Hey! 🤚🏼
Long time lurker, first time poster.
Just wanted to share my experience with Candor and give a rough timeline of the process for me.
I chose this company because partner uses Candor and has not had any issues (apart from being prescribed an urban leaf mpod cart with no instructions on how to use or what battery to purchase…😫 we got there in the end thanks to google and YouTube lol)
I’ve seen a bunch of posts either loving or hating the service from these guys, this was my first time using them and I have to say I am pretty impressed. (I’ve previously dealt with alternaleaf who was my first prescriber, decided to change after my prescription expired as the service has gone downhill)
I do like that most of the contact is done via their website using a chat/messaging feature. Only time I had to speak to anyone was my dr consult. Took about 15 mins.
Main reason for MC use is chronic pain, anxiety & PTSD.
25/4/24 - signed up and completed the questionnaire
28/4/24 - message from nurse to verify details
3/5/24 - message from nurse to arrange dr consult
10/5/24 - booked consult
13/5/24 - had consult with dr
(could have got in way earlier than the 13th, there were appts available within 2/3 days however I chose to book in later in the month due to other commitments)
14/5/24 : 12:15pm - prescription available 12:30pm - order placed 3:40pm - identity verified by candor 4:15pm - order ready for pick up
The consult mainly consisted of the dr informing me on the products and brands they offer, verifying my personal and medical details, and a couple of questions. My TGA was pretty instant (could have been helped from previous MC prescription?) 🤔
You can have 4 THC products at one time. I chose 2 carts and 2 flowers, and a CBD oil. However there are a few more products in my catalogue I can take a look at, or you can send a message to the nurse or dr if you’d like to try/check out something else. I recommend cannareviews or catalyst to explore strains and read up on some products.
I chose the pick-up option rather than have it delivered, as I live close to some of their partner pharmacy/dispensaries. Had delivery issues in the past with alternaleaf, will only ever pick up now. Due to stock levels in the places near me, I chose Dukasa Compounding, who I know a lot of people have issues with… I was so pleasantly surprised with how quick they had my script ready to pick up considering I was a new patient, and it was 4 hours after placing the order!
After everything I had read about them I was really worried something would go wrong, so hopefully if you are in my shoes this post gives you some hope! 😊
My consult was $80 I had Dr Jin Byun who was super polite, friendly and happy to explain and answer any questions I had. So far would totally recommend!
Going to go and pick it up tomorrow. Have a great week everyone! 💨💨

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Let me know your feedback, I made it as a strategy marketing through free tools to try position on some keywords in Google!

Just to clarify, I wanted to ask the evolution of people’s old usernames over different platforms up until their current username, figured it would be pretty interesting, usernames tell us a lot about a person!
Here’s mine in order,, I was 8 when I started social media for the first time (on Google Plus 💀😂) but there’s a story behind each username I had :)

• Peach Mario (Google Plus account)
• Pylolly
• Mylolly
• Nicekittydog
• Barbara21 (you can question because even I’m shocked why I picked this 💀)
• Indieandi21
• Cute.Swxggy.Kitty.2k03
• SelenaSPM
• BlueKittyGirl
• ofherchaoticways
• TaylorTPM
• iconic.toriel
• torieldreemvrr
• Token.black.bass (this was a South Park roleplay account LMAO)
• Lexifu/Lexifu1
• svnlight
• tyilyy
• CaptainSalty101
• feelguudinc (if you’re cool you know what this refers to)
• blossommist
• fairestfloral
• bunniebeast
• flouriished
• ninixionie
• enininie
• netuniya (i had netuniya since 2020 actually,, it began on among us LMAO)

eBay: https://www.ebay.com/stexoticseliteshop
Since people are skeptical to buy due to scammers, I welcome you to check out my eBay store where I have an abundance of MFB and Burst inventory. Everything I sell is 100% Authentic product. I will never sell Midfakes or Fake Beyblades. If anyone has questions feel free to message me :)

https://www.ebay.com/stexoticseliteshop
Since people are skeptical to buy due to scammers, I welcome you to check out my eBay store where I have an abundance of MFB and Burst inventory. Everything I sell is 100% Authentic product. I will never sell Midfakes or Fake Beyblades. If anyone has questions feel free to message me :)

