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2024.05.14 09:55 AlterEgoNiJin Book 9 for 2024: The Party Crasher by Sophie Kinsella

Book 9 for 2024: The Party Crasher by Sophie Kinsella
⭐⭐⭐
Spoilers Ahead
With a towering TBR pile, I often seek a light read to balance the load, and Sophie Kinsella's novels usually fit the bill perfectly. However, "The Party Crasher" turned out to be more than just a light read. It is a poignant reminder that families, despite their complexities and messiness, have an incredible ability to mend and emerge stronger.
"The Party Crasher" follows Effie, a young woman entangled in family strife and longing to retrieve a cherished childhood treasure – her Russian dolls – from her family's home before it's sold. Estranged from her father and his glamorous new girlfriend, Effie feels as though her family is irreparably broken. Motivated by nostalgia and a sense of urgency, she sneaks into the grand "house-cooling" party with the intention of quietly reclaiming her dolls, hoping to remain unnoticed.
However, Effie's straightforward plan quickly derails as she encounters unexpected situations and revelations. While navigating the familiar yet transformed corridors of her family home, evading curious guests, and hiding under tables, Effie overhears conversations and uncovers secrets that challenge her understanding of her loved ones and herself. This journey is further complicated by the presence of her two ex-boyfriends at the party, forcing her to confront past relationships and her own insecurities.
Throughout the night, Effie struggles with the fear of being caught, unsettling truths about her family, and her own sense of belonging. Sophie Kinsella expertly weaves a story of family discord, self-discovery, and the relentless pursuit of identity. With her signature humor and heart, Kinsella immerses readers in Effie's world, capturing the subtleties of human relationships and the complexities of identity.
"The Party Crasher" is an enchanting and relatable read that resonates with authenticity and warmth. Effie's journey highlights the intricacies of family dynamics and underscores the importance of acceptance, forgiveness, and self-assurance. With its engaging narrative and unforgettable characters, this novel will captivate readers from beginning to end, leaving them eagerly anticipating Kinsella's next literary adventure.
Here are a few memorable quotes from the book that touched my heart:
• "Our family is shattered. Splintered into shards of glass. And no one will ever be able to put us back together."
• "Maybe our family has changed shape. Maybe things aren’t exactly like they used to be. And maybe they’ll be even more different in the future. But whatever happens, we’ll still be us."
• "You can’t hold on to things just because of the memories."
• "If life has taught me anything, it’s don’t ever assume. Nail it down. Get things clear."
• "Everything inside me has shifted. I’m stronger. Not only am I able to let go, I’m happy to let go. I’m focused on the future."
May you find a book that makes you treasure your family, filling your heart with joy and laughter once again.
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2024.05.14 09:46 dragoninhomeland How do I[22M] best break up with my gf[25F] who is suffering from depression and anxiety, and is way too dependent on me?

Ive been dating her for about 6 months.
Gotta straight out say it, I'm the grade A douchebag in this situation, so let's get this out of the way. We met on hinge, I wasn't attracted to her in the slightest, let's be real, appearance wise I'm way above her league. but I've been on hinge for two years without even a second date at the time, I just want a gf so bad so I went out with her.
After 2 months or so she ask me to go exclusive with her, during that entire two months Ive gotten zero matches, like I sent out all the likes everyday and zero matches. I didn't know what to say so I was like, ok you are my exclusive gf now. She dreamed about me taking her to her favorite park, bought her her favorite dessert, and asking her to be her official boyfriend, and wouldn't' let the dream go. Well, I feel bad for her so I did exactly just that, the way she smiled almost made me convinced that I actually like her. But umm I still have hinge on my tablet (hidden at home) rn, but can't cheat when there's no matches. You can bad name me in the comments or whatever. But this is the context.
So, obviously she deserves someone who's actually attracted to her and can make her happy for the rest of her life. I'm not that guy, my preferences aside, I don't want children like ever they are disgusting, but she wants children and gets baby fever all the time. She's religious, I think religion is just crazy people preaching about a fictional character and it makes no sense. She wants to get married before 30, I don't feel like marrying anytime soon. She wants to move to the other side of the country, I want stay here. She's a cat person, I like dogs. My asian parents would never accept me dating a black girl so I've been hiding her from them and social media. And my friends keep teasing me nonstop about dating an ugly girl. This is a dead end relationship, I don't do short term relationships so I cannot remain in a relationship that I know is not gonna work long term.
But, she's super into me, and is extremely dependent on me. She's working two jobs and studying, and is nearly broke, can hardly make ends meet. She cry herself to bed like every week, and always vent to me about how she feel so inadequate, other girls look so pretty in their summer dresses with nice skin and skinny body makes her so jealous, her parents abusing her and bodyshame her (tbh her parents kinda have a point), not having a single friend, both her ex cheated on her and SAed her, she's so worried that she will fail out of school, working both jobs is so physically and mentally draining, and all that. She attempted suicide 5 months before meeting me, so there's that too.
On top of that, she told me over and over, that meeting me is the absolute best thing that has ever happened to her in her entire life. That I'm 100% her type, I'm the k-drama male lead in the k-drama that is her life, end quote. That since I agree to be her bf, she's been feeling motivated in life for the first time. That I'm the only person in her life that she can talk to, because she has no friends and her parents despite her. That I am 100% the man of her dreams, and everyday she feel so blessed having me in her life. If I don't text her every hour she gets anxious and starts to panic, she can only sleep when I do a video call and put the camera towards me the entire night so she knows that I'm "beside" her as she sleep.
Well, when being told all that, I can't exactly just break up with her. I just....feel so bad? I've been brainstorming nonstop for the past month on how exactly I can break up with her while keeping the devastation to her at a minimum. I would feel guilty for life if she just offed herself after I break up with her. She has no friends, and her parents despite her, so I can't text anyone to take care of her after I break up with her. We go to the same school too and she knows my workplace, so I'll 100% bump into her multiple times post break up.
Bro someone plz help me out, im trapped.
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2024.05.14 06:13 Expensive_Catch_3547 My mother / my abuser

Well I guess that I have to start somewhere, so why not the end! I’ve been disowned for the umpteenth time by my parents (or rather by my mum because over the years, Dad has just learned to go along with whatever she says out of duress!) This has all been as a result of my having visited them in Hay ( a 700 kilometre round trip might I add) because my Dad’s brother passed away this week and it was Mother’s Day. I thought that I’d go to show my condolences and to wish my mother and sister who also lives there a happy Mother’s Day and bring them all some hand made gifts, I’m a bit sentimental like that.
I have taken to the craft of making pebble art. The gift that I made for my mother was of an image depicting my family with my parents, my sister and I and my brother who’s passed away, as he is handing my mum a bunch of flowers. I made one for my dad depicting he and my Nan (his mother) fishing at their favourite fishing spot; my Nan passed away just last month as well and I thought it’d be a nice gesture, then I gave my sister one as well with a quote about sisters being joined by the heart.
The first day, Friday, that my husband, daughter and I came there was okay. It always is especially when I’ve not seen them for six months or more! We catch up, mum talks about her very many health conditions, she then complains a little bit about everything and everyone but it’s not over the top at this point because she and my dad are kept busy opening gifts and seemingly happy to see us! But we had decided before coming that we were going to stay in separate accommodation for the weekend with the knowledge that things with my mother usually go sour very quickly! And if we’re not having to stay at their home when it does then we can at least retain some mental stability throughout our trip! This would normally be a point in which I’d let out a bit of a chuckle or if I’m texting or writing a social media post, that I’d add the LOL at the end of that statement, simply due to the stupid realisation that unfortunately it is so very true that it’s almost comical, remembering in my mind the very many times that her very predictable unstable behaviour kicks in at around the 24 hour mark and doesn’t often dissipate until well after we’ve left if not months later! I have no clue as to why I’m still surprised by this occurrence?! Perhaps it’s because it is so unbelievably erratic and shocking to anyone that witnesses it that still even now it’s hard not only to watch unfold but to believe!
But sadly as a result of these personally flips, she lashes out in anger, she can become nasty and callous, her comments are cold and uncaring, she can become physically aggressive, and the damage done during these times can be hard to ever overcome, especially if she aims any comment or remark at you! It is during these times that you know in your soul that she has not a single care for you, not an ounce, and that the only attention or compassion shown towards you as her child or friend is one of obligation out of her need to keep up appearances with those who are still weaved in her web of “social media” deception! She wouldn’t dare lift a finger for anyone in person! But just the fact that we pre decided to obtain alternative accommodation was possibly one of the triggers I was already prepared would set her off, as we would usually choose to stay with her and dad in their spare room over crowded with belongings of the past and present, not unlike the rest of their home.
With this alone, one would see that she has an overwhelming need to retain old memories, be them bad or good. She still literally keeps every ounce of clothing I’ve ever passed on to her since well before I had children which was 27 years ago! Looking in her wardrobe, there are outfits there I remember her wearing when I was a teenager! Her bathroom still retains the $2 gifts (still in their packaging) that us kids bought for her from school Mother’s Day stalls, and the Mary Kay makeup I used to steal when I was attending high school!
Her kitchen still holds the Amway cookware she purchased for hundreds of dollars before I can remember! And to make matters worse, even some of the food in her pantry is from supermarkets no longer operating! Over the years, her hoarding has been a bit of a thorn in dad’s side, having lived a life of drifting from house to house, town to town, moving around as often as they have, having to cart it all along with them and something us kids (myself, my brother and sister) have always found funny to pick on her about, but in writing this, it is easy to see that her need to keep the past fresh in her mind and under her nose is a sickness all In itself.
Whilst we were visiting, we visited my sister in her little unit. It’s like walking back into the 70s and equally as much as a step back in time like my mother’s house! My sister has been diagnosed with schizophrenia which when first diagnosed was apparently drug induced, however; going from the lifestyle we were forced to live as the children to my parents and their lifestyle choices plus my brother and I having been diagnosed with conditions and disorders of our own, putting the puzzle pieces together as to how we’ve all accumulated mental health diagnoses isn’t that difficult taking into consideration that neither one of my parents exerted any kind of maternal instincts at all! And not even as us kids have grown and struggled through our lives, we had always been told by them that once we turned 18 we’d no longer be their “problem” anymore!
My sister’s name is Julie. She moved in with my mum and dad after one of her countless admissions to the psychiatric hospital in Bendigo, having absconded from their independent living facility which is meant to be a monitored introduction back into society after a mental health admission, but she always left before she gave the chance for them to find her accommodation that wasn’t with her abusive ex husband and 4 children.
Sitting down with her in her home, hearing all about the time she’s lived in Hay both with and near my parents, how our mum would bail her up sometimes (which had happened recently) even physically, how she’s thrown dishes at her and how she abuses her denying her food for being overweight on a daily basis… how she calls her fat and crazy… there’s literally a Myriad of abuse in all its forms being dished out to Julie, and yet, because she has nowhere else to go, like the situation my brother was in living with them on and off before he passed away (under questionable circumstances in my opinion) she has no choice but to endure it… and it saddens me to hear about it all let alone see it going on right before my eyes! Especially when the exact same denigrating comments about being useless, overweight, a waste of a life and criticism about the way she’s living her life, the choices she’s making and what she chooses to eat etc etc was also drilled into my brother by my parents and whispered to all that they spoke too for many many years before by brother lost his life.
I know through my own experience having lived with her that her poisonous mouth can lead a person to questioning your mere existence, your reason for living and remove all self esteem in a single spat with her! In 2013 I took an overdose due to a gross level of mental health issues and past trauma which I couldn’t deal with. My parents were living with us at the time and my youngest daughter exhibited some challenging behaviours… my mum found it difficult to cope with her however she made no attempt at patience or compassion and so in a fleeting moment she’s said to my daughter “if I was your mother I would’ve killed myself a long time ago!”
Wow! Just WOW! The above mentioned examples of how toxic my mother is… after only explaining to you the very tip of the iceberg in these few paragraphs, even I am second guessing writing this at all, and I’m finding it hard to fathom how I can rehash the past and get into more detail about the really bad situations! Not to mention, go into my life right from childhood until now with her and my father which is yet to come!
Writing this down, whether I share it here or not is going to be a huge journey for me that’ll take a lot of courage and open some really raw emotions… bring back old memories that I’ve suppressed and disassociated myself from… there will undoubtedly be many trigger points that I will go into which some people might become affected by, including me, but mine is a life that was, is and continues to be a challenge day in and day out… it’s something I’ve had to survive, a life and reality that I still struggle so much with but least attempt to cope with and in some way, I hope that my story will be able to shine a light on just how the importance of love, attention, affection and nurturing in our childhood really do mould the person we eventually become…
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2024.05.14 06:07 Expensive_Catch_3547 My mother / my abuser

