddit posts) I can find are on DIY-ing them yourself. I really don't want to make them myself. (I'm doing my own calligraphy because I'm an avid fountain pen gal, but I know making my own decor would really stress me out. Even if they turned out beautiful - I would, personally, be miserable during the process.).
So my actual question - does anyone have experience buying these types of flowers? Any recommendations on vendors/sellers, or general tips? Etsy has so many options, it can get overwhelming without recommendations. Please and thank you!!

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Tldr: is it fair to say that vampires feeding from other vampires is an allegory for sex, and if so can we consider forced-blood drinking a symbol for pe? What does that imply for Lestats actions in EP 5? What are yalls opinions.

Im a little confused about vampiric allegory in the Anne Rice universe. I've read the first two books, and to me it was pretty clear that blood drinking/biting is comparable to sex because it's very intimate and personal, and the bodily sensations are very sensual.
For example, ive always viewed Lestat being turned by Magnus to be an allegory for s/xual assault. He is ashamed by his bodily reaction and the way the whole thing is described feels extremely violating. The sensations are dizzying and terrifying for him and losing blood makes him weaker and weaker until he physically cannot fight off his attacker.
That being said... In EP five, what are the implications of Lestat drinking off of Louis? Im guessing he wanted to drain Louis in order to weaken him before they went into the clouds, but I'm thinking there's something more insidious about it. Theres a blurred line between consentual and forced blood drinking in the show because Lestat took a "petite coup" off of Louis when they had sex without saying anything, by then he explicitly asks for consent before turning Louis in EP 1 and that scene was framed to be very romantic (with church and wedding imagery).
The reason I thought of this was because Louis ends his first hallucination with Dream!Lestat aggressively feeding off of him in EP 2x1, and the sounds he made seemed painful/scared, not at all pleasurable.
If I follow through with this symbolism does that mean Louis is imagining Lestat would pe him??? It definitely would fall in line with the themes of martial abuse, sex, ect. I'm not sure if it was even intentional by the showrunners, but that would definitely open up another way of exploring sexual trauma. Of course I know Armand was explicitly subjected to pe and grooming regardless of vampiric allegory, so it's not like it's too outlandish for this series.
What do y'all think? Am I just making all of this up in my head?

i recognise that the ashlands has just released, but my interest since the start of the game has and always will be the deep north because of how i play the game
In every world ive ever played in, i make my way to the deep north to create a castle spanning 1/4 to 1/3 of the biome, it is an understatement to call these builds a gargantuan undertaking, but i love them a feature of all of these builds are wolves and trapped fenrings or ulvs the mountains is my favourite biome, i loved the caves, i loved the fenrings and ulvs, the cultists, farming for the fenris claws, and the fenris set which is still my main set with the mountains being my favourite biome, for me the deep north is going to be "the mountains 2" and i simply cant contain my excitement and need to speculate
with that out of the way i suppose i should clarify this will be a rambly post, as i said im very excited about this update specifically so i apologise in advance, i will condense my thoughts at the bottom of the post
getting right into it, the biome boss. i have a few ideas for this one, whilst i can see a frost giant being the biome boss, i could also see arguments for nidhogg or even fenrir himself. if i could choose based on my bias, id pick fenrir, but i also believe there would be no better suited biome boss than him in the mountains one of the unique mobs is of course, the cultists, the ulvs and the fenring, all quite clearly in reference to fenris, whilst the north could take a completely different approach, maybe more towards frost giants, i think building off of the fenris idea would allow for so much more creativity
building off of the fenris world boss idea, we could have tameable, rideable dire wolves (if this isnt the angle they take so help me god with my own two hands i will mod this into existence, even if its as crude as simply making a normal wolf bigger, i will have this) i would love the whole, fenrir cult thing to be expanded upon too because i feel like were just glossing over the fact that in this purgatory world theres just casually a cult that worships fenris?
we could see the heavy armor set take up a wolf like theme, similar to what people have done in mods, we could see a new mage weapon that transforms you into an ulv or a fenring or a cultist- you get the idea here, you become the monster and control it for a set time, or perhaps until you "die", wherein youd be reverted back to your human state?
we could see an expansion on the whole archetype that the fenris claws brought forward, because whilst they are a fist weapon so that they have the unique interaction with the fenris set, they are actually daggers. my only complaint is that the heavy attack for the fenris claws is a kick? id like to see a new "fist" weapon or maybe the devs actually leaning into fist weapons like gauntlets at some point, because for right now the only fist weapon is the fenrir claws
i have too many thoughts and ideas for this update surrounding fenris and frost giants, to condense my thoughts;

• fenris world boss
• expansion on the fenris cult
• expansion on fist weapons
• tameable, rideable dire wolf (PLEASE)
• mage weapon that turns you into a cultist or maybe even that suped up cultist from hildrs request
• "heavy" fenris set that gives you +10-15 fist skill or dagger skill with a unique weapon that when paired with the set, hits noticeably harder, i want to feel how i did when i first donned a full set of fenris armor with the claws
• at least some type of nod to frost giants
• some form of "secret" similar to the abyssal weapons or the new secret in ashlands, something similar to the fenris set in the mountains that you could miss if you dont look hard enough

