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2024.05.14 13:21 Particular_Rice_1982 Meat sale
Looking for a local place with affordable meat. I'm from Niles and we had lawry's meats nearby where u can get 10lbs of beef for 28 bucks, 10lbs of chicken for $30 bucks, etc. Does Holland, or Zeeland have anything like that? I am not from here so I do not know the local butcher spots yet
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2024.05.14 13:17 Truth_Road This is following on from South_American_Bovine's post yesterday. He put forward that this had the fingerprints of a buyback. I propose (based on nothing) that a small player is being allowed to use the "safe harbour" of Rule 10b-18 to close their short position. Opening the door to legal MOASS.
 | A well known Bovine-Ape made a post yesterday. The bloomberg screenshot in that post is a very compelling piece of information. It shows 1.9 million buys made under Rule 10b-18 and on the face of it Rule 10b-18 sounds like a buyback. This is from the investopedia page. I don't think I can link to it without setting off the auto-mod for some reason. submitted by Truth_Road to Superstonk [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/wivd01l2ld0d1.png?width=618&format=png&auto=webp&s=59064e2faea902a7c8e8b91b1df6ed6cde7162c5 The part that jumps out at me is "affiliated purchasers". There is more on the investopedia page linked above; I didn't want to fill this up with blocks of their text. This is merely my smooth brain speculation but I wonder if a small player has cut a deal with Gamestop and the SEC to close their short position and make use of the "safe harbour" provision of Rule 10b-18. I don't know if anyone has ever pulled this off before. One way or another those Rule 10b-18 buys yesterday are very strange. If it were a buy back would we have had a concrete confirmation from GameStop after hours? I did see it mooted that they wouldn't need to as the possibility of a buy back has already been codified in previous SEC filings and they would only need to update us at the end of this quarter. Perhaps a wrinkle could weigh in on that. There have been murmurings over the years that deliberate buybacks in the face of short selling, rather than being a legitimate defence, constitutes market manipulation by the issuer. An example discussing that concept. There has been plenty of chatter over the years about buybacks in general. Here is one such article from Forbes in 2018. That last Forbes article is particularly interesting. One thing I have definitely learnt as an Ape; pay attention to what the mainstream financial media wants you to think, they tip their hand all the time. That last article is full of absolute clangers, it draws a target squarely on Rule 10b-18 which seems incredibly relevant all of a sudden: U.S. Senators Challenge The S.E.C. On Share Buybacks When conducted on a large scale in the open market, share buybacks used to be considered illegal as they constituted obvious stock price manipulation. But they were effectively legalized in 1982 by a hard-to-understand SEC regulation: rule 10b-18. As a result, executives of public corporations, rather than creating fresh value and new customers through entrepreneurship and innovation, began extracting value ... What’s The Alternative? The repeal of S.E.C. rule 10b-18 is an obvious and long-overdue step to prevent the massive ongoing stock price manipulation. ... Bottom Line. The consequence of shareholder value theory and share buybacks is an economic, social and moral disasterIt is a weird article. At times it makes you wonder who they're going out to bat for. It does sound like bad faith actors could have abused Rule 10b-18 in the past. However, I postulate that those exact people might also be wary that it could be used to make them walk the plank. Well guess what. It might just be happening right now. My speculation. It looks like Rule10b-18 presents a clean and legal way to kick off MOASS. And it is happening right now. If anyone is interested there is a big SEC FAQ here on Rule 10B-18. Tinfoil is getting real tight tbh. |
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2024.05.14 12:50 theashtraygirl27 I'm just looking for advice. Am I (20F) wrong for having a reaction every time my bf (19M) is doing something I told him will hurt me or upset me?
Before u read, this will be bunch of informations that are barely connected, it's poorly written, I'm not claiming to have done nothing wrong I just need someone to share my situation with and maybe seek some advice.
Me (F20) have been dating my bf (M19) for almost two years. For background : we went to same school and I used to be his long-term hallway crush, but he seemed shy so I made a first move. In the beginning, like every relationship goes, I could brag about how perfectly he's treating me if anyone asked, and, having sh1tty situations in payt with ex and situationship I was over the moon to have someone treat me so gentle.
Before we started dating, he knew I have an ex of over two years, he knew I had two boys being my very dear friends and I told him, as he has no lady friends, that if he expects me to remove one guy especially it wont work and he agreed that he won't be expecting of me to cut off my friends for him with no hesitation. Guy friend in question is kinda boy who sees to opposite gender besties and if someone says they'd be cute couple he'd act as if it's actual inc3st and we never saw each other any other way then friends. At the prom, same guy friend cried for two hours because he thought I didn't have good time because my crush kissed another girl, but honestly I had the great time when i saw how much he cared for me.
My byofriend also, before dating me, without me asking or saying anything said "I'll remove all woman from my life when I have u" aka girls from school that are people he doesn't talk to enough to call them friends but there is some contact between them. I was confused because I didn't plan on asking him to as I have guy friends but i felt respected.
It all ended up the exact opposite, I did remove my friend who i still miss to this day because my boyfriend was overly jealous. On his side : girls from school started to pick up on him and when he told me about it, I sensed bullying and told him to block them because they're being pretty annoying and he, kidd u not, asked "do i have to?" so brought up him saying he'd remove anyone for me and he did after days of arguing and me crying because it's the opposite of our agreement before dating. It wasn't even jealousy on my side and he didn't want to block them because he thought they'd ask why and he'd be uncomfortable but... He made a promise that he didn't keep.
Year later he broke up with me partly because i wasn't "pure"/ I have an ex and partly because of how bad my mood swings were (I had 3 doctors diagnosing me with severe depression and was almost hospitalized at the time I was "moody" ).
That breakup had me getting even worse because he was the guy to say "I'm so scared you'll leave me" "if you stay I stay" "i hope we're forever" I didn't know forever meant one year but the breakup was only 2 weeks long, had me suffering for over a month before he actually broke up because he took it very very slow. I slept 15 minutes a day and i wish i was being metaphoric, waiting for him to decide weather he'll stay or not. I did everything I could, my ocd gets worse in stressful situations and my brain telling me "if you do this, that will happen, if you don't, that will happen" all day every day, but I obviously did everything it told me to do to keep him and he still left and ruined us for 2 weeks of separation.
Note : If someone tells you they have something going on and they can't change it, don't come in their life trying to force a change, weather it's friendship you might not like or mental disorder out of their control, please.
After we got back together : - I told him i spent time home in group chat with two of my girls and some of their friends and random boy we found where we played "guess what I drew" because i couldn't leave bed and couldn't sleep, he got jealous at that random boy and made me feel bad for doing something while not being in a relationship. (I didn't flirt, we didn't talk in private chat, we just played and he was also aroace.)
While we were on breakup I also reached out to my guy friend and he is doing amazing, enjoying life and was happy I contacted him but my boyfriend made me cut him off, again. Tho, his sister best friend (girl) is buying him gifts, sleeping over at their place in room him and his sister are sharing but why would I be jealous? In fact, I'm not, I like that girl more then I like his family.
Anyway, it was last summer, when he asked me to be his girlfriend again I told him that I'll need time to heal, prepared him for the fact that I will bring up stuff he did before we broke up because I'm still hurt, and he'll need to be extra patient and gentle and he agreed, but instead, every time I talked about pain breakup caused because I wasn't over it, he'd yell at me so i tried to bottle it all up.
In past few months, everything I tell him will hurt me he'll find a way to do it, even if it's something he didn't have in mind, if i told him fictionally it'll hurt me so he knows, he'll do it, and when I confront him about it he'd focus on my reaction saying "are u being fr?" (Like I didn't warn him.) or "stop making me angrier I'm stressed" ( Like I'm not, also, stressed.)
