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Good Afternoon redditor, this would be my first ever post after listen to multiple reddit story podcasts.
I mainly want to figure out where went wrong as I’m super confused and hurt at the moment I don’t even know how to process my emotion. I will try to be as factual as I possibly can.
This is going to be a long post, so apologize in advance.
So my girlfriend (F24) and I (M28) has known each other for 12 years and dated as long distance online couple for half of the time and have broken up twice. 2 Years ago we communicated again and decided to give this another try. We had a very good game plan and she moved all the way to my country to stay with me June of last year. We had a quite good and lovely time as I thought, and I tried to provide all the necessary support I could think of.
Little over two months ago, I had an opportunity to move to an very rural small town 5 hour away from home to become an apprentice in a very competitive field. I value this opportunity but was very reluctant to accept based on how far away it is. My girlfriend is the one encouraged me and saying it will be a great opportunity for improvement, and I thought that is very true, it will give us great future together, so I accepted the job.

Few weeks ago, I got noticed that she meets a new friend at some sort of gathering, because there is only 2 other young people there, their become friends and she asked me if it’s okay to pick up this new male friend for shopping. Of cuz I didn’t think of anything and thought she is just providing me with closure, and I said yes.
Everything changed on the Thursday night, Generally speaking we withhold out video chat to until she is finished with her study and homework because I know how difficult a student trying to rush DUE feel like. She finished all her work on Wednesday so I thought Thursday would be our chance to catch up, so I was very excited. Turns out she had other plans without telling me. She went groceries shopping with the guy, (this is when I know their had plan to do weekly groceries trips as she have a car and the guy didn’t). Followed by staying over at the guys house until 9PM, (I finish work at 5PM, but I work early so I have to get to bed at 10PM), We had an extremely quick video chat followed by her wanting to end the chat due to forgot to buy toothpaste, this got me very disappointed so I pushed and asked you know I been waiting for a video chat for a week, and yet you prioritized him over me and weekly groceries shopping is not something you do with a guy friend, but rather someone really close. She just said, “well, is already planned.“
This entire conversation and event of what happened without me knowing got me really upset, especially I been asking before hand for the Video chat after she finish her DUE.

She than replied back to me saying she believe everyone is an individual, than is couple and family, she deems individual growth, friendship over the need of the couple. Therefore I should not butt in with what she is doing and chill. My upset and insecurity is none of her concern.

Literally the next day on the Friday after we had out fight, she went over to the guy’s house again while I was out doing Friday night shopping as I have Overtime lined up for Saturday and won’t have anytime to do shopping in my small town. While I was shopping she didn’t reply back to any of my text message, so I had a look on the iphone find my app and noticed she is at the guy’s house so I facetimed her and asking where is she and why is she not answering my calls. She picked up after a few tries and shown me a dark backyard as it was last at night. She said she just dropped off a friend (Not telling me who) and is heading home soon. She than hanged up on me, I just texted, when she gets home give me a call, I will be driving but can pick up the phone.
Not only did she not call me afterwards, she stayed at the guys place until 9PM again. With me fuming and angry thinking how could she do this. Meanwhile our dog is going berserk in the security camera as no one is home, because our dog always get jumpy after dark and we always try to have someone at home normally. I texted her during the silent saying the dog is going off really badly, can you go check on them. Not until 9PM when she left the guys house she texted me saying,” I’m so tired, the dog always bark like that after dark.” I’m so angry at this point I cant think straight so I choose silents.
At this point I know something is off, something is definitely not good, so on Saturday afternoon after I got off work we talked. She said she is so tired of compensating for me. I make her feel so tried, insecurity is my issue not hers. She won’t care if I go out with another girl and go over to her house for visit.

This got me extremely upset and ended it on a bad note. On Monday, While I was at work, she went over to the guys house again, (I noticed during my lunch break her car was parked at the guys house again) So I called her saying what is she doing, we are currently fighting due to the guy and you still want to go over there. She replied with I didn’t go, I was only dropping those two to school today and I didn’t go. Followed by leaving the house at 4PM and did not return until 9PM, at this point she took me off all location tracking app. (The location tracking was for both of us, we had the agreement to turn it on as I was in such long distance and sometime driving hours to go home I can’t pick up the phone, so we can track each other when we become unreachable).
When she turned at night, we had our last phone call, she decides to break up with me. I got Tuesday and Wednesday off to confront her why. We talked and she emitted that she has been talking non-stop with the guy about how much of a bad boyfriend I am, How dare I confront her for her personal friendship choice. How everything I have done in the past is just what a guy friend would do, nothing special and won’t make me a good boyfriend. I knew there must be more to what she has emitted by at this point im too tired and hurt to push on. So I agreed to the break up.
I really want to ask you guys, what have I done wrong. How can the relationship end simply within 5 days.

