Didi ki shadi ke baad chudai

Guys maine cuet mai 6 subjects fill kiye the PCM, Eng, GT and CS So ab mera pcm, eng and GT ka test 15 and 16 ko hoga and CS ka exam 21 ya 22 ko hoga cbt mode but now i realised ki cs ka test dene ya na dene se koi faida nahi hai So can i skip cs test, baad mai score card mai koi problem to nahi hogi na? Ya counseling ke wkt koi problem?

Maine jin buri aadato ki vajah se JEE me and Boards me haga thha unhi ki vajh se ek mahine se mara rha thha and ab board ka result aane ke baad confidence aaya hai to maine ab jaake fir se preparation shuru kri hai. I know is baar to nahi hoga June valle me hi hoga kyuki mera syllabus nhi complete hai.
But kya koi please bata skta hai yeh Arihant Prep Guide itni ghatiya kyu hai. Kuch questions bina pen uthaye solve ho jaate hai and kuchh me samajh hi nahi aata hai ki kya puchha hai and kuchh ke to concept hi nahi kabhi padhe. Should I not solve it right now and instead focus on JEE mains PYQs.
Koi plzz bata do kya karu and PYQs lagau to kis year ke
Aur koi yeh bhi bata do LR ke liye kya karu, Maine kal ek mock dia thha Exam Goal vaali website pe uspe mere LR aur English me bahot negative hue thhe
Edit: I know this question must have been asked a million times par mocks kaha se du??? Kiske sbse relevant hai bata do koi

Mummy boli ki abb jo aagye wo aagye, dekho kaha mistakes ki thi....... Jab unko bola ki kaha mistakes ki hai tho unko laga ki excuse de raha .. Dostko ke sath thi share kar diya par idar mann barne aagya.
Sab main lagbhag >85 hai, eng 94, maths 90, sanskrit 83, sci 81(pata nhi itne kam kese hue paper tho acha gaya), sst 87, ai 82(how mere tho isme ache aaye the school mein) Best 5 lekar 87.2%
1st of all,, sanskrit ke liye school mei koi teacher hi nhi tha jo padha wo yt se(master sahab ki jai🙏🙏 ) mrks 66 aagye par portfolio ka sirf 18 diya jab ki unhone bola tha ki koi teacher nhi hai tho full dedege.. Puri school mei sirf do sanskrit ke student the aur usko ig 19/20 diye portfolio ka(his total is 89) (Mereko bhi agar 20 dedethe tho 87.6≈88% mil gathe) 2nd sci, abhi tho pcm student hu tho lag raha hai ki bio mei hi kathe hoge(interest hi nhi hai mera bio me) but still school mei maths aur sci mere best the... Aur hamara school bhi buhut hard papers banata tha(to prepare us🤓) aur me top 5-10 mei bhi aa ja tha puri school mei SOCH RAHA HU KI RE EVALUATION KE LIYE BHEJ DO but mummy nhi maan rhi🥲 Maths thik hai aur eng bhi Par sst jaha pe 90+ sabka confirm hota hai udar 87 aagye And lastly AI,, school mei ai mei hamesha 90+% aathe the,, aur mera friend jisko last exam mei Mujhse 7marks kam the ushe boards mei mujhe se 7mrks zyada hai:salute: Mujko portfolio mei 94/100 hei aur usko 98,99 hai🤯🥲🥲(happy for him tho uskha result bhi meine hi check kar ke diya 'after asking him') Aur ai mei tho extra questions bhi attempt kiye the thora hard tha mere liye wo paper but not as hard to just get a 38...
Ending: school chtiya aur mei bhi chtiya ki mene sirf 2 din(mostly 1-2 din) padhai kari and not utilized all the 4 days for my preparations Shayad agar karta to 90+% aa jathi Abhi tho 1 mihine baad nani nana ki anniversary mei bhi jana hai. AUR WAHA PURA PARIWAR AYEGA. abhi tak tho jin relatives ne pucha aur wish kiya wo ache hai magarrr(still relatives piche tho bahut lag the hai like bhncd tumne kab meri fees bari???)

