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2024.05.17 01:09 neohanime Anybody notice the focus/blurs with recent movies/shows?

It feels like we are watching the movies or shows from a fish-eye point of view. The center is so focused while the surrounding (top, bottom, left, and right) are noticeably blurred out, sometimes with a darker gradient around the corners. You notice it more in scenic scenes or wide shots, and especially in heavy CGI scenes. Not sure if it's the cameras they used or simply filming style. Here are some examples:
Bad focus/blurry
Godzilla x Kong
Godzilla x Kong #2
Shogun
Shogun #2
Proper focus/blur
Godzilla: Minus 1
Godzilla: Minus 1 #2
Fallout
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2024.05.17 01:01 Badboyardie The Dow crossed 40,000📈

The Dow crossed 40,000 for the first time in its 128-year history Thursday at about 10:30 a.m. ET, gaining as much as 140 points (0.4%) to a new all-time high of 40,046.21.
The Dow, which tracks 30 of the most valuable U.S. public companies across a gamut of industries, is up 6% this year and 23% from its October bottom, reflecting the positive shift in investor sentiment over the period.
Boosting the Dow on Thursday was retailer Walmart, whose shares rallied 7% to an all-time high after reporting first-quarter earnings.
It took 103 years for the index to top 10,000, set during the dot-com boom in March 1999, another 18 years to cross 20,000, accomplished in Jan. 2017, about 3.5 years to surpass 30,000 in Nov. 2020 and another 3.5 years to eclipse 40,000.
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2024.05.17 01:00 schylarker [US-NY][H] JER J80, Boardsource Lulu, Leopold PD keycaps, Switches [W] Paypal

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JER J80 n/a 450 Yes
Boardsource Lulu n/a 180 Yes
FC750R Keycaps n/a 20 Yes
JWICK Semi Silent Linear 110 25 Yes
Haimu Silent Red 70 10 Yes
Geon Clear Tactile (no lube) 35 10 Yes

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JER Plant J80 - $450

  • https://imgur.com/a/Yo72jAO
  • Used, desoldered, cleaned
  • WKL layout
  • E-Beige color
  • This is a hardwire board. Cable comes cut. You need to solder the wires directly onto the PCB
  • full aluminum build (not the S edition with the weight)
  • plateless
  • comes with various stickers for the LED portion
  • no original packaging included
  • flaw: there is an area of the front lip that's been chipped (shown in photo)

Boardsource Lulu -- $180

  • https://imgur.com/a/zRcyHsP
  • Used, never got used to layout
  • Silver top, poly bottom
  • OLED, encoder
  • Flashed Peg on it to get it to factory default, QMK recommended if you know how to use it, because Peg sucks
  • flaw: clear window has adhesive residue from the packaging
  • flaw: one side bottom has a scratch (from factory)
  • includes: wrist rests, TRRS cable, tenting kit, frosted windows
  • Current retail for this package is $339

Leopold FC750R PD keycaps - $20

  • blue/black color
  • doubleshot PBT
  • Cherry-ish profile
  • 6.25u bottom row

JWICK Linear semi silent 62g - $25

  • 68x + 32x
  • 68 lightly lubed 205g0, desoldered
  • 32 unlubed, unusued, never soldered

Haimu silent red - $10

  • 70x
  • desoldered, no switch mods, minimal usage

Geon Clear tactile unlubed - $10

  • 35x
  • never used, never soldered

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2024.05.17 00:59 goodnewsjimdotcom 1400+ hours and a year of hard core Code/sleep/code/sleep: First MMORPG ever designed by Man( I believe) launched a patch. Designed this mmo in 89, and wanted to make a MMO since 84 having learned of Darpa Net(Internet we call it these days)... Elements & Techs never seen in any game...

Link on Steam: https://store.steampowered.com/app/658480/Starfighter_General/
A video of some random game play: https://youtu.be/EK2xB3xCFjQ
If you want to jump in and play: https://store.steampowered.com/app/658480/Starfighter_General/
I'm trying to make the spiritual successor to Xwing for 90s DOS everyone craved, but Lucas Arts never delivered. I was also inspired by Wing Commander Privateer who's title led me to imagining building a giant fleet by buying more and more ships and making friends.
It's still pretty fun and an INSANELY DEEP CODE BASE by which a HUGE HUGE potential WOW killer will be made on. fairly long patch notes of a subset of what I plan on doing in the future are at the bottom.
Fun clips:
[Hailing A Space Station] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4bpPGJJOqY
[Combat] Something wild happens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGyLQpUBXdk
My take Diablo2 skill tree/Path of Exile Talent tree: https://youtu.be/E8h9E4lw2jk?si=LVK8hQOtWez6Riwy&t=16 Very pretty to watch.
If you want to see what's coming up with the next patch, you have to assemble a spoiler:
rum ble .com/v4tf892-spoiler-female-ai-voice-all-of-starfighter-general-mmo-patch-1-quests.html
Many people say my story lines are the best sci fi man's ever written, greater than Starwars, Startrek, Cowboy Bebop, Dune, Blade Runner, etc. I focus on making it entertaining.
Most people who played the anthology pencil and paper RPG say it's the best RPG they played... And the anthology has about 700 unpublished pages of content and 4,000 pages of code from the 90s. I didn't just design this MMORPG before any, I started coding in 1992...
Well it's just a foundation to build. I'll release stories as I release techs... Want to see some of the wild techs in and going in: https://www.starfightergeneral.com/my-books-2/
Dev Blooper reel for those into those: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq6Y5j9moR0
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2024.05.17 00:56 goodnewsjimdotcom The first MMORPG every designed by Man( I believe) gets launched today. I designed this mmo in 89, and wanted to make a MMO since 84 having learned of Darpa Net(Internet we call it these days)... Elements and Techs never seen in any game: Windows PC +3d Card

Link on Steam: https://store.steampowered.com/app/658480/Starfighter_General/
A video of some random game play: https://youtu.be/EK2xB3xCFjQ
If you want to jump in and play: https://store.steampowered.com/app/658480/Starfighter_General/
I'm trying to make the spiritual successor to Xwing for 90s DOS everyone craved, but Lucas Arts never delivered. I was also inspired by Wing Commander Privateer who's title led me to imagining building a giant fleet by buying more and more ships and making friends.
It's still pretty fun and an INSANELY DEEP CODE BASE by which a HUGE HUGE potential WOW killer will be made on. fairly long patch notes of a subset of what I plan on doing in the future are at the bottom.
Fun clips:
[Hailing A Space Station] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4bpPGJJOqY
[Combat] Something wild happens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGyLQpUBXdk
My take Diablo2 skill tree/Path of Exile Talent tree: https://youtu.be/E8h9E4lw2jk?si=LVK8hQOtWez6Riwy&t=16 Very pretty to watch.
If you want to see what's coming up with the next patch, you have to assemble a spoiler:
rum ble .com/v4tf892-spoiler-female-ai-voice-all-of-starfighter-general-mmo-patch-1-quests.html
Many people say my story lines are the best sci fi man's ever written, greater than Starwars, Startrek, Cowboy Bebop, Dune, Blade Runner, etc. I focus on making it entertaining.
Most people who played the anthology pencil and paper RPG say it's the best RPG they played... And the anthology has about 700 unpublished pages of content and 4,000 pages of code from the 90s. I didn't just design this MMORPG before any, I started coding in 1992...
Well it's just a foundation to build. I'll release stories as I release techs... Want to see some of the wild techs in and going in: https://www.starfightergeneral.com/my-books-2/
Dev Blooper reel for those into those: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq6Y5j9moR0
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2024.05.17 00:53 Malow Right bottom side of screen is blurry

Hi, im having this issue in a pc (windows 10), and only on this one.
diagonally, the right bottom side is all garbled and hard to read text, the top left is fine. Its like the screen is cut in the middle and one side is lower resolution than the other. tried change all options about quality, hardware rendering, etc, nothing makes a difference. any help?
sample of the problem: https://i.imgur.com/5Kz0rM4.png
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2024.05.17 00:48 Langstonk [US-MA] [H] GMK Dualshot 2 base and addons , Built mode sonnet with GMK Fuji [W] PayPal

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Lavender mode sonnet with Gmk Fuji and space bar set (no shine, used less than a week). Multicologold accent. carbon fiber plate + PC plate. A minor ding on the bottom case. See pictures in Timestamp (Can’t see from typing view). $500 OBO. Willing to split the keycaps
GMK Dualshot 2 (BNIB) $210 OBO: Standard base Aesthetic spacebars Accents
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2024.05.17 00:48 Dear_Acanthaceae5489 Is this how things usually go for both of 'em?

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2024.05.17 00:43 ahhtibor How to stop pastry tartlet crust burning while filling is caramelising?

I'm a total newbie to baking. I've been trying to recreate these Japanese baked cheese tarts I had and am having moderate success (flavour is okay) but am strugglng a bit with the shortcrust pastry. I bake the tartlets until golden but then after filling them and putting them under the grill/broiler like the recipe says to caramelise the tops but keep the centre all gooey and lovely, but the edges end up burning. I tried baking them in the oven and it took longer to brown the tops, the edges still burned and the filling was too set. But I don't want to underbake them because then I guess I'll get the dreaded soggy bottom? Here are some before and after pics. Have the before pics gone a bit far with the baking? The edges are coloured but the bases are still quite pale. I was following this recipe. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Btw, I fully recommend these tarts, they are absolutely amazing. Both sweet and savoury. I had quite a lot of leftover filling so separated and tried adding pistachio, raspberry coulis and the flavour was great! It's got me into baking anyway :)
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2024.05.17 00:42 StuMun Media Roundup for Timbers Quakes: Goals, Boos, Hot Mics, The Unipiper and so much more

Lots and lots and lots of coverage for this media roundup. We’ve got goals, we’ve got boos, we’ve got hot mics, we’ve got the Unipiper and so much more.
PORTLAND:
Tyson Alger / Oregonian: After rocky start, Portland Timbers rally back against San Jose to snap 9-game winless streak
“Yes, the Portland Timbers heard the boos.
How could they not?
They started flying early in the first half against San Jose on Wednesday night and only continued to gain steam when a pair of Earthquake goals sent Portland into the locker room down 2-0 at the break — all the momentum needed to achieve a club-record 10th game without a win.
And the Timbers Army responded accordingly, hailing down a thunderous shower of jeers as manager Phil Neville led the Timbers off the pitch. …”

Columnist Bill Oram: Oregonian: Timbers coach Phil Neville silences his critics — for one night, at least
“The pressure was mounting on Phil Neville and, you would imagine, inside of him, too.
The Portland Timbers manager had overseen a string of nine consecutive matches without a victory, dating back to March 9. Even the Trail Blazers have won twice since then.
Neville’s tinkering had not led to results. His adjustments weren’t working. Not well enough, at least.
And while the Timbers are a team with new faces and still integrating a new superstar, this is Neville’s show. He was the splashy coaching hire made last fall. As lackluster results stacked up, so too did Neville’s frustration. …
On the hot mic situation: “As Neville headed to the locker room on Friday, a broadcaster on the team’s radio feed was caught on a hot mic asking his producer if he wanted to coach the team because it “can’t be any worse.”
I’ve been in the press box for hundreds, if not thousands of sporting events, and trust me, as gallows humor goes, that made-for-X/formerly-Twitter moment is pretty mild. The announcer, Adam Susman, has apologized and hopefully that’s that.
We were all thinking some version of it. Or worse…”
(Worth reading this one in full imo)

Alex Barnes / Stumptown Footy: Portland Timbers vs San Jose Earthquakes - Instant Reaction
“The Portland Timbers lost 2-0 at home to the San Jose Earthquakes after another stale attacking performance and two more defensive mistakes… Is what I was prepared to write before an 74th minute Earthquakes red card flipped the game on its head. But for the first time since March 9, the Portland Timbers won a game of football in their typical drunken fashion — a much-needed four goal explosion in the final 15+ minutes of the match.
…
Were the Timbers fortunate to win? Unequivocally yes. Before the penalty San Jose was cruising. But at this point in the season, at their position in the table, it does not matter one bit. The team needs points, and points they earned. Whether that continues into their next match is a major question, but tonight felt like the pressure release valve was turned for the time being. Sometimes one moment is all it takes for the tides of a grueling MLS season to turn.”

