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I’ll try to keep this short but it might be long
So this whole thing will be my dream in my perspective :
I checked my boyfriends phone and found a bunch of pictures of women’s chest on there I went to talk to him about it and he said he felt bad and he’s been sad lately because he feels bad for it or something. And then I walked away mad. Anytime I tried to talk to him about it and have a conversation his family would interrupt so we couldn’t talk and then out of nowhere we started arguing in the middle of the room around his family and he starts yelling at me like I’m the problem and then this part is blurry and I don’t remember the rest of this part.
But anyways the next day I wake up (in my dream still) and I’m hanging out with his brother and another family friend of his. And they’re talking about how our fight is posted and stuff and how I was being kind of a butthole but they still liked me.
But my boyfriend had deleted me and blocked me on everything I had no way of contacting him after we broke up and then I watched the video of our argument on YouTube and I guess we ended up fist fighting and stuff and screaming at each other and everyone in the comments was calling me the horrible person and stuff and saying I was the problem.
Then I was sitting down for a bit contemplating my life wondering how I didn’t remember any of that stuff from the video and I knew it was a dream so I was like it’s just a dream and started pinching myself telling myself to wakeup this and that and it wasn’t working so after that I was like crap this is real? (This is the part that freaked me out the most bc I couldn’t escape the dream and it made me think this was real life)
Then I wanted to figure out how to talk to him so his family brought me to this thing he was doing and and I saw him he seemed sad and stuff and we chilled with his family for a bit and then before me and him could talk anything out I actually woke up.
Dream is now over. But that freaked me out so hard and I didn’t know what to do and I needed somewhere to tell about it besides my boyfriend who comforted me when I woke up from the nap.
I’ve never had a dream where when I knew it was a dream I didn’t wake up immediately after realizing so it was crazy and idk how to recover from it lol

I just wanted to figure out if a person with ADHD and Bipolar 1 are capable of thinking about their partners needs while going through a low phase. For about 3-3.5 months, this person experienced some seriously sad life events one after the other. And as they were in that space, their behaviour towards me started changing. I had to beg for attention, dates were either not getting scheduled/cancelled, time together was not prioritised, intimacy was absent. It just became phone calls, and the only content of the calls was "things that bother both of us". The flirty messages, the cute gifts, the expressing of love for each other, the dates with fun activities were not happening. Basically everything that a couple does together was not happening. I started dying inside slowly after flagging that I would like things to get better... multiple times - and they just kept getting worse. During this, my partner almost forgot that I ALSO have emotional needs, didn't check with me about how I am dealing with the changes, didn't prioritise finding a therapist until I started showing how it's taking a toll on me (considering the fact that I had become the only person they felt comfortable enough to unmask around). They kept going on dates and planning activities with other partners because they could mask around them and the NRE helped them feel bettedistract from their issues. Which made me feel sidelined, deprioritised, and neglected. Now they've finally found a therapist and they have the bandwidth to do a bit more work towards being a better partner. But the damage is already done. I obviously REALLY tried to be there for them and be patient as they went through it. But what about my needs? When will I be treated like a partner? Why wasn't I given a heads up that they are incapable of showing any emotions or caring about my emotional needs? I am really hurt and I don't feel like meeting them or talking to them anymore. But I have been madly in love with them. They need me to stick around at least at some capacity (platonic if nothing else) - which is hard for both of us. And they don't know how to undo the damage/make up for what they did and I am not in a place to tell them what they can do to make it better. My cup is empty.
Any advice for me?

Hello everyone, I hope you are doing well. I am going to start my rant by saying that this day totally sucked. First, I found out that I have not been selected for a thing I applied for and another person who was like “I’ll try just for kicks you know” was chosen. Now I’m wondering why they were better than me. Second, my boss rebuked me because I was on my phone a lot. Now, this is normally true; I have issues concentrating but that’s another story. I work with code so I launch pieces of code, and they can take a loooooong time. So, I thought why not make the most of my wait and send the email I needed to send to my doctor because I had to schedule a visit. I was typing that email and my boss reproached me. I was working, honest, I just hate waiting for the code to run. Also, I needed a distraction because yesterday has been bad to. Not this bad but still pretty rough. So I was already nervous. Let’s add the fact that the visit cost me a load of money, which I will luckily most likely get a refund for but still, it will be a hassle to apply for the refund. Then, I scheduled an operation with the doctor and my parents said I am not supposed to do that alone, that I should think twice and that I was wrong not to tell them. I took for granted the fact that I could handle it without them. I feel like every time I ask them for something they think I should be independent about it and they resent me for it, or think I am stupid. I live far away from them. Very far. Also, and I did not tell them this because I don’t feel like I can talk freely with my parents, I feel like every time I tell them something they minimise it. They never take me seriously. Neither does my sibling. And this is where my question comes from. On the phone, they were all like “your life is not so bad, you should not feel so sad. Be more positive”. I admit, I like to complain. A lot. But what I said before is real, I have been going through a rough patch: all April and even now. It doesn’t seem to be getting better. I even had to make a formal complaint because the room I rent sucks there is no chair to sit at the desk and the lights are broken; the owners were supposed to fix this yesterday (they notified me about it) and they didn’t, so I am mad. Also, all my electronic devices are giving up on me, and I need to buy new ones. It’s silly stuff, maybe, but it’s a lot. Maybe I am overreacting. Maybe I am overwhelmed. I burst into tears while on the phone with my dad. And he told me that I have no reason to cry because my life is not that bad. They believe that if you have your life together (which, really, what does that mean? Having a job and a home does not mean you have it together; there are so many things to consider) you shouldn’t be upset over things. That there is no reason to be depressed if you are not terminally ill or homeless or something like this. Is it true? Am I making mountains out of molehills? They ask me if I will stay here in this town so they can get a place, and I am anxious about them getting a place because what if I get fired? I am so nervous, it’s a lot of pressure. I stumbled while walking home, ended up in a puddle and my shoes and socks got wet. I think that was my breaking point. Does it make me a wimp? They make me feel like there is something wrong with me all the time, but are they right? I feel empty, I have no energy to do anything. I cannot even read, and that’s one of the things I love most in the world. I don’t know how to get rid of this numbness. It’s pulling me down slowly but surely, d there is no one I can talk to. My family does not understand, and my friends cannot know. Do you have any advice please? Thank you

