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2024.05.15 03:34 GrandSupermarket4024 Used BLP Scam Attempt
I just wanted to pass along a scam that someone tried to pull on SideLineSwap for a Bushnell Launch Pro. He listed it for sale for 2000.00 and the location of Georgia with the user name being Basiladze9910. The unit was listed as barely used with a gold membership lasting till 10/24. I asked him several questions, one of them being does the unit have club data activated to which he answered yes. Something seemed a little too good to be true but seeing as how the deal was on SidelineSwap which I have used before I made an offer of 1750.00 which he accepted. 2 days later I received a tracking notice stating the package would arrive between 9am and 11am 5/13. Needless to say I was looking forward to getting the unit.
The morning of 5/13 arrived and things started going south. I checked the tracking number while doing some work in the yard and it showed that the package had been delivered but that the package was left at the front desk and signed for by Mike but no address was shown as to where it was delivered. I immediately messaged the seller via SidelineSwap about something being wrong and then got on the phone to UPS. I was informed that the package was to delivered to an address in the same town as me but I was not listed on the package as being the recipient. I also was told the address where the package originated from, which I googled and came up with the Amtrak Station in Atlanta Georgia. So I emailed SidelineSwap about what was going on, I also messaged the seller via SidelineSwap chat. The seller responded that the tracking number was incorrect and gave me a second tracking number which now showed the package to arrive on 5/17 before noon the twist now being the package was coming from California. The issue became that the 72 hours clock on SidelineSwap to release the money to the seller started ticking since the package was now listed as being delivered. If I did nothing and waited the money would have been released 5/16 because the seller did not have the listed changed to reflect that the package was still in transit. So I went to the SLS page and selected the option to dispute the transaction.
So now the seller starts messaging me and accusing me of trying to scam him and that he wants his money and he needs his money and why am I doing this? Please don’t scam him. The whole time I have been emailing SidelineSwap anytime I received any more information from the seller or from UPS. SidelineSwap emailed me and said that I had three options. The first was wait till the package arrived and see if it contained the launch monitor and accept it and release the funds. The second was to open the package and if it was not a launch monitor or if there was a problem with it, then I could request a refund. the third and final option was to refuse the package and have it sent back to the seller I had made up my mind to refuse the package. I called UPS to see if I could refuse the package while it was in transit. I gave the agent the tracking number and was told by UPS that the package associated with that number was not coming to my address and also that I was not the recipient listed on the package. I immediately emailed this information to SidelineSwap and I also messaged the seller about what UPS had told me. The seller proceeded to message me back saying that the first tracking number was correct and that the unit was delivered to my address and he wanted his money.
I was emailing SidelineSwap the entire time and I informed SidelineSwap that I was going to dispute the charge with PayPal and my credit card company. I started the claim with PayPal, giving them a description of what occurred and screenshots of the entire message session with the seller and emails from SidelineSwap. About an hour later I was notified by SidelineSwap that the transaction was canceled and also received verification from PayPal that the charge was refunded.
Like I said, in the beginning, this seemed a little too good to be true, and as it turns out that was the case. The only reason I attempted to purchase this BLP was because it was on SidelineSwap and I know there is buyer protection. If this had been some sort of private sale there is no way that I would have gone through with it because there was no way I could have protected my interests. After it was over, I tried to figure out how this person thought they could get away with this. I could not come up with anything other than the fact that the person is stupid or was hoping that I was even stupider than he was. What I did find to be very curious though is how this seller was able to get 2 tracking numbers for 2 different packages coming to my town. I am sorry that this is so long and confusing, but I wanted to get the message out there of this type of a scam. Right after all this was over I went on a simulator message board and someone had made a post about purchasing a BLP from Facebook marketplace for the same amount of money coming from the same initial location as the one I tried to buy. I related my some of my experience in this case to that person because I do not want to see anybody get taken advantage of and get ripped off.
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The morning of 5/13 arrived and things started going south. I checked the tracking number while doing some work in the yard and it showed that the package had been delivered but that the package was left at the front desk and signed for by Mike but no address was shown as to where it was delivered. I immediately messaged the seller via SidelineSwap about something being wrong and then got on the phone to UPS. I was informed that the package was to delivered to an address in the same town as me but I was not listed on the package as being the recipient. I also was told the address where the package originated from, which I googled and came up with the Amtrak Station in Atlanta Georgia. So I emailed SidelineSwap about what was going on, I also messaged the seller via SidelineSwap chat. The seller responded that the tracking number was incorrect and gave me a second tracking number which now showed the package to arrive on 5/17 before noon the twist now being the package was coming from California. The issue became that the 72 hours clock on SidelineSwap to release the money to the seller started ticking since the package was now listed as being delivered. If I did nothing and waited the money would have been released 5/16 because the seller did not have the listed changed to reflect that the package was still in transit. So I went to the SLS page and selected the option to dispute the transaction.
So now the seller starts messaging me and accusing me of trying to scam him and that he wants his money and he needs his money and why am I doing this? Please don’t scam him. The whole time I have been emailing SidelineSwap anytime I received any more information from the seller or from UPS. SidelineSwap emailed me and said that I had three options. The first was wait till the package arrived and see if it contained the launch monitor and accept it and release the funds. The second was to open the package and if it was not a launch monitor or if there was a problem with it, then I could request a refund. the third and final option was to refuse the package and have it sent back to the seller I had made up my mind to refuse the package. I called UPS to see if I could refuse the package while it was in transit. I gave the agent the tracking number and was told by UPS that the package associated with that number was not coming to my address and also that I was not the recipient listed on the package. I immediately emailed this information to SidelineSwap and I also messaged the seller about what UPS had told me. The seller proceeded to message me back saying that the first tracking number was correct and that the unit was delivered to my address and he wanted his money.
I was emailing SidelineSwap the entire time and I informed SidelineSwap that I was going to dispute the charge with PayPal and my credit card company. I started the claim with PayPal, giving them a description of what occurred and screenshots of the entire message session with the seller and emails from SidelineSwap. About an hour later I was notified by SidelineSwap that the transaction was canceled and also received verification from PayPal that the charge was refunded.
Like I said, in the beginning, this seemed a little too good to be true, and as it turns out that was the case. The only reason I attempted to purchase this BLP was because it was on SidelineSwap and I know there is buyer protection. If this had been some sort of private sale there is no way that I would have gone through with it because there was no way I could have protected my interests. After it was over, I tried to figure out how this person thought they could get away with this. I could not come up with anything other than the fact that the person is stupid or was hoping that I was even stupider than he was. What I did find to be very curious though is how this seller was able to get 2 tracking numbers for 2 different packages coming to my town. I am sorry that this is so long and confusing, but I wanted to get the message out there of this type of a scam. Right after all this was over I went on a simulator message board and someone had made a post about purchasing a BLP from Facebook marketplace for the same amount of money coming from the same initial location as the one I tried to buy. I related my some of my experience in this case to that person because I do not want to see anybody get taken advantage of and get ripped off.
