Hello! Lately I've been frustrated right now. So let's get into details, shall we? Okay, so I have a brother. He's just a wicked monster around my house and likes to be a controlling witch (he wants everyone to do it in his ways). He's just a douchebag because he demeans his wife whenever they get into arguments. He ALWAYS make me cry, even for no reasons at all. We used to be best friends and stick up for eachother...way until our teenage years. He would always bully me and mock me whenever his opportunity knocks. It really hurted me.
When him and his wife got married, it seems like they rule the house, but no, my mom is the leader of my house. What makes him a leader? Nothing. He ALWAYS act like one. A bad leader. He doesn't know how to lead. He's very bossy. I DON'T WANT THEM TO BE THE LEADERS OF MY HOUSE. Whenever the mishaps happen, he would go berserk like, "that's RIDICULOUS", "NOBODY EVEN FUCKING LISTENS!" and etc. I'd always get anxious about him screaming at me or smth... My mother hopes he'll change, it's unlikely he'll ever change at all. She would always see the good in people.
So a few days ago while I was making dinner, my brother got upset that he told me "You should've made it on time. I'm literally going to be home. I'm done with your shit." I hate the way he talks to me. It as seems like he has no filter and is very harsh toning. His voice is like a fucking screaming banshee. Then my mother and him were arguing about the dinner. He said to her "you GUYS SHOULD'VE DONE THIS AHEAD OF TIME." and my mom retorted "Grandma's home too. She can do the ribs!" I started crying while hearing them arguing from upstairs. I know I let everything get to me. I shouldn't been so sensitive over it. I can't even stand up for myself because I'm really bad at dealing situations like this... I struggle with setting boundaries with him...
One time when I was dehydrated and I didn't want to go downstairs, he scolded me saying "Are you THAT fucking lazy?". It made me feel hurt that I kept reminiscing about it for a couple days. I had to hold it in while getting my water then when I got to my room, I let it all out. He has a lot of narcissistic tendencies that caused my family to go on long arguments. His go-to motto is "My way or the highway".
I wish he would move out of my house with his wife. If he and I weren't relatives, we wouldn't be friends at all, or if we were friends/in a relationship, I would've gotten out of it cuz of how malicious and cruel he is. I told my mom about my hostile thoughts about him, she told me to stop and they are just my thoughts. Like WHAT? She'd bring up "What if something bad happens to your brother? Would you feel sad about him?" Of course I would be because I have a heart. She doesn't want to hear about cuz she loves my brother so much (same as me, no favoritism). She really wants me and my brother to patch things up, but however, she agrees with me about her not liking his personality and such.
I just know my dad and brother are monsters inside, but guess what? I'm turning into one too. My mom said they walk on eggshells on me cuz of my attitude and behavior towards people. Like if they want me to do something, I'd get upset about it or smth. And I'd do everything I want to do, regardless if anyone doesn't want me to do it or not. I treat my sister-in-law like shit cuz life isn't easy. She ALWAYS gossip, especially telling my brother about what I did. My mom told me I have authority complex, meaning if she wants to do something with me, I'd say no and get to decide. She's my caretaker (I'm autistic, don't @ me 🫤). I'm acting like I'm a 10 year old child inside of me when I'm currently a young adult. Sometimes I feel inferior inside. I'm probably in my unhealthy state right now. I want to change, but it's hard and I'm not even motivated to do it...
tl;dr - My brother is a freak and I'm always frustrated

