Dog sexing with a women

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2009.08.27 22:50 Pictures of dogs!

Pictures of dogs!
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2014.02.08 19:14 napen123 Blop

A place for Blops aka only dogs sticking their tongues unintentionally.
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2008.03.14 20:08 /r/dogs: Woof

/dogs is a place for dog owners of all levels of knowledge, skill, and experience to discuss various topics related to responsible dog ownership. This subreddit is a great starting point for a lot of information, but you should always verify and expand upon what you've read from reputable sources before putting it to use in your daily life. Advice on this forum is not a substitute for advice from a trained and credentialed professional.
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2024.06.09 15:14 zeropercentcopacetic Feeling too old to be questioning

I'm 29F, so objectively not actually old. But I'm just feeling panicky about not knowing my orientation and "running out of time" to get on that Normal life track all my peers are on...
In my teens I was super hetero, super interested in sex, pretty active. Then college came and I just fully stopped. No interest in sex, no interest in dating, no interest in romantic relationships, nothing. I haven't dated in a decade and haven't wanted to. I handle my own needs sexually, and am pretty satisfied with that. Sometimes I feel into women, sometimes I feel into men, and every once in a while I think, hmm, I'll see what's out there, but never do I actually feel like I want to pursue someone irl.
Someone asked me if I was asexual the other day and truly I had never even considered it. But now I'm spiraling, and feeling like "what 30 year old doesn't even know if they're into sex?"
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2024.06.09 15:12 hanseuuuuu [22/F] just a lonely girl looking for love and affection, or maybe i’m just bored?

title says it all, just a girl craving for attention due to loneliness, i don’t like carrying conversations (but i can keep up with the topic), if i like someone then i’m loyal to them, i promise you that :3
i’m looking for someone that can keep me company (it’s okay if it’s not 24/7 because i understand everyone needs time on their own too), someone who has broken and weird humor, a tall woman/man around the age of 22 to 26 please
•Filipina •22 years old •5’5 (i’m kinda considered tall here in my country for women) •i love dogs, art (drawing, painting and crafting), tennis (kinda?) •i play online games too (wuthering waves and genshin) •open to long distance relationship
hit me up with an interesting topic, not just a “hi”, ”hey”, “what’s up” none of that please
[look at my profile for what i look like, send a pic of yourself too]
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2024.06.09 15:02 Smooth-Housing1979 Aitah?

(Before I began. Lot of comments say negative stuff, i want to say no stories are mine, they are sent to me and i post. I forget to say that. I wont be saying that on every story, it is in my biography, thank you, please be positive this is not my story, thank you)
AITAH for celebrating pride with a woman when I am a gay man?
I M32 have been dating my boyfriend Chris M30 for seven years, we both live together in a loft apartment with a cat named Bobby and a new addition to our family, our dog, Bella.
Every pride Chris and I like to go to the festival then go clubbing after. I've never been a fan of the festival or the clubbing as its never been the type for me.
I've gotten a lot of mean stuff said to me about not wanting to participate. Saying how I should appreciate I get to have pride and to be there for mu community. Chris really takes it seriously, even putting up lgbt flags in our home, pride stickers on our car and such. He treats it like its Christmas but for the month. I dont mind it as much as I know it makes him happy.
This year Chris wanted to take a different approach to Pride. After meeting some new friends Danny, Sam and Kabir, he was really influenced by them. The three of them are in what you'd call a poly relationship where the three of them date each other. I have nothing against that I'm just not interested in it to the point I wouldn't like to be in a poly relationship. Chris however has been so Influenced by them he's brought it up to me a couple times. I wouldn't even call myself jealous, I'd just see it as cheating.
Chris said for the club that we both act single and have fun. We've been with each other in each other's company for so long that I understand he wants to branch out and have fun, I just don't understand why he needs to act single for it.
Chris and I are planning on getting married in the future. There hasn't been any proposals yet- but it's been seven years now and we'd like to continue. So I understand that he wants to have some freedom before but I still dont get it completely.
I agreed on his idea to act single, knowing I'd probably just hang out with some friends for the night. Boy how things changed.
At the club, Chris wasn't the man I was with, he was like another person. Chris is like a very feminine man, wears only women clothes, makeup, heels, the whole show. Tonight, he wore skinny jeans and a white tee. It was a shock to the system, nevertheless I shrugged it off.
I can't lie when I say it was heartbreaking seeing him flirt with other men, Kissing them, hugging...it was too much. I decided to get some fresh air and head to the smoking area. There were a couple people smoking cigarettes and a few just standing around. That's when I started talking to this girl, she was a bit taller than me, which was cool as there's not many girls who are taller.
Her name was Jennifer but she insisted I call her Jenny. She showed me all her tattoos, the ones she did herself and the ones she got professionally done. I guess I could already tell but still, they were pretty dope.
As some time went on, she bought me a drink and asked if I was single. I was about to reply no when I had seen Chris with a man on his lap and another Kissing blow his chin. I replied yes, as did she. I had no intention of getting on Chris's level if that's what you'd think. Chris wanted this. I ended up making out with the girl, even going back to her place that night. After being with a man for so long it was a complete other feeling which I had forgotten.
I gave Chris a text before sleeping that night just to tell him I'd be home in the early morning. Which turned out to be wrong. I guess I was expecting Jenny to be already gone in the morning, yet i could smell the bacon and eggs in the kitchen. We had some breakfast then headed off to the town to get a smoothie.
After some time we said our goodbyes and I headed home. Chris wasn't awake yet when I had gotten in, must of had a lot to drink last night. I hurried into the kitchen and began to make some breakfast for him and our two pets.
When Chris woke up, I could tell he was having a hangover yet he stumbled into the kitchen with an angry look. He asked where I had been. Who I had gone with and all that. I simply replied that I went back to a woman's house. He seemed shocked and out of reality. I fixed him a cup of coffee, two sugars and no mixing- just as he likes it. He didn't even take a sip before he threw the cup at me, smashing it into peices.
"Thats your expensive turtle spotted mug Chris" I whispered as I began to pick up the peices. I've never seem him this angry. I quoted him on his ask for us to act single last night. He started to calm down after some time but was super angry that it was a woman. I guess he never knew I was bisexual, he seen it as a threat that I could leave him for a woman.
Aitah?
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2024.06.09 14:57 Dazzling-Shallot-711 Attention seeker

He likes to cannonball into pools filled with people and kids. Got so much water in my ear last time it left a painful ear infection and took a week for the water to come out.
He fucking dunked me in front of everyone at a pool party while I was in the pool helping our scared toddler. I did everything not to lose it and scream in front of kids and strangers. Yelled in the car and got yelled at and told he was sick and tired of my drama. That everyone thinks he’s such a great dad because he loudly complains that he’s the only dad in the pool. Gaslights me into “I was just playfully pulling you in. Your head didn’t go in the water” and basically blaming me for it. He got my contacts, hair, and makeup wet and got water in my ears because he turned me under the water after he dove and tackled me.
Besides having a history of being on dating apps, unsuccessfully scoring girls, going into therapy to “fix himself,” he is now really invested in our daughter’s friend from daycare’s mom’s sex life and has been telling me and the other moms at daycare how her ex cheated on him with the teacher at school and all the maybe real or not real drama that went on. We discussed this at length and I asked him to please not share our childrens location with her because she shared her ex tried to kill her, was hacking her phone and reading everything, and she was getting a restraining order on him while calling him names like a psychopath in texts with my husband. I asked him if he digested that and to please keep his word. He goes yeah yeah yeah I understand only to text her the screenshot of a birthday party and the address we would be at without bothering to tell me the next day. He casually brings it up in public and I ask him what the point in having a conversation about it was if he was going to blatantly ignore me right after. Like why talk and talk and talk about this girl and continue texting her our children’s location. Why can’t he call her and tell her the address or even mention it to me when he’s asking for the invite. He yells at me to not raise my voice in public and yells at me basically telling me I’m dramatic for taking the information he said seriously. Blames me for not texting her myself. I don’t know this girl.
Goes to the party and spreads more rumors about her with other moms. Dunks me while lying about it. A mom calls him dad of the year because he’s in the pool with kids. Meanwhile he has not had a real job, dropped the ball on making plans for the weekend so last minute I needed to book our hotel for us to even get to the bday party. He doesn’t pay for a single item all weekend, I take us out to dinner during the week and buy our groceries every week. Buy almost everything the kids need. He scowls at me when I ask him to purchase a hot dog or hamburger for me while I wait with our excited toddler. Such an amazing dad. I get the door slammed and yelled at for not wanting to be dunked and getting mad.
Our daughter’s first tooth and letter for the tooth fairy are under her pillow. He went out last night and was supposed to come back with a present for her, along with dinner. He came back and told me the store is closed. The one store down the road but he couldn’t bother to drive anywhere else where stores are open (maybe less than 10 minutes down the street). Such an amazing dad. He is having a lot of fun sharing his friend’s (the girl from daycare was dating his friend from home) personal details with literally anyone who will listen about how he sought prostitutes, did drugs, etc. I sit there and remind him I found screenshots of escorts on his phone also when we are alone. It’s like he enjoys smearing his name. I remind him the only difference, at least that I know of, are he actually didn’t succeed (most likely due to having no real job or money and not because of not trying). I’m tired of being the drama train and not everyone everywhere we go needs to know about their personal business. It seems super hypocritical coming from him.
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2024.06.09 14:55 throwaway4fem A simp to Ashley and her family [Chapter 4]

