Ballet activities for preschool
Preschoolers unite!
2011.12.04 16:22 rtucker913 Preschoolers unite!
Place to discuss preschool activities, stories, questions, and vent.
2024.05.16 15:42 Small-Road-1776 Hello! I need help in typing myself.
• How old are you? What's your gender? Give us a general description of yourself.
I'm 17 years old about to be 18 this year. I'm a female, about to enter college in a few months but still unsure of the path I want to take. I don have a lot of hobbies a side from reading and dancing.
• Is there a medical diagnosis that may impact your mental stability somehow?
I was diagnosed with GAD. These past month I have been having a lot of panics attacks and now, depression. One of the effects of how I cope with depression is Maladative daydreaming.
• Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?
I grew up in a well-off household, but was taken care of by a caretaker instead of my parents. I never took my parents as religious nor did I felt our household was religious. I remember my grandmother praying every night with the rosary but she's not very imposive of religious practices. That's why I was at awe when I told my mother I don't really belive there's a god and she got really angry at me. I'm agnostic now, I don't really care if there's a god or not, I have more important things to focus on than that.
• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
I'm currently in my final year of high school (or in my country, SHS). I'm thinking of getting in the field of biomedical engineering. I've always knew I wanted to be in the field of medicine, but I have realized that I was not meant for the "service" part of it, rather more of the research and how to apply biology in medicine.
• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
I would feel refreshed. Maybe, a bit used to it? Though, there would probably be points where I feel lonely or scared, but then I'll realize that I enjoy more being alone when people are constantly around me. Especially, when I'm focusing on something.
• What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I'm not very good at sports, the only sport I play was golf and I was okay at it. I definitely enjoy indoor activities for the most part, but I do love eating outside and exploring new restaurants.
• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I feel like in a horror movie, once you leave me alone and I hear a sound, I'll definitely check it lol.
I think I like bringing my ideas to life. In a practical sense of having an idea to go somewhere to having a crazy idea on "what will happen if I do this and this?", and you'll definitely see me do it.
Well, my ideas ranges to anything that I find interesting really. I do have a huge interest biology and most specifically, medical biology and health physics.
• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I avoid leadership as much as possible, or all the time basically. Even though I probably should lead the group I usually just stay quiet and support the one leading the group if they need help.
I don't think I would be good at it, I'm not a decisive person at all, and on top of that I get easily anxious and think that I'm doing is wrong. Unless, I'm very confident of my ideas.
• Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
I'm very clumsy, and I often feel a bit detached from what is happening around me. I do enjoy working with my hands, currently, I'm making an arts and craft object for my friend for her upcoming graduation and a gift. And I just feel at peace I guess when at some point I'm doing the same thing over and over again and I can space out for a bit.
• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
That's the one thing I am absolutely sure I am not. I do enjoy theater and music. I grew up with the influence of ballet when I was younger and everyone's dream around me is to be in theater. I guess, being surrounded by those influence and made me appreciate the little technicalities I see in those shows.
• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
My past is a mess, present is fine, and future is scary.
I always deeply regret that I could have done something more in the past, but present me is surviving and I consider that as fine. On the subject of the future, I'm scared of it, I'm scared of failing.
• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I'll definitely help them ASAP, I feel a bit responsible as someone they confided in for help.
• Do you need logical consistency in your life?
I'd say, I definitely do.
• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
I do get satisfaction when something is done. Efficiency is of course very important for me, especially, in the things I need to do. Productivity is something that I feel good about, but there are days where I don't mind that it's not there.
• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
At some point, yes? I feel like I do control them in a sense if that something affects me and if I don't want to do something or for them do to something, I do meddle in.
• What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
Reading, it feels like an escape from everything that's going on around me. While dancing is the same thing although more frustrating.
• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
I struggle the most with creativity, I feel like aside from I'm not a creative person, I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I do like logic and the application of it's theories, and memorization too.
• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
I'd say I'm okay at it? Not an expert at it. I like to do things as I go. So, if I feel like this is a task I should do, everything else follows.
• What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
To finish my degree, get a scholarship from an another country for my masters, work in a lab, and make a good living.
• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
I hate the dark, I hate what's in them. I'm also scared to fail, I don't want other people to pity me.
• What do the "highs" in your life look like?
Doing well academically, socially active, organized, and contented.
• What do the "lows" in your life look like?
Escaping reality, trying to off myself, and withdrawing from everyone.
• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
When I daydream often, for me, it's a sign that things aren't doing well mentally. I try not to pay attention to the people around me, almost like it's intentional that I do that.
• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
What will happen to me in this room? And I need to figure out why I am here.
• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
I am an indecisive person, but I do often change my mind on something if the other decisions start making sense for me.
• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
It does take a while, I usually brush my feelings until I realize that it's on it's final leg. I do think emotion is needed, but too much is a burden.
• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
It really depends on the topic. If it's just a non-serious or trivial topics, I just nod and don't bother replying at all to them, but if it's a serious one, I try to set my opinions and facts straight.
• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why?
At some point you're going to break rules in an institution. I don't actively or seek to break rules, but if the time comes and it's for the better, I will. Also, if the rules don't make sense, I don't even even try to follow it. I think authority should be challenged if there are people suffering or having a hard time under those rules.
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I'm 17 years old about to be 18 this year. I'm a female, about to enter college in a few months but still unsure of the path I want to take. I don have a lot of hobbies a side from reading and dancing.
• Is there a medical diagnosis that may impact your mental stability somehow?
I was diagnosed with GAD. These past month I have been having a lot of panics attacks and now, depression. One of the effects of how I cope with depression is Maladative daydreaming.
• Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?
I grew up in a well-off household, but was taken care of by a caretaker instead of my parents. I never took my parents as religious nor did I felt our household was religious. I remember my grandmother praying every night with the rosary but she's not very imposive of religious practices. That's why I was at awe when I told my mother I don't really belive there's a god and she got really angry at me. I'm agnostic now, I don't really care if there's a god or not, I have more important things to focus on than that.
• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?
I'm currently in my final year of high school (or in my country, SHS). I'm thinking of getting in the field of biomedical engineering. I've always knew I wanted to be in the field of medicine, but I have realized that I was not meant for the "service" part of it, rather more of the research and how to apply biology in medicine.
• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
I would feel refreshed. Maybe, a bit used to it? Though, there would probably be points where I feel lonely or scared, but then I'll realize that I enjoy more being alone when people are constantly around me. Especially, when I'm focusing on something.
• What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I'm not very good at sports, the only sport I play was golf and I was okay at it. I definitely enjoy indoor activities for the most part, but I do love eating outside and exploring new restaurants.
• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I feel like in a horror movie, once you leave me alone and I hear a sound, I'll definitely check it lol.
I think I like bringing my ideas to life. In a practical sense of having an idea to go somewhere to having a crazy idea on "what will happen if I do this and this?", and you'll definitely see me do it.
Well, my ideas ranges to anything that I find interesting really. I do have a huge interest biology and most specifically, medical biology and health physics.
• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I avoid leadership as much as possible, or all the time basically. Even though I probably should lead the group I usually just stay quiet and support the one leading the group if they need help.
I don't think I would be good at it, I'm not a decisive person at all, and on top of that I get easily anxious and think that I'm doing is wrong. Unless, I'm very confident of my ideas.
• Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
I'm very clumsy, and I often feel a bit detached from what is happening around me. I do enjoy working with my hands, currently, I'm making an arts and craft object for my friend for her upcoming graduation and a gift. And I just feel at peace I guess when at some point I'm doing the same thing over and over again and I can space out for a bit.
• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
That's the one thing I am absolutely sure I am not. I do enjoy theater and music. I grew up with the influence of ballet when I was younger and everyone's dream around me is to be in theater. I guess, being surrounded by those influence and made me appreciate the little technicalities I see in those shows.
• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
My past is a mess, present is fine, and future is scary.
I always deeply regret that I could have done something more in the past, but present me is surviving and I consider that as fine. On the subject of the future, I'm scared of it, I'm scared of failing.
• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
I'll definitely help them ASAP, I feel a bit responsible as someone they confided in for help.
• Do you need logical consistency in your life?
I'd say, I definitely do.
• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
I do get satisfaction when something is done. Efficiency is of course very important for me, especially, in the things I need to do. Productivity is something that I feel good about, but there are days where I don't mind that it's not there.
• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
At some point, yes? I feel like I do control them in a sense if that something affects me and if I don't want to do something or for them do to something, I do meddle in.
• What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
Reading, it feels like an escape from everything that's going on around me. While dancing is the same thing although more frustrating.
• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
I struggle the most with creativity, I feel like aside from I'm not a creative person, I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I do like logic and the application of it's theories, and memorization too.
• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
I'd say I'm okay at it? Not an expert at it. I like to do things as I go. So, if I feel like this is a task I should do, everything else follows.
• What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
To finish my degree, get a scholarship from an another country for my masters, work in a lab, and make a good living.
• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
I hate the dark, I hate what's in them. I'm also scared to fail, I don't want other people to pity me.
• What do the "highs" in your life look like?
Doing well academically, socially active, organized, and contented.
• What do the "lows" in your life look like?
Escaping reality, trying to off myself, and withdrawing from everyone.
• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
When I daydream often, for me, it's a sign that things aren't doing well mentally. I try not to pay attention to the people around me, almost like it's intentional that I do that.
• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
What will happen to me in this room? And I need to figure out why I am here.
• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
I am an indecisive person, but I do often change my mind on something if the other decisions start making sense for me.
• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
It does take a while, I usually brush my feelings until I realize that it's on it's final leg. I do think emotion is needed, but too much is a burden.
• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
It really depends on the topic. If it's just a non-serious or trivial topics, I just nod and don't bother replying at all to them, but if it's a serious one, I try to set my opinions and facts straight.
• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why?
At some point you're going to break rules in an institution. I don't actively or seek to break rules, but if the time comes and it's for the better, I will. Also, if the rules don't make sense, I don't even even try to follow it. I think authority should be challenged if there are people suffering or having a hard time under those rules.
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Are you a parent residing in Noida, perplexed about the best educational opportunities for your little one? Navigating through the variety of play schools and preschools in Noida can be overwhelming, but fret not! Let's delve into the realm of early childhood education in Noida unearth the gems that promise a nurturing environment for your child's growth development.
Play Schools: Where Learning Begins with Play
are the first stepping stone in your child's educational. These institutions recognize the significance of play in early childhood development. Here's why a play school experience can be beneficial for your child:
Holistic Development: Play schools focus on fostering your child's cognitive, social, emotional, and physical development through age-appropriate activities.
Learning Through Play: Children engage in play-based learning, where they explore, experiment, and discover the world around them in a fun and interactive manner.
Socialization: Play schools provide a platform for children to interact with peers, building essential social skills and friendships.
Top Play Schools in Noida
Pika Kidz: Play schools in Noida serve as the first vital step in your child's educational journey. These establishments understand the importance of play in the early development of children. Here's why a play school experience at Pika Kidz, the best day care in Noida, can benefit your child
Preschools: Building a Strong Foundation for Future Learning
Transitioning from play schools to preschools marks a crucial phase in your child's educational voyage. Preschools in Noida offer a structured curriculum designed to prepare children for formal schooling. Here's why preschool education is vital:
Academic Readiness: Preschools introduce basic literacy and numeracy concepts, laying a strong foundation for future academic success.
Critical Thinking Skills: Children are encouraged to think critically, solve problems, and express their ideas creatively.
Language Development: Preschools focus on language enrichment, helping children enhance their communication skills.
Notable Preschools in Noida
Pika Kidz: Transitioning from play schools to preschools signifies a crucial phase in your child's educational progress. Preschools in Noida provide a structured curriculum aimed at preparing children for formal schooling. Here's why preschool education plays a pivotal role
Choosing the Right Educational Path for Your Child
When selecting a play school or preschool in Noida, consider the following factors:
Curriculum: Ensure that the institution's curriculum aligns with your child's learning needs and goals.
Facilities: Look for schools with well-equipped classrooms, play areas, and safety measures.
Teacher-Child Ratio: Opt for schools that maintain a low teacher-child ratio for personalized attention.
Parent Involvement: Evaluate the school's approach towards parental involvement in the child's learning journey.
Remember, each child is unique, so choose an educational institution that resonates with your child's individuality and nurtures their potential.
Conclusion
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2024.05.16 02:43 LowEffortHuman Screaming - not just for tantrums
This may not be the most eloquent of posts but I’m trying to cram a bunch of info in so there’s a fuller picture. I’m more than happy to clarify or add more detail if necessary. Just at the end of my wits with this damn screaming. He turned 4 in March. No diagnosed behavioral or developmental issues. Could be autistic, but it would be more along the lines of what was formerly called Asperger’s. His dad is diagnosed and it’s suspected that his grandpa and great grandpa on dads side were undiagnosed. What’s strange about this is he is actually noise sensitive! The washing machine, blender, and sometimes vacuum bothers him. Emergency sirens bother him if they’re too close. He will frequently cover his ears. Except for when he is himself approaching glass shattering decibels.
Types of screams:
•because he’s mad and doesn’t want to calm down. I sat with him in his room Monday for almost 30 minutes. We were taking a break because he had thrown a stool at me twice because he was angry. If we tried to engage, he screamed. If we stayed in the room, he screamed for us to leave. If we left, he would scream until we came back. When I sat on his bed and told him I will just sit here quietly until he’s ready, he screamed. Not even at me. He completely turned away from me and kept tantruming for 10 more minutes then just stopped and was ready to talk about what he was feeling and what he wanted to do to make his “big sad” smaller. 2 minutes of that activity and he was fine.
