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2024.05.16 16:54 PhenioxStories Monkie Kid- Animal Fury Season 1 Chapter 1 Apprentice
The gray wolf sits in the darkness. She looks back to see a blue crystal clock. The clock turns once and lands on one. One blue flame is lit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuZbmLLv1vM As the moon started to set on the city, the sun started to rise from behind the mountains. A cool brezze flower through Mk’s window; waking him up. He lifts himself up in his sleepy state and looks around, seeing that it was early morning.
“It’s seven? Might as well get up now.” He got up from bed and walked over to his window. He looked outside to see the moon out while the sun was still rising. “Oh cool. The moon is still out.”
Mk walks out the door and get’s in his car. He drives to the mountain. Once he arrives at the mountain, he walks up the stairs to Monkie King’s (Sun Wukong) training dojo.
“Monkie King? Are you here?” Mk looked around and didn’t see Monkie King anywhere. “That’s strange…. He said he would be here.”
“And I am”, Sun said from behind Mk. Mk jumped and said, “Don’t do that!”
“Sorry, Sorry”, Sun said. “Ready for training?” Before Sun could take another step, he heard Mk’s bag ball to the ground. He looks back and sees Mk about to attack. “Guss that means yes.” Sun got into his fighting stance and started training in an instant. Mk and Sun continue to fight until Mk stands victorious.
“Yes!”
“Your getting better”, Sun said, picking himself up. He brushed off the dust and dirt from his clothes. “And your powers are getting stronger.”
“Maybe, but they’re not as powerful as you”, Mk says, giving praise to his teacher. Before Sun could say anything else, a crash could be heard from the city below.
“Not again….!”
My jumps down from building to building until he sees a huge demon roaring.
“Oh come on…. Another demon”, Mk says in annoyance. Before he could act, a shadow figure enveloped by the sun jumps down and lands on a nearby building. They look up at the demon.
“This is gonna be fun.” The gray wolf raises her arm to the side of her and summons a claw-like weapon. “Now it’s time to go back to where you belong!” She jumps up and lands on one of the demon's extra arms and runs up to its face. The demon tries to shake her off, but the gray wolf jumps onto a nearby building and looks down on the demon. She jumps down once again and claws the demon’s face. From the impact of the blow, the wolf jumps up to the same building she was on before; her feet sliding against the roof. The demon roars in pain and agony until it disappears into the shadows. Magic surrounds the wolf’s claw-like weapon and it vanishes. “And that is how it’s done.”
“Wow, Monkie King, that was–”, Before Mk could say another word, he falls back. The gray wolf, wearied out by the situation, tries to walk away, but Mk reapers in front of her and says, “That was amazing Monk– O-Oh, your not Monkie King.” The gray toned wolf blinked a few times and then chuckled.
“Clearly.” The gray wolf looks at Mk’s staff and realized that the staff belong to Monkie King. She thinks, “How does he have Sun’s staff? He must be his apprentice.” She gathered her words and said, “You must be Monkie King’s apprentice. I’ve heard a lot about you.”
“You have”, Mk asks.
“Yes. You're the talk of the celestial realm as of late”, The wolf says. She starts to walk away and says, “I’ll see you around, Mk.” Mk looked back at the mountain and then back at the wolf walking away. He looks at his staff and runs up to the wolf.
“Can you teach me that move”, Mk asks, his eyes growing big like a puppy. The wolf looks down and smiles. She then looks back up at Mk and says, “I’m sorry. I can’t. You already have a teacher. You shouldn’t go behind his back.”
“Oh… well, will I see you again”, Mk asked. The wolf looked back and smiled, then said, “Maybe one day.”
“When?”
“Let fate decide.”
“She what?”
“She killed the demon on her own”, Mk explained to Mai. “I think she was from the Celestial Realm.”
“What did she look like”, Mai asked.
“She was gray toned and she had a pendant that looked like the moon”, Mk described. “She had gold eyes too.” Sun almost dropped the scroll he was reading and looked away. He could feel a bead of sweat running down his face.
“Hey, Monkie King, do you know who she is”, Mk asked.
“I-I have no idea who she is”, Sun said, acting ignorant. “And IF she was from the celestial realm, she wouldn’t have come down here. Beings from the Celestial realm don’t travel to Earth.” As Sun went back to reading his scroll, a bright blue light caught the side of his eye. The trio looked over and saw a blue lit portal.
“What the?” Mk walks over to the portal and puts his hand through. He goes to pull his hand back out, but the force of the portal pulls him in.
“Mk!” Mie and Sun try to pull Mk out of the portal but they all get pulled in.
A portal appears in the celestial realm and Mk falls from above. He hits the ground. He rubs the back of his head and looks around.
“Is this… the celestial realm?”
“Mk?” Mk looks back to see the gray wolf looking at him from above. “What are you doing here?”
“It’s you again”, Mk says. “Am I in the celestial realm?
“You are”, the gray wolf says. “But right now, you're in the celestial forest. This is my domain.”
“I’m not here alone”, Mk says. “My friends are here too.”
“Your friends? Does that mean Monkie King is here too”, the wolf asks.
“Yes.” The wolf looks around for a moment and says, “Alright. I’ll help you find your friends. Follow me.”
Mk follows the gray wolf into the forest. Leaves the color yellow and gold fell to the ground. The yellow grass flows as the two walk.
“Do you live here”, Mk asks.
“Indeed, I do”, the wolf says. “I am this domain's protector among all things.”
“Really?”
“Yes. do you know what an embodiment is”, the wolf asks.
“No”, Mk answered.
“Well, an embodiment is in charge of keeping balance in three places”, the wolf continues, “The celestial realm. Earth. And the lunar realm. There are many embodiments have different responsibilities for what they are named for.”
“So what’s yours”, Mk curiously asks.
“I am the embodiment of Luck and misfortune”, the wolf answers. She looks back and says, “We found them.” Mk looks down and runs over to Sun and Mai.
“Monkie King! Mei!”
“Mk!”
“Thank goodness you're alright”, Sun says. “How did you find us?”
“She helped me.” Sun looks up and sees the gray wolf looking down on him. Sun’s face turned somewhat not convinced and said, “So you came out of hiding, huh?”
“What are you talking about”, the wolf says. “I keep on the low because I don’t like to make a scene.”
“And look at what you did back on earth.”
“Mad that you didn’t kill a demon?” Mai and Mk look at each other and ask in unison, “Do you two know each other?” Sun and the wolf looked at each other for a moment.
“I will slap you, Sun”, the wolf murmured. Sun sighs and says, “She’s my sister.” Mei and Mk looked at both Sun and the wolf and said in unison and surprise, “WHAT?!”
“Yup, I’m his sister”, the wolf days.
“Little sister”, Sun clarified.
“You two don’t look related”, Mei pointed out.
“She looks more like our father and I look more like our mother”, Sun says.
“How did you even get here”, the wolf asked. “Last I checked, the only way to get up here is through the celestial gate.”
“A portal pulled us in here”, Mei said.
“Ah, I see”, the wolf said. “Those would be realm portals. They tend to pop up every now and then.”
“Can you get us home”, Mk asked.
“Well, you can’t go through the celestial gate”, the wolf said. “But there is a way to get you all back on earth. Follow me.” The wolf leads the trio to a wall. The wolf waves her hands in the shape of a moon and a portal opens. “There you go: one portal back to Earth.”
“Thank you”, Mei says. She runs over to the portal and goes through. Sun does the same.
“I guess I’ll see you soon, Mk”, the wolf said. As Mk was about to walk through the portal, he stops, turns around and asks, “What’s your name?” The gray wolf looked at Mk for a moment and smiled.
“Mischief. Mischief Wukong”, she said. Mk smiled and said while waving his arm, “I’ll see you soon, Mischief!” Mk runs through the portal while Mischief waves goodbye. Mischief, the gray wolf, looked at the wall for a moment and then walked back to her home. While she walked, a blue light whispered into her ear.
He’s the one….
Two young cheetah girls run to the front of a traditional, yet modern, Chinese house supported by a platform.
“Do you think she’s here”, one of them asks.
“I don’t see her”, the other said. From the right side of the building, Mischief opens a sliding door. The twins smile and say, “Mischief”, In unison. Mischief looks over and smiles when she sees Clock Wise and Wise Clock.
“Hello you two”, she says, walking down the steps to the fence where the twins hunh off. “What brings you here?”
“We were playing in the forest, but we found something”, Clock Wise said.
“What is it”, Mischief asked.
“We don’t know”, Wise Clock answered. “But it was black, and it was covering the mushrooms and trees.”
“Black? Can you take me to where you saw it”, Mischief asked. Clock Wise and Wise Clock take Mischief’s hands and lead her into the west of the forest. Clock wise and Wise Clock point over to the tree covered in the black substance. Mischief walks over to the black covered tree and leans down on one knee. She looks at the black substance and her blood runs cold.
“Mischief? What is it?”
“Clock Wise. Wise Clock. Go home and don’y come back until I tell you it’s safe”, Mischief says. Clock Wise and Wise Clock nod their hands and run back to their home. Mischief gets up and summons her claw-like weapon. Black-like mist rolls in and stops at the infected tree. Mischief walks to the right side of the tree and yells, “Show yourself! You are in the domain of luck and misfortune!” Mischief stood in her defensive stance waiting for a attack. She narrows her eyes in agitation; her pupils becoming slits.
“So it is you. At last we meet again, Embodiment of Luck and Misfortune.” Mischief’s hair stood as she slowly looked behind her to see a bug-like demon smiling demonically at her. Mischief’s point-of-view goes dark.
The moon from above started to disappear from the rain clouds rolling in. Its brilliant light slowly becomes nothing but a dark shadow. Tang looked up at the sky as the rain started to come down.
“I don’t think It’s gonna stop raining”, Tang says, walking back inside.
“I don’t remember the forecast saying it would rain today”, Pigsy pointed out.
“Well, what can you do”, Mei said. She looked over at Mk, looking up at the sky. She walks over to him and asks, “Are you still thinking about Mischief?”
“I don’t know why, but when I looked at her, it looked like she was in pain”, Mk said. He looks over at Sun and asks, “How come you never told me you had a sister?”
“You never asked”, Sun said. “And Mischief doesn’t associate with anyone outside her domain.”
“Right….” Mk looked out into the rain and saw a person walking to the entrance gate. But the person wasn’t normal. They had wolf-like ears and a wolf-like tale. A thunderbolt struck through the sky and showed Mischief hurt and beaten. Mischief looks up with her gold eyes as the lightning strikes through the sky and she mouths, “Help me….” Mischief falls to the ground. Mk and the others run over and help Mischief into the sanctuary. They lay Mischief up ugenst a wall.
“Mischief, What happened”, Mk asks with concern.
“He’s back….”
“Who”, Sun asked.
“The demon king”, Mischief answered in a hurt voice. “He’s the king of all demons on Earth and hell.” Mischief lifts herself up and walks over to the opening. “The embodiment of harmony banished him to the Lunar realm.”
“How did he get out”, Tang asks.
“I don’t know”, Mischief says. “He shouldn’t have been able to escape. He’s in the celestial realm, trying to destroy it.”