So let me start by telling abt how my jee journey has been till now. Mera bachpan se (mtlb 5th-6th) se hi IIT B Jane ka sapna tha 🤡. Mujhe nit aut iits ke bare mein kafi pehle se pata hai. Kyunki mere papa nit trichy se hai, chacha nit warangal aur dusre chacha IIT B se hai (under 100 air thi). Isliye bachapan se hi soch Raha hoon ki IIT B jaunga. There was no pressure from my parents to do engineering. 10th mein 96 percentage the (100 percetage in maths and science). 10th ke result ke baad bada confidence aaya 🤡. Fiitjee aur aakash dono ke entrance mein 75% scholarship mil gayi. Aakash ki coaching join ki. 11th ke aadhe khatam hone Tak aukaat pata chal gayi thi, isliye tha ki bas NIT T miljaye. Let's cut to the present. Baki ki story kisi aur din. 11th poori barbaad hogayi. 12th mein mehnat karke saara portion khatam Kiya upto mains level. Physics and Chem ka 75% portion advanced level Tak tha. Mocks mein bhi acha score karna laga. Jan AYJR mein expected 99.2 %ile Tha. But got the dreaded shift 27 S1. Result ke din zindagi upside down hogayi soch Raha tha ab focus hokar advanced ke liye padhunga lekin sirf 97.1 percentile bani ( scored 205 marks). 27S1 ke sadme se jab Tak nikal paaya tab Tak boards aagye the. Boards ke baad 1 mahina tha jee S2 ke liye. Mai bas revision karta tha aur mocks deta tha. Score kafi fluctuate hone laga tha. Kabhi score 220+ to kabhi 180. Easy questions mein silly errors karne ki buri aadat hogayi thi. AYJR April mein silly errors ke Karan sirf 98 percentile expected aai. Fir 4S2 mein 60 questions attempt karke aaya. Score check karne par sirf 182 hi Bane. Maths mere expectation se bohot lengthy thi, iske Karan mark for review questions ko check karne ka time hi nahi mila aur wo almost saare mark for review galat hogaye. Chem ke ek question mein structure correct banaya lekin no of bonds galat gin liye. I could have genuinely scored 225+ easily but due to me being stupid gave a lot of time to maths and fucked up physics and chem. Sirf 98.2 percentile hi bani.. Ab advanced se koi hopes nahi, maths adv level ka ghanta kuch nahi aata. My father wants me to go to bits, lekin I can't seem to justify the 24 lakh fees. We don't have a ton of money and 24 lakh is a very significant amount for us. Jab bhi padhne jaata hoon, man hi nahi hota, somehow I just don't get motivation to study for bits.. Drop ke liye papa maan nahi rahe. I genuinely believe ki drop year mai I will do better because burnout is not an issue for me (atleast for now) aur social life ki chinta nhi hai. 11th aur 12th itne lonliness mai guzri hai ki ab farak nhi padta. Sirf ek acha dost ban paya. Aur 10th ka friend group poora break hogaya. Ek ladki, kafi close friend thi ab msg karne par reply bhii nhi deti. Last proper female interaction 10th mein hi tha.. Anyways it is what it is. You guys suggest what should I do now. Take a drop or prepare for bits?

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Kisiko MBBS mila, chhorkar BDS liya Quora mei aise namune pade hai do you think it is a good decision?
At then end of the day MBBS ke baad PG anivarya hai and BDS ke baad MDS . Koi dermatologist ban gaya to koi maxillofacial surgeon.
Does it matter to them? Kyunki agar MBBS chhor rahe ho then it is something nahi to USMLE/PLAB ke liye acche college ke liye apna passion hi badal rahe ho.
Anyone would ever consider this (agar bande ko MBBS mila aur bande ko PG ke liye nahi Hardworking karna, I heard -not sure sorry- ki MDS entrance is wayy easier than PG lol)
End mei starting salary same hi hai. Obv doctors have a better earning scope but dentists who end up becoming orthodontists or craniofacial surgeons ??
Thank you☠