•in the car. He can be playing and jabbering to himself then screech. We tried a scream box and he gives zero fks about it. He’s more interested in throwing it at us so it didn’t last long. He will also scream when my husband and I are trying to talk to each other and only stops when one of us engages him. We usually tell him that we have to talk to each other and we will talk to him when we’re done. Trying to empathize with him wanting to talk to us and having to be patient only triggers him to scream he doesn’t want to be patient and he’s completely hijacked the car ride because we are either dealing with his meltdown or not talking to each other while he plays and jabbers in the back because we just don’t want to be yelled at.
•Just a sudden screams. Playing with his toys, laughing, running around, he will just screech. Todays example is I was watching a funny video with him on my phone and was trying to send it to his dad. Before I could even hit send, he screams. You know, that scream where if it was a cartoon, you could see his tonsils wiggling. It’s 10 minutes later and the ear he was next to is still ringing and feels muted.
He starts regular school in August and my teacher friends have ASSURED me he will be fine because “kids are always different in school than home” and we haven’t had screaming issues at preschool, but I don’t want to send him to full time school and he’s partly feral because he would rather scream than respond in a quieter voice or just communicate the need instead of screeching at the first discomfort.
Not to mention my fight or flight response that is triggered when I’m laying in my bed and he comes in not jacked up then screams in my ear or the panic in the car as I’m driving because a kid is suddenly screaming and I can’t figure out if there’s an actual problem.
I’ve tried telling him is he needs to scream, he needs to go outside, to his room, or to his closet. I explained that when I’m so angry I want to scream I go in my closet and scream. He doesn’t want that (probably because it’s what’s being asked of him and he has an oppositional streak). I’ve tried loops, I have construction ear protection, but I cannot wear these 100% of the time because they eventually make my ears sore so I try to wear them in the “most likely to be screamed” zones, but again, held hostage because nowhere appears to be safe because his screaming is just whenever tf he wants while he’s awake.
He really is a great, funny, frequently empathetic kid, but this screaming is wearing us parents down because we cannot find a solution and we are being constantly startled, sometimes to tears because it is so sudden and shrill.
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Types of screams:
•because he’s mad and doesn’t want to calm down. I sat with him in his room Monday for almost 30 minutes. We were taking a break because he had thrown a stool at me twice because he was angry. If we tried to engage, he screamed. If we stayed in the room, he screamed for us to leave. If we left, he would scream until we came back. When I sat on his bed and told him I will just sit here quietly until he’s ready, he screamed. Not even at me. He completely turned away from me and kept tantruming for 10 more minutes then just stopped and was ready to talk about what he was feeling and what he wanted to do to make his “big sad” smaller. 2 minutes of that activity and he was fine.
•in the car. He can be playing and jabbering to himself then screech. We tried a scream box and he gives zero fks about it. He’s more interested in throwing it at us so it didn’t last long. He will also scream when my husband and I are trying to talk to each other and only stops when one of us engages him. We usually tell him that we have to talk to each other and we will talk to him when we’re done. Trying to empathize with him wanting to talk to us and having to be patient only triggers him to scream he doesn’t want to be patient and he’s completely hijacked the car ride because we are either dealing with his meltdown or not talking to each other while he plays and jabbers in the back because we just don’t want to be yelled at.
•Just a sudden screams. Playing with his toys, laughing, running around, he will just screech. Todays example is I was watching a funny video with him on my phone and was trying to send it to his dad. Before I could even hit send, he screams. You know, that scream where if it was a cartoon, you could see his tonsils wiggling. It’s 10 minutes later and the ear he was next to is still ringing and feels muted.
He starts regular school in August and my teacher friends have ASSURED me he will be fine because “kids are always different in school than home” and we haven’t had screaming issues at preschool, but I don’t want to send him to full time school and he’s partly feral because he would rather scream than respond in a quieter voice or just communicate the need instead of screeching at the first discomfort.
Not to mention my fight or flight response that is triggered when I’m laying in my bed and he comes in not jacked up then screams in my ear or the panic in the car as I’m driving because a kid is suddenly screaming and I can’t figure out if there’s an actual problem.
I’ve tried telling him is he needs to scream, he needs to go outside, to his room, or to his closet. I explained that when I’m so angry I want to scream I go in my closet and scream. He doesn’t want that (probably because it’s what’s being asked of him and he has an oppositional streak). I’ve tried loops, I have construction ear protection, but I cannot wear these 100% of the time because they eventually make my ears sore so I try to wear them in the “most likely to be screamed” zones, but again, held hostage because nowhere appears to be safe because his screaming is just whenever tf he wants while he’s awake.
He really is a great, funny, frequently empathetic kid, but this screaming is wearing us parents down because we cannot find a solution and we are being constantly startled, sometimes to tears because it is so sudden and shrill.
2024.05.16 00:30 Beek3r101 Do you get breaks?
I’m a teacher’s aide (paraprofessional is what the school calls it) for a preschool in a large private elementary school. I was told that by state law we are required to always stay with the children (2 adults to maintain ratio) so I am not allowed to have a lunch break or a break of any kind. The main teacher in charge of lesson plans and education gets breaks alone when the kids are with specialty teachers or activities, but I understand she appreciates that time to prepare for circle time so it’s not really a break. There is a 40 minute quiet time in the afternoon so I guess I do at least get some quiet and relaxed time with the kids - I’m still expected to help with craft prep and other things during that time though.
Is this normal? I don’t have any education worker experience besides this so I just assumed it’s the same everywhere. I’m probably just whining because it’s the end of the year, and I’m tired like everyone else.
Age range is 3-5 for reference.
Edit: State is Tennessee and regular shift is 7 hours and 30-45 minutes. It depends on how quickly the parents pick up the kids to get below the two person requirement at the end of the day.
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Is this normal? I don’t have any education worker experience besides this so I just assumed it’s the same everywhere. I’m probably just whining because it’s the end of the year, and I’m tired like everyone else.
Age range is 3-5 for reference.
Edit: State is Tennessee and regular shift is 7 hours and 30-45 minutes. It depends on how quickly the parents pick up the kids to get below the two person requirement at the end of the day.
2024.05.15 21:37 Rare-Ad-7011 Life after diagnosis
Finally received our diagnosis today for my 2.5 year old! I am both relieved and nervous of what is to come. With the diagnosis, I know they will be offering more services to him and we are actively trying to enroll him in a special ed preschool program.
This is all great news but I cannot stop thinking about everything I can do to help him. I work a lot, as does my husband. What is everyone else’s experience with this after their child received a diagnosis? Will I be able to maintain a full time career, and is that even fair to him? Will I need more time and flexibility to make sure he’s getting to appointments, getting all the services he’s entitled to, etc? Do I take a step back from my career and find something more flexible and/or part time so I can devote more time to him and his progress? My mind is spinning so anything thoughts or experiences are appreciated!
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This is all great news but I cannot stop thinking about everything I can do to help him. I work a lot, as does my husband. What is everyone else’s experience with this after their child received a diagnosis? Will I be able to maintain a full time career, and is that even fair to him? Will I need more time and flexibility to make sure he’s getting to appointments, getting all the services he’s entitled to, etc? Do I take a step back from my career and find something more flexible and/or part time so I can devote more time to him and his progress? My mind is spinning so anything thoughts or experiences are appreciated!
2024.05.15 20:09 madssaysugh Am I doing too much?
Nanny here. It sort of seems that there is an impression that nannies have a lot of downtime during the day, and this seems to be a big rational behind the low salary standard within childcare. I do not understand this impression at all, I personally am lucky if I have 30 minutes to myself just for lunch as I really have to make an effort to carve out time for myself during the day to sit down and take a break. I guess I’m wondering if this is really the norm for nannies or if I am just doing too much for too little.
Between dishes, cooking, laundry, folding, cleaning, engaging with the children, keeping them busy, getting them to and from school and activities, and going to the park, there is hardly any spare time to organise crafts or anything else, let alone sit down even just to eat lunch. There is never any situation where I would be sitting back relaxing while the kids play (they don’t watch TV with me) as there is just never enough time in the day to do everything that needs to be done. If the kids are playing independently, I am doing chores, and if I am not doing chores, I am directly engaging with the kids. I find myself skipping lunch often, at least once a week, just to keep up with the chores and manage enough meaningful time to engage with the kids. I end up on my feet working 9 ½ hour days with no breaks at all far too often (no I do not count the 5-10 minutes I sit down at the park as a break because it is not, I am on my toddlers’ asses the entire time we’re there so I’m lucky if I get to sit down at all).
I understand that many nannies probably are not responsible for as much as I am, but I know many nannies are and many are responsible for even more than I am. I understand that childcare jobs do often ask to waive break rights. When I worked at a preschool I waived my 15m breaks too, but I always received a 30m-1h lunch break in which I was free to do what I please.
I have managed to time the chores perfectly so that I have 30 minutes at lunch to myself, but if there are any extra chores tacked on like grocery shopping, marking cards for family, or if the kids need extra attention in the morning, my break disappears. Just today I was asked to return some rental suits (one of them was for one of the kids so it technically fell under my purview and I’m not one to argue) and of course they asked me to do it while the kids are asleep and their grandma is at home bc they don’t want the kids alone with their grandma, ultimately taking up my time for lunch. Anyway, I just do not feel that I am being paid enough to work this hard and I worked very very hard for my raise that brought me to just $4 above minimum wage.
It’s been two years of this now. When I first started, I mentioned to my employers that it was too much for me to do all of these chores, actively engage with the children, and still have an opportunity to take a break, and they literally just said “we expect you to be able to do all of this, you need to just do it all faster.” I needed this job and it was the best paying job I could find at the time in the area I needed a job in, so I couldn’t really just leave, and when I told them I would need to be paid more, they said they would just pass on hiring me. The first several months I maybe took 1-2 lunch breaks a week. As I have grown more efficient and developed my schedule, I have managed to take real breaks more regularly but it is still a battle every day just to sit down at any point.
I’m young (25), full of energy, type A, and passionate about this job which is the only way I’ve survived the past two years. I get that I shouldn’t accept a job for less than I think I’m worth but there doesn’t seem to be a plethora of positions offering salaries I would truly accept. I am leaving this position and relocating in two months to find a better paying position that gives me a more balanced schedule during the day. I guess I would like to know if this is a shared experience or if I just took on too much with this position. For those of you who work this hard too, what are you paid? I’m trying to gage what I should be expecting to earn going forward to take on this many responsibilities. On top of all of this, I also am trained in and follow RIE, Montessori, Reggio Emilia, and gentle caregiving. I have 5 years experience as a preschool teacher’s assistant and now two years as a private full time nanny (along with 10 years as a babysitter). I certainly do not think that I personally deserve to be paid more than other nannies, but I have trouble believing that the work I do and the experience I have is not worth a much more competitive salary just because I’m young and childcare is something that I naturally am good at and enjoy.
Anyway I’d appreciate any thoughts, advice, or shared or opposing experiences from other nannies or employers.
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Between dishes, cooking, laundry, folding, cleaning, engaging with the children, keeping them busy, getting them to and from school and activities, and going to the park, there is hardly any spare time to organise crafts or anything else, let alone sit down even just to eat lunch. There is never any situation where I would be sitting back relaxing while the kids play (they don’t watch TV with me) as there is just never enough time in the day to do everything that needs to be done. If the kids are playing independently, I am doing chores, and if I am not doing chores, I am directly engaging with the kids. I find myself skipping lunch often, at least once a week, just to keep up with the chores and manage enough meaningful time to engage with the kids. I end up on my feet working 9 ½ hour days with no breaks at all far too often (no I do not count the 5-10 minutes I sit down at the park as a break because it is not, I am on my toddlers’ asses the entire time we’re there so I’m lucky if I get to sit down at all).
I understand that many nannies probably are not responsible for as much as I am, but I know many nannies are and many are responsible for even more than I am. I understand that childcare jobs do often ask to waive break rights. When I worked at a preschool I waived my 15m breaks too, but I always received a 30m-1h lunch break in which I was free to do what I please.
I have managed to time the chores perfectly so that I have 30 minutes at lunch to myself, but if there are any extra chores tacked on like grocery shopping, marking cards for family, or if the kids need extra attention in the morning, my break disappears. Just today I was asked to return some rental suits (one of them was for one of the kids so it technically fell under my purview and I’m not one to argue) and of course they asked me to do it while the kids are asleep and their grandma is at home bc they don’t want the kids alone with their grandma, ultimately taking up my time for lunch. Anyway, I just do not feel that I am being paid enough to work this hard and I worked very very hard for my raise that brought me to just $4 above minimum wage.
It’s been two years of this now. When I first started, I mentioned to my employers that it was too much for me to do all of these chores, actively engage with the children, and still have an opportunity to take a break, and they literally just said “we expect you to be able to do all of this, you need to just do it all faster.” I needed this job and it was the best paying job I could find at the time in the area I needed a job in, so I couldn’t really just leave, and when I told them I would need to be paid more, they said they would just pass on hiring me. The first several months I maybe took 1-2 lunch breaks a week. As I have grown more efficient and developed my schedule, I have managed to take real breaks more regularly but it is still a battle every day just to sit down at any point.
I’m young (25), full of energy, type A, and passionate about this job which is the only way I’ve survived the past two years. I get that I shouldn’t accept a job for less than I think I’m worth but there doesn’t seem to be a plethora of positions offering salaries I would truly accept. I am leaving this position and relocating in two months to find a better paying position that gives me a more balanced schedule during the day. I guess I would like to know if this is a shared experience or if I just took on too much with this position. For those of you who work this hard too, what are you paid? I’m trying to gage what I should be expecting to earn going forward to take on this many responsibilities. On top of all of this, I also am trained in and follow RIE, Montessori, Reggio Emilia, and gentle caregiving. I have 5 years experience as a preschool teacher’s assistant and now two years as a private full time nanny (along with 10 years as a babysitter). I certainly do not think that I personally deserve to be paid more than other nannies, but I have trouble believing that the work I do and the experience I have is not worth a much more competitive salary just because I’m young and childcare is something that I naturally am good at and enjoy.