“Why?”
“Revenge, Sun”, Mischief says in annoyance. “He wants to destroy the celestial realm for what the embodiment of Harmony did. Mk, Sun, you two are the only ones who can destroy him.” Mk looks at Sun and says, “We have to go.”
“Mk, I don’t think this is–”, Before Sun could say another word, Mk interrupted and said, “This is your home we’re talking about! Mischief can't fight The Demon King. We have to.” Sun looks at Mk and then Mischief. He could see a lost and conflicted look on her face. He knew how much Mischief dedicated her life to protect the celestial realm. It was her home. It was his home too. He wouldn’t forgive himself if something happened to the celestial realm. Sun sighed and said, “Alright. Me and Mk will deal with The Demon King.”
“I can take you to the celestial realm”, Mischief says. She takes one step but holds her arm in pain. Tang and Pigsy held Mischief up to her feet. “I’m fine. I can still lead you there.”
“No, you can’t”, Sun says. “Stay here and rest. We have more than one way to get to the celestial realm.”
“I’ll go with you”, Mei says.
“Be careful”, Mischief says. Sun looks at Mischief and puts his forehead to hers.
“I promise, I’ll come back”, Sun said. He looked at Mischief one last time before creating his cloud. Mk and Mei jump on and the three of them fly to the celestial realm.
“Please be safe…”
“They’ll be fine, Mischief”, Sandy says. Mischief looks up into the sky and thinks, “I hope you're right.”
The trio fly down to the ground and look around to see the trees and ground in a darken state. The trees were nothing more than shadow, and the ground was a dark shade of purple.
“What happened here”, Mk wondered.
“I’m not sure”, Sun responded. “But this isn’t Mischief domain anymore. It’s not supposed to be like this.” Mei looks over and sees a trail of darkness leading to the upper side of the forest.
“Looks like the dark energy is going upward”, Mei says, pointing to the upper forest.
“Then let’s not waste any time”, Mk says.
The trio make it up to the forest edge and look around. Sun and Mk’s hair stands. They look behind them and see three glowing red eyes looking at them. Mei looks back to see Sun and Mk in a worried state.
“You two alright?” Mei looked in their direction and saw a red face. The demon growled and charged up the hill.
“Run!” The trio run to the open hill. The Demon King whips one of his tales around and hits the trio back into the forest. Mei hits the ground while Sun and Mk both hit trees. Mk looks up and sees Sun in pain.
“So that useless embodiment sent you here”, The Demon King said, a demonic laughter following after. Mk lifts himself up and takes out his staff. The Demon King looks down at Mk and says, “The staff of Ra? Oh you have got to be kidding m–” Mk jumps up to The Demon King’s face and hits the top of his head. The Demon King holds his head in pain.
“What in infernos throne?!” Mk hits The Demon King back and he falls on his side. Mk goes for the finishing blow when The Demon King uses his over sized claws to pin him to the ground. “I have faced warlords, kings, and gods, and this is what I face? To think you could have been more than what you are now.”
“MK!”
“Mischief?” Mk gets up with what little strength he has left and looks up to see Mischief ghost-like rendition. “H-How? Are you dead?” Mischief rolls her eyes and shops the top of Mk’s head.
“I’m not dead”, Mischief exclaims. “It's an astral projection.”
“O-Oh.” Mischief looks to the left and snaps her head up to see The Demon King.
“Is that The Demon King? He wasn’t this big when I saw him”, Mischief says.
“I thought you fought him like this”, Mk said.
“No”, Mischief exclaimed. The ground from below starts to rumble. “There’s not much time. Mk, I can give you my power for a short amount of time, but you have to make the last strike count.”
“Are you sure?”
“You're more powerful than you think. If you can master Monkie King’s power, then you can handle mine”, Mischief says, holding Mk’s hands in her own. She lets go of his hands and takes a few steps back and moves her hands in the kanji moon. “Your will becomes strength, and my will becomes your power.” Blue and silver magic flows into Mk’s being. His staff turned blue. Mk’s eyes glow a brilliant blue and he looks up at The Demon King. “Now, Finish him off!!!” The Demon King looks down in confusion and sees Mk covered in a blue mist like magic.
“What?!” Mk jumps up and punches The Demon King multiple times and pins him down to the ground.
“This ends now!!!” Mk dashes down and destroys The Demon King in one strike. The Demon King looks over to Mk in a weakened state and thinks, “So the moon has chosen their champion…..” Mk lands on the ground and holds his head. The blue and silver magic flies off of Mk and returns to Mischief’s astral form.
“You did well”, Mischief said. She looks up and sees the sky start to become a light blue. She smiles and says, “Thank you, Monkie Kid. I'll see you back on Earth.” With that said, Mischief’s astral projection fades away.
“Mk!” Mk looks back to see Sun and Mei run up to him.
“Are you two okay”, Mk asks.
“Aside from the hurting back, I think we’re good”, Sun says.
“You fought The Demon King without me”, Mei projects.
“Sorry”, Mk continued, “It was happening so fast that I didn’t really think.”
“At Least The Demon King is gone”, Sun says. “Let’s go home.”
Sun raps up the last of Mischief cuts.
“That should do it”, Sun says.
“Mischief, is there a reason you where on earth”, Mk asked.
“Yeah, I was wondering that too”, Sun says. “You never leave your domain unless it’s to see the council of balance.” Mischief looks away and sighs.
“Well, Since you did save the celestial realm, you deserve to know why I was on Earth”, Mischief says. “I didn’t come to earth to fight a demon. That day, when we met, I was looking for an apprentice.” Sun blinks a few times and says, “An apprentice? Are you sure The Demon King didn’t knock your brains loss?”
“I mean it, Sun”, Mischief says. “I was going to travel outside the city, but when I saw you, Mk, your power was far more powerful than I thought. Mk, I have chosen you to be my apprentice.”
“Hold Up!” Sun hugs Mk in a protective manner and says, “You are not taking Mk to the celestial realm! And plus, Mk already has a mentor: Me.” Mischief rolls her eyes, pushes Sun’s nose and says, “I don’t plan on taking Mk to the celestial realm, you goof. I plan on staying here on earth and at night, I will train Mk. And plus, the celestial realm has gotten a bit stale. You have room for one more?”
Mk’s hand glows a soft red from magic. Mischief’s crest appears and hovers on Mk’s back. Once the spell is done, the crest fades away.
“That’s it? Mk is your apprentice now”, Mei asks.
“Yes”, Mischief says. “He is now my apprentice. What were you expecting?”
“A light show”, Mei answers.
“ Sorry to disappoint you.”
“Are you sure you're okay with this, Monkie King”, Mk asks, holding his right hand with his left.
“I’m cool”, Sun says.
“Don’t you mean hot”, Mischief teased. She laughed and Sun chased after her.
A being covered in shadows and mist looks at several maps with multiple dates on the top left corner. A red light whispers in the beings leopard ear. The being laughs and says, “So she’s finally chosen an apprentice. This changes nothing. I will have my revenge, and the moon will pay for what she did to me.”
Here is the first chapter of Monkie Kid: Animal Fury. After seeing the fifth trailer of Monkie Kid season 5, I gave me the boost I needed to work on my AU story.
Monkie Kid: Animal Fury takes place in between season 1, and 2 of Monkie Kid.
Summary: As the journey begins, Mk meets Mischief, the little sister of Monkie King, Sun Wukong and their fate become intertwined.
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2024.05.16 16:53 These_Fan7447 Fellow GERD/LPR Sufferers that Lift Weights or do HIIT
Hey Guys,
Anybody on here that regularly lifts weights or does HIIT but also has GERD/LPR? If so, do you find that your performance tanks exponentially from a respiratory/catching your breath standpoint if you're in a "flare up" where your throat is torqued?
I'm in pretty good shape but man....if my LPR is in a flare, my work capacity just absolutely tanks to like, non-conditioned levels. Frustrating as hell.
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2024.05.16 16:52 Glittering_Grape2418 Advice for cuddle curl
So my sweet velcro baby is 8 weeks and will only sleep on me. We do safe chest sleeping every night (following cosleepy’s guide) and it works, but isn’t the most comfortable for me long term (he’s already 13 lbs and I am petite, he’s already 10% of my body weight) and I don’t know how long I can go on like this. He isn’t interested in the cuddle curl because he only wants to be on me. He will only sleep next to me if my arm is under his head and cupping his bum (like cradling or holding him while sleeping by him). If I move my arm out, he wakes up immediately and fusses. Does anyone have any advice for getting him used to the cuddle curl? So far I’ve tried latching him and then moving my arm or waiting until he’s deeply asleep and then moving it. It often works for about 10-30 min and then he’s awake and fussing again until I put him on me. Does anyone else have this experience? Any advice is welcome!
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2024.05.16 16:49 SishenShunsui [Breeds] Please help us decide an appropriate breed.
Can you help our family choose a dog? [Breeds]
We are a family of 3 with a 2 year old boy. We are finally settled in our new home and we are ready to add a dog to our family.
Introduction 1) Will this be your first dog? If not, what experience do you have owning/training dogs?
- We grew up with dogs but it will our first time as the primary care givers/ trainers.
2) Do you have a preference for rescuing a dog vs. going through a
reputable breeder?
- We would like to buy a puppy.
3) Describe your ideal dog.
- we would like a dog that is good around children and doesn’t bark like a husky. A medium sized dog that could run with me and wouldnt be too challenging to train and well behaved around other dogs.
4) What breeds or types of dogs are you interested in and why?
- my wife is mostly interested in dogs that she considers beautiful such as the Samoyed(example for her idea of beauty in a dog). For myself I always loved Saint Bernards, a giant, calm and friendly dog. But it’s not very practical since my wife is quite small and feels intimidated by the size.
5) What sorts of things would you like to train your dog to do?
- to follow basic commands like stop, wait, leave it. And lie down and follow me while running. (Jogging around 5km)
6) Do you want to compete with your dog in a sport (e.g. agility, obedience, rally) or use your dog for a form of work (e.g. hunting, herding, livestock guarding)? If so, how much experience do you have with this work/sport?
Care Commitments 7) How long do you want to devote to training, playing with, or otherwise interacting with your dog each day?
- I have a few hours per day spare.
8) How long can you exercise your dog each day, on average? What sorts of exercise are you planning to give your dog regularly and does that include using a dog park?
- about 2 hours per day. We will go to dog parks occasionally as well as open land.
9) How much regular brushing are you willing to do? Are you open to trimming hair, cleaning ears, or doing other grooming at home? If not, would you be willing to pay a professional to do it regularly?
- up to 30 mins a day and willing to pay for bi-monthly grooming.
Personal Preferences 10) What size dog are you looking for?
- a medium sized dog maybe around 20 inches. The middle to high end of medium.
11) How much shedding, barking, and slobber can you handle?
- less barking and slobber, a moderate amount of shedding would be ok. I don’t mind cleaning the floor every day but I don’t want to spend 5 minutes with a lint roller every time I leave the house.
12) How important is being able to let your dog off-leash in an unfenced area?
Dog Personality and Behavior 13) Do you want a snuggly dog or one that prefers some personal space?
- somewhere in the middle but definitely snuggly over cat like.