Well I guess that I have to start somewhere, so why not the end! I’ve been disowned for the umpteenth time by my parents (or rather by my mum because over the years, Dad has just learned to go along with whatever she says out of duress!) This has all been as a result of my having visited them in Hay ( a 700 kilometre round trip might I add) because my Dad’s brother passed away this week and it was Mother’s Day. I thought that I’d go to show my condolences and to wish my mother and sister who also lives there a happy Mother’s Day and bring them all some hand made gifts, I’m a bit sentimental like that.
I have taken to the craft of making pebble art. The gift that I made for my mother was of an image depicting my family with my parents, my sister and I and my brother who’s passed away, as he is handing my mum a bunch of flowers. I made one for my dad depicting he and my Nan (his mother) fishing at their favourite fishing spot; my Nan passed away just last month as well and I thought it’d be a nice gesture, then I gave my sister one as well with a quote about sisters being joined by the heart.
The first day, Friday, that my husband, daughter and I came there was okay. It always is especially when I’ve not seen them for six months or more! We catch up, mum talks about her very many health conditions, she then complains a little bit about everything and everyone but it’s not over the top at this point because she and my dad are kept busy opening gifts and seemingly happy to see us! But we had decided before coming that we were going to stay in separate accommodation for the weekend with the knowledge that things with my mother usually go sour very quickly! And if we’re not having to stay at their home when it does then we can at least retain some mental stability throughout our trip! This would normally be a point in which I’d let out a bit of a chuckle or if I’m texting or writing a social media post, that I’d add the LOL at the end of that statement, simply due to the stupid realisation that unfortunately it is so very true that it’s almost comical, remembering in my mind the very many times that her very predictable unstable behaviour kicks in at around the 24 hour mark and doesn’t often dissipate until well after we’ve left if not months later! I have no clue as to why I’m still surprised by this occurrence?! Perhaps it’s because it is so unbelievably erratic and shocking to anyone that witnesses it that still even now it’s hard not only to watch unfold but to believe!
But sadly as a result of these personally flips, she lashes out in anger, she can become nasty and callous, her comments are cold and uncaring, she can become physically aggressive, and the damage done during these times can be hard to ever overcome, especially if she aims any comment or remark at you! It is during these times that you know in your soul that she has not a single care for you, not an ounce, and that the only attention or compassion shown towards you as her child or friend is one of obligation out of her need to keep up appearances with those who are still weaved in her web of “social media” deception! She wouldn’t dare lift a finger for anyone in person! But just the fact that we pre decided to obtain alternative accommodation was possibly one of the triggers I was already prepared would set her off, as we would usually choose to stay with her and dad in their spare room over crowded with belongings of the past and present, not unlike the rest of their home.
With this alone, one would see that she has an overwhelming need to retain old memories, be them bad or good. She still literally keeps every ounce of clothing I’ve ever passed on to her since well before I had children which was 27 years ago! Looking in her wardrobe, there are outfits there I remember her wearing when I was a teenager! Her bathroom still retains the $2 gifts (still in their packaging) that us kids bought for her from school Mother’s Day stalls, and the Mary Kay makeup I used to steal when I was attending high school!
Her kitchen still holds the Amway cookware she purchased for hundreds of dollars before I can remember! And to make matters worse, even some of the food in her pantry is from supermarkets no longer operating! Over the years, her hoarding has been a bit of a thorn in dad’s side, having lived a life of drifting from house to house, town to town, moving around as often as they have, having to cart it all along with them and something us kids (myself, my brother and sister) have always found funny to pick on her about, but in writing this, it is easy to see that her need to keep the past fresh in her mind and under her nose is a sickness all In itself.
Whilst we were visiting, we visited my sister in her little unit. It’s like walking back into the 70s and equally as much as a step back in time like my mother’s house! My sister has been diagnosed with schizophrenia which when first diagnosed was apparently drug induced, however; going from the lifestyle we were forced to live as the children to my parents and their lifestyle choices plus my brother and I having been diagnosed with conditions and disorders of our own, putting the puzzle pieces together as to how we’ve all accumulated mental health diagnoses isn’t that difficult taking into consideration that neither one of my parents exerted any kind of maternal instincts at all! And not even as us kids have grown and struggled through our lives, we had always been told by them that once we turned 18 we’d no longer be their “problem” anymore!
My sister’s name is Julie. She moved in with my mum and dad after one of her countless admissions to the psychiatric hospital in Bendigo, having absconded from their independent living facility which is meant to be a monitored introduction back into society after a mental health admission, but she always left before she gave the chance for them to find her accommodation that wasn’t with her abusive ex husband and 4 children.
Sitting down with her in her home, hearing all about the time she’s lived in Hay both with and near my parents, how our mum would bail her up sometimes (which had happened recently) even physically, how she’s thrown dishes at her and how she abuses her denying her food for being overweight on a daily basis… how she calls her fat and crazy… there’s literally a Myriad of abuse in all its forms being dished out to Julie, and yet, because she has nowhere else to go, like the situation my brother was in living with them on and off before he passed away (under questionable circumstances in my opinion) she has no choice but to endure it… and it saddens me to hear about it all let alone see it going on right before my eyes! Especially when the exact same denigrating comments about being useless, overweight, a waste of a life and criticism about the way she’s living her life, the choices she’s making and what she chooses to eat etc etc was also drilled into my brother by my parents and whispered to all that they spoke too for many many years before by brother lost his life.
I know through my own experience having lived with her that her poisonous mouth can lead a person to questioning your mere existence, your reason for living and remove all self esteem in a single spat with her! In 2013 I took an overdose due to a gross level of mental health issues and past trauma which I couldn’t deal with. My parents were living with us at the time and my youngest daughter exhibited some challenging behaviours… my mum found it difficult to cope with her however she made no attempt at patience or compassion and so in a fleeting moment she’s said to my daughter “if I was your mother I would’ve killed myself a long time ago!”
Wow! Just WOW! The above mentioned examples of how toxic my mother is… after only explaining to you the very tip of the iceberg in these few paragraphs, even I am second guessing writing this at all, and I’m finding it hard to fathom how I can rehash the past and get into more detail about the really bad situations! Not to mention, go into my life right from childhood until now with her and my father which is yet to come!
Writing this down, whether I share it here or not is going to be a huge journey for me that’ll take a lot of courage and open some really raw emotions… bring back old memories that I’ve suppressed and disassociated myself from… there will undoubtedly be many trigger points that I will go into which some people might become affected by, including me, but mine is a life that was, is and continues to be a challenge day in and day out… it’s something I’ve had to survive, a life and reality that I still struggle so much with but least attempt to cope with and in some way, I hope that my story will be able to shine a light on just how the importance of love, attention, affection and nurturing in our childhood really do mould the person we eventually become…
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2024.05.14 06:02 Kilvernas Focusing on RMT isn't going to solve shit

The most common way of RMT is carries now. Making butt stash more limited isn't going to do anything beneficial.
You're just gonna turn more people into rmters when they can't stick that led ex or gpu up their butt. Hatchlings already have cursed and tagged as counter. Yalls probably don't know this because its your first mmorpg but you cannot beat RMT by limiting players because all you create is new ways of RMT. But since things are more limited more non rmters will start buying
Want proof? look at WOW.. Want proof of it not working? Wow shocker games like Destiny 2 where there is no trading between players... CARRIES?!?!?! WHAT....
HOLY shit carries in diablo 3?!?!?!
Be realistic. Fighting RMT isn't the play. You won't win it.
Kinda weird, getting downvotes but no one seems to be debating.
Yall linked pirate software videos and asmongold when it suited your arguements regarding Unheard edition and EOD dlc, but if I may quote asmongold theirs more nuance on this topic. Same with pirate software he asks why are people pirating and addressed that.
Instead of asking HOW CAN WE BEAT RMT?
How about we ask why are players RMTing and address that.
As example
Why are players buying ammoboxes full of X ammo? Why are players buying roubles? Why are players hatchling running?
Oh btw shocker uhh Typically its the man working 9-5 5 days a week whos buying the ammo, the carries and everything else because they just ain't got the same time to play as some of yall.
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2024.05.14 03:50 PugNuggins Struggling with being alone? Don't know what to do and feel helpless? Here are my tips on what to do to feel better about yourself!

What's up guys and girls. I just got out of a 2 year relationship. Ex gf emotionally cheated on me, so I left. I felt crushed and alone because she was my everything, my lover, partner, best friend, supporter, everything. But now I am all I have. But now after 5 weeks I am feeling better. I have used the negativity and lonelieness and sadness and pain as energy to drive myself forward. And you don't need a breakup to learn this way! Here's my tips on how to become happier during your alone periods:
  1. Journaling. Journaling helped me a lot to think thorough of my weaknesses, flaws, and strengths. It helps you observe yourself to better understand yourself. It's best to do this with a clear head so you're not biased against yourself. At first it may seem pointless since you're just writing it, but that's the point. Thats the start to self realization by knowing what and who and why you are the way you are.
  2. Forgive yourself. Whether you messed up by trusting the wrong person, not being good enough, having any anger issues, not trying hard enough. Forgive yourself, do not burden yourself with yourself. Forgive yourself and ask yourself what you can do to change whatever it is you're giving yourself a hard time with. Forgiving yourself and learning to love yourself is a big step to living a peaceful life because you may underestimate what you can do in a year, 2 years, 3 years, 10 and even 20 years. Your life goes on and even though you may not like this chapter you're in right now you can always make changes to create better ones.
  3. Go out for a walk under the sun! Does not matter if it's too hot or too cold. Exercise stimulates your brain and body to relaxation, and after walking for so many miles I'm sure it won't seem much of a chore after. Plus, you can also lose weight if that's a goal of yours. If walking under the sun, or even jogging, is something you would never do then give it multiple tries. It helps you push out of your "comfort zone" which is probably just sleeping around (I know my comfort was sleeping my days away depressingly). You can also listen to self help videos or podcasts while you walk. You may learn some new methods of quotes that you can implement into your life!
  4. Avoid the junk food! Also known as comfort food! Too many carbs makes you feel lazy, which in turn mixes with your negative emotions. Making you even more glued to your bed. Or sofa. Instead, eat an apple or banana or another fruit. Or simply drink water! Your body will thank you for it in the long run. 😌
  5. Pick up a healthy hobby. If you like to drink or smoke, cut back on it as much as you can. Make goals to quit those vices. Instead, learn to play the guitar, learn a skill like plumbing or wiring or carpentry, learn another language. You can also volunteer at animal shelters and walk dogs! They'll love you in return. Or you can feed the street pigeons. Helping out little critters like cats, dogs, pigeons or others can make you feel better about yourself. You'd be surprised how much they'd want to be around you or even snuggle up to you. Or even just ask your boss for longer hours! You just have to keep yourself busy from having too much time to think about anything negative.
  6. Avoid social media: Social media only shows people's highlights and pushes the "you're either with me or against me" kind of mentality when you're watching reels of the top people, which leads to a certain identity loss for people who've yet to discover themselves. Plus it can get very toxic in the comment section.
Well those are the major things that have helped me to see brighter days while living alone. I hope you all find peace within yourselves because it is mostly found there (I say mostly because maybe some of you live in high crime areas or live with abusive family members). Remember to love yourself because at the end of the day you're all you have, so be kind to yourself and be your own best friend. If you need anyone to talk to feel free to hit me up and I'll get to you when I can. I know what it's like to struggle alone, to have nobody by your side. That's why I'm here to help. Best of luck to yall 🙏💪
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2024.05.14 03:34 IntentionalChaos214 We made my ex's live in girlfriend think he was a gay drag queen.

I am now older (43f) and wiser and far more subtle in my petty revenge ...but, at this time? I was younger (21) angry, petty, spurred on my an equally petty friend (22f then), and he deserved it.
I had a get together for Halloween with a few friends. It was the usual early 20s social situation with drinks, cards and tequila shots. (I know... I know.)
A guy I had previously had a fling with (truly nothing serious--he was just tall, cute as all hell and had adorable dimples but our personalities didn't mesh) was invited as a friend. No big deal.
Card game turned into Texas Hold Em and bizarre dares after you were out of poker chips. My "ex" was losing BADLY. What started as us daring him to strip somehow escalated to him running outside, nude and in 2 feet of snow, to the pond behind the apartment buildings to acquire a cup of water... and then escalated to him going, in VERY sloppy drag, to the grocery store to buy an eggplant, lube, and condoms.
Now... this is all ridiculous already. (Tequila is a bad decision, kids!) A truly memorable but insane night that can ONLY be survived or created in your early 20s.
My friend (who spurred me on) and him began flirting and things escalated a bit between them. There were photos of him in drag taken, and photos of him with my friend as well.
They made plans to see a movie a couple days later after a few calls...
He never showed up and then ghosted her.
Could we have blown it off and moved on?
Absolutely.
Did we?
Hell freaking no.
We did a bit of online stalking and found out he not only HAD A GIRLFRIEND but was LIVING with her! (Where do these people find the time for this... and how do you NOT ask questions when your man doesn't come home?!)
We hatched a plan.
We took the photos and printed them... of him in drag flirting with my friend, nude with the cup, and doing lap dances on guys in drag.
We sent them, 1 by 1 in an order telling a story... every other day... by mail... to his girlfriend.
Did we stop there?
HELL NO.
We signed him up for drag clothing catalogs and sex toys created especially for gay men. We sent him about $200 worth of the most bizarre "eggplant" items we could find including straws, a hat that sort of resembled a penis shaped Pope hat, etc.
After 2 weeks of those packages... that we made sure would be delivered when HE was gone and SHE was home (but addressed to him and, in quotes, his goofy name from that night) we did 1 more thing...
20 lbs of the most powder fine glitter we could find in a glitter bomb.
She dumped him within a month... and he's a cheater to this day in his relationships.
The lesson?
Don't cheat... and don't piss off 2 petty women at the same time.
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2024.05.14 03:14 DarkestGemeni Broke up with my bpd partner