Anyway I’d appreciate any thoughts, advice, or shared or opposing experiences from other nannies or employers.
2024.05.15 19:34 JasonBetter10 Preschool Pros and Cons: Sending Your Child to Preschool
 | https://preview.redd.it/zubaseyykm0d1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fabfb9564d22d191d5a05fd57451c8120739c122 Early childhood education like daycare and preschool is great for children to start exploring the world. But is sending your child to preschool right for them? Take a look at this list of pros and cons of sending your children to preschool. ProsChildren are able to practice their social skillsPreschool curriculum includes story time, art projects, simple science experiments, and singing to nursery rhymes. These activities let kids work with other kids. Teachers give instructions for these activities and the children learn how to cooperate with their classmates.This develops their ability to communicate with others. Being in preschool helps kids practice their interpersonal skills.Children are introduced to the basics One of the benefits of going to preschool is that the alphabet and numbers are included on a daily basis. Children learn the letters of the alphabet by singing songs. They learn numbers and how to count by counting blocks. Children’s language skills are developed through story time sessions and learn colors through painting and coloring books. The activities that kids do in school give them valuable lessons, and although it can be messy, these activities grow their curiosity. Preschool gives children a glimpse into the sciences like biology, botany, geology, and zoology. Preschool also teaches about shapes by doing puzzles! There are a lot of things that children learn in preschool to prepare them for formal school Having new experiences The more your kid explores and plays, the more they’ll learn new things. At preschool, there are plenty of opportunities to make new discoveries. Children will leave their safe zones to uncover things they are curious about. Children will learn to trust adults If you are the only adult that your child feels comfortable with, preschool provides a valuable lesson for them. In preschool, children spend time with teachers and other adults. By enrolling your child in school, it helps them build trust with other adults. Beside you, they will learn to trust other adults and that they’ll be okay without you around. Being in preschool helps your child learn independence. Cons Preschool can be expensive Early childhood education doesn’t come cheap. The cost of preschool education varies depending on where you live. For some, it is cheaper to enroll their child in a daycare. Preschool isn’t cheap, and can even be more expensive than hiring a babysitter.A preschool education comes with a price, including monthly tuition, registration fees, miscellaneous fees, and other school supplies.Children will be prone to sickness When it’s your kid’s first time attending preschool, it is also their first time being exposed to other kids and new surroundings. It’s not uncommon for kids to get sick when they spend time with other kids. Make sure to take care of them by providing healthy foods and letting them get enough sleep. Separation Anxiety It is normal for kids to feel anxiety, especially when it’s their first time away from their parents. Just like any transition, morning drop-offs can be tough for both the parent and the child. Some children will freak out, so it’s important for parents to establish a good drop off routine. Assure your child that you are coming back when school finishes. Hug and kiss them goodbye and don’t linger afterwards. Children will get used to this and soon will no longer cry. At the end of the day, it’s up to the parents to decide what’s best for the child. Carefully consider the pros and cons. Preschool is a wonderful thing and can teach so many things to your children. If you are looking for a great quality preschool, visit Elite Preschool today. |
2024.05.15 19:06 delliamcool NP’s asked me to start “lessons” with their 20 month old?
As I got to work today, DB was walking out the door and he said quickly as he was leaving that he had an idea that I should pick an activity to regularly do lessons on with their 20 month old daughter, “whether it’s singing or something else.” He didn’t elaborate more and I really did not know what he meant, and then NK and I walked with MB to her car and I asked for further clarification “Do you guys just want me to pick some type of hobby and start like regularly doing it with her?” And all she said was yes, that I should brainstorm what might be age appropriate and next week we can discuss which activity I will be giving her lessons in.
I feel that firstly, it is far too early to begin any type of formal lessons with her. She is not even two and in my experience as a nanny, daycare worker and preschool aide, two year olds learn the best through play, outings and activity hopping at their own discretion throughout the day, not scheduled lessons where you’re like “now it is time to sing” and instead just singing when NK feels like it. Secondly, I feel like my rate reflects that of a caregiver and not a teachetutor and if they want me to plan lessons I need to be paid more. Right now I watch NK solo two days a week for $18/hour, and two days a week I watch her as part of a nannyshare with their friends child, and I make $14/hour from both families so $28 total. I work for a separate family on Fridays only.
I’m all for educating NK throughout the day as we encounter things and explaining the world to her, but if they want me to plan out specific lessons and have them ready to go every day I want to be paid more. I’m looking for advice on how to approach this conversation with them, and suggestions on which hobby/activity I should suggest for NK should they agree to a rate increase?
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I feel that firstly, it is far too early to begin any type of formal lessons with her. She is not even two and in my experience as a nanny, daycare worker and preschool aide, two year olds learn the best through play, outings and activity hopping at their own discretion throughout the day, not scheduled lessons where you’re like “now it is time to sing” and instead just singing when NK feels like it. Secondly, I feel like my rate reflects that of a caregiver and not a teachetutor and if they want me to plan lessons I need to be paid more. Right now I watch NK solo two days a week for $18/hour, and two days a week I watch her as part of a nannyshare with their friends child, and I make $14/hour from both families so $28 total. I work for a separate family on Fridays only.
I’m all for educating NK throughout the day as we encounter things and explaining the world to her, but if they want me to plan out specific lessons and have them ready to go every day I want to be paid more. I’m looking for advice on how to approach this conversation with them, and suggestions on which hobby/activity I should suggest for NK should they agree to a rate increase?
2024.05.15 18:14 ImaMasterDebator Good afternoon Boston, I am back with a list of things to do this weekend - May 16th - 19th
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My friend Yan is putting on a comedy show at Cloud & Spirits this Thursday. Tickets are limited; go check it out I promise you'll have fun.
Red Sox vs Rays @ Fenway Park @ 7:10PM
Asi Wind’s Magic Show @ The Wilbur @ 7:30PM Being one of the most-watched magicians in the world, Asi Wind presents a new show where he pushes the limits of belief even further with unbelievable mind-reading and astonishing magic.
Candlelight: A Tribute to Adele in Concert @ Temple Ohabei Shalom @ 7PM / 9PM
Marc Martel & One Vision of Queen Concert @ Symphony Hall @ 7:30PM The Pops will rock you when Marc Martel brings the iconic anthems of Queen to Symphony Hall.
Diana Ross @ Wang Theatre @ 7:30PM See the iconic and legendary Diana Ross perform the hits that have defined her career.
Cooper Alan @ Paradise Rock Club @ 8PM With Thomas Mac
Lords of Acid @ Brighton Music Hall @ 6:30PM
Ben Beal @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
Madeleine Peyroux @ The Wilbur @ 8PM
Neil Young & Crazy Horse @ Xfinity Center @ 7:30PM
Wild Child @ Paradise Rock Club @ 8PM
Soen @ Brighton Music Hall @ 8PM
Tye Tribbett and Friends @ Orpheum Theatre @ 7:30PM
Galantis @ Big Night Live @ 9:30PM
Hermanos Gutiérrez @ Royale @ 6PM
Tinlicker @ Royale @ 10PM
Buck Meek of Big Thief @ Crystal Ballroom @ 8PM
Anders Osborne Trio @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
Revolution vs Philadelphia Union @ Gillette Stadium @ 7:30PM
Dancing on the Charles @ Marsh Post #442 @ 3PM Montreal deep house DJ Fred Everything headlines this marathon outdoor dance party, running from late afternoon into the night.
Ales & Tales @ Stone Zoo @ 5:30PM Walk on the wild side while enjoying local craft beverages. This popular beer tasting event is a favorite among animal and beer lovers alike!
Kite & Bike Festival @ Franklin Park @ 12PM This Boston tradition brings families together to enjoy picnicking, kite flying, bicycles & music.
Ongoing - Artisan Market @ Rose Kennedy Greenway @ 11AM
Kevin James Comedy Show @ Chevalier Theatre @ 4:30PM / 7:30PM
Jimmy Failla Comedy Show @ Shubert Theatre @ 8PM
‘Encanto’ in Concert @ Symphony Hall @ 2PM Disney’s Academy Award-winning film comes to life in a concert event, featuring the entire feature-length film with a full orchestra performing the score.
The String Cheese Incident @ MGM Music Hall @ 7:15PM
Robyn Schall Stand Up @ The Wilbur @ 7PM
Sorry Papi @ House of Blues @ 9PM
James Arthur @ Roadrunner @ 8PM With Forest Blakk
The Music of Talking Heads & More for Kids @ Paradise Rock Club @ 11AM *Presented by The Rock and Roll Playhouse
Orgy + COLD @ Brighton Music Hall @ 8PM
Gimme Gimme Disco @ Big Night Live @ 5:30PM
Arty @ Big Night Live @ 10:30PM
The Messthetics and James Brandon Lewis @ Crystal Ballroom @ 8PM
Chris Smither + Peter Mulvey @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
Kite Festival @ Revere Beach Kick off beach season with a fun day for the whole family complete with build-your-own kite stations, professional kite flyers, live music, and other activities!
Ongoing - Open Market @ SoWa @ 11AM One of the largest open-air farmer and artist markets returns this summer season!
‘Dropouts’ Podcast Live @ Paradise Rock Club @ 7PM Come see internet stars Zach Justice, Tara Yummy & Jared Bailey discuss latest hot topics, celebrity gossip, and personal dramas live!
Electric Callboy @ MGM Music Hall @ 7PM
Deko @ Brighton Music Hall @ 7PM With Yameii
Mk.gee @ The Sinclair @ 7:30PM
Guppy @ The Rockwell @ 7:30PM
Big Bad Voodoo Daddy @ The Wilbur @ 7PM
Compaq Big Band @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
FRIDAY & SATURDAY - Zach Brazao Stand Up @ Nick’s Comedy Stop @ 8PM
SATURDAY & SUNDAY - ‘Bluey’s Big Play’ Show @ Wang Theatre ‘Bluey’s Big Play’ is a brand-new theatrical adaptation of the Emmy award-winning children’s television series featuring new music and new character adventures.
All weekend - Jukebox The Ghost @ The Sinclair @ 8PM
All weekend - Nantucket Wine & Food Festival Enjoy food and drinks tastings, seminars, brunches, and parties as the annual festival uncorks the island for the summer!
All weekend -’Hallyu Hits: Korean Films that Moved the World @ MFA See the best of Korean cinema including ‘Oldboy,’ ‘Parasites,’ and ‘Burning.’
All weekend - ‘Spring Experience’ Ballet @ Citizens Bank Opera House LAST CHANCE - Explore Boston Ballet’s dynamic and captivating Spring program composed of three masterful ballets featuring classical and modern dance elements.
All weekend - ‘BABYBABYBABY’ Dance Performance @ Calderwood Pavilion This contemporary dance production taps into the feeling of falling in love and reflects on the human impulse for connection and intimacy.
All weekend - ‘A Strange Loop’ Musical @ Wimberly Theatre Winner of Pulitzer Prize and a Tony Award, Michael R. Jackson’s blisteringly funny masterwork exposes the heart and soul of a young Black artist grappling with desires, identity, and instincts he both loves and loathes.
All weekend - ‘Jersey Boys’ Musical @ North Shore Music Theatre LAST CHANCE - Featuring legendary hits, this award-winning musical tells the behind-the-scenes drama of the international sensation boy band The Four Seasons.
All weekend - ‘Toni Stone’ Play @ The Huntington Theatre The Huntington’s season finale is a beautiful, rich portrait of a trailblazing woman. Follow the inspiring and life-affirming story of baseball legend Toni Stone.
All weekend - ‘Romeo and Juliet’ Play @ Calderwood Pavilion Brought to life by Actors’ Shakespeare Project, Shakespeare’s most famous duo return in a flurry of forbidden love, exhilarating fight scenes, and tragic fate.
All weekend - ‘Mermaid Hour’ Play @ Arrow Street Arts LAST CHANCE - Fast-paced, funny, and heartfelt, ‘Mermaid Hour’ follows two parents and their trans teen kid as they all seek to understand who they are and who they wish to be.
Ongoing - Musical Shows @ MoS Planetarium Museum of Science puts on special experiences adapting the music of Pink Floyd, Rihanna, Beyoncé, and The Divas to immersive visuals in the Charles Hayden Planetarium.
Ongoing - ‘Firelei Báez’ Exhibition @ ICA One of the most exciting painters of her generation, Báez explores the multilayered legacy of colonial histories and the African diaspora in the Caribbean and beyond.
Ongoing - ‘Wordplay’ Exhibition @ ICA Highlighting the rich interplay between imagery and text, the exhibition showcases how contemporary artists have played with words to animate and expand their art practices.
Ongoing - ‘Hallyu! The Korean Wave’ Exhibition @ MFA Enjoy an immersive and multisensory journey through Korea’s fascinating history, and celebrate its contemporary vibrant creative force.
Ongoing - ‘Dress Up’ Exhibition @ MFA Through more than 100 works from the MFA’s collection including 20th- and 21st-century clothing, jewelry, accessories, illustrations, and photographs, this exhibition explores adornment and its role in the creation of a look.
Ongoing - ‘Comrade Sisters: Women of the Black Panther Party’ Exhibition @ MFA This exhibition brings together 27 powerful photographs by Stephen Shames that feature the women of the Black Panther party and showcase their crucial work for the movement.
Ongoing - ‘Thinking Small: Dutch Art to Scale’ Exhibition @ MFA Featuring 15 intriguing objects from 17th-century Netherlands such as paintings, prints, silver medals, and books, this exhibition compels viewers to reconsider their relationship to the world around them.
