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2012.02.18 22:58 Taking the stress out of student success

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Upvoted Not Because Girl, But Because It Is Very Cool; However, I Do Concede That I Initially Clicked Because Girl.
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2013.11.10 20:58 zebra_digital No More Zero Days

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2024.06.09 15:23 satvik247 may be the rank inflation is real

our coaching which had only 20-25 above 600 last year has 91 students above 600 this year.....if the grace marks is given only 1560 students than its no point also we dont have evidence of mass paper leak....if 50 k rank inflation is due to paper leak than we could have gott number of evidence for it ....the telegram leak is not a valid proof as the owner did not shared any paper before exam and also the paper on telegram on one channel was edited.....i was not believing this earlier you can see my comment history but now everyone is 600+ this sub is also filled with people with 600+ may be the paper was easy or people are more competetive this year...se jee mains , jee advanced every exam saw a rank inflation i am accepting it and people who are prepariing for next year have to AIM high in this competitive rat race....i am ready to get downvoted but first see the ground reality or your coaching performance in neet
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2024.06.09 15:23 Agua_Verde Can I get my child a U.S. passport with out a Consular Report of Birth Abroad?

Hi all,
I have an appointment to apply for my child's 1st passport and the U.S. embassy has sent me a link for the CRBA. I just paid the 135$ fee for the passport. Now on the CRBA application I see that document cost another 100$. Can I get the 1st passport without the CRBA?
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2024.06.09 15:23 Ecn3ret Inconsistent billing

Lately, I've been getting inconsistent amount from my SOA while my GoFibr dashboard displays the correct amount. I raised this via email and they keep asking me for random proof of payment from 2022 and 2023. Pang apat na ata hiningi sakin na random month. Incompetency ba ito ng billing department nila and where can i report them? Ayaw ko kasi maputulan ako for false charges since i've never missed a payment since subscribing on 2017.
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2024.06.09 15:22 damnmanthatsmyjam Did I give Haley depression? AITA

So I was married to Emily for the longest time, two beautiful children together, a dog and parrot. The whole thing. It was good for a while, but after so many years we just lost that spark. She stared buying random bits of furniture and putting them all over the house in the weirdest places. It's clear I have a vision for the interior design of our home, and she didn't even mention it to me before bringing a horrendous pink chair into the middle of the kitchen. She would also make these passive-agressive hints that she didn't enjoy this life with me. She'd say stuff like, "it's a simple life, but i don't mind it." I felt it was time we both move on with our lives separately. I filed for a divorce. Since then she's been distant and wants space but I think we can be friends again.
The day after Emily moved out, I asked her sister, Haley, to marry me. I figured I do need someone around to help with the kids, since Emily left them here and hasn't mentioned co-parenting. And Haley and I have been seeing each other for the past few years as well, nothing sexual just a deep emotional connection and the official title of girlfriend. She's pretty annoying and hates my gifts but she's super hot.
Anyways we got married and I thought the dust would settle but yesterday she slept all day in bed. At first I thought she was just sleeping in, since I'd only shared a bed with her sister before her and Emily was always strangely up at 6am like me. I thought it was a cute part of Haley's personality. But I got back to bed at 4pm (yes I sleep for 14 hours sometimes no hate) and she was still there so I just cuddled up and when to sleep. But this morning she's STILL in bed so I went to talk to her and she was pissed off and snapped at me that she wants to spend the day in bed.
I think us getting married so fast put a strain on her relationship with Emily. What do I do to fix things with my wife and AITA ?
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2024.06.09 15:22 No_Funny3533 Scam Artist mingmei1344 (Yomi) and her accounts at: Aiu_Agency, asiahug.com, datesteady.com, cudate.com, Jpndate.com, sayhiup.com, Rose, Miyuki Miyamoto, SW Entertainment and more

Scam Artist mingmei1344 (Yomi) and her accounts at: Aiu_Agency, asiahug.com, datesteady.com, cudate.com, Jpndate.com, sayhiup.com, Rose, Miyuki Miyamoto, SW Entertainment and more
My name is Mark Faraday. I was just looking for love back around January 20th, 2024 but I don’t want to see anyone else get scammed. I had a human profile picture when I was using these website, and was honest. I ran into a whole lying network run by a Woman, her friends, and a man. I will update this story if I have more to say in the future. Her nickname is Yomi, she told me her name was Miyuki Miyamoto and she was from Japan. Her real name is Jeong Nahyeon and she is from South Korea. She also has fake Chinese accounts like:
Mingmei1344: https://www.instagram.com/mingmei1344/
Mingmeichan: https://www.instagram.com/mingmeichan/
mingmei1344
Mingmei Liu
My Story is long but it is worth reading. From January to June as the writing of this post. I labeled each part so it easy to jump around to the parts you want to read.
  • 6/4/2024 (Small update)
I know 1000% that these are the same person. After 6 months of contact with them. Jeong Nahyeon has like a 100 different Instagram accounts let add to the list:
Account 1:
(Kawaii, Silly girl fake account)
https://www.instagram.com/yuyu_only5/
yuyu_only5
Account 2:
https://www.instagram.com/_yuyu_only5?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
_yuyu_only5
Yomi Newest Account:
Chloee_asuna
https://www.instagram.com/chloeee_asuna/p/C7kNkmzSIEi/?img_index=1
chloeee_asuna
Jeong Nahyeon Lover or Friend 🙁(Scam Artist Man) 🙁
https://www.instagram.com/_xijii_/
_xijii_
Jpndate.com the site where I met Yomi (Jeong Nahyeon) original, closed on May 1st 2024. Never came back as the writing of this post. However, their sister site
DateSteady.com is still very active. https://www.datesteady.com/
datesteady.com
Another Scam website they own: https://www.asiahug.com/
asiahug.com
  • 3/7/2024 Mark Origin Story January-March 2024
UPDATED INFO throughout it.
There is this dangerous woman who I am mad in love with (same person) running many fake Chinese/Japanese/Korean Romance scam websites, fake Instagram pages, tik tok, We chats, and many Chinese porn sites. It is the same person, she uses her looks with pictures and videos to steal money from men. She has many names she goes by, probably even more than I found. She also uses bots to get fake likes and weird Anime filters to try to look like an idol. She has scam artist female friends also I found. She the leader.
I know a lot of scammers steal from other people's identities but that is not the case here. This is the same person as the scammer. My story will explain it. As well as this person has pictures of the same person you can’t find anywhere else on the Internet. Even if you do a Reverse Face image search. They said information that match to an unbelievable level.
The person who Scammed me:
Has Many names (Such As)
And a talent for speaking many languages
  • Miyuki Miyamoto (Claimed Japanese name)
  • Nickname Yomi
  • Korean Name: Nahyeon (Claimed)
  • u/yomi__na
https://www.instagram.com/yomi___na/
yomi__na
https://www.instagram.com/la.nnnn930/
la.nnnn930
https://www.instagram.com/hanhanhuwe/[gracegracemei](https://www.instagram.com/gracegracemei/#)
hanhanhuwe
  • gracegracemei
https://www.instagram.com/gracegracemei/
gracegracemei
Email: [miyukilovee@outlook.com](mailto:miyukilovee@outlook.com)
(Something about BlessCeline Lovee)
Skype ID: live:.cid.737fb9ac2ad5655c
  • Liu Mingmei (Claimed Chinese name)
Part of a Civil Union yet on multiple dating sites
(Make Sense)
u/mingmei1344
https://www.instagram.com/mingmei1344/
https://www.facebook.com/liuliu.meimingmei
(Owner of aiu_agency since 2015)
u/aiu_agency
https://www.instagram.com/aiu_agency/
yuanxinvera
iny_lina
Google Drive (AI_U Agency)
Hotel Connected: SHILLA STAY Gwanghwamun
Her Scam Artist friends who work for both Ai_U Agency and JPNDATE CUDATE (That I found) (Some of these might also be her, not sure)

