I'm in therapy once a week, I take sertaline 150 mg (just increased to 125 mg), I have sjorgrens disease and on medications for that. I won't be having a panic or anxiety attack but just a constant feeling of choking. I had an ultrasound on thyroid and soft tissue of the neck, everything came back clear along with labwork. Does this or has this happened to anyone else? Have you found right thing to make it stop?

Hello 👋
I've been wondering for quite some time now if I (33F) might be autistic. There's lots of signs pointing in the direction of me being on the spectrum, without wanting to diagnose myself, and one of my best friends who is autistic and does regular public talks at conferences on the subject seems to think I might be too. Last year I managed to open up to him about all the things I've been feeling and struggling with (for as long as I can remember, only things have been harder to control in working life) and he said he understood and recognised all of those things I'd been feeling.
My boyfriend has been mostly really supportive and actually helped me to realise that I'm probably just different when everyone previously would just call me crazy and irrational (the one thing he seems to have trouble understanding is why I can't stop myself from having a meltdown. I don't know how... They just happen.!) My Dad was also really supportive and accepting when I told him how I feel and about all the things I've struggled with for years. He said he understood everything I was saying / validating those things from his standpoint. I haven't discussed it in depth with anyone else, though I've made the mistake of mentioning it to a couple of friends who flat out said things like "there's no way you're autistic", or "believe me, you're not. My mum works with autistic children and you're not that." I can imagine that I may be a high masking and/or high functioning person and those who don't know me well, or haven't seen my meltdowns or serious sensory issues probably just can't understand.
It's coming to a head now. I'm really not coping with things socially. Especially at work. I have a job where I spend a lot of time in close quarters with a lot of the same people week to week, and we also have extensive international trips together. It's very intense. It's like having adopted an 80 person strong family on top of the one I already have. It's really hard for me to 'control' myself. That's sadly the only way I can describe it. It's exhausting. Then I get home and my boyfriend has to deal with everything I've been keeping in.
Unfortunately in the city where I live, the autism clinic / autism diagnostic centre is "not taking on any new patients for the foreseeable future". I feel trapped. I don't know where to go or what to do. A diagnosis itself wouldn't necessarily help (or would it?), but getting the correct advice from the right professionals on how to cope is really what I need.
Does anybody have any tips for the meantime? Are there online support networks? Are there counseling services especially catered to people who aren't yet diagnosed but think they're on the spectrum? I'm in central EU.
Any advice would be hugely appreciated.
Many thanks!

Teen Son Ruining our Life
Where do I even start? My soon to be 16 year old son is destroying anything good about himself or his future. Is this typical for ADHD-ers?
A little history:
Our son “Mason” was born at 33 weeks and was hands down the WORST baby that, to this day, I have ever seen. Blood curdling screams for the first full year of his life. Doctors had no answer, just that it was colic. It was a dark time.
After the colic came the night terrors. Like clockwork every night 1-3am was spent with him screaming like he was being murdered. We couldn’t wake him or console him. We just prayed he’d stop and the neighbors wouldn’t call the police.
Then like magic, he seemed to turn into a sweet boy and ages 4 and 5 were great. Around age 6, he started getting sneaky with his tactics and we found him with his hands around his 3 year old sister’s throat one day. That’s when I knew I did not give birth to a normal child.
From ages 6-10 he didn’t get into much trouble and we kept him busy with various sports. He’s incredibly smart and slightly autistic. He had friends and was living a pretty normal life.
Around age 11/12 he got his first game system and computer and that’s when our lives went to hell in a hand basket with him. It wasn’t the gaming that was the problem, it was the forums and Discord. The stuff I saw him writing on there was straight up criminal. Disgusting filthy language riddled with violence and misogyny. I know boys say not so great things amongst each other, but the things he was saying was psychotic.
I immediately got him into seeing a psychiatrist. He was diagnosed ADD with a hint of Autism. We put him on meds which was a nightmare in itself. Nothing worked. His body would metabolize the meds like water. We even had him genetically tested to see if his liver really is processing them way too quickly. Every med made him moody and aggressive.
He’s now 15 almost 16. He lies constantly, has an insane need for justice, will yell at teachers if he doesn’t agree with something they say to another student. He was s3xting he his girlfriend, she may now be pregnant and we aren’t sure if it’s his (she’s barely 15 and a mess of a person herself), he’s an absolute spaz, he has zero communication skills and talks like he’s reading from a script, he argues EVERYTHING, I hate to say this but he’s can be incredibly dumb. He has zero common sense. He says things that make absolutely NO sense. He talks just to sound “smart” and doesn’t even think about what he’s saying. He paces the floor constantly, fidgets like a drug addict, and says extremely creepy things to fellow students. Female students have reported him for making them uncomfortable. I get calls from the principal because they are super concerned about him. The school has had the police talk with him. He will lie even though EVERYONE knows the truth. It’s beyond an awkward Autistic kid.
Just tonight we found texts again between him and his “ex” girlfriend. He has her name in his phone as whre. I *begged him to just do something right. He just stares at me blankly. He calls us crazy to people in his texts. He’s obsessed with his “ex” girlfriend. They are skipping classes to “hang out” in the school stairwell.
When confronted he just shrugs and says he doesn’t know why he does what he does. He admits he’ll do what ever it takes to feel like he got justice. You can physically see him disassociate when being talked to. He’s extremely selfish.
Here’s the kicker, he’s INCREDIBLY book smart. He could go to any collage, study any major and do well. We have told him “Do well in school, don’t get in trouble and we’ll send you to ANY collage you want” we tell him we’ll pay for any advanced training or AP classes he wishes to take, we are willing to do absolutely anything to get him right.
I truly think we might be dealing with an ADHD sociopath.
He’s at his therapists office as we speak.
Anyone ever meet or know a kid like this?!

Hi I’ve been on 60 mg of cymbalta for about a month. It’s made me feel so much better. I had to be in an inpatient facility to get on it due to severe side effects I get from all antidepressants. I really do not want to change my meds at all. I just figured out it was not the detergent making my skin react and I will be seeing a dermatologist in a few days. Does anyone have recommendations to help control the itchy bumps on my face without changing meds. Im taking allergy meds too.