I’m so glad this sub exists because I’ve been annoying everyone in my life with my theories about these two … I figured this would be the right place to post my speculation/lyric breakdowns of songs that they may have written about each other, split into different posts for albums for ease of reading.
Starting with Reputation (2017) – I imagine the failed relationship with Matty was still fresh for Taylor during the writing/recording of this album. Her reference to her “longings locked in lowercase inside a vault” definitely made me look back at Rep in a way I hadn’t before (and I do think we’ll see some Matty-coded vault tracks on TV”. That said I don’t want to erase her other relationships, especially with Joe, so I’ll make notes of where I think I’m either stretching for a Matty connection or I think there are multiple muses.
Special mention to “Getaway Car” which feels like another (fictionalized?) response to Robbers but the story she tells is very similar to her fling with Tom, especially given the third man in the song. I usually claim it for the maylors anyway bc who cares about Tom. Let me know what you think.
“...Ready For It?”
Knew he was a killer first time that I saw him / Wonder how many girls he had loved and left haunted / But if he's a ghost, then I can be a phantom
I can't ignore the connections here to two other songs thought to be written about M - Ghost (2014) and Haunted (2015) by Halsey (I won't bother going into the HalseyMatty lore here but I could in another post...)
"You're a Rolling Stone boy, never-sleep-alone boy / Got a million numbers and they're filling up your phone, boy" (Ghost) "I'm begging you to keep on haunting me" (Haunted) "My ghost / Where'd you go? / I can't find you in the body sleeping next to me" (Ghost)
I can be a phantom holdin' him for ransom / Knew I was a robber first time that he saw me / Stealing hearts and running off and never saying sorry / But if I'm a thief, then he can join the heist / And he can be my jailer
Robbers is one of The 1975’s most famous songs. In the music video two lovers stick up a convenience store - definitely worth a watch if you haven't seen it. In 2014 M dedicated the song to T in Dallas in November 2017 (a week after she attended the concert in LA) here and here
Burton to this Taylor
One of my favorite references that I think reveals a lot about the messy but irresistible relationship M and T seem to have. Here's a link to a great article about the wild love affair between Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton.
Every love I've known in comparison is a failure / I forget their names now, I'm so very tame now / Never be the same now
This sentiment is repeated throughout many of the songs I believe are about M. The idea of a life altering love is obviously prevalent across TTPD but also in folklore, evermore, and Midnights. ex. "I'm never gonna love again" (cowboy like me), "I don't remember who I was before you painted all my nights a color I have searched for since" (Question...?), "I felt aglow like this / Never before and never since" (loml)
Also want to mention This Must Be My Dream from 2016, which M has said is about an older gf but may fit: "Let me tell you 'bout this girl / I thought she'd rearrange my world"
No one has to know / In the middle of the night, in my dreams / You should see the things we do, baby
See Guilty as Sin? lol
Baby, let the games begin
Taylor in an interview with Glamour in February 2014:
TS: [Nods. Pauses.] I think everyone should approach relationships from the perspective of playing it straight and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Until he establishes that this is a game. And if it's a game, you need to win. The best thing to do is just walk away from the table.
CL: Is that winning?
TS: It is when they come back. [Laughs.] And if they don't, then they didn't care enough to begin with.
conclusion: I believe ...Ready For It? is a response to Robbers and reveals M and T's similar romanticism (sometimes toxic but so addicting). The mirrored stylization of ...Ready For It? and Question...? makes me think the latter is a continuation of the former. The mentions of “island breeze” and “we’ll move to an island” have made people believe this song is about Tom Hiddleston but other lyrics, namely “younger than my exes” pretty clearly contradicts that.
"End Game"
I wanna be your end game / I wanna be your first string /I wanna be your A-Team
Funny reading this after The Alchemy and So High School.
Big reputation, big reputation / Ooh, you and me, we got big reputations / And you heard about me / Ooh, you and me would be a big conversation
And they were! Especially because T hadn't been really linked to anyone after Harry, the speculation about her and M came hard and fast. M especially was inundated with questions in the months after the LA and NYC shows.
And I heard about you / You like the bad ones, too
Another possible reference to a Halsey song, this time Hurricane from 2014: "He says, "Oh, baby, beggin' you to save me / Well, lately I like 'em crazy/ Oh, maybe, you could devastate me"
I don't wanna touch you, I don't wanna be / Just another ex-love you don't wanna see / I don't wanna miss you / Like the other girls do
Very reminiscent of The 1975's song Somebody Else, released in 2016, speculated to be about T: "I don't want your body / But I hate to think about you with somebody else"
I hit you like bang, we tried to forget it, but we just couldn't
"Flashbacks waking me up / I get drunk, but it's not enough" (Death By A Thousand Cuts)
And I bury hatchets, but I keep maps of where I put 'em
"I circled you on a map / I haven't come around in so long" (The Alchemy)
Reputation precedes me, they told you I'm crazy
"And they tried to warn you about me" (The Albatross)
And I can't let you go, your hand prints on my soul
"Marked me like a bloodstain" (Cardigan)
It's like your eyes are liquor, it's like your body is gold
So many of the songs speculated to be about M reference his eyes but the most relevant (not the starry eyed motif which we'll get to in the future) are: "Eyes like sinking ships on waters / So inviting I almost jump in" (gold rush) and "But your eyes are flying saucers from another planet / Now I'm all for you like Janet" (Snow On The Beach)
"Deep blue, but you painted me golden" (Dancing With Our Hands Tied)
You've been calling my bluff on all my usual tricks / So here's the truth from my red lips
From the same Glamour article, Taylor talking about her 'trick' when dating:
CL: What's the freeze-out?
TS: You don't respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he's interested.
disclaimer: I am someone who thinks the Tom relationship was not that serious for T, so this song imo fits what she may have told us about her relationship with M more, though the beach reference does point to Tom in a way.
"Don't Blame Me"
I've been breaking hearts a long time / And toying with them older guys / Just playthings for me to use
See the quotes from the Glamour article above. "Younger than my exes, but he act like such a man, so" (...Ready For It?)
Something happened for the first time / In the darkest little paradise
May refer to the dark concert venue where they met for the first time (see So It Goes... for more)
For you / I would cross the line / I would waste my time / I would lose my mind / They say, "She's gone too far this time."
Sentiment that is repeated throughout TTPD, but most clearly in But Daddy I Love Him
My name is whatever you decide / And I'm just gonna call you mine
Though this could be a stretch, in the spotify storyline for The 1975's Oh Caroline (2022), speculated to be about T, M said "It's an invented character, where the cadence really mattered. It couldn't be "Oh Linda" or "Oh Jane" [or "Oh Taylor"] - you had to have a 3 syllable that really works. I knew what the song was about, I had felt that about someone before and I got to write an episodic, mini movie about the subject"
disclaimer: If about M, this song is very on the nose with the drug references. Generally it's a very vague song and could easily be about Joe or another ex.
"So It Goes..."
See you in the dark / All eyes on you, my magician / All eyes on us / You make everyone disappear
Likely refers to the first time T saw M in person, when she was front row at The 1975's LA show. All eyes were on M then (including T's)
"Once upon a time, the planets and the fates / And all the stars aligned / You and I ended up in the same room / At the same time" (Mastermind)
Tripping, tripping when you're gone
May relate to Don't Blame Me: "Trip of my life / every time you're touching me"
'Cause we breakdown a little / But when you get me alone, it's so simple
Maybe a stretch but M famously had a breakdown on stage in Boston on December 6, 2014. In an interview with the Guardian he said: “There was girl stuff. There was family stuff. There was financial stuff. There was drug stuff. I remember hearing the crowd and having an identity crisis. I thought: ‘If you want to see a show, I’ll give you a fucking show. If you’ve come to see the jester drink himself into a slumber, I’ll give it to you.’ I felt like I’d become an idea as opposed to being a person.”
“And I was 25 and afraid to go outside” (Give Yourself a Try)
And all the pieces fall / Right into place
"I laid the groundwork and then, just like clockwork / The dominoes cascaded in a line" (Mastermind)
Getting caught up in a moment / Lipstick on your face
"I said, "Don't fall in love with the moment" / She said I've got a lot to learn / Don't fall in love with the moment /And think you're in love with the girl" (She's American)
Come here, dressed in black now
"Yeah, we're dressed in black from head to toe" (Chocolate). Taylor was also wearing all black the night of the LA show.
conclusion: You did a number on me / But, honestly, baby, who's counting? / I did a number on you / But, honestly, baby, who's counting? ( "King of My Heart"
We met a few weeks ago / Now you try on callin' me "baby" like tryin' on clothes
The reason why I don't necessarily think Joe fits. They met at the Met Gala in 2017 and she very quickly started seeing Tom, obviously it could still be him but I wanted to note this.
"Don't call me 'kid,' don't call me 'baby' / Look at this idiotic fool that you made me" (illicit affairs)
And you move to me like I'm a Motown beat
M loves Motown, even sampling a track by The Temptations on Tonight (I Wish I Was Your Boy). He's also always loved dancing, which you can see in the videos for A Change of Heart and Oh Caroline.
Salute to me I'm your American Queen / Say you fancy me, not fancy stuff
He's English, obviously.
And we rule the kingdom inside my room / With all these nights we're spending / Up on the roof with a school girl crush
Totally speculation but M and T hiding out in her NYC home makes a lot of sense from other pieces she has shared about the relationship “My kingdom come undone” (Hoax)
Late in the night, the city's asleep / Your love is a secret I'm hoping, dreaming, dying to keep
Speculation again but fits with the story of M and T as mostly loving each other in secret (see Dancing With Our Hands Tied and Dress)
Is this the end of all the endings? / My broken bones are mending
As mentioned above, T had seemingly taken a break from dating after the breakup with Harry.
disclaimer: Definitely not 100% sure on this one as there is convincing evidence that it is about J
"Dancing With Our Hands Tied"
I, I loved you in secret / First sight, yeah, we love without reason / Oh, 25 years old
M and T were both born in 1989, M was 25 when they first met and dated and T was turning 25.
My, my love had been frozen / People started talking, putting us through our paces / I knew there was no one in the world who could take it / I loved you in spite of / Deep fears that the world would divide us
“A red rose grew up out of ice frozen ground / With no one around to tweet it” (The Lakes)
In an interview with the Guardian Matty said: “The day after she’d been to a show of ours, someone sent me a screenshot of E! News with the headline ‘Who is Matt Healy?’ That freaked me out. I’m not ready to indulge in that world and I’m not ready to be judged by that world.” So sad to read knowing that they dealt with a similar situation nearly a decade later.
Picture of your face in an invisible locket
“Wear you like a necklace” (So It Goes…)
And darling, you had turned my bed into a sacred oasis
“Now you hang from my lips / Like the Gardens of Babylon / With your boots beneath my bed” (cowboy like me)
I'd kiss you as the lights went out / Swaying as the room burned down / I'd hold you as the water rushes in / If I could dance with you again
Reminds me so much of the music video for cardigan, where T slips into a rough ocean and hangs on to a piano. Also from cardigan: “Leaving like a father / Running like water”
“Dress”
Our secret moments in a crowded room / They got no idea about me and you
"Did you ever have someone kiss you in a crowded room / And every single one of your friends was / Making fun of you" (Question...?)
There is an indentation in the shape of you / Made your mark on me, a golden tattoo
M seemingly makes a lasting impression: “Deep blue, but you painted me golden” (Dancing With Our Hands Tied) “The mark they saw on my collarbone” (Maroon) “Marked me like a bloodstain” (cardigan)
'Cause I don't want you like a best friend
T often seems to refer to a friendship with M, perhaps they tried it a few times: “We were supposed to be just friends” (Glitch) “Like you were my closest friend” (Maroon) “Just say when, I'd play again / He was my best friend / Down at the sandlot” (My Boy Only Breaks His Favorite Toys)
And if I get burned, at least we were electrified
“I'd kiss you as the lights went out / Swaying as the room burned down” (Dancing With Our Hands Tied)
I'm spilling wine in the bathtub / You kiss my face and we're both drunk
Many of the possible M songs refer to M and T’s love of wine. “And I can see us twisted in bedsheets / August slipped away like a bottle of wine” (august) “The burgundy on my T-shirt when you splashed your wine into me / And how the blood rushed into my cheeks, so scarlet, it was (maroon)” (Maroon)
disclaimer - Obviously most likely about Joe given the reference to the 2017 Met Gala but I think it was worth a mention!
“Call It What You Want”
My baby's fly like a jet stream / High above the whole scene
Probably a double-entendre. M considers himself slightly on the outside of the ‘scene’ but this can come across as self assurance. This also could refer to literally being high on drugs
Loves me like I'm brand new
After T’s clever use of The Starting Line in TTPD I’m convinced she’s referring to the band Brand New. M posted a Brand New album on his ig story in 2020.
All my flowers grew back as thorns
An interesting contrast to “I once was poison ivy, but now I'm your daisy” from Don’t Blame Me
Windows boarded up after the storm
“I look through the windows of this love / Even though we boarded them up” (Death By A Thousand Cuts)
I'm laughing with my lover
“Laughing with my feet in your lap” (Maroon) “Please don't ever become a stranger / Whose laugh I could recognize anywhere” (New Year’s Day)
Making forts under covers
Matty famously built a fort in ATPOAIM 3. “I'll build you a fort on some planet / Where they can all understand it” (Down Bad)
Trust him like a brother
“Like I lost my twin” (Down Bad)
Starry eyes sparking up my darkest night
So many starry eyed references which is terribly romantic and terribly sad. “Do I really have to chart the constellations in his eyes?” (High Infidelity), “Your opal eyes are all I wish to see” (ivy), “Eyes full of stars” (cowboy like me), and “Gazing at me starry-eyed” (The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived)
I want to wear his initial on a chain 'round my neck
“Picture of your face in an invisible locket” (Dancing With Our Hands Tied) “Wear you like a necklace” (So It Goes…)
I recall late November, holding my breath
Late November fits perfectly into the timeline of M and T’s 2014 relationship. Late October to Late DecembeEarly January makes the most sense.
Slowly I said, "You don't need to save me / But would you run away with me?"
“You're mad thinking you could ever save me. Not looking like that.” (A Change of Heart)
disclaimer: Again lots of Joe references in this as well so take this with a grain of salt.
“New Year’s Day”
You and me from the night before, but / Don't read the last page
From Me and You Together Song (2020): “I think the story needs more pages, yes.” The reference to “the last page” also makes this song feel like more of a reminiscence than a song about a current lover.
I want your midnights / But I'll be cleaning up bottles with you on New Year's Day
Impossible not to reread these lyrics after Midnights was released as a nod to M: “When the morning came we / Were cleaning incense off your / Vinyl shelf ‘cause we lost track of time again” (Maroon)
You squeeze my hand three times in the back of the taxi / I can tell that it's gonna be a long road / I'll be there if you're the toast of the town, babe / Or if you strike out and you're crawling home
Especially after the release of TTPD it seems that both T and M made many promises to each other that they couldn’t keep
Hold on to the memories, they will hold on to you / Hold on to the memories, they will hold on to you / Hold on to the memories, they will hold on to you / And I will hold on to you
The reference to memories here creates a bit of a confusing feeling about the muse for this song. Although T seems to be talking in the present tense I do think these are memories and dreams for a past relationship.
“Hold on and hope that we'll find our way back in the end / Do you think I have forgotten? / Do you think I have forgotten? / Do you think I have forgotten / About you?” (About You)
Please don't ever become a stranger / Whose laugh I could recognize anywhere / Please don't ever become a stranger / Whose laugh I could recognize anywhere
Not much to say about this but ow!
You and me forevermore
Again reminds me of Me and You Together Song (which I do buy as a song at least partially about T). And of course links to Evermore.
disclaimer: This could absolutely be about Joe but it does feel almost like a goodbye to M, closing the album. It’s as if she is reading “the last page”
Congrats if you read this lol. I clearly have too much time on my hands

