Trends of romantic poetry

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2021.01.25 04:38 Keyluver Your_Romantic_Heart

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2024.05.14 09:46 RevorceRed Different kinds of attraction and how they change

Not really sure if this actually belongs on this subreddit but I know no other subreddit that feels more appropriate.
Gonna be a long winded post that may be hard to understand cause ADHD thought patterns.
I spent most of my life wondering if I am aro/ace, the ace part eventually became super obvious but I never truly settled on "yes/no" for the aromantic issue. When I got into a queerplatonic relationship with my life partner 5 years ago my partner told me it'd be fine for them if I never reciprocated the romantic/sexual attraction they thought they felt towards me.
It was then that I decided that the question if I am aromantic did not need to be answered.
Our relationship eventually started including kissing, handholding, cuddling, sleeping together and eventually sex but while all of this seemed very mutually desired at first I eventually noticed my partner's perceptible comfort with some of this stuff (kissing, making out) and interest in sex lessen. We had many conversations about this over the 5 years we've been together and my partner eventually confessed to me that they did a lot of this stuff because they felt they should because its a "requirement" in a relationship and when they felt safe enough that I wouldn't simply break up with them they stopped masking their discomfort.
Now, most recently, my partner told me that they realized they are aromantic and we started taking a more detailed look at which forms of interacting and which labels and things we do together they feel comfortable with, which they do not want at all and which they find okay situationally.
Now ultimately I am finding myself in a space where I am asking myself the question if I am aromantic again because I love the IDEA of romance; I'm a writer who has published a frankly unreasonable amount of romantic poetry, I love buying my partner roses and then drying them when they leave (long distance), I love picking them up at the train station in a dress shirt and tie combo, I love watching the sunset and all these kinds of things but I am not sure if thats romantic attraction or something else. Ultimately I feel fine with my partner's realization and feel stoked and excited to have more authenticity in our relationship. Some of the things that they are now telling me they're uncomfortable with I will definitely miss and there will be a period of "grief" for me to process my emotions about that but I am truly feeling elated and relieved that they are embracing themselves and that we as a couple have this chance for growth and positive development.
If you read all of this thank you, I'm not really sure where this is/was going and it was mostly just an emotional rant.
TLDR: I am not sure if I am aromantic but my partner is and thats fine for me. I do not understand if there's a difference between the cultural concept of romance and romantic attraction because I love doing romantic shit but the idea of my partner not feeling romantically attracted to me doesn't really bother me.
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2024.05.14 07:54 LavishnessTraining What plot line do you think will be dropped in Red god?

I just finished my re-listen of the series and I notice a trend of Brown just kinda having plot lines or hints to ideas that don’t have a follow through (I.e tongueless, the stranded gold legions on mars). What do you bet will be dropped in RG? My guess? The hint at romantic relationship between Horatitia and Lysander.
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2024.05.14 05:44 courtingdisaster Presenting the evidence: 17 May 2024

Presenting the evidence: 17 May 2024
Come one, come all, we're clooowning again! đŸ€Ą
Thanks to u/1DMod for posting the Jimmy Fallon video that led to me to start to connect the dots that other creators have noticed. Long story short, we're clowning for Stockholm N1 (maybe even night ✌ as well), buckle up clowns!

✌

First things first, May 17 is ✌ fortnights after the release of TTPD on April 19. We know that Taylor is still throwing up peace signs which seems unnecessary if it only ever meant that there was a second part of TTPD. I think it's an indication that we haven't completely cracked that egg yet.
This photo was necessary for the post, ok

National/International Day Of

While these days aren't necessarily solid proof of anything, Taylor did release TTPD on Poetry & The Creative Mind Day and also released the ME! music video (ME! Out now!) on Lesbian Visibility Day so I think it's definitely worth investigating.
Let's have a look at the holidays for May 17 that could be relevant:
  • Endangered Species Day - anyone remember the ✌ trips to the zoo while in Sydney...? We also have the big cat imagery on her new 1989 outfit to consider. If you haven't read this incredible post by u/Funny-Barnacle1291, I'd urge you to stop clowning with me (just for a moment) and go and read it. Taylor's TikTok bio still reads, "this is pretty much just a cat account" which could be a surface level meaning of her posting videos of her cats, but we know miss Feline Enthusiast herself loves a layered meaning. She also compared herself to feeling, "a lot like being a tiger in a wildlife enclosure" in the Lover diaries she released (pictured below).
TNT at Sydney Zoo Paris N4 TikTok bio Lover diaries comparing herself to a tiger Sydney Zoo
  • National Pizza Party Day - I know I am personally still haunted by her Stephen Colbert interview on 13 April 2021. The interview starts with Colbert talking about Taylor's Versions and also talking about how he believes the song "Hey Stephen" is about him. What surprise song did we get on guitar Paris N3..? Important to note that this interview also talks about him "waiting tables on the lunch shift at Scoozi, an Italian restaurant in the River North area of Chicago, that, by the way, serves a really incredible slice of pizza." Taylor also goes on to say that the song is actually about Stephen King and Taylor then says "The Dark Tower series changed my life, plus The Shining, The Stand and don't even get me started on his short stories... Absolutely luminescent." This interview is obviously very strange and likely filled with easter eggs. We know that her mention of the River North area of Chicago was also the location of one of the TTPD murals that went up ahead of release.
No... This is pizza
ME! Out soon 😉
  • National Graduation Tassel Day - Taylor was awarded with an honorary doctorate at NYU in 2022. We know that her speech at this event was filled with “Midnights” easter eggs including lyrics to “Labyrinth” and “You're On Your Own, Kid”. I wonder what other easter eggs are hidden in this speech...? Here's a link to the video and you can also read the full transcript here. I'm not going to do any further digging into this one right now, just presenting it as evidence but please feel free to note anything of importance in the comments.
Dr Taylor Alison Swift
These chemicals hit me like whiiiiite wiiiiine

Direct 17/5 easter eggs

  • Tokyo N3 - One of the surprise songs during Tokyo N3 was "The Outside". This excellent video by Kristen (underthepink7 - go follow her, she's amazing) goes into some additional easter eggs that I'm not going to go into here but definitely worth a watch (which also connects to "Down Bad"). What I do want to talk about though is what Taylor said when she introduced the song. Here's a video of the performance including her speech beforehand where she says, "this song is 175 years old." At the time most people thought that it was an egg for number of days leading us to 2 August 2024. It could still be referring to this however I'm starting to believe it's related to the date.
  • Date format - Before we go any further, it's important to note that the date format in Europe (where the Eras Tour currently is) goes DD/MM/YY. This is why I think the 175 could be a date as that equates to May 17 in Europe.
  • Tokyo N4 - On 10 February 2024, the surprise songs in Tokyo were "Come In With The Rain" (track 17) and "You're On Your Own, Kid" (track 5), another 175 and in this case it's specifically 17/5.
  • Anti Hero music video - There's been some really interesting analysis that I've seen on Twitter where the timestamps in Taylor's recent music videos appear to be lining up with the date of things happening in real life. Underthepink7 and Kiturakk on Twitter have pointed out some interesting connections to the numbers 175 in the Anti Hero, Bejeweled and Willow music videos. I'll admit this could be considered a bit of a stretch but what if I told you none of it was accidental...
Is Taylor using timestamps in her self-directed music videos to refer to dates in real life?

Important days in history

These could be nothing, could be something, still worth noting.
Important events in history that may be important to Taylor

Important events in Taylor's history on this day

  • "Bad Blood" music video premiered at the Billboard Awards
  • Entertainment Weekly where Taylor is on the cover with a rainbow pin and gravestone that says "I tried" is published
  • City of Lover concert (i.e. Taylor's Lover concert performed in Paris) airs on ABC for the first time
I think we're about to recreate her sparkling summer

