I received a job offer from Morgan Stanley at the end of March. I am now in week 7 and still currently waiting for my background check to pass. My current role is in a different city from the one that this new Morgan Stanley job is in and Morgan Stanley is expecting me to move to that city upon hire. Because of this, I have to stay with my mom as I cant sign a lease in the city of my current job because I wouldn’t be able to move to the city Morgan Stanley is requiring me to move to upon starting with them. My mind house is not in the city of my current job and is actually 4 hours away from it. I have been stuck commuting 8 hours every day from city to city for the past 7 weeks because Morgan Stanley refuses to complete my onboarding in a timely manner.
The recruiter claims she has no idea who my hiring manager is and the other HR lady on my case claims she does not have information regarding my background check. My question is, who does have any information? I turned down other offers for this job and they have been drawing out this process much longer than expected and needed.
I have only been working professionally for 3.5 years and have only worked at easily verifiable companies. I have also lived at the same address my entire life. Please note they are not doing a criminal background check as I have already completed that.
The background company, Cisive, has erroneously completed my background check stating they couldn’t verify two jobs. I submitted employment verification letters for both jobs and had the owner of one of the companies call Cisive to verbally verify as well. Cisive went ahead and left all that information I sent over out of my completed background check and now Morgan Stanley is threatening to revoke my offer.
Do I have grounds to sue Cisive for the erroneous background check? And am I being unreasonable being extremely irritated with this process?