I’ve been lurking here for a few years, trying to find ways to deal with my partners extreme mood swings and anger. This is my first post, so if that’s inappropriate, I’m sorry. I'm also sorry if the tone of this post is inappropriate, I just need to get it off my chest with people who may have experienced similar things. I want to also clarify that I know Bpd doesn’t MAKE you an ass, my ex just loved to use his diagnosis as a reason to abuse me and not take accountability for it.
He has a 9/9 presentation and it was constantly taken out on me. For 10 years. I feel like a few months ago I finally got the ick for how he was treating me and then eventually reached my boiling point and we had a blow-out fight a few days ago where I finally screamed and yelled at him. I really got in his face and didn’t let him not respond and just kept yelling. Then when he acted upset and hurt and “scared” by it I quoted him directly and went ”Oh, so I’m just NEVER allowed to be ANGRY?? Can’t ever have a negative emotion?” and he seemed to really not understand that that’s what he says about twice a week while he slams shit around the house and terrifies our pets and me. I can’t tell you how nice it was to let it all out. I don’t even care that I have to pack up 26 years of shit in 30 days because I just feel so awesome about not getting treated like that every day and waking up at 7am to him already being a whiny baby about nothing.
I feel so free. I don’t know that I’ve ever felt this relaxed and content in my life. I feel like I was developing more bpd symptoms the longer I endured his treatment and it already feels like it's melting away because I'm just out. I’m not paranoid anymore (cheated on me constantly - my friends literally think his secret gf is pregnant and that’s why he was fucking with me so bad the last few weeks 😂 to get me out of the house and move her in) I feel good about my body, I’m sleeping better than I have in years, and not to be nsfw, but without someone pawing at me 24 hours a day and constantly being vulgar towards me I FINALLY feel like my sex drive is coming back. I’ve literally only been out of his house for like 3 days and I already feel like that was months ago. I’m hanging out with new friends and enjoying going on nature walks and exercising without someone leering at me and trying to touch me. I’m excited to see what life is like away from the abuse he put me through constantly. I’m excited to just not be treated like shit and then get blamed for it cause he “can’t help it with his Bpd!” But then also won’t to therapy regularly, won’t take meds, won’t even do a goddamn work book on his own cause it’s “too hard” - as if being around someone who regularly acted like he couldn’t stand me was easy. Literally the only part about this I’m currently feeling negative about is the 3 pets who are used to me being home almost all the time and him working 12 hour shifts + sleep gives him maybe a few hours to care for them properly daily. They will suffer and be lonely and he will probably keep staying out til 2am anyways to get plastered with his divorced alcoholic “friend”that he claims to hate and cut off but always crawls back to, probably because he’s so similar to my exs own mother.
Everything just feels so exciting. I get to find a new place to live and decorate and unpack and organize only how I want to - nothing has to go on top shelves where I can’t reach. I can read without someone saying I’m “intentionally trying to seem busy so we can’t talk” I can watch tv shows and movies without someone walking in and getting butthurt cause they wanna watch it, too, now that I’m 4 seasons in or whatever. I can wear whatever I feel like and no one’s going to be gross about it in my own home. I don’t have to worry when he’s out with friends that they’re talking shit about me and instigating a fight without me even knowing - this spineless and easily swayed, angry man is gone from my life and I am FREE
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2024.05.14 01:52 Xchurch173 Question for those shipping larger items

I do woodworking, and mostly what I sell on Etsy is fairly small. Pens, bowls, serving trays. The largest thing I’ve shipped out is probably 12x20x2.5 inches when packaged and about 5-10 lbs. I don’t remember exactly what it cost to ship, but it wasn’t much. Probably around $20-$30 tops to go from NJ to the middle of the country.
I’ve been considering listing some small end tables I make, but I can’t find a way to ship them that doesn’t basically double the price. The boxes would end up being about 20x20x20 inches and around 20lbs. Quotes I got were (from NJ) to PA - $45, to IL - $85, and to CA - $145. Prices from UPS and FedEx were basically the same and I think USPS was as well. That was also the max size allowed by USPS if I’m remembering correctly.
Is there another way to ship these that I’m missing? I can’t send them broken down (ikea style) as I don’t want the customer to have to build them. Too much room for error, and I want to deliver a finished product. I see plenty of people selling similar sized tables (that I don’t imagine would ship broken down) with free shipping around the $125 - $200 price range, which is what I was aiming to sell my more basic ones for. If I had to ship to CA with free shipping at that price range I’d lose money, and to IL I’d barely cover my material costs after the shipping.
I’ve thought about using calculated shipping but don’t know how I’d be able to compete with other stuff on the platform price-wise
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2024.05.14 01:26 bloatedshrek AITA (idk how to explain)

so recently my friend of 2 years dropped me for no reason and just ghosted me and my entire existence when she sees me. i never trashtalked her or spread rumors about her, im also kinda quiet so nobody would make stuff up about me making stuff up about her. she also has more friends now but idk if this would just make her decide to throw 2 years of friendship down the line. the only other reason i can think of is her ex calling me but in a platonic way because we were already friends prior to their relationship (the guy was literally friends with every girl in the class), they ended on somewhat terms (i think), and the guy already knew who i liked (which was another guy and he even hooked me up with him) so i don’t think he had any ill intent. the first time he called me, i told her since i was also texting her at the time and i texted smth along the lines of “ur boytoys calling” and she seemed indifferent and kind of implied or said idc but the details of it arent too clear in my head. also im kinda concerned about him because he also “snip snips” himself. he also calls other girls, some of which are closer friends with the girl that dropped me so i never thought it was a problem. also our convos were short, just brainrot quotes, and it’s lowk kinda refreshing to not have to talk about something of somebodys interest all the damn time, but this was the only other thing i could think of that would make her want to drop me. i also want advice to make me feel better because i cant enter the same vicinity as her and i spend my lunch period in the bathroom now because shes in the cafeteria (even today my teacher was about to force me to go in the cafeteria but only stopped when i started crying. im not tryna seek attention from this sentence but im just trying to demonstrate why i need closure). idk how to stop these feelings because each time i see her, she resurfaces memories of her leaving me in middle school to go to other friends or just leaves me out. during our friendship, i constantly catered conversations to her interest and even educated myself on kpop lore so she would stop being dry and give one word responses. the only other times she’d be invested is when theres gossip and im just so drained from those times so in a way, im kinda glad she dropped me, but I still feel like dogwater. i just need to know if i did smth wrong, and if so, what was it because it’s been bugging me for 2 months and she’s so popular n everybody loves her so idk what i did wrong
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2024.05.14 00:39 Strong_Dependent5066 AITAH for saying happy birthday to my bsfs ex ?

I (F) have a best friend (F), basically wayyyy before me and my female girl best friend met I had a guy best friend.
When I met my gbsf (we’re gonna call her Lana and we’re gonna call her ex Alex) when I met Lana I was already best friends with Alex eventually Lana and Alex liked each other and ofc they told me they liked the other.
Lana told me she liked Alex and Alex told me he liked Lana so without selling the other out to them I got them together everything was perfect for 8 months until they started arguing, they would ask for my opinion and I opted to stay out of it. (Cause they’re both my bsfs tf I supposed to help you w?)
When they broke up it was so messy, tears, fighting,screaming, petty remarks , rumors, Lana threw milk on Alex at one point (just acting like children)
Anyways, recently it was Alex’s birthday I posted on my Snapchat “Happy birthday ”Alex” you’re a good friend and I’m grateful for you “ I said happy birthday because for my birthday he got me presents and said happy birthday to me I’m obviously gonna have fucking manners and be cordial?
Whatever whatever said happy birthday he said thank you, later in the day Lana swipes up Saying “crazy.” I said “I’m sorry, are you upset ?” She said “Ian even mad ts js weird you told me he was flirting with you and now you’re writing paragraphs about him?”
FIRSTLY, after they broke up he would try to flirt with me but I told him to shut it down and it makes me uncomfortable and he stopped and ofc I told her (that’s my bsf fuck?) but I’m sorry paragraphs about him? Baby I wrote 3 SENTENCE WORTH I WROTE 12 WORDS. And one of those words was tagging him.
Anyways she called me weird and said she wasn’t mad she was js finding it weird, but then Lana’s little sister texted me saying “why are you fucking writing paragraphs about him when yk how badly he hurt Lana” first of all it was 12 fucking words..I told her “it was a couple words he got me stuff and said happy birthday on my birthday all I said was happy birthday I don’t get the issue with this ?”
Lana’s little sister proceeded to ridicule me (she’s in 5th grade I’m not finna argue w a child 😂😂😂) and I js said okay, when this all started and Lana texted me she told me I sajd “I love you “ to him but I never did that was another girl so, what? Anyways our texts went like this
Me - “ Then I don’t remember saying I love you to him but on some real shit I’m sorry if I upset you n shit I would be mad too ik you deserve better n I rlly don’t wanna fight w you abt smth like this n I get where you’re coming from 100% you’re absolutely right n shi n honestly I’m sorry about making you feel like that I’m glad you told me and I’ll work to fix it At the end of the day you’re my bsf n I consider you a sister to me n you have every right to be mad I’ll give you space n shit to js think n be alone “
Lana - “okay well that’s still fucking weird”
Now here’s we’re I’m upset about, Lana is BEST FRIENDS WITH MY FUCKING EX.
My ex cheated on me, abused me, played w my feelings, barely committed to me, spread rumors about me etc. but Everytime he tries talking to her or play fighting her she play fights back or gets all giggly and laughs.
You’re mad at me for saying happy birthday but you wanna be friendly to someone who genuinely hurt me, I’m not saying he didn’t hurt her but I know everything that happened and I’m not finna put my homegirls business out there cause she still my day 1 idgaf but the beef was miscommunication over him play fighting girls.
I get you could be going through it but you not finna sit in my face and say I’m fucked up when you over here having Kumbaya moments.
Anyways sorry this js long but I genuinely love this girl I’ll take any advice or opinions you guys can give me I don’t wanna loose this girl I just can’t loose her she was with me when a loved one committed suicide she was with me when my dog died she’s been through it all with me
AITAH?
Edit 1 - I took someone’s advice and I told her she can’t control who I’m talking to but I understand why she wouldn’t like it I told her I’m uncomfortable with her being friends with my ex she proceeded to say im flipping the situation to make me look like the victim and lately she thinks I’m acting shady, weird and stuff I do is starting tk annoy her
For example she told me that when they broke up she thought I would have taken her side and completely cut him off she said she felt betrayed and that I was flirting with him because he doesn’t bring lunches to school (we’re juniors in high school) so I always offer some of my food (I always bring an extra yogurt or sandwhich or whatever I made that day because I know he’s gonna be hungry) and when I gave him my food she thought it was my “excuse to talk to him” I told her that’s ridiculous and I’d never let someone to hungry especially if I have extra food
I’ve been looking at her reposts on TikTok (yes I’m a stalker I js missssss my girlllll ) and she’s been reposting a bunch of stuff saying “these females doing me wrong” or js shit that says she got betrayed, when I made this post I was angry and needed to vent I worked out took my dog for a walk and now that I’m calm I’m not angry with her I’m just anxious she’s gonna end our friendship and I still don’t see the issue with me wishing someone a happy birthday I told her I was truly just trying to be cordial with him and that if nothing was going on between me and him before they dated nothings going to happen now ESPECIALLY if that’s her ex.
Plus Me and “Alex’s” friend (we’ll call him Leo) have been going on dates lately (dinners, picnics, watching movies at the others house, our families throwing like pool backyard stuff and inviting the other, etc ) so there’s quite literally nothing there between me and “Alex” “Leo”is a sweetheart and exactly my type “Alex” is the bipolar opposite of Leo but the two are best friends I told lana this and she said she wanted time and she didn’t know if she wanted to end the friendship with me because she quote on quote “Doesn’t know if she can trust me” and “doesn’t wanna interact with a potential snake”
She called me a potential snake..
I have no hard feelings towards Lana I’ve never been one to get hurt by words I just wanna let her get all her anger out she started getting disrespectful and I put my foot down and told her
“I know you’re angry but you have no fucking right to disrespect me when I’ve been nothing but logical and understanding with you I’ve tried getting your point and I’m sorry I caused you to hurt I really am but you can’t seem to calm down and be reasonable so please stop blowing my phone up and please only talk to me when you’re open to a logical unbiased conversation”
And I left it with that (I’ll fs give more updates)
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2024.05.13 23:46 jaydalogar Spoke to my first gf after 10 years, what to do next? 32M 31F

