How do you go about increasing your sims long term relationships? I find short term is real easy

The current economic environment in Japan has several characteristics that can help explain the decline in innovation and competitiveness in the Japanese motorcycle industry, particularly in MotoGP. Here are some key points that relate the broader economic context to this industrial case:

Economic Factors

1. Aging Population and Labor Shortages:
   • Impact on Workforce: Japan's aging population and low birth rates result in a shrinking workforce. This demographic trend reduces the available talent pool, which affects industries requiring specialized skills and continuous innovation, such as motorcycle manufacturing.
   • R&D Challenges: With fewer young engineers and technical experts entering the workforce, Japanese companies may struggle to maintain the same level of innovation and development in their products​​.
2. Deflationary Pressures and Stagnant Growth:
   • Investment in R&D: Prolonged periods of low economic growth and deflation can lead to reduced profits for companies. This, in turn, limits the funds available for research and development (R&D). Companies may prioritize short-term financial stability over long-term innovation due to economic uncertainty.
   • Cost-Cutting Measures: To cope with economic stagnation, companies might implement cost-cutting measures that impact R&D budgets. This has likely been a factor for brands like Suzuki, Yamaha, and Honda, affecting their competitive edge in MotoGP​.
3. Currency Fluctuations:
   • Export Competitiveness: While a weaker Yen generally benefits exporters by making Japanese products cheaper abroad, it also increases the cost of importing materials and components. For high-tech industries like motorcycle manufacturing, this can squeeze profit margins and reduce available resources for innovation​​.

Industrial Case: MotoGP

1. Suzuki's Withdrawal:
   • Financial Constraints: Suzuki's decision to withdraw from MotoGP at the end of the 2022 season was largely attributed to financial constraints and the need to focus resources on core business areas. This decision reflects broader economic pressures and the need to reallocate limited financial resources away from costly motorsport activities​​.
2. Performance of Yamaha and Honda:
   • Innovation Lag: Yamaha and Honda, once dominant forces in MotoGP, have seen their performance decline. This can be partially attributed to reduced R&D investments, as economic challenges force these companies to prioritize other areas over continuous innovation in racing technology.
   • Technological Stagnation: Compared to European manufacturers like Ducati and KTM, Japanese brands have struggled to keep pace with technological advancements in areas such as aerodynamics, electronics, and materials science. Economic constraints exacerbate this issue, limiting their ability to innovate rapidly​​.

Broader Implications

1. Global Competition:
   • Shifting Dynamics: The rise of European manufacturers in MotoGP highlights a shift in the competitive landscape. Companies from economically stable regions with robust support for R&D can outpace Japanese manufacturers facing economic constraints.
   • Impact on Market Perception: The decline in performance of Japanese motorcycles in MotoGP can affect the global market perception of these brands, potentially impacting their sales and market share in consumer segments as well​​.
2. Long-Term Strategy:
   • Need for Reform: To regain competitiveness, Japanese manufacturers may need to undertake significant reforms, including increased investment in R&D, adopting new technologies, and possibly restructuring their operations to become more agile and innovative.
   • Government Support: Increased support from the Japanese government for high-tech industries, including subsidies or incentives for R&D, could help mitigate some of the economic pressures and foster a more conducive environment for innovation.

In summary, the economic environment in Japan, characterized by demographic challenges, deflationary pressures, and limited financial resources, has significantly impacted the motorcycle industry, particularly in high-stakes areas like MotoGP. This has led to reduced innovation and competitiveness for Japanese brands, as evidenced by the performance of Yamaha and Honda and the withdrawal of Suzuki from the championship.

Can be long term aswell why not
Rn im high as heck, and would love to type about anything with anyone, girls, boys or trolls hah.
Normally im anxious, recently quit drinking and smoking its hard but tday i got high and having best mood in this month so far.
Im willing to chat with yall about some jokey stuff or serious stuff, its online so no worries we can discuss private things without personal details like names adresses. Maybe i can help u or u can help me, if we stick some casual chat from time to time would be nice
Only requirement due to my current state and well age i would wish to type with people at least 18+ so there wouldnt be any misunderstandings.
Waiting to hear from yall! :D

Looking for kasama magdinner along espana for wings. Let’s justify it as hitting our protein goal (mej). Nagsiuwian na ang mga people due to the end of the term pero bat pa ako nandito? Let’s go for some daldalans while eating. Hmu with details and please don't be over 30 or too far from where I am.