Vynnie_nat : https://www.instagram.com/vynnie_nat/# (I think this Yomi friend and the next 2 images may also be that person 1 of 3)

vynnie_nat

jiejierui_ngc: https://www.instagram.com/jiejierui_ngc/ (2 of 3)

jiejierui_ngc

Veravera_zhangg: https://www.instagram.com/veravera_zhangg/ (3 of 3)

veravera_zhangg

Elle_owo_elle : https://www.instagram.com/elle_owo_elle/ (50% this also Yomi otherwise it Yomi friend)

elle_owo_elle

Qiqi_shenglim : https://www.instagram.com/qiqi_shenglim/ (50% this also Yomi otherwise it Yomi friend)

qiqi_shenglim

Myemye_owo_ : https://www.instagram.com/myemye_owo_/ (50% this also Yomi otherwise it Yomi friend)

myemye_owo_
Her Friends are connected somehow but not sure how yet. They appear everywhere with the fake accounts or it just her also.

Riyandiwilliam : https://www.instagram.com/riyandiwilliam/ (Either her lover, friend, or work with her) 🙁

Summary: January to March 2024
Jpndate.com / Datesteady.com / Cudate.com / Sayhiup.com are dangerous Romance scams. All the women are paid actors for the website from Korea/China. They will try to get into a relationship with you very fast, don’t fall for it. They are milking you for money like if you're a cow. They will threaten to kill you or your family if you call out their scam. They might also say they will sue you. If you stop paying them, they will text you very little. They will never video call you face-to-face. Jpndate.com has a sister scam website from the same people called sayhiup.com. When you buy something on Jpndate the payment goes to Cudate Limited, so that site must be part of the scam also.There also Datesteady with the same layout. There is a company in China doing all type of illegal and immoral practices. Their name is Zhengzhou Zhongzhiqi Technology Co., Ltd. / 郑州市中之祺科技有限公司 . They have their main technology business but they also run a list of many scam websites stealing money from American men, Asian, and European men. Such as Cudate, JPNDate, DateSteady.com, SayhiUp. These are romance scam sites where all the women work for the company. If you make a female account it will pend forever. Only men get approved. They claimed before to be an American-owned company then I exposed them now they claim to be Dutch. Their servers are all in China. They never filed paperwork with any foreign country. They are none of these the Chinese pretending to run many dating sites when in fact it’s all fake. They claim to be in nations their not. They have fake terms of service. I used PayPal before I didn't know it was a scam. I paid in dollars, but they refused to refund me till I told PayPal. PayPal made them pay me back. Then they refused to pay me the total amount they wanted to pay me on yuan when I paid dollars. I reported them to FTC. They also try to hack my laptop for me telling the government the truth about them. They probably get funds from the Communist Party government or SW Entertainment in South Korea. They are very very bad people. Please look into it or forward this message somewhere where it can be looked into. Pretends to be a legit dating site but feels more like a pay-to-use website for fake love. All women here are paid actors for the site. The same few women have multiple profiles pretending to be different people. The funny part is anytime you call out JPNDate bs they change their terms of service. Screenshot everything people. They have a fake page saying they're trying to stop scammers, it all bs they are the scammers.
Host of JPNDate Servers:
As the writing of this post:
IP: 47.242.112.134 - Server: nginx IPv4
GeoIP: HK - AS45102 (ALIBABA-CN-NET Alibaba US Technology Co., Ltd., CN)
Host of DateSteady Servers:
As the writing of this post:
IP: 47.242.47.54 - Server: nginx IPv4
GeoIP: HK - AS45102 (ALIBABA-CN-NET Alibaba US Technology Co., Ltd., CN)
Host of Cudate Servers:
As the writing of this post:
IP: 47.52.110.73 - Server: nginx IPv4
GeoIP: HK - AS45102 (ALIBABA-CN-NET Alibaba US Technology Co., Ltd., CN)
Host of AsiaHug Servers:
IP: 47.242.112.134 - Server: nginx IPv4
GeoIP: HK - AS45102 (ALIBABA-CN-NET Alibaba US Technology Co., Ltd., CN)
My Story: January to March 2024
My Story: January to March 2024
(Update): I know it is the same person, They told me in a text message by accident. They also replied with different accounts knowing info about me I only told the other account.
Do you like Asian women?
Real Asian women?
These ones are real!
I know who they are.
Hi! This is Mark Faraday talking to you.
This is my story of how a website named JPNDate Dancing Idol scammed me out of 4080 American dollars. From the time period of January to March 2024.
First, I was on Japan Cupid, a dating site. On Japan Cupid, no one can chat unless one of you has a membership. I bought a 1-week membership. Within 5 minutes to 10 minutes, a woman nicknamed Yomi from Japan messaged me; this should have been a red flag for me. We talked for a while. She said she was interested in me. She asked me if I could move over to the dating site JPNDate because she paid for membership there and not Japan Cupid. She also promised to delete her account on Japan Cupid after we changed sites. She does delete her account off Japan Cupid. Japan Cupid is sus also. I don’t think it is the same company but it is still very sus. However, these women used that site to find men like me. That is a story for a different day.
Unlike a normal scam artist, who may only have 1 or 2 photos, she has several photos on her profile. My trust in her grows a bit seeing that. She then privately messaged me several more photos of her. She asked me for some photos, which I sent. She then sends back happy and heartfelt emojis. She told me she doesn’t date Asian men anymore because they were violent to her in the past and her last boyfriend cheated on her. She talked about how she didn’t want to fight with me. She also said we could talk about any topic.
She would compliment me often, as I did for her. Of course, on my profile page, I try to post my best pictures. Throughout my life, I have had many different hairstyles. She even mentioned this and got very happy and asked if I was a hairstylist.
The spam of talking on JPNDate.com between us was from January 20th, 2024, to March 24th, 2024.
On JPNDate, there is an upgrade system. You need Blue Diamond to chat with others. Crown to send videos. Blue Diamond is 20 dollars per month, and Crown is 80 dollars per month. I got the Blue Diamond membership at first. It showed her with it too. After a day or two, she asked me to upgrade like she did to the Crown membership so she could send me a video. I upgraded it, and she did actually send me a video. All pictures and the video match the same person and the same face. Some pictures were in different locations, and some were like three different pictures in the same place. We then later buy a 6-month Crown membership for each other because it is cheaper than 1 month at a time. I bought it for her, and she bought it for me.
At this point, I start to believe. This person was giving me all their time. They reply very often, and their texting time was the same as Japan timezones every single day. They spoke not only English but also Japanese almost fluently. However, they did let me know that they're still learning English and sometimes use a translator.
She let me know that this website has something called a mall. This should have been red flag number 2. You pay 1 American dollar for each gold point. Paypal is the only thing that works. When we started dating, she said it was normal for couples in Japan to send each other gifts. It was a symbol of forever love in Japan, she claimed. As an American, I didn’t know if this was true. I googled it and couldn’t get a clear answer. She said whatever I bought her, she would buy me as well. She asked if I liked necklaces or charms. I said anything was fine. She wanted me to pick up a necklace. At first, she picked up a $1,000 necklace from the site mall and asked me. I said no; that's way too much money for that. She said how about a 300-dollar Jade Romance charm. She told me to get her white one; she would get me the green one. I questioned if she was legit. She started crying. She somehow convinced me at the time that she was legit again. I did buy it. A few weeks later, I did receive the overpriced Green Jade Romance love charm to my address from her. I never told her which day exactly my tracking information said it would come to my house, but I asked her, and her tracking date was the same week as mine. By the way something almost the same as this necklace is 12 dollars on Amazon. It also broke when I got it in the mail. Probably cost them 2 cent to make.