I was with my first love for 3 and a bit years, we met in late 2010 before we broke up 10 years ago in early 2014. We were young and in our early 20s back then, things just fizzled out.
I've always thought about her but eventually we went our separate ways, she got in to a relationship with another guy after me for a few years but eventually he ended up cheating on her, this was around 2017.
After her breakup in 2017 I confessed my feelings for her but we didn't go anywhere with it as she was still healing so I told her I need to cut her off at the point because I told her I was struggling to be just friends with her, to which she said that she was heartbroken that's it come to us parting ways. But we wished each other well and went our separate ways. I was really at my lowest at that point but have come a really long way since in terms of having a successful career and have improved a lot financially and mentally.
At the start of 2019, she did add me on social media but she didn't say anything to me so a few days later I ended up deleting her because I realised I still wasn't over her, I regretted deleting her afterwards.
At the end of 2019 I heard that she was engaged, she ended up getting married but then I heard she got divorced around a year and a half ago. A few monthds ago I found out that the reason for her divorce was because her husband cheated on her and was abusive towards her. They got divorced around early 2022.
As for me I did get in to another relationship with someone else but I was also cheated on so I have been single for a few years now, I have been evolving in my career and proud of how far I've come and have recently started a new chapter in my career. I considered getting in touch with her a few months ago but I noticed that she had cut off a lot of people from her social media so I wasnt too sure how she'd react to me adding her, I thought she'd reject me seen as she's cutting off a lot of people.
So around 3 months ago I took the plunge seen as I had nothing to lose and sent her a request on instagram, and she has accepted and also followed me back. She's been viewing my stories and a month ago I posted a life quote on my story which she liked, I haven't spoke to her yet. I posted a few pictures of myself which she hasn't liked but A few weeks ago I posted a quote on my story that said 'be the reason for someone's pain to turn into a smile', she liked that quote and also another one that I posted last week. It was my birthday a few days ago and she liked a birthday story that I posted on instagram. I'm limiting the amount of posts that I like of hers because I don't want to seem too forward.
I'm assuming she is single but not entirely sure. I added her 3 months ago but she deleted me, I was confused because she only liked one of my stories few days prior. I would have liked to see if there was future for us but don't think she's interested now, i have messaged her saying 'Hi, hope your well. I probably should have said something a long time ago but I didn't, my fault. I've been praying for you, today I realise I've been deleted anyways I hope your keeping happy and healthy'. She replied saying 'Hey I'm good thanks hope you are too, that is kind of you, I didn't expect this kind of message'.
I didn't really know what to say back to her, I still don't understand why she deleted me even though days before she was showing an interest in my stories before and now she's deleted me. I have just replied saying 'that's good. Sorry for catching you off guard with it, I wanted to reach out to you earlier. I'm glad your doing well though' and now she has replied back saying 'can I ask why?' I replied back saying 'It's been on my mind for a while to get back in touch with you, I didn't add you for no reason. But we don't need to if it's not something your comfortable with'. She has now sent a long message as follows: 'You don’t make me feel uncomfortable. I have thought about you over the years and wished you well.
I removed you because you have my ex and his family on your instagram and I removed everyone who has any contact with them. You will have heard that I was married there for a short period of time but it was hell and now I’m out of it I don’t want them knowing anything about my life, so I removed everyone who has any link with them. I didn’t realise till that day that you did. It was nothing to do with you personally.' .
Im not actually friends with her ex husband as he is just someone that lives nearby to me and we have never spoken so I have now replied with this: 'I'm sorry that you had to go through that, I hope your okay and I pray god brings you ease. I wouldn't exactly say I have anything to do with them personally though, only thing I know about them is that they're from my area too. It makes sense now and it's understandable why you did that.'
She has replied back again saying 'I'm great, God is the best of planners and it was the best thing for me. Even so, I removed everyone who had us both so sorry about that' and to which I have replied 'That's fair enough, I'm glad to hear your doing well though and that your at peace now. That's what matters most'. She had now asked 'how have you been, what's new with you?' I have just replied saying 'I'm not too bad thanks, life's changed a lot since we last spoke so there's quite a lot that's new lol'. That was few nights ago, and after that we were speaking generally about the holiday that I'm currently on and what to do as she has been here before too and she also asked how long I'm there for, it was in general a short and civilised conversation.
She ended the conversation 6 nights ago by liking my last message, I don't know if she plans to message me again as she did take a few hours to reply between each message, What are the chances that she'll message me even if we don't follow each other on instagram anymore. I am slightly anxious that she won't message me after this due to her deleting me because her ex is on my Instagram. Was thinking of just giving her space for a few more days, then deleting her ex and requesting her back in around a weeks time.
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2024.05.13 22:53 ThrowRA_holygrav3 I (24F) broke up with my boyfriend (26M) over a CD. But what was the best way to go through it?

Hi everyone! I (24F) was in a relationship for almost 6 months with my ex-boyfriend (26M). For a context, I like to buy CDs but mostly it’s only one artist that I like or some k-pop groups. I have a separate shelf for all this, sometimes I like to open and look through albums but I don’t listen to them. We rarely discussed music and everything related to it, since we had quite different musical preferences but this never bothered me or him. Before our breakup I received a new CD and I was very happy, so I decided to send a pic of it to him. He replayed with “Yayyy” and that was it. I thought everything was fine after thar.
Later that evening we were having dinner at my apartment and when he walked past the shelf of CDs he asked where my CD player was? I replied that I don’t listen to CDs and that’s why I don’t have one. Well that escalated quickly.
He said that it was weird to buy CDs but not listen to them, to which I replied that I prefer streaming music and buy albums just for the collection. He looked at me strangely and asked how much the CDs cost. I said that they are usually around 12-25$. He laughed and said it was a stupid waste of money. At first I decided to let it go and began explain to him that I didn’t see anything stupid about it. That it’s my choice how to spend my money and I have the right to do what I want with what I buy, even if it’s basically not to do anything. He got angry and said that by my age I should have understood that there is no need to waste money on some bullsh7t like that. He compared me to a child who doesn't know what she wants and said that it’s like buying branded clothes but not wearing it. After that we got into a fight and I asked him to leave my apartment. The next day I texted him that we fought over something silly and dumb, so we can just get over it but I would like him to apologise for calling me a child. He replayed with, and I quote, «The reason for the fight wasn’t dumb, the only dumb thing is the fact that you buy CDs but don’t listen to them😂» Few hours later we broke up.
We had some mutual friends and few days later one of them texted me «Did you actually dump him cause he wasn’t happy about your Taylor Swift new CD?? Are you dense?» So I guess he had a different perspective on our breakup.
Anyway maybe I shouldn’t be that quick to end everything with him over this topic? Maybe we should have had another conversation? But idk I felt weird after everything he said. Sorry for any typos and long text, I’m kinda still going through this, it’s only been few days.
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2024.05.13 22:14 HaykakanTxa Daily News Report: 05/11/2024 - 05/13/2024

Date: 05/13/2024

Reading time: 8 minutes, 1779 words

🏛️ Politics & Government

Disobedience actions were carried out in Yerevan, 151 citizens were detained (completed)

151 participants of the disobedience actions that started in the morning have been arrested. The leader of the "Tavush for the Motherland movement, Bagrat Archbishop Galstanyan, called the citizens to a rally on Republic Square on May 12.
CivilNet, Disobedience actions have been taking place in Yerevan since early morning, 88 people were detained (VIDEO), 151 detained as civil disobedience campaigns continue in Yerevan

Prime Minister Pashinyan heads to the Kingdom of Denmark

Nikol Pashinyan will attend the Copenhagen Democracy Summit on May 14. He will participate in a discussion titled "From the Frontline: Armenia’s Defence of Democracy" as part of the visit.
Armenpress, Pashinyan travels to Denmark to participate in "Copenhagen Democracy Summit", Armenian PM off to Denmark for Democracy Summit

Armenian Parliament Speaker receives OSCE Chair-in-Office

The Armenian National Assembly President Alen Simonyan on May 13 received the delegation led by the OSCE Chair-in-Office, Minister for Foreign and European Affairs and Trade of Malta Jan Borg. The NA President presented to the interlocutor the process of the Armenia-Azerbaijan negotiations.
Armenpress, OSCE to Support Armenia and Azerbaijan in Achieving Comprehensive Peace - Ian Borg, Armenian Prime Minister and OSCE Chairman-in-Office discuss South Caucasus developments, Expanded meeting of foreign ministers of Armenia and Malta held in Yerevan, We are ready to support Armenia and Azerbaijan in achieving peace. OSCE Chairman-in-Office, Pashinyan presents Armenia-Azerbaijan normalization process to OSCE Chair-in-Office, Reaching stable, comprehensive peace between Armenia, Azerbaijan remains priority for OSCE, OSCE Chairman-in-Office to visit Armenia, OSCE will support Armenia and Azerbaijan in peace efforts, Chairman-in-Office says, Armenian FM, OSCE Chair discuss developments in the South Caucasus

Argentina sees efforts of Armenia in establishing peace in the South Caucasus

Armenia National Assembly President Alen Simonyan received the Ambassador Extraordinary and Plenipotentiary of the Argentine Republic to the Republic of Armenia Rafael Enrique Gonzalez Aleman. The Head of Parliament congratulated the Ambassador on the occasion of his appointment. He expressed conviction that it will promote rapprochement and strengthening of the relations between Armenia and Argentina.
Armenpress

Mirzoyan provides constructive review about meeting with Azerbaijani foreign minister in Almaty

The meeting of the foreign ministers of Armenia and Azerbaijan in Almaty took place in a constructive atmosphere, reported by Ararat Mirzoyan. The parties agreed to continue negotiations on the open issues where differences still exist.
Armenpress, France urges Armenia and Azerbaijan to proceed with border demarcation based on agreed principles, France hails negotiations between Armenian, Azerbaijani Foreign Ministers in Almaty, France welcomes the holding of a new round of negotiations between the Foreign Ministers of Armenia and Azerbaijan in Almaty, France welcones talks between Armenian, Azerbaijani FMs held in Almaty, France welcomes Armenia-Azerbaijan meeting in Almaty

Alma-Ata declaration inclusion in peace treaty is crucial for regional stability-Ararat Mirzoyan

The United States and the Republic of Azerbaijan signed a peace treaty on April 19. The two countries agreed that the agreement should be the basis for the agreement. They agreed that all of the countries involved in the agreement would be under the same principles.
Armenpress, Mirzoyan: The signing of a peace treaty with Azerbaijan could end the long-term conflict

Mirzoyan says meeting with Bayramov was “constructive”

At the moment, Ararat Mirzoyan said, there is no basis for additional comments.
PanArmenian

Yerevan Mayor receives World Bank representatives

Yerevan Mayor Tigran Avinyan and World Bank representatives discussed progress of projects with the World Bank. Initiated projects pertained to public administration reforms, including digitization of services provided to citizens.
Armenpress

Protesters in Georgia reconvene to rally against foreign-agents bill

Several hundred people gathered near the parliament building in the Georgian capital of Tbilisi to protest against a bill on foreign agents. They are holding flags of Georgia and the EU, as well as banners demanding the withdrawal of the bill.
Armenpress, Georgian Parliament Committee approves “foreign agents bill” amid protests

European Commission’s Executive Vice President to take in the EBRD's annual meeting in Armenia

Executive Vice-President Valdis Dombrovskis will participate in the European Bank for Reconstruction and Development (EBRD) annual meeting and business conference in Yerevan on May 15 and 16. He will take part in a panel discussion on "Critical Raw Materials" within the framework of his mission. The EBRD 2024 Annual Meeting & Business Forum serves as a global platform for discussions.
Armenpress, Executive Vice President of European Commission for economic affairs to visit Armenia on 15-16 May, OSCE Chairman-in-Office to visit Armenia, European Commission’s Executive Vice President Dombrovskis in Armenia for EBRD’s Annual Meeting

The Armenian cultural heritage in Nagorno-Karabakh is gradually being destroyed – Geghard SAF

The destruction of St. Hambardzum Church in Berdzor is yet another act of vandalism by Azerbaijan, “Geghard’s scientific and analytical foundation said in a statement. Azerbaijan's state policy, under the dictatorial leadership of Aliyev, has openly declared its intention to continue the destruction of Armenian heritage built over the past thirty years.
Armenpress

Armenia among top three countries in terms of cargo turnover growth with Russia’s southern regions

The demand for cargo shipping from the Southern Federal District of Russia into Armenia and China has grown 11 times since March 2021. The Russian government announced earlier that the country’s ministries of agriculture, energy, industry and trade had reported high demand for shipping using the Russia - Turkey, Russia - Iran - India and Russia - China transport corridors.
ArkaAm

💵 Economy

Armenia to host 33rd EBRD Business Forum with flagship sponsorship of Ardshinbank

Armenia joined the EBRD as a member on December 7, 1992, contributing €10 million to the bank's capital. Ardshinbank organized a discussion on economic and trade sanctions, the issues they raise, and potential solutions. The bank is the only non-sovereign entity from Armenia which has issued RegS /144A public Eurobonds in international capital markets.
ArkaAm, The 33rd EBRD business forum will be held in Armenia with the strategic partnership of Ardshinbank, Hrant Hakobyan. Participation in the EBRD Annual Meeting is consistent with the strategy adopted by the Bank

Cargo carriage volume drops by 14.4%, passenger traffic grows by 22.5% in Q1 2024 in Armenia

Cargo carriage volume stood at 3,437.1 thousand tonnes in the first quarter of 2024. Total passenger traffic reached 50,664.3 thousand passengers, growing by 22.5%. Armenia’s cargo turnover stood at 1,383.6 million tkm, dropping by 7.3% compared to the same period last year. 71 individuals were killed (dropping by 5.3%) and 1,275 more people were injured in traffic accidents.
ArkaAm

⚽ Sport

Armenian sambo wrestlers won 18 medals at the European Championship

At European Sambo Championships of different age groups, Armenian teams of different ages won 3 gold, 8 silver and 7 bronze medals. By total Armenian athletes took 4th place with 18 medals. About 600 athletes from 29 countries took part in the European Championships.
Armenpress

Armenian chess players wrap up participation in Dubai international tournament

Shant Sargsyan scored 6 points out of 9 possible and took 8th place. Hayk Martirosyan took 13th place with the same result. Hovik Hayrapetyan is in 30th place, Samvel Ter-Sahakyan is in 31st place.
Armenpress

Date: 05/12/2024

Reading time: 0 minutes, 109 words

🏛️ Politics & Government

Where did the process of expressing no confidence in Nikol Pashinyan reach, according to Bishop Bagrat?