Every time he does something i asked him not to, if I had a reaction it would turn into hours long fight and after making me a bad guy for reacting, he'd play a victim saying I misunderstood, it's all in my head ect. Well i started to tell my friend about our fights or I'd ask AI making "story" to see situation from someone else's perspective because I was tired of being told it's all in my head and it's on daily basis.
He recently started to pick up on my traits of ocd or autism that I also have diagnosed and told him about before he asked me out.
This was my overreaction, I agree, but I'm aware and I didn't ask to be this way; He gave me his hoodie so I'll sit in bus ( it was so dirty and I'd rather be standing, but he wanted me to sit with him and offered a hoodie which was nice. ) when we got to my place laundry dryer fell and put his hoodie on my, just day before, washed rug so i can have free hands to pick up the laundry, he picked hoodie up, angry that i left it on a floor for hot minute, immediately and put it on my bed where I sleep. I threw it right away and started crying because I'm extremely germophobic and had flashbacks from how dirty the bus was, he wanted to go home because i was acting too crazy and I know it's too much of a reaction on my side but I'd rather be like that then like people with no basic hygiene. He started asking "are you going to be this way forever?" And pressuring me to answer, then he told me I'm the only person in whole world behaving like this, like I don't know it's too much, I know it, my ocd is taking over my time and my life, my rituals are anxiously long, my fear of being dirty makes me unable to function through out the day, I have it hard already without someone putting a pressure on it, my doctor refused to treat me even tho I told him it takes at least 2 hours after I go to bed to re-do all my rituals so I can sleep without feer and I still end up waking up few times in one night, I know it's not normal bruh that's why it's a disorder lol, I never claimed it was normal but how can I just get it out of my body, I feel like crazy disgusting creature with zero rights to live because of what he says every time I have a" moment ".
He also doesn't fail to make me feel guilty for not paying attention to my tone when speaking or my facial expressions or my sensory sensitivity like it's all my fault, asking when will I stop being like this and that it's just me being like this, that no one else is this hard to deal with.
I love him and he's making me hate my existence, my flaws, things I can't change about myself, what am I supposed to do about it? Therapy in this country isn't much of help. I feel so guilty oftenly for being the way I am and I didn't even list half of the things.
He also makes me feel guilty for him giving me his time, when we have plans for a day but we spend that day with him always being in rush to go back home and him complaining how he didn't have to do A B and C because he "had to see me" like he doesn't even want to see me. (Same boy who said, over year ago " I can't stand seeing you only four hours a day I wish to be around you all the time".
We're fighting every day and every day it's something I asked him not to do but he still did and it always ends up with me being just too angry all the time and him doing nothing wrong.
He doesn't communicate well, he's messages contains 2-3 words and when I understand what he wrote instead of what he "meant" it's my fault. I warned him more then year ago that if I keep trying to explain in 5 different ways my point of view while he doesn't even explains his with valid sentence I'll give up on talking.
He's "explanation" goes like this : If i ask for two plus two he'll say the fishes brethe air - not only is the explanation wrong in general but it never has anything to do with my question. Like dudes that cheat and excause is that his grandma died, you get it?
Now, I'm so tired that when I try to tell him what's wrong, when he starts to be self defensive I block him because I can't take it anymore, I now can't communicate because I know how it'll end up anyway and it lost it's meaning. I'm turning out toxic but I'm tired, my soul is tired while his soul is rotting.
It hurts watching my sweet boy turning into such an ignorant and pathetic person. I started to think he has npd.
It seems like only solution is for me to stop reacting and to bottle everything up, but that's not relationship I want. I don't want to pretend I'm fine when I'm not, I don't want to keep masking around my own partner just for the sake of his ego because that guy can't stand being told he did something wrong and it takes hours of justifying, self-defense and victim role for him to actually say sorry without even understanding why he should be apologizing for.
TLDR : I (20f) am dating my bf (19m) who's only ever focused on my reaction when he's mistreating me then the reason why I reacted.
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Me (F20) have been dating my bf (M19) for almost two years. For background : we went to same school and I used to be his long-term hallway crush, but he seemed shy so I made a first move. In the beginning, like every relationship goes, I could brag about how perfectly he's treating me if anyone asked, and, having sh1tty situations in payt with ex and situationship I was over the moon to have someone treat me so gentle.
Before we started dating, he knew I have an ex of over two years, he knew I had two boys being my very dear friends and I told him, as he has no lady friends, that if he expects me to remove one guy especially it wont work and he agreed that he won't be expecting of me to cut off my friends for him with no hesitation. Guy friend in question is kinda boy who sees to opposite gender besties and if someone says they'd be cute couple he'd act as if it's actual inc3st and we never saw each other any other way then friends. At the prom, same guy friend cried for two hours because he thought I didn't have good time because my crush kissed another girl, but honestly I had the great time when i saw how much he cared for me.
My byofriend also, before dating me, without me asking or saying anything said "I'll remove all woman from my life when I have u" aka girls from school that are people he doesn't talk to enough to call them friends but there is some contact between them. I was confused because I didn't plan on asking him to as I have guy friends but i felt respected.
It all ended up the exact opposite, I did remove my friend who i still miss to this day because my boyfriend was overly jealous. On his side : girls from school started to pick up on him and when he told me about it, I sensed bullying and told him to block them because they're being pretty annoying and he, kidd u not, asked "do i have to?" so brought up him saying he'd remove anyone for me and he did after days of arguing and me crying because it's the opposite of our agreement before dating. It wasn't even jealousy on my side and he didn't want to block them because he thought they'd ask why and he'd be uncomfortable but... He made a promise that he didn't keep.
Year later he broke up with me partly because i wasn't "pure"/ I have an ex and partly because of how bad my mood swings were (I had 3 doctors diagnosing me with severe depression and was almost hospitalized at the time I was "moody" ).
That breakup had me getting even worse because he was the guy to say "I'm so scared you'll leave me" "if you stay I stay" "i hope we're forever" I didn't know forever meant one year but the breakup was only 2 weeks long, had me suffering for over a month before he actually broke up because he took it very very slow. I slept 15 minutes a day and i wish i was being metaphoric, waiting for him to decide weather he'll stay or not. I did everything I could, my ocd gets worse in stressful situations and my brain telling me "if you do this, that will happen, if you don't, that will happen" all day every day, but I obviously did everything it told me to do to keep him and he still left and ruined us for 2 weeks of separation.
Note : If someone tells you they have something going on and they can't change it, don't come in their life trying to force a change, weather it's friendship you might not like or mental disorder out of their control, please.
After we got back together : - I told him i spent time home in group chat with two of my girls and some of their friends and random boy we found where we played "guess what I drew" because i couldn't leave bed and couldn't sleep, he got jealous at that random boy and made me feel bad for doing something while not being in a relationship. (I didn't flirt, we didn't talk in private chat, we just played and he was also aroace.)
While we were on breakup I also reached out to my guy friend and he is doing amazing, enjoying life and was happy I contacted him but my boyfriend made me cut him off, again. Tho, his sister best friend (girl) is buying him gifts, sleeping over at their place in room him and his sister are sharing but why would I be jealous? In fact, I'm not, I like that girl more then I like his family.
Anyway, it was last summer, when he asked me to be his girlfriend again I told him that I'll need time to heal, prepared him for the fact that I will bring up stuff he did before we broke up because I'm still hurt, and he'll need to be extra patient and gentle and he agreed, but instead, every time I talked about pain breakup caused because I wasn't over it, he'd yell at me so i tried to bottle it all up.