Ongoing - ‘Raqib Shaw: Ballads of East and West’ Exhibition @ ISG Museum Shaw’s images of magic and mystery combine Western artistic tradition with ornamental elements derived from the Japanese, Persian, and Indian cultures that he vividly remembers from his youth.
Ongoing - ‘Picasso: War, Combat, and Revolution’ Exhibition @ Harvard Art Museums The exhibition explores the dictator Francisco Franco’s Spain, imagery of death, struggles of good and evil, political and artistic revolution, and issues of desire and capture.
Ongoing - ‘Our Time on Earth’ Exhibition @ Peabody Essex Museum This traveling exhibition from the Barbican Centre in London celebrates the power of global creativity to transform the conversation around the climate emergency.
Ongoing - ‘AI: Mind the Gap’ Exhibition @ MIT Museum MIT Museum presents its latest riveting, interactive exhibit exploring the tremendous promise, unforeseen impacts, and everyday misconceptions of AI.
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My friend Yan is putting on a comedy show at Cloud & Spirits this Thursday. Tickets are limited; go check it out I promise you'll have fun.
THURSDAY - MAY 16
Tapered Expectations XXI: "Above the Clouds" - A Standup Comedy Event @ Cloud & Spirits @ 7PM Acquired Taste Comedy is back at Cloud & Spirits with another signature Standup Comedy Event. Catch a carefully curated selection of the area's funniest comics along with a special musical guest at a breathtaking cocktail bar in Central Square!Red Sox vs Rays @ Fenway Park @ 7:10PM
Asi Wind’s Magic Show @ The Wilbur @ 7:30PM Being one of the most-watched magicians in the world, Asi Wind presents a new show where he pushes the limits of belief even further with unbelievable mind-reading and astonishing magic.
Candlelight: A Tribute to Adele in Concert @ Temple Ohabei Shalom @ 7PM / 9PM
Marc Martel & One Vision of Queen Concert @ Symphony Hall @ 7:30PM The Pops will rock you when Marc Martel brings the iconic anthems of Queen to Symphony Hall.
Diana Ross @ Wang Theatre @ 7:30PM See the iconic and legendary Diana Ross perform the hits that have defined her career.
Cooper Alan @ Paradise Rock Club @ 8PM With Thomas Mac
Lords of Acid @ Brighton Music Hall @ 6:30PM
Ben Beal @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
FRIDAY - MAY 17
Bruins vs Panthers @ TD GardenMadeleine Peyroux @ The Wilbur @ 8PM
Neil Young & Crazy Horse @ Xfinity Center @ 7:30PM
Wild Child @ Paradise Rock Club @ 8PM
Soen @ Brighton Music Hall @ 8PM
Tye Tribbett and Friends @ Orpheum Theatre @ 7:30PM
Galantis @ Big Night Live @ 9:30PM
Hermanos Gutiérrez @ Royale @ 6PM
Tinlicker @ Royale @ 10PM
Buck Meek of Big Thief @ Crystal Ballroom @ 8PM
Anders Osborne Trio @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
SATURDAY - MAY 18
Watertown Porchfest @ Watertown @ All dayRevolution vs Philadelphia Union @ Gillette Stadium @ 7:30PM
Dancing on the Charles @ Marsh Post #442 @ 3PM Montreal deep house DJ Fred Everything headlines this marathon outdoor dance party, running from late afternoon into the night.
Ales & Tales @ Stone Zoo @ 5:30PM Walk on the wild side while enjoying local craft beverages. This popular beer tasting event is a favorite among animal and beer lovers alike!
Kite & Bike Festival @ Franklin Park @ 12PM This Boston tradition brings families together to enjoy picnicking, kite flying, bicycles & music.
Ongoing - Artisan Market @ Rose Kennedy Greenway @ 11AM
Kevin James Comedy Show @ Chevalier Theatre @ 4:30PM / 7:30PM
Jimmy Failla Comedy Show @ Shubert Theatre @ 8PM
‘Encanto’ in Concert @ Symphony Hall @ 2PM Disney’s Academy Award-winning film comes to life in a concert event, featuring the entire feature-length film with a full orchestra performing the score.
The String Cheese Incident @ MGM Music Hall @ 7:15PM
Robyn Schall Stand Up @ The Wilbur @ 7PM
Sorry Papi @ House of Blues @ 9PM
James Arthur @ Roadrunner @ 8PM With Forest Blakk
The Music of Talking Heads & More for Kids @ Paradise Rock Club @ 11AM *Presented by The Rock and Roll Playhouse
Orgy + COLD @ Brighton Music Hall @ 8PM
Gimme Gimme Disco @ Big Night Live @ 5:30PM
Arty @ Big Night Live @ 10:30PM
The Messthetics and James Brandon Lewis @ Crystal Ballroom @ 8PM
Chris Smither + Peter Mulvey @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
SUNDAY - MAY 19
Celtics vs Cavaliers @ TD GardenKite Festival @ Revere Beach Kick off beach season with a fun day for the whole family complete with build-your-own kite stations, professional kite flyers, live music, and other activities!
Ongoing - Open Market @ SoWa @ 11AM One of the largest open-air farmer and artist markets returns this summer season!
‘Dropouts’ Podcast Live @ Paradise Rock Club @ 7PM Come see internet stars Zach Justice, Tara Yummy & Jared Bailey discuss latest hot topics, celebrity gossip, and personal dramas live!
Electric Callboy @ MGM Music Hall @ 7PM
Deko @ Brighton Music Hall @ 7PM With Yameii
Mk.gee @ The Sinclair @ 7:30PM
Guppy @ The Rockwell @ 7:30PM
Big Bad Voodoo Daddy @ The Wilbur @ 7PM
Compaq Big Band @ City Winery @ 7:30PM
ALL WEEKEND
FRIDAY & SATURDAY - Amanda Seales Stand Up @ Laugh BostonFRIDAY & SATURDAY - Zach Brazao Stand Up @ Nick’s Comedy Stop @ 8PM
SATURDAY & SUNDAY - ‘Bluey’s Big Play’ Show @ Wang Theatre ‘Bluey’s Big Play’ is a brand-new theatrical adaptation of the Emmy award-winning children’s television series featuring new music and new character adventures.
All weekend - Jukebox The Ghost @ The Sinclair @ 8PM
All weekend - Nantucket Wine & Food Festival Enjoy food and drinks tastings, seminars, brunches, and parties as the annual festival uncorks the island for the summer!
All weekend -’Hallyu Hits: Korean Films that Moved the World @ MFA See the best of Korean cinema including ‘Oldboy,’ ‘Parasites,’ and ‘Burning.’
All weekend - ‘Spring Experience’ Ballet @ Citizens Bank Opera House LAST CHANCE - Explore Boston Ballet’s dynamic and captivating Spring program composed of three masterful ballets featuring classical and modern dance elements.
All weekend - ‘BABYBABYBABY’ Dance Performance @ Calderwood Pavilion This contemporary dance production taps into the feeling of falling in love and reflects on the human impulse for connection and intimacy.
All weekend - ‘A Strange Loop’ Musical @ Wimberly Theatre Winner of Pulitzer Prize and a Tony Award, Michael R. Jackson’s blisteringly funny masterwork exposes the heart and soul of a young Black artist grappling with desires, identity, and instincts he both loves and loathes.
All weekend - ‘Jersey Boys’ Musical @ North Shore Music Theatre LAST CHANCE - Featuring legendary hits, this award-winning musical tells the behind-the-scenes drama of the international sensation boy band The Four Seasons.
All weekend - ‘Toni Stone’ Play @ The Huntington Theatre The Huntington’s season finale is a beautiful, rich portrait of a trailblazing woman. Follow the inspiring and life-affirming story of baseball legend Toni Stone.
All weekend - ‘Romeo and Juliet’ Play @ Calderwood Pavilion Brought to life by Actors’ Shakespeare Project, Shakespeare’s most famous duo return in a flurry of forbidden love, exhilarating fight scenes, and tragic fate.
All weekend - ‘Mermaid Hour’ Play @ Arrow Street Arts LAST CHANCE - Fast-paced, funny, and heartfelt, ‘Mermaid Hour’ follows two parents and their trans teen kid as they all seek to understand who they are and who they wish to be.
ONGOING
Ongoing - Immersive Disney Animation @ Boch Center Step into the art and legacy of Walt Disney Animation Studios and celebrate the music, artistry and animation from the creators of Frozen, The Little Mermaid, Big Hero 6 and many more.Ongoing - Musical Shows @ MoS Planetarium Museum of Science puts on special experiences adapting the music of Pink Floyd, Rihanna, Beyoncé, and The Divas to immersive visuals in the Charles Hayden Planetarium.
Ongoing - ‘Firelei Báez’ Exhibition @ ICA One of the most exciting painters of her generation, Báez explores the multilayered legacy of colonial histories and the African diaspora in the Caribbean and beyond.
Ongoing - ‘Wordplay’ Exhibition @ ICA Highlighting the rich interplay between imagery and text, the exhibition showcases how contemporary artists have played with words to animate and expand their art practices.
Ongoing - ‘Hallyu! The Korean Wave’ Exhibition @ MFA Enjoy an immersive and multisensory journey through Korea’s fascinating history, and celebrate its contemporary vibrant creative force.
Ongoing - ‘Dress Up’ Exhibition @ MFA Through more than 100 works from the MFA’s collection including 20th- and 21st-century clothing, jewelry, accessories, illustrations, and photographs, this exhibition explores adornment and its role in the creation of a look.
Ongoing - ‘Comrade Sisters: Women of the Black Panther Party’ Exhibition @ MFA This exhibition brings together 27 powerful photographs by Stephen Shames that feature the women of the Black Panther party and showcase their crucial work for the movement.
Ongoing - ‘Thinking Small: Dutch Art to Scale’ Exhibition @ MFA Featuring 15 intriguing objects from 17th-century Netherlands such as paintings, prints, silver medals, and books, this exhibition compels viewers to reconsider their relationship to the world around them.
Ongoing - ‘Raqib Shaw: Ballads of East and West’ Exhibition @ ISG Museum Shaw’s images of magic and mystery combine Western artistic tradition with ornamental elements derived from the Japanese, Persian, and Indian cultures that he vividly remembers from his youth.
Ongoing - ‘Picasso: War, Combat, and Revolution’ Exhibition @ Harvard Art Museums The exhibition explores the dictator Francisco Franco’s Spain, imagery of death, struggles of good and evil, political and artistic revolution, and issues of desire and capture.
Ongoing - ‘Our Time on Earth’ Exhibition @ Peabody Essex Museum This traveling exhibition from the Barbican Centre in London celebrates the power of global creativity to transform the conversation around the climate emergency.
Ongoing - ‘AI: Mind the Gap’ Exhibition @ MIT Museum MIT Museum presents its latest riveting, interactive exhibit exploring the tremendous promise, unforeseen impacts, and everyday misconceptions of AI.
2024.05.15 13:48 anchalgupta161990 Why Makoons Preschool Stands as the Best Play School Franchise in India
Introduction:
In the ever-evolving landscape of early childhood education, playschool franchises stand out as beacons of innovation and excellence. As parents seek the best educational opportunities for their children, playschool franchises offer a compelling option that combines quality curriculum, experienced faculty, and a nurturing environment. In this blog, we explore the top playschool franchise opportunities in India, empowering aspiring entrepreneurs to make informed decisions and embark on a journey of educational leadership.Unveiling the Best Playschool Franchise Opportunities:
When it comes to selecting the best playschool franchise in India, several factors come into play, including reputation, curriculum, support system, and business model. Makoons Preschool emerges as a leading contender in this competitive landscape, offering a holistic approach to early childhood education and a proven track record of success.Why Choose Makoons Preschool Franchise:
Makoons Preschool embodies the ethos of educational excellence, with a vision to nurture the leaders of tomorrow through a synergistic blend of academics, values, and life skills. By choosing Makoons Preschool franchise, entrepreneurs gain access to a comprehensive support system that includes:- Proven Curriculum: Makoons Preschool's curriculum is designed to foster holistic development, encompassing cognitive, social, emotional, and physical domains. With a focus on experiential learning and play-based activities, the curriculum ensures that children thrive in a stimulating and nurturing environment.
- Extensive Training: Franchisees receive extensive training and ongoing support from experienced educators and business professionals. From initial setup to day-to-day operations, Makoons Preschool provides guidance every step of the way, ensuring the success of each franchisee.
- Brand Recognition: Makoons Preschool enjoys widespread recognition and trust among parents and educators across India. By affiliating with Makoons, franchisees benefit from the brand's reputation for excellence and quality in early childhood education.
- Marketing Support: Makoons Preschool provides marketing support to franchisees, including advertising materials, digital marketing initiatives, and promotional campaigns. This support helps franchisees attract new students and grow their business in their local communities.
Investing in Educational Excellence:
Aspiring entrepreneurs looking to invest in the best playschool franchise in India can rest assured that Makoons Preschool offers a rewarding and fulfilling opportunity. By joining the Makoons family, franchisees become part of a network committed to shaping the future of early childhood education and making a positive impact on young lives.Conclusion:
In conclusion, the best playschool franchise opportunities in India offer aspiring entrepreneurs a chance to make a difference in the lives of children while building a successful business venture. Makoons Preschool stands out as a leader in this space, offering a comprehensive support system, proven curriculum, and a commitment to educational excellence. By choosing Makoons Preschool franchise, entrepreneurs can embark on a rewarding journey of entrepreneurial success and educational leadership.