Y’all, I’m really not sure what’s still around. This list is somewhat edited, but please still make sure to check on all the regular events before you make big plans – I may have missed something.
Events are listed by the day. Events that happen every week appear first, one time stuff after that. If you have anything you’d like people to know about, comment here or message me and I’ll add it in. If you’d like further info about any of the events, look it up! I usually don’t have any extra to add.
Large Scale, Ongoing, and Multi-Day Events

Local Running, Walking, and Biking Info: https://troubleafoot.blogspot.com/
Guided Paddling Outings all around the area: https://www.facebook.com/hsmithoutdoors
Tallahassee Film Society Showings: https://www.tallahasseefilms.com/tickets/
Book Clubs for all tastes: https://www.facebook.com/midtownreadeevents
Live Theater:

• Making Light Productions: https://www.makinglightproductions.org/
  
• Theatre Tallahassee: https://theatretallahassee.org/
  
• Mickee Faust Club: https://www.mickeefaust.com/
  
• Monticello Opera House: https://www.monticellooperahouse.org/
  
• FSU School of Theatre: https://theatre.fsu.edu/productions/
  
• Young Actors Theatre: https://www.youngactorstheatre.com/
  
• Quincy Music Theatre: https://quincymusictheatre.com/
  
• Tallahassee Hispanic Theater: https://tallahasseehispanictheater.wordpress.com/
  

OutdooFarmer’s Markets:

• Lake Ella Grower's Market: Wednesday and Saturday, 11am-2pm. You can always find organic vendors, and foragers: The Holistic Cannabis Community, Artzi Farms, Hickory Nut Gifts, and others. Including Pita Queen! Farmer's Market Nutrition Program Coupons gladly accepted!
  
• Tallahassee Downtown Market: Saturdays, 10am-2pm, Park Ave Parks. Vendors display their arts and fine crafts, jewelry, handmade soap, pottery, Fresh from Florida produce, hand-raised beef and pork, fresh baked bread, jams and jellies, and honey. Live music from different local musicians every Saturday.
  
• Frenchtown Heritage Market: 524 N MLK Jr Blvd. Third Saturday of the month 10am to 2pm. Come grow community and support your local farmers and makers, while you get your groceries for the week! Don’t forget! We match SNAP/EBT, so you DOUBLE your money to go towards locally grown fresh fruits and vegetables! If the guy with the pineapple is there, get it. This is currently only happening on the third Saturday of the month for the next few months while road work is completed.
  
• Tallahassee Farmers Market: 2904 Kerry Forest Pkwy, Saturdays, 8am to Noon. Come see us at Tallahassee's longest-running farmers market! We are a year-round market, featuring local farms and vendors that provide the best seasonal produce, meats, baked goods, and more. We welcome you and your whole family (leashed pets included) to come out and meet your local farmers! Ample parking is available between our lot and the shopping center lot next door (by Red Elephant). Come early for the best selection.
  

THURSDAY, 5/16

• The Hub at Feather Oaks: Bingo. 6pm
  
• Dreamland BBQ: Weekly Open Blues Jam. If you'd like to sing, please bring your own mic. 6pm
  
• Honest Living Vape: Chess-Master Thursdays . Beginners and experts, join us every Thursday from 6-9 for Chess-Master Thursdays. All ages. Bring your board or play ours! Tournaments coming soon! 6pm
  
• Lake Tribe: Trivia. 7pm
  
• Takko Market Square: Bingo Night. 7pm
  
• The Getaway Grille and Bar: Karaoke with Jared Walker. 7pm
  
• Amicus Brewing: Trivia. 7pm
  
• Smitty's Taphouse: Trivia Lab Thursdays. Teams of 6 or fewer players can compete for $30 / $20 / $10 Prizes + The Golden MacGuffin prize table! New format! Interactive smartphone answering for your comfort and safety! 6 Fun Rounds - 42 Total Questions. 7:30pm
  
• Studio D: Bachata Fever. We always have a bachata workshop at 8 pm before Bachata Fever. We dance afterwards to the sounds of DJ Bacharod. The class is at 8 pm and Bachata Fever will start at 930 pm. Many times people are learning in class and may feel uncomfortable social dancing while they are still learning moves. We have a welcoming environment so stay and have fun and dance with everyone. That is how we learn. 8pm/Class $5/Bachata Fever $5.
  
