I am considering building a local, physical GPU workstation due to high expenses of cloud. I did the math - a local cluster is going to be about one-third the price of a similar hardware setup in AWS. So I was wondering, if deploy a LLM inference service in such a workstation, how many concurrent API requests can it handle (or how many concurrent users can it serve, in business terms) before it starts to throttle?
I came up with this formula, but I'm not sure if I've considered all the variables in the equation. So I'm posting it here for feedback.

Variables:

1. G - Number of GPUs in the cluster.
2. M - Memory per GPU (in GB).
3. m - Memory required per model instance (in GB), including parameters, activations, and temporary data needed during computation.
4. B - Batch size, which is the number of requests processed simultaneously by one model instance.
5. T - Time it takes for one batch to be processed (latency, in seconds).
6. C - Compute efficiency factor (ranges between 0 and 1, where 1 means 100% efficient use of GPU resources).

Considerations:

• Model Instances per GPU (I): This is determined by how many separate instances of the model can fit into a single GPU's memory. It's the ratio of the total GPU memory to the memory required for one model instance: I=M/m
• Total Model Instances in the Cluster (I_total): Total instances across all GPUs: I_total=G×I
• Throughput per Model Instance (Θ): The number of batches one model instance can process per second: Θ=1/T
• Total Throughput (Θ_total​): Considering all model instances and their ability to process requests: Θ_total = I_total×Θ×C
• Estimated Number of Concurrent API Requests (R): Finally, the total number of concurrent API requests the cluster can handle, assuming each batch fully utilizes its batch size capacity: R=Θ_total×B

So, the final formula is:

R = (G × M/m × 1/T × C) × B

Explanation

• R gives you the number of concurrent API requests, estimating how many requests your system can theoretically handle at once, considering it's running at optimal batch processing efficiency.
• G×M/m calculates the total number of model instances that can run across all GPUs.
• 1/T provides the rate at which each instance can process batches.
• C adjusts for less than perfect compute utilization, such as due to overhead or non-ideal parallelism.
• B scales the throughput by the number of requests that can be packed into each batch.

Do you reckon the formula looks ok? If so, here is what a sample estimation for running a full unquantized 70B LLM on a cluster of 8 x H100 GPUs would look like:

Variables and Assumptions:

1. G (Number of GPUs) = 8
2. M (Memory per GPU) = 80 GB
3. m (Memory required per model instance) = 200 GB (rough estimate including model size, activation memory and miscellaneous memory requirements)
4. B (Batch size): Common batch sizes for inference are relatively small to meet latency requirements. We'll assume B = 4.
5. T (Time for one batch to process): This can vary widely, but for deep learning inference on a complex model like a 70B LLM, let's conservatively estimate T = 0.2 seconds per batch.
6. C (Compute efficiency factor): This accounts for overheads and inefficiencies. We'll assume C = 0.8 for high but not perfect efficiency.

This would give us:
R = (8 x 80/200 x 1/0.2 x 0.8) x 4 R = 51.2 concurrent API requests
Does this look correct?

Landlords are unfairly evicting tenants in Dubai to raise price. There is a huge difference between renewed and new leases in Dubai. Since they must follow the RERA calculator to raise the rent as per DLD guidelines if they renew with previous tenants, the landlords give eviction notices and hike the rents significantly.
I was evicted by my previous landlord after I received an eviction notice to sell the apartment. However, it came to my attention that the apartment was rented out again and the apartment was not sold. I fetched the ejari of the new tenant and proceeded to Rental Dispute Center (RDC) to register a case. First you have to register a case, in my case the timeline was as follows:
Day 1 – Registered case
Day 6 – Defendant to respond, the defendant asked to postpone the hearing
Day 14 – Online session with judge and defendant, claimant requesting for more time to submit justification
Day 15 – Submit justification
Day 23 – Verdict, Decision Approved, Defendant has to pay for damages
The Defendant must pay the difference of the tenant’s previous rent and current rent and any other charges such as transportation. Broker charges are not covered. The legal fees that were paid to Dubai Land Department (DLD) will be paid too. Lawyer fees I don’t think are covered.
After the verdict, the defendant has 14 days to submit an appeal, which got rejected.
You need to then file for enforcing the verdict and the time line is as follows:
Day 1 (24 dec) – Submit the case, there is a travel ban on the defendant and a notification is sent to RTA, DLD & DED.
Day 3 – Defendant requested to pay in installments, RDC approved it for 2 installments.
Day 7 – Due date for first payment
Day 11 – Defendant made payment
Day 14 – Amount received (Payment is made through Noqodi which takes around 2 days to transfer it to your account)
The main challenge was to find the new tenant’s ejari. I used this website to get the ejari.
https://dxbtenantrescue.com/