Opposition factions lack one vote to put project of no confidence in PM Nikol Pashinyan on agenda of the National Assembly. Opposition factions supporting the movement of the movement have one vote. Archbishop Galstanyan met independent deputy Ishkhan Zakaryan twice to get his opinion.
CivilNet

Taking the Alma-Ata declaration as the basis for the definition is criminally punishable. Vahagn Melikyan

Vahagn Melikyan presented the text developed by the "All-Armenian Council of Diplomats"ry group of former diplomats.
CivilNet

Tens of thousands of protesters took to the streets in Tbilisi against the controversial law

Tens of thousands of people came out in Tbilisi against the Law on Foreign Agents. 16 former Georgian Dream MPs have appealed to the ruling party to immediately stop the adoption of the Foreign Agents Law. Opposition parties: United National Movement, Strategy Aghmashenebeli, Lelo, Girchi, Droa, Ahali and Republican.
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Date: 05/11/2024

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🏛️ Politics & Government

41 detained as antigovernment protests continue in Yerevan

41 people were detained in Yerevan as people demanding Pashinian’s resignation stage campaigns of civil disobedience.
PanArmenian

Abkhaz opposition figures support the Georgian protesters

Opposition figures in Abkhazia express support for protesters against draft law on foreign agents in Georgia. They fear that the draft law signals a change in Tbilisi's pro-Russian foreign policy. Opponents say the law could be used to silence critics of the government or foreign agents.
CivilNet

Russia provides info about arrested Armenian ex-MP

Russian law enforcement agencies have provided information about the arrest of Tigran Urikhanyan.
PanArmenian

Armenian, Azerbaijani Foreign Ministers agreed to continue talks on the open issues

Ararat Mirzoyan, Minister of Foreign Affairs of the Republic of Armenia, held talks with Jeyhun Bayramov in Kazakhstan. The Ministers welcomed progress on delimitation and agreements reached in this regard. The parties agreed to continue negotiations on the open issues where differences still exist.
Armenpress, Armenian, Azerbaijani Foreign Ministers continue talks in Almaty, The foreign ministers of Armenia and Azerbaijan agreed to continue negotiations on open issues, Armenian, Azerbaijani Ministers welcome progress on delimitation and agreements reached in this regard, Second round of Armenia-Azerbaijan talks set for May 11

Armenian President meets with representatives of the Union of Iranian-Armenians and Iraqi-Armenians

President of the Republic of Armenia Vahagn Khachaturyan had a meeting with representatives of the Union of Iranian-Armenians and Iraqi-Armanians at his residence in Los Angeles. The border delimitation process between Armenia and Azerbaijan and developments taking place around it were touched upon.
Armenpress

EU agreed on security guarantees for Kyiv

The EU has agreed on a bill to provide security guarantees to Ukraine. The draft agreement has already been agreed upon by all 27 member countries of the commonwealth. Brussels intends to provide guarantees no later than early July.
Armenpress

UN Committee Against Torture issues findings on Azerbaijan and mistreatment of Armenians

The UN Committee Against Torture released in its findings today violations of international humanitarian law and human rights law related to the treatment of ethnic or national Armenians by Azerbaijan. The Committee also expressed concerns over the continued detention of 23 individuals of Armenian origin.
ArmRadio

Armenia votes for UN resolution granting Palestine new rights

The U.N. General Assembly voted by a wide margin on May 10 to grant new “rights and privileges” to Palestine.
PanArmenian

EU still discussing funding Armenia through European Peace Facility

Discussions continue in the EU on providing Armenia with funds from the European Peace Facility, Vassilis Maragos says.
PanArmenian

Eurovision Grand Final: Armenia’s Ladaniva to perform number 19

The Grand Final of Eurovision 2024 has started in Malmö, Sweden. The representative of Armenia, the group "Ladaniva" will perform the song Jako under the number 19. The running order of the Eurovision Grand Final is as follows: Sweden, Ukraine, Germany, Luxembourg, Netherlands, Israel, Lithuania, Spain, Estonia, Latvia, Greece, Norway, Italy, Serbia, Finland, Portugal, Cyprus, Switzerland, Slovenia, Croatia, Georgia, France and Austria.
Armenpress, Eurovision Grand Final: Armenia performs 19th

We will build specialized sports schools named after all Olympic champions - PM

Prime Minister Nikol Pashinyan visited Armavir region. He visited schools of the settlements in the gymnasiums of which various problems and defects had been recorded. He also visited other settlements and got acquainted with the construction of new facilities. In Jararat, he attended the opening ceremony of a weightlifting sports school.
Armenpress, PM Pashinyan visits various communities in Armavir region, attends opening of Weightlifting School after Simon Martirosyan in Jrarat

Lemkin Institue slams Pashinyan's “cryptic engagement with Genocide denial”

The Lemkin Institute is alarmed over Pashinyan’s statements “questioning Armenia's legal basis to pursue justice against Turkey”.
PanArmenian

🎭 Culture

Azerbaijanis completely destroy St. Ascension Church in Berdzor

Azerbaijan completely destroyed the St. Ascension Church in Berdzor, the Research on Armenian Architecture. The new domed church built of finely processed basalt was anointed in May 1998.
ArmRadio

Netherlands’ Eurovision entry disqualified from song contest

Joost Klein has been disqualified from the Eurovision Song Contest after a backstage incident. An allegation of intimidation was made to Swedish police by a female member of the production crew. Ireland's Bambie Thug missed their dress rehearsal, but promised to be on stage for the show.
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2024.05.13 21:12 bananabear24 Dumpers who lost feelings and everything was perfect... it was a healthy relationship... did you later regret it? Were you wrong about your gut feeling, and it was something else? Thoughts/advice please???

My bf (24M) and I (23F) broke up a little over a week ago. We dated for almost exactly 1 year, but we were truly together for 1.5 years. It was more so him breaking up with me (even though I pushed him to admit he felt it was the best decision in the moment) because he recently told me out of the blue that for the past couple of months, he was waking up feeling unhappy and just didn’t know why. I was completely blindsided and had NO idea he was feeling this way at all… he hid it so well and acted like normal for 2 months. He said he had absolutely no idea why he was feeling this way and felt guilty for feeling this way. He said that he didn’t think it had anything to do with me at all because everything about me was great (I’m pretty, funny, smart, etc.), and nothing between us had changed (i.e. our routine or dynamic). He was in a 3-year LTR before me and said he knows what it’s like to be comfortable in a relationship, but this feeling was different and something he had never felt before… he said his gut was telling him it wasn’t going to work out.
To preface, our relationship was very healthy, which is why I’m asking for help since most relationships on Reddit truly have obvious problems… I just didn’t think ours did. We RARELY ever argued (every couple does, and even then I could honestly get away w/ saying we never truly did), we did fun stuff together, we were there for each other during hard times, we are both introverted, so we are respectful of each other’s alone time and needing space… we cooked dinner together, did marching band together... I truly believed he was a very mature guy. He has always dated intentionally (I was dating him intentionally too), he is incredibly loyal, very respectful, has an amazing family, has always listened to me and any concerns I ever had, it was all there… and I was the same for him... which is why I’m just so confused.
It ultimately became a mutual decision (if that’s what you would call it) but only because I didn’t really see another way out of it… what choice do you have if someone says they feel they’ve fallen out of it? I guess I figured if he had lost romantic feelings that, well… that was that. I felt like I couldn’t do anything to change that. I don’t think he wanted to break up and wanted to give it a few days to truly think it over, but I pushed it along and asked him if he felt this was the right choice deep down. He said he thought so, so I figured, well, I guess it should just end now then? I don’t think he wanted to hurt me or regret making that decision.
He told me he was so scared of regretting this and losing something really great and that he was scared of making the wrong decision. He said he didn’t know what was wrong with him. He wasn't sure if he could see it being us in the end, but do you necessarily have to especially when we’re both so young? I’m nowhere NEAR ready for marriage and I don’t think he is either, but I could’ve seen it with him a few years down the road… I don’t think you always have to know right away or have the love at first sight moment (?).
I don’t know anything about losing feelings or falling out of love, but the past few months I will say have been a more difficult time in life. We had both been searching for jobs and internships, and I know that was a stressful time for him. He applied to over 75+ positions and was constantly getting rejected. After a few months, he finally did land one, but this was a week or 2 before things ended. Things were a little stagnant between us, but we still did things to keep some excitement going. He wasn’t sure if the spark had died or what… idk. I consider this dead period a contributor, but I don’t know. I truly 100% do not believe it had to do with another girl though… he truly is a loyal and mature boyfriend.
Another thought I had was the fact that maybe this was a result of his previous relationship. We became FWB a little over a month after his 3-year LTR ended. Us hooking up was completely unexpected for both of us… he was not intentionally seeking out a rebound or anything, and I wasn’t intentionally trying to get with him either. It just happened (for backstory, we also knew each other for about 3 years already through a mutual activity, but we were never close friends).
We got drunk one night at a mutual friend’s place, went downtown, and we hooked up that night. We both just wanted something casual and did not want to date, so we stayed FWB for a few months. We both soon developed feelings 5-6 months later. We dated for almost a year after that. During those early months, he told me he felt like he was over his ex before we got together because she cheated on him and did him really wrong. I asked him over and over if he was sure, and he said yes (this was still during us just wanting to be FWB, so it didn’t feel like a bad thing. Neither of us had intentions of dating).
I wonder if he is having this loss of feelings or weird feelings because he never allowed himself time to heal after his last relationship, but I figured if our relationship was a rebound, it would not have lasted nearly as long (maybe a couple of months). I do think he truly loved me and loved dating and being with me, but sometimes I just wonder if this is where it came from? His ex was nothing great… she didn’t like his family, she complained a lot, and emotionally cheated on him with a few different guys for months. She broke up with him because quote “she didn’t feel loved.”
The only issue I really had resonated a little with this ^^^ (the “not feeling loved” part). I was lacking affection and for longer than the 2 months he had been feeling this way. I just figured this was an easy fix because it was things like “hey, I’d love it if you would call me first or call me more, maybe hold my hand more, maybe offer to pay for dinner more or offer to take me out on a planned date.” He has kind of always been like this and has admitted he’s never been great at doing those things… I just thought he needed to be more mindful of this and put in a little more effort, but I wonder if he got spooked when I asked him for these things and became afraid I would also “not feel loved” and leave?? Just a thought, but I don’t know.
Can anyone make any sense of this?? Do y’all think it was because of the internship stress, or maybe it could be problems he has to figure out on his own? Was it too good to be true?? (I’ve heard this before in a previous relationship, and they regretted leaving me back then). I don’t mean to boast, but I truly thought I was so good to him and for him and him for me. We were the perfect duo and truly related to each other through our passion for band and music. I did so much for him and (still) love him to pieces. We were fun and weird together. I love his family. Our relationship was amazing, and that’s what makes this hard. I just can NOT make sense of it.
I do really think he’s going to regret it… I believe he truly lost a really great relationship and person. He told me if it’s right, we’ll find each other again. I know this is possible but only after we each heal and work on ourselves. We’ve been in no contact, and I believe no contact will ultimately give each of us the best outcome, whether it’s together in the end or allowing ourselves to fully heal and move on. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be, it'll be. Is it bad to think it could work out after a few months of NC? I don’t want to have false hope, but because it’s only been a week and it’s the breakup is so fresh, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have some small sliver of hope because the relationship was just so good and healthy (trust me, I’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship and know when it’s time to absolutely step away). My mindset is ultimately to focus on myself during this time and learn from the relationship.
Can anyone give some insight on this? Can people TRULY just lose romantic feelings if the relationship was great, or is it him being comfortable/maybe an external factor causing this? Maybe someone can tell me what goes through a guy’s mind with this or what you think could have happened? Have you ever had a gut feeling and your feeling was right, or was it not right and potentially an external factor?
Tl;dr: My ex and I had a very healthy and loving relationship, but he said he’s been waking up feeling unhappy the past couple of months. I was blindsided and just cannot make sense of the situation. He’s very loyal, so I don’t think it was another girl at all. I don’t know what made him start feeling this way… I think he is going to regret this decision.
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2024.05.13 19:30 mentorofminos Dealing with a scummy box-store Electrician company

