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2012.02.10 07:30 jackofallburgers The Bachelor

thebachelor is a subreddit dedicated to thoughtful discussion about The Bachelor franchise, the lives of contestants, and how Bachelor Nation interacts with and influences the world around us. Join us over in the official thebachelor discord server: https://discord.gg/vyuwGQGf6j
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2023.07.30 15:12 The Golden Bachelor & The Golden Bachelorette

After over two decades of cultivating youthful romance in The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and Bachelor in Paradise, The Golden Bachelor introduces a novel romantic narrative - one designed for the golden years. This fresh unscripted series offers one hopeful romantic a second shot at love, as they search for a companion to savor life's twilight years with. The women entering the mansion bring a wealth of experience, having navigated through love, loss, and laughter.
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2020.06.12 19:45 The Bachelor POC

Welcome to our subreddit where we discuss all things bachelor. This subreddit is for POC and allies.
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2024.05.29 06:10 mueIa Questions

Hey! I have a few questions as someone who just graduated high school and turned 18and is still trying to figure out what I want to do. For some background, I just got certified as a medical assistant and phlebotomist, and I completed an externship at a Cancer & Research center working under the radiation therapy physician. I fell in LOVE with the speciality and really got familiar with imaging like CT scans & PET scans. I’m wanting to potentially go to school to get a degree in nuclear medicine. I live in Arizona, and there’s a bachelor program for CT and Nuclear medicine combined. But I also have been considering moving to Wisconsin to be closer to family. they have nuclear medicine bachelor degrees in Wisconsin, but not ones that include CT as well. I want to know, is the combined program going to be worth it? Or will just having a degree in Nuclear medicine going be okay? Please let me know your thoughts, thank you so much!
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2024.05.29 06:06 Ancient_Ad_8858 Seeking Advice on Investing ₹15,000 as a Beginner

Hi everyone,
I’m 18 years old and have pretty much little to no knowledge in investing. Currently, I’m doing a course before i start my bachelors, so I have plenty of time to learn and research.
I’ve saved around ₹15,000 and was hoping to invest it in the stock market. However, I’ve come across a wide range of opinions here. Some suggest investing directly in stocks, some recommend mutual funds, and others advise getting into options trading.
Additionally, I’m considering using platforms like Groww or Zerodha. Which one is more beginner-friendly and charges less? I’ve also heard about platforms like INDmoney for investing in US stocks. Is it worth exploring as a beginner?
I’m not hoping to make huge profits out of this just a few thousand rupees every 2 or 3 weeks would be nice. Could someone kindly guide me on where to start and what might be the best approach for a beginner like me?
Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.29 06:02 orgamitsuki What to do when he says he doesn’t want to get married.

“ What do you want to do without his reactions ?

How do you want to do without his reactions ?
Who do you give priority to within your inside ?
Do you give priority to his feelings within your inside ?
Do you give priority to your feelings within your inside ?
It’s so important to watch his actions more than his words for you.
Because his actions have his real feelings and his love more than his words.
What evaluations do you believe about you when he says he doesn’t want to get married ?
Do you feel like you don’t get married to him forever and do you feel your sorrow when he says he doesn’t want to get married ?

Believe your real feelings yourself.

It’s so important to take his love through his actions more than his words for you.

It's so important to shift to have your mind that you're just happy even you get married to him and you don't get married for you.
To find what you learn through him will liberate your inside more from your beliefs, will lead you into more happiness. “
I’m sharing my messages with you through reading two below, because two messages are similar.
I really understand your feelings, because I’ve gone through the feelings as the same with you.
“ I think the “with you” is silent “ from relationship_advice on reddit ( I don’t write the age for protecting your personal information.)
My boyfriend (●M) and I(●F) have been dating for almost a year. Prior to this, we were friends for about 3 years. During this time we discussed our views on marriage, more kids (we both have one from prior relationships), finances and such. Yesterday, I decided to ask if he sees a future with me, as far as marriage. His reply was “I do not believe in marriage but I see a long term relationship. Marriage is man made and we can make our own contract.” I felt blindsided because this was never his view, and I understand people can change.
I feel like it’s my fault because during our friendship and relationship, I was taking on roles that one would consider a wife would do. Maybe this is the reason why he doesn’t see the point in marrying me? I’m not sure, but it hurt. He then goes on to say I’m always a feeling a way..but wtf, how could I not? Has anyone else had to walk away from someone they love because of this? Am I being extra?
『 My boyfriend (●M) and I(●F) have been dating for almost a year. Prior to this, we were friends for about 3 years. During this time we discussed our views on marriage, more kids (we both have one from prior relationships), finances and such.
Yesterday, I decided to ask if he sees a future with me, as far as marriage. His reply was “I do not believe in marriage but I see a long term relationship. Marriage is man made and we can make our own contract.” I felt blindsided because this was never his view, and I understand people can change.
I feel like it’s my fault because during our friendship and relationship, I was taking on roles that one would consider a wife would do. Maybe this is the reason why he doesn’t see the point in marrying me? I’m not sure, but it hurt. 』
【My view】; It’s not your fault and not this reason which you were taking on roles that one would consider a wife would do. I truly understand your feelings that you’re not sure and it hurts, because I’ve also gone through the feelings as the same with you.
『 He then goes on to say I’m always a feeling a way..but wtf, how could I not? Has anyone else had to walk away from someone they love because of this? Am I being extra? 』
【My view】; I think that you are not being extra.
Regarding he then goes on to say you’re always a feeling a way, I guess that he’s always feeling a way. You don’t have to receive his words too much, You should watch his actions more than what he says to you, because his actions have his real feelings he doesn’t express and his love.

