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Salaam, I (F25) am having my Ruksati in August. My husband (M26) lives about 2 hours away from me and before we got married we’d discussed moving/living options and scenarios. I agreed to live w in laws for one year. I’m a primary school teacher so a year for me is one academic year.
I’m currently in my ECT1 year and we’re struggling to agree on what to do. I’m in two minds and completely torn. I have a very stable job where I’m so happy and set and lots of room for progression. I had been applying to jobs near his area but nothing went in my favour. Now we’re in a sticky situation of whether we should go for Ling distance or will that cause issues in our first year of marriage?
He also doesn’t want me to quit my career or leave my induction incomplete as we both have aspirations to move out of the UK. My second option is to work with an agency with potentially no guarantee of work for full terms which is required for my ECT completion.
We did discuss everything beforehand but realising now that it isn’t easy for me to land a teaching job in a city I’ve never lived in and also being so new in my career. Renting isn’t an option for us as we both want to buy after one year (in sha Allah) and down south is ridiculous cashloss for renting.
Has anyone done long distance with their spouse? How did it go for you? What would you say were your pros and cons of it?

Hello everyone!
I am trying my best to move to Dubai over the next few months and actively hunting for a good job position.
Not gonna lie, it has been one of the biggest career challenges I had to face, since it clearly is a highly competitive market and is currently full of people trying to land roles as well.
I was wondering if a salary of 20k-25k per month would be enough, as I believe I could get that number in the right company and the right context.
I am Portuguese, working in Portugal and was wondering what would be a good salary to have a nice quality of life, given the following: 1 - I have 6 years of experience in Management Consulting and Business Development, with a strong track record of overcoming the objectives and goals that have been set. I have worked in a Big4 in consulting and have grown a digital product as a Biz Dev Manager from 0€ to over 3M€ in 2 and a half years.
2 - I would be relocating with my girlfriend and my cat, and she would only find a position after getting there, so I would need a salary that is able to support the 3 of us for a while probably.
3 - I don't have a need to go out and have a luxurious lifestyle or anything. Sure I like to have dinner out and do some things on the weekend but don't need to spend that money.
4 - I would like to have a gym membership
5 - I would like to live in a more central area with activity going on (call me weird but I have always been fascinated by tall buildings and lights at night lol).
Thank you for your inputs and any help you can give would be great!

I hate that my grief has had a significant impact on my life, my career and my goals. I’m torn between taking the time off work to grieve and just feeling very anxious about all the opportunities I’m missing while away. I was on track for a promotion at work which hasn’t happened due to the time off I’ve taken. I’m missing out on training opportunities which would have helped with my personal and professional development.
I was looking for new jobs before it happened but now I’m stuck with no motivation to apply and watching my housemates get interviews and job offers and succeeding in life. They are soon moving away so I will be all alone in this city.
I was getting close to this guy friend I’d liked for a year and now I feel like he just pities me and doesn’t want to hang out as much because he thinks I’m not in a good place, which is true…
Even my hobbies I’ve lost a lot of progress on from not being able to focus on them as much and it’s so frustrating. Seeing people at lower levels surpassing me just makes me feel pathetic.
I had plans to travel to Malta and Canada which had to all be cancelled even though travelling is my passion.
I feel so lost now yet I used to be the happiest person alive. I used to love life and had so many aspirations and goals I was actively working towards. I hate that the grief has taken over and on top of having to deal with it, I’ve also lost out on all the best parts of my life. I know it will get better and I will get my life back but I will never get this time I’ve lost and continue to lose. Life has become meaningless.
All I want to do is give up.

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Hi, I'm still in school and seriously thinking about careers because it's been years and I don't know what I wanna do, like as if I'm completely clueless.
But I'm confident anyone can help out so please comment what you think is best for me.
And if what I wrote seems to be not adequate please just comment so.
What I like to do; - follow up on people; you know, see how they're dealing with life, get to know them, notice how they're life is going on like 'a movie' - I'm interested in politics but not the legislation and stuff, just how things are going, the diplomacy, 'spilling the tea' kinda thing - I like visual art, actually, I've fantasised styling how I would dress and I also would like to make beautiful drawings or aesthetic products - I like math and physics, the theorising and 'designing' things and I've been told very often that I'd make a good engineer out of myself - I like the idea of building business partnerships, like a broker - I would like to understand why people do what they do even if they themselves don't know - I'd like to carve things out of wood or make tables and stuff like a carpenter - I like reading history books, religious books and fiction - I like to analyse what I read, like sit down take notes question and hypothesise - I like to calculate and measure random things - conversations on religion and philosophy - I like things that require me physical effort, even when slight - I like listening to people explaining about their artworks
Things I don't like; - sitting down at the same place for a long long time - selling things in a shop - routines, even if it requires going here and there - cooking - debates - giving assistance often - listening - dealing with people to often - when I don't have my space for creativity - things that relate to biology or medicine things - when things are not exciting/ deadlines are very long - going through reciepts/tardy calculations

1. Bini — good branding I appreciate na halatang pinag-isipan each girl na isasali sa group. They fit so well together despite different personalities. I think safe to say they all can sing, and I personally think very well-balanced sila. They each have their own strength— some are really good vocalists, some good dancers, and others are very marketable talaga that helps their group.

I think atleast for now, mas bagay talaga sakanila ang opm bubblegum pop. I’ve heard their english songs pero in my opinion they shine best in bubblegum pop. The genre fits their age, brand and yung singing voice nila (atleast for now). Maybe then can try darker, cute/sexy, and other concepts in the coming years. Pero for now that theyre still in the process of establishing their name, mas okay na magstick sila sa formula na nagwork. Also I hope na the management maintain the quality production for the girls.

1. SB19 — I don’t think I need to say more. They have established their name already and I think there’s no way but up for them. Esp now that they have control over managing their career and all. I hope to see them even bigger and sana next concert they invest on the production kasi I’m very impressed sa mga MVs nila. Even their songs. I’ve only been a fan for less than a month and I’m very shookt at their works so far. Galing and very talented, sana mamaximize nila. And bring new concepts sa filipino mass.
   

   Also I want to mention, maganda rin mga english songs nila. It sound natural (i’m sorry i hate opm na in english, tapos hindi ballad, na inooverpronounce english words or oa sa diction/pilit yung accent, nakakadistract. kaya I prefer opms in tagalog) 

2. ALAMAT — love their songs!! I do agree na need to work on they synchronizing. Konting linis pa. I love their concept din but ang mahirap kapag may specific concept ka, is pano mo mamementain and masusustain yung concept mo in the coming years without sounding the same every song. So I’d love to see them take that challenge. I hope to hear more good songs from them in the future. Have no comment on their live performances pa because I mostly listen lang to them.
   
3. G22 — been loving their newly released songs so far, OSL and I Hate Boys. You can hear from their songs na they really are vocally gifted. I saw some comments na di nila gusto discography ng G22. Imo, okay naman. They remind me of 2ne1, edgy. I think the problem is hindi maganda branding nila. Parang hindi pa alam ng management kung ano niche nila or look na bagay sakanila. Individually, they’re good. Pero as a group, hindi ko talaga magets anong concept nila. Everytime lumalabas sila sa fyp ko, nastress ako ng v slightt bc they don’t look uniformed. From their makeup look to their styling, mej parang random unless they have custom costumes. I think yun yung nappreciate ko sa Bini because they are 8 girls with different personalities, but nagagawan ng paraan to style them differently but still look cohesive as a group. I hope management invest on them. And sa mvs din nila, they need better production. Better stylists and HMUA. From a business pov, branding is as much important, if not more, than the product. They already have it. They just need the management to work better.
   