A little background info: I started playing the series with Worldborne (long sword) and I’ve finished all of Rise and Sunbreak (hunting horn) with the absence of risen shagaru and valstrax I haven’t had time for the anomaly and MR grind. I recently got into MHGU and I have to say the old gen is pretty fun. The learning curve from new to old gen had me for my first couple hints while using lance since I no longer had a dodge. The not being able to restock never really bothered me though. It’s forgetting to eat which got me the most but luckily Ive only just gotten to high rank so it hasn’t mattered much. I enjoy the slower and deliberate hunts but uragaan seems to suck no matter what generation. I do prefer the villages in new gen just because of the size and NPCs but perhaps the villages are small since there are 4 of them. The difficulty hasn’t been bad yet. I’ve definitely fainted more times in MHGU than Rise or world at the same rank but some of those hitboxes I never saw coming. I haven’t failed any quests save for the double khezu quest which hurt my soul and the “gathering” quest for 2 wyvern eggs and getting sent to Valhalla by astalos since I didn’t eat anything before the quest. Though those supposed gathering quests with the fated four were very fun and charming. Especially since you could beat all of them which I did and was a nice little challenge in lower rank. I don’t see the argument for paintballs coming back really. I mean you just get psychoserums later then you might as well see the monster on your map at all times. Though the fog of war effect is really cool when a new monster decides to show up in your quest out of nowhere. I liked the way world did it with gathering clues better. I don’t find the game necessarily hard yet it’s just a more unforgiving but to be fair I haven’t felt the pain of deviants yet. I can definitely see the argument for it being tougher since it is for sure in some aspects. One thing I didn’t like though was that you’re pretty much on your own after the game starts. No help although since I’ve played other monster Hunter games it was quite straightforward. I want a more balanced approach where they introduce me to a few things then just let me go. This game just lets you go. The thing I love the most is the monster roster. The fights have been great I love Testucabra, Shagaru’s fight location was amazing, and I wasn’t expecting Lagiacrus to have a devious hip check. It’s been a great experience as my first old gen game. If any of you have thoughts on this let me know so far I’ve loved both old and new world hunting.