Hi, thanks for taking the time to read. Disclaimer this is not a request for medical advice, I am seeking advice on how to broach the subject and how to act/speak with my father.
I work at a retirement center for memory care and assisted living. I have first-hand experience with memory care patients and both of my grandparents on my father's side died from Alzheimer's and Dementia.
To preface my father married a narcissist (67F) who constantly gaslights him examples are: hiding things and pretending like she doesn't know where it is, purposefully booking the wrong hotel rooms/ flights, etc, and being fake nice to me. To be honest she is the worst. (context because I think she is making his memory worse on purpose)
Anyway for about three years, I've noticed his memory has gotten much worse. The first occurrence was my 23rd birthday where for 3 months I told him I only wanted one gift and nothing else and I sent him specific links to it and asked him to accompany me to the store for it. He and his wife took me to dinner and gave me different gifts (I assumed it was just something extra for me for whatever reason) and then when we went to get what I asked for he said he didn't know anything about it and started screaming at me and having an argument because he didn't remember it and never agreed to it which I have text messages where he did.
Speed up to today, he repeats phrases, it's scary when he's driving because he forgets where he's going every three minutes and swerves multiple lanes because he thinks he needs to take an exit wen he doesn't, and he gets very agitated about things he can't control. He even asked my good friend and her boyfriend at dinner if they had kids yet three times in one hour. He goes on and on about the same three topics and when I call him weekly he updates me verbatim with the same sentences. To note: he is a very spiritual person aka he meditates daily and practices spiritualism. Therefore he doesn't believe that it is possible for him to even have Alzheimer's because he meditates. I have had at least three interventions with him already about his memory, once with my sister and his wife and two others with me and me and his wife. Every time he goes into this childlike defense mode where he shuts down and feels as though it's an ambush or it's a total delusion to even think this way. I am spiritual too and always suggest even a holistic doctor to see but to just do something, anything. He refuses to even see anyone. I am getting more anxious every day thinking about him getting into a car accident or something.
Someone please give me advice on how I can cope, handle, or act in this situation, I am just so worried it consumes me. I love my father so much and just want to protect and help him. Thank you again for your time.

Good Afternoon redditor, this would be my first ever post after listen to multiple reddit story podcasts.
I mainly want to figure out where went wrong as I’m super confused and hurt at the moment I don’t even know how to process my emotion. I will try to be as factual as I possibly can.
This is going to be a long post, so apologize in advance.
So my girlfriend (F24) and I (M28) has known each other for 12 years and dated as long distance online couple for half of the time and have broken up twice. 2 Years ago we communicated again and decided to give this another try. We had a very good game plan and she moved all the way to my country to stay with me June of last year. We had a quite good and lovely time as I thought, and I tried to provide all the necessary support I could think of.
Little over two months ago, I had an opportunity to move to an very rural small town 5 hour away from home to become an apprentice in a very competitive field. I value this opportunity but was very reluctant to accept based on how far away it is. My girlfriend is the one encouraged me and saying it will be a great opportunity for improvement, and I thought that is very true, it will give us great future together, so I accepted the job.

Few weeks ago, I got noticed that she meets a new friend at some sort of gathering, because there is only 2 other young people there, their become friends and she asked me if it’s okay to pick up this new male friend for shopping. Of cuz I didn’t think of anything and thought she is just providing me with closure, and I said yes.
Everything changed on the Thursday night, Generally speaking we withhold out video chat to until she is finished with her study and homework because I know how difficult a student trying to rush DUE feel like. She finished all her work on Wednesday so I thought Thursday would be our chance to catch up, so I was very excited. Turns out she had other plans without telling me. She went groceries shopping with the guy, (this is when I know their had plan to do weekly groceries trips as she have a car and the guy didn’t). Followed by staying over at the guys house until 9PM, (I finish work at 5PM, but I work early so I have to get to bed at 10PM), We had an extremely quick video chat followed by her wanting to end the chat due to forgot to buy toothpaste, this got me very disappointed so I pushed and asked you know I been waiting for a video chat for a week, and yet you prioritized him over me and weekly groceries shopping is not something you do with a guy friend, but rather someone really close. She just said, “well, is already planned.“
This entire conversation and event of what happened without me knowing got me really upset, especially I been asking before hand for the Video chat after she finish her DUE.

She than replied back to me saying she believe everyone is an individual, than is couple and family, she deems individual growth, friendship over the need of the couple. Therefore I should not butt in with what she is doing and chill. My upset and insecurity is none of her concern.

Literally the next day on the Friday after we had out fight, she went over to the guy’s house again while I was out doing Friday night shopping as I have Overtime lined up for Saturday and won’t have anytime to do shopping in my small town. While I was shopping she didn’t reply back to any of my text message, so I had a look on the iphone find my app and noticed she is at the guy’s house so I facetimed her and asking where is she and why is she not answering my calls. She picked up after a few tries and shown me a dark backyard as it was last at night. She said she just dropped off a friend (Not telling me who) and is heading home soon. She than hanged up on me, I just texted, when she gets home give me a call, I will be driving but can pick up the phone.
Not only did she not call me afterwards, she stayed at the guys place until 9PM again. With me fuming and angry thinking how could she do this. Meanwhile our dog is going berserk in the security camera as no one is home, because our dog always get jumpy after dark and we always try to have someone at home normally. I texted her during the silent saying the dog is going off really badly, can you go check on them. Not until 9PM when she left the guys house she texted me saying,” I’m so tired, the dog always bark like that after dark.” I’m so angry at this point I cant think straight so I choose silents.
At this point I know something is off, something is definitely not good, so on Saturday afternoon after I got off work we talked. She said she is so tired of compensating for me. I make her feel so tried, insecurity is my issue not hers. She won’t care if I go out with another girl and go over to her house for visit.