4. VXON — I haven’t personally watched their MVs and listened to their songs alot. Pero I have watched them live (diko pa sila kilala that time). Very talented and grabe yung stage presence. To me, very important kasi na you’re not only talented but good performer as well. Nakakahatak kasi ng audience yung energy ng artist. And mababait din sila in person. (I got to see them up close and personal and had a little chat with them) I hope they make it big.
   

Yun lang so far, can’t wait to dive deep pa sa other ppop groups. I hope magtuloy tuloy success ng ppop. :D pls do share your thoughts, I wanna hear it too!

I ran out of room on my last post, so this is just going to be a continuation of that. This is Vedic astrology once again.
Yoni

Purva Bhadrapada Nakshatra is associated with the male lion yoni. Together with the pillar of light as one of its symbols, this brings to mind the story of Lord Narasimha, who was an incarnation of Lord Vishnu as a part-lion avatar, where he destroyed the duality of worldy-mindliness represented by Hiranyakashipu. This of course relates to Purva Bhadrapada's nature of protection of innocence and the oncoming destruction of duality. Lions are known for their majestic presence and commanding strength in the animal kingdom, qualities that mirror the dominant and regal nature of individuals born under this nakshatra. The male lion yoni symbolizes a potent and assertive approach to sexuality, illuminating the primal instincts and intense desires of Purva Bhadrapada natives. Similar to the bold and authoritative demeanor of a lion, these individuals may exhibit a confident and passionate attitude in their sexual encounters, embracing intimacy with fervor and intensity. Purva Bhadrapada natives are often loyal, attractive, forgiving, and faithful partners, embodying the noble virtues associated with the lion yoni. There is also a connection between Purva Bhadrapada and homosexuality, which is echoed in the behavior of lions to frequently engage in same-sex relationship and mating behavior. The diversity of sexual expressions within the animal kingdom, mirroring the complexity and fluidity of human sexuality observed among Purva Bhadrapada natives is apparent here. That said, there can be a tendency to be overly sexual, as lions are known to mate up to 50 times in a 24-hour period when the females are in heat. And despite being painful for the female lion due to the barbs on the male lions genitals, that does not stop them from harassing the males for sex when they cannot keep up with their demands. Beyond their sexual nature, the lion yoni offers insights into the fundamental characteristics that shape compatibility in relationships for Purva Bhadrapada individuals. Lions are typically known for their social structure, where they live in prides led by a dominant male, with females doing most of the work in terms of hunting and caring for the young. Male lions are often portrayed as gentle and lazy, preferring to conserve their energy for crucial moments of challenge from another male, while female lions are more continuously aggressive and assertive, taking on the role of primary hunters and protectors of the pride. In the context of Purva Bhadrapada individuals, this dynamic may manifest in their views on relationships and interpersonal dynamics. Like male lions, they may view others' children as adversaries, striving to maintain their dominance and authority over a given territory. Women of this Nakshatra will behave more like female lions though, even though the yoni as a whole is of the Male lion.
Deciding Attributes

Activity – Nakshatras are categorized into three main modes of activity based on their inherent qualities: passive, active, and balanced. These classifications provide insights into the fundamental nature and functioning of each Nakshatra, influencing its manifestation. Passive Nakshatras are characterized by a receptive and introspective nature, expressing themselves internally. They tend to be more attuned to their surroundings, absorbing energy and stimuli from their environment. Individuals born under passive Nakshatras may exhibit traits such as sensitivity, intuition, idealism, and emotional depth. They often possess a natural ability to empathize with others and may excel in creative or spiritual pursuits that require reflection. On the other hand, active Nakshatras are dynamic and assertive. They are proactive and initiative-taking, inclined towards external expression of action like the naming suggests. Individuals born under active Nakshatras may display traits such as courage and a strong drive of pursuit. They are often motivated to pursue their goals with determination and may excel in leadership roles or competitive endeavors. Balanced Nakshatras exhibit a combination of both passive and active qualities, allowing them to adapt their behavior and approach according to the demands of the situation. Individuals born under balanced Nakshatras may possess a versatile nature, capable of both receptivity and initiative as circumstances require. They are adept at finding a harmonious medium between action and reflection. Purva Bhadrapada is a passive Nakshatra and does not rush into things.

Gender – Purva Bhadrapada is a masculine Nakshatra. This Nakshatra projects the qualities described as masculine by the sages, such as enthusiasm, logic, and initiation. This nakshatra is also in association with male planets like Jupiter and Saturn.

Direction – Purva bhadrapada's main directions are West and South East. Its looking direction is downward. Westward activities, such as introspection, meditation, and spiritual practices, are considered auspicious, as they align with the nakshatra's inward-focused energy and journey towards spiritual enlightenment. Conversely, Southeast-facing endeavors, like material pursuits, worldly ambitions, and external engagements, may be less favorable, as they distract from the nakshatra's path of inner growth and self-discovery. The downward looking direction further emphasizes the importance of grounding and introspection, guiding individuals towards activities that foster inner peace, wisdom, and spiritual fulfillment.

Tendency – Creation (as opposed to maintenance or dissolution)

Nadi – Like Ashwini, Purva Bhadrapada's nadi dosha is Aadi nadi and is related to Vaata, indicating flow of energyt from top to bottom. This nadi dosha can lead to problems with anxiety, controversy, divorce, and matters related to children.

Overall Auspicious activities – Purva Bahdrapada is good for activities that are difficult or impossible to reverse, such as argument, violent or destructive tasks, meat selling, battles, legal proceedings, weapons handling, aggressive behavior, risky activities and investments, endings and completions, dealing with death-related matters like funerals, removal of obstacles, terminating relationships, demolitions, handling waste, rituals to remove obstacles, occult practices, meditation, group ceremonies, technology-related tasks, and agricultural matters.

Overall Inauspicious activities – Purva Bhadrapada is not good for activities that require stability and peace, such as travelling, sexual intercourse, marriage ceremonies, negotiations, reconciliations, initiating things, establishing new relationships, beginning journeys, farming or gardening, creative endeavors, childbirth, religious ceremonies focused on positivity, dealing with authority, and generally any activity requiring patience or a gentle hand.

Capacity – Purva Bhadrapada is Ugra, meaning fierce or intense. Ugra nakshatras are characterized by their aggressive and forceful nature. The energy of Purva Bhadrapada can be both destructive and transformative. This nakshatra is associated with breaking down old structures to make way for new growth. Ugra nakshatras are suitable for activities requiring fire, destruction, excessive force, and challenging enemies. They are also support activities such as tantric practices, shamanistic rituals, and other forms of deep spiritual work, with Purva Bhadrapada having the most power to cause transformations overall.