In past few months, everything I tell him will hurt me he'll find a way to do it, even if it's something he didn't have in mind, if i told him fictionally it'll hurt me so he knows, he'll do it, and when I confront him about it he'd focus on my reaction saying "are u being fr?" (Like I didn't warn him.) or "stop making me angrier I'm stressed" ( Like I'm not, also, stressed.)
Every time he does something i asked him not to, if I had a reaction it would turn into hours long fight and after making me a bad guy for reacting, he'd play a victim saying I misunderstood, it's all in my head ect. Well i started to tell my friend about our fights or I'd ask AI making "story" to see situation from someone else's perspective because I was tired of being told it's all in my head and it's on daily basis.
He recently started to pick up on my traits of ocd or autism that I also have diagnosed and told him about before he asked me out.
This was my overreaction, I agree, but I'm aware and I didn't ask to be this way; He gave me his hoodie so I'll sit in bus ( it was so dirty and I'd rather be standing, but he wanted me to sit with him and offered a hoodie which was nice. ) when we got to my place laundry dryer fell and put his hoodie on my, just day before, washed rug so i can have free hands to pick up the laundry, he picked hoodie up, angry that i left it on a floor for hot minute, immediately and put it on my bed where I sleep. I threw it right away and started crying because I'm extremely germophobic and had flashbacks from how dirty the bus was, he wanted to go home because i was acting too crazy and I know it's too much of a reaction on my side but I'd rather be like that then like people with no basic hygiene. He started asking "are you going to be this way forever?" And pressuring me to answer, then he told me I'm the only person in whole world behaving like this, like I don't know it's too much, I know it, my ocd is taking over my time and my life, my rituals are anxiously long, my fear of being dirty makes me unable to function through out the day, I have it hard already without someone putting a pressure on it, my doctor refused to treat me even tho I told him it takes at least 2 hours after I go to bed to re-do all my rituals so I can sleep without feer and I still end up waking up few times in one night, I know it's not normal bruh that's why it's a disorder lol, I never claimed it was normal but how can I just get it out of my body, I feel like crazy disgusting creature with zero rights to live because of what he says every time I have a" moment ".
He also doesn't fail to make me feel guilty for not paying attention to my tone when speaking or my facial expressions or my sensory sensitivity like it's all my fault, asking when will I stop being like this and that it's just me being like this, that no one else is this hard to deal with.
I love him and he's making me hate my existence, my flaws, things I can't change about myself, what am I supposed to do about it? Therapy in this country isn't much of help. I feel so guilty oftenly for being the way I am and I didn't even list half of the things.
He also makes me feel guilty for him giving me his time, when we have plans for a day but we spend that day with him always being in rush to go back home and him complaining how he didn't have to do A B and C because he "had to see me" like he doesn't even want to see me. (Same boy who said, over year ago " I can't stand seeing you only four hours a day I wish to be around you all the time".
We're fighting every day and every day it's something I asked him not to do but he still did and it always ends up with me being just too angry all the time and him doing nothing wrong.
He doesn't communicate well, he's messages contains 2-3 words and when I understand what he wrote instead of what he "meant" it's my fault. I warned him more then year ago that if I keep trying to explain in 5 different ways my point of view while he doesn't even explains his with valid sentence I'll give up on talking.
He's "explanation" goes like this : If i ask for two plus two he'll say the fishes brethe air - not only is the explanation wrong in general but it never has anything to do with my question. Like dudes that cheat and excause is that his grandma died, you get it?
Now, I'm so tired that when I try to tell him what's wrong, when he starts to be self defensive I block him because I can't take it anymore, I now can't communicate because I know how it'll end up anyway and it lost it's meaning. I'm turning out toxic but I'm tired, my soul is tired while his soul is rotting.
It hurts watching my sweet boy turning into such an ignorant and pathetic person. I started to think he has npd.
It seems like only solution is for me to stop reacting and to bottle everything up, but that's not relationship I want. I don't want to pretend I'm fine when I'm not, I don't want to keep masking around my own partner just for the sake of his ego because that guy can't stand being told he did something wrong and it takes hours of justifying, self-defense and victim role for him to actually say sorry without even understanding why he should be apologizing for.
TLDR : I (20f) am dating my bf (19m) who's only ever focused on my reaction when he's mistreating me then the reason why I reacted.
2024.05.14 12:45 theashtraygirl27 I just need any advice on this sinking ship he's calling relationship.
Before u read, this will be bunch of informations that are barely connected, it's poorly written, I'm not claiming to have done nothing wrong I just need someone to share my situation with and maybe seek some advice.
Me (F20) have been dating my bf (M19) for almost two years. For background : we went to same school and I used to be his long-term hallway crush, but he seemed shy so I made a first move. In the beginning, like every relationship goes, I could brag about how perfectly he's treating me if anyone asked, and, having sh1tty situations in payt with ex and situationship I was over the moon to have someone treat me so gentle.
Before we started dating, he knew I have an ex of over two years, he knew I had two boys being my very dear friends and I told him, as he has no lady friends, that if he expects me to remove one guy especially it wont work and he agreed that he won't be expecting of me to cut off my friends for him with no hesitation. Guy friend in question is kinda boy who sees to opposite gender besties and if someone says they'd be cute couple he'd act as if it's actual inc3st and we never saw each other any other way then friends. At the prom, same guy friend cried for two hours because he thought I didn't have good time because my crush kissed another girl, but honestly I had the great time when i saw how much he cared for me.
My byofriend also, before dating me, without me asking or saying anything said "I'll remove all woman from my life when I have u" aka girls from school that are people he doesn't talk to enough to call them friends but there is some contact between them. I was confused because I didn't plan on asking him to as I have guy friends but i felt respected.
It all ended up the exact opposite, I did remove my friend who i still miss to this day because my boyfriend was overly jealous. On his side : girls from school started to pick up on him and when he told me about it, I sensed bullying and told him to block them because they're being pretty annoying and he, kidd u not, asked "do i have to?" so brought up him saying he'd remove anyone for me and he did after days of arguing and me crying because it's the opposite of our agreement before dating. It wasn't even jealousy on my side and he didn't want to block them because he thought they'd ask why and he'd be uncomfortable but... He made a promise that he didn't keep.
Year later he broke up with me partly because i wasn't "pure"/ I have an ex and partly because of how bad my mood swings were (I had 3 doctors diagnosing me with severe depression and was almost hospitalized at the time I was "moody" ).
That breakup had me getting even worse because he was the guy to say "I'm so scared you'll leave me" "if you stay I stay" "i hope we're forever" I didn't know forever meant one year but the breakup was only 2 weeks long, had me suffering for over a month before he actually broke up because he took it very very slow. I slept 15 minutes a day and i wish i was being metaphoric, waiting for him to decide weather he'll stay or not. I did everything I could, my ocd gets worse in stressful situations and my brain telling me "if you do this, that will happen, if you don't, that will happen" all day every day, but I obviously did everything it told me to do to keep him and he still left and ruined us for 2 weeks of separation.
Note : If someone tells you they have something going on and they can't change it, don't come in their life trying to force a change, weather it's friendship you might not like or mental disorder out of their control, please.
After we got back together : - I told him i spent time home in group chat with two of my girls and some of their friends and random boy we found where we played "guess what I drew" because i couldn't leave bed and couldn't sleep, he got jealous at that random boy and made me feel bad for doing something while not being in a relationship. (I didn't flirt, we didn't talk in private chat, we just played and he was also aroace.)
While we were on breakup I also reached out to my guy friend and he is doing amazing, enjoying life and was happy I contacted him but my boyfriend made me cut him off, again. Tho, his sister best friend (girl) is buying him gifts, sleeping over at their place in room him and his sister are sharing but why would I be jealous? In fact, I'm not, I like that girl more then I like his family.