2024.05.15 03:34 Estaaguirre My First Working Bow
 | So I finally more or less finished my first “working” bow from a hickory board. I just realized I forgot to get the final measurements but the goal was 66” OAL and ≈50lbs at 28”. submitted by Estaaguirre to Bowyer [link] [comments] This is the one that developed the parallel crack in the handle, which glued up beautifully with TB3 and changed to a less aggressive fade and shallower grip. After, I shaped the grip and added an arrow shelf, I test fired my first successful arrow and about two dozen more after that. I did some light final sanding and added some Velcro to the shelf, intent on getting some tiller pics and when I went to go short string it, the back peeled on the top limb right above the riser. Instead of giving up on it as I initially wanted, I decided to try and figure it out. First I bent the limb to open the delaminating fibers as much as I felt comfortable and filled it with TB3, clamping it closed and the letting it cure in the backset I was attempting to achieve. Then, following one of Kramers great videos, I layered 4 layers of fiberglass tape and gobs of TB3 and let that cure for 26hrs. The new tiller seemed to round out much more evenly tho still hinging at the lowest point of the fades. I tillered abit more first on a long string then short to try and even out a twist before I decided I probably got as much as I could out of the abused wood. I ended with 46ish lbs at 28”, pretty dang quiet when I don’t pluck the string and throws the arrows I have nicely and accurately when I do my part. Lessons I learned besides the fades, is to double my time on the long and short string tiller than I did before. I don’t believe I tillered as evenly as I should’ve and it introduced a twist into the bow when drawn that adds light vibration on the shot, seen better with slow mo. But I learned I’m capable of achieving a goal I set for myself at 18, even if it took 20 years to do it Last pic is a few gifts I’ve received that have become my weekend job to finish before checks develop |
2024.05.15 03:33 Famous_Difference457 I want to hear some of your thoughts on this app that I found for free Gift Cards by playing games and want to know if you all know any app that is as good or better than it.
Playbite is an app that grants you free gift cards or items for playing different games. I personally think that it's actually pretty good and have just claimed a $5 gift card. Do you guys know anything else like it that you can recommend or do you think that this is one of the best of these types of apps?
https://s.playbite.com/invite/prizesfree2024.05.15 03:33 2cool4ashe Within the comments of a Volume 1 cover art thread for a manga in /r/manga, a power mod won't stop trying to get the last word in.
The original thread in manga is a post titled "Tsumiki Ogami & the Strange Everyday Life. - Volume 1 Cover", and it's an image of the cover art for the new series' volume 1 edition (Japanese manga chapters get compiled into physical volumes so you can read 7-8 chapters at a time in one book).
Now, I wrote in the title that the drama involves a power mod, and personally, I don't know how many subs someone can mod for before they're considered a power mod, but the redditors in this conversation mod 150+ subreddits for reference, so I consider that power mod status. One of these power mods in particular will create a new subreddit for every new Weekly Shonen Jump manga series, precisely so they can be the top mod for the subreddit and dictate how the rules go there. It should also be noted that this power mod creates a discord server for these series as well, and advertises it in the series' subreddits.
With that out of the way, the drama spawns shortly after a regular comment about the art for the volume: (regular redditors will be abbrev. as C1, C2, while power mod accounts will be Pmod1, Pmod2)
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Now, I wrote in the title that the drama involves a power mod, and personally, I don't know how many subs someone can mod for before they're considered a power mod, but the redditors in this conversation mod 150+ subreddits for reference, so I consider that power mod status. One of these power mods in particular will create a new subreddit for every new Weekly Shonen Jump manga series, precisely so they can be the top mod for the subreddit and dictate how the rules go there. It should also be noted that this power mod creates a discord server for these series as well, and advertises it in the series' subreddits.
With that out of the way, the drama spawns shortly after a regular comment about the art for the volume: (regular redditors will be abbrev. as C1, C2, while power mod accounts will be Pmod1, Pmod2)
C1: BIG OL' STOMPERS. Pmod1: gonna have a field trip with this today Pmod2[OP]: go away [links to a comment in another thread which states: "Don't listen to [Pmod1]. It's the same guy who'll shill his new subreddit for any new manga that appears."] Pmod1: Why do you hate me punpun, I thought we were besties :( C2: Spiderman pointing at Spiderman C3: battle of the power mods: who can be mods for more manga subredditsEven though the spiderman comment was in reply to Pmod2, Pmod1 reads it and decides to respond to C2:
C2: Spiderman pointing at Spiderman Pmod1: Lol why don't u go and mald over some [Weekly Shonen Jump] series sales and [Table of Contents] shit what are you doing here xd. C2: Get help Pmod1: Say the same thing again but infront of a mirror now. C2: You're so god damn weird jfc Pmod1: Yeah sure you come and comment under my thread and I'm the weird one. Get a life bro lol reddit isn't everything. C2: Yes, you're the weird one. Maybe take your own advice to heart Pmod1: Bro lives on reddit and discord and likes to hate everywhere lol. No wonder they always clown on you, you should look deeper into yourself where it all went wrong. C2: Please get help Pmod1: I'm pleading the same for you too! Please go get help, being obsessed with others isn't good for you. C2: Yes, surely it's me being obsessed and not you. Get help, please. Pmod1: Just stop replying to me brother it's looking mad embarrassing for you [at this point]. C2: It's looking embarrassing for me when you're the one who replied to a comment that wasn't even a direct reply to you within a minute? Pmod1: Maybe stop sharing it to ur secret wicket discord server 😉 C2: This just makes you look even worse 😭 What would you have done if I hadn't made that comment here? Don't want your alt to get exposed and that's why you replied here instead of the discord even though the comment was made minutes later? Pmod1: What is bro yapping about 😭 go play with some charts or something don't disturb me now(The way Pmod1 is talking to C2 makes it seems like C2 is a power mod, but I checked the account and they only mod 3 subreddits, so probably not? Anyways, the conversation, continued:)
C2: You are the one who started this convo man lmaoooo Pmod1: Yeah sure that's why it shows u being the one who said "Spiderman pointing at spiderman" first lol and what does that makes you? Don't say Batman u cringe af 🤧 C2: But that reply wasn't made to you? 😭 Pmod1: Indirectly it was?? 😭 Out of the two spidermans u referenced me as one too. C2: Are you really this dense? I didn't reply to you, you chose to engage in this convo so why are you now telling me to stop bothering you? Just stop replying lmao Pmod1: That's what I have been telling you too, stop being obsessed with me and this weird thing where you want to have the last reply for some reason. Just stop responding back. C2: Why would I? This is entertaining to me. Since you're apparently bothered by it, just stop replying and that's it? Pmod1: Lol bro thinks he's the main character C2: No, I just think you're a loser and clowning on you and other powermods is funny as fuck. Pmod1: Lol says the social loser who has been sitting on reddit all day. C2: You can't be this dense man. Not only have you been more active than me today specifically, you also immediately replied to a comment that wasn't even a reply to you and you are a god damn powermod. Like, the longer you keep replying the more you're embarrassing yourself. Pmod1: I just returned from office so I got more time now buddy. I can do this all day. Keep responding back and you'll keep getting a reply back. So just stop being a clown and stop now. C2: Again, why would I? You started this, not me and you also wanted this to stop and now you're changing your tune again. You keep making an ass out of yourself because you got so fucking triggered by a reply that wasn't even directed at you, that you can't help yourself but to continue this with more and more nonsense arguments digging yourself deeper and deeper into this hole.I think that last comment by C2 really irritated Pmod1, because their replies get longer and the drama really duplicates:
Pmod1: Brother the only one who keeps falling deeper into this hole is you. It's like you're almost begging to be clowned atp. I can understand you have a lot of free time in your hand like most unemployed people, but that doesn't mean you should waste it all on reddit. If you want I can help you look for job applications. We can help you get through this, together. C2: It's incredible how dumb you are, jfc. Let me repeat: You started this. Not me. You. You immediately replied to a comment that wasn't even a reply to you. Not me. You. You're so insanely triggered by a single comment that you can't simply let it go and keep getting your ass trolled by me who's laughing his ass off at how desperate you're trying to somehow own me. It's so funny how pressed you are by a single comment, but I guess if the shoe fits... Pmod1: You literally came to the thread to start this shit and now trying to turn it on me...is this your new hobby now? From rolling in downvotes for your shit manga takes to arguing with random redditors? I'm honestly getting a kick out of it though so please continue... C2: Omfg, it has been a full weekend and you still can't let go. That's so fucking sad. You really spent the weekend doing fun stuff and then came back here just to be angry again. Please get help. Pmod1: Buddy I just forgot. But it's genuinely sad that you're still going on this after so long. Either get a life or some help. I'm feeling pity for you now. C2: Sure, you "forgot" even though you clearly have notifications on since you replied to a comment that wasn't a reply to you within a minute because it triggered you so much. Look, even if you forgot it's still incredibly sad that you can't just let go and keep coming here just to be wound up by me again. I also don't know why you keep trying to spin this when the whole conversation is publicly readable and it's clear you're incredibly mad while I've already stated that I won't stop because it's fucking funny. It takes me a few minutes at worst to respond and get you to bite while you insist on pretending like you're not actually angry even though everyone knows you are because why else would you even react to my comment like that lmao. Honestly, since you're only replying sporadically with the same "no u" garbage atp, it takes the fun out of it, so I'm just gonna block your ass and hope I'll never come across you againSo C2 in fact does block Pmod1, essentially allowing them to have the last word, right? But in a twist, Pmod1 responds to C2 with another account that is a power mod for 90+ subs:
Pmod-Alt1: Did you really think you can just have the final say and then block me and think this all ends? Well guess not. If it annoys you that much then just stop replying, it's not that deep. But ofcourse it's gonna hurt your male fragile ego because deep inside you're just a scared little boy 🥺 and that's alright. We won't judge you for being so sad, it's not your fault at all buddy. C2: I'm just gonna block that account too, lol. Wonder how many alts you have you pathetic loser Edit: Shit, you can only block once every 24 hours... Well, time to turn off notifs. Stay mad clown Pmod-Alt1: Keep malding. And stop replying back, u just clown on yourself more and make it super embarrassing for yourself. C2: No uIt appears C2 blocks that account, and through Undelete, I can see there were 2 more replies from 2 other accounts, but they were deleted too fast, so this is all you see:
C2: No u Pmod-Alt2: [deleted] Pmod-Alt3: [removed too quickly to be archived]The content must have been similar to some of the comments in the conversation above, because C2 edits their 'No u' comment twice to call Pmod1 out:
C2: Edit: I'm literally just gonna block all of your accounts you obsessed freak. At least it seems like you've done me a favor by blocking me with your 5th alt since I can't see your reply. No one is buying your "no u" bullshit, which is why I'm making fun of it. I'm just gonna turn off notifs again and block any account of yours I see on sight. Stay mad, loserPlease note that this drama is a few months old, and as far as I can tell, the power mods are still doing their modding thing.
Edit 2: What the fuck are you talking about you fucking weirdo?? You chose to engage in this convo. You always could've just stepped away, but you were too mad to do that. It's also crazy how you try to claim that I'm mad when you're the one who replied to a comment that wasn't a reply to you because it got you so triggered and are now scrambling to find your millionth alt just to get another reply in. You're an obsessed freak, basically proving me right just by how you're reacting to all this and all you can come up with is "no u" because you have no rebuttal. Back to blocking and hoping the notif suppression actually works now... Pmod-Alt4: Atleast ur doing both of us a favor and I can finally get rid of your obsession with me. Keep malding while I keep laughing!
2024.05.15 03:31 extra-thick-cock 30 M4F Buffalo/Monticello Area
Low on groceries, gas or cash? Hit me up i have a bunch of $50-$100 gift cards (Visa, Wal-Mart, Target, Holiday, and Starbucks. I am clean vetted straight male average build i am 30 years old. I am just asking for some type of sexual favor hand or oral can get you your choice of gift card. Oral and sex you can have 5 gift cards of your choosing.
Now you may be asking. "Steven you are such a nice gentleman why are you doimg this?" Well to answer your question. I am i nice & respectful single gentleman and if im completely honest dating is hard and people suck. I am a hard core introvert so peopleing is not a thing i do but i am a man and i have needs. So i have taken to the interwebs to fill these needs.
Please don't call me please text me if you are interested. 7632309793
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Now you may be asking. "Steven you are such a nice gentleman why are you doimg this?" Well to answer your question. I am i nice & respectful single gentleman and if im completely honest dating is hard and people suck. I am a hard core introvert so peopleing is not a thing i do but i am a man and i have needs. So i have taken to the interwebs to fill these needs.
Please don't call me please text me if you are interested. 7632309793
2024.05.15 03:30 DefiantCorner Digestive Enzymes for Cats in general and/or for repeated Constipation: Your experience/possible recommendations
Here’s the basic info, with situation explanations below.
Cats name: Jasmine Species: Cat Age: about 11 Sex/Neuter status: Female, spayed Breed: possible Siberian forest cat mix Body weight: 12.1 (last weighed at vet about 1.5 months ago. History: Mild constipation about 1.5 months ago. Didn’t know at first. Was lethargic, hiding, barely eating or drinking. Went to vet after a couple days when I could get appointment. They gave fluids and pain meds. Vet said it didn’t “feel” like she had much of an obstruction. After a few days she was fine.