So I'm going to avoid naming the name of the company because I'm currently in a dispute with them. I've posted here before about a proposed $27,731.60 "service replacement" charge that this company suggested after telling me that my smoke alarm system had died and that it was due to "corroded electrical supply that was past its serviceable lifespan".
I'm happy to report that I did not acquiesce to any such outlandish charge and instead got the opinions of three different qualified electricians from the area. The most I was quoted was $2,300, i.e. 1/10 of the proposed cost, to change out the circuit breaker panel, but the other 2 electricians said they didn't think there was anything the matter with my electrical supply and that there was no corrosion on the buses and everything was wired neat and tidy.
The rage I feel. Ohhhh the rage.
So then I found out that the smoke alarms they charged me $2,700 to install a year or so ago were actually $119 Kidde brand combo smoke/CO alarms with wireless interconnect. Those detectors come, by default, with a 10-year sealed battery, bear that in mind. In other words, they come factory direct that way at the $119 price point. The number they installed even with labor at $115/hour shouldn't have come to more than $1k, so being charged nearly $3k raised my alarm bells. I dug into it further and got a detailed invoice from the company and yup, they gouged me.
They charged the following:
6 counts of "wireless combination smoke/co detector" at $228.60/count = $1,371.60 3 counts of "install a wireless battery operated smoke and CO detector" at $178.20 per = $534.60 9 counts of "add 10 year sealed battery to detector" at $52/count = $468 (!!!!!!!!) Heat detector units at $166.50/count for 2 counts = $333
Total of $2,707.20
Those heat detectors by the way cost even less than the smokes because they don't have voice command or wireless operation, they're just hard wired heat detectors.
I was OUTRAGED that they were literally charging me $468 to "add a battery" when the battery comes with the unit straight out of the box and requires no additional assembly or work. Disgusting price gouging.
Fortunately, there was a "service satisfaction guarantee" clause and you bet your 3rd point of contact that I invoked that! So I did get the money back for the smokes, every penny of it.
The company is now, however, jerking me around about a $468 charge (different from the one in the invoice) for one of their electricians to come to my home and try to "fix" my smoke alarm system. But it wasn't broken. Indeed, all that happened is that one of the units had a fault and just needed to be re-initialized, but it just so happened that the one in question was the "hub" unit that acted as the central connector for all of the others in the wireless grid. So when that faulted, all of the others started chirping and saying "connection lost!" over and over and over again at 1 o'clock in the morning.
The only thing the goofus that they sent out did was just push the silence button, put the alarms back up, and then 15 minutes later when they inevitably unsilenced after the 15 minute hush period and started screaming "connection lost!" again, he tells me that my system is damaged beyond repair because of my outdated electrical supply and I'll need to get the full service updated at which point they can get a warranty replacement on the smoke alarms.
Bruh. -.-
So after he leaves, I call Kidde, the manufacturer, and confirm that in fact all I ACTUALLY have to do is hold the button down on the central unit for about 8 seconds until I get 3 beeps, then hold each of the other units down for about 5 seconds until I get 2 beeps, then hold the central unit down for 5 seconds and get 2 beeps and they alllllll reconnect and reinitialize. Took me less than 5 minutes.
How a licensed electrician working for the company that installed those units didn't do that while at my home for 3.5 hours is beyond me. I have to assume he was intentionally not fixing the units in order to pressure me into a $27,731.60 service agreement. That or he was inept. I don't know which is the more generous thing to assume, frankly.
The same company also installed a whole home surge protector on my circuit breaker. It's internally fused, apparently, so it's patched DIRECTLY into the main breaker, not onto sub breaker. It's a PSP Category 1 Hurricane Surge Protector (model #HC1C100-06N) and I called PSP, the manufacturer, directly to try to get a quote on the price for it, but they tell me they are a factory that sells directly to electricians, so they can't quote me a value. But I'm willing to bet it's substantially less than $1,100.
So my question is this: I know for sure they were taking me for a ride from the beginning because online sources tell me residential whole home surge protectors cost typically between $30 and $150 or so based on the quality and brand. And that installation is usually another $200ish. I'm curious to know: have any of you worked with a PSP Cat-1 Hurricane surge protector? Are they low quality, mid, or high? About what do they charge you as the electrician? About what do you typically charge to install? Bonus points if you're in western Massachusetts or the New England market in general and can quote approximately what it would cost to do this. I'm trying to establish that in all 3 cases this company grossly overcharged me, because I want my money back for any work they did since it has, thus far, all been substandard.
And to clarify, they were not running any new wires for the smoke alarm system or for the surge protector. They used existing breakers and existing wires, so it cannot be the case that they were justifying a higher charge for that reason. They literally put up 9 smoke alarms on existing wires, took them like an hour and a half, so at the $115/hour rate they quote that should have been like $180 of install charges plus maybe a fee for rolling a truck out here and the cost of the units themselves. Something a little over $1k would have made sense. In my defense, it was the middle of the pandemic, I was going through a messy breakup with an ex who cohabitated and co-owned my home at the time, and looking up prices for smoke detectors was not at the top of my priority list at the time of this charge. I guess "caveat emptor" so my fault a bit, but also screw that nonsense, electricians shouldn't be cut-throat bastards, they should quote an honest price for honest work.
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2024.05.13 18:20 incandenza74 Drug test and physical requested before an interview? + Sketchy emails/texts?

For context, I’m brand new to this industry, so I don’t know how the hiring process is supposed to work. This is a long post because I’m quoting a lot of receipts. TL;DR is that I’ve gotten lots of sketchy emails and texts about this job and now am being asked to take a drug test and physical but have yet to have an interview or even get asked to schedule an interview. I haven’t taken the drug test or physical either because I’ve never been asked to provide this info for a job until after interviewing. I just want to know if this seems normal/legit.
Ok, summary and receipts below…
On 5/8 I applied for a “FedEx Delivery Driver” job on Indeed, with contractor Jigsaw Enterprises Inc. in King of Prussia, PA. (First of all, I can’t find any info on Jigsaw. The address in the listing points to a real FedEx center. But I can’t find a company website, contact info, or records for this contractor.)
An hour later I got an email from fadv3@routeelite.com with the subject line “Let's get your back ground [sic] started for your job.” The email says, “Our team will shortly send you a background application from a third party company called ‘First Advantage’. This is the company that will do the background. It is important to fill out the application asap and follow thru with all instructions.” This email looked sketchy to me. No company names or logos, poor grammar, etc. I’m not even sure who it’s supposed to be from as there’s no signature. The email concluded with the phone number 206.249.9368. I called it but it went straight to infinite hold music. When I tried calling again I got a busy tone.
5/9 morning I got an email from do_not_reply@fadv.com with the link to the background check. “Contracted Service Provider with FedEx Ground requests that you begin this simple process to initiate, complete and receive your own background screening report in an easy to use application called Profile Advantage, powered by First Advantage... There is a limited time to complete the screening, so be sure to start today. https://pa.fadv.com/#/invite/?key=XFDWDJRPZO” It looked legit with official Profile Advantage logos and everything so I followed the link and completed it. (My memory is hazy but I might have sent over my SSN during that check.)
On 5/10 I got an email from FADVReports-NoReply@fadv.com with a request for a drug test and physical. It looked all official with a First Advantage logo, authorization # bar code, information on a real local clinic to go for the tests, etc. This seemed very weird to me though because at this point I still hadn’t heard anything from Jigsaw Enterprises directly. Nobody had called me for an interview or anything.
On 5/11 I got an email from hello@managemylogistics.com with the subject line “Let’s get your back ground [sic] started for your job” and the message “We still do not have your DOT physical exam card. Please go to a health center asap to get this done. Click here to see the list of locations and further instructions. We have a full team that is also available to assist you in filling out the application thoroughly. You can also call them during business hours 7 days a week: 206.249.9368. We look forward to working with you.” I haven’t clicked on the link because this email seems very sketchy. Also, getting that same phone number from a different email address is weird.
The same day (5/11) I got a text from +1 (206) 202-6167 saying, “We still do not have your DOT physical exam card. Please go to a health center asap to get this done. Click this link https://mml.softr.app/appbg?recordId=recU5blKpdw5CXEKV You can call our team at: 2062499368 for further assistance.” I haven’t clicked the link.
On 5/12 I got an email from fadv3@routeelite.com with the subject line “We need your medical examiner certificate to proceed with your background.” The email said, “You applied for a delivery driver job with JigzawEnterprises on 2024-05-08T16:32:25.000Z. In order to proceed you must do a physical test at a health center location and provide us with your Medical Examiner Certificate. Please click HERE to find out the addresses where you can go to. It is completley free of charge. Once you have it please make sure to upload it and we'll get you started on a great career in a jiffy. If you're no longer interested pelase click [HERE] and we'll notify JigzawEnterprises that you are no longer interested.” But there’s no link given at the [HERE] and no phone number for me to call.
That same day (5/12) I got another text from +1 (206) 202-6167 saying, “hi JORDAN, you applied for a job with JigzawEnterprises. Please make sure to get your medical examiner certificate asap so we can get you started with a great career. Click this link to find out the addresses of the health center locations https://mmlre.io/KKn2ek” I haven’t clicked on the link.
Then finally this morning I got another email from First Advantage. (Email address is DoNotReply@fadv.com, slightly different than the first email I got from them at do_not_reply@fadv.com.) Subject line “URGENT Request for Information . Your FedEx Ground Package Systems - CSP Driver Qualification File” The message reads, “First Advantage is managing your DOT Driver Qualification file on behalf of FedEx Ground Package Systems - CSP and we need your help today to obtain missing documentation. Responding today via the secure link will instantly provide us the information we need to move forward to complete this process. Please make this a priority now. The following mandatory information must be uploaded to our website immediately, using the secure link below: Requested InformationYour Medical Examiner’s Certificate (Form MCSA-5876) must be uploaded to our website using the secure link below. -- Required Form Information: IF you’re an existing driver, your MEC is due to expire in 15 days, upload NEW MEC to maintain file compliance. -- IF you’re still in qualification process, upload current MEC Link to upload information: https://pa.fadv.com/#/invite/?key=efb5c9c0-06fa-413e-81fb-2ef0785c43b”
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2024.05.13 16:54 SporksOrDie Edward Snowden is a CIA Actor and hasn't been photographed in Russia since 2014.

Once you start working for the intelligence community, you don't get out.
Here's a quote Edward Snowden wrote before becoming a "whistleblower".
“Years later, when characterizing his experience as a CIA TISO, Snowden would write that he was ‘specially selected by [CIA’s] Executive Leadership Team for [a] high-visibility assignment’ that ‘required exceptionally wide responsibility.’ assignment’ that ‘required exceptionally wide responsibility.’
In 2013, Russian and USA relations were not as strained as they are today. During that time, Russian media frequently posted pictures of Edward Snowden. However, since 2014, these sightings have disappeared. It's been a decade since Edward Snowden was seen outside in Russia.
Have you ever wondered how Edward Snowden is paying for living in Russia? Do you really think Russia would pay for some helpdesk employee to tweet for a decade and not be used by Russian Propaganda?
It has come to light recently that the CIA withheld information from Trump. Even Jack Smith presented the court with altered documents than what the defense provided. Here is a recent quote from a tweet from a undercover reporter:
Amjad Fseisi, is caught on undercover cameras implicating the highest levels of the intelligence agencies, including “The executive staff. We’re talking about the director and his subordinates,” former CIA Directors “Gina Haspel....And I believe Mike Pompeo did the same thing too,” “kept information from him [Trump] because we knew he’d fucking disclose it.” Amjad reasons “There are certain people that would…give him a high-level overview but never give him any details. You know why? Because he’ll leak those details...He’s a Russian asset. He’s owned by the fucking Russians.”
If the CIA is willing to lie about Edward Snowden, they likely provided Trump with fake intelligence that they know he would leak.
Have you ever seen a "whistleblower" do more talk shows than Edward Snowden? They even made a movie about him in a few years. The media is treating Edward Snowden very differently than any other whistleblower in the intelligence community.
I don't believe we've had a real national security whistleblower in a long time. Edward Snowden is just trying to misdirect us. There might be aliens, but i would not take the word of an ex CIA agent about that.
CIA did not expect Russia to go so off the rails so quickly, so you won't see him in Russian media ever again until he decides he wants to answer questions in USA, like a real whistleblower would do.
What are the true motives behind his tweets and interviews? Does the CIA want to secretly help make our private data more secure? /s
Edit: Maybe the low detail intel briefings with lots of picture and charts provided to Trump was just a psyop
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2024.05.13 16:23 Chen_Geller The Hunt for Gollum: Peter Jackson's Leonore Number 3?

The Hunt for Gollum: Peter Jackson's Leonore Number 3?
I've written before about The Hunt for Gollum for Fellowship of Fans AND for this board, but having had time to think about it, I think a deeper examination of it is in order.
The Lord of the Rings: The Hunt for Gollum is a film, scheduled for 2026, produced by Sir Peter Jackson and directed by Andrew Serkis, about Aragorn and his tracking down Gollum during the early stages of The Fellowship of the Ring and/or the period leading up to it.
The film is an intriging concept - not least for the participation of all these Lord of the Rings and Hobbit luminaries - including perhaps de-aged cast members - but does raise some concerns: in the pas, these kinds of entries-between-the-entries have done as much a disservice to their respective series as they enriched them: could this film possibly sidestep such issues?

What is it about?

In spite of the name - which is only a working title - this film is NOT essentially a Gollum film like the dreaded video game, but AN ARAGORN FILM: It is based on Aragorn's descriptions (mostly in the Council of Elrond) of his hunt of Gollum. Exactly what the film will entail is unclear: given that Gollum first leaves his cave only a few years after The Hobbit, the filmmakers could use it as license to regail us with much of his travels and those of a younger Aragorn, as well as Gondor tilting towards war, Balin's colony in Moria, and perhaps even Saruman falling under Sauron's spell: The White Wizard is already expected to appear in animated form in The War of the Rohirrim. Even oddballs like Tom Bombadil could be made to fit in there.
The title, however, may well suggest a more focused premise, centering on Aragorn and Gandalf's actual hunting down of Gollum, perhaps much of those earlier events in Gollum and Aragorn's life condensed into a prologue. This would make this NOT be a prequel in the usual sense of the word: rather than take place BEFORE Fellowship of the Ring, such a film will take place DURING Fellowship of the Ring, betwen the 32 minute mark when Gandalf leaves to convene with Aragorn, who suggests hunting Gollum down, and the 34 minute mark when Ringwraiths first approach the Shire. In that case, I mused here on the sub that this might entail the producers opting for de-aging rather than recasting the roles, especially since the films do away with the seventeen-year timelapse that was to occur at this spot.
This is actually a premise that had intrigued Jackson for a long time: Aragorn and Gandalf track Gollum down from the outskirts of Mirkwood to the outskirts of Mordor. Gandalf breaks off for Minas Tirith while Aragorn tracks Gollum (since having gone through Shelob Lair only to be captured in Mordor) to within sight of Minas Morgul and finally catching him in the Dead Marshes, and leading him to the Woodland Realm, where he's finally released from captivity in the mayham of an Orc attack.
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Jackson evidentally loved it, talking about shooting it - at the time as more footage to be added into The Lord of the Rings - as early as 1998: "We would write and shoot [...] scenes involving Gandalf and Aragorn hunting Gollum, and his capture by Orcs …" He lamented its absence in the director's commentary to The Fellowship of the Ring. By 2002, while in post-production for The Two Towers, Jackson confided in both composer Howard Shore and Executive Producer Mark Ordesky that he intends to make The Hobbit and a "Lord of the Rings prequel" about Aragorn. The project entered development along with The Hobbit in 2006, but seemingly died out before 2008, as The Hobbit was proving a bigger undertaking than originally concieved.
Nevertheless, Jackson says they still wanted to have Mortensen in the film: "We did try to figure out a way to put... to get a cameo, even if it was a cameo for Aragorn and actually for Arwen, too: we tried to have Liv Tyler in the film." Mortensen suggests he turned an approach down, but for his part Jackson says: "We couldn't think of a way of doing it."

Who is making it?