Jeremy Peterman / Cascadia FC: Winning A Game Is Fun
“The Timbers’ winless streak is over, and the San Jose Earthquakes are still winless at Providence Park. Will this team ever play a normal game?
…
…This win is incredibly fluky in so many ways. But, at the end of the day, 3 points is 3 points. Now they have to turn this confidence into momentum. Some returning players can help with that. As long as the players believe they can win, they will put in match-winning performances. Inconsistency has been the calling card of the 2024 Timbers. Can they erase the individual mistakes while building a solid defensive shape that can attack directly? That’s what they have to solve. The 3-4-3 from tonight was an excellent start, and it will get better. The pieces to win games now are on this team. But they have to perform like it. But tonight is a good night to be a Timber. For the first time in 49 years of the club’s history, the Timbers have won a game by multiple goals after trailing by multiple goals. Winning a game is really fun. This team should do it more often.”

BONUS: Unipiper content
Tyson Alger / The I-5 Corridor: Timbers win plays second act to The Unipiper's song of redemption
“Redemption on Wednesday was scheduled for 7:35 p.m. In the minutes leading up, Kidd quietly waited in the Southwest corner of Providence Park, occasionally humming a few notes through his trumpet and making sure his sandals, embroidered with “Keep Weird” on their backs, were tight. At 7:34 p.m. he pulled on a Darth Vader mask. A minute later, he climbed onto the unicycle, found his balance, lifted the trumpet to his mouth and slowly started pedaling north. When the first notes hit smooth, Kidd came alive — playing a well-paced 80-second anthem that ended with Kidd using his one free arm to orchestrate the crowd into a frenzy.”

BONUS: Hot Mic

NATIONAL:
Sam Jones / MLS: Daily Kickoff
PORTLAND TIMBERS - 4 SAN JOSE EARTHQUAKES - 2
Evander (74'), J. RodrĂ­guez (80, 90+10'), F. Mora (90') A. Pellegrino (31'), H. LĂłpez (34')
San Jose were on the wrong end of an MLS After Dark special in Portland. The Timbers got back in the game with a 71st-minute red card/penalty combo and then got back in the game some more with a brace from Jonathan Rodriguez and a Felipe Mora goal.
The Timbers badly needed this one. It’s their first win in nine games. It doesn’t matter how it comes at that point – they just needed it to happen.
The Quakes did not need this. Just when it seemed like they were sorting some things out defensively, they fell apart in this one. Once again, it’s worth repeating that no one is concerned about the Quakes’ attack. Everything else though…

AI bot / The AP: Timbers Rally To Beat San Jose 4-2 And Snap Winless Streak
“Jonathan Rodriguez scored a pair of goals and the Portland Timbers snapped a nine-game winless streak with a 4-2 victory over the San Jose Earthquakes on Wednesday night. …”

Graham Ruthven / Fotmob (published before the match): The Phil Neville-era is in trouble at Portland Timbers
“Derby defeats are difficult enough to digest without the additional consequences that came with the Portland Timbers’ painful home loss to the Seattle Sounders on Sunday. The result dropped Phil Neville’s team to the bottom of the Western Conference with the Timbers on a winless run of nine matches. Portland have problems.”

SAN JOSE:
The Mercury News: HernĂĄn LĂłpez scores in second straight game for Earthquakes, but San Jose win streak snapped in Portland
“Hernán López scored in his second straight match, but the San Jose Earthquakes allowed three goals in the final 16 minutes of regulation and another in extra time in a 4-2 loss at Portland, Oregon, on Wednesday night.
The Quakes (3-9-1) had won three in a row to move out of last place in the 14-team Western Conference, but fell back to the bottom of the standings with the loss. …”

INTERNATIONAL:
RCN News: Santiago Moreno gave an assist in a 'crazy' play in the MLS (Spanish)
“Santiago Moreno, who reached 101 games with the Portland Timbers, was in charge of finishing the game against the San Jose Earthquakes…”
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2024.05.17 00:37 Stomachbuzz What do I do with this shed? Tear down, or refurb?

Got this fixer-upper shed with my fixer-upper house. Old geezer before me loved his sheds. This is 1 of 4 remaining that I didn't tear down. This was the nicest (read: least rotten) of the bunch. Overall, the shed is huge at 12x21' and very nice quality but needs a comprehensive overhaul.
It is fully intact, but showing its age, getting weathered, and I need to make a decision to tear it down or fix it up. The exterior is T1-11 that is starting to curl and become discolored around the edges. All of the trim around the exterior perimeter is rotting. It needs a full roof replacement. You peel up the bottom line of shingles up and see heavy deterioration.
Inside, it looks quite well done. Heavy attention to detail (despite the 1 million outlets). It has plywood on the floors and walls. It's even insulated between plywood inner and T1-11 outer. There are some dark spots from mild water intrusion, only getting worse.
When I look at how well made it is, I get some grandiose ideas of fixing it up, painting it white, running an electric line out to it, putting an exhaust fan in, etc. "Wow! How great this could be! I could even do the work myself and learn roofing."
But then I come back down to Earth, reminded of my procrastinator nature, and realize it's going to be $5-10k to hire someone, or take weeks to finish it myself.
I am quite handy, and could do the work, but a lot of it would be me 'figuring it out' as I go along. Maybe I could tear the roof off and replace it over a long weekend?
I ask contractors' opinions of the shed when they give me quotes. The vote is leaning toward just tearing it down. They point to the weird foundation. They say "it's nice to have the storage, but an eyesore as is, and, even if you fixed it up, doesn't really add any value to the house when you sell it. So what's the point?"
I'm a bit caught. On one hand, I wouldn't be surprised if this sort of shed would cost ~$20-25k to build from scratch. On the other, it's probably ~$10k to hire someone to refurb it, or $2k in materials on my own. And then what do I get? A white shed in an awkward location? I also still have other in-house projects that take priority, so cannot justify throwing $10k at the shed any time soon, even if I wanted to.
I use it to store my lawn tools and would prefer not to put everything in the garage, but I know I can't just continue to do nothing here.
What say you?
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2024.05.17 00:37 Galaxy_the_nightwing First Impressions part 76

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{Sorry for the late post. I had some trouble with my scheduled summer semester pop up so I wasn't able to write this out as much as I wanted last weekend. Anyways, enjoy the domestic fluff of Damian and his newly expanded flock :) }