I, (18F) moved in with my boyfriend (19M) a couple of months after I turned 18, and my parents were furious and hurt. There’s a lot to unpack with this one, so bear with me.
My parents (40F and 42M) are very religious and were somewhat strict while I was growing up. I have two younger brothers, one 17 and one 8 (this will be important later). For context, my father is a pastor at a local church and my parent’s religious beliefs are the reasoning behind most if not all of their actions. Growing up, I was never a stereotypical girl. I didn’t have many female friends and was usually not accepted in groups with guys as I was a girl and we were kids. I was extroverted as a child but due to being repeatedly rejected by kids my age, I became more introverted. I was a major nerd who loved superheroes and I wanted to play sports. Again, for context, the town I grew up in was very conservative and my parents are very conservative themselves. Girls liked girl things- even if they claimed that’s not how they felt, it’s how they acted. However, as a kid, I did not realize this. I played soccer and basketball growing up, regardless of how “weird” it made me because I didn’t think there was anything wrong with it. I was probably around 9 or 10 at this point. It was around this time my parents started having issues with my hobbies. I remember my parents trying to convince me to be a cheerleader because I would “like it more,” but I insisted on playing basketball. (This basketball/cheer program was through our church by the way). Because I was still young, they let it slide, but to this day I remember them being annoyed with it. This is also around the time dieting was introduced to me as well as calorie counting. I have always struggled with my weight and so has my mother, so they were very adamant on making sure I was being “healthy.” I didn’t understand it, but as a child, the only thing I was worried about was making my parents happy. A lot of discipline I received revolved around emotion. What I was doing was right or wrong and if I did something wrong, I felt terrible and awful and would often come crying to my parents about the mistakes I made, fearful of their disappointment and anger if they found things out themselves. They also made everything a moral dilemma- everything was about God and religion and as a kid, it really messed with my head. I would blame myself for everything that went wrong, seeing it as God’s punishment for my behavior. When I was 9, I went so far as to blame my grandmother’s death on myself because I was hanging out with boys instead of girls. This made me to be more of an introvert and my now anxiety disorder is much much worse.
About a year later, my parents sat down with me and my brother and told us they wanted to adopt. At first, I was very excited. I loved the idea of having another brother or sister. And I wouldn’t trade my 8 year old brother (let’s call him Scott) for anything, but adopting kids is part of what triggered a huge change in my parent’s behavior. Also- I had started getting older. I loved playing video games, watching cartoons and writing. However, these weren’t the things they wanted me to like I guess, because I started to feel their judgment become more clear and apparent as I got older. Now, I assume this is because as a kid, I just did what I was told, or my oddities were assumed to fade over time, but that is not the case anymore. Anyways, entering middle school, our family fostered a little girl, let’s call her Ally. A young woman in our church had told us that Ally’s family was out of the picture, and as her aunt, she couldn’t take her in as she was already a single mom and planned on adopting her brother, but couldn’t handle all three alone. So my family stepped in- however, we had come to find that her father was still in the picture and was actively fighting for custody. And Ally was a bit of a handful. My parents have admitted that they expected to swoop in, save a child from a hard life and be the heroes, and when things were harder than that they were very upset. Ally was about three- she remembered her mom (who was in jail i believe), her sisters, her grandma and grandpa, as well as her dad. She didn’t want our family, she wanted hers. She didn’t listen to my parents and rejected their parenting. This is what started to make my parents snap. I understand it was hard for them, but now that I’m older, I get it. She was a little girl who wanted her family. But they took her rejection very seriously and were constantly unhappy with her and made sure she knew it. Children not listening immediately was newer to them as my brother and I both did pretty much whatever they asked, and they did not take well to being told “no” by a child. 8 months after living with Ally, she was taken in by her grandparents to live with them and her sisters. The next day, my parents took my brother and I on a small trip. I’m not sure if it was to cheer us up or to celebrate. I was quite sad though- I had started to really care about Ally and had convinced myself that “God would take care of things” and I would have a sister. But I was angry- God took someone away from me and I was doing everything right. Why was he punishing me? Nothing made sense. Yet, only a year later, my parents were considering taking in another child. I wanted nothing to do with it- God had already taken one sibling away from me. I couldn’t do it again. In the end, I agreed and soon became attached to this little boy, who was two when we met him. This was Scott. I immediately became attached- and I love this kid more than I can describe- he’s my little brother and I would do anything for him.
This is where things start to go further downhill. Scott has a lot of trauma and mental issues, one of those issues being oppositional defiant disorder. That basically means that listening to any form of authority is near impossible for him, and causes him to lash out and act younger than he is. This is probably due to a number of reasons, as he was severely neglected and abused as an infant and his birth mother was on several different substances while pregnant with him, to the point where he was born high on several illegal drugs. He was left in a car seat for most of his infant life, so the back of his head is slightly flattened due to this. My parents are very obedient/disciplined-based parents, so his behavior rocked their world. In my opinion, the way they handled things with Scott was borderline abusive. There were several occasions where he would say he hated them (as young children do when they're mad) and they would flip. Telling him that if he didn’t want them that was fine. They didn’t need him. He could run back to his other parents, but his mom was in jail and his dad didn’t want him, so good luck with that. If we were in the car when this happened, they would threaten to leave him on the side of the road and good luck finding his way home. Once my mother literally pulled to the side of the road, placed him outside the car and started driving so he would “think they would leave him if his actions didn’t change,” but she turned around to get him. Because they would “never actually abandon or hurt him,” their actions were justified and perfectly fine. They would tell him he was acting like a baby when he started to cry and scream. “Little baby Scott, do you need a diaper?” Is how they would tease him when he became older, which just made his tantrums worse. They would tell him how disappointed they were with him and that he should be ashamed of himself and the way he acted because they gave him everything. They would call him, to his face, “an ungrateful manipulative piece of shit.” Because according to my parents, he could control his actions 100% and was choosing to act out to make their lives difficult. While I understand that this was hard for them, in my opinion, this in no way excuses their behavior. One time, Scott was crying and was upset (who knows why, but the kid had a lot of trauma and mental issues so it didn’t bother me too much), and my mother picked him up and put him in his room. She told him that every time he tried to leave his room, she would take away one of his stuffed animals. (He had several that he loved very much). Because this sounded so terrible to him, he ran after her trying to say it wasn’t fair. So she went into his room and took a stuffed animal. This cycle continued while he cried and begged for her to stop, because he just didn’t get it that she was going to keep doing this over and over and his trying to convince her was making it worse. Eventually, there were none left, and she told him if he didn’t stop crying she was going to throw them all away. I don’t remember what happened after that, but I do know that several of them were thrown away, if not at that time than others. There are many other instances of things like this and worse occurring, but we’d be here for a while if I tried to recount them all. Moving forwards to closer when I was moving out-
Now, several years later, when I turned sixteen, I had come to terms with the fact that I was bisexual. This went against everything my family was for, and I knew exactly how they viewed queer people. So, I started learning about different branches of Christianity and felt like I knew a God who loved me as I was and was happy in my decision to switch denominations. (My parents were baptists, and I wanted to be non-denominational). A few months after this, I decided to tell my parents the truth. I had done my best to give them hints, but I wanted to be honest with them because I trusted that they would love me and be there for me no matter what. When I told them I wanted to talk to them about something, they pushed and pressed and I had been trying to wait to talk to them until the next day. I had been seeing my high school counselor, and she suggested giving them a heads-up before springing that conversation up on them. However, after telling them to wait, they went through my phone and saw that I had researched different denominations and read different sermons on queer-accepting faith. They were livid. To be clear- I had a friend over while this was happening. We were watching a movie and joking about how I lost my phone and couldn’t show them this picture I wanted to. Then, I was called upstairs. I had apparently betrayed my parents and, “how could I do this to them, when I had someone over?” My father demanded I send my friend home, but my mother convinced him for one more hour. I was told not to tell my friend anything they had said and to act like things were fine, but I couldn’t. I went back downstairs where we were hanging out and started sobbing. I felt like my whole world was falling apart. Everything was over- and the people I thought would love me no matter what made me so afraid and sad, I was completely broken. My friend