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T/w: suicide
I feel like my marriage is in crisis and my husband does not want to do counseling because he doesn’t want a third party involved in our marriage.
Married 10 years with 2 school aged children. 2 months ago my husband came home with a long letter saying that I made him want to kill himself. It was a long list of complaints about me, some that I never heard before, some that I knew about, like that I am boring in bed, he doesn’t like the neighborhood we live in, he doesnt like how I plan too many vacations or things with the kids, I stress him out, that I was too sad over a miscarriage 2 years ago, he hates our cat, our kids are spoiled, things like that. He looked like he was very very very tired and like he had been out drinking all night or something but he had just gone to work and then the gym. He didn’t smell like alcohol but he just looked rough. He had never ever done anything like this before and things that week at home were totally normal. He has been blowing up more and angrier but otherwise things have been like they always have been.
I am a nurse and before we were married up to 3 years ago used to work in a psych hospital. My husband (Jake) always used to accuse me of having a thing for one of the doctors there (Brian). Brian and I would text outside of work, usually things like memes about our job. It was never in the slightest romantic and he talks to everyone he works with. He is very extroverted and kind of gossipy. Brian since married and had a baby and Jake and I know his wife and kid. I have told Jake many times there was nothing to worry about and got a new job in a clinic where I didn’t see Brian any more. After that we would send Christmas cards and things and sometimes Brian would text me things going on at the hospital like when another nurse’s spouse died . Again, nothing romantic. I know i probably should have stopped replying to him because it made Jake uncomfortable but I didn’t because I considered Brian a friend and thought Brian was harmless.
Well, this is where I f*** up. First I really should have stopped talking to Brian. But, when I got this letter from Jake and he came home in distress I didn’t know what to do and called Brian because he is the only psych I know and I thought he could tell me what I need to do. Brian then told me it was a very dangerous situation and he called the authorities and they put Jake in a hold. I will mention one thing is Brian knows Jake is really into guns and has a large gun collection so that may have been why he thought it was so dangerous.
They let Jake out 72 hours later with some new meds and now he is furious with me. He has been saying that Brian and I were “setting him up” and having an affair. I have begged and pleaded to get him to understand I called him because I thought he would help but he does not believe me. He has also accused me of talking to divorce lawyers since October 2022. I don’t know where he got that date because it is so specific and I have never contacted any divorce lawyer.
I completely cut off Brian and blocked him on social media and text and told him I was not happy with him for calling 911 and that is not why I called. Some other old coworkers have reached out to try to talk to me about it and I blocked them too.
My in laws are now telling Jake to leave me because I got him locked up and am a cheater. But Jake has told them he’s not leaving me.
I’m not sure what to do. I have tried to give Jake access to my computer so he can see there’s no divorce lawyers in my email and phone so he can see all of my texts with Brian. I have told Jake I want to work with a counselor on all of the things he is upset about especially being bad in bed and I started seeing a sex therapist and pelvic floor specialist. But Jake does not want to do counseling with me because he doesn’t want anyone else involved. And he is 100% convinced that I was cheating and talking to divorce lawyers. Every time we talk about it he says that the hold was all my fault and that I am a cheater and betrayed him.
I really love him and I know I made a huge mistake in how I handled that situation. Everything was going so well up until this night and we have two great kids. And, he has not had any incidents like this since, he is just very mad about everything that happened. Is there anything I can do to get him to believe me that I was just trying to help him and didn’t mean to get him locked up? Is there any coming back from this?

Hey! Bloodied Chef here with some advice for new players, as some that I’ve helped on Xbox and PC are having issues in game!

1. Donation Boxes - Sometimes you’ll find items that have spawned in the boxes, and sometimes you’ll find items that players have put into the donation boxes that’s free loot! Take them! There’s 21 donation boxes all together. Outside Vault 76, Outside the Wayward, Outside the Flatwoods Church, Berkeley Station, Charleston Station, Grafton Station, Lewisburg Station, Morgantown Station, Pleasant Valley Station, R&G Station, Sunnytop Station, Sutton Station, The Whitespring Station, Watoga Station, Welch Station, The Whitespring Resort, Fort Atlas, Nuka-World on Tour, The Crater, Foundation and the Overseers Home! All reset daily.
   
2. A full storage box - Sometimes you’ll find that your storage box is full and you can no longer place items into it, here is some ways around that. You can use a workbench/armorbench/tinkerbench to scrap some weapons/armor or junk down. Scrapping any armor or weapons down, will give you the possibility to unlock some attachments for the weapon!
   
3. Power Armor Frames - When you’ve first started the game, you won’t be able to use any power armor until level 25 BUT you can find Power Armor Chassis around the playable map, as long as you take the armor off of the frame, you can simply use the frame for a added bit of protection. You can, around the map at certain spawn points, find T-45 Armor pieces and Raider Armor pieces at level 10.
   
4. Perks - Although everyone has their own ways of playing the game, these are some very useful perks and what they do. These are some of the most useful ones in my opinion.
   
   • Strength.
5. Full Charge : Sprinting in Power Armor consumes no extra fusion core energy. (Can be upgraded twice.)
   
6. Travelling Pharma : Weights of all chems, (including stimpaks) are reduced by 30%. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
   

- Perception. 

• Green Thumb : Reap twice as much when harvesting flora.
• Picklock : Gain +1 lockpicking skill, and the lockpicking ‘sweet spot’ is 10% larger. (Added onto Expert & Master Picklocking.)
  
  • Endurance.
• Aqua Boy : You no longer take rad damage from swimming and can breathe underwater.
  
• Life Giver : Gain a total of +30 to your maximum health. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
  • Charisma.
• Hard Bargain : Buying and selling prices at non player vendors are now much better. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Travel Agent : you now pay 30% less caps to fast travel.
  
  • Intelligence.
• First Aid : Stimpaks restore 15% more lost health. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Power User : Fusion core duration now lasts 30% longer. (can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Portable Power : All power Armor pieces and chassis weights are reduced by 25%. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Contractor : Crafting workshop items now costs 50% fee materials. This branch does include the Hacker perk line, gunsmith and science perk lines!
  
  • Agility.
• Ammosmith : Produce 40% more rounds when crafting ammunition.
  
• Home defence : You can craft better turrets and traps (Plans required.) (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Light Footed : While sneaking, you never trigger mines or floor based traps.
  