I would like to preface this with the fact that i DO think Kenzie is winning. Before yall come for me! Bc i realise any opinion thats not backing up Kenzie winning or supports anyone else winning is “bad edgic” according to yall. But anyways
I wanna explore more of Kenzies flaws and red flags! Just because we only see constant posts about how she is obviously the winner etc etc.
More OTT mean girl vibes than Dee imo in the premerge with Bhanu Jess and Jelinsky. Sloppy obvious social game seen by Q and Tiff (showcased in a neg light by the edit as they highlight them all seeing thru her and it makes her a target). Also even Bhanu sorta gives low-key NSPV - but Bhanu is all over the place i get it. And he does crown her the mermaid dragon of the season.
What are yall talking about? Montage with dodo music and clowns her (literally not needed to be included at all. The edit goes out of its way to dunk on her)
“One of you cant win, you will not get the votes at the end” in jeffs speech. When he says these words it pans on to kenzie. I saw someone spin this as to alluding to her winning.. but like if u watch that scene IMO its actually showing why kenzie wont win and get votes at the end and will lose to a siga member. As siga gets pans of gelling. If she wins i think this was more of a throw us off the scent thing rather than tryin to hint she WINS.
Yanu and their consistant theme of being Losers + tiffany in ep 2. “We are LOSERS” with an immediate pan to kenzie struggle to make a fire
Kenzie saying she needs to blindside tiff for her resume - then NOT getting to do that and losing credit.
Kenzie saying she wants Q out and hes still there
Kenzie saying Venus is my new number 1 and that the boys (ben and charlie) dont wanna boot Q bc they may become bigger targets, but she doesnt wanna boot venus bc thatd apply to her- then proceeds to boot Venus despite the edit suggesting shed vote Q.
Kenzie talking about how Charlie is Marias jester and underestimating him (whilst the edit explicitly backs up and tells us that Charlie is NOT marias jester, in fact the edit highlights all season how if anything Charlie is equals or making the decisions, and also the edit props up charlie and goes out of its way to highlights how he isnt her jester and that he is intentional in his gameplay and wants maria to get sole credit so shes a target etc etc. ). Whether thats good or bad for charlie is another story, but its still not great for Kenzie to be shown to be so wrong on her read of charlies game and its a theme she has in multiple different eps. She is plain wrong and the edit doesnt hide that fact. In fact it has her being wrong directly after we see scenes contradicting her statements. So the viewer is thinking shes getting played.
Kenzie getting DODO music whilst talking about how poor Venus is at idol searching (a scene coming directly after V finds the idol and says shes pretending to look- therefore highlighting her fooling/outplaying Kenzie) - people say kenzie is redeemed by saying “i guess she may have already found the idol and is bamboozling us all”. - but she contradicts that save immediately by saying “but i think shes just waiting for someone whos close to her to find it”. So she is definitely being bamboozled.
Kenzie also doesnt really have her relationships with Hunter established we are just told shes apparently his number 1 last minute.
The big 6 alliance- we hear kenzie find out about it from Q (she doesnt comment on it) she says “yeh i heard about the 6” implying she found out already about it, yet we still got no mention on the 6 and how she felt about it and being left out, if she was concerned or not about it, etc etc… Charlie we did hear talk about it and accurately immediately call it out for what it was. And yes he was sorta being inducted but it was clearly over by the time that happened really.
Kenzie has no backstory package, not even 1 single outside of the game photo (shes the ONLY player left (in thef10 even) not to and this is despite having had chances already to put it in too) - the emotional blue eye scene, her opening confessional , any time she mentioned her career, her ben panic attack scene. - Charlie and Q had photos. Liz maria and Ben all had full on backstorys. -
When compared to other woman winners - shes insanely overexposed in the edit.
When u look at her game- she actually hasnt gotten THAT much better of a resume or game than Ben or Liz. Its worse than Q Charlie and Maria on paper (outside of pure social) And shes missed the chance for a big move and instead lost numbers in 3 consecutive tribals. Kenzie herself has stated that you need to make a big move - which she keeps failing to do alike jake owen. She wanted Q but begrudgingly accepted Hunter vote, she wanted Q but got blindsided and it was Tiff, she wanted Maria-> then Q but begrudgingly voted Venus. All 3 were numbers that were loyal to her, and she didnt really want out but got them out, having no agency 3 straight votes. And wasnt in the 6 which was the main storyline for the early merge votes.
She has a eerily similar to Jake Owen and Carolyn edit when u really think about it - who all got underdog themes.
also Kenzie is plain wrong a lot… i just rewatched ep 3 and found yet another time shes straight up wrong.. when Bhanu gets back to camp after the journey, he lies to Yanu and says “i chose the white rock” - this is then immediately followed by a confessional of Kenzie falling for his lie saying “of course in typical yanu fashion he gets nothing (correct ik) which works for us because we didnt want him to have anything, he drew the white rock (false, kenzie has fallen for the lie) he doesnt have anything, great for the plan but it is also just hilarious that once again yanu loses another thing (okay sorta correct) and gives something else to the other tribes (false and wrong again). This is yet another really small thing but damn these sorts of wrong things are really adding up. Why gove kenzie that confessional? Contrast that with Tiff basically saying the more on point thing of “the real tea is what did he give up, bc i know damn sure he was over there spilling the tea” and she doesnt have anything falling for his Lie, And then Q doesn't comment on it in confessional, but has a scene where he questions Bhanu if he got the white rock and Bhanu reveals no he didnt and indeed he lost his vote. It again put right after we show bhanu not getting the white rock and the other tribes not getting anything - so even though logically kenzie is just narrating from what she knows, and technically yanu person did lose out, shes still completely wrong about what happened and as a viewer ur inclined to think “thats not what happened” as shes talking. Just this actually has happened quite a lot.
I sound like a Kenzie hater. but end of the day i can still see all of Kenzies upside and Charlies downside and marias danger. I know that a lot of these flaws can be possibly justified or overlooked with all the good stuff - but they still are possible red flags and theres quite a few of them still.. so i think its still worth noting and keeping in mind. Since everyone is constantly pointing out the smaller red flags for a Charlie and a Maria. Just food for thought. Bc if anyone thinks kenzie could be set up for a FTC loss they get roasted on here. I personally do lean towards her winning ftc but the set up is there for both.
I think she takes out Q at least bc the setup for both her (threat mermaid dragon etc) and Charlie (i need to get Q out, Q needs to go asap) has been made. Plus Maria slipped in Q for one more vote, Ben and Liz both have setup for wanting Q gone. Its gotta happen soon! But its entirely possible thats what the mermaid dragon and shes a dangerous threat story arc was leading to.. her being part of tiffany and Q going (her idea the tiff blindside, her making moves on Q). Rather than her necessarily winning.
Ill also point out for those who believe that Charlie wasnt as relevent early on and that he has a poor social game - i just rewatched ep 1-5, skipping thru the nami tribe scenes and challenges and unimportant confessionals (BHANU drama) and BOY do Charlie and Kenzie both get sooo much attention. We hear from both so much. Its kinda clear that kenzie is the main Yanu (sorry Q) and Charlie is the main siga (sorry maria and Ben). But charlie gets so many social related scenes which highlight his social bonds and has the edit backing it up with positive SPV about him from other players. Jeff always talks to charlie and the camera pans are always panning to both Charlie and Kenzie throughout the premerge. Just a little fun thing i noticed.

