Train me sote baap nahi ladki ki kah

kal english ka exam hai jiske liye I've prepared enough but mujhe still darr lg rha hai ki du me admission hoga ya nahi. maine YouTube ke through apne marks evaluate kre the and kuch 427/600 ban rhe the plus jo kal english ka exam hoga usme se lagenge. so ek guess leke chale to 560-600 max to max score bnega. I'm from commerce background but idgaf koi sa bhi course miljaye lekin bs DU chahiye cause mujhe maa baap ke paise nhi lagwane ipu me jaake. and wahi baat future ki to mai govt exams ke liye prepare krunga so at the end konsa course kra hai doesn't matter. but still meri personal preference bcom hai (just bcom not hon cause maths ka exam got fucked) . and mujhe ba english hon jaise courses se bhi koi problem nhi wo bhi chalega. but voc Idts is for me ya aisa koi course jiski birkul bhi value na ho. what should I do guys gaand fatri hai.😭

bhailog kal mera school ka pehla dinn hai naye state + city mein kya fatt raha hai na mera istg. im the opposite of social, i literally dont talk to anyone other than the people i know...distant rishtedaar ke ghar gya tha ek baar unnke beto se bhi baat nahi kar raha tha (same age) maa baap ne zabardasti bheja toh awkward si baate ki bas hi hello type of shit.
its been a really long time since i last changed schools im very anxious lol . when ure a kid making friends is so easy....just hit the person next to you about ur favourite cartoons , games and allat.
growing up is so bullshit dude i cant approach anyone due to the fear of judgement. as a kid i was so outgoing and "jungli". now i barely speak. honestly covid fuckass ruined every aspect of me, i had no " fear of judgement " prior to it. i participated in contests, HAD SO MANY FRIENDS, said what i wanted to say and most importantly i was good at studying cus i was in the habit of actually studying. im literally good at nothing now fml
fuck this idk what im gonna do tomorrow i just hope i dont embarrass myself + ppl dont think im a weirdo + the teachers arent harami

Myquals: 10th:98%, top student council postion
Dekho im 17F, abhii in 12th and preparing for jee 2025 from a good coaching centre in my hometown. I come from a upper middle class family and my parents are quite (very) well to do. My dad dropped sci in his 10th and built his way up the corporate ladder just with a bcom degree but he belives that engineering degree will help me in my future.
For me, as a student I mad the mistake of showing interest in sci when I was young. 8th,9th mein I was kaafi into sci because it was mostly into theory. i learned a couple of coding languages and did robotics mein kaafi kuch, even went to the US for a robotics competition.
I was pretty aginst becoming engineer as I felt it was what everyone was doing and was happy I had the privilege to choose. i also took some courses with MIT( usa waala) on quantum computing cuz I liked theoroticl physics.
Abhi mere maa baap ko laga ki mein born science prodigidy hoon.but the thing is, I love other stuff too
mujhe personally economics mein bohot intrest hai, developments economics, public welfare, sociology are all things I want to learn more of and maybe pursue a future in. I love politics too! And leadership and communication has always been my string point. Debates, elecutions and public speaking is my forte. I love to be in front of a mic and handle people. I was headgirl of my school too and did a lot of management kaam there. I also like working with children as I've worked in 20+ ngos. history, psychology, geography sabh pasand hai mujhe
BIO aur performing and fine arts ke alawa sabhu cheez mein meri interest hai
mujhe upsc karna hai mostly, IFS mera sapna hai, para engineering and all ke saath idfk man
abhh dekho, i know yeh sabh a bada flex lagegga but my point is i have soooo many interests and fields i love to explore, i really don't want to do engineering, but again bcom karke normal bakwas nahi karna hai mujhe. toh isiliye when my parents convinced me to do engineering, i went with it. Now I'm no longer academically strong, I'm doing poorly in all my test and I'm thinking, kya hi fayda yeh sabka? toh pata nahi yaar sabh bada kichdi lag raha hai, toh koi kuch bata do

NOTE- Long post ahead TLDR at end and sorry for typos cause wrote this in hurry.
So this incident happened yesterday at around 8:45 PM with me in MP Nagar Zone-2,Bhopal.
There is this place near Vishnu Fast food where many tea shops are there. I usually go to that place at around 7:00PM as it is near to my hostel to have tea(I don't smoke) and other people usually go their to spend some time with their friends and all. I am new in this city (1.5 months) so I have not made much friends. My friends live in Kolar and Lalghati . So I go their alone. I usually sit there for 1 hour and then back to hostel.
Just when I was about to leave, I noticed a police car standing at a distance, which I hadn't noticed before, along with a policeman whom I also hadn't noticed. There were other people too, but they were all in a group, while I was the only one alone. The policeman called out to me by shouting, 'OYEE IDHAR AA" pointing finger at me.
I immediately closed my phone and gone to him and asked what happened. He was like "Idhar kyo aaya hai" and I replied by saying "ki bas chai peene aaya hu". While I was saying this he lifted my tshirt a bit to check my jeans pocket and found nothing. When he was talking with me other policeman came and started listening our convo. At this point I was feeling a bit tensed and anxiety ho rahi thi ki police waale mujse baat kar rahe hai or baaki log dur se dekh rahe hai.
1st policeman again asked "kyo aaya hai idhar" I said - dost ka wait kar raha hu. As soon as I said this he ordered his other policeman to take photo of me. And at this moment I was shit scared. I said photo kyo le rahe ho maine kya kar diya. 2nd policeman took out his phone and eventually took the pic of my face but I made sure that he don't get the best angle. He asked me "rahate kaha ho" to which I replied "hostel mai rehata hu". He asked "kaha hai hostel" I answered "ki yahi paas mai hai, MP Nagar mai". I again requested them ki photo lene ki kya zarurat hai. To which the 2nd policeman said ki "ABEE PHOTO HE TOH LI HAI, ITNA RONA KYO". OK so all this while I was only talking with 1st police but when this 2nd police said this I got frustrated and gave him a cold stare look at him for a while. 🤬🤬
Then the 1st police again started asking questions like "kab aaya tha idhar" maine bola bus 15 minute phale aaya tha. I told him mujhe 1 month bhi nahi hua hai yaha bhopal aaye hue and as soon as I told him this he somewhat started talking in less harsh manner. I believe he must have misunderstood me with the local of Bhopal. He asked kaha se "aaye" ho , I replied the city name from where I came. He again asked "padhai wagera karne aaye ho kya? Kiss chiz ki" , answered ki "haa sir padhai karne aaya hu CA Final ki".
Then he started telling ki "yaha zyada dikha mat Karo ye ilaka theek nahi hai. Log yaha Sutta/Cigarette peene aate hai pata nahi kaise log mill jaaye, abhi murder bhi hua hai (this I don't believe he was clearly lying just to convince me that don't come here, if it was true people would be talking about this thing). The thing is if someone has been to this place it is just next to main road and I often come here to relax my mind after taking all those coaching classes all day, I never found this place the way he was mentioning.
Anyways, He told naye naye aaye ho yaha pe isliye pata nahi hai tumko. Girls hostel ke saamne bhed lag jaati hai and blah blah blah. He also started telling ki "maa baap ne padhai karne ke liye bheja hai padhai kro aur yaha zyada aaya mat kro" to which I wanted to say ki "sir din bhar vahi padhai likhai hoti rehti hai 7-8 hours ki bus apna mind fresh karne ke liye aata hu" but I eventually said "Haan Sir, sahi baat hai...sahi baat hai" because I just don't want to stretch this boaring conversation with him anymore.
After that, they both left and started walking around. I went to the tea shop again to have one more tea, sat beneath a tree, and wasted 15 minutes drinking half a cup of tea right in front of those two while both of them watched me from a distance in disbelief because this time I knew they couldn't say anything.
If you are still here a big Thank You, My question is how common this is in Bhopal that police asks random questions and take the picture. And also why was he checking my pockets, what exactly was he searching? Police not asked any private details like my name or mobile number or parents name. They just took my picture of face and now I am wondering what they will do of that. I asked my friend what will happen now he said nothing will happen don't worry. Please tell what should I do or something like this ever happened with you ar someone you know.
TLDR- I went to a tea shop near my hostel, and police questioned me for no reason, even took my photo. They warned me about the area, but I didn't find it dangerous. How common is this behaviour from police and should I be worried since they have my photo?