• Packin’ light : Your pistols weigh 25% less. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
  • Luck.
• Scrounger : 40% Chance to find extra ammo in ammo containers. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Cap Collector : You find 33% more bottle caps in caps stashes. (can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• Pharma Farma : 40% chance to find extra first aid chems in Chen containers. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  
• WoodChucker : Collect twice as much wood from harvesting wood.
  
• Can Do! : 40% chance to find extra canned goods in food containers. (Can be upgraded 3 times.)
  

1. Listen to advice from older and veteran players! : Don’t be scrounging or begging other players for items. A small group of the community will have in words, ‘safe zone’ or ‘free resources & workbenches’ somewhere in their camp, but not all will give you free items! Don’t get upset with them if they don’t give you free items! In some camps, they have open beds and workbenches you can use! Some players have traps in their camps, as a joke but some will kill you with the traps!

That’s it for now, as my phone is lagging like mad! Remember, not every player is going to be friendly to new players! Chef out.

Hi yall, haven’t really talked to anyone about my situation and seeking advice on what you might do in my shoes.
I’ve (34 M) been with my gf (30 F) for 3 and half years, coming up 4 years in October, she has a 5 year old that lives with us and we’ve been living together now for just about a year. Our lease renewal is at the end of the month.
My issue is I caught her lying to me about dropping off her coworker home from work. She’s a server so she gets off work late and sometimes goes to a bar that she and I frequent with her coworkers afterwards.
Well one night, about 2 months ago, she called me when she got off work when I was leaving the bar with some friends and had told me she was dropping her coworker, let’s call her Tammy. I don’t know if it was instinct or if I picked up something in the way she communicated but something felt off. Mind you she’s given Tammy rides home after work before but this was the first time I felt like she was hiding something.
Next morning I went through her phone and checked her recently deleted messages and saw she had deleted messages from her coworker, let’s call him Andy, basically saying hey you better stay for a drink at my place and her replying ok we need to leave rn now then.
We share each others locations and I checked her location last night when she said she was dropping off Tammy, the same location she always drops off Tammy at, so turned she hadn’t been dropping off Tammy she was dropping off Mike and there had been nights where she’s there until 4 in the morning while I’m thinking “oh she’s hanging out at Tammy’s after she left the bar” when in fact she’s been hanging out at Andy’s. This has happened maybe 3 times.
I lose my cool and wake her up went off on her. She didn’t get defensive or argumentative, her excuse was that she felt weird about befriending a male coworker and felt that I would get mad if I knew who she was with. She swears up and down , on my life, on her life, on her kids life that nothing has happened between them and that it’s always just been hanging out after the bar and having a couple beers. She sobbed and was very apologetic about lying to me, understands why I’m upset and how it looks bad. She understands she broke our trust and it will take time for me to build that trust again. She says she’ll never do anything like that again and doesn’t want to lose me and will prove to me that she can be the partner that she needs to be to make our relationship work.
Some additional bullet points for context. He also has a girlfriend that he lives with. When I went through her messages I didn’t see anything inappropriate exchanged between them. I have female friends and she has male friends and we’ve never been jealous or weird about having friends of the opposite sex. I’ve met her male friends and male coworkers and have gone out drinking with them before and have never had issues or given her reason to feel like she can’t have male friends. I’ve gone through her phone again recently and there hasn’t been any contact between them since then and she hasn’t been going to the bar after work.
My whole issue is I can’t wrap my head around why she would lie about this and why is she spending time with him into the late late night hours after leaving the bar. In my mind you would only do all that if you were doing something you shouldn’t be doing. I can’t shake the feeling that she’s not giving me the whole truth.
Our lease renewal is at the end of the month and it has me wondering if I want to stay in this relationship. I still love her very much but harbor some resentment towards her now, and part of me still feels like there more to the story than what she’s told me. I keep asking myself “Do I want to stay with someone does stuff like this and that lies to me about this almost 4 years into our relationship?”
That’s basically it more or less, sorry for the long rant. What would you do in my shoes Reddit?

So today it happened and we technically live together. I leave back to my place in August as plan was someone take over my spot so i could save for my car at his. Only thing I pay for is wifi and transportation if he's working. I was supposed to come back in Nov when lease ends but highly doubt we will be back together. He's more forgiving when he's horny so I know he'll want to be friends but conditional because I help him with his daughter as a single dad (the ex passed away n no relationship with his relatives). Anyways, I feel like when he's mad its not really about the thing we are discussing and that's the annoying part but i cant not talk to him lol.
We broke up today as his insecurities got the best of him. I apologized for not answering his calls as my phone has issues and i forgot to turn it back on and slept. He thinks i brought someone by the house....or left to be with that person. I said i can show him proof from friends messages telling her i didnt get any of her calls or texts as well but he's convinced! Told him I'll sleep in daughter's room or the couch and will take time away from the house doing hobbies with friends or visit my mom every other week (i cant stay with her). I have 3 months here I just want to be cordial and not get on each others nerves. It hurt and i cried but I think of the bad times and want to be clear headed when school starts so it's for the best. Plus my celibacy journey can begin.

We just returned from a 7 day Alaskan cruise to Glacier Bay, and it was honestly a terrible experience, all in all, and it was our first time cruising. I hope it's okay for us to share our experience here. I've seen many other posts here reviewing Princess cruises and sharing experiences, so hopefully this is okay.
Warning, this post is a bit long. TL;DR, Princess dropped the ball multiple times, and created a terrible first time cruise experience for us.

• First, due to weather delays, our initial flight took off an hour late. Then, when going to land, our pilot missed the landing due to the wind, causing us to have to ascend again, loop around, and land again, all in very heavy turbulence. Our gate was on the other side of the airport, so we ran the distance between the two gates, and missed the gate closing by 1 minute. (Never mind the fact that the plane then sat on the tarmac for over an hour due to, you guessed it, weather delays). I mainly blame Denver Airport for this, but it's important context for how Princess handled what came next.
• All of those airport delays isn't really Princess's fault. What follows IS their fault, however. We booked these flights through Princess EZ Air, we figured this was a good idea as it had a guarantee we'd be on the boat when it set sail. That is how they market their "EZ Air" program. So, after missing our connecting flight, we call Princess, and they were absurdly unhelpful. They misunderstood what we said, they tried to blame us, and finally told us we just had to contact United Airlines to get a new flight, stating that United was responsible, not Princess.
• United did get us a new flight, after 30 minutes of chatting, but the new flight was 2 hours later, and then on top of that, it was delayed another hour and a half. So by now, we're getting very worried that we don't arrive in time for departure in Vancouver now. We were supposed to arrive about 5 hours before departure.
• When we arrive in Vancouver, we have 1 hour to go before the ship departs, but we're still in the airport. After finally making it through customs and getting our luggage, we make it to the Princess representatives, as we paid extra to get a shuttle from the airport to the cruise docks. We've been running through the Vancouver airport for all this, and when we arrive, they tell us it's too late, they can't get us to the cruise ship in time, and we'll just have to call Princess customer support again.
• And now we're back to Princess being awful again. It took over an hour of being on hold, and explaining the situation multiple times to multiple people. The called dropped once too, and they never called back, despite me just giving them my callback number. We weren't the only passengers to have missed the ship, either, and all of our groups were struggling to get through to customer service.
• Again, they tried to blame us, stating that they saw "none of our flights were delayed", when they clearly had been, when we clearly told them they had been on multiple previous phone calls. After arguing with them for an hour, they finally agreed they'd get us on a plane to Juneau, and we could board the ship 2 days later. We would be responsible for our own hotels though. Lovely.
• We tried to make the best of it for those 2 days, but honestly, we were crushed. This was supposed to be a big vacation for us, my first time cruising, and a massive expense that was starting to feel like a an equally massive mistake.
• The hotels in Vancouver and Juneau were nice, but expensive. But that's not important to the story for now.
• Two days later, Ruby Princess pulls into dock at Juneau, and we head down to board finally. Except, this is where Princess drops the ball again. We were told to wait on the pier while everyone disembarked first. Making 4 people wait for 3000 to disembark is a joke. But what made it worse was it was raining, windy, cold as hell, no where to sit, the security staff were being weird and defensive, and the best part, Princess ended up forgetting about us on the pier for 3 hours. Guests that had left while we waited had gone into town and returned while we were told to wait.
• I ask the security personel for what must have been the 10th time if they could check up on what's going on. Twenty minutes later, someone comes down to take us on board. We were told we needed to take our own luggage on board, and Princess made no accomodation for my ankle injury, or my wife's hand injury.
• Once inside the ship, they told us how sorry they were, they had been expecting us, but they weren't sure where communication had broken down. The head security woman told us they would be in contact with us to discuss the situation. However, she never called, and we never saw her again.
• At this point, we're finally on board, and we just want to put all this crap behind us, and try to enjoy the remainder of the cruise. And there were certainly good parts. Alaska is beautiful, the towns we visited were great, Glacier Bay is breathtaking, and we even saw the northern lights a bit. In Princess's defense, the food was also delicious. On the flip side, there was never any explanation about how things worked on the ship. We were never told how our medallions functioned by the crew, we just kind of figured it out on our own.
• We went down to talk to guest services two days later. They offered us a 1000$ credit for a future cruise, but my wife and I aren't really pleased with Princess, so why would we want to cruise with them again? We declined. They told us they would come back to us with another offer, but it would be lower, but wouldn't tell us how much lower. A bit odd.
• Final day of the cruise, they come back and offer us 200$ of on-ship credit. We declined, and they said if we had any greivances still, we'd need to talk to on-shore customer service. It's almost like they had forgotten entirely how awful our experience had been... which honestly, might be exactly what happened.
• While on board, we had a mixed bag of experiences. There was a sickness outbreak, and this seemed to cause a large portion of the crew to call out sick. This caused wait times for food, drinks, and dining, to sometimes exceed over an hour. Often, we would put in an order, and it would eventually be marked "delivered", but we never saw it. I don't blame Princess for this, they were taking precautions to prevent the spread of sickness, but it sort of compounded on top of our already poor experience.
• When it came time to disembark, they gave us the wrong color of luggage tags, and we had to correct this with guest services as well. This took well over an hour, as the line was long.
• Then when it came time to be transported via bus from cruise dock to airport, they got us to the airport after several delays, and only 1 hour to spare for us to get through international customs. It was yet again another terrible mad dash through the airport, and Princess to blame. Princess EZ Air, if nothing else, is a total scam. If you are cruising through Princess, you are better booking your own flights and arriving the day before.
• And now here we are, finally home. I loved the parts of the cruise that went well, namely Alaska itself, but Princess seemed to drop the ball at every point. We couldn't be more disappointed, and will absolutely be avoided Princess and their affiliated cruise lines in the future.
• And lastly, after contacting Princess customer support now we are home, we're told it will be 4 to 6 weeks for our support tickets to be reviewed (and I gotta say, I'm pretty convinced they are gonna get lost in the shuffle, and/or be denied).