Stockholm

  • 88th show - Taylor made a point to let everyone know that Paris N4 was the 87th show of the tour. Yes 87 is Travis' number but what if it was also to let everyone know that Stockholm will feature both her 88th and 89th shows? Obviously 89 is an important number to her however last year we saw Taylor embracing double dates (5/5 Speak Now TV announcement, 7/7 Speak Now TV release - there's probably others, that's all I remember off the top of my head) so I don't think it's a stretch to say that the 88th show would hold significance to her. I saw this thread on Twitter yesterday regarding "portal dates" and while obviously this is referring to dates, I can see "portal shows" being potentially noteworthy. Following on from this, Kristen has highlighted some Taylor Nation tweets that include the words "17" or "May" with one of those tweets being posted on 8/8 (while quoting "Betty" of all songs...) which Kristen notes is the karmic number representing resurrection and regeneration (tweets pictured below).
Deep portal, time travel
Is Karma boutta pop-up unannounced...?
  • BeyoncĂ© - The Renaissance World Tour kicked off on 10 May 2023 in Stockholm at the very same stadium that Taylor is performing in next weekend. To me it would make sense to start a tour named Renaissance in Italy, where the Renaissance originated not in Sweden... We've seen Taylor and BeyoncĂ© supporting each other a lot in the last year and BeyoncĂ©'s producer recently said, "let's just say she's on the approach of shocking the world." We know she's on her own three-act journey at the moment (complete with queer-flagging in her shows and her own BiyoncĂ© rumours) so I don't think this quote is directly related to Cowboy Carter but potentially regarding the culmination of her arc. Is it possible that her arc lines up with Taylor's creating a supernova that will change the industry forever?
Taylor & Bey supporting each other at their respective film premieres, a literal pride flag on the Renaissance Tour (it's actually just Chiefs colours, phew!)
  • Taylor recorded songs in Stockholm - Kristen notes that many of Taylor's important singles were recorded in Stockholm including "I Knew You Were Trouble", "Shake It Off", "Blank Space", "Bad Blood", "Ready For It" and "New Romantics". Perhaps this city holds a special place in her heart?
  • One Direction - paging u/1DMod to go into more detail here however noting that One Direction has a song called "Stockholm Syndrome" and the lyrics are very interesting indeed ("I used the light to guide me home"). Checkout this recent post by u/1DMod regarding the possible Larry connections to TTPD.
  • Friends Arena - The stadium in Stockholm is called the Friends Arena. Taylor had a Friends pin on her jacket on the Entertainment Weekly cover. Was this stadium always supposed to play an important role? Kristen also notes that the opening ceremony took place on 27 October 2012 (obviously 27 October is the day that 1989 was released, both times) and

New Romantics

Kristen, who I have referenced in nearly every part in this post (again, she's amazing, go follow her), has a mass coming-out theory that she has dubbed the New Romantics. I highly recommend checking out her content on Twitter and TikTok and she's also recently launched a podcast that you can read more about here for a lottttttt more information on this theory. Essentially the theory is that a large number of artists in the entertainment industry are queer and are working together as a "safety in numbers" type approach to coming out of the closet and potentially changing the industry in a monumental way.
Let's have a look at some players that are relevant to either 17 May or Stockholm (or both in one person's case!):
  • Zayn - This is the person who is relevant to both 17 May and Stockholm! Obviously he was part of One Direction who I spoke about above as having a song titled "Stockholm Syndrome". Did you know his new album "The Closet" "The Room Under The Stairs" is being released this Friday, May 17? Again, I'll leave this to u/1DMod any additional relevant information as this is not my area of expertise but from what I understand, all members have their own queer rumours.
  • Billie Eilish - Recently out as a girl kisser, Billie Eilish is also releasing an album on this day titled "Hit Me Hard and Soft" featuring a song called "Lunch" that would leave even the most homophobic Swiftie unable to defend her queerness if released by Taylor.
  • Madison Beer - Madison is out as bi. Her tour, The Spinnin Tour, began 24 February 2024 in Stockholm (a different venue though).

Theories as to what exactly is coming

  • TTPD: Part 3 - I recently made a post presenting the evidence on a potential third part to TTPD. In this post the majority of the evidence was just related to the "3s" that have been prevalent lately however there were also some "5s" which led us to believe something was happening 5/3. I've since had a couple of thoughts that maybe the "3/5" is related to her 35th birthday this year. I strongly believe she'll be out by her birthday at the latest if not ON her birthday, but I digress.
  • Karma - After the fiery (Chiefs) colours we saw displayed in Paris, I'm not sure how you could be a Karma-denier at this point to be honest! If you haven't already, check out this amazing post from yesterday by (Dr Bryanlicious2 homewrecker) u/clydelogan. Their post discuses the numerology surrounding the number 8 that I referred to earlier however could this all be pointing us to the 88th show instead of a particular date...? Also if you are somehow still a Karma-denier, I recommend reading this collobarative post that is constantly being added to if you don't know what Karma is.
Karma is REAL
  • Coming Out - I personally don't believe she would come out during a show in Stockholm, however it's worth at least noting as a possibility. It would mean that she was "out" before Pride Month 😉 She did just sing "Begin Again" as a surprise song in Paris N4 - is she beginning again as her authentic self at the very next show?
  • Book - The creator of the video that u/1DMod initially posted believes that Taylor is announcing a book on 17 May 2024 with it to be released on 21 October 2024. I'm not going to go into this theory in detail however if you are interested in finding out more about what they have to say, here are a couple of videos of theirs (video 1, video 2, video 3).
Is this another easter egg that she laid 3 years ago?

In Summation

Something is happening in Stockholm.
I don't know what exactly but it is THE ONE to watch. I'll be there talking smack in the megathread and keeping an eye out for any new Chiefs colours.
See you there, clowns! Who's clowning with me?! đŸ€ĄđŸ€ĄđŸ€Ą
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2024.05.14 04:31 takemeback2verdansk I don't know

I feel touch starved!!! I don't think I've ever really felt this way before, I guess I've coped enough by simulating it/daydreaming (possibly maladaptive😭). I 'held' a boys hand the other day, it wasn't holding hands in a romantic way but nonetheless I had both my hands in his one hand and it felt so nice :< But I hate feeling this way cuz this guy has body shamed me and isn't nice to me, I just thought the physical touch was nice. Not so much that it was with him tho ..
That was my first handhold lol, I'm 18. I sort of now have this like overwhelming feeling of touch starvation now!! Ig I've felt it before but now that I've like ... gotten a taste of it 😭 I'm like omg I need it. I just wanna touch a boy that sounds so creepy but its just the truth. I guess I'm moreso thinking about one person rn lol (not the guy I held hands w) but said person does not want me 😅😅😅😅😅 ouuuuuggghhh I be w him he'd probably call the cops on me if I tried though
I hate my inability to connect with people, I never know what I do wrong/how I lose their interest. Ig i'm thinking of a specific person rn but this is a trend that's followed me forever, I just don't know how to keep people around I guess. I wish I could be better I am so desperate and weird. Also Why are my feet so soft rn. I just took off my socks and my feet have like never felt this soft and smooth.
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2024.05.14 00:09 candylandtomato Taylor Swift Will Never Go Down In History For Her Music

Swifties constantly claim Taylor to be one of the best songwriter of all time and Taylor's self-proclaimtion as a "tourtured poet" feeds into their delusion. Anyone that has the capacity to seperate the art from the artist will agree that TTPD is one of the worst albums of Taylor's career. The audacity these people have to place her in the same category as music legends like The Beatles or Prince is disrespectful.
When I assess Taylor's catalog as a whole, I stongly believe she will go down in history for her "socialite" ways rather than the power of her pen.
She constantly pushes the narrative of being a fast and "skillful" songwriter. While there is some truth to that, it doesn't merit her the title of a literary genius. She explores feelings of love and loss through her songs. Originally, her work explored universal emotions which allowed her to connect with her audience. Unlike historically legendary poets and musicians, her work doesn't break literary boundaries or spark cultural conversations (postive ones anyway).
The closest Taylor has come to being a great poet was during her Folkmore era. The lack of consistency in her discography shows her inability to shift culture through her music alone. Rather, she follows monetary trends. Her approach to music is the narcissistic desire to maintain "relevancy."
Swifties will argue Taylor's list of accolades and the "iconic" switch from country to pop prove otherwise. However, accolades given on the basis of bribery and fandom harassment does not equate to "critically acclaimed" work. Genre transitions are not uncommon and to say Taylor Swift was the first person to break that mold is plain ignorance.
I believe Taylor does understand the power of her words, but uses her pen to unleash her army of devotees on naysayers rather than self-reflect and set cultural precedence. 'The Man' or 'YNTCD' was Taylor's way of correcting her narrative while stereotyping marginalized people. It was self-serving activism. Some of her tasteful works that speak on misogyny or sexual identity reside in her album Folklore. However, Folkmore are the anomalies of her catalog. I digress.
Taylor doesn't treat her albums like works of art (exception: Folkmore); She treats them as journal enteries. The track lists are created on the premise of supersition and eater egging. They fail to tell a cohesive story and often include out of place "viral hits", filler songs, or PR cleanups (I'm looking at you Karma ft. Ice Spice). Her inability to set aside monetary greed and obsession for breaking records bleeds through the mediocrity of her recent work. The term "poet" seems to be misconstruded in Taylor's head. The addition of a few SAT words while strumming to an incoherent rant is not poetry. Therefore, I wouldn't even classify Taylor as an artist; she's nothing more than a decent writer.
When we look at the poetry of Taylor Swift compared to current artists like Kendrick Lamar or Beyoncé, it pales in comparision and lacks in consistency. Swifties scream the bridge to 'Cruel Summer' for their tiktok reels. Meanwhile, people chant the hook of 'Alright' by Kendrick during marches for racial justice; People of all ages blast Beyonce's 'Break My Soul' to empower themselves during periods of hardship and burnout. These artists provide truely timeless songs. (funfact: Kendrick has a freaking Pulitzer Prize for the impact he made through his music).
While Taylor does provide a space for listeners to grapple with their feelings about love, the narrative becomes redundant. Many of the fans that grew up with her are now growing without her. When you mentally surpass an artist who is stuck in time, you cannot claim them to be timeless.
Her songs are streamed because of real time intrigue about her personal life. Her lyrics are alarmingly hypocritical and laced with tone deaf analogies.
I may be hated for saying this, but Taylor Swift is a trend not timeless. She will be known for her romantic endeavors not the weight of her words. By making her work extremely autobiographical, she dug her own grave.
Therefore she does not meet the requirements to be one of the GOATs 🐐
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2024.05.13 22:22 1DMod Sallie Winchester + The Little Mermaid in WAOLOM Eras Visuals