NOTE- Long post ahead TLDR at end and sorry for typos cause wrote this in hurry.
So this incident happened yesterday at around 8:45 PM with me in MP Nagar Zone-2,Bhopal.
There is this place near Vishnu Fast food where many tea shops are there. I usually go to that place at around 7:00PM as it is near to my hostel to have tea(I don't smoke) and other people usually go their to spend some time with their friends and all. I am new in this city (1.5 months) so I have not made much friends. My friends live in Kolar and Lalghati . So I go their alone. I usually sit there for 1 hour and then back to hostel.
Just when I was about to leave, I noticed a police car standing at a distance, which I hadn't noticed before, along with a policeman whom I also hadn't noticed. There were other people too, but they were all in a group, while I was the only one alone. The policeman called out to me by shouting, 'OYEE IDHAR AA" pointing finger at me.
I immediately closed my phone and gone to him and asked what happened. He was like "Idhar kyo aaya hai" and I replied by saying "ki bas chai peene aaya hu". While I was saying this he lifted my tshirt a bit to check my jeans pocket and found nothing. When he was talking with me other policeman came and started listening our convo. At this point I was feeling a bit tensed and anxiety ho rahi thi ki police waale mujse baat kar rahe hai or baaki log dur se dekh rahe hai.
1st policeman again asked "kyo aaya hai idhar" I said - dost ka wait kar raha hu. As soon as I said this he ordered his other policeman to take photo of me. And at this moment I was shit scared. I said photo kyo le rahe ho maine kya kar diya. 2nd policeman took out his phone and eventually took the pic of my face but I made sure that he don't get the best angle. He asked me "rahate kaha ho" to which I replied "hostel mai rehata hu". He asked "kaha hai hostel" I answered "ki yahi paas mai hai, MP Nagar mai". I again requested them ki photo lene ki kya zarurat hai. To which the 2nd policeman said ki "ABEE PHOTO HE TOH LI HAI, ITNA RONA KYO". OK so all this while I was only talking with 1st police but when this 2nd police said this I got frustrated and gave him a cold stare look at him for a while. 🤬🤬
Then the 1st police again started asking questions like "kab aaya tha idhar" maine bola bus 15 minute phale aaya tha. I told him mujhe 1 month bhi nahi hua hai yaha bhopal aaye hue and as soon as I told him this he somewhat started talking in less harsh manner. I believe he must have misunderstood me with the local of Bhopal. He asked kaha se "aaye" ho , I replied the city name from where I came. He again asked "padhai wagera karne aaye ho kya? Kiss chiz ki" , answered ki "haa sir padhai karne aaya hu CA Final ki".
Then he started telling ki "yaha zyada dikha mat Karo ye ilaka theek nahi hai. Log yaha Sutta/Cigarette peene aate hai pata nahi kaise log mill jaaye, abhi murder bhi hua hai (this I don't believe he was clearly lying just to convince me that don't come here, if it was true people would be talking about this thing). The thing is if someone has been to this place it is just next to main road and I often come here to relax my mind after taking all those coaching classes all day, I never found this place the way he was mentioning.
Anyways, He told naye naye aaye ho yaha pe isliye pata nahi hai tumko. Girls hostel ke saamne bhed lag jaati hai and blah blah blah. He also started telling ki "maa baap ne padhai karne ke liye bheja hai padhai kro aur yaha zyada aaya mat kro" to which I wanted to say ki "sir din bhar vahi padhai likhai hoti rehti hai 7-8 hours ki bus apna mind fresh karne ke liye aata hu" but I eventually said "Haan Sir, sahi baat hai...sahi baat hai" because I just don't want to stretch this boaring conversation with him anymore.
After that, they both left and started walking around. I went to the tea shop again to have one more tea, sat beneath a tree, and wasted 15 minutes drinking half a cup of tea right in front of those two while both of them watched me from a distance in disbelief because this time I knew they couldn't say anything.
If you are still here a big Thank You, My question is how common this is in Bhopal that police asks random questions and take the picture. And also why was he checking my pockets, what exactly was he searching? Police not asked any private details like my name or mobile number or parents name. They just took my picture of face and now I am wondering what they will do of that. I asked my friend what will happen now he said nothing will happen don't worry. Please tell what should I do or something like this ever happened with you ar someone you know.
TLDR- I went to a tea shop near my hostel, and police questioned me for no reason, even took my photo. They warned me about the area, but I didn't find it dangerous. How common is this behaviour from police and should I be worried since they have my photo?

NOTE- Long post ahead TLDR at end and sorry for typos cause wrote this in hurry.
So this incident happened yesterday at around 8:45 PM with me in MP Nagar Zone-2,Bhopal.
There is this place near Vishnu Fast food where many tea shops are there. I usually go to that place at around 7:00PM as it is near to my hostel to have tea(I don't smoke) and other people usually go their to spend some time with their friends and all. I am new in this city (1.5 months) so I have not made much friends. My friends live in Kolar and Lalghati . So I go their alone. I usually sit there for 1 hour and then back to hostel.
Just when I was about to leave, I noticed a police car standing at a distance, which I hadn't noticed before, along with a policeman whom I also hadn't noticed. There were other people too, but they were all in a group, while I was the only one alone. The policeman called out to me by shouting, 'OYEE IDHAR AA" pointing finger at me.
I immediately closed my phone and gone to him and asked what happened. He was like "Idhar kyo aaya hai" and I replied by saying "ki bas chai peene aaya hu". While I was saying this he lifted my tshirt a bit to check my jeans pocket and found nothing. When he was talking with me other policeman came and started listening our convo. At this point I was feeling a bit tensed and anxiety ho rahi thi ki police waale mujse baat kar rahe hai or baaki log dur se dekh rahe hai.
1st policeman again asked "kyo aaya hai idhar" I said - dost ka wait kar raha hu. As soon as I said this he ordered his other policeman to take photo of me. And at this moment I was shit scared. I said photo kyo le rahe ho maine kya kar diya. 2nd policeman took out his phone and eventually took the pic of my face but I made sure that he don't get the best angle. He asked me "rahate kaha ho" to which I replied "hostel mai rehata hu". He asked "kaha hai hostel" I answered "ki yahi paas mai hai, MP Nagar mai". I again requested them ki photo lene ki kya zarurat hai. To which the 2nd policeman said ki "ABEE PHOTO HE TOH LI HAI, ITNA RONA KYO". OK so all this while I was only talking with 1st police but when this 2nd police said this I got frustrated and gave him a cold stare look at him for a while. 🤬🤬
Then the 1st police again started asking questions like "kab aaya tha idhar" maine bola bus 15 minute phale aaya tha. I told him mujhe 1 month bhi nahi hua hai yaha bhopal aaye hue and as soon as I told him this he somewhat started talking in less harsh manner. I believe he must have misunderstood me with the local of Bhopal. He asked kaha se "aaye" ho , I replied the city name from where I came. He again asked "padhai wagera karne aaye ho kya? Kiss chiz ki" , answered ki "haa sir padhai karne aaya hu CA Final ki".
Then he started telling ki "yaha zyada dikha mat Karo ye ilaka theek nahi hai. Log yaha Sutta/Cigarette peene aate hai pata nahi kaise log mill jaaye, abhi murder bhi hua hai (this I don't believe he was clearly lying just to convince me that don't come here, if it was true people would be talking about this thing). The thing is if someone has been to this place it is just next to main road and I often come here to relax my mind after taking all those coaching classes all day, I never found this place the way he was mentioning.
Anyways, He told naye naye aaye ho yaha pe isliye pata nahi hai tumko. Girls hostel ke saamne bhed lag jaati hai and blah blah blah. He also started telling ki "maa baap ne padhai karne ke liye bheja hai padhai kro aur yaha zyada aaya mat kro" to which I wanted to say ki "sir din bhar vahi padhai likhai hoti rehti hai 7-8 hours ki bus apna mind fresh karne ke liye aata hu" but I eventually said "Haan Sir, sahi baat hai...sahi baat hai" because I just don't want to stretch this boaring conversation with him anymore.
After that, they both left and started walking around. I went to the tea shop again to have one more tea, sat beneath a tree, and wasted 15 minutes drinking half a cup of tea right in front of those two while both of them watched me from a distance in disbelief because this time I knew they couldn't say anything.
If you are still here a big Thank You, My question is how common this is in Bhopal that police asks random questions and take the picture. And also why was he checking my pockets, what exactly was he searching? Police not asked any private details like my name or mobile number or parents name. They just took my picture of face and now I am wondering what they will do of that. I asked my friend what will happen now he said nothing will happen don't worry. Please tell what should I do or something like this ever happened with you ar someone you know.
TLDR- I went to a tea shop near my hostel, and police questioned me for no reason, even took my photo. They warned me about the area, but I didn't find it dangerous. How common is this behaviour from police and should I be worried since they have my photo?

Police started asking questions and even took my photo without my permission.
NOTE- Long post ahead TLDR at end and sorry for typos cause wrote this in hurry.
So this incident happened yesterday at around 8:45 PM with me in MP Nagar Zone-2.
There is this place near Vishnu Fast food where many tea shops are there. I usually go to that place at around 7:00PM as it is near to my hostel to have tea(I don't smoke) and other people usually go their to spend some time with their friends and all. I am new in this city (1.5 months) so I have not made much friends. My friends live in Kolar and Lalghati . So I go their alone. I usually sit there for 1 hour and then back to hostel.
Just when I was about to leave, I noticed a police car standing at a distance, which I hadn't noticed before, along with a policeman whom I also hadn't noticed. There were other people too, but they were all in a group, while I was the only one alone. The policeman called out to me by shouting, 'OYEE IDHAR AA" pointing finger at me.
I immediately closed my phone and gone to him and asked what happened. He was like "Idhar kyo aaya hai" and I replied by saying "ki bas chai peene aaya hu". While I was saying this he lifted my tshirt a bit to check my jeans pocket and found nothing. When he was talking with me other policeman came and started listening our convo. At this point I was feeling a bit tensed and anxiety ho rahi thi ki police waale mujse baat kar rahe hai or baaki log dur se dekh rahe hai.
1st policeman again asked "kyo aaya hai idhar" I said - dost ka wait kar raha hu. As soon as I said this he ordered his other policeman to take photo of me. And at this moment I was shit scared. I said photo kyo le rahe ho maine kya kar diya. 2nd policeman took out his phone and eventually took the pic of my face but I made sure that he don't get the best angle. He asked me "rahate kaha ho" to which I replied "hostel mai rehata hu". He asked "kaha hai hostel" I answered "ki yahi paas mai hai, MP Nagar mai". I again requested them ki photo lene ki kya zarurat hai. To which the 2nd policeman said ki "ABEE PHOTO HE TOH LI HAI, ITNA RONA KYO". OK so all this while I was only talking with 1st police but when this 2nd police said this I got frustrated and gave him a cold stare look at him for a while. 🤬🤬
Then the 1st police again started asking questions like "kab aaya tha idhar" maine bola bus 15 minute phale aaya tha. I told him mujhe 1 month bhi nahi hua hai yaha bhopal aaye hue and as soon as I told him this he somewhat started talking in less harsh manner. I believe he must have misunderstood me with the local of Bhopal. He asked kaha se "aaye" ho , I replied the city name from where I came. He again asked "padhai wagera karne aaye ho kya? Kiss chiz ki" , answered ki "haa sir padhai karne aaya hu CA Final ki".
Then he started telling ki "yaha zyada dikha mat Karo ye ilaka theek nahi hai. Log yaha Sutta/Cigarette peene aate hai pata nahi kaise log mill jaaye, abhi murder bhi hua hai (this I don't believe he was clearly lying just to convince me that don't come here, if it was true people would be talking about this thing). The thing is if someone has been to this place it is just next to main road and I often come here to relax my mind after taking all those coaching classes all day, I never found this place the way he was mentioning.
Anyways, He told naye naye aaye ho yaha pe isliye pata nahi hai tumko. Girls hostel ke saamne bhed lag jaati hai and blah blah blah. He also started telling ki "maa baap ne padhai karne ke liye bheja hai padhai kro aur yaha zyada aaya mat kro" to which I wanted to say ki "sir din bhar vahi padhai likhai hoti rehti hai 7-8 hours ki bus apna mind fresh karne ke liye aata hu" but I eventually said "Haan Sir, sahi baat hai...sahi baat hai" because I just don't want to stretch this boaring conversation with him anymore.
After that, they both left and started walking around. I went to the tea shop again to have one more tea, sat beneath a tree, and wasted 15 minutes drinking half a cup of tea right in front of those two while both of them watched me from a distance in disbelief because this time I knew they couldn't say anything.
If you are still here a big Thank You, My question is how common this is in Bhopal that police asks random questions and take the picture. And also why was he checking my pockets, what exactly was he searching? Police not asked any private details like my name or mobile number or parents name. They just took my picture of face and now I am wondering what they will do of that. I asked my friend what will happen now he said nothing will happen don't worry. Please tell what should I do or something like this ever happened with you ar someone you know.
TLDR- I went to a tea shop near my hostel, and police questioned me for no reason, even took my photo. They warned me about the area, but I didn't find it dangerous. How common is this behaviour from police and should I be worried since they have my photo?