Hi guys, I’m from Delhi (21m).I cleared foundation in may 22(self study,first attempt) and appeared for CA inter group 1 in may23(got 57 in accounts). But phir ek mentally unstable girlfriend milgyi glti se jisne life ki watt lagadi. Bhai ab tk trauma ata h us ldki ka hrdin ki tune mujhe chora toh sucide krdungi ya apne haath ki nas kaat lungi ya mera baap tujhe maardega mere marne k baad . May23 se may24 agya aur Maine Abhi tk exam dobara nhi diya kisi bhi group ka. But right now I’m thinking of giving exam of g1(new scheme) in sept24 but kuch samjh ni ata ki du ya na du . Is it possible for me to do CA inter g1 in the next 3 months. Accounts and law are the subjects that are within my reach but I don’t know about taxation. Toh kya 3 months sufficient h taxation cover krne k liye aur g1 k exam dene k liye. Ab toh sala guilt feel hota h ki kyu ek saal barbaad krliya poora us ldki k chakkr Mai. Ideal scenario for clearing CA BHI ab at the age of 25-26 h jo pta ni kyu bahut jada lgra h . It feels like Mai baaki bachon se bahut pechen rehgya hu aur ek discarded child bngya hu apni family ka. No one forces me to earn because my brother is a well earning individual but I don’t getting motivation aur satisfaction that I will clear or not. Please help me!!!!
Also should I go for self study or take coaching from my previous tutor(inter wala) because I’m very lazy and procrastinate if left alone at home without any friend circle.
SORRY FOR MY BAD GRAMMAR ek dost ya bade bhai ya ek mentor ke naate hi kuch bata do toh bahut bhala hojayega🙏

I am an avg student till 9th I used to give re-examination for passing.. after covid I started studying in 10th I got 78% then in 11th I choose PCM because I was good in maths (till that time) I joined an offline coaching institute for JEE preparation
2.5 saal maine bohot mhenat kari maine bohot sacrifice kara sare dost chor diye kahi ghumne firne nhi gai koi maze nhi kare school bhi dummy kar liya.. Sunday's pr jb coching ki chutti hoti thi mai akeli vaha jake self study krti thi class khatam hone ke baad bhi 2hr extra rukti thi self study kr liye.. mere teacher's bhi bohot tarif krte the infact dusre class mai jakr batate the... Last december ke time mai district ho gai bohot self doubts hone lage (stress overthinking toh rooz ka tha mere liye) still itne mehnat ka koi result nhi nikla mere sirf 81%ile aye, I am genenal mera cutoff bhi clear nhi hua muje koi top ke college nhi mil rahe
Ab mai sirf yahi chahati thi ki koi accha private college mil jage acchi jage pr maine bohot college search kare fir maine Pune Jane ka dicide kara coz mere bohot relative rehte hai vaha toh parents easily bhej denge... But aisa nhi hua or bohot fight ke baad bhi muje kahi bahar nhi Jane de rahe ab muje bhopal ke hi koi private college mai admission Lena padh raha hai.. aise log jinne kabhi padhai nhi Kari sirf chill kara vo log bhi vahi a rahe hai jha mai ja rahi hu.... Mere itne hard work ka koi matlab nhi nikla ... I am literally a failure in my life 😭