I hate them. I hate them with all my heart.
Ever since I can remember my mother would give those red flags of entitlement and selfishness - she would "pretend" to care and to listen but she really never gave a flying f* unless it benefited her somehow or aligned with her opinions or values. She would shame me for things a kid; a teenager shouldn't feel ashamed of, she would plant those seeds inside of my head and it would grow into this monstrous chunk of self-doubt and always feeling like i'm never enough.
Whenever i tried to call her out on her antics or behavior she would tell me things like i don't deserve her or i don't appreciate things she does/did for me, i'm ungrateful cause she could've given me away but she didn't, just because she GAVE BIRTH to me (you guessed - she didn't have to) or she'd tell me how i'm making her feel bad. Anytime, anywhere with anything really - she would never take accountability or any responsibility for her words or actions, just like my father.
He allowed her to do that to us but he has some issues too - he used to spank me with his belt when i was little, up until i was 10 years of age (my sisters have many stories about him being sadistic for ex. one time he made my sister drink the whole soda bottle to the point she threw it all up just because he was fed up with her fighting with my other sister).
My mother is also really unpredictible with her moods, you never know what to expect from her so i would always walk on eggshels around her or think about things i do a few times before i do them, you know considering her FEELINGS and THOUGHTS.
She's very cruel not only towards me tho, she's very abusive towards my grandmother - physically and emotionally. I cought her few times yanking my gd's clothes or just generally being physically and emotionally abusive with her. My grandma has been diagnosed with alzheimer's and i think some type of schizophrenia (not sure which one tho), so my mother uses it against her. The funny and tragic at the same time thing is she gets money from being her "guardian" on papers so it's only bussiness to her, just like never giving her medications she's supposed to take.
I emptied my heard, stomach and head yeasterday about everything - about years of abuse, them being emotionally unavailable or just never taking accountability for their words or actions. The only thing i heard in return was that i'm an ungrateful child and that I should take care of my gd for at least a weak to speak about the case, generally a whole bunch of gaslighting and a dead silence from my father's side. When asked about taking a side because - surprise - my mother forced him to he said he's not taking anyone's side which left me unsurprised because of course he isn't. Felt like I had to do that in order to move on and not to regret having things left unsaid later on in life.
Also I'm tired. Aside from that trauma i also have another one having its source in high school i attended. I've been dissociationg for the past 4-5 years, battling depression and anxiety too and nobody really f*ing cares.
The thing is they're paying rn for my living costs so i can study at university but i'm afraid once i go "no-contact" they'll cut me off and i won't be able to finish my studies. I can't work and study at the same time, at least not full time or even 1/2, cause I have a really crazy schedule.

I have, for a fair amount of my life, considered ghost hunting as a hobby. I have always been intereated in the spiritual, but I consider myself a cold rationalist. I am not close minded, but soft evidence and hearsay does not sway me. I also do not, currently, believe in any form of spirituality.
I have been, mostly, following this sub reddit quietly. It is a massive group of people, but seems to be polarized into two camps: firm, close minded, non-believers and believers who will take any story without a pinch of salt. I don't mean to insult anyone; everyone is welcome to their belief, or disbelief.
So, my question is this, paranormal community. What is the true likelihood I could assemble a group of people, from a spiritual and scientific background, who are willing to look at things with cold eyes, each time they start a new situation? A group of 6 to 8 persons, willing to put personal bias aside, as well as things like gaining attention, to actually look over cases and investigate locations?