Professions – Purva Bhadrapada is associated with careers such as business administration, occupations related to death, medicine and healing (especially those related to death or geriatrics), psychology and psychiatry careers (especially those relating to asylums or loss of mental faculties like insanity or cognitive degeneration), research jobs, teaching and higher education, visionary or fanatical work like a social rights activism or terrorism, occultism and black magic, the darker side of the government/ruling elite, the darker side of the entertainment industry like pornography or scandals, weapon makers and users, soldiers and homicide forces, dark technologies, religious ascetics and monks, metal industry jobs, occupations related to the use of fire, enemies and protectors of the environment, jobs related to pharmaceuticals, and occupations that require total secrecy like illegal activities and those that require high standing for authorization. As a personal observation, I also tend to see them quite a bit in the entertainment industry as creative artists of music, media, and fashion. Their creations are usually quite popular, even though they can be a bit more dark.


Tattva – Purva Bhadrapada's overall tattva is Akasha (Ether), but is it also closely linked to Agni or fire. Akasha represents the vast, boundless nature of space. With this being the predominant Tattva, natives of this nakshatra have a tendency to look beyond the immediate or the mundane, choosing to look for the truth of reality themselves. As the element of Ether is associated with the vastness of the cosmos and the unseen realms, Purva Bhadrapada natives often have strong spiritual and mystical inclinations. They may be drawn to esoteric knowledge, occult practices, and metaphysical exploration. Connecting with sound, Ether is also the element communication. This is not practical communication though; it is more spiritual and implicit communication, where the knowledge of the universe is echoed through everything. Individuals born under Purva Bhadrapada possess an ability to communicate things without saying them. They can just kind of send out information that others attuned to them and this level of existence will be able to pick up on with little effort.

Ayurvedic connections – In Ayurveda, each individual is said to be born with a unique combination of the three doshas, known as their primary constitution or Prakriti. Like Ashwini, Purva Bhadrapada is connected to Vaata dosha, primarily being connected to the knees and the top portions of the feet. Knees are the body parts which provide us the capacity for walking and quick forward movement, such as with running and jumping. Vaata carries a moveable energy as it is said to govern movement and is associated with qualities like dryness, coldness, lightness, and variability. According to ayurveda, doshas out of balance will lead to poor health and disease. When in harmony, Vaata will provide creativity and enthusiasm, flexibility and adaptability, clear and agile thinking, healthy digestion and regular elimination, sound sleep, stable energy levels throughout the day, an overall sense of well-being and vitality, a lean physique with proportionate features, graceful movements, a healthy and clear complexion, strong and flexible joints and muscles, normal and healthy body temperature and circulation. When out of balance, the effect of Vaata can lead to anxiety, nervousness, uncontrollable restlessness, insomnia and disturbed sleep, digestive issues, dry as well as rough/cracked skin, fatigue/inconsistent energy levels, joint stiffness or pain, forgetfulness and difficulty concentrating, irregular appetite, emotional instability, sensitivity to the cold or windy weather, weight loss, brittle hair and nails, excessive movement or hyper speech, confusion, fear, tremors, and weakening muscles.

Shakti – The Yajamana Udyamana Shakti of Purva Bhadrapada manifests as a dual force, intertwining the energies of sacrifice and grand endeavors to uplift society. On one hand, this Shakti empowers individuals to engage in acts of selfless sacrifice, dedicating themselves to the betterment of society and the advancement of spiritual growth. Their willingness to make personal sacrifices for the greater good serves as a beacon of inspiration, illuminating the path towards collective upliftment and enlightenment. However, the promise of swift manifestation and profound transformation also carries inherent dangers and consequences, including unintended outcomes. They can lose their way by fixating on power and control. Overall, this Shakti gives a natural inclination towards leadership and innovation. When associated with this nakshatra, it gives these natives the capacity to envision bold initiatives and possess the drive and determination to see them through to fruition. Whether it's spearheading social reforms, pioneering scientific breakthroughs, or initiating large-scale efforts, these individuals are drawn to endeavors that have a lasting impact on the world. Moreover, this Shakti gives individuals the ability to inspire and motivate others to join them in their quest. Their pwerful presence and persuasive abilities enable them to rally support and build coalitions, creating a ripple effect that amplifies the reach and impact of their actions. They are amplifiers for change, igniting passion and purpose in those around them and mobilizing collective action towards a shared vision

Preface: This is for Vedic, Sidereal Astrology.
This took a super long time to finish, but I've finally reached a point where I think I'm done trying to improve it. This part will focus more on how Purva Bhadrapada manifests for individuals.
Nature
Purva Bhadrapada reminds me a lot of Kali Yuga. In Hindu cosmology, Kali is the final of the four ages that the world goes through as part of a continuous cycle of creation, maintenance, and dissolution. It is the final stage before the onset of a new cycle, promising the destruction of the old order and the eventual merging of all into a unified whole. It signifies a time of dual balance before dissolution of individual identities and the reunification of all existence with the divine source. This can be viewed as being similar to the process of individual death, but it is on a universal scale. Kali Yuga is considered the age of darkness and moral decline, where spiritual values deteriorate and materialism prevails. According to Hindu scriptures, Kali Yuga is characterized by widespread social, political, and moral corruption, as well as a decline in virtue and Dharma (righteousness). It is believed that, during this age, human beings face numerous challenges and spiritual tests, and the pursuit of higher consciousness becomes increasingly more difficult compared to the previous Yugas. Just as Kali Yuga tests individuals with challenges to their spiritual resolve amidst the prevailing degeneration of values, Purva Bhadrapada is a cosmic stage where one's truest nature is tested through the weakening separation of the spiritual and the material. Here, individuals are made to confront their deepest fears and desires, burdened with the challenge of facing their true nature and purifying their souls. The emphasis of this nakshatra lies in releasing attachments amidst the seduction of outer freedom and power, mirroring the spiritual trials inherent to Kali Yuga. Yet, despite challenges of degeneration, there exists a unique opportunity during the stages of both Kali and Purva Bhadrapada. Kali is believed to be the best time for spiritual progress and true liberation because individuals can attain spiritual growth more rapidly due to the intensity of the challenges they face during this period, and the same is true of Purva Bhadrapada nakshatra. Both Kali and Purva Bhadrapada emphasize the importance of transcending mundane concerns and dedicatedly seeking spiritual truth amidst the backdrop of pervading ignorance.

The primary nature of Purva Bhadrapada is that of penance and disequilibrium. Purva Bhadrapada is the stage of evolution where individuals are made to undergo intense internal transformation and dissolution, shedding layers of their being in preparation for spiritual renewal and divine return. This process of metamorphosis can be seen as a type of penance, whether embraced willingly or thrust upon them. It offers eventual rewards as they journey towards enlightenment. As the primary nature of Purva Bhadrapada revolves around penance and transformation, individuals heavily influenced by this Nakshatra are oriented towards personal introspection and societal purification, viewing their lives as both a personal quest for growth and an opportunity to contribute to the greater good. Individually, they seek to cleanse themselves of past transgressions and strive for spiritual redemption. They feel personally responsible and remorseful for their impact on others. At a broader societal level, they are driven by a strong sense of justice and a duty to rectify societal wrongs to contribute to the collective upliftment and purification of their community. As such, they often subject themselves and others to extreme physical, mental, and spiritual challenges. They are presented with a kind of spiritual trial of sacrifice: either they can willingly embrace self-denial and endure while remaining detached, or they can create so much desire and fear that it causes them to lose the direction of their souls in the process. While the primary manifestation of Purva Bhadrapada energy is inwardly focused on cultivating self-discipline and perfection, oftentimes to an unhealthy degree, sometimes the focus can instead shift outward. This is where Purva Bhadrapada gains a lot of its infamy; Purva Bhadrapada is revered as one of the most "difficult" and "intense" nakshatras among Vedic astrologers. It is an asterism that gets approached with trepidation due to its somber imagery and associations with themes of violence, debauchery, and malevolence. The negative traits linked to Purva Bhadrapada, such as paranoia, pessimism, and hedonism, contribute to its daunting reputation. And for the most part, the fear of this nakshatra is justified. Not only are these individuals capable of doling out punishment themselves through various means like violence, manipulation, curses, etc., but they can also inadvertently bring out the self-destructive or uncontrolled nature of others. They are the types to cause deep introspection and confrontation with one's own shortcomings and fears, often acting as catalysts for irreversible transformation of character.