This got me extremely upset and ended it on a bad note. On Monday, While I was at work, she went over to the guys house again, (I noticed during my lunch break her car was parked at the guys house again) So I called her saying what is she doing, we are currently fighting due to the guy and you still want to go over there. She replied with I didn’t go, I was only dropping those two to school today and I didn’t go. Followed by leaving the house at 4PM and did not return until 9PM, at this point she took me off all location tracking app. (The location tracking was for both of us, we had the agreement to turn it on as I was in such long distance and sometime driving hours to go home I can’t pick up the phone, so we can track each other when we become unreachable).
When she turned at night, we had our last phone call, she decides to break up with me. I got Tuesday and Wednesday off to confront her why. We talked and she emitted that she has been talking non-stop with the guy about how much of a bad boyfriend I am, How dare I confront her for her personal friendship choice. How everything I have done in the past is just what a guy friend would do, nothing special and won’t make me a good boyfriend. I knew there must be more to what she has emitted by at this point im too tired and hurt to push on. So I agreed to the break up.
I really want to ask you guys, what have I done wrong. How can the relationship end simply within 5 days.

Hi. We forgot my wife’s both Apple ID password and passcode of the iPhone.
When we tried to unlock the phone, we tried 9 times. One more time and it’ll lock itself out.
We needed to see if the photos and text messages has been saved up in iCloud. So we tried to login to her Apple ID again. She doesn’t remember it as well.
When we tried to reset the password, it asks us to put passcode of her iPhone, but we don’t remember it.
How can we solve this?

my (21f) bf (19m) stays up extremely late to play roblox games with an online friend…i’m talking like two in the morning late. last night i told him i was going to sleep, i waited for a reply for 10 minutes, didn’t get a reply so i just went to sleep. this morning i wake up to an array of angry text messages sent by him over an hour after i went to sleep. he was offended that i went to sleep already
also just in general when we are on call i hear discord notifications every few seconds and he’s constantly typing away to this guy (or girl?). he doesn’t know anything about this person like age or gender. he hasn’t been talking to me much he mostly just talks to this person at night
i brought it up a couple hours ago and he completely exploded and got extremely defensive, he’s not willing to compromise at all because im “controlling” otherwise. he also said he’s not gonna talk to me today because i pissed him off and that he’s gonna make sure to give this other person extra attention
i get that everyone will ask me to break up with him, but id like to know what i can say to help this situation? i’m disgusted by the way he reacted and its made me really uncomfortable

In a text message to Maine’s Total Coverage Wednesday, Lamb explained why she decided to testify.
“We are doing it to make sure that people, victims, families, ourselves, that we all have as much of the information as possible, that our sheriff's and army reserves are going to be forced into accepting they did NOT do their jobs to an extent that must be, that change MUST happen. What happens the next time someone goes to them for help????? That's it. That's what we all need to know,” she wrote.
https://www.wmtw.com/article/ex-wife-of-robert-card-other-relatives-expected-to-testify-before-lewiston-commission/60801958

I'm a 21-year-old guy, and I've been seeing an 18-year-old girl. We both just got out of other relationships, so we agreed not to get too serious.
But things have gotten complicated. She's not sure how she feels about me, and she's moving away soon. Plus, we kissed and did some other stuff when we first met, which adds to the confusion.Recently, she told me she's starting to feel attached to me, but at the same time, she's not sure if she wants to keep meeting up.I'm not sure what to do next.
I keep checking Instagram to see if she's messaged, and it's stressing me out.iam only using that app now only for texting her..
I'm not sure what to do next or how to talk to her about it. I don't want to hurt her feelings,I'm feelings lost..

I got a text message saying that Bell internet is down and they are working on it. Got a second message saying that they were giving me 50 gb free mobile data to be used between the 16th and 18th or until it is all used up.

More details at link https://www.visible.com/get/?3MGWF2Z
For Unlimited Talk/Text/Data plan w/ Visible Wireless (owned by Verizon).