• The Sound Bar: Comedy Night. 8pm
  
• Finnegans Wake: Open Mic. 8:30pm
  
• Brass Tap in Midtown: Karaoke with DJ Rah. 9pm
  
• 926: Karaoke. 9pm
  
• Bird’s: Karaoke with Nathan. 9pm
  

• Fire Bettys: Slasher Bash. This week we'll be showing: "Zombeavers". Prepare for an evening of horrific hilarity with comedy narration and devilish drinking games!🍻 Hosted by local comedians. 8pm/21+
  
• Blue Tavern: Seep's Gumbo Nation ft. Shanice Richards. 8pm
  

FRIDAY, 5/17

• Blue Tavern: Happy Hour with Steve Malono. 5pm
  
• Lake Tribe Brewing: Flannel Fridays with Live Music. 6pm
  
• Hobbit West: Friday Night Dart Tournament. Anyone can Enter! Sign ups at 7:30, Darts fly at 8:00/$10 entry fee
  
• Ouzts Too: Karaoke with DJ Nathan. Best karaoke DJ in town. 8pm
  
• Just One More: Karaoke with DJ Rah. 9pm-11pm/21+
  
• 926: The Hot Friday Night Party and Drag Show. 9pm/$5/18+
  

• The Hub at Feather Oaks: Rachel Hillman. 5:30pm
  
• Lake Tribe: Ben Wentworth. 5:30pm
  
• Amicus Brewing: The Tanglers. 6pm
  
• The Getaway Grille and Bar: One Year Anniversary Celebration Featuring Queen of Hearts Band. 6pm
  
• Southwood Golf Club: The Rhythm Remedy. 6:30pm
  
• Goodwood: The Big Bash Havana Nights presented by Brent Hartsfield. The Big Bash is Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Big Bend's signature fundraising gala of the year and directly supports the agency's youth mentoring programs. Guests will enjoy Cuban Cuisine, champagne mojitos, cigars, flights, classic cars, photo opportunities, silent auction vacation packages, LIVE music and dancing, and an exciting LIVE salsa dance performance from 12 community volunteers! The event is a tremendous networking opportunity for Tallahassee's top business professionals, local community leaders and philanthropists to come together to enjoy an evening to celebrate the achievements of Big Brothers Big Sisters. 7pm
  
• Blue Tavern: Wil Fulkerson Jazz Night. 8pm
  
• House of Music: Belly Dancing: Journey From The Nile To The Tigris. Habibi, join us on a groovy carpet ride across ancient deserts: Disco Iskandar embarks on a voyage of belly dance, folklore, cinema, and history in a theatrical dance production, JOURNEY FROM THE NILE TO THE TIGRIS. Highlighting the prominence of belly dance in films of the Middle East from the 1940s through the 1970s, we present a live showcase exhibiting dances from Egypt, Turkey, Iraq, and beyond. It goes so much deeper than you think. Hookahs! Swords! Rhinestones, literally everywhere! This cross section of entertainment and education is the culmination of years of obsessive learning, two national tours, and travels to Egypt & Lebanon. JOURNEY FROM THE NILE TO THE TIGRIS is a trip unlike any other-- where the Middle East meets Vegas. This show’s cast is Gabi Corazon, Gia Bee, Liz Azi, Olya Clark, Vania Ojeda, director Veronica Lynn, and special guest star Omaris! 8pm/$15/21+
  
• The Sound Bar: The Old Schoolers. 8pm
  
• Vino Beano: Your Scumbag Neighbors. 8pm
  
• The Bark: Medians, No Yeah, Sleep John B, and Cloud Storage. 8pm
  

SATURDAY, 5/18

• Brinkley Glen Park: Invasive Plant Removal. Join Master Gardener Volunteers at this weekly invasive plant removal event. This is a great way to learn to ID our invasive plant species and how to remove them. We recommend wearing long pants and sleeves, closed-toed shoes, gloves, a hat and mosquito spray. Bring gardening tools such as hand clippers, loppers, trowels, etc. if you have them. We are removing coral ardisia bushes and berries, nandina, tung trees, Tradescantia flumenensis, cat's claw vine, winged yam, Japanese climbing fern, skunkvine and more. Directions: The best way to get there is to take Meridian Rd to Waverly Rd, go to the next intersection and turn left onto Abbotsford Way, then turn left at the next road called Woodside Dr. At the stop sign turn left onto Lothian. Lothian ends in a cul-de-sac and there is a sign that says Brinkley Glen Park. 8:30am-11:30am
  
• Gamescape: Saturday Gaming. Gamescape has relocated from Railroad Square to the Huntington Oaks Plaza (Suite 302, next to the Library) at N Monroe St and Fred George Rd. Open gaming tables are available. Noon-6pm
  
• Duke’s and Dottie’s: Line Dancing Plus Lessons. 7pm/21+
  
• Bird’s Oyster Shack: Laughterday Night Fever. * Join us every Saturday at Bird's Aphrodisiac Oyster Shack for a free comedy show!* 8:30pm
  
• 926: Latin Night. Dance to the irresistible beats of Zeus and prepare to be dazzled by a spectacular drag show at midnight. It's more than a party, it's an experience. 9:30pm/$10 21+, $15 under 21
  