Now: came home from work yesterday, around 5:30. Noticed she was lethargic, shying away from pets. Not quite sitting, but not standing either. Seemed very uncomfortable. Wouldn’t eat dinner. (She ate breakfast) (wet food morning and night with dry food available, but doesn’t usually eat much dry food.)
I lost a friend recently, so I was maybe a bit paranoid when my cat wasn’t looking well, so I took her to the emergency vet in my area. They manually removed some of the blockage (can’t imagine kitty was too happy about that.) then did an enema, anti-nausea med injection, pain med injection, fluids, and stool softener. Got home and she was not in pain. High as a kite though. She ate some tuna (her favorite, it’s what saved her as a stray kitten.)
This morning I gave the instructed oral dose of the pain med and stool softener. She didn’t eat this morning. Checked on her during lunch. Hadn’t eaten from what I could tell. Came home from work today, and she was drooling. Gave the recommended dose of the anti-nausea pill, still waiting for it to take effect, then maybe do the pain med oral and stool softener once the anti nausea kicks in.
I do have an appointment with our vet in a couple of days, as recommended. I will ask them in person about what digestive enzyme supplements they recommend, but I wanted to also get other recommendations from other vets or anyone who has had personal experience with digestive enzyme supplements for their cats.
NOTE: I will wait to buy anything until after I’ve talked to our vet. I just want to know your experience, and what ones seemed to work for your animals, so I can bring them up.
TIA
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Cats name: Jasmine Species: Cat Age: about 11 Sex/Neuter status: Female, spayed Breed: possible Siberian forest cat mix Body weight: 12.1 (last weighed at vet about 1.5 months ago. History: Mild constipation about 1.5 months ago. Didn’t know at first. Was lethargic, hiding, barely eating or drinking. Went to vet after a couple days when I could get appointment. They gave fluids and pain meds. Vet said it didn’t “feel” like she had much of an obstruction. After a few days she was fine.
Now: came home from work yesterday, around 5:30. Noticed she was lethargic, shying away from pets. Not quite sitting, but not standing either. Seemed very uncomfortable. Wouldn’t eat dinner. (She ate breakfast) (wet food morning and night with dry food available, but doesn’t usually eat much dry food.)
I lost a friend recently, so I was maybe a bit paranoid when my cat wasn’t looking well, so I took her to the emergency vet in my area. They manually removed some of the blockage (can’t imagine kitty was too happy about that.) then did an enema, anti-nausea med injection, pain med injection, fluids, and stool softener. Got home and she was not in pain. High as a kite though. She ate some tuna (her favorite, it’s what saved her as a stray kitten.)
This morning I gave the instructed oral dose of the pain med and stool softener. She didn’t eat this morning. Checked on her during lunch. Hadn’t eaten from what I could tell. Came home from work today, and she was drooling. Gave the recommended dose of the anti-nausea pill, still waiting for it to take effect, then maybe do the pain med oral and stool softener once the anti nausea kicks in.
I do have an appointment with our vet in a couple of days, as recommended. I will ask them in person about what digestive enzyme supplements they recommend, but I wanted to also get other recommendations from other vets or anyone who has had personal experience with digestive enzyme supplements for their cats.
NOTE: I will wait to buy anything until after I’ve talked to our vet. I just want to know your experience, and what ones seemed to work for your animals, so I can bring them up.
TIA
2024.05.15 03:30 GollyLoh What kind of scam is this?
 | As you can see from the screenshot, this lady added me on LinkedIn and then messaged me stating that they (her and/or other people I guess) could take and pass the CCM and PMP exams on my behalf. I’m not familiar with the CCM certification, but the PMP is a project management certification, relevant to my field. So I’m guessing they would pose as me, and take the exam online? I don’t even know how they could do that because, even with the proctor exam online, the identity is checked. Maybe it is a pushing attempt, they just want to collect a lot of my personal information + pics of my ID card, claiming it is for the exam? Wha are your thoughts? submitted by GollyLoh to Scams [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 03:28 LegApprehensive2089 My conscience is in bits trying to do the right thing. But making sure it’s for the right reasons
I don’t exactly know if this is the place to ask, but I really need advice or clarity and the situation touches on themes related to the sub. I’m not Karma farming I very much need advice on what to do
I’d say I have a strong moral compass.
I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
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I’d say I have a strong moral compass.
I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
2024.05.15 03:27 BlackHatch01 Not sure if this is allowed, but does anybody need formula coupons?
My wife and I recently received two random boxes of stuff from Enfamil and Similac. My wife is not pregnant and we have no idea why these came to us, but here we are.
She has a co-worker that's pregnant, so we're thinking about gifting the packages to her. That being said, we also have a bunch of coupons/checks that we don't feel comfortable gifting to her, as they have my wife's name on them so it may seem strange to her co-worker.
We don't want the coupons to go to waste, so if anybody needs them, we're happy to give them out here. Not sure if that's allowed, or if it matters that her name is on them if somebody else tries to use them, but hopefully the more experienced crowd here will know how these things work and maybe have a good use for them.
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She has a co-worker that's pregnant, so we're thinking about gifting the packages to her. That being said, we also have a bunch of coupons/checks that we don't feel comfortable gifting to her, as they have my wife's name on them so it may seem strange to her co-worker.
We don't want the coupons to go to waste, so if anybody needs them, we're happy to give them out here. Not sure if that's allowed, or if it matters that her name is on them if somebody else tries to use them, but hopefully the more experienced crowd here will know how these things work and maybe have a good use for them.
