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2024.05.16 15:57 spyrothegamer98 Spyro's Universe

Creation of the Realms
In the beginning there where two beings one of Light and one of Dark Aether one represented Creation and the other Destruction, both of these entities created the Realms of Draakana and Avalar which would become the homes of various species but especially Dragons which where created by the beings to bring forth magic into the realms. However they also created one specific Dragon a purple one that would be able to control all elements including Aether itself, this purple Dragon and all the ones that would follow would protect the Realms and bring an era of change either whether good or bad was up for the Dragon themselves to decide.
The Banishment of the Dragons
Formerly the Dragons lived in what is now known as the Forgotten Realms it was here where their species truly flourished, they build much of realms infrastructure and brought an era of peace across all species in these lands. It was during these times when the connection with Avalar was first founded and both realms entered an age of progress, however eventually a certain Sorceress grew to resent the Dragons believing them to hoard all the magic for themselves and banished them to the other side of the world, and with this the magic across the Forgotten Realms would slowly fade away over time with the portal that led to Avalar being the first to close.
The Founding of the Dragon Realms
When the Dragons awoke in the land they found themselves in they slowly but surely recreated their new home on the Island which would eventually become Dreamweavers. However this Island would eventually become to small for their civilization, and one brave Sea Dragon would set out to find a new home for her and her children. And after a long and exhausting swim she found land but after dragging herself to shore she collapsed and passed away her children would become the first inhabitans of what is now known as Dragon Shores, with the other Dragons following soon after.
The events of the OG trilogy happen
A thousand years after the Dragons have made their home in the new Realms a new purple Dragon was born who became known as Spyro, and whilst Spyro was mostly a thrill seeking young Dragon who didn't care about things such as destiny he would through his adventures bring the Realms into a new age of peace and prosperity. His story began when a creature known as Gnasty Gnorc who after causing much mischief across the Realms because he felt that he didn't fit in with the other creatures, with him having a particular interest in learing magic this caused the Dragons to eventually banish him to the Junkyard which Gnasty build his own kingdom in with him creating othe Gnorcs out of the stolen treasures of the Dragons.
Now Gnasty Always had plans to one day return to the Dragon Realms and take it for himself but after being insulted on live television he decided to put that plan into action now, and with one devasting hit of magic all the Dragons where turned into statues except for Spyro who didn't know it at the time but his ties to Aether had protected him from Gnasty's magic. After this Spyro would go about his first adventure freeing all the Dragons and collecting their stolen gems and eggs all ending with him torching Gnasty, of course Spyro didn't cause any permanent harm to him just enough to hopefully teach him a lesson
Sortly after Spyro's first adventure he found himself into a new mess, having brought to the Realms of Avalar which has been taking over by a small creature called Ripto nobody fully knows where Ripto has come from, perhaps a realm far away from both Draakana and Avalar but seeing how he has a hatred for Dragons it shows that he lives in a place near them. It is during this adventure that Spyro starts to take his role as a purple Dragon more serious whether unintional or not, with him bringing the various warring races of Avalar together and bringing peace across the lands and eventually leading to both Avalar and Draakana re-establishing contact. This adventure eventually ending in him defeating Ripto (or so it seems) and getting the vacation he wanted in the first place.
And now Spyro's last adventure of the og trilogy atleast, after a Thousand years of the magic slowly disapearing in the Forgotten Realms the Sorceress also notices that the magic she uses to keep herself alive is fading as well, with the signs of aging apearing across her body. Not just this but the portals across the Realms are shutting off one by one which would cause trouble for her dominion over the lands, she eventually caught wind of a young dragons adventures and learns where the Dragons have choosen to live after she banished them, and send her apprentice Bianca to steal their eggs, with Bianca believing that she wanted to bring the Dragons back to the Forgotten Realms to bring the magic back. Of course it was Spyro's job to get the Eggs back together with Hunter who choose to travel with Spyro to the Dragon Realms after his adventure in Avalar, and much like before Spyro would help the inhabitans of the Forgotten Realms and thanks to his Aether magic the longer he stays in the Realms the more the magic came back.
A short while into their adventure Hunter and Bianca would start to interact and would begin to catch feelings for eachother, much to the chagrin of Spyro which to be fair if your best friend felt in love with somebody who kidnapped the babies of your species you would not be happy either. But luckily for Spyro after Bianca learned that what the Sorceress plan is for the baby Dragons she would start to help Spyro and Hunter, and eventually Spyro would defeat the Sorceress once in her castle and later for good in the super bonus round.
After this the Forgotten Realms restablished contact with the Dragon Realms and became known as the United Realms under Bianca's leadership, it was also after this that the portal to Avalar was permantly openend only in the United Realms instead of the Dragon Realms thanks to the Professor having to go of old tomes, of course this was easily remedied when the Dragons gave the proper coordinates. This resulted in the cultural exchange between all Realms and a large group of Avalarians to move to Draakana, who created the Valley of New Avalar or just the Valley of Avalar as most called it.
What came after
Most of the events that happenend after the Forgotten Realms are of minor note, such as Spyro freeing the Fairylands from Grendor and saving the Dragonflies twice with the second time being caused by Ripto. The one thing of note with this even is that Spyro started to experiment with a different element mainly bubble breath, which he got access to thanks to Bianca who uncovered runes from the old dragon civilization it is even believed that these runes where created by the first Purple Dragon.
And now we get to the interesting bits, an elder by the name of Red got corrupted by the Sorcerer to plant Dark Gems (which another Dark Master would use later), in order to drain the land of Magic. And whilst Spyro would of course defeat Red the Sorcerer was in the meantime looking into the origins of Aether and the Purple Dragon, this let him to the Shadow Realm a place beyond creation. And after the defeat of Red he set his plan into motion to tap into these Shadow Realms by releasing the Calamity, which trapped everyone from Draakana and Avalar in the Shadow Realm whilst also draining them of their magic, it is also thanks to his meddling with Dark Aether that resulted in his Purple scales. And whilst Spyro would defeat him just like any other villain before hand the Calamity would have had irreparable damage to the world such as the formation of the Ancient Grove a poisonous forest that corrupts all that enter it. And it even changed the nature of the Purple Dragon.
The Age of Malefor
After an unknown amount of time Spyro would grow older and more powerfull having returned to his home of Artisans but some noticed that he would start to behave oddly, he would start to become more and more obsessed with Aether and other elements and eventually fell to the temptations of Dark Aether. This let him to be exiled and he eventually found himself in a place where Dark Aether was most abundant a place that would eventually become the well of souls. If only the Elders had paid attention to Spyro they would have noticed the weird glow in his eyes, and the fact that it looked as if there was something missing. This now soulless husk that was once the Hero of the Realms completely taken over by Dark Aether now dubbed himself Malefor the Dark Master, and he let a campaign of terror against his own kind, destroying the Artisans homeworld leaving it as a useless ruins that got covered up by the ground only to be rediscovered in the future and be renamed as the Ruins of Warfang. The same happenend to the Dream Weavers which Malefor let fall to the ground destroying the landscape and distorting it with runaway magic. Together with his Ape army he waged war agains all other Realms, using the improved Dark Gems now known as Dark Crystals to drain magic of both Dragons and other creatures to fuel his army and ambitions. Luckily for the rest of the world the Dragon Elders and Spyro's old friends managed to corner Malefor and trap him in the Shadow Realms or atleast his Essence, whilst the evil force that has taken his souls place was trapped in the well of Souls.
The Legend begins
Despite Malefor being trapped the damage was still done, much of the world was without magic and the portals became useless, not just that but many started to mistrust Dragons thanks to the ongoing war and many dragons have been killed during the war. But all would change when a new Purple Dragon would be born, who would for some reason insist on being called Spyro not even he knows why. After an attack from the apes on his home with the Dragonflies Spyro learns he isn't one of them and sets out to find where he belongs. It was at this moment that the found Ignitus the Dragon that was task with gaurding the eggs all those years ago, and after learning his name he was of course suprised but the decided to keep it to himself. After their meeting Spyro and Ignitus would retake the Temple and set out to save the othe Gaurdians from Cynder, with him traveling to the Elemental islands which cumulated in him ending up saving Ignitus in the ruins of Dreamweavers now known as the Concurrent Skies, it was here where Spyro learned about Cynders past and followed her to Convexity the place where the Dragon Realms and the Shadow Realms meet. And where Spyro and Cynder fought and whilst Spyro did defeat and save Cynder from her corruption but Malefor's essence is freed from the Shadow Realm, since then Cynder lived with Spyro and the Gaurdians at the Temple but what she has done under Malefors control still haunts her.
A couple of weeks later the Eternal Night approaches an event where the two celestial moons would eclipse and allow spirits to wander the Well of Souls, Spyro would be sent out to stop the Ape king Gaul and to find Cynder who fled the Dragon Temple thanks to her guilt, with spyro also having been tasked with finding the chronicler who has been contacting Spyro in his dreams. Spyros first stop would be the Ancient Grove a large forest that was corrupted by Dark Aether during the Calamity that at this point happenend centuries ago, and is gaurded by Arborik a large tree golem that was created by Malefor as an artificial soldier. But after Spyro defeated him he was kidnapped by a group of pirates and forced into an arena, it was during this time he got a letter addressed by Hunter of Avalar and had a short reunion with Cynder before Gauls forces attacked the pirates and kidnapped her, Spyro used the distraction to escape the pirates but during is flight away from the ship he fell unconscious thanks to the Chronicler, only to be saved by a leviathan who brought him to the shores of the White Isle.
The White Isle is an ancient Island that houses all of Dragon knowledge and is believed to have been created since the beginning of time, with the first Chronicler being also the first Purple Dragon. After Spyro met the Chronicler he told him that he led Spyro here to wait out Malefors return, but after Spyro learned that this would cause Cynder to return to Malefors control he choose to go to the Well of Souls to stop him there and then. And after a long battle on his way to the top and a fight against Gaul who incapacitated Cynder Spyro would fall in the energy beam that sat at the center of the arena, which caused Dark Aether to start corrupting the young Dragon much like it had done before with his previous life. And after this newly formed "Dark Spyro" gave Gaul the finishing blow he flew up to Cynder and Sparx who where horrified to see what had become of Spyro, with Cynder tackling Spyro out of the Energy beam which luckily turned him back to normal. But the Well of Souls started to collapse around them thanks to Malefors return, so Spyro would use his Dragon time ability to freeze them into a large crystal and protect them from the collapsing mountain.
During this three years would pass and during those years Malefor would cause even more damage to the world, first he corrupted the apes into shadowy monsters because he felt that they only followed him for power instead of loyalty, and then he destroyed the magic Crafters homeworld turning it into the Burned Lands whilst raising the ancient temples high up into the skies. After this he sent out his new artificial soldiers out to attack the Realms and used Dark Crystals to once again drain the lands of magic. At the end of those three years Hunter would finally find Spyro and Cynder only to be beaten by Malefors forces who took them to the catacombs which at some point where known as the Celestial Plains, both Spyro and Cynder would wake up at this place and fight their way out of it and finally meet up with Hunter who explained that he was sent out by Ignitus after Spyro didn't return to the temple, as well as the three years that they where absent.
After this they join him and travel to Warfang after a quick disagreement in the Valley of Avalar, a name that for some reason sound familiar to Spyro they found themselves in Warfang, right in the middle of a seige by Malefors army. And after Spyro and Cynder fight themselves through he city and defeat the giant lava golem they reunite with Ignitus, with Cynder asking if they could do something about the magic chains that keep Spyro and Cynder trapped together only to learn much to her annoyance that there is nothing they could do about it. After a short celebration of their victory malefor would announce the return of the Destroyer who would created the belt of fire that will destroy all life on the planet, so Spyro and Cynder would go through the Ruins of Warfang which housed the leftovers of Artisans and open the gate for the Gaurdians and other Dragons to ambush the destroyer in the valley.
After making their way to the valley they noticed that the Destroyer moved to quickly to catch up to them, only for Cynder to suggest to blow the Dam so that the water would slow it down. And so they did after which they destroyed the Dark Crystals that controlled the beast including the ones on the inside, but before they could celebrate Malefor reanimated it with his dark powers this let Ignitus with no choice but to take Spyro and Cynder through the now weaker belt of fire to confront Malefor head on, whilst sending the other Gaurdians to help the other inhabitants to hide underground far away from the surface. However even with Ignitus being an fire Gaurdian the flames eventually overtake him and with his last powers sents Spyro and Cynder through the belt killing him in the progress, this leaves Spyro distraught and he lets the darkness overtake him luckily for him Cynder is there to remind him that he's not alone. And both race through the Burned Lands and the Floating Isle's to confront Malefor before it is to late.
After finally making their way to Malefor the two Purple Dragons finally meet, with Malefor starting to create doubts in both Spyro and Cynder which allows him to sortly retake control of Cynder. During this Malefor would start to taunt Spyro leaving some hints about how they're the same, something Spyro would mistake as meaning something else and he almost gave up completely believing he had failed to protect Cynder, Ignitus and the others. This allowed Cynder to break free, and Malefor to fly in a fit of rage with the battle for the fate of the world finally beginning.
At first they battled high above the volcano but after the Destroyer finally entered it the planet started to break apart, and the fight went on in the same Volcano and the falling Temple that Malefor called home. With them eventually making their way to the core of the Planet, which was made from solid Aether, and with both sides giving one last Aether attack with Spyro and Cynder finally overtaking Malefor he falls on the Crystal and the Light Aether spirits take Malefor away, and hopefully destroying the Dark Spirit that had taken over the old Spyro's body all those centuries ago. But this wasn't the end yet because even with Malefor gone the world was still falling apart, and Spyro saw one last option telling Cynder to leave to life another day for he might not make it out this time, but Cynder choose to stay by Spyro's side and with one last use of Dragon time now amplified by Light Aether, and Cynders declaration of love Spyro stopped the world from falling apart creating a new era for the survivors.
And that's where our story ends the world now exists as a group of floating islands hold together by magic which finally started to really return, and Ignitus became the new Chronicler who started to look where Spyro and Cynder ended up, seeing how they're not in the book of dead dragons. What happens after this is anyones guess, maybe a new Purple Dragon would be born who would protect these newly formed Skylands.
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2024.05.16 15:55 idntknowl0l Was it SA or not???