14) Would you prefer a dog that wants to do its own thing or one that’s more eager-to-please?
15) How would you prefer your dog to respond to someone knocking on the door or entering your yard? How would you prefer your dog to greet strangers or visitors?
- friendly to cautious but not aggressive or afraid.
16) Are you willing to manage a dog that is aggressive to other dogs?
- no since we will come across a lot of dogs every day.
17) Are there any other behaviors you can’t deal with or want to avoid?
- just the common things like leash pulling.
Lifestyle 18) How often and how long will the dog be left alone?
- very rarely completely alone, maybe once every 1-2 months we will go out for a day trip late morning to evening. Preferably the dog would be ok with it, but we can easily arrange a visitor or care if not.
19) What are the dog-related preferences of other people in the house and what will be their involvement in caring for the dog?
- no preferences different to those mentioned already. My wife will occasionally feed/ walk the dog, but mostly it will be me with the ‘help’ of my son.
20) Do you have other pets or are you planning on having other pets? What breed or type of animal are they?
21) Will the dog be interacting with children regularly?
- yes all the time since I have a 2 year old.
22) Do you rent or plan to rent in the future? If applicable, what breed or weight restrictions are on your current lease?
23) What city or country do you live in and are you aware of any laws banning certain breeds?
- China, there are only bans on the really big dogs.
24) What is the average temperature of a typical summer and winter day where you live?
- peak summers usually around 35c but can reach 40c at times winter typically sits around 0c give or take a few degrees.
Additional Information and Questions 25) Please provide any additional information you feel may be relevant.
- No additional information.
26) Feel free to ask any questions below.
We really appreciate any guidance! Thank you for your time.
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2024.05.16 16:40 rpwex2 My (55F) adult daughter (23F) is spiraling and I don’t know what to do
I’m 55, happily married and a mother to 2 daughters, 20F and 23F. While they’ve both had their fair share of struggles, my 20 year old is in excelling at school, has a wonderful boyfriend and many friends, and has goals and is on track to get her Masters degree.
My 23 year old, however is struggling. She graduated with her bachelor’s last year and found an internship and work right away, however, neither of these were ideal environments and her job eventually ended up firing her after 6 months. She still has a part time job she does a few hours a couple times a week, and recently she did find a job but quit after one day because she alleged the staff was being bigoted to clients. I don’t feel that she is trying hard enough to find a full time job she likes and I have encouraged her to apply to work from home with my company, but she refuses to apply to the job postings I send her 90% of the time and sometimes makes up silly excuses not to. She also does not pull her weight around the house whatsoever and lies around all day claiming she’s cleaning her room or applying for jobs. She does neither, her room is a disaster, and I am starting to feel put upon.
On top of that, she is absolutely obsessed with K-Pop. It started with the band BTS a couple years ago during the pandemic and I thought it would end when she told me they went into the military for 2 years, but she has now moved on to another band. This wouldn’t be a problem since I love how it has given her friends since she’s always struggled with that in school due to her shyness and anxiety, but I recently found out she has paid over a grand for 2 VIP concerts tickets to see them this summer and was furious. She also spends a lot of money on albums and trading cards. I also worry for her safety as despite her anxiety with other things she has risked camping out for shows in major cities overnight with internet strangers and plans to do so again for the shows this summer, and has expressed several times that she wants to fly out across the country for special events that take place there and gets very overemotional when there is something happening she cannot attend, or I discourage her. Her new band was playing at a music festival across the country a few months ago and she wanted to fly out last minute with a friend she had only met once, and of course I told her I would not support that type of risky behavior in my household and she conceded.
She also has not had a boyfriend since a brief attempt at a relationship in early 2020 and a longer term one 2017-2019 that ended when both guys had to move away, and recently expressed me she doesn’t think she is attracted to men, and I worry it’s because this obsession has completely engulfed her romantic and sex life. I don’t think she is gay, because of the way I see her and her friends talk about these boy bands, but she claims many of her friends are. I thought she expressed mild interest in a coworker at her internship and they set up a date to hang out, but she was very nervous and kept saying she didn’t want the hang out to be a date. He turned out to be gay, and she exclaimed how relieved she was about this to me. I just don’t want her to be lonely and to have a partner in life.
Finally, at the root of the problem she has severe anxiety she refuses to treat. She was also diagnosed ADD as a child and claims she doesn’t think she has it but has Aspergers/autism spectrum instead. She has a severe medical phobia and has been fighting us on taking her wisdom teeth out for the past 6 years after the first attempt traumatized her, and has expressed she would rather live with a severe illness and let it run it’s course than decide to have a needed surgery. I have encouraged her to seek therapy or hypnosis to no avail. It’s like she would rather suffer than get adequate help, and I believe this is where all of her issues stem from. I am at the end of my rope with her and I have expressed fear that she will end up homeless, broke and alone when her father and I are no longer around and cannot afford to accommodate her in our home anymore. I know this is a long one, but any advice is appreciated.
TL;DR adult daughter is unemployed, socially stunted and irresponsible and refuses to get help from me.
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2024.05.16 16:34 thinkingstranger May 15, 2024
All three of the nation’s major stock indexes hit record highs today after the latest data showed inflation cooling. Standard and Poor’s 500, more commonly known as the S&P 500, measures the stock performance of 500 of the largest companies listed on U.S. stock exchanges. Today it was up 61 points, or 1.2%. The Nasdaq Composite is weighted toward companies in the information technology sector. Today it was up 231 points, or 1.4%. The Dow Jones Industrial Average, often just called the Dow, measures 30 prominent companies listed on U.S. stock exchanges. Today it was up 350 points, or 0.9%. The Dow ended the day at 39,908, approaching 40,000.
Driving the hike in the stock market, most likely, is the information released today by the Bureau of Labor Statistics in the Labor Department saying that inflation eased in April. Investors are guessing this makes it more likely that the Federal Reserve will cut interest rates this year.
People note—correctly—that the stock market does not reflect the larger economy. This makes a report released yesterday from the nonpartisan Congressional Budget Office, or CBO, an important addition to the news from the stock market. It concludes that the goods and services an American household consumed in 2019 were cheaper in 2023 than they were four years before, because incomes grew faster than prices over that four-year period. That finding was true for all levels of the economy.
That is, “for all income groups…the portion of household income required to purchase the same bundle of goods and services declined.” Those in the bottom 20% found that the share of their income required to purchase the same bundle dropped by 2%. For those in the top 20%, the share of their income required to purchase as they did in 2019 dropped by 6.3%.
These statistics come on top of unemployment below 4% for a record 27 months, and more than 15 million jobs created since Biden took office, including 789,000 in manufacturing. According to
Politifact, three quarters of those jobs represented a return to the conditions before the coronavirus pandemic, but the rest are new.
Politifact noted that it is so rare for manufacturing jobs to bounce back at all, that the only economic recovery since World War II that beats the current one was in 1949, making the recovery under the Biden-Harris administration the strongest in 72 years.
And yet, a recent
Philadelphia Inquirer/
New York Times/Siena College poll found that 78% of Pennsylvania voters thought the economy was “fair” or “poor.” Fifty-four percent of them said they trust Trump to handle the economy better than Biden, compared with just 42% who prefer Biden.
The divorce between reality and people’s beliefs illuminates just how important media portrayals of events are.
In the landslide election of 1892, when voters elected Democrat Grover Cleveland to the White House for the third time (he won the popular vote in 1888 but lost in the electoral college) and put Democrats in charge of the House of Representatives and the Senate, Republicans insisted that the economy would collapse. The previous administration, that of Republican Benjamin Harrison, had openly and proudly worked for businessmen, and Republicans maintained that losing that administration would be a calamity. Democrats, the Republicans insisted, were really socialists and anarchists who wanted to destroy America.
As Republican newspapers predicted an impending collapse, fearful investors pulled out of the market. Although economic indicators were actually better in 1892 than they had been for years, as soon as Cleveland was elected, the nation seemed to be in terrible trouble. Money began to flow out of the stock market, and the outgoing Harrison administration refused to reassure investors. By February 1893 the stock market was paralyzed.
In mid-February, financier J. P. Morgan rushed to Washington to urge Harrison to do something, but the calm of the administration men remained undisturbed. Secretary of the Treasury Charles Foster commented publicly that the Republicans were responsible for the economy only until March 4, the day Cleveland would take office. His job was to “avert a catastrophe up to that date.”
He didn’t quite manage it. On Friday, February 17, the stock market began to collapse. By February 23 the slaughter was universal. Investors begged Harrison to relieve the crisis, but with only eight days left in his term, Harrison and his men maintained that nothing important was happening. The secretary of the Treasury spent his last few days in office sitting for his portrait. The
New York Times noted that “[i]f the National Treasury Department had been retained especially to manufacture apprehension and create disturbance it could not have done more effective work.”
Secretary Foster had one more parting shot. When he handed the Treasury Department off to his Democratic successor, he told the newspapers that “the Treasury was down to bedrock.”
When Cleveland took office on March 4, 1893, a financial panic was in full swing. As he tried to negotiate that crisis, Republicans sagely told voters the crash was the result of the Democrats’ policies. When Democrats turned to an income tax so they could lower the tariffs that were hurting consumers, Republicans insisted they were socialists. When unemployed workers and struggling farmers marched on Washington to ask for jobs or launched railroad strikes, Republicans insisted that Democrats stood with the mob, while Republicans were the party of law and order.
Republicans promised voters that they would restore the health of the economy. The 1894 midterm elections reversed the landslide of 1892, giving Republicans 130 more seats in the House—a two-thirds majority—and a majority in the Senate. The economy had begun to recover before the election, and that uptick continued. The Democrats had plunged the country into a panic, the
Chicago Tribune reported, but now “American manufacturers and merchants and business-men generally will draw a long breath of relief.”
How the media covers events matters.
Allison Fisher of Media Matters reported today that with the exception of MSNBC, national television news failed to cover the extraordinary story reported by Josh Dawsey and Maxine Joselow on May 9 in the
Washington Post that Trump had told oil executives that if they gave $1 billion to his campaign, he would get rid of all the regulations the Biden administration has enacted to combat climate change.
In the 1920s, President Warren G. Harding’s secretary of the interior, Albert Fall, went to prison for a year for accepting a $385,000 bribe from oilman Edward L. Doheny in exchange for leases to drill for oil on naval reserve land in Elk Hills and Buena Vista, California, and Teapot Dome, Wyoming. Fall was the first former cabinet officer to go to prison, and the scandal was considered so outrageous that “Teapot Dome” has gone down in U.S. history as shorthand for a corrupt presidency.
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https://www.cnn.com/2024/05/15/economy/consumer-price-index-inflation-april/index.html https://www.cnbc.com/2024/05/15/cpi-inflation-april-2024-consumer-prices-rose-0point3percent-in-april.html https://www.nytimes.com/live/2024/05/15/business/cpi-inflation-fed https://www.cbo.gov/publication/60166 https://www.cbo.gov/publication/60267 https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/4645068-more-americans-trust-trump-on-economy-inflation-than-biden-poll/ https://www.politifact.com/factchecks/2023/dec/13/joe-biden/fact-checking-joe-biden-on-manufacturing-jobs/ https://www.inquirer.com/politics/election/pennsylvania-poll-trump-biden-economy-20240514.html Chicago Daily Tribune, November 7, 1894, pp. 11–12.