did their best to comfort me and even felt weary to leave me alone with my family but I told them I’d be okay, and asked that they update our friends about the situation. That night was hellish. So many conversations, them trying to understand what I felt, but not taking me particularly seriously either. That night turned into weeks of books, slideshows, conversations, and prayers. It felt like at-home conversion therapy. Eventually, I was given a choice “put my convictional flag in the ground or loose their trust.” As the petrified 16 year old, I chose to lie. I put my “flag” in the ground and did my best to, “earn back their trust” and repair their reputation that I had tarnished. The next couple months were a blur. I felt so terrible about myself. I didn’t know what I thought or believed and I became extremely hyper anxious and depressed. I had lost all sense of privacy and I did trust my parents further than I could toss them. My 17 year old brother (he was 14 at the time, let’s call him James) was 100% on board with my parents. My life felt like a living nightmare. My parents had it so that all my texts sent or received from my phone would go directly to theirs, so I couldn’t even confide in my friends without getting into trouble (which had happened and was how I found out that they did that because I deleted the texts immediately after sending/receiving things).. Everything felt like it was about me and how I needed to earn back their trust and how I was a terrible betrayer who they were not proud of in the slightest. I had gone to get a pixie cut (with their approval) and after they told me I was disgusting and repulsive and would never find a man to love me. I was heartbroken and felt so alone and unloved in my house, while I had to watch my younger brother be treated the way he was by my parents.
Luckily, I had a lot of friends and our school counselor who had been there for me through everything. They showered me with support and love and made sure I had a safe space to exist and truthfully I think they’re the only reason I didn’t do anything drastic and am still here today. It was hard though because James went to the same school as me and would tell my parents if I was with anyone he knew was queer or queer accepting. This caused me to be very very paranoid about who I was with, when, where, etc. Constantly covering my tracks, having an excuse set up and ready to bolt if I saw anyone I knew. What made things equally hard is that the church my father works at is quite big in our area. So if someone from our church or someone who knew my family saw me with anyone they labeled as “queer” or “gay,” they would tell my family as well. For the most part, I didn’t feel safe anywhere. I was constantly alert and on guard, even when I was asleep as my parents had woken me up before to confront me about someone I was friends with at school.
Fortunately for me, despite everything being such a mess, I am quite academically smart. I got a job the second I turned sixteen as I had heard the horror stories of queer kids being kicked out and wanted to be prepared. I had been saving money, taking college classes (we have a state program that pays for the classes while you’re in high school), and putting on a show for my family for quite some time. After saving some money, I paid my parents for an older car that they had paid off ten or so years ago. After my brother turned 16, he claimed it was too hard to share a car with me, so while I was away visiting a friend they bought him a car and told us that they expected each of us to pay them one thousand dollars before we graduated high school and that when we did so, they would sign over our respective cars to us. To be clear, I contributed to insurance and paid for my own gas, as well as contributing to my phone bill and money for food. Meanwhile, my brother had no job, and was constantly asking my parents for money to go out with friends. He had also taken up golfing, which as most people know is extremely expensive, and my parents funded everything. James had actually admitted to asking for more money than he needed and save the leftovers for whatever he wanted. I was also expected to chauffeur him to golf events and to get togethers with his friends, and my parents would in return give me some gas money. Another thing to note is that the only reason I was contributing to our phone bill is because James wanted unlimited data and my father said it was unreasonable unless we both contributed financially. I refused as I was trying to save money (as I would have with the car situation), however things per normal went James’s way. However, because he did not have a job, he was not expected to pay anything and would not be charged for the months and years that he did not contribute to. I did my best not to let these things get to me and to keep a level head. I paid my parents for the car because I already had over two thousand dollars saved as a seventeen year old high school student due to my hard work.
I focused on my classes and joined theater to help fill the hours in between school and work. I was much more active my sophomore year but when James also decided to join theater I retreated a bit as my once safe space to freely exist was no longer safe. I joined the stage crew but honestly that was also very enjoyable and lethargic for me and I enjoyed it a lot. Anyways, I was mostly a straight A student besides the stray Bs and one or two Cs (psychology and AP government screwed me over) and was working 15 or so hours a week. This is on top of my commitments to the church which were most of my Sundays and my Wednesday evenings. The funny thing is though- James missed more church than I ever did yet because my absence was because of work and not golf, I was the one consistently reprimanded for my lack of attendance and socialization whilst I was there. Yet because James could never do anything wrong and was a very extroverted person his lack of attendance wasn’t as serious as my own. I had one close friend through our church, let’s call her Grace (now 18F) and she actually knew about everything and was very supportive of me. I also had some other friends who really only showed up to church so I didn’t have to go through the torture alone which I don’t know if I could ever repay them for. Besides the people I was comfortable with though, I was pretty much a loner there and this heavily displeased my parents as it made them look bad and messed with their reputation. I never realized how much appearances meant to them until all of the shit that happened took place. As I mentioned before, our church is very conservative and traditional, and many sermons and lessons revolved around gender roles and the sinfulness of the world in terms fo the LGBTQ community. I consistently felt targeted because of my looks and my personality and stopped feeling comfortable there a very long time ago.
Now that more context is in place, fast forward to the end of my junior year. I had at this point finished all my high school requirements for graduation and was given an incredible opportunity to go to our local college full time for my senior year. I was very excited and happy because not only did it give me more freedom but it also meant I would get more than a year of my college education paid for by the state.
It was also around this time when I met my now boyfriend, let’s call him Dean. We were coworkers and had begun to get to know each other. We had a lot in common and while were different people personality wise, we enjoyed each other’s company quite a bit. By some miracle, I convinced my parents to allow me to hang out with him outside of work by claiming he was just a friend and saying that he was a Christian (which is by no means true). They were extremely skeptical but allowed us to hang out. We had an incredible time- and by the end of our first date he asked me to be his girlfriend which I happily accepted. I was so happy, but when I got home, things spiraled out of control. I told my parents about our time, and they were extremely unhappy as they felt fooled (which they were to be fair) and told me I was not allowed to see him ever again. I was devastated and they said a lot of very uncalled for things and but I understand why they were angry. To be clear, they knew I had a romantic interest in Dean and that this hangout was to see if we would be compatible partners and get to know each other better. They did not call it a date though because they weren’t comfortable with it, even if it was a date and they kinda knew it. So while they were on some level “fooled,” I feel that their anger and harshness wasn’t called for as they knew the intentions of our hanging out. The next morning my father demanded to see my phone. This is when I started to panic. You see, they had stop tracking my texts and I had openly flirted with Dean over text. Nothing that explicit and no photos of any kind. But the flirting would be enough for them to tear my world apart and I knew it. They had gone through my personal conversations before and made me feel terrible because of it and I refused to let them do it again. So I deleted everything. The entire conversation chain, I removed it from my phone 100%. My parents absolutely lost their shit. They had been manipulating and gaslighting me for years, doing anything and everything to keep their control and with my actions I showed them they couldn’t control me forever and things went very downhill. I lost all my privacy and was once again told how I had betrayed them and I was terrible and couldn’t be trusted. Again- I partially understand their anger here because I had directly disobeyed a command. But at the same time, I feel as a young woman I should be allowed some sense of privacy and the ability to talk to people without being constantly monitored. I don’t feel like I did anything wrong and would happily do it again in a heartbeat if it meant I’d be where I am today. Regardless of this, my life became a living hell once again, and my parents compared this to when I came out, “which was maybe the worst night of their lives.” They stripped me of all my privileges even if I didn’t have many to begin with. They made me feel absolutely miserable and awful about myself and I was monitored like never before. I would be working and receive texts upon texts of how I was so terrible and how could I do this to them because they had done everything for me and I’m a terrible daughter who should be ashamed of myself for the deceit and malicious nature of my actions. Again- this was because they could not read the messages between me and my now boyfriend. I understand them being mad but they took it to a completely inappropriate level. I shared everything happening with my friends and counselor and they supported me and assured me I did nothing wrong and they would be there for me which helped but as my home was now a living hellscape it was hard to hear it. I found a way to tell Dean about things and at first he felt guilty but I assured him that their actions were not his fault but theirs. He then asked me if I wanted to pause our relationship but I told him honestly that they had taken so many things I cared about over the years and I refused to let them take this. I did tell him however I understood if he didn’t want to put up with all the complicatedness of my family but he told me he cared for me and would be there so long as I was okay with it. He also told me if things ever got really bad at home, regardless of the fact we had just started dating, he had spoken to his family and they offered me a place to stay if I needed/wanted it. This really touched me, but I reassured him that it was not his job to offer that, but I appreciated the offer.