What is the most important means “ What do you want to do without his reactions ?

Do you want to get married to him ? “
It’s so important to cherish your feelings and what you really want to do with him for you without his reactions.
I truly understand that you will be feeling you won’t get married to him through his reactions and his words.
If you think that you have the reason you don’t get married to him, it will give you sufferings and sorrow more. That’s not your fault. While you feel like it’s your fault, you will focus the road of differing from love between you and him on your view.
Even when he says that to you, his words are not related to what he doesn’t get married forever.
Regarding you discussed your views on marriage and you asked him about a future with you, maybe he will be thinking about marriage with you, he didn’t escape from discussion about marriage with you even thought his reply was not what you wanted.
As you both have one kid from prior relationships, maybe he won’t have a good image about marriage, but he will be thinking that he wants to keep the relationship between you and him as he sees a long term relationship with you.
Maybe, he won’t be confident about marriage and making you happy with your kids, his images will give the influence more to marriage.
What do you think about marriage ?
Marriage means you put happiness on both you, you make you more happy, he makes you more happy, you make him more happy.
If you want to get marriage to him without his reactions, how to communicate with him and how to take his love through his actions will be necessary for liberating him from fear which he is not confident.
The relationship between you and yourself gives him the influence.
At first, “ What do you want to do without his reactions ?
Do you want to get married to him without his reactions ?
In my counselling,
  • You will get how to communicate with him for giving him confidence.
  • You will take his love through his actions rather than his words.
  • You will get what to do for keeping to believe your real feelings and what you really want to do with him.
  • To find what you learn through him will liberate you more, to fill the relationship between you and yourself with more happiness and freedom and peace will give a change to the relationship between you and him, you will get that.
" My [●F] boyfriend [●M] of 10 years doesn't want to marry me... yet. Should I leave? " from relationship_advice on reddit.
So me [●F] any my boyfriend [●M] have been together pretty much all of our early adult life. We've been living together for the past 5+ years as well. We are each others first girlfriend/boyfriend and are obviously in love with each other. Besides this one thing we're literally perfect for each other, have similar values and hobbies, lots of fun together etc.
He knew from the start that I do want to get married one day, even though I don't want to have children (he's on board with that), but I just love the idea of marriage. He has told me over and over again that he doesn't want to marry me... yet. His reason being that he doesn't have a lot of money right now (we both work and get by quite ok) or that he first wants to finish his bachelor study (which he also has been studying for the past 10 years with currently no end in sight)...etc. I've told him before that it doesn't have to be an expensive wedding and we would obviously be sharing the costs, but each talk about this ends up with either me crying and him comforting me or just him being annoyed. Sometimes he tells me that he doesn't want to get married as it won't change our relationship and there are many couples being happy together for years without ever getting married. Sometimes he promises me that he will definitely marry me one day. I'm tired of waiting yet I also feel like I might be asking for too much? I try to not pressure him at all and we maybe talk about this once or twice a year.
But then I see my friends getting married and get really sad wondering if I'm waiting for something that will never happen... am I wrong for thinking about leaving over this? Or should I just be happy with the relationship as it is and forget about the idea of marriage?
TLDR: Boyfriend gives me confusing answers about my wish to get married. Should I leave or just accept the idea of probably never getting married?
『 So me [●F] any my boyfriend [●M] have been together pretty much all of our early adult life. We've been living together for the past 5+ years as well. We are each others first girlfriend/boyfriend and are obviously in love with each other. Besides this one thing we're literally perfect for each other, have similar values and hobbies, lots of fun together etc.
He knew from the start that I do want to get married one day, even though I don't want to have children (he's on board with that), but I just love the idea of marriage.
He has told me over and over again that he doesn't want to marry me... yet.
His reason being that he doesn't have a lot of money right now (we both work and get by quite ok) or that he first wants to finish his bachelor study (which he also has been studying for the past 10 years with currently no end in sight)...etc.
I've told him before that it doesn't have to be an expensive wedding and we would obviously be sharing the costs, but each talk about this ends up with either me crying and him comforting me or just him being annoyed. 』
【My view】; Probably, for him and his reason that he doesn’t have a lot of money, what you share the costs won’t mean solution he desires. He will have his policy which he has a lot of money and you don’t share the cost, he will want to be confident in himself through having a lot of money without giving you the cost, what he has a lot of money and what he wants to be confident in himself for making you happy will link with one, he doesn’t say that to you or he can’t express his real feelings by his words, so he will be annoyed. But what is the most important means your real feelings,