• Crawfordville: Big Bend Biodiversity Tour. See why our area is so ecologically incredible! Get up close and personal with creatures and plants galore. Join expert guide and outdoor educator, Ryan Means for this limited opportunity to tour the Apalachicola Lowlands Preserve. The day-long trip stops at points along the way to the privately-owned preserve nestled deep in the Apalachicola National Forest near Sumatra, FL. Explore the longleaf pine ecosystem, pitcher plant bogs, ephemeral wetlands, and blackwater streams - home to some threatened and endangered species. Learn what makes the Florida Panhandle one of the five richest biodiversity hotspots in North America. Perfect tour for photographers, outdoor enthusiasts and ecologists. $75 tour fee includes round-trip transportation (from 46 Kinsey Rd, Crawfordville, FL) , complimentary beverages, and supports efforts to preserve the incredible biodiversity of the Southeastern Coastal Plain. Spaces limited. Register here: https://coastalplains.networkforgood.com/events/71083-big-bend-biodiversity-tour for full details. 8am
  
• Dreamland BBQ: Rock Type One to None. Let's rock to find a cure for Type 1 Diabetes! The Unicorn Wranglers are back on Saturday, May 18th at Dreamland BBQ in Tallahassee, Florida for the 2024 "Rock One to None" show. This show is benefiting the Juvenile Diabetes Research Fund (JDRF) and will feature musical guests Midnight Caravan, Fallen Timber, and the Unicorn Wranglers. The show starts at 4 pm and runs until 7 pm at Dreamland BBQ in Music Alley, and is open to all ages. While the show is free, we encourage all rockers attending to donate to the cause. You can contribute at the show by visiting our donation station or by heading over to our online Unicorn Wranglers team page. Together, as one big mosh pit, we can help cure Type 1 Diabetes. 3pm
  
• The Hub at Feather Oaks: Ethan Kyllonen. 4pm
  
• Amicus Brewing: Beza Alford and Rev. Dr. Sheldon Steen. 5pm
  
• Lake Tribe: Flamingo Party. 6pm
  
• The Getaway Grille and Bar: Billy Rigsby Band. 6pm
  
• Vino Beano: Brett & "Dangerous" Dave. 6pm
  
• Salty Dawg: Hot Mess. 6:30pm
  
• La Tiendita: Rhys Bennett & the Gringos as Vontade. Join us for an energetic evening filled with the vibrant sounds of Latin music, Brazilian beats, and jazz rhythms. Our local band, Rhys Bennett & the Gringos, will transform into the versatile ensemble Vontade, treating you to a delightful mix of rancheras, bossa nova, and more! Whether you're a seasoned dancer or a newcomer to the dance floor, you're in for a fantastic time at one of Tallahassee's hidden gems. Immerse yourself in a night of cultural fusion and musical celebration that is sure to create lasting memories! 6:30pm
  
• The Sound Bar: Tillman & Taff. 7pm
  
• Island Wings: Midnight Caravan. 7pm
  
• The Bark: Saturnalia, Brass Wizard, Van Season, and Psycho Tropical. 8pm
  
• Fire Bettys: 80's Video Dance Party. 8pm
  
• Just One More: One Eyed JAK. 9pm
  

SUNDAY, 5/19

• Bicycle House: Sunday Ride. Ride at 10:30 AM from Bicycle House. We will ride the Cascades trail to the St Marks trail and down to Wakulla station and return, about 31 miles. Ride speed is 12 to 14 mph, with periodic regroups. Vernon Bailey is the ride leader. Vernon is a new CCC member who’s been biking for 50 years enjoys riding with small groups and weekend touring. 10am
  
• E Peck Greene Park (Behind the LeRoy Collins Library): Food Not Bombs Free Mealshare. We offer free vegetarian/vegan food, water, coffee, personal care & hygiene products, bus passes, and clothing when we have some available to those in need. Contact foodnotbombstally@gmail.com to find out about getting involved. Noon-2pm
  
• LeRoy Collins Library: Tallahassee Go Club Meetings. Come play the captivating ancient game of Go, also known as Baduk, with some friendly games and discussions. Beginners welcome. Visit https://www.tallahasseegoclub.com for more information. 1pm
  
• Gamescape: Pokémon League. Come learn, play, and trade with the Pokémon Trading Card Game and the Pokémon video games! We LOVE seeing new players, so come learn how to play! We play both the Trading Card Game and the Video Game casually and competitively. The store offers lots of different seating arrangements to meet our group's needs, as well as food, drinks, and Pokémon products for purchase. We are also hold regular, officially sanctioned tournaments for Pokémon Trading Card Game and Video Game Competitions! 2-4pm
  