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I live in California. I paid cash for a 2021 Nissan Versa on December 8, 2022. My car was stolen on June 6, 2023. I was devastated. My insurance company tried to lowball me. I refused offers until they told me ,"This claim has gone on for too long, we are closing it out" This happened on July 8, 2023. I agreed to take $1948,000 on a vehicle I had paid $23,000 with only 12 thousand miles on it. They demanded my Certificate of Title and my Fob Keys, which I mailed, overnite. No money was ever received because within 3 hours after I mailed keys and Pink Slip (Certificate of Title), the police called me to tell me car recovered, looks fine, come pick it up. I was so happy. I did not want the money. I had put so much money into my car in 4 months, and I owned it outright, and had worked 2 jobs for years. So I called insurance company, so happy, let them know My car had been recovered. It took two weeks before they mailed the keys back, but car was in mint condition, had been driven only 9 miles (joyride?) parked in a huge, Walmart, parking lot. I asked for the title to please be mailed back as well. They kept ignoring me. I went to register my car this past December. Only to be denied due to DMV looking at me like a criminal and telling me I had already been paid $19000.00 and vehicle is now owned by my insurance company . I tried explaining , asked for help...they told me Esurance must fix this, you cannot do anything as they legally own the vehicle. I call my claims adjustor, hysterical, and asked him why is my vehicle registered to my insurance company and why does the DMV believe I have been paid $19000,00. He literally told me, "Oh now your just making this up." I tried to ask him to investigate please, he told me, "since you have raised your voice I am hanging up now.' Im downplaying just how rude he was. He basically called me a liar and hung up on me. I was crying but I was not mean, I was almost pleading. He refused to answer my calls and no one else at the office would speak to me, they just forwarded my calls to him. I was in perfect health up until this point. But as each day passed, I begaan to shake from stress, burst into tears, became incredibly depressed, became unable to sleep, spent all my non working hours trying to find a solution. I was unable to concentrate at work. This finally went from beginning to have panic attacks but ended with me waking up after being in a coma, on a ventilator, for 14 days/ I had no idea where I was, was unable to remember how I got to the hosptal or why. I had two Myocardial infarctions, the Doctor explained that I went into full cardiac arrest and a co-worker gave me CPR for 16 minutes until the ambulance arrived. i had a second Cardiac arrest The Doctor told me, shortly after they had settled my into ICU. That one, He told me, they almost were unable to bring me back from. Thank God for The Doctors refusal to stop working on me, my wonderful coworker and The inventor of the Defribulator! Before my release, The Cardiologist told me they could find absolutely no reason for my Heart attack, i have low blood pressure, have no heart or health problems, no family history. They were dumbfounded. i gave him a brief synopsis of my car insurance situation, He told me, ;Stress, it was the stress" "That stress will kill you, you must work on your stress". They referred me to a social worker and a psychologist. When I finally began to regain stress and began to try and demand that my insurance company fix this because they were literally killing me, I felt. I sent a letter, pointing out every single thing that happened, all correspondence, how rudely I was being treated and I sent over my final Diagnosis from the hospital. They never acknowledged my letter. It is now May 13, 2024. have seen attorneys I cannot afford. I was told by DMV Investigations that I definitely need an attorney. Ive been put on Temporary Disability and since I am unable to register my car, I cannot drive it. I am unable to survive on what disability pays. I am losing all hope. I will probably lose my apartment, and may have to live in my car, but my greatest fear now is that my kitty and myself will be on the street, because if they take my car (its illegal to even park an unregistered car on a public street ( is what I was told by the Van Nuys supervisor of the DMV. ) Yet I have asked the Dmv to tell me if there is anyway we can resolve this. I just want them to know i was paid nothing and was finally sent a letter admitting that I wasnt paid anything and it was not my insurance company who made the mistake, it was Copart, and I should take it up with Copart. Okay, this is so beyond absurd. Copart who? Why do I pay full coverage insurance/ when I should pay almost nothing, as this is totally "Do it yourself-Figure it out yourself" insurance. The Claims adjuster told me last week, that they were not going to help me due to my 'Refusal to Communicate with us in January". I got so angry and told him, "So now , You say that I refused to communicate with you?" He said, "Yes, we do." I said," I know for a fact, you never made a single attempt to contact me, while I was in the hospital , after having a heart attack, because phones and emails keep records, and you know, there is no record of anything coming from you or my insurance company . The records I am looking forward to hearing will be all the calls between you and myself. my insurance company claims that every phone call will be taped, and I look forward to the day your employers listen to just how unprofessional, rude and outright sadistic you have treated me. Because you forgot who you work for, sir, and if you did not have policyholders, you would not have a job. You seemed to really enjoy mocking my illness, calling me a liar, hanging up on me. in fact I think we will hear that you threatened to hang up, not look into my claim, and said you were done with my problems and would no longer take my calls.. I have never been treated so cruelly, so rudely, and all I wanted was for my vehicle, which your company never paid a cent to me for, would be transferred back into my name, because I did not make this mistake and I cannot fix this mistake. All I ever wanted from you to fix the mistake that was made by your company You lost nothing in this claim, I only ask that you right a wrong. I have a car that cannot be registered or driven. I oay for your company to ;make me whole' but i would have been better off if i had no insurance at all. My car was found, my car would still be in my name and I could have registered it. Obviously, your never going to help me or make things right' he said, 'i have done all I needed to do, i mailed you the Certificate of Title, so your claim is Closed.' So I have an unsigned Certificate of Title in the name of my insurance company . Which does nothing to help me. Any ideas? So far beyond hopeless, i have lost faith, have lost all joy, no longer leave my apartment. I will do anything, but i just have no clue and no hope. Thank you so much.

I(31M) met this girl(28F) through a common friend about 1.5 years back when she moved to my city for work. We started talking and we clicked. There was so much in common. Our taste in food, music, our way of life everything kind of matched. The Issue was that she was in a relationship. Long distance.
I started liking her but never told her because she seemed happy in her relationship. However there was just one issue that her parents were not agreeing for the marriage. She was trying to convince them.
Anyway, In last few months We were spending too much time together. We got very close, Like at many instances I felt that this is not just friendship but dismissed those thoughts because I didn't want to give myself any idea. Because in my mind she was in a happy relationship already. I didn't do or say anything to reveal my feelings for her.
Now a few days back, she looked visibly upset. I asked her the reason and she said her parents have agreed for the marriage. I asked her why isn't she happy!? She said she is not happy because she is not sure now if she wants to marry that person. She has been feeling distant and not content with her relationship.
I advised her to take a break, inform her boyfriend of all this and not go ahead with marriage because it would be unfair for everyone.
After this she confessed that in past few months she has started liking me. And that's the reason she is confused. I told her about my feelings and how happy this makes me but also that I would want to be with someone who doesn't have any doubt about being with me. So she should first sort this mess and then we can talk about ourselves.
She took some time and decided that she wants to give her relationship one more month of time and see if it works out. It not they will part ways.
But since I am involved in this, she doesn't want any contact with me. I agreed to this. Didn't push her much.
It's just been 2 days and I feel overwhelmed. I feel like I can't control myself. I have cried, took leave from work, can't eat properly, don't know what to do. I even thought of leaving this city and move to some other place but I have a job and house here and that is not easy.
I am surprised that just 5-6 days back I was so comfortable with my feelings and idea that we will not end up together and now with just another info, i have gone mad.
I don't know what should I do. Please someone help me. Or just say what you feel. I need some rationality and logic.