Sallie Winchester + The Little Mermaid in WAOLOM Eras Visuals
I forgot how the west was won

How was the west won? With a shotgun
specifically, a Winchester rifle, Model 73, which is known as “The Gun that Won the West”. (yes, I am well aware the west was “won” via colonization, the massacre of indigenous peoples, the slaughter of animal/plant life, the enslavement of Africans, and the quasi-enslavement of Chinese and Asian peoples)
I am going to take you on a journey that is long, meandering, and hopefully loosely braided together by the end. We will be discussing the following topics: The Winchesters, The Winchester Mystery House, Spiritualism, and The Little Mermaid. This is not a fully formed theory, but I do believe it will serve as a building block for other theories that come along.
Full WAOLOM Intro Visuals
Sarah Winchester: Widow, Heiress, Mad Woman
Looking at the visuals for WAOLOM, I was struck by the similarities to the Winchester house and to the story of Sarah Winchester (Sarah Lockwood Pardee), known as Sallie. In 1862, Sallie married William Wirt Winchester, the heir to the Winchester Repeating Arms Company. In 1866, she gave birth to Annie, her daughter who died within a month of birth. Tragically, between the fall of 1880 and the spring of 1881, Sallie’s mother, father-in-law, and her husband died. In 1881, after her father-in-law and husband died within 3 months of one another, Sallie Winchester inherited the Winchester Repeating Arms Company. In 1884, one of Sallie’s sister died. In 1885, at the age of 46, Sallie moved to California from New Haven, CT.
In 1886, Sallie purchased a 2-story farmhouse outside of San Jose, California. This house would come to be known as the Llanda Villa during Sallie’s lifetime and later it would be dubbed The Winchester Mystery House. Immediately upon moving in, Sallie began to remodel the home. In 1888, Sallie’s favourite niece, Marion “Daisy” Merriman, moved in with her. For the remainder of Sallie Winchester’s life, her home was under construction – from 1886-1922. At the age of 83, Sallie died on 7 September, 1922.
Earliest know image
The Winchester Mystery House
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First house visual as Taylor ascends
The story I am about to share has many iterations - some are factual, some are embellished, some are entirely fabricated. The recurring theme is that Sallie is presented as a Mad Woman, a savant, or just a woman ahead of her time in every iteration.
As the story goes, Sallie was haunted by the tragedy her life had presented her with – a dead baby, an inability to have more children, and many familial deaths clustered together. After meeting with a Spiritualist, Sallie believed that she was cursed, hunted and haunted by the ghosts of those who had been murdered at the hands of Winchester legacy – the Winchester rifle, the gun that won the west. The Spiritualist (Adam Coons) informed Sallie that she needed to construct a house for the ghosts and that it must never be completed.
By 1895, locals had begun to discuss the strange woman who was building a home that seemingly never seemed to cease construction. Rumours started that she believed she would die if she ceased construction on the home. Organ music could be heard late at night. There were rumours that she had parties for spirits with gold serving wear and that she used the bell tower to summon the spirits. While the rumours abounded, there were instances of her those close to her refuting them, saying that Sallie was a very sensible and stable woman – she played the organ when she had insomnia, the belltower was used for workers, and there was never any gold serving wear.
The Winchester Mystery House is constructed of doors that go to nowhere, staircases that lead to nothing or end at a ceiling, doors that open to a deadly drop off, windows that go to nothing, trap doors in the floor, very shallow stairs, etc. These were rumoured to be traps for spirits, so they’d become confused and trapped, thus unable to haunt Sallie and her family. The counter to this is that the windows once went somewhere, but that they were closed off when the house was extended, that the shallow stairs were for Sallie’s declining health, etc. Was she a Mad Woman or an independent woman at a time when women weren’t allowed to be?
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The Winchester 13
The Winchester Mystery House is known for the number 13 – 13 bedrooms, 13 bathrooms, 13 windows in certain rooms, etc. However, according to their website, most of these 13 related features were added after Sallie’s death. That said, the home is still deeply associated with the number 13.
Links to Taylor
What does all of this have to do with Taylor? I’m not entirely sure! But, I think there is a connection to her because of the imagery and the links to Mad Women, being trapped in houses with spirits haunting you, becoming a myth and a legend while still being alive and misunderstood. The name Sarah also stands out to me
Sarah was called Sallie, so it’s almost like an alter ego that you’ve forsaken, but will always be remembered as, is looking over your shoulder for the duration of your life and into the afterlife. ”Sarahs and Hannahs
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By the end of the visuals, the house has expanded significantly...similar to the Winchester Mansion
WAOLOM Imagery
I think there is something about the tour imagery where we zoom into the attic window (attics of our mind) and into the silhouette, only to emerge in what feels like that person’s mind/inner world
and then we are pulled out even further to see Taylor in all of her feminine rage (the musical). If she is a spirit trapped inside of the house of her mind, then is what we are seeing the manifestation of her inner thoughts/fears/desires or is the woman in the attic the authentic self that has been locked away and what we are seeing on stage at the Eras tour is the performative self that was forced to lock away the authentic self because she’s an unaccepted Mad Woman?
https://reddit.com/link/1cr9du9/video/pelho5wl490d1/player
https://reddit.com/link/1cr9du9/video/puf1rye24a0d1/player
Taking these thoughts further, the WAOLOM imagery we see progresses even further and encompasses The Little Mermaid. It’s simultaneously showing us that one version of Taylor is The Little Mermaid and one version of Taylor is The Sea Witch – she is both victim and villain, hero and anti-hero. Taylor has both given up her voice and is also wielding it with ferocious power and magic.
https://reddit.com/link/1cr9du9/video/58tkllek3a0d1/player
I don’t know the show Supernatural well enough to make significant connections to this, but I do find worthy of note:
  1. The entire trend of “Bi-Wife Energy” comes from the Supernatural fandom. It was about the actor who plays Castile, an Angel. The cute little song that went viral was created by a queer creator from that fandom.
  2. Dean and Castile were most likely gay and in love with one another, but were never allowed to be together because of how conservative the network (The CW) was. The actors have acknowledged this in retrospect.
  3. Sam and Dean Winchester

LWYMMD Music Video
This is not the first time we have seen a Winchester Mystery House style of mansion. It is possible the WAOLOM imagery is a continuation of that story, in some way. A house full of spirits with the owner being a summoner? Taylor rising up?
https://preview.redd.it/k4z8cvah6a0d1.jpg?width=1921&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=36b54872ce3587f1de718d4341219347b5a7a466
Flowers in the Attic
It would also be remise to not mention the similarity of the figure and the house to the cover of Flowers in the Attic. I'm not sure what that means, although I lean towards the New Romantics/Mass Movement theory.
Book and movie covers
I hope this was entertaining and a somewhat worthwhile contribution to our little fandom!
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2024.05.13 21:44 Best765 [28/M] Server/Bartender looking for other tortured souls to banter with!

Happy Monday to all!
Not gonna make this super long, as my attention span is that of a squirrel's, and I wanna get into the nitty gritty.
Been in the food industry for 10~ years and would love to chat with people that have seen it all. Worked the shitty events that no one wants to do, met the crusty ass customers that are entitled af, and the ones that actually give a shit about their job.
Note, I'm happy for anyone to reach out, as being a part of my job, I enjoy talking to just about anyone that's respectful and mature.
Hobbies - Videogames, Concerts, Music, Music, Music, Kayaking, Rock climbing, Pinball, Poetry, painting figurines like 40k
Pros - Hippie at heart and mental health positive, lover of cats, goofball, bilingual (spanish is my first language, as I'm from Chile đŸ‡šđŸ‡±), can hold my own in a mosh pit.
Cons- Metalhead, loud, spontaneous, impatient, hopeless romantic, dad jokes/puns, asks too many questions.
Happy to chat on Discord if possible, but here is ok too. Just looking to expand my horizons and meet the wonderful people around the world.
Ciao! ✌
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2024.05.13 21:33 Thick-Grab-8821 25 [M4F] #Germany - Non Native seeking easy lay; Cuddling & more?