Hi I’m just wondering if anyone could help me with my question. So I’m currently in my last year of university, the tenancy on my student house is going to expire in a month’s time but I want to stay in my uni town for summer. My friends have also rented a student house but their tenancy agreement is a month longer than mine. The only way I’d be able to stay for summer is staying at there house. They have a dining room which they have already said I could transform into a short term bedroom. But my friends have cleaners who are hired by the landlord to come round once every week and the landlord randomly turns up some days. Is it legal for me to stay a maximum of 6 weeks? Or is there a way around it? As I don’t want my friends to lose their deposits. Thank you.

Found on animax, Philippines. Its about 2 girls, one with short hair and a gloomy personality, the other with long hair and a cheery personality. Short hair is forced by long hair to participate from what I recall, both schoolgirl age.
The plot is there's this other dimension thing they can enter to fight monsters in a very colorful, pop-art style. It had blood, though.
Spoiler(?): One of the plot twists was long hair actually befriended short hair cause short hair's mom hid this rlly important gem in her thigh as a baby. I think there was a whole plotpoint that long hair knew short hairs mom when she was alive? They have an argument after that. Pls help aaaa (；へ：）

Further to the title - I’m 4 months broken up with a short term (5 months) ex. We tried to work things out for a while but it didn’t lead anywhere, mainly because she wasn’t as invested as I was.
I have stuck to no contact for around 46 days and have had my fair share of ups and downs. Some days I feel great and others like today I can’t get her off my mind and just wish she’d regret her actions. To note, I literally done as much as I could to make her happy and tried to show how willing I was to make it work with her.
Should I abandon all hope of her reaching out again? I don’t know why I am still taking this so hard.
Thank you!

Hi everyone, I’m a filmmaker from Australia and I’m interested in speaking with people about their experience with or relationship to conversion therapy for a short documentary project. My approach is humanistic and sensitive and I don't have a hidden agenda except to learn more. The project is planned to be like a visual podcast [focussing on audio] with abstract images, and no editorialising or commentary from me, only audio recordings - my goal is to share people’s stories in their words through audio recordings of our conversation, not mine. I would love to hear from anyone who wants to share their experience to any degree, even if you don't want to be 'on the record'; we could start with just a text chat on Reddit if that suits you. I’m happy to share any info you might want - I’m mostly a lurker on reddit so I don’t think my profile will tell you much, but I’m an open book. Please contact me on reddit or email me [visualpodcast@icloud.com](mailto:visualpodcast@icloud.com) Warmly, Gilbert

Just wondering if sending an angry text months later has ever helped anyone here.
Context- Broke up with my ex 7 months ago because i felt like he was an inconsiderate prick. Given this was an intense and toxic relationship (for me at least! He was probably chilling the whole time), I had sent him many paragraphs throughout our relationship. But they were always respectful and not fueled by anger, just there to express how I felt and to affirm boundaries.
Two months after the breakup, He broke no contact to wish me a happy birthday, and two weeks later I reached out and we started texting a bit. He ghosted me (as per usual) for a couple of days after we had planned a postmortem convo (at my request, now I know how stupid that was). I was very sad about it and decided to stop letting him affect me so much. I blocked him on everything to revoke access to me and to help me move on. one of his texts went through though, just ignored it and blocked (no it wasnt an apology for ghosting!)
That was months ago. Through lots of work on myself, my goals, therapy, meditation, nature, friends, hobbies you name it..I’ve moved on. It took a while though. However, I’ve unexpectedly met someone amazing recently and they mentioned something about him and it triggered me. Surprisingly got mad again and wrote out an angry text basically telling him how shitty he is and wishing him the worst. (Which i have NEVER done btw).
I’m tired of carrying that anger and I want to let it out and be present in my reality. I no longer want it to affect me or my relationships.
Is it a good idea to send this text? Im scared it won’t give me the relief I’m looking for. I don’t want to give him the satisfaction of knowing I cared that much, but I feel like letting him know he’s a prick. I also want to respect the person I started seeing.