2024.05.15 11:37 namisuaaan My daughter’s best friend’s mother seems to dislike my daughter
My DD is in kindergarten, since the beginning of this school year, my daughter and this girl in her class clicked and always seem to get along, holding hands together after school at pick up, my daughter always speaks positively about her and I also volunteer in the classroom occasionally and I never saw any issues between how they interact. My daughter also has several friends in her class from preschool/baby years she gets along with. One time, I volunteered, the girl had come up to me asked me if my daughter and her could have a play date, so I said of course, so I approached her daughter’s mom during pick up one day, about possibly setting up a play date and she quickly replied and said when the weather is warmer. I didn’t think anything of it at the time. Then I started noticing whenever my daughter is hugging goodbye to her friend, her mom seemed really uncomfortable would gesture her daughter to stop hugging and quickly walk away. My husband even noticed one time at pick up the mom was not so friendly to him when he tried to greet.
Later my daughter mentioned her friend’s mom volunteered in class and she was not being nice to her, that she kept talking to my daughter in firm voice, kind of made her sad. I said ok, well maybe she was trying to be professional.
Recently I received an email from the mother out of the blue (this is one of the first contact we’ve made) saying there was an incident during recess where my daughter was crying for her best friend when her friend was playing with other girls and she feels my daughter only likes to play with her and not include everyone else. In the email she asked if I could have a conversation with my daughter about making new friends. I was a little confused because the same day my daughter didn’t mention anything about the incident and said she was crying that day because she was upset about not being able to finish worksheet in class. I responded saying sorry about the incident and I’ll talk to her and the teacher.
I emailed the teacher asking about the incident to better understand the issue. The teacher responded short message saying they like to play together and that seems to be going okay. Her teacher and assistant teacher will monitor situation next few days and let me know if we need to action further. To me, the teacher didn’t really seem concerned of their behaviors, and when I ask my daughter about how she feels at recess and her friends, she doesn’t say she’s jealous or feeling sad and says she’s pretty happy playing. Of course at this age, I know a lot happens during the day and as they spend many hours together during the week at school so some days can be worse than others. I try to take my daughter’s words with a grain of salt. That said, I think my daughter is well socialized, she is involved in sports and other activities outside of school where she has social circle, she also has older sibling and she knows how to stand up for herself if needed.
Now I’m kind of feeling annoyed maybe the parent is just trying to manipulate the situation because she simply doesn’t like my daughter playing with hers for some reason. I’m disappointed for my daughter because this girl is her first best friend. I talked to her about making new friendships but my daughter just seems confused because she says she does play with other friends and even other friends from another class. How can I get my daughter to steer away from friend at this age? I don’t want any more trouble over nothing.
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Later my daughter mentioned her friend’s mom volunteered in class and she was not being nice to her, that she kept talking to my daughter in firm voice, kind of made her sad. I said ok, well maybe she was trying to be professional.
Recently I received an email from the mother out of the blue (this is one of the first contact we’ve made) saying there was an incident during recess where my daughter was crying for her best friend when her friend was playing with other girls and she feels my daughter only likes to play with her and not include everyone else. In the email she asked if I could have a conversation with my daughter about making new friends. I was a little confused because the same day my daughter didn’t mention anything about the incident and said she was crying that day because she was upset about not being able to finish worksheet in class. I responded saying sorry about the incident and I’ll talk to her and the teacher.
I emailed the teacher asking about the incident to better understand the issue. The teacher responded short message saying they like to play together and that seems to be going okay. Her teacher and assistant teacher will monitor situation next few days and let me know if we need to action further. To me, the teacher didn’t really seem concerned of their behaviors, and when I ask my daughter about how she feels at recess and her friends, she doesn’t say she’s jealous or feeling sad and says she’s pretty happy playing. Of course at this age, I know a lot happens during the day and as they spend many hours together during the week at school so some days can be worse than others. I try to take my daughter’s words with a grain of salt. That said, I think my daughter is well socialized, she is involved in sports and other activities outside of school where she has social circle, she also has older sibling and she knows how to stand up for herself if needed.
Now I’m kind of feeling annoyed maybe the parent is just trying to manipulate the situation because she simply doesn’t like my daughter playing with hers for some reason. I’m disappointed for my daughter because this girl is her first best friend. I talked to her about making new friendships but my daughter just seems confused because she says she does play with other friends and even other friends from another class. How can I get my daughter to steer away from friend at this age? I don’t want any more trouble over nothing.
2024.05.15 11:09 Nowtechacademy Exploring Childcare Options in Pembroke Pines: Pros and Cons of Daycare Centers
In the whirlwind of parenting, one of the biggest decisions revolves around childcare. From nannies to daycare centers, each option presents its own set of advantages and challenges. Let's dive into the world of childcare options, dissecting the pros and cons of each:
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Daycare Center
What is it? ~Daycare centers~, also known as nursery schools or childcare centers, are usually in commercial buildings and have several classrooms for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. They're most often operated by private companies, churches, community centers, and schools.Pros:
- Affordable: Often more budget-friendly compared to private nanny care.
- Reliable: Operated by a staff of teachers, ensuring regular hours.
- Supervised Environment: Adheres to state-regulated teacher-to-student ratios.
- Socialization: Enables interaction with peers, fostering social skills.
- Trained Staff: Employees typically have qualifications in early childhood education.
- Licensed and Regulated: Provides peace of mind regarding safety and quality standards.
- Higher Child-to-Caregiver Ratio: Each caregiver may oversee multiple children.
- Limited Availability: Centers catering to infants may have lengthy waiting lists.
- Increased Illness Risk: Group settings can lead to more frequent sickness.
- Holiday Closures: Typically closed during major holidays.
- Rigid Schedule: Pickup and drop-off times may lack flexibility.
Home Daycare Center
What is it? In a home daycare center, a childcare provider (or providers) watches over a small group of children in their own home, condo, or apartment. Some states require home daycare centers to be licensed, while others don't.Pros:
- Homelike Atmosphere: Offers a nurturing environment akin to home.
- Smaller Groups: Often entails fewer children than larger daycare centers.
- Cost-Effective: Generally more affordable than other childcare options.
- Flexibility: May have more lenient pickup and drop-off times.
- Socialization Opportunities: Facilitates interaction with peers.
- Limited Backup: Lack of substitute caregivers if the provider falls ill.
- Illness Concerns: Similar to daycare centers, sickness can spread easily.
- Varied Qualifications: Some providers lack formal early childhood education.
- Less Stringent Regulations: May have fewer licensing requirements.
- Holiday Closures: Often closed for holidays and vacations.
Nanny
What is it? A nanny is a private childcare provider or caretaker that you hire to provide one-on-one care and supervision for your child, usually in your own home.Pros:
- Personalized Attention: Provides one-on-one care tailored to your child's needs.
- Convenience: Care takes place in the familiar setting of your home.
- Flexibility: Offers more adaptable hours compared to daycare centers.
- Continuity of Care: Child remains in a consistent environment, even when sick.
- Potential Cost Sharing: Allows for nanny sharing arrangements to reduce expenses.
- High Cost: Typically the most expensive childcare option.
- Lack of Oversight: Limited supervision in the home environment.
- Socialization Arrangements: Responsibility falls on parents or nanny to organize playdates.
- Administrative Burden: Involves paperwork, taxes, and legal obligations.
- Dependency: Relies on the availability and reliability of the nanny.
Au Pair
What is it? An au pair is a young person from another country who works with a United States-based agency to come to the U.S. and provide childcare for a limited period of time, usually a year. The au pair lives with their host family and is meant to have a cultural and educational experience in addition to providing up to 45 hours of childcare per week.Pros:
- Personalized Care: Offers individualized attention within the home setting.
- Flexibility: Provides adaptable hours, similar to nanny care.
- Cultural Exchange: Introduces cultural diversity and language immersion.
- Consistent Care: Child remains in a familiar environment, even during illness.
- Cost Efficiency: Expenses remain consistent regardless of the number of children.
- Limited Duration: Au pairs typically stay for one to two years, requiring regular replacements.
- Lack of Oversight: Similar to nanny care, supervision is minimal within the home.
- Socialization Arrangements: Responsibility falls on parents or the au pair to facilitate interactions.
- Housing and Living Expenses: Host families must provide accommodation and living stipends.
- Dependency: Relies on the availability and commitment of the au pair.
Relative Care
What is it? Some families have the option to ask a relative to provide childcare for their baby; most often it's a grandparent who lives in the same town or offers to relocate and move in with you.Pros:
- Personal Connection: Offers familial care with shared values and interests.
- Affordability: Often the most cost-effective option, if not free.
- Convenience: Accessibility and familiarity with the caregiver.
- Cultural Continuity: Promotes family traditions and values.
- Communication Challenges: Potential conflicts in childcare philosophies.
- Limited Socialization: Requires deliberate efforts to arrange interactions with peers.
- Lack of Regulation: Minimal oversight and formal qualifications.
- Capability Concerns: Older relatives may struggle with the demands of childcare.
Stay-at-Home Parent
What is it? Stay-at-home parents take extended or permanent time away from the workforce to care for their child(ren). Some parents may find this the most financially plausible option for their childcare situation, while for others, especially single parents, it's not possible.Pros:
- Parental Presence: Allows for direct involvement in a child's development.
- Quality Control: Ensures adherence to personal childcare philosophies.
- Work-Life Balance: Eliminates the stress of juggling work and childcare.
- Flexibility: Offers freedom in scheduling and activities.
- Isolation: Potential loneliness or lack of adult interaction.
- Physical and Emotional Toll: Can be physically and emotionally demanding.
- Limited Socialization: Requires deliberate efforts to facilitate peer interactions.
- Financial Implications: It may impact future career prospects and income.
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Ready to provide your child with a nurturing and enriching childcare experience? Enroll now at ~Nowtech Academy daycare center~ and give your child the gift of quality early education. ~Contact us today~ to ~schedule a tour~ and learn more about our programs and enrollment process.Conclusion
daycare centers in Pembroke Pines offer numerous benefits for families seeking quality childcare, including structured learning environments, socialization opportunities, and trained staff. While there are challenges such as cost and illness concerns, the ~right daycare center~ can provide invaluable support for both children and parents. Consider Nowtech Academy daycare center for a comprehensive and innovative approach to early childhood education.2024.05.15 07:52 Grand_Valuable_2620 Preschool in Bellandur
Looking for a nurturing environment for your little one in Bellandur? Look no further than Kids Kingdom, your premier destination for daycare, playschool, and preschool services. At Kids Kingdom, we understand the importance of providing a safe, stimulating, and engaging environment for young children to learn and grow. Our preschool in Bellandur is designed to cater to the unique needs of children in their formative years. With a focus on holistic development, we offer a comprehensive curriculum that fosters cognitive, social, emotional, and physical development. Our experienced educators utilize a blend of play-based learning and structured activities to ensure that each child reaches their full potential. Additionally, our daycare services provide working parents with peace of mind, knowing that their child is in a secure and supportive environment while they're away. Whether it's through creative arts, interactive games, or outdoor exploration, we strive to make every moment at Kids Kingdom a valuable learning experience for your little one. Join us at Kids Kingdom and let's embark on a journey of discovery and growth together!
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2024.05.15 07:01 kid_lemon_guy How do I get rid of my stage fright?
My recital / show for my ballet is coming this weekend and it’s my first show I’ve been doing ballet since November. I have really bad stage fright and ballet is my comfort activity to do.