The EXTREMELY detailed, mega-anxiety edition!!! Major events like consult and surgery day are labeled like this:
——— EVENT TITLE ———
Surgeon was Dr. David Whitehead and I saw him on Long Island (New Hyde)
Summarized list of major dates:
Consult: July 19 2023 Mental health letter acquired: August 9 Dates discussed: September 12 Pre-op appointment: December 18 Surgery day: January 8 2024 Post-op: January 17
November 11th 2022: Emailed northwell health for the first time, they emailed back saying to call. I was too anxious so I avoided it for a few months.
Called northwell a few months later but got too anxious talking to the person who picked up. They were being normal and talking normally, it was just personal anxiety on my part.
October 2022 - Early March 2023: Spent time talking to trans friends and family members about their timelines and processes for top surgery.
Looked into Penn medicine for a bit but wasn’t happy with the surgeons there, specifically as a nonbinary person. The patient navigational team however is lovely.
March 2: emailed Penn health patient navigation
March 3-10: correspondence and phone calls w patient navigation (absolutely wonderful people, some of the easiest phone calls I’ve ever had) Got lots of into on surgeons, things I’d need, processes etc.
Date unknown: phone call to Penn medicine asking about surgeons and possibly setting up as a patient (v long wait time on phone) Surgeon I had heard good things about only works w CHOP program and I’m was too old for that program. Other surgeons I was v iffy on.
March 23rd: Back to square 1. Called northwell again to set up an appointment. Everyone I spoke to was really nice. Could have set up an appointment within the week but decided to wait till the end of the semester. Scheduled a trans care and primary care appointment for May
Couple of calls In between for confirmations. Trans care appointment got moved around a bit and ended up being moved to a phone call.
May 8th: Trans care call: Basic preliminary questions like: Emergency contact, what you’re looking for, are you thinking of looking into hormones, experience w dysphoria or dysmorphia, mental health, and eating/nutritional concerns, things you might want doc to know, piercings or tattoos, do you do any drugs or drink often, etc. total call time was about 20 minutes. Doctor was incredibly kind, I still experienced a good deal of anxiety but the call was super easy, welcoming, and friendly. Got sent contact referrals for the surgeons, as well as trans-friendly therapists under my insurance.
May 9th: started looking at list of therapists and making respective emails and calls. Checking per session costs and double checking insurance. Most charge 100-150 per session. Got in contact w one.
May 10th: Called w first therapist talking about what I’m looking for, where I am in this process, if parents are supportive, and talking about costs. She was very friendly and affirming, wants to have a few sessions to get to know me and my situation before writing a letter. Understandable and expected, but frustrating.
May 15th: Primary care appointment: Went to northwell health primary care, parkinglot was a little scary (just a large lot with a lot of cars) but everyone working there’s is super kind. Office is incredibly affirming, pride flags and lgbtq+ art everywhere. Gave my insurance card, filled out some paper work, got called in pretty quickly. I have a needle phobia and medical trauma so I was panicking a bit in the office, nurse was good w me about it and doctor was very kind, I just requested to not have any blood work done that day and that was totally fine, so I could schedule that at a later date and go w a friend. Recommended to get blood work done before scheduling a consult w a surgeon. Also prescribed me a single dose anxiety med for the bloodwork which I was very happy about. I found over time that the anxiety meds unfortunately do little to nothing for my panic attacks personally when it comes to needles but regardless having a doctor acknowledge and respect that fear and listen to me was incredibly helpful and reassuring.
May 30th: Got blood work done in a different lab, went w a friend. Scheduling for that is super easy, I think I did it online actually I don’t entirely recall. they do take walk ins but I made an appointment to minimize complications and make sure I could prepare properly. Front desk/lobby area was a little spooky, but I think that is mainly just bc of my social anxiety. They take a urine sample, you give them your prescription, eventually they call you over for blood work. Quick and easy, tech was v nice and having a friend with me was incredibly helpful. Probably the best I’ve ever done with a needle despite the fact that I did still panic and get very lightheaded lol.
Got blood work results back within the next couple days, all looks a-okay! Neat :)
June 15th This day was incredibly difficult. I had my first session with a therapist to establish some ground knowledge around my dysphoria and the way that I view myself. Top surgery is something that I know from research and related experience Can be difficult and expensive to get and can take time, so much of my prep work has been on the understanding of taking things a step at a time and just knowing that the current way things are doesn’t have to be forever. It allowed me to be able to live with myself while prioritizing my health better. This read to the therapist as “not having the level of dysphoria [she’s] come to expect and look for in someone who is trans” and was largely based off the fact that I don’t want to go on hrt. Past that point I started to break down because now my method of learning to live with myself felt like it was actively going to work against me and prevent me from getting top surgery. I’m not good at talking about my dysphoria, I can’t imagine it’s easy for anyone, especially to a stranger I just met. It was rough, and I felt incredibly mentally drained after ending the session.
June 19th Called it quits with the first therapist, I felt incredibly disrespected and the one session we had put me in a mental spiral for days. It can feel some times in this process like the people you have to get permission from need you to be severely depressed and unable to wait another second for this procedure just in order to take you seriously.
After I left that therapist, I immediately got back to the list to find someone new. Spoke to a new therapist via email, but my insurance is kinda weird (Blue Cross Blue Shield out of state) so its off putting to some people. This therapist recommended I go through the office she started out at (Heart and Soul Counseling)
————- Time Skip ——————
IM BACK its time for some record keeping. Got super overwhelmed and lost the energy to document my process for some time so here goes.
HEART AND SOUL COUNSELING: My experience w/ this therapy office was mostly good. The person in charge, Jesse, was absolutely lovely and responsive. Never spoke in person, but any text/email interaction was prompt, respectful, and kind. The office is stellar with email/text communication, so I only ever had to call them once when I was initially inquiring about the office. This is something I wish all therapy/counseling centers did better, eliminated a ton of my anxiety and hesitation to speak to therapists.
I got set up w someone as quickly as possible and established what my goal was (to acquire letter document for my surgery team). I attended multiple session w the therapist, she was a kind lady but the sessions were unfortunately p miserable for me. We didn’t fit well, but I was willing to stick it out rather than backtrack on my process. She also did not invalidate me or accuse me of not being trans which was a major step up from my first therapy experience. Once I acquired my letter I did stop therapy there, I kindly explained to the therapist that it wasn’t a good match, but I may honestly explore my options at the office in the future. Receptionist there was also lovely and they had a cool fish tank.
———- CONSULT STARTS HERE —————
July 19th: CONSULT!!! My mama and I went to Dr. David Whiteheads office for a consult. Parking was a nightmare so I’m super glad I didn’t have to drive for this one (ty mama). Consult went really well, and the staff were all super friendly. Dr. Whitehead is cool, very chill energy and a bit intimidating, but I’m scared of everyone so that’s nothing new. First question he asked me is what I wanted/what he could do for me which caught me more off guard than it should have? I didn’t realize going into this process how many times people ask you what you’re having done even if it’s already written down, because there’s so much variety in what you can look for in the results.
We talked about the procedure, went through a slideshow n stuff, and discussed how I wanted a flat chest w/ no nipple preservation. They made sure to specify that my mental health professional letter had to include that I did not want nipple preservation because thats technically a “non-standard” appearance. Also had the first breast exam I’ve ever had in my life. Can’t say i’m a fan (not that I need to worry about that anymore!) Took pictures n measurements n such, and also discussed recovery supplies and care w me and my mom.
August 9th: After a plethora of painfully awkward therapy sessions, a decent amount of crying, and a couple breakdowns in friends cars/backyards, I got my therapist letter and sent it to the surgeons office. It ended up needing minor revisions to which I contacted Jesse from Heart and Soul and he got me the revised letter immediately. Unfortunately the surgical coordinator was out of office for the rest of the month the next day ;w;. Is how it be.
September 12th: Got a call from Surgical coordinator mid-painting class that I stepped out to take. Started discussing surgical dates!! She was kind enough to email the dates to me which was lovely because I was absolutely shaking/mind blank haha. There was an option for January 8th which felt like an absolute miracle the way it would work with my school schedule. It would give me a solid two weeks recovery time before spring semester began. Because it would be a couple months out, I was asked to contact her in the second week of October to submit documents to insurance.
(Timeline note: earliest date offered was in early December)
October 10th: Documents sent to insurance, predetermination started
October 30th: Received mail from my insurance approving my procedure as medically necessary (YAY) But! This is also where things get,,, fun! Dr Whitehead’s surgical coordinator, Alyssa, is a blessing and was very helpful and prompt with me despite the fact that I had to email her pretty constantly during this general time which I still feel bad about.
Around this time, my mom got diagnosed with breast cancer, which I reported to the surgical coordinator because it influences my family history (grandmother also had breast cancer). It was asked that I get genetic testing done because this could impact my surgical procedure. Now I’m handling the setup on this between helping my mom in her process setting up consults and considering her options because there of course is a lot of crossover to the steps I’ve already completed and am familiar with.
November 1st: Very kind person at cancer genetics calls me, sends me a family history questionnaire to fill out before I can be scheduled to see a genetic counselor. Filled out the questionnaire the same day.
November 8th: Called cancer genetics to check about scheduling, office was not open so left a message. Got a call back later in the day. I have a virtual appointment with a Genetic counselor Tuesday the 14th. Current plan is a mailed saliva genetic test but I’m going to ask if theres anything I can do to get results/materials quicker. If I can’t get results/feedback by December 8th my surgery date may get deferred.
Trying not to stress too much because there is little to nothing I can do about this, and I just don’t want to be sad. I’ve kept telling myself throughout this process to not get excited and not let myself believe anything is solid because something could happen at any time that might mess up my schedule or plan, and If I convince myself I’m in the clear, those changes will hurt a lot more. So far I think thats been a good move, because this really sucks.
My surgery date is still officially scheduled as of now as well as my first post-op. I will also ideally have pre-surgical testing done December 18th should I be cleared by genetics in time (Fingers crossed!)
ALSO! Def lean on friends if/when you can during this process. It can absolutely be challenging, and having a support system is incredibly important and helpful. I’m super lucky to have really lovely and supportive friends that are around to listen to me and send me pictures of stupid little animals.
November 9th: My mama is scheduled for her double mastectomy on December 4th
November 10th: Did some shopping with my mama for recovery supplies for double mastectomy/top surgery. Having watched a million and a half transition/top surgery videos and tiktoks and having read all the blogs and posts and tweets makes you a great support for someone suddenly faced with an upcoming double mastectomy! We might go shopping this weekend for some button ups and zip ups for her, clothes shopping is better done when you can try stuff on
November 14th: Meeting w genetic counselor: Victoria Webb, one of the loveliest medical care workers I’ve ever met. Had a virtual appointment with her to discuss and set up genetic testing. I explained to her about my situation w the proximity of my surgery and tight deadline as well as my willingness to do a blood test instead of a saliva kit to get results quicker. She was so incredibly kind and good with me, ended up being able to do a saliva kit and get results in time she deserves every good thing in life.
December 18th: pre-surgical testing: This was at the main hospital, everyone was really nice but I had a really bad panic attack despite being on Xanax.
The process is sort of like getting a physical. Measurements like weight and blood pressure get taken, lots of preliminary health questions. The people working with me were really kind and I was very open with them about my anxiety, it was visually apparent though anyway because I started crying the second we even started talking about the blood draw.
Once the equipment was actually brought into the room I started to panic. Both of the women working with me were really kind and helpful and tried to distract me and keep me talking the entire time, but I did still have a really horrible panic attack. Every muscle in my body locked up and I lost all my color, took a bit to get back to a spot where I could move and talk properly because my speech was affected too. It was a bit scary but funny to think about in post. Thanked the medical staff for being patient w me as always, a good portion of the anxiety is also guilt about making things harder for them. Got through it tho. Def eat before presurgical if allowed, I didn’t and that probably didn’t help!!
———- SURGERY DAY ————-
January 8th:
Ok so surgery day:
This day was very scary. Got my phone call the Friday prior for my surgery time which ended up being 1pm and I was asked to arrive around 11. Got there at 10 and went in at 10:30.
Called up to check in then in waiting room till someone brought me back to change. I told her right away about my anxiety with the iv bc that’s legit all I could think about. Got changed right after. I was generally shaky and a little disoriented the entire time because I was panicking but everyone was very patient with me. Clothes and belongings go in a bag in a locker and you get two gowns one that faces back and one that faces front. I was given underwear and a pad as well because lucky me I got my period a couple days before my surgery.
The pre-op area is a lot of little cubicles with curtain divider things, blue soft chairs, and medical equipment. Everyone I met and spoke to was very kind, but any time someone even suggested starting my iv I would panic. I was informed it would have to be placed in my hand and that terrified me, I’m especially anxious and sensitive about my hands and fingers. I think doctors and nurses tend to misunderstand exactly where my fear is with needles and ivs. It isn’t the pain that scares me, but the concept of veins and and anything being in them. Even writing this right now is horrible so I’m going to stop w any further detail. I spent the entire two-ish hours of pre-op absolutely terrified about this iv.
I wasn’t really keeping track of time but dr whitehead came in to do markings for surgery. They had cool rainbow socks on,big fan. Having your chest drawn on and just like, moved around n shit is such an experience. Felt bad because I kept losing my balance but doctor Whitehead is cool and I am 98% less scared about them now.
Probably my most favorite person I met during my entire hospital experience was the anesthesiologist. I know he told me what his name was but I couldn’t focus on or retain information at the time. He told me we could essentially put me to sleep with gas before putting the iv in and for the first time in probably a solid week I felt like I could calm down a little. He took a look at my hand and arm to check my veins which always does freak me out a bit but I’m more used to that kind of thing at this point and I know nothing bad is going to happen. One of the nurses came in with the iv equipment and he let her know that were going to wait till in the or which was also incredibly helpful because I absolutely panicked when I saw that little supply kit again.
V nice lady brought me into the or, I’d never been in one before it was cool. They had a little music speaker which was really cool. Took off blue jacket gown and they helped me onto the table. They put a warm blanket over my legs and my chest to help me calm down. Before long they gave me a mask w fun happy sleepy time gas, they let me keep my arms on my chest for a while which was really nice because I was still scared. I started getting loopy pretty fast but I still heard when someone mentioned where the iv equipment was and panicked a little because of that. I remember feeling them take my hand for that but never actually felt anything happen. Just some fear but the gas was v helpful obvi. Someone said they would see me in a little bit, and then I was groggily waking up in recovery.
Recovery was a little rough bc the iv was still there (fully wrapped up so I couldn’t see it though which was rad) but I was still really anxious about it until it was taken out and when it was taken out. For anyone that struggles w this i did not feel them remove it, just the tape. Everything was mentally much easier after that. After a while, going over instructions w parents, a cracker , some ginger ale and some juice, my dad helped me Get dressed and I was helped out to the car in a wheel chair. Ride was smooth bc of remaining numbness and meds except a few Bumps in the road
TOP SURGERY GOTTEN
My post op date was scheduled for Jan 17th and that’s the day I got my drains out followed by several post op check-ins. First week of recovery was miserable but things exponentially approved each day past that, and I went back to school in person two weeks post-op with driving and item-carrying assistance from friends!
Will upload recovery notes at a later date! Feel free to message me with any questions, more than happy to answer and give info! I’m a bit over four months out from surgery now and thriving 🥳