So, I'd love to know, is our story completely unusual? It seems like everything that could go wrong, DID go wrong. Is there any avenues to negotiate some kind of partial refund with Princess, for them to make this right? I've put in support tickets, but my faith that they will process them and make it right is supremely low.
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Hello all. Looking to offload a bunch of my manga. There’s both some OOP sets as well as some common series.
PLEASE NOTE…..
I AM NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING TO SPLIT SETS PLEASE DONT ASK FOR SPLITS.
ONLY US SHIPPING.
I AM OPEN TO OFFERS.
Full DISCLAIMER that I have not read any of these series. They have been bought either new or used and have been sitting on my bookcases this whole time. There is varying degrees of yellowing from series to series and volume to volume. Most have some degree of normal shelf wear. There may be ripped/marked pages or even missing pages (although I doubt it as most of the volumes as you’ll see in the pictures are in overall good to great condition).
They have been kept away from sunlight (blackout curtains on the bookcases) and my apartment is a non-smoking apartment.
All series have pictures of the series as a whole as well as what I can visually inspect and find anything on the outside of the volumes. PLEASE LOOK AT THE PICTURES TO SEE THE FULL CONDITION OF THE SERIES. If you need any clarification or more pictures of a series or a volume please let me know and I can get more pictures or clarify the extent of the damage if there is any.
All packages are shipped using Media Mail or whichever method is cheaper unless otherwise discussed for a different option. Any Package over $200 will have a signature required
I will ship these out as promptly as possible.
UPDATED TIMESTAMP https://imgur.com/a/6kmVDqF
MANGA FULL/PARTIAL SETS
GTO 14 Days in Shonan 1-9 $199: https://imgur.com/a/BDAxPLk
Tokyo ESP 1-8 $75.8: https://imgur.com/a/HLYaKIv
Jack the Ripper 1-5 $64: https://imgur.com/a/dAnXyNu
Doubt 1-2 (G3) $25.5: https://imgur.com/a/eCGFXh7
As Miss Beelzebub Likes 1-8 $77.3: https://imgur.com/a/d4SxSvF
Helvatica Standard Italic and Bold $25.5: https://imgur.com/a/0yVvc5a
Sickness Death 1-2: $22.5: https://imgur.com/a/DC5aY8C
Moteki 1-2: $31: https://imgur.com/a/owHeRFd
7th Garden 1-8: $55: https://imgur.com/a/vMDFKOS
Lament of the Lamb 1-5 $38.5: https://imgur.com/a/uJL4TWi
A Centaurs Life 1-16 $110.5: https://imgur.com/a/kEjlS3I
Not Lives 1-10 $54.8: https://imgur.com/a/9xHc3s3
Ultra man 1-3 $25.5: https://imgur.com/a/IxhKha3
Steins Gate 1-3 with volume 1 Loot Crate Ed: $73.9: https://imgur.com/a/ozbXByP
Cat Paradise 1-5 $48.8: https://imgur.com/a/C0NHRcS
Afterschool Charisma 1-12 $104.5: https://imgur.com/a/dqgSepT
Franken Fran Omnibus 1-4 $105: https://imgur.com/a/HUuzIyf
Croquis Pop 1-6 $59.3: https://imgur.com/a/9AAqQdd
Blue Dragon: Ral Grad 1-4 $40: https://imgur.com/a/OgXOTRi
Nora: The Last Chronicle 1-9 $65: https://imgur.com/a/z1gKt6K
Holy Corpse Rising 1-7 $68: https://imgur.com/a/0zMAmVL
Evergreen 1-4 $30.5: https://imgur.com/a/X4kHQJl
Tomodachi x Monster 1-3 $20.5: https://imgur.com/a/vgtS0OI
Clay Lord 1-3 $20.5: https://imgur.com/a/Iiglf8K
Die Wergelder 1-2 $30.5: https://imgur.com/a/j845ceF
Handa-Kun 1-7 $73: https://imgur.com/a/OzHnY01
Clockwork Planet manga 1-10 $99.9: https://imgur.com/a/RhTZ7UI
Himouto Umaru-Chan 1-10 $102: https://imgur.com/a/vxctepq
Immortal Hound 1-6 $57: https://imgur.com/a/mchdje7
Drifting Classroom singles 1-11 $235: https://imgur.com/a/ocIEFQj
To the Abandoned Sacred Beast 1-9 $68.4: https://imgur.com/a/drRKrM5
Zero Familiar Omnibus 1-3 $79.6: https://imgur.com/a/h8ZbSPk
Zero Familiar Chronicles 1-4 $30: https://imgur.com/a/VoJpHEY
Genshiken 1-9 $55: https://imgur.com/a/FYgcBNP
Nirvana 1-2 $14: https://imgur.com/a/iZM0Ykl
Arpeggio of Blue Steel 1-15 $210: https://imgur.com/a/jrZpjQa (ON HOLD)
Dragon Drive 1-14 $140: https://imgur.com/a/1vOAIAk
War World Blue 1-7 $39: https://imgur.com/a/S1EvMxf
Ancient Magus Bride 1-12 including special booklet $89.4: https://imgur.com/a/MZYOyrm
Grand Blue Dreaming 1-9 $81: https://imgur.com/a/ThkB6uR
Servamp 1-13 $143.3: https://imgur.com/a/eUmYvOr
Urusei Yatsura 1-7 $105: https://imgur.com/a/X1oFmkV
Devils and Realist 1-15 $192: https://imgur.com/a/HPygdtC
D-Frag 1-13 $195: https://imgur.com/a/LRu7jWN
Ajin Demi-Humans 1-14 $132: https://imgur.com/a/CWqqu76
Haganai 1-18 plus 50% more fails and Club Minutes $490: https://imgur.com/a/pe9miPe
Shield Hero Manga 1-4 $36: https://imgur.com/a/ngj3RO7
Delinquent Housewife 1-4 $38.4: https://imgur.com/a/JIX0eHj
H.P. Lovecraft At Mountains Madness 1-2 $28: https://imgur.com/a/otM8XMY
Kuma Miko 1-8 $72.6: https://imgur.com/a/gKwpXob
Yokai Rental Shop 1-4 $35: https://imgur.com/a/nV0ogZe
Ghost Diary 1-3 $26: https://imgur.com/a/LV4v7Hp
Didn’t I Say to Make My Abilities Average 1-3 $37: https://imgur.com/a/SGkl3be
Land of the Lustrous 1-9 $88.5: https://imgur.com/a/7XyfHzS
Emannon 1-3 $33: https://imgur.com/a/6Z1jkKp
LIGHT NOVELS FULL AND PARTIAL SETS
No Game No Life 1-10 97.3: https://imgur.com/a/6OIObXb
Goblin Slayer 1-9 $83.2: https://imgur.com/a/wLT1Yk6
Spice and Wolf LN 1-21 $231: https://imgur.com/a/h30MTQm
Wolf and Parchment 1-3 $33.5: https://imgur.com/a/6fhsX0P
Grimgar of Fantasy and Ash 1-13 $126.9: https://imgur.com/a/5ltzcKQ
Haruhi Suzumiya Hardcover Light Novel 1-11 $393: https://imgur.com/a/42QCvgn
Another Hardcover LN $21.7: https://imgur.com/a/UIiTYMu
Another Episode S/O HC LN $19.8: https://imgur.com/a/GX4YAg9
Pretty boy Detective Club LN 1-3 $31: https://imgur.com/a/xIE9M4p
Ancient Magus Bride Silver Yarn $9: https://imgur.com/a/DpBEsOB
Ancient Magus Bride Golden Yarn $9: https://imgur.com/a/Z56HdfE
SINGLE VOLUMES
The Mysterious Underground Men $95: https://imgur.com/a/xff7GkK
Haruhi Manga Anthology $16: https://imgur.com/a/B0xCET1
Another Omnibus Volume $20: https://imgur.com/a/GBOhHVF
Summer Wars $18: https://imgur.com/a/Fz3CWvq
Gantz (32,33, 35, 36 sold) 10, 12, (10 & 12 are ex library copies) 34 still available, SOLD INDIVIDUALLY NOT AS A SET. $45 for v34, 10 and 12 for $14 each: https://imgur.com/a/0ETgC1t
Dream Fossil $17.8: https://imgur.com/a/M4d07mD
She and Her Cat $10.5: https://imgur.com/a/ugTlUci
Venus in the Blind $19: https://imgur.com/a/hLuIyFJ
Scumbag Loser $16.5: https://imgur.com/a/FZuhHni
Ancient Magus Bride Supplement 1 $9: https://imgur.com/a/pqYAxti
Ancient Magus Bride Supplement 2 $9: https://imgur.com/a/aXYOknU
Ancient Magus Bride Merkmal Official Guide book $9: https://imgur.com/a/t26T7G3
Gigi Monster with slipcover $30: https://imgur.com/a/WpiNfNu
Maiden Railway $8: https://imgur.com/a/GzDKh4O
An Invitation from a Crab $10: https://imgur.com/a/t3UGJiE
A Girl on the Shore $11.5: https://imgur.com/a/EKbvRQY
PEZ $8: https://imgur.com/a/uUxTgZN
ARTBOOKS/ILLUSTRATIONS
Tokyo Ghoul are: Zakki $15: https://imgur.com/a/CoNXxX4
D.Gray Man Illustrations NOCHE $25: https://imgur.com/a/zot5KUc
The Art of My Neighbor Totoro $30: https://imgur.com/a/ECaDNkx
Otomo: $19: https://imgur.com/a/P5gPysl4