Today was my practice for my show on the stage and there were a lot of people watching me messing it up literally my relatives laughed at me for messing it up 💀💀 I also felt like I made my teachers disappointed at me for messing it up- tomorrow is my practice again and I’m nervous how it’s gonna go again
Is there any advice how to get rid of my stage fright or calm myself down? Ty :3 sorry if there’s any autocorrect in this post _^
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Today was my practice for my show on the stage and there were a lot of people watching me messing it up literally my relatives laughed at me for messing it up 💀💀 I also felt like I made my teachers disappointed at me for messing it up- tomorrow is my practice again and I’m nervous how it’s gonna go again
Is there any advice how to get rid of my stage fright or calm myself down? Ty :3 sorry if there’s any autocorrect in this post _^
2024.05.15 05:26 Sweet-Count2557 92ny Summer Camps Camp Yomi 0
 | 92ny Summer Camps Camp Yomi 0 Have you ever wondered what makes Camp Yomi stand out among the many summer camps in New York? Well, let me tell you, there's something truly special about the experience we offer.From the moment you step foot on our grounds, you'll be captivated by the wide range of activities and the sense of adventure that fills the air. But that's just the beginning.Stay tuned to discover the unparalleled safety measures we have in place, the idyllic location that sets us apart, and the glowing reviews from satisfied campers and parents alike.So, are you ready to embark on a journey that will leave you wanting more?Key TakeawaysCamp Yomi offers a diverse range of activities and programming, including swimming, arts and crafts, drama, and music, allowing campers to express themselves and discover their passions.The camp prioritizes safety, with fully vaccinated campers and staff, adherence to CDC guidelines, and transportation arrangements designed with safety in mind.Located in Rockland County, New York, Camp Yomi provides a refreshing summer camp experience in a serene environment, with easy access to nearby attractions such as hiking trails, parks, historical sites, and museums.Camp Yomi is part of the 92Y Camps network, which offers a safe and supportive environment for children to explore interests, build skills, and develop problem-solving and teamwork abilities through a wide variety of activities.Camp Yomi ActivitiesCamp Yomi offers campers a wide variety of activities to engage in throughout their summer camp experience. One of the highlights of the camp is the swim instruction provided to campers. With two swims per day, campers have the opportunity to improve their swimming skills and build confidence in the water. The instructional swim sessions are led by certified instructors who focus on teaching proper techniques and water safety.In addition to swim instruction, Camp Yomi also offers a diverse range of creative programming. Campers have the chance to explore their artistic side through activities such as arts and crafts, drama, and music. They can express themselves and unleash their creativity in a supportive and encouraging environment.The camp's emphasis on creative programming allows campers to try new activities and discover their passions. Whether it's painting, acting, or playing a musical instrument, campers are encouraged to take safe risks and learn through trial and error. This approach fosters a sense of freedom and exploration, allowing campers to fully immerse themselves in the activities and experience personal growth.Camp Yomi Safety MeasuresEnsuring the safety and well-being of all campers and staff is of paramount importance at Camp Yomi. We take several measures to create a secure environment for everyone involved.Firstly, all campers and staff must be fully vaccinated, following the camp Yomi vaccination requirements. This helps to minimize the risk of any potential health issues and ensures the safety of the entire camp community.In addition to vaccination requirements, Camp Yomi follows additional CDC guidelines to further enhance safety. These guidelines include practicing good hygiene, encouraging frequent handwashing, and promoting social distancing whenever possible. Our focus is on maintaining a warm and fun atmosphere while prioritizing the health and well-being of everyone.Transportation arrangements at Camp Yomi are also designed with safety in mind. Campers travel in air-conditioned Coach buses with a bathroom on board. This ensures a comfortable and secure journey to and from the camp. Our transportation system is well-maintained and regularly inspected to meet the highest safety standards.At Camp Yomi, we believe that safety is a collective responsibility. We have a dedicated team of trained professionals who oversee the implementation of safety measures and ensure that all campers and staff are protected throughout their time at camp.Camp Yomi LocationAfter prioritizing safety measures at Camp Yomi, it's important to now explore the camp's location in Rockland County. Located in beautiful Rockland County, Camp Yomi offers a break from the city environment, providing campers with a refreshing experience in the fresh air. Here are three reasons why the location of Camp Yomi is worth considering:Close proximity to New York City: Camp Yomi is conveniently located near New York City, allowing campers to enjoy the best of both worlds. They can escape the hustle and bustle of the city and immerse themselves in nature at the camp, while still being just a short distance away from the vibrant city life.Rockland County attractions: The camp's location in Rockland County offers campers the opportunity to explore and enjoy a variety of attractions. From hiking trails and parks to historical sites and museums, there's something for everyone. Campers can engage in outdoor activities, learn about the local history, and make memories that will last a lifetime.Transportation options: Camp Yomi understands the importance of convenient transportation for campers and their families. The camp provides transportation options, ensuring that campers can easily travel to and from the camp. Campers will travel in air-conditioned Coach buses with a bathroom on board, ensuring a comfortable and hassle-free journey.With its proximity to New York City, the variety of attractions in Rockland County, and convenient transportation options, Camp Yomi's location offers campers the freedom to explore, have fun, and create unforgettable summer memories.Camp Yomi ReviewsBased on the overall rating of 4.5 and positive feedback from Anna Fader, Camp Yomi has received high praise for its engaging activities and enjoyable outdoor experience. The camp Yomi staff is highly regarded for their dedication and expertise in creating a safe and fun environment for campers. The staff ensures that all campers and staff are fully vaccinated, and they follow additional CDC guidelines to maintain a secure environment. Camp Yomi takes safety seriously, providing campers with convenient transportation options in air-conditioned Coach buses equipped with a bathroom.Camp Yomi facilities are well-maintained and offer a range of amenities to enhance the camp experience. The location in beautiful Rockland County provides a break from the city environment and offers a refreshing experience in fresh air. Campers have access to a wide variety of activities, including two swims per day, sports programming, and an incredible array of creative activities. Camp Yomi encourages campers to take safe risks and learn through trial and error, fostering personal growth and development.Feedback from Anna Fader highlights her daughter's enjoyment of the camp and the opportunity to try out new activities. The camp's emphasis on maintaining a warm and fun atmosphere is appreciated by both campers and parents. Anna Fader encourages others to leave a review, emphasizing the positive experience her daughter had at Camp Yomi.92Y Camps InformationY Camps Information includes a variety of activities and day camp options for children in New York City. Here are three key things to know about Y Camps:Y Camps Benefits:Y Camps offer a safe and supportive environment for children to explore their interests and build lifelong skills.Campers get to participate in a wide variety of activities, including sports programming and an incredible array of creative activities.Y Camps encourage campers to take safe risks, learn through trial and error, and develop valuable problem-solving and teamwork skills.Y Camps Age Groups:Y Camps cater to children of different age groups, providing age-appropriate activities and experiences.The camps offer programs for children as young as preschool age, providing a fun and nurturing environment for their growth and development.Older children and teenagers can also benefit from Y Camps, as they offer programs designed to challenge and engage them, fostering personal growth and independence.Additional Information:Y Camps are part of the KidsUptown network in New York City, ensuring high-quality programming and a strong support system.Located in New York, NY, Y Camps offer convenient transportation options for campers and their families.More information about the camps and additional activities can be found on their website, and their contact number is 212-415-5573.With their diverse range of activities, age-appropriate programming, and numerous benefits, Y Camps provide an exciting and enriching summer camp experience for children in New York City.Contact and Location DetailsLocated in beautiful Rockland County, Camp Yomi offers a refreshing summer camp experience in a convenient location with transportation options available. Our camp is situated in a serene environment that provides a break from the city hustle and bustle, allowing campers to enjoy the fresh air and natural surroundings. With close proximity to New York City, Camp Yomi offers the best of both worlds - a peaceful retreat and easy access to nearby attractions.To provide you with a clear overview of our location and contact details, please refer to the table below:Contact DetailsNearby AttractionsPhone: 212-415-5573- Bear Mountain State ParkEmail: info@campyomi.org- Palisades Center MallWebsite: www.campyomi.org- Hudson River MuseumAddress: 92nd Street Y Camps, 1395 Brick Church Road, Rockland County, NY- Rockland Lake State ParkFor any inquiries or to schedule a visit, you can reach us at the provided phone number or email address. Our friendly staff will be more than happy to assist you.In addition to the enriching camp experience, Camp Yomi is surrounded by various nearby attractions that campers can explore during their time here. From the picturesque Bear Mountain State Park to the Palisades Center Mall for some retail therapy, there is something for everyone. The Hudson River Museum and Rockland Lake State Park are also popular destinations for campers to enjoy educational and outdoor activities.At Camp Yomi, we understand the importance of providing a convenient and accessible location for families. With transportation options available, we strive to make the camp experience as hassle-free as possible. Join us at Camp Yomi for an unforgettable summer filled with adventure, fun, and lifelong memories.Frequently Asked QuestionsWhat Is the Average Camper-To-Staff Ratio at Camp Yomi?The average camper-to-staff ratio at Camp Yomi is low, which has many benefits. With more staff members available, each camper receives more individual attention and supervision. This allows for a safer and more personalized experience.Campers can fully engage in activities and receive guidance when needed. The low ratio also promotes a sense of community and fosters strong relationships between campers and staff.Are There Any Additional Fees for the Sports Programming at Camp Yomi?There are no additional fees for the sports programming at Camp Yomi. Campers can enjoy a wide variety of activities, including sports, without any extra cost.Our camp emphasizes providing a fun and inclusive experience for all campers, and that includes offering a range of activities without any hidden fees.Can Parents Visit and Observe the Camp Activities at Camp Yomi?Yes, parents can visit and observe the camp activities at Camp Yomi. We believe that parent involvement is crucial in creating a positive camp experience for the campers.By observing the activities, parents can witness their child's growth, development, and enjoyment firsthand. It also allows parents to see the safe and secure environment we provide at Camp Yomi.We encourage parents to come and be a part of their child's camp journey.Is Transportation Provided to and From Camp Yomi?Transportation is provided to and from Camp Yomi. We've various transportation options available to ensure a smooth and convenient experience for campers. Our transportation logistics are well-organized, with campers traveling in air-conditioned Coach buses that have a bathroom on board.We prioritize the safety and comfort of our campers during transportation. Whether you're coming from New York City or the surrounding areas, we've convenient transportation options to make getting to camp a breeze.Are There Any Age Restrictions for Campers at Camp Yomi?There are no age restrictions for campers at Camp Yomi. All children are eligible to attend the camp and participate in the wide variety of activities offered.Camp Yomi provides a safe environment for campers to explore, learn, and have fun. With two swims per day, sports programming, and an incredible array of creative activities, campers of all ages can enjoy their time at Camp Yomi.ConclusionIn conclusion, Camp Yomi offers an exceptional summer experience for campers with a wide range of activities and a focus on safety. Located in beautiful Rockland County, it provides a serene natural setting while being conveniently close to New York City.With positive reviews from campers like Anna Fader, it's clear that Camp Yomi delivers a memorable and enjoyable summer camp experience.Join us at Camp Yomi and create lasting memories this summer! submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 23:58 Skubi__ Im in a weird situation
Ok, I (20F) went to all girls school and was training ballet professionally , which occupied most of my time, I had almost 0 interaction with boys during my teenage years . As you can imagine I never had a boyfriend, not to mention sex , I even never kissed anyone.
So after graduating high school i went to uni, where my class is strongly male dominant. I wasn’t surprised , as the field of study I chose is considered more masculine. Generally speaking, we formed a pretty solid friend group. The only thing is, I am the only female there and I don’t know how to feel about it. They are all very nice and respectful towards me and I feel comfortable around them. I do really see and treat them as my friends. However, I do feel like it’s weird that I am one girl among like 7 boys, and I do not want to come across like a flirty hoe who sleeps with every man they see, as I know that’s what people assume when they see a girl in my situation. Additionally I do want to mention, that I am getting a lot of attention from them, like A LOT. As I said , I do not have experience with men, so I don’t really know, but they act very much gentleman like, often complement my outfits/ haimakeup , some of them tease me, also they are maintaining strong eye contact, like man I’m and just chilling and I feel like someone is constantly looking at me. I went clubbing with them for a few times, and every time they get drunk they act like I am a fucking goddess , take me for a dance (mostly I agree , but almost always I am drunk), buy me drinks , etc. They never did anything inappropriate that I would be uncomfortable with. BTW they are all at lest 2 years older then me. I also want to say that I’m kind of an outspoken , outgoing and confident person, so I’m actively participating in convo, jokes, discussions, meet-ups etc. Ex :When they tease me I’ll tease them back, Do you think they see me as flirtatious, as I spend most of my time with them like that? Because , as I said I do not want to come off as sluty, but also I like having friends in my workplace. What do I do ?
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So after graduating high school i went to uni, where my class is strongly male dominant. I wasn’t surprised , as the field of study I chose is considered more masculine. Generally speaking, we formed a pretty solid friend group. The only thing is, I am the only female there and I don’t know how to feel about it. They are all very nice and respectful towards me and I feel comfortable around them. I do really see and treat them as my friends. However, I do feel like it’s weird that I am one girl among like 7 boys, and I do not want to come across like a flirty hoe who sleeps with every man they see, as I know that’s what people assume when they see a girl in my situation. Additionally I do want to mention, that I am getting a lot of attention from them, like A LOT. As I said , I do not have experience with men, so I don’t really know, but they act very much gentleman like, often complement my outfits/ haimakeup , some of them tease me, also they are maintaining strong eye contact, like man I’m and just chilling and I feel like someone is constantly looking at me. I went clubbing with them for a few times, and every time they get drunk they act like I am a fucking goddess , take me for a dance (mostly I agree , but almost always I am drunk), buy me drinks , etc. They never did anything inappropriate that I would be uncomfortable with. BTW they are all at lest 2 years older then me. I also want to say that I’m kind of an outspoken , outgoing and confident person, so I’m actively participating in convo, jokes, discussions, meet-ups etc. Ex :When they tease me I’ll tease them back, Do you think they see me as flirtatious, as I spend most of my time with them like that? Because , as I said I do not want to come off as sluty, but also I like having friends in my workplace. What do I do ?
2024.05.14 23:01 SnooPeppers579 I’ve had 2(possibly 3) hamsters pass in the course of a month
 | All of these animals are at my place of work( a preschool) and I have very limited control over them. I have no control over the size of their enclosure, nor do I have control over their placement, and their existence within the school. I am trying to do the absolute best that I can with giving them enrichment inside their enclosures and doing as much research as I can. To start, we have 2 gerbils, 2 guinea pigs and 2 hamsters. The gerbils and hamsters are in 20 gallon tanks. The first hamster(Snoopy) we had was a male Syrian that was very young. He suddenly fell ill and I’m not sure what caused it. I feed the rodents a mixture of Essentials hamster food and mix seed. Snoopy passed while the substrate was regular paper based bedding( not sure the brand). Someone else bleached and sanitized the tank, wheel, food bowl, not sure about the water bottle. We got a female short hair hamster(Strawberry) the same day and that was about 3 ish weeks ago. Since then, she has had a paper based bedding, then I switched to a mixture of aspen and clean and cozy paper. I did the same switches to our other long haired Syrian hamster(Snowball) that we’ve had for about 7 months. Strawberry passed yesterday very suddenly. She was active that morning then just a few hours later she was gone(about a week after the substrate switch. Today, snowball was breathing weird and sleeping outside of her nest. I let her out played with her a little and gave her a blueberry she seemed okay. The only things I can think of is 1. Since I work at a preschool, everyone is constantly sick, children and teachers, and I read sicknesses can spread to the hammies? 2. The The ball (which they all share) wasn’t sanitized between each use and something spread between them. 3. Snoopy and strawberry were placed in a very unfortunately in their room(not my decision) next to a changing table where they constantly spray bleach water and febreeze. But that wouldn’t explain why snowball isn’t feeling well. 4 they all came from petsmart so they were already sick. 5. Stress. All three hamsters chewed/chew the plastic on the top of their tanks. Or 6. The switch I made to adding the aspen in there. The first two images are of snowballs old and new setups, then strawberry’s new, then snoopys only setup. I’m sorry for how unorganized this is! My heart aches for these hamsters and I’d love any help possible. submitted by SnooPeppers579 to hamsters [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 20:50 __sunshine__daydream Mature Female Attire
I am a 35f with a one year old son. I am very active and relatively fit. I love hiking, yoga, working out, and biking. I consider myself a fun and playful person despite being a mother and approaching middle age.