its gonna be a long trauma dump.
im 19f, appeared in 12th this year, this would be my first drop. vaise to iss sun pe lurker rehti thi, aaj laga maybe kuch bol hi du to atleast relief rahega kisko dhang se bataya to. vaise to life meri bekar nhi hai overall dekha jaye to. yaha pe logo ka padho bc achhi lagne lagti hai life, and phir agle din vahi rr.
i was five almost, jb mere nana ne pehli baar mujhe touch kiya tha. mummy papa ka office rehta tha and bhaiya ka school to akele chhodne ki jagah nana ko bula lete the vo log ki mera dhyaan rakhe. achha dhyan rakhe the (apna lolzzz). now that i think about the movements and the way he'd shake afterwards, pyare nanaji was most probably cumming in his dhoti holding his five year old granddaughter on his thigh. (i mean, ladke shayad better jaane, kabhi kisi se detail mein puchha nhi iss baare mein. after it had got some action and y'all are ejaculating, do you guys like, freeze for a bit a breathe hard? agar nhi to im sorry for the wrong allegations). anyways that happened for a while. uske baad ka mujhe kuch yaad nhi. tbh ye bhi nhi yaad tha, until 3-4 saal pehle jb i read a similar scene in a book and ye yaad aaya phir shock mein chali gayi. had two beautiful frnds jinko bataya iss baare mein and they tried to help me out as best as they could. andar se ye bhi lagta tha ki mummy ko kabhi pata bhi chala to nahi manengi, isiliye parents se thoda grudge rehta tha and ladti jhagadati rehti thi.
fast forward to present, mai apne best friend ke saath relationship mein aa gayi and slowly but surely, he made a great impact on my relationship with my family. like uski uske parents ke saath achhe relations hain and ladka bhi sahi hai (haa pyar krti hu usse, mar jaungi ek din) to convince kr liya mujhe ki mere parents bhi pasand krte hain mujhe. and tb se mere relations meri family ke saath significantly improve hue. i even started to trust them.
to kya hai na, mummy and nana ki jamti nhi hai (he's neither a good husband nor a good father), isiliye mummy unse baat nhi krti. ek din recently mummy unhi ke baare mein upset thi and maine mummy se bol diya ki "uss aadmi se to mujhe nafrat hai. royi hu bestfriend ko batate hue" and mummy was like mujhe batao but mana kar di ki abhi nhi.
agle din she came to me and said ki unhe raat mein neend nhi aa rahi thi ye sochte hue ki aisa unhone kya kar diya ki I don't trust her but trust my frnds? phir bohot bolne pe mai unhe puri baat bata di (utni detail mein nhi obviously) and she was very supportive. boli ki "maa baap important hote hain par bachcho se zyada nhi. mai to vaise bhi unhe ghar na bulati but ab to sawal hi nhi uthata. shakal nhi dekhungi unki". and mai apne room mein aake rone lagi ki maine apni maa ko galat samjha ki vo mujhpe yakeen nhi karengi.
then agle din, i think jb mai ghar pe nhi thi tb mummy bhaiya ko ye baat batayi and he told her abt how once i confessed to him i was a lesbian (bisexual boli thi but lauda hai), and pata nhi kaise, mummy ko convince kr doya ki im making this whole story up for sympathy and to seem cool.