I’m sort of caught in the gears of academic life, university is no joke, I tell you (sigh). Alongside my studies, I’m on personal quest too
 trying to piece myself together, to heal and grow. It’s a little like wandering through a maze, gets quite lonely at times but hey, it’s all part of the journey (or so they tell me).
About me:
I’m a man of contrasts. I have a romantic soul, with a twist.
You might be curious about what exactly I mean. Imagine I'm returning home from a tough day at work, and you're there to let me unload all of that tension, whether by simply getting on your knees and giving a passionate... (readacted but ask if you're curious) ;) I’m interested in taking c*ntrol, but I also enjoy the idea of cooking you your favorite meal and taking you up as my passenger princess or simply cuddling as we binge our favorite tv show. This represents the fusion between the heartfelt romantic and the masculine side (with a playful streak) that is me.
Interests? I’ve got 'em:
Here’s what you get:
I'll stop now, if your heart did that weird little leap while reading this, maybe we’re on the same wavelength.
If you’re down for a bond where we can cheer each other on through life’s weirdness.. with the occasional detour into cuddle town, then hit me up. Let’s keep it light, but let’s also make it matter, you know?
We might not have all the answers to life’s big questions, but maybe we’ll figure out a few together.
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2024.05.13 21:11 Legal_Law_9541 How to Date Above Your League

I can't commit to an AMA, but I thought this would help others. Don't mean to boast/flex as you'll see from my description below:
Why you might want to listen to me:
I'm just a hair short of 5'4", a school teacher who was broke as in had less than <$1K USD in savings and $50K in debt in my mid-thirties, small dick, no muscles, no game, can't sing or dance, & a jungle Asian (think Cambodian, Filipino, Burmese). The latter is meant to point out it's not the Korean trend that's driving this.
My girl is 5'6"—5'7", 10+ years younger than me, slim, blue-eyed blonde from one of the wealthiest Western European countries with a C/D chest, long legs that go above my stomach, a nice, shapely ass, and perfect hourglass waist/hips. Face-wise, imagine Nicole Kidman and Taylor Swift had a baby. To top it all off, she has a fancy job and makes much more than me, and her family is wealthy, while I grew up on food stamps and attended a low-income school.
My Advice:
The bad news is that I attribute getting her to luck, but here are some things I did right:
  1. This sounds counter-intuitive but pursue only physical 8s and higher. The most attractive women are less impervious to the social stigma of dating a guy who looks like me; they know they can pretty much get any type of guy they want; they don't need the social validation of an attractive man because they get the validation every day. In contrast, a guy like me will only remind an average woman of her plainness.
  2. Geographic arbitrage. Yes, passport bros get a bad rep, but you can be a passport bro to another wealthy country (I'm US-based, so I'm using the US as a baseline). It doesn't have to be Eastern Europe, Southeast Asia, or LatAm.
I would avoid the Anglo countries and focus on women from more egalitarian countries or ones that aren't as hung up on status and prestige (so avoid the big capitals or any city that's sexy).
If you're in the US, NYC, Boston, or SF are big no-nos. In a place like Boston, where you went to school matters so unless you've got the Ivy pedigree, I would skip.
  1. Related to geography is to consider women from smaller towns/villages. They'll tend to be more down-to-earth, and you might be more of a novelty.
  2. You'll be rejected most of the time, so you need to keep at it and not become resentful, bitter, or angry. The negative emotions will surface in your future interactions with women.
Keep approaching because you won't match with most women, even if you get along.
  1. The most important trait I think I had (and I only acquired this in my early 30s) was being comfortable with myself/not caring what others thought. I don't like the word "confidence" because it's too vague. This means not trying to be someone you're not, not trying to show off. Don't mention your job or educational pedigree unless it comes up naturally and definitely not as a way to convey your value.
I conveyed my "value" by making quips, observations, and stories about mundane conversation topics that made her laugh. I asked lots of questions that invited her to delve into what she really thought about various topics and asked for her advice/opinion to get her to open up, feel comfortable, and show that I consider her a peer even with our age gap.
You're doing it right if she's doing most of the talking. Don't mansplain, talk at her, or lecture.
As luck would have it, I quoted from a book that she happened to like. Don't try to force something witty you have in your head. Let your conversation flow naturally.
Don't be self-deprecating in the beginning. If you're short or overweight, don't bring it up. You can joke about that later.
Don't shit-talk others; people who shit on strangers who aren't hurting them are insecure/projecting something rotten about themselves.
  1. Talk to and compliment (sincerely) strangers (cash registers are the best) whether it's someone you're romantically interested in or not. This will sharpen your conversation skills. Talk to other men just to shoot the shit. This will put you in a good frame of mind/mood.
  2. Aim for coffee dates rather than dinner, or if the latter, you will be the one to cut the evening short. Have the mentality that you have enough to talk about that it can wait until the next date.
Hope y'all find some of these helpful.
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2024.05.13 20:07 Best765 28M - Server/Bartender looking for other tortured souls to banter with!

Happy Monday to all!
Not gonna make this super long, as my attention span is that of a squirrel's, and I wanna get into the nitty gritty.
Been in the food industry for 10~ years and would love to chat with people that have seen it all. Worked the shitty events that no one wants to do, met the crusty ass customers that are entitled af, and the ones that actually give a shit about their job.
Note, I'm happy for anyone to reach out, as being a part of my job, I enjoy talking to just about anyone that's respectful and mature.
Hobbies - Videogames, Concerts, Music, Music, Music, Kayaking, Rock climbing, Pinball, Poetry, painting figurines like 40k
Pros - Hippie at heart and mental health positive, lover of cats, goofball, bilingual (spanish is my first language, as I'm from Chile đŸ‡šđŸ‡±), can hold my own in a mosh pit.
Cons- Metalhead, loud, spontaneous, impatient, hopeless romantic, dad jokes/puns, asks too many questions.
Happy to chat on Discord if possible, but here is ok too. Just looking to expand my horizons and meet the wonderful people around the world.
Ciao! ✌
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2024.05.13 19:33 Dmpoaod_v2 24 [M4F] Seeking a Genuine Connection with Long-Term Potential!

Hello there!
I'm MichaƂ, but you can call me Mike or M. I'm a 24-year-old guy from Poland dipping his toes into the dating pool here. I'm not hung up on your age, ethnicity, or location, though I lean towards finding someone from Europe to keep the possibility of future meetups open. What matters most to me is that we're both in it for the long haul, whether that's a long-distance relationship or a solid friendship if the romantic spark isn't there.
Here's a snapshot of who I am:
A few tidbits about me:
When emotions get heavy, I turn to books, music, and writing poetry.
So, who am I looking for?
If any of this resonates with you, shoot me a message here on Reddit. I'm also open to swapping pics.
Looking forward to hearing from you! Take care,
-Mike
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2024.05.13 12:15 JG98 Shiv Kumar Batalvi, the most prolific Panjabi poet in modern history.