My friend (23f), we’ll call her Jenny, has been taking care of her grandma (79f), Mary, for over a year now and her family barely offers her any support. Mary is on oxygen and has some serious mental health problems that she refuses to get checked. She is lucid enough to refuse but she has become increasingly hostile and depressed in her old age. In the past, Mary has referred to Jenny as her “ex-granddaughter” several times because she feels she does not care about her and thinks she is betraying her when she talks about her to her aunt (65f), Lynn, whom she also refers to as her “ex-daughter.” Jenny’s father (52m), Matt, lives across the country with his wife (52f), Gene, and only cares about the money he’ll get when Mary passes.
Some context: Mary lived alone in a small townhouse for many years and wanted to move 3 hours away to a tiny home by her sisters. Jenny and her family helped move her, but not long after leaving, she became very depressed and very angry with her sisters and her kids for abandoning her in a place she “did not want to be.” When she moved out, Jenny and I (24f) moved into her home and began paying rent to her aunt, as we could not live anywhere else due to her dog and not being able to afford anything else.
After lengthy discussions within her family, Matt decided to move her across the country to live with him and Gene. Their family warned Matt that she may be a lot to handle as she has become a handful in her old age, and he had not been around her for several years, only speaking on the phone. Jenny took a week off of work to drive with Matt across the country for her to fly back home.
In the time that she was there, Matt and Gene renovated their kitchen with Mary’s social security checks and, once completed, Matt began complaining of her nagging and yelling and always got into arguments with her over small things. She had thought she made a friend on TikTok, but he turned out to be a scammer. He got some money from her before anyone caught on and they soon took her iPad and blocked him, along with putting a parental lock so she wouldn’t do something like that again. Mary started noticing she couldn’t do very much like she used to and Matt told her that “maybe he’s doing it.” She was very concerned as she wasn’t aware someone could do that, and anything that went wrong with any of her devices, she blamed “him.” Her iPad, the TV, her oxygen tank, her hearing aids, etc. She could not comprehend that it was her own doing and placed blame anywhere that was not herself.
After a few months, Matt said he was done and wanted to send her back to find a place near Jenny and Lynn. Jenny planned on flying to get her and taking a train home, since Mary is on oxygen and cannot fly. About a week before she left, Matt said he changed his mind and that he wanted Mary to stay. Jenny and I decided to go together since she already had the time off to visit them. Jenny explained to her dad that she cannot keep requesting off time and that if he wanted to have her stay, that she would stay for good. Not long after that, Lynn and Jenny’s brother (22m) moved 3 hours away from Jenny.
The following summer, I moved across the country to work a seasonal job. And Matt decided he was going to have Mary’s sister drive her back home to live with Jenny as she now had a vacant room with me gone. I had been the previous summer and I wanted Jenny to come with me, as I was roadtripping a couple of states away. She stayed for a few days and went back home, only to find out that Mary was arriving there that evening. She had no time to decompress after her flight before Mary was there full time.
Mary and Jenny had always butted heads, but now she had this idea there was a man in all of their electronic devices and would constantly call the police and ask Jenny to take her to the station to report him. One time, the police showed up and Jenny asked if he could explain that there was no one in her things. He took time out of his day to explain that it was not possible for someone to do the things she thinks are happening and she seemed to understand; for a day.
Mary and Jenny are always arguing and Mary is usually screaming at her devices for him to get off them. Mary has said if Jenny doesn’t take her to the police station, she’d call and report her for elderly abuse. Once, Jenny asked what she wanted for dinner and Mary responded, “Two bullets, one for me and one for you.”
Jenny has taken care of Mary as much as possible, but with several pets and a full time job, she comes home from work exhausted just to start her second job of taking care of Mary. She has asked Matt and Lynn is to help make her doctors appointments and that they had to pay any medical bills that Mary’s insurance did not cover, as she was taking on the burden of being her caretaker. However, Matt has always left it to Lynn to take care of and Lynn always dragged her feet when it came to making appointments, which then resulted in Mary becoming frustrated with Jenny, blaming her for not taking care of her.
Recently, Lynn and Matt have decided they want to sell the townhouse and move the two of them into another home, as the space is too small for the both of them. Jenny was for the idea and Lynn told her they wanted to move within a few months, so Jenny began to scramble to get their house packed up for showing. Jenny quickly became overwhelmed, as they have 2 dogs and 6 cats living with them, so the house was never clean. Jenny would spend hours cleaning and packing every chance she got. They moved things that were not needed into a storage unit that Lynn had, which Lynn had not cleared out. Lynn always told Jenny she would come down one day, so Jenny made sure to get that time off, only for Lynn to change her mind and decide to come down at a later date. This happened for months.
Today, Lynn called Jenny and told her that Matt wants to take Mary back and have her live in the basement and that they will renovate it for her to live full time. Mary is not very mobile and requires a wheelchair most times and a walker to get around the house. Jenny does not think that is very wise because there is no bathroom in the basement and no kitchen, therefore Mary would have to go up and down the stairs often, which is not possible for her. Then, a few hours later, Gene texted Jenny and asked if they were aware of what Matt and Lynn were discussing. Then Gene said that they were planning on pushing off them moving for another year. Jenny was livid, not only because she had been spending months packing the house per her families request to move ASAP, but because she had spoken to both Matt and Lynn earlier and neither one of them told her this.
Jenny doesn’t understand what to do in this situation, as she cannot afford to move out on her own and she feels like a pawn in her own family. Matt is ready for Mary to pass so he can claim his inheritance, which is wrapped up in the house Jenny and Mary live in, and Jenny is afraid that once she is gone, there is nothing stopping Matt from selling the house out from under her and leaving her homeless.
Jenny is hoping to keep her relationship well with her family and tries not to cause any waves, but I believe it is more damaging keeping all of her anger inside. What should she do?

Hi all!
I am really REALLY struggling with ADHD Paralysis and I want to crawl out of my skin.
This has been happening for a few months but today was the worst by far.
At my job, I work remote and due to a recent merger, I am incredibly under utilized and do not have much work to do. Because I have so much downtime, I started a business (which is doing well at six months in).
However, I am cycling through the desire to start, getting stuck, getting distracted, and then feeling anxiety that I’m not taking advantage of this free time.
I wander around my house and work in small bits.
I have never expierenced it this severe, and I’m wondering if anyone has any advice or words of support. I want to crawl out of my skin.
I am 28, diagnosed at 14, and medicated. I wonder if I need my meds increased, but I do not have access to a physiatrist - just a GP who does not monitor symptoms.

Hi all!
I am really REALLY struggling with ADHD Paralysis and I want to crawl out of my skin.
This has been happening for a few months but today was the worst by far.
At my job, I work remote and due to a recent merger, I am incredibly under utilized and do not have much work to do. Because I have so much downtime, I started a business (which is doing well at six months in).
However, I am cycling through the desire to start, getting stuck, getting distracted, and then feeling anxiety that I’m not taking advantage of this free time.
I wander around my house and work in small bits.
I have never expierenced it this severe, and I’m wondering if anyone has any advice or words of support. I want to crawl out of my skin.
I am 28, diagnosed at 14, and medicated. I wonder if I need my meds increased, but I do not have access to a physiatrist - just a GP who does not monitor symptoms.

My husband has been on a very regimented, very expensive diet program for just under a year now. Very low carb, stresses lean protein. He has been preparing meals that fit his diet which, for the most part, no one else eats.
For example, he make a soup nearly every week which contains an ingredient which is disagreeable to me, so I avoid it. He knows what this ingredient does to my GI system, and continues to make buckets of it. I take that to mean it's not really for everyone else, at least not me.
Our two 20-something kids still live at home and will occasionally eat what he has prepared, but not often. If he makes chicken breasts, he sautes them and they are typically so heavily seasoned that no one else will touch them.
He buys power greens a special yogurt and special cottage cheese all of which occupy space in the fridge. He's never said no one can touch his food, but has acted aggravated when he's out of something that the kids decided tastes good.
For Mother's Day, my son and I made a meal together. Originally, we were going to grill steaks, then decided to grill steaks and chicken breasts, thinking this would leave leftovers for us to work with for the rest of the week.
There were four, beautifully seasoned, perfectly grilled chicken breasts in the fridge when I left for work this morning. On the way home I had decided to use two of them to make fettuccine Alfredo with chicken for the kids and I, knowing husband would likely not eat it.
It has become the norm for husband to decline whatever I make and eat one of his own meals, especially if what I'm make contains bread or pasta. I figured he could eat one of the other grilled chicken breasts, or one of the other prepped meals in the fridge. (Soup, turkey burger meatballs, seasoned chicken breasts etc. the fridge is full)
When I got home I couldn't find the chicken breasts in the fridge or freezer. I sent a group text asking if anyone has seen them. My husband replied that he'd taken them to work with him. (All four)
My reply was just the word boo. He replied "sorry."
I will probably let it go there, because I already kind of feel like a jerk.
At the same time though, the fridge is literally a crowded mess full of food he's prepared for himself for his special diet. Why take something everyone can eat?
WIBTA if asked him to check before using food intended for family meals?
On one hand it feels exclusionary and petty. On the other hand, I'm left eating the leftover fruit tray and my quarter of leftover steak on a night when I got out of work early enough to actually cook a meal. Or I guess I could just make fettuccine with no chicken...