A brand new chapter! And this time we get to meet a member of Davey's family. I hope it doesn't end up being to humiliating for anyone......
Visit my mother? At work? In a fever dream I barely remembered getting into the car with the Smith family. We made the short drive across town and pulled up outside “Hoots”. The neon sign flickered, which mimicked a crude depiction of female breasts. The place always made me feel uncomfortable. When we walked in, I suddenly thought otherwise. It wasn’t really as scummy as I remember I guess. Most of the 20-something waitresses had on quite short shorts still, and revealing tops, but nothing overly obscene. I looked over at the Smiths and they seemed to be taking it all in stride, giggling at everything. Maybe this wouldn’t be so bad. Mr. Smith seemed unphased as he talked to the gorgeous hostess. She seemed to beam at his good looks and confident smile. “Miriam’s section, please” he said. The hostess twirled her hair and looked up dreamily at him. “Right this way, sir.”
Mr. and Mrs. Smith sat on 1 side of the booth, as I sat in between Ashley and Liz. As the family got used to the the somewhat promiscuously dressed 20 year olds, Mrs. Smith finally pointed my mother out. “Oh, that’s her there! Right Davey!?"
We all looked over where she pointed. My mother stood holding a small stack of dirty plates. Her uniform was the same as the other girls, but different. In addition to being the only woman there over 30, her outfit was shorter somehow. Trashier. It only emphasized that she was aging out of her 40’s and no longer maintained her youth the same as the rest of the staff. The table of gruff men she was talking to seemed to laugh at her while also stealing little rubs and grabs of her upper thigh, hips and even swatted her protruding backside. She tried to keep the grabby hands at bay with a pleading smile plastered across her face.
She set the plates down in the kitchen in the back, then hurried back over and returned as the men were just leaving. They threw couple bucks down, but missed the table as the crumpled dollars fell to the floor. As she got down on her knees to retrieve the dollars off the sticky floor, I heard Liz snort/laugh again and muttered out “jesus…I guess it’s genetic, huh Davey?”. Mrs. Smith called over “Miriam! Hello dear! We’re ready for orders when you're done down there.”
My mother scurried over as she wiped her hands on her tiny apron. “Mrs. Smith! Such a pleasure to see you here! And you brought the whole family! It has been so long since the PTA meeting. Such a, well, such a pleasant surprise. You look amazing!”
“Why thank you Miriam. I’ll tell my botox lady you think so!” she responded with a laugh. "And look who we brought here…” she gestured over to me. I looked up briefly “Um, uh, h-hi mom”.
“David! I, um, I wasn’t expecting you.” It was as if she was suddenly aware of how exposed she was.
“Look at this, Hank!”, Mrs. Smith said grabbing her husband’s attention, “this is what I was talking about. How is a woman supposed to have any self respect traipsing around in this!” Mrs. Smith found her sense of justice again. “Look at her! At her age, showing this much! How embarrassing!”
My mother as if on cue, turned a deep shade of red. I thought about sticking up for her. But what could I ever say. Maybe if I waited patiently, Ashley would maybe speak up for me. I had picked up a habit of hiding behind Ashley and waiting for her opinion. She always seemed to know just what to say!
Mr. Smith leaned forward with a grin, but spoke with sympathy dripping from his voice. “Yes, it’s just terrible. The other girls seem to be more, well, dignified in their attire though…”
“Yes,” my mother meekly replied back, “well, the other girls fit into the size small and maybe a few medium. I have to wear the large size, and well, they're from before they updated the store policy and implemented less-revealing uniforms. I put in my request for a “large" in the new uniforms though! My manager says it’s on backorder!”
Mr. Smith smiled wide at her “Well that’s fantastic then. Honestly, those shorts still look a little tight, but I’m sure that’s not bad for business”.
"It’s just disgusting is what it is!” Mrs. Smith continued. Look here,” she reached up grabbing my mother’s uniform strap and tugging it making my mother’s chest rise and fall with a jiggle "No support at all. She looks like she belongs in some seedy brothel; not a restaurant. I get the joke is it’s supposed to be a little crude in humor, but just look at this!” She pulled the strap a few more times causing her chest to shake heavily as the table let out a brief laugh. I shifted my eyes to the ground. Mrs. Smith then blatantly grabbed the waistband of my mother's tight fitting bright spandex shorts. "Ugh, and these are so tight still. You really should request an 'Extra Large', dear. I don’t think these are meant for 45 year old women…”
I wanted so desperately for my mother to stand up for herself. But all that came out of her mouth was "Y-yes well, hopefully when the, uh, the new uniform comes in, I can-”
“Turn around Miriam” Mrs. Smith said stopping my mom in her tracks. “I want to see the back…”
There was a brief moment of hesitation in my mother. I thought this would be where she stood her ground. But then she momentarily locked eyes with Mrs. Smith, who just returned an expectant look.
“Y-yes Mrs. Smith” my mother half said in a question, half not wanting to disobey a customer. She slowly turned around, revealing her unnecessarily “on display” backside tucked into bright colored booty shorts.
“Ugh, these shorts! She looks like some truck station hooker, Hank! Can’t you speak to someone from your golf club about this!”
Just then a pretty, early 20’s, blonde marched over. I was relieved to see this angel come to put us out of our misery. Perhaps she might even talk to Mrs. Smith about touching staff like that!
“Miriam! I said I needed my last table bussed 5 min ago! Get your head out of your tits and stop bothering the customers. Just take their order and get out of the way!” she barely broke stride as she confidently passed. My mother quickly got very nervous and called back “Y-yes Miss Hawkins! R-Right away!”
The smiths all seemed to gleam at my mother as she now nervously fidgeted in place. “S-sorry about that. Miss Hawkins is my new manager. She um, she has a tendency to not allow me to keep my tips if I screw up too much on shift."
"Well I think it’s great you have such a strong leader here, Miriam” Mr. Smith responded. "You can learn a lot from her!”
“Oh I absolutely agree, dear!” Mrs. Smith joined in, “someone like you and our sweet davey here can really flourish under a strong leader. I’ve always said, ’no such thing as a stupid dog. They just need the right owner to train them’. Isn’t that right, Davey?”
I looked up from my shoes for the 1st time and stuttered out my agreeance. “Y-yes Ma’am, um, Mrs. Smith, Ma’am. A d-dog is nothing w-without a strong owner, M-Ma’am." I don’t know why, but I quickly looked back at Ashley to make sure I said the right thing. Her warm smile and approving head shake made my nerves ease slightly.
“Y-yes, well, can I get you anything?", my mother asked. “I really should go clean Miss Hawkins' table before she gets upset with me again."
“We won’t keep you Miriam. We actually stopped by to see if we can ask you if Davey here can join us for our beach trip.”
My mother was barely listening now. Apparently urgent to bus her manager’s old table before getting reprimanded again. While looking over her shoulder “W-what? You want David to…? Wh-where again? Oh, uh, Y-yes, that’s fine whatever you think is best, Mrs. Smith!”
“Oh perfect! We’ll make sure he stays plenty active! Lots to be done! Oh, and we’ll start with a round of sodas, Miriam. Oh, and the chips and guac!”
“Y-yes Mrs Smith. Right away!”
For whatever reason, I felt a pang of dejection and humiliation. My mother barely asked any follow-up questions. Instead she was nervous about being in trouble with “Miss Hawkins” again, who looked like she was barely out of high school herself, and already had my mother dressed like a joke and trembling at her commands. And the way Mr. and Mrs. Smith talked to my mother! Then I felt Ashley’s leg brush up against mine as she giggled along to whatever story Mr. Smith now told the table as the rest laughed along in amusement. In my humiliation, I suddenly felt grounded. I now get a romantic beach trip with Ashley!
The rest of the meal felt like an out of body experience. I was mostly ignored as the family enjoyed their meal. The Smith family ate their food, as I tried to laugh along as if I was in on their private jokes. I picked at my side salad, no dressing. I wanted a burger like Liz and her father had ordered, but Ashley doesn’t like when I eat any foods she thinks are too fatty or might make me too full. She says it makes me “less eager to please”.
Liz made several comments about how good her burger was. It made my stomach loudly grumble, which she smirked at. As we were walking out Mrs. Smith point out my mother by the side door. She was talking with “Miss Hawkins” again. She suggested I go say goodbye to my mother as the rest of the Smiths made their way outside. I didn’t want to interrupt my mother’s conversation and hoped to save us both some humiliation, but Ashley jumped at the chance, thinking it was a great idea. She grabbed my hand and confidently pulled me forward. I resisted ever so slightly at 1st before she gave a slight pull and I looked down as my eyes caught site of her firm buttucks rolling back and forth in her black yoga pants. My thoughts felt cloudy and suddenly my mind seemed to glaze over. It suddenly felt really, really good to follow her. As we walked up I heard the conversation between my mom and the probably 21 year old manager. Miss Hawkins stood with her arms crossed as stared down my mother, who stood before her with her eyes cast firmly on the ground as she nervously shifted her feet.
“Well, what did I tell you about cleaning my tables the SECOND they get up to leave?” Miss Hawkins asked aggressively.
“I-i’m sorry Miss Hawkins, I tried but I-“
“Do I look like I’m interested in your dumb excuses, Miriam. Let’s go. That’s another demerit. Hand it over…” Miss Hawkins said with her hand on her hip, and the other outstretched. She had a hard, expectant look on her face, daring my mother challenge her.
I watched my mother take the few dollars she clung to and slowly put them in the bratty blonde’s hand. I was glad my mom kept her eyes on the ground. It was probably best she didnt have to see the smirk that crept across her tormentor’s perfectly glossy lips.
“OH EM GEE, April!?” Ashley said as we walked up.
Miss Hawkins turned to us and after a breif second said “Ashley!? Holy shit. From high school volleyball? What are you a senior now? You look great hun!” It was odd seeing her bratty and entitled attitude immediately switch to bubbly smiles.
“Oh please, I look like a wreck compared to you. You work here?”
“Yea, I started during my freshman year of college to help pay the bills. I graduate next year though and then it’s bye bye Hoots! It’s not so bad here though. The tips are great.” “That’s awesome. And I see you took this one under your wing? Hi again, Miriam!”
My mother briefly took her eyes off the ground. “Oh, uh, h-hello Miss Smi-“
“You know this little charity case?” April said cutting my mother off.
Ashley giggled and replied she was actually my mother. That’s when April Hawkins looked in my direction for the 1st time. I could feel the heat from her eyes on me. I nervously looked down at the floor and shifted my feet. A trait I suppose I learned. Ashley and April were clearly in full control of this conversation.
“I see the resemblance. Well, everyone just loves our little charity case, don’t we, Miriam?
“Y-yes Miss Hawkins”. I hated seeing my mother refer to this 20 year old ‘Miss Hawkins’ with an honorific while she was just ‘Miriam'. Miss Hawkins was certainly pretty though, she exhumed confidence, and stood with perfect posture, forcing her chest out attractively in her snug white shirt. I liked the way her full lips glittered and shined. I cursed myself for feeling my underwear get tight when I looked at her.
“That’s right, she cleans out tables when the busboys take a break, she works any shifts the girls don’t want, and she’s the only girl that volunteers to split her tips with the other girls. So we get to split basically everything she makes. She can so generous, sometimes she just needs a little ‘push’” April winked at Ashley. "I guess it helps her feel like less of a burden around the young ‘pretty’ girls.”
“Oh well that sounds JUST like my Davey! So sweet and ready to just give, give, give!”
“I could totally tell he was the type. They are such givers these two! And you should feel lucky Davey, not everyone gets to find such a pretty ‘taker’, you know” Miss Hawkins said with a laugh.
“Oh you’re gonna make me blush, April!” Ashley laughed, brushing a loose strand of hair behind her ear. “Plus if she’s anything like my Davey”, she said gesturing toward my mother, "I’m sure she works like, so super hard to please you!”
“Oh for sure! Old Miriam here is really a cash cow. The older crowd of guys love still being able to get a quick grab or feel as she serves them, and they don’t have to worry about any reporting or repercussions with her. Not that they’d try that bullshit with me or one of the other girls!”
Ashley smiled on “Don’t I know it, girl. You wouldn’t take that shit from anyone!”
“Got that right! But I’m not gonna report it for little old Miriam here, so the creepers and old perverts usually through a few extra dollars her way. Which ends up rightttt insideee my pockets, ain’t that right Miriam?” My mother nodded along as she gave up any attempt at looking from the floor.
“Well, this has been, like, SO fun!” Ashley gushed. “Just wanted Davey to say hi to mommy”
“Yea, we should party sometime. Okay, fun’s over Miriam. Grab the trash from the back and throw it in the dumpster.” My mother spoke with her head slightly raised, wringing her hands nervously “Oh, um, please Miss Hawkins maybe I could say goodbye to my son in priva-“
“Trash. Now!” Miss Haskins returned to her normal tone when speaking with my mother.
"Y-yess miss h-h-hawkins!” Just like that she scurried away without saying goodbye. I didn’t blame her at all though, and didn’t find myself feeling angry. I think in that moment, she genuinely forgot I was there. She was just trying to be good for her superior, that’s all!
Ashley waved goodbye as she started to walk off. “See ya, April! Davey, come!” I looked up from the floor to look at April Hawkins one last time and saw her eyeing me up and down like a piece of meat. Like she knew something I didn’t. I quickly turned and scurried to keep up with Ashley who was several steps ahead. When I caught up, Ashley spoke as if to no one in particular. “Isn’t April cool? And she’s such a boss. Always has been! And did you hear the way she spoke to Miriam!? ‘Trash. NOW’ hahaha, such a queen! I like, totally gotta try that. ‘Davey, Trash. Now!’ ” I squirmed as she giggled at her own joke. She confidently strutted off, and I followed behind.
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2024.06.09 14:49 Medical-Rutabaga-375 I’ll cry dry and *** is my mother