New York Times, March 4, 1893, p. 6.
Chicago Daily Tribune, March 8. 1893, p. 1.
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2024.05.16 16:30 turquoisekittycat Disappointing Doctor Appointment
I waited for this appointment with a menopause specialist for months. My primary won’t prescribe hormones and directed me to a clinic that specifically addresses menopause issues. I’ve been without a libido or any real sensation for years. I have hot flashes and night sweats. I gained 20lbs last year between June and December. None of my clothes fit and this has never happened to me before. I really want help with my libido and the weight gain. I’m not helpless or stupid. I’ve tried to address both of these issues. I introduced indoor biking (peloton) during the winter when I noticed the weight gain. I was doing 45 minutes three times a week. Now that it’s nice out I’ve been running three miles a few times a week. I started pilates in October. By now I’m taking advanced classes and have averaged three classes a week. I have been counting calories and eating 1500 a day which is what Cronometer says should lead to one pound of weight loss per week. I started intermittent fasting a month ago. I have health issues that keep me from eating gluten and I only eat a minimal amount of dairy. I try to stay away from carbs and I’m eating high protein. For my libido I’ve bought sex toys and have used them many days of the week to increase blood flow. I went to pelvic floor PT twice. The second PT said she thinks I’m having a hormone issue and I need to address that because I had already worked on my pelvic floor.
The doctor basically said I have to diet and lift weights. HRT won’t help me lose weight. She recommended the Galveston diet without acknowledging that it’s so close to my diet it’s basically how I already eat. She advised that I have lots of orgasms to get my libido going which I’m already attempting. She prescribed me estrogen that I can insert internally and that’s all.
I feel like she didn’t believe me about everything I’ve already tried and that it’s not working. I know a lot of doctors think people are bad at counting calories and she did mention that I have to be careful not to leave things out, even an apple can put me over for the day. She told me to get a stronger vibrator even though I told her I’ve been experimenting with sex toys. I feel so frustrated. My sex toys and my diet/exercise aren’t the problem. The only thing I can really do differently is lift weights but I have developed muscle from Pilates.
What should I do? I want a second opinion. There are so many online platforms for treating peri. I tried Winona and it seems like they give the same treatment to everyone. They told me to take DHEA which I already do and have me on an estrogen/progesterone cream. It’s only been a month but I don’t feel that’s helping. The doctor I met with yesterday said I don’t need the progesterone. I really need to find someone I can trust.
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2024.05.16 16:29 Vast_Ad_660 My child is addicted to video games, and I am crushed.
Wow! This turned out so long and was helpful to write when I was feeling really really awful an hour ago. Here it goes:
I’ve been following this page and a few others once I saw information on video game addiction a few months ago. I saw my family and step-son in so many of the stories, my heart and mind was transformed. I don’t feel alone and my son is certainly not alone in his struggles. To be honest I’m scared to start this new journey, and I’ll get to that more later.
I always knew something was different about my step-son’s gaming, and it’s been a struggle since 2-3 years old based on what his Dad has told me. Here’s a bit of a background of our family dynamic.
Jake had Pete when he was 19 and never had a relationship with Mom, Kate. They split custody and it was evident she was using hard drugs and lost full custody of Pete when he was 9. A lot of his time with Mom was spent on an iPad without regulation as early as 2. Routines, locations, and security was not always present. It’s tough to think about the severity of what Pete experienced. At this time school was difficult, and Pete was diagnosed with ADHD. Meds helped a lot, and once Jake had full custody he was all about routine routine routine, healthy foods, activities, table top games nightly, camping, you name it! His passion for being a single Dad to Pete is why I ultimately fell in love with him two years later. When I started hanging out I noticed Pete playing a lot of games and not being the sporty type or hanging out with friends. By this point he was playing Minecraft after school and on the weekends pretty regularly. Jake was a good video game police officer and we still had a ton of time together as a new family. Pete is kind and very easy going and we started a great relationship fairly quickly. Jake and I agreed and often disagreed about the severity of Pete’s gaming, but we would come together and set some house rules and go on with life. As soon as we got busy, Pete would dive deep into computer games and grades would drop. We would see feces in his underwater, lack of hygiene, not getting up, laptop under his pillow, exc. Almost like clockwork by spring break, we’d have this intense struggle and Pete would pull it together for the semester at the very last minute. Pete is gifted and was always in accelerated math and science glasses, but was able to do the bare minimum without studying. Repeat for the next 3 years. Fast forward to High School he went to a smaller school in a new town and actually saw more independence. He made a friend, Dan who’s still around and is everything you’d hope a friend would be to your kid. Their bond is awesome. We’d still have to police but things were getting easier and we weren’t seeing those intense “downs” like we were in elementary and middle school. I think he was more confident and even his teachers said he was crushing it! The summer was tough and we tried to fill his time up but nothing seemed to interest him. If he hung out with friends and was hygienic we just made nudges about time limits. Thinking back I think there was one more period where we found feces in his underwater end of Senior year and gaming picked up, probably because we dropped our guard.
Summer before college I got him set up with an awesome outdoor job working on a zipline/climbing course and he thrived in Pete’s type of way. Climbing is one of the only things I can suggest to Pete and he’ll usually show some interest. Confident, peppy, excited, getting himself up. Always going back to games everyday but maintaining work, a friendship, and a little independence is what we wanted so left him alone most of the home time. We nudged him into a climbing retreat as an incoming freshman to give him a head start making friends, and a clear head going into the dorms! Scary fun times, and thought it would help. Then we officially dropped him off. Wow, so many smiles and happy tears had by all. The light in his eyes and showing us around and saying how cool he felt it was probably the happiest day of our lives along with my wedding day. The day I read vows to Pete saying I’d be there forever and unconditionally. It felt like my son was ready for his future. As we were driving away Pete said his friend gave him a gaming computer for free and he was at the tech center getting it hooked up to the campus internet. Dun dun dun.
Today he’s 2 weeks into his first summer break after a year of college. Yikes. Things are not great and that’s why I am here.
It was Spring Break (here comes the pattern) and Pete was gaming, not verbally making much sense, unhygienic, lost weight, gaming non stop. He almost missed his 2 hour bus ride back to school and that’s when we snapped. The typical what the hell is going on, you’re out of control. Pete usually cries when this happens because he knows the gig is up. Eventually he told us the truth, he failed two classes his first semester (told us winter break he did fine) and is now on track to fail another science and lab. WHAT!! We drove out there the next day to meet with the dean because he told us he was on probation and we wanted to support him. We were so worried. It turns out he hasn’t had any social interaction other than winter and spring break and spent his days alone in his dorm. He didn’t even seem like himself it was so scary. We get there and we spent two days walking, going out to eat, the typical “you got this buddy” “just stop playing games for a bit” and insert the other 100 life sayings you want to say to your kid that sound so annoying to them. We can’t help it. We love him. He was like yep I got this, nodded through all of it and we left. Three weeks later we noticed on the phone things were sounding off again, and he confessed he hasn’t made up any of his work. His Dad got disappointed on the phone and Pete said he called the suicide hotline because he was getting “yelled” at. I was standing there, he wasn’t yelling but I’m sure just the sheer reality of the situation got to him. We were heart broken, and at the same time angry. We couldn’t believe he was feeling this much anxiety and possibly depression. We always knew gaming was an escape and most likely due to his background, but this just seemed too much for anyone to handle. Again, he promised to limit himself. We checked in everyday for the last three weeks not with a nag but just, how’s it going. Did you set a timer today? Amazing that’s great you’re so close to being done!! Just trying to keep it super positive. We knew it was totally out of our control. He failed, and actually never made up the work his professor said he could over a month prior. He lied more.
We knew something had to change and we were preparing his return home. Can we do game quitter? Can we just put him right into a detox in our home? Family therapy? Healthy gamer? Olganon? We wanted to smash his computer trust me, if it weren’t for my job I wouldn’t have wifi because my stomach is in knots. But, we decided relationship first, let him set his own limits (with our house rules) and really try to get to the root cause of anxiety and depression. We had good convos, we let him tell us how it’s basically all of our fault because of the pressure, no judgement. We communicated with notes and texts sometimes when things were getting frustrating. He skirted around the 3 hour daily limit every possible way. All he wants to do is play video games, watch to tube of video games, talk to “friends” on discord about games, play D&D online, or draw D&D characters. It’s just too much, it’s impossible to limit. He always had an excuse for a screen and we were still seeing 10+ hours a day on screens. He told us he’s feeling crappier everyday by us, and honestly we’re feeling freakin awful and exhausted too.
What now? Nothing. I’m literally doing nothing anymore starting today. I can’t stop crying. He won’t do his own research into gaming addiction and does not want to change. Today we just said ya know what, this isn’t working so we’ll just figure something out in a few weeks. At this very moment he’s going on hour 9 of gaming straight. Knowing how much we tried as a family to limit this for the last few weeks. I’m still angry and it’s hard to look at him right now. It feels personal to me? I know it isn’t, but it just feels that way.
Therapy!? Yep. We tried. Back when he was in middle school and high school. Didn’t want to go back and didn’t talk much. He got his own therapist at school per the deans suggestion and he goes but the one session he’s had at home, he got off within 30 minutes and said “he didn’t have much to talk about with her” and he’ll see her maybe once a month back at school. We are doing healthy gamer coaching as parents, but he is refusing to sign up for coaching on his end. My guess is the name alone. The risk of losing games is not something he’d ever discuss right now. I swore up and down they won’t make him get rid of games lol! Did not work.
What’s dad doing? Half. Literally half at all times we make a plan at night and in the morning and check in with each other about it all day long. It’s so exhausting and Jake is just ready to do whatever it takes at this point as well. He’s having the same struggles as I am and is 100% convinced it’s an addiction and has listened to a lot of podcasts exc.
My new plan…. Because I have to have “something” or I might blow up. Now I have to let natural consequences take the lead. He doesn’t have a license, because he couldn’t pick up driving skills with how his brain is on games. We tried teaching him for two years and it was honestly dangerous sometimes after a “bender. He asked me to go tomorrow and after 9 hours I’m just going to say I’d feel more comfortable if he went to driving school and he can pay with the money he earns this summer. It j=is just not safe, why does he deserve to take my car and put me in an unsafe position? I don't have to allow that... but it feels like I am still the bad guy. Looking forward, IF he fails college....when he is home he cannot have our wifi, will contribute to groceries, phone bill, and rent. We live in a rural area and without a car he can’t work. I will not be driving a 20 year old to and from work due to his brain on games. It feels wrong. Maybe he can’t support his habit without working. That’s all the “what ifs” but rarely does life go exactly how you picture it. We will just continue to get creative and roll with it.
Does anyone have any advice on how to not enable but also let them be in charge of their own destiny? Not saying anything or giving him a sad look feels impossible but I did it tonight. J was able to pretend it did not bother me that he’s been on there forever. I think I can keep that up? But I also don’t want to enable him.