23m, born and raised in traditional church, very traditional parents. Always wanted to wait to have sex before marriage, I even made it 4 years with my ex and we didn’t have sex because we both wanted to wait, even though it was tough. I started dating this girl about a month ago, she knows I’m a Christian and she said she’s been to church as a child and that she has family that goes to church every Sunday, so I’m starting to see some potential in her in that religious aspect.
Last weekend I had her over for a movie night alone, which something I used to do with my ex all the time and we didn’t have a problem, so I didn’t see a problem with this girl. She told me she wanted to change to comfy clothes and she proceeded to take all her clothes off, and one thing led to another, you get it. This was my first time and I feel terrible about it. Although part of me also wants the same thing to happen next weekend at our next date.
My mind has been all over the place and I know it’s wrong, but I can’t shake the desire of doing it again. Does anyone have advice for me?

Hi Bankruptcy,
I currently live in California, and I was wondering what would be my best option between declaring bankruptcy and debt relief.
In summary, I have been scammed by Sochi, a masseuse school (I am only including it so you can be aware of their fraudulent behaviour). They created a fake high school diploma for me in order to reap the rewards of having access to a government loan, which cost me roughly 16K.
Additionally, I have also been in a car accident a few years ago. I am not certain of the nature of the accident, as in, I am not certain if it was officially declared criminal. In short, the other vehicle swerved purposefully in our lane and front ended us, and I was not the driver, so I definitely was not considered at fault. However, the accident caused me to be hospitalized for a total of 6 to 8 months. I was insured at the time, but due to the Californian law protecting the hospital from disclosing what can and cannot be covered by my insurance, I ended up with a bill totalling over 100K.
And finally, I have three small debts of roughly 3K total with different banks. Tl;dr: I wasn't able to pay them back because I was in the hospital.
Overall, I am thus looking at a crippling debt of 120K give or take.
Here is where I really need advice:
1) My current plans involve moving to another country to make a life with my partner. 2) If I get married to my partner, would my debt impact them as well, even though it would be in another country? And if so, how would it impact them? 3) Due to wanting to be there sooner rather than later, I have about a year and a half to clear my current debt situation. 4) I currently do not own a house or a car, and I have no dependants. 5) My credit score is currently completed ruined.
I am leaning strongly towards the bankruptcy route due to not owning any valuable assets, so my main questions specifically tied to bankruptcy are:
6) What kind of chapter would I have to sign for? 7) Does anyone know a good lawyer they could recommend in the Los Angeles county? 8) How much would it realistically cost me in court / lawyer fees? 9) How long does the process take, i.e. could it be resolved within a year's time?
I am still open to the idea of taking the debt relief option, but none of my current plans require for me to have credit. I am nowhere near having a down payment for a house, so I don't plan on acquiring a mortgage in the coming decade, and I could technically buy a used car with cash.
Thank you in advance for the help, I'm currently at a loss as to what should be my next step in this.

Hello everyone!
I know this is a rather contentious issue atm in the community, but I am a strong advocate for attempting to make due with what is introduced and to "fix it" within the confines of what is presented within a story.
To put it another way, I wanted to look at HW3 with a critical eye for editing rather than outright ditching whole concepts. So, in spirit of that, I suggested very minimal gameplay changes (introducing a Keeper in place of the Warsage) while keeping to primarily dialogue changes. This means none of the cinematics need to be altered (we'll just handwave a little bit with the lip sync) and instead you can add to the dialogue as needed to convey the information that's required.
Google Doc is 33ish pages, though there are images used as pacing stops (to indicate where things take place): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yJ-x5-frgLI_4i2h87k2jH40rUaHMFqrXQhkVtcEYjU/edit?usp=sharing
Key take aways are going to be fairly long, so please bear with me:

So what does this accomplish?

• It gives more connection between Isaac and the mission. He has a personal investment and a personal dislike of Imogen for being kiithless, a longstanding prejudice between ex-Taiidan and Kushan that briefly abated during the Vaygr War but has grown into a fire again (giving us politics! yay!).
• It makes the connection with Karan more distant, less intimate, and more mentor-like. Karan’s presence is greatly diminished and is used more referentially to help build her mythology.
• It ties up the Progenitor storyline by giving players tidbits of the lore, while embracing the idea of never fully explaining it. Tiamat and Sajuuk had their day in the sun, but that time has passed.
• Sajuuk is not a full AI ship, it’s just a part of Him - the true vessel was the Mothership with the Sajuuk starship docked to it (which explains The Foundry, the nature of the Mothership, etc. It moves away from Progenitors as humans and into Progenitors as something beyond humanity.)
• Whirlpool galaxy is mostly untouched, sans for a little expansion on the nature of politics. With the kiith leaving in droves for other opportunities, the politics of Hiigara are in flux. What even IS a Hiigaran at this point? That’s up to the player to decide for themselves.
• References to existing galactic powers including the Council (can throw in Fernn and any other races that make sense) helps build upon the lore.
• Vaygr war being relatively recent helps lend credence to the state of galactic technology. With more time, the Sajuuk should have resulted in unspeakably advanced Hiigaran starships, but we do not see this in game.
• Khar-Kushan being fundamentally a research ship helps to explain as well why such a vessel would be sent to do this task. No one expected to find a Progenitor godship intact and functional, and it gives reason for the pursuit of the Khar-Acharis.
• Removing the Sajuuk name from any other element ensures that when the name is brought up, players take notice.
• Creates emotional connection and conflict between Tiamat and Imogen; Tiamat is desperate for connection anyone who is compatible with her and has committed unspeakable atrocities in the pursuit of that. Imogen is also seeking connection, but sees in Tiamat a dark mirror of desperation.
• Kim Paktu replaces Karan in narrative nature, and her death helps cement the trust between Imogen and Isaac as kiith and kiithless.
• Tiamats death removes the last known Progenitor, and frees the galaxy from their grip.
• Karan-Sajuuk (as a merged entity) exist as a key to the gates, is apolitical, and cannot get involved. Keeping her in that position removes the need to worry about the hyperspace cores, the impact on the lore, or the involvement of Karan in politics. Her connection to her people becomes more and more distant with each generation until, at last, she no longer has any.
• It makes the decision to sacrifice the cores an important one, as their decision to stay in this galaxy to protect the rest of the universe now has meaning.
• This opens up an entire new galaxy to explore. Did Tiamat truly dominate all of it? Was she lying? What happened here? Did anyone from the Khar-Acharis survive?
• This gives writers an opportunity to work across Nimbus, Sunflower, and Whirlpool without risking stepping on existing canon. Maybe The Beast was a relic of the Progenitor Civil War? Maybe you find the people who made the Nagarock?