mummy aayi and mujhse boli ki "tum jo batayi ho, vo sach mein hua hai ya jo tum ghatiya books padhti ho, uski vajah se dimag mein baitha li ho ki mere saath bhi kuch galat hua hai?" and phir asked me abt that lesbian wala and told me ki inhi sab vajah se my face has lost its innocence and mai kuch nahi kar paayi hu. kaise i didn't deserve the marks i got in boards and sabka entrance exam tha but sab ek event mein aa rahe the but tumne kuch padha nhi tha isiliye nhi aayi (true but jisko neet dena hota vo aise bhi na aata). and how she feels ashamed and unsafe to go out with me varna i would wander off with "bhaiya log". that other girls of my age look smart and innocent and good even of they're fat. and gori ladkiyo ka chehra nhi pink hai, but you have yellowish tone and you never look smart, tumhare andar vo cheez hi nhi. she ended her speech with, "tumhari vajah se maine apne baap ko galat samjha. agar tum jhoote ilzam laga rahi ho to uska anjam dikhega." and then very lightly said, as if she didn't believe it, "aur agar mere baap ne kuch kiya hoga to bhagwan batayenge."
since that day, i haven't been able to look at my family the same way. the love, trust and respect i had for them seems gone. uss din ke baad mummy achhe se baa ki but bhul nhi paa rahi unn words ko. isse pehle bhi aisa bohot kuch boli hain vo jo bura laga tha but ye Dil tod diya. i can't believe my first heartbreak is from my mother itself.
isse pehle bhi she'd questioned my character. mai maanti hu, mai chutiye bachchi thi. nhi samjhti thi kuch. school bus mein achhe bhaiya log mile the to sabko achha samajhti thi and apne age ke logo se ghul mil nhi paati thi. isiliye almost got tricked by a senior jo uss time 11th mein the (i was in 6th, koi dost nhi tha to attention ki bhukhi rehti thi). uske liye mummy branded me as "characterless". I WAS IN SIXTH, NHI PATA THA MUJHE KUCH. phir ek baar humlog kahi gaye the and mummy dusri seat pe chali gayi mujhko leke jbki meri dost pichhe ki seat pe thi. i tried going to her to uss time to mummy bas gusse se dekhi but ghar aake boli ki how im such a bad daughter, achhe ghaf ki ladkiya sirf apne mummy papa ke paas rehti hain but tumko to matakna rehta hai. tumhare jaisi ladkiyo ko characterless rehte hain, kisi ki nhi hoti hain. (this was in class 9th).
ho sakta hai mai apna side leke dekh rahi hu isiliye mai khud ko sahi samajh rahi. but galti kya ki maine ye to koi achhe se explain karo???
recent ye nana wala batane ke baad to bas yahi manati hu roz bhagwan se ki maar daale mujhe. sach nata rahi, jb dekhega na koi sirf meri mummy papa aur bhaiya ko saath mein, to itne perfect lagte hain. and mai manhoos ki yarah aa jaati hu beech mein. (mumma thinks ki mera chehra normal rehne pe mahoos lagta hai, i should be smiling har samay varna apni life barbaad ke dungi aisi shakal bana ke).
marne ka ya relapse krne ka (i used to self harm) roz mann krta hai, but apni best friend aur apne bf ke baare mein sochke ruk jaati hu. sach mein doni pagal pyaar krte hain mujhse. bestfriend ki life already laudi ho rakhi hai, aur nhi pareshan krna, bf ki life mein pehle hi bohot trauma the, ab badhane ka mann nhi. i promised him I'd helo him heal.
ab 15 aur 16 ko cuet hai but padha nhi hai kuch and pata nhi kaise niklega. nikalka bhi zaruri hai varna home life aur fucked up ho jaayegi plus ghar se niklungi to insabme dimag nhi lagega.
samajh nhi aa raha kaise padhu ab, aakhiri din bacha hai, sab kuch padha hai but revise krna hai. idk bhai, higheay sach mein sundar lagne laga hai (srsly)
edit: aaj matashree ko therapy de rahi thi. and pata chala she has shit communication skills and she meant to say ki hopefully ye sab mera vehem hai but boldi kuch aur. and batayi mumma bhaiya bhi bola ho sakta hai vehem ho but he cried when he first heard it. matashree se phir ladi khub ki baat nhi krne aata achhe se ro rahi hu kb se. tumlogo ke comments+ mummy se baat krke jo relief Mila hai na, thankyou yaar. literally verge of suicide se happy kr diye ho.