My family is hurting so much. So many hugs to anyone who struggled and is currently struggling. Same to the parents who have that knot that won’t go away. Thanks for reading
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2024.05.16 16:29 heyhoitstheway i think my sister is having a psychiatric crisis - how to help?
i (23f) have a younger sister, “Susan” (21f) that i believe might be experiencing a psychiatric crisis or something? mental health issues is very genetic in my family, i myself was in and out of the hospital about 13 times from ages 12-17 and struggled with a myriad of issues; my concern is coming from a place of love and not judgement. a little background on Susan: our parents separated when she was 6 months old and she never had a relationship with our dad. our stepdad met our mom when she was 4, and he has been in our life since. he wasn’t the calmest guy. he were taken from our parents custody when she was 11 and she was in kinship with our aunt for a year. fast forward to high school, she had some issues with attendance and completing things, she said this was all anxiety based. in high school she was able to keep a job as a hostess in a nice restaurant for 2 years until she was fired for thinking her managers were talking about her behind her back and discussing her concerns with coworkers. after several attempts to try to clear the aistraighten out the issue with no success, she was let go. interestingly, my mom had the same thing happen to her right before we were removed and she was let go from a bank. my mom ended up needing inpatient for paranoia because she thought people were recording her and hiding listening devices in her car. since Susan lost her hostess job, she hasn’t been able to keep a job for longer than a few weeks to a month. she has issues with hygiene as well as feeding herself, she’s lost a lot of weight in the last year and a half. she’s had issues with stealing from family as well as stores. she’s faced legal action because of this. she also smokes weed often (it’s legal, no judgement). in the last year and a half, Susan has been violent towards our family. we have two younger sisters 15 and 13, and she has tried to fight them both over thinking they were talking badly about her. she has threatened to kill our stepdad and then herself. she waves a knife around and screams at us to get us to do what she wants us to, which is usually sit quietly in the living room without talking. if she hears talking, she comes back in and screams asking what we’re saying about her. it’s terrifying. i’ve had to go pick my sisters up and bring them to my apartment because they’re so scared of her at this point. i keep telling my parents that when this happens, they should call the police. not because i want her in trouble, but because it’s scary and children live in the house. most recently, she texted me and said she had a religious experience and she believes prayer works and god is the answer. we aren’t a religious family, and she in the past was never, and i mean never, someone who was interested in religion. she used to be into crystals and spirituality but she now says that is evil. this morning, i got a text from her saying she knows for a fact the neighbor is keeping a woman hostage in his house. she says she can hear screaming but nobody else has ever heard this. i just want to help her, and the behavior is getting worse. i don’t know what to do because i don’t live with her anymore and our parents don’t call 911 when something happens. does this all sound like a psychiatric break or am i overreacting? i know schizophrenia can set in around this time but i don’t know if she is exhibiting the symptoms. what can i do?
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2024.05.16 16:28 Significant_Gas_4678 Job and weight gain
So I started new meds and a new job back in October and have gained a shit ton of weight. Like I have never been so big in my life and I hate it.
I’ve mostly been working nights lately and I feel like my mental health was doing a lot worse. But the past week I’ve been walking my dog more and doing more day shifts and I’ve lost a bit of weight! Anyway! I’m just proud of myself
I have a job interview tomorrow, which although it’s a very similar job, I’ll be working 8 hours a day instead of 12. So I’m hoping that this will help both my mental health and weight loss! I’m also taking some summer classes to try and improve my chances in grad school. I sometimes get really discouraged, but idk today I just am feeling hopeful!
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2024.05.16 16:24 BigHeadDjango Series 33 Week 4 - Spring Seasonal Tunes! (Apex Allstars) by BigHedDjango
Hello everyone!
BigHedDjango here, tunes for this week to help you out.
Weekly photo:
https://i.imgur.com/88KGCCS.png All feedback on tunes is appreciated - good or bad. Specially when tunes are bad. At the end of the day I am just the mechanic and you guys are the racers. Do not hesitate irrespective of your tuning knowledge or racing skills!
Tuning method: 1.
Stock look - stock wheel rims and size, no aero (unless absolutely necessary for handling and stability) 2. Tuned for automatic/manual players by not skipping clutch+gearbox upgrades 3. Max performance with max handling possible 4. All cars
tuned vs. Unbeatable AI, tracks/weather conditions are now unknown since time travel no longer works. Since release AI has been inconsistent between many car types and weather conditions, not every car will win 10/10 races vs Unbeatable AI without rewind/restart abuse 5. Bodykit used if it does not hurt performance
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Forzathon Weekly Challenge - Time to Play
2024 Chevrolet Corvette E-Ray * Tune - 142 362 222 * Easy to use; Decent grip even in rain; Good braking; Lacks S1 top speed; 6-gears; Sigala wide body kit; Chevrolet rear wing; Custom rims; v1 * Event Lab BP - Easy Win Drag Strip - 812 084 897
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Trial - MX-5 Drive
Road Racing - Mazda MX-5 - A 800
NOTE: Try to block and slow down AI and help teammates in order to win. One player on the team needs to take at least P3 and slow down the AI for a guaranteed win
2016 Mazda MX-5 * Tune - 446 488 045 * Fastest option; v1
2005 Mazda Mazdaspeed MX-5 * Tune - 386 598 479 * Low A class top speed; v1
1994 Mazda MX-5 Miata * Tune - 686 056 119 * Lacks braking; Lacks A class top speed; v2 - rebuild, smoother, faster
2013 Mazda MX-5 * Tune - 159 091 037 * Low A class top speed; v1
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Event Lab 1 - Eagle Forest Raceway
Modern Supercars - A 800
2012 Lamborghini Gallardo LP570-4 Spyder Performante * Tune - 171 863 878 * Playlist car; Good braking; Low A class top speed; Slowish car overall; Stock engine; True Purist; v1
2020 Chevrolet Corvette Stingray Coupe * Tune - 575 887 945 * Tune by Naitsab243; Custom rims; Rear aero
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Event Lab 2 - Emerald GP Circuit
Retro Hot Hatch - B 700
1974 Honda Civic RS * Tune - 689 859 387 * FWD; Meta car; Meta tune; Lacks top speed; Wide body kit + Classic rear wing + Custom rims; Dry only; v2
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Seasonal PR Stunts
2010 Mosler MT900S * Tune - 106 016 211 * Superb grip; Good handling but oversteery; v3
Speed Trap - Northern Passage - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start at least 0.7 miles from the west
Speed Trap - Escarpment - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start 0.5 miles from the west. Turn in hard on final right hand corner, can even cut offroad
Speed Zone - Camino Del Cielo - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start at least 1.3 miles away on the north east road. Enter the east gate at full throttle, feather brake for first right hand corner and final hairpin only. You can also start max 1 mile from the west cause need to brake immediately upton entering the west gate
NOTE: All Championships are locked at Highly Skilled difficulty
Championship 1 - Picking Favorite
Road Racing - Forza Cover Cars - S1 900
2013 Dodge SRT Viper GTS Anniversary Edition (Maybe not an option) * Tune - 301 899 128 * Meta car; Meta tune; Good grip; Oversteer but no traction loss; * Lacks S1 top speed so sprints with lots of corners or circuits only; * Drag tires - great launch, weak at slow corners, tuned for wet roads as well; * Stock engine; Custom rims; Full aero; Rear diffuser; Sideskirts; v1
2013 Dodge SRT Viper GTS * Tune - 693 168 484 * Stock engine; v3
2014 Lamborghini Huracan LP 610-4 * Tune - 204 826 092 * Fast; Stock engine; True Purist; v3
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Stock tirebombs; Good grip; Excellent braking; 7-gears; Stock engine; True Purist; v2
2018 Porsche 911 GT2 RS * Tune - 246 355 163 * Stock rear wing; Stock engine; v1
2024 Chevrolet Corvette E-Ray * Tune - 142 362 222 * Easy to use; Decent grip even in rain; Good braking; Lacks S1 top speed; 6-gears; Sigala wide body kit; Chevrolet rear wing; Custom rims; v1
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Championship 2 - Going the Distance
Road Racing - GT & Super GT - A 800
2012 Jaguar XKR-S * Tune - 173 823 336 (v4)
2013 Aston Martin V12 Vantage S * Tune - 963 723 177 * Decent grip; Good top speed; Stock engine; Hot Wheels tune; v1
2010 Maserati Gran Turismo S * Tune - 547 023 206 * Lacks braking; Stock engine; v2
2017 Aston Martin DB11 * Tune - 153 787 435 * Stock engine only; v2
2021 Lexus LC 500 * Tune - 305 052 584 * Playlist car; Stock engine; v1
2019 Aston Martin Vantage * Tune - 404 086 715 * Downgraded to A class; Good handling but slow overall; Stock engine; v2
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Treasure Hunt - Blame Impala
What to do: Using any Chevrolet Impala either get an Ultimate Wreckage skill or maybe lots of wreckage skills
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RALLY ADVENTURE DLC
Seasonal PR Stunts
Speed Trap - La Cantera - Mustang - A 800
2018 Ford Mustang RTR Spec 5 * Tune - 589 436 345 * Start ~500 yards in the east dirt hairpin
Championship 3 - Mustang Rally
Night Rally - Mustang - A 800
2018 Ford Mustang RTR Spec 5 * Tune - 589 436 345 * Good mid-speed accel; Comfortable to drive; v2
1969 Ford Mustang Boss 302 * Tune - 246 848 148 * Superb; v2
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HOT WHEELS DLC
Seasonal PR Stunts
Speed Zone - Supersonic Spiral - Lamborghini - S1 900
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Start at least 0.7 miles away on the north east track (try to spawn in small loop)
Championship 4 - It's Race-a-Bull
Speed - Lamborghini - S1 900
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Stock tirebombs; Good grip; Excellent braking; 7-gears; Stock engine; True Purist; v2
2014 Lamborghini Huracan LP 610-4 * Tune - 204 826 092 * Fast; Stock engine; True Purist; v3
2016 Lamborghini Aventador SuperVeloce * Tune - 124 905 282 * Arcade racing game car; Excellent braking; Stock engine only; True Purist; v2
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Event Lab Blueprints!
Easy Win
Road Sprint - 696 659 852 Easy Win
Road Circuit - 177 632 200 Easy Win
Dirt Trail - 991 376 926 Easy Win
Dirt Scramble - 135 436 707 Easy Win
Cross Country Sprint - 114 199 871 Easy Win
Cross Country Circuit - 181 401 852 Easy Win
Street Scene Sprint - 134 229 457 Easy Win
Drag Strip - 812 084 897 ___
Horizon 4 and 5 Tunes Archive!
https://www.reddit.com/useBigHeadDjango/comments/r4ptt6/forza_horizon_4_and_horizon_5_tunes_archive/ ___
Thank you to everyone for your downloads, uses, likes, follows, shares and feedback! Check my in-game profile for more tunes. You can check my reddit profile for more content 📸
Also don't stop yourself from checking out my photos on the creative hub. Wow! What beautiful photos! 📸
Don't hesitate to ask if you need any help! 🛠️
I am open to requests for cars you might want me to tune! It would also help me understand FH5 tuning better. So let me know the car and class and I'd get back to you! 🛠️
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Have a great week! 🥳
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2024.05.16 16:23 BigHeadDjango Series 33 Week 4 - Spring Seasonal Tunes! (Apex Allstars) by BigHedDjango
Hello everyone!