I, 14f, met this guy, 16m, after moving to a new school. I really liked him, I’d even use the word love if it wasn’t for the fact we had only been talking for at least two months. He admitted to liking me back and I assumed that he was telling the truth. He was my first kiss, first guy to hug me, the first guy to hold hands with me, and we were getting pretty serious I guess, but never became an offical couple or anything. I met his family, as well as his bsf and their parents too. And after awhile, we decided to hang out for the first time.
My dad was out for two weeks as usual for work, and we had the place to ourselves. His mum dropped him off at the IGA that was nearby my house. She assumed we’d be talking and walking around the neighbourhood the entire two hours we’d be together. We got food from the store then walked back to mine. We had planned to hang out days before, and I suggested we could watch horror movies and cuddle, or even bake and make TikToks, like normal teenager stuff. But as soon as we walked through the front and door and into the kitchen, he started to kiss my neck and move his hands into my pants. I guess I kinda froze for a few seconds and stood there before eventually grabbing his hand out of my leggings. I have a tendency to laugh and smile In situations that make me nervous, so I just said that we should slow down maybe, because we only just got inside. And made a joke asking “what happened to just watching movies??”
A little backstory - we had spoken sexually before and we both wanted to have sex and explore all of that stuff at some point, but at the time when he was in my house and touching me like that, I was scared. He’s had a lot of previous experience with sex and a lot of exs as well as former talking stages. But I had never had much contact with any men other than my dad, so I was afraid. I was okay with kissing and hugging but, he continued to put his hand back into my pants when I tried getting him to stop. He was like rubbing against my cl1t, and even then I didn’t feel any excitement down there, it was just all too weird for me. I told him I was nervous, that I wasn’t ready for that yet, and that i was scared. I kept saying that over and over again. But I guess I just let it happen because I wasn’t speaking firmly enough. I didn’t tell him no, and he already had condoms so I felt saying anything would make the next hours really awkward for the both of us.
We ended up upstairs on my bed, we were kissing, not making out. I don’t even know how to and he kept asking to try. It was really akward for me doing it but I liked him a lot so I was willing to try what he wanted. He ended sticking my hand into his pants to feel that he was hard, that was pretty weird for me because all of this was so new and different then what I expected it was going to be like. I wasn’t horny or anything, if anything I just felt too scared to feel sexually excited at that point. He ended up noticing I was shaking and asked why and i explained I was afraid and still wasn’t sure if I was ready. He kept telling me it was going to be okay, and eventually I just tried my best to enjoy it.
The intimacy was horrible, even though it was my first, I knew it was pretty bad. I never ended up finishing and I just wasn’t feeling much down there. It just hurt really bad. I kept my underwear on for the first half because I have an outie and I’m insecure of how it looks. He said I could leave it on if I wanted too, but I think he was getting abit frustrated by it so I took it off. I froze for abit then after a while I tried moaning and went along with other positions to get him to feel good, but it really wasn’t working. He was really rough, at some point during the sex, he wanted me to give him head. I agreed but I went really slow and didn’t really want to take the whole thing inside my mouth. So he started to to grab and pull on my hair to get me to go faster, I accidentally used teeth and had to pull back multiple times to cough while asking him to stop doing that and let me try because I couldn’t really breath. He kept doing it even thought I had to slap his hand away multiple times to tell him to stop, even though he didn’t.
I’m not sure if any of that counted as a SA or not, I dont think I was ready and didn’t really want it in the first place if I’m being honest. But eventually I thought it’d be too awkward for me to say anything. Plus I really liked him, and I wanted him to like me. I never said no, and I don’t think I was being firm enough. During the intimacy, I told him I loved him, I held him, and we had a shower afterwards and talked for awhile before he left. I think I looked too enthusiastic for it, I think kissing back was giving my consent for all of that to happen, and that not saying anything made all of this okay. I definitely blame myself for being to scared to stop it.
He ended up leaving me afterwards, saying I was too needy and that he didn’t like my outie and called it roast beef and kebab flaps. Apparently he prefers them to be tight and bubblegum pink. He told me I was just a free trial and to get lost and even sent me death threats. We had a huge argument and I kinda cried for weeks, since it was school break, I wouldn’t leave my bed because I felt so betrayed. I really liked the guy, and he knew how scared I was to lose my virginity to a person who didn’t deserve it. He was my first for everything and he never even liked me. He spread rumours about me and my body and school, and now his friends call me a root n boot when I walk by. I wish I never spoke to him in the first place.
So reddit, was it SA? Or am I being dramatic like I think I am
TL:DR - to the lazy ppl who can’t be bothered to read any of it, I’m pretty sure I got pressured into sex then got dumped.
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2024.05.16 15:54 Pixelsaber [Rewatch] 3,000 Leagues in Search of Mother - Episode 10 Discussion

Episode 10 - Mama is in Buenos Aires
Episode aired March 7th, 1976
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2024.05.16 15:50 missy_ellinot Seeking Help with Obtaining Noise Pollution Data for Specific Addresses

Hello everyone,
I am a biologist currently researching the influence of noise pollution on metabolic profiles in people. As part of my study, I need to gather data on noise levels at specific addresses. My goal is to correlate the decibel levels that individuals are exposed to during the day and night with their metabolic profiles.
Here’s what I’m aiming to achieve:
  1. Identify a method or source to obtain noise pollution data for specific addresses. Ideally, this data would provide the decibel levels for both daytime and nighttime.
  2. Compile this data into an Excel file where each row corresponds to an address and includes the respective noise levels.
I am relatively new to data analysis and programming, so I would greatly appreciate it if someone could provide a tutorial or guidance on how to accomplish this. If the process is not too complex, I would love to learn and do it myself. Any tips on relevant free tools, websites, APIs, or datasets would be incredibly helpful.
Thank you in advance for your time and assistance!
Best regards,
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2024.05.16 15:39 mansock18 One Month In

I launched my firm as a solo outfit on April 15, 2024 and I've been at it for one month. Here's a status update for everyone.

How I'm Doing

Overall it feels like it's going well for only being a month in. I was lucky enough to get a few people/cases to follow me from my last job and I think my job was largely grateful that I took most of the cases I did (a lot were difficult, low dollar, and non-paying clients too close to trial to get another attorney up to speed). Overall, these have kept me pretty busy. Though I feel like I've barely stopped working and I've tracked more (billable and non-billable) time than I ever have before, I don't feel as overwhelmed as I did in a firm. Not sure if that's because my motivation has changed or what but it's felt good to feel better.

How I'm Doing It

I was able to hit the ground running thanks to the cases I took and the advice of the Law Firm Incubator (firmincubator.com). Now that most of those cases are either done or at a stopping point, it feels like things have slowed down and I've focused more on marketing and scalability. I've been fighting with Google for at least a month to get my business verified so I can start running local services ads. While I wait, I signed up for a few local bar associations and referral programs. I am not using things like LegalMatch or Lawyer dot com for referrals--they're a bit too expensive for my budget and it seems local services ads will be a better use of my limited money (more on that below).

Revenue

My planned initial investment was $10,000.
So far I've generated revenue of about $2,100, of which Clio pay has taken their 2.0%. In terms of billable work, so far I've tracked billable time of $25,000.
So far I've spent about $12,000 prepaying rent in a cheap space, getting equipment, signing up for zoom that allows meetings longer than 45 minutes, paying for Clio, office supplies, tech, etc. Renting a space is easily my biggest cost (at $4,200/year, you read that right) but it's worth it to me to have a one-room office where I can meet with clients instead of having to either meet with clients at my house or over lunch. Privacy is nice! I'm keeping expenses down as much as possible but I always feel like I could be doing better.

Best Part

Freedom. An opposing counsel (who's been solo since 2010) called me after filing my first notice of appearance and said "Congratulations, there's nothing like it." I still work 8-5:30 or later but I get to wear PJs if I feel like it. And though I've worked harder than ever, it feels more one-to-one than it ever has in my career.

Worst Part

Revenue has so far not come in. That's a bummer. Fighting with Google and all the admin shit (and it is shit) that eats into billable time have been a pain. Having no fallbacks (admin staff, supervisors) is tough but I was actually kind of used to that from my old firm. If anything this is actually an improvement. There have been a couple of days where I bill maybe 1 hour of actual billable time and the rest is marketing and admin stuff. I also did not generate any potential client leads at all until Tuesday of this week (for future reference it's Thursday when I'm writing this).

Marketing

I'm handling all of my own marketing right now. Writing blog posts, posting on LinkedIn, and reconnecting with all of my friends and study buddies from law school. As I mentioned, I'm also doing bar association referrals and networking events. I'm still fighting with Google to get my business verified so I can run local services ads. ("All you need is a phone number!" my ass.) So far I've generated three "organic" potential client leads in my first month, and all came in since Tuesday of this week: one is a friend, one is from a law school classmate referral, and one is from a local bar association.

Other Considerations

I've got 4 and 1/2 years experience in a medium cost of living area, practicing civil litigation (generalist: contracts, contested probate, boundary lines, etc.) and business transactional law. I was able to snag a bunch of clients to keep my lights on and I saved up. I had three scheduled trials right off the bat. I don't think my results are typical so far based on that but I think they're definitely achievable and, if you're lucky enough to snag paying clients right off the bat you can do even better than I am.
Feel free to ask any questions below.
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2024.05.16 15:26 Sweet-Count2557 When Should You Go On A Babymoon?