For the next few days, we had a wonderful, happy conversation. It is late January, and I know Valentine's Day is coming. I offered to get her flowers. I got her flowers and chocolate at a very high price of multiple hundred dollars. She then gets so happy. She told me many times how she wanted to go to America and find me.
We talked about many topics for several more days. She told me she worked in an office in Tokyo. Yomi told me her real name was Miyuki Miyamoto. Which is very funny because I told her before I was a Nintendo fan, and this is the same last name as Mario and Zelda Creator. She also said she had her apartment to herself, which is true; she does own an apartment. She talked about how life is stressful right now in Japan. She claimed to have grown up in the Japanese town of Nagano, Japan. She also said she had gone to a university in Tokyo with a major in computer science. She wanted to visit America in July for 15 days when she had her time off. July is a normal time for people to get off in Japan for vacation, so I thought nothing of it.
I told her that I was from a smaller town in California, but I lived not far from San Francisco. I told her how my town is quiet and how I could see mountains outside my house. She said she wanted a peaceful life and that life in Tokyo is too fast. And she always had great things to say about every picture I sent. We also talk about going on dates. I asked most of the questions, but she did ask me questions as well.
I started to ask her a lot of questions about Japan. Like if she visited Himeji Castle, she said no. However, she did say yes to visiting Mount Fuji. I should have asked for a photo of this, but I didn’t. She was very happy; she told me very many topics about Japan. We even briefly talked about anime. She told me she liked Digimon, Dragon Ball Z, One Piece, and Detective Conan. This information is important later. We also talked about how both of us were big Disney fans growing up. She told me she wanted to go to Disney Land when she came to California to visit me.
One day she told me, how work was busy today. I told her it was okay and we didn’t need to talk today. She did, however, still text me a little bit that day. This was the only day during our whole time talking when she was super busy. There is nothing wrong with this; all humans get busy. I decided to spend my evening drawing a picture of me and Yomi on a date to surprise her. When I sent it to her, she did not react. This was a red flag for me. I tried to convince myself that she just didn’t like drawings that much. I know I sound really dumb right here, but whoever I was talking to is very smart and knows a lot of things. I was in deep love.
We started talking a few days later about the idea of meeting and going on dates together. I know that the yen is weak against the American dollar right now. I told them I would pay for anything they wanted when they were in America because I was in love. This was a big, big, big mistake. They then asked if I could give them 1500 dollars to buy a plane ticket. Never give money to people you never meet in real life, folks. Don’t be dumb like me. Turns out the ticket was actually 2100, so they asked for another 500 dollars the next day, claiming their friend let them borrow the money, and they paid the difference. They did show me a picture of a plane ticket. With the name Yomi and the correct airports in Tokyo and San Francisco. This gave me more trust in them; I got a lot of photos, videos, and even a picture of a plane ticket.
At some point, I talked to them about social media. They claim to only have Skype and Line. I found it very hard to believe a woman in her 20s wasn’t on Instagram or Tik Tok. I went on Instagram and typed Yomi, and I found a Yomi who looked just like her. This made me think: why did she lie? What confused me is that all the pictures on her Instagram were different from the ones she sent me, other than one image that was the same. Meaning that the images were not clearly stolen from there.
I looked up JPNDate online; there isn’t much info on this website (Right Now), other than one reddit forum from 1 year ago. Someone said something about being scammed by an IDOL on this site. They also said the website wasn’t in Japan but in China. I was wondering why I never saw new females joining the website; it was the same 23 pages worth of them. I wanted to test the website to see if it was legit. I made another account, a fake male account with AI artwork. It was approved in one second. I then made a fake female account; it said pending approval. It has now been 2 weeks since I made that account, and it still says pending approval. This means all the women on this website have to be fake actors. There is also a setting on JPNDate to see who has been online last or which accounts are the oldest. When I asked weeks before, Yomi claimed she had been on this website only for a short time. Her oldest picture was dated October 20, 2023. Yet she has the sixth-oldest account on JPNDate, according to the website. The Reddit forum I talked about before was over a year old.
When I was on this website for a month, at least 10 other women tried to text me. There was this one profile of a woman from Taiwan, age 20. She texted me three times in one month. When I joined, her age was listed as 20, and at some point, she changed her age to 25 on her profile. I ignored all these women. This proves again that all these women are fake. I do know these are women based on how they type, but they are not truthful like they act like they are. As I write this, I just realized this is Yomi's friend or sister; it matches the other Yomi account's sister tag. They are part of the same dance agency Aiu_Agency on Instagram from SW Entertainment in South Korea.
I knew this website wasn’t telling the truth. I found the JPNDate IP address and tracked it to a server in Hong Kong, China, hosted by Alibaba cloud servers. Reddit was right; the website is Chinese. However, Yomi is Korean which I learned later. I took pictures of the website code just in case. I asked Yomi if she knew Alibaba.
Then she asked if I’m going to China—a very strange follow-up question.
At this point, I was confused. Who is Yomi? I couldn’t find anything about Miyuki Miyamoto, only Yomi. On Yomi’s Instagram, she speaks Korean, not Japanese. I started to think there are no Japanese women on this website like they claim to be. She does speak Japanese, though.
I started using more than 10 different software programs to track who Yomi was since she kept asking me for money. I found like 1000 pictures of an idol, WeChat model, singer, dancer, person on endless Chinese dating sites, and a valiant professional gamer part of the AI’U agency for over 8 years. I found two other Instagram accounts with Yomi's face. Another account in Chinese with an idol name other than Yomi also had a Facebook page. The Chinese account has a post about her going to Australia in early 2024, where she is typing in English words. It was a fake trip. I also found an account where she speaks only Korean on Instagram. I also found a tik-tok where someone dances and looks 100% the same as Yomi, to whom I’m talking. The part that is crazy is that none of the images are 100% the same, but the person is the same in all of them.
This shocked me; I follow all the accounts. I saw the stories daily to see who this person was. Her Yomi account is just her normal pictures and atm company or something. Her Korean account is about traveling to Singapore, Spain, and South Korea. She also posts a lot about Disney toys here. When I talked to the scammer about Disney, I had no idea about this.
At this point, I knew that many men had been scammed out of money for fake love, not just me. These women are real women. However, there are actors pretending to be in love. They will crush your heart and call you names after a few weeks if you don’t buy their stuff. It has to be from JPNdate Mall only, nowhere else. JPNdate Mall prices are crazy high. I am not sure if the point of the website is just for money or if it is actually for women to study English or what. Chinese women, pretending to be Japanese (most of them), that have connections to Korean music, dancing, and gaming on professional teams. Man, what a hell of a story this is. This sounds like a Hollywood movie, but it's real, or at least partly. At this point, everything I say seems to be true based on what I know. They are connected deeply with SW Entertainment.