Some context:
I live in a country where internet is generally bad.
We have a DSL line, but the cable is installed in a way that anyone using the building's elevator at any point in time interferes with it, cutting our connection for a good minute.
To combat that, we got a service where our connection is provided through a dish on our roof, then to our router through a cable. Works fine, I guess, but the speed is limited to 4 mbps.
However, the subscription costs an arm and a leg, but with that, you would expect a good support team, right?
Nope.
3 months ago, the Internet slowed to a crawl for seemingly no reason. Typical tuesday, I think, until it doesn't speed back up for over an hour. I contact support, their solution is basically "stop using the internet". My little brother was trying to play Roblox to no avail, and I was instructed to turn his laptop off and run a speed test. Internet back up, so problem solved, they say goodbye and hang up.
2 months ago, having Internet issues for over an hour. But this time, when I text them on WhatsApp, they just flat out ignore me, until I involve a parent to call them (I'm 16 and sound like a 12 yo over the phone, they wouldn't take me seriously). My messages are still left on delivered.
2 days ago, as I try to setup a server for files, it turns out that my ISP is using a CGNAT (basically I don't have a public IP to port forward from). I text them, to ask about having our own IPv4, possible extra costs, and if an IPv6 is already provided to us. My messages were read within 10 minutes, but STILL no reply for 2 fucking days.
I'm just really pissed at this point.
It's not worth switching ISPs, I'm emigrating in less than 2 months anyways.

Hi everyone. My friend with ROCD had an upsetting experience last week with a person on a dating app. Her and the potential date had talked for a bit, but it fizzled out and they didn’t end up going on a date. When the potential date told my friend they were no longer interested, she pressed the issue and was subsequently blocked. She then changed apps and began messaging them, verbally abusing and harassing them.
Here is my concern: my friend has a history of online stalking, and this is clearly an unwanted advance and harassment. I am afraid she is going to get in trouble with the police or end up with a restraining order and ruin her professional career, or end up with a criminal record. I am concerned that this will escalate.
I have told her that this is inappropriate, and she must stop texting this man. I told her that she would be calling the police if roles were reversed and this was a man doing this to her, and that her verbal abuse and harassment is not acceptable. She has since shut me out. We’ve had conversations like this before, but this is the worst escalation I have seen and I am concerned.
I have broached the subject of seeking an appropriate therapist, a change of medication, or exposure therapy, and I’m not sure what else to do. I am worried for her, but I’m also now very concerned for this young man. I am also worried she may self-harm. What can I do?
For context, my friend has an ROCD diagnosis but it is very poorly managed. No therapy. She was admitted to hospital recently with a proposed change of medication, but she refused to take it beyond two weeks. She constantly seeks reassurance, but I have been advised not to reassure her as it will make things worse, so I am trying my best to stick with that and limit my time with her so I can cope too.
TIA.

I swear (because I tested multiple times and even had a friend come and check I was not hallucinating), but I can literally hear something very faint (don't know from what or which component) coming from my open case powerful PC that is sitting a few inches away from me, make a very slight white noise sound when I highlight text in a document or in this message that I'm writing right now for example. When say, I go from bottom to up to select a paragraph, it makes a noise (again not very loud and almost unnoticeable), and when I move the mouse back down to deselect the text, it makes the same noise again. I tried just pressing left mouse button and move around the mouse without selecting any text, and there the noise didn't happen. How weird is this? Or is this common?
PS: Just tested again and this also seems to happen when I simply hover over files and folders in C:/ or anywhere else for that matter.

Good morning, everyone,
If you have been following this subreddit for a while, you probably know that we always have had a strict policy regarding the discussion of other platforms that allow our users to house groups or servers where they get to discuss topics related to our subreddit.
Now this policy has been enforced for quite some time because we all know the risks that come with the exitance of such communities, and the safety of our users has always been our top priority.
But recently we had to acknowledge that the demand for this step to be taken has always been the most popular demand historically on the subreddit. We even had some users who took matters into their own hands and made their own communities that we could not monitor or make sure how safe they are.
In addition, I had to also realize how important such space is for irreligious individuals who need resources and a safe place to share their thoughts and struggles, and keep on receiving education without risking their identities or safety.
Therefore, with the help of u/ImmediateGas1, an official server that is affiliated with this subreddit has been established. As of now, we have 4 moderators, and we are looking into adding 2 more in the near future to make sure the place is completely safe.
Some of you have already received a private invitation in DMs a few days ago, which means that you probably have been active on the subreddit for approximately 4 to 6 months. If you are reading this post and you meet the criteria listed following this paragraph, then you will be accepted automatically. For those that do not meet this criteria, you are still allowed to apply, and the current users of the server will hold a voting, and if the majority thinks that you are safe and trustworthy, you will be allowed into the server.
The criteria is as follows:
1- You are part of the ExJordan community.
2- Your previous online activities suggest that you are irreligious.
3- Being active on the sub for approximately 2 and a half months.
Anyone who shows ill intentions will be removed indefinity as the safety of our users remains our top priority. And please avoid sharing private information that could expose your identity.
If you are interested in joining, either leave a comment here or send a private message to either myself or u/ImmediateGas1 and we’ll take the appropriate measures.
Thank you for reading, and welcome aboard to those interested.