Cat in the hat profile picture, One_Truth drama, mods are acting like they’re on drugs and people talking about suicide & H####r
You have all convinced me that everyoneknowsthat is better. your like Bing and their like Google. If I see some suspicious activity on my post I’ll report it and/or delete it

Hello i am a male 18 and i got diagnosed with epilepsy about 4 years ago. My epilepsy was really bad at the beginning and i got seizures quite often and was physically injured as well because of where i fell at the time of the seizure, now i am almost 8 months seizure free and i am a lot happier now. My question is do seizures affect memory because i noticed that my memory has been really bad. I did a bit of research on google but i don’t completely trust it %100. I asked my doctor and he said it’s possible. I want to hear other people’s stories or experience’s or if you have info about when something like this can occur. (feel free to ask personal questions about my experience so you can understand me better)

Heya I'm relatively new to making graphics for unreal engine and have everything done for a small scale character editor with a manga aesthetic. The way I currently let people change their eye colour is by manually recolouring the eyes externally and basically having a texture for each added to the material. I know this isn't optimal performance wise but I haven't been able to make in engine colour changing look that good. My googling skills haven't helped me with this so I hope you don't mind me asking a few questions.

1. What colour should the part of the texture I am colouring in be originally for the best results?
   
2. Which blend mode works best to keep the contours and shading of the original texture?
   

Thank you all so much for any help in advance!

I just finished watching the series, season 1, the movie, and season 2, and I just kind of want to talk about it.
Season 1 was really pretty tame and it surprised me how little horror it actually had, although I think there were tense moments. It was great and had me hooked from episode 2, but it just made me want to know what was happening in the abyss.
The movie was likewise tense, and Prushka was tragic, but it never ended up being the horror tragedy that I saw being hyped in other reddit posts.
Season 2 was kinda sad, and honestly I had to pause a few times to watch something lighter since much of the season was tense and dark or emotionally heavy, but it honestly never got even close to as bad as I was expecting. I was thinking Nanachi was going to die or one of the main characters would lose a limb (robot limb only half counts) but it was really pretty soft on any of the main characters and ended up without any ultimate traumatic tragic scene.
Honestly, I'm kind of confused about why people say it's such a disturbing anime, or that it's terribly sad, or that it's scary and unwatchable, etc. It ha pretty mild body-horror, and the main characters all come out with hardly any actual trauma. And in the end, it's almost a lackluster harem ending for Reg.
I loved it, probably top 20 or so in my personal experience, but it wasn't at all as tragic or horror laden as I was led to believe.
IDK, I just finished it and wanted to discuss it with other people. It's great, but I've seen so many posts hyping how sad or traumatic or gross it is, those really blew my expectations way higher than the anime could deliver. (not that I'm particularly fond of gross or tragic, but my expectations made me pause a few episodes in preparation for really no reason)
Maybe I'm just desensitized and whatnot, but I enjoyed it and want to discuss with others.
Edit: Kinda unrelated, but does anyone have a link to the season 2 ED animation without the credits on top? I really like the animation, but the credits get in the way of the details and I can't find anything on google. Thanks in advance!

This might sound pretty silly. But I'm not very knowledgeable about cooking in real life, and I don't really like using Google to look things up when it comes to games. I don't mind using Reddit and stuff for tips, I just don't like flat out looking up the answer!
But for cooking, it seems like I need some actual knowledge. Like when I had to make ratatouille with no recipe, how am I meant to know? Trial and error with 5 ingredients will take forever!
Is it just a case of literally guessing and building up a recipe list that way, or is there something I'm missing? It might sound silly to people who know how to cook so will instinctively know what ingredients to use, but that just isn't knowledge I have!
When I had to make a banana pie for Remy, I was like, ok, banana, cool. Then maybe butter..... and eggs? Maybe butter and milk? Took me a long time before I even thought about wheat!