Anyway, it was last summer, when he asked me to be his girlfriend again I told him that I'll need time to heal, prepared him for the fact that I will bring up stuff he did before we broke up because I'm still hurt, and he'll need to be extra patient and gentle and he agreed, but instead, every time I talked about pain breakup caused because I wasn't over it, he'd yell at me so i tried to bottle it all up.
In past few months, everything I tell him will hurt me he'll find a way to do it, even if it's something he didn't have in mind, if i told him fictionally it'll hurt me so he knows, he'll do it, and when I confront him about it he'd focus on my reaction saying "are u being fr?" (Like I didn't warn him.) or "stop making me angrier I'm stressed" ( Like I'm not, also, stressed.)
Every time he does something i asked him not to, if I had a reaction it would turn into hours long fight and after making me a bad guy for reacting, he'd play a victim saying I misunderstood, it's all in my head ect. Well i started to tell my friend about our fights or I'd ask AI making "story" to see situation from someone else's perspective because I was tired of being told it's all in my head and it's on daily basis.
He recently started to pick up on my traits of ocd or autism that I also have diagnosed and told him about before he asked me out.
This was my overreaction, I agree, but I'm aware and I didn't ask to be this way; He gave me his hoodie so I'll sit in bus ( it was so dirty and I'd rather be standing, but he wanted me to sit with him and offered a hoodie which was nice. ) when we got to my place laundry dryer fell and put his hoodie on my, just day before, washed rug so i can have free hands to pick up the laundry, he picked hoodie up, angry that i left it on a floor for hot minute, immediately and put it on my bed where I sleep. I threw it right away and started crying because I'm extremely germophobic and had flashbacks from how dirty the bus was, he wanted to go home because i was acting too crazy and I know it's too much of a reaction on my side but I'd rather be like that then like people with no basic hygiene. He started asking "are you going to be this way forever?" And pressuring me to answer, then he told me I'm the only person in whole world behaving like this, like I don't know it's too much, I know it, my ocd is taking over my time and my life, my rituals are anxiously long, my fear of being dirty makes me unable to function through out the day, I have it hard already without someone putting a pressure on it, my doctor refused to treat me even tho I told him it takes at least 2 hours after I go to bed to re-do all my rituals so I can sleep without feer and I still end up waking up few times in one night, I know it's not normal bruh that's why it's a disorder lol, I never claimed it was normal but how can I just get it out of my body, I feel like crazy disgusting creature with zero rights to live because of what he says every time I have a" moment ".
He also doesn't fail to make me feel guilty for not paying attention to my tone when speaking or my facial expressions or my sensory sensitivity like it's all my fault, asking when will I stop being like this and that it's just me being like this, that no one else is this hard to deal with.
I love him and he's making me hate my existence, my flaws, things I can't change about myself, what am I supposed to do about it? Therapy in this country isn't much of help. I feel so guilty oftenly for being the way I am and I didn't even list half of the things.
He also makes me feel guilty for him giving me his time, when we have plans for a day but we spend that day with him always being in rush to go back home and him complaining how he didn't have to do A B and C because he "had to see me" like he doesn't even want to see me. (Same boy who said, over year ago " I can't stand seeing you only four hours a day I wish to be around you all the time".
We're fighting every day and every day it's something I asked him not to do but he still did and it always ends up with me being just too angry all the time and him doing nothing wrong.
He doesn't communicate well, he's messages contains 2-3 words and when I understand what he wrote instead of what he "meant" it's my fault. I warned him more then year ago that if I keep trying to explain in 5 different ways my point of view while he doesn't even explains his with valid sentence I'll give up on talking.
He's "explanation" goes like this : If i ask for two plus two he'll say the fishes brethe air - not only is the explanation wrong in general but it never has anything to do with my question. Like dudes that cheat and excause is that his grandma died, you get it?
Now, I'm so tired that when I try to tell him what's wrong, when he starts to be self defensive I block him because I can't take it anymore, I now can't communicate because I know how it'll end up anyway and it lost it's meaning. I'm turning out toxic but I'm tired, my soul is tired while his soul is rotting.
It hurts watching my sweet boy turning into such an ignorant and pathetic person. I started to think he has npd.
It seems like only solution is for me to stop reacting and to bottle everything up, but that's not relationship I want. I don't want to pretend I'm fine when I'm not, I don't want to keep masking around my own partner just for the sake of his ego because that guy can't stand being told he did something wrong and it takes hours of justifying, self-defense and victim role for him to actually say sorry without even understanding why he should be apologizing for.
TLDR : I (20f) am dating my bf (19m) who's only ever focused on my reaction when he's mistreating me then the reason why I reacted.
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Me (F20) have been dating my bf (M19) for almost two years. For background : we went to same school and I used to be his long-term hallway crush, but he seemed shy so I made a first move. In the beginning, like every relationship goes, I could brag about how perfectly he's treating me if anyone asked, and, having sh1tty situations in payt with ex and situationship I was over the moon to have someone treat me so gentle.
Before we started dating, he knew I have an ex of over two years, he knew I had two boys being my very dear friends and I told him, as he has no lady friends, that if he expects me to remove one guy especially it wont work and he agreed that he won't be expecting of me to cut off my friends for him with no hesitation. Guy friend in question is kinda boy who sees to opposite gender besties and if someone says they'd be cute couple he'd act as if it's actual inc3st and we never saw each other any other way then friends. At the prom, same guy friend cried for two hours because he thought I didn't have good time because my crush kissed another girl, but honestly I had the great time when i saw how much he cared for me.
My byofriend also, before dating me, without me asking or saying anything said "I'll remove all woman from my life when I have u" aka girls from school that are people he doesn't talk to enough to call them friends but there is some contact between them. I was confused because I didn't plan on asking him to as I have guy friends but i felt respected.
It all ended up the exact opposite, I did remove my friend who i still miss to this day because my boyfriend was overly jealous. On his side : girls from school started to pick up on him and when he told me about it, I sensed bullying and told him to block them because they're being pretty annoying and he, kidd u not, asked "do i have to?" so brought up him saying he'd remove anyone for me and he did after days of arguing and me crying because it's the opposite of our agreement before dating. It wasn't even jealousy on my side and he didn't want to block them because he thought they'd ask why and he'd be uncomfortable but... He made a promise that he didn't keep.
Year later he broke up with me partly because i wasn't "pure"/ I have an ex and partly because of how bad my mood swings were (I had 3 doctors diagnosing me with severe depression and was almost hospitalized at the time I was "moody" ).
That breakup had me getting even worse because he was the guy to say "I'm so scared you'll leave me" "if you stay I stay" "i hope we're forever" I didn't know forever meant one year but the breakup was only 2 weeks long, had me suffering for over a month before he actually broke up because he took it very very slow. I slept 15 minutes a day and i wish i was being metaphoric, waiting for him to decide weather he'll stay or not. I did everything I could, my ocd gets worse in stressful situations and my brain telling me "if you do this, that will happen, if you don't, that will happen" all day every day, but I obviously did everything it told me to do to keep him and he still left and ruined us for 2 weeks of separation.
Note : If someone tells you they have something going on and they can't change it, don't come in their life trying to force a change, weather it's friendship you might not like or mental disorder out of their control, please.
After we got back together : - I told him i spent time home in group chat with two of my girls and some of their friends and random boy we found where we played "guess what I drew" because i couldn't leave bed and couldn't sleep, he got jealous at that random boy and made me feel bad for doing something while not being in a relationship. (I didn't flirt, we didn't talk in private chat, we just played and he was also aroace.)