2024.05.15 03:25 pablonun Add a page to manage payments and transfers
 | Even with mint or monarch I always kept this spreadsheet updated on the 15th or 30th of the month to track how much cash balance I have in my checking account minus pending checks, transfer to multiple accounts for bills / other payments, and credit card payments to do. It's the best way for me to stay on top of all my bills and accounts without causing unnecessary overdraft or missed payment. The leftover balance I then decide to apply towards savings accounts, brokerage or transfer to any other account for planned future expenses. submitted by pablonun to MonarchMoney [link] [comments] I think monarch can implement this easily since I mostly look at monarch to get current balance, im just missing the planning part. It would be great to have a page with available cash from certain accounts (show if recurring income is expected in next few days). Below show accounts to transfer to (in my case mostly scheduled transfers). Then credit card accounts with current balance and due date, with a blank field for users to input how much they plan to contribute to each account. Below each section or to the side it's helpful for the user to see how much they still have left to contribute, this allows the user to prioritize without causing overdraft. At the end I keep a list of account I fund for different uses, here I include my brokerage accounts, savings accounts, family fund, etc... Here users should also be able to distribute the remaining balance. Everything in this page should be customizable for it to work. This is not a perfect method, I'm open to suggestions. My spreadsheet is more complicated than it should be, but I like seeing everything at a glance. Monarch's solution can be way simpler. https://preview.redd.it/p0zkp7blsh0d1.png?width=898&format=png&auto=webp&s=9a14ea21590b2a3ee372d8a92cbe60f790a278c0 |
2024.05.15 03:24 Realistic_Ad_2365 How to Install Guppy
Hi guys, after losing brain cells trying to find information on how to install the Guppy screen, I wanted to show y'all how to do it on your own if you choose to. I may be wrong on some parts, but these are the things that worked for me. Thanks to wolfie_the_king_574 for telling me some of the steps on how to do it, but some of it didn't work for me. I also used Wiki for Creality Helper Script (guilouz.github.io) and ballaswag/guppyflo: GuppyFLO is a self-hosted service that enables local/remote management of multiple Klipper printers using Moonraker (github.com) and ballaswag/guppyscreen: A native Touch UI for 3D Printers running KlippeMoonraker. (github.com) on the steps for some of it and will be summarizing most of it. I will also be adding in the common downloads needed here for easy access as I was jumping all around to find it. [I'm not sure if you have to keep rebooting your printer during this process, but I'll take the safe way and do it anyways]
[Edit: I'm not sure why upon posting, that the numbers are all 1. but I can't change it so bare with me]
Let me know if I did anything wrong, but these are the steps that worked for me.
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[Edit: I'm not sure why upon posting, that the numbers are all 1. but I can't change it so bare with me]
- [1] Reset your entire Nebula Pad
- Download and unzip this file: Creality_K1_Reset_Utility.zip
- Open the file Creality_K1_Reset_Utility.html in your Internet browser.
- Make sure your printer is on, and put in your IP address and click reset.
- Reboot to make sure it has reset.
- Turn off your printer now.
- [2] Reinstall the firmware for the Nebula Pad
- Download this Ender 3 V3 SE Firmware.
- Add the Ender3V3SE_firmware.bin file into your SD card and plug it into the printer.
- Choose the Ender 3 V3 SE logo on the next page. Put in your settings and update to the latest version.
- Turn off your printer.
- [3] Now you want to root your Nebula Pad
- Click on this Destinal Root and download the first link in the description.
- There should be a white usb that came with the Nebula Pad. Plug that into your computer and format it in FAT32 with 4096 allocation size.
- Now copy the file into the usb and insert it into the side of the Nebula Pad.
- Turn on the printer and there should be a popup to upgrade.
- After it finishes upgrading, take the usb out or else it will keep having that popup.
- You can reboot if you want, I don't think you have to right now.
- [4] Install PuTTY and go into Helperscript
- Click on this PuTTY Download and download the right one for you and install it.
- Next, when you open up PuTTY, enter the IP address for your printer and press enter. The IP address can be found where your wifi settings are on the Nebula Pad.
- It's going to say login as: and type in root
- Now it'll ask for the password which is creality
- Next, type in ./installer.sh to enter Helperscript
- [5] Uninstall Moonraker, Fluid, Mainsail, and the Creality OS
- Type in 2 to get into the remove screen.
- Go one by one and type in 1 2 3 to remove each one respectively
- Type in b to go back to the main screen
- Type in 4 to enter the Customize screen and type in 3 to remove Creality OS
- Reboot
- [6] Update Helperscript
- ssh back into the Nebula Pad using PuTTY
- Type in git config --global http.sslVerify false to avoid encountering an issue, I'm not sure what.
- Type in git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/Guilouz/Creality-Helper-Script.git /usdata/helper-script to install the script in the usdate folder.
- Type in sh /usdata/helper-script/helper.sh to run the script.
- There's two different way to now update the Helper Script
- Go through the PuTTY, go through the user and password and enter ./installer.sh again and it should pop up with the update OR
- When you access Fluidd or Mainsail, update it directly there.
- You can access Fluidd by http://xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx:4408/ (replacing xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx by your local IP address).
- Go in the Settings tab and go into Software Updates and click Update for Creality-Helper-Script.
- You can access Mainsail by http://xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx:4409/(replacing xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx by your local IP address).
- Go in the Machine tab and it should be there as well.
- Reboot
- [7] Reinstall Moonraker, Fluid and/or Mainsail
- Go back into PuTTY, go back in the ./installer.sh, type in 1 to the installation screen and follow along for the installation of those. I don't think I have to baby steps that now.
- Reboot
- [8] Update Everything
- Depending on if you use Fluidd or Mainsail, go back into those websites and update everything in the update section if it's not already updated.
- [9] Install Anything Else + Guppy [FINALLY]
- Go back through PuTTY and into the Helper Script. Now you can also install anything you wanted to during. If you're unsure of what these mean, click on this Installer Definitions and look to the left side under "Install Menu" and look through whatever you want to.
- Some of these you won't have since this is meant for a different printer.
- You have to exit out of the Helper Script now by typing in q
- Now type in, to install GuppyFLO wget -O - https://raw.githubusercontent.com/ballaswag/guppyflo/main/installer.sh sh
- Now type in, to install the Guppy Screen and it should change your Nebula Pad to horizontal format and have you calibrate it touching cursors.sh -c "$(wget --no-check-certificate -qO - https://raw.githubusercontent.com/ballaswag/guppyscreen/main/installer.sh)"
- [10] How to Connect to it on the Internet (I copied this straight this)
- Create a Tailscale account: Create Tailscale Account
- Install Tailscale application depending device(s) you want to use for remote access: Download Tailscale App
- Search up http://xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx:9873 (by replacing xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx by your printer's local IP address) to access the GuppyFLO Web interface
- Then, click on authenticate link to register GuppyFLO instance to Tailscale
- You will be redirected to the Tailscale website to connect device by clicking on Connect button
- Go to to your Tailscale Admin console here: Tailscale Admin Console
- There you will see the connected devices and their respective IP addresses:
- guppyflo → Your printer
- IP address assigned to your printer
- The devices you have connected to Tailscale (here my mobile phone)
- The IP addresses assigned to the devices you have connected
- Go to Tailscale DNS settings tab and enable MagicDNS feature
- Go back to GuppyFLO Web interface and click on Add Printer button
- Configure settings and click on Save button
- You can now connect to GuppyFlo Web interface remotely with http://guppyflo URL
Let me know if I did anything wrong, but these are the steps that worked for me.
2024.05.15 03:23 BlondBeast96 HR is refusing to ammend my sick time that they messed up...
I was hired as a part time associate in the tool rental department a little over a year ago. In December, I was offered a full time spot. I accepted, and still had to wait until February after my vacation before actually starting. I have been working 40+ hours every week since then, and it has since come to my attention that full time associates are supposed to earn 4 hours of sick time every month on the same date of their hire date.