For mods: Ive seen a therapist and gone to drs and even talked to pastors about these demon Accounters. Drs dont find ntn wrong, therapist said i have PTSD but ntn abt the demons basically saying i have ptsd but it dosent tie to the demon accounters, pastors say i have gifts (I saw the post abt mental health)
Back ground:
I (18F) have a LONG history of being able to see demons and as a child even befriending these demons my family is very religious but have alot of generational traumas, abuse and curses my family only 3 generations back starting to go to God but alot of my secondary family are in like cards and stuff even some saintinists (however u spell it) so I have alot of gifts alot of spiritual power from my family being into alot of voodoo cards but ny family grew up in church as Christians so even then I believe God gave me the ability to see things also as I've been told by pastors God told them I was destined to be something big ig like being able to see the supernatural. But growing up it was tough at 4yrs old a demon tried to choke me and even r@pe me that said demon was my friend before he tried that I would talk to myself and even serve myself 2 bowls/plates of food for me and him we moved houses soon after but we quickly found out it wasn't the house when I was attacked again at 11 in my dream a demon girl crawled on top of me about to claw me when I woke up I felt her presence and looked to see where I felt her and I saw her then you'll see later I had sleep paralysis also where a demon tried dragging me to hell I've even woken up to a demon yelling in my ear "he's here" or "he's coming" or in the middle of class (in the middle of tests so complete silence) or in restrooms I'll hear demons saying my name and people think I'm crazy when I respond with yea? Or what? Or hello? Cuz I genuinely think it's someone around me when it's not...I've never seen angels only demons...with this I can tell when someone is evil or has other intentions or when there fake yk...
1st sleep paralysis:
I've have had sleep paralysis before I was in the 6th grade (11-12) and in my dream there was an earthquake I almost got him by a train and car there were twin girls holding a blanket and they wanted to hurt me and I was flung into the air by the earthquake and it was so chaotic and my friend told me to land on my side to take out most of the pain so I don't die from the fall and I landed on my side and as soon as I hit the floor I blacked out and woke up irl I woke up and I was Hallucinating the earthquake and I saw a demons hand come up from the ground and grab my ankle and tried dragging me to hell I tried screaming and I couldn't I tried moving I couldn't I was so acred and I finally shot up screaming and my leg was out stretched I found out it was sleep paralysis and as u can gusse I fell asleep on my back
The actual situation that just occurred:
but this time it didn't feel that way...I slept on my stomach/side (more stomach) and I had no prior dreams I woke up and my body felt weak drained of energy I couldn't move my body felt weird tingly almost I tried to open my eyes and I did ever so slowly and when I did I saw a black figure (demon) in front of me I immediately was terrified but I was so drained my eyes kept trying close and he was walking towards me as I falling back asleep and I tried to keep my eyes open everything I lost sight of him fear gone saw him fear was back ever so strong he claimed on top of me his body going threw mine and like layed in the same position as me like fusing with me kinda as soon as he did everything I felt before was 10x worse I felt MORE drained more fear more anxiety everything I was forced to close my eyes and all I could think was Jesus Jesus jesus!!! Jesus please help me! What's going on?! And I felt the presence leave my body I tried to open my eyes again my body still drained and I saw him he was standing there in front of me still and I didn't have the energy to stay awake no more I passed out didn't wake up till 5:30pm...
Question:
Is it possession or another sleep paralysis?!

A while ago, I posted an issue regarding my Oppo Supervooc adapter that's supposedly 100w but isn't in practice. Weird that my phone still detects it as Supervooc 100w though (the blue circle that shows at the start of charging). I did a bit more digging and the Oppo adapter's model code is VCB8JAEH. I googled the exact model code and found a bunch of listings for 80w supervooc adapters, but the one I have shows 100w, and output of 11v=9.1A. Maybe it actually is fake, but honestly it doesn't seem fake so I honestly don't know anymore, maybe I'm just too naive, but whatever.
Now I'm curious about what the original adapter's model codes are and those that work with oneplus 12. I'm still on the lookout for a working adapter so can you guys share yours for reference?
My original one is VCBAHBCH but it's from the chinese version. Are the other regions different?

What's up with the open casteism in this sub?
Anything bad happens in gurgaon and it's the fault of Jat,Gurjjars.
Like this latest post about the IT guy being murdered. People in the comments are blaming jat,gujjars when in fact the murderer was :

Manoj Bhardwaj

https://www.theweek.in/wire-updates/national/2024/05/13/des26-ncr-car-murder.amp.html
Just checked Google and Bhardwaj is definitely not Gujjar or Jat.
And this is not the first time I've seen this on the sub, this happens on a lot of posts. And all these comments are generally highly upvoted. Also anything commented against Punjabis,Muslims and Sikhs is also upvoted
When I check the profiles of these commenters they're generally the usual andhbhakts which I expected but why are they so upvoted? Are all the gurgaon sub users the same category of vermin?