I’m in FinServ for a small Credit Union. Prior to me there wasn’t a retirement department. I’ve built it from the ground up by myself, 100% my baby. I’ve been an FA for 7 years before at a large wire. I moved from finding your own book, cold calls, cold walking, networking; to referrals, and warm leads everywhere.
I’m going on my halfway through my 4th year. I’ve had sustained growth in tough markets, new assets, no complaints, balanced growth all around.
The Credit Union has been around 50+ years, and they have been a positive for our community.
They can’t prospect. They can’t sell. They are order takers. They can’t dig for more opportunities. They can’t track prior prospects and can’t follow up later in the year. They are successful because of their hospitality, leadership, and marketing.
Given past/current markets, they are struggling with interest rates and stifled demand for cars and home purchases.
I have been asked at the beginning of the year to be on a sales committee. Weekly 90 minute meeting discussing prospecting,sales, accountability, and tracking. Much more busy work than I need. To me, it seems I’m here for them to pick my brain, and try to replicate. It will benefit me down the road.
I have full schedule autonomy, they support me, culture is great, an assistant, love everything about my job. Pay is good and growing, 401k, and pension.
I’ve also had 3 offers to work with local FAs this year. They are both offering Triple current pay for 5 years, plus a 10% commission increase. One is a unique situation.
What option should I consider?

1. Saying nothing and continue to grow
2. Have a conversation and get a raise nearing 3x pay
3. If no, do I jump?
4. If no, revert to option 1 and plan for option 3 when it hurts them the most
5. Something I haven’t considered

Thanks and let me know what I need to clarify.

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Original - 12th May 2024
Update - 13th May 2024
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My (F25) husband (M30) says our house will never be mine. How do I move past this?
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Me and my husband have been married for almost one year, and have been together for 7.
I work a job in media while he works as a therapist of sorts.. we have been living in my inherited home that has been in my family for many years. Over the past few years, we have both agreed the house and the location is just not ideal. With the housing market being what it is, we have sucked it up and continued to live here.
Recently we were offered to purchase my husbands family home. It’s a good house that needs a lot of work but I am confident we can do what we need to for under $15,000 in renovations, so we are planning to move there and begin renovating!
We were both happy and excited until the other day when we were talking about it, out of nowhere he told me “I want you to know this house will never be yours. If we divorce or anything, you will have no right to live there anymore.” And I found this hurtful and odd. This was never a discussion in the years we have lived in our current home. I would never plan on taking his family home if we were to separate, but it felt like a stab to the heart especially when we are trying to have kids.. I told him “it would be a marital asset since I’m paying half the mortgage and half the renovations. I would never fight you for the house but I don’t plan on getting divorced” - this made him very upset. He said he would rather not move in if there’s a chance a judge would determine I had any rights over the home. Was I wrong? How do I move past this with him?
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Ihateyou1975
So from what I understand. It’s a family home BUT you are paying on the mortgage halfsies and paying to renovate? And he said no to you having ownership at all? Then hell nah. He can purchase it on his own. Renovate it on his own. And you keep yours as a backup from this point forward. Rent it out and YOU keep that income.

OOP: This opened my eyes. We are going to definitely have another conversation about how we would go about this purchase.