Arabic text provided by u/ImmediateGas1:

صباح الخير عالجميع
الي متابع الصب بعرف أكيد قديش كنا ملتزمين بسياسة صارمة في ما يخص انشاء سيرفرات او مجموعات لادينية عن طريق الصب هاض ، وطبعا اتخذنا هذه السياسة لغايات السلامة وأمنكم الشخصي ، كونه كلنا عارفين حجم المخاطر الي ممكن نتعرضلها كمجتمع لاديني أردني، فكانت سلامة الأعضاء وأمنهم على رأس أولوياتنا.
ولاحظنا انه العديد من الاشخاص بدء في صناعة مجموعات و سيرفرات بدعوكم فيها للانضمام ، وصراحة ما بنعرف مدى أمان هذه المجموعات وما مدى الرقابة عليها.
ولكن نتيجة طلب الأعضاء المتكرر والمتزايد على فتح منصة ديسكورد للادينيين الأردنيين ، و الي فعليا كان هاض احد اكثر المطالب الي انطلبت منذ فتح هذا الصب ، بنحب نخبركم انه تم فتح سيرفر ديسكورد للمجتمع اللاديني الاردني ، باشراف 4 اعضاء عليه ، وبنتطلع لزيادة العدد ل 6 مشرفين ، لمراقبة السيرفر والأنشطة فيه باستمرار ، و على أساس نتأكد من توفر بيئة آمنة و مسالمة لحضراتكم تمنحلكم الفرصة بمناقشة افكاركم وطرح آرائكم والتعرف على أشخاص مشابهين بالتفكير.
، بحب اشكر الأعضاء الي اتخذت زمام الأمور في عمل هذا السيرفر ، والي بفضلهم تم انشاء هذا السيرفر ليكون امتداد لصب اكس جوردن.
السيرفر تم افتتاحه يوم الثلاثاء وتلقى البعض منكم دعاوى لدخول السيرفر بشكل خاص، لأغراض الأمان والسلامة
طبعا هذول الاعضاء تم اضافتهم بشكل خاص نتيجة لتفاعلهم في اخر فترة ما بين ال 4 الى 6 اشهر ، فما في أي نوع من التمييز تم اتخاذه.
اذا كنت شايف نفسك مؤهل للدخول بالسيرفر ، وانه بتنطبق عليك معايير الانضمام ، وحاب تنضم للسيرفر ، فما تترد بانك تتواصل معي انا شخصيا ومع* العضو المساهم في عمل السيرفر : u/ImmediateGas1*
أهم معايير الانضمام:
1- انضمامك لصب اكس جورد
2 - وجود نشاط واضح في حسابك يشير الى انك شخص لا ديني أو على الأقل تركك لدين معين
3 - قضاء فترة لا تقل عن شهرين في الصب
في حال انطبقت هذه المعايير عليك فسيتم قبولك بشكل تلقائي ، واذا لم تنطبق فسيتم معاينة حالتك من قبل المشرفين ومن قبل الأعضاء الموجودين في السيرفر ، ويتم التصويت على دخولك.
ملاحظة: سيتم ازالة اي شخص يظهر نوايا سيئة ، سواء للسيرفر او لشخص ما بعينه.
ملاحظة : حاول قدر المستطاع ان لاتكشف عن أي معلومات شخصية تخصك او تخص مستخدمين آخرين

I feel terrible and don’t know what to do. We’ve had a really rocky almost-year-long relationship with a lot of arguing and differing life perspectives, and we’d already been to couple’s therapy at around six months in, and had gone for four months. We only did this when I gave her an ultimatum that we break up or go to therapy about how to fix the relationship because I was tired of how disrespectful and angry she was towards me. I really love her and really didn’t want to give up on her because I knew she was still trying to be good to me even if she wasn’t too good at it, it was the thought that counted to me. So we went to therapy and she changed a lot about how she acted and I appreciated it, but it still wasn’t enough for me to believe that we’d be a healthy couple going forward.
So about a month after therapy, I told her that maybe we should break up because we just don’t compliment each other very well (which is true). There was a lot of crying and going back and forth, a tough conversation which lasted two separate days. Eventually we agreed I should really think about what I was doing and she proposed we just take a break from each other for a week so I could do that. She said we won’t see other people over this break, which I respected and agreed with.
After that week I still hadn’t made up my mind though so I asked if we could do another week and she agreed. I hated how much pain I was putting her through with all of this too, since she was completely at my mercy and couldn’t talk with me through any of it (we’d talked about it for hours together already before we settled on the break idea), but I knew it was down to what I felt because she wanted to stay together and I still wasn’t sure, so that meant I had to sort it out on my own if it was ever going to work. Otherwise, SHE would need to convince me to stay for the rest of our days instead of me having my own reasons and motives.
Anyways, at the beginning of our second week of no contact, I thought I was okay with moving on from her because no matter how I thought of our relationship, I kept concluding we just weren’t good for each other and that there were more bad futures possible than good ones. With that headspace, I still feared the loneliness that would come once I made the breakup real, which is why I started texting the other girls in hopes of having something to look forward to in the following weeks to take my mind off of it and maybe start something new. I never intended on seeing any of them until the weeks after I broke up with my gf.
The second she texted me at the end of the second no-contact week, though, all of it hit me. Guilt, shame, uncertainty, dread of what to tell her, fear of the future. We made small talk that day as I tried to figure out what to tell her. The last thing I ever want to do is break her heart, someone who loves me to the best of her ability, even if it isn’t perfect. It’s a rough relationship but I still wanted to keep trying because I’d never been loved like this before.
I deleted all of the messages I’d sent on Instagram and blocked/unfollowed all the girls immediately because I realized I don’t want to be with anyone else, especially if all it means is not being alone (most of them rejected me anyways so maybe that’s a sign). I called her the next day because I knew she was waiting for an answer from me and, after starting to cry, told her I wanted to start fresh with her by making a healthy set of boundaries for ourselves and sort out our differences in our ideal futures.
This brings me to right now. Our first date back is in three days and I don’t know when or if I should tell her what I did in that second week. I feel horrible about it and I can’t stand the thought of hiding it from her because it would make me feel (or be) unworthy of her if we end up coming to healthy long-term agreements. I technically didn’t cheat but it’s obviously unfaithful, so I feel it’s only right that she knows.
I guess my questions are: Do I say anything about it? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out anyways given what I did? Please be honest, I don’t care how harsh. I’m here for the truth.
TL;DR I flirted with other women because I was going to break up with my gf and wanted to pre-fill the post-breakup void, then decided not to break up and don’t know if I should tell her I did that or if I even deserve her anymore