Then why tf give improvement exam. Bc pehle toh cbse saale chootmarike dhang se copy checking nhi krte, number sahi se nahi diye(I do not deserve fuckin 42/70 in biology) phir agar re-checking ke liye daalna chaho toh pehle 500 phir 700 phir jaake hogi re-evaluation woh bhi 100RS PER Q. WTF??USKE BAAD BHI KOI MARKS BADHNE KI GUARANTEE NAHI.
Ghar pe bola tha 80℅ overall ke aas paas toh aa hi jayega(±2℅) ab unko kis muh se bolu ki 70 aaye hai;(. Ab toh jo desired tier 2 govt college mind mein rakha tha woh bhi abhi accept na kare mujhe.
Madarchodon tumne mere career ki trajectory decline kardi yaar. Narak mein chut bechni padegi jisne bhi mera bio paper check kiya hai.

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17M. Today cbse boards result came out. And I got 68% and I feel devastated.
I tried to do jee coaching and school simultaneously but I couldn't. I used to feel sleepy in classes so much that my eyes felt like burning. I was just not interested in this rat race.
My father is the most toxic person I've ever met. He doesn't even talk to strangers with respect or politely. I couldn't clear jee and my father scolded me a lot and today he said even more stuff that I couldn't take in.
I got horrible percentile in JEE. I know this is not the end of life and these grades don't define someone's potential or life. I accept I couldn't perform well and learnt my lesson through bad decisions.
But aaj papa ne bola "tera ky hoga, pura future barbad krliya h", "2 saal kuch pdhai nhi kiya bas phone chalaya, game khela, timepass kiya", "har ek exam me fail hogya", "ab aage ki padhai chhod de, labour ka kaam kr ky krega pdh kr", "5 lakh barbaad krdiya school or coaching me".
I wasn't like this always. Maine 8th tak boht competitions, olympiads wagera kiya h. Mujhe nhi pata mai jee coaching kyu le liya. Ky hogya mere saath mujhe nhi pata.
He called me and said "apna laptop and phone tod de aur photo khich kr bhej". Kyu todu mai apna phone jab maine freelancing krke khud ke paise se kharida th.
I'm not joking but he called me "ch*tiya and mc" too for not scoring good marks. He even scolded my mother and sister for all this. Bas yahi bolte raha ki mat kr aage ki padhai, sab barbad krliya h ab mera kuch nhi hoga kahi.
Aaj pehli bar saalo baad meri aankho se aasu aagye. Aaj mere se control nhi hua aur mai chhat pr jakr silently andr se cry kr rh th.
He has his ego problem and anger issues. Idk what's his problem. Hamesha se aisa toxic behaviour raha h. Kabhi game khelne nhi diya to jab bhi time milta th bachpan me mai game khelte rhta th kyuki brain aisa sochta th ki ghr me nhi h yeh abhi jitna marji khel leta.
Bachpan me cash me paise diye th aur bola rkhne and maj spend krdiya kyuki bhai bachha th curiosity thi. To jis din pata chala jhapad mar diya and bache hue cash phad diye.
To ab dar lgta h kuch krne se. Mai kahi bahar nhi jata hoon ghumne ya kuch khane. Aaj tak restaurant nhi gya. Bs ek bar dosto ke sath movie dekhne gya hoon Oppenheimer. Ek do bar cafe me gya hoon dost ke sath. Sab apne hi paiso se pay kiya hoon. Pocket money ka concept hi gayb h mere ghr me. School wale goa trip pr legye but 15k mai mangne se ghabra rh th to nhi gya.
Ab weird sa introvert bn gya hoon. Dost birthday party pr ya ghumne bulate h to mai nhi jata kuch bahana krdeta hoon. Female interaction to hai hi nhi ab.
Ek din meri didi ka pata nhi sayd result acha nhi aaya th to bola ki books road pr lejakr jala de. Mai chhota th tab.
Aaj to bole meri mummy ko ki mujhe ghr se bhaga de.
He never accepts constructive critisism about him. For him other's opinions and views dont matter. He only boasts how much money he has spent on education and shit.
Heck he never gave his BA exam himself. Someone else wrote instead of him.
Ky aisa behaviour acceptable bhi hai aaj ki society me? I think he's psychotic and needs a psychiatrist. Like wtf man.
Kahi se koi support nhi mil rh mujhe. Bs lg rh andar se toot gya hoon aur ab kuch nhi h jeene ko. Bs mera friend mujhe support kr rh kyuki uske bhi kam percentage aaye h. Atleast uske ghr wale jyada understanding h and samjhte h ki yeh the end nhi hai.
Mera dream h Germany me pdhna. Mai kuch projects banaya hoon ek dost ke sath apne coding skills se jisse mujhe kafi acha revenue mil jata h. To friend EU ka hai and we've been in contact for long time now.
To ek saal yaha local college me pdh kr next year bachelors Germany ke liye apply krunga yeh mera plan th. Along with learning german language.
Bs isi hope se mai filhal jee rh hoon ki ek din yeh sapna pura hoga and mai finally yeh toxicity escape kr paunga. Mera wo dost financially help bhi krdega if funds ki kam pdegi to uss time. Papa ke to paise bhi use nhi hoga to bhad me jaye mai ja rh apne raste.
Bs aur kuch nhi kehne ko h

So mein ye apna mann halka karne ke liye likh rha hoon Meri jee mein 48k rank aayi even after taking drop result aane ke baad abhi tk move on nhi kr pa rha hoon roz soch soch ke rota rahta hoon ki toda aur padh liya hota even though ghar mein mummy papa khus hai is rank se kyuki hamare family mein kisi ne jee nhi kiya hai lakin mujhe bohot regret ho rha hai meine 3 saal le ke bhi aacha rank nhi nikal paya adv mein bhi koi hope nhi lg rha hai pura down phase chal rha hai hope ki kuch na kuch acha college mil Jaye ...

Personally i think that's a very cringe thing. People sharing their profiles like they are trying to sell something. People showcasing themselves infront of the other party. Aik shadi ke liye chacha mama taya phupha dada nani khalu khala sabki razamandi chahie hoti. This is so cringe.
Arrange marriage between two families who already know each other for a long time is fine. But sharing these profiles to random people. Does this makes any sense to you?
The girl and boy don't even know eachother properly and they get married. And eventually unki baat ni banti aur phir divorce hojati ya roz roz ki laraian hotin. I only know of one arrange marriage where the couple is happy and that's because they were cousins and they already knew eachother from childhood.