Yomi told me early on that she had one older sister and one younger brother. It seems like she is actually a twin, and she is the younger sister. Or it’s her friend she calls a sister from the dance Aiu Agency. Yomi claims to be 25, but I think she is closer to 27 or 28 based on finding a listing of her work in 2015 at Twitch Gaming. You have to be 18 or older to work at Twitch gaming, unless your parents sign things. Unless this job is fake, I don’t know.
When I showed the pictures I found to Yomi on JPNdate, she played the victim card on me. Saying she thinks I’m a liar and she wants to break up. Then she gave me her Skype account to try to prove it was legit, and all the other images and accounts were stolen and fake. Her Skype name is Rose, with a One Piece picture. She sent me many voice clips, crying, trying to convince me that she was real. I put them in software, and the voice was 30% human, 70% AI. Clearly, a woman is changing her Chinese or Korean voice to sound Japanese. A PC gamer would know how to do this; they do it all the time to troll. Yomi told me she didn’t play video games anymore, but I found a picture that wasn’t that old of a woman who looked the same as her; she had a Nintendo Switch with a white OLED in it. Btw it’s a known fact that Yomi uses software to cheat in the Pc FPS games. We talk for a few more weeks on Skype.
I can’t let Yomi, her sister, whoever the man is (I think her lover), and her idol dance friends scam men for their time and money. Yomi Chiense's name is Vera Yuanxin (维拉). Her twin sister goes by veravera_zhangg.
Yomi “deleted her profile” when I exposed her. But One Yomi is still there with no pictures. Two they clearly have other accounts with people who look like she just changed hairstyle, talking and trying to scam other men.
Remember when I said the anime part was important? On Yomi's Korean account, she has a friend with whom she talks about Digimon. She gave him a Disney toy. She told me she wanted to cosplay a fox; his profile is a fox. There is just so much proof that these are the same people.
Later someone hit me up on Reddit from the Phillippines and told me how the same person Yomi scammed them. How for months Yomi promise them so many things. Then when they said it came to going on the plane to visit him they said they were sick or dying or something.
Yomi also made a fake Instagram pretending to be Joe Biden and sent me a friend invite. I messaged and it was so funny how bad it was on their part. I said “Yomi are you trolling me?” then they deleted their account. This was on April 6th, 2024. Yomi tries so hard but use a lot of cheap things that are clearly fake like ai artwork, bots for like at ai_u agency, and fake profiles where she comments herself and attacks anyone who calls her out fairly.
After exposing Jpndate they Ip ban my address lol. Then on social media joke about attacking me.
If you call out their BS they threaten your family and yourself. Just stay away from all these sites if you're going to date online use well-known legit sites. I contacted Paypal and me and JPNDate.com had many emails back and forth. They pretended to do an investigation on Yomi real identity and said she was really Miyuki Miyamoto. It was so bullshit. I told them I would sue them if they were lying, The site no longer exists. The scam does, however.
What happened After JPNDATE? April-June 2024
In April many fake Instagram accounts started following me each day. They are romance scams I never got them like this before. I didn’t fall for any of them. All or most were likely Yomi and her friends. Paypal did get me 4000 of 4080 dollars back but it took 6 weeks and multiple emails. JPNDate tells me they will be closing soon after PayPal went after them hard.
Like I said I just wanted to find love. I made some stupid decisions along the way. However, I want to find out the truth and make sure other men don’t get scammed by them. I keep messaging Yomi's skype during this period, they never block me. They unfriended me but I could still send messages I wasn’t blocked. They even responded 2 times out of the 50 times I did this in the multiple-week span.
I contacted the Aiu_Agency on Instagram (It is the same people as JPNDate) they pretended to be different people. I told them about Jpndate. They called me a hero, they said they loved me, and they thanked me for sending them all the pictures that Yomi sent me on Jpndate and Skype. They follow me on Instagram for 2 days. Then they unfollowed me randomly for no reason. They said their agency would do a police report and kill the scammer. I knew this was so bullshit. I told them how the scammers were making new profiles of them on Japan Cupid. Which is true. The leader Mingmei1344 (Which is Yomi Chinese account) claimed I was the scammer setting them up. She plays the victim card on me. I showed her all the messages and how I got the pictures, I didn’t steal anything. She told me her and her friends are okay if I hacked them, because I’m from the CIA. I am not from the CIA. It was a joke I made a few days before when she pretended to be a mob boss in Korea. I told her I am not a hacker. Right after that she and her friends all ban me other then Mingmei1344 account. Mingmei1344 Message me 1 more day, then block me.
However, Mingmei1344 and the Aiu_Agency keep posting things on topics I told them days or weeks before. I checked their old post they never talked about any of this before that. I told these to Yomi on JPNDate and skype not Mingmei1344 again proving it is the same person. They look the same as well. Like the blue feather concept in love mythology, Gundams, Nintendo, Persona, and many many other topics. Yomi claimed to not know anything about videogames before I talked about it with her. I think this is partly a lie.
This confuses me so I make fake Instagram accounts to message Mingmei1344 and Aiu_agency. She replies to my messages and Mingmei1344 even does a ask me a question thing on Instagram and replies to all of them. She clearly knows these accounts are from me Mark however she replies anyway. The replies were nice and positive things. Then later she bans them all again.
Often Aiu-Agency Women (Yomi and her friends, Mostly Yomi) pretend to go to countries they are not actually in the picture, it’s all greenscreen effects. They also use Ai for Music covers Artwork. For music covers they pretend to sell millions of copies of but there is nowhere to buy such a music cover CD they claim to sell. Their music covers are claimed to be from popular songs kpop songs. I looked, at least not right now such CDs aren’t real. Of course, the songs are real but not their covers. Yomi is most of the women in the pictures but not all. They will post Ai cover artwork, multiple pictures of them using the greenscreen effect, then put a high-quality image of a famous Korean male singer. They never took these pictures of these Korean male singers. They download them and edit them. They pretend to perform with them but it is all fake. Mingmei1344 started always putting her with all the famous Mark’s in Korea. Only her not her staff with Mark’s. I think it’s a reference to me. She didn’t do this before meeting me I looked at her old post. Again Mingmei1344 is Yomi who is Jeong Nahyeon, who pretends to be Miyuki Miyamoto.
She still references me sometimes in other ways and I send them messages to see what will happen next. One time I wrote about loving her to see what she would say. I do love Yomi, however I don’t want anyone to get scammed. I told her we could travel across the world together. She wrote in her next post on Aiu_agency on Instagram she liked this future with her future husband. It was a direct reply to what I asked the day before.
I joined DateSteady after being contacted by a woman on Japan cupid. She is very interested in me and Yomi so I tell her everything.
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2024.06.09 15:21 voprosy How to block Reddit front page content? (June 2024)