-----Damian-----
"The next one's simple. Say their name then (sit). Like this: Braxton, (sit)." As Damian said the command he raised his hand to around shoulder height and snapped. The Great Dane in question slowly sat with his usual amount of sass. Ree cooed in awe and Scales' eyes sparkled. Damian smiled as he pats the large dog's head with praise.
"(Good boy). Ok, you two. Your turns. Make sure to say the commands in English. I haven't taught them Common yet." He motioned to the dogs Damian picked for the two to learn the commands with. It took Damian a bit of trial and error figuring out what commands each dog knew and what ones had different commands for the same motion. Then it took even longer to retrain them to all follow the same commands. He kept in mind the 'specialized' commands for a few of the dogs and didn't try teaching them to the whole group. Ree tried the command he was teaching them first, his dog being Diesel.
"Trii-cheiu, (sit)." Ree raised his wing-arm, though he couldn’t snap he still did the gesture. The boxer he was talking to blankly tilted his head. Damian chuckled and helped out the bird, knowing they all tend to have problems pronouncing new words without a chirp to them.
"You pronounced his name wrong, he doesn't know you're talking to him. It's more like 'Dee-sell'. The 's' is sharp enough it is almost pronounced as a 'z'." Ree practiced a few times as Scales took her try. She pronounced her dog's name a bit slow, but it was recognizable.
"D-ing-oh, (sit)." The stocky dog hesitated, glancing at Damian for a few seconds, but eventually plopped down then panted in a smile imitation. Scales' tail wagged violently, and she wordlessly cooed and trilled happily. Dingo didn't yet understand that was praise so Damian jumped in really quick to let her know she did good.
"Good girl, Dingo! Good girl!" He made sure to over exaggerate his excitement and made wide happy gestures before smothering the dog in pets and scratches. Dingo goes wild. She jumps up, bounces around a few times, then bolts into excited zoomies. A few of the other dogs joined in on the zoomies. Ree tried again on his command.
"Dee-zell, (sit)." The boxer's cropped ears perked and he promptly sat. Before Damian could, Ree copied his bigwing's previous praising and flared his wings. "Good! Good boy!" He praised, overly happy. Diesel's whole body perked up and he jumped up, landed in a playbow, then spun a few times before joining in on the zoomies with a butt-tuck run when Damian smooched at him. Damian laughed at the zooming dogs and shuffled over to be closer to his chicks, just in case the dogs tried to do fly-bys.
"Good job, you two. We're almost completely through the basic commands. I didn't think we'd get through them this quickly." His chicks cooed, trilled, and wiggled happily at the praise. Damian chuckled and rubbed their feathered heads, making a few bits of baby-fluff fall off as he drew back. He played with the few bits stuck to his fingers and watched his chicks play with the dogs as they started to wrestle. All of the dogs were bigger than them, if only slightly, but they were gentle when letting the chicks join in.
As they played he looked over them. They had changed a lot in the last month or so since the disaster of their first flying lesson. In that time, they had a few more lessons and were almost completely capable of flight, they still had a bit of supervision when they did though. They had lost almost all of their baby-fluff and their adult plumage was sported on the vast majority of their bodies. They still had to shed the last bits of fluff and a few of their baby-scales but that wouldn't take much longer. Damian was still taken with their coloring and patterns. And often found himself studying them over and over like he used to with their parents when he first got here.
Ree was a slightly grey-tinted shade of green with his scales slowly getting darker the higher they went. His stomach was a dirt brown color with a more red-ish clay spot on his chest. All his plumage was a light orage-ish brown color and he had speckles of more pastel green under his right eye and in a clump on his left jaw. His beak took the coloring of Blueberry's, a near-black color, but had the shape of Ruby's. His ears took after Violet's, long and pointed like a stretched fox's. His feathers and fur were more pressed down and made him look slimmer overall. His eyes changed from their baby brown-gold color to a beautiful sky blue.
Scales, on the other hand, had the coloring more towards a bumble bee (from what he remembered anyways). Her main coloring was a bright sunshine yellow that slowly grew more towards orange towards her underbelly and beak. On her chest was a splash-like clump of pink feathers. Her scales were less than her brother's and were a deep brown-ish color. The feathers and fur edging them were a deep enough brown to basically be black. Her plumage reminded him somewhat of Ruby and Sky's. It had a gradual fade towards the end like Sky but the pink-ish color of Ruby. She had near-neon yellow speckles too, like her brother, but the clumps were a bit larger. She had them ending on her wing-forearms like Violet's and a big clump scattered around the left side of her face. Her feathers weren't quite as fluffy as Sky's but was pretty close. Her beak had the shape of Violet's and the near-white tan color of Ruby's. Her eyes had a beautiful dual color in each eye. The top majority was a hot pink/magenta color while the bottom and inside edge was more of a petal/pastel pink.
Both were gorgeous and made Damian wonder how the genetics of their species worked to allow that vast difference in coloration and patterns when compared to all four of their parents, who tended to be different shades of the same color throughout. Ree had finally slowed his quite concerning growth rate and was starting to level out around Damian's upper thigh/lower hip, exceeding the taller of his fathers by quite the margin. All four of his parents telling him that Ree was probably one of the largest of their species in multiple generations. Scales was now barely a third of her brother's size, if that, having evened out just barely shorter than Damian's knee. Apparently that was a bit shorter than average for the species with Ruby being more towards the upper part of the average size and Sky being borderline short.
A demanding snort drew his attention away from his chicks and to the window he claimed as 'his spot' so long ago (was it really only just over one of his years since he was brought here?). There he found Casper lazily curled and dozing on the floor with Ares propped up against her where Damian had set him to nap while he taught his chicks. Said child was no longer asleep though. He was very much awake and staring Damian down with an expression demanding to know why he thought it was a good idea to even dare to set him down and walk away. Nevermind Damian wasn't even ten steps away. Ares snorted demandingly at him again and glared harder at the human's amused snort back. Damian did walk over though and picked up the child when he raised his arms at him. Ares had changed a bit too over the month Damian had him. He'd filled out to a more healthy-looking weight, though he was still a bit thin, and Damian had finally managed to memorize how to properly trim the toddler's hooves and brush out his fur.
Ares still had the bird-like plush and brought it nearly everywhere with him. Said plush was now being whacked into the side of Damian's head. Apparently, Ares decided being held wasn't good enough and wanted something else. Damian tried blocking the hits or holding the toy, but the little brat only started using his hooves in his growing tantrum. Getting tired of being hit with no explanation, Damian took the advice of one of the texts he'd read about taking care of a Grongri child and yanked Ares away from him by his scruff to hang in mid-air. The toddler wiggled and squirmed to try and hit him more but eventually the tantrum dimmed, and he went limp, a small pout on his face.
"You ready to tell me what's wrong now?" He asked the child before he cradled him again. He'd only made that mistake once. He still had the bruises to prove it. Ares glumly flicked his right ear down (which he's learned is a non-verbal yes), pout still present. Damian finally cradled the toddler to his chest again and let him sniffle and bury against him in self-comfort until he was ready to talk. Damian glanced back at his chicks to see them flopped on the ground with the other dogs, all panting and exhausted by the play. Damian chuckled at them, earning an irritated crow from Scales. Damian snorted in amusement but let them be. Ares was finally willing to tell him what was wrong.
"Want learn too." Ares' understanding of both Common and English has come a long way in the past month. He still can't string a proper sentence together, but Damian can't tell if that is because of a lack of knowledge or just because he's a toddler. He has adjusted to the flock a bit too. With it being so different from the usual Grongri Sounder structure it is understandable. He does have a few hiccups here and there but now he mostly just watches the chicks' reaction to things when he is unsure.
"'Learn too'? You wanna learn how to command the dogs too?" Damian questions, making sure he had the same idea. Ares' ear flicked again while he nodded. Damian hugged him a bit closer.
"You're a bit too small for the dogs to obey you immediately but I can introduce one to you and have you start trying. How about that? Will that work?" Ares was quiet for a bit longer but eventually agreed. Damian smiled and praised him with a few pets, receiving a few happy rumbles in response. Damian glanced around at the dogs, trying to pick one for Ares to start working on. He doesn't think any would follow the commands without his own help but if he worked on one long enough it would eventually cave. His eye landed on Casper, who was still in the same curled position as before. She was the most maternal of the group and was the one who took to the children the easiest and quickest.
"Ok, little piglet. Let's start easy." He said as he set the runt down on his hooves. As he did he got Casper's attention and called to her. "Casper. (Stand)." The large white wolfdog looked at him then crawled to her paws. He praised her softly then turned back to Ares.
"Ok. We'll start with (come). Say her name, Casper, and tell her to (come)." He said as he sat down next to where the toddler stood. Ares' little hooves stomped a bit in his excitement, but he tried. He tested out the new word before he did. What he settled on wasn't the right pronunciation, but it was close. He could mostly pronounce the command correctly too, though with a pretty heavy accent.
"Gas-prrrr. (Come)." Casper tilted her head at the child and sniffed at him. She looked at Damian and he looked to Ares then back. Casper followed and glanced, then back. Ares deflated eventually when she still didn't approach so Damian thought up something quickly.
"Maybe she doesn't understand your accent. Try this," He patted the ground, "when you say it. She knows that gesture." Ares perked back up again.
"Okie!" He turned back to Casper and tried again. "Gas-prrrr." He crouched down and clumsily patted the ground like only a toddler could. "(Come)." Casper's ears perked but she still hesitated for a second before slowly padding over and stopping right in front of the child. Ares squealed in excitement, tail going wild and hooves stomping. Damian made his chuff-imitation as praise for the child as he pets Casper to do the same. Child happier now, he figures he could take the kid away for lunch without protest. Scooping up the toddler he received no complaint.
Looking to his chicks he clicked his tongue. He learned that was a good way to gain their attention with zero hesitation, no matter what they were doing. He found out by complete accident, to be honest. He was clicking at the dogs from a habit that hasn't broken despite the years away from the farm he grew up on. Sure enough, just like every time before, both chick's heads immediately whip up to look at him. Both still looked groggy like they had just woken up. They probably had.
"C'mon, you two. Lunch time." The two groaned but climbed to their feet. Damian smiled and them and patted them as they passed. Once they were well on their way, he called the dogs and gathered them as he left behind his chicks. The dogs happily trailed after, excited after they heard the word 'hungry' when he asked. He entered the flock's kitchen, pack in tow, only a handful of minutes later. He had to take a slightly more roundabout way over since some of the dogs hadn’t quite figured out the ladder-like walkways and ramps yet and he didn't want them to fall through and get hurt. His birds greeted him with their usual trills and Untruthful with their latest attempt at teasing.
"So, the Pack Master finally decided to grace us with his presence!" Damian let them know it was a good one by sending a tease back.
"I see you haven't gotten any less spikey yet, walking pincushion." Untruthful's eyes slowly shut in a smile and Damian sent one of his own back, momentarily closing his eyes in an imitation of them. Untruthful looked surprised then they eye-close-smiled harder, spike-crest wiggling their excitement. Damian chuckled at them and set down Ares in his make-shift baby seat.
He chatted with Violet as he grabbed and rationed out the dogs' small lunch. He ignored the protesting whines, grunts, and half-barks urging him to 'go faster already'. Violet advised him to use one type of meat instead of another because of both better nutrients for the dogs and there being more of it. He thanked her and did as told. The dogs' lunch wasn't that big, more of a snack than anything, but it kept them from pouting and begging when everyone else ate. It also had helped him give them meds when they were still healing. They were mostly fine now, apparently Galactic Standard medicine works faster than the stuff he remembers. Finishing with the dogs' food he picks up the bowls, stacking a few to do so, and turns around. He walked past the dogs, chuckling at the excited spins, bounces, and tippy-taps they did as they followed him. He glanced back at them once he made it to the wall the flock had designated as their eating area.
He gave them a stern look and waited. They all eventually sat down, some more slow and reluctant than others. Once they did he placed down the bowls in the designated spots. Braxton and Casper had two stepstool-stand things he placed their bowls on because of how big they were. Once all the bowls were down he turned to look at the dogs. He waited in silence for a bit, snapping or humming warningly whenever one tried to shuffle forward. Once he deemed it long enough he gave the sort-of-command he was on the tail end of teaching them.
"(Ok)." When he said that all six dogs ran over to their bowls and started to eat. Damian strode back over to the counter and helped his birds move some plates to the table then settled cross-legged in his usual spot, Ares immediately crawling into his lap and Scales fluttering to perch on the shoulder opposite the side her brother sat on. The flock started to grab food and eat as they chatted with each other. Damian grabbed a little more than a double portion of fruits, beans (or maybe they were berries?), and a few crunchy finger foods he thinks may be cooked or specially prepared insects. He grabbed roughly more than a single portion (for someone his size anyways) of meats, the few root vegetables presented, and what he thinks may be foods made of bone pieces.
Once his plate was full he placed it down in front of him he reached over to grab a smaller plate and started making that one with tiny portions, letting his three kids have free pickings of his plate as he did. When he finished that plate he sat it in front of mini, receiving a grateful squeak before she dug in. He then propped his arms on the table, completely ignoring both his plate and the children stealing from it as he chattered on with his flock. By the time everyone finished his kids had their fill and were starting to fall asleep like usual after eating.
As his flock started gathering their dishes and the extra food on the table, Damian glanced at what was left of his plate. He made a mental note of how there weren’t as much leftovers as before and to grab bigger portions for dinner. As his flock started to disperse he looked to the dogs and said one of the first new commands he taught them.
"(Pups)." He got their attention. "(Take)." He ordered as he lifted up the half-asleep toddler on his lap. The dogs made whisper-boofs to show they heard and the largest three walked over to pick up the kids by their scruffs. Casper (the biggest, though not my much) grabbed Ree, Braxton grabbed Ares, and Dingo walked over to carefully lift Scales from his shoulder. Once they had a firm grip, they looked to Damian for further instruction.
"(To bed)" He directed as he pointed out the door they came from. The pack turned and left him alone in the room. He sighed to himself once he couldn't hear them anymore and looked back at the leftovers on the plate before him. It was maybe under half a portion for his size, probably less. He glanced at the counters and saw all the leftover food was already put up. He could go grab more but even half a portion for him would be nearly three or four large portions for his flock. No. It wasn’t worth it. He'll just grab more tonight.
He ate the leftovers in silence. Since he's got the dogs his head has been a bit quieter, though not silent. Apparently he was still enough for the building to register the room as empty, and the lights cut out. He blinked and paused at the sudden darkness but there was barely a second of blindness before some of his voices put their hands on his mental controls, giving his eyes a boost of minor night vision. It wasn’t much better than his natural amount of it but it helped. He decided not to go turn on the lights again and continued to eat his food as he peacefully listened to the soft chattering of his voices.
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2024.05.17 00:20 Discardbobulated Patience you must have, my young Padawan. We all just want to be understood.