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ZestycloseSky8765
I really hope you don’t sell your home and make contributions to something he straight told you wasn’t yours.
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Update - 1 day later
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So there was a lot of questions from many people who saw my last post, so I figured I would answer some of them and also update on the situation.
My family home was inherited. There was no mortgage. We paid our bills and taxes evenly between the two of us, and same with any repairs the home needed.
His mother is selling us the house at a $25,000 discount from what she listed it for on the market.
My husband was not on the deed to my family home. This home was not going to be sold. It is a home that has been passed down exclusively to family members at virtually no cost, so a mortgage hasn’t been held on it in many decades. The house would be going to my sister as she is welcoming her second child soon!
Now for the update:
Me and my husband agreed to go to breakfast together this morning since our Mother’s Day plans didn’t start until lunch. At breakfast I brought up the topic of the house we are going to buy. I told him about how the things he said hurt my feelings and made me insecure about where he stands in our marriage.
He told me after seeing his dad lose his family home in a divorce, it was scary to think our kids could possibly lose it if we were to separate. He apologized and told me he never ever thought of getting a divorce, but nobody does until it’s happening. He said he was wrong to say the things he did and that he let anxiety control the way he spoke and it was unfair to me.
We agreed that I would be put on the deed, and agreed to start the process of a postnup agreement for the home among some other things. I addressed feeling like maybe he had a feeling he was going to leave or cheat and that’s why he was so defensive. He felt hurt by that and told me that was his fear when getting married, that he would be cheated on or worse, have kids involved in that mess. I told him I felt the same.
We both agreed the most comfortable we would feel would be us BOTH being on the deed to the home, and getting a postnuptial agreement with an infidelity clause. We are both anxious people and I understand where he was coming from with wanting that. It stung a bit at first that he wanted an infidelity clause but we agreed it would do nothing but benefit us both if either of us were to go beyond our marriage in that way.
So tldr- we are both being put on the deed, we are getting a postnuptial agreement + infidelity clause and we had a very mature and emotional conversation about how we felt. Thank you all for your advice, it gave me a very good idea of what to research before I brought it up to him and we are setting up a meeting with a lawyer to start the process on Monday!
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Jack_F2291
I’m glad that everything seems to have worked out :)

OOP: Very much so! I think I was a bit dramatic about the things he said and he was a bit harsh and not thinking through what he said. It happens to the best of us but my mind is put at ease now thankfully

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call-me-mama-t
I don’t think you were dramatic at all, you were protecting yourself. Good for you! Since you are newly married, this is a really great lesson for you both. Learn to communicate, turn to each other when you’re upset about something. Meaning don’t go complain about your spouse to friends, you talk to him and figure it out together. Great outcome!
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I've seen lots of posts about people trying to make new friends and thought this may help.
I'd love to arrange a casual game of football, each week if we could get enough people together?
I'm based not too far from Headingley, so we could potentially have a casual kick around over on Becketts park?
Say every Wednesday from next week at 5pm?
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Made a stupid mistake, ig I deserve this, but still very angry with HDFC.
Started job at Software MNC last year, salary 1LPA+. Created HDFC salary account right after joining, they offered Millenia at that time. I wanted Regalia Gold, so refused. (turns out they also offered Regalia Gold to folks at same salary level at the same time, idky the guy didn't offer it to me)
I applied for Millenia LTF a few months later, and the guy told me it can be upgraded to Regalia after a few months when upgrade offer shows up. Used the card for a few months, then reached out to my company's HDFC POC for an upgrade. He kept on assuring and delaying for some reason, several weeks of back and forth over mail and calls.
I got a call on May 2 from someone in HDFC. They shared their name, but I don't remember it. They had all details of my case, and told me LTF upgrade is not possible. They asked me to put in a request for cancellation of Millenia, and new Regalia will be LTF. They would begin the process for Regalia as soon as this card is terminated.
Talked to them again on May 4, but card closure was not completed by then, so they advised me to wait. On May 7 the card was terminated. I've been trying to call them since then, but they have not been picking up.
Reached out to HDFC POC, he asked who called you. Arey bhai I don't remember their name, random stranger calls me with all my case details I will naturally assume he's with your team?
He shared a contact of someone from his team, and now this person says Regalia is no longer LTF since May. Took number of the person who contacted me initially, said he will look into it, now I'm waiting for an update.
All in all almost a month of delayed correspondence and lack of communication, I had not expected this much hassle just to get a card.
PS I don't feel like pursuing this card anymore, do recommend better options for cards with a simpler onboarding.