• The Plant: Open Jam. All instruments, all players welcome. 4pm-9pm
  
• Pedro’s: Mariachi Clasico. 6pm
  
• Fermentation Lounge: Open Mic Night Hosted by Conor Churchill. 7pm
  

• Ology Powermill: Marauders Market. Noon
  
• The Hub at Feather Oaks: The Barber Bros. 1pm-4pm
  
• Goodwood: Ice Cream Social. Get ready for a spectacular day of family fun at Goodwood Museum & Gardens! Treat your taste buds to a family fun day of FREE ice cream, FREE crafts for the kids, FREE activities, and more, all on the beautiful Goodwood grounds. Family-friendly musical entertainment will be provided by The Safari Man, who will have everyone tapping their feet and dancing along to his whimsical tunes. 1pm
  
• Common Ground Books: Contemporary Queer Poetry Book Club: Time is a Mother. This month, we’ll be reading “Time is a Mother” by Ocean Vuong. “In this deeply intimate second poetry collection, Ocean Vuong searches for life among the aftershocks of his mother's death, embodying the paradox of sitting within grief while being determined to survive beyond it. Vivid, brave and propulsive, Vuong's poems contend with personal loss, the meaning of family, and the value of joy in a perennially fractured American spirit. The author of the critically acclaimed poetry collection Night Sky with Exit Wounds, winner of the 2016 Whiting Award, the 2017 T. S. Eliot Prize and a 2019 MacArthur fellow, Vuong writes directly to our humanity without losing sight of the current moment. Bold and prescient, and a testament to tenderness in the face of violence, Time is a Mother is a return and a forging-forth all at once.” 6pm
  

MONDAY, 5/20

• Just One More: Bingo. 5pm-6:30pm
  
• The Getaway Grille and Bar: Margarita Monday, Open-Mic Night hosted by The Saltwater Cowboy. 5:30pm-8pm
  
• American Legion Hall: Cha Cha - Weekly Lessons. 6:15pm/$5
  
• Hangar 38: Bingo. 6:45pm
  
• Vino Beano: Tipsy Trivia. 7pm
  

TUESDAY, 5/21

• Blue Tavern: Happy Hour. 5pm
  
• The Getaway Grille: Tuesday Night Bikes and Trikes. 6pm
  
• Crafty Crab: BOOMIN' Karaoke. 7pm
  
• Gamescape: Hobby Night. Slay the grey together! Join your fellow gamers and turn your pile of grey miniatures into a battle ready army. Need some painting tips? Feel free to ask at hobby night. You can bring any miniature for any game to paint. 7pm
  
• Ology Midtown: Jazz Jam Sessions. 7pm
  
• Island Wings: Trivia. 7pm
  
• Brass Tap in Midtown: Trivia. 1st Tuesday of the month is General Knowledge with rotating themes the rest of the month. 7pm
  
• House of Music: Tuesday Trivia & Karaoke. 7pm
  
• American Legion Hall: Tallahassee Swing Band Tuesday Night Dance. 7:30pm
  
• Fire Bettys: Comedy Night. 8pm
  
• Poor Pauls: Trivia. 8pm/21+
  
• Blue Tavern: Bluesday Tuesday with Bill Ricci. Every Tuesday is Blues Day @ the Blue Tavern and Blues Meets Girl is a Tallahassee favorite. This perfect, intimate venue provides just what you need for both a mid-week break and authentic blues music experience. 8pm/$5
  
• 4th Quarter: Professor Jim's Tuesday Night Trivia. Popular for a reason! 8pm
  
• Argonaut Coffee: Trivia Tuesday. 8pm
  
• The Sound Bar: Karaoke. 8pm
  
• Fire Betty’s: Open Mic Comedy Night. 8pm/21+
  
• 926: Tacos and Trivia. 9pm
  

• Tallahassee Junior Museum: Basic Blacksmith Skills Program. Light your curiosity at our upcoming Basic Blacksmith Skills Program! Join our resident blacksmith, Michael Murphy, as he shares his history of being a Smitty. Participants will be able to keep the fire going, sling a hammer, and throw knives during this two hour lecture program. This is an outdoor event. Must preregister online at tallahasseemuseum.org/events. This program is free for members and regular admission price for non-members. 10am

WEDNESDAY, 5/22

• Sugar and Spice Tally: Game Night. Join us every Wednesday Night for community game night. Bring your own or use ours! Let me know if you need to reserve space for a large group. Free to attend! 5pm
  
• Goodwood: Wonderful Wednesday. 6pm/$5
  
• Level 8 Rooftop Lounge: Trivia. 6pm
  
• La Florida Coffee & Wine: Trivia Night. 6pm
  
• The Great Games Library: Open Game Night. 6pm/free
  
• American Legion Hall: Sue Boyd Country Western and More Dance Class. Session 2 - Beginner 6:30 to 7:45 pm What: East Coast Swing and Waltz. Cost: $8.00 per person. Wear comfortable shoes you can turn in. 7:45 to 8:15 - Practice dance with paid admission. 8:15 to 9:30: Intermediate - 2 Step and WCS. $8.00 per person or $13.00 for both classes. Vaccines are required. Face masks are optional. Changing partners is optional. 6:30pm
  