This begins our relationship and we were very happy. We had found a way to communicate over email, and we were able to hide our relationship with my family. Luckily for me, over the years I had made a habit of hanging out at the park by myself so it was not strange for me to head to the park for a couple of hours. There, I would leave my car and phone (my phone had a tracker on it) and Dean and I would hangout multiple times a week and it was heaven. At this point, we’ve only been dating for a year but I can admit without any doubt that I am in love with this man and he is in love with me. During the school year, it became easier for us to hang out in between classes as we both went to the same college (I am older for my year in school and he is younger, so he was a sophomore in college while I was a senior in high school. However, we are barely a year apart in age for anyone who is concerned). However, in order for us to communicate and hang out, I had to be extremely diligent and was consistently covering my tracks while “once again, earning my parents trust and repairing our relationship.” Because of course their actions were completely justified and I was the one in the wrong, per normal. Anyways, every day, I was editing search histories, erasing messages, and looking over my shoulder. Our church had a program on campus where Dean and I went to school, so being together in public was risky as my father’s friends and coworkers were always on campus and I knew I would be screwed if we were caught together. We had a couple of close calls over the months but it was all worth it because I hadn’t been that happy in years.
Now, to the day I left and why. You see, my parents' behavior towards Scott was becoming more aggressive and worse over time. They also had, in my opinion, a drinking problem. Considering they didn’t deny it when I called them out, they may agree. They would behave more hostile after several drinks and it was happening so consistently I was constantly walking on eggshells. Between the way they treated Scott, the way they treated me and the constant stress I was under trying to balance my life in fear of the repercussions, things became too much. When things weren’t going to shit, I was consistently expected to either babysit my brother and do chores while being a full time college student and working a part time job WHILE attending church multiple times a week and keeping up with my responsibilities as a senior. This is on top of the stress my parents' behavior caused, meanwhile James was expected to do almost nothing in comparison. Don’t get me wrong- he didn’t do anything, but he had almost no responsibilities outside of school and his extracurriculars which were exclusively funded by my parents. Yes he helped with dishes during the week and would keep his space tidy. But as my schedule became much more flexible due to my school schedule, my expectations around the house became much higher than his. Even though I paid 200 a month on gas, 50 a month for insurance and 50 a month for the phone bill, and he paid nothing for his car, insurance, phone, gas, nothing. So you would think he would be expected to help in the house more but no. Also, James’s behavior towards Scott mimicked my parents and so all babysitting responsibilities fell on me as they couldn’t be trusted alone together. I was rarely if ever paid for my cleaning or babysitting services as it was my responsibility as their eldest child. They would also consistently judge me for my weight, cloths, hair, hobbies, etc. Why did I think it was a good idea to get fast food? I clearly didn’t need it. They would “outfit check me” to make sure the outfits I wore were feminine enough because the way I look effected their reputation and I couldn’t be trusted. I was not allowed to cut my hair after their tantrum over it. As for my hobbies, I stopped playing sports in middle school as I am very short (currently 5 foot even) and was unable to keep up with my peers. However my interest in video games and cartoons wasn’t feminine enough and they proceeded to compare me to my best friend Grace because she was skinnier and liked more feminine things than I did which hurt a lot. Another thing for context, I have PCOS. It’s an endocrine disorder that heavily effects your metabolism and hormones, which in turn severely effected my weight, however my parents never acknowledged it and again made everything my fault. So from what I wore, what I ate, who I hung out with and what I enjoyed doing was constantly criticized, scrutinized and eventually controlled by my family for years. On top of everything else, I was done. I was 18, I had resaved the thousand I paid my family and knew I was at a place where I didn’t need them and was tired of being treated like shit. So I left.
The night I moved out was a total shit show. I had rallied Dean and my other friend, let’s call them Rita (18NB), and they helped me form a plan. When I returned home, Dean and Rita would be on their way. I would pack everything that belonged to me or I felt they would let me take, and prep the bags outside. After Rita arrived I went to try and explain to my parents that I would be leaving and explain calmly why. In a perfect world, we would have had a long deep talk, and things would have ended alright. That is far, far from what happened. They immediately starting screaming, and took my phone and car keys as both belonged to them, which I calmly handed over. Rita was there for emotional support, and put themselves between me and my parents as they got more angry and seemed to be turning aggressive. After that, my father called the police and claimed that there was an intruder in their home trying to take their child. Yeah. Complete bullshit- which to this day I’m surprised they were never charged with falsifying a 911 call. They screamed at Rita to get out of their home and was screaming that I was throwing away everything and I needed to reconsider. I ignored them and attempted to calmly walk out, and my parents attempted to barricade the doors while harassing Rita to leave. Because Rita is incredible and one of my closest friends now, they refused to leave without me which was very calming. While my parents were distracted yelling at them, I slipped out through the garage. My mother saw this and then grabbed me, attempting to drag me inside by my arm. Rita saw this and assisted me in getting her off me, and after doing so we continued to walk towards Dean’s car where he was waiting for us. He figured it would be best if my family didn’t see him for the time being as they would definitely lose their minds at seeing his face. My parents continued screaming and then the cops arrived. They were quite confused at first because they had been sent to deal with a potential kidnapping, only to see two grown adults throwing a tantrum because their adult child didn’t want to live with them anymore. That night was honestly so insane I could write three more pages about everything they said and did. The most notable events were first when my mother tried to explain to the police that because I was her child, she was allowed to put her hands on me, which they humorously informed her was not the case. The next was when James came home from theater rehearsal, to which my parents told them that I was abandoning our family. He was an emotional wreck through all of it, and to this day has told me that until I “fix” things with our parents he is not okay with having any form of relationship with me. Throughout all of this Scott was in his room, and I was allowed to give him one last hug before leaving. The final and most notable thing, was as the cops allowed my boyfriend, Rita and I to leave, my father threatened violence towards my boyfriend and accused him of "taking advantage of his underage daughter," which is just ridiculous as we are practically the same age, and anything we had done together was consensual and reserved for after I turned 18. Another thing my parents did was go through each bag I had packed and took everything they felt belonged to them, including the laptop provided to me by my high school, which they hilariously were made to give back to me several days later as it was not theirs and they had no right to take it. They tried claiming they were giving it to me out of the kindness of their hearts, but that bullshit meant nothing as after I informed the school of their behavior, the school assured me they would be made to give it back. Another thing they threatened to do as I left was pull me out of high school, which I was assured by the police they were not capable of doing as I was 18. The police were for the most part annoyed with my parents, tired of their bs and told me I seemed to be a capable young woman and wished me the best of luck. My parents had tried to ask the police to say I was mentally unstable for the time being so I wouldn’t be allowed to leave, as their “she’s still in high school” excuse didn’t do anything. You see, as my father is an influential church figure and had friends in the police force, he thought they would be on his side but was sorely mistaken as the chief told him they wouldn’t be doing him any favors. And with that, I was free.
My boyfriend's family has been nothing but unconditionally kind and supportive and have accepted me as part of their family which has been a huge blessing in all of this. I am in contact with my father’s sister and his father, my aunt and grandpa, and as I have expressed my unhappiness at home, they are supportive of me as well. However, as my aunt lives further away and my grandpa is not in the best place to have me live with him, I have been with my boyfriend's family since I left home in October. I have a lot more I could say but I already feel like there are way too many parts here and so for now I’ll leave it at this. So yeah, AITA for moving out after I was treated like shit for years while witnessing the mistreatment of my sibling?