“ What do you want to do without his reactions ?

How do you want to do for you without his reactions ? “,
What do you feel through his behavior which he’s annoyed ?
What do you believe through his behavior which he’s annoyed ?
Do you feel like you’re disliked through his behavior ?
When you cry regarding that, “ What do you feel ? do you feel like you don’t marry him forever ? Do you believe like you don’t marry him forever ? “
『 Sometimes he tells me that he doesn't want to get married as it won't change our relationship and there are many couples being happy together for years without ever getting married. 』
【My view】; A man tries to maintain the present condition. Probably, he will fear to change your relationship between you and him through marriage.
『 Sometimes he promises me that he will definitely marry me one day. I'm tired of waiting yet I also feel like I might be asking for too much? I try to not pressure him at all and we maybe talk about this once or twice a year. 』
【My view】; Regarding you try to not pressure him at all, Who do you give priority to within your inside ? Do you give priority to him within your inside ? He won’t notice what you do that even if you try to not pressure him at all, maybe such your action will make him lose being confident of making you happy in himself. What is the most important means your real feelings, doesn’t mean his feelings. Do you your best for your happiness ? and do you talk with him for your happiness ? It’s so important that you give priority to your real feelings within your inside for you.
For you, Cherish your real feelings which you want to marry him, so you may talk about this for many years more than once or twice a year, you should talk about your happiness with him more.
Regarding “ Sometimes he promises me that he will definitely marry you one day. “, that has his love through his actions and his behaviors, he will be thinking of your feeling which you want to marry him, his actions are full of his love although it will be not easy to notice his love through his actions and his behaviors more than his words.
He will be doing his best for your happiness, don’t you think that ? Don’t you believe his love ?
『 But then I see my friends getting married and get really sad wondering if I'm waiting for something that will never happen... am I wrong for thinking about leaving over this? Or should I just be happy with the relationship as it is and forget about the idea of marriage? 』
【My view】; Regarding you see your friends getting married and get really sad wondering if you’re waiting for something that will never happen,
Do you want to marry him ? or Do you want to get married ?
Do you consider about marrying him as your purpose ? or Do you consider about getting married as your purpose ?
If you see your friends getting married and you feel worried and you choose marriage, it will be broken, because that means you just want to get married, to marry him is not a purpose.
What is the most important means “ What do you want to feel through marrying him ?
What do you want to do through marrying him ?
What do you want to feel ? after you get married to him.
Do you want to deepen more love between you and him through marriage ? Is that right ?
Regarding you get really sad wondering if you’re waiting for something that will never happen,
You will feel like you won’t marry him forever through his words and his behaviors,Do you consider what he doesn’t marry you as he doesn’t marry you forever ? If you consider that and you believe that, you will suffer from your beliefs.
I understand your feelings you feel like his words he doesn’t want to marry you reach your thought which you won’t marry him forever, you feel like that never happen, because I’ve also gone through the feelings as the same with you.
For him, his words which he doesn’t want to marry you don’t reach your thought which you won’t marry him forever. In my counselling, you will find what you learn through him, you will notice the meaning of my words more deeply.
Regarding “ am I wrong for thinking about leaving over this ? Or should I just be happy with the relationship as it is and forget about the idea of marriage ? “ and your tittle “ your boyfriend of 10 years doesn’t want to marry you..yet. Should you leave ? ”,
Do you give priority to him ? What do you want to do without his reactions ?
Do you want to marry him without his reactions ?
What do you want to do with him through marriage ?
Do you want to deepen more love between you and him through marriage ?
If you feel happiness with him and you want to marry him without his reactions, you should cherish your real feelings you want to marry him and you should choose what you want to marry him.
Because to forget about the idea of marriage means you abandon your real feelings which you want to marry him, you restrain your real feelings, you ignore your real feelings.
You follow your real feelings which you want to marry him and you want to be happy more for your happiness, you follow your real feelings more honestly for you, so you can believe in you and him. Giving priority to him within your inside makes you lie to your real feelings which you want to marry him, makes you ignore your real feelings, makes you restrain your real feelings. That means you don’t fill the relationship between you and yourself with happiness and freedom.
It’s so important that you just are happy with the relationship as it is for you and him.
Regarding “ Sometimes he promises me that he will definitely marry me one day”,
That’s his love and his action and his behavior, do you believe him ? That means “ How much do you believe that you deserve to take happiness more through him ? Do you believe in you unconditionally ? Do you believe him as well as you believe in you unconditionally ?
You follow your real feelings more honestly for your happiness, so you can believe in you and him.