Shiv Kumar Batalvi, the most prolific Panjabi poet in modern history.
Shiv Kumar Batalvi (July 23 1936 - May 6 1973) was a Panjabi poet, writer, and playwright who left an undeniable mark on Panjabi literature despite his short life. He was born in Bara Pind Lohtian, situated in the Shakargarh Tehsil of Gurdaspur (now Narowal District). His father, Pandit Krishan Gopal Sharma, served as the village tehsildar in the revenue department, while his mother, Shanti Devi, was a homemaker.
From a young age, Shiv displayed a unique personality. He would often vanish for entire days, only to be found lying under trees by the riverbank near the local Mandir outside the village. He was deeply connected to nature. This fascination with the natural world, along with exposure to local renditions of the Hindu epic Ramayana, would later find expression in his poetry's rich imagery.
Batalvi appears to have been captivated by the sights and sounds of his rural surroundings. Wandering minstrel singers, snake charmers, and the like left a lasting impression on him. These elements would later become recurring metaphors in his poetry, imbuing it with a distinctly rural flavor and a deep connection to the Panjabi cultural landscape.
His idyllic childhood in rural Panjab was disrupted by the trauma of Partition in 1947. At the tender age of 11, he was uprooted from his birthplace and relocated with his family to Batala, Gurdaspur district in India. Here, his father continued his work as a patwari, a revenue official.
Following Partition, Shiv received his primary education in Batala. Though a bright student, his education lead him down an unconventional path. He completed his matriculation exams at Panjab University in 1953, showcasing his academic potential. However, his passion for writing and a restless spirit clashed with the confines of formal education. He embarked on a series of college enrollments, seeking an outlet for his creativity.
First, he enrolled in the F.Sc. program at Baring Union Christian College in Batala. However, his artistic temperament soon led him to S.N. College in Qadian, where he joined the Arts program, a better fit for his literary aspirations. Yet, even this program couldn't hold his attention for long, and he left in his second year.
Batalvi's search for the right educational path continued. He enrolled in a school at Baijnath, Himachal Pradesh, to pursue a diploma in Civil Engineering, seeking a more practical skillset. This venture also proved short-lived. Finally, he attempted to continue his studies at Govt. Ripudaman College in Nabha, but eventually left there as well.
Through these educational explorations, it's evident that Batalvi struggled to find a balance between societal expectations and his own artistic calling. Despite the lack of a traditional degree, his literary pursuits during this period flourished. He found his voice within the literary community and began composing and performing his emotionally charged ghazals and songs. These works, characterized by raw talent and deep emotion, captivated audiences and laid the foundation for his future success.
While still at Baijnath, Shiv had a life changing event that would shape the rest of his poetic career. At a fair, he met a young woman named Maina. Deeply affected by her, he later sought her out in her hometown, only to be met with the tragic news of her death. This profound loss inspired his elegy "Maina" and became a recurring theme in his work. The experience of separation and grief would fuel many of his future poems.
The 1950s saw Batalvi fully immerse himself in the world of poetry. He honed his craft, experimenting with different styles and gaining recognition for his romantic verses. By the 1960s, he had become a rising star. His magnum opus, the epic verse play "Loona" based on the legend of Puran Bhagat, was released in 1965. "Loona" became a masterpiece, establishing a new genre of modern Panjabi kissa (narrative poem). This critical acclaim culminated in 1967 when, at the young age of 31, Batalvi became the youngest recipient of the prestigious Sahitya Akademi Award.
While Shiv Kumar Batalvi's poetry wasn't just about heartbreak, it was a prominent theme. One of his most celebrated poems, "Main ik shikra yaar banaya" ("I made a hawk, my beloved"), was inspired by his unrequited love for the daughter of writer Gurbaksh Singh Preetlari. This young woman Panjab and married someone else. The poem's creation was sparked by the bittersweet news of her first child's birth. Interestingly, when asked if another poem would follow her second child's birth, Batalvi displayed his wit: "Have I become responsible for her? Am I to write a poem on her every time she gives birth to a child?" This anecdote highlights his artistic independence.
Batalvi's talent transcended language barriers. "Main ik shikra yaar banaya" is a Panjabi masterpiece, but its translations retain their beauty. Legendary singers like Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan and Jagjit Singh were drawn to his work, bringing his poetry to life through song.
Despite the themes of separation and longing in his poems, Batalvi found personal happiness. He married Aruna, a woman from Kiri Mangyal, Gurdaspur, in 1967. Shortly after his marriage, in 1968, Shiv relocated to Chandigarh where he began working as a professional for the State Bank of India. The couple would go onto have two children, named Meharban (1968) and Puja (1969).
Eager for a break from his routine life in Chandigarh, Batalvi eagerly accepted an invitation to visit England in May 1972. Upon arrival, he was met with celebrity status within the Panjabi community. Local Indian newspapers announced his visit with fanfare, and a series of public functions and private parties were organized in his honor.
Dr. Gupal Puri hosted the first major event in Coventry, attracting fans, fellow Panjabi poets, and even renowned artist S. Sobha Singh who traveled specifically to see Batalvi. The BBC even interviewed him during his stay.
While these events provided opportunities for the Panjabi community to connect with Batalvi, his health unfortunately took a turn for the worse. This trip, highlighted the struggles with alcoholism that had plagued him for some time. Late nights fueled by alcohol at parties and gatherings became a pattern. Despite waking up early and attempting to resume his day with "a couple of sips of Scotch," his habits seemed to exacerbate his existing health issues. This glimpse into his struggles in England foreshadowed the tragic toll his drinking would take on him soon thereafter.
Shiv Kumar Batalvi's return from England in September 1972 marked a turning point. His health had visibly deteriorated, and he became increasingly critical of what he perceived as unfair criticism of his poetry by some writers. Financial troubles added to his woes, and he felt a sense of abandonment from some friends.
Despite attempts to get medical treatment in Chandigarh and Amritsar, his health continued to decline. Unwilling to die in a hospital, he left against medical advice, seeking solace first in his family home in Batala and then in his wife's village, Kiri Mangial. Tragically, Shiv Kumar Batalvi succumbed to his illness, likely liver cirrhosis, in the early hours of May 6, 1973, in Kiri Mangial.
Even after his passing, Shiv Kumar Batalvi's legacy continued to grow. One of his poetry collections, titled "Alvida" (Farewell), was posthumously published in 1974 by Guru Nanak Dev University in Amritsar. His enduring impact is further reflected by the "Shiv Kumar Batalvi Award" for Best Writer, presented annually.
In Batala, the Shiv Kumar Batalvi Auditorium was constructed to commemorate the 75th anniversary of his birth. This world-class facility serves as a lasting tribute to his influence and aims to inspire future generations of Panjabi artists.
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2024.05.13 11:56 Worldly_Mango3695 Embracing the Hottest Trends in Engagement Stage Decorations for 2024

As lovebirds embark on their journey towards marital bliss, the engagement stage marks the inception of their forever tale. Amidst the joyous celebrations, the spotlight inevitably falls on the engagement decoration, setting the stage for unforgettable moments. In 2024, couples are leaning towards innovative and captivating themes to adorn their engagement ceremonies. Let’s delve into the trending themes that are stealing the spotlight this year.
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  1. Enchanted Garden: Transporting guests into a whimsical realm, the enchanted garden theme is flourishing in popularity for engagement stage decoration. Laden with lush foliage, cascading floral arrangements, and twinkling fairy lights, this theme adds an ethereal charm to the ambiance. Couples are opting for botanical backdrops adorned with vibrant blooms, creating a picturesque setting for their special day.
  2. Vintage Glamour: The retro glamour motif emphasizes nostalgia while conveying an aura of timeless elegance. Vintage-inspired props, beautiful chandeliers, and antique furniture create the tone for a romantic evening. Soft pastel colors, elegant lace details, and cascading drapes ooze old-world elegance, giving the engagement stage a touch of sophistication and grace.
  3. Bohemian Chic: The bohemian chic motif, which embraces free-spirited sentiments and eclectic charm, has captured hearts with its relaxed allure. Macramé backdrops, rattan chairs, and dreamy tapestries create a casual yet sophisticated atmosphere. Earthy tones, beautiful florals, and whimsical embellishments lend a sense of bohemian charm, enabling guests to immerse themselves in the carefree mood.
  4. Modern Minimalism: Less is indeed more with the modern minimalism theme, where sleek sophistication meets understated elegance. Clean lines, geometric accents, and monochromatic palettes dominate the decor, exuding a contemporary vibe. Engagement decorations feature minimalist backdrops adorned with subtle metallic accents and minimalist floral arrangements, creating a chic and refined setting. Engagement decorators are weaving these themes into captivating narratives, ensuring that every detail reflects the couple's unique love story. From conceptualization to execution, decorators play a pivotal role in bringing the envisioned theme to life, creating enchanting experiences for couples and their guests alike.
  5. Art Deco Extravaganza: Channeling the opulence of the Roaring Twenties, the Art Deco extravaganza theme is making a dazzling comeback in 2024. Glitzy gold accents, geometric patterns, and lavish velvet draperies capture the essence of the Gatsby era. Engaging stage decorations boast sleek black and gold backdrops adorned with cascading crystal chandeliers, exuding luxury and grandeur.
  6. Cultural Fusion: With the world becoming increasingly interconnected, couples are embracing their cultural heritage with pride. Engagement stage decorations are a canvas for celebrating diversity, blending traditional elements with contemporary flair. Whether it's vibrant textiles, intricate patterns, or symbolic motifs, engagement decorators are adept at weaving cultural narratives into the decor, creating an ambiance that resonates with both the couple and their guests.
  7. Tropical Paradise: Embracing the vibrant energy of tropical locales, the tropical paradise theme brings a burst of color and joy to engagement decorations. Lush palm fronds, exotic blooms, and vibrant hues create a tropical oasis, transporting guests to sun-kissed shores. Engagement stage decorations feature bamboo accents, vibrant floral arrangements, and quirky pineapple motifs, infusing the celebration with tropical warmth and cheer.
In conclusion, 2024 is witnessing a kaleidoscope of captivating themes that are redefining engagement decorations. From enchanting garden soirées to glamorous vintage affairs, couples are spoilt for choice when it comes to curating the perfect backdrop for their special day. With the expertise of engagement decorators, these themes are brought to life in all their splendor, ensuring that every engagement celebration is a magical affair to remember.