When Should You Go On A Babymoon?
When Should You Go On A Babymoon?
So, you're expecting a little bundle of joy and thinking about going on a babymoon? You might be wondering when is the right time to plan this special trip. After all, pregnancy can come with its fair share of discomforts and challenges. But fear not! We're here to help you navigate through this exciting journey.
Some may argue that any time during your pregnancy is suitable for a babymoon, but we believe the second trimester is the ideal window. It's a period when most pregnant women feel their best - morning sickness has likely subsided, energy levels are up, and you're not yet burdened by the additional weight gain.
In this article, we will answer the question When Should You Go On A Babymoon? The short answer is the second trimester is optimal, we will cover also how to choose the perfect destination, tips for planning a relaxing getaway, activities to consider during your trip, and safety precautions you should take. So sit back, relax (if that's even possible), and let us guide you toward an unforgettable babymoon experience.
Key Takeaways
The second trimester is considered the ideal time to go on a babymoon.
Going on a babymoon allows for prioritizing self-care and focusing on the relationship with the partner.
Babymoon can have health benefits for both the mother and the baby, reducing stress and promoting a healthier pregnancy.
When planning a babymoon, it is important to consider timing, destination, and budgeting for a stress-free experience.
Benefits of Going on a Babymoon
You should definitely go on a babymoon because it's a wonderful opportunity to relax and bond with your partner before your little one arrives! One of the most important aspects of pregnancy is taking care of yourself, both physically and mentally. Going on a babymoon allows you to prioritize self-care by taking a break from the stresses of everyday life and focusing solely on yourself and your relationship.
During pregnancy, it can be easy to get caught up in all the preparations for the baby's arrival. However, it's crucial to also nurture your relationship with your partner. Going on a babymoon gives you dedicated time together, away from distractions and responsibilities. This uninterrupted bonding time allows you to reconnect as a couple, strengthening your emotional connection before becoming parents.
In addition to self-care and bonding, going on a babymoon can also have numerous health benefits for both you and your baby. Studies have shown that stress during pregnancy can affect fetal development, so taking time off to relax can help promote a healthier pregnancy. Furthermore, stress reduction has been linked to better birth outcomes and lower rates of postpartum depression.
Overall, going on a babymoon is not just about enjoying some well-deserved relaxation; it's also an important part of preparing for parenthood by prioritizing self-care and strengthening your partnership. So take advantage of this precious time together before the arrival of your little one and create lasting memories that will carry you through the journey ahead.
Second Trimester: The Ideal Time for a Babymoon
The second trimester offers the perfect opportunity to indulge in a relaxing babymoon. During this time, you're likely to have more energy and fewer pregnancy discomforts compared to the first and third trimesters. It's an ideal time for romantic getaways and spending quality time with your partner before your little one arrives.
Here are three reasons why the second trimester is considered the ideal time for a babymoon:
Reduced travel restrictions: Many airlines and cruise lines have restrictions on pregnant women traveling during their third trimester. By planning your babymoon during the second trimester, you can avoid any potential travel complications and enjoy your trip worry-free.
Increased comfort: As your baby bump grows bigger in the third trimester, it may become uncomfortable to sit or walk for long periods of time. The second trimester allows you to fully enjoy activities such as sightseeing, hiking, or even just lounging by the pool without feeling too restricted.
Emotional well-being: Pregnancy hormones can sometimes lead to mood swings and heightened emotions. Going on a babymoon during the second trimester can be beneficial for both you and your partner as it provides an opportunity to relax, connect, and strengthen your bond before entering parenthood.
So take advantage of this wonderful stage of pregnancy and plan a memorable babymoon that will create lasting memories for both of you!
Choosing the Perfect Babymoon Destination
Imagine jetting off to a dreamy, faraway destination where you can bask in luxury and tranquility, all while nurturing your growing connection as expectant parents. Choosing the perfect babymoon destination is crucial to creating precious memories before your little one arrives. Here are some top babymoon destinations that will cater to your needs.
Bora Bora: This idyllic island in French Polynesia offers breathtaking turquoise waters, overwater bungalows, and pristine beaches. It's a paradise for relaxation and rejuvenation.
Santorini: Known for its stunning sunsets and white-washed buildings, this Greek island provides a romantic setting for babymoons. Explore ancient ruins or simply lounge by the pool overlooking the Aegean Sea.
Bali: With its lush landscapes and serene temples, Bali is an oasis of tranquility. Indulge in luxurious spa treatments or take leisurely walks along scenic rice terraces.
If you're looking for budget-friendly options, consider domestic destinations such as Sedona or Napa Valley in the US, or Tulum in Mexico. These locations offer beautiful scenery, cozy accommodations, and affordable dining options.
When it comes to planning your babymoon, remember to check travel restrictions due to COVID-19 and consult with your healthcare provider regarding any safety concerns during pregnancy. Enjoy this special time together and create lasting memories before embarking on the joyous journey of parenthood!
Tips for Planning a Relaxing Babymoon
Jetting off to a serene destination for your babymoon can be made even more relaxing by following these helpful planning tips. Planning a babymoon involves several considerations to ensure a stress-free and enjoyable experience. Here are three important things to keep in mind when planning your trip:
Timing: It is recommended to go on a babymoon during the second trimester of pregnancy when you are likely to feel more comfortable and have higher energy levels. This will also allow you to avoid any potential complications that may arise later in pregnancy.
Destination: Choose a destination that offers relaxation and tranquility. Look for places with beautiful scenery, peaceful beaches, or luxurious spa resorts where you can unwind and pamper yourself before the arrival of your little one.
Budgeting Tips: Set a realistic budget for your babymoon and stick to it. Consider all expenses including accommodation, transportation, meals, activities, and any additional costs such as prenatal massages or special treatments. Research deals and discounts available at your chosen destination, and consider traveling during off-peak seasons to save money.
By considering these planning considerations and budgeting tips, you can ensure that your babymoon is a memorable and rejuvenating experience before embarking on the exciting journey of parenthood.
Activities to Consider on Your Babymoon
Consider incorporating activities such as prenatal yoga, scenic walks, and couples massages to enhance relaxation during your babymoon. These activities can provide a wonderful opportunity for you and your partner to bond and enjoy some quality time together before the arrival of your little one.
If you're looking for a beach retreat, consider spending lazy days lounging on the sandy shores, soaking up the sun, and taking gentle dips in the ocean. The calming sound of waves crashing against the shore can create a serene atmosphere perfect for relaxation. Additionally, outdoor adventures like hiking or biking through scenic trails can offer a great way to connect with nature while getting some exercise.
Attending prenatal yoga classes is also highly recommended during your babymoon. Not only does it help improve flexibility and strength, but it also promotes mindfulness and stress relief. You'll learn techniques that can be beneficial during pregnancy and labor.
Lastly, don't forget to indulge in couples' massages. These luxurious treatments not only help alleviate any physical discomfort but also serve as an intimate experience shared between you and your partner.
Overall, incorporating these activities into your babymoon will ensure a memorable experience filled with relaxation and connection with both each other and nature.
Safety Precautions to Take During Your Babymoon
Taking necessary safety precautions is essential for a worry-free and enjoyable babymoon experience. When planning your babymoon, one of the first things you should consider is travel insurance. It provides coverage for unexpected events such as trip cancellations, medical emergencies, or lost baggage. Having travel insurance will give you peace of mind knowing that you are protected in case anything goes wrong.
Another important aspect to consider is the accessibility of medical facilities at your destination. Make sure there are adequate healthcare services available nearby in case of any pregnancy-related emergencies. Research hospitals or clinics that specialize in maternity care and find out their proximity to your accommodation.
It's also crucial to check with your healthcare provider before embarking on your babymoon regarding any specific health concerns or restrictions you may have during pregnancy. They can offer valuable advice and ensure that you are fit to travel.
Additionally, be mindful of activities and destinations that may pose risks during pregnancy. Avoid extreme sports, strenuous activities, or areas with high altitudes or disease outbreaks.
By taking these safety precautions into consideration, you can relax and enjoy your babymoon without unnecessary worries about unforeseen circumstances or potential health issues.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long should a babymoon typically last?
Looking for the perfect babymoon? Well, the ideal duration for a babymoon typically lasts anywhere from three to five days. This allows you enough time to relax and unwind before your little one arrives without feeling rushed. Optimal timing for a babymoon is usually during the second trimester when you're past the morning sickness phase and still comfortable enough to travel. So go ahead, plan that well-deserved getaway and enjoy some quality time with your partner before parenthood begins.
Can I go on a babymoon if I have complications during pregnancy?
If you have complications during pregnancy, it is important to consult with your healthcare provider before planning a babymoon. They will be able to assess your individual situation and provide guidance on whether it is safe for you to travel. While some women with complications may still be able to go on a babymoon, others may need to consider alternative options such as staycations or local getaways that are closer to medical facilities. Always prioritize your health and safety during this special time.
Is it necessary to consult with my healthcare provider before going on a babymoon?
Consultation with your healthcare provider before going on a babymoon is crucial. It ensures that you are aware of any potential health risks and can take necessary precautions. Your healthcare provider will have the most accurate information about your specific situation and can provide guidance tailored to your needs. They will be able to assess if it is safe for you to travel, taking into consideration any complications or conditions you may have during pregnancy. Prioritizing this consultation is essential for a smooth and healthy babymoon experience.
Are there any specific travel insurance options for babymoons?
Yes, there are specific travel insurance options available for babymoons. Travel insurance coverage can provide peace of mind during your trip by offering protection against unexpected events such as trip cancellation or interruption, medical emergencies, and lost or delayed baggage. The benefits of travel insurance include reimbursement for non-refundable expenses and access to 24/7 emergency assistance. It is important to carefully review the policy details and consider purchasing travel insurance that suits your specific needs and concerns.
What are some budget-friendly babymoon destination options?
Looking for an affordable babymoon destination? Consider the soothing embrace of a budget-friendly beach getaway. Sink your toes into the warm sand and let the gentle waves lull you into relaxation. Or, if you prefer a more adventurous escape, opt for an affordable mountain retreat. Breathe in the crisp, fresh air as you explore picturesque trails and take in breathtaking views. Whether it's sun-soaked shores or majestic peaks, there's a budget-friendly babymoon destination waiting to whisk you away.
Conclusion
In conclusion, going on a babymoon during the second trimester is highly recommended for expecting couples. It offers numerous benefits such as relaxation, bonding time, and a chance to celebrate the upcoming arrival of your little one. By carefully choosing the perfect destination and planning activities that suit your needs, you can ensure a memorable and rejuvenating experience. Remember to prioritize safety during your babymoon by following necessary precautions. Going on a babymoon is like a soothing balm for expectant parents, providing them with much-needed rest and tranquility before their bundle of joy arrives.
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2024.05.16 15:22 wilson_ed Israel bombing hospitals in Gaza

Hello Dgg. So, I have been arguing I/P with a freind of mine, on off for a week or so, and are now both sending each other walls of texts back and forth every few days when we get an hour free each. And I've now decided to narrow the conversation down to one factual disagreement at a time to work out why I'm right and she's wrong.
The first real offensive under the new strategy began today when she said, in response to somethingid said, "It is also untrue that Israel has never bombed or targeted hospitals. Israeli attacks have hit medical centers such as Al-Quds hospital, Al-Ahli hospital, Al-Nasr and Al-Rantisi hospitals for children, and the Indonesian hospital, among others." Now I know this isn't right. I've seen the Israeli spokespeople saying "Israel has not bombed hospitals" I've looked into it myself and come away with the impression that Israel isn't bombing hospitals, that this is an overblown narrative. So I look at her, then look at my sheckles, and now back at her thinking about how much easier my life would be if I just let the point go and move on, and i look back at my sheckles. And deliver my lines like a good Hasbara agent.
But I was going to source it this time (full text and sources below). This was done in about 30 minutes so I probably missed things - though it largely fits with my impression made when I did look into it deeper. So I call on DGG, to form both a blue and red team to decide once and for all "has Israel been bombing hospitals in Gaza?"
Text W/ links
Al-Quds https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/program/newsfeed/2023/10/31/palestinians-fear-israel-will-strike-gazas-al-quds-hospital
Dust and smoke filled the corridors of the overcrowded al-Quds Hospital in Gaza when Israel bombed the surrounding area after ordering the facility be evacuated.
Al-Alhi https://www.hrw.org/news/2023/11/26/gaza-findings-october-17-al-ahli-hospital-explosion
"The explosion that killed and injured many civilians at al-Ahli Arab Hospital in Gaza on October 17, 2023, resulted from an apparent rocket-propelled munition, such as those commonly used by Palestinian armed groups, that hit the hospital grounds, Human Rights Watch said today" This is the one that was most likely a misfire from a PIJ rocket
Al-Nasr https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2024/2/16/at-least-five-people-dead-after-israeli-army-raid-on-nasser-hospital
"Israel’s incursion into Nasser Hospital in Khan Younis in the southern Gaza Strip has led to the deaths of at least five patients after electricity was severed and oxygen supplies cut, according to Gaza’s Ministry of Health."
Al-Rantisi
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/gallery/2023/11/7/israel-continues-to-attack-hospitals-in-gaza-city-killing-at-least-eight
At about 6:30pm (16:30 GMT), Israeli warplanes hit the area between the Psychiatric Hospital and the Rantisi hospital wounding 35 people, including some of the medical staff. Two hours later, the Rantisi hospital was hit as well as its southeast and northeast sides.
This article also says that the medical complex has 4 hospitals that suffered direct and indirect hits from Israeli missiles but only reports any details regarding the "war planes" hitting between 2 of the hospitals. Which is not how I'd expect it to be reported if they had any evidence of a targeted bombing campaign on the hospital itself
Indonesian hospital
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2023/11/25/gazas-indonesian-hospital-in-ruins-after-israeli-raid-days-long-siege
"Israeli tanks and snipers had laid siege to the hospital in Beit Lahiya for days, before targeting its main generator and raiding it in the early hours of Friday"
Tldr: as per the sources above Israel has not been bombing hospitals in gaza, preferring raids by infant and armour. They have at time struck hospital grounds and near hospitals but tge deadliest attack to date on a hospital has cone from a misfire PIJ Rocket which indicates Israel is not targeting civilians in hospitals. What's wrong, or missing from this analysis, and what evidence do you have against it?
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2024.05.16 15:12 SQLDave Very odd problem, may not even be Citrix-related...

But I'm not sure where to start. Feel free to redirect me to a better sub/resource if appropriate.
My situation is: I have a Windows 10 desktop (IKR, a desktop in 2024?!?!?!) on which I run Citrix Workspace to connect to a VDI workstation in my employer's network.
I also run, on my PC, a macro program so that when I have to type certain things 100 times a day I can just press (for example) Ctrl-F12 instead. This configuration has been working fine for years.
Recently, not coinciding with any update, etc. I'm aware of, any macros using the Alt key stopped working. The Alt- ones don't work at all, Ctrl-Alt- macros do whatever the Ctrl- macros does.
All macros work on my PC, whether I'm connected to the VDI or not. I know the Alt key is recognized in the VDI because in Notepad the top menu items' first letter displays as underlined when Alt is pressed, and in Excel when editing a cell pressing Alt-Enter behaves correctly.
ANY guesses as to what may be going on, or what changed, or what I can try to get back to normal? I have rebooted the VDI and my desktop multiple times.
Thanks for your time!
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2024.05.16 15:06 sk716theFirst Updated Case Long Timeline