I have still only been getting 2 hours every month since February, so when I realized I was right I complained to HR to try to figure out wtf was happening. They said they would look into it, about two weeks later I finally get a response and they are basically saying "Sorry, you're fucked" and that there is no way to reverse it or add hours of sick time back in after the fact, nor could they put it on a check. I am not buying that.
I'm owed at least 4-6 hours of sick time for working the hours that I have. Apparently the reason my stuff got fucked up is because of the HR manager or whatever's own screw up and negligence, having forgotten to change me in the system to full time. How tf does someone forget to do that when they are scheduling me 40 hours every week? And now I have to suffer for someone else's mistake.
My status as a full time associate has been ammended now in the system, but I still couldn't get a guarantee that I would get my 4 hours this month, or that I would get 40 vacation hours when my next 6 months hit. Now I don't know what will happen with that since I was just "changed to full time officially" this month.
Beyond that, I spoke to my direct supervisor of my department and she gave me some bs response "Oh sometimes they do that like a trial period for a few weeks before moving you over". I was not told that or anything like that when I was offered the position at all.
Now I'm wondering, if there is anything I can do about this to fight this, if anyone else has experienced anything similar, and what my course of action should be. I got my "HR representative's" number that was posted in the break room, the person who seems to be HR's boss, and plan to contact them soon and complain.
Is there any other way for me to escalate this further and get it resolved? I just want my sick time. They're messing with my money now when all I've ever done is help them out, never even missed a day.
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I have still only been getting 2 hours every month since February, so when I realized I was right I complained to HR to try to figure out wtf was happening. They said they would look into it, about two weeks later I finally get a response and they are basically saying "Sorry, you're fucked" and that there is no way to reverse it or add hours of sick time back in after the fact, nor could they put it on a check. I am not buying that.
I'm owed at least 4-6 hours of sick time for working the hours that I have. Apparently the reason my stuff got fucked up is because of the HR manager or whatever's own screw up and negligence, having forgotten to change me in the system to full time. How tf does someone forget to do that when they are scheduling me 40 hours every week? And now I have to suffer for someone else's mistake.
My status as a full time associate has been ammended now in the system, but I still couldn't get a guarantee that I would get my 4 hours this month, or that I would get 40 vacation hours when my next 6 months hit. Now I don't know what will happen with that since I was just "changed to full time officially" this month.
Beyond that, I spoke to my direct supervisor of my department and she gave me some bs response "Oh sometimes they do that like a trial period for a few weeks before moving you over". I was not told that or anything like that when I was offered the position at all.
Now I'm wondering, if there is anything I can do about this to fight this, if anyone else has experienced anything similar, and what my course of action should be. I got my "HR representative's" number that was posted in the break room, the person who seems to be HR's boss, and plan to contact them soon and complain.
Is there any other way for me to escalate this further and get it resolved? I just want my sick time. They're messing with my money now when all I've ever done is help them out, never even missed a day.
2024.05.15 03:21 LegApprehensive2089 My conscience is in bits trying to do the right thing. But making sure it’s for the right reasons
I’d say I have a strong moral compass.
I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
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I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
2024.05.15 03:19 BlackHatch01 Randomly being sent baby supplies?
Sorry if this is the wrong sub or flair, wasn't really sure where else to post this.
My wife and I are pretty confused. Last week, we were sent a package apparently called an Enfamil Wonder Box. It was full of gift cards to pregnancy/baby stores, formula samples, and $60 with of Enfamil coupons.
Today, we were sent a box from Similac. More gift cards, another $60 in formula coupons for Similac, and 3 whole containers of Similac formula.
We have never been more confused. My wife isn't pregnant, and can't even get pregnant. Our families both know this, so chances are they have no part in this.
The only upside is my wife has a pregnant co-worker, so we're debating just gifting it all to her.
Has anybody else had this happen to them?
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My wife and I are pretty confused. Last week, we were sent a package apparently called an Enfamil Wonder Box. It was full of gift cards to pregnancy/baby stores, formula samples, and $60 with of Enfamil coupons.
Today, we were sent a box from Similac. More gift cards, another $60 in formula coupons for Similac, and 3 whole containers of Similac formula.
We have never been more confused. My wife isn't pregnant, and can't even get pregnant. Our families both know this, so chances are they have no part in this.
The only upside is my wife has a pregnant co-worker, so we're debating just gifting it all to her.
Has anybody else had this happen to them?
2024.05.15 03:18 LegApprehensive2089 My conscience is in bits trying to do the right thing. But making sure it’s for the right reasons
I’d say I have a strong moral compass.
I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
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I’m 21 and for most of my life I was kinda a teachers pet, goodie two shoes, Boy Scout etc.
And even now in all aspects of my life I normally am, I always hold doors, put my cart away, straighten shelf’s when I put something back.
Not that I don’t have a rebel or mean or lazy side but
I’m also rose tinted glasses and I’m told by everyone I’m too nice.
After a year of therapy and self reflection I’ve come to the realization that when I do genuine kind things I do them out of genuine kindness but a layer deeper it’s also cause I wanna be loved and liked.
When I feel I don’t meet up to my standards I feel really guilty or anxious even when things are out of my control
Like the one relationship I’ve had she broke up with me and it was fine no fights, but for months I was stirken with guilt cause her grandma who she lives with is a complete cunt
Like I don’t think I saw the worst of it but grandma was killing my exes self esteem the grandmother liked me better than her granddaughter it was night and day.
I felt guilty cause even though we broke up I knew that I brought her some light into her life. We had dreams of getting her out of that house and for us to have a loving home for eachother and some animals.
I’m over that guilt but I feel hints of it with what’s going on now .
So more exposition, as much as I have worked on myself physically and mentally the one thing I still struggle with is relationships
Both platonic and romantic
I’m single I got a couple of good friends I don’t see often but hoping to change that
But I’m super grateful for the people in my life, maybe to much, I over gift I over thank,
I get attached to folk who are nice to me real easy
And especially with woman and I’m not blaming them
I have a horrible tendency to succumb to limerence and putting them on a pedestal.
I think I might be a love junkie or something which is kinda weird since I’ve only ever dated once. I never even been on a traditional date.
The definite thing though is I’m very very lonely
But now to the current situation
I went onto forever alone dating. Messaged a few people a month ago.
One of these woman is 23 from Italy and we talked on an off then just periods of radio silence
She found someone in Italy while we talked
Which was fine, I was just glad to have the opportunity to speak with someone from Italy, it’s on my bucket list the visit I love the food, culture and history.
But the other day, I messaged just checking in looking for conversation
She said she wasn’t doing well and suggested to read her latest post
In summary, that guy she met they planned to both move to America, but he just abandoned her and now she’s homeless and shunned by her family. plus he was a physically abusive piece of shit I won’t even call him a man he’s a fucking animal she showed me scars and bruises
She’s still in Italy
I genuinely felt bad and was just there to help her vent and process this.