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In my sophomore year of high school I fell in love with this girl. Let’s call her “traitor”. When i first met traitor everything was great,we got along great until…I told her I had feelings for her… that’s when everything had turned to st. She started accusing me of things I wasn’t doing. She started to become uninterested in me. She started to act like I wasn’t worth her time and that hurt my soul. So the rest of that year, traitor and I argued(sometimes my fault and most times her fault) fast forward to my junior year… traitor treated me like complete st. Let me give you some examples of what she did to me:
1.would make offense and hurtful jokes but would get mad when I would do what she was doing

1. she would talk crap about me to all of her friends and have them give me stupid looks and lie about it that she never did any of that and they were all just rumors
   
2. She would make up, lies about my friends, threatening to jump her. When half of them don’t even know her.
   
   1. She would blame everything on everybody else except her boyfriend… she could never take the responsibility for herself
3. Knowing that I liked her, she would tell me about her and her boyfriend”spicy stuff” which would make me feel sick because she knew that I liked her
   
   1. We were only allowed to talk about what she wanted to talk about otherwise it wasn’t important.
   2. She had given out my number and had her friends cyber bully me, blamed it on them, and threaten to tell the police that I was harassing her if I went to go to the police about her friends.
4. She lied that I gotta stay order on her. That said we had to stay 50 feet away from each other.
   
5. I always had to walk on eggshells with her and etc. So after all of this, she had blocked me because she didn’t want to admit her wrongdoings and then when I apologize to her, she had no problem with that
   so the forgiving part of me decided to give her another chance because I believe in more chances and I always wanna see the best in people . I guess I had made a joke that she didn’t like, but she didn’t let me know(which usually she would make jokes that I didn’t like and I would just have to sit there and take it and keep my mouth shut) she ended up blocking me and when I confronted her about it, she tried to ignore me but when she couldn’t avoid me anymore she said, and I quote:” oh yeah me and my boyfriend talked about it and we both don’t really don’t want to talk to you(a.k.a. you’re not worth my time)”when I heard say that,that broke me. that’s when I shouted in front of all the courtyard “ you wanna fk up your life that’s on you,go to hell,bch “ later I felt so bad about what I had said, and I was thinking of apologizing and giving her another chance but as much as I want to give her another chance, trying to take the little good times we had isn’t worth it.as much as I wanted it to be, but sometimes I do question myself whether I was the a-hole or not and if I should go up to her and apologize.
   

So,aita for telling her to go to hell?
P.s feel free to give advice,it’s very much needed ❤️ and sorry if this is really bad this is my first time doing this…

Yes, this is a real question and an important one for the future of OSRS.
Currently almost all mouse software allows for rebinding keys to the mouse wheel.
So how many clicks is worth a drag of your finger?
The community currently is not very sure. Some say a full drag should equal 1 click others say it should be 5 or more like many mice have their 1:1 drag system setup by default.
And then there is the question about free scrolling mice. I am personally against the use of those as your fingers are not constantly on the mouse and moving to get those inputs.
How to set it up: I am personally using a Razer mouse with the Razer synapse software.
https://imgur.com/a/qfn9iI8
I asked Jagex support back in 2018 when I was starting to do this method and style of play more often to be 100% sure it is aligned with the rules and I got this response: https://imgur.com/a/jfZosyd
So what do you think?
I would love a Jagex response as well.
I have put a few examples of how it works in the comments.

Okay for approved for discover student credit card. Days after my card was mailed I was called saying it was frozen because I needed to fill out a consent form. After a week hold was lifted. Today I got my card and paid one bill. Try to purchase something under 100 and it wasn't working. So I used the app to messaged someone. And this is was they said "In reviewing your account our security team placed a hold on the transaction. They want to ensure you are making the purchases. Our Customer Protection Team is happy to help you 24/7 by phone, due to the sensitivity of fraud concerns they are not available through this platform. Please call 1-800-347-3102 as soon as possible." They told me to call 1800-203-4969. I still have accesses to my account no emails as hours ago. My account isn't locked at all I can still log in and see everything is "ok". So what I'm asking is basically does anyone else know wth they can possibly want now.