In terms of Purva Bhadrapada's inherently unbalanced nature, the trajectory is quite clear. These natives are not the type to do anything in moderation and often have an unstable demeanor and sense of self. They will always be pulled towards the polar extremes of anything, but they can flip on their values rapidly following any transformative event. They may occupy the deepest levels of material saturation, completely lost in chasing fame, drugs, sex, and uncontained immoral activities. Yet, paradoxically, they can also find themselves drawn to the heights of spiritual austerity, sometimes even at the same time they are trying to maximize their material standing. This innate propensity for extremes and contradiction manifests in every aspect of their lives, from their relationships, to their goals, to their beliefs, and to their actions. They are esteemed for their amiable disposition, characterized by warmth, thoughtfulness, and a selfless inclination to assist others without seeking acknowledgment. Yet, concurrently, they are often perceived as self-serving, prone to bouts of ill temper, and housing a proclivity towards ego-centricity. Despite appearing outwardly normal a lot of the time, they can be very eccentric. They are the types to lead clandestine lives, harboring secrets and maintaining hidden facets of their personalities and activities, even to those closest to them. This can make them seem nefarious and untrustworthy. Sometimes this is the case, but despite having a reputation for deceit, many of them are known to be sincere and honorable. Yet, underlying however they are being perceived is a deeper struggle to fully identify with anything. This challenge leads to inner conflicts and uncertainties, as they grapple with their sense of self and their place in the world. They are up and down–left and right, constantly in a state of internal conflict that leaves them questioning who they really are. They can feel like they don't know themselves while still being hyper-individualistic and defensive over whatever their current sense of identity is, even though it is likely to change. These contradictions reveal the complexity of their psyche, where outer appearances often mask inner conflicts and contradictory emotions and experiences. Purva Bhadrapada natives navigate the space where boundaries are starting to blur, reflecting the burgeoning singularity of existence in their minds. Due to this, sometimes they can seem like walking contradictions, embodying multiple clashing characteristics at once. For example, while they may harbor a sense of superiority over others, they can also experience deep-seated insecurity and jealousy. They can like to be critical, but cannot handle criticism. Additionally, they might demonstrate a strong desire for independence and self-reliance, yet simultaneously crave validation and approval from those around them. These conflicting traits contribute to their complex and enigmatic nature, making them intriguing yet challenging individuals to understand to others and themselves.

Purva Bhadrapada's inclination towards extremes extends to their pursuit of goals, as they approach certain tasks with unwavering ambition and dedication. They set high standards and are willing to push themselves to extreme limits to get what they want. This relentless drive for perfection and attainment can sometimes lead them to engage in behaviors that are harmful to the well-being of themselves or others, as they struggle to find balance and moderation. At this point, you may be asking, "how is that penance if they are only striving to selfishly get what they want?" Well, the painful truth about this is that they do not really want these things. They are told by others ignorant to their situation that they will be happy when they achieve some kind of abstruse goal set forth for them by society, and they are sent on a goose-chase of material ambition to achieve happiness, but this inevitably only leads to further dissatisfaction. They are met with pain, humiliation, and harsh transformation, but they keep pushing towards their aspiration of material fulfillment. It is only when they get that job, marry that partner, become famous, etc. that they realize it does not bring them happiness or fill them with the sense of purpose they crave. In fact, this realization often sparks intense anger within them as they confront the worthlessness of what they spent all their time chasing. The journey through Purva Bhadrapada is undeniably arduous, but that is to be expected with such a potent force. They are called to transcend their attachments, lest they be forcefully ripped away. They begin to grapple with an inescapable emptiness they feel when interacting with the world, and this can often lead them to deep feelings of nihilism. Purva Bhadrapada natives are predisposed to being unhappy, and this is not a shallow kind of unhappiness that fades based on external circumstances. Rather, it is a deeply existential depression– a feeling of confused worthlessness and dissatisfaction they often battle with for the duration of their lives. Their experiences and attachments become increasingly burdensome as they grow more aware of the fleeting nature of life amidst the desire they have to get the most out of their lives. These natives openly acknowledge the impermanence of worldly intentions, and this can make their minds unpredictable and unstable. Their newfound philosophy can be used to justify any actions according to moral relativism. This marks the beginning of a test of their true nature as they grapple with the realities of life. If nothing matters in the grand scheme – where whatever you do will eventually fade into obscurity, wiped away with the start of a new cycle – they become mentally uninhibited, feeling free to do whatever they please. The real concern lies in what they choose to do with this. Doing whatever you want only becomes harmful when what you want is harmful. But sadly, the reality is that mast people are not strong enough to fully resist the temptation of evil. Therefore, this trial is exclusively administered to individuals who possess a high level of spiritual advancement. Regardless of the difficulties they face, those governed by Purva Bhadrapada have tremendous inner strength and personal resilience, which often manifests in worldly and spiritual achievement and prosperity in various facets of their lives.

Individuals born under the influence of the Purva Bhadrapada Nakshatra are inherently inclined towards detachment from external influences. This detachment often leads them down two distinct paths. Some choose to embrace a life unbound by societal norms, driven solely by their inner convictions. These individuals seek to experience life to the fullest, embracing both its joys and challenges. However, if they feel unfulfilled, they may turn to darker pursuits in search of excitement. Conversely, others utilize their detachment for spiritual advancement, renouncing materialism in favor of a disciplined quest for higher truths. In both cases, detachment becomes a defining trait, shaping their lives in divergent yet meaningful ways. Whether they become revolutionary leaders or appear lazy due to their selective motivation, their actions are stirred only by what truly invigorates their souls. Their inner character often changes with time. They can often start out seeming quite innocent and fragile, and a lot of the time they will have something about them that invites torment, be it their big and eccentric personalities, their height, their weight, their looks, etc. This often leads people to perceive them as different and vulnerable. Unfortunately, this vulnerability often attracts individuals who seek to exploit, victimize, or corrupt them. There's a noticeable pattern of others attempting to take advantage of their perceived weakness, whether it be through just trying to make them feel bad, manipulating them, coercing them to do things they do not want to, or forcing them to be alone by treating them as outcasts. This predatory behavior can leave these individuals feeling isolated, betrayed, and miserable, further fueling their inner turmoil and sense of disillusionment with the world around them. However, this also serves to strengthen them. During the course of their lives, they will experience a series of external transformations that will change who they are. While their soft and innocent demeanor may still be present in some ways, there will be a new darker side to their nature. The inner transformations that Purva Bhadrapada natives undergo change them into stronger, more hardened versions of themselves. This alteration can manifest in tendencies towards violence, aggression, deceit, manipulation, etc., yet at the same time, it also equips them with the strength and capability to protect others when needed. As they navigate the complexities of life, they become formidable forces, possessing the resilience and detachment to confront challenges head-on along with the capacity to wield their strength for both good and evil.