I am currently 6 weeks pregnant with my ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. We spent the last 2 years having sex almost everyday without contraceptives, as we were ready for any risks, we were not actively trying, but not actively preventing.
We decided to take a break due to arguments over the past month, and on our last day together, we had unprotective sex (we didn’t have sex for 3 weeks at that point). I took a test upon unusual symptoms and missed period, and discovered I am pregnant.
I informed him last week and I think he’s still in denial. He asked me to go for a scan to confirm so he can tell his parents and he has expressed that he doesn’t think it’s a good time for him, and I should get an abortion. He is not ready for fatherhood and doesn’t see that we can work things out in the future. I encouraged him to reconcile, not as a couple, but as civil adults to make communications easier in the following weeks or potentially years. He refused and told me I should talk to people for advice. I have spoke to my best friends and I don’t have a solution, I don’t know what to do. I don’t want my child to grow up without a father figure but I also don’t want to have this kind of father in its life. I only had one sex partner my whole life so there is no possibility that he is not the father. I’m personally also not ready to raise the child as a single mother without support. If this pregnancy happened few months back, I would not have the same doubts I currently have. I considered abortion after the conversation with him but I don’t want to end my own child’s life because of our unresolved issues. My family don’t live in the same country as me, so I will not have day-to-day help. My friends are supportive but I don’t think it’s realistic for me to raise the baby without a partner. I have all sorts of concerns and I am not in the right headspace at the moment to be thinking clearly.
For context - I (28F) moved in to live with my boyfriend (30M) after 2 years of dating, we barely had any disagreements throughout the first 2 years, we were both in love, and decided that we were ready for our next stages in life so we moved in together. We were certain that we were compatible despite our differences in interests - we are very different people in the best ways, and grew to love and learn of each other’s character. Our lives are very intertwined, and our respective friend groups are very involved in our lives. We had a healthy lifestyle and socially active ever since we got together.
Fast forward to 2 months ago, we were discussing wedding plans. We previously agreed that we would move in together > get engaged > married > have children. I expressed that I didn’t really want to move in together until I get a reassurance from him this is for lifetime, he told me not to worry because he already had plans to propose to me and it’s ok to move in first and then get married as we are living together. He suggested that we could plan the wedding first because weddings take at least a year ahead to plan, and the proposal will happen sometime later this year. Our first big argument came because of his unrealistic expectations and lack of logic and sense in event planning (he was never really a planner or an organized person, I do most of our travel logistics and household plannings).
Few weeks later I discovered that he was withholding his plans made with a colleague that I didn’t particularly liked, I felt strange that he had to hide this fact from me. I don’t believe that he was disloyal or anything but I didn’t understand why he lied. I exploded, demanded to check his phone, then I discovered more things he was hiding from me, including going on walks during lunch with the same female colleagues. I also discovered the group chat with his boys where they were making jokes about us getting married. I was livid and we argued over our definition of commitment, I questioned his maturity and his intentions to settle. He told me he was ready to settle with me, and suggested that we go pick out rings the next day.
The real issue came in when he called his parents to ask them for their blessing in our marriage. His parents disapproved, and called me materialistic, questioned my family, my social circle, my religion, my political views… etc. My boyfriend could’ve easily justified every one of the points they have made about me but I guess he was too in shock of their response to defend me. His parents never really agreed with our relationship to begin with, they never wanted him to date and thinks he should be focused on his career at this age rather than dating, despite this we spent every holidays and celebrations the last two years with his family and we thought they have grown to accept me as they had been very friendly with me, I guess it was all a facade. I was disappointed and lashed out at him. And somehow our previous issue with his ‘commitment’ was brushed under the rug.
He says he cannot propose to me when he doesn’t have his parents blessing. I gave him a deadline the next day to make a decision, if he cannot talk it out with his parents then I will have to let this end. He came back the next day, and told me his dad apologized and would like to reconcile with me. And he came back to tell me he was ready to settle.