Kal hi Pratapgath mein show karne ka plan bana tha. Ek hafte mein mujhe mera samaan wahan shift karwana hai. Mujhe truck ka kaam karte huye sirf 7 mahine huye hain. Main ek truck driver hoon. Meri truck mein ek portable theatre ka samaan rehta hai aur main sheher, gaon jaake logon ki meri truck ke peeche portable theatre mein movie dikhata hoon. Sirf 30 rupey per ticket mein. Aaj hi ki baat hai, raat ke kareeb 9-10 baje honge aur aaj ka aakhri show khatam ho gaya. Sare gaon vale movie dekh kar apne apne Ghar jaane lage. Maine fir threater ka saman vapis truck mein rakhna shuru Kia. Pehle Maine sari chairs ko ek sath kar ke andar rakh dia. Fir maine projector bhi andar rakh dia. Ab tak raat ke 12:00 baj gaye honge. Aaj mere sath kaam mein madad karne ke liye helper bhi nahi tha. Usey sheher jaana pad Gaya tha. Maine jaldi jaldi apna saman andar rakha aur truck mein jaake baith gaya. Hotel Kam se kam 25 kilometre door tha aur mujhe laga ki raat ke is waqt gaon vale ilake mein truck chalana thik nahi hoga. Main bhi thak Gaya tha. Mere phone par ek notification aayi. Phone bahar nikala toh mere helper ka message tha. Message mein ye likha tha ki "Bhaiya meri naukri sheher ke meat house mein lag gayi hai, achi salary dete hain aur sirf hafte ke 4 din kaam karta padta hai, aap bolo toh aapki bhi baat karun unse" Mujhe uska message dekh ke ajeeb laga. Mera helper mujhse ye bolkar gaya tha ki use kuch kaam hai. Woh dusri naukri karne lagega Maine ye nahi socha tha. Khair. Mera koi mann nahi tha us sheher ki naukri ko karne ka. Firbhi, Maine aisehi usse puch lia ki salary kitni denge. Maine message send kar dia aur wait karne laga. 10 minute baad uska message aya. "10 hazaar per shift ka".
Yeh dekh kar meri aakhein khuli reh gayi. Main is truck ke sath gaon gaon mein show karke mahine ka sirf 15 hazaar kama pata tha. Wahan sheher ki naukri mein mujhe mahine ke 30 hazaar araam se mil jayenge. Thoda sochne ke baad maine helper ko message Kia aur bola "haan tum meri bhi baat karlo apne boss se" Usne "ok" bola. Maine dekha raat ke 1 baj gaye honge abtak. Mere andar ek ajeeb si urja aa rahi thi. Maine phone truck ke charging port pe laga dia aur sone lag gaya. Gaon mein kaafi sannata tha. Meri truck bhi gaon ke bahari area mein khadi thi. Mujhe sote huye ajeeb sa lag raha tha. Aisa lag raha tha ki koi dekh raha hai. Achanak mera phone Baja aur mera dil dhadakne laga phone ki awaz se. Maine phone dekha aur helper ke 3 message the. Is samay ab kyun message karega woh mujhe. Usne likha tha ki "boss aapka interview Lena chahte hain, abhi ajao". Aur teesre message mein ek location mili thi Jo yahan se kareeb 50 kilometre door hogi. Mujhe ajeeb laga. Bhala koi insan is waqt kyun interview lega. Maine helper ko message karke poocha ki is samay kyun Lena hai interview. Usne mujhe reply nahin dia. Yahan truck mein baithe baithe main mere hantho se chutki Baja Raha tha. Achanak se message aya aur mera phone Baja. Helper ma message tha. Usne likha tha ki "boss ko kal subah hi ek aadmi urgently chahiye"
Mujhe shak hua. Lekin paiso ki zarurat thi. Isiliye Maine use message bhej dia ki main aa raha hoon. Usney ok bheja.
Fir maine phone ke map par woh location daal di aur mujhe woh location nahi mili. Maine kayi baar search karne ki koshish ki lekin app mein "location not found" batata tha. Is baar Maine woh location directly nahi dali lekin uske pass ke ek restaurant ki location Dali. Is baar lag gayi. Woh jagah gaon se 3 ghante door hogi. Pahuchte pahuchte 4 baj jaate. Maine phone ko holder mein laga dia aur truck start ki aur chalane lag gaya. Gaon bohot hi chota tha aur main us gaon ki boundary ke bahar aa chuka tha. Samne chota sa post office tha. Maine truck roki kyuki mujhe pani ki zarurat thi. Ab tak main 25 kilometre door aa chuka tha aur 2:13 baj rahe the. Maine meri bottle mein paani bhara aur truck mein baith gaya. Post office band tha lekin use bagal mein ek water cooler tha. Khair maine truck start ki firse chalane ki koshish ki. Ajeeb sa lag raha tha shaam se. So bhi nahin paya. Truck chalate chalate neend aa rahi thi aur darr tha ki truck ka accident ho jayega. Maine mere muh pe pani mara aur firse driving shuru ki. Ab kareeb 3:20 baj rahe honge. Woh jagah mushkil se 7 kilometres door hogi. Yeh gaon bohot akela aur sunsaan lag raha tha. Sirf ek do Ghar the aur aage kuch dukaane. Ab woh jagah 4 kilometres door thi. Mera phone bhi off ho chuka tha. Main kisi tarah board padhke us office pahuch Gaya. Bahar se woh building office jaisi nahin lag rahi thi. Ek Ghar tha do manzil ka. Uske bahar 'meat depot' ka board laga tha. Mujhe interview Dene mein sirf 20 minute lage honge. Interview bohot ajeeb tha. Unhone aise sawal puche jaise kya tumne apni gaadi ko kabhi road pe akela chorha hai, kya tumne andhere se dar lagta hai? Kya tum dharm mein mante ho?. Aise sawal mujhe bahut ajeeb Lage. In sawalo ka meri truck shift se kya lena dena tha. Maine sabhi sawalo ka jawab ache se dia. Mujhe on the spot select kar lia tha. Mera kaam tha gaon mein meat products ko transport karna. Aur kisi wajah se yeh kaam sirf raat ko ho sakta hai aur mujhe gaon tak meat leke subah ke pehle pohochna tha. Mujhe paiso se matlab tha toh maine zyada kuch nahi socha.
Meri pehli shift raat ke 4 baje ki thi. Mujhe call par ek receptionist ne sab samjha dia ki mujhe kaunsa route Lena hai aur kaunse highway se Jana hai. Fir us receptionist ne mujhe ek voice note bheja aur bola ki shift pe jaane ke pehle ise sun Lena. Raat ko drive karne ke basic rules hain.
Maine use shukriya bola aur driving shuru ki. Main us purani road par pahuch Gaya Jiske bare me receptionist ne bataya tha. Road par aa kar maine uska voice note khola. Usme ye likha tha.
Hey driver! Welcome to our company. Tum ek experienced driver ho fir bhi ye kuch rules hain jo raat ko drive karne ke waqt tumhe follow karne padenge. Hamari company ki ek strict rule policy hai. Main sare rules tumne ek message mein bhej deta hoon. Ache se padh lena. Goodluck.
Yeh message thik nahi laga mujhe. Bhala driving karne ke liye kaunse rules lagte hain? Khair maine uska message khola. Usme yeh likha tha. - Apni high beam lights ko on rakhha aur on rakh ke hi truck chalana kyuki road par bohot andhera hota hai. Tumne kabhi kabhi Aisa lagega ki headlight on hone ke baad bhi bohot andhera hai lekin us baat se parshan mat hona. Gaadi chalate jana.
-Pehle 10 kilometre cover karne ke baad tumhe ek "dead end" ka sign dikhega. Uspae dhyan mat Dena aur truck chalate jaana. Agar tumhari lights flicker karna shuru kar de toh gaadi tez chalana aur tab tak chalana jab tak flickering na ruk jaaye.
-Thodi der truck chalane ke baad kareeb 4:20 pe tumhe road par ek aadmi milega. Yaad se apni gadi rokna aur usse poochna ki use Kahan jaana hai. Agar woh "nearest town" bole toh use andar baitha lena. Agar woh kuch aur bole toh chalate jaana, rukna mat aur prathna karna ki woh tumhare peeche na aaye.
-Agar tumne us aadmi ko andar aane dia, toh woh kareeb ek ghante ke liye chup rahega. Fir woh tumse bolega ki uska stop aa gaya hai. Tum use bina kuch soche utar Dena. Aur jaise hi woh utar jaaye, gaadi chalana shuru kardena aur use raat ke andhere mein chalte huye mat dekhna.
-Abtak tumne 25 kilometres cover kar liye honge. Agar 25 kilometre ke baad tumhe truck ke peeche se thokne ya rone ki awaaz aane lage toh uspar dhyan mat Dena. Yeh awaz jaldi band ho jayegi agar tum ek consistent speed par truck chalaoge.
-30th kilometer par pahuchne ke pehle apna radio band kar dena. Agar woh abhi Tak chal raha tha toh yaad se band kar dena. Sirf volume dheemi karne se kuch nahin hoga.
-Jaise hi tum 35 kilometre cover karoge. Tumhara radio achanak se on ho jayega aur woh highest volume par hoga. Yahan dhyan dena. Agar koi gana start hota hai toh use band kar dena. Lekin agar tumne sirf static sunai deti hai toh turant apni truck aur engine ki band karke seat pe let Jana aur apni aakhein band kar lena.
-Hilne ki koshish mat karna aur aakhein band rakhna. Tumhe truck ke upar aur windshield par tapping sunai degi lekin udhar mat dekhna. Shayad woh tumhari truck ke andar aa jaye lekin tum hilna mat. Jo bhi hai, thodi der mein chala jayega.
-Jab awaz aana band ho jaye tab tum apni aakhein khol sakte ho. Dheere se aankh khol kar driver seat par dekhna. Agar uspar dhua hoga toh ek aur minute wait karna fir truck ko start kar lena.
-50 kilometre paar karne ke baad tumhari truck ke sath sath kuch chaar pairo par bhagna shuru kardega. Tum jitna tez gadi chala lo, firbhi woh sath bhagta rahega. It is advised ki tum atleast 60mph ki speed maintain Karo. Road par dhyan rakhna. Aage ek curve aayega aur us curve ke baad woh chala jayega.
-Agar us curve ke baad bhi woh tumhara peecha kar raha hai, toh prathna karna ki agle curve par woh chala jaye. Tumhare pass sirf 3 curves hain. Dhyan rakhna.
-70 kilometre ko paar karne ke baad tumhari truck achanak se band ho jayegi. Shant rehna aur engine on karne ki koshish karna. Apne rearview mirror mein mat dekhna. Woh log tumhari taraf aa rahe honge. Dhyan mat Dena. Jaise hi gadi shuru ho jaye vahan se nikal jaana.
-80 kilometre ke milestone ke baad truck mein ajeeb si garmi ho jayegi. Ac kisi kaam ka nahin. Apni jacket utaar Lena. Lekin jo bhi ho jaye, khidki mat kholna.
-Sone kosish mat karna. Woh road seedhi jaati hai lekin agar tumne aankhein band karne ki koshish ki toh tum dekhoge ki tumhari truck ek khai ke neeche jaa rahi hai.