I tried to diagnose and fix the AC on a 2017 honda accord. Could not get it to work, so I finally gave in and have an appointment to drop it off the shop next Friday. Driving me nuts that I couldn't figure it out. It all started when I noticed that it was not blowing cold air as well as it use to, took out the manifold gauges and saw that indeed was low on refrigerant. Bought a can of r134a , filled it. Ac was working for about 1 week, then it would no longer blow cold air, it wasn't hot air either it was just blowing air. Also, the compressor clutch would not engage. Check the relays and fuses and were ok.
With the car off if I connect power to the clutch via the relay pins at the fuse box ,it does engage.
With the car turned on and on idle car if I bypass the relay with a jumper wire the car turns off .
That's when i gave up and made an appointment.
What i don't want is being told that i need certain parts and doing the whole trial and error buying parts method of diagnosing.
Any feedback is appreciated.

Besides the mastery changes being absolutely god awful, you no longer get the chest reward for getting an "S'. Instead it was changed to "loot milestones" that I'm sure will be incredibly grindy and terrible. I guess Riot wasn't making enough money on skin sales and needed to find a way to get rid of the original system.

I’m sure a lot of people have talked about the issues with GenderGP at the moment. With me, I’m prettier sure they’ve removed my membership as I haven’t been charged for a few months and can no longer log into the membership page to order a new prescription anymore.
So, instead of being played around I’m deciding to look elsewhere to continue my HRT. I’ve heard some good things about Gender Care and I’m going to look into going with them if I can’t find another alternative.
I have a question:
I’m from the uk, down south for university and wanted to know if I can get HRT (testosterone) through my local GP. If so, how? What would I need to do.
If anyone could help out it’s much appreciated.

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• Projects & Labs
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15. Money Back Guarantee: I have won multiple academic awards for my exceptional skills & expertise in math. I guarantee overall A & B grades for all coursework completed. Plus. I also offer a 50% refund for C+, C, and C- scores, and a full 100% refund for D+, D, D-, and F scores.

HOW I CALCULATE FINAL RATES:

• Exams & Quizzes: Final rates for exams and quizzes depend on various factors including: whether or not there is proctoring, how many hours the exam is, total number of questions including sub-parts, preferred method of me delivering solutions, whether it's show all work or just the answer only, and whether the assessment has a flexible window of time to complete or a fixed & rigid start and end time.
• Full Courses: Final rates for full class help depend all the foregoing plus: total number of hw, quizzes, exams, discussion posts, and other academic tasks left that need to be completed, total number of weeks or modules left in the class to complete, and whether there is required multi factor authentication for logging in like Duo Push or text passcode.
• Essays Papers Discussion Posts: Final rates for writing tasks depend on the required number of words or pages. topic of interest, type of citations, required number and type of sources & bibliography style , level of research required, and type of additional software required to complete the essay like: Excel, R, or Minitab.

ABOUT MY RATES & PAYMENT OPTIONS:

• Rationale for My Rates: I sincerely believe my rates are more than fair considering my education, skills, native born U.S. resident status, legitimacy, and the substantial amount of value, stress relief, and saved time & energy I’d be providing you in exchange for my valuable, irretrievable time, energy, and effort.
• Disclaimer About Rates: Completing someone else's exam, essay, or homework assignment is obviously NOT something you can just freely ask anyone to do, especially on the internet. Therefore, such help should be well-compensated. Services that are reliable and deliver high-quality results are difficult to find and are very high in demand. Thus, I expect to be compensated fairly for all the value, stress relief, and saved time & energy my services provide. However, I may be willing to negotiate rates if necessary.
• Payment Methods: I accept PayPal (required for all Canadian students), Venmo, Zelle, Cash App, and anonymous credit & debit card payments via online invoice.
• Payment Plans: I offer the following payment plans for my services: weekly (most expensive), monthly, half-now / half-later, and all upfront (least expensive).
• Money Back Guarantee: I guarantee the following grades for coursework completed: A+. A, A-, B+, B. and B-. However, I offer a 50% refund for C+, C, and C- grades, and a full 100% refund for D+, D, D-, and F grades.

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• Full Class Help Rates: $595 – $2495 USD
• Exam & Test Help Rates: $150 – $350 USD
• Quiz Help Rates: $60 – $180 USD
• HW Assignment Help Rates: $60 – $420 USD
• Essay & Paper Writing Help Rates: $19 – $29 USD per 300 words

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Considering the fact that you found my contact information online, it’s understandable to be skeptical regarding the legitimacy of my services. Therefore, I’m willing to do all of the following to help you feel more secure in trusting me with your academic needs:

• Engage in a Telephone interview: Speak with you on the phone and answer any questions you may have so that you have the opportunity to assess and analyze my tone, articulation, and accent. I’m a New Jersey-born Irish/Italian-American, but I have been told that I speak in an erudite & articulate suburban American accent with a “professor style” voice somewhat resembling the voice of actor: Ben Stein.
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MY REBUTTAL TO THE OBLIGATORY “IS THIS A SCAM?” QUESTION:
At the risk of sounding arrogant, I consider myself to be at least marginally more intelligent (both academically & socially) than the average person. Therefore, if I ever decided to suddenly risk prison time, risk my reputation, and risk enduring the wrath of modern-day “cancel culture” by scamming people out of their money:

• Not Worth the Money: I certainly wouldn’t do it for such paltry amounts of money. (i.e., anything less than $1,000 per victim.)
• Most Students are Broke: I certainly wouldn’t choose high school & college students as my “target audience” to scam, considering that most people without college degrees have abysmally low annual incomes.
• Waste of Time & Energy: Communicating back and forth with potential clients is an absurdly long time sink since only less than 10% of all potential clients who reach out to me actually become paying clients of mine.
• All My Payment Apps are Still Active: If you pay me to provide academic services and I don’t deliver, you can always dispute the payment with the payment app and easily get your money refunded. If I were in the habit of swindling money from people, then all of my payment accounts would have been investigated and be completely shut down by now.

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• My Mission: Thank you for taking the time to read my Reddit post. I take what I do very seriously and I always strive to get the highest possible grades for all students who entrust me with their coursework.
• Closing Words: Please feel free to reach out to me if you're sincerely interested in having help you with your school work. I am available via text, email, and call almost 24/7/365.