If you don’t cherish your real feelings which you want to marry him and you don’t follow your real feelings for your happiness through giving priority to him, you won’t be able to believe in you and him.
You don’t have to give priority to his feelings within your inside. Because you won’t feel happiness while you adjust to his words and you abandon your real feelings which you want to marry him.
While women adjust to men, women can’t be happy.
If you had the opposite situation, “ What would you have felt ? if he had told you that he wanted to marry you but you had told him that you didn’t want to marry him yet, if he had thought to leave you and he had tried to find other person for marriage, what would you have thought ? don’t you dislike that ? “, You try to give him that.
If you face your real feelings you want to marry him and you face him through your honesty, your honesty will inspire him..
Probably, he won’t be confident of making you happy in himself through marriage.
What you do for being confident in himself means
  • You take his love through his actions and his behaviors more than his words.
  • You tell him what you take his love through his actions and his behaviors.
  • You follow your real feelings more honestly for you through your life and him.
  • You keep to tell him your real feelings more honestly and what you’re glad and you feel sorrow and you get angry and what makes you happy more.
  • You keep to tell him what you want to do with him and you want him to do for your happiness and your joy without his reactions.
What is necessary for doing that means
  • You let go your beliefs and your evaluations of restricting unconditional love.
  • Love you think is in the outside of love he thinks, you keep to shift your view to the outside of your beliefs and the outside of love you think.
  • You keep to believe your real feelings which you want to do with him more honestly without his reactions.
  • You accept your real feelings and your existence unconditionally.
In my counselling,
  • You need to follow your real feelings more honestly for taking his love through his actions and his behaviors , you need to accept your real feelings and yourself unconditionally for taking his love, so you will get how to take his love and how to tell him your feelings and your happiness and your sorrow and your anger, how to accept yourself unconditionally.
  • You will find what you learn through him and your life, to find what you learn through him will reach your understanding about that and my messages.
  • To find what you learn through him will help what you believe your real feelings more honestly for you, what you follow your real feelings and you share your real feelings with him.
  • You will deepen more love between you and him through sharing your real feelings more honestly with him and taking his love from his actions and his behaviors, being confident of making you happy in himself.
『 TLDR: Boyfriend gives me confusing answers about my wish to get married. Should I leave or just accept the idea of probably never getting married? 』
【My view】; “ What do you want to do without his reactions ? Do you want to marry him without his reactions ? You don’t have to leave and you don’t have to accept the idea of probably never getting married if adjusting to his thoughts makes you lie to your real feelings and abandon your real feelings which you want to marry him.
Probably, he won’t be confident of making you happy in himself.
In my counselling,
  • You will get how to communicate with him for being confident of making you happy in himself.
  • You will get what you give to yourself and what you say to him for deepening more love between you and him.
  • You will notice his love more, to notice his love will help you more happily.
  • You will get what you give to yourself for shifting to your mind that you're just happy even you get married to him and you don't get married.
Guidance for getting my counselling
Regarding my counselling
【Pricing plans of E-mail counselling】
  • 8,000 Yen per 2 times;You can get my counselling twice about your sufferings and your worries.
  1. You talk to me about your sufferings and your worries.
  2. I answer about that, I will share with you if I give you your work.
  3. You question me more if you have another questions. You talk to me through experiencing your work I give.
  4. I answer about that.
  • 20,000 Yen per 1 month
  1. There’s no limit to the number of times you can get my counselling for a month.
It won’t be easy to change your habit of your thoughts and your actions so far for you through once counselling, it will take time to get a new habit and keep to get it for you, so it will take time more than two plans for getting a new habit and keeping to get it in your case.
※ Price, given in Japanese yen, differs depending on exchange rate against your local currency. Make some adjustment, as a result, money you send will be a little over your calculation. Fee for sending money is yours.
I recommend you to use “ Wise ” regarding Procedure of remittance ( sending money ) because fee for sending money is lower rather than others.
For procedure of remittance ( sending money ), you need my mail address and the registration of Wise. Registration fee for Wise has no charge. I’ll send my mail address to your mail address.
After my confirmation of your payment, you can get my counselling of E-mail.
Many people have written you many comments which you should leave, but I have a difference between their views and my view, I advise that you cherish your real feelings you want to marry him and you believe your real feelings and you give priority to your real feelings within your inside for you.
by Orga Mitsuki
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2024.05.29 06:00 Naive-Ad-6969 Suggestions for a high schooler?