As I got ready for a bike ride/outdoor workout yesterday I put on my black athletic shorts, a bright and fun bathing suit top that I wore as a sports bra, Birkenstocks, and a bucket hat. I wondered to myself.. do I look silly?
I often wear athletic clothing that can be tight and usually my midriff is showing. For going out I will wear high waisted jeans or flare pants and a low cut top or a flowy dress. I love colorful, fun jewelry and accessories. Recently I have been super into Billabong, O’Neil, and Roxy.. brands I wore as a teenager! I love boho/beach clothes and believe the 60s/70s and the 90s are timeless in regards to fashion.
My question is.. do you think women over 30 should dress a certain way? Do you think mothers should dress a certain way? Is it cringy when you see mature women wearing styles that may be viewed as youthful?
I remember seeing make over shows as a kid where women were ridiculed for having an outdated style or dressing too provocative for their age. Was this just early 2000s bullshit? (Keep in mind this was during a time where Tyra Banks was telling size 6 women they were plus size models.) Am I going to embarrass my son one day by being too funky or showing too much skin? Or is this all just societal constructs?
Edit: Love what someone said about reading the room. I absolutely cover up for professional events or funerals. I am also a preschool teacher so I do dress modest for work (imagine Miss Lippy).
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As I got ready for a bike ride/outdoor workout yesterday I put on my black athletic shorts, a bright and fun bathing suit top that I wore as a sports bra, Birkenstocks, and a bucket hat. I wondered to myself.. do I look silly?
I often wear athletic clothing that can be tight and usually my midriff is showing. For going out I will wear high waisted jeans or flare pants and a low cut top or a flowy dress. I love colorful, fun jewelry and accessories. Recently I have been super into Billabong, O’Neil, and Roxy.. brands I wore as a teenager! I love boho/beach clothes and believe the 60s/70s and the 90s are timeless in regards to fashion.
My question is.. do you think women over 30 should dress a certain way? Do you think mothers should dress a certain way? Is it cringy when you see mature women wearing styles that may be viewed as youthful?
I remember seeing make over shows as a kid where women were ridiculed for having an outdated style or dressing too provocative for their age. Was this just early 2000s bullshit? (Keep in mind this was during a time where Tyra Banks was telling size 6 women they were plus size models.) Am I going to embarrass my son one day by being too funky or showing too much skin? Or is this all just societal constructs?
Edit: Love what someone said about reading the room. I absolutely cover up for professional events or funerals. I am also a preschool teacher so I do dress modest for work (imagine Miss Lippy).
2024.05.14 19:42 nuggetsofchicken The GND Expanded Universe and what people get wrong about NDAs
There's been much discussion, both on the podcast and on this sub, about the extent to which those involved in the Playboy inner and outer circle were subject to NDAs. Most recently, Crystal has been criticized by Marston and HB for supposedly obtaining NDAs near the end of Hef's life and "silencing" his close friend. I think there is some fundamental misunderstandings about NDAs and what their role might be in this story.
Who am I? I am a silly little lawyer, practicing in California, and I love the intersection of law and popular culture. I wrote a journal article in law school about NDAs and the MeToo movement but sure as hell didn't try to get it published, so I've done deep dives into this topic but I am by no means an expert. I do love to learn, however, so if anyone has expertise in this area and wants to correct me or add onto any of this I would greatly appreciate it.
What is an NDA?
A non-disclosure agreement or an "NDA" refers to the broad spectrum of contractual agreements where the terms of the agreement bind at least one party from communicating about a pre-determined topic. Basically, a contract that makes at least someone keep quiet about something.
A contract requires (amongst other things) consideration by both parties. This means both parties have to give and take something for the contract to be valid. A contract, or an NDA, cannot just be a piece of paper where someone promises to do something. There has to be something in it for both sides.
Consideration, most commonly, takes the form of money. I pay you X, so you will do Y. But it can also be in the form of permission to engage in a certain activity. For example, I did an escape room once that had an NDA clause in the waiver so that people wouldn't go blabbing about how to solve the room once they were done. In exchange for getting to do the room, I agreed to the NDA. If I didn't want to agree to those terms, I could just not do the escape room.
The terms of the contract have to be reasonably balanced. You can't pay one cent for someone to agree to give you their firstborn child. Courts generally aren't in the business of scrutinizing the fairness of terms of contracts unless there's something grossly egregious about them, but it still has to make some modicum of sense.
Misunderstanding #1 - Anyone who signs an NDA is a victim being silenced by the other party.
This seems to be the assumption that HB and Marston are operating off of. There's this notion that Crystal forced all of Hef's circle to sign NDAs near the end of his life and now they're being silenced because of it.
First, you can't just have people sign NDAs and expect them to be enforceable. If Crystal did get NDAs from Hef's circle later in life, they had to have been paid consideration for it. Either Crystal offered them a sum of money (which they accepted) or the NDA was a requisite to partake in movie night, buffet dinner, etc. Either way, those who signed NDAs did so with an acceptance of what would be offered in exchange.
Obviously, there's argument that most people don't really understand the contracts they sign and wouldn't agree to them if they understood what they were giving up. But Hef's inner circle? These are people who have been in the entertainment industry for years, if not decades; these are people who have money to hire a lawyer, if not already have a lawyer on speed-dial. I am skeptical that if Dickie Bann was handed an NDA before entering the mansion for movie night he would've just signed it blindly.
Let's also consider the fact that the value of one's ability to speak out is inherently subjective. The criticism of an NDA assumes that the right to speak on a matter is something otherwise desired by the person agreeing to the NDA. It's easy to wonder why a victim would ever agree to an NDA and be prevented from speaking out about their experience. Frankly, before MeToo and the rise of social media, most victims of traumatic experiences were more inclined to speak less about their abuse than to go public. If you're a victim, and you already have no reason to speak to the public about your trauma, getting a significant payout to remain silent is actually a pretty solid deal.
Hef's friends are not victims by any means. But they showed a great amount of loyalty to him and the Playboy brand for decades before his death. I am incredibly skeptical of the notion that Hef's friends, but for some NDA, would have otherwise planned on ratting him out and showing the world that his health was declining.
The value of silence is subjective. Someone signing an NDA does not necessarily mean they are now restricted from publicly communicating something major. It very well might mean they just now have a legal obligation to do the thing that they would have done otherwise.
If, somehow, Crystal had been able to get Hef's friends to sign NDAs, I do not think that it influenced their behavior enough from what would have otherwise been that anyone needs to be that concerned about it. If it did, great, they probably got a great payout from it.
Misunderstanding #2 - NDAs are counter-intuitive to free speech and Hef would have never stood for them
As I'm sure many of you are aware, the First Amendment protection of free speech refers to the government's ability to restrict speech. Someone choosing to sign an NDA is not the same as the government preventing your broadcast from reaching its desired audiences. Someone choosing to not enter a private preschool with an AR-47 has nothing to do with their Second Amendment rights. The free speech that Hef specifically was known for advocating for had to do with censorship at the hands of the government from the broadcast of "obscene" content.
Maybe Bridget meant just the general philosophical idea of "free speech," which you would hope her masters in communication would have taught her to clarify the difference between. Regardles, remember, NDAs require consideration. This is not just ruthless silencing of innocent people who'd love to speak out about how awful Crystal is. These are wealthy, if not also highly educated, people in Hef's inner circle who, if they signed an NDA, surely understand the gravity (or lack thereof) of what they're agreeing to.
Likewise, I don't think Hef was against the idea of an NDA. Holly speculated that Hef wouldn't have required NDAs for those going into the bedroom because it would have given them a second to think about their decision. There's probably truth to this, but courts are also -very- reluctant to enforce any contracts that seem as though they would implicitly be authorizing sex in exchange for money. Also keep in mind the limited opportunities for women at that time to "speak out" if they even wanted to share about what happened in the bedroom. Hef probably would've loved for the public to hear what happened. There wasn't social media or the same understanding of power dynamics as there are these days. Who is someone who went into the bedroom and didn't sign an NDA and had a horrible time going to go to?
Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that Holly said she signed an NDA to work at the studio. This is perfectly reasonable. Anyone who is on a salary or signed a contract with an employer probably has signed off on an NDA clause and are currently bound by it. You couldn't keep something like who the Playmate of the Year was under wraps without some strict confidentiality provisions. The Playboy empire could not exist if there was some kind of blanket rule against NDAs.
Additionally, part of the allure of the mansion parties, per the podcast, were that no outside cameras were permitted inside. You're really gonna rag on someone not wanting a bunch of shitty iPhone shots of a man in his dying days, meanwhile you're singing the praises of exclusive parties that for decades wouldn't let people take and share photos of the event?
I am fully confident that Hef did not have issues with NDAs for business purposes, and certainly did not see that as contradicting his stance on free speech. In the podcast they said the mansion staff signed NDAs as part of their employment contracts There are countless examples of the Playboy company trying to silence people in Secrets of Playboy. Hef made it very clear that his stance was that free speech was important when it could help his bottom line. Anything else was negotiable.
Misunderstanding #3 - If someone signs an NDA it's automatically enforceable/If an NDA is unenforceable that will be obvious from the get go
To play devil's advocate to myself, I will say that whether an NDA is enforceable by a court of law and whether the parties abide by the terms are two separate issues. In many cases, a contract may not hold up in court if someone seeks to litigate over alleged violation of the terms. Most contracts don't get litigated over let alone actually get a final determination of their enforceability by a Court.
I will say that there's possibility that Crystal had people sign NDAs that were shotty but that the signers didn't understand that the NDAs weren't legitimate and so they still complied with the terms of the contract. (for example, often those waivers you sign for various activities wouldn't hold up in court, but people think they do, which precludes a lot of people from even considering bringing a claim) But this goes back to the type of people who would be signing these NDAs who otherwise might have access to sensitive information about Hef or the company. These are not girls coming out to do test shoots or the larger guest list at the mansion parties. These are people who are wealthy, powerful, and educated and would not be duped by the idea that merely signing an NDA with ridiculous terms would mean the contract is enforceable. Or perhaps they just didn't give a fuck enough about blabbing so there was no reason for them to even question the NDA that would stop them from saying something they weren't playing on saying.
Not a misunderstanding but one closing note in defense of these hypothetical NDAs - The power of speech for the average person has increased exponentially in the digital and social media age. HB acknowledge that the mansion parties were unique from anything currently because there weren't the same tools we have now to disseminate information. I think it's sort of an apples and oranges comparison in terms of confidentiality to compare the vibes of the buffet movie nights from the early 2000s to the 2010s, not even taking into account the nature of Hef's health.
I think Bridget talked about how a lot of screen contracts didn't allow for residuals from streaming services because they literally hadn't existed then. By the time smartphones and social media were ubiquotus I don't think Hef really gave that much of a care about protecting his or the brand's image. Hef never had a policy or strategy to address social media because it just wasn't even a problem for him to consider, not because he had some absolutely stance on letting anyone who came to the mansion say whatever they wanted about it to the masses.
Ok, I think that's all I have for now. Happy to talk about this or debate this more, but wanted to clear some things up since I feel like this drama with Crystal and allegations about NDAs is going to come up in the near future.
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Who am I? I am a silly little lawyer, practicing in California, and I love the intersection of law and popular culture. I wrote a journal article in law school about NDAs and the MeToo movement but sure as hell didn't try to get it published, so I've done deep dives into this topic but I am by no means an expert. I do love to learn, however, so if anyone has expertise in this area and wants to correct me or add onto any of this I would greatly appreciate it.
What is an NDA?
A non-disclosure agreement or an "NDA" refers to the broad spectrum of contractual agreements where the terms of the agreement bind at least one party from communicating about a pre-determined topic. Basically, a contract that makes at least someone keep quiet about something.
A contract requires (amongst other things) consideration by both parties. This means both parties have to give and take something for the contract to be valid. A contract, or an NDA, cannot just be a piece of paper where someone promises to do something. There has to be something in it for both sides.
Consideration, most commonly, takes the form of money. I pay you X, so you will do Y. But it can also be in the form of permission to engage in a certain activity. For example, I did an escape room once that had an NDA clause in the waiver so that people wouldn't go blabbing about how to solve the room once they were done. In exchange for getting to do the room, I agreed to the NDA. If I didn't want to agree to those terms, I could just not do the escape room.
The terms of the contract have to be reasonably balanced. You can't pay one cent for someone to agree to give you their firstborn child. Courts generally aren't in the business of scrutinizing the fairness of terms of contracts unless there's something grossly egregious about them, but it still has to make some modicum of sense.
Misunderstanding #1 - Anyone who signs an NDA is a victim being silenced by the other party.
This seems to be the assumption that HB and Marston are operating off of. There's this notion that Crystal forced all of Hef's circle to sign NDAs near the end of his life and now they're being silenced because of it.
First, you can't just have people sign NDAs and expect them to be enforceable. If Crystal did get NDAs from Hef's circle later in life, they had to have been paid consideration for it. Either Crystal offered them a sum of money (which they accepted) or the NDA was a requisite to partake in movie night, buffet dinner, etc. Either way, those who signed NDAs did so with an acceptance of what would be offered in exchange.
Obviously, there's argument that most people don't really understand the contracts they sign and wouldn't agree to them if they understood what they were giving up. But Hef's inner circle? These are people who have been in the entertainment industry for years, if not decades; these are people who have money to hire a lawyer, if not already have a lawyer on speed-dial. I am skeptical that if Dickie Bann was handed an NDA before entering the mansion for movie night he would've just signed it blindly.