BigHedDjango here, tunes for this week to help you out.
Weekly photo:
https://i.imgur.com/88KGCCS.png All feedback on tunes is appreciated - good or bad. Specially when tunes are bad. At the end of the day I am just the mechanic and you guys are the racers. Do not hesitate irrespective of your tuning knowledge or racing skills!
Tuning method: 1.
Stock look - stock wheel rims and size, no aero (unless absolutely necessary for handling and stability) 2. Tuned for automatic/manual players by not skipping clutch+gearbox upgrades 3. Max performance with max handling possible 4. All cars
tuned vs. Unbeatable AI, tracks/weather conditions are now unknown since time travel no longer works. Since release AI has been inconsistent between many car types and weather conditions, not every car will win 10/10 races vs Unbeatable AI without rewind/restart abuse 5. Bodykit used if it does not hurt performance
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Forzathon Weekly Challenge - Time to Play
2024 Chevrolet Corvette E-Ray * Tune - 142 362 222 * Easy to use; Decent grip even in rain; Good braking; Lacks S1 top speed; 6-gears; Sigala wide body kit; Chevrolet rear wing; Custom rims; v1 * Event Lab BP - Easy Win Drag Strip - 812 084 897
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Trial - MX-5 Drive
Road Racing - Mazda MX-5 - A 800
NOTE: Try to block and slow down AI and help teammates in order to win. One player on the team needs to take at least P3 and slow down the AI for a guaranteed win
2016 Mazda MX-5 * Tune - 446 488 045 * Fastest option; v1
2005 Mazda Mazdaspeed MX-5 * Tune - 386 598 479 * Low A class top speed; v1
1994 Mazda MX-5 Miata * Tune - 686 056 119 * Lacks braking; Lacks A class top speed; v2 - rebuild, smoother, faster
2013 Mazda MX-5 * Tune - 159 091 037 * Low A class top speed; v1
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Event Lab 1 - Eagle Forest Raceway
Modern Supercars - A 800
2012 Lamborghini Gallardo LP570-4 Spyder Performante * Tune - 171 863 878 * Playlist car; Good braking; Low A class top speed; Slowish car overall; Stock engine; True Purist; v1
2020 Chevrolet Corvette Stingray Coupe * Tune - 575 887 945 * Tune by Naitsab243; Custom rims; Rear aero
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Event Lab 2 - Emerald GP Circuit
Retro Hot Hatch - B 700
1974 Honda Civic RS * Tune - 689 859 387 * FWD; Meta car; Meta tune; Lacks top speed; Wide body kit + Classic rear wing + Custom rims; Dry only; v2
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Seasonal PR Stunts
2010 Mosler MT900S * Tune - 106 016 211 * Superb grip; Good handling but oversteery; v3
Speed Trap - Northern Passage - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start at least 0.7 miles from the west
Speed Trap - Escarpment - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start 0.5 miles from the west. Turn in hard on final right hand corner, can even cut offroad
Speed Zone - Camino Del Cielo - Extreme Track Toys - S2 998
- Start at least 1.3 miles away on the north east road. Enter the east gate at full throttle, feather brake for first right hand corner and final hairpin only. You can also start max 1 mile from the west cause need to brake immediately upton entering the west gate
NOTE: All Championships are locked at Highly Skilled difficulty
Championship 1 - Picking Favorite
Road Racing - Forza Cover Cars - S1 900
2013 Dodge SRT Viper GTS Anniversary Edition (Maybe not an option) * Tune - 301 899 128 * Meta car; Meta tune; Good grip; Oversteer but no traction loss; * Lacks S1 top speed so sprints with lots of corners or circuits only; * Drag tires - great launch, weak at slow corners, tuned for wet roads as well; * Stock engine; Custom rims; Full aero; Rear diffuser; Sideskirts; v1
2013 Dodge SRT Viper GTS * Tune - 693 168 484 * Stock engine; v3
2014 Lamborghini Huracan LP 610-4 * Tune - 204 826 092 * Fast; Stock engine; True Purist; v3
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Stock tirebombs; Good grip; Excellent braking; 7-gears; Stock engine; True Purist; v2
2018 Porsche 911 GT2 RS * Tune - 246 355 163 * Stock rear wing; Stock engine; v1
2024 Chevrolet Corvette E-Ray * Tune - 142 362 222 * Easy to use; Decent grip even in rain; Good braking; Lacks S1 top speed; 6-gears; Sigala wide body kit; Chevrolet rear wing; Custom rims; v1
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Championship 2 - Going the Distance
Road Racing - GT & Super GT - A 800
2012 Jaguar XKR-S * Tune - 173 823 336 (v4)
2013 Aston Martin V12 Vantage S * Tune - 963 723 177 * Decent grip; Good top speed; Stock engine; Hot Wheels tune; v1
2010 Maserati Gran Turismo S * Tune - 547 023 206 * Lacks braking; Stock engine; v2
2017 Aston Martin DB11 * Tune - 153 787 435 * Stock engine only; v2
2021 Lexus LC 500 * Tune - 305 052 584 * Playlist car; Stock engine; v1
2019 Aston Martin Vantage * Tune - 404 086 715 * Downgraded to A class; Good handling but slow overall; Stock engine; v2
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Treasure Hunt - Blame Impala
What to do: Using any Chevrolet Impala either get an Ultimate Wreckage skill or maybe lots of wreckage skills
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RALLY ADVENTURE DLC
Seasonal PR Stunts
Speed Trap - La Cantera - Mustang - A 800
2018 Ford Mustang RTR Spec 5 * Tune - 589 436 345 * Start ~500 yards in the east dirt hairpin
Championship 3 - Mustang Rally
Night Rally - Mustang - A 800
2018 Ford Mustang RTR Spec 5 * Tune - 589 436 345 * Good mid-speed accel; Comfortable to drive; v2
1969 Ford Mustang Boss 302 * Tune - 246 848 148 * Superb; v2
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HOT WHEELS DLC
Seasonal PR Stunts
Speed Zone - Supersonic Spiral - Lamborghini - S1 900
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Start at least 0.7 miles away on the north east track (try to spawn in small loop)
Championship 4 - It's Race-a-Bull
Speed - Lamborghini - S1 900
2016 Lamborghini Centenario LP 770-4 * Tune - 156 811 181 * Stock tirebombs; Good grip; Excellent braking; 7-gears; Stock engine; True Purist; v2
2014 Lamborghini Huracan LP 610-4 * Tune - 204 826 092 * Fast; Stock engine; True Purist; v3
2016 Lamborghini Aventador SuperVeloce * Tune - 124 905 282 * Arcade racing game car; Excellent braking; Stock engine only; True Purist; v2
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Event Lab Blueprints!
Easy Win
Road Sprint - 696 659 852 Easy Win
Road Circuit - 177 632 200 Easy Win
Dirt Trail - 991 376 926 Easy Win
Dirt Scramble - 135 436 707 Easy Win
Cross Country Sprint - 114 199 871 Easy Win
Cross Country Circuit - 181 401 852 Easy Win
Street Scene Sprint - 134 229 457 Easy Win
Drag Strip - 812 084 897 ___
Horizon 4 and 5 Tunes Archive!
https://www.reddit.com/useBigHeadDjango/comments/r4ptt6/forza_horizon_4_and_horizon_5_tunes_archive/ ___
Thank you to everyone for your downloads, uses, likes, follows, shares and feedback! Check my in-game profile for more tunes. You can check my reddit profile for more content 📸
Also don't stop yourself from checking out my photos on the creative hub. Wow! What beautiful photos! 📸
Don't hesitate to ask if you need any help! 🛠️
I am open to requests for cars you might want me to tune! It would also help me understand FH5 tuning better. So let me know the car and class and I'd get back to you! 🛠️
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Have a great week! 🥳
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2024.05.16 16:23 GroovyFloozie_ I'm mentally checking out, I really don't want to.
My partner and I have shared four years together, with the past year and a half spent living together.
Lately, however, I've noticed a shift in our dynamic. It feels like meaningful conversation has become rare, relegated to moments when she needs something from me or when she's airing grievances about something I have done.
She has just now expressed feeling like our relationship lacks its former spark, prompting me to reflect on how I can improve things.
We haven't had a proper date in months, and our interactions have become surface-level. She attributes this to stress from her university studies and job, which I empathize with.
However, there are aspects of her behavior that leave me feeling disheartened. Despite dedicating nightly hours to studying, I've observed her multitasking with Netflix or social media consistently, every single study session there is heavy phone usage or majority of her attention is on Netflix. It's disheartening to see her attention divided, especially when I'm trying to engage with her and spend quality time with her.
I've attempted to initiate conversations, but she is glued to her phone like a duck to water, on the toilet, in the shower, while cooking dinner, while eating dinner, while studying, while trying to go to sleep. This constant distraction makes me feel like my voice isn't being heard and like I'm unimportant and feeling like her phone is being prioritised over me.
I feel like I also should add that I do a lot of the house chores to try and give her as much free time as possible. I cook dinner and clean the dishes every night except for maybe once or twice a month, I also fold and put her laundry away 100% of the time. General tidy ups are mostly done by me, however she also does contribute with that sometimes.
Lately, I've found myself mentally drifting away, contemplating what life would be like if we were apart. The idea of a breakup, once daunting, now feels less intimidating. I still love her and I don't want to leave, but I'm just at a loss as to what to do.
How can I help bring the spark back?
How can I actually spend quality time with her or get her attention?
Any other advice would also be appreciated, thanks a lot.
TLDR: We are losing our spark, however she is busy with work and study but also heavily distracted by phone usage. The relationship has become surface level and I am starting to mentally check out even though I don't want to.
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2024.05.16 16:22 frosty765 Trading tax
Hello I started trading this year, so Never done taxes. I know IKBR send some paper, but no idea how does it looks. In my 4months i made so many transactions i cant imagine how it will work. Im in Europe and trading with US stocks. Just wondering if there is like all transactions fees, gains, losses, fees for exchanging, money from dividends and money from interest on that paper. Also from selling us stock I automatically pay 8% tax so i can deduct it from my taxes? Also if i gain on stock A 10000$ and lose on stock B 5000$, Im taxed 5000 ? Even tho 2 different stocks? Also i will be able in my tax declaration deduct from transaction fees and losses from any stock and 8% US tax? Thanks in advance
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2024.05.16 16:21 MAalgiacred Anyone who is on semaglutide that also struggles with PCOS and hypothyroidism? What are your tips?
I am a 26 years old female and I have Hashimoto’s and PCOS . My thyroid function is at a normal level due to my medication, but it still presents challenges. I have not had a full period in well over 6 months , and I was almost diabetic ( Which is why I started my Wegovy journey to begin with). In the first two months I have lost 4 kg (8.8 pounds) which is lower than some other people, but I get it, it comes with the health issues I previously had.