Also on AOAIBetrayeds. is an online peer support group and safe space reserved for betrayed individuals who are considering, actively attempting to, or have reconciled after infidelity. If you feel you would benefit from a more private supportive sub for only betrayed people, message the mods at or send me a DM.
tl;dr's at the bottom.
From MY perspective.
Context: Me: 59m. Her: 55f. Married 33 years, together 36. WW had a full on EA bookended with multiple sexual PA's (1 in Dec, 2022 and 3 in Sept, 2023 (last 2 on Dday). She then pretended to go NC with AP for an additional 5 months which created Dday #2 in February. Read my story and updates using my profile for posts if you want to see background.
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UNDERSTANDING
Betrayal is destructive. Betrayal is debilitating. Betrayal is painful. It hurts not just our relationships, but our minds, our bodies, and our souls. It crushes us in ways we did not know we could be crushed.
It changes us. It changes our minds, our bodies, our outlooks on life, and so much more.
Betrayal steals from us. It steals our ability to trust. It steals our innocence. It steals our confidence, our self-esteem, and our calm. Betrayal steals our ability to feel joy.
You know what it does to us that is maybe the most egregious thing? It makes us feel like NO ONE UNDERSTANDS.
I have spent a lot of time on this sub and I have read a lot of stories of pain and suffering. I have also been the one in pain. The one suffering. I’m still hurting. I still suffer. The betrayed, like me, read books, listen to podcasts, watch videos, and read articles. And you know what most of them do, myself included? They SHARE these materials with their spouses.
WHY? I feel like a huge part of why they do it is to share the part of the writing/podcast/video that mirrors or somehow explains how they are feeling. They want their spouse to know what it is they are going through.
And why do they want to do that? Why is it so important? I think it is because the betrayed are desperately trying to understand their own feelings as well. They are trying to categorize the pain. They are trying to understand an incredible array of brand new and completely overwhelming emotions they have never experienced before. And when they read that what they are going through is NORMAL and the THEY are NORMAL, they want to share that because it is a huge relief to find out that this new insanity is not, in fact, insanity at all.
I am one of these people. I have watched the videos, listened to the podcasts, read the articles and the books.
You know how a lot of books about infidelity or betrayal trauma start out? They start out with an explanation of all these new emotions. They start out describing the emotions in stark terms like I have used here like debilitating, devastating, or painful. They also throw in descriptions of the pain and the suicidal ideation that often accompany these drastic emotions. I think these books start with this because this helps to satisfy the most IMMEDIATE need of the betrayed: To feel like someone UNDERSTANDS.
So we read these books, and we give them to our spouses to read. I highlighted the parts that I felt helped to explain what I was feeling. There were A LOT of highlights. That’s because the feelings are so common among the betrayed. There are variations of course, but each of us feels a lot of the same things.
The feelings run the gamut. In no particular order: Low self-worth Suicidal ideation Physical pain Anxiety Fear Depression Feeling stupid Impending doom Sadness Embarrassment Shame Feeling like a chump Numbness Betrayal
Hatred Anger Self-Esteem issues Distrust Hopelessness Loneliness
And what we want is for those who are our support people to understand these feelings. And often the most important person we feel needs to understand is our spouse. After all, if they do not know how we feel, they cannot help us to recover. The problem is, that even we as the betrayed have never had these feelings to the extreme extent that we now have them. We probably have never felt them all together at the same time before. We have read about these feelings. Each of the above listed feelings is something that we know of when we read it. But we had no idea of the INTENSITY of each of them and how they can be intertwined to create an insurmountable-feeling array of emotion that is near-impossible to articulate.
So we seek someone else to articulate these feelings and emotions in a way that makes sense. We read the books and the articles and listen to the podcasts. And when the speaker or writer gets the words right to explain how we are feeling we want to point to those words and show our spouse and say: “Look! I’m NORMAL! I feel this feeling like the book says betrayed people feel! Now can you understand?”
But we know that if WE read these descriptions without having been betrayed, we would never, EVER have truly understood the DEPTH of the feelings. The VICIOUSNESS of the emotions. The sheer debilitating devastation of what these feelings are doing to us. And if we could not have imagined this intensity, then we KNOW that our spouse cannot POSSIBLY imagine the intensity either. Even if we said: “It’s like sadness only REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY BAD sadness.” That’s not going to portray the gravity of the sadness we know inside that we feel. That’s because the WORDS are not FEELINGS.
So we come here to subs like AOAIBetrayeds or SupportForBetrayed or others desperately seeking other people who may UNDERSTAND how we feel so that we can truly know that WE ARE NORMAL. And it’s not that the WORDS are any different in one of these subs than they are as written by some PhD Author who has supported those with infidelity trauma. The words are exactly the same. But the knowledge that this other stranger on the sub has ALSO been betrayed gives us comfort that they have the CAPACITY to ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND. Again, it’s because WE KNOW that WE OURSELVES could not possibly have understood prior to our experience of being betrayed. We knew the WORDS, but we did NOT understand the FEELINGS the way we do now. And we know those who haven’t been betrayed can’t have what we really need: Empathy.
EMPATHY
In our desperation to have our primary support person have real empathy, we read more books. Share more passages with them, and tell them every day how we are feeling. We cry in front of them. We writhe in pain in front of them. We express depression, our feeling suicidal, our pain. We ask them if they understand. They tell us they do, but since we fully understand that no one can ever really know without having been there, we are not satisfied. And because we are not satisfied, our traumatized brain tries to find other ways to convey our need to have our spouse TRULY empathize with us. One of those ways is to lash out at them. To make sure that they have a full understanding of how bad a person they are. How their decisions and actions have created havoc in our lives. How they are selfish, thoughtless, pigs. They are bad spouses, bad parents, bad sons and daughters and brothers and sisters and friends. We blame, finger wag, blame, scream, blame, and completely unleash upon them every bit of vitriol we can muster to throw at them. We do this because WE WANT THEM TO HURT LIKE WE HURT. We want EMPATHY. It doesn’t work, of course. Because deep down we understand the truth. And that truth is that those who have not been betrayed, cannot, and will never, truly understand what it is to be betrayed and the depth and gravity of the devastation that it causes. It’s just not possible.
So we have a thought: If only the betrayed can understand, and we need them to understand, then we could take it to its logical conclusion: We need to BETRAY THEM. This is where REVENGE CHEATING becomes a thought. The idea is, of course, that if we could only betray them sufficiently, then they would UNDERSTAND how we feel and finally be able to have true EMPATHY.
The problem with that is: The wayward spouse is not a fully trusting, loving, blindly believing spouse. They are not US. They will experience the revenge cheating differently than the blindsided betrayed experienced the cheating that destroyed them. It is not possible for the cheater to understand the emotions of the betrayed. Not even if they are cheated on.
The very basic bottom line is that we betrayed want to be UNDERSTOOD. That understanding would be easy if our wayward spouses could just spend 10 minutes in our brains. 10 minutes of real, pure experience of what we are experiencing would be invaluable. Unfortunately, no device has been yet invented than can allow them that horrible privilege.
We want other things too. We want our spouses to apologize. We want them to feel some feelings that we know should come from someone who caused us the devastation that we are living through. Feelings like shame, guilt, remorse. We want from them atonement. And all of these things would be SO EASY for them to be able to feel if they truly UNDERSTOOD us and had real EMPATHY. Unfortunately, as I said earlier, that’s impossible. They can read the descriptions, but they’ll never feel the feelings.
So what are we to do?
You’re going to hate this, but after all this reading, I’m going to say…I don’t know.
I think the necessary step to start with is to really explain to your spouse how you feel. Explain to them using your words or allow them to see you cry, or wail, or whatever it is you feel so that they can experience as much as possible.
Then give them the books, the podcasts, the videos and the articles. Show them that the words you are using to describe your experience are not those of an outlier but are NORMAL. That these feelings are ACCEPTABLE and EXPECTED. Then you have to just let them come to some conclusions on their own about how they feel about what they have done to you. “Patience you must have, my young Padawan.*"
*I am working on my own capacity for patience. I'm not good at it.
I am at a place today where I have started to wean myself off the destructive circular pattern of blaming her, complaining to her, explaining my pain, the repeating that circle. Complain, Explain, Blame, Complain, Explain, Blame. I have finally reached a place where, at least tentatively, I have come to feel like I have asked all the questions that need to be asked. I have also explained to her my pain to the extent that I can. As I stated above, true and full empathy will never be possible. For now at least I feel like I understand that and can rest assured that to the extent she can, even if that extent is woefully under the extent that I wish it was, she understands.
One thing I did to get to this place was write down all of the questions I could think of. I wrote down questions like: What time of day did you go to his place for sex that day? Were you sober? What made you go there? What were you thinking? And I wrote down the questions that I know I don’t want answers to. Sexual details. Positions, acts, etc. I have already asked a few of those and have found that they have caused disturbing mind movies with me. I needed to ask them though, because prior to asking, the questions themselves were rolling around in my head and not allowing me to sleep. Your mileage may vary.
I have set aside the questions that I know would haunt me depending on their answer. I have also come to the conclusion that a lot of the questions could only cause me harm, like: Was the sex better with him than with me? If she answers YES, then the damage of that is obvious. But if she answers NO, I will likely be forever convinced that she was probably lying. And lies are, as we all know, a huge scourge to us. These questions will never be asked.
I have now explained how I feel enough times to feel like she understands as well as she possibly can. I have told her repeatedly of how much pain she has caused so that I think she understands that also.
There is nothing more that I can do on these fronts. For this reason I’m going to stop with the circular pattern. I’m going to try to be calm. I’m going to try to not lash out. I’m going to try to not blame.
I truly UNDERSTAND that I have done all that I can on this front. Hopefully I am right.
Fuck these affairs.
TL;DR’s: We all want to be UNDERSTOOD. It is the primary need of the betrayed and is in some ways impossible. Projecting anger and vitriol at your WP will reach a point of diminished return. When you get there, be ready to accept that and try to move to another stage in your recovery.
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2024.05.17 00:20 Discardbobulated Patience you must have, my young Padawan. We all just want to be understood.