Hi bondhas, this will be a long post. I'm 34(m) moved to the US 13 years ago. I grew up in a lower middle class family with a sister. My parents were educated (graduates), but because they were kinda immature and made a couple of bad decisions in life, they remained poor. My mother stayed at home, but my dad kept trying his luck with different businesses and failing at whatever he tried, so we always had to look for money at every stage till I started earning. On top of this my mom was a heart patient, needed some surgeries in my childhood. So they sent my sister to my grand parents' place in Vijayawada where she grew up with my cousin. My parents realized the value of education, so they somehow sent me to a good CBSE school in Hyderabad. Most kids at my school came from families richer than mine. I was embarrassed about my family tbh, but I also had a lot of fire in me to study well and get out of my situation. I was always a rebel since childhood. Things worked out, and life is good for me right now. I'm not super rich or anything but I don't have to think about just eating out or splurging on an iPhone every year.
My sister on the other hand grew up as a silent, above average, traditional, conformist kid. She went to a typical state syllabus school like Bhashyam in Vijayawada (not that it's a bad thing, but just trying to paint a picture) and then studied engineering and found a job in Hyderabad. So twist entante, my dad passed away 6 years ago, and my whole larger family pressured my mom in to getting her married asap in a year. Because, we didn't have much property my sister didn't get any good matches. She had to compromise and marry a guy my family found. Back then I really thought it was a very bad idea but I let her make the decision, and being a conformist, she agreed to marry him. She liked him initially, had a kid, but recently they started having a lot of fights. He's a bully who treats women as second class citizens. He's verbally abusive and keeps calling her dumb, ignorant, dismisses her opinions, and basically treats her like his servant. For example, he expects her to do his laundry, pack his clothes when he's going on a trip, etc. When I visited them, I really felt bad for her. I asked her to really think if she wants to be in such a relationship where she's not respected as a human being. She had a major fight with him two weeks ago, and came back to stay at my mom's place with her kid.
Overall, I just feel really sad that she didn't take control of her life when she really needed to, and she let the family pressure her in to getting married in a rush. I'm also really upset that we still have educated men in our society who behave this way in 2024. I am mad at my mom for convincing to have the kid, when clearly their relationship was not strong enough and my sister said its too soon. This is a story of what happens when women are raised in a very traditional manner, they don't own their life, they just go with what others tell them, and one day when the dad dies, all hell breaks lose. If you are used to being a passenger, you can't wake up one day suddenly, and sit in the driver's seat and start driving the car. Everyday, I feel extremely guilty that my life is successful, and my sister's life is a mess, and I feel helpless.

okay so i turned 18 on 4/20 so a few weeks ago now and i was, and still am, very against selective service, i didn’t want to sign up, i wasn’t going to sign up, i did not sign up. or so i thought until yesterday, i got a letter in the mail basically saying “thank you for registering” with the card and other garbage they packaged with it, i plan to shred the majority of it. i never once signed a single item related to selective service while i was 18, the only thing i can think is FAFSA but i signed that when i was a minor which would make it a non-binding signature.
ever since i got that letter i have felt like shit, when i got it i read it over a few times in disbelief, then after a while i just sat their and cried over it. i have talked to one person about it online and that was it, i haven’t talked about it to anyone else. i have a history of taking an insane amount of painkillers at once, to the point when im not allowed to have them without another person handing me a certain amount (i was taking 4x the recommended dose in one sitting) and i feel worse than i did while i was taking that stuff, i don’t want to start doing it again but at the same time i do and i don’t know what to do. i also have done other things always to hurt myself but in a way that didn’t leave any outward physical damage, id hold my breath until i passed out, close myself off from everyone (what im doing now) and id pull my hair as hard as possible to cause pain.
today at school was supposed to be a fun day, it was senior day and we visited our elementary school and played games and grilled. i was having a good time surprisingly until a teacher got mad for kicking a ball and it just knocked me back down and i felt like shit again. it feels like nothing is going right, i can’t get the selective service out of my mind now. i’m supposed to go to my friends house in less than an hour to work on college stuff and i don’t want to, i just want to stay in my room by myself.
i had thought of sending a letter to the selective service people telling them to kiss my ass with a ton of their personal information at the bottom (names, addresses, family members) that’s stuff but i don’t want to get in trouble for doing that, so i didn’t, not yet at least. i really want to do something, because this is bullshit.
i was never given a choice, i wasn’t going to sign it even if it was illegal i did not care, i feel like garbage. how is this even legal? it is blatant sex discrimination and coercion and is unconstitutional, yet it somehow remains, i hate it. i don’t envy women for a lot as they have other bad issues, but this is one of them, it makes me dislike being a guy, i don’t want to sound like like a whiny child but at this point i wish i was not born a boy, it just feels like i’m a tool for the old lazy bastards in the government. i don’t know what to do, i don’t know what i can do.

My boyfriend M(16) me F(17) he says I cheated on him. So previously in the past I did cheat on him and he found out but we waited a month. He said he was ready to get back together so we did. It’s been a few months he and I have both made mistakes but he’s mad a lot more than me. Every time I forgive him and move on and of course over time my trust in him has gone away. But I still trust him and trust that he had the best intentions for our relationship and us. Anyways we went through a really rough patch like he broke up with me for no reason and then was crying to me that he didn’t know why. So after we broke up he added girls on snap and I added guys on snap. After that we removed them once we got back together. So he did something with a girl at his work which really hurt me and if it were me who did it he would have been angry. I was telling him how it wasn’t okay. My parents told me about how they were talking a lot and smiling and laughing together and he pinky promised her. We don’t have friends with the opposite gender it just wasn’t what we wanted for our relationship we both agreed on that. So when I found out I was upset and so I broke up with him. In that short time I added guys on snap and then when we got back together I stopped. I deleted snap completely. Before I deleted snap some of the guys wouldn’t stop calling me so i answered the call and told them to stop and then I deleted it. Well I was at a sectionals meet and I asked him to grab my phone so I could listen to music. He’s acting weird I could see he was going through it when he was walking towards me so I already knew he thought he found something. But I grabbed my phone anyways and continued warming up. He said he would tell me after. Then he blew up was yelling at me saying I cheated he wouldn’t let me explain he said he has picture proof. He kept going on and on he’s blocked me on everything but I have proof I didn’t cheat. He’s telling people someone told him and a bunch of shit but i definitely did not cheat on him. I love him so much and I don’t know what to do. We have been through so much together and have done so much stuff and he took so many of my first and I feel so connected to him. I apologized and everything he won’t hear me out but tbh I don’t think I did anything wrong especially not cheat. I genuinely do not know what to do and I can’t stop feeling absolutely horrible. I can’t keep any food down and I just feel sick.