Let's also consider the fact that the value of one's ability to speak out is inherently subjective. The criticism of an NDA assumes that the right to speak on a matter is something otherwise desired by the person agreeing to the NDA. It's easy to wonder why a victim would ever agree to an NDA and be prevented from speaking out about their experience. Frankly, before MeToo and the rise of social media, most victims of traumatic experiences were more inclined to speak less about their abuse than to go public. If you're a victim, and you already have no reason to speak to the public about your trauma, getting a significant payout to remain silent is actually a pretty solid deal.
Hef's friends are not victims by any means. But they showed a great amount of loyalty to him and the Playboy brand for decades before his death. I am incredibly skeptical of the notion that Hef's friends, but for some NDA, would have otherwise planned on ratting him out and showing the world that his health was declining.
The value of silence is subjective. Someone signing an NDA does not necessarily mean they are now restricted from publicly communicating something major. It very well might mean they just now have a legal obligation to do the thing that they would have done otherwise.
If, somehow, Crystal had been able to get Hef's friends to sign NDAs, I do not think that it influenced their behavior enough from what would have otherwise been that anyone needs to be that concerned about it. If it did, great, they probably got a great payout from it.
Misunderstanding #2 - NDAs are counter-intuitive to free speech and Hef would have never stood for them
As I'm sure many of you are aware, the First Amendment protection of free speech refers to the government's ability to restrict speech. Someone choosing to sign an NDA is not the same as the government preventing your broadcast from reaching its desired audiences. Someone choosing to not enter a private preschool with an AR-47 has nothing to do with their Second Amendment rights. The free speech that Hef specifically was known for advocating for had to do with censorship at the hands of the government from the broadcast of "obscene" content.
Maybe Bridget meant just the general philosophical idea of "free speech," which you would hope her masters in communication would have taught her to clarify the difference between. Regardles, remember, NDAs require consideration. This is not just ruthless silencing of innocent people who'd love to speak out about how awful Crystal is. These are wealthy, if not also highly educated, people in Hef's inner circle who, if they signed an NDA, surely understand the gravity (or lack thereof) of what they're agreeing to.
Likewise, I don't think Hef was against the idea of an NDA. Holly speculated that Hef wouldn't have required NDAs for those going into the bedroom because it would have given them a second to think about their decision. There's probably truth to this, but courts are also -very- reluctant to enforce any contracts that seem as though they would implicitly be authorizing sex in exchange for money. Also keep in mind the limited opportunities for women at that time to "speak out" if they even wanted to share about what happened in the bedroom. Hef probably would've loved for the public to hear what happened. There wasn't social media or the same understanding of power dynamics as there are these days. Who is someone who went into the bedroom and didn't sign an NDA and had a horrible time going to go to?
Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that Holly said she signed an NDA to work at the studio. This is perfectly reasonable. Anyone who is on a salary or signed a contract with an employer probably has signed off on an NDA clause and are currently bound by it. You couldn't keep something like who the Playmate of the Year was under wraps without some strict confidentiality provisions. The Playboy empire could not exist if there was some kind of blanket rule against NDAs.
Additionally, part of the allure of the mansion parties, per the podcast, were that no outside cameras were permitted inside. You're really gonna rag on someone not wanting a bunch of shitty iPhone shots of a man in his dying days, meanwhile you're singing the praises of exclusive parties that for decades wouldn't let people take and share photos of the event?
I am fully confident that Hef did not have issues with NDAs for business purposes, and certainly did not see that as contradicting his stance on free speech. In the podcast they said the mansion staff signed NDAs as part of their employment contracts There are countless examples of the Playboy company trying to silence people in Secrets of Playboy. Hef made it very clear that his stance was that free speech was important when it could help his bottom line. Anything else was negotiable.
Misunderstanding #3 - If someone signs an NDA it's automatically enforceable/If an NDA is unenforceable that will be obvious from the get go
To play devil's advocate to myself, I will say that whether an NDA is enforceable by a court of law and whether the parties abide by the terms are two separate issues. In many cases, a contract may not hold up in court if someone seeks to litigate over alleged violation of the terms. Most contracts don't get litigated over let alone actually get a final determination of their enforceability by a Court.
I will say that there's possibility that Crystal had people sign NDAs that were shotty but that the signers didn't understand that the NDAs weren't legitimate and so they still complied with the terms of the contract. (for example, often those waivers you sign for various activities wouldn't hold up in court, but people think they do, which precludes a lot of people from even considering bringing a claim) But this goes back to the type of people who would be signing these NDAs who otherwise might have access to sensitive information about Hef or the company. These are not girls coming out to do test shoots or the larger guest list at the mansion parties. These are people who are wealthy, powerful, and educated and would not be duped by the idea that merely signing an NDA with ridiculous terms would mean the contract is enforceable. Or perhaps they just didn't give a fuck enough about blabbing so there was no reason for them to even question the NDA that would stop them from saying something they weren't playing on saying.
Not a misunderstanding but one closing note in defense of these hypothetical NDAs - The power of speech for the average person has increased exponentially in the digital and social media age. HB acknowledge that the mansion parties were unique from anything currently because there weren't the same tools we have now to disseminate information. I think it's sort of an apples and oranges comparison in terms of confidentiality to compare the vibes of the buffet movie nights from the early 2000s to the 2010s, not even taking into account the nature of Hef's health.
I think Bridget talked about how a lot of screen contracts didn't allow for residuals from streaming services because they literally hadn't existed then. By the time smartphones and social media were ubiquotus I don't think Hef really gave that much of a care about protecting his or the brand's image. Hef never had a policy or strategy to address social media because it just wasn't even a problem for him to consider, not because he had some absolutely stance on letting anyone who came to the mansion say whatever they wanted about it to the masses.
Ok, I think that's all I have for now. Happy to talk about this or debate this more, but wanted to clear some things up since I feel like this drama with Crystal and allegations about NDAs is going to come up in the near future.
2024.05.14 19:38 wenlee01 The Benefits of Quiet Time for Toddlers: How to Establish a Routine
 | https://preview.redd.it/1r9wxvn4hf0d1.jpg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8bf8775abfb02667a7eb935b2ced41b02515d1c At Eden Castle Preschool, we understand the importance of fostering a well-rounded and nurturing environment for your toddlers. One of the valuable practices we implement at our Pre-School is “quiet time,” or “Bye-Bye” time during dispersal, which offers numerous benefits for your child’s development. In this blog post, we’ll explore the advantages of quiet time for toddlers and provide guidance on how parents can establish this beneficial routine at home. Rest and Recharge Toddlers are full of boundless energy, and at Eden Castle Preschool, we believe that allowing them time to rest and recharge is essential for their overall well-being. Quiet time provides a structured break during their day, allowing them to rejuvenate both physically and emotionally. Emotional Regulation Quiet time also plays a significant role in helping toddlers learn to regulate their emotions. By offering a calm and soothing environment, we help children reduce feelings of frustration or overwhelm, fostering emotional resilience. Cognitive Development During quiet time, toddlers engage in independent play, which is essential for cognitive development. At Eden Castle Preschool, we provide age-appropriate toys and activities that enhance their cognitive skills, creativity, and problem-solving abilities. Language Development Quiet time encourages toddlers to explore books and engage in solitary activities that stimulate language development. Exposure to new words and ideas during this time supports their growing vocabulary. Routine and Predictability Establishing a consistent quiet time routine at Eden Castle Preschool offers children a sense of security and predictability in their daily lives, promoting a stable and comfortable learning environment. How to Train Toddlers for Quiet TimeAt Eden Castle Preschool, we understand the importance of fostering a well-rounded and nurturing environment for your toddlers. One of the valuable practices we implement at our Pre-School is “quiet time,” or “Bye-Bye” time during dispersal, which offers numerous benefits for your child’s development. In this blog post, we’ll explore the advantages of quiet time for toddlers and provide guidance on how parents can establish this beneficial routine at home.Rest and Recharge Toddlers are full of boundless energy, and at Eden Castle Preschool, we believe that allowing them time to rest and recharge is essential for their overall well-being. Quiet time provides a structured break during their day, allowing them to rejuvenate both physically and emotionally. Emotional Regulation Quiet time also plays a significant role in helping toddlers learn to regulate their emotions. By offering a calm and soothing environment, we help children reduce feelings of frustration or overwhelm, fostering emotional resilience. Cognitive Development During quiet time, toddlers engage in independent play, which is essential for cognitive development. At Eden Castle Preschool, we provide age-appropriate toys and activities that enhance their cognitive skills, creativity, and problem-solving abilities. Language Development Quiet time encourages toddlers to explore books and engage in solitary activities that stimulate language development. Exposure to new words and ideas during this time supports their growing vocabulary. Routine and Predictability Establishing a consistent quiet time routine at Eden Castle Preschool offers children a sense of security and predictability in their daily lives, promoting a stable and comfortable learning environment. How to Train Toddlers for Quiet TimeNow that we’ve highlighted the benefits, let’s explore how you can help your child embrace quiet time effectively:Set a Schedule Create a regular quiet time schedule at home, aligning it with the routine your child experiences at Eden Castle Preschool. Consistency is key to success. Create a Quiet Space Designate a comfortable and inviting area for quiet time, similar to the cozy spaces we have at Eden Castle Preschool. Pillows, blankets, and age-appropriate toys or books are essential. Choose Age-Appropriate Activities Provide toys and activities suitable for your child’s age and development level, just as we do at Eden Castle Preschool. Model Behavior Sit quietly with your child initially to demonstrate how quiet time works. Gradually encourage them to engage in independent activities. Be Patient Remember that every child is unique, and some may take time to adjust to the routine. Patience and positive reinforcement are crucial. Limit Screen Time At Eden Castle Preschool, we discourage screen time during quiet time. Encourage activities that promote creativity and imagination. Stay Consistent Consistency is vital for success. Even if your child resists initially, sticking to the routine will help them adapt. Gradual Increase in Duration Start with short sessions and gradually increase the duration as your child becomes more accustomed to quiet time. In ConclusionAt Eden Castle Preschool, we believe in providing a holistic approach to early childhood education, and incorporating quiet time into your child’s routine is just one of the ways we support their development. By understanding the benefits and following our expert guidance, you can help your toddler thrive in a structured and nurturing environment both at home and in our preschool.For more information about our curriculum and how we prioritize your child’s growth and well-being, visit Eden Castle Preschool. We look forward to partnering with you on your child’s educational journey at Eden Castle Preschool. |
2024.05.14 18:30 DescriptionLoud8977 I had an abortion a week ago
I am a mom of 3 young kids and I had an abortion a week ago today. I have a loving husband, a loving family, a good life and this has completely rocked me. We found out we were pregnant and it was a shock and not a welcome surprise, we were in a groove now that our youngest is almost 2 and we were tired but starting to thrive instead of survive. I was never ready to let go of the newborn stage of life and I often joked we should have another but I also knew I was at my limit of being able to give the best I could for the three we have. While we have an incredibly supportive family my husband and I want to be the main supporters of our children and be the parents at all their activities and give them the one on one time they ask for and deserve. 3 was even proving to not be that difficult, tiring but so rewarding. But a fourth was something we weren’t prepared for. We have a 3 bedroom home and it would involve our older 3 to share a room and would involve getting a new car inevitably and I’m a SAHM so my husband would have another person to provide for. Our kids like doing their activities, swimming and soccer and ballet and we haven’t even started putting our youngest in things yet, the thought of providing for another to do things when we can barely financially handle it now was scary.
We went ahead with an abortion because we felt like we owed it to our kids to thrive together and not set ourselves back and be in survival mode again. My last pregnant was so difficult as my husband worked out of town at the time and I had GD and 2 kids 3 and under and I was exhausted all the time. We spent much of that 9 months on the couch watching tv and not as much doing things I wanted to do with the kids. I just dreaded the thought of being pregnant and chasing 3 kids and doing school and sports. My husband wanted to start enjoying the time we have now with our kids and not go through the baby stage again, he felt like we were wasting our time with the 3 we have now being the age they are.
But now that it’s said and done I’m depressed. I’m angry. I’m heartbroken. I’m lost. It takes everything to get me out of bed and I get anxious seeing people and taking my daughter to school. I constantly walk around with a lump in my throat and any minute I could start crying if I’m alone (which is rare with 3 kids).
My husband is being supportive and giving me whatever space I need and time I need but I just don’t see myself ever pulling myself out of this. I started on anti depressants again, I had them when I had PPD, I hope they help me. I keep reading posts of people never getting better and happier and how this ruined their life and it makes me feel no hope that I will ever get better. I can’t live like this.
I thought this was for the best and now I’m wishing we stuck with the pregnancy because even if life would have been harder you don’t regret loving someone new.
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We went ahead with an abortion because we felt like we owed it to our kids to thrive together and not set ourselves back and be in survival mode again. My last pregnant was so difficult as my husband worked out of town at the time and I had GD and 2 kids 3 and under and I was exhausted all the time. We spent much of that 9 months on the couch watching tv and not as much doing things I wanted to do with the kids. I just dreaded the thought of being pregnant and chasing 3 kids and doing school and sports. My husband wanted to start enjoying the time we have now with our kids and not go through the baby stage again, he felt like we were wasting our time with the 3 we have now being the age they are.
But now that it’s said and done I’m depressed. I’m angry. I’m heartbroken. I’m lost. It takes everything to get me out of bed and I get anxious seeing people and taking my daughter to school. I constantly walk around with a lump in my throat and any minute I could start crying if I’m alone (which is rare with 3 kids).
My husband is being supportive and giving me whatever space I need and time I need but I just don’t see myself ever pulling myself out of this. I started on anti depressants again, I had them when I had PPD, I hope they help me. I keep reading posts of people never getting better and happier and how this ruined their life and it makes me feel no hope that I will ever get better. I can’t live like this.
I thought this was for the best and now I’m wishing we stuck with the pregnancy because even if life would have been harder you don’t regret loving someone new.