All in all, I hope you enjoyed this rewrite. It is pretty bare bones, but I wanted to show that this story has a LOT of potential to be quite good, and just needs some more meat on it.
Taking all the existing elements, you can see how changing a few things adds tension, builds characters, builds on top of the existing world's lore, and doesn’t introduce retcons. It doesn’t remove the accomplishments of those who came before, and establishes the continuity of all the prior games.
TLDR;
The game’s story can be good. Just needs polishing, editing, and some elements added to it.
Prior to commenting, please give the document a read!

Hi everyone! Looking for advice on a situation. I (38f) was seeing a man (42m) for a few months. We went on about 10 dates and live a couple hours apart via car (for context). We met on a dating app.
He expressed that he was dating with intention to find his person, which was what I was also doing. We got along really well, similar interests, goals in life, values etc. He was respectful, and he didn't kiss me until our 3rd date, and when we did kiss it was very passionate. He invited me on a weekend trip away on our 5th or 6th date, which he paid for. I expressed sincere gratitude for his generosity. During the weekend trip we had sex.
He maintained daily communication after being intimate, and we went on a few more dates after that. He met some of my friends and I met some of his. It felt like we were getting closer to becoming a couple. At this point, I started to become a bit anxious as he hadn't asked me to be his girlfriend and he seemed like the kind of guy who wouldn't be shy to do so, and I feel like I was giving him appropriate green lights that I was into him (while still maintaining my independence). Although I didn't do anything to outwardly convey my anxiety, I'm sure it came across in a subconscious way.
Around this time, I saw his profile on a dating app. I didn't confront him about it (hey, I was still on the app too despite the fact that I really liked him - I didn't want to be a hypocrite). But, I did have a chat with him where I asked if he had the capacity to be dating me right now (he was going through some stuff with his business and was seemingly stressed about his workload, ability to be present and ability to provide in a partnership). He admitted that he was distracted and felt he couldn't take me on good dates and that if he didn't succeed with his business he wouldn't be a good partner to anyone. I told him I understood if he needed to focus on himself, and wished him all the best.
He said that he really does like me and would like to try again when things settle down for him. I felt that was likely him letting me down easily and I expected to not ever hear from him again after that conversation, but he's been reaching out a couple of times a week, offering me advice, sending me memes, things that remind him of me, songs, etc.
Would you think his reaching out to me is leading me on or breadcrumbing me, since he hasn't arranged any sort of meet up or discussed anything relating to our situation? It's been about 3 months since we ended things.
Is there ever a time when a man is too busy to date, and he really does need to get his life in order first? I've read things like "if he really wanted to, he would make time..." Is there ever nuance to that?

The story itself seems to be a folk legend, so it's been retold in a lot of places, which makes this book hard to look for. The legend is often called "The Golden Goblet", but searching by that title hasn't gotten me anywhere, and I haven't found any other names for it.
Here's an example of the legend; here's another one. To quote TV Tropes: "a Siamese cat was guarding a goblet for her owner while she was pregnant, and to keep it safe she stared at it constantly and wrapped her tail around it, which made her eyes crossed and her tail kinked, and her kittens came out the same way, and that's why Siamese cats have kinked tails and crossed eyes."
In some versions of the legend the cat is called Chula and her mate is called Tien, but this discovery hasn't given me success in finding the book. In some versions of the legend the cat's tail is kinked by carrying rings, but this isn't what happened in the book I read.
The art style was fairly realistic, not cartoonish. I seem to remember there being a lot of detail and colour. This actually looks pretty similar in terms of style, though it's not identical and it's definitely not from the same book.
I've ruled out:

• Sagwa / The Chinese Siamese Cat: Happens to also be a just-so story about why Siamese cats look the way they do, but it's about why they have seal point markings, and it's because Sagwa fell into an inkwell. Not related.
• I Am from Siam by Tatiana Balkoff-Drowne: Neither the plot nor the art style match, and the colours are way too muted.
• The Watch Cat by Mili Northrup: This says "the Siamese cat came to have a rough, scratchy voice and a crook at the end of its tail when it went out hunting for a lost child", and that didn't happen in the book I read.
• The Cat of Bubastes by G.A. Henty: Not a picture book, really has no relation aside from being about a cat, but it keeps coming up when I look for this book.
• The Golden Goblet by Eloise Jarvis McGraw: Not a picture book, again no relation aside from the title, but it keeps coming up.
• Cats of Magic, Mythology and Mystery by Karl Shuker: Keeps coming up because it does discuss the legend; but it's not old enough and it doesn't seem to be a picture book, and it tells a different version from the one I read anyway.
• The Tail of the Siamese Cat by Geraldine Kaye: I haven't been able to see the inside, but the art style on the cover doesn't match at all. (However, if anyone knows a way I can see inside, I will take a look just to make sure.)
• Poon, or How the Siamese Cat Got the Knot in His Tail: Suggested in a previous post. It's hard to be sure because I can't find an online copy to examine, but from the front cover and the length (76 pages) I don't think it's the right one. Besides, the cat in the book I read was female, and she only got a kink in her tail, not a knot. (However, if anyone knows a way I can see inside, I will take a look just to make sure.)

I probably read this in the 2000s. I'm not sure how old the book is, but it didn't look old to me at the time.