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2024.05.13 07:16 doctor-gigibanana Unpacking “You know how to ball I know aristotle”

What does she mean when she says she knows Aristotle?
Aristotle writes about the concept of mimesis in his "Poetics," where he discussed its role in poetry and drama.
"Mimesis” is the imitation of reality through art, particularly in poetry. Aristotle believed that people are naturally drawn to imitation and that art imitates life in a way that allows people to understand and engage with the world around them.
From the perspective of Aristotle's concept of mimesis, TSℱ publicly acting out a love affair through media, and then writing and releasing songs about that relationship would indeed be found more engaging by her fan base.
By portraying relationships as genuine through media, she engages her fans in a story that they can relate to and emotionally invest in. That’s her whole game.
It’s also important that his “baller” status be juxtaposed here, as this performance mimics the most basic societal norms and expectations related to gender and sexuality. They are the head cheerleader and the football player. American Pie. The popular kids in high school.
Aristotle believed that art, including music, should evoke emotions in its audience. By writing songs about this performed relationship, TSℱ creates an emotional connection with her fans, who may believe they understand the inspiration behind the lyrics and relate to the feelings expressed in the music.
Through an imitation of a romantic relationship and the emotional engagement it generates, TSℱ gives her fans a form of catharsis. They can vicariously experience the ups and downs of the relationship, feeling a sense of release or connection through the shared emotional experience.
TSℱ’s use of mimesis is not just entertaining (“are you not entertained?” she jokes in the Time article) but it also allows her audience to participate in and contribute to the narrative, enhancing their engagement with her music. They’re in on the inside jokes, “do that impression you did of your dad again” and even the intimate sexual innuendo “it’s true, swear, scout’s honor” and “touch me while your friends play grand theft auto.”
Taylor added the TTPD set to the tour and refers to it as “female rage, the musical”, and in doing so intentionally frames it as a “play within a play”.
The idea of mimesis takes on a layered and metafictional quality here. Especially when multiple characters in the play are present. “Cause I love the “players”, and you love the game” ::blows kiss::
(Like theater players)
In a play within a play, characters on the stage are often portrayed as performing another play or some form of theatrical performance. This creates a situation where the audience is witnessing a representation of a representation, adding depth and complexity to the imitation of reality.
By incorporating a play within a play, Taylor invites the audience to reflect on the artifice of the theater itself. The characters within the primary play become actors performing roles, (I’m an actor!, she seems to be screaming) blurring the line between fiction and reality and prompting viewers to question the nature of the whole performance.
With all the references to Taylor’s real life reactions at chief games along with the Travis Kelce touchdown dance in the choreography
we are getting pretty meta here.
The play within a play often mirrors or comments on the themes and motifs of the overarching narrative. This doubling of narratives allows for deeper exploration of ideas and emotions, as well as opportunities for irony and SATIRE.
This is demonstrated beautifully in the Dead Poet’s Society the movie, and a Midsummer Night’s dream as the play within. This connection further demonstrates Taylor’s purpose for referencing the film, which seems to be in poetic conversation with the album. A film that not only educates its viewers on how to read poetry for its subtext and deeper meaning, but also shines brighter when viewed through its queer subtext.
Just as with mimesis in general, the inclusion of a play within a play engages the audience in a more participatory manner. Viewers become aware of their role as spectators witnessing a performance. The crowd was chanting more!”, feels weird to sing along, what with her being “miserable and no body even knows!” This discomfort is intentional to cause heightened awareness and potentially deeper intellectual engagement. This is also reflected (oop) in the mirrored podium she glides across on stage in which the audience is forced to look at themselves and confront their own awareness and engagement with her work. A mirrorball that will “show you every version of yourself” and so forth.
Aristotle's "Metaphysics" explores fundamental questions about reality and existence. He goes into concepts like causality (see: “none of it was accidental”), and potentiality. The spectacle of the relationship challenges us to question if it’s real (and that is the point).
Potentiality is closely linked to the concept of change and causality in Aristotle's metaphysics. (Think: Alchemy). He argues that things in the world undergo change as they move from potentiality to actuality.
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2024.05.12 23:17 omegaMKXIII 31 [M4F] Austria/Europe - Looking for my forever lady

I am looking for a lady between 25 and 35 years old, for a committed monogamous childfree relationship. My goal is to become a true team, supporting each other, caring for each other, nurturing each other and helping each other grow and realise our goals and dreams as much as possible. I'm hoping to find someone that values a relationship as much as I do and takes it seriously. It's not the only thing my life revolves around, but it's also not just something 'nice to have' for me.
I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner, training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with an avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or at a football game and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I'm looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus, emotional and intimate compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals and ideally, you do too.
Apparently in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well.
Second, intimate compatibility. I am rather insatiable and love to experiment when it comes to the bedroom, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, this kind of fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. I found the term 'filthy best friends and partners' to be a perfect description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know ‘self-sufficiency’ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, we’re partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each other’s happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each other’s wellbeing a priority. If you’re not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while you’re having a hard time, look elsewhere. If I have to be afraid you’ll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if it’s a ‘you’-problem, it’s not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless – it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
I’d prefer to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that there’s a need to rush anything, but I’d rather see earlier if we’re compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself.
Caveats
If you're interested, feel free to message me and include some pictures of yourself and I will reply with my own. Have a nice day (:
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2024.05.12 23:05 RegularAggravating14 How do I get over him if i work with him and we are trying to be friends?

I (F20) told my guy best friend (M21) of 3 years, who I work with, that I had feelings for him at the beginning of summer 2023. He reciprocated, and we began seeing each other casually since I would be moving away for a short internship for 4 months after summer (Sep-Dec), but it was very romantic. No one at work knew. Two weeks into it, his grandpa passed away, and I was there for him throughout everything. We spent a great rest of the summer together, and he even cried when I was leaving. We decided we were going to reevaluate when I came back and established that neither of us had any intentions of seeing anyone else.
When I left, he got distant and a little cold since he has unresolved abandonment issues from his ex-girlfriend (they dated for 2 years and broke up in January of 2022). I am, unfortunately, a pushover and coward, and since we were never "official" or anything, I never really brought it up. In hindsight, this was a bad idea, of course. Whenever I visited home, everything was ok and we hooked up but were very lovey dovey as well. When I'd go back, things would get weird again. Now, he was definitely going through a lot mentally and I tried to be there for him as much as I could and put my own well being aside when he gave me even a sliver of attention (pathetic I know).
Fast forward to me coming home. I began working at my job again and we saw each other and I tried addressing everything but froze up. I got out a few crucial parts but not everything and we both decided we wanted a clean slate. He told me he is just not in a good spot mentally but that he wants to keep seeing me, not just sexually. Since we were both on winter break for a month or two, we saw each other more often and worked together all the time. Things were ok for a while but then went downhill again. On valentines day, we had a bit of a fight and he apologized for the way he was acting, saying he's not ok mentally. I gave him an out and I asked him straight up "do you wanna stop seeing each other" and he said no not at all but that when we see each other, it ends up with us having sex and thats not good for either of us. This is a sensitive topic for me because of a few past traumas (which he doesnt know about) and since he was the first guy i've ever truly felt sexually comfortable with. Things were confusing for the next month because everything was just odd when I saw him. He wouldn't touch me or do anything he used to, it felt like we were just friends again. This is my fault, but i never addressed it.
In march, I brought it up to him because I was att a breaking point and he said he is not in a good spot mentally (See the trend here?) and that he is just not ok. I reiterated that I am here for him but that he's not the only one going through depression and anxiety, etc. He and I decided to end thigns but it was amicable. He told me i am one of the most important people in his life, that I am his best freind, and that he values our friendship more than anything, that he does not want things to be weird or different between us but that he wnts to go back to the close relationship we used to have. He said he wants to hang out in groups more. I cried and had a bit of a panic attack and he held me and apologized over and over again for his actions.
The next month, I began hanging out with my friends from work a lot, who are also his friends. We started going out drinking and invited him more often. This helped us get close again and i love it, but I cannot get over him and I dont know what to do. we work together all the time and i have to see him but the thought of not seeing him at all makes my stomach turn. I dont know what to do, i am stuck.
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2024.05.12 23:03 RegularAggravating14 How do I get over him if i work with him and we are trying to be friends?