TL;DR - Sinong pipiliin mong tulungan, yung partneasawa mo o magulang mo na ginawa kang investment at retirement plan?
So ayun nga, been with my current girlfriend for a decade na. May sarili akong bahay and she's living with me.
Okay na sana 'no? Kaso ang dami naming utang. Nagaccummulate lahat ng utang namin since pandemic, and hindi na kami nakaahon.
Fast forward to today, 3 months na ako hindi nakakapagbayad ng utang sa dalawang banks. Yung credit card ko nababayaran ko pero yung minimum lang per month, so parang wala na ako nababayad kaso napupunta lang sa interes.
Medyo mababa sahod ko. Tapos sya hindi rin ganon kataas sahod. May opportunity sya mapromote for higher salary pero ayaw nya, and I respect that. Kaso walang nasosolusyonan sa problema naming utang.
Napupunta kasi yung sahod ko sa bayad utang, monthly amortization ng bahay, food, basic necessities, tsaka bill sa internet (wfh kasi sya). Tapos sya nagsoshoulder ng kuryente, at tubig (na wala pang 2k in total kung tutuusin.
Masama loob ko kasi ayaw nya iwan responsibilidad nya sa parents nya. Ginawa syang retirement plan. To be fair, alam ko yung feeling na ganon at pinili ko sya over my parents kahit na nalabel na akong "useless" dahil mas pinili kong piliin sya kesa sa mga magulang ko. Kaso feeling ko ang unfair ng partner ko for not choosing me over her parents. We're both in our 30s, and may mga kapatid syang lalake at babae na pwede naman tulungan mga magulang nya yet sya pa ron nagbibigay. Paano naman mga needs namin?
6 years na kaming engaged. Kasal na hindi matuloy-tuloy dahil sa utang at unexpected expenses na pamilya nya rin ang may dulot. Lahat ng savings ko nilaan ko sa kanya. Ako nagbayad ng mga utang nya samantalang yung utang ko lumolobo na sa dami.
Gusto ko syang papiliin kung ako ba o parents nya. Kaso napakasama kong tao kung gagawin ko 'to. Mahal ko sya, pero this time parang gusto kong mas mahalin sarili ko. It's either tulungan nya ako sa gastusin or bumukod na lang sya at maghiwalay na kami tutal hindi naman nya maiwan parents nya kung paano nya isinumbat sa akin yung pagtulong ko sa parents ko, na ginawa ko naman.
Ang hirap ng buhay. Dami kong iniisip. Hindi ko alam kung kaya ko ba syang harapin at sabihing maghiwalay na lang kami. Hindi ko na alam paano ko pagkakasyahin yung pera ko, lalo ngayong may sakit ako na hindi ko masabi sa kanya kasi iniisip nya "gastos nanaman".