39 Female, 112 lbs, 5’ 2” Today I went into elective surgery for the second time. Both times we had to stop and cancel. In preop, my heart rate is 64 and blood pressure 104/64 which is very normal for me. As soon as I get into the operating room and injected with lidocaine and epinephrine, my heart rate goes in the 30s. My doctor is baffled because he said it should have the opposite effect on me. But the strangest thing is the instant I sit up and get into recovery, it goes back up into the 60s. It’s only when I’m laying down flat in the operating room when I’m immediately injected with the numbing medication does it lower. I do have Graves’ disease and all of my levels are in normal range. I do take 40 mg of propranolol and 5 mg of methimazole daily. I just don’t understand why it’s only going that low when I’m laying on the operating room table immediately before and immediately after it goes back into normal range. Has anyone heard of this or had this happen to them? Thank you so much. I’m desperate for answers. My surgeon has refused to do it locally now, and said that he will only proceeded under general anesthesia so an anesthesiologist can control my heart. I would much rather figure out the cause. After a little bit of research I’ve done I saw that it could be overstimulation of the vagus nerve, causing the bradycardia. Please help.

I’m playing Enderal (forgotten stories SE steam version) for the first time, and while originally I went unmodded as it was the advice I saw here, there are a few things I’ve run into that I wish I could change.
I only have time to play this game once, and I’ve already gotten far enough that I don’t want to restart.
From the following things I want to do, what mods/console commands can make this happen without starting a new save game?
1. item IDs for furniture and set piece
I want to decorate my house further with some of the static objects I’ve seen around the game, but I can’t find their IDs to spawn them in. I’ve found this list which is helpful for some things, but it doesn’t have things like chairs, prop table dressings, prop instruments, etc. How do I find the item IDs of objects I see out in the world and want to put in my house?
1b. item despawn/chest reset
Is there a limited time in which items will despawn from being dropped on the ground, or when a containechest’s contents will reset? I remember in vanilla skyrim that I never put anything in any chests that weren’t at my player home so I would avoid this, but I can’t remember if that means there’s any risk to storing things outside the player home, or if there’s any difference in how enderal does it. If I spawn a chest into my home and put things in it, will those things disappear with time? Is there any console command to stop this?
2. Romance both at once
As I said I only have time to play this game once but I want to experience as much of the content as I can without locking myself out of routes. I understand that as a story heavy game there’s probably no way to do Every option in the same play through, but if there’s any way to do both romances it would be a life saver. Is there a mod or console command I can input that allows me to do both? It sounds like at a certain point they make you choose between the two, but is there anything I can do to add/remove a flag that allows the one I “break up with” to continue the romance path as if I chose them?
3. Change NPC appearance
Preferable a command rather than a mod as I’d like to customize it to my own tastes. Is there any way for me to change an NPC’s hair style, head sculpt, coloration, clothes, even body type or sex? I’d prefer not to dive into creation kit as that is too complex for me, but if that’s the only option, could someone direct me to the most simple method to learn/do this?
4. Incompatible mods?
Most of the mods I would like are visual based like texture replacers or lighting changes. Are there any well known incompatibilities between certain mods, or any mods/type of mods that would be impossible to add mid-playthrough? Any recommended mods based on what I’ve discussed?
5. Best mod manager?
I’ve seen discussions where people mention certain things not functioning if done through one mod manager or another. Is there a consensus on which mod manager works the best with the most mods, or is it up to preference and circumstance? My only experience with skyrim modding was years ago through vortex. I assume modding Enderal is a slightly different process. How do I learn what steps to take to install and activate new mods for enderal?
If anyone knows any answers to any of these questions, let me know! Thanks

Hi all! I am new here, and hoping that some of the things I’ve read over the last four years of being on TX have been useful, so I thought I would join and pose a question of my own if anyone has useful information.
I was on TX for anxiety, following a choking incident and panic attack. I tried coming off of it briefly by tapering down from 20 mg to 5 mg over a month and had a major withdrawal and went back on it. At the time I did not know that withdrawal or discontinuation syndrome was a thing. Recently, beginning in January I tapered off of it by going down 5 mg, every four weeks, starting at 20 down to zero. After one full week without taking it, I woke up a little anxious and had a major panic attack. Rather than immediately go back on TX, I talked to my Dr and I started taking clonazepam to mask the symptoms as my doctor and I both agreed it was time to come off of the medication. Today has been four weeks since I have stopped taking it, and I have had major issues (chills, nausea, blurred vision, anxiety, crying, you name it) that have seemed to improve almost daily, but certainly weekly, to where things almost seem back to normal. The only thing that hasn’t is in the last three or four days I have developed terrible tinnitus in my left ear. That is so loud that I cannot function. It drowns out even conversation. Wondering if anyone else could share if they had tinnitus as a withdrawal symptom, how soon it occurred and how long it lasted. Any other stories of withdrawal and experiences would be greatly appreciated, as I’m sure others will read this thread in search of answers and hope. Best wishes to all of you who are on or have been on this medication. I wish I had known before I started it how strong of a medication it was.

Hello! I’ll try to keep this short yet descriptive.
I’ve struggled with ADHD (undiagnosed) my whole life (age 33)
Recently had the time resources and energy to do a visit with a psychiatrist, and the prescribed me this bupropion hcl xl 150 mg
After doing research it seems that there is very minimal reports showing its affects in helping ADHD, even more so alarming the pharmacy I picked it up from said they had never heard of anyone taking it for ADHD, the pharmacist asked another one shocked in awe that I was prescribed this for ADHD.
I’m not sure if I want to take this reading the stories online. Why are doctors prescribing this medication for adhd? Has anyone had any success with it?