Welcome to the Daily NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT thread. A new thread will be made every day at midnight NST. Please refrain from posting individual threads and use this thread for your trading purposes!

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To trade an NC item you need a gift box that you receive when redeeming NC cards, opening Gift Box Capsules, or other events. To read more about trading Neocash items check out the Jellyneo guide.
If you're trading NC items, here are a couple of guides to help you out with values and avoid being scammed: ALWAYS KEEP AN EYE OUT FOR WHEN THESE WERE LAST UPDATED AS THEY MAY BE OUTDATED.
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/~Neocash - Neocash Petpage Hub
/~Helper & /~Cashier - NC Trading Guides
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List last updated Nov 27th, 2023

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Please post the pet or pets you currently have up for adoption, that you are zapping to adopt out, or that you wish to trade.
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/~kalux - General Links and Resources
/~Erizolen - General PC Guide
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/~Maureen - Primary UC Trading Tier Guide
/~Tradez & /~Laural - Past UC Trades
/~Applebean - Past BD Trades
Pet Dream Lists
/~ZYDP - Zap Your Dream Pet
/~Eggso - UC Project & UFA UC Listing
/~Hootiolado - H.E.L.P's Dream Pet Listing
/~Moonsis3 - MOON's Dream Pet Listing
/~Clurisa - The Fortunate Ones Adoption and Dream Granting Agency
/~Kiasa - Wondertrade's Dreamy Dreams Directory
Extra Paintbrush Clothes
/Neopets Discord Paint Brush Clothing Spreadsheet
/~Gladiro
/~Kyynator
/~Extrapbclothes
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I am trying to improve my cybersecurity habits while finding solutions that work for me. I have three main devices that I use to login to various sites, namely my phone, my laptop and my desktop PC. I use Google Password Manager and let it generate secure and unique passwords for most sites and I unlock it via the fingerprint reader on my phone and laptop, which works super well for me. I might buy a fingerprint reader for my desktop PC as well soon, because it is my preferred method of logging into sites and into Windows. I have tried Bitwarden after several people suggested it to me, but I did not like the user experience and want to stick to Google Password Manager. I have two topics I would like some advice on:
a) To better secure some of my more important accounts I want to add an additional layer of security by installing a 2FA app on my phone. I'm currently trying out 2FAS but I am willing to switch to Aegis if it works better for my use case. Since my password manager is tied to my main google account I do not feel comfortable with backing the 2FA tokens up to that same account and decided to back it up to my secondary google account. That one can be recovered using my primary google account, but I thought it would still be better to keep it on separate accounts. It is also encrypted with a password that I keep on a piece of paper in my house and will also probably keep it at a close family members house. I am building an unRAID server soon that will be running nextcloud among other applications, so I would also like to keep a second backup of the 2FA tokens there, so that the one on google drive isn't my only backup. Is it possible to just somehow mirror the one from google drive to nextcloud? Or somehow create a separate backup once a day that automatically uploads to nextcloud? Would this be secure enough or do I need to also directly print out 2FA backup codes and physically store them somewhere? Also: I saw that 2FAS lets me sync 2FA tokens to a browser extension to also be used on my laptop and desktop PC, but I wonder if this would just defeat the purpose of using a 2FA app in the first place?
b) I currently only use local admin accounts for both my laptop and desktop PC, both running Windows 11. I heard that it's a lot safer to use separate admin and user accounts, so I had the idea to tie both the user account and the admin account to Windows Hello with my fingerprint readers. That way I use my finger print to login to my user account, to unlock Google Password Manager, and to confirm actions in windows that require admin rights. Is this okay to do or am I overlooking something here? I do sometimes install cracked software, and while I'm trying to do my due diligence in only using trusted sources for that, the risk of infecting my Windows computers with malware is non-zero.
I understand that my cybersecurity habits aren't perfect, but I'm trying to not let perfect be the enemy of good here.