• Perry Lynn’s Smokehouse in Quincy: Wed Night Open Mic w/ Steven Ritter and Friends. 6:30pm
  
• Hangar 38: Trivia. 6:45pm
  
• Proof: Trivia. 7pm
  
• Vino Beano: Wine Bingo. 7pm
  
• Fermentation Lounge: Trivia. 7pm
  
• Blue Tavern: Wednesday Open Mic with Doc Russell. The open mic night that has run continuously for almost 20 years, once housed at the Warehouse, lives on at the Blue Tavern. Doc Russell continues as the host with the most. Sign up starts at 7:45pm/free to attend
  
• House of Music: Bar Bingo! Free to Play & Late Night Karaoke. 7pm
  
• Fire Betty’s: Karaoke! 8pm/21+/free
  
• Dukes and Dotties: College Night and Line Dancing Lessons. 8pm
  
• Finnegans Wake: Trivia. 8pm
  
• The Sound Bar: Open Mic Night. 8pm
  
• The Bark: Karaoke with DJ Nathan. Best karaoke DJ in town. 9pm
  
• Peppers: Karaoke. 9pm
  
• 926: Dragged Out Wednesday. 10pm
  

My whole wedding is a boho, rustic vibe. It’s not casual but it’s certainly not an overly formal affair (garden wedding with lawn games and s’mores). On that theme, my wedding dress is very boho. It’s more cream than white. It has lots of flowers embroidered on it. It doesn’t have a train. It’s not even technically a wedding dress. I bought it from a designer clothing brand I’ve really adored for awhile because I like their ethos about sustainability and their general style.
My FMIL sent me a picture of her dress. It’s a full on gown. First of all, it’s white with a few blue flowers on it. It’s a full length, one shoulder dress with crystals along the one shoulder. It’s pretty but it’s basically more of a gown than my wedding dress. I’ve explained to her a few times that I think she will be overdressed as no one else (including myself) will be at her level of formality. She insists on wearing it and is even trying to pressure my mom to match her formality (my mom picked out a cute midi dress with polka dots). She wants my mom to wear a formal gown as well so she doesn’t stick out.
I’m trying to be very delicate and polite about the situation but it’s just weird! Why do you want to wear a formal white dress to your son’ss wedding??? Especially one that you know is more white and more formal than the actual bride! My fiancé has told his mom more sternly that her dress is not a good idea but she’s stubborn. Unfortunately I don’t think there’s any changing her idea and she’ll show up wearing what she wants. It’s still super frustrating though!

This post mentions furries. If you don't like furries, ignore this post.
tl;dr want to make new, physical friends in the local furry community but not sure about it because we've been spending time 'alone' with headmates so much. Host has been a furry for almost 20 yrs and it is very important to her.
About 4 years ago, all of the host's friends moved away or vanished. Before that, she had a lot of friends she would spend her time with. Since then, we've found things to do that don't involve another physical person. The host goes places, like theme parks, and hangs out with the headmates. It's been a lot of fun and we've gotten used to it. We don't mind doing stuff 'alone' any more. In the past, we'd struggle with this and would want a friend with us.
Host is a furry, and wants to get back into the local community. Most of her friends that moved away or vanished were furries, and they would always go to the local meets.
Now they aren't here.
Being a furry is more fun with friends (and safer, because host wants a new fursuit but that isn't a hobby you can do alone safely). There are a lot of local meets, but host is wary of making new furry friends. We have met a LOT of weirdos and unsavory people in the past. We have also made a lot of good friends. Sometimes, the host just doesn't feel like trying to make friends or doesn't want friends. Granted, she DOES have friends, the headmates, and they are as real as anyone else, but sometimes a PHYSICAL friend is nice to have. We have not spent time with an actual physical friend, aside from the friend the host has known since middle school.
It's a bit strange, because the host isn't afraid of people or introverted. She will talk to random people at theme parks with no problem, hang out with them, and then never see them again or think to ask if they want to exchange contact info. We go to theme park events with a national group and enjoy time with other people, but largely enjoy being by ourselves and doing our own thing.
We guess she's just wary of new people or not as interested in new people as she thought.
So we're struggling because we kind of want to do new things in our local community and get involved. But at the same time the host is wary. Host is also an aromantic asexual, and doesn't appreciate people hitting on her or making comments. Furries in the past have done this to her.
We're looking for any advice. Something to give us insight or make us approach this differently.