So technically speaking, I’m not REALLY a psych student… yet.
I’m starting my senior year of high school in a few months. For several years, I’ve been confident in knowing that I want to major in psychology. It feels like the perfect field for me, and I adore the subject.
My school counselor has been no good in giving me career advice. I just finished taking AP Psych, and I think I’ll get a 4 or 5 on that test. I’m looking into colleges with half-decent programs. But I feel like there’s more I should be doing. Do you all have any suggestions for what I should be doing to help myself in my pursuit of a Bachelor’s, Master’s, and ultimately, my career?
Thanks:)
Edit: forgot to mention— I also have credits in 100 level statistics! That’s probably important.
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2024.05.29 05:56 Qingphoebe JOB POSTING: Bartender / Assistant Bar Manager in Chengdu_Non-Asian

My name is Phoebe, I am currently representing Club Med( https://www.linkedin.com/company/club-med/), a global hospitality leader in looking for the foreign talents who are already working in China as a Bartende Bar Supervisor want to travel and experience working in Chengdu.
Requirements:
Bachelor’s degree + 2 years full time working experience.
Benefits:
Accommodation provided
Free international buffet
Full access to all resort facilities
Career promotion channel
Excellent working environment within a multicultural team
International rotation opportunities
Email: [phoebe.zhu@wilsonhcg.com](mailto:phoebe.zhu@wilsonhcg.com)
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2024.05.29 05:55 ImaginaryLobster3790 Monash vs RMIT

I got offers from both Monash and RMIT for a bachelor of software engineering as an international student but I'm having a hard time selecting one.
The RMIT course is 20,000 AUD less than the Monash course and doesn't have a common year but it is not accredited by Engineers Australia as an engineering degree.
The Monash course is expensive and has a common year where I will learn things I don't need or like but it is accredited by both Engineers Australia and the Australian Computer Society.
Please give me some advice on this as I have to accept an offer soon.
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2024.05.29 05:54 pussyknife Could my name be an issue? Southern USA

I’ve read that not having a “white” name can be a problem bc recruiters (like in many things) can be prejudiced.
Is this also true with foreign names? I am white, but my name is Eastern European. Lots of Js, that make the “Y” sound in our alphabet. Most people don’t know how tf to say it when they look at it. I’ve heard every pronunciation under the sun. If there are any recruiters in here, is that a problem? My mom always said she wished she spelt my name in a more “American” way.
I could always get it legally changed, my first name at least. I feel like a weird-looking last name can be ignored if your first name is “normal.”
I’ve applied to so many jobs, and very rarely hear ANYTHING back at all, even rejections. It’s very disheartening. I don’t want to change my name but I desperately want a job that isn’t my current food service one. I have a bachelors degree :-(
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2024.05.29 05:54 ImaginaryLobster3790 Monash vs RMIT

I got offers from both Monash and RMIT for a bachelor of software engineering as an international student but I'm having a hard time selecting one.
The RMIT course is 20,000 AUD less than the Monash course and doesn't have a common year but it is not accredited by Engineers Australia as an engineering degree.
The Monash course is expensive and has a common year where I will learn things I don't need or like but it is accredited by both Engineers Australia and the Australian Computer Society.
Please give me some advice on this as I have to accept an offer soon.
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2024.05.29 05:53 thenameofwind Which option to go with regarding Masters in UK. I’m looking for a University which can support during studies and guide afterwards too. Want to study properly for once with proper support with disability.