While we were on breakup I also reached out to my guy friend and he is doing amazing, enjoying life and was happy I contacted him but my boyfriend made me cut him off, again. Tho, his sister best friend (girl) is buying him gifts, sleeping over at their place in room him and his sister are sharing but why would I be jealous? In fact, I'm not, I like that girl more then I like his family.
Anyway, it was last summer, when he asked me to be his girlfriend again I told him that I'll need time to heal, prepared him for the fact that I will bring up stuff he did before we broke up because I'm still hurt, and he'll need to be extra patient and gentle and he agreed, but instead, every time I talked about pain breakup caused because I wasn't over it, he'd yell at me so i tried to bottle it all up.
In past few months, everything I tell him will hurt me he'll find a way to do it, even if it's something he didn't have in mind, if i told him fictionally it'll hurt me so he knows, he'll do it, and when I confront him about it he'd focus on my reaction saying "are u being fr?" (Like I didn't warn him.) or "stop making me angrier I'm stressed" ( Like I'm not, also, stressed.)
Every time he does something i asked him not to, if I had a reaction it would turn into hours long fight and after making me a bad guy for reacting, he'd play a victim saying I misunderstood, it's all in my head ect. Well i started to tell my friend about our fights or I'd ask AI making "story" to see situation from someone else's perspective because I was tired of being told it's all in my head and it's on daily basis.
He recently started to pick up on my traits of ocd or autism that I also have diagnosed and told him about before he asked me out.
This was my overreaction, I agree, but I'm aware and I didn't ask to be this way; He gave me his hoodie so I'll sit in bus ( it was so dirty and I'd rather be standing, but he wanted me to sit with him and offered a hoodie which was nice. ) when we got to my place laundry dryer fell and put his hoodie on my, just day before, washed rug so i can have free hands to pick up the laundry, he picked hoodie up, angry that i left it on a floor for hot minute, immediately and put it on my bed where I sleep. I threw it right away and started crying because I'm extremely germophobic and had flashbacks from how dirty the bus was, he wanted to go home because i was acting too crazy and I know it's too much of a reaction on my side but I'd rather be like that then like people with no basic hygiene. He started asking "are you going to be this way forever?" And pressuring me to answer, then he told me I'm the only person in whole world behaving like this, like I don't know it's too much, I know it, my ocd is taking over my time and my life, my rituals are anxiously long, my fear of being dirty makes me unable to function through out the day, I have it hard already without someone putting a pressure on it, my doctor refused to treat me even tho I told him it takes at least 2 hours after I go to bed to re-do all my rituals so I can sleep without feer and I still end up waking up few times in one night, I know it's not normal bruh that's why it's a disorder lol, I never claimed it was normal but how can I just get it out of my body, I feel like crazy disgusting creature with zero rights to live because of what he says every time I have a" moment ".
He also doesn't fail to make me feel guilty for not paying attention to my tone when speaking or my facial expressions or my sensory sensitivity like it's all my fault, asking when will I stop being like this and that it's just me being like this, that no one else is this hard to deal with.
I love him and he's making me hate my existence, my flaws, things I can't change about myself, what am I supposed to do about it? Therapy in this country isn't much of help. I feel so guilty oftenly for being the way I am and I didn't even list half of the things.
He also makes me feel guilty for him giving me his time, when we have plans for a day but we spend that day with him always being in rush to go back home and him complaining how he didn't have to do A B and C because he "had to see me" like he doesn't even want to see me. (Same boy who said, over year ago " I can't stand seeing you only four hours a day I wish to be around you all the time".
We're fighting every day and every day it's something I asked him not to do but he still did and it always ends up with me being just too angry all the time and him doing nothing wrong.
He doesn't communicate well, he's messages contains 2-3 words and when I understand what he wrote instead of what he "meant" it's my fault. I warned him more then year ago that if I keep trying to explain in 5 different ways my point of view while he doesn't even explains his with valid sentence I'll give up on talking.
He's "explanation" goes like this : If i ask for two plus two he'll say the fishes brethe air - not only is the explanation wrong in general but it never has anything to do with my question. Like dudes that cheat and excause is that his grandma died, you get it?
Now, I'm so tired that when I try to tell him what's wrong, when he starts to be self defensive I block him because I can't take it anymore, I now can't communicate because I know how it'll end up anyway and it lost it's meaning. I'm turning out toxic but I'm tired, my soul is tired while his soul is rotting.
It hurts watching my sweet boy turning into such an ignorant and pathetic person. I started to think he has npd.
It seems like only solution is for me to stop reacting and to bottle everything up, but that's not relationship I want. I don't want to pretend I'm fine when I'm not, I don't want to keep masking around my own partner just for the sake of his ego because that guy can't stand being told he did something wrong and it takes hours of justifying, self-defense and victim role for him to actually say sorry without even understanding why he should be apologizing for.
TLDR : I (20f) am dating my bf (19m) who's only ever focused on my reaction when he's mistreating me then the reason why I reacted.
2024.05.14 12:35 theprobeast Who is someone who was selfless, kind and thoughtful towards you?
Please state their: sun, moon, venus, mars
Being supportive towards you when they didnt have to, remembering your birthday and sending you a wish, getting you a thoughtful gift occassionally to show you that you are on their mind, spending quality time with you talking about your hobbies and goals instead of small talks and gossips, putting effort for you whether it is cooking a meal for you when u r sick or attending your major milestones when they are busy and dont have to, someone who never spoke ill of you to anyone but spoke highly of you when they didnt have to, someone capable of standing up for you when the world is against you. someone who does not need any explanations from you and accepts and loves you unconditionally
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Being supportive towards you when they didnt have to, remembering your birthday and sending you a wish, getting you a thoughtful gift occassionally to show you that you are on their mind, spending quality time with you talking about your hobbies and goals instead of small talks and gossips, putting effort for you whether it is cooking a meal for you when u r sick or attending your major milestones when they are busy and dont have to, someone who never spoke ill of you to anyone but spoke highly of you when they didnt have to, someone capable of standing up for you when the world is against you. someone who does not need any explanations from you and accepts and loves you unconditionally
2024.05.14 12:31 762_39King Dq
Ir1 visa priority date December 2022 Senegal,Dakar embassy
We were DQed December 8 2023 and still waiting on an interview letter from the u.s embassy in Dakar Senegal 🇸🇳. Does anyone have experience with this particular embassy? Also what is the normal wait time for everyone to get an interview letter after Dq?
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We were DQed December 8 2023 and still waiting on an interview letter from the u.s embassy in Dakar Senegal 🇸🇳. Does anyone have experience with this particular embassy? Also what is the normal wait time for everyone to get an interview letter after Dq?