Best Wedding Car Rental Delhi: Ride into Forever in Style by Hiremetaxi.com

Congratulations! The wedding bells are about to chime, and every detail is meticulously planned – the dream venue, breathtaking décor, and the perfect ensemble for your big day. But have you considered the grand entrance? Arriving in style sets the tone for the entire celebration, making a lasting impression on your guests and creating those unforgettable wedding photos.
Here at Hiremetaxi.com, we understand the importance of a flawless wedding experience. That's why we've created this guide to help you find the best wedding car rental Delhi has to offer. We'll delve into key factors to consider when choosing the perfect car, explore some of Delhi's top wedding car rental companies, and offer some insider tips to ensure your arrival is as magical as your day itself.
Cruising Towards "I Do": Choosing the Perfect Wedding Car Rental
Your wedding car is more than just transportation – it's the chariot that carries you towards your happily ever after. Here are some key considerations to ensure your chariot rolls in with style:

• A Match Made in Car Heaven: Choosing the Right Style

Does a classic vintage car with its timeless elegance capture your heart? Or perhaps a sleek limousine exudes the modern sophistication you crave? Maybe a luxurious SUV reflects your adventurous spirit. Consider the overall theme of your wedding and choose a car that complements it perfectly.

• Seating for Your Entourage: Capacity Matters

Think about the number of guests you need to transport. A spacious limousine is ideal for a large bridal party, while a charming vintage car might be perfect for a more intimate ceremony. Consider the comfort of your entourage as well, especially if you're planning a longer journey.

• Budgeting for Your Big Day: Striking a Balance

Wedding car rentals can range in price depending on the car chosen, rental duration, and any additional services. Set a realistic budget and be sure to compare quotes from different companies to find the best value for your needs.

• From Bare Bones to Bespoke: The Power of Personalization

Some companies offer car decoration services, while others allow you to unleash your inner creative and personalize the car yourself. Discuss your decoration preferences with the rental company in advance. Imagine the car adorned with fresh flowers, flowing ribbons, or even a custom "Just Married" sign!

• Going the Extra Mile: Additional Services to Elevate Your Experience

Look for companies that offer additional services to enhance your wedding experience. A professional driver ensures a smooth and stress-free journey, allowing you to relax and soak in the moment. Complimentary refreshments can add a touch of luxury, while a red carpet rollout will truly make you feel like royalty.
Top Contenders: Unveiling Delhi's Finest Wedding Car Rentals
Now that you're armed with the knowledge to choose the perfect wedding car rental, let's explore some of the most reputable companies in Delhi:

• Wedding Car Hire Delhi: Boasting a vast fleet of luxury cars, from sleek limousines to vintage beauties, Wedding Car Hire Delhi consistently receives rave reviews for their customer service and attention to detail.
  
• Wheelzonrent: With a diverse selection ranging from luxurious sedans like the Mercedes-Benz E-Class to spacious SUVs like the Toyota Fortuner, Wheelzonrent caters to various tastes and budgets. They are a great option for couples seeking flexibility and affordability without compromising on style.
  
• Luxury Wedding Cars Delhi: As the name suggests, Luxury Wedding Cars Delhi specializes in high-end car rentals. They offer an exquisite collection of top-of-the-line vehicles, from Rolls-Royces to Bentleys, ensuring an unforgettable arrival that makes a grand statement.
  

Pro Tips from Hiremetaxi.com: Making Your Grand Entrance Even Grander

• Book Early, Especially During Peak Season: Wedding car rentals tend to get booked well in advance, especially during peak wedding months. Don't wait until the last minute to secure your dream car.
• Read Reviews and Ask Questions: Online reviews and recommendations from friends and family can be invaluable resources. Be sure to ask the rental company detailed questions about their services, policies, and any hidden fees.
• Don't Forget the Comfort Factor: While style is important, prioritize your comfort as well. Choose a car with ample legroom and comfortable seating, especially if you're wearing a voluminous gown.
• Embrace the Journey: The ride to your wedding venue is a precious moment. Relax, savor the anticipation, and enjoy the company of your loved ones.

The Final Touch: Your Wedding Car Awaits
With the right planning and this guide in hand, you're well on your way to finding the perfect wedding car rental Delhi
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The Pelli Poola Jada, a traditional floral hair adornment, has been an integral part of South Indian bridal fashion for centuries. This beautiful accessory not only enhances the bride's beauty but also symbolizes purity and prosperity. As wedding trends evolve, so do the styles and designs of Pelli Poola Jada, merging traditional elements with modern aesthetics. In this blog, we'll explore some of the trending Pelli Poola Jada styles that are captivating the hearts of modern brides.

Trending Pelli Poola Jada Styles for Modern Brides

1. Classic Floral Cascade

The timeless charm of a classic floral cascade never goes out of style. This traditional design features a long braid adorned with an array of fresh flowers, typically jasmine, roses, or marigolds. The simplicity and elegance of the classic floral cascade make it a favorite among brides who want to stay rooted in tradition while exuding grace and beauty.

2. Jewel-Embedded Jada

For brides who love a touch of sparkle, jewel-embedded Pelli Poola Jada is a perfect choice. This style incorporates intricate jewelry pieces such as pearls, kundan, or semi-precious stones into the floral arrangement. The combination of flowers and jewels creates a luxurious look, adding an opulent touch to the bride’s overall appearance.