Hi! 👋
I'm using desktop Firefox with uBlock Origin and I would like to hide Reddit's trending / related / infinite scroll content from the home page. These are all hugely addictive and time wasting.
I would like to come to Reddit and find no posts. I can then proceed to use search, or post something new. Something similar to this would be fine: https://i.imgur.com/1vwQKvx.png
I used to have some filters that worked fine in the past. But since the latest redesign (a couple of months ago?), it's all back to normal.
Pleased to be receiving your filter suggestions!
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2024.06.09 15:21 Apprehensive_Hour430 Is this romantic affair 26F 32M?

Hi, Here’s is my friends wife (although I can choose not to be his friend as we’ve two different faces)
  1. She came to my place one month back when he was out, told me she is kinda done and it’s over there.
  2. She asked me to apply medicine on her elbow as she got hurt.
  3. She told me I’m an alpha male
  4. She told me I miss you when we were both in vacation independently
  5. I shared my sexual life with ex in a funny way and then she talked about do did u go down on her. 5.1) she also told me like how one can live with me easily although there are things but can live.
  6. We met in airport, she didn’t wanna tell her person, but i booked different flight just in case we don’t mess anything up. She holded my hands by putting hand into my arm, walked and gave a tight hug when we left.
  7. My car was in body shop, that day she told me she was around for her dance class. I told her to pick me up, she got annoyed, but in the car she got touchy. While she driving, she would playfully find my nose and touch it. I did the same and she licked my finger when my finger was on her nose.
  8. She cried and we went out for lunch. When I was sitting in front, she asked me to sit beside me and I naturally sit next to her and my thighs touching her so I’ve a contact with her.
  9. When we paid our bills, she said bossy on what she wants for coffee in a funny way. The cofeee guy said, if it’s like this outside the house, I can’t imagine how it will be inside. She blushed and left. In parking lot, she asked me again what he said and laughed. Never even attempt to correct we’re not spouses.
  10. We drove, we talked random things. Talked about we want to have babies in 2 years or so. How you feel like having baby with a particular person etc…,
  11. she told me, if she continues her marriage and may even have a kid, she will seek something outside for sure.
  12. We played games like we put fingers out and ask the person to choose a particular option(my option in my mind: I love u, I miss u) I can’t ask her options.
What is this? Is this affair start as she is going to put papers? She kinda hinted, take care of your best friend.
She is 26f, I’m 32m. We both are extremely same time funny jovial type(not serious, but can get extremely serious).
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2024.06.09 15:21 Agua_Verde Can I get my child a U.S. passport with out a Consular Report of Birth Abroad?

Hi all,
I have an appointment to apply for my child's 1st passport and the U.S. embassy has sent me the link for the CRBA. I just paid the 135$ fee for the passport. Now on the CRBA application I see that document costs another 100$.
Is it possible to receive the child's passport without applying for the CRBA?
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2024.06.09 15:20 Majestic_Alayna Husband (37M) has not spoken to wife (43F) for over 14 days after the last fight

TL;DR This is my second marriage. It's been 7 yrs now. Have a daughter from my previous marriage and 2 sons in this marriage. Husband is a very aggressive person. He doesn't get physically abusive as his religion doesnt permit raising a hand on a woman but starts screaming on top of his voice for small small altercations and uses abusive words.
He was playing games on his fone and I was making the bed when the kids entered the bedroom to play and started disturbing him and he jokingly Said will u go by urself out of the room with the kids so that I can play or should I push u out and I jokingly replied u should have thought before getting married or having kids that u are giving away ur freedom to play games. He just snapped on me. Started saying how dare u, u think u have made me a slave by marrying me and in the end called me a mofr and a bl**dy p*mp. After that I cried and warned him not to speak to me ever and he said fine. Now it's been 14 days he's hasn't spoken to me or even realized his mistake.
Yesterday he was telling my daughter who is his step daughter tat how peaceful life is and that there is no more bothering from me as we are not speaking. Said he nicely wakes up has his breakfast goes to work comes back plays with his kids and goes to sleep. It's a great life.
And here I am hoping everyday that today he might realize wat he did and come to apologize to save the relationship. I am not approaching him because this has been going on for years now and i want him to start realizing he cannot keep abusing his wife and kids like this. Every time this happened he has never apologized even once.
For years after a fight, As its a family some or other issue crops up and we go back to speaking to each other and he has not bothered to consider even once that he mite be wrong. He is not bothered now as well and the days are just going by. I just realized if i hadnt spoken to him in the previous fights, this marriage many years ago would have been like wat it is now. Staying in the same house we are not looking at each other for 14 days.