Is there anyone else who has the same struggles, that has some tips to share? I know I am just at the beginning but the thyroid issues have made weight loss so frustrating over the years. Especially in the past years my system has felt so slow and like I could not lose weight like I did at 19-23. I feel stuck many times because my energy has been so low until recently,and I do not want to give up this time. I am super motivated to keep going but I want to do everything in my power to facilitate weight loss this time.
For guidelines I started at 117 kg( 258 lbs) and I do currently work out 2-3 times a week. I mainly do Zumba classes mixed with some strength training. And I burn around 540 - 600 active calories per session . I also try to get my 10k steps in daily. I try to eat under 1600 calories per day but most days I am in between 1200-1400.
I am open to any kind of tips from exercise/diet advice to any teas/supplements that might help.
Thanks in advance guys, and please be kind , this is my first time posting here on Reddit :D
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2024.05.16 16:20 _rosedarling_ Timeline shift- can we go early? And bring our dogs?
TL/DR pension early + unexpected windfall. Do we have enough? 40k net annual income w/ health insurance. Liquid in 2 million range. 400k in retirement accounts. Mid forties. Health issues. Where to go with dogs?
Original plan was to FIRE in 10 years when husbands pension kicked in. He’s 45, I’m 43.
Have about 400k in retirement though mostly untouchable to us now as primarily 401k. Maybe 50k in brokerage, 70k in cash accounts. Conservatively 550k equity in our house. No other debt beyond our mortgage at sub 3% interest. Which is timed to be paid off in about 10 years as well. We’ve stopped making extra payments on it and have been stashing money in savings instead due to interest rates. Only kid is through college, debt free! (yes we started quite young -he was a happy, but scary surprise). We have 3 cars, a couple motorcycles, and a big farm tractor that would probably net 120k if we liquidated all. Have no idea what we could net on other household items. I do have some inherited artwork that holds some value, and some jewelry. Husband owns every tool in existence I think.
The change is my husband was injured on the job and after nearly a year of recovery, PT, surgery etc it looks now like he will not be cleared to return to work. Will be pensioned off early, and keep healthcare coverage for both of us. Net income with pension approx 40k a year. Cutting his take home about in half.
Simultaneously, my company is being acquired and because of my role, I will not be expected to stay on long post acquisition. Expected to receive 100k in severance at my departure.
And then last week we were offered just a bit more than a million dollars for some acreage we own adjacent to our house.
We would not want to stay in our home next to this development. We picked up this land as kind of a lark a few years ago. It was completely landlocked so very cheap and is just forest. We were able to get special environmental status on it so pay virtually nothing in taxes Mostly we did it to preserve our backyard view and privacy, and to make sure no one else on an adjacent lot on the street next to us, who would be able to provide access, picked it up and tried to develop it. Well that’s what is happening now. A developer is interested in purchasing a neighbors empty 10 acre lot, with street access, if we will also sell. The neighbor is anxious for us to say yes.
So we could not sell the land, I could get a new job post acquisition and stay where we are. But that does not seem smart as we would get more than 20x gain in 5 years on what we paid for that land, though that kind of value is only possible when it’s tied to a neighbors lot with access. Also, with my husbands injuries we have had to take on some additional expense to maintain our property as there are things he can no longer do. Our lot is a couple of acres on its own. I would need to find a job making significantly more to make up for husbands income loss and additional expense and that doesn’t seem likely locally. I’m at about the top of my industry pay scale currently for our location. Obviously I’ll have a buffer with my severance, but I will be lucky to find another position making what I do now. As I had to know about the acquisition early, I got a fairly sizable salary bump to retain me during the transition.
We could sell and move locally or somewhere else in the US I suppose. But the plan had always been to FIRE when he got his pension, and with the revenue from the land it feels like maybe we could do this now?
We’re both social security eligible with sufficient credits, but that’s quite a ways away if it will still even exist then. Approx 3500 a month collectively at age 67, if we stop contributing in the near future per social security website and accounting for WEP.
We’ve spent a lot of time in Portugal, Spain and France and the plan had always revolved around Europe, to be determined largely by tax implications in place at that time.
We don’t love hot, but I’ve been thinking about Mexico as we also have two dogs right now that I can’t imagine parting with. I realize not ideal, but we’ve always been a dog owning family and our plan was to bring no new dogs in the 10 years leading up to his retirement so we would not have this encumbrance then. But with a timeline shift, that plan becomes irrelevant. Anyone drive into Mexico with pets?
I would plan to work some. Probably consulting. I do a little bit of that now on the side and I think part time I could probably bring in 30-40k. But for budgeting I’d rather treat that as bonus money as I don’t know how quickly I can get it set up etc. I don’t know about my husband. All of his jobs and hobbies have historically been quite physical, so this is a major shift for him.
Thinking we were still a ways off I have done enough research to be dangerous. When he got hurt a year ago, I never imagined he wouldn’t eventually go back. I know staying in US, unless we significantly downsize and alter our lifestyle, my husband will feel like he has to do something for work. I don’t want that for him. He has worked incredibly hard, at his primary job and various side hustles to provide a wonderful, stable, financially sound life for a young family that was dead broke when we started out. With this injury, I want him to relax and hopefully continue to heal.
We will have his excellent US health insurance benefits intact, but will likely need to supplement to make sure he can continue to get any ongoing care he needs.
We’re probably going to have make some decisions relatively quickly on the land. We’re good with living a lot more simply, but also don’t want to be in a position where we feel like we’re counting every penny to survive. Should we try this? Where would you go? With pets!
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2024.05.16 16:12 porkchops1977 Not sure if I'm depressed, bipolar or just damaged goods
I've been depressed almost my entire life. Got in a big car accident at 18, I'm now 47, been dealing with chronic pain since. I thought I hit rock bottom last year, wife told me she regretted starting a relationship with me after I told her that I had been struggling with suicidal thoughts for over 28 years.
I then started therapy and medication for my depression. I got better pretty quick. I felt great for a while, I couldn't believe that not thinking dying every single day was possible.
Our relationship improved a bit too as I was a new person. I am feeling great, loss lots of weight, got in the best shape of my life, physically and mentally.
Fast forward to a year later, my wife tells me again last night that she doesn't know if it will work between us. She no longer wants to put any effort anymore.
Now all I think about is not wanting to live anymore.
This is always where my brain goes when something bad happens. I was having similar thoughts just a few weeks ago after a bad disc golf tournament.
When I'm not thinking of death, I am focused, motivated and goal oriented.
I am so tired of thinking this way. Even though I know my marriage is probably not salvageable, the thought of going through a divorce and getting a new place to stay in this economy scares me and I don't even want to attempt to get through it.
I stopped taking my anti-depressant a few weeks ago as my libido was getting too low for my liking. Probably doesn't matter anymore anyways.
I'm seeing my psychologist again next week. I don't have high expectations, I didn't think it did much when I went last year.
Anyways, I'm not sure why I'm writing this here, just need to vent.
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2024.05.16 16:06 healthmedicinet Health Daily News May 15 2024
DAY: MAY 15, 2024
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- 5-15-2024COULD A LOW-CAL KETO DIET HELP EASE ACNE? In a small pilot study, some young women looking to lose weight on a low-calorie keto diet got an unexpected benefit: Their acne began to clear up. “These findings represent an opportunity to control a skin disease that affects most teenagers and many adults at some point in their lifetimes, causing distress, embarrassment, anxiety and low self-confidence among sufferers, robbing them of their quality of life,
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- 5-15-2024CHECKING YOUR BELLY BUTTON CAN TELL YOU A LOT ABOUT YOUR HEALTH Navels, belly buttons, innies or outies … whatever term you use, your umbilicus may have plenty to tell you about the state of your health. For some, they are the thing of nightmares—omphalophobia (the fear of belly buttons) is a real condition. For others, they are a fashion accessory to be shown off in a crop top, or decorated with a body piercing. Whatever your feelings about belly buttons, one thing’s for sure—it once joined you to your mother
- 5-15-2024STUDY FINDS H5N1 VIRUS FROM 2022 MINK OUTBREAK CAPABLE OF INEFFICIENT AIRBORNE TRANSMISSION Direct contact transmission, weight loss, and survival for ferrets infected with A/mink (H5N1). Four donor ferrets were inoculated with A/mink (H5N1) and 24?h later each donor was paired with a contact in the same cage. Nasal wash samples were collected every other day for 13 days, and weight loss and clinical signs were monitored. A, B display viral titers from donor and direct contacts,
- 5-15-2024STUDY SHOWS COMBINING JOYFUL ACTIVITIES WITH ‘SAVORING’ THERAPY SHOWS POSITIVE MENTAL HEALTH RESULTS AMONG YOUNG PEOPLE With rates of depression rising among young people on university campuses, a team of SMU researchers found that combining two different therapeutic approaches demonstrated effectiveness in improving students’ overall mental health. Their findings show that students receiving behavioral activation (BA) therapy augmented with savoring (S) experienced improvements in positive and negative mood. Behavioral activation is a therapeutic approach that alleviates depression by increasing engagement in meaningful activities,
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- 5-15-2024STUDY FINDS FRONT-OF-PACKAGE NUTRITION LABELING RESULTS IN HEALTHIER PRODUCTS A study finds that a food labeling system introduced by the French government in 2017 resulted in healthier products. The study of Nutri-Score, a voluntary labeling system that assigns a simple letter grade based on nutrition, is believed to be the first to examine how food manufacturers responded to the change. Using detailed product and nutrition data from 2014 to 2021,
- 5-15-2024EXPERT EXPLAINS PUBLIC HEALTH CONCERNS ON AVIAN FLU Using genetically engineered mice expressing a specific variant of HLA, researchers uncover the instrumental role of this protein in the development of drug eruptions. They found that when HLA binds to an antiviral drug, abacavir, it can lead to the formation of defective proteins, which trigger a stress response in the endoplasmic reticulum, ultimately cascading into drug eruption. This implies that HLA is involved in previously unknown signaling pathways and processes that go beyond its traditionally accepted role within the immune system.
- 5-15-2024EXPLORING THE MECHANISM BEHIND DRUG ERUPTIONS IN THE SKINUsing genetically engineered mice expressing a specific variant of HLA, researchers uncover the instrumental role of this protein in the development of drug eruptions. They found that when HLA binds to an antiviral drug, abacavir, it can lead to the formation of defective proteins, which trigger a stress response in the endoplasmic reticulum, ultimately cascading into drug eruption.
- 5-15-2024STUDY PROVIDES BLUEPRINT FOR HYBRID-VIRTUAL HOME VISIT MODEL TO SUPPORT PATIENTS WHO DO NOT LIVE CLOSE TO A HOSPITAL a team developed and successfully tested a hybrid-virtual home visit model that provides care to veterans who do not live close to a VA health care facility.