Hello everyone, I’m applying for masters in UK with 4 years of work experience in Govt. Administration (my organisation operate Hospital/Insurance/State Social Security).
I received 3 offers for postgraduate from following universities. “My_qualifications are Bachelor of Arts in my regional language with computer application and economics as electives”
  1. Health Policy, Planning & Financing from LSHTM+LSE (course is being provided jointly).
  2. Public policy and management from SOAS.
  3. Development studies from King’s college london.
Was unsuccessful from LSE and UCL (Disability, Design and Innovation MSc) is awaited.
I will be finding my entire fees on my own with some loan and family help. I’m going to lock down on LSHTM, but was just wondering and wanted to ask people here if it’s the way to go. The only reason I was open to the other 2 programs are because they have been very open and active with all kinds of help and communication while response from LSHTM and LSE have been one or two emails.
I would love to work in social security sector with NGO or public sector or any organisation or go off in hospital administration/Insurance sector.
I suffer from a hearing disability
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2024.05.29 05:52 carless_poison Aspiring Accountant Seeking Guidance for Internship Preparation

Hello Reddit community!
I'm currently in my third year pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Accountancy and find myself in need of some guidance. My academic journey has been challenging, and my grades reflect a hard-fought battle to stay afloat. As I approach my internship semester, I realize my CV lacks the luster of active club memberships, leadership roles, or notable competition victories.
I'm reaching out in hopes of gaining insights and advice on how to enrich my CV with experiences that resonate with the field of accountancy. Despite not being actively involved in organizations or clubs, I am eager to learn and grow. I understand the importance of practical experience and am ready to take proactive steps to build a foundation for my career.
If you have suggestions for entry-level roles, projects, or activities that could bolster my CV, please share them. Your wisdom and experience are invaluable to students like me navigating the early stages of our professional paths.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I look forward to your recommendations and am grateful for any help you can provide.
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2024.05.29 05:52 Suspicious_Bee_5310 I need this to stop_

Ok guys another story about love and loss. So, my ex fiance, boyfriend of 8 year left me 2 years ago. He met a girl at work and same old story picked her over me.
During the time we were together he proposed and we bought a house. Along with my family and his family we started planning for a small intimate ceremony. We had already taken our engagement pics, ordered some party favors and sent out the invites.
But also during this time he went back to school to finish his Bachelor degree, while working full-time. At this time, I started paying for majority of the bills ( so he can afford school) and had to understand that he was going to be broke, tired and not have alot of time for me. I genuinely missed spending time with him. I worked too and our schedules just didn't align right. But, he promised that as soon as he graduates. He will have more money and I can go back to school, go on vacations abd fix up the house.
Fast-forward to April, 1 month before he walked the stage and receive his diploma. I find out he had been cheating on me. He moved out but kept saying he loved me but was confused blah blah blah.. The literal week of his graduation he chose her. She got to watch him graduate. He got a promotion at the end of May while I was trying to understand what had happened. And pick up the pieces of what was.
The following April, I find out they had a baby. Picturing him with his new little family kills me. I also found out I can't have children due to some illness. Again, I was devastated. I'm struggling w ith trying to be happy. Or at least having to pretend to be happy. It's been too long for me to be this depressed. Idk how to make the pain and loneliness go away. I'm an adult and know life is not fair. But damn. Idk how 2 people can be so selfish and hurtful and still come out on top. It's so unfair. I just don't want to feel this pain and loneliness anymore.
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2024.05.29 05:50 wilsonasm Over 600 Applications (No Interviews). LF a Software/Electrical/Robotics position. Please critique as much as possible.

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I really need help. I feel like I have exhausted all resources. I made sure this was AST approved through the resources provided. I asked opinions from friends and family. I am at a lost mentally with the amount of applications (and I have done all the ticks in the book). So please help me any way you can. I appreciate it greatly.
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2024.05.29 05:45 minostronie CS/SWE networking and career advice as a mature-age student