• Kareeb 10 minute baad tumhe ek ped ke neeche chaar kaale pathhar dikhenge. Agar un pattharo par laal sindoor ho toh gaadi chalate rehta. Agar tumne dekhna ki pathhar par sindoor nahin hai.

-Agar bathroom Jana pad jaaye toh truck ki beam light mein reh kar hi karna aur gaadi se door mat jana.
-Agar bahar nikalte waqt tumhe truck ke peeche koi dikhe, toh uska peecha karne ki koshish mat karna. Woh tumhe truck ke aas paas ghuma ke tumhara time barbad karega. Woh chahta hai tum bahar raho. Aisa mat hone dena.
-Agar truck ke bahar bathroom ke dauraan tumne side se chillane ki awaz aaye toh chahe jo ho jaye sab kuch chorh ke truck ke andar bhagna aur truck vahan se nikaal Lena.
-Mileage ke bawajood, thodi der baad tumhara phone bajna shuru hoga. No matter who is calling you, don't pick it up. Caller koi bhi ho sakta hai, main bhi. Woh caller tumhe message karne ke pehle teen baar call karega. Please woh call mat uthana. Agar 3 baar uski call miss kar doge toh woh tumhe ek message bhejega, use mat kholna.
-110 kilometre ke baad tumhe dusri trucks ki headlight tumhari taraf aati dikhegi. Agar aisa ho toh apne truck ki lights aur engine band karke un trucks ke jaane ka weight karna. Repeat this step for ahy other vehicle you see.
-Apne rearview mirror par dhyan dena. Agar koi bhi truck turn lekar tumhare peeche aati dikhe toh apni gaadi ki speed badha Lena aur jald se jald wahan se nikalna. Prarthna karna ki tum unse tez ho.
-120 kilometre par tumhe ek "speed limit 20mph" ka sign dikhega. Apni truck utne hi dheere chalana kyuki zyada sound aisi cheezon ko attract kar sakta hai jinse tum milna nahin chahte. Thodi der baad NH 19 road par ek aur sign dikhega aur wahan se tum apni speed normal kar sakte ho
-130 kilometre par tumhe road ke side pe khadi ek aurat dikhegi, woh lift maang rahi hogi. Jo bhi ho jaye please use lift mat Dena aur apni gaadi dheemi mat karna. Jab tum us aurat ko pass kar jao toh apne rearview mirror me dekhna. Agar woh abhi bhi road par hi hai toh tum safe ho. Agar woh road par na dikhe toh gaadi seedhi chalana aur bhool kar bhi apni passenger seat par mat dekhna, bhale koi Naa ho udhar.
-140 kilometre paar karne ke baad tum mirzapur district mein pahuch jaoge. Yahan se tumhari journey clear hai.
-Chahe jo bhi ho jaye, journey ke kisi bhi point par apni truck turn karke wapis drive karne ki koshish mat karna. Aisa karne se tum ek loop mein phas jaoge aur tabtak drive karte reh jaoge jabtak tumhara petrol na khatam ho jaye. Agar petrol khatam hota hai toh tumhara sahara koi nahin.
-Mirzapur district pahuchne ke pehle apna gps use karne ki koshish mat karna. Agar tum Aisa karte ho toh gps tumhe ek purani road par le jayega jiska koi ant nahin hoga.
Goodluck. Regards.
No cherry.

So the thing is padhai ab ho nahi Rahi bas ho gaya ab nahi hota. 26 ko jee advanced hai papa keh rahe hai isliye Dena padega mujhe nhi lag raha Mera kuchh ho bhi payega. Ab kuchh feel bhi nhi ho Raha
Na padhai ho pa Rahi hai na kisi aur chijh par Kam kar raha hu bas roj uth raha hu kha raha hu aur bas room par pade reh Raha hu. Idk what I am feeling right now.smjh nhi aa raha udas hu, depression hai,ki bas ye sab mere hi dimag me hai
Iske baare me kisi se baat bhi nhi kar pa raha. Sochta hu bohot saare log hai jo mere situation me hai sab to nahi kar rahe randi Rona to Mai kyu aisa feel kar raha hu. Na kuchh karne ka Mann kar raha hai na kisi baat karne ka. ye sab karne ka bas soch Raha hu
Finally socha kisi se baat Karu but apne dosto se ye saari chijhe bolu kaise? Mai to grp ka funny Banda hu na .kaise Karu randi Rona Fir socha ik dost hai ladki bhi hai(use psnd bhi karta hu but kabhi bola nhi) sayad wo smjhe So uske samne kiya ye sab randi Rona Guess what uska reply tha "ho gaya, Mai jau sone?" I feel like shit Do din se baat bhi nhi hue meri Usne bhi kuchh MSG nhi kiya Do din me exam hai and mujhe kuchh smjh nhi aa raha Sayad bhagwan ne hi dimag Kam Diya ho (Aur ha dropper hu aur pichhle saal se bhi rank gir gayi hai aur koi bhi dhang ka college nhi mil Raha Tin saal se Kota me bhi tha ) Mera to metal health Puri trh se chud Gaya hai Apna dekh lo tum log Yaha Tak padh liya ho agar kuchh galat Lage to please mujhe mat batana Mera dimag already kharab hai

Toh mene har din har ladki se interaction kri, sbka insta leke gc bnadia, ab around 300 shadia krra hu, already 10 bache hogaye h, but unke sirf 810/800 aare toh idts ki unhe north ya south campus milega, baki dahej me leta nahi 🥰