These two poems are from an series of love written by myself, this is the first time posting my poems please let me know what you think. Poem one I’ll cry, when I realise I never knew you
I’ll cry, when I realise I did
I’ll cry, when I hear stories about you
And I’ll cry, when I do things you never did
I’ll cry, when someone recognises me from you
I’ll cry, when I look into the crowds and your face is missing
I’ll cry, when I forget your visage long skirts and showing roots
I’ll cry, I’m sure that I will
I’ll cry, I will
despite my will these eyes are dry
I miss you so, I know I do
But My eyes are dry because I’ll never know you
I want it bad I want to cry
Truth is a Stranger knows you better than I
I’ll never know you
And you’ll never know me
All that I am
All I’ve become
My failings
And strengths
I’ll never know your touch
At least enough to recall
Magical memories to far to distant
I’ve cried while writing this
I’ve succeeded my thoughts
I’ve succeeded I have, have I
Succeeded? You can’t tell me anymore
That your proud, that you love, that
You miss me, I’ve lied in this poem
The twenty fourth verse stands alone
Isolated, a dream I wish something would Fulfill
Poem two Sex is my mother
And my mother is sex
Touch one another
A sensation quite complex
Roll over once it’s done
And then touch another other
You ought to be shunned
What of the things taught by your mother
Hold her hand, squeez her right
Love her now and then
Not just for the night
Be the watcher of the feathered hen
You’ll never do I know you
Won’t, you’re too selfish
Do what? With me with you?
Like a dog to a bone
Or a moth to a flame
Let my throat fill with splinters
Fire scramble my brain
Bubbles and blisters
Corrode me with pain
When I cease to be
That is my aim
Bring me to the end, men
Dancing and laughing
I’ll go quite I will
I’ll see you there too
There’s no time for yet
The sweetness of us two
Let me love you for the night
And not in the mourning
I’ll remember you with tally on the orning
An end too it all the fuss and drab
An end for a night I will soon have
My pain will be present from at once I wake
The absence of you I cannot shake
I’d die sooner than forsake it all
To see you again I’d steal beg and crawl
Finally I’ll see you, in your radiance
Your face will bring my rapture to bear
You’ll look at me your son and realise
I would’ve turned out better,
Had you never been there
For that is torment I realise
I saw you once
looked in your real eyes
I listened to your voice on days
But now your tone is rot and decay
I knew you for those 7 years
Not enough to bring me to tears
I stood there silently when you died
Watching others lose their minds
I wish I joined them in the Frey
They are better than this day
I tormented by this memory of you
I’m forever seven, and you forty two
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2024.06.09 14:46 mrpooooopy Fordyce spots or HPV

Fordyce spots (FS) are heterotopic sebaceous glands affecting mostly oral and genital mucosa, commonly misdiagnosed with sexually transmitted infections. In a single-center retrospective study, we aimed to assess the ultraviolet-induced fluorescencedermatoscopy (UVFD) clues of Fordyce spots and their common clinical simulants: molluscum contagiosum, penile pearly papules, human papillomavirus warts, genital lichen planus, and genital porokeratosis. Analyzed documentation included patients’ medical records (1 September–30 October 2022) and photodocumentation, which included clinical images as well as polarized, non-polarized, and UVFD images. Twelve FS patients were included in the study group and fourteen patients in the control group. A novel and seemingly specific UVFD pattern of FS was described: regularly distributed bright dots over yellowish-greenish clods. Even though, in the majority of instances, the diagnosis of FS does not require more than naked eye examination, UVFD is a fast, easy-to-apply, and low-cost modality that can further increase the diagnostic confidence and rule out selected infectious and non-infectious differential diagnoses if added to conventional dermatoscopic diagnosis.
Globally, cervical cancer is the fourth most common cancer in women, with around 660 000 new cases in 2022. In the same year, about 94% of the 350 000 deaths caused by cervical cancer occurred in low- and middle-income countries. The highest rates of cervical cancer incidence and mortality are in sub-Saharan Africa (SSA), Central America and South-East Asia. Regional differences in the cervical cancer burden are related to inequalities in access to vaccination, screening and treatment services, risk factors including HIV prevalence, and social and economic determinants such as sex, gender biases and poverty. Women living with HIV are 6 times more likely to develop cervical cancer compared to the general population, and an estimated 5% of all cervical cancer cases are attributable to HIV. Cervical cancer disproportionately affects younger women, and as a result, 20% of children who lose their mother to cancer do so due to cervical cancer
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2024.06.09 14:43 Alexis5899 I need your help/opinion/experience. (Ayuda)