Hi all,
I am looking for some suggestions or insights on how to navigate (and advance) my career as a career-changer and mature-age student. Any contribution or perspectives welcome. Questions can be as useful as comments.
Why I am asking
I watched this Ted Talk recently and it prompted me to ask. I recommend it if you haven't seen it.
I have spent the last 4 years working hard in isolation to try and build my skills and break into the industry, but I have completely neglected to build a network, as well as ask for help and advice.
I'm trying to break that habit now. To be clear, I am not looking for anyone to solve my problems. But insights or thought-provoking questions to help me, help myself would be invaluable.
Context
I'm 31, live in Geelong Victoria, am a part-time CS student (half-way through, studying remotely) and have been working full-time as a junior web developer for the last 12 months. I was working part-time prior to that for another 6 months so I could make financial ends meet by working splitting my time with my other, higher-paying job.
As such, I have half a degree and 12-18 months-ish of experience. And I acknowledge this very fortunate as securing that first job can very difficult.
However, I am looking for guidance on how to maximise my trajectory from this position given that I have dedicated a lot of time and effort towards breaking into tech and took a rather sizeable pay cut.
I would also add the company is small and there's only a few devs, with the one senior making all the decisions, meaning I get little mentoring and there's no strong engineering-based conversations. We use Laravel and are just trying to get products out the door and get paid, very digital agency style.
There is nothing wrong with this, it's just not where I ultimately want to be or the technologies I want to use (and build skill with).
None of this is to say "poor me", just set some context for why I am trying to recover lost time and finances as much as possible.
Goals
Generally speaking, I'd like to find a role where I: - Use CS fundamentals more. I'm thinking backend work, building proficiency with a statically typed language, etc. rather than doing more plug-and-play web development using a batteries-included framework. - Am part of a bigger team, so I can learn from those around me and have discussions about tech. - Increase my earning potential and move beyond an entry-level salary (given I don't feel entry-level age) and have taken "backwards" financial steps in the hope of taking bigger strides forward.
I know everyone wants the perfect job and they aren't just handed out on platters. I am realistic. I'm just trying to learn how I can open up better opportunities, and do it sooner rather than later.
##### Advice that exists The top comment on this post about how to make good use of your time while studying CS suggests:
While in course:
  • Secure an internship/placement ASAP
  • Network, join relevant clubs, meet people in industry, make connections
  • Build a portfolio outside of course work
  • Find out what you really need to know for your planned career
  • Learn practical concepts beyond the course like Git, containers
  • Figure out a course plan well in advance
bold = Do these 2, if absolutely nothing else. They will take your career further more than anything.
I think this is excellent advice and would echo its importance.
And while it is still relevant to me, I also tend to think it's more applicable to younger, entering-the-work-force-for-the-first-time students. But I could be wrong!
What I think my problems are
I feel like I am a little stuck -- or moving slowly -- due to the following broad problems: - Opportunities for promotion and growth in my current role are very limited (not just financial, but skills and experience-wise). - I'm not yet academically credentialed nor oozing with industry experience, either. - Non-existent network, a factor of both being a remote student and having only been at a single, small company.
My questions
All of this leads me to the following questions: - Do I simply need to stay the course? I am trying to be proactive, rather than complacent, but it is possible I'm only achieving impatience. - Are university organised networking events and internship opportunities likely to be useful for me or are they distractions at this point? - Is there better advice for someone in my position than what I highlighted above? And if so, what are the high-impact activities someone in this position should be focusing on? - Is there any obvious truths or ideas that I am missing?
Conclusion and connect if you like
Thanks so much for reading this far. Also, to help me build that network, please feel free to connect with me on LinkedIn. Also, if you're interested, I recently built my portfolio, and I would be open to any feedback you have on that.
I'm also open to collaborating on projects or trying to help you in any way that you think I might be able to.
Thanks again. Any contribution, big or small, is greatly appreciated.
Have a great day, Redditors.
(This is my first ever post, if I unknowingly committed any sins, please feel free to draw my attention to them.)
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2024.05.29 05:44 thenameofwind Which option to lock

Hello everyone, I’m an international applicant from India with 4 years of work experience in Govt. Administration (my organisation operate Hospital/Insurance/State Social Security).
I received 3 offers for postgraduate from following universities (for information I have done Bachelor of Arts in my regional language with computer application and economics as electives):-
  1. Health Policy, Planning & Financing from LSHTM+LSE (course is being provided jointly).
  2. Public policy and management from SOAS.
  3. Development studies from King’s college london.
Was unsuccessful from LSE and UCL (Disability, Design and Innovation MSc) is awaited.
I will be finding my entire fees on my own with some loan and family help. I’m going to lock down on LSHTM, but was just wondering and wanted to ask people here if it’s the way to go. The only reason I was open to the other 2 programs are because they have been very open and active with all kinds of help and communication while response from LSHTM and LSE have been one or two emails.
I would love to work in social security sector with NGO or public sector or any organisation or go off in hospital administration/Insurance sector.
I suffer from a hearing disability
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2024.05.29 05:42 Ok-Collection4902 What should I do?