I've been NC with him since 2019, when my mom and I moved out of their house after finding out about his affair.
Since then he brought his AP and her children to live there and got married. The other day he messaged me using her FB profile (since I've blocked him and his fake profile), sending me an audio. I just blocked this as well and asked my bf to listen to it for me, since hearing his voice is triggering for me. My bf did it and hugged me, saying that my grandfather had passed, and "since I don't have a father anymore, he'd like me to know this".
Honestly, IDGAF about it, since the man was a creep (SA'd one of my great aunts, was accused of r*pe a couple of years ago and my mom never let me be alone with him during my childhood).
But what bothers me is the audacity of pretending that it's important that I just HAD to know this... Plus, he messaged my mother's work phone, asking for her help about the proceedings of families who can't afford to pay for the coffin and the grave. He actually texted: "this is not the time to be bitter, CAN you help me with this?". Meanwhile their divorce still wasn't finished and he's currently living with his AP.
The cherry on the top was how I told my mom to answer (since he's a customer, she can't refuse to reply): "I'm sorry sir, I don't know what you are referring to, this is a ____ business." I'm sure he got so pissed lol

For those that could watch all 7 hours here were the most important bombshells that were revealed:
-Kim Jensen is a lady that went to church with Jared and became best friends with Shanna. She is still a active member of the church. Not only did Kim Jensen talk with Shanna for years planning on ways to kill him, she actually tried to find a person herself. She not only knew the murder was going to happen, but did nothing to stop it. Once detectives got the text messages between them, she knew she could be arrested and finally talked.

• Shanna had multiple burner phones that her own kids told police about.

-Shanna deleted old text messages off her phone that talked about the plans, she also deleted the ring camera footage of the night of the crime.
-it was Shanna’s trust from her parents that paid the first $5000 payment of the $150,000 agreed upon amount.
-Mario was planning on running away to Canada but as soon as Shanna asked her kids what they told police and they told her they told police Mario’s plans, she calls him and tells him to come back home.
-They practiced Jared’s murder for months, watching and following him. The original plan was to kidnap him and take him to another location to kill him.
Did I miss anything else out?

Hi everyone.
I(28F) had an argument with my boyfriend (31M) of two years 10 days ago. It was about the fact that I didn't really feel like he was supporting me and was being mean. He admitted he was struggling with finding me overwhelming recently, as things have been tough in our personal lives: his mental health/physical issues and my recent traumatic incident where I had to call the police on a neighbour who tried to attack me with a knife. Throughout most of our relationship I have been supporting and helping him with his issues, but now I need a bit more support I haven't felt like he has been bothered. Usually this is not an issue, and he has always been there to talk to me.
I did end up crying, not shouting, but it wasn't pretty. He asked me to leave and I did after about 20 mins after I had gathered myself together. I asked him before I left when we could reconnect and we decided Thursday, when the argument was on Monday. Thursday comes about and I reach out, three calls, and he does not respond. On Friday morning he sent a text saying he needed more time, a kiss, and a funny video we both like, and I agreed.
The weekend comes and goes, and on Tuesday evening I reach out to say hope you're ok and ask if we can say when we will talk? I also asked to pick up my necessities as I have a key, and said I texted his brother who said he can let me in. The text to his brother was, hiya are you in on Wednesday? I need to pick up my hairdryer. This is not unusual as my bf works late and sometimes double locks the door. I called my bf once too. I mainly lived with him, even though I have my own flat. He read both messages but did not respond.
I went the next day and got my necessary stuff (skincare, hairdryer, work clothes etc), said hi to his brother and left within 5 minutes. I also packed my clothes out of our wardrobe as I started to have a bad feeling about the status of our relationship and put them in 'my corner' of the room. The house was a mess and very dirty, which is it not usually like, which worried me.
He has done this before when we broke up a year ago, for about a day. He asked for me back and we talked about everything. We never usually argue unless it is big, and he finds it hard to articulate his feelings in anyway in person due to his past. It is much easier over the phone. I am really sad about it, he is my best friend and I love him.
I have a feeling this is just over, but I can't make myself go over and ask what's going on, which I usually do when we argue. I think I need him to be the one to reach out this time. I am not sure what to do next. If we break up, we break up and thats really sad, but I don't want to leave things on bad terms. I don't think ghosting is something I could forgive. Does anyone have any advice?