Storytime
This event happened on 15th of this month so my fellas I'm a week late to tell my homies this story( kya karu procastination ki gandi aadat ho rakhi hai). English aur General Test ka paper tha mera aur centre ek KV tha mere ghar se around 23 km dur (which I fucking hated). Let's skip to the main part. Mera room waha ke ek class 12th ka classroom tha jaha par 24-25 students ki capacity thi aur mera row gate ke opposite side tha aur mera bench window ke paas. Maine apna bench dekha to dimaag kharab ho gya, behenchodo ne ek small bench aur usse bhi chhoti ek plastic ki chair thama di. Only 4-5 students got such small benches and even those with the small benches like me got a way better chair unlike me( ek ke paas to ghumne wali chair thi🙂). I was frustated as fuck aur uss time class me around bas 10 students the. Gusse mein maine apne pichhe wale bench pe baith gya jo kaafi sahi tha. 10 mins ke baad ek cute girl enters the room. She was wearing a red t-shirt, was fair skin(though I don't care about it much) and was wearing pink specs. She was coming straight towards me so I thought seat uski hi hogi jispe mein viraajmaan hu aur aisa hi hua. She asked me to shift to the seat next to her but I asked her to seat on that seat. I accepted her plead and shifted to the seat next to her. 10 mins later a dude comes and asks me if this seat on which I was sitting was his and I said " Baith jao maine mana kab kiya bhai" (audacity dekho meri). 15 mins later the invigilator comes and I told him about the problem with my chair and he replies "Pichhle shift ka student ispe baith gya tha" which angered me more. I told him ki kuchh karo nahi to exam kisi aur ki seat pe baith kar hi de dunga to usne principal se baat kar batane ko kaha. Usne tab tak mere seat ko iss tarah se arrange karwa diya ki mein thik thak se baith saku.
Meri pichhe wali ladki se meri baat hona shuru ho jaati hai. Mereko chhod ke baaki sab log commerce ke the to usne mera % puchh boards ka. Maine insist kiya ki wo pehle bataye. Usne 70% bola aur thoda uske insist karne pe maine apna bataya 93%. Wo mujhe mujhe topper topper kehke chhidhane lagi par mujhe utna farak nahi para. English exam ke baad ek ghante ka jo break mila usme hamari bahut jyada baat hui. Convo usne start ki aur kya hi sahi tarah se baat hui ham dono ki. Maine uske future plans puchhe ki wo CUET de rahi hai to usse further DU mein Karori Mal jaisa koi college chahiye hoga to which she said ki usse BHU mein chahiye kyuki Bihar and UP are like brother states and the people are too similar. I asked any other reason to which she said nope and I replied " Banaras se pyaar hai kya tumhe", she blushed and said no. Mind you ye shaari baatein aankhon me aankhein daal ke ho rahi thi and the eye contact was not broken unless we were disturbed by the other students around us. We further talked about what we both wanted and she somewhat got emotional and said to me that being a girl is somewhat harsh and even harsher being a single girl child to parents coming from a conservative background. She told me that she had to be limited in her dreams as girls are not supposed to dream big in a country like ours which I supported saying I too have a younger sister for whom I always want the best. She told me marriage is the last option if she fails in her academics. It was nice seeing her trusting me to tell such things or either she was just an open person to all and I was just thinking too much. Nevertheless maine uska naam roll slip pe padh rakha tha to maine usko uske naam se bulaya to which she asked in excitement where I got to know her name. Usne apni pichhe wali ladkli ( jo apparently uski dost thi maybe) ko bataya ki main kitna intelligent hu( nahi hu tbh). Batana bhul gya ki wo mere hi city se hai par uska ghar mere se 25 km dur hai. Humne apne previous school ke baarein me baat kari to usne bola ki wo DAV se padhi hai. Maine usko bataya ki waha to mera boards ka centre tha aur wild guess karke bola ki kahi wo mere school se hi toh nahi. BINGO! guess sahi tha aur wo mere hi dummy school se thi, usne bhi wahi se flying kiya tha aur jab mera guess sahi hua toh mera arm ko jor se hilane lagi aur kahi ki batao nujhe ye sab kaise maloom ( she was looking bloody cute though and I was somewhat embarrased seeing so many dudes looking at me like I had ordered them to give both their kidneys to me). Itne mein wahi chutiya invigilator aake bahut dhimme se kehta hai "pyaar hi karle". Mere aage baithe dono laundo ko sunai de diya par mein aur wo cutie, lets call her X; ko sunai nahi diya. Gusse me maine bhi jor se keh diya ki ab kuchh bolega to pel dunga( uss invigilator ne sun liya tha). X se meri aur kuchh der baat hui aur maine puchha ki kya uski tabiyat kharab hai ( very chutiya thing to ask to keep the convo going) to usne ye bhi detail se bataya ki usko bhookar kaise aur kyu hua. Usne apne luck ke baarein mein bataya jo mujhse to better hi tha. Usno bola ki wo Hanuman Mandir jaati hai exam ke din aure maine uske head aur neck par laal tika notice kiya aur point out kiya, aur shayad neck wale tike pe thoda jyada hi concentrate kar diya. Ye sab ke baad General Test start hone ke pehle usne mere back pe halka hit karke all the best bola aur mujh jaise chutiye ne ye baat usko return mein nahi bola, no wonder aaj bhi itna bada chutiya hu.
General Test ke baad bhadwo ne hame jaldi jaano ko kaha aur humlog waha se nikal gaye. Wo apne dosto ke saath chali gyi aur me akela chala gya. Uska mobile number ya insta id kuchh nahi le paaya aur chutiyo jaisa chala aaya. Kuchh connection to bana tha hum dono ke bichch cuz the eyes Chico they never lie. Par kya karu yahi ziwan hai aage badhte rehna parega . Kaash kuchh bhi usse related le leta to aaj meri bhi baatein ho rahi hoti. And to all my homies out there, all it takes is little bit of confidence to talk to any girl. I'm somewhat above average in looks but still have improved significantly in starting a convo.
TLDR :- Met a cutie in CUET exam and striked a great convo with her but couldn't get her number.

Storytime
This event happened on 15th of this month so my fellas I'm a week late to tell my homies this story( kya karu procastination ki gandi aadat ho rakhi hai). English aur General Test ka paper tha mera aur centre ek KV tha mere ghar se around 23 km dur (which I fucking hated). Let's skip to the main part. Mera room waha ke ek class 12th ka classroom tha jaha par 24-25 students ki capacity thi aur mera row gate ke opposite side tha aur mera bench window ke paas. Maine apna bench dekha to dimaag kharab ho gya, behenchodo ne ek small bench aur usse bhi chhoti ek plastic ki chair thama di. Only 4-5 students got such small benches and even those with the small benches like me got a way better chair unlike me( ek ke paas to ghumne wali chair thi🙂). I was frustated as fuck aur uss time class me around bas 10 students the. Gusse mein maine apne pichhe wale bench pe baith gya jo kaafi sahi tha. 10 mins ke baad ek cute girl enters the room. She was wearing a red t-shirt, was fair skin(though I don't care about it much) and was wearing pink specs. She was coming straight towards me so I thought seat uski hi hogi jispe mein viraajmaan hu aur aisa hi hua. She asked me to shift to the seat next to her but I asked her to seat on that seat. I accepted her plead and shifted to the seat next to her. 10 mins later a dude comes and asks me if this seat on which I was sitting was his and I said " Baith jao maine mana kab kiya bhai" (audacity dekho meri). 15 mins later the invigilator comes and I told him about the problem with my chair and he replies "Pichhle shift ka student ispe baith gya tha" which angered me more. I told him ki kuchh karo nahi to exam kisi aur ki seat pe baith kar hi de dunga to usne principal se baat kar batane ko kaha. Usne tab tak mere seat ko iss tarah se arrange karwa diya ki mein thik thak se baith saku.
Meri pichhe wali ladki se meri baat hona shuru ho jaati hai. Mereko chhod ke baaki sab log commerce ke the to usne mera % puchh boards ka. Maine insist kiya ki wo pehle bataye. Usne 70% bola aur thoda uske insist karne pe maine apna bataya 93%. Wo mujhe mujhe topper topper kehke chhidhane lagi par mujhe utna farak nahi para. English exam ke baad ek ghante ka jo break mila usme hamari bahut jyada baat hui. Convo usne start ki aur kya hi sahi tarah se baat hui ham dono ki. Maine uske future plans puchhe ki wo CUET de rahi hai to usse further DU mein Karori Mal jaisa koi college chahiye hoga to which she said ki usse BHU mein chahiye kyuki Bihar and UP are like brother states and the people are too similar. I asked any other reason to which she said nope and I replied " Banaras se pyaar hai kya tumhe", she blushed and said no. Mind you ye shaari baatein aankhon me aankhein daal ke ho rahi thi and the eye contact was not broken unless we were disturbed by the other students around us. We further talked about what we both wanted and she somewhat got emotional and said to me that being a girl is somewhat harsh and even harsher being a single girl child to parents coming from a conservative background. She told me that she had to be limited in her dreams as girls are not supposed to dream big in a country like ours which I supported saying I too have a younger sister for whom I always want the best. She told me marriage is the last option if she fails in her academics. It was nice seeing her trusting me to tell such things or either she was just an open person to all and I was just thinking too much. Nevertheless maine uska naam roll slip pe padh rakha tha to maine usko uske naam se bulaya to which she asked in excitement where I got to know her name. Usne apni pichhe wali ladkli ( jo apparently uski dost thi maybe) ko bataya ki main kitna intelligent hu( nahi hu tbh). Batana bhul gya ki wo mere hi city se hai par uska ghar mere se 25 km dur hai. Humne apne previous school ke baarein me baat kari to usne bola ki wo DAV se padhi hai. Maine usko bataya ki waha to mera boards ka centre tha aur wild guess karke bola ki kahi wo mere school se hi toh nahi. BINGO! guess sahi tha aur wo mere hi dummy school se thi, usne bhi wahi se flying kiya tha aur jab mera guess sahi hua toh mera arm ko jor se hilane lagi aur kahi ki batao nujhe ye sab kaise maloom ( she was looking bloody cute though and I was somewhat embarrased seeing so many dudes looking at me like I had ordered them to give both their kidneys to me). Itne mein wahi chutiya invigilator aake bahut dhimme se kehta hai "pyaar hi karle". Mere aage baithe dono laundo ko sunai de diya par mein aur wo cutie, lets call her X; ko sunai nahi diya. Gusse me maine bhi jor se keh diya ki ab kuchh bolega to pel dunga( uss invigilator ne sun liya tha). X se meri aur kuchh der baat hui aur maine puchha ki kya uski tabiyat kharab hai ( very chutiya thing to ask to keep the convo going) to usne ye bhi detail se bataya ki usko bhookar kaise aur kyu hua. Usne apne luck ke baarein mein bataya jo mujhse to better hi tha. Usno bola ki wo Hanuman Mandir jaati hai exam ke din aure maine uske head aur neck par laal tika notice kiya aur point out kiya, aur shayad neck wale tike pe thoda jyada hi concentrate kar diya. Ye sab ke baad General Test start hone ke pehle usne mere back pe halka hit karke all the best bola aur mujh jaise chutiye ne ye baat usko return mein nahi bola, no wonder aaj bhi itna bada chutiya hu.
General Test ke baad bhadwo ne hame jaldi jaano ko kaha aur humlog waha se nikal gaye. Wo apne dosto ke saath chali gyi aur me akela chala gya. Uska mobile number ya insta id kuchh nahi le paaya aur chutiyo jaisa chala aaya. Kuchh connection to bana tha hum dono ke bichch cuz the eyes Chico they never lie. Par kya karu yahi ziwan hai aage badhte rehna parega . Kaash kuchh bhi usse related le leta to aaj meri bhi baatein ho rahi hoti. And to all my homies out there, all it takes is little bit of confidence to talk to any girl. I'm somewhat above average in looks but still have improved significantly in starting a convo.
TLDR :- Met a cutie in CUET exam and striked a great convo with her but couldn't get her number.