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I've never been part of the STEM/Healthcare field before. I have 2 Bachelors in other areas. But I'm thinking of going back to school for either an ABSN or ADN to become an RN in California. Still open to applying to school out-of-state though since I know it can be competitive, and thankfully I have the freedom to move if need be.
As I'm researching more into nursing school, I see that being a CNA or EMT for at least a year can really boost your chances of getting in. But I don't know how worth it this would be for me.
Looks like CNA job postings make $3-6/hr less than I do right now. Also, certifications are about $1500-$2000 in my area. I know there are low cost/free options, and I'm signed up for one, but there's no guarantee I'll get in, and it would take longer = only about 6 months of CNA experience.
I'm also not keen on quitting my job to get paid less than I do now... Becoming an RN is better for me in the long run, but I don't know about being a CNA.
Could someone put this in perspective to me? Will my odds of getting into nursing school in the US be alright without becoming a CNA/EMT? Is it worth leaving my current job to become a CNA/EMT?
(I know there are part-time/overnight options as well, but I don't want to strain myself while doing pre-req's too)
Thank you all for your thoughts in advance! <3

Hello. So I am going to be asking my math teacher to write a recommendation letter for me soon. However, she apparently only writes 5 of them, and the 5th person asked today so I do not know if she will write some. I would rank myself about 30-40/100 students she has so definitely one of the better students, but I am by no means her favorite if that makes sense. If she refuses, should I tell her that it is required. I don't want to sound like I am begging but I really need her letter. Any advice appreciated.

I love ALL breasts and dont care how big or small yours are. If your breasts have been feeling a bit neglected, I'd like to give them my exclusive attention.
Why me? Other than I have soft hands and an amazing tongue, I am down to earth and respectful. I really just love breasts. Breast play could end at just that, or we can go further if you would like but I dont expect it. Actually I do not expect anything in return, really.
The original post from elsewhere: What do I have in mind? Before I take off your bra, I'll want to spend plenty of time kissing and caressing the areas of your chest that aren't covered. Eventually I'll undo your bra, but I won't take it all the way off just yet--I want to savor this moment, so I'll pull the straps off your shoulders and slowly lower the cups until your nipples are exposed. As much as I want to suck your nipples, I'll resist that impulse for awhile longer, caressing and kissing the outer parts of your breasts instead. Only when the anticipation becomes unbearable will I take your stiff nipples into my mouth. If you like a gentle touch, I'll barely graze your nipples with my lips and lightly flick them with my tongue before sucking. If you like it rough, I'll bite, pinch, and tug on them until they're pleasantly sore.
This could be a one off thing or more frequently when you're needing stress relief.
I am also down to earth and with a good sense of humor. I'm white, 5'11", and average weight with brown eyes and brown hair. I'm a nonsmoker with no tattoos or piercings.
If this interests you shoot me a message. If all goes well, lets meet somewhere public beforehand to make sure there is chemistry.
Please D&D free.

My Legion 7 gen 6 recently died (Black Screen). I've had a couple technicians check it out and it seems as though the gpu has gone bad. Had it for 2 years exactly and it always worked perfectly, but I suspect it may have been my fault because I never cleaned the fans and it started running extra hot towards the end. (First gaming laptop. I'm new to this)
Anyway. I'm considering getting a new legion (I really love this line), but there are so many posts here and online I've seen where people encountered issues mere months after getting the laptop, and lenovo failed to solve their issues properly, even with warranty (And even with their flagship pro 7i and 9i models).
Warranty services for me will likely be worse because I live outside the US and I'll need to buy it from Amazon. My country isn't directly covered by the international warranty as far as I can tell, but my previous legion worked well for 2 years, and if I was less ignorant, it could have lasted longer.
My question is in your experience, is the legion lineup reliable and long lasting? How long have you had yours? Do you think it's wise for me to stick with the Legion in this situation?

I received a job offer from Morgan Stanley at the end of March. I am now in week 7 and still currently waiting for my background check to pass. My current role is in a different city from the one that this new Morgan Stanley job is in and Morgan Stanley is expecting me to move to that city upon hire. Because of this, I have to stay with my mom as I cant sign a lease in the city of my current job because I wouldn’t be able to move to the city Morgan Stanley is requiring me to move to upon starting with them. My mind house is not in the city of my current job and is actually 4 hours away from it. I have been stuck commuting 8 hours every day from city to city for the past 7 weeks because Morgan Stanley refuses to complete my onboarding in a timely manner.
The recruiter claims she has no idea who my hiring manager is and the other HR lady on my case claims she does not have information regarding my background check. My question is, who does have any information? I turned down other offers for this job and they have been drawing out this process much longer than expected and needed.
I have only been working professionally for 3.5 years and have only worked at easily verifiable companies. I have also lived at the same address my entire life. Please note they are not doing a criminal background check as I have already completed that.
The background company, Cisive, has erroneously completed my background check stating they couldn’t verify two jobs. I submitted employment verification letters for both jobs and had the owner of one of the companies call Cisive to verbally verify as well. Cisive went ahead and left all that information I sent over out of my completed background check and now Morgan Stanley is threatening to revoke my offer.
Do I have grounds to sue Cisive for the erroneous background check? And am I being unreasonable being extremely irritated with this process?

Hello there fellow Redditors! I am back with an update, but mostly I would like some advice, and even though my last post didn't blow up I sincerely appreciate the insight that I did receive and I especially appreciated the couple of you that reached out directly. Also, before anyone asks, no. She still hasn't said anything about the cat. Not a single peep. She's fully intended on taking that to her grave. Along with so many other shitty little lies and secrets.
For any of you who did not see my previous post and would like to know what the hell I'm talking about, here it be: https://www.reddit.com/AITAH/comments/1c08z51/aitah_for_refusing_to_spend_time_with_my_dying/
Anywho, things had gone right back to the way they were previous to my mother getting sober or receiving her diagnosis. (Pretty much no contact with consistent pangs of guilt thrown in.)
My aunt (who I'm going to start calling A) no longer calls or gives me updates unless I call her. I guess she's siding with her sister again, which is fair enough. I can't blame her when my mother (henceforth known as M) has been twisting and manipulating A's perspective for A's entire life. I did have a heart-to-heart conversation with A the same night of my previous post where I explained why I decided to no longer visit with M. She seemed to understand but she did pose a pretty good question: "OP, how are you going to explain this decision to your mother when she asks why you haven't been around?"
I don't remember exactly what I said to her that night, but it was something to the effect of "If M wants me around she will have to stop acting like a spoiled child. Her diagnosis is horrible there is no doubt about that, but her terrible diagnosis is no excuse for her behavior."
Well, this past Sunday was Mother's Day as I assume most of you are well aware. I honestly wasn't aware because I haven't celebrated that holiday since I was about 10 or 12 YO. Whenever little ads or notifications pop up on my phone or social media, I just scroll past them. Anyway, I got a random call from M on Saturday telling me that she loves me and she misses me and she would love it if I could come visit her at A's house tomorrow which is about an hour away. I apologized and told her that I already had plans for the next day, which I did. She did not mention that it was Mother's Day at all and, again, I did not realize that either.
The next day, I canceled my previous plans because I had been trying to get my SIL to bring my older brother (B) over so that we could have a heart-to-heart conversation. Over the past couple of weeks, I learned that M fucked B up pretty badly mentally as well. I had no idea that he had been dealing with the same crippling guilt and anger that I have been feeling. I thought that they were much closer than she and I were because I went no contact the minute I could but B not only worked at the same company alongside her for several years, but he would still hang out with her fairly often. My point is, that heart-to-heart conversation is well overdue (and still sadly has not happened yet).
Here's where I could use some advice... I missed a call from M while I was eating my lunch today. She didn't leave a voicemail, but she did send me the following text:

"I love you. I'm was upset that I didn't get to see you on Mother's Day. I sat here bald and lonely anyways I love you. Talk to you later. Send."