Maintaining good kidney health can feel overwhelming, especially with so much conflicting information available. After being diagnosed with early signs of kidney dysfunction, I embarked on a journey to find reliable resources and guidance. Thankfully, I stumbled upon The Kidney Solution, a downloadable program promising a natural approach to kidney health improvement.
A Holistic Approach to Kidney Support
The Kidney Solution goes beyond simply listing foods to avoid. The program offers a comprehensive approach that incorporates dietary modifications, lifestyle changes, and natural remedies to support optimal kidney function. I appreciated the in-depth explanations of how different foods and habits impact kidney health, empowering me to make informed choices.
Accessible and Easy-to-Follow Information
The program is delivered in downloadable modules, including informative e-books, video tutorials, and meal plans. The information is presented in a clear and concise manner, making it easy to understand and implement the program's recommendations. The downloadable format allows me to access the materials at my convenience and revisit specific sections as needed.
Empowering Dietary Changes
The Kidney Solution emphasizes the importance of a kidney-friendly diet. The program provides detailed meal plans and recipes rich in essential nutrients and low in elements that can burden the kidneys. I found the recipes to be delicious and surprisingly easy to prepare, making it enjoyable to incorporate the dietary changes into my lifestyle.
Lifestyle Modifications for Long-Term Health
Beyond diet, The Kidney Solution addresses the importance of exercise, stress management, and proper hydration for kidney health. The program includes practical recommendations on incorporating these elements into my daily routine, creating a holistic approach to kidney support.
Noticeable Improvements and Increased Confidence
Since using The Kidney Solution, I've experienced a positive impact on my overall well-being. My blood work has shown improvement in kidney function markers, and I feel more energized throughout the day. More importantly, the program has empowered me with the knowledge and tools to take control of my kidney health and manage it effectively in the long term.
A Valuable Resource for Kidney Health
If you're looking for a reliable and informative resource to support your kidney health, The Kidney Solution is an excellent option. The program's comprehensive approach, accessible format, and emphasis on practical lifestyle changes make it a valuable tool for anyone concerned about their kidney health. Remember, The Kidney Solution is not a replacement for professional medical advice, but it can be a powerful resource to complement your existing treatment plan and empower you to take charge of your kidney health journey.
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Gemini may display inaccurate info, including about people, so double-check its responses. Your prMaintaining good kidney health can feel overwhelming, especially with so much conflicting information available. After being diagnosed with early signs of kidney dysfunction, I embarked on a journey to find reliable resources and guidance. Thankfully, I stumbled upon The Kidney Solution, a downloadable program promising a natural approach to kidney health improvement.
A Holistic Approach to Kidney Support
The Kidney Solution goes beyond simply listing foods to avoid. The program offers a comprehensive approach that incorporates dietary modifications, lifestyle changes, and natural remedies to support optimal kidney function. I appreciated the in-depth explanations of how different foods and habits impact kidney health, empowering me to make informed choices.
Accessible and Easy-to-Follow Information
The program is delivered in downloadable modules, including informative e-books, video tutorials, and meal plans. The information is presented in a clear and concise manner, making it easy to understand and implement the program's recommendations. The downloadable format allows me to access the materials at my convenience and revisit specific sections as needed.
Empowering Dietary Changes
The Kidney Solution emphasizes the importance of a kidney-friendly diet. The program provides detailed meal plans and recipes rich in essential nutrients and low in elements that can burden the kidneys. I found the recipes to be delicious and surprisingly easy to prepare, making it enjoyable to incorporate the dietary changes into my lifestyle.
Lifestyle Modifications for Long-Term Health
Beyond diet, The Kidney Solution addresses the importance of exercise, stress management, and proper hydration for kidney health. The program includes practical recommendations on incorporating these elements into my daily routine, creating a holistic approach to kidney support.
Noticeable Improvements and Increased Confidence
Since using The Kidney Solution, I've experienced a positive impact on my overall well-being. My blood work has shown improvement in kidney function markers, and I feel more energized throughout the day. More importantly, the program has empowered me with the knowledge and tools to take control of my kidney health and manage it effectively in the long term.
A Valuable Resource for Kidney Health
If you're looking for a reliable and informative resource to support your kidney health, The Kidney Solution is an excellent option. The program's comprehensive approach, accessible format, and emphasis on practical lifestyle changes make it a valuable tool for anyone concerned about their kidney health. Remember, The Kidney Solution is not a replacement for professional medical advice, but it can be a powerful resource to complement your existing treatment plan and empower you to take charge of your kidney health journey.