Updated with autopsy results.
Morphew Case Map - Google My Maps - Barry's iPhone Data - Google My Maps - Barry's Truck Events - Google My Maps
August 5, 1994 – Suzanne Moorman marries Barry Morphew The Alexandria Times-Tribune Alexandria, Indiana 05 Jan 1994, Wed • Page 4
December 1999 – Barry and Suzanne Purchase 26040 Cal Carson Rd, Arcadia, IN This is the house where he dug a hole in the yard and buried everything he didn't want to move to Colorado. (AA ft 55 page 53)
November 2013 – Suzanne Inherits $208,000 upon the Passing of her Mother. MB provided documents that Suzanne inherited approximately $208,000 in 2013 at the passing of her mother.
August 2016 – Suzanne inherits $217,000 upon the death of a grandmother. Suzanne’s grievance list included multiple references to Barry controlling the finances.
April 12, 2018 – The Morphew’s Purchase 19057 Puma Path Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchase 19057 Puma Path for $1,575,000.
June 1, 2018 – The Morphews move to Colorado. (PH – Harris) SA Harris: Yeah, they moved in 2018. I believe they left around June 1st, 2018. to move to Colorado. So roughly a year and a half of the time is what Sheila originally said in that.
September 2018 – Suzanne sends “Howdy stranger” message to JL First contact since high school.
Fall 2018 – Libler’s daughter sees messages from Suzanne on his phone. Libler breaks it off.
Thanksgiving 2018 – Barry obsessive/possessive. While Suzanne was at the Oliver’s house, she had stepped away from her cell phone to use the restroom, and Barry tried calling her several times within a few minutes, then tried calling Sheila, then tried calling Darin.
Holidays 2018 – Suzanne finds Libler’s LinkedIn Page. Relationship Rekindled
January 2019 – The Mexico trip where Barry took Suzanne’s phone Mexico trip mentioned in the grievances list where Barry took Suzanne's phone.
February 11 – 14, 2019 – Suzanne in New Orleans with Libler Barry admitted to questioning Suzanne about the New Orleans trip, further evidence he suspected the affair.
April 2019 – Suzanne meets up with Libler in Indiana She does not see SO on this trip.
July 2019 – Suzanne and Libler meet up in Michigan Barry called SO while Suzanne was in MI visiting her fatheJL, wanting to know why Suzanne wasn't returning his calls.
September 2019 – Barry stalks Suzanne and Shelia Oliver, creeping through woods. Barry stalked Suzanne and Sheila at the Puma Path house in September 2019. This is upon his early return from a trip to Arizona.
October 2019 – Libler and Suzanne in Dallas Suzanne and Libler spend two nights at the Galleria.
September – November 2019 – Barry aggressively pursues KW around Salida. From the first time KW met Barry, she said it felt like "he was putting his tentacles out."
Holidays 2019 – Suzanne and Libler stop talking on the phone because she is afraid Barry will find out. They shift to more covert ways to communicate. Barry's second device makes its first appearance.
January/February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, gets spy pen, sees Libler Suzanne in Florida, SO gives her the spy pen during this trip. Suzanne records a conversation with Libler on this trip.
Late February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, sees father and Libler. Suzanne skips out on time with her father to see Libler. Barry goes to Florida.
March 2020 – Spy pen records argument between Suzanne and Barry. “It’s money. It’s about money.” “… I have lived for years being told how I should feel, how I should act, how I should look, what I should drink, what I shouldn’t drink, what I should put in my body, what I shouldn’t put in my body … ”
March 20, 2020 – Jekyll and Hyde text exchange between Suzanne and SO, MM2 suggests restraining order. "It’s Jekyl and Hyde again … Pretty much told him I can’t be healthy and stay in this."
March 22, 2020 – Spy pen records Barry listening to Forensic Files episodes, call with Suzanne on drive to Pueblo Coincidentally one of the episodes involved a woman "disappearing" after a bike ride.
April 21, 2020 – Messages between Suzanne and Libler “I want to be with you,” “I can only be me with you,” I love you,” “I need you.” “You know I was born to love you.”
May 4, 2020 16:05 – Barry makes 3 second outgoing call to Suzanne This was the first logged call in Barry’s phone to or from Suzanne since February 7, 2020.
May 5, 2020 – Suzanne drives MM2 to Gunnison Suzanne drives Macy to Gunnison, CO to meet MM1 for a road/camping trip through Utah and Idaho with MM1's best friend.
May 6, 08:44 – Suzanne sends MM2 a text “Good morning! I miss you already!”
May 6, 10:13 – Suzanne: “I’m done. I could care less what you’re up to and have been for years.” From 14:43 to 17:00 Barry replied, “When I’m dead,” “Going to see my savior,” and “This life on earth is a mear (sic) grain of sand compared to eternity.”
May 6, 2020 – 14:43 – From Barry to Suzanne: “I’m sorry if things went the way they did. I have a problem dealing with the way you accused me of hiding checks. If you think I’m as terrible of a person to hide our accounts and have ones you don’t know about you don’t know me. All I do is for you and the girls. All. When I'm dead, which won't be long, you guys will be taken care of. Please stop being angry. If I can control my hurt heart I think I can overcome your distant unlovingness toward me. Honey, I swear it's the hardest thing I've had to do. I love you I always will.”
May 6, 2020 – 15:51 – Barry to Suzanne: “I promise you were wrong about all the crazy thoughts about me. I have always been faithful. Always. Why would I ever want another when I'm married to the most beautiful, sweet, kind, loving, woman as you? Only a fool would stray from an angel like you.”
May 07, 2020 – Suzanne messages Libler about how magical past days had been. Barry wants a new truck. 16:43 - “Been studying all afternoon. I’m gonna bike now. I’ve got veggie soup on for supper.”
May 7, 2020 – SB puts new tires on Suzanne’s bike Bike mechanic was interviewed by law enforcement.
May 7, 17:13:52 – Barry Works Out at GD’s House Truck log files place Barry at GD's home at 5:13 pm.
May 7, 2020 23:00 – “I finally got the job” text from MM1 goes unanswered. Q (Lindsey): Anything on May 6th that didn’t seem normal? Was there a text from Mallory to Mr. Morphew? A (Grusing): I believe that’s the night of May 7th. Mallory, Macy, and their friend Holly are out on a trip towards Utah and Mallory is sending pictures to both Suzanne and Barry but I was ... Read more
May 08, 07:03 – The Grievance List: Suzanne’s phone backs up a list of 50 reasons why she wanted to leave marriage on “Notes” Not safe alone with you. Can’t be trusted - Oppressive - Slam on brakes when angry - Threaten to jump out of car - Gun ...
May 08, 08:43 – “I will continue to do your invoicing when you need to.” "When FBI Agents showed Barry these texts during interviews in 2021, he said he did not think Suzanne was serious."
May 08, 09:28 – Suzanne texts sister about Barry’s abuse. “It’s hard dealing with the harsh abrasiveness and having to show respect. He’s also been abusive, emotionally and physically. There’s so much … I went thru a period of acceptance and I feel more angry now. Anger at what I’ve allowed.”
May 08, 10:55 Barry: “I Love You, Suzanne.” “But, in the afternoon, it (the text fight) was like it never happened. She texted me back and it was just like, ‘Hey, what time are you coming home? Hey, this or that. Just pick this up or pick that up.'”
May 08, 13:18 – Barry texts Salida Stove and Spa about getting the hot tub fixed. "Asking when he could come out to the home."
May 08, 15:43 – Barry’s iPhone receives an SMS message associated with the unknown device This second device was first used on November 30,2019 and was associated with Barry’s iPhone 91 times since then, compared to 1,701 associations with the primary User ID since November 2019.
May 8, 19:06 – Moonlight Pizza and Phone Calls Barry convinces Suzanne to meet him at the Tailwinds site before going to pick up Moonlight Pizza together.
May 08, 21:04 – 20 Facebook friend requests, 3 men named “Jeff.” Barry’s lurking at the River. Barry was asked about his phone pinging down by the river during the Facebook posts on Friday night and asked if he was outside. Barry said, “I could have been. I don’t remember. I chase critters around the house all the time.”
May 09, 00:02 – Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 02:07 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) 02:07 am outgoing call on SM’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:00 – Barry’s phone received call (PH CAST) 06:00 am BM’s phone received call (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:46 – Barry’s phone registered “Power On” Comes out of Airplane mode.
May 09, 07:19 – Barry’s cell received signal (PH) Barry’s cell received signal (PH)
May 09, 07:22 – 07:39 – Barry at “Tailwinds” worksite Barry’s phone registered locations at his “Tailwinds” work site near Poncha Springs.
May 09, 07:35 – Suzanne texting SO Discussing Sheila's daughters wedding on Sunday.
May 09, 08:00 – MG was with Barry working on the rock beach site until 10am(?). Gentile: “He said that he had to go make the wife happy – do some hiking or biking.”
May 9 – Morning – Suzanne messaging Jeff “He’s still wanting Arizona.”
May 09, 09:50 – Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike? *Text Exchange\* Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike?
May 9, 2020 – 11:14 – Suzanne received a second password reset message from Facebook Previous reset was while Barry was down by the river on the evening of the 8th.
May 09, 11:15 est. – Barry tells Morgan Gentile he could “bury a body” and it “would never be found.” Gentile: “He seemed stressed. He definitely seemed weird on Saturday.”
May 09, 11:55 – Dead Turkey Hunt or Barry Takes Down His Trail Cameras Barry said he was looking for a turkey that Mallory had shot previously with a bow, but they had never found.
May 09, 13:35 – Barry leaves home again. Checked on job at Kim Gyms
May 9, 13:40(?) – Suzanne texts Libler Guess who is alone again?
May 09, 13:46 – Barry and the backhoe After texting, Barry drove by TK's house to see the backhoe, but did not get back in touch to buy it. In 2018, Barry used a backhoe to dig a large hole in his front yard, fill it with items to include furniture, and cover it over, planting alfalfa on top.
May 09, 13:51 – 14:13 – Barry at DSI, replacing Bobcat blade He was wearing a blue t-shirt and khaki shorts.
May 09, 14:03 – Suzanne sends sunbathing pic to Libler, last proof of life. “Well, look at her. She’s obviously drunk. Look at her eyes. Do you know what drunk eyes look like?
May 09, 14:11 – Suzanne sends last LinkedIn message to Libler: “I’m on wa.” Libler sent response messages at 2:39PM, 2:46PM and 2:47PM that Suzanne did not answer.
May 09, 14:26 – Barry texts Suzanne, “Done headed back.” He texted Suzanne that he was done and was headed home.
May 09, 14:31 – Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.” At 2:31 PM, Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.”
May 09, 14:39 – Libler messages Suzanne, she does not respond. First unread. Messages from LinkedIn show they were talking about how Suzanne is in love with Jeff before she went missing.
May 09, 14:43 – Barry’s phone and F-350, per telematics, arrive at the Morphew residence. "The photo is shown in the courtroom, Suzanne smiling. Truck GPS coordinates show Barry’s truck goes into park at 2:43:59. Phone coordinates show he walks around the house. You can hear a pin drop in the courtroom as tension is high." - Carol McKinley, PH Tweet
May 09, 14:44 – Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. (See: https://www.reddit.com/SuzanneMorphew/comments/17lfboz/barry_and_the_chipmunks_aa_excerpts/ )
May 09, 14:46 – Libler messages: “Hey … your weather looks great” Second unread. No response from Suzanne.
May 09, 14:47 – Jeff sends another messages to Suzanne with no response. Third unread. Jeff sends last message if the day to Suzanne with no response.
May 09, 16:00 – 17:30 – Defense says Barry was at Salida Stove and Spa Salida Stove and Spa's posted hours have the store closing at 2pm on Saturday. Telematics show Barry's truck in his garage during the time he was supposedly at Salida Stove and Spa.
May 09, 16:44 – Barry parks his truck in the garage. Barry claims to have been loading his truck and cleaning off his workbench. (See: https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?hl=en&mid=1FSqlFRrywR8FkytAYkNM-bdSxvKVK5MP&ll=39.173623131314%2C-105.63244&z=8)
May 09, 17:33 – Barry’s truck system manually rebooted Barry attempted to disable the trucks GPS and SYNC features.
May 09, 18:40, 18:46 – SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened
May 09, 21:25 – Barry’s truck goes into reverse, backs 96.8 feet down driveway Barry backs 96 feet out of the garage.
May 09, 22:17 – Barry’s Phone Exits out of Airplane Mode Barry's phone comes out of airplane mode at the Morphew residence.
May 10, 02:53 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone Possible glitch.
May 10, 03:25 – 03:48 – Barry’s truck door opened and closed "SA Hoyland noted over eighty events involving the F350 during this timeframe."
May 10, 03:58 – Barry’s phone moves from home to near where Suzanne’s bike found 3:58 am BM cell moves from home to near 225/50 where bike found Carol McKinley PH Tweets (read from bottom tweet up): 431 am 5/10 Barry’s phone goes back into airplane mode at the his home. 5:37 am – morphew turns into buena vista & heads towards broomfield. 538 he texts his mom “happy ... Read more
May 10, 04:10 – 04:23 – Last Activity from Suzanne’s iPhone Sergeant Mullenax asked dispatch to ping the number given for Suzanne’s cell phone. Dispatch informed Mullenax that the cell phone appeared to be off and last known activity was at 4:23AM on the present date, with a general location about 11.5 miles west of a cell tower in Poncha Springs, CO.
May 10, 04:32 – Barry’s Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode Barry's Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode
May 10, 04:32 – 05:14 – Chasing Elk, or Staging Evidence? Barry's trip to Garfield adds an approximate five miles each way to his morning trip, and places Barry and his vehicle in the direction the helmet was discarded - west from the bicycle.
May 10, 05:00 – Morgan Gentile Hears Barry’s Truck on Hwy 50 Gentile stated she did not see the truck but that his truck has a very distinctive exhaust.
May 10, 05:14 – 06:56 – Barry on the road to Broomfield. Barry phone exits airplane mode while heading towards Buena Vista, CO.
May 10, 08:10 – Trash Dump #1 – RTD Bus Stop Hwy 36 Agent Grusing: "Yes. He would have time -- with the passenger door opening and closing -- like it would say passenger door opened at 8:10:36 am and then passenger door closed at 8:12:13 am. So it took about a minute and a half and that trash can is only 10 to 15 steps away from where the truck was parked."
May 10, 08:14 – 08:20 Holiday Inn Express, Broomfield. Trash Dump #2 Grusing: "He said he parked there because he hoped someone would come out and he could go in the hotel before checking in and get a free breakfast." (Note: It was mid-COVID lockdown, building capacities were down to single digits.)
May 10, 08:41 – 08:46 – “I made it to Broomfield call me when you get a chance” Barry texts Suzanne.
May 10, 08:46 – Barry carries items into the Holiday Inn Express “If there’s clothes in my truck, there was probably old clothes I threw away.”
May 10, 10:06 – Barry exits hotel room. He's carrying a charcoal long-sleeved shirt, two white bags, and a pair of boots.
May 10, 10:20 – 10:41 – McDonald’s – Trash Dump #3 SA Grusing said Barry had a small item in his hand and used one arm to push it down, then both to push it further down as Barry was shown the photos.
May 10, 10:47 – 11:18 – Men’s Wearhouse Trash Dump #4 Barry was told he was there for about 40 minutes and asked if he remembered what he was doing there. Barry said, “I think I was still cleaning my truck, umm, yeah, yeah I mean, like I said, I just uh, I would, I was probably getting crap out of my truck like I said, which I’ve done my whole entire life.”
May 10, 11:18 – Barry calls MG "Barry called he was out of breathe (sic) panting but fatigue, kind a like hungover but he doesn’t drink, honestly when I hung up I thought to myself he sounded like he had the worst night of his life.” - MG
May 10, 11:23 – 11:36 – Barry back at the HIE Barry carries in disorganized papers in a binder. Carries out an organized binder.
May 10, 11:57 – 12:25 – Barry at the worksite Barry spent 28 minutes removing a few blocks from the wall.
May 10, 12:28 – 12:41 – HIE Trash Dump #5 A camera recorded Barry throwing away: a small item, one white trash bag, larger in size than the previous bags in one hand, a black container, along with a piece of clothing, possibly a camouflage coat.
May 10, 12:42 – 18:03 – Barry remains in his HIE room. ”At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne 'Call me'"
May 10, 2020 (Time Unknown) – Libler wishes Suzanne a Happy Mother’s Day Commented that it would be a hard day because she missed her own mother.
May 10, 2020 – 15:30 – Barry texts Suzanne from his hotel room. At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne “Call me”
May 10, 15:50 – 17:45 – Suzanne is discovered “missing” “I’m just so sad and REDCATED and I texted mom for Mother’s Day and she still hasn’t answered and I’m scared her and dad probably got in a big fight and I don’t even know it just made me want to be gone even more because I don’t want to be around them it hurts me and I know if REDACTED is working I might have to be home a lot more and it’ll probably be the worst summer of my life.”- MM2 text.
May 10, 17:55 – 19:10 – Barry leaving Broomfield 6:10 pm - Barry entered the lobby carrying two shovels and placed them beside the front desk. He made subsequent trips, placing more tools in the same spot.
May 10, 19:31 – Chaffee County finds the bike “Something is up with the front tire,” Deputy Brown
May 10, 20:42 – Barry arrives at CR 255 & US 50 "Barry is heard asking if deputies saw any “cats” on the road and a deputy says not recently."
May 10, 21:37 – CCSO Commander Avila brings Barry into the house for scent items. Barry does not call out or look for his wife in the home.
May 10, After 21:47 – Barefoot prints in the Bobcat Bucket Deputy Brown was walking in the driveway when Deputy Defurio told him that there were barefoot marks inside of the bucket on the Bobcat. Deputy Brown went with him to examine and found that the cutting blade on the bucket of the Bobcat appeared to be newly replaced, along with the nuts and bolts.
May 10, 22:00 – MG and JP smell chlorine and have the wrong tools in Broomfield. “It looked like Barry had removed top caps that was it. We also did not have the tools we need like a packer or gravel.”
May 11, 2020 – First Interviews, Puma Path Searched "On May 11, 2020, at about 7:00AM, Barry called Morgan and said that Suzanne was missing and he thought a mountain lion may have attacked her. Morgan explained that Barry was initially crying but then abruptly shifted to the specifics about the Broomfield job."
May 11, 2020 – 14:47 – Libler sends last message to Suzanne. Wishing her well for her scheduled final cancer treatment that day.
May 12, 2020 – 20:00 – Barry found digging in the trash at Poncha Market “He went to write down a description of maybe what she was wearing,” Butala said. “I just thought it was weird because he didn’t explain what the color of her eyes were or her hair or anything about her, like how tall she was or anything.”
May 13, 2020 – Deputy Carricato took photos of scratches on Barry’s left arm and hands. These injuries appeared to be healing, several days old scratches.
May 13, 2020 – Fundraiser created $33,552 raised
May 17, 2020 – 11:13 – Barry’s “plea” video is released on Facebook. “Oh Suzanne, if anyone is out there and can hear this, that has you, please, we’ll do whatever it takes to bring you back. We love you, we miss you, your girls need you. No questions asked, however much they want – I will do whatever it takes to get you back. Honey, I love you, I want you back so bad.”
May 19, 2020 – Interviews, Pneu-Darts, Range Rovers "CCSO Deputy Scott Himschoot was present during the search at 19057 Puma Path, in the laundry room, and was asked to collect a “pneu-dart box, empty,” one plastic hypodermic cover, one Pneu-dart book from safe in garage, one dart from box under bench in garage, among other items. The plastic cover was located by evidence search teams in the dryer, inside of the sheets belonging to REDACTED bed." (At some point we had confirmation of a to-do list Suzanne left including MM1s bedding in hopes that the older girls would spend the night. Cannot remember the source.)
May 20, 2020 – Spy Pen found. "The pen was located in a cloth bin amongst women’s bras. The cloth bin and pen were inside the walk-in closet in the master bedroom, located on the ground level of the residence. Detective Hysjulien located, with the pen, the controller and headphones for playback and a USB cable."
June 1, 2020 – Barry files for guardianship. Within a month of Suzanne’s disappearance, Barry began to liquidate assets.
June 1, 2020 – TD interviews Barry on camera. "So, uh -- we uh --. We had two daughters that were coming home from a trip. And I got a job in Denver that I wanted to get started on on Sunday. Set it up for my work because my rookies are coming in Sunday night. (Unintelligible) Monday but I, being the owner, I wanted to get everything lined up so that (Unintelligible).
June 6, 2020 – Barry closes on IN home. Pockets $750,000
June 25, 2020 – Barry purchases the Longhorn Ranch property for $165,000 Property Address 8366 LONGHORN DR
July 13, 2020 – Barry sells Suzanne’s Range Rover. Leaves Suzanne's sunglasses in the car.
Aug 20, 2020 – Lauren Scharf Interviews Barry “People don’t know the truth, so they’re gonna think what they’re gonna think.”
October 05, 2020 – Barry lists Puma Path home for sale. Originally listed for $1,759,000.
November 2020 – Barry Commits Voter Fraud Barry filled out Suzanne's ballot and mailed it in.
February 17, 2021 – Barry Sells Longhorn Ranch property for $150,000 A $15,000 loss. Same property sold on 04/21/2021 for $175,000, indicating Barry needed the money fast.
March 3, 2021 – 19057 Puma Path sells for $1,625,000. Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchased the home on April 12, 2018 for $1,575,000.
May 4, 2021 – Warrant Issued for the Arrest of Barry Lee Morphew CRS/CHARGE: 18-3-102 (1), (a) Murder in the First Degree, a class 1 Felony, 18-8-610. Tampering with Physical Evidence, a class 6 felony, 18-8-306, Attempt to Influence a Public Servant, a class 4 Felony.
May 5, 2021 – 09:15 – Barry Lee Morphew Arrested for the murder of Suzanne Renee Moorman Morphew "Morphew was arrested around 9:15 a.m. on Wednesday, May 5 near his home in Poncha Springs. FOX31 News has obtained video of the arrest, which shows his truck stopped on the side of the road near several police vehicles. He can be seen standing just off the road with an officer." AA: https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21065843-21cr78-morphew-redacted-affidavit
August 9-12, 2021 – Preliminary Hearing. Day One: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15wZ86C3zQ6kh9VGOUCJcr0ipCoFeaXkdowmwyaruiIQ/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Two: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QKa1jcH2dAqe9Wezew-KbLCDuicrm1HgfwC4oGwM8Dg/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Three got corrupted so it's gone.
People's exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/hgvlBUt Defense exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/VC3ZfUZ
April 19, 2022 - Case against Barry Morphew Dismissed Without Prejudice. Prosecution asked for the case to be dismissed.
May 2, 2023 – Barry files $15,000,000 lawsuit against Chaffee County, et.al. https://www.9news.com/article/news/local/barry-morphew-lawsuit/73-3cea50c2-cdae-4338-8de9-9e113d33db6c
May 8, 2023 – Fraud Lawsuit filed against Barry in Indiana. Property dispute. https://denvergazette.com/news/courts/barry-morphew-sued-fraud-allegations-land-dispute/article_1c7cd90e-f4f5-11ed-9778-47c9c303d16d.html
September 22, 2023 – Suzanne's Remains Found Near Moffat in Saguache County While SCSO was searching for another (unrelated) missing woman. https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/suzanne-morphew-remains-found-colorado-missing-mother-barry-chaffee-county-disappearance/
Sept. 27, 2023 – Autopsy Completed. Awaiting Toxicology. https://cbi.colorado.gov/news-article/suzanne-morphew-autopsy-results-cbi-update-0https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/autopsy-complete-remains-missing-colorado-mom-suzanne-morphew/
April 29, 2024 – Toxicology finds BAM in Suzanne's bone marrow. “Homicide by undetermined means in the setting of butorphanol, azaperone, and medetomidine intoxication.” https://www.scribd.com/document/727780041/Suzanne-Morphew-autopsy-results https://www.cpr.org/2024/04/29/suzanne-morphew-died-by-homicide-with-tranquilizer-chemicals-present-in-body-according-to-autopsy-report/
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2024.05.16 15:04 MrSkoolie UW Palestinian Encampment Declares Intifida Against Body Odur