Hello everyone, I'm a 19 year old CS major entering my sophomore year. My dream is to graduate with a bachelor's in comp science and someday even achieve a master's degree. In terms of school, I'm not the smartest but I'm also not dumb, I'd say I'm above average. The problem is I'm terrible at math, I will point out that I excel in English though. When I look at the math courses I'm required to take my head starts spinning, some of this stuff I've never even heard of. I'm super passionate about computers and want to work in cybersecurity one day, but honestly, I don't know if even with my best effort I'll be able to get through all the math. For reference of exactly how much I struggle in math, I'm currently taking College algebra and I am having a hard time. Have any of you ever been in the same situation? How do I get better at math and how do I study? Working to get better is not the issue for me I just don't know how to do it. Any help is much appreciated thanks.
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2024.05.29 05:39 Fine-Language-3873 Situational Judgment Test for Uni Melb's DVM Program

Hi, my daughter is a year 12 student and considering applying for Doctor of Veterinary Medicine at Uni Melb through Graduate Degree Packages for High School Achievers. I think she will get over 98.5 ATAR and she’s a domestic student. I saw the requirements saying that she will need to get at least 70 WAM in her two years of bachelor of science degree and then at the time of enrolment to veterinary bioscience major, need to write a written statement and pass as satisfactory in situational judgment test to be admitted to DVM. My question is about the SJT. How likely is it for someone to fail it? And are students given only 1 attempt? Do you get second chance if you fail?
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2024.05.29 05:38 Moist-Style4604 Deadline date for offers.

Is the deadline date to accept offers the same for bachelor programs as it is for the masters programs?
I've heard the final date is 2nd june, is it also for those applying for their masters?
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2024.05.29 05:35 MilkyHomelander how to stand out applying for grad school in biomedical engineering?

i’m a rising freshman in college going to major in biomedical engineering at virginia commonwealth university. i really want to attend a good grad school after my bachelors. and was wondering what exactly matters in grad school applications. the school i’m going to is pretty low ranked especially for engineering, so would that lower my chances? other than a good gpa and research, what else can i do to make my application stronger ?
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2024.05.29 05:33 No-Tax7277 Bachelor of Computer Science: Preview Classes

I’ll enroll in Feb 2025. I want to ask someone who also has studied for the bachelor of CS if the classes may be very hard so that I have to preview them from now? Because I have nothing to do after graduation. Thx
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2024.05.29 05:32 FailureRohan Rich IITian

So I reaserch about all India billionaire and check there education qualification ( of all self made and . ... )
So I found that out of approx 200 billionaire
  1. 12-13 are from iit , 2-3 are from bits pilani ( main ) and majority of people who are iitian and billionaire have done master from iit not bachelor ( also there passing year are from 1980-2004 something)
Example -: naryana murti done mtech from iit not btech .
  1. 30-35% people are from commerce background
  2. 10-15% people are from iim ( Ahmedabad mostly )
  3. So many people who are billionaire have link with Pharma company and have done type of bsc , msc etc...
  4. 12-15 people are school drop out , college drop out and you can called them anpadh too 🤡
Note -: In this list I am not talking about people who are from iit and then leave India ( NRI -: NON RETURNING INDIAN )
Also there is very less information about so many billionaires so I don't know about so many people education background
*** Most important
So many billionaires are already rich and then become ultra rich most of them have study abroad
And I also found on LinkedIn that so many iitian are very rich , so yes we can say that iit is one of the way to become rich
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2024.05.29 05:32 Specialist_Aioli_323 Navy School of Music

For the MU’s out there, I often see posts on Facebook from various Navy bands to congratulate someone who just won a spot with that band. The person is usually a civilian with a bachelors and usually a masters degree in music. The post the ends by saying they will attend RTC followed by the Navy School of Music which I assume is MU “A” school. If you have a Masters degree what is the Navy going to teach you about music?
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2024.05.29 05:31 lina_the_waitress Austudy Confusion

Hi
So I'm a bit confused about allowable time. Nothing I read online makes it any easier to understand.
So my circumstances: I undertook my first bachelor (in paramedics) beginning in 2013, it was a 3 year course but due to an injury I took an extra year to finish. So I finished studying in 2016. I could not work as a paramedic due to my injury. I have now began studying my second bachelor (medical imaging) in 2024, enrolling and moving across the country to do so. This course is minimum 4 years. I applied for Austudy back in Febuary when I moved here, I hadn't heard any response, so I called the complaints line and got a response.
When I was on the call with centrelink I was told about allowable time for the first time, but I'm still very confused. I've tried to look it up and nothing is making sense.
Other relevant info: in 2022 I was diagnosed with ADHD and ASD
I was hoping some lovely people here could explain it to me and any advice, next steps to take would be amazing!
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