Purva Bhadrapada natives exhibit a curious mix of flippanse and seriousness, often displaying a casual attitude towards many topics yet demonstrating am air of severe solemnity in regards to topics concerning philosophical and existential matters in particular. They possess a keen intellect of innovation and creativity, excelling in fields like science and research owing to their insatiable thirst for knowledge and a relentless pursuit of deeper truth. While they may have a religious inclination, their focus lies more on unraveling the essence of spirituality rather than adhering rigidly to dogma. As a result of their approach to religion, it can sometimes lead them to be critical of conventional religious practices, which rely heavily on rules and ritual. These natives disdain hypocrisy and superficiality, valuing authenticity and depth in both thought and action. However, despite their outward confidence, they often wrestle with inner self-doubt and a crippling fear of failure, which leaves little room for optimism when faced with setbacks. While they typically prefer solitude, they may inadvertently exploit relationships when seeking to escape the monotony of everyday life. They are driven by an innate desire to transcend mediocrity and be perceived as exceptional and unique. This drive for excellence and distinction stems from underlying feelings of insecurity and a fear of judgment, compelling them to constantly push the boundaries and strive for success through originality in all aspects of their lives. n personal relationships, Purva Bhadrapada natives may struggle to balance their need for independence with a desire for connection. Generally, in their interactions with others, Purva Bhadrapada natives are intense yet detached. Despite their desire for authenticity and closeness in relationships, they may struggle to express their true feelings openly, fearing rejection or misunderstanding. This internal conflict between their need for connection and their fear of vulnerability can create barriers to intimacy, causing them to retreat into solitude or self-imposed isolation. In addition, their critical nature and high standards can sometimes alienate others, as they can come across as overly judgmental or demanding. They do value depth and sincerity in relationships, but they also tend to push others away with their intensity. Despite this, they are often very empathic and understanding and can offer support to those they hold dear.

Before I get into the padas, I want to give some examples. I do not want to go into much detail or take up too much time with this, but given the very complicated nature of this nakshatra, I feel that it is necessary to provide media representations for people to look into if they are interested in knowing more about how it manifests: Martin Scorsese PB Moon and Andrew Garfield PB ASC (Silence Official Trailer (2016) - Paramount Pictures), Billie Eilish PB ASC (Billie Eilish - bury a friend (Official Music Video)), Jack Black PB Moon (School of Rock (2003) Trailer #1 Movieclips Classic Trailers), Dylan O'brien PB Moon (AMERICAN ASSASSIN - Official Trailer - HD (Dylan O'Brien, Michael Keaton), Logan-Marshall Green (Upgrade Trailer #1 (2018) Movieclips Trailers), Paul Walker PB Moon (Hours TRAILER (2013) - Paul Walker Movie HD), Bill Skarsgard PB Moon (The Crow - Official Trailer (2024) Bill Skarsgård, FKA twigs, Danny Huston), Olivia Wilde PB Sun (A VIGILANTE Official HD International Trailer Starring Olivia Wilde) & (The Lazarus Effect Official Trailer #1 (2015) - Olivia Wilde, Mark Duplass Movie HD), John Stamos PB ASC (John Stamos Stars in "Secrets of Eden" Lifetime), Hozier PB Sun (the lyrics and imagery of this video are extremely Purva Bhadrapada) Hozier - Take Me To Church), Kaya Scoledario PB Sun (Spinning Out Official Trailer Netflix), Ryan Gosling PB ASC (THE FALL GUY Official Trailer 2 (Universal Studios) - HD), Camila Mendes PB Moon (Do Revenge Official Trailer Netflix), Bryan Cranston PB Sun (Breaking Bad Trailer), Sabrina Carpenter PB Moon and Milo Manheim PB Sun (Sabrina Carpenter - Feather (Official Video) Alexandra Daddario PB Sun (Anne Rice's Mayfair Witches Trailer: Starring Alexandra Daddario AMC+), Jacob Elordi PB Moon (2 HEARTS Official Trailer (2020) Jacob Elordi, Tiera Skovbye), Tom Blyth PB Moon (Billy The Kid (EPIX 2022 Series) Official Trailer), Daniel Gillies PB Sun (COMING HOME IN THE DARK Trailer (2021) Daniel Gillies Suspense Thriller Movie), Matthew Gray Gubler PB Sun (KING KNIGHT Trailer (2022) Angela Sarafyan, Matthew Gray Gubler), Jon Hamm (Corner Office (2023) Official Trailer - Jon Hamm, Danny Pudi, Sarah Gadon), Rachel Weisz PB Sun + Moon and Sam Claflin PB Moon (MY COUSIN RACHEL Official Trailer FOX Searchlight), Chris Pine PB Moon (Jack Reacher Movie Trailer), Madison Beer PB Sun (Madison Beer - Make You Mine (Official Music Video), Sharon Stone PB Sun (Basic Instinct - Trailer (1080p)), and Michael Jackson PB Moon (Michael Jackson - Thriller (Official 4K Video).

Padas

(mostly for Moon) They all tend to be skinny to middle weight until they get older, where they either become more muscular or plump/curvy.

1st – The first pada of Purva Bhadrapada, falling in the Aries Navamsa, signifies a stage of primal energy and raw ambition. With Mars as their guiding force, they exhibit a relentless drive to achieve their goals, refusing to be deterred by obstacles or setbacks. However, being the initial pada of the nakshatra just leaving the stage of Shatabhisha, this quarter is the least spiritually developed. While they may possess great worldly ambition and the capacity for success, they may also be prone to ego-driven actions and an overly narrow focus on material pursuits. They can get into occultism or spirituality, but it is usually an attempt to further themselves in the material realm. Natives born under this pada possess a combative nature, always ready to engage in confrontations to defend their beliefs or assert their dominance. They tend to be more mentally aggressive than physically, but nonetheless their volatile temperament can lead to physical disputes as well when they are provoked enough. They know they can be very damaging when they lose control, so they will do everything in their power to prevent escalation. Ironically, this can make them seem passive. They typically exhibit anxious tendencies while attempting to conceal or downplay their feelings of worry. Natives of this pada are extremely passionate, but they have a tendency to constantly compare themselves to others, which ultimately can lead them to disregard their efforts to focus on surpassing someone else's. This propensity of theirs for aggression, envy, and competitiveness can strain relationships and hinder their personal growth, as they become consumed by their own desires for dominance and validation. They are usually medium tall with a wide forehead and low eyebrows.