Hello
Having a lil issue logging in
i have this domain controller in a VM, i renamed it through settings>system>about>rename this device
im a student, my teacher told me to do that but now we've been trying to fix it for hours lol problem is now i cant login anywhere
when i try to log in how i usually do, which is domainname\user and enter the password, it gives me the message "the security database on this server does not have a computer account for this workstation trust". Same message when trying to log in with an admin account in the AD.
when i try to log in with local admin, typing .\ does nothing, it still says "Sign in to: DOMAINNAME" under the login fields. i clicked on the button "How do i sign in to another domain?", which says "Type devicename\local user name" so i type devicename\administrator incorrect password i'm 100% sure the password is correct, more on this later
i've tried administrator@devicename, doesn't work (idk if thats a thing, im trying anything at this point)
went into recovery mode, opened CMD > asks which account to use then asks for password

it only proposes administrator account so i click that then enter the password, it lets me in in CMD the current local admin password is Password2024 net user Administrator Password2024@ command successful restart machine, try logging in with devicename\administrator Password2024@ incorrect password
go back to recovery mode > CMD, asks for password, enter Password 2024@ incorrect password enter old password > Password2024 correct password

??????
anyways

CMD hostname hostname is different from devicename, is this normal? reboot, try login with hostname\administrator from now on i try both old and new passwords for every attempt for any password, even intentionally incorrect, get message "An attempt was made to logon, but the network logon service was not started"

when trying to log in with hostname, it thinks with the spinning wheel for a bit and "Welcome" before sending network logon error message, when trying with devicename, it goes straight to incorrect password when trying intentionally incorrect name, it also thinks
back to CMD, open regedit and find computer name, which is different from hostname, try login with computer name, also thinks then network logon message
i guess this means devicename is correct, why doesnt it work then
try to start netlogon service anyway.. net start netlogon >error net helpmsg 3534
anyways ive been troubleshooting this for 4 hours straight, think i'll just nuke it and start fresh, that wouldve taken less time lol theres not much on there but i really want to know if this is fixable, my brain is itching
main thing here is why isnt .\ working wtf
if any big brains here have any ideas that would be pretty cool
sorry for bad text formatting i dont really know how this works
cheers

Hi everyone,
I was selling excavator for $38k .I recently sold my excavator on Facebook Marketplace. The excavator was functioning normal and I wasn't aware of any issues with it.
Many people showed interest in the excavator, and most of them asked various questions, which I happily answered. Some potential buyers even came to view the machine themselves.
The person who ended up purchasing the excavator sent me a message saying they had $27,000 and agreed to the price. I was hoping they would ask more questions or schedule a time to view the machine, but they didn't. We then agreed that they would send a deposit, which they did, and the remaining balance would be paid upon pickup. The deal went through smoothly.
The buyer then decided to send a transportation company to pick up the excavator. Four days later, the buyer texted me, saying the excavator had a leak and they wanted a refund or send them $7500 back to fix the leak. I told them that the machine was now theirs, and I wasn't aware of the oil leak.
The buyer then texted me, saying they wouldn't take legal action but would do something else that's not legal action.I'm not sure what to do in this situation. What do you all think I should do?