Also on AOAIBetrayeds. is an online peer support group and safe space reserved for betrayed individuals who are considering, actively attempting to, or have reconciled after infidelity. If you feel you would benefit from a more private supportive sub for only betrayed people, message the mods at or send me a DM.
tl;dr's at the bottom.
From MY perspective.
Context: Me: 59m. Her: 55f. Married 33 years, together 36. WW had a full on EA bookended with multiple sexual PA's (1 in Dec, 2022 and 3 in Sept, 2023 (last 2 on Dday). She then pretended to go NC with AP for an additional 5 months which created Dday #2 in February. Read my story and updates using my profile for posts if you want to see background.
https://www.reddit.com/useDiscardbobulated/submitted/
UNDERSTANDING
Betrayal is destructive. Betrayal is debilitating. Betrayal is painful. It hurts not just our relationships, but our minds, our bodies, and our souls. It crushes us in ways we did not know we could be crushed.
It changes us. It changes our minds, our bodies, our outlooks on life, and so much more.
Betrayal steals from us. It steals our ability to trust. It steals our innocence. It steals our confidence, our self-esteem, and our calm. Betrayal steals our ability to feel joy.
You know what it does to us that is maybe the most egregious thing? It makes us feel like NO ONE UNDERSTANDS.
I have spent a lot of time on this sub and I have read a lot of stories of pain and suffering. I have also been the one in pain. The one suffering. I’m still hurting. I still suffer. The betrayed, like me, read books, listen to podcasts, watch videos, and read articles. And you know what most of them do, myself included? They SHARE these materials with their spouses.
WHY? I feel like a huge part of why they do it is to share the part of the writing/podcast/video that mirrors or somehow explains how they are feeling. They want their spouse to know what it is they are going through.
And why do they want to do that? Why is it so important? I think it is because the betrayed are desperately trying to understand their own feelings as well. They are trying to categorize the pain. They are trying to understand an incredible array of brand new and completely overwhelming emotions they have never experienced before. And when they read that what they are going through is NORMAL and the THEY are NORMAL, they want to share that because it is a huge relief to find out that this new insanity is not, in fact, insanity at all.
I am one of these people. I have watched the videos, listened to the podcasts, read the articles and the books.
You know how a lot of books about infidelity or betrayal trauma start out? They start out with an explanation of all these new emotions. They start out describing the emotions in stark terms like I have used here like debilitating, devastating, or painful. They also throw in descriptions of the pain and the suicidal ideation that often accompany these drastic emotions. I think these books start with this because this helps to satisfy the most IMMEDIATE need of the betrayed: To feel like someone UNDERSTANDS.
So we read these books, and we give them to our spouses to read. I highlighted the parts that I felt helped to explain what I was feeling. There were A LOT of highlights. That’s because the feelings are so common among the betrayed. There are variations of course, but each of us feels a lot of the same things.
The feelings run the gamut. In no particular order: Low self-worth Suicidal ideation Physical pain Anxiety Fear Depression Feeling stupid Impending doom Sadness Embarrassment Shame Feeling like a chump Numbness Betrayal
Hatred Anger Self-Esteem issues Distrust Hopelessness Loneliness
And what we want is for those who are our support people to understand these feelings. And often the most important person we feel needs to understand is our spouse. After all, if they do not know how we feel, they cannot help us to recover. The problem is, that even we as the betrayed have never had these feelings to the extreme extent that we now have them. We probably have never felt them all together at the same time before. We have read about these feelings. Each of the above listed feelings is something that we know of when we read it. But we had no idea of the INTENSITY of each of them and how they can be intertwined to create an insurmountable-feeling array of emotion that is near-impossible to articulate.
So we seek someone else to articulate these feelings and emotions in a way that makes sense. We read the books and the articles and listen to the podcasts. And when the speaker or writer gets the words right to explain how we are feeling we want to point to those words and show our spouse and say: “Look! I’m NORMAL! I feel this feeling like the book says betrayed people feel! Now can you understand?”
But we know that if WE read these descriptions without having been betrayed, we would never, EVER have truly understood the DEPTH of the feelings. The VICIOUSNESS of the emotions. The sheer debilitating devastation of what these feelings are doing to us. And if we could not have imagined this intensity, then we KNOW that our spouse cannot POSSIBLY imagine the intensity either. Even if we said: “It’s like sadness only REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY BAD sadness.” That’s not going to portray the gravity of the sadness we know inside that we feel. That’s because the WORDS are not FEELINGS.
So we come here to subs like AOAIBetrayeds or SupportForBetrayed or others desperately seeking other people who may UNDERSTAND how we feel so that we can truly know that WE ARE NORMAL. And it’s not that the WORDS are any different in one of these subs than they are as written by some PhD Author who has supported those with infidelity trauma. The words are exactly the same. But the knowledge that this other stranger on the sub has ALSO been betrayed gives us comfort that they have the CAPACITY to ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND. Again, it’s because WE KNOW that WE OURSELVES could not possibly have understood prior to our experience of being betrayed. We knew the WORDS, but we did NOT understand the FEELINGS the way we do now. And we know those who haven’t been betrayed can’t have what we really need: Empathy.
EMPATHY
In our desperation to have our primary support person have real empathy, we read more books. Share more passages with them, and tell them every day how we are feeling. We cry in front of them. We writhe in pain in front of them. We express depression, our feeling suicidal, our pain. We ask them if they understand. They tell us they do, but since we fully understand that no one can ever really know without having been there, we are not satisfied. And because we are not satisfied, our traumatized brain tries to find other ways to convey our need to have our spouse TRULY empathize with us. One of those ways is to lash out at them. To make sure that they have a full understanding of how bad a person they are. How their decisions and actions have created havoc in our lives. How they are selfish, thoughtless, pigs. They are bad spouses, bad parents, bad sons and daughters and brothers and sisters and friends. We blame, finger wag, blame, scream, blame, and completely unleash upon them every bit of vitriol we can muster to throw at them. We do this because WE WANT THEM TO HURT LIKE WE HURT. We want EMPATHY. It doesn’t work, of course. Because deep down we understand the truth. And that truth is that those who have not been betrayed, cannot, and will never, truly understand what it is to be betrayed and the depth and gravity of the devastation that it causes. It’s just not possible.
So we have a thought: If only the betrayed can understand, and we need them to understand, then we could take it to its logical conclusion: We need to BETRAY THEM. This is where REVENGE CHEATING becomes a thought. The idea is, of course, that if we could only betray them sufficiently, then they would UNDERSTAND how we feel and finally be able to have true EMPATHY.
The problem with that is: The wayward spouse is not a fully trusting, loving, blindly believing spouse. They are not US. They will experience the revenge cheating differently than the blindsided betrayed experienced the cheating that destroyed them. It is not possible for the cheater to understand the emotions of the betrayed. Not even if they are cheated on.
The very basic bottom line is that we betrayed want to be UNDERSTOOD. That understanding would be easy if our wayward spouses could just spend 10 minutes in our brains. 10 minutes of real, pure experience of what we are experiencing would be invaluable. Unfortunately, no device has been yet invented than can allow them that horrible privilege.
We want other things too. We want our spouses to apologize. We want them to feel some feelings that we know should come from someone who caused us the devastation that we are living through. Feelings like shame, guilt, remorse. We want from them atonement. And all of these things would be SO EASY for them to be able to feel if they truly UNDERSTOOD us and had real EMPATHY. Unfortunately, as I said earlier, that’s impossible. They can read the descriptions, but they’ll never feel the feelings.
So what are we to do?
You’re going to hate this, but after all this reading, I’m going to say…I don’t know.
I think the necessary step to start with is to really explain to your spouse how you feel. Explain to them using your words or allow them to see you cry, or wail, or whatever it is you feel so that they can experience as much as possible.
Then give them the books, the podcasts, the videos and the articles. Show them that the words you are using to describe your experience are not those of an outlier but are NORMAL. That these feelings are ACCEPTABLE and EXPECTED. Then you have to just let them come to some conclusions on their own about how they feel about what they have done to you. “Patience you must have, my young Padawan.*"
*I am working on my own capacity for patience. I'm not good at it.
I am at a place today where I have started to wean myself off the destructive circular pattern of blaming her, complaining to her, explaining my pain, the repeating that circle. Complain, Explain, Blame, Complain, Explain, Blame. I have finally reached a place where, at least tentatively, I have come to feel like I have asked all the questions that need to be asked. I have also explained to her my pain to the extent that I can. As I stated above, true and full empathy will never be possible. For now at least I feel like I understand that and can rest assured that to the extent she can, even if that extent is woefully under the extent that I wish it was, she understands.
One thing I did to get to this place was write down all of the questions I could think of. I wrote down questions like: What time of day did you go to his place for sex that day? Were you sober? What made you go there? What were you thinking? And I wrote down the questions that I know I don’t want answers to. Sexual details. Positions, acts, etc. I have already asked a few of those and have found that they have caused disturbing mind movies with me. I needed to ask them though, because prior to asking, the questions themselves were rolling around in my head and not allowing me to sleep. Your mileage may vary.
I have set aside the questions that I know would haunt me depending on their answer. I have also come to the conclusion that a lot of the questions could only cause me harm, like: Was the sex better with him than with me? If she answers YES, then the damage of that is obvious. But if she answers NO, I will likely be forever convinced that she was probably lying. And lies are, as we all know, a huge scourge to us. These questions will never be asked.
I have now explained how I feel enough times to feel like she understands as well as she possibly can. I have told her repeatedly of how much pain she has caused so that I think she understands that also.
There is nothing more that I can do on these fronts. For this reason I’m going to stop with the circular pattern. I’m going to try to be calm. I’m going to try to not lash out. I’m going to try to not blame.
I truly UNDERSTAND that I have done all that I can on this front. Hopefully I am right.
Fuck these affairs.
TL;DR’s: We all want to be UNDERSTOOD. It is the primary need of the betrayed and is in some ways impossible. Projecting anger and vitriol at your WP will reach a point of diminished return. When you get there, be ready to accept that and try to move to another stage in your recovery.
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2024.05.17 00:15 Andman02 [US-AZ][H] Mode65, Sandglass Ergo TKL, Blue Salvation [W] Paypal

Timestamp
Hi MM. I'm parting ways with some of the collection.
Shipping CONUS. All prices are +shipping. Does not include keycaps or switches
Please comment before PM. Thanks and stay safe
Item Description Condition Price
Mode65 Maroon top, black mirror backpiece, copper bottom, hotswap pcb, brass plate, pom plate, original box and carrying case Excellent $325
Sandglass Ergo TKL Beige, hotswap PCB, alu plate, original box Rarely used, excellent $450
Salvation Samurai Blue Hotswap PCB, FR4 plate, carrying case Built once, perfect condition $250
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2024.05.17 00:10 PhilsBot Game Thread: Mets @ Phillies - Thu, May 16 @ 06:40 PM EDT

Mets @ Phillies - Thu, May 16

Game Status: In Progress - Score: 2-0 Mets

Bottom of the 2nd, 2 outs, runner on first, 3-1 count with Jose Quintana pitching and Brandon Marsh batting. Edmundo Sosa is on deck, and Cristian Pache is in the hole.