2nd – The second pada of Purva Bhadrapada, ruled by Venus in the Taurus Navamsa, embodies a stage of sensual indulgence and creative expression. Individuals born under this pada are drawn to the occult and mysteries of the unseen, often delving into practices such as astrology and black magic. There is a bit of detachment from the mysticism of it at this stage though. They may prefer to look at it through a scientific or philosophical perspective as opposed to one that embraces faith in the divine. While their interest in these esoteric realms may lead to proficiency in such arts, it also heightens their propensity to lose track of their life's direction, becoming absorbed in the pursuit of hidden knowledge and power. Natives of this pada are characterized by their attractive physique, with beautiful broad teeth and strikingly captivating eyes that draw others to them. They possess an innate charm that makes them highly appealing to the opposite sex, and they are not hesitant to indulge in their darker desires and fantasies. Their creativity knows no bounds, as they constantly innovate and explore new avenues of expression. However, despite their magnetic allure and creative flair, individuals of this pada are prone to indulgence and excess, particularly when it comes to satisfying their sensual appetites. Their pursuit of pleasure and gratification can sometimes lead them astray, causing them to lose sight of their responsibilities and priorities. This stage of Purva Bhadrapada is more spiritually evolved than the prior, but it is still in the accumulation phase of Aquarius and the 11th house. Despite their outward charm, they may struggle to find stability and balance in their lives. They are prone to accidents.

3rd – The third pada of Purva Bhadrapada falls in the Gemini Navamsa and is ruled by Mercury. Natives born under this pada embody the mental side of Purva Bhadrapada, which is very focused on cultivating critical reasoning and gathering information, emphasizing communication, learning, and adaptability. Individuals born under this pada are intellectually inclined, constantly seeking to expand their knowledge and understanding of the world around them. They are playful and curious by nature, approaching life with a sense of wonder and exploration. Their energy is expressed through communication and expression, as they excel in articulating their thoughts and ideas. They have a natural gift for language and may find success in fields such as writing, teaching, or public speaking. Despite their playful demeanor, they are still very serious about their pursuits, driven by a deep-seated desire for personal growth and self-improvement. Natives of this pada tend to be peaceful and honorable, seeking harmony and balance in their interactions with others. However, their mercurial nature can sometimes manifest as manipulation or deceit, particularly when they perceive it necessary to achieve their goals. Nonetheless, they are skilled at navigating social situations and may possess a knack for making money through their cleverness and resourcefulness. In terms of appearance, individuals of this pada may have gaunt lower cheeks, high cheekbones, a narrow and defined jawline, and a medium stature. These physical characteristics complement their sharp wit and agile minds, making them engaging in social settings.

4th – The fourth pada of Purva Bhadrapada is ruled by the Moon in Cancer Navamsa. This is the most spiritually advanced of all the padas and tends to be among the most intense. At this stage, individuals born under this pada have either undergone profound inner transformation, shedding their attachment to worldly desires and material gains for the sake of aligning with the cosmic order, or they have fallen for the empty temptations of material life, leading them to a deeper state of moral decay. This pada in the sequence of this nakshatra symbolizes the finalization of death, and just like when we die, the impact of our lives can no longer be altered. You are called to surrender all you have acquired to the purifying flames of the spiritual fire, relinquishing personal benefit for the greater good, and if you fail, your soul will be lost to another cycle of rebirth. This represents the height of the nakshatra's power to manifest, it can come to be either an uplifting force for individuals and humanity as a whole, or as a potentially dangerous influence. Those born under this pada are deeply engaged in their own spiritual pursuits, usually guided by a sense of purpose and higher calling. They possess an innate magnetism and power that exerts influence over others and the world around them. Despite the intensity of their spiritual journey, individuals of this pada tend to enjoy good longevity and robust health, thanks to their deep connection with the cosmic energies. They are often perceived charismatic individuals, drawing others to them with their presence. However, their innate power comes with a responsibility to wield it wisely, as they hold the potential to bring about significant positive change or destruction, depending on how they choose to channel it.


Caste

Purva Bhadrapada belongs to the Brahmin or priestly/scholarly caste. This classification is based on the inherent qualities and tendencies of individuals born under this nakshatra, rather than their family lineage, as seen in contemporary caste systems. In Vedic astrology and Hindu tradition, each nakshatra is associated with as caste, thereby linking them to specific attributes, occupations, and societal roles. Brahmin is positioned as the highest caste and is given the most power and responsibility, both socially and spiritually. In classical texts, the Brahmin caste is exalted for its dedication to scholarship, spirituality, and moral rectitude. Brahmins are depicted as the keepers of sacred knowledge, entrusted with the preservation and dissemination of ancient scriptures and teachings. They are revered for their intellectual prowess, philosophical insights, and commitment to upholding the highest ethical standards. Brahmins are expected to lead lives of austerity, simplicity, and self-discipline, setting examples of virtue and righteousness for society. Additionally, they play important roles in leading religious rituals, ceremonies, and spiritual practices, acting as intermediaries between individuals and the divine. Their contributions also extend beyond religious and intellectual realms though, as they also provide guidance, counseling, and healing to individuals and communities. Overall, Brahmins are portrayed as paragons of virtue, wisdom, and enlightenment, embodying the highest ideals of human excellence and divine knowledge as described in classical texts, acting as oases of wisdom by guiding society not only in matters of spirituality but also in areas such as literature, philosophy, and science. Their primary occupations are mostly associated with administration of all sectors of society, teaching, healing, and providing spiritual guidance. Its intersection with Aquarius Rashi on the ecliptic plane may also relate it to Kshatriya and Shudra.
Gunas
The nakshatras each represent the different gunas at different levels of functioning. For this asterism, it might be confusing to find out that, despite all of its negative connotations, it is associated primarily with Sattva or purity/balance. This mainly stems from this Nakshatra's capacity for penance, spiritualism, and generosity. Overall, Purva Bhadrapada is associated with two levels of Sattva and one of Rajas. Sattva prevails at the physical and mental levels, while Rajas predominates at the spiritual level. At the physical level, individuals born under Purva Bhadrapada exhibit qualities of purity, harmony, and balance. They are often composed, grounded, and possess a sense of stability in their physical endeavors. Mentally, they tend to exhibit clarity, wisdom, and a penchant for introspection when they are only focused on engaging their rational mind. This can get muddy when they try to incorporate less tangible aspects into their thinking though. At the spiritual level, the influence of Rajas emerges, driving them towards spiritual growth and evolution but also threatening them with the struggle of inner turmoil. With Rajas at the most personal level of the spirit, this can cause a onstant seeking pf external validation and gratification, which leads to things such as constantly chasing after fleeting desires and pleasures from their lack of contentment. Additionally, the intense drive associated with Rajas may result in overexertion, burnout, and a disregard for self-care. It can lead to an inflated ego, arrogance, and a tendency towards manipulative or self-serving behavior. Therefore, while Rajas can propel individuals towards spiritual evolution, it also poses challenges that need to be navigated with mindfulness and self-awareness. Together with the heavy influence of Sattva, Rajas in this nakshatra creates a spiritual restlessness that works to propel these natives to actively engage in spiritual practices, seeking to transcend worldly limitations and attain spiritual liberation. It comes with risk, but this is a necessary trial.


Gana

Purva Bhadrapada Nakshatra falls under the category of Manushya Gana, or "human/mixed species." This designation speaks to the inherent qualities and tendencies of individuals born under this nakshatra, aligning them with human characteristics and behaviors. People belonging to the Manushya Gana Nakshatras, including Purva Bhadrapada, place value on their self-worth and esteem. They often enjoy good physical attributes and are blessed with fortune, leading comfortable lives. With warm and friendly personalities, they exhibit care and affection towards their family, friends, and loved ones, readily offering assistance to those in need. However, they also prioritize their own interests and benefits. They are known for their warm and caring nature, and while they may appear busy if approached, they are capable of balancing their personal and professional lives effectively. The path of those born under Manushya Gana nakshatras is undefined. They possess the potential to exhibit both positive and negative qualities, akin to the diverse nature of humanity itself. They have the potential to be even more evil than the Rakshas and even more good than the Devas. While some may lean towards acts of kindness and generosity, others may display tendencies that are less altruistic. This blend of qualities makes them a complex combination qualities you might see for the Deva and Rakshasa Ganas. Keep in mind that you should look at the dominant Gana in your chart to gain a better understanding of how this may apply to you.
Thank you for taking the time to read this if you did. I will have to continue this in a third part because I'm out of room on this post. Afterwards, I will be starting on Shravana Nakshatra soon, and then later on Anuradha.