You see, this is going to sound very contradictory, but throughout my life, I have had "paranormal" experiences. I have seen everything from shadows to deceased people making an appearance, orbs, and other things I can't explain. This has been happening to me since I was about 4 or 5 years old. I am currently 25, and from childhood until around 18, I experienced many "paranormal" situations, some more intense and disturbing than others. Although my family seems to have a history of these events, it makes me think. However, at the same time, I refuse to believe that these things have actually happened to me. But if there is something I hate more than being able to see these things, it's hearing them. Hearing them? Yes, that's what I want to address with this long introduction.
To those who believe in entities and such, have you ever heard incomprehensible whispers? Since I was 18, I hadn't had any paranormal experiences until around the age of 22-24. These recent events have affected my mental health, and while one of them might have been pure suggestion, the last one had no reason behind it.
Here's what I think was due to suggestion: my grandfather, in his last days or weeks before passing away, would tell me he saw a dog passing under the table in his house (I was taking care of him). I never paid attention to it because I knew the dogs were outside the house, and he described this dog as medium to large-sized. One afternoon, unlike before, I decided to look for this so-called dog, but unsurprisingly, I couldn't find it. Later that night, I had a dream that was vividly accurate to what was happening around me while I was dreaming. I was sitting, watching my grandfather, the TV was on a news channel, and suddenly this dog appeared. I was paralyzed and could do nothing but insult and try to scare it away. The dog bit my hand, and when I woke up a few seconds later, my hand felt cramped, a bit painful, numb, and tingling. Anyway, 90% of the incidents I've experienced have been at my grandfather's house (I used to sleep over from Saturdays to Sundays with him from the age of 4 or 5 until he passed away when I was 22).
When I was 16/17, I saw a very ugly woman looking at me menacingly through the glass of my door. I got scared and covered my head, and then I felt someone climb on top of me, preventing me from removing the covers. Since that day, I have never covered my head again. At 18, I worked at a 4-star spa hotel in a rural area where wealthy people would go to relax. On my first night, I was given a car to transport items needed by other employees, whether it was cleaning supplies or for the chefs. I also had to set the alarm for the event rooms. On my third day, around 9 PM, I was heading to an event room to deliver items because there was an event the next day. As I arrived with the cart (the event rooms had panoramic views, meaning the walls were made of glass), I saw a lady about 70-80 years old looking out from inside. I walked halfway through the room, greeted her as I passed the door, but got no response. The next day, the same thing happened. Only this time, when I turned around, the lady was no longer there, and I thought I was going crazy. Over time, I would be in places where the lights would turn on by themselves, I would feel scared to be alone, sometimes music would start playing on its own in other rooms, or I would hear noises in the kitchens. And this always happened when I was alone. On my last day of work, I told this entity, who other employees said was the owner's mother named Berta, "Well, this is the last time we see each other, but you won't be able to scare me anymore." Immediately after, I closed a metal hatch, and after taking a few steps, I heard a terrible noise as if someone had hit that metal door. Obviously, I was scared out of my mind, but I kept repeating to myself, "She can't win," and walked away slowly.

Now, in my new job, things have also happened... I work in a flour mill. One night, I finished my shift and had to stay for the next day. The power went out around 11 PM and didn't come back until 3 AM, at which point I went to take a shower. After a few minutes, I started hearing murmurs behind me that I couldn't understand. I thought they were my colleagues, but they weren't. Among these 3 or 4 voices, there was a female one, and that's when I realized I was actually alone. There are no women at my workplace, especially not at 3 AM. I let it go, thinking I was tired, but a few weeks later, around 7 or 8 PM, while I was using the bathroom, I heard these voices again inside my noise-canceling headphones. They are always incomprehensible, indecipherable whispers. Occasionally, a female voice calls my name.

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Veran, esto va a ser algo muy contradictorio, pero a lo largo de mi vida... he tenido experiencias "paranormales" he visto desde sombras hasta gente fallecida haciendo presencia, pasando por orbes y otro tipo de cosas que no se explicar, esto me pasa desde que tengo como 4 o 5 años, en la actualidad tengo 25 años y desde niño hasta masomenos los 18 años he experimentado muchas situaciones "paranormales" unas más intensas y pesadas que otras y, aunque en mi familia parece haber antecedentes de estos hechos... me da que pensar, pero al mismo tiempo me niego a creer que de verdad me han pasado esas cosas, pero si hay algo que odio más haya de poder ver estás cosas es escucharlas.. ¿escucharlas? claro, a eso quiero llegar con esta extensa introducción y es: gente que cree en entidades y demás, han escuchado susurros inentendibles? me ha pasado que desde los 18 no he tenido experiencias paranormales hasta masomenenos los 22/24 años, estos últimos sucesos han repercutido en aquel momento en mi salud mental, y la cosa es que una de ellas puede ser que haya sido pura sugestión, pero la ultima no tiene motivo a nada.
He aquí lo que yo creo que fue por sugestión: mi abuelo, en sus últimos días o semanas antes de fallecer, en su casa (yo iba a cuidarlo) él me decía que veia un perro pasar por debajo de la mesa, nunca le hacía caso porwue bien sabia que los perros estaban afuera de la casa y el describa a este perro como de estatura media/alta, el tema es que una tarde como nunca lo había echo me puse a buscar al dichoso perro, pero para sorpresa de nadie no lo pude encontrar, mas tarde esa noche sueño de una manera fiel todo lo que pasaba a mi alrededor mientras yo soñaba, yo sentado mirando a mi abuelo, la tele estaba en un noticiero y de repente aparece este perro y yo paralizado no podia hacer nada más que insultarlo y espantarlo, el tema es que me mordió la mano y yo a los segundos despierto y sentía la mano como cuando te acalambras, con un poco de dolor y muy adormesida y con hormigueo. En fin, 90% de sucesos que he vivido han sido en la casa de mi abuelo (yo iba a dormir de sábados a domingos con él desde los 4 o 5 años hasta que falleció a mis 22 años).
Luego a los 16/17 había visto a una señora muy muy fea mirándome de mala manera por detrás del vidrio de mi puerta, me asusto y me tapo hasta la cabeza, entonces siento que alguien se sube encima mío y no me permitía sacarme las sabanas de la cabeza, desde ese día nunca más me tape hasta la cabeza. Luego a los 18 yo trabajaba en un hotel spa de 4 estrellas que estaba en medio de una zona rural porque iba la gente adinerada a relajarse, la primer noche me dieron un auto para hacer traslado de cosas que pudieran ser requeridos por otros empleados, ya sea de limpieza o los chefs, también debía ponerle alarma a los salones de eventos. El tema es que una vez, en mi tercer día, a las 21hs me dirigía a un salón a llevar cosas porque al día siguiente había un evento, al llegar con el carro (los salones eran de vista panorámica, osea sus paredes eran de vidrio) veo a una señora de uno 70 y 80 años observando desde adentro, paso a mitad del salón y al pasar por la puerta la saludo sin recibir una respuesta, la cosa es que al día siguiente se vuelve a repetir la misma situación... Solo que allí al darme vuelta la señora ya no estaba y me di por loco, al tiempo estaba en lugares donde las luces se prendían solas, sentía miedo de estar solo, otras veces en otros salones la música se prendía sola o en las cocinas se escuchaban ruidos... Y siempre me pasaba estando solo, la cosa es que mi último día de trabajo le digo a esta entidad que según otros empleados era la madre del dueño del lugar, se llamaba Berta, en fin, mi último día de trabajo voy a las 18hs a poner la alarma del salón donde yo solía verla y le dije "Bueno, es la última vez que nos vemos, pero no me vas a poder asustar más" acto seguido, cierro una escotilla metálica y al hacer dos pasos o más sé escucha un terrible estruendo como si alguien hubiera golpeado esa puerta metálica, obviamente me cague en los pantalones pero en mi mente me repetia "ella no puede ganar" y me fui lentamente caminando de allí. Ahora en mi nuevo trabajo también me han ocurrido cosas...
Trabajo en un molino de harina, una noche había terminado mi turno y debía quedarme para continuar al día siguiente, el tema es que se corta la luz como a las 23hs y no volvió hasta las 3 am, horario donde fui a bañarme, al pasar los minutos comienzo a escuchar como murmullos detrás mío que no entendí que decían, pensé que eran unos colegas pero resultó que no.... Entre estás 3 o 4 voces había una femenina y es ahí donde me doy cuenta que en realidad estaba solo, en mi lugar de trabajo no hay mujeres y mucho menos a las 3 am, lo deje pasar pensando que estaba cansado, pero un día unas semanas más adelante entre los 19 y las 20 horas estaba orinando en el baño y vuelvo a escuchar estás voces pero dentro de mis cascos para el ruido, son siempre susurros inentendibles, indescifrables... Luego una voz femenina suele llamarme por mi nombre de manera muy ocasional
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2024.06.09 14:37 Playful_Spinach7868 He’d (M30s) rather get is dick wet by other women than emotionally support me (F30s)

So, yesterday, I found out my uncle died. He was a big part of my childhood and even with his addiction he had a special place in my heart. Growing up, it many family members made an effort, but he did. It took a few hours to confirm it because we were getting info from hearsay.
During this time, I reached out to someone that was so “dead set” on being my person and building a relationship with me. I had already had an issue with him because his effort felt like watching a snail move. Very unenthusiastic. I chalked it up to him being busy and life (and I had already pointed this out several times before). Well, responded then goes MIA for most of the day. At that time it wasn’t confirmed and when it was I messaged him. Again, I chalked up his lack of response to him just being busy and focused on just… getting my thoughts together.
Later that night, he messages me saying he’s sorry and sends a gif and I tell him I’ve been writing to distract myself. He responds with “awwwww.” I finally manage to go to bed and just this morning I look online and what do I see?? Him trying to hook up and connect with people for sex. Ha. I messaged him breaking things off, then blocked him after he read it and had time to either respond or move on with his day. (He moved on with his day.)
I fucking hate this weekend. I hate the week that started this fucking weekend. And writing everything out makes it worse because if you care for someone… you’re there trying to support, not looking to get laid.
Editing to add: he’s poly. So it’s not the other women thing, it’s the fact that I needed him, as one does when something emotional happens, and he ran off to go frolic with women he wanted to add to his “harem.”
TLDR; the guy that adamantly says he wants a relationship with me would rather get his dick wet instead of being emotionally present for me after I found out my uncle died.
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2024.06.09 14:35 without_manual Comparison anxiety and shouldn't I care what she is thinking?