Open communication is crucial to keep connections strong and create a loving environment in the family. As a son, my perspective on our relationships has changed over time to account for both our personal development and life transitions. Here, I'll discuss how I handle these crucial talks, highlighting the different facets and modes of communication that support the health of our family bond. Active listening is one of the fundamental components of family communication that I believe is particularly important. Rather than waiting for my turn to speak, I try to listen to and comprehend what my family members say. I often talked with my family in the living room or dining room when I was at home. These spots offered a familiar and cozy environment for conversation, whether we were talking about lighter topics like our days or more important ones like life lessons. As I grew older, these partnerships' dynamics evolved. These days, we communicate primarily through text, video, and phone calls that happen online. Despite the changes in medium, the underlying ideas of our discussions—respect and understanding for one another—remain the same. Despite our different locations and ways of contact, my family and I still make an effort to stay in touch and be involved in one another's lives. I appreciate how simple and convenient technology makes it to stay in touch, even though I miss our face-to-face interactions. We have become closer over time, and I am grateful for the unconditional affection and backing that enter every one of our conversations, no matter how they turn out. Our conversations are typically lighter and funnier when it comes to my siblings. We converse casually, sharing jokes and amusing stories, as well as updates on our lives. Keeping the family's spirit of fun and togetherness alive requires this kind of communication. But when necessary, we also talk things through more seriously, offering guidance and support when things get tough. Our communication is also greatly influenced by the setting of our encounters. At home, people can talk freely because the atmosphere is more relaxed. On the other hand, we communicate gently and respectfully about social rules when we are in public or at family events. This flexibility ensures that, in any situation, we can continue to communicate properly. Technology has had a big influence on how I talk to my family. I can communicate in real-time, receive instant information, and make visual connections with it. I can communicate effectively and quickly through text messages, phone calls, and video calls. Especially with video calls, we can connect visually, which adds a more intimate element to our conversations. Despite our physical distance from one another, these techniques enable me to uphold healthy relationships and strengthen my bonds with the people I love. Technology has made the world feel more connected and smaller. Understanding individual communication styles, adjusting to various situations, and using technology are all necessary for effective family communication. We may continue to have an effective and positive relationship by focusing on these factors. To maintain our tightly connected family, as a son, I use a combination of classic and modern strategies, embracing technology and empathy. Every interaction—digital or in-person—offers a chance to express love and support, promoting a feeling of unanimity and belonging.

Annoying situation guys! Buying my first home and it is getting very stressful.
When I paid the deposit to my real estate agent (REA) I was given 35 days for finance approval and 35 days for settlement. Giving me plenty of time to settle. This settlement date was agreed to be the 05/07.
When I signed my offer and acceptance form, It stated, settlement date:
x Within 35 days from finance approval.
x or such other date as mutually agreed in writing. --- this part did not include the date
My finance approval came earlier than expected and 35 days from finance approval is 06/06. I spoke to my REA about it and asked if they were okay if we kept the settlement date to 05/07. They said that’s fine.
My settlement agent (SA) says that we cannot go by that as it is not written in the contract. I point that as per the contract point "x or such other date as mutually agreed in writing." I have text messages between me and REA agreeing to 05/07. SA says they need an email from REA or a contract variation. After a couple of reminders, I get my REA to reply to the email and they acknowledge this.
The SA now insists that this is not enough, and we need a contract variation instead because they would like this in writing and because they still do not have contact of seller's settlement agent to confirm this and they do not have this in writing that the seller is ok with this.
My REA has not provided my SA with the details of seller’s SA yet. I email my REA with SA CC’d requesting that if we could do a contract variation and if the REA could provide my SA the details of the seller's SA.
The REA also insists on the point in the contract "or such other date as mutually agreed in writing." and states we have agreed for the 05/07 and as such there is no need to provide a variation yet. The REA has not yet provided my SA with the seller's SA details in this email as well.
Now I am getting a bit annoyed going back and forth and feel like nobody understands my situation here. This is a nerve-wracking time for me with the amount of paperwork and things I am dealing with already.
Who is on my side here? is it the REA or is it the SA? How do you recommend I proceed here?

I need some advice on how to handle a situation with a friend I met last year at a wedding. We've met up a few times since then ( a grand total of 3 times) all for brunch, but it feels like our interactions are a bit one-sided. I usually have to initiate plans and conversations when we message via whatsapp, and while she's nice, I find her conversations can be a bit one-dimensional, mostly revolving around her career.
Recently, she asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, which caught me off guard. I'm flattered, but I don't feel like I know her well enough to take on such a significant role. I've only met up with her 3 times, all times for brunch (max 3-4 hours). Plus, I don't know her family at all, which makes me hesitant.
Adding to my uncertainty, there have been instances where she's been a bit forgetful or canceled plans last minute. For example, she suggested we celebrate New Year's together at a bar, which was slightly odd because I didn't really know her that well but was equally chuffed about it but then she canceled on me because she made other plans with her family. While I understood that plans can change, it still felt a bit odd given our relatively new friendship.
Another time, we had plans to meet up, and she completely forgot about it until I reminded her (as I was walking to the restaurant). While we rescheduled, it left me feeling a bit disappointed and unsure about the reliability of our friendship.
I've been reflecting on whether being a bridesmaid is the right choice for me, considering these factors. On one hand, I value our friendship and want to support her, but on the other hand, I'm not sure if I'm ready for such a commitment given our current level of closeness. I also find her forgetfulness and the lack of texting me/initiating conversations a bit off-putting. I don't expect friends to message me all the time but a 'Hey, How are you? How's life?' once in a while would be nice. This is what I do. I always check up on friends. She does have some great ideas while we meet for brunch...she suggested we go hiking, or go to spa retreat or go on holiday together (which is all fine for me) but doesn't then go about planning it or initiating anything. Of course, I'm more than happy to help but she's not very proactive. If she's had an idea, she should message me and ask when I'll be free in the next month or say I have looked at these spas etc.... I am more than happy then to look further and book. Every time we have met up has been me organising it.
Do you think I'm being rational in feeling hesitant about being a bridesmaid, or am I overthinking things? Should I address my concerns with her, or politely decline the offer? How would I go about even replying to her.