Round 1, Pick 14 - Taliese Fuaga, OT, Oregon State:
NFL: The Saints fill their tackle need with a feisty and powerful brawler who can make an immediate impact along the offensive line. Fuaga's presence will help the unit become more physical, which will only benefit quarterback Derek Carr and the run game.
CBS Sports: B+. He fills a major need for the Saints. They have big-time tackle issues. Fuaga is a nasty player who will start right away. Love it.
ESPN: The Saints picked a position that has been on their radar since the end of the 2023 season, and it checks a lot of boxes for a New Orleans first-round selection. Fuaga was a team captain and two-year starter for Oregon State and played in the Senior Bowl, a game that has produced a lot of Saints players. The question is how fast can he start and where on the line he fits best. Fuaga said he's open to playing on the left side and has been training for that, even though he played right tackle in college. If the Saints move him to the left side, he'll compete with 2022 first-round pick Trevor Penning. If they keep him on the right side, it could signal that the concerns about Ryan Ramczyk's knees are worse than they thought earlier in the offseason.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Is constantly asking teammates for electrical tape.
Round 2, Pick 41 - Kool-Aid McKinstry, CB, Alabama:
NFL: The secondary figured to be a spot the Saints might attack, and they traded up to land McKinstry. He's a steady, smart, solid corner with good field awareness and decent but not great ball skills. This selection feels like a solid line drive into the gap for a team that needs more reliable defenders.
CBS Sports: B+. Such a clean outside CB prospect. Press man specialty. Physical but not overly grabby. Solid, not spectacular speed. Ball skills meet the standard you want out of a higher-end starter. Good size too. Arguably the best player available. Expensive trade up.
ESPN: The Saints liked McKinstry enough to trade a fifth and sixth-round pick to move up four spots from No. 45 to No. 41. The team nabbed him in the middle of an early Day 2 run on cornerbacks. The addition of McKinstry doesn't mean it's a sure thing that the Saints deal 2017 first-round cornerback Marshon Lattimore, but it does mean that will be a potential move to watch this summer. McKinstry would join Paulson Adebo, Alontae Taylor and potentially Lattimore in the cornerback room, and he said he'd also like to contribute on special teams as a kick returner.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Was the kid who Naruto ran between classes in high school.
Round 5, Pick 150 - Spencer Rattler, QB, South Carolina:
NFL: This is lower than I imagined Rattler going, especially after six quarterbacks all went off the board in the first 12 picks. Rattler is an interesting developmental talent who has some skills that might remind Saints fans of a certain age of Aaron Brooks -- for both good and bad reasons. Well worth the pick here.
CBS Sports: A-. Former huge recruit who once received first-round buzz. Arm talent jumps off the film. Unafraid to make any throw and at South Carolina connected on many of them. Low-level athlete despite some functional movement away from pressure. Accuracy is good, and reads coverages decently. Older prospect but does have upside. Smart investment this late.
ESPN: The Saints added another quarterback just one year after signing Derek Carr and selecting Jake Haener in the fourth round of the 2023 draft. The Saints usually operate in "win now" mode with how they manage the salary cap, but the selection of Rattler indicates the Saints could be looking toward the future at that position. Rattler will compete with Haener for the backup spot behind Carr after the departure of Jameis Winston. Winston came in for Carr several times last season after Carr left three games with injuries.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Glad to be drafted but really wanted a 9-5 desk job as an actuary.
Round 5, Pick 170 - Bub Means, WR, Pittsburgh:
NFL: Means has the speed to dent the WR depth chart in New Orleans and is a good fit for what the Saints do. He has big, reliable hands and can stress a defense deep but never was a featured target in his three college stops.
CBS Sports: B+. Height/weight/speed specimen with the long-striding speed to take the lid off the defense. Tracks it well and can carry out classic possess WR duties on the boundary when he’s not going deep. Some YAC flashes but not his speciality. Prudent add, even though he’s a niche type who won’t separate a ton.
ESPN: The Saints fill another need, adding a wide receiver to account for the departure of Michael Thomas. Means ran a 4.43 second 40-yard dash at the NFL combine this year to go along with 721 yards and six touchdowns at Pitt. Means will join No.1 wideout Chris Olave, speedy Rashid Shaheed, A.T. Perry and veteran Cedrick Wilson. Dennis Allen said earlier in the offseason that they were looking for another pass catcher, and Means will join a new Saints coaching staff with a potentially revamped offense.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Is convinced if he messages the mods enough, they’ll finally listen to him.
Round 5, Pick 175 - Jaylan Ford, LB, Texas:
NFL: A thickly built thumper with monotone play speed, Ford thrives with instincts and tape study. Does he have enough athleticism to make it as more than a two-down defender? We shall see.
CBS Sports: B. Lengthy middle linebacker with some suddenness to his game. Wasted movement appear on film, so do impressive plays on the football in coverage. Not an overly physical or high-motor defender. Sifts through traffic well. Has starter traits because of his three-down ability. Although he must tackle more soundly.
ESPN: Ford will add linebacker depth and versatility, as he played both inside linebacker and outside linebacker at Texas. 35-year-old Demario Davis and Pete Werner will take the majority of the snaps, with new signee Willie Gay rotating in if the Saints are playing base defense. That means that Ford will likely be a depth piece and a special-teams player to begin his career.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Can only spell bananas by singing Holaback Girl. There is choreography too.
Round 6, Pick 199 - Khristian Boyd, DT, Northern Iowa:
NFL: He's not a great playmaker, but Boyd's mass and bull-like strength could give him a chance to be an early-down nose tackle. He's tough and reliable with good stamina.
CBS Sports: B+. Big-bodied NT with athletic prowess. Rushes tend to get high, and while he converts speed to power on occasion, if he sunk the pad level, he could be a very powerful defensive lineman. Pass-rush move arsenal isn’t barren just not relied upon often. Unique NT with DT abilities.
ESPN: The 24-year-old comes in with a lot of college experience, having started his career in 2018. The Saints like to rotate their defensive linemen, so he'll join a rotation that includes Bryan Bresee, Khalen Saunders and Nathan Shepherd. He said he prides himself on stopping the run, but also had 6.5 tackles for loss and 3.5 sacks at Northern Iowa in 2023.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: He is aiming to be the greatest player ever picked 199th.
Round 7, Pick 239 - Josiah Ezirim, OT, Eastern Kentucky:
NFL: Ezirim is a converted D-lineman with two years of OL play under his belt. His outstanding mass could serve him well if the Saints are patient with Ezirim's development.
CBS Sports: A. Starter-caliber size and length to play OT at the next level. Natural power jumps off the film. Better getting across the line than climbing to second level. Grip strength is very good. Well-balanced. Not a freaky athletic specimen but has clean film. More OT help for Saints.
ESPN: It wasn't a surprise that the Saints continued to look for offensive line depth after using a first-round pick on an offensive tackle. Ezirim was a former nose tackle who moved to the offensive line during the 2021 season and became a permanent starter at RT for the last two seasons. At 6-5 and 329 pounds, he'll be the heaviest player on the team next to new OL Oli Udoh. He'll start out as a depth player.
NFL Absolutely Not Fake News: Has a really nice fountain pen collection.