I (F20) told my guy best friend (M21) of 3 years, who I work with, that I had feelings for him at the beginning of summer 2023. He reciprocated, and we began seeing each other casually since I would be moving away for a short internship for 4 months after summer (Sep-Dec), but it was very romantic. No one at work knew. Two weeks into it, his grandpa passed away, and I was there for him throughout everything. We spent a great rest of the summer together, and he even cried when I was leaving. We decided we were going to reevaluate when I came back and established that neither of us had any intentions of seeing anyone else.
When I left, he got distant and a little cold since he has unresolved abandonment issues from his ex-girlfriend (they dated for 2 years and broke up in January of 2022). I am, unfortunately, a pushover and coward, and since we were never "official" or anything, I never really brought it up. In hindsight, this was a bad idea, of course. Whenever I visited home, everything was ok and we hooked up but were very lovey dovey as well. When I'd go back, things would get weird again. Now, he was definitely going through a lot mentally and I tried to be there for him as much as I could and put my own well being aside when he gave me even a sliver of attention (pathetic I know).
Fast forward to me coming home. I began working at my job again and we saw each other and I tried addressing everything but froze up. I got out a few crucial parts but not everything and we both decided we wanted a clean slate. He told me he is just not in a good spot mentally but that he wants to keep seeing me, not just sexually. Since we were both on winter break for a month or two, we saw each other more often and worked together all the time. Things were ok for a while but then went downhill again. On valentines day, we had a bit of a fight and he apologized for the way he was acting, saying he's not ok mentally. I gave him an out and I asked him straight up "do you wanna stop seeing each other" and he said no not at all but that when we see each other, it ends up with us having sex and thats not good for either of us. This is a sensitive topic for me because of a few past traumas (which he doesnt know about) and since he was the first guy i've ever truly felt sexually comfortable with. Things were confusing for the next month because everything was just odd when I saw him. He wouldn't touch me or do anything he used to, it felt like we were just friends again. This is my fault, but i never addressed it.
In march, I brought it up to him because I was att a breaking point and he said he is not in a good spot mentally (See the trend here?) and that he is just not ok. I reiterated that I am here for him but that he's not the only one going through depression and anxiety, etc. He and I decided to end thigns but it was amicable. He told me i am one of the most important people in his life, that I am his best freind, and that he values our friendship more than anything, that he does not want things to be weird or different between us but that he wnts to go back to the close relationship we used to have. He said he wants to hang out in groups more. I cried and had a bit of a panic attack and he held me and apologized over and over again for his actions.
The next month, I began hanging out with my friends from work a lot, who are also his friends. We started going out drinking and invited him more often. This helped us get close again and i love it, but I cannot get over him and I dont know what to do. we work together all the time and i have to see him but the thought of not seeing him at all makes my stomach turn. I dont know what to do, i am stuck.
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2024.05.12 21:26 False_Collection_631 22 [M4F] Italian Korean #Fin Iong distance - here everyday, let's be here for each other and see where it goes.

I am Italiasian living in Finland where I mostly grew up. Seeking something that may become flirty or romantic, friends but more. Any type, cis or trans.. Any age 18 up, my age or even older, no limit.
I work a few days a week most of the time but I can text at work. I enjoy dancing and yoga and baking and shopping, I love a night in at home eating treats or trying wine or tea but also love a night out at clubs or dancing or concert. Love a lot of things, tennis, comedy and poetry, creepy stuff too even tho I get scared easily haha
Let's be here for the good and the bad. I'm here for anything you are going through. I am very affectionate and I love to flirt a bit when I'm close to someone.
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2024.05.12 21:20 False_Collection_631 22 [M4F] Italian Korean #Fin Iong distance - here everyday, let's be friends and see where it goes.

I am Italiasian living in Finland where I mostly grew up. Seeking something that may become flirty or romantic, friends but more. Any type, cis or trans.. Any age 18 up, my age or even older, no limit.
I work a few days a week most of the time but I can text at work. I enjoy dancing and yoga and baking and shopping, I love a night in at home eating treats or trying wine or tea but also love a night out at clubs or dancing or concert. Love a lot of things, tennis, comedy and poetry, creepy stuff too even tho I get scared easily haha
Let's be here for the good and the bad. I'm here for anything you are going through. I am very affectionate and I love to flirt a bit when I'm close to someone.
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2024.05.12 17:00 Paramallas 10 Must-Have Summer Dresses: Affordable Fashion Finds

10 Must-Have Summer Dresses: Affordable Fashion Finds
As the sun-soaked days of summer arrive, it’s time to update your wardrobe with the perfect pieces to embrace the warm weather in style. This article will showcase 10 must-have summer dresses that offer affordable, stylish, and versatile options for your warm-weather wardrobe. We’ll explore the latest summer fashion trends, from breezy maxi dresses and vibrant floral prints to flirty off-shoulder styles and casual sundresses. By highlighting budget-friendly brands and online shopping tips, we’ll help you upgrade your summer style without breaking the bank. Get ready to embrace effortless elegance and feel confident in your summer outfits.
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Embracing Summer Style on a Budget

In the world of fashion, embracing the latest summer fashion trends doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag. As we dive into the warmer months, it’s crucial to understand the importance of affordable fashion and how it can empower you to curate a stylish summer wardrobe that fits your lifestyle and budget.
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Why Affordable Fashion Matters

When it comes to budget-friendly clothing, the benefits extend far beyond just saving money. Affordable fashion allows you to experiment with trends, try new styles, and refresh your wardrobe without the fear of breaking the bank. This approach not only helps you stay on top of the latest sartorial updates but also enables you to develop a personal sense of style that truly reflects your unique preferences.
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The Versatility of Summer Dresses

One of the shining stars of the affordable fashion world is the humble summer dress. These versatile summer dresses can be dressed up or down, making them the perfect canvas for effortless and adaptable summer style. Whether you’re planning a relaxed beach day or a chic summer soirĂ©e, a well-chosen summer dress can seamlessly transition between occasions, ensuring you look and feel your best without breaking the bank.
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Breezy Maxi Dresses for Effortless Elegance

When the summer sun is high and the temperatures soar, nothing captures the essence of effortless elegance quite like a breezy maxi dress. These floor-sweeping beauties are the epitome of comfort and sophistication, making them the perfect choice for a variety of warm-weather outings. Whether you’re strolling along the beach, enjoying an alfresco dinner, or attending a summer social event, maxi dresses offer the perfect balance of coverage and breathability to keep you cool and chic in the summer heat.
Our curated selection of maxi dresses showcases a range of styles that flatter various body types, ensuring you can find the perfect fit to complement your summer fashion trends. From flowing fabrics and vibrant prints to structured silhouettes and neutral hues, these maxi dresses are designed to provide ample coverage while still allowing you to move freely and embrace the effortless elegance of the season. Pair them with sandals for a casual daytime look or dress them up with heels and statement accessories for a night of warm weather sophistication.
Investing in a few versatile maxi dresses can elevate your entire summer wardrobe, allowing you to seamlessly transition from day to night with ease. Embrace the breezy, carefree spirit of the season and let these floor-sweeping wonders be your go-to choice for effortless summer style.
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Key Takeaways

  • Discover 10 must-have summer dresses that combine style and affordability
  • Explore the latest summer fashion trends, from breezy maxi dresses to vibrant floral prints
  • Learn how to upgrade your summer style without emptying your wallet
  • Embrace effortless elegance and feel confident in your warm-weather outfits
  • Uncover budget-friendly brands and online shopping strategies for the perfect summer dresses

Vibrant Floral Prints: A Summer Staple

Floral prints are a quintessential symbol of summer, bringing a touch of vibrant, nature-inspired beauty to your wardrobe. This season, embrace the allure of floral-printed dresses that capture the essence of the warm weather. From delicate, romantic patterns to bold, eye-catching designs, these floral-inspired frocks are a must-have for any summer fashion enthusiast.
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Floral Dress Styling Tips

Mastering the art of floral dress styling is key to elevating your summer fashion game. Whether you’re seeking a casual daytime look or a dressier evening ensemble, floral prints can be seamlessly incorporated. For a laid-back vibe, pair a floral mini dress with espadhz and a denim jacket. To amp up the glamour, opt for a flowing maxi dress in a vibrant floral pattern, accessorized with strappy heels and statement jewelry. The versatility of floral dresses allows you to effortlessly transition from brunch to a rooftop cocktail party
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Floral Patterns for Every Occasion

Embrace the diversity of floral dresses by selecting patterns that cater to various summer occasions. For a garden party or outdoor wedding, a romantic, delicate floral print in soft hues will exude a feminine, elegant aesthetic. Suppose you’re attending a beach-themed event or a casual summer barbecue. In that case, a bold, tropical-inspired floral dress in vibrant colors will perfectly capture the carefree spirit of the season. From breezy sundresses to sophisticated cocktail frocks, there’s a floral-printed dress for every summer soirĂ©e on your calendar.
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10 Must-Have Summer Dresses: Affordable Fashion Finds