As the encampment starts its fourth day at UW, the media wing of the Palestinian solidarity group issued an unexpected declaration. Alongside their ongoing efforts for justice, they have launched a new intifada (the Arabic word for uprising) — this time against body odor in UW. This surprising turn of events came after the group conducted focus groups to identify the biggest issues facing the UW community, only to discover that body odor completely topped the list.
"We were honestly surprised by the results," said spokesperson Layla Nasir. "We expected issues like high rent or how shitty WaterlooWorks is, but it turns out that body odor is a unifying concern for everyone on campus. We are committed to addressing what our people want."
This new intifada has garnered unprecedented support from all corners of the campus. Students, faculty, and even the previously adversarial Zionist groups have come together in a rare display of unity. "We might disagree on many issues," said Avi Cohen, a member of the campus Zionist organization, "but we can all agree that UW students shouldn't have to suffer through this level of funk anymore. I'm a proud supporter of this intifada."
In an extraordinary gesture, Professor David Goldstein, a fervent Zionist, announced his willingness to donate $1,000 to support the intifada. "I'm sick of my class smelling like ass," Goldstein complained. "If we can teach everyone the benefits of soap, then it's a win for the entire UW community."
Not everyone is motivated by the political aspects. "I don't care about Palestine or Israel," said one student, who wished to remain anonymous. "I just want to able to write out a two hour test without passing out. Hell, I'd wear an N95 keffiyeh if it allowed me to breathe comfortably."
Solidarity from the broader UW community has been overwhelming. Donations of hygiene products have flooded in, with students offering their dorm showers and faculty members organizing workshops on makeshift cleanliness strategies. Additionally, the group has set up a booth distributing free soap and hygiene tips. "I've never seen such a collective effort," remarked Professor Sandra Lee, head of the sociology department. "It's truly heartwarming to witness everyone putting aside their differences for the common good—or in this case, for the common odor."
In a show of unity, participants have begun repurposing common intifada slogans for their new campaign. Chants like "Liberate our nostrils!" and "From buttcheek to buttcheek, our asses will be free and clean" can be heard all throughout campus.
"We remain committed to our original cause," Nasir emphasized, "but we recognize that to fight for justice, we must first ensure that all UW can breathe freely. This intifada is just the beginning of our comprehensive approach to liberation and peace."
As the encampment continues, only time will tell if the group's resolve can withstand the dual pressures of political activism and personal hygiene. For now, they march on, noses held high.
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2024.05.16 15:00 Sir_David_Davidson It's completely normal and OK to suck at first when learning anything new - social skills are no different!

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2024.05.16 14:55 Jonbieniemy87 A Lily in a Valley of Haze (Part 6 of ?)

Alakhai now understood. That impossibly strong psychic force was her sister, empowered by her own emotional instability. Alakhai knew not how to help her sister, or even if she should. Perhaps it would be best to simply put her down, give her a respite from her eternal pain. But as Alakhai approached her sister, she heard a rumbling, as if the ship was coming alive once more, and she could hear the groans of Marines, horrible groaning of the nearly dead.
Morrigan looked up to her sister, eyes wet with tears, wrapped in a soft embrace of vines and flowers that were attempting to calm her down. “Sister, I will not have you hurt my Lily. I suggest you leave. Because if you keep going, I will have no choice.” She took a deep breath, inhaling the sweet smell of her flowers, the sweet smell of her Lily.
Alakhai unsheathed her sword, and her retinue readied their weapons, prepared for a fight to the death, or near death. But they didn't stand a chance, as vines from every direction attacked them in the gaps in their armor, breaking their breathing apparatuses, forcing them to breathe the ship’s toxic air, so strong that only Death Guard marines could hope to survive. The White Fang marines began to cough, keeling over in horrible agony as they tried to hold their breath and stumble back to the clear air of the stormhawk they arrived on. Alakhai rushed to attack her sister, only for a giant tree that had grown along the wall to reach out and grapple her in its twisting branches.
Morrigan approached her sister with a startling speed, her crying face now twisted in a visage of insanity. “I told you sister; you should have left when you still had a chance. I’m afraid my Lily had to do what was necessary to protect me. The only thing I can offer your sons is an eternal slumber before the fertilization process becomes….painful. Now I may let you leave unharmed, but I need to be sure that you won't hurt my Lily again. Goodnight sister.” Morrigan blows a cloud of powder in her sister’s face, knocking her out cold.
Her sons drug her sister back to the stormhawk, and the marine inside decided they didnt want to ask any questions and left immediately. WIth her sister taken care of, Morrigan inspected the White Scars that had been infected. “Oh my, it seems your mother has abandoned you. Don't worry, I’ll make sure to water and prune you once you sprout. Now sleep, my sons.” She blew more powder in the faces of the sprouting White Scars, bringing the coughing marines to a standstill.
Now that the foray was over, Morrigan began to cry once more, her tears streaming down her face. “I’m so sorry Lily, are you hurt? Are any of our children hurt?” The walls of the ship began to enclose upon her, wrapping her tightly in a swathe of leaves and ferns. A flower wipes away her tears as the white scars marines are taken further into the ship to gestate and sleep.
“It is alright love. I am unhurt. Our children are unhurt. Now it is time for you to calm down, you need rest.” Morrigan heard in her head. Her Lily had used telepathic messages since the accident, and it was the only thing that kept her grounded in reality. The blanket of plants began to carry their Lady to her chamber, the mass swimming through halls of the derelict ship.
“I’m fine Lily, I don't have time to sleep, I must care for our children, I must care for you!” Morrigan exclaimed to the emptiness of the ship. She couldn't bear to focus on sending her own telepathic message, but she figured her Lily could hear her anywhere in the ship.
“Love, you need rest. Just for a little while, trust me. Just….relax.” Morrigan heard in her head, as the flower released the same powder that was used to put the White Scars to sleep, though more potent to have any effect on their Lady. As Morrigan’s eyelids grew heavy, the plants lay her in her bed, still wrapped around her so she could sleep soundly, knowing her Lily was still there. As long as the plants stayed wrapped around her, Morrigan could sleep for days, without nightmares. At least usually. Their proximity to the warp would greatly affect the likelihood of nightmares, whether she snuggled tightly or not.
This time was different. Despite their distance from the warp, something about their previous encounter had shaken Morrigan, and the nightmares came like a flood. Lily did their best to cradle their Lady, but there was little else they could do, their Lady had expended a lot of psychic energy during her fight with her sister, and that had undoubtedly caused something to invade her dreams.
Morrigan saw visions of world burning, the emperor stuck to the Golden Throne, the people of the Imperium stuck in a cycle of endless fanatic violence against the enemies of Mankind. This is not what she wanted. She could help them; she could give them lives free from violence. But she also didn't want to threaten her sons, or her Lily by putting them in harm's way. And as this thought passed her mind, she awoke, shaken and in cold sweats, the leaves and vines still wrapped around her like a blanket. She began to cry once more, as her Lily tried their best to soothe their Lady, trying to give them some semblance of comfort as Morrigan struggled with the reality that faced her.
Morrigan decided that she would be able to think while she worked, and kindly asked the plants to let her go, which they did. Once again, Morrigan roamed the halls, prune growths, watering buds and checking the health of her new sons, those gestating, and the White Scars taken from her battle with her sister.
Now calmed by her work, Morrigan put thought to her predicament, mumbling to herself about not putting her sons in danger, whether she could save a world on her own, or take over other ships so Lily could be safe. Resolved to act, but with the safety of her Lily in mind, Morrigan made her way to the bridge, awakening the captain, instructing him to set course for the nearest derelict ship. The captain groaned in the affirmative, steering the ship towards the intended target, the ship's sunlight engines gently taking the hulking mass into close proximity.
Over the next several days, Morrigan seeded new ships with her sons, so that they may grow to become the ships new crew, all connected by her psychic energies. WIth her fleet now in a decent shape, she directed the flight to the nearest conflict zone. She would bring humanity from the brink. She would succeed where her father had failed, where her sisters had failed. She would cultivate a new future for humanity. They would. Together.
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2024.05.16 14:51 Glacial_Shield_W Crazy Train