Read a post from a jung man (25) who is in misery because his girlfriend (23) told him, she had sex with 20+ men before him. I though, what a classic and probably the millionth post of that kind. Then I read a reply of a women who said “Don't worry it is just a number from the past, don't overthink too much!” and I thought, this man needs to understand what his issue is. Just shutting down this thought doesn't help him on the long term. So I replied: First of all, keep welcoming your girlfriend with open arms, because she did nothing wrong! This is your problem and the problem is comparison anxiety. She can compare the sex with you to the sex she had with all these men. The more people the likely you are not her best experience. Protecting your mental wellbeing, she will not want to talk about it or tell you the truth, so you should not care what she is thinking. The man replied “I love her! Shouldn't I care what she is thinking? I did not reply, because I did not know what to write. I think, stupid me made it worse for him. Is there any soothing mind hack for him?
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2024.06.09 14:17 lolfreng STI cause bleeding

If you're sexually active, you're at risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), previously referred to as sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Someone with an STI might not show symptoms and could pass the infection on. Even practicing safe sex is no guarantee since condoms aren't foolproof against STIs.
"Not all cases of every STI are symptomatic," Christine Greves, MD, an OB-GYN at the Winnie Palmer Hospital for Women & Babies, told Health. In fact, most people with herpes, chlamydia, or gonorrhea do not levelly any symptoms.
Also, even when people develop symptoms, it can be easy to mistake them for another condition, like a yeast infection or urinary tract infection (UTI).
So, if you're sexually active and something feels off, what you're feeling could be an STI symptom. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reports that one in five people in the United States has an STI.1
What STI symptoms should you be concerned about? Here are the seven of the most common symptoms of STIs in people assigned female at birth.
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2024.06.09 14:16 Beneficial-State-311 It’s exhausting at this point!

I recently posted to a Muslim subreddit (here). I brought up a discussion surrounding women’s rights in Islam and to say the least, the responses were not shocking at all . Muslim men in particular are exhausting and pretty annoying. They seem to infantilise Muslim women and believe they have no thoughts or mind of their own. They simple do not view them as co equal beings but rather cattle! my post highlighted that I wanted to hear the views of women but it seems the men there think they have a vagina and therefore are qualified to reply.
It’s absolutely insane to me how they justify lack of consent, beating women, divorce rights and so on. The only thing I’ve gathered from that post is that they think a book brought down in the 7th century has provided women with fair and equal rights. They also love to bring up the west and how women having FAIR AND EQUAL rights is an evil thing the west has procreated. Funnily enough they say this living in a you wouldn’t believe , a WESTERN country. Or it’s the fact that women want to be whores and sluts that’s why they leave Islam not because we can be beat, not allowed to refuse sex, called deficient, majority in hell, forced to cover, sex slaves and the list is endless.
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2024.06.09 14:01 dolie55 5 month old puppy needs foster in Dallas, TX FAST! Scheduled for euthanasia at 11 am today !

5 month old puppy needs foster in Dallas, TX FAST! Scheduled for euthanasia at 11 am today !
5 Month old PUPPY 🥺
‼️DEADLINE SUNDAY, 6/9 at 11AM‼️
Hey everyone!
We need desperately need pledges (I have a rescue interested in saving this baby) and a local Dallas foster that can help him until transport to save this boy! Please pledge or share as we can’t save him until we have both. Looking at probably $6k in medical bills to fix his hip and pelvis, so we are begging for pledges. 😢
He is available for adoption, but the bill for his surgery will be closer to $6k so please go in with eyes open.
Adopt /Rescue - Not Eligible for fostering through DAS
A1217105 “Peanut Butter” Age: 5 Months Sex: Male Weight : 30lbs Heartworm Neg
Available Now
Location Found: 3600 Block Dutton Dr, Dallas TX 75211
https://adopt.adopets.com/pet/cff96cb8-b6e5-461f-b445-d71e3d23433b
Meet Peanut-Butter 🥜 He was brought into the shelter as a stray from the community with another dog A1217104(Cookies N Cream) .
Peanut Butter was noted to be favoring his right hind leg .
P is favoring right hind; appears to have hip issues. x-rays needed
06/05/24 14:48 X rays were taken, please review. 6/6/24 8:00 p is BAR, social. mm pk/moist, < 2 secs. pulses strong and regular. will ambulate limited on one pelvis limb when placed in stance non weight bearing on contralateral limb. elevation in the right trocanteassymetry of coxofemoral region. req radiographs with review. (LH)
Review of xrays reveal chronic right femoral neck fracture with significant remodeling and what appears to be a pubic symphseal fracture, narrow pelvic canal, suspect secondary constipation.
SHELTER OBSERVATION On 6/5/24 had him transported by bucket, will let you pick him up, doesn’t mind you petting him, will bark at the other dogs in the kennel,
📍Dallas Animal Services (Texas) To adopt: email dasadopt@dallas.gov and go to the shelter at 1818 N. Westmoreland ✉️ Rescue tag: dasrescue@dallas.gov
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2024.06.09 14:01 lolfreng How long to wait to have sex after chlamydia treatment?

You should avoid having sex until your treatment is complete and the infection is cured. If you’re diagnosed with chlamydia, your health care provider will probably prescribe an antibiotic. It’s important to make sure that you take the antibiotic exactly as directed for as long as it’s prescribed, even if your symptoms go away. It’s also important to let your sex partner(s) know that you have chlamydia so they can get tested and treated, too.
Chlamydia is a sexually transmitted infection that’s caused by a type of bacteria called chlamydia trachomatis. Both women and men can get it by having unprotected vaginal or anal sex with an infected partner. It can also be spread from a woman to her fetus during birth, and rarely, from the hand to the eye and, less likely, during unprotected oral sex. Each year, more than three million people of all ages become infected with chlamydia.
You can avoid getting chlamydia the same way that you reduce your risk of getting other sexually transmitted infections — by abstaining from the things that transmit infections, or by practicing safer sex if you’re sexually active. Condoms greatly reduce the risk of chlamydia during vaginal and anal sex. For safer oral sex, use a condom to cover the penis or a Glyde dam, cut-open condom, or plastic wrap to cover the vulva.
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2024.06.09 13:58 Cherriessuk I just ended a situationship and I don’t know how to feel about it

I just need to vent to strangers.. Have I made the right decision?
I met this guy through some friends four years ago, we hit it off instantly. He’s a bit older than me and that was pretty intimidating at first. We went on a few dates and he brought me back to his place. One thing led to another and we hooked up. He took my virginity that night. It was amazing and we started seeing each other every other week and pretty soon I realized this turned into being friends with benefits and I was totally fine with that. A few months went by and I kinda wasn’t feeling it anymore. My libido wasn’t that high and honestly I wasnt craving sex. I told him how I’m not in the right headspace for it currently and that’ll contact him when I feel like doing it. He never respected ME contacting HIM so every now and then I’d get a msg “hey what’re you doing this weeknd”. It was just too much and I ghosted him.
A few months later we start talking again and same shit happens. I tell him the same thing and try to give signs that I’m just not that horned up. And its not at all about him. He’s literally the best guy I ever pulled and so incredibly smart, interesting and handsome.. its just that sex wasn’t on my mind all the time. And neither was a relationship. I just wanted to meet him and not have him expect sex every time. We had crazy chemistry and we often stayed up talking all night. Before and after sex. It wasn’t just sex.
Anyway.. we break off contact again and a year goes by and one morning his name pops up on my phone. I went “oh what the hell why not”. But this time I tell him when he asked me when I was free “I’m free on Saturday, you can take me somewhere nice”. I decided maybe he really does want something else, maybe its not just about sex. So Saturday comes.. nothing nice was planned. We basically walk around the lake and go back to my place after it starts raining. We talk, have a great time and he makes a move. I tell him not but he’s persistent, I tell him no again only this time I’m firm. Every other time I give in but not this time. I decided there won’t be any sex and I meant it. He asks me whats wrong and so I tell him. We talk for over an hour. A real serious conversation. I tell him that I’m still not quite sure what I want and that a relationship may be too big of a label but I’d like to that that someday thats where this could go because I don’t want just sex. It’s not fun anymore. He assures me that he’s not that kind of guy who just sleeps around, he’s sorry if thats the impression he gave me but he’s not ready for a relationship, had bad past experiences and basically tells me “lets just see where this goes”. I tell him that thats fine but if after a few months and more you’re still figuring out where this is going… thats just bullshit. So we make an agreement to see where it goes…
And a shocker! It doesnt go anywhere. I don’t want to be too pushy so I back off a bit. Let him to his thing. He’s had a lot of problems with depression and so many other stuff and I had my fair share too so I get it. I don’t want to scare him away. But he’s making no effort at all. We don’t text, the convo is pretty dry and basically just arranging dates which arent even dates bcs he always meets me later in the evening so everything is closed and we’re always at my place. He’s busy working two jobs and plays tennis. I try to understand the no textinf bcs of how busy he is and he’s a bit older so texting may not be his thing but I love texting and hearing what you’re up to, hows your day…
But the thing that turned me off the most was how turned on he was. I explictely told him that i dont want sex if we’re taking things slow and yet he still tries to get in my pants every time. Multiple times throughout the evening too. Like I get it, I want it too but it still feels like a hookup and not quality time.. we talk and have a great time but somehow I always feel objectified. Its a matter of respect now honestly. And to top it off he mentions the red flags about women, how he’s too old for games and know what he wants, a few mentions about other women that are hot, constantly talks about himself and never really interested in full about my life. I feel like im having a conversation but more like waiting for my turn to speak instead engaging… I dont know like is he not into me? I think its pretty obvious he’s never gonna settle down and wants a fuck buddy than a girlfriend. I told him this morning that its not going to work out. I have made the right decision right?
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2024.06.09 13:46 RainAffectionate6382 Conflicted. Am I in denial?