2024.05.14 12:23 JohnTheCatMan1 Quick Trotzen Update
 | (In this video: She had been being spoiled, laying in her foster mom's arms, and was begging for more! She is obsessed with being held! ❤️) submitted by JohnTheCatMan1 to rescuecats [link] [comments] She tested positive for heartworm but thats physically impossible. Heartworm takes 6 months to even show up on a test and she is 8 weeks old. So it must had to have been an error with the test. She does have lungworm, some type of infection from the ticks, and obviously head trauma. So she will be being treated accordingly and given every possible chance at a normal life! As of now she is in extremely good hands. If you can help with her or any of the many other cats we are currently helping, please do! We need all the help we can get! I have to head into work so I wanted to get this posted before I left! PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/johnvanspronsen Venmo: https://venmo.comJohnVanSpronsen CashApp: https://cash.app/$JohnVanSpronsen Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/255VR8UMJ4INH/?ref_=lol_ov_le |
2024.05.14 12:22 stinkybimbochungie help
I am in one of those stages where i sift through the steam store everyday and long for a game that i don’t know if it exists or what to play next
about my tastes:
games i loved/ top tiers for me: minecraft, stardew, terraria, valheim
games i really liked but eventually fell off of just due to honestly loosing its replayability or it got boring:
dinkum, core keeper, sun haven, enshrouded, necesse, pal world, raft, roots of patcha, starbound, subnautica, animal crossing, sons of the forest, no man’s sky, the sims, abiotic factor
what i’m looking for: crafting, i love love love games with a billion things to craft especially when a lot of that is either asthetic or practical use stuff. ideally i would love a game with never ending things to craft that you had to figure out how to craft them.
and other then that: co op 100% i have the most fun when i can play w my bf and friends,
survivals i like open world survival crafts not bc u have to drink food or water but bc i like the aspect of having to make it on ur own and being thrust into a world where you have to adapt,
i love when you can build bases and make them really asthetic and spend hours building them,
and replayability is huge for me, the reason i loved minecraft and terraria outside of everything is how i could loose myself for so long in those games and not get bored which once you slay the gender dragon or the last boss it does kinda fizzle out
i want a game i can just literally play forever that never gets boring and there’s so much to do which is why i also like sandbox style games. people will hate on me for this but i often find games boring when i know there about to end or im running out of things to do, i usually quit a game right before it ends😭
so yeah, let me know if you have any recs for someone like me
(edit: here’s some games that i love that don’t fit in any of these categories: the finals, idk why but it was and remains the only shooter i have been able to get into and idk why lol eastward: just a beautiful game with insane pixel graphics, lovely story, insane sound design multiverses: just super fun dave the diver: amazing game, i think i only stopped playing bc it wasn’t multiplayer tbh
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about my tastes:
games i loved/ top tiers for me: minecraft, stardew, terraria, valheim
games i really liked but eventually fell off of just due to honestly loosing its replayability or it got boring:
dinkum, core keeper, sun haven, enshrouded, necesse, pal world, raft, roots of patcha, starbound, subnautica, animal crossing, sons of the forest, no man’s sky, the sims, abiotic factor
what i’m looking for: crafting, i love love love games with a billion things to craft especially when a lot of that is either asthetic or practical use stuff. ideally i would love a game with never ending things to craft that you had to figure out how to craft them.
and other then that: co op 100% i have the most fun when i can play w my bf and friends,
survivals i like open world survival crafts not bc u have to drink food or water but bc i like the aspect of having to make it on ur own and being thrust into a world where you have to adapt,
i love when you can build bases and make them really asthetic and spend hours building them,
and replayability is huge for me, the reason i loved minecraft and terraria outside of everything is how i could loose myself for so long in those games and not get bored which once you slay the gender dragon or the last boss it does kinda fizzle out
i want a game i can just literally play forever that never gets boring and there’s so much to do which is why i also like sandbox style games. people will hate on me for this but i often find games boring when i know there about to end or im running out of things to do, i usually quit a game right before it ends😭
so yeah, let me know if you have any recs for someone like me
(edit: here’s some games that i love that don’t fit in any of these categories: the finals, idk why but it was and remains the only shooter i have been able to get into and idk why lol eastward: just a beautiful game with insane pixel graphics, lovely story, insane sound design multiverses: just super fun dave the diver: amazing game, i think i only stopped playing bc it wasn’t multiplayer tbh
2024.05.14 12:18 zandadoum in search for best mods to: export/import "assign policies" and "bills"
Hello,
if there's one thing that annoys me in Rimworld, it's having to create the "assign policies" for apparel, food, drugs and reading everytime i start a new colony (except when it's during the archonexus questline, because assign policies carry over)
it's also really annoying when during any event a crafting table gets destroyed and the "bills" have to be redone completely.
i am looking for one or several addons that export/import those settings.
i don't want some big addon suite that does a million things, just this one feature if possible
thank you.
EDIT: solved
u/VitaKaninen suggested this one: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3222246658
thank you
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if there's one thing that annoys me in Rimworld, it's having to create the "assign policies" for apparel, food, drugs and reading everytime i start a new colony (except when it's during the archonexus questline, because assign policies carry over)
it's also really annoying when during any event a crafting table gets destroyed and the "bills" have to be redone completely.
i am looking for one or several addons that export/import those settings.
i don't want some big addon suite that does a million things, just this one feature if possible
thank you.
EDIT: solved
u/VitaKaninen suggested this one: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3222246658
thank you
2024.05.14 12:01 SoPeachy_7997 Let's have a level exchange! Super Mario Maker 2
The level exchange is an opportunity for users to share and play each others levels. If you want other people to play your levels and take an interest in what you are doing, the best thing to do is show an interest in other peoples creations and play their levels as part of an exchange.
What is proposed is that you take this post and sort it by "new" and try to play and leave comments on reddit for 2-4 levels that other people have posted. You don't have to star it if you don't want to, but there really is no reason to be stingy if you like the level. Once you've done that, post your own level and a brief description of it. Preferably include what the theme of the level is, what style of Mario game you used, and about how difficult you think it is!
A new exchange thread is created every few days
Use the exchange as an opportunity to get to know other makers and have fun.
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NB: The original wii u Super mario maker has a separate level exchange thread found here
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What is proposed is that you take this post and sort it by "new" and try to play and leave comments on reddit for 2-4 levels that other people have posted. You don't have to star it if you don't want to, but there really is no reason to be stingy if you like the level. Once you've done that, post your own level and a brief description of it. Preferably include what the theme of the level is, what style of Mario game you used, and about how difficult you think it is!
A new exchange thread is created every few days
Use the exchange as an opportunity to get to know other makers and have fun.
Automoderator is watching this thread and will remove excesssive numbers of level codes, excessive level posting without offering feedback on reddit and it will be also stopping attention grabbing gimmicks like title formatting text.
Please note that due to a limitation of automoderator, posting levels on this thread will remove your picture flair that is visible on old.reddit.com. This does not affect the flair text. You can add it back from the sidebar . This should not affect award flairs like LOTW
NB: The original wii u Super mario maker has a separate level exchange thread found here
2024.05.14 11:28 rrless VT reedle shot.. more like needle shots😫
 | Today is my 13th day using it. submitted by rrless to kbeauty [link] [comments] First of all,,, it hurts. I done some research and read some review about it hurt when u apply it but I ignored it bc I dont think i have that much sensitive skin. But damn it hurts. It feels like someone is poking ur skin with needle.. Beside that, it does some amazing work!! Def getting better with my wrinkles and pores!