The following weeks we continued to have smaller disagreements and I was still uncomfortable to face his parents, as he would return home a different person, and treats me worse every time after every time he had met up with his parents. Before all these issues, we had made plans to visit my grandparents and his extended family who were both living in the same country. On our way there, I expressed that I would want to remain with my grandparents and not join his family trip as I’m not ready to face his parents yet. He tried to persuade me to go and that his parents will apologize to me, but I was still very uncomfortable. I told him I’ll only go if he can give me reassurance and that I will only go on another family trip with him if he can give me the status as his fiancé before I can face them. He said if he were to propose to me now he cannot face his parents, and he told his parents he has plans to propose to me on this trip, but they insisted that they should reconcile with me before he can propose as I would potentially “steal their grandchildren away from them” in the future if we don’t make up. He told me he even brought the ring with him but he can’t do it. I walked away from him, I felt so betrayed and lost in a foreign country. I got very emotional and told him he made feel worthless and want to end my life. I was not in the right headspace after a whole month of torment and I didn’t have the energy to reason with him any longer. I gave in and proceeded with the rest of our trip.
The day before we went to meet his family, I told him I wanted to go somewhere else instead and I still wasn’t ready. When he was making changes to our tickets, I saw his sister’s message on his phone, saying that it’ll be better in the long run if he sort out the parents issue first and don’t propose to me yet. I snatched his phone and spoke with his sister. After I told her everything, she apologized and gave me the reassurance that their family will treat me with respect and will apologize to me the first thing they see me, and that they just want to reconcile before we move forward to the next stage in life. I felt it was reasonable and reassured after my conversation with her, so I decided to give it a go.
When we did finally meet up with his parents, they pretended as if nothing has happened. Few days later we finally had the ‘conversation’. His dad started off by saying he doesn’t think it’s appropriate for us to get married at the moment, and kept going on about their same points again, he said our relationship hasn’t been long enough for us to decide marriage at this stage. They claimed their comments weren’t a personal attack, they didn’t apologize and said that I was ‘thinking too much’ for this to be a personal attack because it was simply a generalization, then dismissed me for being upset for hearing from my bf because he wasn’t supposed to tell me, and proceeds to keep commenting about me and my friends and how they disagree with their celebrations of weddings.
I respectfully explained we are not having these discussions about marriage out of no where, we have been having discussions on marriage throughout our 2 years. In fact our plans to have children was the basis of our relationship and were his requirements, and we just want to move forward with the next part of our lives. His mom doesn’t think I need to think about having children at this moment and it’s not a good time for us to have children, because she had kids much later in life and apparently so is everyone else, and we shouldn’t be following my ‘timeline’ on when things should be happening. Apparently I should not have such control over the timing of giving birth ‘like a reproduction machine’, and it’s not right to have to set such timeline on how much time I need for recovery and time between having each children. She asks why do we feel the need and so early in life to get married now? And ditch your own families and start your own life.
His dad said I should not decide right now how many kids we need to have and it’s rather in gods hands to decide, and some people are not even be able to have more than 1 kid, I asked him why is this relevant in regards to our plans to have kids… so I have to listen to god now and have kids without planning? And then he started giving this bs about god and how we are not meant to plan ‘these things’ out in life so specifically. I asked him: What is wrong with being practical and setting realistic goals. He claimed he doesn’t think it’s wrong to have plans but we shouldn’t be so set and ‘controlling’ over our own lives. He has experience and we should listen to the grown ups with experience… I knew the conversation wasn’t going to get anywhere as soon as he brings religion into this.
My boyfriend just stood there in silence. After the conversation ended we both walked away from his parents, he apologized to me and told me he’s sorry for any of the things his parents have said to me and I didn’t deserve it. He says he won’t listen to his parents anymore, and he knows how to make this right, and he will propose once we return to my grandparent’s place. I didn’t challenge him anymore because I that was the reassurance I needed from him, and I was happy that he was finally able to see his parents for who they are.
The following days of the trip, his dad tried to isolate him from rest of the family to give him the same lecture. Every time he rejoins the group I can see from his expression that their conversation did not go well, I didn’t comment. On the day we returned to my grandparent’s home, he told me he can’t follow through with his promises. And his dad told him he should feel guilty for making promises to me and be pressured into marriage. Somehow this convinced himself into thinking he’s not ready for marriage all along. I walked away from him and we spent 3 days apart before our flight to return home.
On our last day, we met up for closure, talked through what happened and we had sex. I told him I wasn’t ready to fly back home with him and I didn’t want to fall back into the vicious cycle of arguments, and that we should have some time to cool things down before we reconnect. We agreed to give each other some space and he wants to learn more about himself before he makes commitment to me as he doesn’t want to disappoint me again.
A week after he got back, he told me he wants to move out of our co-rented apartment, and he wants to break lease. I was a bit confused because I thought he wanted to work on himself, and him moving out essentially is an indication of a break up to me. He said if I don’t let him move out, I’m not giving him space to work on himself. I didn’t really have an option so I agreed. We didn’t talk afterwards.
3 weeks later, I missed my period, I took a test and was positive.