One pill,
two pill,
Everybody wait,
Once it kicks in,
I'll be chill.
Oh, shit,
Too late,
Here comes the hate.
Another dunce set me off,
Time to make this square my date.
Fuck you,
To get through,
I gotta be blunt and true.
You want me to stop being a nihilist prick,
Start doing shit,
That doesn't make me sick.
You want the world
(To be a better place).
Stop being the blood letter
that sprays your enemies down with mace.
I'm the bad guy,
Who never had a better option
Than to die.
'Be what you want to see',
Well,
Ok,
all I want is to see you fucks covered in pee.
So,
Here we go,
Tic tac toe,
Off the deep end we go.
Suzanne,
you are a bad girl,
And all your bullshit makes the boys want to hurl.
Mike,
Mike,
drop the fuckin' mic.
Stop truckin' along,
everyone wants you to to plug your mouth,
like it's a dike.
Both of you can spray rose scented perfume,
Rainbow tinted glasses,
Falling in line to pretend you descented before your doom.
Heaven ain't gonna look too fondly,
On how you switch feet so promptly.
Oh, look, the winds changed,
Now those leading
were the previously deranged.
The booze ain't gonna stop me
Envisioning stepping to the noose,
Hanging myself dead,
Instead of cutting myself loose.
But it will let me fire earned shots at you,
Making sure the liar
Catches each clip that's burned through.
I'm tired.
High and wired.
Ever been so up,
You have been down?
So turned off,
You basically have to stare at her gown?
To try to check if your heart still beats,
Even as these fools get up from their seats.
Tools,
These thoughts are aimed your way,
Fireworks tour,
You'd better pray.
Carly,
Carly,
Always so obsessed with a Harley,
Got yourself a bad man,
His breath always smells like barley.
Don't whine to me about the result.
You are the one kneeling to a stereotypical cult.
And it's reciprocal.
It ain't my fault
you found his leathers so climbable.
Hey,
Franky,
Let's play.
I hate you, frankly.
Took the bait
And went off to school,
Congrats,
Now you are just another educated tool.
Sorry, I meant to say fool.
I went off record,
the way you always despised,
How I made you look silly in front of the other guys.
I mean,
I had to give your little runt a punt,
I always loved the snarky types who hated when someone was blunt.
I think the euphoria may be kicking in,
I wanna get off the hate tour,
And say from now on,
I'll be sticking to sin.
Sex sex sex,
Can't write that shit into poetry,
Or they'll call it a hex
And look at you like you're such a vex.
Whoa,
you never grew from your abuse?
Stow it,
We have no time for a truce.
Your words aren't merry?
Excuse us,
This is about to get hairy.
Noses up,
Each and every one,
Bring the hoses,
We need to sterilize him before he can run.
You hypocrites make me shudder,
Zip your lips,
When you talk out both sides of your mouth,
You stutter.
Either walk the walk,
Or silence yourself before you squawk.
I know
I'm a demon,
But I will also always be a free man.
And that is what is important,
Not you telling me what I can and can't.
Listen,
little Sally,
You should free yourself from these sycophants,
Without dally.
Jimmy,
you are growing so big,
Leave this town before the adults demand that you take a swig.
Their poison runs deep,
Their illusion must always continue to seep.
It's a crazy train,
Lead by vanity and pain.
They'll make anyone who doesn't play along,
The enemy and the bad man.
They chase them off,
So that they can't spread the blashemy again.
Some day,
You may learn to trust the cynic.
They are the ones who came up bust,
Because they saw through the trick.
It is often the angriest person you know,
Who once had the most hope.
The happiest person,
Who winds up swinging from the rope.
That is what happens
When they choose to crush hope,
Numb your mind with the dope.
And scream bloody murder when you call them out,
They say all you know how to do is pout.
But,
What happened is,
The innocent went off the rails,
Saw the fiction in the heaven sent,
And refused to follow their well trodden trails.
Not being beholden to their twisted dreams,
Doesn't mean you are the one with the wretched schemes.
Walk away,
There is no reason to talk, or stay.
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2024.05.16 14:50 Manquetu What should I do ?

I am supposed to graduate in 2 days. I have one last project to submit by tomorrow at 2pm and I have no idea how to do it. I also don’t really have time anymore to do it because of current circumstances. In 3 hours I have to go to my sister’s wedding. I am also in the wedding so won’t be arriving home until around midnight.
For the project I have to use a-frame/glitch (yes you probably don’t know what it is because I’m in the program and don’t even know what it is) and code an adjustment as a solution I made with a current VR existing application, take 5 testing videos of participants using my program, and then do a case study of what I did. Unfortunately, chatgpt isn’t too familiar with it so it’s no help.
This project started out as a group project and in the past couple of weeks switched over to an individual project. My partner and I were pretty lost and had no idea how to implement the solution. I’ve also emailed the professor 6 times for help and he hasn’t responded.
Yesterday, I was supposed to meet up with my partner so we can figure it out together. She came 2 hours later than she said she would and I ended up not getting much time to go over it with her because I had a final for another class. When my class was over, I went upstairs to the room she was working in and long story short, a PhD international student ended up doing the entire assignment for her so by the time my class was over she was pretty much done. I walked over to them with my laptop and before I can even say a word she completely flipped out on me and said “I’m sorry but I’ve been working on this for hours and you weren’t here so I’m not sharing my code with you” To be fair, I can admit that she carried me through 95% of this semester and did all of our work for us. However, I find it weird that she would decide to be petty when we are literally graduating this weekend and have taken 7-8 other classes together and never had a problem. Literally her copying her code and sending it to me which would literally take 3 seconds of her time is literally the difference between me getting an A and me potentially failing the class. I’m just so overwhelmed and honestly don’t know what to do at this point. Am I wrong for thinking this way? I really don’t know what to do at this point and I’m stressed out and it really seems like nobody can help me. Professors not responding and classmates unwilling to help because they are trying to finish their own stuff
EDIT: This is the 7th or 8th class I’ve taken with this girl and in previous semesters, I’ve had other group projects with her and have been the one carrying her.
EDIT2: For those of you telling me that I should be working on this right now instead of posting on Reddit, you need to keep in mind that I NEED THE CODE. I can’t do one thing without the other 1.) Need the Code to have a scene for testing 2.) Need a functional scene to record the videos 3.) Need all of this done to do the case study
EDIT3: for those of you saying I should ask for an extension, I can’t ask for an extension. Grades are due tomorrow and commencement is this Sunday.
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2024.05.16 14:42 Manquetu AITA for expecting help when I did pretty much nothing the last 4 months?

I am supposed to graduate in 2 days. I have one last project to submit by tomorrow at 2pm and I have no idea how to do it. I also don’t really have time anymore to do it because of current circumstances. In 3 hours I have to go to my sister’s wedding. I am also in the wedding so won’t be arriving home until around midnight.
For the project I have to use a-frame/glitch (yes you probably don’t know what it is because I’m in the program and don’t even know what it is) and code an adjustment as a solution I made with a current VR existing application, take 5 testing videos of participants using my program, and then do a case study of what I did. Unfortunately, chatgpt isn’t too familiar with it so it’s no help.
This project started out as a group project and in the past couple of weeks switched over to an individual project. My partner and I were pretty lost and had no idea how to implement the solution. I’ve also emailed the professor 6 times for help and he hasn’t responded.
Yesterday, I was supposed to meet up with my partner so we can figure it out together. She came 2 hours later than she said she would and I ended up not getting much time to go over it with her because I had a final for another class. When my class was over, I went upstairs to the room she was working in and long story short, a PhD international student ended up doing the entire assignment for her so by the time my class was over she was pretty much done. I walked over to them with my laptop and before I can even say a word she completely flipped out on me and said “I’m sorry but I’ve been working on this for hours and you weren’t here so I’m not sharing my code with you” To be fair, I can admit that she carried me through 95% of this semester and did all of our work for us. However, I find it weird that she would decide to be petty when we are literally graduating this weekend and have taken 7-8 other classes together and never had a problem. Literally her copying her code and sending it to me which would literally take 3 seconds of her time is literally the difference between me getting an A and me potentially failing the class. I’m just so overwhelmed and honestly don’t know what to do at this point. Am I wrong for thinking this way? I really don’t know what to do at this point and I’m stressed out and it really seems like nobody can help me. Professors not responding and classmates unwilling to help because they are trying to finish their own stuff
EDIT: This is the 7th or 8th class I’ve taken with this girl and in previous semesters, I’ve had other group projects with her and have been the one carrying her.
EDIT2: For those of you telling me that I should be working on this right now instead of posting on Reddit, you need to keep in mind that I NEED THE CODE. I can’t do one thing without the other 1.) Need the Code to have a scene for testing 2.) Need a functional scene to record the videos 3.) Need all of this done to do the case study
EDIT3: For all of you people telling me to ask for an extension, this is not an option. This project being due tomorrow is the absolutely furthest it could have been pushed back. Grades for all classes are due tomorrow night and commencement is this Sunday.
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2024.05.16 14:31 DecentWatercress9727 Wednesday Token

Our Plan
We wanted to launch a memecoin on Base (Layer 2 Ethereum) because it seems to be the hot thing next to Solana lately. Memecoins typically pump a lot right after launch, and the gas fees (i.e., transaction costs) are low. If you're interested, I'll link it in the comments below. What meme suits this better than "It is Wednesday, my dudes." To make things a bit more exciting and not just have a generic token, we even wrote our own smart contract. If you can do a bit of programming, it's not a huge deal, just check out https://remix.ethereum.org/. If you import the ERC-20 standard, everything is pretty much done, and you can modify individual parts. There are also links in the comments for this.
The joke with our token is that it can only be traded on Wednesdays. On all other days, 30% of each transaction is automatically burned, meaning it is permanently deleted. We initially wanted to burn even more, but then Uniswap prohibits the transaction because the slippage is too high. It would also have been possible to completely prohibit transactions on Wednesdays, but I found it funnier this way. Explanations about Uniswap and how such decentralized exchanges (DEX) work are also in the comments.
If you want to do something like this, you need to make sure to change both the transfer() and transferFrom() functions; otherwise, only the purchase is taxed, not the sale. If anyone wants the smart contract, just let me know.
As mentioned, we basically have no budget and not much knowledge, but we still made a homepage (the frog changes depending on whether it's Wednesday or not), created a Telegram group, and a Twitter account. We even threw 25 € at Elon for X Premium+. It doesn't really help much; if you buy it at all, get the smallest version!
If you're interested, check out these channels:
wednesdaycoin.org
twitter.com/coin_wednesday
t.me/coinWednesday
Our Problem
We started to get some traction in the beginning. Right now, we have around 930 people in our Telegram group. But since the presale began, we noticed that almost none of those people are willing to invest actual money. Currently, we are not sure if we will reach our SoftCap goal of $5,000. Does anyone here have any tips on how to get more attention from people who have actual money to invest? If so, feel free to comment below the post. ;)
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2024.05.16 14:06 Latetothepizzaparty I still have hope- am I delusional?