I don't know how to say this, usually, it's the easiest thing for me to say. This time it's hard because, I can't think of many people that will care, or maybe not. due to what I know is becoming more and more inevitable by the day. I can't keep this up. Everything falls apart, my health….. not healthy at all. Not only do I feel it, but it shows. I'm homeless, because talking to one of the 2 people I thought would never betray me, I was wrong about. Not once have I been able to express how I felt how uncomfortable the whole situation made me. She's just get all pissed of. So at first she would take him somewhere during her shift. That feels a little better because I could be home alone or grab an Uber and get the hell out of there overnight I'll invite my own for and over so that I'm not so alone That didn't work out either sorry being at the house all the time I'd wake up to him walking by go to the bathroom because I'm in the living room with a couch he didn't pay for anything he's offer me money for anything for the internet for nothing. A while she reallyreally wanted me to pay half the rent. She wanted us to be able to have the same dynamic Wait not us she wanted to feel like she had the same dynamic she even had the nerve to tell me one night that when I was at home it makes her nervous so she's going to bring Sam over I'm sure that was as big a lie as it was whenever she told me that he was staying somewhere else because I wanted to talk to her about how soon I was going to die. She even blew that off she didn't even look at me the whole time I was trying to explain to her she doesn't didn't even know what I was talking about kept watching her phone and picking it up and finally I said well man if you need to go pick him up go get him before I can even finish the sentence she had the car started. And I tried and kept on trying to be friendly with him and I thought he was friendly with me but then I hear some of the remarks he would make to her and being mad cuz I kept the car but wait I just moved in he doesn't pay anything I had just put gas in that car. My sister never talk to me about any of this. She would just get mad because one day I said something about him shaving his hair and leaving the hair over the bathroom and she rolled her eyes in me and walked off. But my point is who cleans that me. I'd be cleaning the kitchen and you walk up and drop addition sink right in front of me. They're both constantly so high they don't know what they're doing so I guess it's a good thing it's not being there cuz I don't want to get in trouble if you get busted You smell that shit down the driveway. Just progressively worse and then one morning I started getting real upset and so I stopped the internet from working in their room because no one else is ever paid for it. Starving I was nervous to have to go anywhere because she get pissed off or she'd have to wait let me check with him. She blew up on me in the middle of the day mind you we're in Texas it's 85 90°. So she goes outside and start screaming at me and slams the door in my face and locks it and just before she met him she didn't shoot me like that she's kind of standoffish about Corey sometimes but hell. I said some mean things things that I shouldn't have said things that didn't mean I wanted us to be friends again I want her to be my sister before I die! Family shouldn't be like that. So she decided to text my mom that's what got us into the big fight, Mom wouldn't leave me alone. Just kept on and kept on y'all need to work it out every time something was bothering me and I want to talk y'all need to work it out You need to just relax she's under a lot of stress. You're not the easiest to deal with. That feels the best because I don't want my baby sister taking care of me. It's not supposed to be that way I'm supposed to die before she has to do that. So anyways I'm at a friend's now I had chemo last week and God for that friend because that's who got me a chemo and has been keeping the roof of my head while it's storming and I'm suffering. And all this time I'm supposed to just keep kind of keep my head up. She hasn't even tried to reach out oh except for reaching out to say that I took the internet out of the house. I think my biggest fear right now is that. I'm going to live much longer than I'm hoping right now.

The backstory in Curse makes no sense. Chucky wouldn’t become this obsessed with anyone unless it was for revenge. Plus why would he want a woman to start a family with? He had Tiffany and she wanted a family too. And where does Eddie connect in all this?
How I would’ve done it would be Chucky being Sarah’s brother instead who he looked after for years after killing their parents. Not wanting to be fully alone and wanting some kind of partner in crime. But like GG never wanted to kill. One day she ran away from Chucky and started a new life. She even reported him to the police and got him on the run. One day Chucky found her, stalked her for a bit finding out what she’s been up to, killed her husband then kidnapped her. He kept her hostage and tortured her for leaving him and spreading his name, now always having to hide when he goes out. One day while he was taunting her, Eddie stayed in the van to have a smoke. The police got called cuz of Tiffany, he stabbed her in the stomach and everything played out the same. When he comes back for Nica and reveals himself he says “it’s me, Nica. Uncle Chucky”. Honestly Chucky being Sarah’s brother and Nica and Barbara’s uncle makes him killing Barbara by saying “you have your mother’s eyes, and they were always too fucking close together!”. Cuz he’s literally talking about his sister who he raised
How would you have done it?