As per the title, someone from another department who I regularly interact with on projects after 6 months still can't seem to settle on whether to call me by actual name or by a completely different name.
For anonymity, lets just say my name is Darren and this person will more often than not call me Derrick.
It started in the first Teams meeting I was apart of with her, where she was presenting and was about to refer to me. She panicked when trying to remember my name and couldn't find it on the screen and ultimately landed on calling me Derrick twice.
Fair enough, mistakes happen and I didn't say anything as I figured she would've realised after and felt embarrassed enough as it is.
Unfortunately, this has continued where she has kept alternating in what she calls me, only once has she caught herself realising she was about to say the wrong name, had a nervous giggle and called me by the right name. At that point I thought she had finally realised but again, it was another false dawn.
Now, 6 months later and this happening in meetings. This afternoon she has now sent me an email and addressed me correctly as Darren in the original email, only to then 10 minutes after my reply refer to me once again as Derrick and I think this is my breaking point.
She's clearly messaging me on Teams/sending me emails/refering to me correctly at times on emails and documents, I just can't fathom how she keeps getting it wrong.
I would normally think to mention it jokingly but at this point its gone on so long I don't know how I can do it in a non-awkward way. Coupled with the fact that I'm pretty sure she is on the spectrum or there's something else happening with her that I don't want to potentially embarrass her if there's something contributing to this beyond her control.
I have no interactions with her boss so that's not really an option and there's no one else that's been on the end of this except me.
Do I just pull the bandaid off and talk to her about this or is there a better way to handle (including saying nothing)?
I feel like I'm living the plot of a Seinfeld episode.