I’m in a bit of a bind and could really use some advice. Recently, I secretly joined an EMT school, and I’m loving it. The course runs on weekends—8 hours on Saturdays and 9 hours on Sundays. My goal isn’t to make a career out of being an EMT, but to get certified so I have more job options once I graduate college. The problem is, I’m terrified of my parents, especially my dad, finding out.
Here’s the background: My dad can be very imposing and always tries to impose his opinions on me. We’ve had several family psychologists and psychiatrists tell him he’s in the wrong for the way he treats us, but it doesn’t change anything. Typical narcissist behavior. I knew I wouldn’t be able to find a course that didn’t conflict with my time at home, so I’m running the risk of being asked where I’m going.
Lying isn’t an option for me because if they get suspicious, they will investigate and find out, which would make things infinitely worse. Here are the reasons why I’m so scared of telling them:
Reason 1: My dad grew up poor and worked his way up to financial success. Anything he considers “lower class,” he immediately puts down. For example, my little brother started fixing iPhone screens in high school, and my dad chastised him, calling it a “poor people job.”
Reason 2: My dad takes it personally if I don’t come home for lunch. He sees it as a personal slight, even when I have classes or am hanging out with friends. Recently, he told my other little brother how sad he gets when I don’t come home for lunch, making it all about him.
Reason 3: If you strongly disagree with him, he applies the silent treatment. He once stopped talking to my sister for 6 months over a fight about her boyfriend. He also cut off my little brother (the one who fixed phones) from money, gas, and family outings because he took a gap semester to focus on his business.
I’m terrified of becoming the black sheep of the family. I’ve battled depression before, and I’m scared of falling back into that dark place if my dad reacts badly. If he finds out I’m missing lunch for EMT school, he’ll take it personally, think it’s beneath me, try to force me out of it, and, if I refuse, stop talking to me and cut me off financially and emotionally.
I feel stuck and don’t know what to do. How can I approach this situation without causing a major family conflict or jeopardizing my mental health? Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.

Reasons: I am in a toxic household, they are giving me time to stay here til I finish masters which is just about a year na. Ample time ko na rin to save and prepare for me to be able move to my bf (foreigner). Just last month, I filed a police report under medicolegal of my violent brother who is jobless and doesn’t want to move out from the apartment I share with a female friend who temporarily stayed in province. Nakalabas akong duguan and got admitted to hospital for surgeries with help of my friends. Parents still denies it happened and got mad why I reported it. To cut the story short, they’re planning me to stop working and living independently. They want me as well to work on my mom’s business and stop my own career without a pay. Even sa will, all are named under my brother kasi sa Islam ganun. I told them I need to have a job for myself and di na daw kailangan dahil habambuhay daw ako papasweldohin ng kuya (which i fucking doubt with his asshole attitude). They want me to get married with someone they know after I go home. No, I cannot just try to “talk them out” with my plans as they rather want me dead than become independent. They’re narcs, I’m basically made to become a slave. Since college, sobrang tutol sila na nag aral ako sa UP at nag working student to sustain myself. Ayaw nila ako mag college dahil masisira daw pagkababae ko. They believe in honor killing and it happened before, this family is a cult.
These are my big reasons why I want out BUT:

1. What if they report me missing after I went no contact? Kahit ipaalam ko pa na naglayas ako, they will harass me that way. Ginawa na nila to at nag escandalo sa uni profs ko at sa mga kaibigan ko noon.
   
2. What if they hire a private investigator to stalk me? How can I deal with that?
   
3. Can they tell the foreign embassy to hold me if ever aalis ako or sa mga countries or pupuntahan namin? Will the embassy hold me and inform them?
   
4. How to protect my bf’s identity and family as well? They will protect me as they said.
   

I want advise how to deal with the retaliations they will do like I listed above.

Reasons: I am in a toxic household, they are giving me time to stay here til I finish masters which is just about a year na. Ample time ko na rin to save and prepare for me to be able move to my bf (foreigner). Just last month, I filed a police report under medicolegal of my violent brother who is jobless and doesn’t want to move out from the apartment I share with a female friend who temporarily stayed in province. Nakalabas akong duguan. Parents got mad why I reported it. To cut the story short, they’re planning me to stop working and living independently. They want me as well to work on my mom’s business and stop my own career without a pay. Even sa will, all are named under my brother kasi sa Islam ganun. I told them I need to have a job for myself and di na daw kailangan dahil habambuhay daw ako papasweldohin ng kuya (which i fucking doubt with his asshole attitude). They want me to get married with someone they know after I go home. No, I cannot just try to “talk them out” with my plans as they rather want me dead than become independent. They’re narcs, I’m basically made to become a slave. Since college, sobrang tutol sila na nag aral ako sa UP at nag working student to sustain myself. Ayaw nila ako mag college dahil masisira daw pagkababae ko.
These are my big reasons why I want out BUT:

1. What if they report me missing after I went no contact? Kahit ipaalam ko pa na naglayas ako, they will harass me that way. Ginawa na nila to at nag escandalo sa uni profs ko at sa mga kaibigan ko noon.
   
2. What if they hire a private investigator to stalk me? How can I deal with that?
   
3. Can they tell the foreign embassy to hold me if ever aalis ako or sa mga countries or pupuntahan namin? Will the embassy hold me and inform them?
   
4. How to protect my bf’s identity and family as well? They will protect me as they said.
   

I want advise how to deal with the retaliations they will do like I listed above.

So I work in a company of around ~90 active workers and is considered very prestigious in its industry. Without giving too many details, we are in the business of selling highly-curated original content with over 40 years of good, nationwide reputation.
The thing is, out of the 90 active workers here, only 7 people (including myself) are actively making these content everyday. The hiring process for these content-makers are incredibly tight, like applying for an ivy league. For example, 150 people applied for my position when I came in, and only 3 people were hired after 4 months of tight vetting process. Meaning, replacing any of us wouldn’t be easy.
About 20% of the rest of the workforce deals with editing said content, and the other 80% are administrators (HR, legal, IT, finance, advertisement, you name it.)
The workload for the 7 people, of course, is immense and very high-stake. Without these 7 people, there is literally no product to sell. We are all highly skilled. But we have been paid peanuts for years now, and with jarring wage gaps between each other (quite arbitrary too: the ones earning higher wages aren’t necessarily doing much more than the rest).
We don’t ever get yearly wage increase, not even to adjust for inflation. One guy has been working on minimum wage for 4 years.
As my company is very well known and reputable, people are often shocked to learn just how little we earn, which is about 1/2 of the market price for our skill set.
The reason people don’t leave are 1) it is a genuinely fulfilling place to work at for the industry (we are known for top-notch quality work and simply being affiliated with the company is great for our career trajectory) 2) We are bounded by a 5-year contract upon hire with massive penalty 3) there really isn’t many other companies of the same prestige unless we work with foreign companies paying in dollars.
Anyway, I’ve been meaning to demand a wage increase of 12-20% (which really wouldn’t be a lot but will help tremendously with rent and what not) but my other co-workers, the other 6 content creators, are suggesting that we form an unofficial union and demand a collective increase in wages.
Is it smarter for me to ask for an increase individually, or will a collective approach have better chances? we would have a higher bargaining position together, but of course it will cost the company more at once. I fear that it will deter the company if they have to pay more at once, but i’m not confident I would have a good chance to go it alone.
What’s the best approach here?