I 29/f am a classic avoidant. I can forget to text people back for days. I have a lot of work and hobbies and the desire to communicate daily just isn’t there.
I see a lot of my friends waiting around for texts analyzing if the person will text them back. It kills me to tell them to wait a few days and that the person in the other line may just be busy.
I don’t ghost purposefully but if I have one good date, I don’t think anyone is entitled to my time. Others seem to find that awful. If it’s longer term I will always send a message like “respectfully, I need space” before I go dark but if I am not dating someone I don’t feel the need to explicitly explain.
Ive never been ghosted but I’ve felt things fade away and that’s ok w me. If we don’t have common ground or want to pursue the connection then why invest in it?
It leaves me to wonder is there ever even ground? Is it always the chaser and the chased eventually compromising? At what point is it ok to ghost ( one date, a passing conversation imo). What’s your line for heartless vs realistic? And why do so many people chase someone who just isn’t interested?

The greatest player in WSL history is leaving the club. On a free. At the age of 27. The GOAT. Vivianne Miedema.
Over the next few months we will hear and see the stats over and over. 172 appearances, 125 goals, 50 assists. Over a goal or assist a game. Incredible. But the true pleasure was just watching her play, something we’ve all been robbed of over the last few years. That may have been nobodies fault, but I could certainly name whose fault it is that we will be robbed of watching the rest of her career.
For such pioneers of women’s football, Arsenal have handled Vivianne Miedema’s departure horrifically. Women’s football is not the same as Men’s and should not be run in the same way. In women’s football relationships are built between fans and players as quickly as lesbians fall in love. The accessibility is there and encouraged. Rightly or wrongly, winning isn’t always everything, the priority is growing the game and inspiring the next generations.
Make no mistake, not offering Viv a contract at 27 years of age is the same as Barcelona turning around to Alexia Putellas and not offering her a contract. It is the same as letting Thierry Henry leave on a free. In no world is it a sensible decision. In no world does it make sense for team aiming to win trophy’s. And in no world is any true Arsenal fan going to allow this to be swept under the rug. Could there really not have been a conversation about a contract even if the club felt it was a risk? Could that conversation not have been had? This is Vivienne Miedema, with all due respect, there is nobody better.
This is a huge disrespect and something that the club, specifically Jonas and Edu need to address publicly. Especially if the plan is for Jonas to continue. Not only that it brings into question the ambition of the club, within minutes Man City are sniffing and being vocal about it.
But as difficult as it is for us fans, and as baffling, the real victim is Viv.
To Viv, thank you, thank you, thank you. Not just for what you have done for the club on the pitch, for who you are off it. For being unapologetically yourself, and showing us the most important thing is you and your wellbeing regardless of what directions you are being pulled in. We will always be holding out hope that there will be a U-turn and you end up staying, but the reality is even if the club were too they don’t deserve your forgiveness for this. I hope wherever you end up you don’t just confirm what everyone except the club knows, but make Arsenal have to re-evaluate every persons position who helped come to this conclusion. Because it’s the wrong one, and I’ll die on that sword. But who knows, maybe one day you’ll be winning the WSL with us as manager. I’ll be wishing it in every shooting star I see.
I know we will have to let it go, just as you will have had too, but we aren’t ready yet.
So whilst we may not be ready to say So Long Viv just yet, we will never be able to listen to that song without thinking of you.

Looking for a list of the best chapters in your guys personal opinion in terms of moments between Harry and Hermione that you liked.
I've read the whole thing myself but instead of going through the story again I would like to just go back to specific moments that were really good

Last Wednesday I was at my first actual job interview for the first time in 20 years. I think it went fairly well, but I found it very stressful. Afterwards I felt absolutely spent, and I still don't feel like I've fully recovered almost a week later. Some other shit happened yesterday that made it even worse. My brain is a mess, it's like I'm depressed. Maybe I am. I sleep like shit, wake up after a few hours, my face feels like it's burning.
I'm not completely "out of order" like some guys I've seen online, but I'm definitely not my usual self. I binged Shogun over the weekend and enjoyed it immensely (it might even have triggered a new bout of samurai special interest), so I don't have that depressive "nothing is fun".
Could this be a mild burnout? As a late diagnosed person, I haven't been too conscious about the term earlier in life. Or perhaps it just exacerbated a burnout I've had going for a while.