My husband’s behaviour takes a 180 degree turn when his parents/family come and stay with us compare to when my parents come and stay with us. We have completed 7 yr of marriage and recently had a baby boy last year (before marriage we dated for 5 yr, that time he never showed any signs that he would turned out to be this after marriage) When his parents are here along with his sister and his Nani (they all come together and in total 4 ppl come and stay with us for months) he sits in their room or with the them all the time (after work and on weekends), he is also proactively making travel plans and weekend plans, he is smiling and laughing all the times. He is an early sleeper and generally have his dinner at 7:30-8 but since his family has come he eats dinner as late as 9-9:30 and always with his family. Now compare this with my parents,he used to hardly spend any time with them and used to only sit in his room and used to only come out for dinner (15-20 min) and would go back in his room, on weekends he would only come out of his room for 30 min in the entire day that too for breakfast or dinner, otherwise he would take our son (infant) with him in our room and won’t interact with my parents at all. No weekends plans or anything, he would say that he only gets weekend and would like to relax and take rest. Always eat dinner at 7:30-8Pm and go back in his room to sleep. Hardly smile or laugh. When my parents came for the first time after 2 weeks he asked me when will they go back same thing happened when they came again. My behaviour is neutral with his parents/family, I do not sit in my room all the time like he used to do, I also try to interact with them and try to make them comfortable unlike my husband. But I feel bad for my parents as they always feel so out of the place whenever they would come visit us, my brother live in US and my parents are both retired and live alone in Indore whereas my in-laws live in delhi and have all their relatives living in the same society (all their relatives live in the same society at a distance of 500m), they have an amazing social life in delhi. After our marriage he took 2 years (that too after I told him number of times to visit my parents) to finally go and visit my home, and during the same time (2yr) I would have visited my in-laws some 10-12 times. I also used to send cake + flowers to my in-laws/family members on their birthday’s/anniversary/mother day/father day, and he won’t even talk to my parents on his own ( I had to dial from my phone and make him speak to them on special occasions). On his own he had never called them ever. Also, he would hardly talk to my only brother (living in US) not even on special occasion, sometime when I request him to atleast wish him on his bday/anniversary he would do while I am talking but that to would cut short the conversation. Whereas I used to dial in my MIL every 15 days and talk to her normally. I thought maybe be if I do all this he might change, but it didn’t work out. I have spoken to him about my concerns in 2019 (when he had not visited my home even once) his response was you also don’t go to my place, you also don’t talk to my family, you do what you like. When I followed his advice and tried doing this for sometime my relationship with my husband and his family became sour. Since then I have tried to remain neutral/cordial with my in-laws (stopped doing Adarsh bahu things like making them feel extra special and all) but also not exactly behave like my husband. Many ppl will think that my husband might be an introvert but when it is about his side of the family he is very interactive and family oriented. I have also told this to my MIL but I don’t think she has tried a lot from her end, my husband is extremely close to his parents, if they want they can change him but even after telling this to my MIL I have not seen him changing. Why is the society partial when it comes to girl family and boy family. Why is it only a girl’s responsibility to adapt to her husband’s family. I hate this hypocrisy of our society, I have spoken to my husband about this but he would not change. I have also spoken to my parents about this, they also tell me to never fight with my husband on this issue as per them ‘ladke aise hi hote hai, koi baat nahi humein bura nahi lagta’ but I don’t like this and this affects me a lot. I also do not want this issue affecting our marriage but it does affect us and our marriage all the time.

Hi all - I wanted to get some views on this please. I am a tax adviser but I don’t really want to talk about this with my colleagues.
H&W have only had joint accounts for close to 40 years and all assets are in joint names. Their joint estate is worth close to £2m.
One of H&W has a terminal cancer diagnosis (maybe 2 years) but has recently deposited approx £230k into the joint account (mixture of inheritance and pension lump sum). The intention was for this cash to be given to children for investment but doing so now would take her over the NRB. Per Wills, assets pass to surviving spouse then to children equally.
What would be the view if the spouse gave the c£230k to the other spouse (documented by letter), who then gave it on to the kids (again documenting by letter)? I assume it should be put into a bank account in a sole name first?
Also if the not-dying spouse wanted to offload other cash/assets, I assume it’s ok to transfer assets into their sole name then gift on? Should the assets sit in the sole name for a period of time before gifting on?
TIA ☺️

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I have said a few times that once Xiaomi can sell and deliver over 300k electric vehicles a year, it's electric vehicle venture should be profitable even after taking into account the research and development expenses.
Of course, the higher the sales and delivery volume, the lower the R&D cost per unit will be. This will make it even more compelling from a price angle, which Xiaomi has always been good at.
News last night mentioned that Xiaomi is working on a SUV and will be launching by year end come as no surprise. Will it outperform Tesla model? Of course, I have sufficient confidence in it.
This news drives Xiaomi's share price up over 3 percent and it has at one point reaches over 20.15 hkd.
If it can break above 20 hkd strongly, I will not be surprised to see xiaomi share price (01810hk as ticker code) to break above 25 hkd.
As always, this should not be construed as any investment or trading advice.

I grew up poor in PA and I don't know if I have enough money that I can retire and go back to the States to retire early.
I am in a good job overseas with a salary of 215k per year after taxes, with no house or car payment as they are paid for by my company, as is my kid's current schooling. I'm married with two kids whom both will go to college in the US in the next 4 years with 2 years age separation.
I don't own a home anywhere, although arguably I will get 33% of my grandmother's home (600k total value) and 33% of my parent's (300k value) modest homes in the future, since I need to split that with my brother and sister. It is unclear whether I can live in those places physically since that depends on my brother and sister's thinking.
For this consideration, let's assume that I won't physically live there. But I am considered a PA resident for tax and Social Security purposes.
My wife and I have 1.8 million in old 401ks from past employment, still gaining, but with no new contribution in about 10 years.
We have over 600k in personal mutual fund and brokerage accounts and about 150k in cash.
I expect 3k per month in social security after I retire.
Can I go "home" and retire early???
Thanks for your time.

Hello everyone,
my english isn't that good but I hope you'll understand.
I never wanted to make this kind of post but after this morning I think I really need an opinion from people who don't know us.
So, we've been together for almost 2 years. When I first got to know him he was already studying (I think 1-2 years in) and smoking weed. A lot. I didn't mind because I was smoking, too.
Here is what bothers me the most: when he didn't pass an exam he always said "I've got 2 more tries on this one" or he would even move some exams into the future. I can understand that the stress studying puts you in can be heavy and moving exams into the future or not always passing them on the first try isn't that bad. I really understand. The problem is that when I got to know him (2 years ago) he said he will be finished in 2 years (so this year). But that isn't the case. He is passing his exams but not everyone.
The case is that he somehow mixed something up or missed something, honestly I don't know what the problem was, but he screwed something up and had to kind of change the course of his studies. It's still almost the same and it's not starting from the bottom but he had to change some courses I think.
The thing is, I told him that I think it's because he smokes too much weed. He smokes everyday at least 1-2 joints, in some phases even 2-3 or more. I cut smoking to maybe 2 times per week. The difference is, I'm working and it doesn't affect me. When I smoked much more I still passed my exams with good grades and I can go without smoking for days or even weeks, I don't need it in my live. I only smoke when I'm with him and even then not every time it's rare.
I really think the smoking is affecting him but he always said it's not because of that and once he said if I try to put myself between him and weed, it won't work. I don't even want this. He can smoke, but maybe he is the kind of person that can't do both? You know, like smoking weed and still doing your business - both won't work out for some people I guess.
He works besides University and never misses a work day, just to mention.
It just bothers me so much that there is like no end for his studying, he says next year he's finished but I don't know. He smokes before we eat, he smokes before an event and if I point it out he says "that's how you got to know me".... am I overreacting or is there an honest problem? This morning he slept in again and missed his course. He rarely goes to the university he does it from home or sometimes online but I don't think that's normal? He even smokes when he's in university ... if he goes.
Another thing is that he drove when he smoked. He always said he can do it but I hated it. It still affects your mind and vision.... even if it was 2 hours ago.
I don't know what to do. I enjoy smoking too but I can say that I don't need it and I am still able to go to work or whatever. (I don't smoke before work I just mean that it doesn't affect me the next day or so).
I honestly can't stand it anymore, I don't know what to think about all this. I'm afraid that I'm ignoring warning signs in relation to his smoking behavior. Why do you need to smoke before every thing you're going to do? Almost everything...