Storytime
This event happened on 15th of this month so my fellas I'm a week late to tell my homies this story( kya karu procastination ki gandi aadat ho rakhi hai). English aur General Test ka paper tha mera aur centre ek KV tha mere ghar se around 23 km dur (which I fucking hated). Let's skip to the main part. Mera room waha ke ek class 12th ka classroom tha jaha par 24-25 students ki capacity thi aur mera row gate ke opposite side tha aur mera bench window ke paas. Maine apna bench dekha to dimaag kharab ho gya, behenchodo ne ek small bench aur usse bhi chhoti ek plastic ki chair thama di. Only 4-5 students got such small benches and even those with the small benches like me got a way better chair unlike me( ek ke paas to ghumne wali chair thi🙂). I was frustated as fuck aur uss time class me around bas 10 students the. Gusse mein maine apne pichhe wale bench pe baith gya jo kaafi sahi tha. 10 mins ke baad ek cute girl enters the room. She was wearing a red t-shirt, was fair skin(though I don't care about it much) and was wearing pink specs. She was coming straight towards me so I thought seat uski hi hogi jispe mein viraajmaan hu aur aisa hi hua. She asked me to shift to the seat next to her but I asked her to seat on that seat. I accepted her plead and shifted to the seat next to her. 10 mins later a dude comes and asks me if this seat on which I was sitting was his and I said " Baith jao maine mana kab kiya bhai" (audacity dekho meri). 15 mins later the invigilator comes and I told him about the problem with my chair and he replies "Pichhle shift ka student ispe baith gya tha" which angered me more. I told him ki kuchh karo nahi to exam kisi aur ki seat pe baith kar hi de dunga to usne principal se baat kar batane ko kaha. Usne tab tak mere seat ko iss tarah se arrange karwa diya ki mein thik thak se baith saku.
Meri pichhe wali ladki se meri baat hona shuru ho jaati hai. Mereko chhod ke baaki sab log commerce ke the to usne mera % puchh boards ka. Maine insist kiya ki wo pehle bataye. Usne 70% bola aur thoda uske insist karne pe maine apna bataya 93%. Wo mujhe mujhe topper topper kehke chhidhane lagi par mujhe utna farak nahi para. English exam ke baad ek ghante ka jo break mila usme hamari bahut jyada baat hui. Convo usne start ki aur kya hi sahi tarah se baat hui ham dono ki. Maine uske future plans puchhe ki wo CUET de rahi hai to usse further DU mein Karori Mal jaisa koi college chahiye hoga to which she said ki usse BHU mein chahiye kyuki Bihar and UP are like brother states and the people are too similar. I asked any other reason to which she said nope and I replied " Banaras se pyaar hai kya tumhe", she blushed and said no. Mind you ye shaari baatein aankhon me aankhein daal ke ho rahi thi and the eye contact was not broken unless we were disturbed by the other students around us. We further talked about what we both wanted and she somewhat got emotional and said to me that being a girl is somewhat harsh and even harsher being a single girl child to parents coming from a conservative background. She told me that she had to be limited in her dreams as girls are not supposed to dream big in a country like ours which I supported saying I too have a younger sister for whom I always want the best. She told me marriage is the last option if she fails in her academics. It was nice seeing her trusting me to tell such things or either she was just an open person to all and I was just thinking too much. Nevertheless maine uska naam roll slip pe padh rakha tha to maine usko uske naam se bulaya to which she asked in excitement where I got to know her name. Usne apni pichhe wali ladkli ( jo apparently uski dost thi maybe) ko bataya ki main kitna intelligent hu( nahi hu tbh). Batana bhul gya ki wo mere hi city se hai par uska ghar mere se 25 km dur hai. Humne apne previous school ke baarein me baat kari to usne bola ki wo DAV se padhi hai. Maine usko bataya ki waha to mera boards ka centre tha aur wild guess karke bola ki kahi wo mere school se hi toh nahi. BINGO! guess sahi tha aur wo mere hi dummy school se thi, usne bhi wahi se flying kiya tha aur jab mera guess sahi hua toh mera arm ko jor se hilane lagi aur kahi ki batao nujhe ye sab kaise maloom ( she was looking bloody cute though and I was somewhat embarrased seeing so many dudes looking at me like I had ordered them to give both their kidneys to me). Itne mein wahi chutiya invigilator aake bahut dhimme se kehta hai "pyaar hi karle". Mere aage baithe dono laundo ko sunai de diya par mein aur wo cutie, lets call her X; ko sunai nahi diya. Gusse me maine bhi jor se keh diya ki ab kuchh bolega to pel dunga( uss invigilator ne sun liya tha). X se meri aur kuchh der baat hui aur maine puchha ki kya uski tabiyat kharab hai ( very chutiya thing to ask to keep the convo going) to usne ye bhi detail se bataya ki usko bhookar kaise aur kyu hua. Usne apne luck ke baarein mein bataya jo mujhse to better hi tha. Usno bola ki wo Hanuman Mandir jaati hai exam ke din aure maine uske head aur neck par laal tika notice kiya aur point out kiya, aur shayad neck wale tike pe thoda jyada hi concentrate kar diya. Ye sab ke baad General Test start hone ke pehle usne mere back pe halka hit karke all the best bola aur mujh jaise chutiye ne ye baat usko return mein nahi bola, no wonder aaj bhi itna bada chutiya hu.
General Test ke baad bhadwo ne hame jaldi jaano ko kaha aur humlog waha se nikal gaye. Wo apne dosto ke saath chali gyi aur me akela chala gya. Uska mobile number ya insta id kuchh nahi le paaya aur chutiyo jaisa chala aaya. Kuchh connection to bana tha hum dono ke bichch cuz the eyes Chico they never lie. Par kya karu yahi ziwan hai aage badhte rehna parega . Kaash kuchh bhi usse related le leta to aaj meri bhi baatein ho rahi hoti. And to all my homies out there, all it takes is little bit of confidence to talk to any girl. I'm somewhat above average in looks but still have improved significantly in starting a convo.
TLDR :- Met a cutie in CUET exam and striked a great convo with her but couldn't get her number.

so pls dont laugh or abuse me , jinko experience hai mujhe batao how to get out of this , i am stuck in loop .so there is a girl jise mai telegram par mila , she used to ask me doubt then dheere dheere we started talking and became close friends . and she was too nice to me , its not like maine pehle kisi ladki se baat nahi ki , i was never attracted to those , but she gave me emotional support aur bohot achi ladki thi but now it feels like is she just a nice girl ,
like if she is nice to everyone then mai toh kuch bhi nahi hoon , and now i like her main corn addict tha uske milne ke baad kab chordiya pata hi nahi chala
so yea i tried to cut out from her but sometime she makes me feel special and mai wapas pighal jata then again uska hota fir again she makes me feel special , and i am in loop now
and i get her in my dreams and pura time dimag ma ghusi rehti
and i dont know if she really likes me
or i am just a source of entertainment
pls help jee drop yr hai usko dimag se kaise nikalun
edit 1 - i tried to talking to other girls but now i have lost interest in all girls except her