Here is my break up story.
He(29) and I(F25) have been together for almost three years. We had some differences, that’s for sure. He had a brain injury that had an impact on his speech, and motor skills. Sometimes he couldn’t feed himself without flinging it everywhere, so I would happily help. He couldn’t walk correctly without it eventually leading to falling down. I would be his human crutch, he would stand behind me with his hands on my shoulders and the weight of our bodies would work together to keep him upright. It was much easier for me to put his socks on him, than for him to do it some days. So I would do that, and so on. I never minded, not one bit. It never even crossed my mind as the slightest bit of inconvenience. I loved him, and still do - and that love was untouchable. Could not be matched. That’s not to say he won’t find someone who loves him as much as I do, but I know that my love for him was unconditional, and endless. It was strong, and overpowered anything else. We both had insecurities, often he’d ask me who was messaging me when it really was just a game notification, or ten. I played a lot of phone games; bingo, solitaire, slots, word games, whatever. They’d coincidentally all notify me at the same time, typically on the hour, every few hours. I’d do the same, ask “who are you texting?”. Funny, neither of us had a reason to worry about it… to this day, we don’t.
We also had great similarities, we worked together, in my eyes. We would laugh about the dumbest things. We knew exactly how to comfort each other. The little sweet things all added up and made for what I thought was a perfect little peaceful home. Our views on social issues, or moral standards aligned well. Of course, we had some disagreements too, but no two people in this world are 100% eye to eye.
April 6th this year, last month, I boarded my first ever plane, at the age of 25 with him. We were flying to Florida to stay with his mom and her long-term boyfriend at a new home she had just purchased, a seasonal home. This trip was really fun. I loved the time I got to spend with him, and his mom and her partner. On the last full day we were there we had gone to a beach, and as cheesy as it sounds - he picked up a pretty dull looking seashell that was in front of him. He asked me to add it to the bag of unique looking shells I had walked around gathering. I asked him why… It looked so ordinary. He told me for some reason that’s the first thing he spotted when he realized he wants to marry me someday. This made me happy, it made me feel even more secure than I already did.
Fast forward to when we arrive home, the following day. We relaxed over the weekend and then returned to our Monday through Friday jobs. I worked 9-5, and then three nights of the week would have night class from 6-10. He worked 3-11, and so he’d get home just a tad bit later than me. I almost always stayed up to see him, we’d say hi, cuddle, and go to bed. Each weekend we had with each other we would spend time doing whatever, but together. Come the beginning of May, it was a Monday. I went into school 30 minutes early as requested to speak with the director of education. They terminated my enrollment due to an incident that occurred between me and 5 other classmates. An argument, one that should not have happened. I had remorse for this. He had told me the night the argument happened, while I was upset, that he won’t be mad if I get terminated, he thought my reaction to the situation and how I handled it was valid. As long as I stuck through and didn’t drop out over it then he wouldn’t be mad. I agreed, no dropping out. Thursday I got a text message from him. He told me that I have 8 days to move out. That our relationship has been such a big part of his life for so long, he needed to be on his own, be with his friends - essentially that he needed to find himself. In this message he always advised this was nothing I did, that he will cherish all the memories he has that we made together. He also said that he doesn’t want me reaching out unless it was to discuss the division of our belongings, and that doing this face to face would not be healthy or productive, it will just make it harder.
So… Hold on. A month ago, you told me you love me so much, and one day you’re sure you’re going to marry me. I could hear the honesty and vulnerability in your voice, I could see it in your face. Now, all of the sudden, even though you called me babe just this morning, and asked me to pick stuff up from the store for you on my way home… a couple hours later, out of nowhere, you’re just…done? This doesn’t make sense. None of it makes sense. I am destroyed. I love you more than anything and would have - did, do anything I possibly could for you, but you think life without me will be better? That fucking hurt, no actually - I swear it killed a part of me. I’m not angry. I am so god damn fucking sad. I am lost. I am anxious. I am scared. I am alone. I feel abandoned. I am uncomfortable. I see no future anymore, the rug was ripped from under me and I was left alone, to get my stuff out as soon as possible while trying to nurse a torn apart, stomped on, broken heart… and what is worse for me, is you’re worth it. People keep telling me to “try to think of the reasons why this is a good thing” but I can't, to me there is absolutely not one good thing about this for me. I can’t stop thinking “is he going to realize this wasn’t the right choice?” “Does he care at all about me?” “How can he not care not one little teenie tiny speck about me, all of the sudden?” “Is he hurting right now and his coping mechanism is to shut me out, 100%, completely?” “Will I ever even hear from him again?” “Is he ok?” “Does he miss me?” “Does he hate me, for essentially… no reason?” “Am I doing the right thing by abiding by his request not to reach out to him?” “Maybe he is waiting for me to reach out to him… but he told me not too.”
I am so lost. I miss you so much. I want you to realize the same. I want you to text me and say, “I don’t know what I was thinking, I miss you, can I see you?”
But all I’ve gotten is radio silence… I’m not religious, I wish I was - in a time like this I feel that faith is the only thing that could make someone feel accepting of the situation… but I still pray to God, or whatever higher power there is that he changes his mind.
I need help, but no one can give it to me. I am helpless.
This happened last Thursday, last text he sent was Saturday night, to confirm I have until this upcoming saturday to move out. Last text I sent was monday, I asked him what he would like me to do with his laundry (due to his disability we had a system for his clothes), but got no response... I haven't texted since.

SOOOO this will be a long post, I will begin from the start so you understand the context.
I am a teen from an East European country where money is sparce
Around 3 years ago my mum left my dad to seek a better pay in another country and because of the worsening of her relationship with my dad (they weren't married), anyways a few months after that my dad quit his job, because he was "supposed" to work abroad, in reality it didn't happen so he was left without a job and for the next 3 years he worked odd jobs or if he found a stable job he wouldn't last long on it. Whenever he was unemployed after leaving his job, he was either excusing himself with "the job didn't pay enough" or "they were exploiting me to work long hours" or "they didn't need someone to work for that anymore, so they let me off", after getting unemployed he would use my mum for money for bills, food, himself etc... and whenever my mum refused to send him money he would say "look at what your mum is doing, she doesn't care about you or doesn't want you to be fed" and would deny any responsibility as to his situation. In all this time I refused to argue with my dad about insulting my mum for no reason, being lazy or irresponsible because I once had done so and he got extremely mad and traumatised me for a long time. I also need to add that last year in 2023 around April my dad almost sold his house, so he can pay back his debt and buy a house in a random village, when he realised he couldn't buy a house with the money he was selling his own house for, he quickly called my mum and begged her to bail him (as he owed 3k euros to the guy who wanted to buy the house), he offered my mum ownership over half the house in return, she accepted as it was a bargain. In September when my mum came back from abroad she gave my dad some money for the house and those 3k euros to pay back the guy, the thing that he didn't tell her was that they agreed with the guy not to give him that money back, so he scammed my mum 3k euros, he renovated a room for around 800 euros and the rest of the money was gone in 1-2 months (which is insane as this could last someone for at least 4 months). When I told my mum this she was furious and she said that he could've saved up the money for my future or in case he needs it desperately, instead he wasted it on food and alcohol and probably his lover.
At the end of 2023 he got a job as a maintenance worker at a central restaurant in a city as the previous worker had to return to Ukraine after a few years of working in here, so my dad was allowed to the job, he worked there for around 2 months when one day I came back from school and I saw him at home and he told me that he doesn't work there anymore as they didn't need a maintenance worker anymore, I did accept this as the truth with a bit of doubt so I didn't question him any further and since then until recently he hasn't had a job and relied mainly on my mum's money for everything, I was already getting pissed off at that point because of it and his laziness to find a job. Last month in April his friend came back from Germany and offered my dad to work together with him in Spain, my dad accepted so he got himself into fast credits, which if he stayed in here would never be able to pay back, he also asked my mum for money a few times because he had to pay 3 electricity bills and they even turned off our electricity for 2 days, but I didn't complain much as I knew my dad would go to Spain and he would return for money to fix the house and basically provide the basic needs of any decent living family. He was supposed to go work in there for 2 months and then return back for 20 days and repeat. I was left alone to live after he went to work in Spain, I managed to keep myself up while he was gone, so that was no problem. Two weeks after my dad went to Spain, me and my friend were at the store shopping for meat for that night's BBQ at my house when I got a call from my dad telling me that his manager had told him that him and 12 other new workers were getting released from the job as their shift was over apparently, he basically had to return back to the country and I didn't really believe his story, but I couldn't prove it wrong, though I read his work contract and found out that they couldn't "let him off" without notifying him 2 weeks prior, so he must've been kicked out. Then I talked with my mum and I told her the situation, she was clearly shocked as she gave him a lot of money to go there in the first place and was expectedly mad. She contacted his friend that he went together with and his friend told us a completely different story, the reason why he was "released" from the job was because he was lazy, pretended not to understand how things worked and was too laid back from the work itself by basically just sitting around, so the managers had enough of him and kicked him out. After I found that out, I realised that I could not live together with this man any longer, so the next day after the BBQ night (same day as he was supposed to be arriving in the house) I decided that I will move out of there and move to a family friend's house (he's abroad, so I am alone with his grandpa). I packed up everything from my room and everything that was my mum's and I moved to that house, my dad called me telling me he's coming back and I told him that I moved out because he was unserious and he hung up the phone. After that during the night he was threatening me that if I don't go back to the house there will be consequences, he threatened that he will call the police to search for me (even tho I told him where I am staying). After that he started begging me to come back, and I just decided to ignore him after his threatening messages as talking with him and trying to make him realise his mistake would only backfire at me. He recently had a call with my mum and she told him that she would not send him money for anything anymore even if I go back to live with him and he said, I repeat HE SAID that my mum never sent him any money, that it was all his, that she did nothing for me, and basically threatened her that he will hurt her (he's threatened her many times, insulted her etc without her doing anything to him and only trying to help).
To mention, my dad has never been physically abusive towards me and is rarely verbally abusive, unless you call him out on his lies, that he's lazy or that he's wrong, he always thinks he's right about everything, he's self righteous and never does any mistakes and everything that goes bad is someone else's fault. Also he's a big liar, he lies about everything, even the smallest things that don't need to be lied about.
So this was the story mainly, I am now in the new place for almost a week and I am getting used to this situation, my dad stopped texting me or calling me for 3 days now, he doesn't even answer my mum's phone anymore. I don't know how to handle the situation in the future, I don't have any idea how my dad will react in the next months, will I even speak to him and what should I do if I see him? I would love any advice or to hear your stories.