Two and a half years ago, I started working on my first fully complete novel. A little background info: besides a 16k-word story on Wattpad, I’ve never finished anything. Which is why it was so important to me to finally finish a novel so I could publish it. From the get-go, I was obsessed with the story and spent hours and days researching scientific concepts and details and working on the plot and the characters. It took me a while till I actually started to write the first words of the novel. I started the first draft in October 2021 and up until November 2023, I wrote 37,193 words. Initially, I was proud but soon after starting the progress stagnated. The problem: I wanted to make it perfect. I’m a perfectionist by trade. So when I set out to write my first complete novel, I wanted to write one of the best novels out there. I wanted to impress publishers so they’d be blown away by my talent. I wanted to prove to myself that I could write a story and get it published. I wanted the novel to be a success. I wanted to write the perfect story. Of course, I was set up to fail. As a young writer in my 20s, I know I still have lots to learn. Even though I’ve been writing since I was eight years old I don’t know how to actually write well. I made lots of mistakes besides wanting my story to be perfect. Not only did I spend way too much time editing and plotting from the get-go, but I didn’t know that the first draft is supposed to be crappy. I didn’t understand why the first draft needed to be crappy which is because you need to get down the story as fast as possible to see if it works. I ignored that. I wanted the science behind everything to be perfect. I couldn’t start writing before I knew that what I was writing about was about 95% accurate. Even for a sci-fi writer, that’s terrible. Research for a sci-fi novel is essential but it can easily get out of hand. Not only did I do incredible in-depth research, I couldn’t start before I validated every single detail. How is this bad? It takes time and wastes momentum. And that sabotaged the story. Not only was I perfectionistic about research but also about how I wrote. As a writer in my 20s, I might have great sentences or even passages in my first draft but besides that, my writing will not be perfect probably not even good especially not in the first draft. But I didn’t see that. I ignored the fact that writing evolves over time and that probably no writer writes an amazing first draft. I mean what for? If the first draft is just there to tell yourself the story and check if it’s working then why would I waste any time on perfecting the writing since I had to rewrite it anyway? For a long time, I also didn’t know that I didn’t have to write my novel in order. As a perfectionist, it seemed logical to start on page one and write till I reached the end. This concept is shit! Days and weeks went by in which I didn’t write. When I realized that I was doing a lot of things wrong it was already 2024 and I haven’t worked on my novel for over 2 months. But then something changed. I realized all that…
- Perfectionism kills your story. - Don’t research too much at the beginning. - Write it down as fast as you can. - Ignore the order of scenes. - First drafts are supposed to be crappy. - Rules don’t apply to the first draft. - You can write any way you want. - Progress is better than perfect. As soon as I realized that I needed a fresh start. I wrote an outline for a story I had in my mind for several years. It took me two days to write the outline and then I started to the first draft. I set my goal to write 300 words per day which I normally exceeded. With my current novel, an action-thriller, I wrote over 40k words in 3 months. Compared to the last story I started that means I made roughly the same progress I had made in two years, now in three months. This time, I’m wasting no time trying to be perfect. I want to know if the idea works or if it doesn’t. I don’t care about perfect sentence structure, great internal monologue, or amazing dialogue. Sometimes my writing sounds more like a screenplay, other times it’s more fleshed out, and some days it’s utter crap. I write what feels good on the given day and I write the scene that feels right that day. I still love the idea for my original sci-fi story and I know that I will write it one day because I want to tell the MC’s story but for now, I’ll work on my debut novel and plan to finish the first draft by the end of the year, maybe even earlier. So what did I learn? Perfectionism is going to kill your story. I know it killed mine.

So the situation is: my partner and I are planning to buy a new home. Our budget is max 1.5mil, and we have no mortgage on our existing home, which we believe will probably sell around 1.2mil. We plan to use all the proceeds from our current home (after stamp duty, agents fees etc etc) for the new home, so ideally we do not want the remaining mortgage to exceed 500k. We do not have a cash deposit- so I suppose all we have is the equity in our current home (or that is, I do have about 110k in savings but we will hold most of this as emergency funds/possibly for renovations/car etc). My understanding is that if we wish to buy before we sell, so that we have a place to move into, we will need to purchase it with bridging finance. Is this correct? (Ie we can't take out a standard homeloan as we don't have a cash deposit). I note that in the current market, bridging finance loans are around 9.5% interest for the bridging period, which in our case equates to paying almost $12k per month in interest for the duration of the bridging period (which we hope will be shorter than 3 months- but this is nonetheless a lot).
Are there other options, aside from buying after we sell and renting for a period (renting for 6 months would actually be cheaper than paying 3 months worth of bridging finance)? We want to avoid this though as we have a toddler and will have a newborn too by the time this all goes ahead- one move is enough. Not to mention that the rental market is crazy and we also have a dog which potentially makes us less desirable tenants.
Thanks for anyone who has bothered to read!