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2024.05.14 11:26 DogOnTheLeash the media manipulators joined the game
 | Yesterday was wild - theory and action wise. submitted by DogOnTheLeash to DarkKenny [link] [comments] u/ThermoNuclearPizza made the sub approved users only, which i can totally understand, BUT does imo not help, but lets give him some time to clean this mess. Somebody with incriminating information about our suspects could only post his info after getting approved, bad for critical timing, right? Also, the way the K.-sub compromises opinions is really showing. We need to get information out, otherwise it's not seen. u/ChemicalChipmunk4171 's comment here indicates, that "the media manipulators" are in on it, doing divide and conquer. Processing img zyd70fcz0d0d1... https://archive.ph/20160327060128/http://www.washingtonsblog.com/2014/07/pentagon-admits-spending-millions-study-manipulate-social-media-users.html So what's happening next? The other subs (drizzy,k.) cleary think, that this is some kind of 🍕gate / Q-anon bs. But anybody who is long enough on the internet knows how shit works... |
2024.05.14 11:25 GianoBifronte AP Workflow 10.0 EA3 now available on Discord
 | First, a little announcement: submitted by GianoBifronte to u/GianoBifronte [link] [comments] To celebrate over 50 members on Patreon, I am lowering the membership price for the Early Access program from $25 to $9.99 ! It's an experiment. Let's see what happens. If you ever wanted to support the development of the AP Workflow and have access to the early features as soon as possible, this is a great opportunity. And now, the update: This Early Access 3 prerelease of the AP Workflow 10.0 introduces (again) significant changes in the pipeline: it abandons the incredibly convenient Efficiency nodes replacing them with standard KSamplers and CLIP Text Encode nodes. This is in preparation of supporting Stable Diffusion 3, when it will be released. It also fixes the infinitely annoying problems generated by the overly aggressive caching mechanism in the Efficiency Loader node. Now LoRAs and ControlNets get applied when you apply them without second guessing and without having to reboot ComfyUI every time. My favorite new feature, tho, is a new image loader node that now supports subfolders and previews of images in subfolders. If you have hundreds or thousands of images in the Input folder of ComfyUI, like me, this node will change your life! https://preview.redd.it/oljpds9q0d0d1.png?width=2556&format=png&auto=webp&s=c5fe769cac67b166ea87798d3fb37c9bde8ca288 Full changelog for Early Access 3:
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2024.05.14 11:21 Mysterious_Sky_5285 Why are Indian women like this? Feeling disgusted
copied from twoxindia
Asking opinion (I am bad at titles)Recently, a post by a woman is getting shared everywhere on Indian platforms. It's about a woman who is married, and can't conceive anymore due to use of i pills, cuz her ex used to refuse wearing condoms. For 6 years. This was the only guy she has been before getting married.
And now she feels guilty abt not telling her husband abt her past. And she feels guilty abt not being able to conceive anymore. And reproaches her ex for ruining her life.
And while I believe she is wrong abt never mentioning her past before marriage, as I beleive there should be some level of transparency....it genuinely frustrates me how on almost every platform, men have been calling her the w and r words (?). Some even said it's her fault to never strongly insist on condoms ...yeah as if manipulative guys don't guilt u into having their way. There was noone reproaching her awful ex...infact scolding her for talking poorly abt her ex. And a lot of ppl happily talk abt how they would never marry a used woman. 😑
These same men also look for casuals or complain when their gfs don't wish to get intimate before marriage or atleast a fixed time. Why does this hypocrisy exist? Lol.
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2024.05.14 11:14 MastiffMike Buying a car in another state for a homeless person questions!!! [Lots of car buying questions!]
OK, I (World's Laziest Dad!) have a daughter (Apple of My Eye) graduating college (halfway across the country) and she's got her first post college job out East, so she needs a car. First problem is, she doesn't yet have an apartment (she was hoping to have that ironed out before buying the car, but likely won't). We will be paying cash for the car (no loan) so at least that simplifies the car purchase somewhat.
Question #1: For registration purposes, can she put my address (the house she grew up in) even though it's 1000 miles from where we'll buy it and where she'll drive it? Once she does get an apartment, will she then need to do anything like change the registration address?
Question #2: She's always been on my insurance policy (State Farm) which covers my vehicles. Since this will be her first vehicle, should she have her own policy or do I add her vehicle to my policy? Seems like since she'll be so far away it'd be best for her to have her own policy (even if I pay it), that way if she has a claim it doesn't ding me (since she'll be city driving every day, whereas up to now she never has and has only done local suburb type driving).
Question #3: We'll be buying the vehicle somewhere in the Bostonish area (so MA). Anything I need to know about car buying that would differ from what I'm used to (Upper Midwest no-haggle dealers have been where I've bought my last 10+ vehicles)?
Anything I'm missing or not thinking of? I know she'll need to get a driver's license once she gets settled into her apartment (she has one from our state for now though).
Appreciate the help and advice!
GL2U N all U do!
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Question #1: For registration purposes, can she put my address (the house she grew up in) even though it's 1000 miles from where we'll buy it and where she'll drive it? Once she does get an apartment, will she then need to do anything like change the registration address?
Question #2: She's always been on my insurance policy (State Farm) which covers my vehicles. Since this will be her first vehicle, should she have her own policy or do I add her vehicle to my policy? Seems like since she'll be so far away it'd be best for her to have her own policy (even if I pay it), that way if she has a claim it doesn't ding me (since she'll be city driving every day, whereas up to now she never has and has only done local suburb type driving).
Question #3: We'll be buying the vehicle somewhere in the Bostonish area (so MA). Anything I need to know about car buying that would differ from what I'm used to (Upper Midwest no-haggle dealers have been where I've bought my last 10+ vehicles)?
Anything I'm missing or not thinking of? I know she'll need to get a driver's license once she gets settled into her apartment (she has one from our state for now though).
Appreciate the help and advice!
GL2U N all U do!
2024.05.14 10:35 sunflowersandbees777 What if i actually succeed?
You know how sometimes (myself included) some people are almost afraid to succeed and be happy because it means surely something bad will happen straight after?? (I will admit there seems to be a bit of a pattern of this in my life, but i digress..)
As dumb (or not?) As it sounds- I actually wonder ..'What if i actually do really well in life? I look good, i feel good, i mask really well in certain situations (if i want to) I have an amazing job/career, i make tonnes of money bla bla bla... What if then ..people turn around and say 'See? Told u , u didn't have autism and adhd- u were just using it as an excuse for all these years '
I mean.. i know its dumbbbbb cos maybe they can't see the fact I'm still struggling but hide it better, or the fact that it took a fucktonne of extra effort than the average person to get to that point.. But i can't help but be anxious?? Does..anyone else ever feel this way??
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As dumb (or not?) As it sounds- I actually wonder ..'What if i actually do really well in life? I look good, i feel good, i mask really well in certain situations (if i want to) I have an amazing job/career, i make tonnes of money bla bla bla... What if then ..people turn around and say 'See? Told u , u didn't have autism and adhd- u were just using it as an excuse for all these years '
I mean.. i know its dumbbbbb cos maybe they can't see the fact I'm still struggling but hide it better, or the fact that it took a fucktonne of extra effort than the average person to get to that point.. But i can't help but be anxious?? Does..anyone else ever feel this way??
2024.05.14 10:21 Revolving_Berry00000 Feedback from watcher: Tears Elden Ring content would be better received if he wasn't so negative and varied his run.
I've been watching Bretts streams lately and have been trying to enjoy his latest Elden ring stream. I'm not a huge Shadow/Isaac fan and am 100% here for his Soulsbourne content. His last Elden Ring series isn't fully on youtube, so i cant rewatch, but I rmember it being so much better top tier content. This latest Elden ring run was the worst souls series IMO, but not for the reason Tear keeps claiming (he seems to think it boils down to age of game, repeat playthrough, rushing etc),
I personally thing there are 4 problems with this run-through that ruins this series, as follows:
1a. Tear refuses to change playstyle
1b. Tears playstyle is awful
To explain -
1a. Tear's entire playstyle is jump attacks and charged R2's. It's ultimately boring to watch. No WA's, no build variation, no critical thinking, if he cant out DPS an enemy he cries about it after. He's never used a respect as far as I'm aware to make things interesting or fix his stats (40 faith with 0 use case - just why?) At the stage I'm watching (Malenia & End Game Nightmares in Elden Ring DLC U Soon) He's got enough mats to level up a few weapons, but is instead sticking to just the anchor, which is teethpullingly dull to watch. There is no enjoyment for anyone who's played the game or watched previous playthroughs, as they're all probably better at the game - It's incredibly basic.