I've been in a happy same sex relationship for around 2 years. We met in a Christian space and she was the one who confessed first.
She's the best thing that's ever happened to me. She's kind, intelligent, funny and we never run out of things to talk about. I've never felt so comfortable or happy around anyone else.
We've known each other for almost 7 years and I think I'm in love with her. She's so compassionate and so good to me - I'm incredibly grateful for her and I feel like I've been blessed, even though I'm scared that our relationship is disobeying God.
I am capable of being attracted to the opposite sex, but no one will ever be her. And the thought of leaving my partner after leading her on would be so unfair. She is only attracted to women. I don't think I could ever be as happy with a man unless he was literally just her but as a guy. Sometimes I wish that were the case so our partnership would not be condemned.
I am attracted to her but that feeling is mostly romantic. We haven't pursued sexual intimacy yet - only cuddling & kissing. Neither of us have a very high libido and our relationship is very vanilla. Any explicit SSA is possible for me to ignore/suppress.
If we just never cross this line, will I be allowed to stay with her? I feel like I'm bargaining. I don't want to make an idol out of this relationship. But the thought of having to give this up makes me want to cry.
Advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm so confused and conflicted. I want to live a life that honours God. I'm also scared of losing the happiest relationship I've ever had.
It's hard for me not to feel like our relationship is abhorrent when participating in Christian spaces. Am I in denial when I question these teachings? Anyone in my life would tell me to end the relationship but I don't want to lose her. Is there any way we can date and still honour God?
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2024.06.09 13:44 dolie55 Urgent help needed to rescue a 9 month old baby

Urgent help needed to rescue a 9 month old baby
HEY EVERYONE! I am a networker and could really use some help with raising funds to save this sweet 5 month old baby before he is put down at 11 am today. 😞
We need two things:
  1. Pledges to help pay for his medical care (just comment below on how much you are willing to donate to the rescue that saves him). If he is saved I will update this post with donation info and let you know where to honor your pledge.
  2. A local (Dallas, TX) medical foster that can help him heal.
‼️DEADLINE SUNDAY, 6/9 at 11AM‼️
Adopt /Rescue - Not Eligible for fostering through DAS
A1217105 “Peanut Butter” Age: 5 Months Sex: Male Weight : 30lbs Heartworm Neg
Available Now
Location Found: 3600 Block Dutton Dr, Dallas TX 75211
https://adopt.adopets.com/pet/cff96cb8-b6e5-461f-b445-d71e3d23433b
Meet Peanut-Butter 🥜 He was brought into the shelter as a stray from the community with another dog A1217104(Cookies N Cream) .
Peanut Butter was noted to be favoring his right hind leg .
P is favoring right hind; appears to have hip issues. x-rays needed
06/05/24 14:48 X rays were taken, please review. 6/6/24 8:00 p is BAR, social. mm pk/moist, < 2 secs. pulses strong and regular. will ambulate limited on one pelvis limb when placed in stance non weight bearing on contralateral limb. elevation in the right trocanteassymetry of coxofemoral region. req radiographs with review. (LH)
Review of xrays reveal chronic right femoral neck fracture with significant remodeling and what appears to be a pubic symphseal fracture, narrow pelvic canal, suspect secondary constipation.
SHELTER OBSERVATION On 6/5/24 had him transported by bucket, will let you pick him up, doesn’t mind you petting him, will bark at the other dogs in the kennel,
📍Dallas Animal Services (Texas) To adopt: email dasadopt@dallas.gov and go to the shelter at 1818 N. Westmoreland ✉️ Rescue tag: dasrescue@dallas.gov
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2024.06.09 13:44 faeriestudy katie and feely songs

list of songs walsh posted for them on FB group (might be missing some)
songs posted about katie: better than revenge by taylor swift & don’t bother by shakira
f*ck the pain away - divide the day (listen to this! it’s literally them i’m so excited❤️)
lucky man - the verve
wasn't expecting that - jamie lawson
she moves in her own way - the kooks
sweet child o' mine - guns n' roses
inside out - bryan adams
stitches - conor maynard
hey there delilah - plain white t's
courage - superchick (about a boy helping a girl with her ED 🙁)
patience - take that
one night - picture this
hey, soul sister - train
you belong with me - taylor swift (literally them)
nicest thing - kate nash
all of the girls you've loved before - taylor swift
you are in love - taylor swift
inner smile - texas
drops of jupiter (tell me) - train
nothing's gonna hurt you baby - cigarettes after sex (so cute 🥹)
i'll name the dogs - blake shelton
those eyes - new west (ultimate friends to lovers 🫶🏾)
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2024.06.09 13:32 RESSl STDs that cause bleeding

An STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) is a communicable infection that is spread through sexual contact with someone who has the disease. STDs are caused by bacteria, viruses, or parasites. They can be passed from person to person during sex, either through vaginal intercourse, anal sex, oral sex, or skin-to-skin contact.
Lets discuss STDs that cause bleeding and see what types of treatment options are available if you find yourself experiencing these symptoms.
Chlamydia, gonorrhea, and pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) are among the most common STDs that can cause vaginal bleeding in women. Chlamydia is often asymptomatic, meaning that many people don’t know they have it. Symptoms of chlamydia can include a pus-like yellow discharge from the vagina, pain or burning sensation when urinating, and pain in the belly or lower back. In addition to these symptoms, chlamydia can cause inflammation, leading to bleeding between periods. This bleeding can range from light to modestly heavy.
Gonorrhea symptoms include thick, cloudy, or bloody discharge from the penis or vagina and pain or burning sensation when urinating. Other signs that you may have an STD include nausea or a low-grade fever and bleeding between your periods or after vaginal sex.
If left untreated, both chlamydia and gonorrhea symptoms can lead to more severe health complications such as pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). PID is an infection of the reproductive organs which can cause abdominal pain, fever, painful intercourse, irregular menstrual cycles, and abnormal vaginal discharge. It can also cause infertility if left untreated for too long.
It’s important to get tested for STDs if you experience any of these symptoms so you can get treated immediately before any further damage is done to your reproductive system.
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2024.06.09 13:32 RainAffectionate6382 Feels like I've found "the one". Is this temptation? I'm struggling.

I've been in a happy same sex relationship for around 2 years. We met in a Christian space and she was the one who confessed first.
She's the best thing that's ever happened to me. She's kind, intelligent, funny and we never run out of things to talk about. I've never felt so comfortable or happy around anyone else.
We've known each other for almost 7 years and I think I'm in love with her. She's so compassionate and so good to me - I'm incredibly grateful for her and I feel like I've been blessed, even though I'm scared that our relationship is disobeying God.
I am capable of being attracted to the opposite sex, but no one will ever be her. And the thought of leaving my partner after leading her on would be so unfair. She is only attracted to women. I don't think I could ever be as happy with a man unless he was literally just her but as a guy. Sometimes I wish that were the case so our partnership would not be condemned.
I am attracted to her but that feeling is mostly romantic. We haven't pursued sexual intimacy yet - only cuddling & kissing. Neither of us have a very high libido and our relationship is very vanilla. Any explicit SSA is possible for me to ignore/suppress.
If we just never cross this line, will I be allowed to stay with her? I feel like I'm bargaining. I don't want to make an idol out of this relationship. But the thought of having to give this up makes me want to cry.
Advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm so confused and conflicted. I want to live a life that honours God. I'm also scared of losing the happiest relationship I've ever had.
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2024.06.09 13:24 SinlessTitan The Struggles of Gen Z Men: Facing Economic and Relationship Realities in the Modern World

As a younger Gen Z guy, it feels pointless to strive for success anymore. There are so many reasons as a man, to not try it seems, both economically and in relationships. Examples being: economic problems (inflation), movements like 4B and Man vs. Bear, declining birth rates due to Gen Z having less sex, high divorce rates, and the whole gender war fueled by feminism and redpill movements and social media.
Social media, TikToks, and podcasts keep bashing men and women, and then it doesnt help that a lot of gen z women have unrealistic height and financial standards of men, plus many women in Gen Z don't seem interested in having kids anymore, or being stay-at-home moms, or they like the idea of it but do not like it in practice.
All this makes it feel like we were sold a lie as young men growing up, and that dream of working hard, finding a partner in our twenties or early thirties, getting married, being loyal, buying a house, having kids, and creating a beautiful family. That entire dream now seems like a joke or a big miscalculation of how things would turn out.
Without that goal being realistic anymore, there's not much motivation for young males to be their best physically, socially, or economically. Even if you work hard and become successful, the sad truth is you will probably still end up alone and unmarried statistically. The desire to provide for a family just can't be fulfilled because of the current gender politics and mutual hate.
With the rise of equality and feminism, guys now also have to compete with both men and women in the workforce, doubling the competition economically. This makes it harder to get into a relationship and manage the financial burden of traditional relationships where guys are expected to pay for everything. Even in non traditional relationships where the man only pays half, it’s just still too expensive to go on dates today.
We're in a weird phase, moving away from traditional values but still holding onto some expectations. As someone from Gen Z, it seems people either sleep with everyone or no one, and there is not much in between these days, neither of which promotes building a healthy long term relationship with someone. It’s a very depressing situation.
I know many women are dealing with similar issues, and my words might sound like generalizations. I'm just sharing my experience and opinions, as I know there are exceptions. I get that women were abused and mistreated in the days of past, and I don't wish that to return. I'm just voicing the depression that I feel from the lack of companionship and the hopelessness caused by the absolute all-out gender war in my generation.
I would love to hear what other people think about the current gender dynamics we are going through today. Thank you.
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2024.06.09 13:06 lemonsaltwater Colin + Pen = Swans: A Deep Dive

Colin + Pen = Swans: A Deep Dive
A joint research effort of u/sc127 and u/lemonsaltwater
Throughout Seasons 2 and 3, swans are a recurring theme in Colin and Pen’s story, both in terms of explicit imagery/sound and allusions to swan behavior and stories. There are so many allusions that it is clear the showrunners, and Julia Quinn,* want us to make these associations, as every detail is intentional.
(\while neither of us have read the books, but based on character names, as well as references to the books on this sub, we can assume this. If you've read the books, please comment with more swan references! We do not present this as something hidden/new but rather for the fun of finding all of the references.)*
The biggest allusion to swans is how swans mate for life and form into bonding pairs quite young, well before mating age. Trumpeter swans bond as young as 20 months — but then wait several years and don’t mate until at least the age of 4-7. Colin and Pen meet at a young age and form a friendship but it then takes several years for it to become romantic.
Let’s plunge our beaks underwater and dive into how these associations play out for Colin and Pen individually and then as a couple.