I upgraded my FTTN to FTTP in jan 2024, and immediately started having issues. Videos would play for 30 seconds and then load then another 10 seconds then load etc. Completely unwatchable. I can’t load a webpage it’s slower than dial up. When I do a speed test my download speed is around 0.2 MBPS, but my upload speed is around 20 MB per second my speed then picks up to 100/20, which is what it’s supposed to be this happens repeatedly at all times of the day. I will have a couple of weeks here and there without any issues and then it starts again. I have a netgear Orbi router. I have reset the router and the NBN box multiple times, reconfigured with Aussie bb help, have bought new Ethernet cables (multiple), tried a spare router I had at home, and even just bought a brand new router. Aussie BB did try help me troubleshoot the problem for months, but kept saying it was a problem on my end, now they are saying there is nothing they can do, it’s a problem with my router.
This is happening on my pc that is Ethernet connection and all of my wifi devices (smart phones, tvs, tablets, media boxes).
NBN won’t come out because “nothing goes wrong with the nbn box”.
I never had an issue with FTTN, this has only started since the FTTP “upgrade”

Hi! I’m 15f and I’m 100% sure I have POTS.
For one, I can’t stand up for more than 30 minutes without feeling light-headed. Full-packed busses and trains without any seats is my worst nightmare. I can’t cook food because for some reason I feel faint every-time I cook food. I have the chop all the vegetables sitting down and I have to take breaks when frying something because of the heat. I can’t clean or take the dishes because I also get faint when doing that.
I’m nauseated quite often, especially in car rides and when showering for some reason. I have never puked but I feel nauseous quite often.
I’m always freezing, my hands and feet feel like popsicles!
Also another thing, I’m always constipated and I have stomach aches daily lol. And I have hiccups at least three times a day. Oh! And migraines daily as well.
I tried to active standing up test and my heartbeats got raised by 39 beats per minute.
I have booked a doctor’s appointment, will be going this week. I wanna know likely it is to get a diagnosis, and if it’s difficult. Also, how do they test it? Thanks!

In this post I want to break down how I think about and how I build custom B2B lead gen eco-systems that are designed to engage a cold prospect, educate and help them to then turn into $XX,XXX deals.
I'll share the metrics and best practices from my own experiences from working with around 20 b2b companies with varying deal sizes, starting from $5k marketing packages, to $90k/yr fintech solutions and $200k software dev & IT deals. If you don't agree with my approach, that's fine, there's multiple ways to skin a cat.
Fundamentals are mostly the same and we can split it in 3 main parts.

1. Traffic acquisition
2. Nurture & education mechanism
3. Conversion mechanism.

Where most businesses go wrong is that they try to sell their expensive service to a cold prospect.
That might look like cold emailing and cold "linkedining" (new term) prospects an offer or asking if they're interested in this and that, on the spot.
This is not a good approach for one simple reason - no one want's to be sold to. Not to say that this direct approach doesn't work, for some it works good enough to stay afloat, but it's not something you can use to drive real, inbound interest in your services. Selling to prospects that you get on a sales call from 1 email or DM is extremely hard since you have to do the heavy lifting to educate them on the call and then you also have to sell them.
My goal is to turn this dynamic on it's head. Yes, we want to reach out to cold prospects. Yes, we want to run ads. But not to sell immediately. Rather, we're inviting and getting those prospects into our ecosystem where if they go through your educational materials like reports, case studies, how-to's AND have a real pain, they will come to you to solve it.
Let's break it down.
Traffic acquisition.
There's 2 channels I use to acquire traffic. Sometimes I use both, sometimes one or the other. For the most part that depends on the TAM and what we're selling.
1 - Paid ads (LI and META) are great if you need volume and your deal size varies between $5k - $20k. If you get it right, it's a system that scales easily so you can control demand and growth fairly easily too. It's also very quick and easy to troubleshoot since you can change a variable and see the result in next 3 days.
The ultimate goal of paid ads is to get as many people in your funnel as possible. The only logical way to do it is using lead magnets. Industry specific reports with unique insights that only your ICP would care about, easy-to-code tools that only your ICP would find useful (calculators work great for me), guides and courses made to solve a very specific problem, you get the picture.
We're giving away this free value in exchange for their email address. I can already hear people yelling "But giving away stuff for free only attracts freebie seekers" That's because you don't have a mechanism in place to convert that opt-in into a deal. (I'll go into in the next sections)
To make a great lead magnet I follow this mantra:

1. Has to be industry and role specific
2. Has to solve 1 painful problem for the lead
3. No surface-level, bait-and-switch teasing BS. (using lead magnet as a sales page is a big no-no)

Lead magnet is your chance to build rapport, show your competence and build good will by actually helping your prospects before you ever speak with them. USE IT WISELY. I see many businesses only tease the solution. My advice - give away all your secrets. If you're vague, your leads will think that your approach is basic and you won't capture the interest.
For us, around 20% of lead magnet leads opt-in into the next step of the funnel where we ask much more details. Company name, website, name, phone, etc, etc.
Do this step right and you'll get leads from your ICP opting into your funnel in droves, for cheap.
One little hack I do whenever I launch lead magnet campaigns is create 5-10 lead magnet ideas, create the ads and the landing pages, but don't create the lead magnet itself. Then run ads to those 5-10 lead magnets and see what your cost per lead is AND see what quality leads you attract. My baseline KPI's are sub $15 CPL on the initial launch and 3 out of 10 leads be real, actual companies that fit the ICP.
If you hit that initially, you can reiterate on the ads and the LP and get your CPL way lower.
2 - Cold outreach (LI and email) is great if you're after high ticket or enterprise level deals.
Cold outreach is great for huge target markets and/or very high value accounts. You won't reach Elon Mush through ads, but you could through cold outreach.
Instead of blanket-spamming 10k leads that might or might not need our service we do this.

1. Score companies based on fit (we use AI for this on scale by giving it bad fit examples, medium fit examples and great fit examples while also describing why each is bad, medium or great. Then we ask to output a score from 1-10)
2. For companies that score 7 or higher, look at buying signals. Recent hires, open positions, growth or decline, recent funding, featured in news (why featured in news?) and, of course, technographics.
3. Companies that display positive signals AND are a fit based on scoring, we send a personalized message automatically.