Long post (sorry in advanced).
Seeking advice on the best next steps for my situation. I (43f) have been married to my husband (41m) for 17 years (together for over 20 years). During those 17 years we separated at year 4 (lasted about a year) because I felt like he wasn’t meeting my expectations and sharing the mental load with our 3 young children at the time (he would often play video games after he got home from work instead of helping with the kids). We tried marriage counseling prior to separating but ultimately spending the year apart (and divorcing) helped us grow to the point where we felt life was not worth living unless we lived it together. 1 month after our divorce we started dating again and we remarried on our original wedding anniversary the following year.
This new marriage was better than the first- we were kinder to one another, communicated our expectations and needs (or so I thought), and we brought another child into the world. Together we are raising 4 children (2 in college, one in high school, and 1 in elementary). I felt like we were always on the same page. We constantly talked about our dreams and life goals, we went on vacations, he encouraged me to go back to school and helped out by taking over the cooking and cleaning. I would ask him what he needed from me and he would communicate that to me. I truly felt like we were stronger than ever. This is the marriage people dream of.
Last year, my husband encouraged me to go back to school to continue perusing my career goals. I got into a doctoral program for my field and he said he would support me however I needed. He works full time from home- and I work 2 part time jobs (one of which helps pay for my schooling). Well, I’m 1 year in with my program and about 3 weeks ago (right before finals) he tells me he’s unhappy with our marriage and his needs are not being met. He told me he needs to feel desired and valued and wants to be prioritized, have more sex, and more help with the cooking and picking up our youngest from school/sports. I dropped everything (happily) and stepped up to the plate. We had sex daily, I went back to cooking for the family every night, picking our youngest up from school/practice, and I only did my school work during his working hours so my weekends were free to spend with him. I even told him I would be happy to quit chill altogether because none of that means anything to me if he’s not by my side.
After about 1 week of this he reveals he’s not in love with me anymore and that he’s emotionally checked out because he had been feeling like this for years. He said he doesn’t want to have sex anymore, and he doesn’t want me around all the time, and now I’m cooking too much and not giving him the opportunity to cook, too. When I asked him why he didn’t communicate this to me sooner, he said he didn’t want to “stress me out.” He acknowledges that his communication is and always has been poor (although I thought it was better this time in our marriage). I suggested couples counseling- we went to one session and he tells me he’s not interested in putting the work because it’s too hard when he’s not in love with me. I told him I will continue to show up for him and our marriage because I believe in us and this amazing life we built.
It’s been only 3 weeks since he told me he was unhappy and last night he said he’s done. We had a long talk about what brings him joy in life and he couldn’t think of anything. I think he may be having a midlife crisis and he’s projecting his unhappiness onto me. He agreed to continue to go to therapy to work on himself and figure out “who he is” but doesn’t want our marriage to complicate this process. So now we are trying to figure out what life looks like during this process. We are going to try and cohabitate for the next few years and coparent and I’m going to attempt to continue with school (and work) so I can better support myself and our kids when he leaves. I’m hoping during this time he will come back to me but this is where I’m probably delusional. I know I need to let him go but I still have hope that we can be amazing together. He said he’s broken and I deserve better.
I should also mention that he revealed to me that prior to him telling me he was unhappy he had been jacking off to pornhub 2x a day. He said he built up resentment towards me during this time because he wanted to instead have sex with me. I reminded him that he never communicated this need to me and I would have been happy to step it up.
I keep telling him “I wish I had known.” It hurts my heart to hear my partner was hurting for all this time. All he had to do was tell me what he needed and give me the opportunity to meet his needs. But he never gave me that choice. I’ve been completely blindsighted, and I am completely devastated. I still have hope. Should I even continue to try and save what he thinks is lost?
If you made it this far- thank you. I welcome any advice and best next steps.
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2024.05.16 14:03 pm-positivity The entire Joostgate timeline explained: It's not a reach to suspect Israel had something to do with Netherlands' DQ

The entire Joostgate timeline explained: It's not a reach to suspect Israel had something to do with Netherlands' DQ
There are some people who still insist that Joost Klein's disqualification had nothing to do with Israel. They firmly believe he just messed up behind the scenes, it's his own fault and did something that warranted him being removed from the contest. If you look at what actually, objectively happened, it's really not that conspiratorial to suspect that they were involved with this and targeted Joost personally.
Let's look at the timeline to understand the reasons.
1- On March 19, Joost shared a Eurovision poll on his Instagram story. Joost found a clever way to censor Israel's name by writing a caption right where their name is written.
https://preview.redd.it/so19wj5bvr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa118a7d1ccacc36f3703827bce5e2076cc365f6
Although many people did not pay much attention to this at first, saying "maybe it is just a coincidence", Joost shared the survey again a few days later and again wrote a caption where Israel's name was written. Although some Israelis got angry and reacted to this incident on social media, this incident was not a big deal.
https://preview.redd.it/tgaqlrzevr0d1.jpg?width=854&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f13f9759a08130a9b4fc35393cfcbfea0edb4d0
2- On May 8, the day before the second semi-final, while the Dutch and Israeli delegations were in the same room, the songwriter of the Israeli song, Keren Peles, started recording Joost without permission. Joost goes to the woman and tells her that he does not want to be recorded and to stop. The woman still continued to secretly record Joost and shared it on her Instagram story.
https://preview.redd.it/6l7tt1bjvr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fefa09968c8102a25ddbd054d6e0f0d548a11206
3- Semi-final night came and the Dutch delegation made an agreement with the broadcasters before the semi-final and they said that Joost does not want to be recorded because he needs some time and privacy after the semi-final performance is over. The reason for this is that Joost's song is dedicated to his deceased parents and Joost struggles with PTSD about their loss.
A photographer violated this agreement and started recording Joost as soon as he left the stage. Joost told her to stop, but she did not listen. Thereupon, Joost got angry, shouted at the cameraman and pushed the camera device down, causing the device to be scratched, but it was confirmed by the Swedish police that Joost did not have any physical contact with her. He also apologized after this incident.
4- On the same evening this incident took place, at the press conference attended by finalists, Israeli representative Eden Golan was asked: "Do you think Israel's participation in the competition poses a danger for you, other artists, delegations and the audience in the arena?" The Israeli delegation immediately intervened and said that you do not have to answer this question. Joost then responds with "why not?"
Joost covering his head with a flag during the same press conference also attracted a lot of reactions, but this is something Joost does very often. Maybe it was done on purpose to be a stance against the Israelis, maybe not, but there are videos of him singing his songs with a flag on his head in many of his concerts in the past.
5- Immediately after this press conference, the competition order in the grand final is determined and as if out of spite, they put Joost between two Israelis in the grand final (the Luxembourg representative is also Israeli).
https://preview.redd.it/e10ij9covr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=050a3e1917edca7d51a3913f0d1cf22dd171c066
6- The next day came and it is the last day before the grand finale. It is also the day when the final rehearsals and jury finale will be held. Joost and his team are getting ready to go to rehearsal, and just as they are about to take their place on stage, they are stopped by the authorities. They say that an investigation has been launched because the argument that took place the previous evening was just reported by the cameraman, and that Joost cannot go on stage until the investigation is concluded.
While Joost and his team are leaving the stage, they are harassed by a man from the Israeli delegation in the waiting room. The Israeli man came to them and tries to provoke Joost and his team by making fun of them. Security intervened.
Video evidence of this incident: https://youtu.be/Rhr6rmR8Dl0
7- Meanwhile, the Israeli delegation and the Israeli official channel violate many rules, disturbing the representatives of many countries throughout the competition. The Israeli channel Kan makes unprofessional statements about the Irish contestant Bambie Thug and tells the Israelis to shower their curses and insults on them (Bambie is openly a supporter of Palestine and anti-war, even the "ceasefire" text wrote in the Ogham alphabet on their face in the semi-final was forcibly erased by EBU)
Israeli songwriter Keren Peles records Bambie without permission, just like she did with Joost, and shares it on her Instagram story. She writes a threatening caption about Bambie, saying "No anti-Semite can breathe next to us." Bambie Thug is not an anti-Semite, they are literally just against Israeli war crimes.
https://preview.redd.it/vsjedygowr0d1.jpg?width=1063&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe99aea53443e3e982fb04f2a5ab5d11e904579b
https://preview.redd.it/5g7hhz2wwr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dfc871c7b5a4c34a46ed270bba052f074bc8cc09
https://preview.redd.it/ibsxuujwwr0d1.jpg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c247091cf59c11b24f078d8a5229437dd2286f59
8- The member of the Israeli delegation who went up to Joost and his team and tried to start a fight, also made fun of the Greek representative Marina Satti by posing while yawning in front of the Greek flag. Keren Peles also shared Marina in her story and wrote a salty caption (because Marina yawned while Eden Golan was speaking during the press conference).
https://preview.redd.it/wr6b2f3axr0d1.jpg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7fe3d1e9108df99052bf8c4f203987e104a573f0
https://preview.redd.it/aqh7bbiaxr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bd9ccfa8e9b5d0b599b91b8b5117b6e943faf166
9- Dons, the Latvian representative, was subjected to cold stares of Eden Golan and the Israeli delegation for saying "every country in the world deserves to be free."
https://preview.redd.it/2q9kbm0hxr0d1.jpg?width=946&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=925291679729cd438ec6602622628d996ba20cc5
Italian representative Angelina Mango is reported and (ALLEGEDLY) fined for making a small speech about peace backstage and singing a cover of John Lennon's song Imagine.
French representative Slimane is censored in his recap video because he interrupted his song during rehearsal and said he wanted peace.
Portugal representative Iolanda wore nail polish in the colors of the Palestinian flag and a keffiyeh pattern on her nails during the grand final performance, they first censored the semi-final performance on YouTube by re-uploading it instead of the grand final performance. After this situation received backlash, they uploaded the final performance video very late.
Swedish singer Eric Saade, who performed in the semi-finals, is not shared on Eurovision's social media accounts because he came on stage with a keffiyeh.
Polish representative Luna also confirmed the Israeli delegation's harassment of other artists in an interview. Likewise, a member of the Slovenian delegation confirms the inappropriate behavior of the Israeli delegation. Estonian representatives expressed their uneasiness with the Israeli delegation. Norwegian representatives also complain about EBU's approach towards the Israeli delegation.
https://preview.redd.it/wuetdtg7zr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ae035c6ae4d6857c3bc5ad45098cc29f4aa3455
https://preview.redd.it/li38nxkfzr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dea42c1f8660ede8e6c33c981b8610136a23f21a
(Also, this one is just speculation and there is no definitive evidence, but many believe that Mustii appearing on stage with the word "peace" on his arm and the Belgian broadcaster cutting of the broadcast to send a protest message during Israel's performance as a factor in Belgium, which was a fan favorite before the competition, not making it to the finals.)
10- Last year's representative from Finland, Käärijä, accepted Golan's offer to take a video together out of kindness, but the Israeli delegation shared the video even though he did not give consent for the video to be shared.
https://preview.redd.it/kv0vi6c2yr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b1dcc2768584698b786f3da2cfe9cfc8ba1e1f7
11- After the final, Lithuanian representative Silvester Belt says that it was a traumatic experience for him to go on stage right after Israel, when the audience was so angry and tense. When Silvester came on stage, thousands of people in the arena were still booing Israel.
https://preview.redd.it/q6tzjtutzr0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26ac00b10f3b93d08625b353b9f41bdd11dd4572
12- Coming back to Joost, they do not allow the Netherlands to rehearse, nor do they allow him to attend the jury final held on the same evening, and instead they decide to use Joost's semi-final performance for the juries to give scores. The next day, shortly before the grand final, they officially disqualify him from the competition. The Dutch broadcaster appeals the disqualification decision and offers to issue an official apology and pay a fine, but this offer is not accepted by EBU.
During this controversy, because EBU was too late to make a proper statement on this matter, a lot of fake news about Joost were spreading around the internet, making false claims such as "he used drugs before going on stage", "he punched a female worker" and "he sexually assaulted a woman". They presented it as if the reason for Joost's disqualification was one of these to attack his reputation.
13- Bambie Thug reported rule violations by the Israeli delegation and the Israeli official channel to EBU before the grand final. Even though EBU accepts the violations of the rules in question, it does not impose any sanctions and dismisses them by saying that they will investigate. (As of 16/05/2024, the date I'm making this post, nothing came from it so far)
After the final, Bambie stated "So now that I am free I can talk about everything right? KAN, the broadcaster, incited violence against me twice, three times. We brought it up to the EBU, they said they’d follow up. They waited until the last minute, we still haven’t got a statement back. They allowed us to be scapegoats, allowed us to be the spokesperson for standing up for ourselves. I’m so proud of Nemo for winning. I’m so proud of all of us that are in the top ten that have been fighting for this shit behind the scenes because it has been so horrible for us and I am so proud of us. And I just want to say we are what the Eurovision is. The EBU is not what the Eurovision is – fuck the EBU. I don’t even care anymore. Fuck them."
14- On the 14th of May, an Israeli TV show made a Eurovision 2024 sketch where they made fun of other contestants and made Eden Golan look like a saint, and all of the singers they included in the parody are peace supporters and artists that were harassed by the Israeli delegation in Malmö. There was an actress playing her, but also the real Eden Golan herself appeared in the sketch.
You can read more about how this bit Eden Golan agreed to be a part of "satirized" other contestants here, reported by "the Jerusalem Post": https://www.jpost.com/israel-news/culture/article-801185
https://preview.redd.it/c6zsv5u41s0d1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ed7058f921828fb1759d2008c8f96cd362984129
Now, looking at all of this information, I personally find it hard to believe that Joost's only fault was that mild incident involving the photographer. It is not a reach to speculate the main reason why they disqualified him was not this controversy, but Joost's stance against Golan at the press conference. In the end, not only did the cameraman violate a prior agreement, but she also did not stop recording even though the person she was recording repeatedly told her to stop. In other words, the disqualification was an excessive and disproportionate punishment.
Although many artists representing other countries opposed this situation, EBU stubbornly did not step back on Israel's participation. The same EBU, who immediately expelled Joost from the competition and imposed censorship on the other contestants I mentioned above, has still not announced any sanctions regarding the rule violations committed by the Israeli delegation and the official channel, to this day. Will they do it, ever? Only time will tell...
(There were other things that could be included in this post, for example the Luxembourg representative Tali allegedly stating "It's for the best" when asked about Joost's disqualification, but I did not want to include details that do not have a credible source, I could not find solid evidence that she said that. I am not trying to slander anyone, I only wanted to share what is objectively known to have happened. I encourage everyone to look at this report of confirmed incidents and statements to make up their own opinion.)
[I might be missing some important information, so if you'd like me to add more, your additions would be appreciated! I am also planning to edit this post and the screenshots a little bit later to make it easier to read]
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2024.05.16 14:02 maximusaemilius Empyrean Iris: 2-183 The best outcome (by Charlie Star)