Been seeing too many posts relating to overwhelming workloads and people’s personal expectations to believe that they have to go above and beyond everyday when they clock in.
What I am going to say relates to people who are in college, or are aware that they are only working at Target for a brief moment in their life.
I am not saying to be a “lazy POS” but if you are not planning to have the goal to promote within the target corporation… please do not feel like you have to exceed expectations.
Target was my first job, and enjoy following the subreddit for the sake of nostalgia (even though it seems like the dynamic of this reddit has changed to current workload complaints instead of funny work story moments like it used to)
Target is a JOB, not a career. (at least for most of us).
Something I’d like for you to take note of… no matter how hard you work, the only benefit you gain is getting paid an extra couple ¢ents more than your fellow coworkers in your department each year and more responsibilities to work even harder than you are already doing
This is a corporation, not a small business where your acts of above and beyond service are truly appreciated and acknowledged. You are simply a pawn in the game of “chess”. If you are willing to die for target… they are more willing to sacrifice you in the ‘game of chess’ because that’s what you displayed to them.
Focus on making your coworkers, who have your next shift’s lives’ easier. Other than that… do what YOU CAN DO, not what YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE EXPECTED TO DO.
You should never feel overwhelmed in this type of job. There were moments where there were A LOT of things to do on my shifts… but the only reaction you should have is “f*ck, man… I’ll see what I can do” and NOT, “OMG! I have to complete all of these tasks in under [4-6-8] hours! There’s now way that I can, but I have to!!!”
Again… I’m not saying to lazy… But I am saying that some of you have yourself at such a high standard that it is negatively affecting your own mental health
GOD BLESS YOU for having that mentality for working as hard as you can at 110%, BUT…
PLEASE…. PLEEEEAAASSSSEE… know that what you can’t accomplish in a limited amount of time is not your fault
(We all worked or are working in different departments that have different dynamics… all I’m trying to say is, that the stress you are feeling working at target may be self-inflicted… yes, your ETL or TL may be pushing/enforcing these “expectations” on your psyche… but guess what? You have the ability to know what is posible to do during your shift and accepting that what you can’t do.)
TLDR; DO WHAT YOU CAN & DON’T STRESS ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN’T

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In the vibrant city of Pune, creativity thrives and innovation blooms. For aspiring designers, finding the right institution to nurture their talent and guide their passion is crucial. The International School of Design (INSD) Pune stands out as a beacon for those who wish to transform their passion into a rewarding profession. This comprehensive guide will explore why INSD Pune is the best designing institute in Pune, focusing on its unique offerings, outstanding faculty, state-of-the-art facilities, and the diverse opportunities it provides to its students.

Introduction to INSD Pune

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Why Choose INSD Pune?

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Comprehensive Curriculum: INSD Pune offers a curriculum that is both diverse and industry-relevant. Courses are designed to cover the latest trends and techniques in the design industry, ensuring that students are well-prepared for their professional careers.
Experienced Faculty: The faculty at INSD Pune comprises industry veterans and experienced educators who bring real-world insights into the classroom. Their guidance helps students understand the practical applications of their skills.
Industry Connections: INSD Pune has strong ties with the design industry, providing students with numerous opportunities for internships, workshops, and placements. This exposure is invaluable in helping students transition smoothly into their professional lives.
State-of-the-Art Facilities: The campus is equipped with modern facilities, including well-equipped labs, studios, and libraries, providing an ideal environment for learning and creativity.
Vibrant Campus Life: Beyond academics, INSD Pune offers a vibrant campus life with various extracurricular activities, events, and clubs that enhance the overall student experience.

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Textile Designing

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· Sustainability in Textiles: Focus on sustainable and eco-friendly textile practices.

Fashion Designing

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· Pattern Making: Understanding the techniques of creating patterns for garments.
· Textile Science: Studying different fabrics and their properties.
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Interior Designing

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· Lighting Design: Techniques for effective lighting in interiors.
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Graphic Designing

The graphic designing course at INSD Pune prepares students for careers in the dynamic field of visual communication. The curriculum includes:
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· Digital Media Design: Designing for digital platforms, including websites and social media.
· Software Proficiency: Training in Adobe Creative Suite and other design software.

Faculty and Teaching Methodology

The faculty at INSD Pune is one of its greatest assets. The institute boasts a team of highly qualified and experienced educators who are passionate about teaching and mentoring students. Many of them have extensive industry experience, bringing valuable insights and practical knowledge to the classroom.

Teaching Methodology

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Industry Exposure

INSD Pune places a strong emphasis on industry exposure. The institute regularly organizes workshops, seminars, and guest lectures by industry experts. These events provide students with an opportunity to learn from professionals and gain insights into the latest trends and developments in the design industry.

State-of-the-Art Facilities

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Design Studios

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Computer Labs

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Library

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Workshops and Labs

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Extracurricular Activities and Student Life

At INSD Pune, learning extends beyond the classroom. The institute offers a range of extracurricular activities and clubs that enhance the overall student experience.

Design Competitions

INSD Pune encourages students to participate in design competitions, both at the national and international levels. These competitions provide students with an opportunity to showcase their talent and gain recognition in the design community.

Cultural Events

The institute regularly organizes cultural events, including fashion shows, exhibitions, and design fairs. These events provide students with a platform to present their work and interact with industry professionals.

Clubs and Societies

INSD Pune has various clubs and societies focused on different aspects of design. These include fashion clubs, interior design clubs, and graphic design clubs. These clubs provide students with an opportunity to collaborate, share ideas, and work on projects together.

Placement and Career Opportunities

One of the key reasons why INSD Pune is considered the best designing institute in Pune is its excellent placement record. The institute has a dedicated placement cell that works tirelessly to connect students with top companies in the design industry.

Internship Opportunities

INSD Pune’s strong industry connections ensure that students have access to numerous internship opportunities. These internships provide valuable hands-on experience and often lead to full-time job offers.

Placement Assistance

The placement cell at INSD Pune provides comprehensive support to students in their job search. This includes resume writing workshops, interview preparation sessions, and job placement fairs. The institute’s strong industry network ensures that students have access to a wide range of job opportunities.

Conclusion

INSD Pune stands out as the best designing institute in Pune, offering a comprehensive education in various design disciplines. With its experienced faculty, state-of-the-art facilities, strong industry connections, and vibrant campus life, INSD Pune provides an ideal environment for aspiring designers to transform their passion into a successful profession.
Whether you’re interested in fashion design, interior design, textile design, or graphic design, INSD Pune offers the perfect platform to launch your career. The institute’s commitment to excellence in education and its focus on practical learning ensure that students are well-prepared for the challenges of the design industry.