1b. Directly related to 1a. Brett is legitimately... not very good, and for repeat playthroughs I'd have loved to see some actual skill or experimenting with range/WA's. He's not interested in trying anything outside his same 2-3 moves. I'm currently watching him try to do the Ordina and crying because he's face planting in to the (easy to deal with if you use any brainpower) archers and getting himself worked up with the boring and annoying 'Games awful' type comments. This leads to point 2...
I've been watching Tear since Ds2, have donated etc. Just putting that in there so I don't get people trying to pull rank on my opinion. Happy to reply to rebuttals, but this series has genuinely made me wonder why he plays game with any level of challenge when he's got so many hang-ups on the basic gameplay loop.
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I personally thing there are 4 problems with this run-through that ruins this series, as follows:
1a. Tear refuses to change playstyle
1b. Tears playstyle is awful
- Tear constantly moaning is some of his worst content and legitimately off-putting.
- Tear playing up to the 'joke' that it's first run-through is a detriment.
To explain -
1a. Tear's entire playstyle is jump attacks and charged R2's. It's ultimately boring to watch. No WA's, no build variation, no critical thinking, if he cant out DPS an enemy he cries about it after. He's never used a respect as far as I'm aware to make things interesting or fix his stats (40 faith with 0 use case - just why?) At the stage I'm watching (Malenia & End Game Nightmares in Elden Ring DLC U Soon) He's got enough mats to level up a few weapons, but is instead sticking to just the anchor, which is teethpullingly dull to watch. There is no enjoyment for anyone who's played the game or watched previous playthroughs, as they're all probably better at the game - It's incredibly basic.
1b. Directly related to 1a. Brett is legitimately... not very good, and for repeat playthroughs I'd have loved to see some actual skill or experimenting with range/WA's. He's not interested in trying anything outside his same 2-3 moves. I'm currently watching him try to do the Ordina and crying because he's face planting in to the (easy to deal with if you use any brainpower) archers and getting himself worked up with the boring and annoying 'Games awful' type comments. This leads to point 2...
- He makes mistakes and moans like the game is badly made. I don't know how many times I've eyerolled as he's raged at, for example, PVP enemies while he's way over levelled and refusing to do anything to adapt. I may be in the minority, but I prefer his content when he's enjoying himself. I legitimately think he doesn't enjoy these games now, because he doesn't like the challenge.
- Just annoys me personally. have some respect for the audience. I honestly think he pretends it's playthrough one to excuse his poor gameplay.
- This one baffles me. Why, after all this time, does he not just listen to his audience on builds, WA's or things he has no idea how to use? He gets so upset at the game when just listening to his audience would easily let him pass sections. He come across as such a baby that it legitimately turns me off his content. As a side, his PvP series legitimately would have made bank if he just played with his fans and engaged. But it proved that he's worse than average, he's too thin skinned to do so and his ego got in the way of what could have been a return to souls PvP, which people have been begging for for literal years.
I've been watching Tear since Ds2, have donated etc. Just putting that in there so I don't get people trying to pull rank on my opinion. Happy to reply to rebuttals, but this series has genuinely made me wonder why he plays game with any level of challenge when he's got so many hang-ups on the basic gameplay loop.
2024.05.14 10:21 Netalux_Belgium Game-changing feature launch: distance sensor for operators.
 | Hey everyone, submitted by Netalux_Belgium to LaserCleaningPorn [link] [comments] This is our first post here as the Netalux team. We're active globally in laser cleaning technology and are excited to engage more with this community. We're all huge fans of the developments in our industry and can't wait to exchange experiences and ideas! We also have an exciting update to share: we've introduced a new feature that will now be standard in all our laser cleaning equipment, namely the advanced operator distance sensor. Here are some cool things it does:
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2024.05.14 10:11 JealousLime5580 Tricked into a damn good online scam. Got duped for 3 grand. Revolut not being helpful.
Hi,
I can not believe that me and my partner got tricked into this digital marketing scam by this website - https://eviom.live . They have a full team where one lady contacted me the first day as being the HR, the second one contacted as the team lead. The site mentioned has a decent user interface and it is insanely hard to figure out its a trap. The lady on the phone even made us a profit of around 70 euros the first day. The next day they duped us for 3 grand. uggh. But, ngl, it can happen to anyone. They keep on managing the trust by being constantly in touch from all sides and their strategy to toy with you can get even the best. They even have a customer service chat option on their site mentioned, but obviously its all a scam. It does look a tiny bit dodgy, but for someone new in the UK like my partner, it would be terribly hard.
So, after all this is done, I contacted the u/RevolutSupport right away and ask them to stop the money being transferred. They say that I am not eligible for a refund, which I understand as I was given warnings while transferring the money. However, they have not been able to trace the money at all either. They say that there is nothing they can do about it and they are really sorry. What am i supposed to do ? I feel the punishment is too big. I just want my money back and the bank is my last resort who has the powers to figure it out too. The money has to be traceable right? Moreover, letting everyone know out there about these scams is something I should do too.
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I can not believe that me and my partner got tricked into this digital marketing scam by this website - https://eviom.live . They have a full team where one lady contacted me the first day as being the HR, the second one contacted as the team lead. The site mentioned has a decent user interface and it is insanely hard to figure out its a trap. The lady on the phone even made us a profit of around 70 euros the first day. The next day they duped us for 3 grand. uggh. But, ngl, it can happen to anyone. They keep on managing the trust by being constantly in touch from all sides and their strategy to toy with you can get even the best. They even have a customer service chat option on their site mentioned, but obviously its all a scam. It does look a tiny bit dodgy, but for someone new in the UK like my partner, it would be terribly hard.
So, after all this is done, I contacted the u/RevolutSupport right away and ask them to stop the money being transferred. They say that I am not eligible for a refund, which I understand as I was given warnings while transferring the money. However, they have not been able to trace the money at all either. They say that there is nothing they can do about it and they are really sorry. What am i supposed to do ? I feel the punishment is too big. I just want my money back and the bank is my last resort who has the powers to figure it out too. The money has to be traceable right? Moreover, letting everyone know out there about these scams is something I should do too.
2024.05.14 10:09 eenrandomgast Does anyone have a divorced dad that doesnt have any food in the house?
At first it wasnt that bad but nowadays im starving. He doesnt have anything. No bread, no milk, no fruits, just nothing. He only buys and makes dinner most of the time (lets say 3 out of 4 days were with him, we always have to buy our own dinner atleast once a week), but the rest of the day i have to get my own food bcs otherwise im starving, and bcs of that i dont have any money anymore.
And its not like he does it on purpose i think. He says every time "if u need something ask me and ill get it next time im in the grocery store" and then he just doesnt get it. Most of the food that IS in the house is his food (what he eats every morning, which he does buy for himself) and the rest thats in the house is just spoiled.
He doesnt want us to give us money to get food on our own bcs he doesnt trust anyone with his money, not even his kids. I cant go to him with the grocery store either bcs he goes once a week on the same time, exactly when me and my siblings have school so we cant join him. It really sucks and for years we have told him to work on it but he just doesnt listen. Please how do i make him just buy food for us?
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And its not like he does it on purpose i think. He says every time "if u need something ask me and ill get it next time im in the grocery store" and then he just doesnt get it. Most of the food that IS in the house is his food (what he eats every morning, which he does buy for himself) and the rest thats in the house is just spoiled.
He doesnt want us to give us money to get food on our own bcs he doesnt trust anyone with his money, not even his kids. I cant go to him with the grocery store either bcs he goes once a week on the same time, exactly when me and my siblings have school so we cant join him. It really sucks and for years we have told him to work on it but he just doesnt listen. Please how do i make him just buy food for us?