Links & Info

Mets Batters AB R H RBI BB K LOB AVG OBP SLG
1 Taylor, T - CF 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .268 .291 .390
2 Alonso - 1B 1 1 1 1 0 0 0 .230 .309 .472
3 Lindor - SS 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .199 .274 .373
4 Martinez, J - DH 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .290 .333 .452
5 Stewart, D - LF 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .200 .380 .414
6 Marte, S - RF 1 1 1 0 0 0 0 .259 .306 .373
7 Baty - 3B 1 0 1 1 0 0 0 .236 .297 .331
8 McNeil - 2B 0 0 0 0 1 0 0 .236 .317 .313
9 NarvĂĄez - C 1 0 0 0 0 0 2 .167 .200 .208
Totals 8 2 3 2 1 0 2
Mets
BATTING: 2B: Baty (3, Walker, T). HR: Alonso (10, 1st inning off Walker, T, 0 on, 1 out). TB: Alonso 4; Baty 2; Marte, S. RBI: Alonso (23); Baty (14). GIDP: NarvĂĄez. Team RISP: 1-for-2. Team LOB: 1.
Phillies Batters AB R H RBI BB K LOB AVG OBP SLG
1 Schwarber - DH 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .224 .332 .404
2 Realmuto - C 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .271 .322 .436
3 Harper - 1B 1 0 0 0 0 0 0 .269 .385 .524
4 Bohm - 3B 1 0 0 0 0 1 0 .329 .398 .516
5 Castellanos, N - RF 1 0 0 0 0 1 0 .205 .275 .307
6 Merrifield - 2B 1 0 1 0 0 0 0 .198 .270 .309
7 Marsh - LF 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 .252 .305 .433
8 Sosa, E - SS 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 .313 .421 .521
9 Pache - CF 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 .219 .350 .250
Totals 6 0 1 0 0 2 0
Phillies
BATTING: TB: Merrifield.
FIELDING: DP: (Merrifield-Sosa, E-Harper).
Mets Pitchers IP H R ER BB K HR P-S ERA
Quintana 1.2 1 0 0 0 2 0 27-16 5.23
Totals 1.2 1 0 0 0 2 0
Phillies Pitchers IP H R ER BB K HR P-S ERA
Walker, T 2.0 3 2 2 1 0 1 34-20 5.23
Totals 2.0 3 2 2 1 0 1
Inning Scoring Play Score
Top 1 Pete Alonso homers (10) on a line drive to center field. 1-0 NYM
Top 2 Brett Baty doubles (3) on a ground ball to right fielder Nick Castellanos. Starling Marte scores. 2-0 NYM
Team Highlight
Bench availability for New York, May 16 vs Phillies (00:00:07)
NYM Fielding alignment for New York, May 16 vs Phillies (00:00:11)
Bench availability for Philadelphia, May 16 vs Mets (00:00:07)
PHI Fielding alignment for Philadelphia, May 16 vs Mets (00:00:11)
NYM An animated look at Pete Alonso's home run (00:00:11)
NYM Pete Alonso's solo home run (10) (00:00:29)
NYM Francisco Lindor's spinning throw to first (00:00:20)
NYM Brett Baty's RBI double (00:00:28)
PHI Taijuan Walker induces inning-ending double play (00:00:19)
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 R H E LOB
Mets 1 1 2 3 0 1
Phillies 0 0 1 0 0
Around the Division: There are no other division teams playing!
Last Updated: 05/16/2024 07:12:03 PM EDT
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2024.05.17 00:03 christiskingmydudes How are these temps for 7800X3D? Asrock Taichi X670E

  • Ryzen Master: Idle temps at the desktop without the -30mv underclock were 49°C. With the -30mv it's 47°C.
  • Core Temp win app says 45°C without the -30mv and 41°C with it.
  • HWinfo says 35°C for CPU and 39°C for hotspot.
  • I am not sure which to trust. But at the BIOS it says my temps are 39°C.
I've heard these CPUs run a bit hotter but I am getting pretty consistent 38°C on my Ryzen 5 5600 server PC. But it is running Unraid and it's not running this stacked type CPU. Just using a good old NH-D15 chromax.black on the server.
Anyone else got the same Arctic AIO and 7800X3D CPU? How are your temps?
Peace and blessings.
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2024.05.17 00:00 Parzival1127 Need help finding fun polos and new pants for super casual work environment

Need Patterned Polos/Pants for casual work environment
tldr? Need fun patterned polos and new pants for casual work environment.
Me
I am 5'9, early 20s, super skinny, short brown hair (normally buzz cut, 1 inch on top still nice fade), American tradition sleeve on left arm, an array of black earrings (usually ones that look like littles gauges or small black rings). Former drug addict (keep reading lol)
Current Clothing
Only wear:
Shoes - Black Vans (almost non negotiable) This isn't a dress shoes environment.
Pants - Vans Denim (Black) or Volcom Shorts (Black) - I need new pants and shorts for work.
Shirts - 'Fun' patterned Ben Hogan Polos from fricken Walmart.
All my other clothes are too corpo for the likes of my environment. I only own slacks, button downs, and dress shoes.
Work
I work in a major Texas city. I work in a drug addiction treatment center - extended care stuff not a full on rehab or detox. My office is the first one when you walk into our building. I 95% of the time keep my door open because - I interact with every client constantly (they normally sit in my office to talk), families when they are here, treatment professionals when they are here, and my coworkers constantly.
The 'vibes' here are super casual with a hint of business. I could wear sweats and a Tshirt to work if I wished but I choose not to. I feel like my current style is fine but ultimately doesn't make me super happy.
I want something that is both professional but fun. I don't like plain solid shirts.
Please let me know if y'all have any recommendations or questions.
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2024.05.16 23:57 danieldeubank IBC Quarterly Report ending March 31, 2024 has been released