Has my this marriage ended? Do I again initiate the talk as always to save the marriage.

Also it's been 6 months now he has not had s** with me. But I have access to his fone any time of the day as in our family anybodys fone can be used by everyone at any time so there can be no secrets kept so I know there is no extra marital affair as he Is way too religious and his religion does not permit it. So it can be ruled out.

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2024.06.09 15:20 SingerNo7838 stolen phone google find phone

phone was stolen and i can not get into my google account due to the 2nd authentication needed to verify it is me. i have no other devices i have used to login into account in past either and i need to locate device or erase my info on phone. how do i locate my device? android Motorola cricket
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2024.06.09 15:20 Groovskopa KUB lies, refuse to come and mark underground utilities, after calling 811

This was the second week I’ve been trying to call 811, and have them come out and mark underground utilities, since I planned on putting in a fence/gates/privacy fences, which requires me digging multiple 2-3’ deep holes in the yard.
Every time I call I get the “they will be there within 3 days” response. This past Friday I again made a call and the person on the phone was rather rude and told me whoever told me “3 days” was not correct, and that KUB has up until project starts to get out there. They then proceeded to ask me when the project is due to begin. I told them that I’m starting at 7am Saturday (less than 24hr after phone call). They told me someone will be out to mark utilities before I start the work. Meantime, I can check status updates online.
I spent all day Friday and Saturday at home, and no one showed up. It would be impossible for me to miss anyone coming onto my property to mark utilities. Checked the website for updates and it states that KUB has been out and found no conflict to dig. But as I’ve already said, there is no way between me, my security system and my dogs that we would have missed anyone on our property. I also know there is at least a sewer line that runs in the area where I need to dig, as well as gas line/water line at the front.
Has anyone dealt with anything similar?
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2024.06.09 15:20 HidingunderyourbedxX What can be the causes / how to deal sense of insecurity/ jealousy

Assalam u alaikum,
I am posting this in the sisters group because i feel like only sisters could maybe help me out with this. I dont know exactly how to describe what I feel but I will try my best and answer questions if needed.
So basically I have noticed that whenever I have talked to someone, got to know someone ( a man) who seems to be in a better position than me, I like it. Obviously like any other woman to me it matters a lot like honestly its the most masculine attractive trait to me when a man has a lot knowledge ( could be anything cultural, religion etc). I begin to have a great impression of them.
But there comes a time where I deep down start feeling insecure? I find myself deep down like why is he better than me.. i dont know what it is that I feel, but I only lately came to this realization. I dont feel the same way about a woman, if she knows a lot etc I have admiration for her. Also, this doesn’t happen with everyone but someone I may slightly consider or imagine being with in the future.
I generally didn’t grow up competitive, I dont have “ feminist” values and I am still learning a lot. I feel like I need to learn a lot anyway so Consider giving me any tips or tell me if anyone has felt the same way?
Last but not least, the major reason I concerned about this is because If I ever get married in the future inshaAllah, how can I deal with this? Something that has my great admiration can quickly turn into jealousy seems like a difficult situation to me.
JazakaAllah khair
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2024.06.09 15:19 stinky_catto 21f looking to make new friends:))

hi!! i’m from scotland and looking to make some gaming buddies or just people I can talk to!! I have ps, xbox and switch but also happy to play crossplay:)) currently playing ow2, minecraft, pokemon, fortnite, apex, genshin,ac and a couple others but happy to get any free games or re-download some others:)) otherwise i collect lego, plushies and little trinkets:) i play the bagpipes and i’m interested in other languages (can speak french and spanish and learning japanese and german) i also love cats and watch a bunch of anime (terror in resonance is my current number one and i also have a haku tattoo!!) feel free to dm me and i’ll try get back to everyone:) also ps. if you’ve dm’d me in the past my reddit has cleared all of my chats and requests so im sorry for not responding:(( i’ve tried to fix it but cannot so just message again:))
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2024.06.09 15:19 heroin_brat Depressive episode making me a terrible girlfriend

I should probably use a throwaway for this but I don’t care. I have been having the worst depression episode this past 2 weeks and I am scared of myself and my actions. I’ve been extremely suicidal and I forgot it could get this bad. To top it off I just got fired and I have been starting arguments with my boyfriend this week and just being overall awful.
I guess it really hurts me that he can’t fully understand my depression even though he’s trying his best to support me through this. He’s been busy with work and everything so I haven’t been able to talk to him, and when we do talk I’m always sad and it turns into anger.
I feel like I’m ruining every thing in my life, and I don’t have any interest in anything and it’s scaring me. I feel like I’m going to do something I’ll regret, like sh or suicide.
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2024.06.09 15:19 JeanDex9 36yr F Traveling Alone

36yr F Traveling Alone
Just wanted to say- coming from North Carolina traveling alone to hyatt zilara riviera maya (apparently used to be secrets capri). And the travel was easy breezy. Safe and all that. I encourage all you females to do it if you’ve ever thought about it. I booked through a travel agency but even if you don’t you can easily contact the hotel and get shuttle service. I landed yesterday at like 8-8:30am. Have a carry on for Saturday-Weds. airport was a ghost town comparing to a few years ago when I came. 2 min bag search, walked right past customs cus I didn’t have any food in my bag and right down to my little meeting place for my ride. Took about a 40 min ride to the hotel. 👌🏼easy. The only thing that sucked (for my preference was my room wasn’t ready until 2pm). Other than that been fine.
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2024.06.09 15:19 Excellent_Piccolo_58 I am 27F and My BF is 29M Should I be worried about this financial issue or its normal?