90% of this happens automatically at this point, but don't get confused - it's not AI copy that gets sent out. We have a general template and framework that we base our messages upon and AI fills in the blanks. All that is based on what information we find on the companies and what state they're currently in.
"Hey Adam, saw that Houberz is looking for an engineer with deep understanding of X. I know first hand how hard it is to fill such roles.
I have a case study on how we did Y using X technology, thought you might be interested in giving it a quick read before you pull someone onboard."
This is the general gist of it. Combine it with reaching out to leads that are likely in-market and you'll average 15% reply rates. Blast 10k emails to random list and you'll get 0.5% - 1% reply rates.
That is how we get qualified traffic on the front end.
This is how we convert it into deals.
1.1 - Paid
Once you have people claiming your lead magnet, the magic happens on the thank you page. I've seen many people just have a generic thank you page that does not prompt the next action.
Wasted digital real estate.
Instead of leaving it blank, we either have a call booking page where we pitch a non-sales call that would help fix the lead a specific problem or a signup page for a live workshop.
2nd has higher opt-in rate, but has longer time-to-deal, 1st gives you 1-1 time with high value prospects, but is more expensive..
Ideally, run both. Best of both worlds.
On top of that, when someone opts in and claims your lead magnets, you can then email them on a regular basis as part of your newsletter which gives you another channel to nurture leads and throw offers their way.
2.1 - Cold outreach
As soon as you receive a positive response to your lead magnet offer, you send it over, find that person on LI and connect (so you have another channel and they see that you're a real human) then ask if they're struggling with a specific problem that your service can fix.
If they do, great, share more case studies, share how they could solve the problem themselves and then soft-pitch a meeting in which you propose to "continue the conversation"
For cold, each convo will be different so you will have to come up with helpful and relevant email responses on the fly.
Remember speed-to-lead. The faster you answer, the higher the chance of you pushing the lead to the next step of your funnel.
So do you need both of these acquisition channels? Do you also need to post on Linkedin and dance on Tiktok?
Depends on your business. Generally, the more eyes you have on you, the more deals you'll close. These two channels are foundation for myself and any business I consult, but to supplement that and build credibility, we're also heavily investing in LI organic.
Why? People who watch your ads and engage with your emails will check out your LI eventually. If it's barren, you won't leave an impression. If it's packed with valuable, funny, insightful and humanizing posts, not only your leads will connect with you, but they'll feel compelled to engage.
So it's not one system or another - it's all of them working in cohesion.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

Hey it is me again. Last time I posted here asking for prayers and encouragement about my partner who had a thickened endometrium result as per her TVS. Went for second opinion and GYN. She said it could be due to hormonal changes but she wanted a repeat TRANSV and so we did. Got the results yesterday and she saw a 2cm endometrial polyp which was not seen previously. She said that was the culprit. I am still anxious as she will now have to do a hysteroscopy to remove the polyp and I know it will be sent for biopsy. Her maternal side has history of the big C that is why I am still anxious as heck. I can't drink or eat properly. I am not in the mood every day as my anxiety and panic attacks are through the roof. I am seeing so many tiktoks and stories that theirs turned to be endometrial cancer end stage etc. A lot of things already playing on my mind. I am not sure if I can tell these feelings to her doctor I am just so afraid. I just kept on praying.

Part of me feels lucky and unlucky at the same time. I work 2 jobs which work out at 5 days per week, 43hrs per week - about £34.5k per year. One job is financial services 4 days per week, and casual hotel receptionist 1 day per week. I have little to no responsibility, no stress and an easy life, own a house, brand-new car etc, yet earn roughly the same as my stressed out managers in both jobs!
But where do I go from here? I'm literally in entry levels jobs but to get anywhere above this I'd have to give up the hotel which earns about £5k per year and work a single 5 day per week job to progress at a pay cut hmmmm but anything that earns £34k+ in a single job requires experience or qualifications I don't have.
I feel at the moment I'm 'winning' at work with the good value between effort and pay, so I don't want to upset the apple cart but at the same time I'd like to earn more in the future.

Just one year since we announced the Deluge going open source and the development has blown away all possible expectations. An amazing array of incredibly talented developers have been volunteering their time and energy and turning the Deluge into an entirely new machine – the features and enhancements added in just 10 months since we released the code is beyond belief. We couldn’t be prouder watching how this community have shown how successful this avenue can be and we’re sure other hardware manufacturers in the industry are taking note!
BEETHOVEN 1.1 The second big open source update (Beethoven) is currently in beta and very close to release, though already very stable – if you’d like to try out the beta or read the full changelog, head to https://synthstromaudible.github.io/DelugeFirmware/ and scroll down to ‘Release 1.1 (Beethoven) Beta’.
RSKT takes a look through both the 1.0 (Amadeus) and 1.1 (Beethoven) updates in the video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1Qd8JCBEJ8
What’s new in 1.1?
• An additional reverb model: Mutable, great for large and lush reverb tails.
• Compressors per clip and kit rows.
• Automation View for Audio Clips and Arranger View.
• Bipolar parameter editing in Automation View.
• Full access to bipolar (-50 to +50) parameter values when assigned to gold knobs.
• Added a VU Meter display of the Deluge’s stereo output.
• An option to turn on or toggle a 7SEG-emulated display for OLED displays.
• Added 5 additional 7-note scales.
• Added 5-note and 6-note scale support including Whole Tone, Pentatonic Minor, Blues, and Hirajoshi scales.
• Arpeggiator improvements including control over Octave and Note modes, Rhythm, Sequence Length, and Ratchet notes.
• Midi Follow Mode – Allows MIDI data to be directed based on the current active clip on the Deluge without having to learn/relearn midi channels.
• Midi Feedback – A sub-feature of Midi Follow Mode, it allows external MIDI controllers to be made aware of the state of the Deluge synth engine for the current active clip and display those relevant values back to you.
• Midi Loopback – Allows MIDI data from internal MIDI clips back out to the Deluge MIDI input without the need of MIDI cables.
• Ability to change the default song or load behavior at startup.
• Ability to change default brightness amount at startup.
• Configurable Count-In Bar amount.
• Editable configuration of Song-level and Kit-level parameters
• Recording improvements in Grid View
• New Sidebar controls in Keyboard View for quick control over Velocity, Modulation, Chords, Chord Memory, and Scales. To view the complete list of changes, head here: https://github.com/SynthstromAudible/DelugeFirmware/blob/release/1.1/CHANGELOG.md
SUPERBOOTH 2024 To celebrate one year since we announced going open source, we are really proud to announce that Synthstrom Audible will NOT be at Superbooth this year, or will we?
Instead of a jetlagged, kebab-filled Ian losing his voice and being out of his depth as soon as talk turns to coding, there will be half a dozen of the developers who have been making the Deluge open-source software the talk of the industry, taking turns hosting a booth on our behalf! You’ll be able to see and hear the new features, hear what’s in development and perhaps what features might be coming in the future!
You’ll find the “Synthstrom Audible Deluge Community” at Z235 https://www.superbooth.com/en/floorplan.html?location=Z235
Find out more here: https://www.superbooth.com/en/messe-and-exhibitors/exhibitors/synthstrom-audible.html
SUPERBOOTH 2024 WORKSHOP If you’re heading to Superbooth you’ll also be able to head along to a workshop from some of the open source devs and find out more about the development, how the project has progressed and how to get involved! (if you wish) https://www.superbooth.com/en/events/details/workshop-synthstrom-audible-deluge-community.html
As usual, find everything you need to know about the Open-Source project here: https://synthstromaudible.github.io/DelugeFirmware/