FYI, this is a story COLLECTION. Lots of standalones technically. So, you can basically start to read at any chapter, no pre-read of the other chapters needed technically (other than maybe getting better descriptions of characters than: Adam Vir=human, Krill=antlike alien, Sunny=tall alien, Conn=telepathic alien). The numbers are (mostly) only for organization of posts and continuity.
OC Written by Charlie Stastarrfallknightrise,
Typed up and then posted here by me.
Proofreading and language check for some chapters by u/Finbar9800 u/BakeGullible9975 u/Didnotseemecomein and u/medium_jock
Future Lore and fact check done by me.
*Starts to cry* I am so so happy! Isn’t that great? Finally some good news and great things to go forward!
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Here is the link to the master-post.
Breaking News tonight from the Apollo 11 memorial landing site, as Admiral Adam Vir and Captains Warren Richards and Mary Chavez were rescued from the Pacific Ocean, following a journey that was supposed to be historical, turned harrowing. Amy Grey comes to us this morning with the story.
Thank you Julie, it was only a week ago here on the historic Cape Canaveral launch site, that the reconstructed Saturn V rocket was launched by the UNSC International Space and Aeronautics Division on the two thousand and fifty first anniversary of the original Apollo 11 mission. On board The reconstructed rocket were astronauts Fleet Admiral Adam Vir, head of the UNSC deep space exploration division, Captain Warren Richards five year veteran and historical aeronautics expert, and Mary Chavez, six year shuttle pilot veteran, and communications specialist.
The reconstructed Saturn V rocket took off thirty minutes behind schedule at 10:03 GMT July 16 after delays attributed to engineering standbys. However, reports by UNSC investigation early this morning indicate that the delays were called for by engineering head Jade Clein who noticed something strange during her final checks of the Saturn V recreated rocket.
In an interview early today, flight director, Aaliyah Seif of the Apollo re-creation mission informed outlets that there was evidence of attempted tampering on the hull of the Saturn V rocket. The tampering case in the shape of these small silver tape strips covering loosened bolts along one of the Saturn V side panels. Engineers stated that the tape was not heat resistant and would have burned off in time to rattle the bolts loose and, likely, cause a devastating spin that would destroy the rocket.
While this attempted tampering was thwarted, the mission would only become more dire. A sudden and shocking report by Mericanda News 5 showed an uncut image of an unknown alien hybrid woman claiming that the UN President had ordered the attempted assassination of Admiral Vir, in conjunction with an audio recording by Admiral Colter Massie, Head of the Galactic intelligence division and known isolationist, that admitted to the attempted assassination of Admiral Vir, and the acquisition of twenty Thunderhawk’s, which were used to harry the Saturn V on its way to the moon. Admiral Kelly, longtime friend of Admiral Vir, corroborated the story, saying she caught General Massie just after he ordered the deployment of the twenty Thunderhawk’s. During their conversion, he attempted to kill her, before being detained by two members of Admiral Vir's crew, and was later seen being escorted into custody by Military Police.
Indeed, footage has been captured from the hull of the Saturn V, showing approximately twenty Thunderhawk’s attempting to destroy the rocket while Rundi remote piloted drones and an unknown group of what appear to be racing jets, fought back to delay the attack, while word was sent to the UNSC to deploy F-90 Darkfire pilots to assist. This all after communications between Houston and the rocket were sabotaged shortly after leaving orbit. The F-90 Darkfire pilots were able to arrive on time to rescue the rocket, though a hole was reportedly torn in the hull, sucking Admiral Vir out into space. Luckily, he was later recovered and returned to his ship without any injuries. Patch teams were then able to repair the torn hull and the astronauts completed their mission landing to crowds on the moon and returning to earth on time, landing in the Pacific Ocean only nine miles away from the waiting ship.
All three astronauts were recovered and are reported to be in good health.
The investigation into the UN president's involvement is still ongoing at this time, however preliminary reports from the Global Bureau of Investigation suggest evidence is both staggering and damning to the current UN president, who earlier today, attempted to cut all ties to the sabotage efforts, saying she was framed. Political experts report that, even assuming her innocence, she will likely not last to the end of her term.
International News Network was able to interview Admiral Vir shortly after his landing while still on board the rescuing ship UNSS Victory.
Here is what the Admiral had to say:
"I find it... Really very disheartening that someone we all trusted, and someone that we all should have looked up to could do something like this. It really is a heinous demonstration of what political corruption can lead people to do."
"And how do you feel, personally about all of this?"
"Personally, I... well to be honest I am hurt and appalled. Not to mention that I fear for the safety of my family and my friends. Every day I wonder if my involvement with them is going to get someone I love killed... The thought haunts me, but I hope after all of this is over I... and all of us can breathe a little easier."
"Were you scared?"
"I don't think that even needs to be a question. Of course I was scared, getting sucked out of your spaceship isn't ideal."
"What do you hope will happen now?"
"I hope that justice can be upheld to those who deserve it."
"What do you have to say to the UN president."
”...”
”So?”
"I have nothing to say. Wouldn't want to waste the air.”
[…]
What followed would be one of the largest scandals in recent political history. At some point an unknown number of classified government documents was leaked onto the internet, and after that it was all over for the Presidency. Thousands of enterprising humans, and aliens alike, viewed the documents to discover all the underhanded and dirty things which had been going on in the UN governmental body over the past few years. Forensic accounting experts (mostly Tesraki), uncovered plenty of fiscal tampering which shed light on plenty of isolationist related projects and bank accounts. There was even evidence that they had something to do with the original assassination attempt against Admiral Vir so many months ago. The drama had even managed to capture the attention of Rundi political experts and Vrul computer science geniuses, and together they unearthed a world of unfathomable, but not unexpected corruption. The process to remove the UN president from office was probably one of the fastest movements of human government ever seen by UN congressional leaders, who were likely trying their very best to distance themselves from association with the president, who despite not being the only one involved, had become the political scapegoat for everyone else that had a supposed link with isolationism.
Even the VP fell under suspicion and was watched closely for the rest of his term.
Admiral Massie and the UN President were placed under arrest and set up for court dates in the nearing future, though everyone saw a long and arduous litigation process ahead. Even Ramirez's family had filed for damages against the government after the news came to light, confirming that their son had been shot as collateral in one of the UN presidents plans to assassinate Admiral Vir. They settled out of court to the tune of an unknown, but impressive sum of money.
No one really knew how much, but a couple months later Ramirez's younger sister was seen training at one of the most prestigious Olympic academies on earth.
Ramirez himself was suddenly able to afford housing on the moon in a condo just next door to his best friend, though no one else inquired further.
The Rundi chairwoman came forward with her own investigation, admitting to being suspicious for a long time though she feared accusations without proper proof. Admiral Vir was seen having lunch with her not so many months after the events took place, suggesting that the trust between the two of them had not been completely dissolved. With much of the isolationist element gone from government, public policy began to lean heavily towards integration with the alliance. The occasional isolationist demonstration or protest was held, but none of them managed to gain traction.
Admiral Vir was finding himself more important than ever, though it was to his chagrin that his ship was grounded for the intervening months while the investigation continued.
No one was entirely sure what the future held.
[…]
Admiral Vir stepped into Admiral Kelly's office. The last time he had actually visited her here had been over a few years ago, before his promotion to captain of the Harbinger. It seemed so distant now, and he never expected to walk into her office with a star on his shoulder. She stood as he entered, and the two of them shook hands, ignoring all the stuffy formalities that usually come with the meeting of two military officers.
The wall behind her was decorated with a myriad of metals and awards she had received over her career, and he couldn't help but note the slight tinge of grey he could see forming in her hair. He knew that feeling, he was going prematurely white much to his chagrin. She stood and the two of them shook hands.
"Vir."
"Kelly."
She motioned him to sit, and he sat, sighing lightly as he had been on his feet all day consulting with political figures and other members of the UNSC.
"A strange couple months wouldn't you say?”
"Tell me about it."
Kelly reached under her desk and withdrew an amber bottle which she placed between them,
"I always forget; do you drink?"
"On occasion."
"Well consider this an occasion."
She said, popping off the top and pouring two glasses for them. She handed his across the desk and he leaned back in his seat cupping the cool glass in both hands.
She swirled the amber liquid around in her glass,
"So what are your plans after all this?”
He took a sip of water warmed by the burning liquid,
"Hoping things will go back to normal and I can go back to traveling the galaxy."
Kelly grunted,
"A simple man with simple motivations."
He laughed,
"Sometimes I think a stupid man with simple motivations."
She chuckled then grew serious,
"A lot of people make the mistake of assuming simple people don't have the intelligence to match. Some people assume that trusting means gullible means dumb. Just because we are trusting and expect others to do the right thing is not necessarily a fault. I believe there is a kind of beauty in assuming the fundamental goodness of humanity."
Admiral Vir shook his head,
"How can you after seeing what we have seen?”
"How can you not?"
She shrugged,
"We always knew that politicians were corrupt, but think about everything else we have seen."
Admiral Vir nodded slowly,
"The enthusiasm for the Apollo 11 recreation mission, the people who flew up to help us. All of those people who went digging through years of information just to uncover the truth."
She raised her glass,
"Precisely. Goodness in humanity is all around us, but we tend to overlook the good in favor of the bad."
She placed her hat on the desk and sighed,
"It is up to good people to keep their goodness going even when it might seem easier to give into the bad. I have and will always believe in the fundamental good of humanity. Some may call it naive, or even stupid. Others have said I have a romanticized view of a species that is fundamentally broken."
She turned her head to look out the window, a contemplative expression on her face before turning back to look at Adam.
"You understand me, I think."
He nodded slowly.
"People need to be believed in. You tell someone for long enough that they are fundamentally bad at their core and they will begin to believe you. For thousands of years pessimists have gotten it into our heads that we are no better than animals, worse even since animals don't fight in wars. But I believe that is wrong, I have seen people, I have met people, and I have interacted with people who prove to me that humanity cannot just be fundamentally bad or else these people wouldn't exist."
She tapped her nails against the glass,
"I think it is easier to corrupt purity than wash away a stain."
He listened quietly as she continued.
"Humans are born good, Adam, and life stains us. We aren't born stained while some of us are wiped clean."
She shook her head,
"Doesn't make sense to me."
She caught him with a look, pinning him to the spot with her intense stare,
"People like you convince me of this every day."
"Me!?..."
She held up a hand.
"Adam Vir, I am convinced that the best outcome this universe ever had, was when a happy go lucky science fiction freak was lucky enough to be the first man to meet aliens. Any other way things would have gone horribly wrong."
She leaned across her desk,
"The universe needs men and women like you, and not only that but the universe needs people who are going to support men and women like you."
She sat back,
"Which is why I have made a decision…"
He raised an eyebrow in curiosity, not entirely sure where this could be going.
She smiled,
"I have decided to run for UN President."
He nearly spit his mouthful of expensive scotch onto the table, but managed to choke it mostly down.
Eyes wide he set his glass down,
"Are you serious?”
She smiled,
"Seriously serious."
"Well shit, you have my vote for sure."
He raised his glass to her,
"I couldn't think of a better outcome."
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Thanks for reading! As you saw in the title, this is a cross posted story written by starrfallknightrise and I'll just upload some of it here for you guys, if you are interested and want to read ahead, the original story-collection can be found on tumblr or wattpad to read for free. (link above this text under "OC:..." ) It is the Empyrean Iris story collection by starfallknightrise. Also, if you want to know more about the story collection i made an intro post about it, so feel free to check that out to see what other great characters to look forward to! (Link also above this text). I have no affiliations to the author; just thought I’d share some of the great stories you might enjoy a lot!
Obviously, I have Charlie’s permission to post this and for the people already knowing the stories, or starting to read them: If you follow the link and check out the story you will see some differences. I made some small (non-artistic) changes, mainly correcting writing mistakes, pronoun correction and some small additional info here and there of things which were not thought of/forgotten or even were added/changed in later stories (like the “USS->UNSC” prefix of Stabby, Chalar=/->Sunny etc). As well as some "biggemajor" changes in descriptions and info’s for the same stringency/continuity reason. That can be explained by the story collection being, well a story collection at the start with many standalone-stories just starring the same people, but later on it gets more to a stringent storyline with backstories and throwbacks. (For example Adam Vir has some HEAVY scars over his body, following his bones, which were not really talked about up till half the collection, where it says it covers his whole body and you find out via backflash that he had them the whole time and how he got them, they just weren't mentioned before. However, I would think a doctor would at least see these scars before that, especially since he gets analyzed, treated and goes shirtless/in T-shirts in some stories). So TLDR: Writing and some descriptions are slightly changed, with full OK from the author, since he himself did not bother to correct these things before.
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2024.05.16 14:01 Old-Opportunity-3334 Thursday, May 16th, 2024, Non-Real Time Meeting

Welcome to this non-real time meeting of codependency_12steps

Hi, I’m u/Old-Opportunity-3334 . I’m a recovered codependent and your leader for this meeting. Will those who wish, please join me in the Serenity Prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Thy will, not mine, be done.
Strong sponsorship is necessary to live a recovered life. Sponsors are recovered codependents committed to living the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions to the best of their ability. Sponsors share their program up to the level of their experience and strengthen their recovery through this service to others. To find a sponsor, look for someone who has what you want and ask how he or she is achieving it. Will all sponsors please identify themselves in their post?
Suggested guidelines for sharing: As you share your experience and strength, please also share your hope. Please confine your sharing to your experience with the illness of codependency, the solution offered by the twelve steps and your own recovery from codependency, rather than just the events of the day or week. When responding to other member’s posts, please focus on your personal experience rather than advice giving. If you are having difficulties, share how you use the program to deal with them. If you need to talk more about your difficulties and seek solutions, we suggest you speak to your sponsor and other members after the meeting.
Share on how this paragraph relates to the illness of codependency and the solution offered by the Twelve Steps. Today we are studying the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, Page 54 :
"We found, too, that we had been worshippers. What a state of mental goose-flesh that used to bring on! Had we not variously worshipped people, sentiment, things, money, and ourselves? And then, with a better motive, had we not worshipfully beheld the sunset, the sea, or a flower? Who of us had not loved something or somebody? How much did these feelings, these loves, these worships, have to do with pure reason? Little or nothing, we saw at last. Were not these things the tissue out of which our lives were constructed? Did not these feelings, after all, determine the course of our existence? It was impossible to say we had no capacity for faith, or love, or worship. In one form or another we had been living by faith and little else."
Alcoholics Anonymous, Fourth Edition (p.54 ). Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.
Closing: Freedom from codependency is possible by living a Twelve Step way of life. The *Big Book of Alcoholic Anonymous and a recovered sponsor are all you need to get started. Feel free to reach out by private message to newcomers, returning members, and each other. From the Big Book page 164: "Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny. May God bless you and keep you- until then."
*Why the Big Book? Time and experience have proven it to be the most successful approach to the Steps no matter what the addictive problem may be (this includes codependency). We also know it to be the purest 12 Step document in existence. It worked for the founders of Twelve Step and it works for us today. If you don't have a copy of the Big Book you can access one for free: https://www.aa.org/the-big-book
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