I offered to send her a lil money, to help her get a lil food and water.
And she proved she was real it wasn’t a scam, I sent 30 bucks
She’s very grateful
I do genuinely believe that true acts of kindness inspire others
But now that we are talking even more and we’ve both seen what we look like and sound like.
I can feel my stupid dumbass part of my brain leaking this very dumb thought of
“Maybe there is a chance”
I feel so scummy and I keep trying to fight it off
I know I shouldn’t do anything especially now she just escaped that monster and she’s out in the streets.
She just seems so vulnerable and lost and scared and I wanna help.
But now I’m so confused why I’m doing this should I be doing this.
Am I doing this out of genuine kindness
Or am I falling into nice guy, white knight , simp type shit.
I feel like I’m mostly doing the right thing for the right reason, which is she needs help and someone to talk to.
I really don’t expect anything out of her.
But I can feel my dumbass getting infatuated and I feel calling myself a dumbass is appropriate cause I do this to myself
I just I’m gonna keep helping her within my means nothing drastic.
2024.05.15 03:17 Mars_Warrior Husband had an experience with Frigg
Hi everyone, my husband asked me to make this post to see if we could get other perspectives. My husband and I are newlyweds. We just got married a week ago and came back from our honeymoon just a couple days ago. I am a Norse pagan witch and he is agnostic. I’ve been working with Frigg lately to prepare for married life and he has been supportive of my beliefs since the beginning of our relationship.
On Sunday night, the night we came back home, he had a spiritual experience. We were in bed and I had fallen asleep watching videos about Frigg on YouTube. He had been listening, trying to fall asleep, when he felt a presence looming over him. He said it didn’t feel like a negative experience and was actually quite peaceful. He’s never had an experience like it before and couldn’t give me much detail about what he felt other than he knew someone else besides us was in the bedroom. He has apparently been thinking about it for two days before he told me, and he believes it was Frigg. Keep in mind, too, that while we were on our honeymoon at the beach we were visited several times by crows even though we did not have food. I’m not one to see signs in everything but I did feel something with the crows.
We checked the tarot and sure enough it helped narrow down that it was indeed Frigg. She seems to be reaching out to him. Now, like I said, my husband is agnostic and doesn’t know if he should work with her or not. He does sometimes participate with me when I do my offerings or tarot, sometimes reminding me when I haven’t done so in a while. We asked her to tell us through the cards what benefits he can get by working with her and she answered a more sustainable household and future.
Does anyone have any advice for him or myself? Should he work with Frigg even if he is agnostic? Thank you everyone in advance.
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On Sunday night, the night we came back home, he had a spiritual experience. We were in bed and I had fallen asleep watching videos about Frigg on YouTube. He had been listening, trying to fall asleep, when he felt a presence looming over him. He said it didn’t feel like a negative experience and was actually quite peaceful. He’s never had an experience like it before and couldn’t give me much detail about what he felt other than he knew someone else besides us was in the bedroom. He has apparently been thinking about it for two days before he told me, and he believes it was Frigg. Keep in mind, too, that while we were on our honeymoon at the beach we were visited several times by crows even though we did not have food. I’m not one to see signs in everything but I did feel something with the crows.
We checked the tarot and sure enough it helped narrow down that it was indeed Frigg. She seems to be reaching out to him. Now, like I said, my husband is agnostic and doesn’t know if he should work with her or not. He does sometimes participate with me when I do my offerings or tarot, sometimes reminding me when I haven’t done so in a while. We asked her to tell us through the cards what benefits he can get by working with her and she answered a more sustainable household and future.
Does anyone have any advice for him or myself? Should he work with Frigg even if he is agnostic? Thank you everyone in advance.
2024.05.15 03:17 KeebleObservatory Celebrate International Astronomy Day this Thursday with some stargazing, painting, and cake!
We will be celebrating International Astronomy Day this Thursday at the Keeble Observatory! I know, I know, you're thinking: "But International Astronomy Day is the 18th!" Well, the weather this weekend is looking terrible, so we're celebrating a few days early. We'll be open on Thursday the 16th from 8:30 to 10 PM.
In addition to stargazing, we'll also have some cake and lemonade. This will be another paint night as well, so we'll have miniature canvases and paint for you to illustrate your own starry scenes.
The Moon will be up, as well as the amazing star clusters M3 and M13, and the star forming galaxy M82. These all look spectacular through our telescope!
This will be our last event for the semester. We will be back in the Fall for another year of public observing. The best place to check on our status is on our Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/keebleobservatory/
These are free events, and no registration is needed. We're on campus at Randolph-Macon College, up in Ashland, at the corner of Caroline and Calhoun Street. Parking is free, and you can enter at the doors facing Caroline Street.
Hope to see you there!
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In addition to stargazing, we'll also have some cake and lemonade. This will be another paint night as well, so we'll have miniature canvases and paint for you to illustrate your own starry scenes.
The Moon will be up, as well as the amazing star clusters M3 and M13, and the star forming galaxy M82. These all look spectacular through our telescope!
This will be our last event for the semester. We will be back in the Fall for another year of public observing. The best place to check on our status is on our Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/keebleobservatory/
These are free events, and no registration is needed. We're on campus at Randolph-Macon College, up in Ashland, at the corner of Caroline and Calhoun Street. Parking is free, and you can enter at the doors facing Caroline Street.
Hope to see you there!
2024.05.15 03:14 Imaginary-Studio6813 I saw one of my favorite patients ❤️
Today one of my favorite favorite patients came in. He was actually in yo buy a graduation card for his grandson, but came to the pharmacy to say hi! He gave me a big hug and asked how everyone was doing. He is 89 years old. He is so damn sweet. He has aged so much though. He looks rough around the edges. But he keeps on moving along. He lost his wife right after Covid. We (as a pharmacy) would call and check on him every week or two to make sure he was doing ok. We kept his meds on track and tried to help him stay compliant with taking them:
He is why i love my job, he and my other elderly patients who just need someone to talk too Joe and then. The ones who come in just to see if they have anything ready ( they usually know they don’t) but want to visit and chat. We will always make time for them, always. Even when we’re slammed one of will take a few minutes to ask how they’re doing, what’s new, and make sure they’re doing ok.
This is why I love my job….. when someone like this passes it hurts on a different level.
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He is why i love my job, he and my other elderly patients who just need someone to talk too Joe and then. The ones who come in just to see if they have anything ready ( they usually know they don’t) but want to visit and chat. We will always make time for them, always. Even when we’re slammed one of will take a few minutes to ask how they’re doing, what’s new, and make sure they’re doing ok.
This is why I love my job….. when someone like this passes it hurts on a different level.