So I (23M) have this female friend (23F) who happens to be my school mate. She had a breakup recently (read 4 months ago) and it was a 2 year relationship. Since then we both are hanging out frequently and before her breakup we used to chat on insta only (note : not on WhatsApp).
Now after her breakup suddenly I have entered her life (as a friend only) as my CAT exam was over and I am about to join a B-school so I was like I can hangout with her cauz vo bhi velli hai (she's planning to take a career break for 6 months and go to a different city to her grandparents) and me bhi vella hun (about to join a B-school soon). She gave me her number and we both are hanging out from the past 3 months now. It's not like she doesn't have friends okay? She got friends. She's richer than me and so are her building friends! Say I'm 100 then she's 200. Still she'll ditch her building friends many times and come out with me for long walks and eating food outside :) When I asked her the reason for this..... She's like you aren't a judgemental person (which is true), I like the way how you treat me and communicate with me, you are a safe person etc. Like okay, I look above avg maybe, I got good flirting skills and I treat girls like a gentleman and all but I look at her building and office friends.. they are still much better than me (atleast in terms of looks and money). Still she will hangout with me :)
Now here's the main part... In the past 3-4 weeks I have started to visit her home. Usually her mom's there and aunty knows me cauz I was with her from the school time. I visited her place 7-8 times till now in last 3-4 weeks. Uski mummy thi hamesha. What we used to do? We used to talk, eat and watch IPL matches etc. Ps. We used to be in her living room/hall only. Not in her bedroom as it's a 2bhk flat and 1 room is occupied by her mom and other by her grandparents (her father stays in Dubai so uncle ka savaal nahi aata).2 nights ago I was at her place till 12:30 and we both were sitting on her sofa. Her mother and grandparents were sleeping in their respective rooms and there came a moment where while we were talking we were looking into each other's eyes continuously. And then our hands touched but she moved it away quickly but again.... It didn't result in any awkwardness or anything. Now today while we both were coming back from Nerul by a cab to her place (I usually drop her and then I'll go to my home), she said me she's sleepy and then I told her if she wants she can keep her head on my shoulder and sleep till we reach her place to which she agreed. And after 3-4 mins she grabbed my arm and took a nap.
She again invited me at her place and as usual aunty was also there.. she served us dinner and she went to sleep around 10:30 PM and it was both of us again in her living room. And then she told me what I wanted to hear : "Yaar tere jaisa best friend chahiye! Jo cheeze aage naa badhaye aur dosti ko dosti tak hi rakhe" to which I replied "Ye kahase aa raha h? 😂) And she's like "Itna close me kisi aur bande ke saath rehti to vo chance maarta , yaha waha chuta yaa I love you hi bol deta but tune aisa kuch nahi kiya and that is the reason why I prefer to hangout with you". And then I was like "Tum ladkiya kisi ek ladke ko itna special feel karaogi etc to bande ko lagega hi naa ki feelings hai ladki ko" and then she was like "Haan, but dosti aisi bhi to ho sakti hai naa?" To which I said yes..... Cauz I have female close friends with whom I hangout.. and I have made a post related to it previously on this sub (Just giving the proofs before someone labels me as a guy who doesn't have female friends etc etc...) https://www.reddit.com/mumbai/s/8Ic4rSGWUt https://www.reddit.com/mumbai/s/Pen95E4e28
So yeah, for me having such close female friends is normal but is this type really normal? You ditch your building/office friends for one particular person frequently, you spend most of your time with him, go on shopping with him, long walks and lunch/dinner etc! Mind you.... I even went with her the Nexus Mall where she was purchasing clothes for her and at one point she purchased a bra and she asked me if it'll be okay (basically she brought a white netted top and wanted a coloured bra to wear inside) and this was something unusual for me vese to cauz never ever in my entire life I have went out with a girl and she purchased a bra after taking my suggestion 💀 Although spontaneous decision tha uska vo netted top leneka but still.. AND! she has a private account where she posts her pics which are kinda hot and revealing and now a days she's taking suggestions from me ki konsa pic daalu? Which wasn't the case a few weeks ago (let me tell.. those pics are kinda explicit and I won't really expect my friend to send me those pics and ask if this is okay or she should change her pose or try wearing something different).
Also, just to clear the air... She looks good and all but it's mostly platonic. Dost hai acchi. And after the convo which I mentioned above it's pretty clear that neither she's looking for a relationship nor a fwb or anything (I thought about it from every angle) And I'm okay with it cauz going forward with anything else with her will ruin our friendship.
BUT!
Is this level of friendship normal? Cauz kuch experiences to pehle nhi hue the ( sleeping on my shoulder I'll still consider normal... But that private account thing and purchasing a bra etc I don't think it's normal?) Do you do this or do you have such close female mates? Also, my mom will never ever leave me alone with a girl in the hall and go to sleep (that too after 10-11 PM) 😭😂 Her mom is so fuckin chill!! Ye sab jo ho raha hai normal hai kya or I'm overthinking?

Train - 11402 DOJ - 21/05/24 Coach - B1
So I (21M) was assigned upper berth and there was a 60+ man who was assigned middle berth. At 7:30pm he says I want to sleep and will lower the MB, I said it is too early and I don’t wanna sit on UB.
He says ok, sleep after a while. I agreed to go to sleep at 8:30. Literally 15 minutes later he starts again that he wants to sleep, again I refused, who TF sleeps at 7:45pm.
He starts getting riled up and then begins typical drama shouting: 1. How can you back answer me (ulte jawab) 2. Have consideration for my age 3. I have booked the seat, you have to get up 4. Is this your upbringing 5. Does it suit today’s youth to trouble us old people 6. Main bhi dekhta hu kaise nahi chhodta seat. 7. Is train ka TTE meri pehchan ka hai
I say the rules allow me to occupy the berth till 10 and if you don’t stop ruckus I will exercise my right. He is like there’s no such rule blah blah.
I say contain yourself and if you have so much problem, get TTE and then we’ll see, he goes “why should I call TTE, you call”. I just say ‘your need so you do, i will not leave the seat’
That guy ran throughout AC coaches just to get the TTE to our coach but to no avail. Then starts calling OBHS and coach supervisor and does drama ‘Mai cancer patient hoon, bohot door jana hai, baccha badtameez hai, mujhe pareshaan kiya ja raja hai etc’
The staff tells him rules are rules and they can’t do anything.
Ab pichle 1 ghante se ghoorta baitha hai. Uski aur bhi jyada jal rahi hai kyuki mai phone pe chat krte waqt smile kar raha hu.
Gajab log hai yaar, kise se kuch chahiye to maangne ka tarika hota hai, kisi ke baap ki jagir nahi hai, public transport hai train.
End of rant.
Edit: Guys stop assuming he asked nicely. He was behaving in an entitled way. Me & the LB passenger asked him multiple times ki 40-50 minute ki baat hai, aaram se baith jao. He Did everything else instead of sitting quietly. Then started drama ki patient hoon, how do you even believe that someone is a patient after the BS.

So thoda rantish hai but ab itna depress hogaya , andar se khoon bahar bhagna chahta hai har taana sunke ....ghar pe sun sunke baatein itna sad hu ki pata nahi kya karu ...boards cbse mein 92.2 hai and mains me 98.21 percentile and bitsat me 247....kuch thikthak mil sakta hai ispe tho bata do jo reputated ho ....samaj ki nak katai ki daar se reputation of colg imporatnat ban gai ma baap ki ....help kardo pls hoe sake tho...bohot cuties ho saare ke saare jo help kardega, meri 100 positive vibes tumhe har help pe

my biggest mistake was putting didi bhaiyas over teachers just because some guy was iitian and got a rank associated by few numbers which they got probably by their hardwork and coincidences which i judged and fllowing their footpath fucked my jee i am not blaming them but its my responsibily and judgement that i fucked,want to elaborate a little was not knowing about jee till 11th last enrolledd in board coaching as i got my first personal space and device + a little bit of freedom to roam a little bit got s distracted that not even at end day was able to study with my full potential before my boards got 78% in 12 and if i tell you not to flex that i got 97% in 10th boards and won state level maths olmpiad in 9th say yes i was bright enough you could say i was in 1 percent of my class till 10th not involved with any fucking social media a perfect timer waking at 4 going for jogs playing football in morning and to tell i was selected for playoffs for state team untial comes the 2020 the year of my downfall involved i gaming and all and yess somewhere i feel my parents provided more than i deserve every thing i asked they got those things on my table the next day i was having a gaming pc in class 9 when things just started got my ipad in 11th and as i have a brother i got myself a gaming laptop for personal use whatever i haven't used it fully till date so there was plenty of resourses with me but i had only wrong ideas to use it till here life goes good to tell you my parents dont care about my grades till last year (yes i am a dropper aage suno) then thaught kar lega itna overachieverr hai they probably dindnt know much abot jee and all till last year vey much so last year i got 68 %percentile my father asked me to take a addmission anywhere and continue my studies now whre the real downfall starts my all friends were taking drop for jee that where your heros of youtube come in with all iitbombay edits i was so overjoyed by hypes of iits and thiers aluminies that i convinced my parents to take drop he asked me where you want to study yes another climax went to kota for drop year statring of months were good i was so into studies i tell you igot in good routine here gave my first test got a pretty decent marks to my hyping oof iits got more higher but now the teachers started changing and as it was everything new for me i saw students who were previsiosly in kota and then took a drop started to leave classes and doing it on youtube i also went there yes things saterted to worsen got best backlogs you could imagine so nothing futher chapter i was able to study now here comes entry of agent 247 he speaks notes faad do gaand faad do ye kardo woh kardo prepration apne haath me lo maa chudaye coaching wale and yes i did it now padh to leta tha ques bhi bana leta tha ekk test me 187 marks aaye the fir kyuki pure hafte padha tha part test me here comes october relible se koi banda suciide karliya to test were dismised the only motivation for me to study was gone jeendal ki sankalp ki kabhi ye stategy kabhi wo plus kota ka distraction december me test hota hai got 56 marks samjh nahi aa raha kya karu left studies as got preety much fucked by kota food got food poisning and jaundice for 2 weeks fir jee jan attempts me jo aata tha jitna padha tha attempt karke aaya and got 76 percentile machudgayi plus exam bhi pada to kab 27 ki first shift mai bola aage dekhte hai went to coaching for revision waha pe aur dimag kharab kar diye teacher advnace mains ye woh kya karu samjh nai aya wo bhi chud gaya na marks aaye na test accha jaye now next 1 month sankalp mahamanushya shristi ranchna ke pramukh ki guidence wali series leli use padha seriously fir bhi aaye kitne 87 percentile now i am fucked to doo anything kah adddmision ho nahi rah drp barbad ho raha ghar wale dhokebaaz bol rahe ki tum kuch kiye hi nahi
COCLUSION FROM MY STORY

1. ghar walo ki baat mano haar cheez acch nahi hoti jo tum sochte ho unhone jyada duniya dekhi hai tumse

2.apna dimag kholo chutiyo ko pehchano
3.till my experince koi coaching koi material koi book apka selection garentee nahi karti karti hai to consistency one source of knowlege aur preseverence (dhirdhta ) there is nothing called hardwork you are not pilling stones mai bhi yahi bachchodi karta tha chud gaya roj padho thoda padho but every day think it like a food you will never miss it
4.i repeat sirf teachers ko follow karo there is differece between a coach and a player and player cannot teach you how to play a coach can player can win the trophies but only coach can teach you how you win trophies pleaese choose your mentors wisely iitians knew how they can crack jee they cannot tell you how to crack jee there is differnce in state of mind and understanding for each sometimes problem may look same but solutions are totaly different you cannot eat paracetamol to cure cancer every problem have diffrent solution so always prefer only teacher even he is at school level

1. stop following every didi bhaiya you see on social media tum uki college ki fees aur personal aminities ke liye rakhe gaye passive income ho sab saale bussiness minded hai aur apne tag ka paisa wassol rahe i repeat there is differce between you and people like me we get average points rather than topper because he follows teachers only and even someone got good through them its barely passing the cutoffs and most of times the effort of the kids .koyle me kabhi heera bhi mil jata hai.