Colin’s character as a swan

Colin has always been a swan, even if he didn’t lean into it. It shows up in a variety of character traits throughout the seasons.
Male swans are fiercely protective of their partners. We see Colin’s protectiveness over Pen show up multiple times. I did a longer post on the evolution of Colin's protectiveness a few weeks ago, but here are some scene highlights:
  • Ep 1x01: After Penelope beams at how happy she is to be wearing a pink dress, Cressida then spills her drink on her. Colin feels defensive of her, and rejects Cressida's bid to dance (big social no-no!) and dances with Penelope instead
  • Ep 2x07, 2x08 (Cousin Jack’s scam): He not only gets angry at Mondrich for insulting the Featherington family, but also at Cousin Jack for taking advantage of the Featherington women
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  • Season 3 has multiple examples of Colin protecting Pen: after his dating help is revealed, balloon, protecting her from a mistake. It is notable that the few times we see Colin angry, they are all related to Pen’s feelings.
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We'll likely see more of this in Part 2 (and various book spoilers indicate this as well).
Male swans are also one of the few species of waterfowl that take an active role in rearing children. Male swans will sit on the eggs and protect them, unlike other waterfowl. In Seasons 1 and 2, Colin is often seen playing with his younger siblings. We see the male swan’s interest in child rearing most obviously in 2x02 when Eloise recoils from Daphne’s baby and Colin swoops in to tenderly and lovingly hold him.
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Swans are known for mating for life and for being dedicated partners, unlike other species of waterfowl. Colin “My Wife” Bridgerton, hello. But even before Season 3, we see this in Season 2 when Colin is the only one in the front row who appears happy at Anthony and Edwina’s wedding, and according to Luke, Colin is actually crying because he loves love so much. He delights in love.
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Afterwards, Colin finds himself somewhat depressed and “searching for answers at the bottom of his flask” after their “bungled nuptials.” For someone who sees love as "the one thing in life that holds genuine meaning," to see an engagement broken off at that point is deeply distressing. (We'll return to Anthony's wedding later.)
His recurring appearance changes after his extended travels: Swans shed all of their feathers during their annual summer migration period. After his travels between S1 and S2, he returns with facial hair. After his travels between S2 and S3, he returns with new clothing.

Penelope: Duck => Swan

Penelope, meanwhile, needs to go through a transformation in order to become a swan.
(There are a lot of motifs used for Penelope throughout the show: butterflies, cake, etc, but here we’re going to focus on ducks and swans.)
Let’s start with her name. To get all Colin-season-2 for a moment, “Penelope” is believed to derive from the Ancient Greek word penelops, which means “duck.” In modern language, “pen” is the official name for a female swan. And her last name is Featherington.
Something that starts as a duck and becomes a swan… that sounds a lot like the HC Andersen short story The Ugly Duckling, which is about a duck who is cast aside by society for being ugly, only to later learn that the reason it looked different was because it was actually a swan.
While Colin and Pen are more likely to quote Byron than Danish fairy tales, the allusions to The Ugly Duckling are quite strong throughout Penelope’s character arc. (And indeed, fantasy plays a huge role in their worldviews.)
This is directly referenced in the book:
“I thought you believed in me," she said, "that you saw beyond the ugly duckling.”
For a brief refresher on The Ugly Duckling, let’s take Wikipedia’s summary and annotate it:
After a mother duck's eggs hatch, one of the ducklings takes longer to hatch and is bigger and perceived by the other animals as an ugly little creature. It suffers much verbal and physical abuse from its mother and siblings, and has an absent father.
Penelope is the youngest of three children. From the first episode, it is clear that her mother regards her as less desirable and less beautiful than her sisters. Her father is neglectful and largely absent. She is repeatedly subject to unkind comments and treatment by her mother and sisters. To take just one example, when suitors come over to meet Marina, and her mother closes courting hour, she says “Please feel free to bid farewell to Phillipa or Prudence, or even Penelope.” (Colin is the only one to take her up on this.)
Portia also insists that Penelope wear bright yellow dresses even though she herself prefers pink. Yellow is the color of baby ducks. Portia tends towards green, often in iridescent fabrics, which roughly maps to the coloring of several types of adult ducks (even females). (In the Ugly Duckling, the ugly duckling is gray rather than yellow like it’s siblings. However, they’ve taken a bit of artistic license here to reinforce the duck imagery.)
It wanders from the barnyard and lives with wild ducks and geese until hunters slaughter the flocks. It finds a home with an old woman, but her cat and hen tease and taunt him mercilessly, and once again he sets off alone.
We don’t have a direct literal correlation to the cats and hens, but we can interpret “leaving the barnyard” as Penelope being too early presented in society, and the “cats and hens” being the multitude of catty comments and “clucking hens” (judgmental, gossipy mothers) of society.
It’s also interesting how Cousin Jack is presented quite clearly as a hunter in Season 2, and the gun rack on the wall clearly makes Portia uncomfortable. There aren’t direct references to duck hunting, yet that was a common hobby. (We admittedly don’t know anything about rifles and can’t figure out if any of them he displays on the wall are specifically for duck hunting, but would love it if someone knew!) Cousin Jack, of course, nearly destroys their family.
The duckling sees a flock of migrating wild swans. It is delighted and excited but cannot join them because he is too young, ugly, and unable to fly. When winter arrives, a farmer finds and carries the freezing duckling home but he is frightened by the farmer's noisy children and flees the house. The duckling spends a miserable winter alone outdoors, mostly hiding in a cave on the lake that partly freezes over.
We can read this as being when Pen watches Colin leave for Greece, and when she looks at the happy Bridgerton household. She is also too young and immature to fervently declare her feelings as she states one should. Nicola plays her as immature (the little hop when she speaks, high voice), and she is trapped in her mother’s house.
The allusion of the migrating swans is also interesting as one could see all of the Bridgertons as swans who glide gracefully on the surface of society (“pretty Bridgertons”). While not all of the Bridgertons exhibit swan-like behavior, Violet and Edmund do (but more on that below). Note how in 3x02 Penelope says the place she feels the most comfortable is/was the Bridgerton Drawing Room at Sunday tea -- surrounded by the flock of swans.
We could be a bit literal with our interpretation here and say that Colin’s protection of Pen with the Ruby scam is equivalent to the farmer’s care, and then is scared off not by children but his own friends. But I think we can look at it more broadly to say that Penelope goes from thinking she will be cared for — as Colin says during their dance in 2x08 — but then feels cast aside.
She then spends a miserable summer alone, without Eloise or Colin.
The duckling, now having fully grown and matured, cannot endure a life of solitude and hardship anymore. It decides to throw himself at a flock of swans, feeling that it is better to be killed by such beautiful birds than to live a life of ugliness.
When we first meet her in 3x01, it is clear she has had an awful, lonely summer. She is shown in her old clothing -- notably more pink but still yellow, a sign of the impending transition -- and looking shy and hunched over.
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But she resolves to fully break free of her family and marry. Her first dress is iridescent emerald green — the color of peacocks, which is likely the most direct motif given she hides behind a peacock in the garden, but it is also the color of adult mallards and several other duck species.
She throws herself into the fray at great personal risk rather than having to continue to live with her family of ducks that reject her. However, she is still awkward and unsure of herself. While she walks down the stairs with confidence, once she's on the floor, she isn't fully carrying herself with confidence, and sort of slides her feet along the floor in a slouchy manner. She then proceeds to bungle her conversation with the lords who approach her. In other words, she still sees herself as an ugly duckling -- or perhaps ugly duck since she's grown. But Colin is able to see beyond that and has the first glimmers of starting to notice her as something different than everyone else.
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Part 2 speculation:
The Ugly Duckling is shocked when the swans welcome and accept it, only to realize by looking at his reflection in the water that it had been not a duckling but a swan all this time. The flock takes to the air, and it spreads its wings to take flight with the rest of its new family.
Penelope is shocked when Colin has feelings for her, and according to the trailer, is welcomed with open arms by Violet and the rest of the swan’s family (except Eloise, who does not exhibit swan-like behaviors herself, but that's a different topic). Given the focus on mirrors so far this season, perhaps this combined mirrougly duckling/swan theme will reappear. Penelope will then integrate herself into the Bridgerton family and identify more with them, rather than her family of birth. She thus gets both self-acceptance, a husband, a loving family, and freedom all at the same time.
Given the use of mirrors this season, I expect Colin will literally and figuratively help Penelope see herself in the mirror the way he sees her, in a parallel to what Colin says in S2 E2 about her letters:
Your letters were so encouraging. I thought, if Penelope can see me this way, then surely I can too.
A brief note on Penelope's clothing
We can see hints of this in her clothing. Over Season 3 Part 1, Penelope’s clothing changes from Featherington green to Bridgerton blue. Yet in the kiss scene and Colin’s dream, she’s wearing dresses that are such light blue/green that they almost appear to be white, and she doesn't seem to wear these dresses in other scenes. (The dream one is similar to the market scene, but the sleeve detailing is different -- it's much more feathery. Hmmm.) While white dresses can imply wedding, perhaps another thread to pull here is their swan-like whiteness. The moment when they kiss is the first time it occurs to him to see her romantically, and it is also the first time he sees her in a nearly-white dress. That she is in a feathery white dress in his dream reinforces the idea that, at least subconsciously, he has started to see her as a swan.
(Yet they aren't fully white — so there is still evolution to happen.)
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Colin calling her Pen — "swan" — from the very beginning
And lastly, back to her nickname. The first time we ever see Colin talk to Penelope is in S1 E1 after Colin visits the Featherington house during courting hour for Marina, he refers to her as Pen. He refers to her again as Pen when they dance later in that episode. The viewer sees her transition from Penelope, a duck, and then becomes Pen, a swan. But Colin has always seen her as a swan, even if he didn’t realize it.
(We have not done a full analysis of the times he calls her Penelope vs the times he calls her Pen, nor of other people using her nickname.)