I texted B and asked if M reached out to him as well. "Yup. She sent the same."
My brother and I are adults and it makes my blood boil to know that even still to this day she wants to use these manipulation tactics on her own children and pit us against one another. There are 2 things I want to do with this text.
1.) I want to take a screenshot of this text and send it to A before I respond to M. A is the one who asked me how I am going to explain my decision to my mother when when my mother asks why I haven't been around, so it only seems fair that she sees what M said to me as well as my response to M once I send it.
2.) I would like to respond to M and explain to her my reason(s) for going no contact again. I need to do this in the most apathetic manner as possible though. If I am too "mean" to her, there is no telling what she will do but the one thing that is certain is A will be the person left to deal with her.
Any advice at all on how to go about this would be immensely appreciated.

Just like the title says, my boyfriend called me almost as soon as I woke up, and told me he no longer wanted to be together. This happened my first day back for summer break (we both go to college together and have been dorming together for 2/3 of the years of our relationship).
While I won’t get into all the details, essentially he told me that he felt burdened and unhappy in our relationship. For context, I have extreme anxiety that has gone mostly untreated for my entire life. This anxiety often prevents me from doing things like leaving the house, spending time with our friends/roommates, responding appropriately to stressful situations, and just about everything else.
Before we left for break, I had felt that he was getting stressed out by how my anxiety dictates his emotions and actions, and I sat him down and told him that I was unhappy with how things were and I promised to get medical help (I’ve already made an appointment with a new physician to talk about trying new medications, as all the previous ones I tried never worked, and therapy was unhelpful, so I gave up for a few years). I told him that I was tired of anxiety ruining my own life and ruining our relationship, and that I didn’t want to be this sort of person anymore. He didn’t prompt this conversation, I did.
Despite this, the day I get back from break, he calls me and tells me it’s over. I tried very hard to be gracious and understanding, telling him that if he was unhappy he shouldn’t stay, because I never wanted to do anything but make him happy. My anxiety makes me an incredibly difficult person to live with, and I left it untreated for so long because I was scared of things changing, and I see now how hard that was making his life. I told him it was okay and I understood, and that I would still seek treatment without him. He told me he needed to chose his happiness over anything else, and I told him he should.
After 4 hours of sobbing into my mother’s arms, he texts me asking if he can still text me. I told him that I was completely heartbroken and needed to be left alone if I was going to be able to heal and move on with my life, and we couldn’t be friends because I was always going to want him back and that wasn’t fair to either of us.
After that, he starts telling me that he regrets what he said, that he does actually think the issues in our relationship can be fixed. He says he wants to help me with getting treatment and he wants to be more open about his emotions so I’m not blindsided like I was by this. He says he wants to work on the emotional/physical labor inequality in our relationship, and that he can’t imagine life without me.
I feel completely lost and confused now. My heart tells me to take him back immediately, but I don’t know if that’s that right choice. I don’t have really any close friends I can talk to about this (see aforementioned severe anxiety), so I’m coming to reddit.
I love him, and all I want to do is say yes and forget this ever happened. I feel as if no one will ever understand or love me as much as he did again, and I want to fix things so badly.
At the same time, I worry that I’ll never feel secure again. I feel like I’ll always think if I have a bad day, or I ask him for anything, or I slip up in my mental health recovery journey, I’ll be dumped again. I also feel as though my agency was torn away from me, just answering my phone for a nice morning call with my boyfriend and coming away sobbing and single, and now I’m being forced to make the choice for him when I never got a say in it in the first place.
I believe we can fix things, that I can become a better partner, but I don’t know that he believes that. He says he wished he could just take back today but I don’t understand how you can go to deciding to breakup with me the second I get home from college to four hours later saying it was all a huge mistake.
Any advice is appriciated, and if anyone has ever been in a similar situation please tell me what you did and how it worked out.

Днес във Фейсбук ме добави една, която се представя за банкер и която казва, че [име на клиент на банката] е починал от ковид и е оставил 9.5 милиона долара наследство, но нямал наследник и търсела човек със същото фамилно име, когото да запише като наследник и с когото, като част от сделката, да си подели наполовина наследството. От любопитство и скука отговарям, даже пращам имейл от току-що създаден от мен празен нов имейл адрес, където тя пише:
"It was nice meeting with you and also to have your willingness to partake in this transaction with me. First, I should let you know that this is not a hoax arrangement or any kind of joke. I am freely giving you my full details hoping that you will not betray me in any way. My name is Mrs. [име], I work with Isbank (ISBANKASI) PLC.
You should know that it is not always mandatory that you have a relationship with a person before you can stand as the next of kin. I only need your sincere cooperation since I could not find the relatives of my client since years of his death and my bank management has not noticed this account and no one has come for the claim.
This transaction requires utmost trust and dedication from your side since you will be receiving the funds as the Next of Kin/ Heir to [име] and shall be in control of the money until I come over to meet you in your country for my share. Regarding the sharing, I believe my sharing ratio is acceptable to you and it's a fair deal. I want you to bear one thing in mind, there is no risk involved in this transaction. It is 100% risk-free and secured once you follow my instructions and keep everything secret between us.
What I have to do is just to place your information in my bank system database as the Next of Kin/ Heir to late [име] and you will apply for the claim and send it to the Isbank requesting for the fund transfer. I have concluded my feasibility studies long ago and there is no reason to panic. It is 100% risk-free. I will take care of giving you all the related information of the account which the bank may need from you. This position gives me confidence that I'm in a better position to complete the transfer with you without any interruption by any person. The first step now in this transaction is to place your name as the next of kin to the account in our bank database so that all information will reflect accordingly. I further wish to notify you that our bank has access to transfer to any bank in your country provided all the account details are correctly submitted.
I will require you to send me the following information for the beginning of this transaction.
*Your Full Names: *Date Of Birth: *A Copy Of Your International Passport Or Driving License: *Current Address: *Telephone Number: *Profession:
Once I receive the above-mentioned information and concludes with my inside arrangements and changes in our bank database, I shall inform you of the next step which I will prepare an application letter of claim for you to send to our bank and request them to transfer the funds into your account that you are the next of kin/heir to the account deposit of the deceased.
Regards, [име]
Here Are My Details
Full Names: [име] Occupation: Banker Address. Ankara, Turkey. Age: 43 Years."
Проверих онлайн, и определено има аналогични измами, само че тук-там нещо е променено. Даже си беше прикачила снимки на личната карта за повече "достоверност" 🤣