Hi, 31F in central west Florida. Have a situation that is distressing but not sure if I could qualify for a harassment/stalking injunction and whether that’d help in the end or make things worse.
Few dates. Few weeks. Things got weird, he sent me pics I didn’t want to see, I rejected him, he sort of accepted it but continued texting, I set a firmer boundary, he moved out of state. Great. Fast fwd to 2024, he moved back and moved into my back yard. My landlords have an RV back there, I’m obv upset but maybe he was desperate or homeless, idk. I just avoid him. He also started going to my church - but not talking to me there at all. Didn’t talk to me at my home for the first month or so. Then, he left hand-me-down men’s shorts on my porch with a note. I returned the note with the shorts (and the gifts he gave me last year during the few dates), and wrote on the note to please not give me any gifts and don’t come onto my porch. About 1 week later, he is on my porch with the landlords discussing re-building the porch. Don’t know whether they or he initiated that idea, but now he’s taking a very long time to rebuild it. He spends max 3 hrs on it per week and it’s been 3-4 weeks that it’s dragging on, him sporadically on my porch. But not only this - he also began creating drama. He reached out to a mutual friend of mine and said he was ‘concerned’ that I have a boyfriend who I’m sleeping with (concern is because we’re all religious, and such actions are against our beliefs). In that convo he also shared some extremely personal information that I had told him while we were dating briefly last year. This has created drama, hurt me and my reputation, and damaged my friendship with the mutual friend. I feel like I have my hands tied and cannot do anything about this. My living situation depends on it. He’s best friends with my landlord and I already have to walk a fine line of appeasing them in order to stay here. If I tell them he’s bothering me, they’ll think I’m the problem and it could jeapoardize my housing. I can’t get him away from me. He lives in my backyard and he’s friends with my landlord, he’s got the ear of my mutual friend, he comes to my church… if I upset him, his responses will involve others in my circle. Because he knows a piece of private information, I can’t say anything for fear he might defend himself by blurting it out to others.
My question is, is this just a run of the mill case of drama, or is there anything in here that could qualify for a harassment/stalking injunction?
Edit: Not sure what his intentions are. Could be a clueless idiot, or could be strategically playing games to mess with me.

I feel like my boyfriend simply refuses to compromise. I have incredibly clear, concise communication & I always make sure to verbalize my thoughts/feelings/needs/desires. If anything, I’m overcommuncative. However, it feels like I’m never heard. He’s hands down without a doubt (no exaggeration) the most resistant person I’ve ever met. It feels like I have to beg for almost everything. For example, he loves to have headphones in before bed, and has done this every night since the day I met him. I started to notice how it was influencing our intimacy because after being away all day, it’s nice for us to finally connect right before bed (and first thing in the morning). When I very simply & kindly requested we try one night without phones in the bedroom, it was a long slew of reasons not to. It really hurt my feelings. This is one example of many where I ask for something simple & I’m met with push back. There’s push back on everything. I know in a long term relationship it’s vital to give your partner time/space/patience to adapt/grow, but how long is too long? 2yrs ago, I lost my older sister to suicide (the most important person in my life) watched my family explode into dust, lost friendships & a relationship with my nephews, changed jobs several times, experienced tremendous financial strain. He’s been here (physically) through the most dark time in my life. I’m put in a TREMENDOUS amount of solo work to heal. Over a year of therapy, support groups, books, podcasts, loads of yoga, etc. I can say I am proud of myself for how far I’ve come despite such turmoil. Meanwhile, he’s huffing and puffing about putting his phone away for one night? It’s just one example, and trust me when I say this carries over into other realms of our relationship. I hate to think about us breaking up, it fills me with the deepest sadness, but I actually have no idea what else to do at this point. It just feels like he is unable to give me what I need. Is there any hope?