My boyfriend and I are planning to get married soon. He is smart, kind, and good-looking which are qualities I deeply appreciate also he fought with his entire family to convince them to marry me as we belong to different caste. However, I have growing concerns about his family's financial habits, which are causing significant strain on our relationship.
His family has a tendency to take loans for almost everything and they have no savings to fall back on. Despite my repeated suggestions for him to focus on paying off his education loans, I noticed he was diverting his money to support his family instead. After several discussions, we finally agreed to provide his family with Rs 20,000 per month since his father earns around Rs 35,000 to 40,000 per month.
Recently, his family asked for additional money to help cover their home loan. Initially, I thought this was a reasonable request. However, I discovered that they had received Rs 2 lakh (USA PPP- 9543 USD)from somewhere and squandered it all instead of using it responsibly, like paying off part of the home loan and reduce thier family burden of home loan
In addition, his mother insisted that he take out Rs 4-5 lakh worth of gold for wedding jewelry. I advised him against this as i was okay with just ring and magalsutra ( a nech chain women wears after wedding), I also asked him we should do small wedding of 50 people and go for really nice honeymoon but he argued that it was necessary to uphold societal expectations about the gold given to the daughter-in-law at the wedding. However, I later found out that his mother intended to keep all of this jewelry and we can do small wedding but have to do grand reception where boy side of the family and 500-1000 people comes .
His mother also asked him twice to shut off my social media and commented on my decent pictures because it's a shame for their family that I belong to the caste that is lower to them. He doesn't believe in any of this stupidity but he asked me to shut it off till wedding as their families reputation will get affected by this and he said it's not their mistake this is how their side of society thinks but later after some arguments he agreed this is all wrong.
His mother also talked with my mother that I sleep with his son but my mom didn't react to it as she know couple do spend time with each other😂
Despite both of us earning a income of Rs 18 lakh each per year which is quite a good income in India, we can hardly go out or enjoy our earnings because he is constantly facing financial problems. For him, a nearby low-budget trip is considered a good outing, whereas everyone around us, who earn significantly less, manage to travel to better places. He uses a simple mobile phone and rides a basic bike, but his family has managed to buy a car and an expensive electric vehicle, enjoying a lifestyle much better than ours.
After numerous arguments, he finally agreed to go out sometimes, but I can tell that he doesn't truly enjoy it. It's just his presence; he doesn't seem to derive any pleasure from these outings.
I waited for a year as responsibile gf for things to get better I have never asked him for pay for anything for me and also stoped him to do any heavy expenses for anything so that loan burder can be reduced and we can live freely but there was no appreciation for it on the other hand I was said that I have high aspirations in life as he went to to 2-3 nearby places for our birthdays where we did splitup of all our experiences.
I am not going to lie here but due to frustration and constant fight we used some abusive languages and my language was harsh for his family.
Moreover, his 32-year-old brother, who earns Rs 30,000 per month, has greatly benefited from my boyfriend’s generosity. My boyfriend paid Rs 2.5 lakh for his brother's wife's education and Rs 1 lakh for a scooter. While I was initially pleased that she started earning more than her husband and her hard work paid off but it really stressed me that they made the decision to have their first child right after their honeymoon when no were earning minimal without any financial or family planning and they will do the same in the future as well.
For the past two years, my boyfriend has been telling me that his brother is preparing for exams, planning to start a business, learning digital marketing, etc. However, I recently saw his resume, and it was of very poor quality, almost as if it had been prepared by a seventh grader. There were numerous spelling errors, including his own job title. If he is at this stage at 32 I don't think he will ever be able to grow properly and my bf will take all guilt of it like he does now.
Furthermore, my boyfriend often talks about wanting to make significant investments of Mart for his brother and was on the verge of taking a Rs 60 lakh loan which I managed to stop. Given these patterns of financial behavior, I'm deeply concerned about our future together. Is this level of financial dependency and mismanagement normal, or should I be seriously worried about the sustainability of our relationship and our financial future?
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2024.06.09 15:19 Chotofoco Catch-22. Peace, longing and shame, after 4 months of NC

4 months ago, I said goodbye to LO, a former partner I became limerent for after our relationship (which I ended, I 'didn't feel' it). When the LE began (in the middle of burnout), I was extremely anxious, in constant pain and thought of her non-stop. Saw her a few times, which only made it worse, and eventually explained to her what was going on, and she understood that the healthy and loving thing to do was to say goodbye, for now.
The past 140 days have been brutal, and slowly I managed to get my life on the rails again. The ruminations come and go, and each morning I have about 2-3 seconds before the longing kicks in again. I expect it, and accept it, and remind myself it is not about her. (Found this video quite helpful)
I've been working very hard on myself (somatic therapy, EMDR, psychiatrist, psychedelics, ...) - and I'm beginning to see, and feel, the root cause of my limerent episode(s). Have been working through dissociation, panic attacks, fainting, extreme anxiety, and agonizing physical pain.
And somehow, last week, I found an island of stillness, of peace, inside myself - a place I can retreat to while my body and mind are bending themselves backward to reconnect to LO. I haven't done so, and I am aware that reconnecting with her might lead me into a new spiral of madness (with more info to process and to ruminate about), so I don't.
My current state:
Yet, it's a Catch 22.
I want the longing to stop, and sometimes I think I can see her again without sending me into an anxiety spiral again.
Even though I feel centered and peaceful, I'm aware reaching out to her might trigger a new wave of obsessive ruminiation. So I carry on, one day at a time - taking the long view, choosing long term gain over short term risk.
Anyone recognise this phase? Pointers?
(PS: medication that is helping me:
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2024.06.09 15:18 Wooden-Back8875 Nearly non-existent sex drive question

Hello everyone! I’m posting on an alt as I don’t really post more personal stuff on my main. I’m wondering if anyone can help me sort this out. My sex drive basically disappeared when I started HRT and while it does come back from time to time, it seems very inconsistent. I have no interest in sex as well as lowered sensitivity and its nearly impossible to become aroused a majority of the time. My sex drive seems to very briefly show up (for a day or so) every few weeks or every month or so (with more normal sensitivity), then disappears again. I started HRT 3 years ago at 50mg spiro 4mg estradiol sublingual, and for the past year and a half I’ve been on 100mg spironolactone 8mg estradiol sublingual. I’m not sure what my hormone levels are currently and I get them checked in August. I’m wondering how close to normal this is, and I’m also curious as to whether progesterone would help or not. If anyone has any advice or anecdotes help would be appreciated!
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2024.06.09 15:18 CrazyGal2121 Trying to achieve flawless skin in my mid 30-s?