Hey, everyone. I am new to this ALS journey and I'm feeling so overwhelmed. I'm making it to my mom that the changes me and my husband have to make to our lives is simple but she lives with us and I'm scared she'll see my heart breaking.
I know the short term sacrifices I have to make do not really matter and I'm probably being selfish but when I'm alone I'm so sad. She can't talk anymore, we can't stay with our family at the reunion boarding house, me and my husband can't go away for our anniversary for the first time in 19 years.
And then there is the fear of what she thinks. She's undiagnosed ADHD and autistic, too, as well as untreated depression and trauma from childhood. The only break she will get is when Jesus takes her home and she is restored in Heaven but I don't want her focusing on that.
I'm sorry to ramble...

Hi everyone! I'm here in this Reddit to find friends in the (18-21) range. I am lesbian so I wanted to find more friends like me! Honestly even if you aren't In the Igbtq community I'm still open to communicating <3 l don't have a preference on whether it's long term communication or short term it just depends on how our conversation would flow!
My interests include anything cute related, l'm also into NANA and paradise kiss. I love music, and I also read from time to time. I watch many films, and I'm into thrifting and fashion. Let me know if you want to chat or DM me! :)
Also if I don't get back to ur response to this post! I'm most likely busy. But if our communication is really great through Reddit we can talk about other communication apps to talk through from. <3
Thanks for reading!

So long story short... together almost 10 years no problems before like this. We've never done anything like this before together. My partner and i had a 3 way with someone we know. Our connection was through grief (my best friends widow/gf, he passed away a year before the encounter) we trauma bonded and we all agreed to try this with each other. Things did not go well, she reciprocated with my partner but not fully as discussed and then pulled back after and said they specifically said they weren't really into that. We triple checked everything in texts back and forth and that was not what they said to us. Leaving my partner unfulfilled and hurt. During the year after that talk about our encounter became a regular thing. Despite both of us at separate times telling each other we should stop that kind of talk. It didn't happen and we both kept doing it. We don't see each other much on a daily as we live the high five life because of family. I have a problem with hypersexuality and one day got drunk and asked if it was OK to have relations with that person again. My partner has had reservations about this person the entire time. I ignored that and my partner texted us both that it was fine and they would love for us to play. We did the deed and after I didn't pursue that person again. It was not a great encounter and very bad.... The other person asked again to do it and neither us responded about doing it again. A month later my partner asked to branch out and do things with other people. At first I said absolutely not and then later said it was fine but didn't want to know. This went back and forth in my head and after trying to get in my head and give the approval I just couldn't anymore and said I just can't. I tried so hard to give back what I've been given really I did. It seemed fair and deserving. My partner confronted me about having an affair with that person cause we would text alot (bs and nothing related to hooking up again) but we had a long discussion and I finally said that I couldn't go through with it cause during sex I would go there and imagine them with another person and would lose it. I have been in a ltr with my previous partner of 14 years with a couple of people that were a constant the entire time. My partner said they were jealous that I had that and because of our age difference I did have a while life before them with a spouse and kid.
But they said there was no one else and then a week later they came home late after we've been texting all night and I went to bed. I was in a bad place and hating myself and was reassured that I was perfect and exactly what they want and they don't want me to change and stop being who I am. I saw my partner in the shower because I woke up to use the restroom and they said hey baby. I felt the vibe and knew something was not right. I couldn't go to sleep so I left and went to work a few hours early.......I decided to be that person and look at phone and texts records on our account and saw there was almost 200 texts back and forth between them and another person in two days. I knew exactly who it was (the person before me) I confronted the same morning when they woke up to do the daily with our family. At first they denied then quickly admitted to cheating. I lost my shit at the betrayal and left work and power drank. It's been several months and we've talked about each other's side on shit about how we both felt and it's not easy at all. I left them feeling like they were not enough and I needed more. Hypersexuality is a problem for me. And my porn addiction hasn't gotten any better (worse). I feel totally betrayed and cannot believe at times most of what they say about the other person or even how much they love me and want to make this work. They are actively doing their best to show me. For lack of better words my partner wanted to get back at me and even the playing field. Alot of the time they are crying hating the person they became and talked shit about. We've had a few friends do this kind of shit. I'm trying to seek help for my shit but with our family lives I cannot get to a support group with family commitments. It's created a huge ripple in our lives and idk..... it's there anyone who's dealt with this kind of thing? Yes I am prepared for the comments and fully accept responsibility for my actions. This is/ was until recently the longest I've ever been with someone and only one person so I am new to monogamy and totally shat on it. My partner has never had a real relationship before either. We've been talking non stop and are opening up to each other about things we've not discussed like personal depression and anxiety. I'm trying and they're trying but it's the downward out of control moments when it's really hard.