Audio and visual swan references

So, Colin is always a swan, and Pen transitions from duck to swan. Several times throughout the seasons, we see direct and indirect nods to swans in terms of imagery, dialogue, and other scene elements when Colin and Pen are together.
It’s notable that, as far as we can tell, swans and swan noises largely only show up when Colin and Pen are together. (There is one exception, discussed in the next section.)
The most obvious is in 2x05:
COLIN: After all, everyone else is finding some purpose to their lives. Anthony is to be married. Benedict has his artistic pursuits. And, well, here I am... feeding the ducks. [Looks at a swan as he says this]
PENELOPE: I am sure the ducks are most grateful.
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The implication being, of course, is that Colin does not realize he's not looking at a duck but at a swan. His feelings for her aren't romantic yet. But he is really looking at a swan — Pen. And that she, not the ducks, is grateful for his company and conversation.
Interestingly, quacking is heard in the background. It’s hard to say whether it’s ducks or swans — perhaps it’s intentionally ambiguous.
Singing swans = courting activities? Or a shift in feelings for Colin?
But let’s pull that thread a bit, as swans singing comes up several more times. Swan songs have historically had an association with death, yet “their sounds are more distinguishable during courting rituals and not correlated with death.” We could then interpret hearing swan songs as times that are courting-esque, or perhaps moments when Colin’s perspective on Penelope is starting to shift.
In 2x06, Penelope has a heated conversation with Eloise about Eloise’s feelings about Theo. Eloise asks her if she’s ever felt the torment of feelings for someone, and Penelope says she could only imagine it. She then looks over at Colin and swans are heard in the background.
A few moments later, when Penelope walks over to Colin for the “purpose” conversation, swans are again heard in the background. (Listen very closely as she walks over to him.)
In 3x01, when Colin and Penelope talk in the garden after the presentation, swans are heard in the background as Colin looks at her while she looks away. In this scene, Colin is wearing his beautiful embroidered vest, which features a duck near the collar. It also features a parrot. (Shout out to u/EverEarthling for this amazing deep dive on the vest!) Perhaps when Colin bought this vest in Paris, he still viewed Penelope as a duck, and himself as a parrot (i.e. one who parrots the behaviors of what society expects). Given this, we might not see this vest again, as gorgeous as it is.
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While we might think these were coincidences because they happened to be near water, it seems unlikely, as there are a lot of garden/park/outdoor scenes where no swans are seen or heard.
In 303, at the end of the Willow scene, swans are heard in the background as Penelope leaves. Swans then re-appear the Hawkins Balloon Fair. There is a giant wicker statue of a swan, decked in lilacs and light pink roses, off to the side of the balloon. (Lilacs being the favorite flower of the Bridgertons and light pink being the Bridgerton color of first love.) While we don’t get an obvious camera angle of this, based on body positions, Penelope would have been looking at this swan statue the entire time while talking to Debling.
Their conversation is about birds, and despite literally staring at a giant bird statue, she struggles to come up with one, and instead names a sparrow.
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Here's Nicola goofing around with said swan statue.
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In 3x04, the Queen has dancing swans in her wig. And, this is the first time in the season when Colin and Penelope dance together.
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We also have a small wink in terms of grass. Swans who have not yet begun mating, even if they are paired, will gather in flocks in fields of grass. Paired swans who are too young to mate will move throughout the flock socially yet still be paired — much like the environment of a ball. In 2x03, Colin mentions how he once spent meditating for hours on a single blade of grass, and in 3x03, when trying to impress Debling and looking directly at a swan, Penelope says how she likes grass.
(Perhaps we can also interpret this to mean that Eloise is not a swan: she says she’d rather watch grass grow than talk to other debutantes. But, again, that’s for another post on Eloise being different than her siblings.)
Interestingly, at these swan social gatherings, “some individuals will have several courtships with other members of the flock, whilst others, tend to stay away from densely populated parts of the herd and do their own thing.” Sounds like Colin and Pen!
From the book, there's a mention of a "swan song:" (credit to u/leadwithlovealways)
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Colin + Pen = Swans

Let’s talk for a moment about the behaviors of bonded swan pairs and their mating behaviors, as there are a lot of parallels.
One important part of the beginning of the swan courting ritual is that both will drop their wings completely to their sides, and not puff themselves up at all. We can see this literally in terms of Colin and Pen in the carriage (both have their arms down at their sides), but also metaphorically: they are both at their most vulnerable, their least puffed-up, in the entire season.
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When swans are bonded, they will press their chests together and bend their necks together and rest their foreheads against one another, forming a heart shape. In their first kiss, we see Colin rest his forehead against Penelope’s ever so slightly — somewhat tentatively, almost, and his chest is not pressed to hers. (It is in his dream, though.). We see the forehead-resting and chests pressed together more times in the carriage scene.
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Mating dances
First, watch this video of swans doing a mating dance. (Or read, if you prefer.) Note how look away from each other and then back with intense eye contact.
They will stare at each other during the up and down motions of the necks and will sometimes raise both heads together at the same time to look at each other with sideways glances as they turn their heads from side to side.
Now, let's pivot back to Bridgerton -- and to another couple. In 2x05, Anthony and Kate’s pivotal dance when they can no longer ignore their feelings for one another resembles the courting dance of swans, with their arms interconnected and circling around another. While one could say that’s true of most dancing, this one is particularly striking, and perhaps it's when Anthony drops his rakishness or ability to think about others and starts to accept his committed, swan nature (though it takes him some time). You can also see echoes of the swan mating dance in how they pass one another side-by-side in Simon & Daphne's dance when they're truly in love, though the Kate/Anthony dance is much clearer.
The closest we’ve seen to Colin and Pen dance like this is 2x08, yet that dance is much more tentative than Kate and Anthony’s, and only bears a very faint resemblance to the swan mating dance. They make eye contact, but it is not intense or focused. Colin also refers to her as "Penelope", not "Pen," during that dance, and they barely touch. Distance is implied in multiple ways. But back to the topic of this post, one has to wonder whether we’ll see Colin and Pen dance in a way similar to a swan mating dance in Part 2.
Swan mating rituals
Now we're going to dive a bit deep in terms of parallels between swans and intimacy. Yes, this is completely fucking unhinged on an already unhinged post. I’m sorry if you will never be able to look at swans the same again.
  • Swans will keep intense eye contact during courting and mating. Yup, check.
  • While mating for most birds lasts only a few seconds, for swans it can be at least 20 minutes if not up to an hour. Seems fitting given the mentions of a 10-minute long intimacy scene in Episode 5!
  • Right before swans engage in the act, the male swan will drape his neck over the female swan’s. We seem to be getting hints of this in the trailer, with Colin standing behind her in the mirror.
  • We're going to skip over specifics of swan sex positions. That would simply be too unhinged.
  • Right after mating, swans stay close together and echo the head turning/tilting of the courting ritual. We get a glimpse of this after the carriage scene is interrupted, and one can hope this means we get lots of after-sex cuddling. If not, it’s totally in headcanon now.
  • After mating, swans will clean one another. We can see this in how Colin lovingly puts Pen’s dress and hair back in place before straightening his own clothes in the carriage scene.
  • Swans also tend to mate many more times than is necessary in order to fertilize eggs. Based on this, and based on what we’ve heard about Part 2, we’re probably going to see this parallel, too.
  • Male swans eagerly build a nest once they’ve decided to mate. This matches what we’ve heard about Colin quickly buying a house for him and Pen.
  • Swan couples that are new to a territory/nest usually don’t lay any eggs for the first year, so maybe they’ll wait a bit before having children. But that seems unlikely with these two given that birth control didn’t exist…

Looking forward

Given that swans mate for life, we can be guaranteed a happy ending here.
As the show goes on, one can predict that swans will represent the two of them in various ways, and that we might expect to see swan motifs in the decoration of their new home. (In the Part 2 trailer, in the wedding scene, the walls are decorated with a swan motif.)
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In terms of children, swans keep their children close to them during their early life. We therefore might be able to predict that both Colin and Pen will likely be very attached to their children, and we will be unlikely to see them without their children once their children are in the picture. Even though Colin loves to travel, we could also predict he’ll quickly want to settle down and delight in being at home with their children, just like a swan.
Since male swans actively participate in child rearing, we also hope we’ll get to see lots of heart-warmingly adorable scenes of Colin bouncing their babies on his knees and taking care of them in future seasons. Maybe we’ll be lucky and even get a Regency-ified version of baby wearing with Colin wearing their baby wrapped around him with a shawl!

Bonus: Press tour Easter eggs!

In the Netflix India Bollywood/Bridgerton video, Luke wore a duck sweater. u/sc127's read on this:
Black Swan theory regarding Nicola's outfit: Do you think it's alluding to Colin and Pen getting married? In the eyes of the Ton, they would consider the Polin relationship as a Black Swan. It fits the criteria of being a surprise, having a major effect, and can be rationalized in hindsight.
Pink Ducks on Luke: I think the symbolism is more straight forward compared to Nicola's outfit. Pink is Pen's favorite color and it is the Bridgerton color of first love. Colin is in love with a duck named Pen :)
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