There was a friend of mine who left his MBA for trading, he would read business times when we were in school, he was confident that he knew it all and he had all the books of the greatest investors and traders which he had crammed up. (I haven't talked to someone with the knowledge that he had of the financial world)
He took ashwani gujral's course for 1 lac and paper traded or what not for years. He bought a trading software which had yearly subscription of 50K.
He lost everything he had within months he started trading in real. It's back in 2015. He changed his phone number, I haven't been able to contact him since years.
May be the moral can be: It's not about the "knowledge", it's about your own personality and psychology.
Even if you make a system, or algo or whatever, it's your "personality" and brain that works behind, and has to make a decision.
NOTE: We may ridicule him now, but I've seen him working relentlessly for years and put the best he could.
Things are not that easy as they seem, especially in a system that was designed to fool the common people. (Newton, who lost most of his savings (millions, they say), once said about stock market : "I can calculate the motions of the heavenly bodies, but not the madness of people"

I'm really struggling. I accepted a high level, executive position at an international company. I'm essentially building this company's division from the ground up. I'm the bread winner in my family (my husband does freelance consulting but spends the rest of the time looking after our kids, which I tell him is REAL work and I wouldn't be able to do my job without his support). One kid is in school, the other is not and is with him until I "take over" in the afternoons.
However, our company has hit a MAJOR growth spurt. We're hiring left and right. I'm senior leadership, so I'm helping with hires, developing new systems, overseeing new partnerships, vetting software additions to our tech suite. It's a lot. My hours start at 6AM and end usually at 2PM, but there are increasingly more meetings in the afternoons - sometimes until 4, but often sporadic. I'm not complaining about the work load - it comes with the title and the nature of this company. My husband was thrilled that I got this title and honestly, I've worked my ass off for years for it.
But now he's accusing me of cheating. Saying my dinners out and working late must mean I'm not being faithful. I'm already trying to cram all my work into as minimal hours as possible to spend time with my family. My afternoon meetings I take via Zoom from home. It's truly just a handful of dinners / lunches (like 5 over three months) and one out of town trip. I vet EVERYTHING with him to make sure it "fits his schedule." I apologize that work is crazy right now...but that's what you get with this position. And this paycheck.
I don't know what to do. He blames me for doing chores when I get home (he's doing about 40% of them, despite being primarily a stay at home dad). I don't attack him - the kids can be a handful and it's tiring. I get it.
I've offered to get a nanny to help give him more free time. I've tried giving him weekends off with friends. Unless I FORCE him out of the living room away from the kids, he sits on his phone then gets mad he doesn't have "time" to do what he wants.
I get that he's having to pick up more at home with the kids with my increased work demands. My business place is awesome and is aware and is hiring people to take stuff off my plate. But it's like every time I have to ask about a later meeting or dinner, I hate having to ask my hubs because of how he'll be so annoyed and angry over it.
I'm working my butt off to provide for our family so that he doesn't have to have a job. (I don't rub it in his face, I promise. It's OUR money. Again, I can't do what I do unless he does what he does.) I'm bending over backwards to do all the chores. And he's accusing me of cheating and also avoiding the family.
I'm feeling unfairly penalized as a working mom. I find it hard to believe a man with a C-Suite job would face this level of hardship, but I'm not a man and I'm not privy to everyone's relationships. I also know that I'm in my feels right now and maybe am not seeing things clearly.
I know people will say to "prioritize" my family...but I'm how my family eats. I gotta do this stuff right now. Also, it's my career I've been working to achieve for years. It's not like I'm totally gone. I make 28 out of 30 family dinners (and I cook half of them). I'm home by 3PM most days (couple times a week I have late meetings for an hour). 6 out of 8 weekend dates a month I'm home / don't have an event. I thought I was balancing everything awesome and now I'm sending receipts to prove I'm not cheating.
I'm exhausted. I'm having to sleep in the same bed as one of my kids every night because he's going through some stuff. But I don't care, because I'm showing up for my kids. I'm trying to give my husband love and gifts and time. I change my behavior when he brings up a grievance (that is reasonable). I prove to him I listen and I care. Obviously it's not enough.
Of course I don't expect to "have it all," but this accusation hurts. I don't even know what advice I want at this point. Maybe just to know if anyone else has dealt with it? Will there ever be a good balance or is this a losing battle? It feels like he'd be happy if I wasn't working and being the bread winner, but I've told him he's free to go back to work. I even told him I'd follow him out of state if he got the right, high-paying opportunity that was good for our family (or even that he just LOVED and would make him happy.)
I just feel like I'm running myself ragged being all things to everyone, but my partner resents me for it. Is this just a working mom thing?

AITAH for getting upset that my gf doesn’t think the way i do about money now see every single coin i earn i like to spend on both of us yk going on dates or on her for gifts for time to time flowers but she is about to get some money and she thinks about making plans about spending most of them on a new phone ( i understand she needs better phone ) and trips with “friends” that she doesn’t really like im not mad about those thinks im mad that she doesn’t seem to have plans to spend some on us doing something

A little backstory which may or may not be the problem. A week ago all was going well but we had a discussion about Snapchat and my POV was that “Snapchat is “fake” and streaks are useless. Texting is better and sending a picture to just one person is more meaningful than sending the same stuff to everyone” She asked me why I use it and I told her that I use it only to view her snaps. I don’t typically send snaps to anyone but her sometimes put a story but that’s it. I thought that she would appreciate that I use it only for her to show her that I care about her snaps but she got visibly upset. She took my phone and uninstalled it. I didn’t make much of it and laughed it off.
A day later she had a week long trip planned with her cousins. Also meant that I won’t be seeing her till the trip is over. So at the start of the trip I sent her a good morning text and all she replied was “morning…” which seemed a bit odd but I didn’t make much of it. Later on in the day, I asked her what she was up to and we chatted for 5mins or something and her answers were mostly one liners and not really clear. I thought maybe she was busy with the trip so i didn’t bother her much. While texting she did tell me “ you’re not on snap. Could stay updated there” so I reinstalled Snapchat and started looking at her snap.
The next day, I sent her a “ good morning and have fun” snap to which she replied nothing. I thought maybe she was getting annoyed with the good morning texts so I stopped sending her any good morning text.
We didn’t talk much for the rest of her trip but when she came back we still didn’t talk. We can’t meetup right now as her cousins are still in town living with her and our relationship is a secret between family members.
I don’t mind the not texting part as she should be enjoying with her cousins. But there is one more thing, we used to send a lot of insta reels to each other. Like 10 a day. I’ve sent her the last 5 reels to which she has seen and replied nothing(which is fine) but she hasn’t sent a single reel since the day we talked about Snapchat. She has been sending reels to other people except me. And this is the same girl who used to get upset when I didn’t respond to her texts fast enough.
I’m really lost and don’t know what to do. I’ve asked her if something is wrong or she’s mad at me but she says everything’s good.
TLDR: GF is upset about me using Snapchat for her. Has stopped texting me and sending me reels. Says everything is fine.

A little backstory which may or may not be the problem. A week ago all was going well but we had a discussion about Snapchat and my POV was that “Snapchat is “fake” and streaks are useless. Texting is better and sending a picture to just one person is more meaningful than sending the same stuff to everyone” She asked me why I use it and I told her that I use it only to view her snaps. I don’t typically send snaps to anyone but her sometimes put a story but that’s it. I thought that she would appreciate that I use it only for her to show her that I care about her snaps but she got visibly upset. She took my phone and uninstalled it. I didn’t make much of it and laughed it off.
A day later she had a week long trip planned with her cousins. Also meant that I won’t be seeing her till the trip is over. So at the start of the trip I sent her a good morning text and all she replied was “morning…” which seemed a bit odd but I didn’t make much of it. Later on in the day, I asked her what she was up to and we chatted for 5mins or something and her answers were mostly one liners and not really clear. I thought maybe she was busy with the trip so i didn’t bother her much. While texting she did tell me “ you’re not on snap. Could stay updated there” so I reinstalled Snapchat and started looking at her snap.
The next day, I sent her a “ good morning and have fun” snap to which she replied nothing. I thought maybe she was getting annoyed with the good morning texts so I stopped sending her any good morning text.
We didn’t talk much for the rest of her trip but when she came back we still didn’t talk. We can’t meetup right now as her cousins are still in town living with her and our relationship is a secret between family members.
I don’t mind the not texting part as she should be enjoying with her cousins. But there is one more thing, we used to send a lot of insta reels to each other. Like 10 a day. I’ve sent her the last 5 reels to which she has seen and replied nothing(which is fine) but she hasn’t sent a single reel since the day we talked about Snapchat. She has been sending reels to other people except me. And this is the same girl who used to get upset when I didn’t respond to her texts fast enough.
I’m really lost and don’t know what to do. I’ve asked her if something is wrong or she’s mad at me but she says everything’s good.
TLDR: GF is upset about me using Snapchat for her. Has stopped texting me and sending me reels. Says everything is fine.

I just mentioned this person in a comment and it reminded me to make a rant post about her.
Friend of a friend, I'm not exactly sure on age but can't be older than 25.
Mother of....I honestly can't remember but I think 6?! Give or take one, and she's currently pregnant.
Dad is involved. But honestly all he can do is work as much as he can. Can't imagine he gets much time with the kids, probably just enough to give mom time to like...be a human.
I just....😬 how? Why? There is no way any one of those kids gets enough one on one time. And as they get older they're just gonna get more expensive! I can't imagine they'll be able to help any of their kids with big life expenses (cacollege) but I'm not even sure they'll be able handle minor ones (sports/cell phone).
But here's the kicker. Get your mad face on. She wants more. Why? Because she only has one girl. That was my line of "ok I'm removing myself from this persons life". She's never been anything but totally respectful of me not wanting kids, so of course I tried to give her the same courtesy but that's too far for me. Can you imagine?! Being in a family with that many siblings and being one of the "stinky boys" (that's a quote from her). With that attitude I can't imagine she treats the boys the same as the girl.
🤦‍♀️ Thankfully her family is keeping an eye on everything so I know for a fact those kids will always have what they need but it's sad. You can't buy a mothers love