- 5-15-2024HOW SCIENCE IS CHANGING THE GAME IN SPORTS Digital twins of athletes allow athletes and coaches to evaluate performance and trial technique changes. It’s an open secret that the countries that win the most medals in the Olympics and Paralympics combine talent and technology. Athletes are preparing for the next three Olympics and Paralympics in Paris in 2024
- 5-15-2024STUDY REVEALS HOW PRACTICE FORMS NEW MEMORY PATHWAYS IN THE BRAIN The effects of optogenetic inhibition on WM task performance. a, The experimental set-up. b, The delayed-association WM task trial types; licking was assessed during the 3?s choice period, with early- and late-delays periods noted. c, Learning progress across eight sessions, measured on the basis of the percentage of correct responses. d, Learning session example
- 5-15-2024A MEDITERRANEAN DIET CAN EASE SYMPTOMS OF STRESS AND ANXIETY, SAYS STUDY It’s no secret that the Mediterranean diet is good for your health. Already recommended to reduce the risks of bowel cancer, heart disease, and dementia, new research shows that the Mediterranean diet can also reduce symptoms of stress and anxiety.
- 5-15-2024ENHANCING PATIENT RESPONSE TO CANCER IMMUNOTHERAPY
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2024.05.16 16:05 WutheringMist My life’s gone so wrong.
First of all, I (28F) come from a Middle Eastern country where I am considered old now, or expired, rather. I'm so sick of life. I'm incapable of making it any better. I was the best student when in university. When I graduated, I hated having a job; I hated every aspect of working for anyone. I tried many times, and I failed. I started my own job, which I found miserably boring. I only enjoy reading and studying on my own, and even that "joy" is faltering after the loss of my parent recently.
Now I just feel sad and lonely all the time. Even if I wanted to get married, no one knows about my existence because I don't have any friends or relatives besides my immediate family. I just leave the house to get groceries or to the library (very seldom now). And I come from a very religious conservative family, so dating is out of the question. I don't feel comfortable doing it, nor does my family approve of it. I'm sick of feeling this urge to have someone to lean on, someone who'll be there for me no matter what. The thought is haunting me with no avail, and the fact that I don't like my remaining family members for many reasons doesn't make things any better. It's like I'm waiting for a miracle, for the right person to know I am here without me having to leave my comfort zone. This is so silly, I even admit that.
I'm not willing to do any further studies as I already have a Ph.D. I am so introverted, and trying to volunteer or talk to people anywhere or having to deal with them is a source of drain to me. I feel like a failure. This is not how I expected my future self to be.
This might be considered a rant as well. I'd appreciate any advice, though. I am seeing a therapist, but nothing is filling the void. Thanks.
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2024.05.16 16:02 AgentNamo Plateau?
Hi,
I started my weight loss journey on 03/27/2024. I am 20F, 5’5, and started at 211lbs. So far, I’ve lost 11/12lbs and I’m now down to 199/200lbs (it keeps going back and forth). Realistically, 11lbs in a month is a lot but I’ve also now noticed that I can’t really get past 199/200lbs. I’m very confused on why.
I’ve gotten my thyroid checked and despite my family history and symptoms, it appears fine. I am on hormonal birth control and I just switched birth control meds recently (last Wednesday, 05/03/2024). I do Pilates every day and rest on weekends, I’ve cut down on drinking alcohol (I still drink one day a week, Friday or Saturday), I count calories and I believe I am in a calorie deficit, and I make sure to make healthier decisions regarding food.
Anyways, my question / ask for help is that at what point does a plateau become not normal? I’ve been steady at 199/200lbs for the last two or three weeks, I think? (To be honest, the 11lbs lost was probably water weight and that’s why it came off so quickly)
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2024.05.16 15:52 karma_is_my_bf13 My husband has been deployed for several months and I don’t know where to go from here.
| My husband has been deployed for several months and I don’t know how to move forward from here. I (33f) am experiencing a deployment for the first time as a spouse. (Prior mil myself and have been on the other side with a different partner) My husband (35m) has been deployed for several months and I know the whole crew has been having a hell of a time. My husband lacks emotional intelligence and is not exactly the greatest communicator so this deployment has really tested us. He doesn’t share anything. Literally tells me that he is fine. He’s not sleeping well so he is exhausted. Otherwise I literally have no idea what’s going on with him. I’ve been told he is a loner and spends a lot of time in his office. I know he is stressed, but I don’t know what to do to help him. And he doesn’t tell me how to help either. I know he is going through a lot, but I am also going through my own set of things. We moved right before he deployed, it has been incredibly difficult making friends. I work from home so my social interactions are far and few between. I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself. I see a therapist weekly, I’ve even deactivated social media to avoid the black hole of drama. But I am lonely and sad. I try not to let him know that. I got upset last week because every conversation we were having was incredibly dry. So I got off early one day because I knew I was getting frustrated and I didn’t want to fight. I expressed that to him in an email the next day. That I was trying to do the right thing by logging off instead of creating a fight. He clearly took it really badly. Decided to ignore me for 6 days. This is the fourth time he does this. He stews and gets more and more angry instead of trying to release or calm down. He promised me he wouldn’t keep doing this and yet here we are again. I’m starting to feel like no matter what I do, I’m wrong. He seems to feel the same way. I’m also not the one implying I’m done with the relationship. I’ve never been upset about him talking to his family. I’ve only expressed confusion about how when he does talk to them, he doesn’t tell me about it. Not because I need to know but because it’s something to chat about. I always tell him when I talk to them because it’s something to talk about. Mind you they never check on me, I’m always checking on them. Trying to have a relationship since it’s so important to him. The boat hit a port the day of our anniversary. He called me drunk, we didn’t talk much cuz he was busy introducing me to everyone and directing the group of like 10 people to the next bar. He told me he would call me later and never did. He called me the next day and I told him it hurt my feelings that he didn’t call me again and that he completely seemed to have forgotten our anniversary. Mind you I sent him a card months ago for him to open on our anniversary, which he admitted he opened that day. He said that he talked to his whole family and that it’s not fair for me to expect all his phone time because he wants to talk to other people too. I have no issue with him taking to his family, let me be crystal clear. I didn’t like that he said he would do something and then didn’t. That seems to be the theme and I’m tired of feeling like I’m the problem. The first message is his email to me. The second is my response. I’m at my breaking point and I need some advice. I’m at a loss and honestly considering calling it quits. I know that sounds bad but I can’t seem to do anything right despite my best efforts. I also get zero guidance from him on what I can do. He has been very verbally abusive to me, broken my trust many times by making promises he keeps breaking and yet I keep on going. But he says he doesn’t feel like he will ever be able to open up? I don’t get it. I really really don’t get it. We did couples counseling our first year, and because of the verbal abuse, I gave him an ultimatum about getting therapy for his anger management. I don’t think he went more than a few times. I don’t think couples counseling worked well either as he didn’t share anything in sessions, he dreaded going and all the tools we learned, he doesn’t use. and it seems to upset him when I do. Like trying to avoid a fight by prefacing that I want to share something that he might be bothered by but I don’t want him to be angry at me about it. I just want to talk and move forward/find a resolution. I need advise of any kind. Good, bad or ugly. submitted by karma_is_my_bf13 to texts [link] [comments] |
2024.05.16 15:51 avaani Hypoglycemic episodes but not quite
Editing because I can’t fix title: episodes that mimic Hypoglycemic episodes but sugar levels are normal—what questions can I ask?
I’m 23F, AFAB I have atypical Cystic Fibrosis, I’m pancreatic sufficient, and no CFRD. for the past 2-3 years I’ve been having episodes that seem to mimic postprandial hypoglycemia but my levels are always above 70. I’ve had a few fasting readings that are 67-69 but I don’t have any symptoms then. The symptoms start within an hour or so of eating and my levels will be 70-80 but get to 100ish 3-4 hours after eating, which does make me nervous that something insulin related is going on. My blood pressure is normal but tends to be on the low side as well.
The episodes mostly correspond with the 7-12 days before my period but it’s not uncommon for them to happen outside of that range. The symptoms are: - high heart rate (130-150) even if at rest (resting heart rate when I’m not having an episode is 60-70 range - shaking - sweating - confusion (including slurring/stammering and switching words around) - weird tingly rising feeling inside - mouth tastes like sand/ash regardless of food or drink - pallor - certain edges blur in my vision; like where the walls meet the ceiling or floors - more frequent urination with lower output - chills
There are a few things that don’t happen every time I have an episode but have happened more than once: - Pain behind eyes - intense headache that disappears quickly
I’ve tried adjusting my diet in every way I can think of (and GI and nutrition have suggested) and nothing really seems to have an impact. Drinking sugar during/after an episode does help a bit but not by much.
My CF team seems to kind of be at a loss. All of my bloodwork is normal, weight and PFTs are fine. They’re sending me to a gynecologist because of how the episodes tend to correspond with my period. I am also seeing my PCP to get my heart checked soon.
Meds: Bupropion 450 (had been on this for about 2 years before any of these symptoms started) Levalbuterol (10+ years) Trikafta (3 years ish) Mirena iud, placed fall 2019
Vitamins Women’s one a day 2000 iu d3
Other diagnoses: PTSD/CPTSD (incest/rape trauma related, not sure how relevant that it is but I’m trying to be more detailed than not ) Major depression General anxiety Insomnia (PTSD related)
Psych meds I’ve tried a while ago but didn’t help: - Zoloft (brain fog was way worse) - lexapro (would not stay in my system, to put it politely) - latuda (didn’t do anything)
I edited my post on
cysticfibrosis after someone recommended I post here,so this part isn’t over there but —one of the things that’s getting truly untenable for me is brain fog/confusion. Since fall 2020 I’ve struggled a lot with brain fog and since it started with PTSD related events my doctors and I have been assuming it to be a mental health thing but I’m not that sure anymore.
The confusion is definitely worse during the episodes I described (and affects stuff like where I walk around and what I put down where, for example, putting my phone in a fridge or not being able to find my car) But day to day—I’m forgetting words and sentences almost immediately after thinking them. My mental health has improved a lot on Wellbutrin but I can’t tell if it’s improved the brain fog at all or just improved the other symptoms like low energy and the can’t get out of bed heaviness.
My major involves a lot of writing and the same assignments that would take me a few several hour sessions, if that, I haven’t been able to complete. I’ve spent 12 hours on essays (with only meal breaks and things like that) with about a paragraph to show for it — but what I can get out never quite matches what I’m thinking. I almost constantly have the feeling of having a word on the tip of my tongue, especially when trying to write. The things I think of seem to float away before I can keep them in my head long enough to write them down. I was supposed to graduate 3 years ago and I’ve been one full time semester’s worth of classes for these past three years because I just can’t get it done. The majority of my depression symptoms that remain have to do with the stress and feelings behind not having finished school despite being so close. On the whole though, my mental health is in the best place it’s been in pretty much my entire life And the other symptoms have improved drastically.
Last note on the day to day brain fog/confusion: I don’t switch words around when I’m not having an episode—but I have been noticing that 0-5 times a day (I can’t say for sure that it happens daily without fail but it definitely happens several times a week) that I do slur sometimes when talking? The beginnings and ends of words will just sort of smush together . This is a relatively recent development (in the last 8 months maybe?) don’t know if that’s normal person stuttering kind of thing but combined with the writing stuff it irks me more than it normally would)
I feel like a lot of these symptoms could be literally anything so I don’t know how to go about narrowing it down.
I have a check up appointment soon and I wanted to see if anyone has any suggestions for other questions or specific testing requests that I can ask my doctors for to help figure this out.
Thank you!
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