(Warning, it’s not short)
So boom, I’m the new guy at work, as of rn, I’ve been there for under under 2 months. I came in w intentions of keeping to myself, because I am experienced w the toxicity of warehouse work culture. So there’s a guy at work, he’s tall and cute, turns out he thought I was cute too.
After weeks of us walking past each other, his uncle forced us to stop being cowardly and we exchanged numbers. So I think where I messed up at is not setting boundaries w him, initially. We just met and from the jump, honestly, he’s been a bit too touchy and affectionate, which I get because he said it’s his love language(it’s mine as well), but we known each other for all but 3 weeks. I finally set boundaries w him recently, and told him we have to take it(and I told him explicitly that this is a friendship) a bit slower. No more of the arm holding, thigh groping, trying to kiss me etc. because people at work talk, and I don’t need others in our business. Not because of our sexuality, but because I have messy co workers, and it would be extra frustrating if we didn’t fall through and had to walk past each other, and gossiping goes around. Also, I’m still getting used to him, yet he over sexualizes me and the conversation, sometimes…
So one of his “work family” said she doesn’t approve. Now before I continue, I wanna say his work family is a big group, like damn. She said we were cute, but she didn’t like “this”, pointing at us. Except tho there’s no “this”, we just are friends, vibing together. Idk if they felt I took him away from them or what. Mind you this happened the second wk of us being friends(around the start of the 2nd shift I ever spent w him). And the rest of that shift, we kept getting(mainly me), negative energy/staring & his work family ppl coming up to us. One of the fam was slyly asking him why is he he not where he usually works. And when I asked him about the unexplained tension, I was befuddled by his response.. He said they got the vibe that I’m ghetto, messy, super feminine, and the stuck, conceited up kind of gay. Sometimes ppl always have this annoying perception of me I stg. Mind you they don’t know me irl, and just @ the start of may, I was cordial and friendly when they spoke to me. I thought they were chill, and glad he had accepting middle aged people at work, that support him as a young gay man. Mind you, they all actually wanted us to speak, so the switch up is insane.
Today one of them came up and asked me why I don’t visit them when “my lil friend” don’t work those days. The one next to her was giving me a cold stare ( she usually does this), and then says “she’s mother”, referring to the one who questioned me…so now it’s giving this is some serious clique-y family” energy that I just walked into. My issue is I keep forgetting how fake and messy warehouse co workers are, and why my past history shows it’s best not to mix/mingle, just wrk and go home. Now I will say, he already told me he doesn’t care what they think, and he’s told them he’s gonna do what he wants to do, and I believe that. But I don’t have the time for work drama because of side comments and stares from those work family ppl TWICE me and his age(I’m 22, he just turned 23). No younger than 35 for sure on their end.
Should I put distance between me and him? Should I address their weird behavior? I’m leaning towards a friend zone, but not sure yet.
EDIT: not all of his work family is bad, a few are friendly to me, open minded, and give me a genuine vibe. Like the uncle and this other pretty lady w arm tats. But the other 70% are weird vibes, and I don’t like them, and keep my distance as a result. I can’t fake with people I don’t like, it’s a disservice to them. My spirit wouldn’t let me.

My boyfriend illegally entered the states 3 years ago, and he personally has no interest in a green card because his plan was always to return home after making some money. Now that I’m in the picture and we’re serious about a future, he prefers I just go with him but he wants to be prepared incase I decide I can’t live there forever for whatever reason (however, it’d be in Mexico City and from what I hear, I think I’d be pretty happy 😉)
I called a few immigration lawyers just to get general info on what his options would be if we were to marry. Got all the usual responses, of course, but one lawyer said something that stuck with me and I’m curious if anybody can speak on this from experience. He said “I do want to point out, if your boyfriend is here, living comfortably under the radar, you may want to think about the fact that starting this process does ‘bring him into the light’ and there are always risks associated with that” I appreciated this perspective, but we’re in a sanctuary state and he has no criminal record or any issues here or in Mexico that would trigger anything other than the illegal entry, fake SS #, the usual immigration stuff. Just wondering what thoughts some people might have or any advice.
I’m aware of the longevity and costliness of the GC process, we’re both willing to go through it, but I’m not asking about any of that I’ve gotten all my info.