The film is being produced by Sir Peter Jackson, written by Philippa Boyens, Dame Frances Walsh and apparently by War of the Rohirrim scribes Arty Papageorgieu and Phoebe Gittins. Ken Kamins (Jackson's agent) is executive producing along with Andy Serkis and Jonathan Cavendish and, presumably, Pam Abdy and Michael de Luca. Serkis is to direct as well as reprise his role as Gollum, and had talked about going back to New Zealand to work with Weta.
Jackson had previously said: "You kind of feel a sentimental attachment, a sort of ownership, to the Middle-earth that's been put on the screen." In an interview he says:
Having been happy to hand The Hobbit to Guillermo [Del Toro] and then doing it myself, I definitely ended up with a stronger sense of ownership of Middle-earth than I ever had before, and it would be kind of hard to sit back and watch another filmmaker do stories if they were connected to these ones. If they weren’t connected, then sure. But if it was something connected to this mythology that we’ve done, if I had the energy and the strength then I would really want to do it. Never say never!
This return of the familiar faces is reassuring: even de Luca was one of the executives championing The Lord of the Rings in New Line in 1998. Astonishingly, this will be the seventh (!) film in the series produced by Jackson and, after Rohirrim releases later this year, the fourth produced by Philippa Boyens, and alltogether they'll amount to a good 25 hours (!) of film from these filmmakers in this Tolkien setting.
Andy Serkis had first directed some of his fight with Deagol in The Return of the King, and became the second-unit director of The Hobbit trilogy, and has now been "promoted" under Jackson's producer mantle to direct this film. Along with Weta Workshop and WetaFX, and presumably concept artists Alan Lee and John Howe (hot off of Rohirrim) and perhaps later on composer Howard Shore, this stands a good chance of managing to bottle the same sensibilitiy as the previous films. Jackson had spoken of this for The Hobbit: "We have deliberately tried to pull the same people back again, because they are the sort of the beating heart, they're the spirit of the film."
Never, in fact, has a film series managed to maintain the kind of continuity in the production crew that Jackson had achieved in this film series. At the end of The Hobbit, visual effects supervisor Mat Aitken mused: "I don't know if one team has ever worked on all six films in a series, to the extent that this has all been hand-crafted by one sort of central team of people." The War of the Rohirrim and anchiliary projects like the "Beyond the Door" renovations at Hobbiton have also reunited some of the Lord of the Rings crew, and now this film is sure to do the same.
Putting the de-aging cunundrum to the side for a second, the film is bound to also include new characters, and its as of yet an enigma as to who they would be and who might play them.
To de-age, or not to de-age? That is the question.
The project is completely separate from Amzon Prime Video's The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power. In fact, New Line executives say they seek to "stop Amazon blurring the lines" between the show and the films. Having said that, since in its first season the show had also made a concerted effort to draw Lord of the Rings veterans into the fold, there is going to be some overlap in terms of the craftspeople like Weta Workshop. If anything, the show provided them with a dry-run for this film. John Howe is still on the show's payroll and will presumably have to carefully manage his time, or else choose one production or the other, with my bet being that, if called for it, he's sure to go with Jackson.
There's a hillarious bit in the director's commentary to The Battle of the Five Armies:
Philippa: "Aragorn really is one who tracks Gollum and ends up...and finds him eventually in the Dead Marshes, and he's taken to the Elves. And he's taken to the Elves, and because of the kindness of the Elves - and Legolas is one of his keepers...
Jackson: "In Mirkwood?"
Philippa: "...in Mirkwood, and through their kindness he actually manages to escape. Or has he escaped? Or was he let loose?"
Jackson: "So that's like a seventh Tolkien movie that you've just heard."
Philippa: Yeah, got luck, Pete!
Jackson: "No, its not a film we're gonna... its a film that we'll never make, but you just heard a little imaginative version of it from Philippa Boyens there that you...
Philippa: "The Hunting Gollum through the wild"
Jackson: "The Hunting of Gollum"
Philippa: "and a few other things that go on which are really interesting. Saruman's search for the Ring is also interesting, yeah."
Jackson: "All part of a fictitious film 3.5."

What is it going to be like?

I don't think the portentous comparisons to Star Wars and Marvel are very merited: by the time this film is out, The Lord of the Rings will have a grand total of eight films, while both those series are well into double digits of both films AND tie-in shows. The fact that its crafted by the same people, as I said above, rather than by an army of artisans coming in and out at the behest of an overweening studio, also demarcates it from the standard Hollywood franchise.
Having said that, the film is somewhat akin to the kind of entries-between-the-entries that Star Wars, in particular, had dabbled with increasingly. This is somewhat disconcerting to me because I tend to find such entries very problematic. To quote a fabulous essay about Star Wars:
"The success of 'Star Wars' has obviated a lot of its original virtues. Much of the fun of watching the film for the first time, now forever inaccessible to us, was in the slow unveiling of its universe [...] Subsequent sequels, tie-in novels, interstitial TV shows, video games and fan fiction have lovingly ground this charm out of existence with exhaustive, literal-minded explication: Every marginal background character now has a name and a back story, every offhand allusion a history."
I find that these "interstitial" prequels do the most harm in this regard: there's no surer way to make the Death Star and its blowing of Aldeeran less impressive than to see so much of it in action in Rogue One, and no surer way to make the Ben-Vader duel in the original less effective than turning it into not the second (per Revenge of the Sith) but the fourth confrontation between the two adversaries, as is shown in the Obi-Wan miniseries.
What's more, they can take the time-lapse that exists between entries and trilogies and make it feel condensed by taking all or most of the events that happen offscreen during the interval and dramatising them such that they seemingly happen in a few days or weeks. If this film is set more DURING Fellowship of the Ring then before it, that could help sidestep this issue.
These are, however, issues that I think the Tolkien films had managed to sidestep until now. This film, however, is serious danger of falling right into them: the way Fellowship of the Ring keeps Gollum in the shadows still works after An Unexpected Journey, partially thanks to the big time-lapse between the two. Seeing Gollum through this film at a time more closely adjacent or concurrent to The Fellowship of the Ring, however, will ruin this buildup that is in Fellowship of the Ring. Strider, sitting off to the side in The Prancing Pony, will no longer be able to retain that air of mystique and potential danger he's supposed to have, although admittedly the film (unlike the book) doesn't keep this charade up for very long.
What's more, if the filmmakers don't resist the urge to revisit a lot of the locations of The Lord of the Rings like Gondor and much of Mordor, it will risk "flatenning" the experience of The Lord of the Rings: The Hobbit already reprised (rather harmlessly) Hobbiton, Trollshaws, Rivendell, Amon Sul and Bree. If this film also throws-in Lorien, Mordor, Gondor, Moria, the Dead Marshes and even Shelob's Lair into the mix, it will have an effect similar to what Beethoven feared Leonore number 3 overture would have to Fidelio: by encapsulating many of the tunes to appear in the piece, it effectivelly made the piece itself superflous. Likewise, if we visit practically all the locales of The Lord of the Rings before actually getting to Lord of the Rings, much the air of discovery that is so crucial to the atmosphere of these films will have evaporated.
The only way to sidestep this would be to cast as much of this film as possible into the wilderness. Revisiting the Woodland Realm, by contrast, could be a welcome addition: it would be nice to see Thranduil's realm on better times, with the Elves no longer cooped inside Thranduil's underground stronghold but spread around it and through the Woodland at large. Jackson and Boyens have mused about revisiting Tauriel before, so that's a possibility some fans might not appreciate, but which I think is plausible enough given the setting.
The Woodland Realm: notice the walkway and stairs to the side.
Another way to sidestep it would be to frame it in such a way that it works as a flashback AFTER Fellowship of the Ring, being that its probably concurrent with that film. At the same time, structurally, this film might play better in the middle of the structure, balancing out the two trilogies in terms of length.

So, what next?

Jackson is attached to produce another undisclosed film, rounding up a mammoth eight films in his personal Tolkien oevure, and nine films in his audiovisual realisation of Middle-earth. Being that this first one is one that takes place during The Fellowship of the Ring and that we know Jackson had long wanted to make, it makes sense that the second film will be of a similar sort. This suggest the Battle of Dale as a possible subject matter, concurrent with The Return of the King. Tellingly, Philippa had hypothetically mentioned it in her interview with Nerd of the Rings.
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2024.05.13 12:18 ariel124836 Ex-judaism of ex-jew victims of the war being denied by the grieving friends and/or family, makes me worried my family would've behave the same if it was me

I don't see a thread about it, maybe I missed since I just recetly joined, and I need to vent, so I hope it's ok.
In the first days and weeks after the oct 7th my instagram have been blasted with religious figures and preachers trying to use the tragedy for their own sake. Just of the top of my head - people blaming the music festival goers for "dancing around a budha statue", people claiming that the shabat saved a couple of religious communities near the gaza border, people burning tank tops for being non-modest, etc. And one thing that have flooded my feed was a campaign of religous parents of a party victim calling for people to light shabat candles and keeping shabat because "that's the mitzva their daughter loved the most". Now, i don't know this partygoer, maybe she loved shabat, but it was a nature music festival in the very day of simchat torah (which happened to be shabat as well), someone who grew up religious and went there chose to distance themselves from jewish traditions, so I think it's more likely she didn't love shabat so much anymore, and that her family chose to remember her as the tzadikah she maybe was before leaving religion. And she wasn't the only one. There were many ex-jews in that festival because this kind of parties is kind of popular among ex-jews here in israel. You must've seen some of those "tehilim for iluy nishmat Moshe" or "keep shabath for Sarah" (fake names of course). I've also seen tweets of Haredi journalists about Yeshive buchers that were killed, ignoring the fact these boys left religion and suffered negligence from their families and friends. These stuff angered me to my core, in the first week I wrote some sort of a poem to post on facebook as a protest but ended up keeping it to myself, out of leftover fear in my agnostic mind that there may be a god and they may have a twisted kind of humor
But today this anger rose up again, it is memorial day in Israel so my feed is once again filled with victims faces and stories. One of the festival massacre victims was a good friend of my sister (and my whole family through that), i didn't really talked to her that much since high school, but i do know through social media and through my sister that she left religion and had an intense journey to find happiness and meaning in this world. So when I saw that the memorial projects for her had religious quotes about "god's glory across the earth" and how "god only puts you through tests you can overcome", and spreading Birkot Hashachar with her picture, all those feelings came up for an epic meltdown.
And yes, i'm obviously reflecting my fears or at least connecting to these victims through my own personal experience, I can't really assume stuff about someone I don't personally know. but Last week I found out my dad is in deep denial about me (he thinks I wouldn't eat a cheeseburger, Let alone pork), so i keep thinking, if I died in oct 7th or in any other way, would this be the way people remember me by? Prayers and psukim from tehilim and other stuff I don't believe in? Did I run away from religion and conservative values just for my realtives to erase everything i was by building a beit midrash in my name? Because I know they would. I don't have a family of my own yet and friends don't have the socially accepted justification to protest acts of religion of grieving parents.
I don't know why it bothers me so much, i'm very skeptical about an afterlife so why would I care about something that happens after i'm dead, but for some reason my living self can't stand the thought of my death being used to spread religious values. Would these ex-jew victims have felt the same if they knew? Is there even a way for me to fight for their memory as secular individuals without just inflicting my own believes and basically doing the same as the religious spreaders?
I don't realy have answers, as I said, it's a rant, I needed to share and it seems like the right place. Sorry for any grammar or spelling mistakes, it's the first time i wrote something this long in english.
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2024.05.13 04:39 Ok-Calm-Narwhal Foreign National here (born abroad outside Taiwan in the U.S.), and I just got my full Taiwanese citizenship with residency and NWHR passport using the new 2024 citizenship laws for those with parents from Taiwan… I can vote in Taiwan now!! (Some helpful tips posted here as well)

For those who are unaware, there was a very recent change (January 1, 2024) in the residency requirements for foreign Taiwanese nationals - people with Taiwanese parent(s). For these people, Taiwan has what is called a National Without Household Registration (NWOHR) Passport. It is green and looks like a normal Taiwan passport, but it doesn’t convey full citizenship rights as it didn’t include residency and household registration. (I posted mine here in the passport sub).
Prior to this year, in order for someone with a NWOHR passport to qualify as a full citizen, they had to first live in Taiwan for 366 days in a row without leaving the country (there were some other options that allowed you to leave for short times involving 2 and 5 years, but also quite impossible for most, unless you were in Covid lockdown or found a job in Taiwan.)
But earlier this year, Taiwan’s government removed this requirement for NWOHR passport holders who had at least one parent with household registration at the time of their birth. Hence, to get your own household residency and full citizenship, you no longer have to live in Taiwan for a year without leaving. You can just go to Taiwan, spend a few weeks there and complete the application process to obtain residency and a National ID, and become a full citizen of Taiwan. Taiwan will also allow you to keep your other citizenship (as long as they allow dual citizenship with Taiwan, which the U.S. does).
I kept really detailed notes and will post below some tips from my experience. The most important one is that what was formerly known as the TARC is now folded into the 定居證 (permanent resident certificate). So you just skip having to live in Taiwan for a year but provide almost the exact same documents as the old TARC for your 定居證.
There is a process listed here which says that you can start the permanent residency certificate from outside Taiwan to shorten your time in Taiwan by just exchanging your permit in 3 days. However, when I spoke to people at TECO a few months ago, and then more recently immigration in Taipei, they said I had to start the process in Taiwan. A friend’s parents in Taiwan also called immigration the other day and they told them the same thing. So not sure how one would go about the shortened process that is in on their website. But if anyone has successfully done the shortened process themselves, please post and let us know how you were able to get it done since it would cut the process by 1.5 weeks and help out a lot of folks who can’t spend 2-3 weeks in Taiwan.
This older post in this sub covers military conscription and also has many previous links about what to do if you are male and 18-36 written by FewSandwich6. (This was not applicable for me).
This very helpful post here contains a list of definitions for commonly used terms in Chinese and English that are often used in this process, written by HongKonger85. There is also an image of a 定居證 (Permanent Residency Certificate) after immigration has issued it to you, and this is what you need to swap for household registration (covered in Part 2 below).
My detailed notes for folks are as follows. Part 1 based on my experience getting my NWOHR passport, and Part 2 getting residency, my National ID, and full citizenship in Taiwan. Some info repeats what has already been mentioned in previous threads, with the difference being the new 2024 rule change. There are probably other ways to get this process done, but just sharing my own recent experience to help others looking to do this now.
In all, I am so glad I did this. I travel a lot to Taiwan to see friends and family but do not work there, so there were minor inconveniences in not having residency. My NWOHR passport was fairly useless in Taiwan, but once I got my 身分證, I can now do things like open a bank account, get a permanent cell phone number, qualify for health insurance (after waiting 6 months), and vote in Taiwan elections. I also have a second passport to travel with if there is a country more hostile to the U.S.. Doing this will also allow any future children of mine to qualify for Taiwanese citizenship if they choose to at some point in their lives. I could also consider retiring in Taiwan or taking a gap year from work in the U.S. and still have health insurance. The total costs from start to finish ran me about $550 (excluding the costs for my trip to Taiwan).
Happy to answer any questions for folks about the process. Cheers! Hopefully my notes below are helpful.
Please note that this was written in May 2024, so things may change over time. Also, there are parts where different forms, documents, or processes may be acceptable instead of what I did, so what I outline here might not be the only possible process.
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Part 1. Getting the NWOHR Passport:

If you do not have any Taiwanese passport start here. If you already have the NWOHR passport then skip to Part 2 (converting the passport to residency under the new 2024 laws).
The first step is to get what they call a NWOHR (National Without Household Registration) passport. This part is actually not done in Taiwan at all, and are issued by what are de-facto embassies, which in the U.S. are called the Taiwan Economic and Cultural Office (TECO). There are 12 in the US and the U.S. National Office TECRO based in DC. (Other countries have a similar versions of this like the TRO in the UK).
I was told to use the TECO office closest to where you were born and/or where your parents were married. Luckily, this was the same office - the LA branch. If it happens that you were born closer to a different one than where your parents were married, call them and ask what they recommend. One reason for this is that it makes it easier to authenticate documents that the office is familiar with, which tend to be in the areas around it.
So what is authentication? This is a process that involves notarization where someone essentially authenticates your documents and verifies that they are real. For example, you bring a copy of your official birth certificate to TECO, then the TECO office will go through the process of contacting the relevant authorities where you were born to verify that this document is indeed real. Once TECO deems it authentic, they authenticate and notarize that document for you. You need to have this done for your passport application documents.
Here is what you need to submit to your local TECO for the NWOHR passport (these guidelines are from the TECO LA Office). TECO needs to first authenticate your birth certificate and parent’s marriage license. Then they use these for the NWOHR passport application. Documents cost $15 each to authenticate. The passport application for a 10-year passport is $45.
I highly advise you make an appointment with TECO. They even advise you to book two back-to-back appointments if you need both authentication and passport services done - which is what you need to do anyway. They cut off the number of walks ins per day (in LA it was 35 max walk ins).
The authentication of documents are usually done in a few weeks and your passport around 8-10 weeks. LA TECO gave me a pick up date and a receipt (save this to give them when you pick things up). If all goes well, you should have your NWOHR passport in about 2 months! If there are any issues, like inconsistent spelling of names between documents, and something is rejected, TECO will let you know and you will have to get the docs amended before your passport can be issued.
This whole process is done outside of Taiwan. Once you get your NWOHR passport, there is no time limit to complete Part 2 in Taiwan (though if your NWOHR passport expires after 10 years, you do need to renew it).
Congrats! You now have your NWOHR passport and can continue to Part 2 whenever you are ready.

Part 2. Getting household registration, your National ID with full citizenship rights, and converting your NWOHR Passport to a NWHR Passport to finish the process.

There are now two more things you need. A health check and an FBI background check (or other relevant agency of your country; apologies that this is U.S. focused). You will also need to figure out your household registration in Taiwan (more on that later). The FBI background check took about 4-6 weeks to get, and you need to have this authenticated and notarized by TECRO. This was done outside of Taiwan while I was still in the U.S. The FBI check result is valid for one year, while the health check is only valid for 3 months, so plan accordingly.
(I chose to get the health check later in Taiwan since I did not know how to go about getting an acceptable health check done in the U.S. and also did not want to bother having the results translated into Chinese. Doing it in Taiwan also ensured my health check wouldn’t be rejected, delaying my application.)
FBI Background Check
For the FBI check, there are two steps here and it’s kind of confusing.
The first is initiating an FBI background check for yourself through the online request form on the FBI site and getting a secure link and pin. (FBI emails this to you). Get your fingerprints done at a verified USPS, it's super quick and easy. Once your background check is complete and you get your electronic results, you forward that email with the PDF directly to TECRO. The website is not super clear so I emailed them for clarification and they wrote back to me more detailed instructions after I had received the completed PDF of my background check. What they said in their email:
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For authentication of electronic FBI Report, there are 2 steps:
Step 1:
Please forward the digital FBI Report (.pdf format) and the email of pin number (under FBI email account) to our consular email at [consul.tecro@mofa.gov.tw](mailto:consul.tecro@mofa.gov.tw) directly.
Step 2:
Meanwhile, please prepare and mail the relevant documents listed below to our office for further proceeding:
* fill out the application form for authentication as attached
* a copy of the applicant's passport (including Taiwan passport if have)
* print out the FBI Report and the email of pin number for crossing reference
** For overseas Applicants:
* a US bank draft (美金匯票) $15 in Taiwan local banks with payable to TECRO
* a prepaid shipping label from FedEx or USL or DHL (for mailing the authenticated document back to you)
** For domestic Applicants:
* authentication fee: USD 15 (either money order or casher's check with payable to TECRO)
* a stamped self-addressed return envelope (to mail the authenticated documents back to you)
Also, please allow additional time for mail delivery. Thanks
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In about 4 weeks or so, TECRO will mail you back a physical copy of your TECRO authenticated FBI background check using the self-addressed stamped envelope you sent them. Now that you have your FBI background check, you have one year to get your citizenship done in Taiwan before it expires.
Chinese Translation and Authentication/Notarization of your documents:
For this next part of the process, you need to get all your docs that were submitted for your NWOHR passport and the FBI background check translated and authenticated into Chinese. People on the internet mention that you can do this yourself. I recommend hiring professionals here who know what they are doing and also do the notarizing since you don’t want the translation of your documents to be rejected by immigration, wasting time and money. The docs also need to be formatted in a certain way. Given this, I went with a place in Taipei that charged about 6200 NT (~$200 US) for doing all my docs (background check, birth certificate, and parents marriage license, with notary). I used: 口藝國際有限公司(翻譯/公證代辦) and they took a little over a week to get these translated and notarized for me. (TECO actually told me to save money and do the translation in Taiwan, since places in the LA area were quoted as more, maybe in the $300-400 range, but if others have found cheaper US or Taiwan options please let us know who you used and how much they charged).
Plan a 2-3 week vacation in Taiwan (possibly with your parent(s) whose household registration you will be joining). 2 weeks if your health check is done already and all your docs are translated and notarized, 3 weeks if you need to do a health check in Taiwan. Less than a week might be possible but unclear if anyone has successfully done the 3-day exchange version mentioned here.
Enter Taiwan with your NWOHR passport on the Taiwan resident/citizen side and make sure to get your NWOHR passport physically stamped with your entry date.
Health Check in Taiwan
For my health check, I went to MacKay Memorial Hospital, 16th floor (No.92, Sec.2, Zhongshan N. Rd., Zhongshan Dist., Taipei City). I called all the Taipei hospitals on this approved list of health check hospitals, and MacKay was the shortest guaranteed turnaround at 7 days. Walk-ins only, no appointments, - 8am-11am, 1:30-4pm M-F, and Saturday but only in the morning. Exam fee was 2050 NT, an additional 750 NT if you need a booster shot. The turnaround was 1 week and there was no way to speed this up. Bring passport, face mask (maybe not required now), and money. You can use your U.S. passport for the application and might actually be easier as they don't need stool samples for U.S. applicants. They draw some blood and take a chest x-ray.
After getting all your documents translated and authenticated, the health check, and entering Taiwan on your NWOHR passport, you can begin the 3-step process of getting your full citizenship and new NWHR passport in this order:
  1. 定居證 (permanent residency certificate) ->
  2. 戶口名簿 (household registration) and 身分證 (National ID) ->
  3. New NWHR Passport (and leaving Taiwan on it).
1) 定居證 (Permanent Residency Certificate)
For your 定居證 (permanent residency certificate), go to a National Immigration Agency office in Taiwan with all the necessary documents that have been authenticated and translated. (I used the one in Taipei on 15 Guangzhou Rd). Once you start this part, you cannot leave Taiwan until you get your new passport, and when you next leave Taiwan, you must do so on your new NWHR passport. In your application, you need to show that you have the ability to establish household residency (easier to do if joining your parents), along with the original and one set of copies of all of your translated/notarized documents and yours and your parents' Taiwan passports. They will also ask for a photocopy of the dated entry stamp in your NWOHR passport. You will also need pictures, and the basement of the Immigration Agency has a booth where you can get 6 photos for 120 NT. Those 6 pictures should be enough for the rest of the process - just keep them with you for each step.
The permanent residency certificate process takes 7 working days, so essentially 10 days. This is the longest part. If someone has successfully done the shorter 3 day exchange, please let us know how you did this, since it would likely help out a lot of people given that this was the longest part necessary in Taiwan.
2) 戶口名簿 (Household Registration) and 身分證 (National ID)
In 10 days, once you get your 定居證 permanent residency certificate, to get your household registration you must go to the household registration office in the district you plan to register in. The easiest is to have a parent add you to theirs, but their household registration has to be current and not expired for you to be able to do this, and best updated within the past 3 months (what TECO told us). If you can’t do this, then you need to register a household yourself using a lease/other steps that you should look up how to do.
At the household registration office, you give them the 定居證 (permanent residency certificate) and other documents they need to establish your residency (parent’s household info or lease etc). Don't forget your picture. Then you get your 戶口名簿 (household registration). Also remember to get a copy of your 戶籍謄本(transcript of household registration) since you will need it in 6 months to apply for health care if you plan to do that.
Right after this, they will print out your 身分證 (National ID). You get your household registration and 身分證 the same day at the same place (took me about 1-2 hours).
At this point, you are actually considered a citizen of Taiwan. However, when you choose to leave Taiwan, you must get a NWHR Passport and leave on that passport.
3) Getting your NWHR Passport
You now need to go to BOCA to apply for the new passport. I did my household registration and national ID in the late morning, so I still had time to go to BOCA before they closed at 5pm.
Their Taipei office is near the Shandao MRT stop. Bring your national ID, NWOHR passport, 2 pictures, and cash for payment. Normally for a passport there is a 10-day turnaround at 1300 NTD. Expedited next business day service is available for an additional 900 NTD. So I paid 2200 NTD for my passport since I needed mine the next day as my trip to Taiwan was planned for exactly 3 weeks and by now, I had only 2 days left in Taiwan.
Pick up your passport the next day (and they give you your previous NWOHR passport back with the corner clipped off)! Don’t forget, when you eventually leave Taiwan, you must leave Taiwan with your new NWHR Taiwan passport but there is no deadline to leave (and I got mine stamped in case that was required, but not sure if it was or not).
CONGRATS on finishing the entire process, getting full Taiwan Citizenship/Household Residency with your National ID, and your new NWHR passport to allow you to leave Taiwan!
Health Insurance: 6 months after doing this you can qualify for NHI (and is technically mandatory). To apply, go to any district office and bring your 戶籍謄本 (transcript of household registration), National ID, and a chop stamp. (Yeah, they still use those lol). I found a chop stamp place near my household registration office that did a wood stamp for 100 NTD, and had them do multiple in case I lost one, since any duplicates have to be done at the same time for them to match. Someone else can even apply for you if you are not in Taiwan as long as they have a copy of your ID, 戶籍謄本 (transcript of household registration), and chop stamp.
If all your income is outside of Taiwan, health insurance payments should be about $25 a month. If you pay monthly, you qualify for full health benefits in Taiwan. You can also suspend your payments if you plan to leave Taiwan for more than 6 months and do not plan on using their health care system. You can also keep coverage and continue to pay into the system even when gone for long periods of time. However, don't forget that your household registration will be suspended if you are gone from Taiwan for more than 2 years, and while you can easily renew it when you come back, this will pause your health coverage.
Total Cost for Taiwan Citizenship
The total cost, was about US $75-100 for the NWOHR passport, depending on if you have to get new copies of your original birth/parental records. The cost for the Part 2 were roughly: FBI check ($32), U.S.P.S. fingerprinting ($50), Health Check ($85, mine was more than the usual $63 because I needed a booster shot for one of my MMR vaccinations), Translations and notarizations ($200), residency permit (~$30), National ID ($5), expedited passport next day ($68). So my out of pocket costs for the residency conversion in Taiwan was roughly $465 or so.
So the entire citizenship process from start to finish was about $550 USD.
You only have to do this once, and now you are a full citizen with all the rights to live and work in Taiwan and can vote! I would have never been able to do this without the new rule change, so really thankful that the process is so much easier now.
Let me know if there are any questions!
(Edits for clarification.)
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