https://mailchi.mp/ibcadvancedalloys/ibc-advanced-alloys-reports-record-quarterly-profits?e=05db7e6675
Company Sets Several Financial Performance Records as it Releases its Financial Results for the Quarter Ended March 31, 2024**_________________________** Highlights of the Quarter and Trailing 12 Months (Unless otherwise noted, all financial amounts in this news release are expressed in U.S. dollars.)IBCCompanyTSX-V: IB; OTCQB: IAALF1 1 CONSOLIDATED RESULTSCOPPER ALLOYS DIVISIONENGINEERED MATERIALS DIVISIONMD&A sedarplus.ca https://ibcadvancedalloys.com/investors-centeINVESTOR WEBCAST SCHEDULED FOR MONDAY 20, 2024 https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81738838656?pwd=ZO9lyUWDbFp5GMmFwaHDGhXuEkAKgP.1NON-IFRS MEASURESOPERATING INCOME (LOSS) ADJUSTED EBITDA go here"Mark A. Smith”** [1] IBC reports non-IFRS measures such as “Adjusted EBITDA,” “Operating Income,” and "Free Cash Flow." Please see information on this and other non-IFRS measures in the "Non-IFRS Measures" section of this news release and in IBC’s MD&A, available on sedarplus.ca# # #IBC Advanced Alloys’ Reports Record Quarterly Profits FRANKLIN, Ind. (May 16, 2023) – IBC Advanced Alloys Corp. (“ ” or the “ ”) ( ) announces its financial results for the quarter ended March 31, 2024. IBC recorded its highest ever quarterly net income in the quarter of $1.36 million, or $0.01 per share, on sales of $10.2 million. Both net income and sales revenue set new quarterly records for the Company. Consolidated sales of $34.3 million on a TTM basis and sales of $27.0 million in the nine-month period ended March 31, 2024 also were the highest ever recorded. Consolidated Adjusted EBITDA rose to $2.5 million, a Q/Q increase of 325%, while YTD Adjusted EBITDA rose to $4.5 million. Consolidated operating income of $2.1 million was 24.4% higher Q/Q and flipped to a positive $3.2 million YOY. Net income for the nine months ended March 31, 2024 was $1.14 million ($0.01 per share) on sales of $27.0 million compared to a loss of $2.92 million ($0.03 per share) on sales of $21.2 million in the comparative period, representing a marked turnaround. This record performance was driven largely by increased sales and stronger gross margin performance in IBC’s Copper Alloys division, coupled with higher sales revenue from the Engineered Materials division of beryllium-aluminum products used in defense markets, and the recovery of an onerous contracts provision booked in the prior year. The Copper Alloys division also achieved near-record quarterly sales of $6.6 million, eclipsed only by sales of $7.1 million in the preceding quarter. A portion of the division’s sales over the preceding two quarters was driven by the completion of two special non-recurring projects. “The IBC team worked tirelessly to achieve some fantastic numbers and historic gains in the third fiscal quarter, which continued the strong sales and gross margin performance of the previous quarter," said Mark A. Smith, Chairman and CEO of IBC. “I like the momentum that we are generating, particularly with the leading performance of our Copper Alloys division. While market conditions have triggered closure of our Engineered Materials division sometime this summer, that team is striving to generate substantially to IBC’s bottom line as Engineered Materials completes contracts on hand.” IBC expects to incur a charge to operations in respect of its April decision to close the Engineered Materials division and is negotiating with suppliers and the building landlord to minimize such costs. Sales increased for the quarter and nine-month period ended March 31, 2024, mostly due to increased demand from customers in the defense and power generation sectors. Gross profit was positively impacted by improved material yield but negatively impacted by higher subcontract costs. Sales increased for the quarter and nine-month period ended March 31, 2024, largely due to more favorable prices for the division’s products in the commercial and defense markets. Full results can be seen in the Company’s financial statements and management’s discussion and analysis (“ ”), available at and on the Company’s website at . IBC will host a live investor webcast on Monday, May 20, 2024 at 11 a.m. Eastern featuring Mark A. Smith, CEO and Board Chairman, and Toni Wendel, Chief Financial Officer. They will discuss the Company's financial results for the quarter and nine-month periods ended March 31, 2024. Participants can join the webcast by going here at the scheduled start time: To call into a listen-only phone line to the webcast, please the toll numbers listed here: • +1 719 359 4580 US • +1 253 205 0468 US To supplement its consolidated financial statements, which are prepared and presented in accordance with IFRS, IBC uses “operating income (loss)” and “Adjusted EBITDA”, which are non-IFRS financial measures. IBC believes that operating income (loss) helps identify underlying trends in the business that could otherwise be distorted by the effect of certain income or expenses that the Company includes in loss for the period, and provides useful information about core operating results, enhances the overall understanding of past performance and future prospects, and allows for greater visibility with respect to key metrics used by management in financial and operational decision-making. The Company believes that Adjusted EBITDA is a useful indicator for cash flow generated by the business that is independent of IBC’s capital structure. Operating income (loss) and Adjusted EBITDA should not be considered in isolation or construed as an alternative to loss for the period or any other measure of performance or as an indicator of our operating performance. Operating income (loss) and Adjusted EBITDA presented here may not be comparable to similarly titled measures presented by other companies. Other companies may calculate similarly titled measures differently, limiting their usefulness as comparative measures to IBC’s data. Operating income (loss) represents income or loss for the quarter, and year-to-date, excluding foreign exchange loss, interest expense, interest income, other income (expense) and income taxes that the Company does not believe are reflective of its core operating performance during the periods presented. A reconciliation of the quarter and year-to-date loss to operating income (loss) follows: Adjusted EBITDA represents the Company’s income (loss) for the period, and year-to-date, before interest, income taxes, depreciation, amortization, and share-based compensation. A reconciliation of the quarter and year-to-date loss to Adjusted EBITDA follows: For more information on IBC and its innovative alloy products, . On Behalf of the Board of Directors: Mark A. Smith, CEO & Chairman of the Board Net income of $1.36 million, or $0.01 per share, in the quarter on sales of $10.2 million – a new quarterly record. Sales of $34.3 million on a trailing 12-month (“TTM”) basis and sales of $27.0 million in the nine-month period ended March 31, 2024, also were the highest ever recorded. Copper Alloys division sales of $6.6 million were higher by 11.9% quarter over quarter ("Q/Q"), and Engineered Materials division sales were higher by 97.5% Q/Q. On a TTM basis, Copper Alloys sales of $24 million set a record for a 12-month period for the division. Consolidated adjusted earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation, and amortization (“Adjusted EBITDA”)\1]) rose to $2.5 million, a Q/Q increase of 325%. Year-to-date Adjusted EBITDA rose to $4.5 million. Consolidated operating income of $2.1 million was 24.4% higher Q/Q and flipped to a positive $3.2 million year-over-year (“YOY”). Company to host live investor webinar to discuss results on Monday, May 20, 2024 at 11 AM EDT. SELECTED RESULTS: Consolidated Operations ($000s) Quarter Ended 3-31-2024 Quarter Ended 3-31-2023 Nine Months Ended3-31-2024 Nine Months Ended 3-31-2023 Revenue $10,241 $7,755 $26,958 $21,178 Operating income (loss) $2,105 $83 $3,243 $(1,138) Adjusted EBITDA $2,486 $585 $4,507 $315 Income (loss) for the period $1,361 $(509) $1,139 $(2,919) SELECTED RESULTS: Copper Alloys Division ($000s) Quarter Ended 3-31-2024 Quarter Ended 3-31-2023 Nine Months Ended 3-31-2024 Nine Months Ended 3-31-2023 Revenue $6,627 $5,925 $18,614 $16,035 Operating income (loss) $1,293 $1,290 $2,766 $2,231 Adjusted EBITDA $1,436 $1,426 $3,205 $2,645 Income (loss) for the period $915 $980 $1,680 $1,669 SELECTED RESULTS: Engineered Materials Division ($000s) Quarter Ended3-31-2024 Quarter Ended 3-31-2023 Nine Months Ended 3-31-2024 Nine Months Ended 3-31-2023 Revenue $3,614 $1,830 $8,344 $5,143 Operating income (loss) $1,230 $(855) $1,618 $(2,793) Adjusted EBITDA $1,417 $(613) $2,232 $(1,976) Income (loss) for the period $1,018 $(1,004) $1,101 $(3,046) Quarter ended March 31 2024 2023 ($000s) ($000s) Income (loss) for the period 1,361 (509) Foreign exchange (gain) loss 6 (13) Interest expense 710 629 Loss on disposal of assets 29 - (Gain) loss on revaluation of derivative - (11) Other income (4) (16) Income tax expense (recovery) 3 3 Operating income 2,105 83 Nine months ended March 31 2024 2023 ($000s) ($000s) Income (loss) for the period 1,139 (2,919) Foreign exchange (gain) loss 7 (5) Interest expense 2,130 1,862 Loss on disposal of assets 29 - (Gain) loss on revaluation of derivative 1 (70) Other income (70) (12) Income tax expense (recovery) 7 6 Operating income (loss) 3,243 (1,138) Quarter ended March 31 2024 2023 ($000s) ($000s) Income (loss) for the period 1,361 (509) Income tax expense (recovery) 3 3 Interest expense 710 629 (Gain) loss on revaluation of derivative - (11) Depreciation & amortization 374 413 Stock-based compensation expense (non-cash) 38 60 Adjusted EBITDA 2,486 585 Nine months ended March 31 2024 2023 ($000s) ($000s) Income (loss) for the period 1,139 (2,919) Income tax expense (recovery) 7 6 Interest expense 2,130 1,862 (Gain) loss on revaluation of derivative 1 (70) Depreciation & amortization 1,120 1,233 Stock-based compensation expense (non-cash) 110 203 Adjusted EBITDA 4,507 315 Contact: Mark A. Smith, CEO and Board Chairman Jim Sims, Director of Investor and Public Relations IBC Advanced Alloys Corp. +1 (303) 503-6203 Email: [jim.sims@ibcadvancedalloys.com](mailto:jim.sims@ibcadvancedalloys.com) Website: www.ibcadvancedalloys.com u/IBCAdvanced $IB $IAALF #copper ABOUT IBC ADVANCED ALLOYS CORP. IBC is a leading advanced copper alloys manufacturer serving a variety of industries such as defense, aerospace, automotive, telecommunications, precision manufacturing, and others. At its vertically integrated production facility in Franklin, Indiana, IBC manufactures and distributes a variety of copper alloys as castings and forgings, including beryllium copper, chrome copper, and aluminum bronze. The Company's common shares are traded on the TSX Venture Exchange under the symbol "IB" and the OTCQB under the symbol "IAALF". Cautionary Statements Neither TSX Venture Exchange nor its Regulation Services Provider (as that term is defined in the policies of the TSX Venture Exchange) accepts responsibility for the adequacy or accuracy of this release. Certain information contained in this news release may be forward-looking information or forward-looking statements as defined under applicable securities laws. Forward-looking information and forward-looking statements are often, but not always identified by the use of words such as "expect", "anticipate", "believe", "foresee", "could", "estimate", "goal", "intend", "plan", "seek", "will", "may" and "should" and similar expressions or words suggesting future outcomes. This news release includes forward-looking information and statements pertaining to, among other things, the Company’s expectation of further growth in revenue and market demand, and the ability of the Copper Alloy division to increase its production capacity, reduce unit costs of production, expand its product portfolio and expand into new markets, the closure of the Engineered Materials division and the expected charge to operations in connection therewith, and the completion of existing contracts by the Engineered Materials division. Forward-looking statements involve substantial known and unknown risks and uncertainties, certain of which are beyond the Company's control including: the risk that the Company may not be able to make sufficient payments to retire its debt, the impact of general economic conditions in the areas in which the Company or its customers operate, including the semiconductor manufacturing and oil and gas industries, risks associated with manufacturing activities, changes in laws and regulations including the adoption of new environmental laws and regulations and changes in how they are interpreted and enforced, increased competition, the lack of availability of qualified personnel or management, limited availability of raw materials, fluctuations in commodity prices, foreign exchange or interest rates, stock market volatility and obtaining required approvals of regulatory authorities. As a result of these risks and uncertainties, the Company's future results, performance or achievements could differ materially from those expressed in these forward-looking statements. All statements included in this press release that address activities, events or developments that the Company expects, believes or anticipates will or may occur in the future are forward-looking statements. These statements are based on assumptions made by the Company based on its experience, perception of historical trends, current conditions, expected future developments and other factors it believes are appropriate in the circumstances. Please see “Risks Factors” in our Annual Information Form available under the Company’s profile at www.sedarplus.ca, for information on the risks and uncertainties associated with our business. Readers should not place undue reliance on forward-looking information and statements, which speak only as of the date made. The forward-looking information and statements contained in this release represent our expectations as of the date of this release. We disclaim any intention or obligation or undertaking to update or revise any forward-looking information or statements whether as a result of new information, future events or otherwise, except as required under applicable securities laws. Copyright © 2024 IBC Advanced Alloys, All rights reserved.
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2024.05.16 23:57 Responsible-Fox-9082 Just a thought experiment

So I've just been thinking back to what could have been. Yes it's the age old "what would you change" post however I'm going to rethink from the 2012-13 roster from this reference btw
https://www.hockey-reference.com/teams/BUF/2013.html
So damn near to scraps. However first big change I'd make. Nixing the Miller trade and Pomminvile/Foligno and Vanek. Not for attempting to win. For giving better mentors to Girgensons and Grigorenko. Instead of either touching the NHL I'd play them in the AHL for 2 seasons(assuming similar results for 13-14 and we fall to 3rd pick in the 15 draft). Instead of Lemiuex we instead take Thatcher Demko and still grab Jonas Johansson hoping Miller can guide one of them to being a legit starter.
Our big signings amount to mostly 1-2 year stop gaps in this time, however it's because we keep the relic that is Regier until 2015 when he retires willingly admitting he hasn't got what it takes to get them out, but he leaves happy so we have Pomminville, Foligno, and Miller still alongside rookie breakouts from Girgensons and Grigorenko leading the team. New GM Jason Botterill(yes I'm saying he gets the job due to some things still being likely) doesn't play Reinhart in 2014-15 knowing he wanted to tank, but gets a surprise in Girgensons and Grigorenko being about 65 point players and the extra wins gained move us to 3rd so no McDavid, but also no Eichel. Girgs and Grigorenko sign max 8 years for 7m each. No clauses added though it is viewed as overpaying based on 1 year.
In 2015 since we don't get Eichel we take Noah Hanafin as Botterill assumes his forward group has the pieces to be great. However due to some luck we first round exit in 15-16 as the bottom seed(so first pick of playoff teams), but Botterill is encouraged to send it to Florida for this Lawson Crouse rookie alongside Robert Hagg.
This however doesn't translate and in 2017 the draft is the same except we don't take Casey Mittlestat having our current 1C and 2C being Reinhart and Girgensons. Instead we go for forward Martin Necas to improve our scoring, but also now have a fairly different roster.
In 2018 the lineup is
A fossilized Thomas Vanek-Sam Reinhart-Mikial Grigorenko Random stop gap-Zegmus Girgensons-Jason Pomminville Lawson Crouse-JT Compher-Martin Necas Marcus Foligno-Johan Larrson-Joel Armia
Adam Sekera-Rasmus Ristolainen Nikita Zadorov-Mark Pysyk Noah Hanafin(rookie year)-Free Agent
Ryan Miller Thatcher Demko Jonas Johansson(plays 15 games due to injuries)
From her the story goes somewhat the same. We do get Dahlin, Skinner, Power, Cozens, Quinn and Peterka, however Vegas doesn't send Krebs. However when Vanek Retires that's why we pick Cozens as Girgensons goes to the first line, Necas shifts to Center on the 2nd, but we want a pure center for it alongside needing to replace Pomminville. Crouse replaces the stop gap while Skinner or Crouse plays their opposing wing with Necas.
Here's where the fuck ups start. We miss like normal and in 2021-22 we trade Necas to Vegas for Tuch and Krebs, but coaching has been very different.
We don't have the revolving door. Botterill just has balls and tells the Pegulas to give a bit more time and somehow doesn't get fired until 2020. Coaching is only changed in 2015 where we do take Bylsma and again in 2020 with a new GM. Not Adams, but I think this is getting long. How we get to today is mostly dumb luck getting us Power, we legitimately finish too high to justify anything else.
Roster to start this current season
Skinner-Reinhart-Grigorenko(reminder this is speculation that the altered development makes him a good goal scoring power forward) Girgs-Cozens-Crouse Peterka-Krebs-Quinn(no injury) Foligno-Compher-Armia
Dahlin-Sammy(assuming no injury) Power-Zadorov(assuming we don't get Joker) Bryson-Clifton
Demko Johansson
Definitely forgot some players and trades, but this is flipping around and just straight deleting some trades and signings because of Girgs and Grigorenko making some kinda pointless. Like O'Rielly doesn't make sense for us because he was meant to be 2C for Eichel because Girgs never developed. Drafting UPL would probably still happen, but he would either replace Johansson or be traded. Skinner still makes sense because Vanek aging out and I mean we paid nothing for him, but yes still would be on that shitty contract because of the blowout year and playoff hopes.
Powers draft year would just be winning the lottery, but can be altered to either pick 14-16 or even 2 if you want it to follow the actual draft order. Regardless. It also means we aren't in the longest drought. Just in year 1 or 2 of Adams and fuck it I'll say Ruff with a team built extremely differently based on changing 2 players development and ownership choices
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2024.05.16 23:45 wheresbeetle lol what

lol what
I should probably tell that seller who gave me mine for $24.....🧐🧐🧐
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2024.05.16 23:44 TaylorGuy18 [H] Victoria 3, Generation Zero, Deus Ex: Mankind Divided, Pathfinder: Wrath of the Righteous, and 400+ more. [W] Paypal or Venmo Offers.