Hi all!
so happy to have found this sub
I’m looking for some advice please
I’m 34 years old and I have two young kids (both born within the last 4 years).
I found a pic of myself when I was 25 and my face + my skin look way different now :(
I am really committed to having a better skin care routine and trying to fix my issues. I am willing to splurge a bit on better skin care items
  1. I will say I’ve gained about 25 pounds over the past 10 years (I KNOW that has obviously made a big difference on skin I’m focusing on cleaning up my diet, drinking more water and losing weight).
  2. Im having issues with complexion, dullness and dry skin
below is my routine and products Im thinking of buying. Is there anything else you can think of that has improved your skin and fought against aging!? Maybe some procedures that you have done or facials etc. and/or other good anti aging products that will help?
AM 1. cleanse face (I sometimes use the honest calm cleanser or I use the cerave hydrating cleanser)
  1. I want to add skinceuticals vitamin c serum here
  2. Moisturize with the tatcha moisturizer or the cerave moisturizer
  3. sunscreen (SPF 50)
PM 1. cleanse face with a deep cleansing oil 2. I use a shisdeo serum (don’t think it’s made much diff and going to get rid of it) 3. murad eye cream 4. tatcha moisturizer
I want to add my retinol 0.025% on my face shortly too (have to slowly introduce it). Haven’t started using it yet
I also exfoliate my face about twice a week using the kate somerville exfolikate but I’m thinking of buying the bilogique ph recherche cream
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2024.06.09 15:17 ExcellentLychee4485 AITAH for making my partner fly back home to me pretty quickly after the death of his father?

I (26F) and my partner (28M) have been together on and off for 2 years. I am initially from Sydney and he from Perth in Australia but met in Sydney whilst he was there on contract work on and off throughout the 2 years (hence our relationship also being on and off) A year ago, he told me he was leaving for Italy for 2 years in his next contract and asked me to move with him because we were both sick of the on and off-ness. I said yes and after visiting his family in Perth, he moved the very next week in May and I followed 6 months later in November as I had to sort out visas, my rental, quit my job etc. The agreement was that when I moved over he’d be the breadwinner and I’d find a job when I could but I’ve found it extremely hard to find work seeing as I don’t speak the language and didn’t have time to learn. 5 months after I moved, 1 year after he did, which brings us to about 3 weeks ago he received news that he had to go home suddenly as his father was due to pass away within days so without hesitation we booked his flight and he jumped on a 36hour flight cause tht was all we could afford on the one income without impacting the rest of the month. I agreed that it was more important for him to be there than it was for me to be there, so I was okay with staying behind. This is where it gets tricky though, it’s now summer holidays and all the friends that I have made are all on holiday around Europe, his father passed away hours after he touched down and the funeral proceedings were all completed within the first week of his arrival. It’s now been 3 weeks since he left and for the past week he has been saying that he will book a flight back but has failed to do so which is now causing us to fight. His communication is also very poor but I’ve tried not to be smothering as I know he wants to be present with family so these conversations happen pretty much every time I can get him on the phone. My point of view is that I moved my life over, left my job that I loved etc for him and that I just want to know when he will be coming home, his responses are always so blasé and non commital “I’ll be there soon” “when I get there I’ll have another year on my contract and won’t be back home” but they’re evasive and completely miss the point of certainty that I crave. I’ve expressed how lonely it is and has been without him or any of our friends so I spend a lot of time at the gym, reading, learning Italian, watching Netflix or alone with my thoughts and he says sorry but that’s about as far as booking flights goes cause when I express how I’m struggling he just gets angry. His pov is that he is in mourning and wants to be around immediate family and he feels like I’m pressuring him to grieve faster. So AITAH for wanting him to come home?
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2024.06.09 15:17 almostgood0 ATM9 TTS Vibranium, Unobtanium ores?

so my question is how to get those 2 ores. i know u can get unobtanium from the end, cuz its not a skyblock, but how u get vibranium? (playing on version 1.0.0)
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2024.06.09 15:17 Inevitable_Break669 The real problem of living with HH.

The real problem of living with HH isn't the sweating itself. It's the shame, the fear of sweating.
Hi. I have been following this forum for a while and have come to the conclusion that there is a lot of searching for a solution to stop our excessive sweating. And believe me, I get that. However, little attention is paid to the underlying problem.
I am a man, 34 years old, live in the Netherlands and have suffered from HH since i was +/- 10. I mainly suffer from sweaty hands, armpits and feet (dripping sweat!), but actually all over my body. I have the ability to sweat so much in an exciting or very hot situation within a few minutes that my entire shirt and pants are wet. In short, to all people who suffer from HH, I feel you!
Over the years I have tried just about everything to stop the sweating. Here is a (by no means complete) summary:
What all of the above has in common is that my hopes for a miraculous solution (stopping sweating) have only resulted in major disappointments and a ridiculous amount of money wasted. Although certain remedies work (partially) for some people, there is no miracle cure. Although a lot of companies promise you mountains of gold, there is no single remedy that will completely stop all our sweating. However, they take advantage of our desperation, the desperation that makes us do anything to stop our sweating.
I, too, am still secretly hoping for a miracle pill that will make me feel "normal" just like everyone else. This would be fantastic, but the chance of this happening is very small. Moreover, this is not the solution to our "problem".
I have read many books about anxiety (I recommend this to everyone who suffers from HH) and I would like to translate this to our condition.
The biggest problem with our condition is not sweating itself (no matter how annoying this is, it just sucks!) but the fear of sweating. The harder we try not to sweat, the harder we try to suppress the fear of sweating, the bigger the fear comes back, the harder we start to sweat and the longer we maintain our "problem".
A problem is only a problem if you make it a problem yourself!
I can imagine that you are now thinking; "I do have a problem! This is very simple thinking." The tricky thing about this is: it is both the simplest solution and the most difficult solution to our "problem".
All my life I have been doing my best not to be discovered by those around me as that boy who sweats so much. I adjust my clothes so that my sweat spots are visible as little as possible. I chose my profession based on it. I've been avoiding social gatherings, etc. Anything just to hide the fact that I'm sweating.
While sweating itself is not our biggest problem. There is a lot of shame involved, which makes us make it a problem.
I would like to encourage everyone to delve deeper into this fear by reading books about fear. Accepting our condition, being open about our condition provides so much more relief in the long term than all those remedies. Yes it's scary! And yes, I am also not nearly as far along as I would like to be (no longer worrying, no longer hiding from the fact that I am sweating).
But in the long term this is where the biggest profit lies!
I hope the above makes you think and helps you learn to accept our condition better.
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