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2024.05.15 03:12 Flaky_Lavishness2847 USCIS mistake- Chicago Field Office
Long story short: if you do not have a USCIS online portal account…. MAKE ONE. We could’ve had our green cards MONTHS ago.
I, US Citizen, filed I-130 for my parents and I-485 in July 2021 after turning 21. In the beginning, our cases were going as planned, however we never sent medical forms with I-485 (our lawyer advised us not to- we have now learned how detrimental that has been to our processing time and we are aware our lawyer gave us terrible advice). My parents checked case statuses using their receipt numbers on the main USCIS page and never made an account because we had always received all RFE and additional notices through the mail and didn’t think we needed one. Our I-130 got approved 2 years later on 08/2023 and after waiting a few months with no updates on I-485 (we were waiting for medical form RFE), I decided to seek congressional help in November of 2023. They told us on 11/17/2023 that there are no updates from USCIS and that they will let us know if they need anything. In January, we requested new work permits since my parents’ were set to expire and they were issued about 2 weeks later. I reached out again to congressman 02/2024 and they told me that USCIS is STILL processing our case and will let us know if they need anything.
I have the lawfully and case tracker apps that I check everyday but there were no new updates. So after doing some reddit reading, I decided to make an online USCIS account because it seemed advantageous. We waited 2 weeks for access codes to come in the mail. I created the account and saw a “DENIAL NOTICE” for both of my parents “due to abandonment” that was issued JANUARY 4, 2024. My stomach dropped. Apparently they had notified us in August of 2023 (the day after our I-130 was approved) to send medical forms by November 23, 2023. We had never received any of these documents through the mail (neither did our lawyer or congressman) and they did not show up on the lawfully/case tracker app. How could USCIS tell congressman 6 days before the medical forms were due that they do not need anything from us and then in February tell us they are still processing our case after it had apparently already been denied a month earlier?!?! And now it was TOO LATE TO APPEAL.
LUCKILY our congressman was able to provide proof of our inquiries and our lawyer met with someone at the USCIS Chicago field office (which we never received any mail from) and they reopened our case due to their errors. They sent us new RFE for medical forms which we have sent and we are now waiting to hear back.
All of our notices, including the I-130 approval, had been coming from the Nebraska field office. The documents that were on the portal but were never mailed had been from Chicago Field Office. They also made a mistake in their denial notice stating my parents needed to depart the US within 30 days of receiving the denial notice because they entered the US illegally, which was FALSE because they had come here legally. Needless to say, it was an emotional and stressful rollercoaster.
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I, US Citizen, filed I-130 for my parents and I-485 in July 2021 after turning 21. In the beginning, our cases were going as planned, however we never sent medical forms with I-485 (our lawyer advised us not to- we have now learned how detrimental that has been to our processing time and we are aware our lawyer gave us terrible advice). My parents checked case statuses using their receipt numbers on the main USCIS page and never made an account because we had always received all RFE and additional notices through the mail and didn’t think we needed one. Our I-130 got approved 2 years later on 08/2023 and after waiting a few months with no updates on I-485 (we were waiting for medical form RFE), I decided to seek congressional help in November of 2023. They told us on 11/17/2023 that there are no updates from USCIS and that they will let us know if they need anything. In January, we requested new work permits since my parents’ were set to expire and they were issued about 2 weeks later. I reached out again to congressman 02/2024 and they told me that USCIS is STILL processing our case and will let us know if they need anything.
I have the lawfully and case tracker apps that I check everyday but there were no new updates. So after doing some reddit reading, I decided to make an online USCIS account because it seemed advantageous. We waited 2 weeks for access codes to come in the mail. I created the account and saw a “DENIAL NOTICE” for both of my parents “due to abandonment” that was issued JANUARY 4, 2024. My stomach dropped. Apparently they had notified us in August of 2023 (the day after our I-130 was approved) to send medical forms by November 23, 2023. We had never received any of these documents through the mail (neither did our lawyer or congressman) and they did not show up on the lawfully/case tracker app. How could USCIS tell congressman 6 days before the medical forms were due that they do not need anything from us and then in February tell us they are still processing our case after it had apparently already been denied a month earlier?!?! And now it was TOO LATE TO APPEAL.
LUCKILY our congressman was able to provide proof of our inquiries and our lawyer met with someone at the USCIS Chicago field office (which we never received any mail from) and they reopened our case due to their errors. They sent us new RFE for medical forms which we have sent and we are now waiting to hear back.
All of our notices, including the I-130 approval, had been coming from the Nebraska field office. The documents that were on the portal but were never mailed had been from Chicago Field Office. They also made a mistake in their denial notice stating my parents needed to depart the US within 30 days of receiving the denial notice because they entered the US illegally, which was FALSE because they had come here legally. Needless to say, it was an emotional and stressful rollercoaster.
2024.05.15 03:12 ABUS3S Fake account made in my name
I got a text from a 6 digit number asking to verify a bank card, I assume that's a scam and text them to F off, get an automated response with a # to call and speak with the fraud department. I'm feeling vengeful and I'm not busy so I Google and call the banks fraud number to ask to report fraud, they direct me to call their Canadian department... It's the same # I got from the automated text. After a nightmare of navigating the automated system and eventually speaking with the operator I learn there is in fact an account made there July 2022 in my name, with my address and birthdate. Because of work I can't go there today, but I've been encouraged go to this banks physical location, show my ID to show I am who I say I am and close/report the account. I have a sinking suspicion, a relative I'm not on the best terms with is responsible, and I would very much like to use this scenario to bring them or whomever is responsible to heel. Is there anything I should be doing to cover my ass? What else do I need to check?
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2024.05.15 03:11 shooktsister PLEASE HELP. Should I apply for N-400 or wait?
I'm in the process of applying for my citizenship and I have been a permanent resident/green card holder since 2014. I didn't apply for N-400 as soon as I was eligible after 5 years because I wanted to just wait until the time that my green card expires. I started the application a few days ago and I got to the background check portion of the form. Soooo, back in March of 2020 I got arrested for a DUI charge for marijuana. I got pulled over because a worker at the Mcdonald's drive-thru that I was at called 911 and reported me apparently. I went to court and paid all my fines and the DUI was reduced to reckless driving since my driving record was clean. I also attended the appropriate classes that the judge assigned me. I believe I attended 3 different victim panels and acquired a paper that stated that I did it. Also, my drivers license was never suspended or anything like that. I wasn't put on probation neither like the other cases that I have read online. I didn't have any DUIs or reckless driving of some sort after as well, just that one time in 2020. Now, my question is should I follow through with this application? I'm just really worried because it's still with the 5 years of my background check so I will have to disclose I just don't want to waste my time, effort, and money because it's not cheap 😥 Any insight would be appreciated. I am also in Washington if anyone was wondering. Thank you people!😊🫶🏼
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