Trying to clear my backlog of unredeemed stuff and make some money for an upcoming trip, so looking to hopefully clear this list down some, and honestly for most titles on the list I'd be willing to take $1-3 dollars for.
Here is my SteamRep page
And SteamTrades page
And links to Previous Posts I've made since I'm not sure how to update my flair to correctly show the number of trades I've completed.
I also have the Humble Choice coupons for the DLC for Pathfinder: Wrath of the Righteous, Victoria 3, and Symphony of War: The Nephilim Saga, if anyone would be interested in paying for those as well.
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Deus Ex: Mankind Divided
Diaries of a Spaceport Janitor
Dirt 5
Disco Elysium - The Final Cut
Disjunction (GOG Key)
Doughlings Arcade
Doughlings Invasion
Draw Slasher
Drawful 2
Driftland: The Magic Revival
DUCATI - 90th Anniversary
Due Process
Duskers
Earthlock
Edge of Eternity
Edge of Eternity
Effie
Eldest Souls
ELDERBORN
ELEX
Encased: A Sci-Fi Post-Apocalyptic RPG
ENCODYA (GOG key)
Endless Space 2
Endless Space 2 Digital Deluxe Edition
Endzone - A World Apart
Europa Universalis IV
Euro Truck Simulator 2
Everhood
Evoland Legendary Edition
Exapunks
Expeditions: Rome
Expeditions: Viking
F1ÂŽ 2019 Anniversary Edition
Fable Anniversary
Fahrenheit: Indigo Prophecy Remastered
Farmer's Dynasty
Farming Simulator 17
Farming Simulator '17 - Platinum Edition
Fantasy Blacksmith
Felix The Reaper
Fight'N Rage
First Class Trouble
Fling to the Finish
Friends vs Friends
Frick, Inc.
Frog Detective 1: The Haunted Island
Frog Detective 2: The Case of the Invisible Wizard
Forgive Me Father
Fort Triumph
Fury Unleashed
Fury Unleashed
GameGuru
Gamedec - Definitive Edition
GARAGE: Bad Trip
Generation Zero
Ghostrunner
Go Home Dinosaurs
Goat of Duty
Golf Gang
Golf With Your Friends + Caddy Pack + OST
Going Under
Gravel
GRIME
Grow: Song of the Evertree
Guns & Fishes
Guilty Gear X2 #Reload
Guts and Glory
Hacknet
Hack 'n' Slash
Heave Ho
Hell Let Loose
Hello Neighbor + Hello Neighbor Hide & Seek
Hell Pie
Hellblade: Senua's Sacrifice
Hero Siege Complete
Hero Siege - Cyberpunk Samurai (Class + Skin)
Hero Siege - Avenger Paladin (Class + Skin)
Hero Siege - Class - Amazon
Hero Siege - Demon Slayer Bundle + Spawn Skin (Class)
Hero Siege - Class - Shaman
Hero Siege - Class - Marauder
Hero Siege - Class - Plague Doctor
Hero Siege - Extra slots & stash space
Hero Siege - ClassShield Lancer
Hero's Hour
Heroes of Hammerwatch
Hexologic
HIVESWAP: Act 1
Hollow Knight
Hokko Life
Horizon Chase Turbo
HUMANKIND: Definitive Edition
Hyper Gunsport
I Am Fish
Immortal Redneck
Imperator: Rome Deluxe Edition
Into the Pit
Into the Breach
In Other Waters
Iris and the Giant
Iron Danger
Izmir: An Independence Simulator
John Wick Hex
Juno: New Origins
Just Cause 4 Complete Edition
Just Die Already
Katana ZERO
Kerbal Space Program
Kero Blaster
Killsquad
Kingdom Two Crowns
Lacuna – A Sci-Fi Noir Adventure
Laser League
Last Call BBS
Lawn Mowing Simulator
Legion TD 2 - Multiplayer Tower Defense
LEGO Batman 3: Beyond Gotham
Lethal League Blaze
Levelhead
LiEat
Life Is Strange 2: Complete Season
Life is Strange: True Colors
Lightmatter
Littlewood
Little Orpheus
Lust from Beyond: M Edition
Lust from Beyond - M Edition
Magicka
Main Assembly
Men of War: Assault Squad 2 - War Chest Edition
Mega Man Legacy Collection
Metro Exodus
Metro Exodus
Merchant of the Skies
Midnight Protocol
Minoria
MirrorMoon EP
Mitsurugi Kamui Hikae
Möbius Front ‘83
MOLEK-SYNTEZ
Moon Hunters
Momodora: Reverie Under The Moonlight
Monaco
Morbid: The Seven Acolytes
MORDHAU
Morkredd
Motorcycle Mechanic Simulator 2021
Mount & Blade: Warband
My Friend Pedro
Narita Boy
NARUTO TO BORUTO: SHINOBI STRIKER
NBA Playgrounds
Nebuchadnezzar
NecroWorm
Necromunda: Hired Gun
Neoverse
Neverout
NeuroVoider
Nex Machina
Nickelodeon All-Star Brawl
Niffelheim
Nimbatus - The Space Drone Constructor
Non-Stop Raiders
Oaken
OlliOlli World Rad Edition
Operation: Tango
Opus Magnum
Orbital Racer
Orbital Racer
Orwell: Ignorance is Strength
Othercide
OTXO
Overload
Overcooked! 2 + Too Many Cooks! + Surf n' Turf Pack
Out of Reach: Treasure Royale
PAC-MAN™ CHAMPIONSHIP EDITION 2
Panzer Paladin
Patch Quest
Pathfinder: Kingmaker - Enhanced Plus Edition
Pathfinder: Wrath of the Righteous
Pathologic 2
Partisans 1941
Party Hard
Party Hard
Path of Giants
Pawnbarian
Paw Paw Paw
PAYDAY 2
PGA Tour 2K21
PGA Tour 2K21
Planet TD
Planet Zoo
Pill Baby
Pikuniku
Pixplode
Pool Panic
Popup Dungeon
Post Void
Prodeus
Project Chemistry
Project Wingman
Project Winter
Psychonauts
Pumpkin Jack
Puss!
Purrfect Date - Visual Novel/Dating Simulator
Quadrata
Quantum Break
Radio Commander
Raiden V: Director's Cut
Railway Empire
Rebuild 3: Gangs of Deadsville
Rebel Inc: Escalation
Red Faction Guerrilla Re-Mars-tered
Relicta
Remnants of Naezith
Remnants of Naezith
Remothered: Broken Porcelain
Regular Human Basketball
Regions of Ruin
Retimed
Retrowave
Revolver 360 Re:Actor
Ring of Pain
Ring of Pain
Road 96
Roadwarden
Roarr! Jurassic Edition
Roguebook
Rollerdrome
Rover Mechanic Simulator
Rustler
Rym 9000
Say No! More
ScourgeBringer
Secret Neighbor
Seven: The Days Long Gone
Shadows: Awakening
Shady Part of Me
shapez + puzzle DLC
Shenmue III
Shing!
Shining Resonance Refrain
Shoppe Keep 2
Shotgun King: The Final Checkmate
Skullgirls 2nd Encore
Sid Meier's Civilization VI : Platinum Edition
Sigma Theory: Global Cold War
SIMULACRA + SIMULACRA 2
Size Matters
Slay the Spire
Sleeping Dogs: Definitive Edition
Slinger VR
Slipstream
Smile For Me
Sniper Ghost Warrior Contracts
Space Crew: Legendary Edition
Speed Brawl
Spirit of the Island
SpongeBob SquarePants: Battle for Bikini Bottom - Rehydrated
Spyro Reignited Trilogy
Soulblight
Soulblight
Soul Searching
Soulstice
Starbound
Stick Fight
stikir
Strange Brigade
Struggling
Stygian: Reign of the Old Ones
Sunset Overdrive
Sunless Bundle (Sunless Sea + Sunless Skies)
Supraland
Super Daryl Deluxe
SUPERHOT
Super Magbot
SUPERHOT: MIND CONTROL DELETE
Superliminal
Surviving Mars
Surviving the Aftermath
Suzerain
Swag and Sorcery
S.W.I.N.E. HD Remaster
Swords and Soldiers 2 Shawarmageddon
Sword Legacy Omen
Syberia 3
SYNTHETIK: Legion Rising
Symphony of War: The Nephilim Saga
System Shock Enhanced Edition
System Shock Enhanced Edition
System Shock 2
Tabletop Playground
Telefrag VR
Temtem
Terraformers
The Amazing American Circus
The Ambassador: Fractured Timelines
The Final Station
The Forgotten City
The King's Bird
The Inner World
The Life and Suffering of Sir Brante
The Long Dark
The Red Lantern
The Occupation
The Outer Worlds: Spacer’s Choice Edition
The Serpent Rogue
The Shapeshifting Detective
The Stillness of the Wind
The Suicide of Rachel Foster
The Textorcist: The Story of Ray Bibbia
The Quarry Deluxe Edition
The Uncertain: Last Quiet Day
The USB Stick Found in the Grass
This is the Police
This is the Police 2
This War of Mine
Through the Darkest of Times
Tilt Brush
TOHU
Tools Up!
Total Tank Simulator
Tooth and Tail
Toejam & Earl: Back in the Groove
Train Station Renovation
Treasure Hunter Simulator
Tropico 4
Tropico 6 - El Prez Edition
TSIOQUE
Turbo Golf Racing
Turok
Turok 2: Seeds of Evil
VVVVVV
Vagante
Valfaris
Valkyria Chronicles 4 Complete Edition
Verlet Swing
Victoria 3
Voidigo
Wandersong
Wandersong
Wargroove
Wargroove
Warhammer 40,000: Chaos Gate - Daemonhunters
Warhammer Age of Sigmar: Realms of Ruin – Ultimate Edition
Warhammer: Chaosbane
WARSAW RISING: City of Heroes
Wasteland 3
We Are Alright
We Need To Go Deeper
West of Dead
West of Dead
Where the Water Tastes Like Wine
Who Pressed Mute on Uncle Marcus?
Windjammers 2
Wingspan
Wizard of Legend
Wizard of Legend
World of Goo
Worms Revolution
Worms Rumble
Worms Rumble + Legends Pack
WRATH: Aeon of Ruin
Wrench
WWE 2K23
WWE 2K Battlegrounds
XCOM 2
XCOM 2 + XCOM 2: Reinforcement Pack and XCOM 2: Resistance Warrior Pack
XCOM: Chimera Squad
X-Morph: Defense Complete Pack
X-Morph: Defense + European Assault, Survival of the Fittest, and Last Bastion DLC
Yakuza Kiwami 2
Yooka-Laylee and the Impossible Lair
Yoku's Island Express
Zombie Driver HD
Zombie Night Terror
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