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yewtu.be please! Take a cut of this lowly anticipated peighdeigh.
24 hours before the birth: Cole was shirtless in his driveway; Colonsac are talking about how weird it is to put a car seat in the car. Really, on your 4th biological kid Cole? You legitimately own your own version of an Amazon delivery truck to haul around your litter, this is not novel or weird or a flex. It’s just what you do when you have a baby.
They state this is probably the start of their last baby vlog as Cole throws the seat in the car. Sac states they won’t put the baby in like that and not to worry. Newsflash, assholes: We are actually more concerned about the child labor and exploitation!
Sac spends some time cuddling Sunday because she is soon to no longer to be the littlest. They sing “You are my sunshine” and some Jesus loves me song. The baby talk from the childlike adults is gross. Just talk normal, idiots.
Cole is with P and tells her that Mommy-Daddy are waking up early to get the baby out. Sav is with Z lamenting that it’s the last night he will be her only boy low wage earner. The grandmomager Gigi is spending the night to watch over E and the other kids they have (that’s likely how she thinks of them too).
At the hospital, Sac is gowned and they’re inducing. Cole is petting Sac as he asks her how she’s doing. She isn’t hurting yet but wants her epidural.
Sac had a reaction to her epidural that caused her blood pressure to plummet (hypotension). During the epidural, she jumped and became numb quickly. Not to minimize what probably felt scary, but this is a fairly common reaction/side effect of epidurals. I’m sure it was scary. That said, Colon presents it all with sad-sad music and text slides that paint a much more dire picture of the situation. Essentially, this can be a pretty common reaction and Sac had never experienced before. But it ain’t a LabRat birth vlog if it doesn’t exploit a crisis, so… Sac was out of it but comes back to. Now she will have a 2nd epidural. Cole says an emergency c-section is on the table…but honestly they’re inducing so…it always is, every time.
Contractions are ramping up and all is well in LabRat land. All their kids have been born in the 2 am or pm hour, but they’re not sure if 5 will make it in time (it’s 2:10 pm at the time). Sac needs to get to work and starts pushing.
Colon says this is insane as if he’s never seen labor occur before. He pans back and forth between selfie shots of himself and Sac. 5 is born, a big boy per Colon, and Sac is back in her baby haze. The baby does look huge. Christian rock plays in the background. Colon asks her if it feels weird this is probably the last time she’s doing this, and she gives a reluctant yes. Colon FaceTimes the litter at home, and it ends on a preview of next time: the brood comes to visit.
Typical LabRats and typical baby vlog. We are still a few videos away from a name and they have been tight lipped according to sources in the know.
So there you have it. Happy Peighdeigh to Colonsac and welcome to 5.

The City of Tallahassee's administrative offices will be closed in observance of the Emancipation Day holiday on Monday, May 20. Following are service schedule changes for the week of May 19-25 for solid waste customers living inside the Tallahassee city limits (garbage/recycling only), StarMetro, Tallahassee Animal Services and City-run community centers.
Garbage and Recycling Collection
During the holiday week, all residential customers will receive garbage and recycling service one day later than regularly scheduled. Due to continued recovery from the recent tornadoes and the large volume of debris they created, there will be no changes to the collection schedule for bulky items and yard waste, which will impact blue week customers. All storm-related debris should be placed at the curb as soon as possible.
Below are the schedule changes for garbage and recycling collection only:
Monday customers ► Tuesday, May 21
Tuesday customers ► Wednesday, May 22
Wednesday customers ► Thursday, May 23
Thursday customers ► Friday, May 24
Friday customers ► Saturday, May 25
Garbage and recycling containers should both be rolled behind the curb the night before the service day, with both containers returned to the home no later than the day after collection.
Learn more about storm debris collection at Talgov.com/News. To look up bulky items and yard waste collection dates for specific addresses, please visit Talgov.com. For more information, call 850-891-4968.
StarMetro Routes
StarMetro, the City's mass transit system, will operate a regular schedule with night service for the holiday on Monday, May 20. The Information Booth at C.K. Steele Plaza will be open regular hours from 6 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. Dial-A-Ride will operate from 6 a.m. to 10 p.m., and the Call Center will be open from 6 a.m. to 11 p.m. The Appleyard Front Desk and administrative offices will be closed. For more information, visit Talgov.com/StarMetro or call 850-891-5200.
Animal Services
The Animal Service Center will be closed on Monday, May 20. Normal hours will resume on Tuesday, May 21, with the center opening at 10 a.m. for appointments only. Customers needing more information, including photos of animals available for adoption and to report lost and found pets, may visit Talgov.com/Animals.
City Animal Control will be available for emergency situations only on Monday, May 20, and can be reached via the Consolidated Dispatch Agency at 850-606-5800.
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Hi and TIA for any comments you may have.
I am wondering if anyone has any perspective on the performance of the Ego LM2156SP on St. Augustine grass.
I have read mixed comments on the forum - many of which are older. Some suggested that Ego (and other electric mowers) have issues when the grass is wet. I am in an area where it rains. Generally speaking things dry out pretty fast, but the last several weeks things have been saturated.
While I don't think it should take longer than an hour to mow, I am wondering if anyone has any experience with this size of lawn and type of grass and if they believe a second batter would be needed.
Any perspective on how loud the mower would be? Is this Ego model quiet enough to mow early in the morning? I do not want to disturb my neighbors. It would be a big plus to be able to get it done early, though - I do recognize that may not be possible.
Lastly, does anyone have a perspective on the size of cuttings the Ego leaves behind? My current lawn service does not bag, but in looking at the lawn after they are finished, the cuttings are absolutely tiny.
PS: if I am making a terrible mistake by going electric vs gas, please let me know.
Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.