In our curated selection of the 10 must-have summer dresses, we’ve scoured the fashion landscape to bring you a lineup of exceptional style and affordability. From budget-friendly brands making waves in the industry to the art of navigating the online shopping experience, this section is your ultimate guide to elevating your warm-weather wardrobe without breaking the bank.
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Online Shopping for Summer Dresses

In the digital age, the convenience of online shopping has revolutionized the way we curate our summer wardrobes. When it comes to finding the perfect 10 must-have summer dresses, navigating the virtual aisles can be a seamless and enjoyable experience. From size guides and fit recommendations to styling advice and accessory pairings, online retailers have made it easier than ever to discover the most stylish and affordable summer dresses.
Before making your purchases, be sure to review size charts, read customer reviews, and take advantage of virtual try-on features. This will help ensure a perfect fit and minimize the hassle of returns. Additionally, explore the online stores’ sizing options, as many brands now offer extended sizes to cater to a diverse range of body types. With a little research and a keen eye for 10 must-have summer dresses, you can find the perfect pieces to elevate your warm-weather wardrobe.
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Off-Shoulder Styles: Flirty and Feminine

The off-the-shoulder trend has been a summer staple in recent years, offering a flirty and feminine touch to any outfit. Whether you’re seeking a casual weekend look or a show-stopping party ensemble, the off-shoulder silhouette is sure to elevate your summer wardrobe.
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Embracing the Off-Shoulder Trend

Off-the-shoulder dresses exude a sense of effortless elegance, accentuating the neckline and shoulders while keeping you cool and comfortable in the summer heat. These flirty and feminine dresses can be dressed up or down, making them a versatile choice for a variety of summer fashion trends. From breezy cotton fabrics to romantic lace details, our selection of off-shoulder styles will have you embracing this alluring trend with confidence.
Accessorizing an off-the-shoulder dress is key to achieving the perfect look. Pair it with delicate jewelry, such as a dainty necklace or chandelier earrings, to draw attention to your exposed collarbones. Complement the flirty and feminine vibe with strappy sandals or espadrilles for a chic, summer-ready ensemble.
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Casual Sundresses for Laid-Back Days

For those laid-back summer days when you want to feel comfortable and effortlessly chic, casual sundresses are the perfect choice. These breezy, comfortable dresses capture the essence of summer, allowing you to embrace the carefree spirit of the season. From vibrant prints to soft, breathable fabrics, our collection of casual sundresses offers a variety of options to suit your personal style and summer fashion needs.
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Dressing Up Casual Sundresses

While casual sundresses are inherently perfect for relaxed, everyday wear, they can also be dressed up for more formal occasions. By accessorizing with the right pieces, you can elevate the look of your casual summer dresses and make them suitable for evening events, summer weddings, or even a night out on the town. Think statement earrings, a denim jacket, or a pair of strappy heels to instantly transform your casual sundress into a polished, fashionable ensemble.
Embrace the versatility of casual sundresses and let your summer style shine through, whether you’re enjoying a leisurely day at the beach or attending a summer soiree. With the right accessories and styling techniques, these effortless dresses can take you from day to night, seamlessly transitioning between casual and dressy occasions.

Beach-Ready: Coverups and Kaftans

No summer wardrobe is complete without the perfect beach coverups and kaftans. These versatile pieces seamlessly transition from the beach to the bar, offering a stylish and practical solution for your warm-weather outfitting needs.
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Beach-to-Bar Versatility

Elevate your beachwear looks with the right coverup or kaftan. These lightweight and flowing garments can easily transform your casual swimsuit into a chic, day-to-night ensemble. Whether you’re strolling along the shore or enjoying a sunset cocktail, these beach-to-bar options provide the perfect balance of comfort and sophistication.
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Swimsuit Cover-Up Inspiration

Explore our curated selection of stylish swimsuit cover-ups, from delicate sarongs to vibrant, printed kaftans. These versatile pieces not only shield you from the sun but also add a touch of effortless elegance to your beachwear look. Pair them with your favorite swimsuit, sandals, and a sun hat for a complete, confident summer style.
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Warm-Weather Wardrobe Essentials

As we conclude our exploration of must-have summer dresses, it’s time to shift our focus to the core pieces that should form the foundation of your warm-weather wardrobe. Embracing the concept of a summer capsule wardrobe can simplify your seasonal style and empower you to create effortless, versatile outfits that seamlessly transition from day to night.
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Building a Summer Capsule Wardrobe

A summer capsule wardrobe is a curated collection of essential items that can be mixed and matched to cultivate a variety of stylish looks. By investing in high-quality, timeless summer staples and complementing them with on-trend accessories, you’ll be able to navigate the warm weather with confidence and ease. From breezy linen pants and crisp white blouses to denim shorts and classic sundresses, these versatile pieces will become the building blocks of your summer style.
Incorporating key warm-weather wardrobe essentials such as lightweight fabrics, breathable materials, and versatile silhouettes will empower you to create a summer capsule wardrobe that caters to your personal aesthetic and the demands of the season. By thoughtfully curating your warm-weather wardrobe, you’ll find that getting dressed becomes a breeze, allowing you to focus on making the most of the long, sun-drenched days ahead.
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FAQ

What are the latest summer fashion trends for dresses?

The must-have summer dress trends include breezy maxi dresses, vibrant floral prints, off-the-shoulder styles, and casual sundresses. These styles offer a perfect balance of comfort and style for the warm weather.

How can I find affordable summer dresses without sacrificing quality?

We recommend exploring budget-friendly brands that offer stylish and well-made summer dresses. Online shopping can also be a great way to find affordable options with a wide range of styles and sizes. Shein is the best option check it out!

What are some tips for styling floral print dresses for different occasions?

Floral dresses can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. For casual daytime looks, pair them with sandals or sneakers. For more formal events, try adding heels and statement accessories to elevate the outfit.

How can I make the most of my summer wardrobe and create versatile outfits?

Building a summer capsule wardrobe with key essentials like versatile dresses, cover-ups, and accessories can help you mix and match pieces to create a variety of outfits for different occasions. Shein is the best option check it out!

What are some of the best beach-to-bar coverup options to have this summer?

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2024.05.12 12:19 omegaMKXIII 31 [M4F] Austria/Europe - Looking for my forever lady

General
I am looking for a lady between 25 and 35 years old, for a committed monogamous childfree relationship. My goal is to become a true team, supporting each other, caring for each other, nurturing each other and helping each other grow and realise our goals and dreams as much as possible. I'm hoping to find someone that values a relationship as much as I do and takes it seriously. It's not the only thing my life revolves around, but it's also not just something 'nice to have' for me.
Basics
I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner (ranging from 5k to full marathon), training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with a fearful avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or in the stadium watching football and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I'm looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus (and there have to be at least a couple things we have in common), emotional and intimate compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals (some of which in quite a litteral sense as they make for really amazing pillows) and ideally, you do too.
There is a saying that in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly, like I said, need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well – this just to put the picture I'm (somewhat haphazardly) trying to paint into perspective.
Second, intimate compatibility. I am rather insatiable, curious and love to experiment when it comes to the bedroom, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, this kind of fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. Someone on here has coined the term 'filthy best friends and partners' which I have no shame to be stealing because it's such an apt description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know ‘self-sufficiency’ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, we’re partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each other’s happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each other’s wellbeing a priority. I love the relationship model outlined in Stan Tatkin’s ‘Wired for Love’ and you should, too. If you’re not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while you’re having a hard time, look elsewhere. I know codependency is the latest thing everyone’s afraid of, but experiencing someone you’ve grown very attached to just bailing because they’re counterdependent and can’t stand working on themselves while simultaneously letting you in is something I’d rather not go through again. If I have to be afraid you’ll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if it’s a ‘you’-problem, it’s not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere. If you think’s it’s okay to lovebomb someone and then leave after a couple of months with the minimum amount of information and no proper conversation because you’re not ready to own up to what’s happening to you emotionally, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless – it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, be opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: many childfree people seem to be adventurous, but that is a trait I don't associate with myself at all. I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, seeing them change around us, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side (albeit not regarding height), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
The natural progression for me would be to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that there’s a need to rush anything, but having my heart broken because I already developed feelings due to a longer timeframe and then everything unexpectedly turning to shit is not something I want to have to live through again. I’d rather see earlier if we’re compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself, I unfortunately had to learn that.
Caveats/Possible red flags
If you're interested, feel free to message me and include some pictures of yourself and I will reply with my own. Have a nice day (:
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