3. Fusion of Flowers and Ribbons

Modern brides are increasingly opting for innovative designs that blend traditional elements with contemporary flair. The fusion of flowers and ribbons is one such trend. In this style, colorful ribbons are intertwined with fresh flowers, creating a vibrant and playful look. This design is ideal for brides who want to add a pop of color and a modern twist to their traditional attire.

4. Botanical Wonderland

Inspired by the beauty of nature, the botanical wonderland Pelli Poola Jada features a mix of different types of flowers, leaves, and even tiny berries. This eclectic and whimsical design brings a touch of the garden to the bride’s ensemble, making it perfect for outdoor and garden weddings. The diversity of botanical elements creates a rich, textured look that is both unique and enchanting.

5. Minimalist Chic

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication, and minimalist Pelli Poola Jada styles are gaining popularity among brides who prefer understated elegance. This design focuses on fewer, carefully selected flowers arranged in a clean, linear fashion along the braid. The minimalist chic style is perfect for brides who want a sophisticated, modern look without overwhelming details.

6. Traditional with a Modern Twist

For brides who wish to honor tradition but also embrace modern trends, a traditional Pelli Poola Jada with a modern twist is the way to go. This style incorporates traditional flowers like jasmine and roses but adds unique elements such as feathers, lace, or even dried flowers. The blend of old and new creates a distinctive look that celebrates cultural heritage while showcasing individual style.

7. Floral Crown and Jada Combo

Combining the elegance of a floral crown with the beauty of a Pelli Poola Jada, this style is perfect for brides who want to make a bold statement. The floral crown sits atop the head, while the jada adorns the braid, creating a harmonious and regal appearance. This dual design is ideal for brides who want to blend princess-like charm with traditional bridal aesthetics.

8. Seasonal Blooms

Choosing seasonal blooms for the Pelli Poola Jada not only ensures fresh and vibrant flowers but also adds a unique touch to the bridal look. Seasonal flowers reflect the time of year and can be tailored to the wedding theme, making the bride’s ensemble feel more personal and connected to the season. From springtime blossoms to winter florals, the possibilities are endless.

Final Thoughts

The Pelli Poola Jada is more than just a hair accessory; it's a celebration of tradition, beauty, and cultural heritage. With these trending styles, modern brides can find the perfect balance between honoring timeless customs and expressing their unique personality. Whether you opt for a classic floral cascade or a minimalist chic design, the Pelli Poola Jada will undoubtedly add an enchanting touch to your bridal look, making your special day even more memorable.
Embrace these trends, and let your Pelli Poola Jada be a reflection of your style and elegance. Happy wedding planning!

2 month old survival realm with multiple addons that fit a Fantasy Theme:
Magic Spells Telelaterns Mob Armor Tinker's Construct Morph Gauntlet World Utilities Gravestone
And will be adding more over time!

My dad asked me in september to go to a family gathering for the weekend of the 18th of may. I said yes of course, it's a 3 day weekend so let's do it.
Except that until last week he wouldn't talk to me or exchange infos about the wedding unless I asked. Last month I tried to bring it up and he just brushed off all of my concerns.
Once i asked him in the family group chat (mom, dad, sister (18yo), brother (16yo) and me) " hey do you have the invite for the wedding that takes place in your family ?". He then when on a rant about me saying "your family" and that it was a bad thing that I was not saying in "my family". But the reason I said so is because my mom was in the group. So it makes sense to specify which part of the family I'm talking about.
The wedding is this weekend. He hasn't given me any details about when we are leaving, what is the theme and what I should wear, who will be there (my sister is on holidays with friends and my brother told me he might come but dad is unsure ???), how long it will take to go there (we're driving but I don't know for how long). He just told me "I'm picking you on Saturday, be ready". I don't even know when he is picking me on Saturday.
Until last week, he still hadn' t decided for his accomodation and he didn't know where I'd be staying (with him or with family members). So I had to give him options.
The thing that pisses me off the most, is that he was given the invite in september. And my mom saw it on the table last week. Yet he refuses to give me any details when I ask about it.
I don't even know what I should bring or wear because he still hasn't given me the dress code. You might say nobody cares but it's a wedding. I'm not going to show up in my usual outfit (overalls + sneakers).
Last night, I told him that I'm not going because I'm tired because of the lack of organization on his part
(Context : I'm also the eldest daughter and my dad relies heavily on me everytime he needs to make an appointment or to manage an event. However, he told me that this time he could handle it. I was asking questions and he would not answer or say i'll talk about it later.
Also, I have a lot of tattoos and piercings + I'm very outspoken. My family is very conservative and if one of my aunts/uncles says something negative about me, my dad usually talks to me after the event and asks if I can tone down my style or talk less because he is a bit annoyed of the way I act.
I have two big tattoos that are very visible and I know that people will talk to my dad about)