6.use your mind meri to puri journey mistake lagti hai meri padh lena ho sakata hai kuch uniques galti mill jaye jo tum na karna if want a slight of help do dm shayad kuch help kardo guide nahi karpaunga overachiver nahi hu baki har saal admission kam ka hi hona hai to let them misguide compitition kam hi hoga

1. phone se duri agar selection hai jaruri

my biggest mistake was putting didi bhaiyas over teachers just because some guy was iitian and got a rank associated by few numbers which they got probably by their hardwork and coincidences which i judged and fllowing their footpath fucked my jee i am not blaming them but its my responsibily and judgement that i fucked,want to elaborate a little was not knowing about jee till 11th last enrolledd in board coaching as i got my first personal space and device + a little bit of freedom to roam a little bit got s distracted that not even at end day was able to study with my full potential before my boards got 78% in 12 and if i tell you not to flex that i got 97% in 10th boards and won state level maths olmpiad in 9th say yes i was bright enough you could say i was in 1 percent of my class till 10th not involved with any fucking social media a perfect timer waking at 4 going for jogs playing football in morning and to tell i was selected for playoffs for state team untial comes the 2020 the year of my downfall involved i gaming and all and yess somewhere i feel my parents provided more than i deserve every thing i asked they got those things on my table the next day i was having a gaming pc in class 9 when things just started got my ipad in 11th and as i have a brother i got myself a gaming laptop for personal use whatever i haven't used it fully till date so there was plenty of resourses with me but i had only wrong ideas to use it till here life goes good to tell you my parents dont care about my grades till last year (yes i am a dropper aage suno) then thaught kar lega itna overachieverr hai they probably dindnt know much abot jee and all till last year vey much so last year i got 68 %percentile my father asked me to take a addmission anywhere and continue my studies now whre the real downfall starts my all friends were taking drop for jee that where your heros of youtube come in with all iitbombay edits i was so overjoyed by hypes of iits and thiers aluminies that i convinced my parents to take drop he asked me where you want to study yes another climax went to kota for drop year statring of months were good i was so into studies i tell you igot in good routine here gave my first test got a pretty decent marks to my hyping oof iits got more higher but now the teachers started changing and as it was everything new for me i saw students who were previsiosly in kota and then took a drop started to leave classes and doing it on youtube i also went there yes things saterted to worsen got best backlogs you could imagine so nothing futher chapter i was able to study now here comes entry of agent 247 he speaks notes faad do gaand faad do ye kardo woh kardo prepration apne haath me lo maa chudaye coaching wale and yes i did it now padh to leta tha ques bhi bana leta tha ekk test me 187 marks aaye the fir kyuki pure hafte padha tha part test me here comes october relible se koi banda suciide karliya to test were dismised the only motivation for me to study was gone jeendal ki sankalp ki kabhi ye stategy kabhi wo plus kota ka distraction december me test hota hai got 56 marks samjh nahi aa raha kya karu left studies as got preety much fucked by kota food got food poisning and jaundice for 2 weeks fir jee jan attempts me jo aata tha jitna padha tha attempt karke aaya and got 76 percentile machudgayi plus exam bhi pada to kab 27 ki first shift mai bola aage dekhte hai went to coaching for revision waha pe aur dimag kharab kar diye teacher advnace mains ye woh kya karu samjh nai aya wo bhi chud gaya na marks aaye na test accha jaye now next 1 month sankalp mahamanushya shristi ranchna ke pramukh ki guidence wali series leli use padha seriously fir bhi aaye kitne 87 percentile now i am fucked to doo anything kah adddmision ho nahi rah drp barbad ho raha ghar wale dhokebaaz bol rahe ki tum kuch kiye hi nahi
COCLUSION FROM MY STORY

1. ghar walo ki baat mano haar cheez acch nahi hoti jo tum sochte ho unhone jyada duniya dekhi hai tumse

2.apna dimag kholo chutiyo ko pehchano
3.till my experince koi coaching koi material koi book apka selection garentee nahi karti karti hai to consistency one source of knowlege aur preseverence (dhirdhta ) there is nothing called hardwork you are not pilling stones mai bhi yahi bachchodi karta tha chud gaya roj padho thoda padho but every day think it like a food you will never miss it
4.i repeat sirf teachers ko follow karo there is differece between a coach and a player and player cannot teach you how to play a coach can player can win the trophies but only coach can teach you how you win trophies pleaese choose your mentors wisely iitians knew how they can crack jee they cannot tell you how to crack jee there is differnce in state of mind and understanding for each sometimes problem may look same but solutions are totaly different you cannot eat paracetamol to cure cancer every problem have diffrent solution so always prefer only teacher even he is at school level

1. stop following every didi bhaiya you see on social media tum uki college ki fees aur personal aminities ke liye rakhe gaye passive income ho sab saale bussiness minded hai aur apne tag ka paisa wassol rahe i repeat there is differce between you and people like me we get average points rather than topper because he follows teachers only and even someone got good through them its barely passing the cutoffs and most of times the effort of the kids .koyle me kabhi heera bhi mil jata hai.

6.use your mind meri to puri journey mistake lagti hai meri padh lena ho sakata hai kuch uniques galti mill jaye jo tum na karna if want a slight of help do dm shayad kuch help kardo guide nahi karpaunga overachiver nahi hu baki har saal admission kam ka hi hona hai to let them misguide compitition kam hi hoga

1. phone se duri agar selection hai jaruri

Hey guys!
Meri chachi ki beti, who just got over with her 12th boards & various entrance exams, finally has some free time on her hands. She wants to undertake some physical activity, preferably sports. I have suggested her badminton, basketball, swimming, etc.
Now I grew up in Dehradun and at that time Parade Ground used to be open to everyone. You could just take your sports equipment & start playing/practicing. I also remember seeing cricket coaches training the players.
However I think this is not the case anymore. I mean the ground's still open to everyone but they've made a park out of it. My cousin also went there to inquire about the sports facilities & coaching options but the person there sent her back and told her to inquire after the elections are over. (smh)
I have been living in another Tier 2 now city due to my job since the last 8 years.Idhar ek mast PSU township hai. There are numerous children parks, 2 sports stadiums, swimming pools, coaches for tennis, basketball, boxing, karate, dance, you name it! The best thing is that these parks & coaches are available to everyone (not just the PSU employees) and the charges are also affordable for us, in the Rs.700-1500/month range.
Are there similar opportunities for adult recreation available to the general public without hefty charges in Dehradun as well? Maine khud to kabhi aisi cheejo me hissa nahi liya, tab utni suvidha nahi thi, but I presume in the posh areas of Dehradun such as Vasant Vihar, Kaulagarh, etc, these facilities must have been always available.
While searching, I came across Doon Club's website (near Survey Chowk) which is very near to my house, so perfect location from the commute regard. However there is a hefty membership fee (Rs.20K), plus you need a proposer and a seconder in your application who's already a club member. We don't know anybody who's a member. Seemed not so welcoming.
So guys, those who take/took swimming, or any other sports classes, what options does she have? Please share your experiences regarding the location, coaches available, monthly fee, etc
Thanks for your input!

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So i was travelling from agra to delhi in a train called gatimaan express since i booked the ticket in last moment (booked in CURRNT 3 hrs before the train departure from agra station) i gave preference for a window seat in Executive Class which i got, Now coming to the point when i boarded the train i got pretty confused as a lady was already sitting in my seat so i told her that the seat is mine and just then a lady from just the ahead seat got up and said that we are travelling together so can you sit here and showed me the aisle seat, I had no problems adjusting but i just said that i had window seat but she started saying - “are 2 hours ki to journey hai usme kya window and aisle kahi bhi baith jao” so i said “to apke liye bhi same apply hota hai na 2 hrs hai meri seat dedo mereko ya apki window seat i have paid for this seat why would i leave the window seat” she started saying “baat krne ki tameez nahi hai ache se bol rhi hu adjust krlene ladies hai to smjh nahi rahe” i simply said ki “apne ache se kab kaha ache se bolte to sayad mai maan bhi jata yaha baithne ko” and then train’s staff came and started saying me ki please adjust krlijiye i said “why only me ap unko to kuch nahi bol rhe” the lady started shouting ki baat krne ki tameez nahi hai phle sikh kr ao everybody was looking at me like i did some sort of crime or something i felt very awkward but still i said that an not gonna leave my window seat if you can give me your window seat then its well and good else am not gonna sit on the aisle seat 8-10 mins passed by and TT came he also said me to adjust but now after all of this i was just stubborn ki “window hi seat pe baithunga ab meri ho ya uske friend ki idc but window seat pe hi baithunga” finally TT sorted out everything and that lady who was stubborn on not giving up the seat had to finally give me her window seat. Now am travelling while typing this inside the train, that lady was constantly staring at me at the start 5-10 mins but then i acted to sleep and all which made her more angry i think lmao
Also the food is terrible in this train 🫠